Latest / Beyond Sovereignty / #014 - How to STOP Self-Sabotaging! 🚫💥
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- 0:00Have you turned out a bit like your parents and you're really wishing you
- 0:03hadn't? Because I can guarantee there's unconscious parental patterns that
- 0:07are playing out in your business. Every amazing leader,
- 0:11entrepreneur, wealthy billionaire, gazillionaire, all
- 0:15of them have people that they look to for support. There's nothing
- 0:19wrong with getting a mentor. Get somebody to help show
- 0:22you your blind spots. See your failures as the blueprint
- 0:26and the roadmap for how you're going to create moving forward.
- 0:30It can be really valuable to know what your self-sabotaging behaviors
- 0:33are. This alone could literally 10x your business. Welcome,
- 0:38wisdom keepers, soul tribe, and new earth leaders to
- 0:42Soul Temple, your haven for self-discovery and growth.
- 0:46I'm Blythe Langford, and I am your guide to finding yourself and
- 0:49your true, true, true, true, true purpose. Together, let's
- 0:53shift from feeling stark and misaligned to living a
- 0:56life of purpose and prosperity. Are
- 1:01you a high achiever that has these things sometimes come
- 1:04up and prevents you from fulfilling the tasks that you're
- 1:08wanting to do? Or you get to this place where you're like, yes, all this money
- 1:11is going to come in. I know my business is doing amazing. And then for some reason,
- 1:14before you even got the money in the account, all of these bills tend to pop
- 1:18up. Or you know that you really need to have a really early night
- 1:21so that you can be on your full-on A-game the next day
- 1:25and there's some little critter in your brain that sabotages you.
- 1:29Or potentially you go into your business knowing that everything
- 1:32is going to be amazing, you're going to have the best day and then something triggers
- 1:36you and it sabotages you and puts you on a completely different trajectory
- 1:40and it just completely screws with you. Or maybe you
- 1:44turn to numbing out and sabotaging
- 1:48behaviors that you know are ineffective and you don't
- 1:51know why you keep on turning to them. Like maybe for you it's
- 1:55alcoholism, maybe for you it's shopping, gaming, shopping
- 1:59online, going out with friends, all of these things when
- 2:02you know that there are tasks that are so important for you that
- 2:06would actually make such a big difference in your business or
- 2:09for you as a leader. it can be really valuable to know what
- 2:12your self-sabotaging behaviors are and the reason that this can help
- 2:16you is because this alone without doing anything else in
- 2:19your business could literally 10x your business. It could 10x
- 2:22your leadership skills and it could create that team connection where it
- 2:25really brings everybody together and has a team that never wants to leave
- 2:29your business that is constantly innovating and growing for you.
- 2:32So working on your self-sabotage is everything.
- 2:36It will literally change your inner world and your business
- 2:40world. So, highly, highly recommend you listening to this whole episode
- 2:43in its entirety because it is excellent. I'm
- 2:47sure it will be. So, let's dive in. High achievers, let's
- 2:51go into your self-sabotage. Now, with self-sabotage, there's generally
- 2:55unconscious behaviors that are underlying and they're due
- 2:58to many different reasons. One of the biggest
- 3:02reasons, I personally believe, is the
- 3:05unconscious rapport that we want to have with our family members. So
- 3:09when we are brought up, we are witnessing day in,
- 3:13day out, our family relate to business, money,
- 3:17wealth. their confidence, all of these different
- 3:21things. And as we witness them as business owners
- 3:24and leaders, especially if our parents were business owners
- 3:27or entrepreneurs or leaders themselves, we have
- 3:31unconscious programs that they have literally programmed us
- 3:34with as children. And if they had issues with
- 3:37their money, with their wealth, with their teams, with their businesses, then
- 3:42these are the unconscious patterns that you will have running
- 3:45your business as well. And you can say, Blythe, as if.
- 3:49Oh my gosh, my parents were terrible with money. And I always used to say, I
- 3:53am never going to be like that. I'm not going to be like them. Cool. How's that working out for
- 3:56you? Have you turned out a bit like your parents? And
- 4:00you're really wishing you hadn't because I can guarantee there's unconscious
- 4:04parental patterns that are playing out in your
- 4:07business. Another one is that really creates
- 4:11self-sabotage is our underlying fears and
- 4:14insecurities and past traumas. So
- 4:18these are things that have also happened to us in our early
- 4:22stages of development and these patterns are literally recreated
- 4:26and recreated each and every day in our business and our leadership. So
- 4:30it's really important to do past work
- 4:34on ourselves so that we can heal this or
- 4:37at least become aware of it and so that when these triggers
- 4:41and our sabotage behaviors and patterns start to pop up that
- 4:44we've got tools and we're able to reparent ourselves in
- 4:48that exact moment and actually catch our
- 4:51sabotage for what it is. It's just this younger version of ourselves that are unhealed. And
- 4:56so many business owners right now are going to be like, I don't have fucking time. I'm
- 4:59not going to do inner child work. It's so stupid. Oh my
- 5:02gosh. I'm working on wealth, not working on my past stuff.
- 5:06It's not even trauma. There's just things that happened to me when I was growing up. Cool.
- 5:10How's your self-sabotage going? Cool. How do you feel about
- 5:13your business? Are you still in scarcity with time or money? If
- 5:18so, then your past is creating your future. So
- 5:23let's look at these patterns for what they are so that you can
- 5:26have some awareness around them so that you can manifest exactly what
- 5:30it is that you want in your life without any interruptions from
- 5:34the internal programs that are keeping you stuck and sabotaging.
- 5:38Self-sabotage can come up in many different various forms. It
- 5:42can look like procrastination or needing to get it
- 5:45perfect before you actually do that thing. It
- 5:49can, oh, this is a really hard one for so many people.
- 5:52It was for me too. Actually avoiding success. We
- 5:56are constantly doing things that we think are going to
- 6:00create success, but subconsciously we are
- 6:03repelling it and rejecting it so much so that we can stay
- 6:07in greatest rapport with our loved ones. It's so
- 6:10yuck. until we understand it and
- 6:14then we can fall in love with it and nurture it and it can be the greatest gift
- 6:18for our wealth and what we are actually here to
- 6:21create moving forward. For some of us, it can look like taking risks.
- 6:26We, when we are in a scarcity response
- 6:30or a nervous system response, we take really stupid risks. We
- 6:33don't look at all of the elements. We're like, yes, spirit told me or
- 6:37yes, I'm fully in alignment. I'm just going to choose this thing. It's like, That
- 6:40was a fucking lesson, wasn't it? Really didn't need that thing.
- 6:45So yeah, it can look like taking too many risks, or it
- 6:48can often stem from internalized beliefs or
- 6:51organizational cultures that discourage risk-taking,
- 6:56failure, or innovation. Because I know as an entrepreneur and
- 6:59leader, like myself, many of you take risks, and it's
- 7:03really important that we do, or else we stay stuck like everybody else.
- 7:06But it's about having those risks be the
- 7:11birthplace and the stepping stone to where we actually want to
- 7:14go, where that business innovation needs to be,
- 7:18rather than it becoming from a place of setting
- 7:21ourselves up to fail rather than succeed. So it's about
- 7:25looking at ourselves and what's under the covers so
- 7:29that we can know what we are doing and actually make informed
- 7:34choices that aren't going to sabotage us. Now
- 7:37I want you to keep in the forefront of your mind, and I know as
- 7:40a business owner and leader that you probably already do, but without trying.
- 7:45Without any failures, we're already failing and
- 7:49trying and failing is the best step
- 7:53to success because you and every other
- 7:57amazing entrepreneur and leader, if they don't fail, they
- 8:00will never grow. Our failures are our initiations into
- 8:04life. Our failures are what help us understand
- 8:08and have a blueprint for what we're going to do next in our lives. So
- 8:12never judge your failures as negative.
- 8:16See your failures as the blueprint and the roadmap for
- 8:20how you're going to create moving forward. And then of course, where
- 8:25you had lack or misunderstanding or non-understanding
- 8:29of what your failures were, get somebody to help show
- 8:33you your blind spots and
- 8:36where you couldn't see. And remember, there's nothing wrong
- 8:40with getting a mentor and every amazing
- 8:45leader, entrepreneur, wealthy billionaire, gazillionaire, all
- 8:49of them. have people that they look to for support to
- 8:53help them see their blind spots. And we call this a dual approach.
- 8:57And it can be also coined as the inner work. This is what
- 9:01we're talking about when we talk about the inner work. It's having a dual
- 9:04approach to not be so narcissistic to think that we have all of the answers, but
- 9:08to be able to share those answers with somebody else so that they can,
- 9:11you know, just tap us back into alignment when we're going off the path way too
- 9:15much and sabotaging ourselves so that we don't constantly beat
- 9:18ourselves up. and we can have an idea of our individualization of
- 9:22what we're actually doing. and then the externalization from our
- 9:26coach as to bringing us back in, tapping us
- 9:29back into alignment, tapping us back into so that we don't pendulum
- 9:33swing and go like way far out there and sabotage
- 9:36ourselves and then way conservative and don't take any risks.
- 9:40We wanna be in that medium point so that all of the aspects
- 9:44and energy centers of our body and mind are working together. I
- 9:48wanna bring awareness to that there is different energetic centers
- 9:51within our body with our energetic field that
- 9:55are playing out at any one time. So with
- 9:58the work that I do as a coach and as a transformational leader
- 10:02and many other coaches out there, it's not about just
- 10:05working on the mind or it's not just about working somatically with
- 10:09the body. It's not just a working on our wealth or
- 10:12our spirituality, which are one in the same, or our relationships It's
- 10:16about having a holistic approach with all of these, because
- 10:19the accumulation of all of these will allow our
- 10:23growth to be exponential. And that's what we really want as leaders. We
- 10:26don't want to be, you know, so liberated
- 10:30in one area and then so suppressed in another.
- 10:34We want to have this beautiful inner harmony, this holistic approach and
- 10:38aware of ourselves at every single layer and
- 10:41level. So it's really important to work on the somatic
- 10:45levels, the emotional levels, the physical levels, the spiritual levels, so
- 10:48that we can raise this awareness and see where these sabotaging behaviors
- 10:52are actually stuck. Because sometimes they are stuck somatically. Sometimes
- 10:57they are stuck physically. Sometimes they are actually an
- 11:01energetic block in our spiritual nature that comes through
- 11:04our lineage or society traumas that we don't even know
- 11:07is playing out in our own being. Or sometimes it's an
- 11:11emotional imprint from our our experience in
- 11:14conception or the first seven years in our development. So
- 11:17it's really important to be aware of these specific behaviours and
- 11:22our internal environment so that we can foster
- 11:26a supportive environment that encourages growth and repatterning and
- 11:30reparenting ourselves so that we can be as resilient as possible in
- 11:34our businesses and leadership. Because let's face it, the landscape of
- 11:38business these days is like a fricking Wild West
- 11:41cowboy freaking show. It's insane. It's
- 11:45like, you know, you think you're getting ahead and then the ATO or
- 11:49the freaking tax department puts in new legislation that literally is
- 11:52like going to take even more of your money. Or there's a new regulatory body
- 11:56that is going to take even more of your money or your insurance triples.
- 12:00So we need to be as resilient as possible so that when these things
- 12:04pop up, We've got a game plan. We're not so
- 12:08rocked by the external world that we're put into
- 12:11a trauma response and we're again slipping
- 12:15into our self-sabotage. So it's really important
- 12:18that we strengthen our grit for
- 12:22our internal Compass. I
- 12:26just want to help you become aware that there are so many studies and research-backed evidence
- 12:30strategies to help individuals stop self-sabotaging. And I
- 12:33use a lot of these with my clients, so I just want to run through a few of them with you, which
- 12:36I think will be really supportive for you. The first one is
- 12:40unconscious rapport programs. Now I did mention this
- 12:43before, And this is the underlying blueprints
- 12:47from our family line or our caregivers or those that, you know, if we
- 12:50were raised in potentially an orphanage or,
- 12:54I know that's not very common these days, but a boarding
- 12:58school, maybe potentially raised by nuns that had
- 13:01no affiliation with money or personal growth, only
- 13:05spiritual development or, you know, potentially
- 13:09dogma of a religion, then that is some
- 13:12unconscious programming that's gone within you. So
- 13:16the first thing that we want to do is become really aware of these sabotaging keys
- 13:20and help to create a resolve around this patterning. So,
- 13:24in my programs, what I do is we have a process and
- 13:27a few processes actually to help you figure out and heal this
- 13:31trigger. Once you start to look at these inner triggers
- 13:34and actually see what's been going on in your past, then you have a
- 13:37completely different perspective. This perspective allows
- 13:41you to use your trigger rather than to your detriment. but
- 13:44to your attriment, to be able to be used positively. Because
- 13:49once you can start to feel it, because you'll literally, once you start
- 13:52to work somatically, you'll start to be able to feel this come up
- 13:55within you. And instead of it overcoming you,
- 13:58because a lot of the time these patterns can overcome us, and it's like, How
- 14:02did I even end up here? How did I end up buying like a
- 14:06thousand dollars worth of clothes? How did I end up out for dinner with my friends
- 14:09drinking and I'm on my fifth cocktail? How did this happen when I have to be up at 6 a.m.
- 14:13tomorrow? We want to be able to catch ourselves before these things happen.
- 14:16So when these things arise, these self-sabotaging things
- 14:20arrive, then you've got tools to be able to work through
- 14:23this. Now, another somatic tool that I absolutely love
- 14:27and teach with all of my clients is somatic rebirthing
- 14:30breathwork. This is yum yum
- 14:34yum game changer. It will allow you to somatically go
- 14:37to the depths within you so that you can see
- 14:40these old patterns. And what we can do is use
- 14:44the breath, this rebirthing somatic breathwork, to
- 14:47see these unconscious patterns and rapport and to begin to
- 14:50integrate them into your being so they no longer control you.
- 14:54Now, I've got some free already existing breathwork sessions
- 14:58on my YouTube channel that you can go into and I would love you to use them.
- 15:02So, use them and before you use them, write an
- 15:05intention. for yourself. So your intention might
- 15:08be, I want to connect to the unconscious rapport that is keeping
- 15:12me stuck or self-sabotaging. And you can do that before you
- 15:15do the breathwork session. And during your breathwork session, nine
- 15:19times out of 10, that will actually come up for you. So you'll
- 15:23be able to tap into this old part of you or
- 15:26this experience that happened younger in
- 15:30your childhood or maybe it happened when you're in utero, in
- 15:33the womb, happened to your mother, that has actually been the
- 15:37self-sabotaging place, the birthplace of your self-sabotage. And
- 15:41you can use that and start to heal that because once you bring awareness to
- 15:44this deeper layer of yourself, it just needs the attention. It
- 15:48just needs to be seen nine times out of ten so then it
- 15:51doesn't keep on running and ruling your life. Other
- 15:55times it needs maybe a few sessions and maybe not
- 15:59just the somatic release but maybe an energetic release or
- 16:03maybe a physical release to be able to be worked on. So
- 16:06that's what we'll dive into a little bit more as well. Now, number one,
- 16:09a mindfulness-based intervention and technique such
- 16:13as vision boarding. are amazing to help you on
- 16:16your path as well. You may have seen a study by Shapiro in
- 16:202006 that demonstrated that mindful-based interventions can
- 16:24really reduce self-sabotaging behaviors by increasing
- 16:27self-awareness and acceptance of the thoughts. And
- 16:30that's the most important thing is accepting the thoughts and emotions
- 16:34when they come up so that we don't judge ourselves. Because mindful
- 16:37practices can really help individuals respond to
- 16:41challenging situations with greater clarity and resilience. So
- 16:44a practice that I used to give to my
- 16:47clients a lot, and depending on where they're at, is this allowing process.
- 16:51So we just allow whatever's coming up with compassion rather
- 16:55than judgment. And so, like, let's say during a day, you know, we've
- 16:59just binged eat, or we've just spent $1,000 on
- 17:03shopping, and we were just like, oh my gosh, did I just do that? Or we ended
- 17:07up having those five cocktails when we've got a really important meeting coming up.
- 17:11rather than shaming ourselves, because shaming ourselves is
- 17:14the biggest negative spiral we can go on, just allowing ourselves to
- 17:17be like, whoa, I did that. Okay, awesome.
- 17:22A younger part of me just really needed some attention. Gosh, I
- 17:25love you. It's okay. You got it. You got that attention. Let's
- 17:29tomorrow sit with each other and
- 17:32I'll sit with you and I'll nurture you and protect you and give you some space and some time. So
- 17:36that you can be seen and heard and you don't come up and
- 17:39sabotage my day because sabotage our day because
- 17:43we are one in the same. So starting to integrate these parts of yourself will
- 17:47make your life so much easier. Allow, allow,
- 17:51allow, allow will grow the resilience that you're actually
- 17:55after. And the first step to develop awareness of
- 17:58the self-sabotaging behaviors and their underlying
- 18:02triggers is by working with somebody who can help you see
- 18:05your blind spots. A coach can really help you identify
- 18:09recurring patterns such as procrastination, fear of success, or
- 18:13self-criticism. Through inter-reflection and journaling
- 18:17exercises, mindfulness, somatics, all of those things,
- 18:20you can begin to recognize when and why these behaviors occur
- 18:24and future forecast them so when they do arise you
- 18:28can set yourself up to manage them so that you set yourself up to succeed each
- 18:32and every time so the sabotage doesn't come to light.
- 18:35It's literally when it comes up, it's worked on, it's accepted, it's
- 18:39allowed, You have something else that's going to really help you
- 18:42regulate your nervous system so you're not in that primal response, and
- 18:45then you can get back into what it is that you want. For me, sometimes it's
- 18:49literally just noticing where I'm at and just catching the thought coming up
- 18:52going, Oh, I love you, little one. Oh my gosh, it's OK. Don't
- 18:55worry. We're safe. Because for me, my
- 18:59core wounds are getting it wrong and feeling unsafe, right? So
- 19:03I really need to remind myself in this younger part of myself that I'm
- 19:07safe, that what we're doing, it's OK, that
- 19:10we're not going to get it wrong. We're not going to be ridiculed. And
- 19:14if we are, I've got me. It's OK. I'm OK.
- 19:18and that my greatest growth actually comes from people's
- 19:22ridicule. Because so many people are like, oh my gosh, I'm so scared of getting it wrong. Fuck
- 19:26it. I'm just going to say that I'm going to get it wrong all the time. That's what I do. It's
- 19:29okay because I'm going to get it wrong. And so then if I'm getting it
- 19:32wrong, I'm always getting it right. So we figure out what is the polar opposite
- 19:37to our core wound and to our self-sabotaging behavior, and
- 19:41we work with it and we make it fun and playful. And when it
- 19:44can be a game, oh my gosh, it literally just
- 19:47dissolves because it's a younger part of ourselves that doesn't know how to play. So
- 19:51once we can play with it, this little inner part of ourselves becomes
- 19:54like our greatest gift, our greatest ally and
- 19:58a resource that we can actually be like, okay, we're going to have a really fun
- 20:01day today. We're going to get everything wrong. We're going to play with it and that's what's going to make it right. And
- 20:04the little part of ourselves is like, oh my gosh, party, let's go. You know,
- 20:07like we literally can shift our mindset and this inner critic.
- 20:11So yeah, give that one a go. Another really amazing, such
- 20:15a vital tool is goal setting and implementation strategies. So,
- 20:20I really love to work backwards. I
- 20:23don't know if it's because I'm dyslexic, but I also think that it's more because
- 20:28if you don't know where you want to end up, how can
- 20:31you plan for something? It's like going
- 20:36for a running race without putting on your shoes. It's just, I don't know,
- 20:39start with your go there to the greatest outcome
- 20:43possible for you. Like what do you actually freaking want
- 20:47to achieve and why? What is your why? Why
- 20:50do you want this? What is the difference that you want to make in this earth? Because
- 20:54if you're just going into your business every day, I just want to make another 10k, I just want to make another 10k,
- 20:57I just want all my staff to do it. Nobody knows why it's
- 21:00so freaking confusing. And it's also just become so
- 21:04head led that nobody wants to stay in your business long term. So
- 21:08figure out your why, your greatest outcome for what it
- 21:11is that you want. And then once you've got your greatest why, you can
- 21:14chunk backwards. So you've got your outcome. And
- 21:18then you've got the next thing that you need to do to chunk down to actually achieve
- 21:21that outcome. And then from there, you chunk down from there and figure out what's
- 21:25going to get you to that next one. And follow on, follow on,
- 21:28follow on, follow on, so on and so forth. So do that. Chunk down
- 21:32and starting with the end in mind. And it will also allow
- 21:35you to get out of your self-sabotaging fear program of,
- 21:41I'm unworthy. I can't do this. And problem-solving skills. It
- 21:44will actually allow this inner part of you to go, oh, wow. I
- 21:47can actually figure all this stuff out. And as I believe more people
- 21:51succeed when they really know the end game. And make
- 21:54sure that they're manageable steps for you. You want to make sure that
- 21:58you're setting yourself up to succeed in every single element.
- 22:02Now, there was a really beautiful study done in 2006 by Sherman
- 22:05that highlighted the effectiveness of implementation and
- 22:08intentions in achieving goals and reducing self-sabotage. Setting
- 22:12specific goals, like super specific and creating detailed
- 22:17plans for achieving them can enhance motivation and
- 22:20focus, thereby minimizing self-defeating behaviors.
- 22:25So give that one a go. And like we said before, the
- 22:28self-compassion practices, oh my gosh, so
- 22:32vital. Now, I love meditation because
- 22:36it allows me to just sit in my space, sit in my
- 22:39internal dialogue, and know what is going to sabotage me
- 22:42for the day. There's so many different types of meditation, but
- 22:46for me, interreflection allows me
- 22:49just to see what is going on in my brain, and
- 22:53I can literally see each and every day what is going to sabotage me,
- 22:57and then just breathe into it and breathe into it and just give it awareness, give
- 23:00it awareness, and then create, like allow it
- 23:03to dissolve. It just needs to be dissolved. Now another really beautiful
- 23:07one is journaling. But I want you to do
- 23:10journaling with ancient wisdom connected to it. Trees
- 23:15in our Indigenous culture in Australia are manifesting tools.
- 23:19And when you use written pen and paper, so
- 23:23you're writing on the trees, writing on
- 23:26the paper, it's a manifestation tool. Now, if you
- 23:30write that down and then you add into that the element
- 23:34of fire, you burn your journaling papers, you
- 23:37burn these things. fire is known for transmutation.
- 23:41So if you're working with manifestation and transmutation, then
- 23:45you're bringing in the elements as well. So you can literally burn away
- 23:48your self-sabotaging behaviors as well. So creating that sacred space,
- 23:52creating the sacred fire, creating the sacred journaling, and allowing
- 23:55this transmutation with your awareness and your intention. And
- 23:59again, this builds resilience and coping strategies that are essential
- 24:03to navigate challenges and setbacks along the way. There was a
- 24:06beautiful study in 2015 by Neff and Dahm that demonstrated
- 24:10that self-compassion practices can mitigate self-sabotaging behaviors
- 24:15by promoting kindness towards ourselves during
- 24:19moments of difficulty and failure. Self-compassion fosters
- 24:22resilience and the reduction of tension and reduces the
- 24:26tendencies to engage in self-critical or undermining behaviors.
- 24:30So it's really important to bring this nourishment and connection.
- 24:34So when we can cultivate this inner critic being our number one ally,
- 24:38then we can start to control our mind rather than our mind controlling us.
- 24:42And a lot of people are like, I don't want to meditate. There's monkey mind going on there.
- 24:46Yes, because you're not in control of it yet and it is still controlling you.
- 24:50That's why you want to get in there and just have some time and space just to sit, allow
- 24:53the monkey mind to just filter out everything that it needs to just
- 24:57dislodge and then you will come back into a state, a place of
- 25:01greater resilience and strength. And remembering social
- 25:05support and accountability, building a community around you,
- 25:10or finding a community where you can surround yourself with positive influencers
- 25:15that really support everything that you're doing. That's
- 25:18why I'm obsessed now with, rather than doing one-on-one work, I
- 25:21have a container of influential leaders
- 25:25that work together to inspire each other and motivate each
- 25:29other. That's why I myself am in a mastermind as well. I
- 25:32feel like the one-on-one work is amazing, but our self-sabotage
- 25:36is so great at manipulating ourselves and others that
- 25:40being in a group container actually allows greatest
- 25:44growth and greatest resilience to actually come to
- 25:47play. So find mentors that you're inspired by. Find
- 25:50mentors that are doing things that you love and that you
- 25:54want to be a part of. That's why I created Build Utopia because
- 25:57I want to freaking help all of these mentors that actually want to. build
- 26:01utopia. Everybody gets to deserve to live in a rainforest, whether
- 26:04you live in a city or not. Let's rainforest our cities. Let's create
- 26:08all of these amazing projects globally so that
- 26:11we can actually all live in utopia. Far out. Poverty
- 26:15can end in a few months. You know that. I know that. Why
- 26:18does it still exist? Because wankers rule the world. It's time for
- 26:22spiritual freaking heart-led leaders to
- 26:26create the projects that are going to shift and change the
- 26:29world's trajectory forever. So find people that inspire you
- 26:33and then that will really help you to overcome your self-sabotage. And
- 26:36that's why I'm freaking committed to my vision and my purpose and
- 26:40the projects and the programs to the Divinity Method
- 26:44and the program Building Utopia, because I want to see a change in
- 26:47this world. And for anybody that feels passionate about
- 26:51changing this planet and feels like they want to work with other aligned leaders, then
- 26:55DM me, reach out. You can find me, Blythe Langford, on all platforms.
- 26:59I would love to have a conversation with you about this. And it
- 27:02might not be an alignment for you. And that's totally cool. At
- 27:06least I can put you in touch with somebody that will be more in alignment with you.
- 27:09But for those special few people that are in alignment to work
- 27:12with me on my programs, then let's go. Because, you know, the
- 27:1680 years left of this Earth's trajectory, like we need to be working on this now.
- 27:20We're not getting any younger. The time is right now. So step in,
- 27:23step up, let's go. And for anybody else that's not going to
- 27:26be reaching out, that's absolutely cool. Please let
- 27:30me know in the comments below what really is going to be supportive for
- 27:33you in your business and your leadership and what do you want to try or
- 27:37what do you have you tried in the past that was really successful. Let
- 27:40us know because then other people will get inspired from what you've done or
- 27:44what is it that you really want to have massive growth in and that you really
- 27:47want to challenge yourself. Let me know in the comments below and I look forward to
- 27:50seeing you on the next episode. Much love. Thank you for joining me
- 27:54on Soul Temple. If this episode spoke to your soul, I
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- 28:07and my like-minded community of souls at Blythe Langford
- 28:11on all social platforms. I look forward, I really look