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- 0:00Coming to you live from deep within sort of an indistinct an indistinctly warm but
- 0:08not really radioactive wasteland. We are the survivors of the all right kick apocalypse,
- 0:14the few, the brave, the bitchy, once more wading into battle
- 0:17against the froggy lobster libertarian hordes with return of the libertarian feminist Hannah Cox and
- 0:29worst red pill dating Advice three. This is rant Zurker number two O five.
- 0:35We've done many with you, with you, our stalwart audience, and
- 0:38we will do one more once more, waiting into the breach, all of
- 0:43us together to discover the truth that can be discovered. Well, what truth?
- 0:49What truth? That libertarianism and feminism are mutually incompatible A desire for freedom
- 0:59and desires for is safety or mutually incompatible? Well, isn't so? Yeah,
- 1:04yeah no? And that individual rights are completely incompatible with group rights.
- 1:10Did I ever tell you about when my son he was like in grade like
- 1:12nine social studies, and he had to like write a essay about that.
- 1:18It was a position paper on whether the Canadian government had done a good job
- 1:23of upholding the group rights of indigenous people. Right, And you could pick
- 1:27yes or no, and he came home and he was like, Okay,
- 1:30I got this paper I got to write and I hate it and I'm not
- 1:34going to do it. And I'm like, what do you mean you're not
- 1:37going to do it? He says, I'm going to write a paper about
- 1:41how group rights are bullshit and they hurt everybody. And I was like,
- 1:48oh, I could help you write that. And then he did and he
- 1:53wrote it up and it was like, oh my god, it was so
- 1:56clumsy because he was like what like fourteen right, it was like really blunt,
- 2:01like really blunt. Like the kid is like an in real life shit
- 2:06poster, right, so he's going to be like really blunt. And and
- 2:09I was like, okay, you need to soften your language here. You
- 2:13need to like be a little more circumspect there, blah blah blah. And
- 2:16when you fail, I'm not going to be mad. And because his social
- 2:22studies teacher he called the guy mister Kuk not to his face, not to
- 2:27his face, but you know, but okay, because the guy was like
- 2:31a total like risky leftist right, and and so I was just like,
- 2:39okay, okay, when you fail, I will not be mad at you.
- 2:43I will be proud of you, just like when you've got in that
- 2:45brawl in grade too. You earned your friend's son, Yeah, you earned
- 2:50yet you you will have earned it? Are you winning son? And then
- 2:55he did win. He got eighty five percent. Yeah, probably would have
- 3:00gotten said on the assignment, and the margin note said he could have been
- 3:05stronger making his points. So I probably if I'd left it alone, he
- 3:09might have. He might have got a hirement. He might have told him
- 3:14to soften his tone. Tone policing your own son there, Karen, Well,
- 3:20you know it's the same when he got into the brawl, when he
- 3:22got into the brawl protecting his friend and just jumped in and started swinging,
- 3:27okay, And then he came home with this thing about like how he what
- 3:30did he do wrong? What will you do again next time? You know?
- 3:34Why was it wrong? Blah blah? And I was like, Okay,
- 3:36I'm just going to sit down with you, very proud of your son.
- 3:38Now, we're going to sit down and I'm going to tell you what
- 3:42you have to say in order to avoid more detention. Okay. So what
- 3:46the upshot of all of this is that group rights are in complete opposition with
- 3:53individual rights because Ultimately, Parianism does not have room for that. You are
- 3:59judging people based on factors outside of their control rather than their actions or whatever
- 4:03merit that they have earnednowledging the acknowledging the existence of group rights like some people,
- 4:10some classes of people were enslaved, and some like the the existence externally
- 4:15of group rights right and group classifications. Right. As a libertarian, you
- 4:21can do that, right, but you can't advocate to have them. You
- 4:27don't continue the problem. Yeah, you advocate for its end, advocate for
- 4:30people to be judged on their individual merits, but not not not this kind
- 4:35of group rights. Because the ultimate thing is that when you present the idea
- 4:39of group rights, which feminism is basically the boss bitch example of when you
- 4:46when you present that, that means you are violating individual rights by definition,
- 4:50always, always, always, Okay, So it's these two ideas are incompatible.
- 4:57But just to bring everybody up to speed, I'll give you guys a
- 5:00little bit of context. In our previous episodes, we we did discuss this
- 5:05individual and her attitudes towards datings, and I pointed out that for whatever reason,
- 5:14like really filled in Okay, all right, yes I did, And
- 5:18I know that's Kattie. I just wish woman would stop doing it like it's
- 5:23it's it's honesthetic, it's not pleasing aesthetically. Why are you doing it?
- 5:28Okay? But regardless, my my, My main point with the last one
- 5:32was when you watch this and you listen to how she describes the ideal female
- 5:38attitude to dating, she describes the idea she she presents what she considers to
- 5:45be the ideal female attitude in another TikToker or somebody just posted a video.
- 5:50But when you analyze what that woman said, which I have done, by
- 5:54the way, I've I've done this on my own because I think that this
- 5:57this this video is really critical to analyze. But when you analyze what she
- 6:01presents is the ideal female strategy towards dating, it is to treat your male
- 6:08partner like an enemy, like a potential danger to you that you have to
- 6:15manage, not unlike you're managing diffusing a bomb. And if you look at
- 6:20if you analyze everything she says, in many ways, it's the exact opposite
- 6:27of what the dark psychology red pill dating guru is telling men to do.
- 6:33But the thing is that she is saying we need to establish this combatative attitude
- 6:40towards dating. We need to regard our male partners in terms of not being
- 6:44a victim of them, retaining our independence, remaining emotionally detached and distant,
- 6:50and making sure we can get out the door with our bugout bag within fifteen
- 6:57seconds if he looks at us strangely because he's maybe looking for the remote or
- 7:01whatever. You know, like, this is this attitude of of a high
- 7:06threat response and in a relationship with a man. This is what she says,
- 7:13is ideal. I'm looking like this and not only does this sound like
- 7:16it's exhausting if you are in this high threat response with a man, this
- 7:23is not somebody you should be pursuing a relationship with. This isn't a relationship,
- 7:28okay, this is this meship. There are men out there who should
- 7:34trigger a high threat response. Oh yes, no, no, no,
- 7:40children, dogs, everyone You should lead. Yeah, I don't. You're
- 7:46not in a relationship with somebody you're treating like an enemy by definition. But
- 7:50but you know there there are men out there like that. There are lots
- 7:55of women out there like that. But this idea that you know, it's
- 7:58perfectly okay for women to just be on their guard all the time. And
- 8:03it's like, you know, if you I threatened to kill my husband every
- 8:09day, every day I remind him he has five hundred thousand dollars worth of
- 8:13life insurance. Okay, Is he scared of me? No? Okay no,
- 8:22But that is because perhaps because I'm lazy, also perhaps because I have
- 8:26told everybody in my immediate vicinity that I'm probably going to kill him for his
- 8:35life insurance. So he's like, well, she can't do it now.
- 8:39Yeah, she's basically taking that option off the tables, paint herself into a
- 8:43corner. Yeah, yeah, definitely. But it's like she's she's Hannah Cox
- 8:48is telling women to approach dating like they're entering a minefield. And if you
- 8:54are doing and not just dating, being in a relationship with a man,
- 8:58if you are in that mindset in a relationship with the man, you either
- 9:03need to get out or you need to burn your copy of Susan Brown Miller's
- 9:09Against Starwill and start excavating the feminism out of your subconscious because that's not healthy.
- 9:18And that's my point. So she presents this ideal attitude of combat and
- 9:22what dark psychology appears to do in response, is to give men a way
- 9:28of managing being in relationships with women who are combative. And it's like,
- 9:35do you realize, Hannah that you are presenting the mirror opposite of what you're
- 9:41calling out and not just that, but you, guys, there's no way
- 9:45around it. Women started this, and I've had feminist say, well,
- 9:48patriarchy, No, patriarchy did nothing like this. Men in power does not
- 9:54equal women oppressed. You have to actually look at the situation for men and
- 9:58women. When men are in authority, what's the situation for women? Is
- 10:03it worse than it is for men? The answer is no, Well,
- 10:07no, the women are more protected, more provided for more. Even in
- 10:11Afghanistan, if women became men tomorrow, three times more of them would die
- 10:16incredibly violently. And you can't tell me that if you went up to those
- 10:20women and said, hey, you want to be a man, but you're
- 10:22probably going to end up being shot in the head, would you take it
- 10:26that a lot of them would say, you know, I think I enjoy
- 10:30the protection over the freedom. Oh man. That one video I watched,
- 10:35ages and ages ago up these Muslim women from like straight over from the Middle
- 10:41East, right in Europe being interviewed by a reporter and they were like,
- 10:45I feel sorry for European wins. I feel really sorry for Like they take
- 10:50out their own garbage, like I would never do that. They carry their
- 10:56own suitcases. I would never do that, right They they have to do
- 11:01all of these things, these menial tasks for they have to earn their own
- 11:05living, they have to earn their own money like I would. I would
- 11:09never. I would never be willing to do that, right. I like
- 11:13being taken care of. And you know, and this is this is Muslim
- 11:18women in Europe, where things are generally pretty safe and calm and you know,
- 11:24like you're not taking your life in your hands walk into the store,
- 11:31right well, and they're saying this in the context of Europe, Like what
- 11:35what would they be saying in the context of Afghanistan. You're exactly exactly.
- 11:41And you can't just sniff at that and say, oh, well, these
- 11:43women they don't know what they're thinking. Okay, well you go there and
- 11:46you face the kind of violent odds that people face in that region, and
- 11:52then you say, oh, yeah, I will accept a much greater risk
- 11:56of being shot in the head. Change like, man, don't go They're
- 12:00wearing a head job to try and fit in. Yeah, go ahead,
- 12:03go do that, and then start judging the decisions that the women have made
- 12:07in that region. And if you want to make them, give them more
- 12:11freedom, make it safer. And believe me, you me going there and
- 12:16saying let's bomb them for the sake of women's rights doesn't make that region safer
- 12:20in the lawn? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, no's And it's like,
- 12:24okay, that's a bad idea. They will have the freedom proportionate to
- 12:30their safety, which means the way that you make women free is to stop
- 12:35men dying. Figure out how to reduce the rate at which men die.
- 12:41That's how you make men women more free. Let's be honest, you make
- 12:45the environment safer. Okay. So it's video. Yeah, yeah, I
- 12:50know. I'm just trying to give them a a grounding and a preamble,
- 12:58if you will. I do have some business do as well, So I
- 13:01have started the pre goal of the monthly fundraiser. So like the first the
- 13:09first goal, the sub goal, which you can find at feed the Badger
- 13:13dot com slash support, I am doing a bit of a different proposal this
- 13:16month. I am going to do a deep dive into Hannah Cox's video solo
- 13:24Deep Dive not necessarily scripted but edited, so the points are much more succinct,
- 13:30shall we say, And I will make that available if we hit the
- 13:33first sub goal on the fundraiser by Friday, So if you want to see
- 13:37that, please go to feed the Badger dot com slash support and put a
- 13:41few shekels in the hat. Soon I will probably make public like a little
- 13:46teaser that really hammers home the analysis of how she literally starts from a combatative
- 13:52stance when it comes to relationships with between men and women. That's her,
- 13:56that is her foundation. And I'm like, you're foundation is already fucked,
- 14:01lady, it's already fucked. So and this needs to be called out because
- 14:07everything flows from that foundation of that that fucked foundation. I don't know what
- 14:13else to call it. I've just demonetized our stream language. Yeah, yeah,
- 14:18thank you, Brian. It's it's not it's not a it's not a
- 14:22foundation at all. It's it's not it's like a house of cards built on
- 14:28stands on sand with the tide rapidly coming in. Oh, Like, it's
- 14:33it's just it's it's a terrible place to start and you cannot analyze or even
- 14:37criticize dark psychology's approach from that foundation, Like you already once you say you
- 14:46essentially approached dating as in it is a battlefield, you got you don't have
- 14:52a foundation to criticize the men who are responding to you advocating women approach dating
- 14:58like it's a battlefield or a relationship. Not even dating. Dating maybe makes
- 15:03a little bit of sense, but being in a relationship, it shouldn't be
- 15:07a battlefield, and you shouldn't have the attitude that it's a battlefield. And
- 15:11if you find yourself in the attitude that it's a battlefield, get out.
- 15:15The end is you're not in a relationship at least not one that's worth having
- 15:18unless you're caring. Well, no, I don't. I don't view it
- 15:22as a battlefield. I just grew up with the Bickersons, That's what.
- 15:26That's what My all my aunties and uncles and I'm you know, like they
- 15:33were. They would bicker. They would like my mom would like pinch the
- 15:35bridge of her nose and sigh, and my dad would be like you know,
- 15:41and and whatever, and it's like they were like super close and they
- 15:46were like a well oiled machine, you know, but you get you get
- 15:48annoyed with people sometimes that's just how it is, right, And the dogs
- 15:54know I love them. I yell at them all the time. He is
- 15:58good, but they know I all right, So let's begin. Okay,
- 16:03so oh wait, sorry, let me finish the things. If you want
- 16:07to see that that more concise analysis, please go to feed the Badger dot
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- 16:15any messages during the show, you want to comment on anything you hear or
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- 16:19dot com slash just the tip. I may do some arm twisting towards the
- 16:26end because we're not going to go very long because we are going to do
- 16:30a after show as well. And I shouldn't have used the word the a
- 16:33word, but I did. And if you want to join us for that,
- 16:36then you can set up a subscription and feed the Badger dot Com slash
- 16:38subscribe. And now that I've overloaded you, let's do a bit of the
- 16:41video right well, before we do that, I did get a super chat.
- 16:45I'm going to read real quick. Iggy thunder sent us five dollars and
- 16:48says libertarian feminist is back or a bean flick athon to glow harder. Thank
- 16:53you for the super chat, super chat. I'm sorry, let's play some
- 16:59more, hannakoff. So your emotions, process them, and work through them
- 17:02together is key to having a successful relationship, and nobody has time to double
- 17:07the little man child who can't have these basic sorts of discussions now nless,
- 17:11she thinks, wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait okay, right
- 17:14right off the bat, what the hell are you doing? She's basically saying,
- 17:21you know, a man is going to be you know, like I
- 17:25don't know if your man is like a stunted adolescent who's not in touch with
- 17:29his emotions and can't have a conversation about his emotions. All right, you
- 17:34know this woman is a massive hypocrite. Well she's also like feeding into like
- 17:40the stereotypes about men. Well, men, it's not that men aren't in
- 17:44touch with their emotions. It's just that they know how to like not constantly
- 17:49act on them. Like what frustrates me. And you know, like I
- 17:53made a post on X about it recently, Right, is this idea that
- 18:00vomiting uncontrollably vomiting your emotions all over everyone around you. Right, somehow feminists
- 18:07have convinced us that that's emotional maturity and emotional intelligence. I'm sorry, if
- 18:12a toddler does it, then it's not maturity or intelligence, right, because
- 18:21toddlers do that all the time. Right. Being a master of your emotions,
- 18:26being able to contain yourself, being able to have patience and forbearance,
- 18:32and basically say well, I'm not going to react emotionally to this negative stimulus,
- 18:38that is emotional maturity and emotional intelligence. I'm not going to respond in
- 18:47panic to this fear, I'm to the fear. I'm not going to respond
- 18:52in anger to my stress. I'm not going to respond to all of these
- 18:56things in those ways because that's what child would do. Mm hmm. If
- 19:03you if you go to emotional intelligence, if you go back a few seconds,
- 19:07let's read the uh, let's read what she's responding to Brian, So
- 19:11I think that's important. Never argue with her. This is from dark psychology,
- 19:18dating master, and never emotional or get emotional. Anytime you get emotional,
- 19:22it shows you she has power and control over you. Don't argue with
- 19:26her. And if she's being unreasonable or disrespectful. Take your leave now.
- 19:30I invite you guys to go back to the beginning of this video where she
- 19:34laid out her thesis of how or their conjecture on how women should respond to
- 19:40dating, and she described how women should not take disrespect. So essentially,
- 19:45what this man is saying is, don't take disrespect. If she disrespects you,
- 19:48leave that's it. Yeah, just not not leave, not leave the
- 19:52relationship, but take your leave or move your take your leave, remove yourself
- 19:57from the situation. So what is it, Hannah? Are they are men
- 20:02supposed to tolerate disrespect while women do not? And what I think that she's
- 20:06actually getting at when you peel back the layers is she doesn't like the fact
- 20:11that this man is leaving and not either becoming her emotional tampon or her or
- 20:17punching bag, or she's she's just leaving her to her own emotional self regulation.
- 20:25She's letting her cry it out, because why else wouldn't she understand that
- 20:32you can't start a relationship by saying rules for thee but none for me.
- 20:36I can establish boundaries around your respect, but you may not do the same
- 20:41in reverse. For me. I don't understand when it was that women lost
- 20:49the capacity to self soothe, you know, well, it was never you
- 20:55know, even in the past, I think that women still had that it's
- 20:59a fee thing and they're doing a bit more, there were more emotional but
- 21:04but women in the past, I mean, like, oh god, I
- 21:08saw meme the other day, and it's like it shows like this line of
- 21:12like marines or something or army guys carrying like a giant log, right,
- 21:18and they're like straining and they're all working together to carry this log. Right,
- 21:23they got like grimaces on their faces. And then it shows like a
- 21:26Romanian woman carrying a log of the same size, like some like like big
- 21:33babushka. Right, she's just got it propped on her shoulder and she's like
- 21:38standing there and and it's I think, like women have just gotten so fragile
- 21:48emotionally, right, Like my mom, my mom, she might have had
- 21:52like a couple of meltdowns a year, right where she was like seriously upset
- 22:00and couldn't contain it, couldn't just conceal it and get on with her day.
- 22:04And those were big things, right, it wasn't just some little thing.
- 22:11And she was being reasonable. She wasn't necessarily expressing herself in the best
- 22:19way, but her emotions were reasonable in the context. And you know,
- 22:26like, but these days it's like, it's like all of these women are
- 22:29like, eh, you know, like I get to act like I'm still
- 22:33thirteen years old, right and pumped full of freakin' hormones and flipping out at
- 22:41the smallest shit, and I get to act like that. But if you
- 22:48say, okay, i'll see it tomorrow and just walk out, then that's
- 22:56not okay. That's not okay. Well, here's here's the critical thing here.
- 23:02It's hypocritical to say that we get established boundaries and he doesn't, because
- 23:06all he's saying is that I demand respect, and if I don't get it,
- 23:10then I'm going to take my leave. Not necessarily permanently, I'm just
- 23:14leaving. I'm leaving your presence and you can emotionally regulate yourself. That's it.
- 23:18That's all he's saying. And she has already on the record in saying
- 23:22that women should should establish their boundaries and in fact that that is that is
- 23:27work that women do in relationships that they should get credit for as being somehow
- 23:34of benefit to the men. Therewith that they that they establish their boundaries and
- 23:38they expect respect. Okay, well, this is what this man is saying.
- 23:42I'm going to establish my boundaries and I'm going to expect respect. So
- 23:47right off the bat, this level of hypocrisy, it means that you have
- 23:52you don't have a foundation to have a relationship. You have a foundation.
- 24:00I mean, even if you end up with a guy who can tolerate your
- 24:03ass, you're not really in a relationship with him. It's just yeah,
- 24:10it's just like you're you because he's never you're never really gonna know him as
- 24:15a person. Honestly. Anyway, let's let's get a little bit more done.
- 24:21All right, concussions. Now, lest you think this is the only
- 24:25dumb dating advice floating around right wing internet spaces, let me bring you another
- 24:30tweet. This one is from Justin Murphy. He's wow right wing? Okay,
- 24:37all right, libertarianism is right wing? Well that's men, just marry
- 24:42a lot. What was that? And also up now because the liberals,
- 24:48I guess, abandoned this idea of promoting individual rights for group rights. It
- 24:53is on a moral level too. Okay, let's let's keep going, all
- 24:57right, I'm just saying, if she's saying the right wing like it's a
- 25:03separate animal, he's obviously doesn't understand libertarianism. I got another super chat from
- 25:11Iggy Thunders. He says, Karen, feminism is a house built on sand.
- 25:14Me more like a cathedral made from a hot fart. Five dollars,
- 25:18thank you, five dollars well spent. You know, hot farts are the
- 25:22most aromatic, and like aromatic, I mean stinky. Well your dogs,
- 25:29and they don't. They don't stink pretty, they stink ugly. All right,
- 25:36all right, let's keep going. This one is from Justin Murphy.
- 25:38He says, men, just marry a hot, lower IQ girl from a
- 25:42rural church, one who is simple and practical and faithful. You don't need
- 25:47or want impressive opinions about foreign films a little, but I love them.
- 25:52Word spoken by many happy husbands and many happy wives know less. I'm just
- 25:56going to go out on a limb here and say, okay, he's he's
- 26:00including both men and women in this. Well he used a female example.
- 26:04Well, okay, what you want, what you like, Okay, it's
- 26:10it's like that. It's like the smart slash good you know, matrix you
- 26:18know, in terms of dogs, right, the worst kind of dog is
- 26:22Kevin. She's a smart bad dog. That's the worst kind of dog,
- 26:26right. Borat is a stupid good dog. Best kind of well, second
- 26:30best kind of dog. Smart good dog is the best kind of dog.
- 26:36You Yeah, a stupid bad dog is bad but not smart enough to actually
- 26:44do anything really really horrible, you know, like steal a pot, roast
- 26:51off your counter or whatever, get the hell out of the kitchen. Hey,
- 26:56but here she comes back. But but yeah, no, it's it's
- 27:03uh, you have like, okay, you know, he's not saying,
- 27:08you know, Mary a retard. He's saying, marry someone who's like not
- 27:15that smart, but is has all of the moral qualities that you would want.
- 27:22Mm hmm. Well, I think he's says there's another way to put
- 27:27it. I think it could have been put differently. But educated women are
- 27:33what I think he's again, and I and I don't know, Yeah,
- 27:37I think I think educated women, because they're educated in a feminist system,
- 27:42they're going to essentially treat all relationships like a battle a battlefield. Why would
- 27:48you want to be involved with? So, I mean I would have put
- 27:52it a different way, but I think it's that the issue is not intelligent
- 27:56women. The issue is educated with MM okay, say, if you don't
- 28:03care about your more IQ, you're probably pretty low IQ yourself. Low IQ
- 28:08people get themselves in all kinds of messes, are usually about at managing their
- 28:14finances. They don't have to keep a home. Ideo they're just what I
- 28:19said, She said, low IQ people get themselves into all kinds of messes
- 28:23and messages, messes, And I said, such as yourself in this video.
- 28:27Well, well, don't know, I don't think. I don't think
- 28:30low IQ people get themselves in all kinds of messes. You need to actually
- 28:34just like give them a straightforward education on financial management. You know, what
- 28:42is a credit rating? What do you need one for? You know,
- 28:45how do you manage your finances, how do you manage a household? All
- 28:48of those things you don't necessarily like. Those are not high IQ endeavors,
- 28:56right, High IQ endeavors are things like figuring out how feminist theory despite all
- 29:03the counter evidence, happens to be the exact way that the world operates.
- 29:07You need a high intellect in order to do those mental gymnastics. Yeah,
- 29:15putting it to good use, but you need a high intellect to be really
- 29:19really badly wrong. Well, what I mean by that is I don't know
- 29:22if she completely lacks any kind of self awareness. But there is so much
- 29:30hypocrisy, Like this entire video reeks of it, of double standards and hypocrisy.
- 29:37Yeah, and just like and again this is another example of it.
- 29:41And what is she saying here too? Like? Really, what is she
- 29:45saying? Like people with IQs of like under ninety don't deserve relationships, they
- 29:52don't deserve love, they don't deserve companionship, they don't deserve marriage, they
- 29:57don't deserve kids, Like what is she a genesis? Well, the other
- 30:02thing is that he explicitly said men and women, you know, may also
- 30:07want a partner who's who's a genuinely good look at I guess Forrest Gump just
- 30:11a just a good person, not necessarily hugely intelligent, but just a decent
- 30:18human being. So he's it's not even like gender specific his example may have
- 30:22been. And the thing is that she's presenting this in terms of her being
- 30:26a victim of it when it was not intended to only apply to women.
- 30:33Yeah, and she's also presenting herself as a victim of it when she's like
- 30:37dumb as a fucking stump from all I can tell o, like you said
- 30:42oof to me, Brian, But that's a yeah, you're just a woman
- 30:48with a small brain, with a brain a third the size of us.
- 30:52It's science science. I'm just saying that she must lack some object permanence if
- 31:00she's not capable of realizing how much she's self, she's contradicting herself because again
- 31:06it says women should demand respect, and then suddenly this guy's like, I
- 31:10am demanding respect and if I don't get it, I'm I'm you know,
- 31:12I am taking my leave of the situation. Well, so what women can
- 31:18demand respect but men can't? Huh y okay? Yeah? Oh yeah,
- 31:23yeah, No, you know, she can throw a coffee cup at at
- 31:27her partner's head and he just has to take it. M organize. They're
- 31:34late, they make stupid decisions that get them in legal trouble. They can't
- 31:38hold down jobs. They'll embarrass you in front of your boss. And that's
- 31:42all Before you have kids. Keep in mind that whoever you partner with,
- 31:45you are passing their genes onto your kids. Do you want study mechanics?
- 31:52Yeah? That is kind of genesis. But you know, yeah, this
- 31:59is my issue with intellectual types that like, there there's a lot of arrogance,
- 32:04and then what they don't understand is we do have to live in a
- 32:07world where there are people that are not like high IQ, and maybe the
- 32:12most important thing is for those people to be decent people. Maybe people's like
- 32:16morality and decency is more important than their IQ. You know, like,
- 32:22there will always be people that are not the smartest, the rightest. There
- 32:25will always be people who aren't you know, going to be doing like the
- 32:30hot most high paid jobs. But as much as they have in the top
- 32:35twenty percent, yeah, yeah, we can't all exactly. And as long
- 32:39as those people are satisfied with their life where they are not like looking at
- 32:45the person next to them and becoming embittered because they don't have the same things,
- 32:51which, by the way, people with a high IQ feel entitled to,
- 32:55then we will have a well functioning, high trust society. I mean,
- 33:00like that that's what we want. So you can't go around like if
- 33:05they are if you're talking about average men that have average IQ's, they're gonna
- 33:10want women that are also of you know, similar like at least to the
- 33:15point where they can you know, have a relationship with them. The most
- 33:20important thing is that they're good to each other, not necessarily that they're smart.
- 33:25You know, however the hell you measure that? Well, I think,
- 33:31you know, like it's some I wouldn't I would not be able to
- 33:39two be long term with somebody who was not you know, of at least
- 33:46average intelligence. Right, It just it just would not work out. But
- 33:53uh, that doesn't mean that people of below average intelligence should not like that
- 34:04they're not safe bets for relationships, that they can't maintain a home, that
- 34:10they can't actually you know, hold down a job, that they can't be
- 34:15on time, that they can't manage their their finances, that they can't freakin'
- 34:22you know, like this is this is what is driving me crazy. Right,
- 34:27Like, I know a lot of people who I would say, you
- 34:30know, like they're they're less than one hundred, right, that doesn't mean
- 34:36anything. They're still good, No, as long as they're Like I said,
- 34:40there are people who keep society running that don't have like one hundred and
- 34:45twenty IQs. But without them we'd all be fucked. They're still good people.
- 34:50They're still like productive, they still work they work hard, they look
- 34:54after their families, all of those things, and it's like, Okay,
- 35:00this just seems like, well, it's not white supremacist, but it's something
- 35:06supremacist, right. You know, you don't want to get with someone who's
- 35:10like mere ninety five IQ because your kids are all going to be defective,
- 35:16like what? Well, and another thing too, is I think one another
- 35:22thing he's warning against it if I mean again, I don't I wouldn't have
- 35:27used the word IQ. But let's say a woman's education affects her earning potential.
- 35:34Maybe what he's concerned with. And I think this is a justifiable is
- 35:38that men who earn less than their partners are you know, more like they're
- 35:45they're worried that they're going to lose them. So like, you know,
- 35:47because the woman be like, well, I think I can do better than
- 35:50you, don't like maybe have options? Yeah, yeah, exactly, So
- 35:54like maybe men should be concerned about that. And again, I mean,
- 35:58you know, if Hannah Hawks understood that you, no matter how libertarian you
- 36:05think you are and how pro pre market you are, you can't alter human
- 36:08nature and the smarter Yeah, women are gonna do what they're gonna do.
- 36:15Women are gonna women and it doesn't matter like how libertarian your your society is,
- 36:20you're going to end up with a situation where you have a bun of
- 36:22men women that are going to be alone, and they're going to become destructive.
- 36:29Well, the smarter, smarter a woman is the worst she can screw
- 36:34a man over in divorce court because she's gonna think about all those things that
- 36:39she can use to screw him over. That's all that that's just all going
- 36:44to come to her. She won't even need a lawyer to give her those
- 36:46ideas, right, So you know, like I'm sorry, but you know,
- 36:53it really is kind of like do I want a stupid good dog or
- 37:00a smart bad dog like Wilson? What do I want? What I've noticed
- 37:05is that smart people can be very very good at justifying stupid choices. Oh
- 37:10god, yeah, no, back rationalization is like off the fucking charts.
- 37:17Just look at her. Look at her justifying and rationalizing all of her self
- 37:23contradictory statements. Yeah, she if she was just honest and said I just
- 37:30want I want men to do more work because I'm a woman, I mean,
- 37:34she basically admitted it, because she's like, oh, look at these
- 37:37men they want. They want the same thing women get, which is partners
- 37:40that all do most of the work, that give the gifts, that do
- 37:44the compliments that and it's like, well, okay, just be honest,
- 37:47just just come out there right there and say, no, I'm a woman.
- 37:51I want to be able to establish the emotional boundaries for both of us
- 37:55in the relationship. I want you to be the one who provides the majority
- 38:00of the goods, and I want to be able to just contradict myself constantly,
- 38:07and you just have to conform yourself to whatever landscape I'm painting this moment,
- 38:12you know, just just be honest, all right, because honestly,
- 38:21do you want more like an intelligent person rationalizing stupid ideas at the moment?
- 38:25Oh okay, let's keep going the person who is primarily responsible for raising your
- 38:31kids and instructing them to be stupid. Furthermore, do you want to have
- 38:36a partner who you cannot connect with on a deep and meaningful level, who
- 38:39you can't here it is and confide in and depend on. It's like part
- 38:44of the whistle of her lower lip is paralyzed. Okay, but okay,
- 38:49you know what else it is She just literally said that you would not be
- 38:53able to connect with someone who's of lower intelligence. Like what the fuck?
- 39:00How able is like? And and and we're not even to a cat.
- 39:06You can't connect to a dog, You can't have a meaningful relationship, can't
- 39:09emotionally connect to a child. Yeah, because last I checked, children aren't
- 39:16as intelligent and cape as capable of reasoning, you know, and and as
- 39:23functional mentally as adults are. Right, you can't connect with that. Don't
- 39:30become a mother, please? Yeah, Like what what the what the fuck?
- 39:37Like this this is so like Okay, I thought this was bad up
- 39:44until this point, but at this point, I'm just like, no,
- 39:49if you get someone who's like got like a not average IQ, like a
- 39:53below average IQ, like it's gonna spell disaster because like they're completely incapable of
- 40:01functioning in society and they can't freaking they're not on time, and they don't
- 40:08know how to manage credit and they can't balance their checkbook and they can't freaking
- 40:15cook a meal, and they can't interact with you on a new emotional level
- 40:21and they're just not capable of like talking about anything that's remotely important, and
- 40:28you know, like, who the fuck are you? Well? Yeah,
- 40:35well, also does she do you realize do you realize, bitch, that
- 40:38half the fucking population you've just written them off? Yeah, that's pretty toned
- 40:46up. Think of the average person, George Carlin said, and then realize
- 40:52that half the population is dumber than that. Okay, half the fucking population.
- 40:58You're like, No, they don't deserve relations and ships. They don't
- 41:00deserve to date, they don't deserve to have kids. They don't deserve anything.
- 41:06And also, this is not a matter of intelligence and a matter of
- 41:08impulse control. Is she offering a balanced budget? And uh and uh oh
- 41:15no budget. She wouldn't be injecting her lips with fucking collagen if she if
- 41:21she wanted to balance her budget, like, she wouldn't have this, like
- 41:24whatever the fuck it is right above her right shoulder, right sitting on the
- 41:29shelf there, if she wanted, like who was decoration? Right? I
- 41:32mean it's it's oh, oh no, no, no, okay, it's
- 41:36I don't know, great, it's sort of weird, but it's still it's
- 41:38you know, like people like decorating. I'm not gonna I'm not going to
- 41:42scold her for having decoration. I have decorative things. But but okay,
- 41:47nobody likes you, Allison, and that's why. But that escalated rapidly,
- 41:54it did. I just want to go, I want to go after.
- 41:58I just want to say, Okay, is she offering a genuine emotional commitment
- 42:02with this level of inconsistencies in her attitude towards men? No, No,
- 42:07you're not. You're not offering any of this. Even if you're smart,
- 42:12you're not offering your partner the benefit of your intelligence, So you might as
- 42:15well not have it. And I think that's that's where that man is going
- 42:19coming from. You know, if you're if you're going to get a woman
- 42:22who is not going to use her intelligence to benefit you, then why bother?
- 42:28And you are not presenting the idea that you are going to use your
- 42:30intelligence to benefit your male partner, because at the very least, if you
- 42:35had it, you would be able to keep these thoughts in your mind enough
- 42:38to recognize when you're being inconsistent with them. So either you don't have the
- 42:44intelligence that you're advertising, or you're actively using it to manipulate and lie.
- 42:49You know that you are saying to men or to women, Yeah, yeah,
- 42:53keep your make him respect you, and then you are simultaneously saying to
- 42:58this dude, oh, hey, you don't have the right to expect respect.
- 43:01Okay, Now, if you're an intelligent person, you're able to realize
- 43:05that you've just made a very big contradiction based on whether or not the person
- 43:08is a man or a woman. All right, and your intelligent person you
- 43:13be able to say, oh, shoot, I really shouldn't do that.
- 43:15I should be consistent otherwise, how I'm a what kind of foundation am I
- 43:20creating for a relationship with a man? But no, So you either don't
- 43:22recognize it, which means that you are in the position of being a dummy,
- 43:27or you do and you're a liar, in which case you are not
- 43:31going to be affording your mate the benefits of your intelligence, and in fact,
- 43:37he is going to be on the business end of your smarts, right
- 43:43and what men? Yeah, okay, what do you want to be the
- 43:47business end of your partner's fists? No, the same. I'm still I'm
- 43:53still hung up on her whole eugenics enthusiasm, right, Like, Yeah,
- 43:58that was sickening too, my sister. Okay, she was sued back when
- 44:04she was a resident. She was doing her residency, she was doing her
- 44:07obstetric rotation, and everybody in the room when this baby was born was sued,
- 44:14right, and the couple claimed that I think they claimed that my sister
- 44:24pulled a pair of scissors out of her pocket. Okay, which you're in
- 44:31scrubs, you don't really have pockets, Okay, But she pulled a pair
- 44:37of scissors out of her pocket and she used that to cut the umbilical cord.
- 44:40And that was what made because these were people, two parents, each
- 44:46of them had more than one PhD. They were extremely high IQ, and
- 44:52they ended up with an average kid. Okay, the kid was three,
- 44:57and he wasn't like a baby Mozart, wasn't like super super intelligent. He
- 45:02wasn't like on his way to be like the next frickin' Einstein, right,
- 45:08Thomas Sole, Sir, Isaac Newton, you know any of that. He
- 45:15wasn't Nikola Tesla at age three. He was just like a normal fucking kid.
- 45:20Right. So they were like, well, something must have happened in
- 45:23the birthing room, right, And so they accused my sister or somebody else
- 45:30who was assisting with this delivery, of pulling scissors out of their pocket.
- 45:35Which is not a thing. They're on the crash cart and cutting the umbilical
- 45:38cord with that, and then somehow that like I don't know, caused their
- 45:44kid to have meningitis that never showed up until three years later, and all
- 45:47of this shit right, and I'm like, well, this is this is
- 45:53what this woman is. She's like, I'm a highly intellient, dilligent person,
- 46:00and I'm going to mate with a highly intelligent person and we're going to
- 46:06have a super kid. And if that super kid right turns out to not
- 46:13be super we're gonna sue because we don't love that child for what he is
- 46:22or whatever he turns out to be. You can't have relationships emotional. And
- 46:28on the other hand, is she even offering a deep emotional connection which doesn't
- 46:31really relate to people's intelligence. All right, let's tell Okay, so guys,
- 46:38we haven't moved anywhere on the fundraisers, so please please please consider going
- 46:45to feed the Badger dot com slash support putting something in the hat so we
- 46:49move a little bit further. Five bucks, ten bucks, anything is really
- 46:52appreciated, and sending those super child's it's really quiet, like are we are
- 46:57we speaking into the void? Is it literal void? Brian? Is there
- 46:59no out there? No, there's people, there's people out there that are
- 47:02watching. Maybe you must have thoughts, you must, you always do,
- 47:08I can. I know those thoughts are out there, so send them in.
- 47:10Feed the Badger dot com slash slash just the tip, send in those
- 47:15thoughts and help us out with the support. Feed the Badger dot com slash
- 47:19support. Is that arm twisting? Like? Is that sufficient? Do I
- 47:22have to be more aggressive? I will get more aggressive with you guys if
- 47:28that's necessary. All right, Okay, let's let's do a little bit more,
- 47:30all right. I know this kind of guy is probably just fed up
- 47:35because he can't actually get the girls he's really attracted to and going after.
- 47:38But instead of trying to improve himself so that he would be a candidate for
- 47:43those people, he's trying to project this kind of terrible advice for the rest
- 47:46of the internet. And I think he's all the like this out. It's
- 47:52really showing he's just bitter because he can't get a super model. Why do
- 47:58women do this to their lips? You know? Can I just can I
- 48:02say something about the lips? Things? I think you guys are missing.
- 48:06There's a trick being played here. Okay, you look closely. This is
- 48:12a trend that I've seen with women. And this is not a criticism,
- 48:15just an observation. So you know, if anybody's in the chat trying to
- 48:19say, Brian, how could you come after her like this, I'm observing
- 48:22what I see and I'm telling you what it is. Sometimes when women apply
- 48:27lipstick, they don't just contain the color to the lips. They go a
- 48:31little outside the lines. As a person that dead colors things and paints,
- 48:38I see it when somebody's going outside the lines, and so she is going
- 48:43outside the lines to make it look bigger than they are. You see it.
- 48:46It's more than that. It's more than that there is a paralysis,
- 48:52it seems in her lower lip causing Yeah, I mean, if it is
- 48:59that, but the unfortunately the thing is that this is I've seen this too
- 49:02many times, and I'm pretty sure it's a result of plastic surgery because the
- 49:07colors outside. She definitely colors outside the lines on her to make her lips
- 49:14look bigger than they are, which is like, you know, like Hannah,
- 49:16don't be ashamed, like small, smaller lips are attractive. To some
- 49:21men too. You don't have to do that. You don't have to do
- 49:23that. Look at what happened to what's her name from the boys, Like
- 49:27she got work done and she looks like a completely different person and people were
- 49:30like, holy ship, what did you do? You were so pretty?
- 49:34And and now she's like left the internet. Like, so just you don't
- 49:39But that requires emotional regulation. Yeah, exactly just what I'm saying. This
- 49:45doesn't good in my opinion. Well, this doesn't look good because the lip
- 49:52droops right, it looks paralyzed. And I see this in the woman that
- 49:59she presented as the ideal had the same thing. So this isn't just drawing
- 50:05outside the lip, No, it is drawing outside the lip. She's well,
- 50:09maybe she's getting botox or something like that, or collegen as well,
- 50:13but this is definitely drawing outside the lip. The line of the lips,
- 50:19particularly on the bottom lip, you can sort of see it. The upper
- 50:22lips not too bad. The bottom lip is like massively overdrawn outside the lines.
- 50:30And listen to what I'm saying. Look at the shadow under the lip,
- 50:36look at the way it moves, and you will see what I'm talking
- 50:38about. This isn't just drawing outside the line. This individual is damaging the
- 50:43basic structure of her face for an artificial look. Probably, okay, let's
- 50:50keep going. Men that are currently rejecting him, we'll see this kind of
- 50:54post and like crap, Oh no, I better lower my standards and start
- 51:00like looking elsewhere, because otherwise all these guys zero values are gonna go pick
- 51:05dumb, simple girls who just do everything that they say and have no opinions
- 51:08of their told you to do this to your face, like you're talking about
- 51:13women who are suggestible, and you're doing this to your face, like you're
- 51:22doing this to the muscles of your mouth. And I'm pointing this out because
- 51:30again she has this attitude like she's, Oh, I'm detached, I'm above
- 51:35it all, I'm beyond social influence. But you know, a woman wanting
- 51:40to be pleasing to a man, what are you doing here with your lips?
- 51:46You're you're disavowing actually becoming a better person in favor of damaging your face
- 51:53in order to so call become more attractive. Do you think how perverse is
- 51:59that? Eh? I don't know. I haven't worn makeup since the I
- 52:06think the last time I wore any makeup at all was the premiere of the
- 52:13Red Pill movie in New York. So, okay, yeah, you and
- 52:20me are in a similar boat. Yeah, I probably wear I don't really
- 52:25wear makeup. I maybe put some some powder on so that the I don't
- 52:30look like the camera I can get a better effect. Yeah, I don't
- 52:36look shiny shiny, that kind of thing. You know. I try to
- 52:38keep my skin. I take care of it because I have certain things that
- 52:44happen to my skin if I don't that kind of stuff. But this is
- 52:50beyond that. This is actually damaging the muscles of your face in order to
- 52:53achieve an arbitrary standard of behavior. At that point, I don't think you
- 52:58have grounds to judge a woman who says to herself, you know, I'm
- 53:02going to try to become a more a decent person, or a more lovable
- 53:07person, or a kinder person in order to attract a partner. Are you
- 53:12fucking kidding me? What do you think you've done here, Hannah? I
- 53:14mean, you've already gone, as far as I'm concerned, You've already hit
- 53:17the moral event for horizon for trying to attract a man. Okay, let's
- 53:23keep going, all right, I got a super chat from Biggy Thunders and
- 53:30is a twenty bucks thank you Iggy. As Chicago Tribune twenty boy was worked
- 53:37by his thirty two year old teacher. He went to jail for two years,
- 53:42got custody, aids her victim at fifteen for child support. How much
- 53:47more can man up before it's enough? Oh? Yeah, no, If
- 53:53I recall, if I recall, in one of those cases, the uh,
- 54:00the not the prosecutor, but the district attorney, right who you know
- 54:09supported the child support decision, said well, he wanted to be a man
- 54:15then and now he just wants to be a boy. And yeah no,
- 54:22and it's like or maybe he was abused to take an advantage of like at
- 54:29the very at the very Oh, that reminds me of what I wanted to
- 54:34say about this. She is actually smashing together what I would think is her
- 54:39desires as a woman and what she's seeing about this man. She wants a
- 54:46man who is smarter than her. She doesn't want a man who's dumber,
- 54:52because she's going to feel like he is vulnerable. I think that's an element
- 54:57of it. And I don't think she's even aware of the double standards that
- 55:02she's holding men too, that she literally is describing or wanting a man who
- 55:08is more self regulating, smarter, has more to give, is more than
- 55:15her in exchange for whatever she is as a woman. So this attitude that
- 55:22you want a man who is better than you, who can protect you,
- 55:27that's fine. But how is it different than the women that you're deriding or
- 55:32is this a matter of a gang war over turf? You know, like,
- 55:38Oh, men can't like those women. They have to like women like
- 55:40me, Women who destroy parts of their face to try to achieve an arbitrary
- 55:46standard of beauty, and who are honestly superficially intellectual, but don't have the
- 55:54moral integrity to honest to I shouldn't say the word honestly. Who are seemed
- 56:00to be superficially intellectual in that they can speak eloquently, but are still sophists
- 56:06without the moral integrity to present a consistent world view, you know. Okay,
- 56:12all right, So it feels more like this is establishing your turf than
- 56:16it is a real a real criticism of women like that. What was the
- 56:22what was exactly okay, what exactly did she say about these women that she's
- 56:25calling out? Well, no, she didn't call out a woman, and
- 56:30she called out a man who said, Okay, get with a lower IQ
- 56:35woman from a good church in a rural area, and she'll she'll be a
- 56:40safe med. Right, that's what she's calling out, right, So she's
- 56:45calling out men who advocate for going for other men to go for women who
- 56:50are not like her. M yes, So she essentially she's trying to undercut
- 56:55the marketplace value of women who choose a different path, is what I'm saying,
- 57:00Who who have different characteristics. Yeah, yeah, different characteristics. So
- 57:07this this really seems to becoming coming down to Hannah Cox wants a man who
- 57:12can emotionally regulate better than her, but at the same time uses it to
- 57:16emotionally regulate her. So he doesn't just isn't like, oh, you're gonna
- 57:22you're gonna treatment with respect and then walk away, you know. No,
- 57:25he has to stay and help her emotionally, and also a man who's okay
- 57:32with giving her gifts which will not be reciprocated, giving her compliments which will
- 57:37not be reciprocated, giving her basic things that improve her life, like vacations
- 57:42and probably payment for mortgages and all that which will not be reciprocated, you
- 57:46know, and she wants a man who will accept that she is emotionally detached,
- 57:52that she regards him with an attitude that she doesn't want to become a
- 57:55victim of him, so it regards him with suspicion, but cannot turn around.
- 58:00I want to do the same to her. So he should be open
- 58:01to her, but she doesn't have to be open to him, Like there
- 58:06are so many double standards in what she's expecting it's insane. And honestly,
- 58:13it all comes down to if if they if they want to be really honest,
- 58:16I want to be the weaker party in the relationship. I want to
- 58:20be the child in the relationship. Oh okay, I wanna I want to
- 58:25have all the things that I have that my intelligence, my looks, whatever,
- 58:30I want them to benefit me alone, but not you, because it's
- 58:35it's just not fair if they do. That's what I'm getting, like just
- 58:38this this massive raft of double standards. I need a rock to lean on,
- 58:45but I can't be a rock. Yeah, I need a rock to
- 58:50lean on, but I don't have to open myself up to you. And
- 58:53it's like at that point, you know, you're asking for things you that
- 58:57are impossible to give. You can't have someone, it cannot be a rock
- 59:01without you opening up to them. That's the crazy ass thing. Like you
- 59:07are demanding when you say this man can't leave when you're disrespecting him, you
- 59:12are demanding that he emotionally regulate you and be your rock. But at the
- 59:15same time, at the very beginning, you talk about how, oh you
- 59:17need to be emotionally detached. Okay, well you can't have both because how
- 59:25how are you supposed to treat How was somebody supposed to be your rock if
- 59:30you cannot attach to that rock? Okay, go ahead. Do you remember
- 59:35do you guys remember the movie Babe Pig in the City. I'd never actually
- 59:42watched that, but I've seen the memes. Okay, well, okay,
- 59:46So the first movie was farmer Hoggett teaches his little pig to be a sheep
- 59:52dog and wins the competition. Right, and then at the beginning of the
- 59:57second movie Pig in the City, Right, and and missus Hoggitt is she's
- 1:00:02a strident woman. She's not very bright, She's like always yelling at armor
- 1:00:08Hoggett and all of that, right, and she's she's very like opinionated and
- 1:00:16not very bright, okay, but she she's like, oh my goodness,
- 1:00:22like hog Itt and his little pig won the sheep dog contest, right,
- 1:00:27Like that's amazing. And then at the beginning of the second movie, Hogitt
- 1:00:31falls down the well and breaks a bunch of bones and ends up in bed,
- 1:00:37and she's they're going to lose the farm because he can't work the farm.
- 1:00:42They're going to lose the farm. And so she's she's like, Okay,
- 1:00:49I got this offer to take this pig to some show, some TV
- 1:00:54show, and they're going to pay an appearance fee for this pig. I'm
- 1:00:58going to take this pig to go to this show. And it's it's the
- 1:01:04relationship between the Hoggins is beautiful because it's not always peaceful and it's not always
- 1:01:10wonderful. And she's yelling at him a lot, and he's being very quiet
- 1:01:15and reticent and you know, just not responding a lot. Right, But
- 1:01:20when he's laid up and she needs to step up to the plate and make
- 1:01:24things happen, she goes through and this movie Babe Pig in the City,
- 1:01:30she goes through like one hell of a fricking series of horrible, horrible things,
- 1:01:37right, in order to get the money to save the farm. And
- 1:01:44I'm like, well, this is that's love. Yeah, love, It
- 1:01:49doesn't it doesn't matter that they're like these these sixty year old people who and
- 1:01:54she yells at him and she's impatient with him, and he's just he just
- 1:01:59sighs and wanders off and does his own thing. And no, they have
- 1:02:04each other's backs, they are each other's rocks. And when farmer hog It
- 1:02:08is laid up, she takes the reins and saves the fucking farm. Right.
- 1:02:15And it was not feminist in any way whatsoever. Right, it was
- 1:02:20just how partnerships are supposed to go. That's just how things are supposed to
- 1:02:25work when you're married, when you're with someone, right, And I just
- 1:02:34this is what I absolutely loved the franchise, the first two movies. Right.
- 1:02:39I don't know if there were any others after that, but I absolutely
- 1:02:43love these two movies because it's like, you know, you have this couple
- 1:02:49like similar to my parents, the Bickersons. Right, neither of them are
- 1:02:53very bright, but they are very diligent, right, very devoted, very
- 1:03:05responsible, very stable, right at least within even missus Hoggitt. You know,
- 1:03:13she's constantly yelling and shrieking and stuff, but she's stable in her commitment
- 1:03:19to her husband and the farm. Right, And you have this situation and
- 1:03:24I'm looking at this bitch and I'm like, I wouldn't touch her with a
- 1:03:29ten foot poll. I'd rather marry missus Hoggitt. Yeah, well yes,
- 1:03:34because there's two things wrong with this, two things wrong with what she's displaying
- 1:03:40about herself unconsciously. One she doesn't know how to love, and two she
- 1:03:47doesn't know how to be loved. Because if she's talking about always demanding respect
- 1:03:53and staying emotionally detached, but men can't demand respect, They can't walk away
- 1:04:00when I'm having a tantrum because I need them to emotionally regulate myself. She's
- 1:04:04incapable of attaching to a person in order for them to be a rock.
- 1:04:09I mean, because at the very least you could say of the surrendered wives,
- 1:04:14they're cultivating the virtues necessary to be able to attach to a man as
- 1:04:17a rock. You know what I mean, you know, patience, submission,
- 1:04:24trust. Presumably they're cultivating all of those virtues and able in order to
- 1:04:29able to allow themselves to open up and be vulnerable to a man. In
- 1:04:32that way, she is demanding. She is demanding the benefits of submitting to
- 1:04:40a man while retaining the dominant position. And if I told her that,
- 1:04:45she'd say, well what, I don't what you want a man to stay
- 1:04:50there and tolerate your emotional disrespect? What does that mean? It means you
- 1:04:56want him to be your emotional regular system, which means you want him to
- 1:05:01be your rock, which means you are actually functionally submitting to him. Okay,
- 1:05:08And at the same time as you want to retain a dominant position by
- 1:05:13remaining emotionally detached. You want so many things and they're incompatible and you will
- 1:05:20never get them, and you will never have a relationship that fulfills you because
- 1:05:25you are not You are not developing the skills in and of yourself to be
- 1:05:30in a relationship right to be able to either submit to a man as your
- 1:05:36rock, as your rock, or to be in a partnership in which you
- 1:05:42both are able to be each other's rocks. Okay, Like you're just and
- 1:05:47at some level you need to develop the discipline and the emotional regulation to even
- 1:05:53be in a relationship, and you're not even doing that you're foisting it on
- 1:05:56men. Do you even see men as human being? Okay, okay,
- 1:06:01I'm still trying to get past the fact that neither of you know'brian have seen
- 1:06:05either of the Babe movies. Okay, sure that it's been an hour.
- 1:06:12Should we go? Yeah? We should probably. Okay, So just to
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- 1:08:02a fucking problem. You fucking doctor y on king jam Ra got king spunk.
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- 1:08:59there, Brian, all right, I got a super child from Richard.
- 1:09:02Pierre gives us fifty dollars. Thank you sir so much. All right,
- 1:09:08all right, that was not Richard. Oh Great Indoors. I'm sorry,
- 1:09:13I always get those two mixed up. Sorry, Great Indoors gave us fifty,
- 1:09:16he says, honey for the Badgers. A bit of a blue Monday
- 1:09:20for me, as today is the day my nephew hanged himself three years ago.
- 1:09:25I have to add that you didn't reach out to his immediate family,
- 1:09:27saying how he was feeling, just in case anybody would throw that into my
- 1:09:31face. After an uncle of mine passed away last month from cancer, his
- 1:09:35widow now has received news she has breast cancer herself. Pop it off.
- 1:09:41Had to euthanize the parakeet today because of cancer as well, two months after
- 1:09:45I buried my other parakeet so much death was suffering. Good thing Hannah Cox
- 1:09:49is here to tell me to do better. We men just wouldn't make it
- 1:09:53without the likes of her. Jeff's kiss. Oh good lord, don't take
- 1:09:58Hannah Cox to heart. I don't like her compass is spinning so fast.
- 1:10:03I'm surprised she still has a vestibulatory system. Oh yeah, no, See
- 1:10:11to the audience, that means the chamber in your inner ear with like the
- 1:10:15really fine hairs that when fluid moves, it tells you what's up, what's
- 1:10:20down, and what's spinning and what's not. Thank you for clarifying. Yeah,
- 1:10:27I know I can be pretty confusing, but yeah, I just mean
- 1:10:30that she's she just she doesn't have a consistent position, So it's like she
- 1:10:35has absolutely no balance in her life and no sense of basic sense of integrity.
- 1:10:41Or at least emotion or it's like intellectual consistency would be nice, you
- 1:10:45know, just some intellectual consistency. But anyway, we will continue with our
- 1:10:49discussion of this Hannah Cox and her frame work, shall we say? I
- 1:10:57think I'm using frame and work in her cos and her Coxwattle. I will
- 1:11:01try not to comment anymore on her lower lip. I'm just like i' it
- 1:11:09really bugs me when people damage their muscles, you know, even liposuction,
- 1:11:14like I can understand it, but when when you start damaging something as fundamental
- 1:11:17to your well being as your muscles, it just bugs the hell out of
- 1:11:20me. Oh, I don't know what that is. But anyway, it's
- 1:11:26just my own conceit, I suppose. So anyway, we are going to
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