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Magnifying Jesus In A Self-Focused World With Morgan Krueger · She Speaks Life - Christian Women, Strengthen Your Faith, Bible Study, Grow Spiritually In Christ

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  Hey friends, welcome back to She Speaks Life.
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  I'm so grateful you are here today for a conversation that I
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  know is going to minister to so many hearts.
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  Have you ever felt the pole to live for approval, to keep up
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  appearances or to chase success in a world that constantly tells
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  us life is all about you? Or maybe you felt the pressure
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  to be the perfect mom, look a certain way, achieve more or
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  prove your worth. If so, today's episode is for
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  you. I am joined by Morgan Kruger.
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  She is the author of made to magnify choosing to live for
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  Jesus when everything tells you to live for yourself.
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  In this powerful book, Morgan invites readers to move beyond a
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  self focused life. Resist the temptation to chase
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  personal glory and praise and step into the joy, peace, and
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  fulfillment God intended for each one of us.
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  She shares how Jesus frees us from the unrealistic pressures
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  of culture, whether it's appearance, motherhood, success,
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  or more, and invites us into a life changing freedom found only
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  in Him. Through her personal journey
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  from shame to surrender, along with biblical truth, Morgan
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  points us to lasting change, renewed confidence, and a life
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  that truly magnifies Christ. This conversation is honest,
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  encouraging, and full of hope. So if you're ready to stop
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  striving and start living for the One who created you, let's
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  dive in. Here's my guest, Morgan Krueger.
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  Hey Morgan, welcome to She Speaks Life.
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  I'm excited about our conversation we will be having.
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  Thanks, Jamie. Thanks for having me.
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  It's so great to meet you and just getting to chat a little
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  bit before this and get to know each other's hearts and
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  different seasons of life and different States and all of
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  that. But so sweet to just connect
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  with a sister that yeah, we have so much in common on a heart
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  level. So it's been great to be here
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  already. Yes, absolutely.
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  And I love your message that you have written about.
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  You have a newly released book called Made to Magnify Choosing
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  to live for Jesus when everything tells you to live for
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  yourself. And you know, I can relate.
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  Years ago, I was just strangled by the worldly things and the
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  materialism and just fall in that trap of not knowing my true
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  identity and just really self focused.
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  And I think we see this a lot everywhere we go.
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  And it's it's a culture that we live in and we're gonna just get
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  into the nitty gritty of this important message.
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  But before we do, I always love to ask each guest what is a
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  scripture verse that is resonating with them and why?
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  Yeah, thanks for asking that. And I feel like I have to share
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  the verse that has honestly shaped the past two years of my
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  life. And it comes out of Luke 1,
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  verses 46 to 47. And a little bit of context.
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  It is spoken by Jesus's mother, Mary.
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  And you know, we're both Mamas, Jamie.
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  We can relate with just this idea of preparing for life and
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  getting to step into something new.
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  But I'll read it and then I'll kind of share the why behind it.
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  But basically she says, she says, my soul magnifies the Lord
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  and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.
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  And I think it's easy to read this and be like, oh, what a
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  sweet verse. But if we understand the
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  cultural moment and the context behind this, it's actually
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  pretty amazing. Basically, you know, Mary has
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  been visited by the Angel, been told that she will carry the Son
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  of God, And then on top of that, her cousin Elizabeth comes and
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  just prophecies and blesses her with this prayer of who Jesus
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  will be and the life that he will live.
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  And Mary had every single cultural reason to fear.
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  She had every reason in that moment to make a narrative and
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  make the story about herself. You know, technically during
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  that time there was a death sentence for having a baby
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  outside of marriage, and there was so many complexities to the
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  situation. But Mary, the mother of Jesus,
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  she was so fixated not on herself, not on her
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  circumstances, but on her Savior that she could not just say,
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  God, I trust you. She went above and beyond to say
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  my soul magnifies the Lord and my spirit not only accepts
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  what's happening but rejoices in God.
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  My savior and I just, you know, a couple years ago when I read
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  that with fresh eyes, it's crazy.
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  The word being living and active.
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  We can read it so many times and then there's just parts
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  throughout our life and our seasons that I'm like, have I
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  ever read this before? I've memorized it, but have I
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  ever read it? And so I just was so struck,
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  Jamie, by that word magnify. And I was like, OK, what does
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  that mean? What was Mary really trying to
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  communicate? And the most simple definition I
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  could find of the word magnify just simply means to make great.
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  And so I was like, wow, Mary's heart and her life is so
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  postured and fixated on Jesus that her sole focus is to make
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  great the name of Jesus. And she, as we know, we know the
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  full story. She went on to do that in some
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  of the most beautiful ways as his mother.
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  And so that's a verse that I feel like the past couple years
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  has just been kind of a banner verse over my life and the the
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  real wrestle and the cry of my own heart, which obviously the
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  book came out of. But I just I I love the whole
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  idea behind that of like a magnifying and a rejoicing that
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  super Caesar circumstances. I love that.
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  That's beautiful. You're giving me this fresh
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  insight as well just by sharing that and blessing my heart with
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  that, you know, And just the magnifying to me too, is just
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  this praise, right? Praise over who he is.
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  And you said rejoice. And she's just filling herself
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  up with joy. And we know that joy that
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  strengthens us, right? And so let's hear about that cry
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  of your heart, like share a little bit of your back story.
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  Why is this message so important to you?
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  What has God done in your heart in this area?
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  Yeah. Yeah, I feel like, you know,
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  the, the the topics that we choose often times to talk about
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  are the ones that we need the most.
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  You know we don't. Speak.
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  I know for me, I'll just speak for myself.
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  I don't speak out of a place of here I am.
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  I'm the expert on this topic. But hey, wow, I'm just another
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  girl who needs this topic so badly because I'm living it
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  right. And I think for so many of us
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  women, we can just relate. Like you said in the beginning
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  of this conversation, just that tension that we all woke up with
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  this morning, even to make great something, you know, we, we are
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  created to magnify. We are created to make great.
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  We're going to magnify no matter what.
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  But the question is, and the question for me years ago really
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  became, am I going to make great my own name?
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  Am I going to make great my own achievements and my own
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  reputation and my accomplishments, or am I going
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  to wake up and make great the name of Jesus?
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  And a couple years ago, I really went through a lot of change.
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  Jamie, I, I was in a job that I transitioned out of.
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  We moved from one state to another.
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  All of a sudden I was becoming a new mom.
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  And there were so many things and, and these weren't bad
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  changes, but what happened was I realized there were a lot of
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  things that I was putting my identity in that were no longer
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  a part of my story. And I think I remember in that
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  season, God kind of brought me to Ephesians 4.
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  And Paul is very plainly, kind of lovingly as a father of the
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  faith, kind of calls him out. And he's like, do not be like an
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  infant who is tossed to and fro by the waves of every, you know,
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  cultural doctrine and idea and, and, and, you know, kind of like
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  moment of this day. And he kind of calls them
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  higher. He calls them to not be a infant
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  in the faith who's just tossed to and fro by our own feelings
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  and thoughts and cultural moment.
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  And I remember it resonated because I was like, that's
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  what's been happening. I'm walking with Jesus.
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  I love Jesus. But if we're not careful, we
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  wake up and our natural drift is not toward the things of God.
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  It's toward the things of self. And I realize over time, even
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  these good things, I had a good, I had a great job in ministry.
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  I had and have a wonderful marriage.
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  I, you know, I was so grateful for all these good things in my
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  life, but I was started to put my identity in them.
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  And if we have that order wrong, if it's, you know, work,
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  marriage, accepted all these things above our identity in
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  Christ, then it's just going to lead to anxiety.
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  It's going to lead to kind of the tossing to and fro the
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  waves. And so that's really what
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  happened a couple years ago. And I just cried out to God in
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  that season. I said, I don't want to ride the
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  waves anymore. I know that I'm going to need
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  to, you know, we're going to ride the waves throughout our
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  lives just when it comes to like we're not going to master this
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  topic because we're going to need Jesus everyday and we're
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  going to fall short. But I just was like, God, would
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  you grow me in this area? Would you sanctify me in a way
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  to where I look back years from now and I realize that I have
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  built my life on a firm foundation of you and I'm not so
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  easily tossed by human opinion or circumstances changing or
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  that desperate longing that so many of us have for the need for
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  approval, right? And so that's really where it
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  all started for me. And I just became a girl who
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  needed the message. And so the Lord just really
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  again, brought me to Luke 1, brought me to Ephesians 4,
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  showed me the characteristics of Jesus that we can learn from and
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  be formed by to be somebody who did what Jesus did in the best
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  way possible, which was magnify the Father.
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  And so anyways, that's kind of where it started for me.
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  But it's a journey, right? Like that's what I will say.
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  I didn't crack some code of like, hey, here's my 10 steps to
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  magnifying Jesus. But what I did find is from, you
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  know, studying of the word and Jesus, the life of of Jesus
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  himself, I found an invitation, which is so much better than a
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  strategy. I found an invitation to come
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  and to sit and to lay my burdens down and my heavy ladens and to
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  find rest in him and his identity.
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  So that's where it started for me.
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  And it's been a journey. It's been fun, but it's been a
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  daily invitation because it still falls short.
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  Like you said, you mentioned there's freedom when we choose
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  to glorify him and to focus on him and that, you know, obedient
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  life with him and choosing the right things.
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  And you know, I think of seek him first and everything else
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  will be added on to you. And it's so it's so true how
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  satisfying it is to walk inside his will versus doing things on
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  our own and having that inward, you know, self focus and trying
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  to do things on our own strength or ability or really letting our
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  mind get in the way, because that's where you know the
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  reasoning and what you think you should do.
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  Instead of going to the Holy Spirit and asking, Lord, you
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  give me the direction, what should I do?
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  Take it to him. And that is so common to forget
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  to do that in the little details, the little things, you
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  know, we may think of the bigger things to go to him, but he
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  wants to be in every arena in our life.
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  So we often sometimes even can start out well, like seeking
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  him. And then all the sudden we got
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  derail, we got a little off track and we just assumed this
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  is where God was taking us and it wasn't.
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  So every time we go to him, that's magnifying him.
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  I mean, he just gets thrilled when we're coming to him.
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  And that's so counter cultural, right?
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  I think that, you know, we woke up in a world today that
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  glorifies strength on our own, our own strength.
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  And I was talking to a friend yesterday and we kind of got to
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  this conclusion that weakness and neediness is actually a
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  superpower because whether we lean into it or not, we are weak
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  people, whether we acknowledge it or not.
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  We are neat. We're created to need.
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  But that is such a crazy concept to culture today of don't let
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  anyone see your weakness. Go out and be a boss, babe.
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  You can determine your destiny. You know, all these different
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  ideas. And no one's over there like,
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  hey, actually, like I'm going to boast like Paul did in my
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  weakness. Because when I'm weak, when I'm
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  willing to just embrace the fact that I'm weak, that's when I get
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  a strength that's so much better than my own, a strength from the
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  Holy Spirit. And so, yeah.
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  And I think so. I think it's like like you're
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  saying just that idea of coming to him and saying I need you
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  again and again and again. That is a huge way actually to
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  magnify Jesus to the world around you because it will be
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  shocking to people how you embrace your weakness instead of
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  trying to fight it. And I know for me, I'm a fighter
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  in that I'm like, no, I can white knuckle my way through
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  this situation, but God gets the glory and God is truly
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  magnified. He's made great through our
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  lives when we are willing to come and just be weak because
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  people, we'll see that and say, oh, that's a little different
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  than what I'm seeing around me. So even some of the basic stuff
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  like that can make a huge difference to our communities
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  and within our homes and, and and beyond so.
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  Yes, and you know, you often look at an eagle and how they
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  fly. They fly in higher altitudes
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  away from the rest of the flock. And I had heard not too long
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  ago, being an eagle Christian flying at higher altitudes and
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  being that that eagle that's set apart from the rest, right, And
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  not looking like everyone else. And you had mentioned in your
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  book, there's the cycle of self. And so how explain to us how
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  this keeps us from the self focus instead of focused on what
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  God is doing in our lives? Yeah, you kind of touched on
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  this beautifully earlier when you were saying that it's so
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  easy for us to just keep our eyes on our self.
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  And really anything that keeps our eyes on our self keeps our
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  eyes off God. And so the cycle of self that I
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  talk about is just some of the biggest hindrances, I think, to
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  the believer and the non believer.
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  But even us who are walking with Jesus, we struggle in these
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  areas because they just keep us fixated and focused and anxious
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  on our lives instead of looking up to the one who's writing the
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  better story for our life. So the cycle of self, like I
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  like to call it, is 3 different areas.
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  The 1st is pride. I know, you know, I've heard it
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  said before that that the, the people who are most prideful are
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  the ones that say they don't struggle with pride, You know,
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  because the reality is, I don't know that I've never met someone
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  who's truly immune to the struggle of pride.
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  And I see this play out the most in my marriage, honestly.
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  You know, we're raising little kids, we're trying to figure
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  out. And pride is just basically
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  saying, I know best. You know, pride was one of the
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  original sins in the garden because the serpent convinced
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  Adam and Eve that they know better, that he knows better.
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  They know better. Who is God to say what's best?
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  You know, And that pride just, like, snuck in there.
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  And their eyes right after that, what happened when they ate of
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  that fruit, their eyes were just on themselves and they realized
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  they were naked and they hid themselves.
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  And so pride is just a huge area that separates us from God.
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  And then the second is fear. And I feel like fear is a little
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  bit more of a delicate one, but the reality is like also, I've
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  never met someone who is fully immune to the struggle of fear,
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  pride, fear. And then the last one is doubt.
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  God is the one who can speak into every fear, every doubt,
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  every area of pride that we have.
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  And he is the one. He's the way, the truth, the
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  life. Nobody comes to the Father
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  except through Jesus. So Jesus is the truth.
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  He's going to set our doubts straight.
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  He is going to be the one to speak truth into them.
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  So that's the cycle of self. I know there are more topics
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  that kind of keep us navel gazing or inward focus, but you
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  know, based on just research and conversation and Scripture, I
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  feel like those are the themes that we really struggle with.
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  And, and you know, any of those that keep our eyes on our self
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  are going to keep our eyes off God.
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  And so when we are willing to just be honest and have these
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  real, honest conversations with each other and with God, I think
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  that we are magnifying Jesus again, one upward gaze at a
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  time. Yeah, that's so good.
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  Those are the three majors, you know, pride from the beginning,
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  you know, fear. That was one of those that you
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  said, you know, I don't know why.
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  You know, I've read the scripture verse over and over
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  again and all of a sudden like a light bulb goes off, right, Like
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  you haven't read it before. And that was years ago for me
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  when I realized, oh, for God has not given you a spirit of fear,
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  but a power, love and sound mind.
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  Well, I saw spirit of fear and I'm like, wow, fear is a spirit,
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  you know, and that kind of fear is a spirit.
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  And so I looked at that and I'm like, Oh my gosh, well, I don't
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  I don't need to receive that. You know, that's not that
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  doesn't belong to me. That's not my inheritance.
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  That's not me being Co heirs of Jesus.
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  And and and so when I recognize that that was the spirit that
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  helps me to go, okay, I can look at all these scripture versus
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  all these promises and attach it to whatever fear is happening,
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  you know, in my life, right. And you know, of course, you
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  know Jesus, he's a scripture for his written and you know, and as
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  you were talking about doubt, you, you read that scripture
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  verse, you know, those who believe and have faith and
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  believe and then speak it out and do not doubt in the heart.
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  You know, you can say to this mountain move.
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  You know, this mountain is like the obstacles in our life,
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  right? And he knows what I love about
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  the Lord. And his word is He knows already
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  our humanity and the struggles that we will be going through.
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  So that's why he's saying do not doubt because faith is like what
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  you need and it can be as small as a mustard seed, right?
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  And he's reassuring us that we can rely on what he says, who he
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  is and, and what he says in Scripture.
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  And so I always love that scripture verse too, that
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  reassures me that he's got this, you know, and I could do my part
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  by, you know, sharing and, and speaking out.
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  I mean, this podcast called She Speaks.
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  Like. Speaking life, speaking truth
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  and and then and then leave, living it out.
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  But I think that revelation comes not just by speaking.
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  I think there's action behind that.
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  We could we could say and speak and and declare, but also
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  there's a requirement for actually us doing what the word
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  says and then that and not just be hearers like it says in
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  James. And then that's when the
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  revelation and that root really like sinks into our hearts,
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  right? And we actually start looking
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  like that eagle Christian set apart.
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  Good. That's good.
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  It makes me think of the, the time I love the story when the
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  disciples are, you know, in the, the storm and Jesus just
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  casually comes up on the water and he and Peter's like, tell me
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  to come, Lord, you know, he's so eager for the moment and Jesus
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  says come and he gets out and he starts to sink because of his
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  fears. And I would say his doubt, he
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  probably was struggling with pride, fear and doubt all in
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  that one moment. And he starts to sink and he
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  does the thing that I think is what we're talking about.
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  He just calls out to Jesus like he he's willing to take the step
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  toward Jesus in the midst of his fear of his outs of his pride.
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  And it says that that the the Greek word is euthaeos.
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  It says that he immediately reaches out his hand and grabs
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  Peter. And that's what I love Jesus
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  isn't saying, hey, go journey it on your own.
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  He's like, just take a step toward me in your weakness, in
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  your doubt, in your fear, take a step toward me and I euthaeos.
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  I immediately, without hesitation, will reach out and I
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  will pick you up and I will lead you on the path with me in my
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  strength. And so, yeah, it is like there
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  is a role to play, but I think the role is almost like fall
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  into Jesus, like fall toward him, call out to him, call upon
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  his name and his spirit and rebuke that spirit of fear.
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  You know, we need to be women of boldness, knowing that we have
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  the Holy Spirit inside of us to rebuke spirits of fear, to
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  rebuke a spirit of, of even doubting, and to call the name
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  of Jesus to be able to, you know, give us that strength.
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  Yeah, absolutely. And going back to the story of
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  walking on the water, you know, it just shows us don't put our
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  attention on the fear, on the on the problem, right.
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  He's like when he focused on the storm, you know, then it's like,
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  oh, he left his eyes from Jesus, right.
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  Then he focused back on Jesus. But then it's like Jesus doesn't
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  go, oh, you're on your own. Sorry.
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  You looked at the storm, you looked at your circumstances.
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  I can't help you. But no, he like reaches out with
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  that compassion. And when you are sharing that,
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  it was just showing me how compassionate and merciful our
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  God really is. And so one of the things you had
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  brought in detention on this book is about blame.
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  And I couldn't help when you brought up the pride in Genesis.
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  Now Adam immediately is like blaming the woman, you know.
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  And, and so there's a lot of blame going on right in the
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  beginning of creation. So there are some of us out
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  there that can blame culture for our struggles.
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  Well, I can't help it. It's everywhere.
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  Are you know, everyone's doing it, you know, or is it really a
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  sin, you know, because culture makes it so acceptable?
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  Why is this such a dangerous road to journey on?
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  What did you get out of that bit of wisdom there that you put in
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  your book? Yeah.
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  Well, Jamie, you said it so well.
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  I mean, we can track so many of the things that we're talking
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  about in this conversation. Just back to the beginning.
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  You know, there was a spirit of blame from the start.
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  Like you said, Adam blamed Eve, Eve blamed the serpent.
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  And it just kind of could. I bet it would have gone round.
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  Have you ever been in like, a silly conversation with your
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  spouse or with like a friend or whatever?
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  And the conversation, the argument, she's going round and
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  round and round and, yeah. And all of a sudden you're like,
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  how did this start? What are we even saying?
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  I sound so silly, you know, And I bet that's kind of a little
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  bit what was happening in that situation.
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  But, you know, we did wake up in a cultural moment this this
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  morning that I think we need to be aware of.
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  There's no such thing as being unformed.
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  We are being formed by every single thing around us.
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  But I think there is a danger in kind of looking and saying, Oh,
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  well, the problem is out there. That's the problem.
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  I walk outside my door and I see this.
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  I see the polarization of of two sides politically.
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  Or I walk out my door and I see, you know, I'm, I'm so met with
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  the brokenness of of, you know, the way that we are idolizing
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  ourselves. And, you know, it's so easy for
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  us to do that. But the reality is it's not just
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  out there. It's in here.
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  Like I woke up this morning in my spirit with a war being waged
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  to either magnify myself or magnify Jesus.
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  And so I think there's an ownership that that, you know,
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  if, if we want to be sanctified, if we want to look more like
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  Jesus, we have to start there. We have to say it's not an out
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  there issue. You know, Ephesians 6 touches on
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  this. We are not at war with flesh and
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  blood. Our neighbor are like the people
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  who oppose us and oppose Christianity.
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  They're not the problem. Psalm 139, David just cries out
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  to God, search me, Oh God, try me, know me, like point out
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  anything in me that grieves your heart and lead me in the path of
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  everlasting life. He's desperate for that Search
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  me like the problem is right here and I need you, Jesus.
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  And so I think that's where that's a great place for any one
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  of us to start is to say, let's lay down kind of the the battle
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  lines that we might be drawing in culture or when we walk
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  outside of our door and let's just start right here.
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  And if each of us, I know it's so much easier said than done,
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  But if each of us, especially us in Christ, if we are willing to
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  survey our hearts and bring them before the Lord, and then not
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  just inward gaze, but also just look up, then I think that
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  that's where the work of life change and sanctification really
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  happens. So I think as women, we're
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  called to be aware of our cultural moment, but we're also
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  supposed to understand that just like Adam and Eve, the origin of
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  the sin is, is, is right here. You know, Isaiah talks about
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  that like we, like sheep have gone astray, every single one of
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  us. But the good news is that God
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  has laid on him, on Jesus, the iniquity, the sin, the
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  brokenness of us all. So that's where we find our
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  hope. But we have to start knowing
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  that it's, it's in here. And that's the that's the hard
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  stuff, right? That's not always easy, but it's
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  it's holy work. It totally is.
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  And I can't help but think of we're in this world, but we're
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  not of this world. And I can't help but think also,
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  so many people don't want to go through the the hard right, the
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  sacrifices. They want convenience.
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  And, you know, our human nature wants that not necessarily to be
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  in obedience in every arena in our life, right?
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  Because, you know, maybe that seems harder and we want to do
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  things easier, but we want the benefits and we want the awards
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  and the blessings and the favor that God gives us when we do
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  walk in alignment with him. So I think, you know, this
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  culture, you know, obviously you've got everything at your
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  fingertips. And I just think that sometimes
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  us believers, Christians, we, you don't want to actually lay
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  down those things that we may enjoy or their habits that
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  you're stuck in and you can't get out of.
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  And you want to get out of it, but you haven't actually gone
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  through the hard part to get rid of.
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  You know what we're talking about sin or things that are
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  not, you know, holy godly, there's a sacrifice there.
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  There is a sacrifice. And I think I think as women, we
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  we do struggle with this fear of like, God, if I make this change
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  or I let this go or I focus less on myself, like who's going to
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  take care of me, right? And I think that this idea and I
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  just want to speak to the listener that just resonated
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  with what you said, Jamie. Maybe they have something in
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  their life that feels like a habitual struggle, or they're
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  just like wrestling their deep need for control, whatever it
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  may be. You know, as women, we, we
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  genuinely struggle to to let go of this stuff because we're
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  doers. We're doers.
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  Give us a good list and we can get it done and we're work
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  horses and we love the doing. But you know the the ask of
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  Jesus when he says in Matthew 11, come to me, all you who
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  labor and are heavy laden, I'll give you rest.
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  His invitation is basically saying you can let go of this
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  stuff. You can let go of these
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  struggles, this brokenness, this need for control out of a deep
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  trust that as you look to your Heavenly Father, He's going to
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  take care of you. He sees your true desires.
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  He sees the path to sanctification.
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  He sees what needs to happen to restore you from the areas of
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  life that have caused some hurts along the way.
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  And so I think it just feels scary.
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  It can feel scary for us to let go, whatever that thing is for
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  you, who, whoever is listening, whatever that thing is for you.
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  I know it can feel scary, but what if we have such a deep
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  trust for our heavenly Father that we know that we can let it
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  go because he is never letting go of us.
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  And I think that's where the ask to come to him because kind of
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  get some legs to it if like, oh, we're not just like blindly
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  trusting, but we were deeply trusting in the God of the Bible
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  and that he's the God of our story.
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  Yes. And we have so many testimonies
• 29:27
  and scripture and we came and look back on our own past and
• 29:32
  see where he's been faithful. And that's why it's so key to go
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  to the word and read all about who our Creator is, who our God
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  is, that we serve. OK, I'm to have to come to this
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  conclusion. I love chatting with you.
• 29:48
  This has been so much fun, but I love going to the take away,
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  something that the listener can ponder on or take action in and
• 29:56
  where people can buy your book. Oh, that's such a good question.
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  The take away, Well, I always, I'm going to go a little bit
• 30:05
  practical because it's so easy to have these kind of like faith
• 30:09
  conversations and all this has been so good.
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  But I know for the reader, I mean the listener sometimes
• 30:14
  like, OK, now what? You know, what do I do?
• 30:16
  And I will just say this, you were never made to magnify
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  alone. We are made to magnify Jesus by
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  the power of his Spirit, but also the gift of community.
• 30:30
  God has modeled for us before the beginning of time that he
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  existed and he still does today in community.
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  How much more powerful is it when we magnify Jesus?
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  We make great the name of Jesus alongside others who can run
• 30:44
  that race with us. And so whether that looks like
• 30:48
  accountability, whether that looks like confession, whether
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  that looks like reaching out for prayer.
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  What is 1 action step that you can take today to magnify Jesus
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  in the in the in the community that God is calling you to?
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  And maybe you don't have that person.
• 31:02
  That's a really good place to start praying.
• 31:05
  Pray for just one person. I'm such an advocate for not
• 31:08
  everyone needs to know everything about our story, but
• 31:10
  everybody needs somebody who knows everything about our
• 31:13
  story. So who could that be for you?
• 31:15
  Don't magnify Jesus alone. And so I hope that's a practical
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  kind of action step for anyone listening.
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  And then you're so sweet to ask about my book.
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  You can pretty much get it anywhere.
• 31:27
  Books are sold online. And then it's also in stores at
• 31:31
  Barnes and Nobles around the country.
• 31:32
  So and then if people want to stay connected, they can just
• 31:36
  learn more about my heart and what God's done through my story
• 31:39
  at my website, morgankruger.com. I love it.
• 31:42
  Thank you Morgan. Is this your first book?
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  This is my second book, yes, second book, yes, second baby.
• 31:50
  It's called goodbye hiding, hello, freedom, trading your
• 31:53
  shame for redemption and Jesus. So yes, yeah, just super honored
• 31:58
  to write that. And I feel like there was
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  little, little Nuggets of of that journey that God put me on
• 32:03
  that we talked about today too. So I hope that the listeners
• 32:06
  encourage. 2 great books right there.
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  So thank you Morgan for coming on here and sharing your book
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  with us called Made to magnify. I loved having our conversation.
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  You're so precious. Having me, Jamie, thank you so
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  much. Thank you so much for listening
• 32:22
  today, and I trust that God has encouraged you through this
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  And For more information on this ministry and to access free
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  That's JAYE meelizabeth.com and let's connect beyond this
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  Until next time, my friend, I hope God reveals himself through
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  your own life story.