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EP #51 - The Medical Reason Will Wets The Bed + A Bathtime Dad Hack | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 3: When Will call me this morning, this is this is
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  Speaker 3: a true story.
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  Speaker 1: Coffee's flowing, piss is hot, I'm ready for a great souk.
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  Speaker 1: Can we just let's get a lot of time. Oh.
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  Speaker 3: Will called me this morning. This is a true story.
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  Speaker 3: He got me a little birthday gift. Thank you, Willie.
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  Speaker 1: See.
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  Speaker 3: But he started off the call, he was like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: kind of a cold little spring morning. It's raining in Nashville.
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  Speaker 1: Sureman.
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  Speaker 3: And when I woke up this morning, there was steam
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  Speaker 3: coming out of my toilet as ip. I said, whoa
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  Speaker 3: is that normal? Like, what's going on? And he said,
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  Speaker 3: my pisses is hot?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, it's for the Dad's day.
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  Speaker 1: It's where the Dad's day? Did? Was your pissot steaming?
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  Speaker 3: I go golllyye, I got it, Like whatever you got.
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  Speaker 1: Going on, I need to get going on. But it did.
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  Speaker 1: Did I hit you with the nice little birthday gives
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  Speaker 1: you ever nicotine pouches?
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  Speaker 3: And he got the vibes up so early.
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  Speaker 1: You were fired up on the phone. I was I'm
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  Speaker 1: driving on the gas station.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I know suirm like I kind of put
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  Speaker 3: them on this gas station it's got his roll decks
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  Speaker 3: of everything, all the things that he loves.
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  Speaker 1: It's kind of out of his way, it is. Let
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  Speaker 1: me just call and check in on the boy and
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  Speaker 1: be like, Hey, I'm popping over to the local gas station,
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  Speaker 1: the local watering hole. Would you like me to pick
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  Speaker 1: you up some of your favorite blank?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I felt like I was a member of PT Fix
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  Speaker 3: in that moment, because when I was a member of
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  Speaker 3: PT Fix and working construction, my boy Evan and I were.
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  Speaker 1: Often doing that with each other.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, I'm running by that Chick fil A where you
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  Speaker 3: always love getting the Chick fil A, you know, breakfast biscuit.
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  Speaker 3: You want me to grab you one? Hey, you want
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  Speaker 3: me to get you a red Bull? You want me
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  Speaker 3: to get you brought me back to the PT Fixed days, dude,
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  Speaker 3: getting my nicotine right, and uh yeah, it was just
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  Speaker 3: kind of like drowsy driving in this morning, super rainy day.
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  Speaker 3: I was having to concentrate like super hard as I
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  Speaker 3: was driving in. I get a phone call like that
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  Speaker 3: woke me up.
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  Speaker 1: It's been raining like crazy here in Nashville.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, it's gonna be raining all week too, and it dude,
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  Speaker 3: that's my dad loss this week that's my dad loss.
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  Speaker 3: We don't have to get at it because I know
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  Speaker 3: we got some housekeeping stuff we got to get into first.
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  Speaker 1: We'll get into the dad losses. We'll get into ruheader.
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  Speaker 1: Last day of school, so it was now home for
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  Speaker 1: the summer. I'm playing, what is it, Alice Cooper, School's out,
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  Speaker 1: School's out for summer?
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  Speaker 2: Is that Alice Cooper?
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  Speaker 1: Cool summer? This is yeah? I'm like, oh, sweetheart, this
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  Speaker 1: is your first time experiencing summer. We got to do
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  Speaker 1: it up for you. Get to sleep in a little
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  Speaker 1: bit more slower mornings. But ruheader last day of school
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  Speaker 1: last week, we'll dive into that stuff. I also have
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  Speaker 1: some follow ups that'll help kick this off because on
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  Speaker 1: last week's episode, if you guys tuned in, especially if
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  Speaker 1: you listen to the whole thing, I get into how
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  Speaker 1: I pissed the bed over the weekend last last weekend.
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  Speaker 1: This week, yeah, pt piss. I do feel like I
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  Speaker 1: have some new some updates with pissing the bed. An
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  Speaker 1: answer possibly that I feel like I came across you
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  Speaker 1: actually do. Because I was signaling to the world last week.
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  Speaker 1: I was curious if there are bedwinners out there at
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  Speaker 1: the age of thirty six. Yeah, with father of two
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  Speaker 1: if there are other bed wetters out there, because there's
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  Speaker 1: a part of me it's like, yeah, it's embarrassing, it's
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  Speaker 1: fucking a little insecure about it.
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  Speaker 2: But this is the same.
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  Speaker 1: We're in the trust tree for the dads and papa
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  Speaker 1: team sits and the moms that listen, like you guys
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  Speaker 1: out there that have your giggles, Like, just know that
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  Speaker 1: I am insecure talking about it, but also I feel
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  Speaker 1: safe with you guys.
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  Speaker 3: And I want you to now I think you already
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  Speaker 3: know this. I laugh because you make me laugh about it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know, I know, I know, I know.
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  Speaker 1: Here's a great follow up from Coach Webb ninety nine
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  Speaker 1: oh three, and I saw this comment last week and
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  Speaker 1: it didn't make me laugh out loud. Repeat a fender
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  Speaker 1: by the way, Coach web between Will's math acumen bed wedding,
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  Speaker 1: remember I put that math problem together, mathcumen, bed wedding,
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  Speaker 1: and incredible successes in multiple careers, it would be a
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  Speaker 1: crime not to donate his body to science after his passing.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good comment, Coach, Well, that's a good cover.
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  Speaker 1: So my god, as you guys know, I pissed the
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  Speaker 1: bed for a very long time. About fourteen it started
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  Speaker 1: to trickle off, But there's spots, there's moments to where
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  Speaker 1: I've still kind of pissed the bed. Usually I wake
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  Speaker 1: myself up when I'm in the middle of a piss
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  Speaker 1: and this is like a couple times a year.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, not that that makes it any better, but with
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  Speaker 2: my age.
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  Speaker 3: It's it's something that's going on. You know, we're just
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  Speaker 3: dealing with it. Last weekend, I just pissed the bed. Fully,
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  Speaker 3: I've also learned how do I even set this up.
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  Speaker 3: Let me take you back to twenty.
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  Speaker 1: And eighteen free agency when I was getting a physical
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  Speaker 1: with the Buffalo Bills, and I've spoken about this on
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  Speaker 1: Busting with the Boys.
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  Speaker 2: I've spoken about this before.
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  Speaker 1: I even think we did a vlog and Under the
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  Speaker 1: Hood where I went on a doctor's visit back in
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  Speaker 1: like twenty twenty or twenty twenty one, whenever I got
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  Speaker 1: a brain MRI. Yeah, but when I was in free
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  Speaker 1: agency and they were giving me a physical, so they're
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  Speaker 1: doing all my scans, all my MRIs from previous injuries,
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  Speaker 1: I would have stinger issue. I've had stingers before, I've
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  Speaker 1: had concussions, I've had a spinal cord concussion that sounds
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  Speaker 1: way worse than how it sounds, and so they're just
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  Speaker 1: scanning me in case I were to sign with the
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  Speaker 1: Buffalo Bills. They're checking their investment. Yeah, they're checking their investment.
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  Speaker 1: It felt like it was going to be a promising
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  Speaker 1: visit to where when I was going to leave Buffalo
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  Speaker 1: on that free agent visit, to where I was going
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  Speaker 1: to have a contract with Buffalo. And they're doing my scans.
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  Speaker 1: They do a c spine MRI, very very normal, very common.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm meeting with the defensive coordinator coach Fraser, I'm
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  Speaker 1: meeting with the linebacker coach, and I'm actually in the
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  Speaker 1: middle of watching film about their defensive philosophy, where I
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  Speaker 1: fit in, where I fit in their scheme, all of
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  Speaker 1: these things. An athletic trainer comes in the room. Knock, knock, Hey, coach,
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  Speaker 1: do you mind if we pull Will out for a
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  Speaker 1: little bit? Absolutely? Do you know what we're going to
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  Speaker 1: get him back? We don't know right now, but we
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  Speaker 1: will let you know as soon as we you know,
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  Speaker 1: as soon as we talked.
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  Speaker 3: To wellt row Is right. Yeah, I'm sitting there, I'm like, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: that's kind of weird. Go into the training room.
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  Speaker 1: They have my c spine MRI up on the white
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  Speaker 1: highlighted when you know where they got the scans on
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  Speaker 1: the deal, and they're like, do you see this white mass?
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  Speaker 1: And obviously I'll have the photo to chef so he
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  Speaker 1: can have it up on the screen while I'm talking
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  Speaker 1: through this, but he's like, do you see this white
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  Speaker 1: mask that is in your brain?
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  Speaker 2: At that moment, it was we don't know what this is.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a I'm not a what is it a neurologist.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a brain doctor. Yeah, I'm not a brain doctor.
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  Speaker 1: And they're like, we don't know what this is, and
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  Speaker 1: we would like to get another MRI on your brain
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  Speaker 1: to fully understand the entire picture. And I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: so YadA, YadA, YadA, And the doc tells me we're
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  Speaker 1: not talking about football right now. We are talking about
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  Speaker 1: this could be a tumor, this could be cancerous. We
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  Speaker 1: don't know. And I obviously like, those are scary things
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  Speaker 1: that I'm telling you, but we just need to get
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  Speaker 1: an MRI as soon as possible. So I asked the doctor,
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  Speaker 1: all right, do I need to get one here? And
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  Speaker 1: he's like, I recommend we fly you back to DC
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  Speaker 1: because I was with the Washington Redskins at the time.
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  Speaker 1: Recommend we fly you back to DC so you can
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  Speaker 1: be around people that are closer in your circle. So
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  Speaker 1: antennas are going up in my brain like, oh, this
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  Speaker 1: seems like a pretty severe thing that's happening that they
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  Speaker 1: just don't know about. And I see this white mass
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  Speaker 1: just sitting.
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  Speaker 2: On my brain.
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  Speaker 1: You're looking at this scan thinking holy fuck.
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  Speaker 3: Like and for audio listeners that didn't see the image
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  Speaker 3: pop up on the screen, we're talking like a dollar
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  Speaker 3: sized coin mass. Like this isn't like a little freckle
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  Speaker 3: that's like, oh what is that?
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  Speaker 1: This is like, so, yeah, something where if you were
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  Speaker 1: looking at your brain, you were having this conversation and
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  Speaker 1: you didn't know anything was going on in your brain.
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  Speaker 1: You've been playing football, you've been doing all these things.
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  Speaker 1: To see this little white mass it's like popping off
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  Speaker 1: the screen. Yeah, So I go back. I get a
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  Speaker 1: contrast MRI with the with the radiologists. They where they
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  Speaker 1: inject IV they see if anything's lighting up to see
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  Speaker 1: if they can figure out if it's going to be
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  Speaker 1: a tumor or not. I then after this MRI, I'm
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  Speaker 1: walking upstairs. As I'm walking upstairs, I hear the radiologists
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  Speaker 1: on the phone with our team doctor, the Washington team
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  Speaker 1: doctor at the time, and he's alluding to I think
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  Speaker 1: we have to get this cut out and ship it
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  Speaker 1: off to a lab to see exactly what it is.
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  Speaker 1: He's under the impression that it is a tumor at
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  Speaker 1: the time. I end up walking in the door as
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  Speaker 1: he's on the phone and he's like, okay, he's in here,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta go. Walks in and I'm like, Doc, here,
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  Speaker 1: great conversation over here. Yeah, And I'm like, hey, Doc,
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  Speaker 1: like we can just cut straight through the bullshit, like,
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  Speaker 1: just tell me what I'm looking at. He's like, well,
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  Speaker 1: I think that you have a tumor in your brain
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  Speaker 1: that we need to get removed and ship it off
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  Speaker 1: to a lab to fully understand what it is. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm kind of sitting there like in a haze, right,
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  Speaker 1: like everything's kind of quiet. He's kind of thought like,
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  Speaker 1: picture the the echo voices in the background, and you're
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  Speaker 1: kind of just staring at this scan of your brain.
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  Speaker 1: And then he starts talking like, but hey, we can
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  Speaker 1: once we get this cut out there's like a titanium
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  Speaker 1: plate that we can put in and you can still play,
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  Speaker 1: you can do all the things.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, hey, dog, no disrespect.
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  Speaker 1: But if this is like a tumor, if this is
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  Speaker 1: something that's bad, like def like the first thing I'm
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  Speaker 1: thinking about is not putting my helmet back, is putting
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  Speaker 1: my helmet on and getting back in an Oklahoma drill. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And so I talked to the team doctor after that
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  Speaker 1: visit or like, hey, we're shipping it off to surgeons.
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  Speaker 1: We're shipping it off to people to get the best
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  Speaker 1: eyes on it, to get as much feedback and as
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  Speaker 1: much information as we can on it. So I'm kind
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  Speaker 1: of sitting on ice for the next forty eight hours.
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm not telling my Charro was my wife is
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  Speaker 1: my girlfriend at the time. She's at the Philippines on vacation.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not telling her because I don't want to upend
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  Speaker 1: what she's going, what she's doing currently and then make
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  Speaker 1: it it's like make it all about you when we
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  Speaker 1: don't know the entire picture. Yeah, I'm on the phone
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  Speaker 1: with my dad. It's emotional with my dad. Don't hey,
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  Speaker 1: don't tell my mom And until we know. Neurosurgeon calls
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  Speaker 1: me like forty eight hours later, it is about four
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  Speaker 1: or five in the morning, calls me. I'm a way
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  Speaker 1: sit there. Answer to the phone. He's like, Will, I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure you've been stressing about this. I wanted to shut
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  Speaker 1: down all the stress right now, like that. This is
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  Speaker 1: not a tumor. This is a cyst that I believe
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  Speaker 1: has been in your brain since birth. I went back
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  Speaker 1: through all of your previous MRIs dated back to twenty
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  Speaker 1: fourteen when you were on Washington. They must have missed
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  Speaker 1: it because it is in there. It is a hard
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  Speaker 1: thing to see unless you're going through, unless you're thumbing
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  Speaker 1: through it to look for assist or a tumor.
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  Speaker 2: In your brain.
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  Speaker 1: Because when I was getting those scans for Washington, we're
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  Speaker 1: checking on things after a concussion, or we're checking on thanks, yes,
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  Speaker 1: your sting, yes, shoulder. Yes, It's so very easy to miss.
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  Speaker 1: But I just want to put it to bed. There
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  Speaker 1: is not a tumor in your brain. This is an
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  Speaker 1: assist that's been in your serehbellum that in like pediatric terms,
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  Speaker 1: that leads me to believe that this has been.
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  Speaker 2: In your head your entire life. Damn all we've had
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  Speaker 2: to do.
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  Speaker 1: Is make sure year in and year out, is I
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  Speaker 1: go and get an MRI I've missed. I haven't gotten
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  Speaker 1: an MRI on my brain since twenty twenty one. So
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  Speaker 1: when you're looking at that photo, you see twenty nineteen,
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  Speaker 1: that's a small list. When I was on the Titans
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  Speaker 1: and they checked it out twenty twenty one where it
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  Speaker 1: got barely any bigger. Now all the way to twenty
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  Speaker 1: twenty six, I just got it. It has grown a
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  Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, now, I'll to say there's nothing to
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  Speaker 1: worry about as of right now. Everything is the exact same, tests,
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  Speaker 1: it out the same, My symptoms are fine, all of
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  Speaker 1: these things. So where we're just gonna have to monitor it.
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  Speaker 1: If it gets big enough, it's something to where I
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  Speaker 1: could be a brain surgery candidate. But even when I'm
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  Speaker 1: a brain surgery candidate, it's something you can go in
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  Speaker 1: and kind of pop or drain like it's a water balloon.
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  Speaker 2: Get it removed. Your boy's gonna be all good.
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  Speaker 1: We're all good to go. It's brought us all the
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  Speaker 1: way back to this moment. I broke that down for you,
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  Speaker 1: because who knows if you guys were curious especially when
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: you see a scan come up and it's like, what
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: is going on with Willy see with Willy one shelf.
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: Here's what we've learned because dee did some research on
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: the internet, because when I was putting together wetting the bed,
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, okay, appnea, people could be in the state
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: to where the communication from the brain and the can
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: shut off and I can feed the bed. But what
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: we learned with the cyst is that the cyst could
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: play a big factor in my communication from brain to bladder.
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: And now I legitimately feel like I have a soul
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: for why I've been why I'm what the bed yes
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: on occasion throughout my entire life, and where it's located
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: in the brain.
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: It sounded like from Deeck's research is that would make
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: perfect sense of Deek, are you.
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: Able to do you remember the breakdown? Okay, here's a word.
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: Did I have exactly what I googled and exactly what
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: I reiterated? So if there are doctors out there, medical
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: people where us ptn D. Yeah, yeah, So the thing
• 15:42
  Speaker 4: we have is yes, a brain cys can cause bed
• 15:44
  Speaker 4: wetting nocturnal in your cis as I'm sure and pronouncing
• 15:47
  Speaker 4: that wrong, especially if it grows large enough to increase
• 15:50
  Speaker 4: in track cranial pressure or disrupt the nerves or hormones
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: and regulate bladder function. Basically, it could be something in
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: your brain that is stopping the our traditional stall point
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: of our bladders, because we you know, God forbid, we
• 16:04
  Speaker 4: don't have brainsists like, there is logical explanation that a
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: brain syst could be the disruptor between your body holding
• 16:09
  Speaker 4: your bladder and your body just not knowing when to
• 16:12
  Speaker 4: pee or when not to be. So there is basic
• 16:15
  Speaker 4: and I mean this is from the National Institute of Health.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: It's dot gov, which means it has to be when
• 16:20
  Speaker 4: you're a PhD.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: It has to be.
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: I'm PhD dad. From all my Internet research, this is
• 16:27
  Speaker 4: the exact reason. Will Compton, what's the bed PhD gop.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: This to me when you told me that I broke
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: it down because I got this brain MRI on Thursday,
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: I believer Friday morning I came into the shop or
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: this before Ney Bargatzi came on because I had the
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: di IV the little tape to stop the bleeding is
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: but we're breaking it down. I'm like, Fellas, this could
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: be a reason I went to bed, and then when
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: Deeke broke all that down, I'm like, oh buddy, and
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: shawshank redemption just getting out of the tunnel's rainfalling down
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: on my face like freedom because in my mind, I'm like,
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: this is this is the only explanation.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: You're sitting there and I say this jokingly, but you
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: are sitting there thinking I'm just this big old goofist
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: that can't get it right with the wedding the bed. Yeah,
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: And I guess that that's just me, Will Compton. I'm
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: a PT pisser. I'm a PT pissar.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: With no no answers as to wash you a couple
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: times a year where I pissed the bed and I
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: don't know it is what it is. I'm a pisser.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: God own, Nay. Now we have answers. We have some answers.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: And that was that was one hell of the thing
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: to have your boss come up to you as it's
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: a big day, Nate Bargazi or Bargezi's coming and uh,
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: you know, I gotta be on my p's and q's
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: and be locked in. And I walk in and you
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: have an armstrap already on you from your hospital.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Signaling that I'm a survivor.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: You come up to me and go, we solve the
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: bed weddings. That was your opening line, you go, we
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: saw the bed wedding.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: I legitimately I feel like we solved my bed.
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: We did, though, we did, and that was just an
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: incredible I'll always remember that quote from my boss of
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: walking into work and hey, we solved the bed wedding.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Because there was nobody that's like letting me know in
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: the comments that they got this issue. Yeah. I got
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: one here from Trevor John and says I shipped my
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: pants a couple of years ago. Hashtag pop a team shit.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: He's trying to trying to come from me. Hey, I
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: ship my pants.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: Tell him popping team shit. I would love to join that. Yeah,
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: last year I shipped my pants here at the office. Yeah,
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: popping team shit.
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: You guys are either just shitters, or you guys assist.
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, or you know some like Frank Frank Hall Uh
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: six six zero three was kind enough and honest enough
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: and bold enough to share with us, he said, Uh,
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: fellow PT piss member here. Been clean for about a
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: year or so, though I did regularly wear pull ups
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: to bed until about thirteen years old, very embarrassing. Deeke
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: followed up on the four of the dad's Oh you're
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: not alone. Frank's a dude, I feel you the diaper
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: that's my heart goes out to like I just pissed
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: through the underwear and the shorts and everything else. I
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: would have to I know, I know my man he
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: feared any time he did a sleepover. Yeah, nice looking
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: guy too in his photo. He's he's with his wife
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: and a very nice looking man.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: Uh.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: Deeke falls up on the with the ford of the
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: dad's account says any advice for Willie on overcoming this,
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: Frank instantly replied. Frank said, definitely watch the fluid intake
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: within two hours of going to bed. Would be uh,
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: one pt piss or to another's uh solve yeah for
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: the matter than you.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: Because my man, he knows when he went to the
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: doctor at that young age where he was having those issues,
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: the doc would tell you, Hey, no kool aid or
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: anything after seven, which is a shot to the that's.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: A shot to the heart. That's when you get your
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: last little caprice son. Dude, Oh I'm a little you're
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: taking my drinks away post seven pm.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Uh huh so I feel my man and he's right.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: It's like, you know, not that I'm like thinking about it,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: but I do, like, obviously I'm very minimal before going
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: to bed, like drinking water and everything.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: My wife house is water before bed. She said, why
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: aren't you drinking water? I never say, but I'm like.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: I already had some. Yeah, I already had something.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be a long night.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: I'm so good. I also very.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: Quickly some housekeeping, some housekeeper before you do that.
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: I do have a question about beeing. If you're comfortable,
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: do you have dreams that you are peeing and then
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: you wake up to be peeing, because I've heard that.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Every now and then occasionally it'll be it'll be part
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: of it. But a lot of times, like when I
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: would wake up, you know, not this last one that
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: happened last weekend, where I'm like telling the world, like
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: I have what the bed that one?
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: I like, I just woke up and I'm like, holy shit.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Usually what happens is is I'm in a dream, and
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: it's usually like an intense dream, and I'll like kind
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: of like wake up like I'm fighting something, and then
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: I realized it's like I'm fighting my blood. I need
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: to hurry up, and I've just been sprinkling over the
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: past I don't know how long, but I've been like
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: sprinkling to where one side is a little wet.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: And then I'll go, like.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I was saying last week, and I'll I'll examine or
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: audit is this too much to get back in bed
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: to where I need to change my underwear. It's usually
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: in the middle of the night, so I'll go to
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: the bathroom see if I need to change my underwear.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't have to change mindwere it's a little
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: bit to where I just don't want to go through
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: the process and I want to hurry up and crawl
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: back in bed and go back to sleep. Yeah, that's
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: usually what happens. And again that's like a couple times
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: a year. It'll just happen. This last one was a
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: time where it was new to where I didn't I
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: didn't catch myself.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: And will I forgot to tell this last time on
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: the suit and I'm actually a little bit upset about it.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: To join you in the PT piss talk. I pissed
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: the bed my very first night in Nashville, and maybe
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: that was just me throwing out the bat signal to
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: you of like, I'm here, I'm here, it's your boys shirm.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: I feel like this work thing's gonna work out. I'm
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: gonna love working at Bustle with the boys. Maybe I
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: pissed the bed a little bit.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's like the davatars and your ponytails are
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: your connect We're connect.
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: Connected and I uh, dude, I talked it up to
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: being exhausted. I had no idea what the reasoning for
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: that was, because I never do it.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: And get your brain checked out.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of now I've got like no doc said.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: The doc was telling me. He's like, look, man, you
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: have zero symptoms this you this even though it is bigger. Yeah,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: He's like, intelligence and rationality tells us this could continue
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: to grow, but it might not continue to grow. Oh
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: I'm just thinking, dude, it's grown each time. Now it's
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: been five years since my last start, all right, clearly
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: it's grown not like a lot more, but significantly more
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: than what it was. So I'm thinking this will continue
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: to grow. And he's like, the only time you're going
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: to know if we have to take that out, is
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: you're going to start just having symptoms. Whether it's balance.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Whether it's like you just get random headaches, and he's like,
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: if you're telling me you don't have any of those,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: like everything else in your brain looks very clean. This
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: is just a it's just a like a water balloon
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: basically sitting in your brain. And he's like, it'll start
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: pressing up on things to where then you'll start feeling symptoms.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: That's what we'll know. But if nothing's out of the ordinary.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: Now I'm thinking, I wonder if that's like out of
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: the ordinary.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: But if I'm not.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Pissing the bait consistently, I'm not thinking it's an ordinary thing.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: That's just where I'm at. That's where I'm at on
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: the entire brain update. Appreciate the update.
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: And I will say this just so everybody in our
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: audience doesn't think all three of us, of Chef Deac
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: and I are solace. We are like, it's concerning. We're
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: worried for you.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but until something is to come up from
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: the sister's really nothing.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, I just I have a system my brain.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So my wife's like, I need you to live
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: for a long time. I trust me, sweetheart. I want
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: to too.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: Great idea, great idea.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like I got to go get a CTA scan
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: because he just wants the docs like, look, and I'm
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: not doing this because there's zero costs for concern. He's like,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: I just want to be thorough and go through everything
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: that we can to make sure this is still just intact.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: He's like, because again, man, you you have no symptoms
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: and everything on.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: The MRI is clean. You just you just have assisted
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: in you. And I'm going to keep my eyes and
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: ears open. I'm not saying that like in a joking way,
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: like I will truly keep my eyes in yours up.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: Please do If I notice anything, I'm gonna be like,
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: willy see, I just want to let you know.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's clearly a high there's clearly a highlight film
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: that you could put together of mental blunders that I've
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: had over the years. And hey, doc, let's doc, let's
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: just watch this montage, watch him do this math, watch
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: him not understand what sci fi is the right answer.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: He's fine, Wait, no, doc, hold on, did you watch
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: the clip though?
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Did you see how he got to We're gonna throwing
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: the ones where his brain kind of shuts off momentarily
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: during all of the podcasts that he's done.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: You're telling me it's all good.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: Doc, You're telling me everything's good. Yay, that's Willy. See
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: he's good. He's good.
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: Wait, like other people don't have that which other people do.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: Like I joke about like you're you know, like you
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: could call him willy and like your moments except by
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: if I did ever see something that was like concerning,
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: I would be like, yo, brother, like get checked out
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: because that is scary. You're like show me the mass
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: and being like everything's fine, and I'm like that looks
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: really scary.
• 26:14
  Speaker 5: It looks super scary. Is there any reason not to
• 26:17
  Speaker 5: get it removed? Like is there any like logical reasoning
• 26:21
  Speaker 5: that it's like that right now?
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, just get out of your head, even if it's
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: because it's nothing that's forming, Like the contrast MRI. You
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: do the contrast MRI and put the die in to
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: go up to your brain to see if anything like
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: lights up to where it could be tumorous or a
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: tumor could be forming. But nothing, nothing is telling them
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: that we have to get this cyst out of your
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: brain because it's not it's not like it's it's not common.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: It's not uncommon.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: It's like this is like, uh, like people have like
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: cysts in their brain, but some of them can form
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: and develop and do all these things to where you've
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: got to get it removed.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Do you have zero symptoms?
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: You have zero anything based on all the extra tests
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: that we've done that says like there's an issue going
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: on with this cysts, Like it's benign on the border
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: of the whole thing. Like as people see on the photo,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: it's clean, it's intact. There's no like frame, there's nothing
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: that says like we need to look at this right
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: here in the cysts, so you need to do this skin,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: you need to do that skin. Like everything's came back
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: to where it's like there's no reason to take this
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: out of your of your head. Like for him, it's
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: like surgery is the last thing we want to do.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: And the only thing that's like keeping me from not
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: freaking out but like being overly worried about it.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Is just a kid that I went to high school.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: With that had a massive cyst like by his knee,
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: and I mean he had it like all throughout height
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: or middle school, high school, and he was like, yeah,
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: the doctors said like, I don't need it to be removed,
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: so like it's just gonna stay there until it needs
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: to be removed. He put like smiley faces and stuff
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: on it, like with the sharpie, and it was just
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: kind of like, oh, yeah, he has this just.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: On his knee. Yeah, because surgery in anything is like
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: the last line of defense face you have a torn
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: labor or you have a tear somewhere. It's like if
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: you can do things rehab wise, injection wise, things that
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: help bring it all back in tax so you don't
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: have to go under the so you don't have to
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: go under the knife. You want to do those things
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: before you even have to get If you don't have
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: to go on for surgery, there's no.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no urgency to go in for surgery.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like brain surgery wouldn't be fun. But
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: it's sounds like saying brain surgery sounds scary. He's like,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: if we ever have to go in, you'll get like
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: a like a little like a little hockey stick, you
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: know what's it called incision? Incision, a little hockey stick incision,
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: And we'll go in with a little needle and you'll
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: go up like it's you're draining it or poking and
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: we'll just get we'll get it out of there. But
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: that's when you start having symptoms or it's pressing up
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: on things in your brain towards clearly having an effect
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: on you. Right now, there's no you don't have any
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: of that.
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's I was just thinking, like, as long as
• 29:03
  Speaker 5: it's not gonna be a Gary Woodland thing, which I
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: don't know if you know that story about the golfer
• 29:07
  Speaker 5: who that was actually really bad, but he had a
• 29:10
  Speaker 5: assist in his brain that was pushing totally different in
• 29:13
  Speaker 5: his cancers, but the same thing where he it was
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: starting to press parts of his brain.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: It's actually a really cool, good perseverance story.
• 29:21
  Speaker 5: But uh yeah, And he was like a bunch of
• 29:23
  Speaker 5: things were coming out of that, so you had to
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: get it removed. I was making sure it wasn't they
• 29:26
  Speaker 5: weren't like, oh down the line, it could do that.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I get I know, I'll get a chef scan.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: We're getting the chef scanned right now. He's wanted to
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: be throw as well. He said, I'm just making sure
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: my Yeah, I love you.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: You're my boss. I want to make sure that I
• 29:40
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• 29:46
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• 29:49
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• 30:11
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  Speaker 1: seller right now. I mean it's spring going in the summer.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: It's very comfy though. In the hoodie is the best seller,
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: this one right here. Yeah, it's extremely comfy. We got
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: tons of shirts, one of which is a button down
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: that a lot of people have been asking does that
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: fit true to size? You are an Excel man. I
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: have an XL wearing an XL. So if we can
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: get that shot of D covers it covers the belly, dude,
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: and it does fit true. Decide for me too, the
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: blue one that I've worn in the office before. I'm
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: an XCEL guy. That's an EXCEL and I lift my
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: arms up and belly is still covered.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So, and Dad's out there listening that. If you
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: do want this merch, I know you do. Father's Day
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: is coming up. The easiest thing to do is send
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: the link to your wife or your loved one. Yeah,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: or you buy for your dad, But just shoot the
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: link to somebody who will buy it for you and
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: just let them know. Hey, nudge, nudge, nudge nudge. Father's
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: Day only need a piece? Would love five pieces, It
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: would only need a piece. And I think we can
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: we can help on that front as well. We can
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: make a little video, super easy, nothing crazy, of us
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: wearing some FTD stuff, have the text on screen say hey, wifey,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: here's your sign of what you should get your hobby
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: for Father's Day and we'll just give it. We'll give
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: him a little something that they can send the wife
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: you and go.
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: Oh oh, look at that. That looks nice.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let me go a shot for my boy.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: That looks nice.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: Oh honey, look at this video I found.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: I love it so much.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna send the link to my wife and say, hey,
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: caught me a few few items.
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: Right, Hey, don't you own that company?
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it's the actually of doing it. I
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: have our last little callback here.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: J R.
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: Lee BK on YouTube said, genuinely jealous of Sherman's new
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: bromance with his neighbor. As a New Yorker, we just
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: don't have that CFB barbecue and driveway.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Hangs sound amazing.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: He ain't lying, dude.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: If somebody is in the New York area and also
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: a pt SIKO that's into those things, reach out to
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: your boy, JR.
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: Lee Jr Lee bk on YouTube, reach out to j R. E. BK.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: We gotta hook up the boy, dude, dude some community.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: That's why tunes in the foro the days. He feels
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: the vibe. He's probably cracking a lollipop right now as
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: he listens to the show God and it.
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: Is such a vibe.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: How's how's dad life going on? We talked to brain.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: We talked all the day.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: Let's talk some dad life.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, dad life is good. I had an interesting
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: morning this morning. It's the first first off. Shout out
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: Jillyban she started her new job today. Let's go very excited,
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: very excited. Weekends off, weekends off.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Dude.
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: This was the first time in our marriage where we
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: are both on a working day and we woke up
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: at the same time, same alarm for both of us
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: to go to work. Had a morning together where we're
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: getting ready in the mirror, we're switching off on. I'll
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: get her out of the crib if you want to
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: do this, and we're switching off and I'm like, oh
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: my god, this is incredible. Long goes off, get a
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: cuddle session. Incredible. Like truly, dad life is really really good.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: Because of that, You're a new house, new house, which
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: we're so excited for.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: It's been a really fun two weeks.
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: There's been a lot of We talked about the issues
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: of Scarlet with the move. She's kind of back and
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: forth the whether or not she likes the new house.
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: After two weeks have gone by, she is locked.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: In, she's bought in, loves the house.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: We got a sofa with an ottoman. Shout out wayfair.
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: She loves the ottoman. She's crawling on the automen. She
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: thinks it's like her new playpen. We have a little
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: movie night the night before my birthday. Get some popcorn
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: pop nude widows Bay by the way, not to.
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: You let her go full popcorn?
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: You let her eat the popcorn, oh, Scarlita, Yeah, uh no,
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: we have not yet.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: I know that was a trick.
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: Oh that was a trick question test.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah you did, yeah, bro, she risksopcorn.
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, we gotta just to sit there and be
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: like and I'm like, get it out.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: Where we doing? Just sweetheart? She can't eat popcorn at
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: this age. What do you pop? Going out of the wolve?
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: The doctor gave me popcorn. It's a boy, here's a popcorn.
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: I do have a dad loss for though, please pretty
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: massive one.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: Well you're in the safe space.
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: Jilly Bean was like, Hey, for your birthday, I want
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: you to sleep in till the cows come home, like
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: you wake up when you wake up.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: Your boy woke up really late.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah really late.
• 35:41
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: Because I tried to hit him a few different times.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: She just to tell him happy Birthday, to.
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: The point where he texted me he goes crazy, I'm
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: not getting a call back.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: What's going on? It was like one thirty at this
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: time or one o'clock at this time, because I hit him.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: I think I called him. It's in my calendar. I
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: see insurance birthday. I was like, let me give the
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: old boy a call. It was about eight fifty one
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: in the morning. Call no answer, and I spot people
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: started hitting in the group chat happy birthday, Shrom So
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, yeah, reminder, I haven't got to talk
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: to him yet. Call him again. Nothing, Call him again.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: I think I saw Shreim start responding, so I called
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: him again. Nothing, and like, what's going on with my guy?
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: Slept until twelve fifteen, slept in until twelve fifteen. Jill,
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: Jill just let me go, and I never woke up
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: until twelve fifteen to the point, and I wasn't upset
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: with Jill, but I was kind of like, yo, shit,
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: like the gone here goes by day like, And I
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: wasn't bummed out, but I was kind of like, I mean,
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: I and this sounds so like most dads are, like
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: do you know what I would pay to be able
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: to sleep in like that. I love that I slept
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: in like that, and that was such a gracious gift
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: that Jill gave me. But I also was pissed at
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: myself of like what was I doing. It's not like
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: we stayed up crazy late. We did a movie night. Yeah,
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: I was probably like a sleep by eleven thirty, you know,
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: which is kind of late for us, but not like
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: a two o'clock back.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sleeping the twelve is like you're staying up till
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: three or four in the morning. Oh yeah, yes, I'm
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: sitting here. You're like, I know Dad would be like,
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: I'd love to be able to sleep. My brain's going
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I could sleep that late.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: And I usually there's not a shot dude, you put
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: in over twelve hours. Yes, And I will say I
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: did wake up at seven ish, but like I knew that.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: Jill was like, hey, you know you sleep in. So
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: I wake up at like seven, I go pee, shout out, poppetine,
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: piss and got back in bed and then I was
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: out till twelve.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Like I'm thinking, if I'm Jilly Bean, I'm coming in
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: there around like ten thirty. Like, hey, I know, I
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: told you you can sleep in, but it's twelve thirty.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: It's Scarlet's eating lung. We've all eaten lunch.
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, they've lived a whole day. I think it's
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: my birthday. So it's also like kind of a bummer
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: to me, cause I'm.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Like, I have my birthdays. God, yeah, Like what am
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: I doing?
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: And so I get up and I'm a grumpy boy
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: because of that. Like I was genuinely a grumpy boy
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: because I was like, I never do that, damn it.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: Where did my day go? But then I hear the
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: mowing outside, and I go, oh my god, I did
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: check the forecast, and I did see that like Sunday
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: morning to like one pm was the only time where
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: it wasn't gonna rain for like the next week.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: And I hear a.
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: Neighbor mowing, not my hot neighbor, but a neighbor mowing,
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, I meant to do that, but
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: I still got a puppy proof my fence.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: I haven't even done that.
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: Wifey is Jill's like, don't puppy proof your fence on
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: your birthday?
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: What are you doing?
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: I'm like, well, we can't have the puppies in the backyard.
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: If we don't puppy proof the fence, we gotta do it.
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: I go out into the backyard, I run into uh,
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: everyone's favorite neighbor. Of course, he's hanging out in the
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: backyard with his daughter. She was putting on a concert
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: to her stuffed animals, had a little Britney spears. Mike
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: hooked up. He's being dad of the year. I just
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: woke up at twelve pm.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: Yay, So I'm you're ready to go, You're I'm ready
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: to go a fence.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: I'm beaty fixed.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he's watching me fix a fence and he's not
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: saying a word, not saying a word about it. We're
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: just talking as I'm doing the fence. Well, Jill comes
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: out and says, it's my birthday. I'd not told neighbor
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: Blake that was my birthday. And Blake goes, whoa, whoa
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: is your birthday? I'm like, yeah, what are you doing
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: for your birthday? We're going to go to a restaurant.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: We don't really know yet. Well, how are you going
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: to go to a restaurant if you're doing the Buddy
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: here goes to his truck and starts pulling out stuff
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: and he's like, we're going to do this together, and
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: we get knocked out in thirty minutes though, start doing
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: your birthday. Oh blake, you've already helped me too much much,
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: Like you gotta stop, dude, Like you're so kind, but
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: I feel bad at this point. So I went, he's.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: Making you feel worse at this point.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I went.
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: I got three cold ones, got some three bud lights,
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: three neutrals, brought him out.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta pay you in.
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: This, and he's like that's a hey, that's a nice
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: little ransom there. I like that helps me at the fence.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: We knock it out in maybe twenty minutes, like truly,
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: like really kind of saved the day. But the mowing
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: is the dad loss to you, because now we fast
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: forward to Tuesday and it's a monsoon outside. Yeah, tomorrow monsoon,
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: the next day monsoon, And I'm looking at all the
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: yards and all the dad's mode on Sundays, dude, and
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: my yard looks it is starting to look like a jungle.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: Sure.
• 40:48
  Speaker 5: Even better news, the Monday Tuesday next week that was
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: supposed to be clear has now started to being upgraded
• 40:54
  Speaker 5: to more thunderstorms.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's supposed to rain like all week, weekend long.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, into next week, so that outdoor events up
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: in the air. Oh, I'm sure we'll get an email. Gosh,
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: obviously follow our social channels. But we're doing the outdoor
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: collab with Bar three.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: Oh well, I didn't even think about that.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, that's up in the air right now.
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like big time thunderstorm because it's right now.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because it was when when when my wife was
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: checking the fore Come my god, the other day, it
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: was like sixty five percent for Saturday. Now it's up
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: to eighty to eighty percent Friday, Saturday, fifty five percent
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: on Sunday.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: Dude, it's rain.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: You see the rain out there, it's coming down. That's it.
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: That's actually like a huge bumber live here on the show.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: I did not put that too and two together. Yeah,
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: it's up in the air right now.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: That makes me really sad right now at Shelby Bottoms
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: this Saturday as of right now. Yeah, we're still doing
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: the outdoor event collaboration where Bar three they were running
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: a fitness class. We're doing it outdoors. They're going from studio,
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: they're taking it outdoors. Yeah, there'd be a bunch of
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: people there taking this class. We'll be out there sweating
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: with everybody. Pop a team fit, bring wife if you
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: bring everybody.
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, it's up in the air right now.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: I really like I'm praying for clear skies. H. I
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: was actually really looking forward to that. Yeah.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: The link is in our bio where you can register
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: and sign up. Okay, you can sign up. I'm assuming
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: I believe you'll like, you'll get an email if it
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: gets canceled. Yeah. Obviously follow our social channels as well,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: whether it's Bar three Nashville or.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: People Updated for sure.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but as of right now, we're still still still
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: a go. It just doesn't look the most promising because
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: it's forecasts rain all through next week.
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: So my question too, because I've done it before and
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: it was hell and maybe you guys could even answer this. H.
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: I don't have to throw it to pet fix. I've
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: mowed a soggy yard, a wet yard because I had to.
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: But like, good God, like I don't think I'm gonna
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: be able to mow my yard till like mid next week, don't.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: You know me?
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: Like I wouldn't.
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: And people are gonna be looking at all my neighbors
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: did it? Dude, Like I'm talking to you. We got
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: this new bomb on the block, his yard up, all
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: four houses there right next door to me, all mode, and.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Your neighbor's gonna think, oh, this house hasn't sold yet. Yeah,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: you say, oh wait, maybe they didn't move in. Maybe
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: that's what we do.
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: We pull all the uh the two rocking chairs on
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: our front porch, we pulled those inside.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, put the for sale sign in the f that's
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: the move. What a dad act?
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: Will I'll go get a four lease sign from Walmart
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: and I'll just pop it in the front yard and
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: everybody can go, oh no, they moved, and neighbors come over,
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: Oh no, we've just been this like an airbnb.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: It's in our yards, in my yard.
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: I would have this ship mode like you know me, Blake,
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: you know me dog? Yeah, oh man.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: The storms are pretty scattered this week.
• 43:55
  Speaker 5: I'm sure there'll be a good time Wednesday Thursday where
• 43:59
  Speaker 5: maybe we get some morning showers. Drives up and you
• 44:01
  Speaker 5: can kind of look at the clock, maybe four or
• 44:03
  Speaker 5: five hits and you're like, Okay, I have an opportunity here.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: I know it's not going to go until tonight.
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: He'll look into it. Special guests, special guest. It looks
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: like he's going to get his two in Taylor. Oh
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: what very special guests.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: Looks good to see everybody has everybody doing.
• 44:22
  Speaker 6: Nothing to see here, nothing to see electrostatic, big fan
• 44:27
  Speaker 6: of the show. Bigs, thank you very much. He lost
• 44:33
  Speaker 6: you guys, thank you, no, thank.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: You, thank you? And did you get my thing to you? Okay?
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: Cool cool.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: Love a transact transaction just took place.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, we're good, all right, good everything,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: all good.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: It was a business deal that just landed. Okay, just land.
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: Good news, good news, good news, good news.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: What else we got? It was rouse last day of
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: school last week, so ruse now ripping. It's summertime for
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: the girl will I was really excited.
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: But I saw that little I think it was your
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: carousel or Charros where there was her first day and
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: this last day side by side to each other. Yeah,
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: that's some scary business you got. It's uh, it's happy,
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: it's sad. It's all emotions and feelings because they got
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: done on their last they got their last day was Friday.
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: We had a little it was like the parents come in,
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: all the kids come out.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: They sing us. There's three songs that they sang. They're
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: singing them in different languages. They're doing uh, the hand
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: they're signing hand signing.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: What is that called sign language? Sign language? Man, that's
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: a cyst in.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: This clip of Will not knowing what sign language as
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: signing hand sign What is that called sign language? They're
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: doing sign language or singing in different languages. Like you
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: just see her around her friends. They got yearbooks, so
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: I'm putting her on game, like, hey, here's how you
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: do the yearbooks. You got to get your friends to
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: sign your yearbook. She's going around asking, hey, will you
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: please sign my yearbook? They're asking, they're signing each other's yearbooks. Bro,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: have a great summer. Yeah, have a great summer. Cats
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: kick ass the summer. You're kind of a rebel if
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: you're writing cats. Okay, a rebel. But it was awesome.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: It's just crazy how the years flown by. I still
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: remember all the emotions, like dropping her off, when we
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: dropped her off at school. Then my wife's tearing up.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of holding her. We're just both kind of
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: sat together. You see her little you see your little
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: uh little body walk in school. Now she's coming out.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: She just looks a little bit different, older, she's so
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: sweet all the emotions.
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: Man, it hit closer to home for me because I
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: quite literally edited the video of her first day at school. Yeah,
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: that was afore the dad's clip. Yeah, and I got
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: all those old pictures from your carousel of that first
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: day of school. So I know those pictures like pretty
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: well because I've worked with them for probably like an
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: hour thirty minutes and made that little clip. Now I'm
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: seeing this other thing where I see all of a sudden,
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: this young lady holding this same board all by herself,
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: doesn't need dad ads next to her in the pic.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: I'm like, who's this? Yeah, Oh my gosh, she looks
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: like a like a little girl man, just growing up
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: and like.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: Smiling, like she's always been a good smiler. Yeah, and
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: photos and y'all like taught her that very well, but like.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: Or she's like some island.
• 47:37
  Speaker 3: She's got like intensionally smiling. Now I'm like, oh man,
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: she's growing up, dude.
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: And she was excited.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: But also it's like the last day, so it's like, oh,
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: you know, Dadda was feeling both happy and sad the
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: last days of school because then you don't get to
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: see your friends, like you won't get to see you
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: want get to see your friends for the summer. Oh,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: she's doing some camps, like she's going to do things
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: to where she's around them. Oh, what's she doing in
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: the summer. Yeah, yeah, there'll be like a summer camp
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: that she's gonna do. We got her in a few
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: different things throughout the because you still got to have
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: you know, she's now she's like back at the house right,
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: So it's not like I'm up in the morning during
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: that seven fifteen eight fifteen window.
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: I wasn't making lunch this morning. She's kind of like
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: a nice little dad.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: W you could have like a slower morning, go up,
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: wake up, slower with her, bring her down. Mom made
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: pancakes this morning for because she knew she'd love having pancakes.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I'd go up.
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, mama's got a surprise for you.
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: Hey what brand?
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: Like shout out no free, shout out the brand of
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: pancake mix.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: Yoh, I don't know. She Charle hasn't like a container,
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: but like Charle makes them if it's if it's mine,
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: Like if I'm making pancake, pake pancakes.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: I usually do.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: What's the one that has It's like it's got like
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: the protein in and everything else.
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: Oh with the bear yeah Kodak Yeah yeah, yeah yeah,
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: Kodak cakes. So they're their pancake mix Kodaks.
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: But Charle makes them. She's got her own little concoction
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: good root us in summertime. Ode now her first like
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: summer you know what I mean. You got some vacations
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: lined up. We're gonna go to the beach.
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: You gotta watch High School Musical two with her?
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: Dude? Do you ever writ high School Musical? I did not, Dude,
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: I've always been I've been a closet hater.
• 49:16
  Speaker 4: On musicals based off your like indie film takes that
• 49:23
  Speaker 4: you would be a closet musical hater.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: Have you ever seen a musical that you like?
• 49:29
  Speaker 4: Probably the reason I ask His Book of Mormon is
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: coming to town. It's written by the South Park creators.
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: It's like the best musical ever. It's the funny, it's
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: the hardest I think I've ever laughed at a live performance.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: Have you ever seen one in person? I've not seen
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: one in person. Maybe I've been to a play or something.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: They're singing I don't know if that. Go watch one
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: in person.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: Maybe I have exist can't.
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: Remember Hamilton rips, but yeah, go see Book of Mormon
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: in person.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: No, Ti, Nutcracker, that's that's a ballet. Ballets and musical.
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: Nope, well diffy lill diffy, but same kind of same
• 50:05
  Speaker 3: kind of dancing, like American football and flag football.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: It's like, okay, yeah, cousins.
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: Hey, I am not a musical guy. I was hamming
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: it up there off camera, acting like I was like
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: very upset by this. I'm not super upset. I do
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: love a good little hairspray. I do love a good
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: little Book of Mormon. I do love the high school
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: musical movies. That's a bit more nostalgic because I was
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: truly in high school as those were coming out. But
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: high School Musical too, dude, is like it takes place
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: in the summer and just rips.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: Dude. They're just real trilogy one.
• 50:43
  Speaker 4: They're obviously like he wants to be a basketball player
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: and he wants to be in the musical, which that
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: was me in high school.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: So I love those.
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: News is in between junior year and senior year, they
• 50:52
  Speaker 4: all go and get jobs at a country club. So
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: all the characters go and have their summer three is
• 50:57
  Speaker 4: their senior year.
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: Where they come high school.
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, she would love she would, and that's why
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: I bring it up. She would go Craig Cray And
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: as far as like stuff that your daughter's crazy about
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: that you have to sit on the couch and also
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: enjoy high school musical.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: Ain't that bad man?
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: You'll You'll be sitting there and be like, hey, that
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: Efron kid really had it back in the note Where
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: do you like me some Fron?
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I mean he crushes dude. I'll get into
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: the musicals, Yeah, dude. I have been a low key
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: hater on musicals, but it's it's more of just like
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: my resistance. Yeah, what about with you? You liked Wicked? Yeah,
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: that music that's a musical. So would like Frozen and
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: like some of those Disney movies be considered musicals because
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: I'm singing songs like.
• 51:46
  Speaker 5: He's not like one hundred, it's not pure blood if
• 51:48
  Speaker 5: we're going Harry Potter's terms.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: But the music parts happen unless it's like a banger
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I love this song. I think part
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: of me is like a why we got to break
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: this up and sing a song right now, like I
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: need to get to the next scene where we break
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: down this drama.
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, Frozen is probably the one Dissey movie that
• 52:04
  Speaker 3: I thought that the pacing wise, now we're really breaking
• 52:07
  Speaker 3: down movies. But I love that they're able to weave
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: the storytelling with the song songs of everything.
• 52:15
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Hamilton too, it's on Disney Plus the Wrap. It's
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: about the Founding Fathers kicking Britain's ass.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm about Founding Fathers beating some ass.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: But we can go back to summer time. Hey. I
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: love that we beat them like a drum.
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: I can celebrate that it was Memorial Day. Yeah, get
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: back to summer though. I'm sorry I segued us with
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: the musical two.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: That's basically it. We got some vacations plan We're gonna
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: go to Italy and Argentina. We got a little beach
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: one planned.
• 52:49
  Speaker 5: Yo.
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, we are fired up. We try and do
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: like we do our best.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: We we didn't last summer, but try and like do
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: something out of the country. My wife, she is her
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: number one core value that I think about with her
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: is like adventurous. She is somebody that just gets me
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: out of my comfort. She's going. Yeah, very adventurous, likes
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: going places, like seeing the world, but she tries to put
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: on the radar, like living somewhere for a little bit.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Oh oh baby, are you going to what was it
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: called Buenos Aires? Is that Argentina?
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: Buddy, don't that is argent don't the capital. Don't do
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: that stuff.
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: Are you going to like some coastal I'm sure Argentina
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: is just Italy.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: We're going to Venice traveling with the kiddos, just be
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: us four. Yeah, so Scotty will be Scotti will be
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: a demon on the travel. Marty prepared for middally fitness
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: is gonna rip.
• 53:39
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: We're excited, bro, we're.
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: Oh, but ald to say like, uh, yeah, we had
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: our last day of school.
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: Four years old.
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: Time is flying, Time is flying, Time is flying.
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: We have our first family Vaca coming up as well.
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: By the way, with uh, we're going to Florida. We're
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: going to We're going to Italy.
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, thirty eight.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going to thirty A. We're going to thirty A.
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: My grandmother is from She was born in Blue Mountain Beach,
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: so she is actually from that area. I grew up
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: she lived in Greaton Beach for the longest time, so
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: I grew up going there.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: I hear a lot of positive things of Greaton Beach.
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: Oh will it's the best there and it's the best
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: kept secret because it's surrounded by a national park. So
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: it will never turn into not that all the rest
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: of thirty eight. What it's turned into is bad. It
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: will never get to that side. That one's like what
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: fifteen minutes outside of like the thirty A. Oh, you're
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: three minutes from Watercolor. I mean it's right down the
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: road from Seaside and water Color.
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: There last year.
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: If you blave breakfast tacos Red Bar? Have you ever
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: been to Red Bar?
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know.
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: I have to look back at my not going to
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: be that guy, But if you've been to Red Bar,
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: you would you would know Red Bar is so sick.
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: My childhood was going to Greaton Beach. I learned to
• 55:03
  Speaker 3: skinboard there. I learned to catch crabs there and cook
• 55:06
  Speaker 3: crabs that we caught, and boiled peanuts and crawfish, and
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: like it was just such a memory maker machine for me.
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: Uh And the fact that I'm getting to like introduce
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: my daughter to that dude I'm so stoked. And it's
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: for the fourth of July because their birthday is the third.
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: They have fireworks going. Man is Red Bar connected to
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: like a little breakfast coffee.
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: There is a sleepy little breakfast coffee spot down there.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: Because I think that's the building that we were in
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: because Red Bar Red Bar was just like next door,
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: Like do they have like these pirate figurines they like
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: sitting about? Yes, dude, yes, you've you've probably one hundred percent.
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: It wasn't open yet.
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: We were there in the morning for the breakfast spot
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: that was next door. Phenomenal breakfast.
• 55:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, brother, great, you would love great and great Beach.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: That's where that's where Kurt Benkert is, Yes, the quarterback
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: play with the Packers now has the dime left football.
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: Because I've seen in his videos. There's a lake there
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: is where my grandmother's neighborhood, where her house used to be.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: In that lake.
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: There's only like fourteen of them in the nation that
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: feed into the ocean. And when the ocean water in
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: the lake water mix, it's called brackish water, and it's
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: kind of like this light kind of brown water. It's
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: got really cool sea life and trees that grow around
• 56:37
  Speaker 3: there where the trees really only grow in that certain
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: part of the world. But in Kurt Benkert's video, I
• 56:44
  Speaker 3: saw the brackish water like bleeding into the ocean in.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: One of them.
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: I was like, that looks like greaton Yeah, yeah, I
• 56:50
  Speaker 3: think he's out there. Which, yeah, we'll be there. We'll
• 56:53
  Speaker 3: be there in early June, so we will. I was
• 56:55
  Speaker 3: kind of wondering. I was like, are you going to
• 56:56
  Speaker 3: be the same time you're going to Italy?
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: Italy?
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Florida.
• 57:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dang dude, Yeah, we'll be a July third.
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 57:05
  Speaker 3: I am so looking forward to that, man, I can't
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: wait to just That's kind of my lesson of.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: The week too, is.
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: Just creating uh, memories, but creating traditions. I feel like
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: you have done such a good job of that. And
• 57:21
  Speaker 3: we're going into the first year of Scarlett's consciousness, of
• 57:26
  Speaker 3: her being aware of her surroundings, and I'm really wanting
• 57:30
  Speaker 3: to start those traditions with her.
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but dude, they ripped the lesson.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Oh just rip it now, since we're ritten now, I'll
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: rip it because you're right. I mean, you're one hundred
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: percent right on the traditions and no matter how it's
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: like Scotty now, like we obviously do pizza Friday every week. Yeah,
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: but Scotty when she gets done and she loves pizza, well,
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: she gets done.
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: She's such just a busy body, has to be everywhere.
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: You gotta you gotta watch it all times. Like we
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: were watching Trolls last week. Troulls, phenomenal movie. Trolls is
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: a great man, but Ru's locked in, and you know,
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: we're hopeful that Scotty eventually gets the point where she
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: sits and like watch the movie versus wanting to climb
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: all over the couch and run all over the couch
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: to where she could tip over. And you always just
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: got to kind of put a border up arounder, whether
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: it's with my legs or I'm kind of washing her
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: while I'm trying to watch the movie. Just at all
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: times about Scotty, can you please calm down? Yeah, she'll
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: be in this mode where she just starts yelling her
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: like because she's just playing and having fun. Yes, and
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: like dude, can you just relax or can we put
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: you back in the chair?
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: You put her back in the church.
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: You just start screaming and yelling she's got to get out.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: She's just a busy body. Yeah, those weekly traditions, it's
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: like you're just trying to get him in the mode.
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: But dude, it's uh we love it, man, Oh we
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: love it.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: The next word.
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: Neighbor family do chalk drawing contests between the mom and
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: the dad and the oldest daughter.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: Oh I like that.
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: And so they do contests and they have like a
• 58:50
  Speaker 3: different thing that they draw each time, and they take
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: it like seriously. They don't just give it to the
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: daughter like they don't. Yeah, and she's like seven or
• 58:58
  Speaker 3: eight fourger and fire. Yeah, oh, you are just gonna
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: win this competition. They're like, Okay, it's a unicorn. Here's
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: what we're doing. Blah blah blah.
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: I like that.
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: And because our kids like doing chalk, yeah, dude, and
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: they it was like so fun hearing her talk about like, yeah,
• 59:13
  Speaker 3: mom won unicorn, but her t rex was awful the
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: other day, Like my t rex absolutely destroyed hers. She
• 59:20
  Speaker 3: didn't even know what a t rex looked like, Like
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: Sunday chill out.
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that, man.
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: But those old traditions and stuff, Dude, as I'm seeing
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: them and as i'm hearing about them from like you,
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: or hearing about gardening that Taylor does with his family,
• 59:35
  Speaker 3: like all the gardening that they've started doing together. I'm like, dude,
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: I want to start doing like ripping something with Scarlet
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: and I just I wrote down, home is where the
• 59:44
  Speaker 3: heart is, I said, our new house is another opportunity
• 59:48
  Speaker 3: for new traditions, new memories to create. My family moved
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: to a small town of Alito outside of Fort Worth,
• 59:55
  Speaker 3: Texas when I was nine or ten. I was super
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: sad to leave the house I was brought up in.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: But my parents did such a good job of making
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 3: the new home feel like our new home. New traditions
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 3: of hitting up the snow cone stand on our drives
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: home from school, my dad putting a deer feeder in
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 3: our backyard so we could see wildlife on early mornings,
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: finding our new local spots that we would get excited
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 3: to go eat at together as a family. All those
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 3: little things that it's just like the little things that
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: make home home.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the core memories of it all. It's
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: like when you have tradition, when you're doing like family traditions,
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: it's you guys are all deciding as a tribe as
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: a family, Like, this is how we show up as
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: a family on these traditions. Yes, So it's like it's
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: always a bummer if I have to miss a PiZZ
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: of Friday because we travel somewhere. Because you want them
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: to know, like as Scarlett grows up and you guys
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: have a weekly tradition whatever it is, Yeah, you just
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: know in your brain foundationally, like this is how we
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: show up as a family for this tradition.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: Me like waking up super early for whatever sport practice.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: It's like, and the sun.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 3: Isn't even remotely rising, and my dad's just by the
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 3: kitchen window. Hey look there's a little six point He'll
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: be good in two years.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: You look and look at all those little does and.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: Stuff, And I'll always remember that all those like little
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 3: moments and little things of like magic that my parents created. Yeah,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 3: like stuff, And I'm excited that this is like the
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 3: first year that we're getting to do that. So we're
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 3: gonna go to Old Navy and get like the real
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 3: I say, gaudy and corny because like they kind of
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: are like the Fourth of July shirts that they come
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 3: out with, Yeah, like their Fourth of July shirts and
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 3: we're getting matching ones.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: For the entire family.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 3: My mom and dad are gonna be there in thirty
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: a and we're all gonna have the matching old Navy shirts.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 3: Scarlet's gonna have one little family pick on the beach.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: You have to, it's a must. Sounds like, and this
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: is just leunging you as a friend.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 4: You were frustrated to you didn't get to use your
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 4: creative acumen for Mother's Day. That could be a Sherman
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 4: Young original shirt that you make with the family because
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 4: you are too creative to go to a store and biocraft.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 3: Hey that's hey, that's a really really good note.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 4: He had ones that said red, white, and blue because
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 4: our last name was white, and yeah, Chip Chip still
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 4: wears this to this day, saying that's really good.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 3: I kind of just got a little I got a
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: little goosebumps picture.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: Scarlett invite one of her friends one day to that's
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: what you guys do for your Fourth of July tradition,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: and like, look, you're gonna be with the fam. Like
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: my dad, he always makes a he always makes a
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: shirt every year. Yeah, so we're gonna have to wear
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: the shirt. You're gonna have to wear it.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 3: You're gonna have to buy in, and Scarlett, I don't
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 3: know if you can invite Bethany because Bethany wasn't very
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 3: pro everything that I was scarting's not.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: Going to a matter of fact, Skol is not gonna
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: be the one that says you have to buy in.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be you. Age. You tell Bethany we kind
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: of do Fourth of July, like she's gonna have to
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: wear have to wear Pappa shirms shirt.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 3: Get God, honey, get Bethany's get her hat size and
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 3: her shirt size too at school today so I could
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 3: go ahead and I want to get her, you know,
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 3: I want to.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: Get her the shirt and she's not gonna do it.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: But when Bethany comes over on the weekend, like, hey,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: I don't know if my daughter, I don't know if
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: Scarscar ran this through you, But can I get your
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: hat size and shoe size? How can we do this thing?
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: How was the Young's house? Honey?
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 3: I was good, mister Young, like kept on asking, like
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 3: what my shoe size was, what my shirt size wise,
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 3: what my hat size wise? I don't know what it's
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 3: all for. You just kept on saying you're gonna love
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 3: fourth at July, I don't know.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: You'd be holding up just probably you girls. You guys
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: are gonna love these outfits. Your old man's coming up with.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: Put his hat on.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: Hey, do the little snap so where it's comfortable.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: You don't want it to get close to each other.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 3: Let that take a photo of you.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: Oh, you guys are gonna wear these outfits. You guys
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: gonna have these your clauses forever. Oh my god, this
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: is gonna beautiful.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 3: Right when we're done with the brons, we're gonna go
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 3: into snakes and sparkless. Are more of a snake's girl
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 3: or a sparkless girl. Hooks and lettice time, hooks and
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 3: lettice time guy that around the table. I can't wait
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 3: for that, Like I truly cannot wait to be like
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 3: the nerdy, embarrassing dad that is like pushing all this
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: stuff onto his kids.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: Oh it's the thirty get your smoke bomb. Oh in
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: the in the fireworks.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 3: Before fourth of July, I told myself that I'm gonna
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 3: tell Scarlet that because there's always the the guys that
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: they just get they can't hold it. They gotta shoot
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 3: them at you know. Ten thirty July third eleven o'clock
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 3: July third, they start shooting the early fireworks.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: Even the daytime one, even in the daytime, go chase
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: the parachute.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell her that those are her birthday fireworks
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 3: before fourth of July.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: The July third one.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, where the guys that are out there a little
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 3: too early. I'm gonna say those are hers, and she'll
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 3: get today age or she goes dad, those aren't. That's
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 3: just some guy that's had a couple of lollipops and
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 3: was looking to.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: Shoot some fine sparkless.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: Get your sparkled, draw.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 8: Your name, do your name if you do it.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: Wrong, my god, you're doing it.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 3: Let me get the video.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: And she's got braces and a pony telling me so pissed.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: One day, Oh you mind? You mind doing this again?
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: I want to get a video at that, Dad, I
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: don't want to. Can you just can you please? It's
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: for your month? I love you so much. When do
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: I ever ask you to do anything? Yeah, twenty minutes
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: ago when you told me to put this hat and
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: shirt on, okay, told me sold me. But I dude,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: I can't wait for that. I'm just I'm elated. Oh yeah,
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: I love the traditions. Off, I had a buddy, you'd
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: go over to his house and if I was invited
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: over to stay on the weekend, like Sunday. Sunday morning
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: before church was like pancakes. They always did pancakes. It'd
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: be eat as many as you can't be, like a competition. Pancake,
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: eatie pancakes every Sunday, whether it's chalk, whether it's pancakes,
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: whether it's pizza Friday, like those weekly traditions.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: Like you'd be.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 3: Falling asleep in the pews too. Sure gets so many
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 3: freaking pancakes and syrup.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: He is. They were Pentecostal too, like you know the Pentecostal,
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: these tongues they run around. I'm thinking, what the hell's
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: going on here? You weren't no wonder. They're carmelooning for
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: the show. They're like, hey, you're gonna be moving will Yeah,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: you know, I bulk up just what they was passing
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: out so much?
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 9: You throw.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 3: So much pancakes and in syrup. Oh my god, dude.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 3: A two year note. Though I love the idea of
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 3: the creative thing, I'm gonna do airbrush hats because I
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 3: like the concept of the old Navy matching shirts because
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 3: it's very like going to Sears and like taking a
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 3: fit family photo and sears kind of like I just
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 3: remember everyone in the nineties would always get the old
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 3: Navy or the gap like Fourth of July shirts, and
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 3: like nobody's doing that anymore, and so I love that aspect.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 3: But I'll do you airbrush hats one great call and
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 3: have each person's name like on the airbrush hat with
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 3: like an American flag like across the whole thing.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: You know they'll be good, dude.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Dad hacks, Dad hacks. Crack a cold one, crack
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 3: a coal one.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: I get crack a coal one. That's I need a
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: fresh one.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: I'll get you a fresh because we were.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 2: Classic great bear go blood.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: By one of these new ones.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 3: Hopefully I tried to give it a nice spin instead
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 3: of a.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: One this week brought to us by Alipop. Here we
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: go about not to the doc. That's normal, We're good,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: my critical one. I think I've shouted this out before,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: but it's ruined Scottie. There the bedtime Scotty is now
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: to a point. Like yesterday, Mom and Rue went after dinner.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: Mom and Rue went to go get ice cream, and
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: I went to take Scotti up to do bedtime. Yeah,
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: And when I'm sitting there and she just kept saying, Mama,
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: woo woo, and I'm like, oh yeah, they'll be back soon,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: They'll be back soon. We're sitting there, reading story time,
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: doing all this stuff. I hear Mama come home. I
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: hear him come home. Chro obviously, kiss, hug, all this stuff.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: Every night Rue does as well, but Rou's downstairs. They
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: just went to get ice cream. Usually we're doing bedtime
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: at the same time. So just the routine kind of
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: comes together to where Rue always goes in, gives her
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: a hug, kiss, three squeeze, says good night.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: All the things.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: But Mom comes in, comes upstairs, and I'm I'm on
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: the rocking part to where we hit the books. We've
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: hit brushing tet, we've hit all the things, so we're
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: now it's time to fall asleep. Mom comes in, hug, kiss,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: three squeezes, she leaves. Now I'm sitting there rocking Scotty
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: and she's got pat Pa in. She calls her past.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: I see pat Pa, I see her take it out,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: and she's like woo woo, woo woo, and I'm like, oh, yeah,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: Rub's downstairs.
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 2: She's home. She's like woo woo.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you want you want Rue to
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: come tell you good night? And then she just says
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: back and I just see her like okay, So I
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: text Charles. I'm like, hey, Scotty wants Ru to come
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: up and tell her good night. Rue comes upstairs, and
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: Bro just melts your heart. Man.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 3: She comes in, It's like, oh, Rue, Scotty wants you
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 3: to give her history. Squeeze Scott.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: He's already like leaning up, hug who gives her a
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: soft kiss on the forehead one two three, I love
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: you and just tells her, Bro like, good night, sleep tight.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: I see in the morning. I love being your big sister.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: And Ruth's talking to her in like the adult voays,
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: trying to talk to the to the baby, you know
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: what I mean. Like she's like, uh, she's just doing it, yes,
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: And Bro, it just melts your heart, man, And Scott
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: a Lama puts pat pat back in, Sister rocks off
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: the to sleep. But dude, is it is the most
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: adorable thing in the world. Does he just roue kind
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: of operate like she's being the adult in the room
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: for it.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that element of parenting that I would say
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 3: any parent would want to bottle up and keep in
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 3: their pocket forever.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Man, I was mad.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 2: I didn't like rip it out and just like I'm
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 2: gonna get one one day.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 3: Oh you'll do. You'll get a thousand of those.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're just saying like, I love being your
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: big sister, like all the things that we say to
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: rue her. Mimicking it and doing it with Scottie is
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: just dude, It's Oh that's my crack a cold one.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 3: What a great crack a cold one, Dude, I had
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 3: a crack a cold one of I wanted to quickly
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 3: shout out Uncle Brian and Auntie Hillary. There are Brian
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 3: was the best man my wedding. There are a couple
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 3: of friends. They their daughter was born on my birthday
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 3: May twenty fourth, where we're birthday twins, and she was
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 3: born and it's their first kid and he's a girl dad.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 3: And I'm really excited. If I talk to more, I'll cry.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: I can kind of knew the the glistening happened.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 3: Oh bro we they they are just like my favorite
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 3: people in the entire world. They're my favorite people in
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 3: the entire world, and I have a ton of.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: Those love you. That's like, oh ship.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: For anyone listening, there's a close family, uh and friend.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 3: Like you know what I mean when I just say
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 3: Brian Cox is good people.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: Dude, that's my guy. That's my guy.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 3: I've known him. He moved to our school in seventh grade.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 3: My cousin knew him, and he ran up to me
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 3: on the seven on seven field during summer ball and
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 3: he said, Hey, my name is Brian Cox. I know
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 3: Marshall Young, your cousin. He said, we're going to be
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 3: best friends. And since that day, Brian Cox has been
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 3: my best friend. Like, that's my dog and he just
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 3: had a daughter. Dude, I'm so so that's my ready
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 3: to rock. Oh yeah, if you want to talk about
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 3: all the pitfalls of Sherman Young, Brian Cox fills those
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 3: spaces of Hey, what are things that Sherman's really bad at?
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 3: Not always on time, real messy, not very Uh what's
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 3: what's the word organized?
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: Organize?
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Brian's got it. Brian could have been a dad
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 3: ten years ago.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: Oh he's ready to go.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: He's a stud.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 3: He's yeah, we're talking pt sicko wise.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: Is he ready to go.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 3: Also that yes, loves the show, loves like he's so
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 3: ready to be a dad. But as far as he'd
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 3: put me to shame, he put me to shame. And
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 3: he's got this stuff he's got to learn of, like
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 3: dipey changing and all that.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: I'll do.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: Man, he's gonna be able to do it.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but he said like he was sending to me
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 3: when he was in the delivery room. He was sending
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 3: me just jiffs of cornerbacks, just going like this, I
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 3: got it unlocked.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: Dude.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 3: You gotta see me operating in this delivery room right now.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: We could have him one, he could have Dad Hacks. Yeah,
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: he's gonna, he's gonna. They're gonna start building their routines.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: BC would be great to pick his brain. And he's funny, dude,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: DC's funny. I would like to BC and Nick episode
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: now that we're getting Oh, Nikky Boy, Nikky boy.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 3: If Nikky Boy and BC four, I'm already telling you
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 3: I if I know Nick Hallett like I think I do.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 3: They they're instant Nick, Nick operates man, instant friends, organized, Yeah,
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 3: anxiety like he's a warrior. Yeah, he gets it from
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 3: his mama. Shout out lawier. I love you, Laurie, you
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 3: are like another mother to your boy. Yeah, love me
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 3: some nick BC.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: Is the same way.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 3: We gotta know what channel the game wins, the game
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 3: coming on, It's gonna this channel and get hold on.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 3: I'm making sure that this is the right pregame show. Okay, yes,
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 3: this is Yeah. Did they okay they would hit it
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 3: off by my bonus crack of cole One's bathtime dude,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 3: Scarlet's starting to enjoy bathtime.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And to that dad that called in.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 10: That was like, hey, what the hell do I do?
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 10: Thore in bad time? Like what do you guys do? Like, oh,
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 10: look at.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 3: You get to a point she's ten months.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: She crawled.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 3: She when I start walking to that bathroom, now she
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 3: crawls after me, going a screaming, going hell, yeah, it's bathtime.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: It's bathtime.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 3: I get to play like it's literally playtime for and
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 3: just the it's that same kind of magic that you're
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 3: describing with uh Rue and Scottie, like that just the
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 3: magic of Scarlet crawling all the way to the bathtub
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 3: and pulling herself on it and looking at the water
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 3: and seeing her mermaid and just like the noises she
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 3: makes like she literally grunts in scra of like yes, backtime,
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 3: Like I love bat time. It's just like such a
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 3: magical little moment of I'm drained to the end of
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 3: the day. I don't even want to be doing bat time.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 3: I'm in a sour dog right right right right by.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: That time, it's like a it gets caught with this
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: in like a it's a chore. It's a chore.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 3: And then I see the way she's crawling to the
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 3: bathroom and I'm like, oh, it just like gives me
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 3: so much life to like see her just be so elated.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: Dude. Yeah, and Rue's got so much like speaking about
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: like Scottie.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: You just lather them up with soap. You get them going.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 2: It's easy.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 3: And are they doing it together?
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they do it together. They do it together.
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: Scotty trying to like grab Ruse toys and you know
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: you're trying to like separate them. It's just fun to play,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: like include your sister. Scott but has so much hair.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: It's like, you know, just shampooing her hair. Yeah, it's
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: just a deal. I've got her now to where if
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: it's just Rue, I call like I'm throwing some selec
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: SPA time. I was like, let me show you a
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: trick to where I basically get her to just lay
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: back in the water like instead of like just just
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: dumping water on all the time, like laying back and
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: just her ears are under the waters where it's just
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: her face coming out. I play some tunes no, and
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: I'll like, you know, massage your head because I'm just
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: trying to get the soap out versus like, you know,
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: she gets it. She's trying to play. You're trying to
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: like dump the continue to look up, look up, chin up,
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: all these things. Well, let's just get it to where
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: we knock it out. You just lay back, I kind
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: of massage it all out of your hair.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 3: That's a fantastic dad hack as far as like turning
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 3: a net negative into a net positive. And now it's
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 3: it's fun and easy for her, and it's a lot
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 3: easier for you now too.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and another little dad hack. So if you it
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: was the last time it was happening, where her ears
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  Speaker 1: are under, her ears are underwater, on her face just
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  Speaker 1: popping up, I'm like, oh, just relax, listen to the music.
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  Speaker 1: Can you hear the tone of my voice? Can you
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  Speaker 1: hear the music being played, and she's like whispering like yeah,
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: and you know too, like when you have kids that
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  Speaker 1: love bath time when you're wanting to drain, they get upset,
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  Speaker 1: like they're like, no, we want to continue to be.
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  Speaker 1: We want to continue to be in the bath and
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  Speaker 1: continue to play. How I hacked it with rue is
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, uh, you know, we got all the
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  Speaker 1: soap out of her hair and everything else. She's sitting up.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, late, back down, and I want you to
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  Speaker 1: hear like when we un pool, like listen to how
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  Speaker 1: cool the noise is when the water's draining, when your
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: ears are underwater. So she's laying back, I'm kind of
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  Speaker 1: knocking out to where it's like, okay, I cleaned her up,
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  Speaker 1: we can just get out of bath, versus her like
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  Speaker 1: wanting to sit there and play because she's fired up
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  Speaker 1: about the spa, about the music and all the things,
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  Speaker 1: and me like massage in her head because she's like, Mama,
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  Speaker 1: Mama doesn't want me to lay back because it'll still
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  Speaker 1: be soaping my.
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  Speaker 2: Oh your mama, Like listen, I'll make sure the soup's
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  Speaker 2: out of here.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm like, listen to how cool the drain the
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  Speaker 1: drain noise like when it drains. And she's like okay,
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  Speaker 1: and she like lays back and I'm like, I'm like
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  Speaker 1: in your head. She's like, yeah, so you's drained the
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  Speaker 1: water out. Bath time's over. You can get out now.
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  Speaker 1: You got to save them because they're cold. You pick
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  Speaker 1: them up. You know, you're doing all the things. You're
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  Speaker 1: like doing the dryer noises so you can dry out
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  Speaker 1: her hair and her body and everything else. Playing. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: but that's a way to kind of hack the system
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  Speaker 1: so you're not in bath time longer than you need
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  Speaker 1: to be in bath time.
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  Speaker 3: Fabulous dad hack. I have a dad hack right here
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  Speaker 3: by the way. If we want to, let's get into
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  Speaker 3: the hacks.
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  Speaker 1: Man.
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  Speaker 3: I got a dad hack as well. This one comes
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  Speaker 3: from Sean McGowan. Sean said dad hack with ninety nine
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  Speaker 3: percent effectiveness. It reads, Hey boys, big fan here and
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  Speaker 3: want to let you know and want to let you
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  Speaker 3: in on a little dad hack I use all the time.
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  Speaker 3: That works almost too well. I have two toddlers, two
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  Speaker 3: and four, and as we all know, getting a toddler
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  Speaker 3: or multiple toddlers to listen or complete a task can
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  Speaker 3: be a challenge. So here's what I do when I'm
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 3: trying to get them to get something done. I turn
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  Speaker 3: it into a race competition.
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  Speaker 1: Bro, my dad.
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  Speaker 3: This is just has my dad written all over it.
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  Speaker 3: Who's gonna get dressed first, who's gonna brush their teeth first,
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 3: who's gonna get in the tub first, who's gonna go
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 3: to the potty before bed first, et cetera, et cetera.
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  Speaker 3: It works so well with our two that now my
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  Speaker 3: wife uses it. So I'm passing along the knowledge to
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  Speaker 3: all ptsios out there and just need to get the
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  Speaker 3: kids out the door. Hope all as well. Sean from Connecticut, CT, Connecticut, Yep.
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  Speaker 1: My dad. My dad's go to was, Hey, how fast
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  Speaker 1: do you think you can do it? Oh?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, like twenty seconds because he had me
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 3: trained at that point. Right, let's see, twenty seconds. He
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  Speaker 3: had a time ax, always wore a time ax head.
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  Speaker 3: Get that thing going, and I'm off to the races
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  Speaker 3: on trash, newspaper anything anything.
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  Speaker 1: You have that dad hack too, because I'm gonna I'm
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  Speaker 1: using that dad hack once Scotti becomes of age where
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: she's like, can get herself dressed or brush your teeth
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  Speaker 1: or do things like on her own.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I love that Dad hack Man.
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  Speaker 3: We gotta leave pretty quick for ballet where you think
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 3: you can get your hair done?
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: What do you think maybe two minutes?
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 3: You think you do it in two minutes? I could
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  Speaker 3: do it in a minute.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I got one here from Colton Jones on Spotify.
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  Speaker 1: Dad Hack Here, boys take the pacifier to build a
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  Speaker 1: bear and have your kid pick out a stuffed animal
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  Speaker 1: to put the pacifier in. Work for my boy ps
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: haven with the beds his first day of senior year
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  Speaker 1: of high school in twenty sixteen.
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  Speaker 2: Dude shut out.
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  Speaker 3: Colton, Dude shut out coldon Hey, I have a video
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  Speaker 3: that I'll send to you sober since senior year of
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 3: high school. Let's go h I got a video for
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 3: Chef of a little girl putting her pass in the
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 3: build a bear looks so much fun? She was ripping,
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 3: Dude ripping.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, build a bear. That's a that's a fun that's
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: a fun like event to do with going to build
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: a bear, building the stuffed animal.
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  Speaker 3: I also, I have a Dad hack that's been sitting
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 3: on my sheet for weeks, forgotten every single episode to say,
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 3: here's my dad hack Nan It not nan It. We
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 3: love nan It. Nuna our stroller. Nuna makes like a
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  Speaker 3: little stroller bag that you can put on your stroller.
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 3: You don't have to have Nuna, you don't have to
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  Speaker 3: have the Nuna bag, but put a bag on your
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 3: stroller and put poop bags, water bottle, snacky pios. Because
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 3: I'm starting to do those walks in the morning Scarlet
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 3: and the dogs, and now that I have that little
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 3: bag on my stroller, dude, it is a lifesaver. I
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 3: even sometimes put paper towels in there because you never know.
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 3: Because Goose, I mean, God bless him, dude, that guy
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 3: had a ticket to the glue factory two years ago.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 3: I mean, Goose, I could literally go home to live
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 3: with Grandma. I'm pretty much fed up on Goose. He'll
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 3: get poop all over him.
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, on the.
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  Speaker 3: Walk and he's trying to jump up on the stroller
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 3: and he's got poop all over him. And thank god,
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 3: I have my paper towels in my little mag I
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 3: love Goose too, but it's ill Goose.
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, take them to the farm.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: He might, he might.
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  Speaker 3: I threaten him with the glue factory and he acts
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 3: like he doesn't understand me, and I'm like, buddy, you
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 3: gotta get it together.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna find out, you're gonna buyd knock around,
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: find out we got some pt fixed.
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: I have a just dad hack. You're on the stuff
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: to have in the bag. I was gonna throw back
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: an old school dad hack, just strictly on routine. There's
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: obviously new dats that come your boy BC, but any
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: new dad's out there that is looking for just some
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: small game and it's around my cracker cold one a
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: bedtime routine. But just to refresh people on the routine,
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: on the routine that we do with Scotti, because we
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: now have Scottie. Not now she's been doing it for
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: a minute, but putting away her laundry, like getting her
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: to do a little chores since she's like kind of
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: with it a little bit, she's only eighteen months old.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: But making sure you got that bottle ready to go downstairs.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: Before you go upstairs, or before you go to the room,
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: you go into the room, set the room, you set
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: the tempo, You set the environment, whether it's lights off,
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: you got the night light on, you close the blindes,
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: you close the shades. You got the sound machine playing
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: the music, the things that set the tone that let
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: the little one know bedtime is about to happen and
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: about to take place. And again this is for newer
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: dads or younger dads. Changing table. Now you rock the
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: little one on the changing table. You got the you
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: got the temperature set, you got everything set in the room.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 2: Now it's time to go to work.
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: You get them on the changing table, You change their diaper,
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 1: You lather them up at the lotion if they got
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: the dry skin, you got the loaches for the dry skin.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: You got all the things you need to do. You
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: put the pajamas on them. While you're putting the pajamas
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: on them, you sing them a song. Me, my default
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: is always just using the kid's name, the child's name
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: for the song. So to be like scott E scott E,
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: Scottie Joe, Scottie Scottie Scottie Joe. And I just look
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: at her and I sing, and I look at her laugh,
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: I look at her smile mmm. Or I'll do Old
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: McDonald had a full hit it with the old McDonald's
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  Speaker 1: E I E I O. And you sing to why
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: you're changing them? Yes, sir, you got them changed? Now
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 1: you hit I sent little Scotty, Joe down if they're
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 1: big enough to walk, Scotty. Now it's on to do laundry.
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: You see Mom and Dadda do the laundry every day.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: Now she's mimicking. She's want to see Scotty laundry time.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: She'll hand me one piece and she'll grab one piece. Okay,
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: we'll walk.
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  Speaker 2: To the laundry. I throw it in laundry and I
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: go boom.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 1: She goes over. Ugh, she comes out after laundry. We
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 1: now get her too. So once you get them changed up,
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: if they're not walking, or they're not doing the little
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: wattle thing, you now get them in the sleepsack. At
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 1: sleepsack time, they sip them up in the sleepsack. Maybe
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: sing a little too, maybe sh boom down.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 2: In the crib. Get him in the sleepsack.
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 1: For Scotti. We rip a couple of books. She ygs
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: the bottle. Yeah, we go in and do brush your teeth.
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: We brush the teeth. You have the little routine with
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: brushing the teeth. They love it. You go in, you
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: read another book or two if you want to us.
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: I have one. The starting song on the sound machine,
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 1: and now it's the white noise that lets us know, Hey,
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: it's sleep time. Lah Yeah, back Papa in hold Lama.
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: She reaches for a book. No, no, sweetheart, it's time for bed.
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: It's time for sleeping. Yeah.
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 2: She kind of relaxes, sit back down. We just rock
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 2: back and forth.
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: I sing her in by Wimble from Mighty Joe Young
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: until she's out cold, or until she's getting to that
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: stage tour she's still a little bit awake. The sleep
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: training stuff kicks in where you want them to go
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: to sleep on their own. Scotty now being eighteen months,
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: you put her in the crib like while she's still
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll rock her to sleep towards she's fully asleep,
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: because you just love getting that extra cuddle time in.
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: Put her in bed when she's a little drowsy. She
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 1: learns the false go to sleep on her own boom.
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: Just dad hack routine, just re recycling some stuff that
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: we've talked about in the past. Will you know that
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: there's new dads that come in that come through just
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: simple get routines.
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 3: Right If I yeah, you're a new mom or a
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 3: new dad and you just listen to that part of
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 3: will I don't think you heard them.
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: I think you need to rewind.
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 3: I think you need to listen to that again and
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 3: break out a little pen and paper because you just
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 3: play everybody on so much game.
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 1: And I'm being dead.
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 3: Serious, dude, you're a If you were a staunch, staunch Democrat,
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 3: I'm a staunch Republican. You put that bill in front
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 3: of me, I'm signing it.
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 1: Dude.
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 3: That is you want to talk about getting your baby
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 3: to sleep, That's exactly what we do. And I know
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 3: that we went off of two different methods with the
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 3: reading stuff, but you could tuck in scarlet tonight with
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 3: that method.
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 1: That's exactly when we do. You're a dad that's listening
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 1: right now or as soon to be dead or in
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: your significant other mom doesn't listen before the dads. This
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 1: is some game that you can take. Hey, here's game. Like,
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: we gotta set the tone, we gotta set the room.
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 1: And she's probably gonn say yeah, yeah, I know I've
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 1: been wanting you to do this.
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 3: Oh dude, you got a buddy with bags under his eyes.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: We can't get the kiddo down.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 3: Just like, kindly ask him if he does have a
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 3: bedtime operation that they're going off of. They might not
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 3: have one like there's some people that just aren't aware
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 3: of this, and that's okay, dude, you're new to parenting.
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 3: But I'm telling you, if it could be anything, he
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 3: said what he said, and I'm saying that we do
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 3: the exact same thing. But you get that structured down
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 3: of these steps are taken every single night.
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're teaching them too. It's like you're training
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: them to understand that, hey, it is bedtime now. Just
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 1: like now, it's like Scotty, she can't pull out and
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 1: open up the trash cabinet, but she knows now, Like
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 1: when she's done with something, she'll continue to like hand
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: it to us. But as she hands it to us,
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: it's like, oh, we got to throw this in the trash,
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 1: so I'll grab it, or I'll just have her walk.
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 1: Let's come over here to the trash can. Open up
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: the trash can. She sits there and stares at it
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 1: for a long time, pretends to put it in, doesn't,
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 1: and then I'll end up just like knocking it out
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 1: into the.
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 2: Trash and I'm like, yeah, good job.
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: Study. But then over time, you're building these iterations of hey,
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: when you're done with your snack and you are strong,
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: enough to pull it out. You're going to be throwing
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: away your own trash. Yeah, you're just setting them up.
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: You're setting them up. Yeah, you got to.
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 2: Train these little ones.
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 3: Call ins, call ins, dude, let's dive in PT six, MT. Six,
• 1:28:07
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• 1:28:10
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• 1:28:14
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• 1:28:30
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• 1:28:33
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• 1:28:35
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• 1:28:39
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• 1:28:40
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• 1:28:43
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• 1:28:50
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  Speaker 1: And I'm being dead serious. I've mentioned knit twice. I
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: was just recently at Target.
• 1:29:03
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• 1:29:06
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• 1:29:10
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• 1:29:16
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• 1:29:18
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• 1:29:23
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• 1:29:26
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• 1:29:30
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• 1:29:36
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• 1:30:06
  Speaker 1: Lollipop is basically everywhere.
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 3: And on Amazon as well. I don't know if we
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 3: mentioned that.
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: I really think we, you know, dad brain, I think
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 1: we forgot to mention it is on Amazon.
• 1:30:15
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• 1:30:17
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• 1:30:19
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  Speaker 1: Let's see. Hey, this is George Barrett.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, George, long.
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  Speaker 8: Time listener, first time caller. I listened to one of
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  Speaker 8: yours post part earlier today. It was talking about the sects. Listen,
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  Speaker 8: now we've all done this.
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  Speaker 7: I think, you know, maybe once or so the storm did.
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  Speaker 8: I was actually uh put in, got a you know,
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  Speaker 8: a quick a little check up.
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  Speaker 1: Every thinks fine, right, it's pretty smooth.
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  Speaker 7: Right, Well there, I am really on the table, have
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 7: some laughing gas and all of a sudden, doctor's stilling around.
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  Speaker 11: First one knit sim burn it cool. Doctor's still playing
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  Speaker 11: around a little longer, you know, still playing, still playing.
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  Speaker 11: I'm this is take a little a long I expected.
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  Speaker 11: He picks up over my leg and says, do I
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  Speaker 11: have both kidneys?
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  Speaker 3: I this is random time out, he said, do I.
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  Speaker 4: Doctor says, well, you ask him do you have both kidneys?
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  Speaker 4: And the guy said, well, yeah, that's super weird. I
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  Speaker 4: have both kidneys. Yes, okay, okay, keep going.
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  Speaker 9: Start talking more.
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  Speaker 7: I'm like, what do you mean?
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  Speaker 12: My kiddy like, well, what happens when you've got the kidneys?
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  Speaker 12: You develop all your testicles? And I'm like, why have
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 12: two balls? So there's that's obviously there, and he's like,
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  Speaker 12: but your best difference is at all? At the same time,
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  Speaker 12: I'm like, I'm pretty sure I have both kidneys. So
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  Speaker 12: if I'm feeling around, because I'm feeling around, nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing call for me.
• 1:36:39
  Speaker 8: The story of because after this all.
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  Speaker 12: The ejaculating, is that I was able to actually have
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  Speaker 12: two buoys one nut did that because I only have
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 12: one beast stefference.
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  Speaker 7: After the doctor played around and didn't ult sound on.
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  Speaker 13: My kiddies and found I have both kidneys, and felt
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 13: around a little longer find out that, yeah, I only
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 13: have one active best difference, so I only want to
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  Speaker 13: do one snip. The shittiest part about this whole thing
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  Speaker 13: is it doctor didn't even give me half discount.
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  Speaker 1: I am George down and everything. I laughed, didn't get
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  Speaker 1: half off, and he laughed at me.
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  Speaker 7: He said, no, God, bory By that you're still getting
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  Speaker 7: five stars is a mystar treatment flappy yas helpful, b
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  Speaker 7: but uh yeah, the whole uh working off that much,
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 7: it's a real thing. Uh even a one nut, you know.
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  Speaker 7: I asked Hivited how to do it half that time
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 7: because only had half the process. He said no, So
• 1:37:29
  Speaker 7: it was very interesting. But yeah, my little story behind
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  Speaker 7: that is go do a voice? Do we have it
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  Speaker 7: done again? Thank you for listening to my story and
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 7: let us be safe. Heaving for me because yeah, it
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  Speaker 7: was quite the story, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know he had so.
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  Speaker 4: So George's pro snip, did you just hang up a
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  Speaker 4: common misconception conception about the hotline? It only goes two
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  Speaker 4: minutes twenty three seconds. So we get a lot of
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 4: novels from people. That was the longest one I've submitted
• 1:37:56
  Speaker 4: in here, because it's funny. That's vast step in front
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 4: of what it does. No is the duck that allows
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 4: sperm to go from your balls out, So he has
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 4: a ball that just has sperm that can't leave the ball. Oh,
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  Speaker 4: so he's clogged up, and yeah, I don't know this
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 4: man personally.
• 1:38:14
  Speaker 1: My assumption is, yes, maybe not clogged, but it's only formulated.
• 1:38:17
  Speaker 1: He's only got one dose in there, and he's had
• 1:38:20
  Speaker 1: it for his entire life.
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  Speaker 3: Shout out to that particular ball, Yeah, like truly for
• 1:38:27
  Speaker 3: hanging around this long and just being being there for
• 1:38:32
  Speaker 3: your boy the sperm in that nut.
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 1: Like it's got to be a community at this point
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 1: because he is a family.
• 1:38:38
  Speaker 3: Og sperm swimming around in that thing.
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 1: And we aren't.
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 3: Doctors, We aren't doctors. We're saying we're not experts at all.
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 3: But that sounds right to me.
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  Speaker 2: But it's like the.
• 1:38:48
  Speaker 1: Boys are hanging in there, it's like, hey, I heard
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 1: in it, you know, and other in other realms, like
• 1:38:54
  Speaker 1: they're just they get to know each other, they say hello,
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 1: they get acquainted, but they're off, they're off somewhere else.
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 1: They never get to know their boys the way we
• 1:39:02
  Speaker 1: get to know each other.
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 3: They don't get to chill out here for thirty something years.
• 1:39:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy. Oh, I was.
• 1:39:09
  Speaker 3: Trying to think of a name, Greg Crazy Greg the sperm.
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 3: What is I love that he asked for half off
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 3: while he was high on laughing gas with his pants
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 3: around his ankles. I mean, it's a fair professional, real
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 3: dad right there to be looking for a discount while
• 1:39:25
  Speaker 3: under the knife. He's not gonna be folf like, what
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 3: are we talking about?
• 1:39:30
  Speaker 1: Dog? And also I would ask, are we able to
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 1: pull out the sperm that testicle so that way I
• 1:39:38
  Speaker 1: can bottle it up like it's a.
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like it's from a glacier, from a last Yeah.
• 1:39:44
  Speaker 3: I'd almost want to jar it the whole ball. Yeah,
• 1:39:47
  Speaker 3: if it doesn't need to be in there. I don't know,
• 1:39:50
  Speaker 3: you know, I'm kind of talking out my ass, but
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 3: that'd be fun.
• 1:39:53
  Speaker 1: That can be fun. Yeah, But the boys are still
• 1:39:56
  Speaker 1: in the ball, like when you want to get them
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 1: out so they can at least see the world. That's
• 1:39:59
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They're never going to be used ever. Yeah,
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 1: unless you can pull it out and extract it and
• 1:40:03
  Speaker 1: like freeze it.
• 1:40:04
  Speaker 3: And if George here is like in sales or anything,
• 1:40:07
  Speaker 3: that's a conversation piece, so you just have it on
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 3: your desk or like on a bookshelf, and then he
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 3: that's you just call them.
• 1:40:16
  Speaker 1: You just you put some white tape over the jar
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 1: and just call them Doomsday boys. Because there kind of
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 1: like some doomsday guys, like they've just been trapped underground.
• 1:40:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah forever.
• 1:40:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, those are.
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 2: The doomsday boys in there.
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 3: But it kind of looks like just a testicle. Uh,
• 1:40:32
  Speaker 3: what's what's the same, George, Like it kind of just
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 3: looks like a testicle. George, Yeah, it is. But there's
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 3: millions in there that you haven't seen the world. So
• 1:40:43
  Speaker 3: I'm doing I'm a favorite dude. Can we talk business
• 1:40:47
  Speaker 3: or what? This next one is titled PT Pisser.
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  Speaker 2: Oh please, welcome to the show, Pet Pisser.
• 1:40:54
  Speaker 14: And Podcast and have a pet pisser story. We were
• 1:41:02
  Speaker 14: actually in Nashville a couple.
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  Speaker 9: Of months Agoville in Nashville.
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  Speaker 15: Party and I was thirty five thirty eight weeks pregnant
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  Speaker 15: at the time.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no.
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  Speaker 15: And he went to Broadway that night and gets back
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 15: in I did not go out, and he rolls over
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 15: on top of me and our son in my belly.
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 9: At the time. No her size reference.
• 1:41:32
  Speaker 15: He was a line at maybe and oh no, on
• 1:41:35
  Speaker 15: top of me.
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  Speaker 9: I hear a bang into the cabinet the Airbnb and
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 9: piss just starting to hit the floor and Kip thinks
• 1:41:44
  Speaker 9: that he is being in the toiletom target of the AIRBB.
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  Speaker 14: So I howk up really quickly and try to get
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 14: him into the bathroom.
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 15: He's all over a toilet, all of the floor as
• 1:41:59
  Speaker 15: absolutely gets struck in bed and just goes back sound asleep. Yeah,
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 15: we were watching an episode now with our eight week
• 1:42:08
  Speaker 15: old little boy. His name's kap after his dad, and
• 1:42:12
  Speaker 15: I just had to call and he has.
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 9: No idea that I'm calling. Oh, thank you so much day.
• 1:42:24
  Speaker 1: Kapepe just got out of.
• 1:42:29
  Speaker 3: And that's why we don't forget Mother's Day, folks, That's
• 1:42:33
  Speaker 3: why we don't forget.
• 1:42:34
  Speaker 1: It's something. I'm farther away from the laptop. She's saying
• 1:42:37
  Speaker 1: that he rolled on top of her to roll out
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 1: of bed.
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 2: To roll out of bed, he.
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 3: Rolls over his thirty five week pregnant wife.
• 1:42:46
  Speaker 2: Beat it the floor and then just starts hearing peek.
• 1:42:50
  Speaker 3: Kape is melting in his chair right now, he's melting
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 3: in his chair.
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  Speaker 2: Average Broadway experience.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought I thought she was going to say
• 1:43:00
  Speaker 1: that he that kp was started to piss on her. Yeah,
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 1: that's where I thought it was going to. I got worried, which.
• 1:43:07
  Speaker 3: It sounded like he kind of did a little bit
• 1:43:08
  Speaker 3: when she was helping him to the bathroom.
• 1:43:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, let's get you to the bell. Let's
• 1:43:13
  Speaker 1: get you close to the toil. She probably stepped in it.
• 1:43:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, KP, thank you for your service. By the way
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 3: you sound, I mean he sounds like a road dog. Yeah,
• 1:43:22
  Speaker 3: he's a road dog.
• 1:43:24
  Speaker 2: I didn't know where it was going at first.
• 1:43:25
  Speaker 1: I thought Madison was going to say she went the
• 1:43:27
  Speaker 1: beds and she's like in the third trimester.
• 1:43:29
  Speaker 3: I was about to tell or they went the bed
• 1:43:31
  Speaker 3: together deeke the pt pisser title. I was like, did
• 1:43:35
  Speaker 3: we mean the empty pissar? Like, wait, did we unlock
• 1:43:39
  Speaker 3: a new crew here? Oh my gosh, that voice.
• 1:43:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's very ominous on the gender leading into it
• 1:43:49
  Speaker 4: to try to give you them little tease.
• 1:43:50
  Speaker 1: But it's a good calling. Good. That's hilarious, dude.
• 1:43:53
  Speaker 2: A safe space Trustery.
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  Speaker 1: Of senior year. This was before the pro day. My
• 1:44:01
  Speaker 1: boys come to visit. I don't go out. I don't
• 1:44:05
  Speaker 1: go out, but they come back like late at night. Yeah,
• 1:44:07
  Speaker 1: after a night out on Oa Street. And my boy
• 1:44:11
  Speaker 1: won't say his name because I don't want out him.
• 1:44:13
  Speaker 1: He ain't gonna do it, but he.
• 1:44:15
  Speaker 2: Has this drunk pissing situation.
• 1:44:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he fucking peas on the headrest next to me
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 1: on the couch I'm sleeping on and pease a little
• 1:44:23
  Speaker 1: my face. Bro, Yeah, you woke up to it.
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 1:44:27
  Speaker 1: I shoved him up against the wall and I said,
• 1:44:29
  Speaker 1: what the fuck are you doing? Does he wake up?
• 1:44:31
  Speaker 1: Does he kind of He's like, you know, he's hammered. Yeah,
• 1:44:34
  Speaker 1: he's like, oh, well, oh my god.
• 1:44:36
  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 3: I was like, dude, I should fucking kill you right now, dude,
• 1:44:44
  Speaker 3: I dog. I was imagine safe safe space, imagine safe space,
• 1:44:51
  Speaker 3: save space. I woke up to carpet cleaner and paper
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 3: towel uh next to me at my buddy's light house
• 1:44:58
  Speaker 3: was in college, and little note that said, hey, there's
• 1:45:01
  Speaker 3: a spot in the TV room over by this wall.
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 1: Day I need you to clean up. We'll talk later.
• 1:45:08
  Speaker 3: It's probably like five o'clock in the morning, six o'clock
• 1:45:10
  Speaker 3: in the morning when I wake up.
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 1: That's how you know I had a fun night.
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 3: When I'm waking that early and I cleaned the spot,
• 1:45:17
  Speaker 3: not knowing anything about it, I'm like, what is this?
• 1:45:20
  Speaker 3: Blah blah blah, and get a nice little photo of me.
• 1:45:23
  Speaker 3: I thought it was a toilet. Dude thought it was
• 1:45:25
  Speaker 3: a toilet, just out in the open.
• 1:45:27
  Speaker 1: Safe space.
• 1:45:28
  Speaker 2: Safe space.
• 1:45:30
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to decide which one to tell.
• 1:45:32
  Speaker 4: So there was I just told a story that I
• 1:45:34
  Speaker 4: got pissed. Yeah, I'm going to tell the alternate POV
• 1:45:37
  Speaker 4: of that.
• 1:45:38
  Speaker 1: So you did it. Oh, Luckily my fiance doesn't listen
• 1:45:43
  Speaker 1: to the show with her family. Get over it.
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 4: With a previous relationship, I worked service industry and we
• 1:45:50
  Speaker 4: had our Christmas party notoriously in like February is when
• 1:45:53
  Speaker 4: it happens, and we went out before did that, and
• 1:45:57
  Speaker 4: I went back in my ex girlfriend.
• 1:46:00
  Speaker 1: I wonder why.
• 1:46:00
  Speaker 4: At the time lived with a couple of my friends
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 4: on the girls soccer team. And I remember like three things.
• 1:46:06
  Speaker 4: I remember getting back, I remember seeing the ceiling, and
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 4: I remember a thud allegedly I wasn't there for it.
• 1:46:14
  Speaker 4: I fell asleep in the bed and it was so
• 1:46:17
  Speaker 4: loud of the snoring. She went to the couch. I
• 1:46:20
  Speaker 4: walked out to the couch and decided that where her
• 1:46:24
  Speaker 4: feet were on the couch was the toilet, and started
• 1:46:27
  Speaker 4: to pee all over the couch As she slept and
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 4: woke up. She went back into bedroom and locked the
• 1:46:33
  Speaker 4: door it's a tough couple of days for your boy
• 1:46:36
  Speaker 4: don't remember doing it, and there's no video footage, so
• 1:46:39
  Speaker 4: I can't confirm her deny.
• 1:46:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, there's I saw alleged.
• 1:46:43
  Speaker 1: I got about seven of these stories.
• 1:46:45
  Speaker 4: Ohh so KP, he's not he's not alone.
• 1:46:49
  Speaker 1: We created you gotta you say you got about seven
• 1:46:51
  Speaker 1: of those stories. Yeah, I had another one involving people. No,
• 1:46:54
  Speaker 1: not involving people, but like one.
• 1:46:56
  Speaker 4: I walked from the bar that was near my parents'
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 4: house back to my parents house, fell asleep on the couch, fine,
• 1:47:00
  Speaker 4: woke up button naked in the back room with a
• 1:47:03
  Speaker 4: note from my dad that basically was like I'll kill you.
• 1:47:05
  Speaker 4: And my shirt, underwear, socks, pants were just drenched. The
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 4: whole couch was drenched. I had to go buy a
• 1:47:11
  Speaker 4: couch shark that day. Like we we whitened. We got
• 1:47:14
  Speaker 4: stories and my dad and mama just love you guys.
• 1:47:16
  Speaker 4: We got stories of sleepwalking pissing. It's a thing.
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 1: Now, is this drunk sleepwalking pistol every time? Every single time?
• 1:47:24
  Speaker 4: So I apologize for not being your ally and the
• 1:47:26
  Speaker 4: sober sobriety, but like these are drunk piece.
• 1:47:29
  Speaker 2: And he's like we got business stories.
• 1:47:34
  Speaker 1: Sounds like you just got on alcohol prob. I was
• 1:47:37
  Speaker 1: about to shout out Chip, he's like sixteen years clean.
• 1:47:40
  Speaker 1: I don't drink as much as I used to.
• 1:47:42
  Speaker 3: It probably were uh sober pissed stories. I think I
• 1:47:45
  Speaker 3: would be more worried to be the one that deep
• 1:47:50
  Speaker 3: just oh for sure, yeah.
• 1:47:53
  Speaker 2: You know what you got.
• 1:48:00
  Speaker 1: Drinking issues? Not fisit is? Yeah, you missed the bed normal,
• 1:48:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah, so KP.
• 1:48:11
  Speaker 3: You're in a safe spot. You're in a safe space.
• 1:48:15
  Speaker 3: But he's an empty SICKO.
• 1:48:17
  Speaker 1: Got him.
• 1:48:18
  Speaker 2: That's funny. That's a funny call in.
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 1: Got him.
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 2: Do we have any more emails?
• 1:48:22
  Speaker 1: My grass is shorter.
• 1:48:24
  Speaker 2: Let's go great time since you're trying to.
• 1:48:28
  Speaker 1: This is uh nick Nix to Indiana.
• 1:48:30
  Speaker 4: I don't don't know if this is bad loss, but
• 1:48:32
  Speaker 4: we're like dad, it's been homeowner, gets your ship together moment.
• 1:48:38
  Speaker 9: Today I am or so. I heard the dreaded noise
• 1:48:42
  Speaker 9: from my neighbor's house.
• 1:48:43
  Speaker 1: It's a long lower starting.
• 1:48:44
  Speaker 6: Up his grass.
• 1:48:47
  Speaker 15: It's very last weekend, so not like like we're over
• 1:48:52
  Speaker 15: growing out here or anything, but I'll.
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 1: Be damned his grass can be shorter than mine here
• 1:48:59
  Speaker 1: I am just finished about one o'clock puffing and puffing.
• 1:49:05
  Speaker 1: My shit's already greener. But like I said, i'll be damn,
• 1:49:08
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be shorter. Can't let that happen. It's a
• 1:49:11
  Speaker 1: nice you looking at the neighbor's house right now.
• 1:49:14
  Speaker 3: You ain't better.
• 1:49:17
  Speaker 11: I'm gonna go inside see if see if this is
• 1:49:20
  Speaker 11: what stick shower with me.
• 1:49:23
  Speaker 4: Love?
• 1:49:25
  Speaker 1: But he said, maybe put a bow on it.
• 1:49:28
  Speaker 2: My question what if the neighbors a PT sixer.
• 1:49:33
  Speaker 1: Oh I was, were trying to out compete a BT sixer.
• 1:49:37
  Speaker 1: But really you just need to go over and not
• 1:49:38
  Speaker 1: go do and shake his hand and hey buddy, hey buddy,
• 1:49:42
  Speaker 1: hats off too.
• 1:49:46
  Speaker 5: That's what I mean.
• 1:49:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, great cutting.
• 1:49:48
  Speaker 3: So you look at us, Yeah, see you next week,
• 1:49:50
  Speaker 3: see you next week and see that would actually be
• 1:49:53
  Speaker 3: kind of sick if it was like, uh, I know,
• 1:49:56
  Speaker 3: women sync up on certain things.
• 1:49:58
  Speaker 1: What if men start seeing it up When we're cutting
• 1:50:01
  Speaker 1: the lawn.
• 1:50:02
  Speaker 2: It's that time a week.
• 1:50:04
  Speaker 1: It is that time a week. All the boys just
• 1:50:07
  Speaker 1: wander outside, just start mowing the ground.
• 1:50:09
  Speaker 3: You're all turning and sink yeah with each other. They're
• 1:50:13
  Speaker 3: high fiving you like get it to where like yard
• 1:50:15
  Speaker 3: doing you know, opposite sides of the yard.
• 1:50:17
  Speaker 1: So y'all can high five just looking out the windows,
• 1:50:19
  Speaker 1: sipping coffee like, oh, they're all synced up again.
• 1:50:23
  Speaker 3: It is that time over the week.
• 1:50:24
  Speaker 2: That's why he was moody before you went out there.
• 1:50:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know, Honey, I got you.
• 1:50:30
  Speaker 3: Honey, Honey, have you mowed the lawn? I know I haven't.
• 1:50:35
  Speaker 3: It's not that. That's not why I'm.
• 1:50:37
  Speaker 1: Upset, honey. It seems like it's that time a week nd.
• 1:50:39
  Speaker 3: No I could, Yeah, I guess I could mow the lawn.
• 1:50:43
  Speaker 2: Did How about this?
• 1:50:44
  Speaker 1: You go mow the yard. You'll come back inside. I'll
• 1:50:46
  Speaker 1: get you.
• 1:50:47
  Speaker 2: I'll get you some chocolates.
• 1:50:49
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 1:50:49
  Speaker 3: Can we shower together when I get back in? Don't
• 1:50:53
  Speaker 3: push your luck, buddy. Do you need a heating pad too?
• 1:50:57
  Speaker 1: No? I'll be fine. Your back.
• 1:51:00
  Speaker 3: Complain about your back after email?
• 1:51:02
  Speaker 1: No, I don't.
• 1:51:03
  Speaker 3: Okay, honey, you go, you go.
• 1:51:05
  Speaker 1: You're right, You're right. I have an email. Do you
• 1:51:09
  Speaker 1: have an email? I have an email? I do I
• 1:51:11
  Speaker 1: have a long email? I have a very long email.
• 1:51:15
  Speaker 4: Before we get to that, do you guys want to
• 1:51:16
  Speaker 4: reveal Chase Daniel's top five vollipop flavor.
• 1:51:18
  Speaker 1: Oh I'm assum it's under PT six community, sir, it
• 1:51:24
  Speaker 1: is shout out Chase Daniel on X he has a
• 1:51:31
  Speaker 1: top five. Oh my god, it's kind of crazy. He's
• 1:51:38
  Speaker 1: got a top five, he says, certified hashtag bet siko
• 1:51:40
  Speaker 1: for sure at drink Lollipop is goaded. Come on, respect
• 1:51:44
  Speaker 1: to Chase. He knows the drink of choice number one,
• 1:51:50
  Speaker 1: Shirley Temple. Really, I saw him post about Shirley Temple.
• 1:51:53
  Speaker 1: Shirley Temple is a solid drink too. Raspberry Subert that's
• 1:51:57
  Speaker 1: a new one. That is a new one. Black those
• 1:51:59
  Speaker 1: are relative number three, BlackBerry Vanilla. So in his top one,
• 1:52:02
  Speaker 1: he's got the two new launches. WHOA four is cream
• 1:52:06
  Speaker 1: soda solid one? Yeah.
• 1:52:10
  Speaker 2: Five is Chris Bapple.
• 1:52:12
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, interesting list.
• 1:52:18
  Speaker 1: I don't want a Ollipop shame because they're a sponsor
• 1:52:21
  Speaker 1: of the show, and I love all that. I like
• 1:52:24
  Speaker 1: all of these flavors, yes, but to have Chris Bapple
• 1:52:29
  Speaker 1: at five, it's treason.
• 1:52:33
  Speaker 3: I feel you on that. I feel you on that.
• 1:52:35
  Speaker 3: It's that is your taste buds and your truth. You know,
• 1:52:39
  Speaker 3: your Ollipop truth. Chase is sharing what his taste buds
• 1:52:44
  Speaker 3: are telling him and I really don't like they are
• 1:52:47
  Speaker 3: a sponsor of the show. I don't think you can
• 1:52:50
  Speaker 3: go wrong with ollipop. And was very surprised myself when
• 1:52:54
  Speaker 3: I ranked cherry is number one and my like taste essay,
• 1:52:58
  Speaker 3: and I was like, I've never been a big cherry guy,
• 1:53:02
  Speaker 3: and all of a sudden, cherry Ollipop's on my favorite ollipop.
• 1:53:05
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 1:53:07
  Speaker 3: Also, we had someone ride in. We'll get into emails.
• 1:53:10
  Speaker 3: We did have someone ride in.
• 1:53:12
  Speaker 2: I see why use a crew a long back up?
• 1:53:14
  Speaker 3: Oh well, well, we'll let him have his truth.
• 1:53:21
  Speaker 1: We'll let him have his truth. They me being.
• 1:53:27
  Speaker 2: A back up to see why you were never the guy?
• 1:53:31
  Speaker 3: Oh Chase, we were giving you flowers before we press
• 1:53:35
  Speaker 3: the record today.
• 1:53:36
  Speaker 1: By the way, I see why you made eighty million
• 1:53:37
  Speaker 1: and one hundred and fifty. Oh will.
• 1:53:41
  Speaker 3: We had someone ride into the PT six community. They said, hey, sure,
• 1:53:45
  Speaker 3: mean you're mare of that recipe that you fucked up?
• 1:53:47
  Speaker 3: He said was half and half and heavy whipping cream
• 1:53:53
  Speaker 3: and like four different ollipop flavors together.
• 1:53:56
  Speaker 1: Yes, I do.
• 1:53:57
  Speaker 3: They but she's like, I'm super prago. I need a
• 1:54:00
  Speaker 3: sweet tree. What was that recipe again? The real one?
• 1:54:03
  Speaker 3: Don't mess it up. It is the banana cream ollipop
• 1:54:07
  Speaker 3: flavor mixed with good one Chabonnie sweet cream. You mix
• 1:54:12
  Speaker 3: it together, you put a ton of ice in there.
• 1:54:14
  Speaker 3: Sters st stir. You're drinking a milkshake at that point,
• 1:54:18
  Speaker 3: you're drinking a milkshake. Mike Drop, Mike drop, Chase Daniel.
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying.
• 1:54:26
  Speaker 3: I'm just saying clearly I had had banana cream.
• 1:54:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you want to go first there or do
• 1:54:37
  Speaker 1: you want me?
• 1:54:37
  Speaker 3: Mine is a saddlert. I do want to give a
• 1:54:40
  Speaker 3: warning to our listeners.
• 1:54:41
  Speaker 2: I can't even think straight right now. Hey, here's a
• 1:54:46
  Speaker 2: Dad Loss.
• 1:54:46
  Speaker 1: I just want to hit because I think this is
• 1:54:48
  Speaker 1: a profile pick of Sirm's face close up. Oh now
• 1:54:52
  Speaker 1: is this a burner? This is from Ashton, Dad Loss.
• 1:54:56
  Speaker 1: I blinked, I blinked in That little girl wrapped up
• 1:54:59
  Speaker 1: in the pink blue blanket is long gone.
• 1:55:01
  Speaker 2: Four months felt like four seconds. Dad lost.
• 1:55:04
  Speaker 1: This from Ashton on Discord and his profile picture is
• 1:55:07
  Speaker 1: a close up of your face. He's one of the
• 1:55:09
  Speaker 1: OG's and Discord like tax.
• 1:55:13
  Speaker 4: Sure joined the discord for a second and sent us
• 1:55:16
  Speaker 4: the Discord of selfie. The three of us and Ashton
• 1:55:19
  Speaker 4: took that picture and made it his profile picture.
• 1:55:21
  Speaker 1: So someone goes, oh, that's a lary. Is your real name?
• 1:55:24
  Speaker 1: Ashton Sherm.
• 1:55:24
  Speaker 4: He goes, no, shirm share to pick one day and
• 1:55:26
  Speaker 4: I just used it and never changed it.
• 1:55:28
  Speaker 1: Oh ash legend. Oh my god, that's funny, dude. I
• 1:55:32
  Speaker 1: love that.
• 1:55:34
  Speaker 3: My my emails along you want me, you want me
• 1:55:37
  Speaker 3: to jump right in?
• 1:55:38
  Speaker 1: Dive in, Okay, dive in.
• 1:55:40
  Speaker 3: This comes from Christina Cardwell. This is a saddlert. It
• 1:55:45
  Speaker 3: does touch on, uh, miscarriage, and so just like a
• 1:55:49
  Speaker 3: warning to our audience, if you want to skip past this,
• 1:55:52
  Speaker 3: you totally can. But this is just a grandmother's take
• 1:55:57
  Speaker 3: on her son and her daughter in law and then
• 1:56:03
  Speaker 3: going through a miscarriage situation, how they're dealing with it,
• 1:56:07
  Speaker 3: the thoughts and feelings of it.
• 1:56:08
  Speaker 1: And here we go.
• 1:56:10
  Speaker 3: Hey guys, my name is Christina and I am the
• 1:56:12
  Speaker 3: proud mama bear of a United States Army Ranger.
• 1:56:16
  Speaker 1: Thank you for your service.
• 1:56:18
  Speaker 3: Dude, Hope I can keep my story short and interesting
• 1:56:21
  Speaker 3: because I know it would mean the world to my
• 1:56:23
  Speaker 3: son if you read this. Our family has been in
• 1:56:26
  Speaker 3: a whirlwind of joy and agony in the past few months.
• 1:56:29
  Speaker 3: To start out, my son is just a sweetheart of
• 1:56:32
  Speaker 3: a soul if you can imagine a soldier trained to
• 1:56:35
  Speaker 3: be elethal weapon to be a sweetheart. But yes, he
• 1:56:38
  Speaker 3: has been since the day he was born. He joined
• 1:56:41
  Speaker 3: the Army right out of high school and of course
• 1:56:43
  Speaker 3: decided a ranger is what he wanted to be. The
• 1:56:46
  Speaker 3: process is a long story, but what a lot of blood,
• 1:56:49
  Speaker 3: sweat and tears, my tears. He made it through basic training,
• 1:56:54
  Speaker 3: Ranger Assessment and selection program are ASP Airborne School and
• 1:57:00
  Speaker 3: Ranger School. Damn so safe to say dude's cooking.
• 1:57:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was his.
• 1:57:06
  Speaker 1: Dream and he did it.
• 1:57:07
  Speaker 3: I think he was twenty one when he finished all that,
• 1:57:09
  Speaker 3: with a couple of deployments in between. If you know
• 1:57:12
  Speaker 3: anything about Ranger School and Rageer Regiment, it is definitely
• 1:57:16
  Speaker 3: a man's club. He has had the time of his life.
• 1:57:19
  Speaker 3: Trust me when I say he has sewed his oats.
• 1:57:22
  Speaker 3: But he was growing tired of a crazy single bachelor
• 1:57:25
  Speaker 3: life and dreaming of settling down and starting a family.
• 1:57:28
  Speaker 3: He's a handsome devil and he has had a few
• 1:57:31
  Speaker 3: quote unquote relationships A long time ago. I told him
• 1:57:34
  Speaker 3: not to tell me about his ladies until he knows
• 1:57:37
  Speaker 3: he is serious, because I would fall in love with
• 1:57:40
  Speaker 3: them and he would end up breaking up with them.
• 1:57:42
  Speaker 3: So I really don't know about his latest So I
• 1:57:47
  Speaker 3: really didn't know about his latest girl until a few
• 1:57:50
  Speaker 3: months ago. He starts selling me he is thinking about
• 1:57:55
  Speaker 3: buying a ring, and I can't tell you how many
• 1:57:57
  Speaker 3: prayers I've prayed for my boy to find it his
• 1:58:00
  Speaker 3: one since the moment I saw.
• 1:58:01
  Speaker 1: His sweet little face.
• 1:58:03
  Speaker 3: I've prayed for his wife that he would find the
• 1:58:06
  Speaker 3: woman of God for him. So I guess I wasn't
• 1:58:10
  Speaker 3: too shocked when he called and asked if his father
• 1:58:13
  Speaker 3: was close by because he had something to tell us.
• 1:58:16
  Speaker 3: I did want to slap my twenty six year old
• 1:58:18
  Speaker 3: son when he said that they were using the quote
• 1:58:20
  Speaker 3: unquote pullout method for birth control? Are you kidding me?
• 1:58:24
  Speaker 3: In parentheses? He brought her to meet the family for
• 1:58:27
  Speaker 3: Easter Sunday, and we fell in love with her. They
• 1:58:30
  Speaker 3: embraced this baby with their whole hearts and began planning
• 1:58:32
  Speaker 3: for a wonderful future. They got married at the courthouse
• 1:58:36
  Speaker 3: the first week of May, planning to do the church
• 1:58:39
  Speaker 3: wedding after the baby is born, and the gender reveal
• 1:58:41
  Speaker 3: was a couple weeks later. The Monday after Mother's Day,
• 1:58:44
  Speaker 3: my son sent me The Guy's Mother's Day episode and
• 1:58:48
  Speaker 3: told me to start listening. The minute that he found
• 1:58:52
  Speaker 3: out that he was going to be a dad, I
• 1:58:54
  Speaker 3: told him to keep listening to y'all. It's the best
• 1:58:56
  Speaker 3: dad advice I had ever heard. Thank you, Christina. I
• 1:59:01
  Speaker 3: wish his dad had something like that back in the day.
• 1:59:04
  Speaker 3: And now winky face. He was excited to be a
• 1:59:07
  Speaker 3: dad and become the best husband he can be. And
• 1:59:11
  Speaker 3: then last Wednesday, I got the worst phone call from
• 1:59:13
  Speaker 3: my new daughter in law at her twelve week checkup.
• 1:59:16
  Speaker 3: My baby grandson was gone. I will never as long
• 1:59:20
  Speaker 3: as I live on here. The agonizing crying of my
• 1:59:23
  Speaker 3: son when he called me an hour later when he
• 1:59:26
  Speaker 3: had heard the news his son was gone and he
• 1:59:30
  Speaker 3: was desperate to be released from his training and to
• 1:59:34
  Speaker 3: get to his young wife, who also was slash living
• 1:59:37
  Speaker 3: her worst nightmare. My heart ached for them, and it
• 1:59:41
  Speaker 3: was all I could do to get in my car
• 1:59:43
  Speaker 3: and rush to them. My son is not a boy anymore.
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 3: He is a man and a husband. He was doing
• 1:59:48
  Speaker 3: what he needed to do and protect and defend his family.
• 1:59:51
  Speaker 3: He did what he had to do to get off
• 1:59:53
  Speaker 3: work and make the four hour drive to his wife.
• 1:59:56
  Speaker 3: Yesterday they went to the hospital to make the surgery
• 1:59:58
  Speaker 3: to remove baby from her body. He has been by
• 2:00:03
  Speaker 3: her side every second and they both have held each
• 2:00:06
  Speaker 3: other through the darkest days of their lives. It is
• 2:00:10
  Speaker 3: gut wrenching but also beautiful to watch them do what
• 2:00:13
  Speaker 3: men and women who truly live what marriage, who truly
• 2:00:18
  Speaker 3: live out what marriage is in sickness and in health.
• 2:00:23
  Speaker 3: Marriage is such a dark or sorry. Miscarriage is such
• 2:00:27
  Speaker 3: a dark and taboo subject in our culture, and well
• 2:00:30
  Speaker 3: intentioned people say things that's sting, like you are young
• 2:00:34
  Speaker 3: and you can have another or well, Lisa happened early
• 2:00:37
  Speaker 3: in the pregnancy. No one knows what to say, and
• 2:00:41
  Speaker 3: for a man, people just overlook the pain that he
• 2:00:44
  Speaker 3: is going through. My son was madly in love with
• 2:00:47
  Speaker 3: his baby boy, who he planned to name after his dad,
• 2:00:50
  Speaker 3: his papa, who passed away two years ago.
• 2:00:53
  Speaker 1: They had a.
• 2:00:53
  Speaker 3: Whole future ahead that has now been shattered and they
• 2:00:58
  Speaker 3: are lost right now. And in the end, I think
• 2:01:03
  Speaker 3: this will make their marriage stronger, but the days ahead
• 2:01:05
  Speaker 3: will be hard and full so many tears. Please shout
• 2:01:09
  Speaker 3: out the dads, the moms, the grandmas and grandpa's aunties
• 2:01:12
  Speaker 3: and uncles and cousins going through the pain of miscarriage.
• 2:01:15
  Speaker 3: Those babies are real. They still live on with the Lord,
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 3: and we will wait for the day when we see
• 2:01:22
  Speaker 3: their beautiful faces. All my love and gratefulness for all
• 2:01:26
  Speaker 3: you do for parents, Christina Williams, Gigi, that is a
• 2:01:34
  Speaker 3: really cool story. Yeah, this is a really cool story.
• 2:01:37
  Speaker 3: That's a really hard story.
• 2:01:41
  Speaker 2: And from perspective of Grandma too.
• 2:01:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it for anybody going currently going through that, or
• 2:01:52
  Speaker 3: has been through that, or is desperately trying for a
• 2:01:55
  Speaker 3: child and they're listening to the show.
• 2:01:58
  Speaker 1: My heart really does.
• 2:02:00
  Speaker 3: Go out to you, because I have met people that
• 2:02:03
  Speaker 3: I'm very close to you in my life that the
• 2:02:05
  Speaker 3: only thing they want on this green Earth is to
• 2:02:11
  Speaker 3: be a mom or a dad. That's like truly all
• 2:02:14
  Speaker 3: that they want business goals and aspirations aside, personal goals
• 2:02:19
  Speaker 3: and aspirations aside. They just want to be a mom
• 2:02:22
  Speaker 3: or a dad. And they come across loss like this,
• 2:02:29
  Speaker 3: or they come across the obstacles of getting pregnant, getting
• 2:02:32
  Speaker 3: pregnants hard for them. They're going through IUI, they're going
• 2:02:35
  Speaker 3: through IBF and it is a battlefield one that I
• 2:02:40
  Speaker 3: haven't fought on. You've talked numerous times on this podcast
• 2:02:45
  Speaker 3: about it. But I think the really beautiful part about
• 2:02:50
  Speaker 3: all those stories, the only silver lining that I can
• 2:02:52
  Speaker 3: take away from it is what incredible parents those parents
• 2:02:58
  Speaker 3: will be when they eventually have that day or if
• 2:03:02
  Speaker 3: they have to adopt or whatever. The answer is that
• 2:03:07
  Speaker 3: child is so lucky that they are going to get
• 2:03:10
  Speaker 3: brought up in that house because their parents wanted them
• 2:03:16
  Speaker 3: so desperately and wanted to raise them and pour into
• 2:03:21
  Speaker 3: them and build them into wonderful humans that they get
• 2:03:33
  Speaker 3: to share life with. It's just like a very beautiful thing.
• 2:03:36
  Speaker 3: It's so dark and hard and taboo, like she said
• 2:03:40
  Speaker 3: to talk about.
• 2:03:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but there is a silver lining. I'll get off
• 2:03:44
  Speaker 1: my soapbox. But you did a great You did a
• 2:03:46
  Speaker 1: great job explaining that and like seeing like the hope
• 2:03:51
  Speaker 1: and what the future does look like if when they
• 2:03:54
  Speaker 1: do have a child, because they understand the magnitude of
• 2:03:57
  Speaker 1: how hard it is, like you know, and I were
• 2:04:00
  Speaker 1: going through IVF very stressful, uh, very stressful in my wife,
• 2:04:05
  Speaker 1: Like women feel like it's their bodies or their fault
• 2:04:09
  Speaker 1: and all the appointments that you have to Yeah, yeah,
• 2:04:13
  Speaker 1: and also it's like, uh, then when you hear stories
• 2:04:15
  Speaker 1: like we have friends that you know, we were very
• 2:04:17
  Speaker 1: fortunate to have Scottie on our first round of IVF,
• 2:04:22
  Speaker 1: and then we're in the the poor me and not
• 2:04:25
  Speaker 1: that the poor me isn't necessary, it is you can't
• 2:04:29
  Speaker 1: like sprint through any piece of adversity or pain that
• 2:04:32
  Speaker 1: you're feeling. It's like it is important to feel the
• 2:04:35
  Speaker 1: pain and know what's going on. I know when you
• 2:04:36
  Speaker 1: do talk to people, it is hard for others to
• 2:04:39
  Speaker 1: fully understand everything going on in your life to know that, oh,
• 2:04:44
  Speaker 1: they're just wanting me to sit here or just be
• 2:04:46
  Speaker 1: an ear for them during this hard time, because yeah,
• 2:04:49
  Speaker 1: all of us you just want to solve, You want
• 2:04:51
  Speaker 1: to figure out. You want to grab optimism or you
• 2:04:53
  Speaker 1: want to grab hope, like latch onto hope, because hope
• 2:04:55
  Speaker 1: you can you can work with. So when people are
• 2:04:57
  Speaker 1: at a loss of words, it's not because they don't care,
• 2:04:59
  Speaker 1: they don't know. It's like they just we all know
• 2:05:04
  Speaker 1: that we're going to get through moments, that there is
• 2:05:06
  Speaker 1: no sprinting through those moments, and you're gonna have to
• 2:05:09
  Speaker 1: feel those moments and that the people that are closest
• 2:05:11
  Speaker 1: to you are going to feel them with you longer
• 2:05:13
  Speaker 1: as long as you need them to. Because even my man,
• 2:05:16
  Speaker 1: like I'm sure him and his wife, like this dude's
• 2:05:18
  Speaker 1: a ranger. He's been through what he believes is hell.
• 2:05:21
  Speaker 1: This is like a new hell that you know, he
• 2:05:26
  Speaker 1: thinks that this is the new worst thing that's happened
• 2:05:28
  Speaker 1: to us for mom, this is the worst thing that's
• 2:05:32
  Speaker 1: happened to them. But they both like intuitively know that
• 2:05:35
  Speaker 1: one day when they look back at this stuff, it's
• 2:05:37
  Speaker 1: going to help, Like you said, beautifully, it's going to
• 2:05:40
  Speaker 1: shape them as parents on how precious everything is. Hey,
• 2:05:44
  Speaker 1: how much this kid that's in front of us now
• 2:05:46
  Speaker 1: you are a miracle while also still having space to
• 2:05:51
  Speaker 1: mourn losing the losing the first one. Yeah, dude, you know,
• 2:05:57
  Speaker 1: like they're they're there's space for both. One feel much
• 2:06:00
  Speaker 1: larger right now in this moment. And as they know,
• 2:06:04
  Speaker 1: as we all know, in any hard moment that we
• 2:06:07
  Speaker 1: are going through, whether it's currently or in the past.
• 2:06:10
  Speaker 1: If it is in the past and way back, when
• 2:06:13
  Speaker 1: you know that it shapes who you ultimately become. Like
• 2:06:16
  Speaker 1: I've obviously spoke about my mom, Like there's so many
• 2:06:18
  Speaker 1: hard things that all of us hear and everybody listening
• 2:06:21
  Speaker 1: that can look back to their hardest moments.
• 2:06:23
  Speaker 2: You might be going through one now that it does suck.
• 2:06:28
  Speaker 1: And it will ultimately I know, Like when you're in it,
• 2:06:33
  Speaker 1: you don't want to hear the ultimately part. You just
• 2:06:35
  Speaker 1: want a buddy to sit there and like, yeah, man,
• 2:06:40
  Speaker 1: like sitting here, we're all giving a digital bear hug
• 2:06:43
  Speaker 1: right now, sure together, because that is hard. Even Grandma
• 2:06:46
  Speaker 1: is going through something watching from Afar, and Grandma might
• 2:06:50
  Speaker 1: be speaking now where this couple could be listening to
• 2:06:53
  Speaker 1: it and maybe they feel like they've made progress from
• 2:06:56
  Speaker 1: it to where now it's they're living in that moment
• 2:06:59
  Speaker 1: of pain for just a you know, for the fleeting moment.
• 2:07:02
  Speaker 3: Yes, and it doesn't minimize the hurt that you have
• 2:07:07
  Speaker 3: from it. To quote, I've been listening to the audiobooks
• 2:07:10
  Speaker 3: of A Song of Ice of Fire. Not to throw
• 2:07:12
  Speaker 3: a Game of Thrones into this, but Tyry and Lanister
• 2:07:15
  Speaker 3: had a great quote of pain is the past feeling
• 2:07:20
  Speaker 3: so dangerously close and the future feeling so dangerously far
• 2:07:25
  Speaker 3: away that you.
• 2:07:26
  Speaker 1: Can't grasp it. Yeah, man, I loved that quote.
• 2:07:30
  Speaker 3: When I heard it, I was like, Wow, that's a
• 2:07:32
  Speaker 3: great picture of it and they are in this moment.
• 2:07:36
  Speaker 3: The hurt is real, and that future that you feel
• 2:07:39
  Speaker 3: like you can't see or you can't touch is not
• 2:07:42
  Speaker 3: going to minimize that hurt or what has happened in
• 2:07:46
  Speaker 3: the past. It's not going to make it completely go away,
• 2:07:49
  Speaker 3: and it's not going to make the fact that that
• 2:07:51
  Speaker 3: was really sad and that you're moving on from it
• 2:07:54
  Speaker 3: doesn't mean that you don't care about it. But eventually
• 2:07:58
  Speaker 3: those past in future will kind of equal out and
• 2:08:03
  Speaker 3: you're gonna get back into a headspace where you're ready
• 2:08:06
  Speaker 3: to take this on because you have dealt with this
• 2:08:09
  Speaker 3: in your past.
• 2:08:11
  Speaker 1: You're in lanister, Dude, he's a sick dan Gable paying
• 2:08:15
  Speaker 1: his weakness leaving the body.
• 2:08:16
  Speaker 2: Oh no, but it's uh yeah, well said bro.
• 2:08:21
  Speaker 1: No one's ever drowned in sweat, dude, Cause you know too. Like,
• 2:08:24
  Speaker 1: if you're somebody who knows somebody or somebody who's currently
• 2:08:27
  Speaker 1: going through whether they just had a miscarriage, and they're
• 2:08:30
  Speaker 1: they're seeming like they're needing a shoulder to lean on,
• 2:08:32
  Speaker 1: it's dude, give them a hug, ask them, hey, how
• 2:08:35
  Speaker 1: are you doing? But there's there's nothing. It's like the
• 2:08:39
  Speaker 1: whole nobody's coming to save you much. Even like, uh,
• 2:08:43
  Speaker 1: my wife and I we've been through We've been through things,
• 2:08:46
  Speaker 1: and even when I'm needing the ear say it's you.
• 2:08:51
  Speaker 1: I just want you to listen. Yeah, tells me.
• 2:08:53
  Speaker 2: No matter what you give me, you're not able to
• 2:08:59
  Speaker 2: I don't know, rector fixer.
• 2:09:00
  Speaker 1: You give me some perspective, but no matter what, it's
• 2:09:02
  Speaker 1: going to be the conversations that I'm having with myself
• 2:09:06
  Speaker 1: or my own doing or my own choices that's going
• 2:09:08
  Speaker 1: to fix the thing that I'm I'm needing to be fixed.
• 2:09:12
  Speaker 3: I've had two or three of those convos with you. Yeah,
• 2:09:14
  Speaker 3: similar where you didn't I didn't need an answer from you.
• 2:09:18
  Speaker 3: It was more so I just felt like I could
• 2:09:22
  Speaker 3: lean on you in that moment because of like our relationship,
• 2:09:26
  Speaker 3: feeling comfortable with you, sharing it with you, and whether
• 2:09:31
  Speaker 3: or not you had the answer, it didn't matter. It's
• 2:09:33
  Speaker 3: just nice that I was able to share that with you,
• 2:09:37
  Speaker 3: kind of lay that at your feet and you to go, dude,
• 2:09:40
  Speaker 3: I see it, and that does suck.
• 2:09:42
  Speaker 2: That's art.
• 2:09:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, thank you for writing in. I have a
• 2:09:48
  Speaker 1: big one here from Dylan Paine. I'm a pre Scar
• 2:09:52
  Speaker 1: Scar listener. Back when dad losses were motherfucked moments and
• 2:09:56
  Speaker 1: before Olipop really started popping. I'm reaching out to you
• 2:10:01
  Speaker 1: guys to show love, but also the request deployment of
• 2:10:04
  Speaker 1: all available PT six ers, MPT six ers, goom berets
• 2:10:07
  Speaker 1: and every sick oh willing to send my little girl
• 2:10:10
  Speaker 1: their positive thoughts, prayers of strength and healing energy. In February,
• 2:10:14
  Speaker 1: after a after a routine two and a half year
• 2:10:18
  Speaker 1: check in with our daughter Everly piis our daughter everly'st pediatrician,
• 2:10:23
  Speaker 1: a mass was felt in a lower aptomen. Initially we
• 2:10:26
  Speaker 1: were told it could be it could just be constipation,
• 2:10:30
  Speaker 1: but need to take it seriously and get an ultrasound.
• 2:10:32
  Speaker 1: The following day, an ultrasound, CT, MRI, MIBG scan, two anesthesias,
• 2:10:38
  Speaker 1: and two biopsies later, every parent's nightmare became our reality.
• 2:10:43
  Speaker 1: Our daughter, who at the time was acting like a
• 2:10:45
  Speaker 1: completely normal, energetic, sassy toddler, had been diagnosed with a
• 2:10:49
  Speaker 1: rare cancer called ganglion euro blestoma that was my shot
• 2:10:56
  Speaker 1: at that word, and had a five inch by three
• 2:10:59
  Speaker 1: inch two tumor that is putting pressure on her spine
• 2:11:02
  Speaker 1: and closely interfering with a kidney kidney function due to
• 2:11:08
  Speaker 1: the complicated location of the tumor near her spine and
• 2:11:11
  Speaker 1: difficulty of a and difficulty of a resection. At the time,
• 2:11:19
  Speaker 1: we were recommended by multiple surgeons and oncologists to give
• 2:11:22
  Speaker 1: two rounds of chemo at first at shot, to give
• 2:11:25
  Speaker 1: two rounds of chemo at first and hopes the tumor
• 2:11:29
  Speaker 1: would shrink enough away from the spine and have a
• 2:11:32
  Speaker 1: better chance at safety removing the tumor. Our little heavy
• 2:11:35
  Speaker 1: the Brave took on those two rounds of chemo like
• 2:11:40
  Speaker 1: Willy one shuff wood on the gridiron like an absolute savage. Unfortunately,
• 2:11:46
  Speaker 1: like Willy knows, you can put every ounce you have
• 2:11:49
  Speaker 1: out there in the outcome doesn't always favor you. Post
• 2:11:55
  Speaker 1: chemo scans showed the treatment was ineffective. Her team of
• 2:11:59
  Speaker 1: docs informed us that a eight to ten hour surgery
• 2:12:03
  Speaker 1: is what we're looking at to remove roughly ninety percent
• 2:12:07
  Speaker 1: of the tumor. My wife, being the absolute legend that
• 2:12:10
  Speaker 1: she is, did what she does, which is not fuck
• 2:12:12
  Speaker 1: around when it comes to our daughter. She immediately contacted
• 2:12:18
  Speaker 1: the best of the best to handle our daughter's situation,
• 2:12:21
  Speaker 1: which meant we will be flying to New York City
• 2:12:23
  Speaker 1: come on to have her operation at Memorial Sloan kettering
• 2:12:28
  Speaker 1: with a world renowned surgeon. Come on. During the first
• 2:12:31
  Speaker 1: chemo treatment, I did everything I could to deploy the
• 2:12:37
  Speaker 1: good strategy that proved impossible. But another powerful tool I
• 2:12:42
  Speaker 1: learned from you guys came into play and it changed
• 2:12:44
  Speaker 1: how it changed how myself and even my wife are
• 2:12:48
  Speaker 1: looking at these trying times. It's not we have to
• 2:12:52
  Speaker 1: spend four or five nights in the hospital watching our
• 2:12:57
  Speaker 1: sweet girl go through chemo. It's our sweet girl gets
• 2:13:01
  Speaker 1: to fight this thing in an amazing facility full of
• 2:13:05
  Speaker 1: incredible doctors and people. It's not we have to fly
• 2:13:08
  Speaker 1: to New York City for a terrifying surgery. But how
• 2:13:11
  Speaker 1: luck here we that we get to take our little
• 2:13:13
  Speaker 1: warrior to the best there is. God damn rest assured
• 2:13:22
  Speaker 1: that during all of this, our little Everly is unshaken, unfazed,
• 2:13:26
  Speaker 1: and showing us the meaning of resilience. She has taken
• 2:13:30
  Speaker 1: every appointment, every treatment, every needle poke and stride. She
• 2:13:35
  Speaker 1: also has no clue what she's teaching her mom and
• 2:13:37
  Speaker 1: Dada every time she walks to the hospital with her
• 2:13:41
  Speaker 1: bald head hooked up divs, acting like she owns the
• 2:13:52
  Speaker 1: place and putting a smile on every face that walks by.
• 2:13:58
  Speaker 1: We arrived in New York a few days ago and
• 2:14:00
  Speaker 1: are good spirits at having some fun as we prepare
• 2:14:04
  Speaker 1: for surgery on the twenty ninth. This is her national
• 2:14:08
  Speaker 1: championship game, her super Bowl. You might not know this
• 2:14:13
  Speaker 1: little girl, Oh Dylan, but believe me when I say
• 2:14:25
  Speaker 1: this one is built for the a gap. So wherever
• 2:14:30
  Speaker 1: you place your bets, put the mortgage on our heavy
• 2:14:40
  Speaker 1: to walk out on top, and a.
• 2:14:42
  Speaker 2: Prop bet.
• 2:14:47
  Speaker 1: Ah and a prop bet that she smiles the whole
• 2:14:50
  Speaker 1: way through it. Cancer fucked with the wrong toddler. One
• 2:14:57
  Speaker 1: last thing, huge shout out and a massive round of
• 2:15:01
  Speaker 1: applause to my wife and first ballot empty SICCO Hall
• 2:15:04
  Speaker 1: of Famer. She's advocated and fought with every fiber in
• 2:15:08
  Speaker 1: her being to make sure our daughter gets best possible care.
• 2:15:11
  Speaker 1: The tenacity, perseverance and strength you've shown our second to none,
• 2:15:16
  Speaker 1: and it's no question our little girl has noticed and
• 2:15:18
  Speaker 1: now exudes and now exudes those same attributes during the
• 2:15:25
  Speaker 1: last three months. You've led the charge from day one,
• 2:15:29
  Speaker 1: and I'll follow you into any battle that stands in
• 2:15:31
  Speaker 1: front of us. I love you more than the most.
• 2:15:35
  Speaker 1: Our support from family and friends has been beyond incredible.
• 2:15:39
  Speaker 1: But this is my official request to send the cavalry
• 2:15:43
  Speaker 1: the sickos. As we head into the unknown. We will
• 2:15:46
  Speaker 1: need all the prayers, positive thoughts, and healing vibes to
• 2:15:49
  Speaker 1: get through the next couple of weeks. From Dylan Payne,
• 2:15:52
  Speaker 1: who's sent in a bunch of photos.
• 2:16:05
  Speaker 3: First and foremost, pink hearts foreverly in the comments. And
• 2:16:13
  Speaker 3: I know that that feels very shallow and like whatever,
• 2:16:18
  Speaker 3: but like, send all the vibes. I'm I'm trying. Y'all
• 2:16:26
  Speaker 3: have seen me ugly ground the show, and I'm trying
• 2:16:30
  Speaker 3: really really hard not to because I grew up with
• 2:16:36
  Speaker 3: a girl that was my age that battled cancer, a
• 2:16:45
  Speaker 3: huge like we're talking grapefruit sized tumor in her brain,
• 2:16:50
  Speaker 3: like the type that most surgeons are telling her parents
• 2:16:56
  Speaker 3: it's not a shot. There is not a shot, like
• 2:17:01
  Speaker 3: cannot fix this, and they, uh, I gotta get through this.
• 2:17:11
  Speaker 3: Her saying that they stuck with was refused to lose,
• 2:17:19
  Speaker 3: and they went out of their way to find the
• 2:17:23
  Speaker 3: right surgeon, and they went out of their way to
• 2:17:26
  Speaker 3: find the right treatment, the right machines. And she's married
• 2:17:33
  Speaker 3: with kids now, like she is a full growed adult
• 2:17:44
  Speaker 3: and it was nothing short of a miracle. There's nothing
• 2:17:50
  Speaker 3: short of a miracle. And that's why, like when I
• 2:17:58
  Speaker 3: hear that story, I know that there's not like a
• 2:18:05
  Speaker 3: whole lot of hope in certain situations other than like
• 2:18:10
  Speaker 3: ever leaves a beast, she kick her ass. But I've
• 2:18:20
  Speaker 3: seen it, like I've truly seen it, and like they
• 2:18:28
  Speaker 3: have the best attitude imaginable.
• 2:18:30
  Speaker 1: Uh, imaginable. That entire email, like all the verbiage, all
• 2:18:40
  Speaker 1: the language, all the the optimism when it feels like
• 2:18:46
  Speaker 1: this would clearly be a situation where not a lot
• 2:18:50
  Speaker 1: of optimism exists. Yeah, yeah, yeah, man, good luck. I
• 2:18:59
  Speaker 1: know he is gonna kick cancer's ass. Oh, all of
• 2:19:02
  Speaker 1: our thoughts and prayers, absolutely everything imaginable, vibe wise, towards you,
• 2:19:08
  Speaker 1: Dylan and your family. Your wife has seemed like a superstar. Everly,
• 2:19:13
  Speaker 1: it seemed like a superstar. He SAIDs on the twenty ninth, Yeah,
• 2:19:22
  Speaker 1: right now, it's we were recording on the twenty sixth.
• 2:19:25
  Speaker 1: This is just I'm so sorry.
• 2:19:26
  Speaker 4: May twenty four, two days ago he sent I had
• 2:19:28
  Speaker 4: to resent for formatting, but he sent it on May
• 2:19:30
  Speaker 4: twenty fourth.
• 2:19:31
  Speaker 1: He said this, but the surgeries on the twenty ninth. Yeah, yeah, yes, yes, yeah,
• 2:19:35
  Speaker 1: that's no. Listen right now it's the twenty seventh. Everly's
• 2:19:40
  Speaker 1: about to go into her national championship or super Bowl.
• 2:19:45
  Speaker 3: Dude, shout out that team and that surgeon, like the
• 2:19:51
  Speaker 3: team that's going to be like taking care of ever lead.
• 2:19:54
  Speaker 1: They're gonna rip they got this yeah yeah, mm hmm.
• 2:20:02
  Speaker 14: Yeah.
• 2:20:08
  Speaker 1: I'm like, uh, I just want to say this, dude.
• 2:20:12
  Speaker 1: I'm uh.
• 2:20:16
  Speaker 3: We say this way too much on the ship, but like, uh,
• 2:20:23
  Speaker 3: I'm so weak Sauce and the great scheme of things. Dude,
• 2:20:26
  Speaker 3: I'm so weak Sauce. It's not even funny. Dude. H
• 2:20:33
  Speaker 3: that guy's a pet stick, oh dude, Like for real,
• 2:20:40
  Speaker 3: I'm just a guy that loves quoting movies and like
• 2:20:43
  Speaker 3: says dumb shit that's funny. That's like that's literally all
• 2:20:46
  Speaker 3: I am. And thank you for listening, uh to the show? Dude,
• 2:20:53
  Speaker 3: Like sharing that so sick.
• 2:20:58
  Speaker 1: I I yeah, I don't even know what to say. Yeah,
• 2:21:08
  Speaker 1: like we said it, but it feels like one of
• 2:21:09
  Speaker 1: those things where you just want to continue to talk about.
• 2:21:11
  Speaker 1: I wish he was they were just he was present,
• 2:21:15
  Speaker 1: so you just give.
• 2:21:16
  Speaker 3: Him a dude, lifetime supply lollipop, whatever the hell you want,
• 2:21:26
  Speaker 3: you go to.
• 2:21:27
  Speaker 1: The store just like we'll give it all. Like, yeah,
• 2:21:35
  Speaker 1: our hearts with you, guys man.
• 2:21:38
  Speaker 3: May twenty ninth, May twenty ninth, Big day. I think
• 2:21:47
  Speaker 3: we got in this so now, yeah, already did my
• 2:21:49
  Speaker 3: lesson of the week.
• 2:21:52
  Speaker 1: Home is where the heart is. Dude. That's a that's
• 2:21:54
  Speaker 1: a heavy one. And I'm glad he wrote in. I'm
• 2:21:56
  Speaker 1: glad you put all of this on. I'm glad you
• 2:21:59
  Speaker 1: put all this down and wrote into us. I know
• 2:22:02
  Speaker 1: that just you're sitting down waxing poetic with combining the
• 2:22:06
  Speaker 1: universe with the hardest thing in the world you are
• 2:22:08
  Speaker 1: going through right now.
• 2:22:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So pink cards for Everly and that's like not
• 2:22:15
  Speaker 3: even a call, Like we call out dumb stuff to
• 2:22:19
  Speaker 3: put in the comments because you know we love seeing
• 2:22:22
  Speaker 3: people comment.
• 2:22:23
  Speaker 2: Please please keep us posted.
• 2:22:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, just for him to like see a bunch of
• 2:22:27
  Speaker 3: pink cards of a bunch of people that uh he's
• 2:22:30
  Speaker 3: calling the counter support them.
• 2:22:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't have it, doesn't feel.
• 2:22:34
  Speaker 4: Handles are eat Like, well, we have his email address. Yeah,
• 2:22:36
  Speaker 4: if anybody even just tags us and put something out
• 2:22:39
  Speaker 4: there for her We'll make sure to try to get
• 2:22:42
  Speaker 4: it in front of him, Oh for sure.
• 2:22:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah screenshots, send him the and please don't keep us
• 2:22:47
  Speaker 1: posting man legend.
• 2:22:51
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna wake up thinking about this on Friday.
• 2:22:57
  Speaker 1: I can only imagine bro.
• 2:23:01
  Speaker 3: Oh well, Dylan would rip having a cold onod with two.
• 2:23:06
  Speaker 1: He's funny, dude. Hey get we need to have Dylan
• 2:23:12
  Speaker 1: sitting here. Take your trash out, boys, take your trash out.
• 2:23:23
  Speaker 1: We love you. Yeah, see you next week. Yes,