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Living With Your Partner Before Marriage · The Cubby and Christine Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Elizabeth Taylor married eight times. 106.7 Light FM. Maybe she
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  Speaker 1: should have lived with them beforehand. Probably did.
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  Speaker 2: Probably, right?
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  Speaker 1: Well, married, divorced. That I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Did she have had time?
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  Speaker 1: Well, she was probably canoodling before the last marriage was over.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: So what do you think about not moving in together
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  Speaker 2: before marriage? It seems like now so many people... just
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  Speaker 2: do it they just move in together live together get
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  Speaker 2: married yeah so a cup a friend of mine she's
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  Speaker 2: about 58 59 maybe okay she just got married for
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  Speaker 2: the first time they live up in connecticut and they're
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  Speaker 2: not moving in together by design at all no she
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  Speaker 2: has a house she has her things he has his
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  Speaker 2: house he has his things and they see each other
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  Speaker 2: when they want it's kind of like Kind of sounds
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  Speaker 2: like Woody Allen, actually, but we know how that turned out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. But the question would be to them is, why
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  Speaker 1: did you get married?
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  Speaker 2: I maybe.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody have health benefits here?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. Companionship?
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  Speaker 1: In separate houses?
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  Speaker 2: She's always wanted to be married. She has a son
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  Speaker 2: who's in college now, but she never was married.
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  Speaker 1: How far apart are the houses?
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  Speaker 2: About 30 minutes.
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  Speaker 1: Not super close. No, you cannot walk there. Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So this actually goes beyond the question, like after marriage,
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  Speaker 2: would you not live together? That would be okay for me,
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  Speaker 2: I think, at some point in my life.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, Mark's still sleeping.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I love living with my husband, but also
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  Speaker 2: when they're gone, what if you had like two nights
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  Speaker 2: off a week?
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  Speaker 1: How about that? Well, you know, my wife and daughter
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  Speaker 1: are away. They have been for the last week.
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  Speaker 2: And I actually— You like it.
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  Speaker 1: I used to like it more than I do now.
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  Speaker 1: I kind of miss them.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I find like... That's weird.
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  Speaker 1: I feel really weird saying I miss them.
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  Speaker 2: If someone is gone, say, three days, four days.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I find the first two days, I really enjoy it.
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  Speaker 2: I do a lot of nothing. And then the projects
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  Speaker 2: that I'm going to do, they sort of ramp it
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  Speaker 2: up in speed in the last 24 hours.
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  Speaker 1: Laundry starts piling up.
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  Speaker 2: But I do find there's a.
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  Speaker 1: The cats get hungry.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. I get hungry. There's a couple of days
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  Speaker 2: in there where I need a shower. There's a couple
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  Speaker 2: of days in there where you sort of revert to
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  Speaker 2: like teenageness. you know, and you just act like a
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  Speaker 2: complete slob.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. And then I start feeling guilty that the place
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  Speaker 1: has got to be at least fixed up before they
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  Speaker 1: come home.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe this is why you should live with someone so
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  Speaker 2: they can actually see your slob-ness. Do they want to
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  Speaker 2: live with your dirty laundry and you're not showering and
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  Speaker 2: your dirty hair in the morning? That's probably what that's about, right?
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  Speaker 1: I think so.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I do think you probably, my opinion, I
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  Speaker 1: know that some people don't think it's the right thing
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  Speaker 1: to do, but You really should know each other. If
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  Speaker 1: you're going to commit forever and ever.
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  Speaker 2: You would know.
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  Speaker 1: I would know. You would know. Committed three times.
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  Speaker 2: The last one is a winner.
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  Speaker 1: I should be committed.