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S3 #5 Bachelorette and Beyond · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost Famous podcast
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Speaker 1: with our radio What's up everybody? I've been and I'm
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Speaker 1: actually and we are back and ready and excited to
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Speaker 1: bring you another episode of the almost Famous podcast. I'm
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Speaker 1: telling you what Actually. Our email has been filled up
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Speaker 1: this week, um with one of the most surprising topics,
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Speaker 1: um that we've ever talked about. And I didn't think
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Speaker 1: it would be as popular as it is, but it's
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Speaker 1: the daddy topic. So bananas. How many opinions you guys
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Speaker 1: have on this? I mean, I knew when Vinnie said it,
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Speaker 1: I was a little confused. I had heard it a
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Speaker 1: couple of times. I just didn't realize that this is
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Speaker 1: actually a thing that is sweeping the world. I mean,
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Speaker 1: we have people from the Philippines emailing us saying, you know,
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Speaker 1: I don't know about this daddy thing, but I can
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Speaker 1: see why I would be attractive. And we also have
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Speaker 1: people all over the world saying, yeah, I don't get
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Speaker 1: it at all. I am. I've been thinking about it
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Speaker 1: a lot this week, and I'm kind of liking the
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Speaker 1: whole like, oh, he's a daddy, Like I like that
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Speaker 1: kind of you're a weirdo. But I would never ever
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Speaker 1: say tell my significant other like, I never call him daddy,
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Speaker 1: but he's a daddy. I kind of get that. Now. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: well we have Lexi. One of the we pulled out
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Speaker 1: a couple of emails, and I just want to scan
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Speaker 1: through a couple of them. We have Lexi email us. UM.
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Speaker 1: Speaking of calling their significant other daddy, Alexei says she
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Speaker 1: calls her significant other daddy. Um. It's it all comes
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Speaker 1: from humor, um, but it also uses a place to
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Speaker 1: bring him comfort. She says that he says it in
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Speaker 1: a fun, loving, kind of joking way. She goes, whenever
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Speaker 1: my boyfriend does something I find sexy. See this is
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Speaker 1: the part that I don't get sexy and and daddy
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Speaker 1: should not come together. But whenever I find that my
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Speaker 1: boyfriend does something sexy, I jokingly say, oh, daddy. And
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Speaker 1: while I stay in a joking done, he knows I
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Speaker 1: also mean business. You have to read this. I feel
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Speaker 1: like it comes from some women's desire to be dominated
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Speaker 1: in the bedroom, because most women see their fathers as
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Speaker 1: an authority figure. Oh you know, this is a whole
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Speaker 1: level of creepy. Let's move on to Jillian. Now, Okay, Lexie,
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Speaker 1: I get where you're coming from, but we should stop
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Speaker 1: it there. Um. Jillian emails us and says she just
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Speaker 1: thinks it's inappropriate. Um, there's no reason why any girl
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Speaker 1: should call their guy daddy. Um. But she says, maybe
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Speaker 1: she's trying to figure it out with us right here.
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Speaker 1: She goes, maybe it comes from a place of kind
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Speaker 1: of like a desire to have babies with the guy,
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Speaker 1: like she actually wants him to be the daddy of
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Speaker 1: her kids. Um. I mean, I guess I don't know
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Speaker 1: women that well, but I feel like we're really digging
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Speaker 1: deep for that. Wait, Ashley, I have a question because
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Speaker 1: somebody did mentioned this to me. What do you call
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Speaker 1: your father? Well? I call him dad or daddy today.
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Speaker 1: I said last week that it was disturbing because like
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Speaker 1: in my phone, it's under daddy And it depends, like
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Speaker 1: it depends on how I'm feeling. Obviously, like if I
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Speaker 1: want something, I'd be like daddy, you know, daddy. But
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Speaker 1: like if I'm just like if I have a question
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Speaker 1: for him, like I need like some financial advice or whatever,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, dad, dad, you know what I mean?
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Speaker 1: So does he respond to both? Actually? I mean I
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Speaker 1: feel like as a father, if my daughter was in
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Speaker 1: the like in the bottom floor, and I was upstairs.
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Speaker 1: She's telling Daddy, daddy. I just wouldn't ignore. I can't
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Speaker 1: wait for that to happen one day certainly. Well, so
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Speaker 1: my uncle will still call my grandmother mommy, and I
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Speaker 1: think that is so aird he's fifty seven years old.
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Speaker 1: What do you call your mom? Ben? What do you
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Speaker 1: and mother? You call her mother? Yeah? Sometimes I go hey, mother,
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Speaker 1: it's like a yeah or mom. I mean, that's the
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Speaker 1: weird part of this whole thing is I mean, there
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Speaker 1: is this love and I thought about it last this
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Speaker 1: week as reading to these emails, there's this level of
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Speaker 1: like calling somebody daddy does have this connotation now where
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Speaker 1: it is a little more sexy, It is a little flirtatious,
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Speaker 1: It is lighthearted. Um, but I don't want to cross
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Speaker 1: this boundary because I don't want this like daddy to
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Speaker 1: become this very like flirty like word that's used and
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Speaker 1: then women like women like you actually have to look
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Speaker 1: back and be like, I've called my dad daddy for
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Speaker 1: the last twenty years, and now I feel so awkward.
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Speaker 1: I like, how strong do you feel? Like you actually
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Speaker 1: want to start a campaign like the anti daddy campaign
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Speaker 1: I do, and I think honestly, Um, there's one other
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Speaker 1: email that I want to read through here before we
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Speaker 1: move on that might agree with me on this. Um.
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Speaker 1: Is Abella Um. She says, it's just awkward to refer
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Speaker 1: to anybody as daddy. It's disgusting, and it has become
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Speaker 1: a thing for girls to call her boyfriend's daddy, especially
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Speaker 1: when it's getting intimate. That's just wrong in every possible way.
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Speaker 1: I cringe at the thought of it. Isabella, you and
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Speaker 1: I are on the same team here. I have to
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Speaker 1: mention this. I'm reading these emails along with Ben, and
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Speaker 1: he keeps taking out the compliments towards himself, Like Lexi says,
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Speaker 1: Ben is the hottest man in the history of the
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Speaker 1: known universe, and I have a small poster of him
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Speaker 1: in my room even though I'm in college, and he
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Speaker 1: has a total daddy. And then Isabella goes, I would
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Speaker 1: call Ben a hottie if I saw him walking down
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Speaker 1: the street comment because he just can't read them himself.
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Speaker 1: But I thought everybody out there shouldn't know. Well. Speaking
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Speaker 1: of daddy is one of my personal favorites. Joe Jonas
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Speaker 1: got engaged this weekend and I heartest break my hearts
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Speaker 1: or like I heart but my heart or okay, well
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Speaker 1: for all of the people who out there know me. Um,
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Speaker 1: they introduced me on The Bachelor, um as somebody who's
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Speaker 1: gone to seven Jonas with a concerts. Like, in all seriousness,
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Speaker 1: I had a fan base before I was even appearing
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Speaker 1: on TV because they let out some facts about some
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Speaker 1: of the girls on Crystal Season, and one of mine
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Speaker 1: was I've been to twenty seven Jonas brother concerts and
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Speaker 1: I got so many girls who were like, oh, I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna like this girl. So I mean, I can do
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Speaker 1: an entire podcast about my love of the Jonas Brothers
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Speaker 1: boy bands in general. Yeah, but we're not going to
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Speaker 1: do that. We're not going to do that. I do
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Speaker 1: want to tell a funny story from last year when
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Speaker 1: I kind of knew that Sophie Turner maybe Joe's one
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Speaker 1: he loved the love of his life. Alright, So obviously
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Speaker 1: Joe was the object of all of my affection from
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Speaker 1: the ages of nineteen to twenty two. And Joe he
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Speaker 1: knows this. It's very embarrassing. Um. He he knew that
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Speaker 1: I was a stalker fan. And then somehow I became
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Speaker 1: on the Bachelor, and then he had to like run
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Speaker 1: into me backstage at events and it was just very abnormal.
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Speaker 1: Um But eventually I actually got kind of friendly with them. Um.
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Speaker 1: Nick especially thinks I'm not so creepy anymore. Nick thinks
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Speaker 1: I'm a weirdo and hilarious, and I would call us friendly.
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Speaker 1: So I've hung out with the guys before, but every
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Speaker 1: time I hang out with Joe, he always has a girlfriend.
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Speaker 1: Like one time we were all hanging out like a
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Speaker 1: big group of us. No, I've never hooked up with
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Speaker 1: a Jonas brother. I know that those questions are inevitable,
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Speaker 1: so I'm just putting that out there. So we were
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Speaker 1: hanging out a group of ton of us and he
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Speaker 1: was with Gigi. And then last year I was at
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Speaker 1: the I Heart. We were at I Heeart Festival and
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Speaker 1: Joe was backstage and he came up and said hi
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Speaker 1: to me, and I was like, oh, wait a second,
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Speaker 1: maybe I should get back on this Joe Jonas train.
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Speaker 1: He's single. So then for like four weeks I was
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Speaker 1: totally in my head like, oh, this Joe thing could
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Speaker 1: actually happen now. And then I was like asking Amy, like, hey, Amy,
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Speaker 1: if there are any d n c E concerts like
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Speaker 1: you gotta get me back there? You remember that I did?
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Speaker 1: So then we're a jingle ball and I'm going to
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Speaker 1: go to the d n C after party. My best
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Speaker 1: friend is there with me. I'm losing Cake by the
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Speaker 1: Ocean Joe's band b n C. That doesn't stand for
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Speaker 1: Cake by the Ocean. No, you know the song Cake
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Speaker 1: by the Ocean. No no, no no, no no, no no, yeah no,
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Speaker 1: I know the song, but what is the like? What
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Speaker 1: does it mean? Oh? I don't know what d n
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Speaker 1: c E stands for? You know what what you're talking?
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Speaker 1: Email a true super fan and find that out. Okay, okay, okay, okay,
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Speaker 1: ha ha ha. I've been I've been really under control
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Speaker 1: and calm and not like not as crazy John b.
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Speaker 1: We used to call it John Bees Jonas zombies. Um
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Speaker 1: so okay. From the festival September, you guys for me, Okay,
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Speaker 1: Well it's about to get worse. Okay. So that was
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Speaker 1: at the festival, the I Heart Festival in September when
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Speaker 1: I started putting these thoughts back into my head. My
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Speaker 1: twenty two year old self was coming back to life,
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Speaker 1: and I was thinking that Joe Jonas was a viable
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Speaker 1: option for me. And then come like the first week
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Speaker 1: of December, we were at I Heart Single Balls in
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Speaker 1: New York City and uh, I go the d n
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Speaker 1: C after party my best friend and I are there
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Speaker 1: with Tanya from My Heart. If you guys may know Tanya,
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Speaker 1: she's also been on Becca's podcast lately. And uh so
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Speaker 1: at this party chatting with Nick Jonas, and I tell Nick,
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Speaker 1: I go, so, I'm gonna go talk to your brother
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Speaker 1: for the first time in my life because even though
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Speaker 1: we've hung out in the same vicinity before, We've never
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Speaker 1: had a conversation. Joe's always like, Hi, good to see you,
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Speaker 1: like really soft spoken and gives me a hug and
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Speaker 1: then like that's it. So I go. I am a
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Speaker 1: little drunk, and I go, Nick could go talk to him,
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Speaker 1: and then he's like okay, And then I go over.
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Speaker 1: Joe's by himself at the bar. He's got one friend,
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Speaker 1: but they're not talking. So I'm like, this is my opportunity.
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Speaker 1: And I knew that he was dating Sophie Turner, but
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Speaker 1: I thought it was just like a fling, and I
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Speaker 1: thought they were together like six weeks. You know, what
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Speaker 1: the heck does that mean? So I go over to
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Speaker 1: Joe and I go, hey, so my best friend is
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Speaker 1: talking to your brother. So I just thought i'd come
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Speaker 1: over here and say how do you? And then he
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Speaker 1: goes hi, and that was that was it. And then
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Speaker 1: I waited a beat. I waited like thirty seconds to
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Speaker 1: see if he'd say anything else. He didn't, so I
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Speaker 1: pivot turned and I was like, and that is the
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Speaker 1: most demoralized I've ever been in my entire life. And
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Speaker 1: people people tell me, I think it's just because he's
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Speaker 1: dating someone and he must really like her. And while
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Speaker 1: he liked her enough to propose, So there we go. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I mean, did you didn't cause that break up? All right, Okay,
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Speaker 1: the story is done, and you guys might think it's silly,
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Speaker 1: but there's gonna be a lot of people that really
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Speaker 1: appreciate that story. All right, let me break this down
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Speaker 1: maybe our our biggest guest ever. Desra Hardstock. Are you
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Speaker 1: out there, I'm here, Thanks for having mere you. We're great.
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Speaker 1: How are you? How's Chris good? Good? If we're doing good?
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Speaker 1: Just just hanging out getting ready for fall. I mean,
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Speaker 1: that's an exciting time in life. I remember a time
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Speaker 1: where I was so excited the first time I ever
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Speaker 1: met you and Chris. Um, you were two of the
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Speaker 1: best people I've ever met. And I mean that we're
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Speaker 1: We did a McDonald's commercial together, Remember that. Yeah, yeah, definitely,
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Speaker 1: And at that time you hadn't had your child yet, right, No, No,
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Speaker 1: that was that was man, how long ago? That was
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Speaker 1: like two and a half years ago. Yeah, yeah, I'm
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Speaker 1: getting up there in age. It's been a while, uh
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Speaker 1: since we did it. But you and Chris old, that's right.
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Speaker 1: And it was amazing to me because I was so
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Speaker 1: nervous during that time my life. It was while The
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Speaker 1: Bachelor was airing, and um, I was so nervous and
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Speaker 1: you and Chris is really were I want to stay
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Speaker 1: down to earth. But that just makes you sound like No,
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Speaker 1: you're just great people and you were fun and you
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Speaker 1: made me remember after walking out that commercial shoot, walking
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Speaker 1: out there going okay, I'm gonna be okay, like if
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Speaker 1: people um can come at us and be as awesome
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Speaker 1: as them, Like, I don't think I'll completely lose myself.
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Speaker 1: I'll just do it a little bit. Oh that's nice
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Speaker 1: of you to say, well, we we thought the same
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Speaker 1: to you when we first met you. Well, I hope
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Speaker 1: that's continued. Do you still love up to it? You
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Speaker 1: still love up certainly does. He's the greatest, he does.
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Speaker 1: Your baby Asher is turning one this week in two days.
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Speaker 1: One of the big plans for his first birthday, Well, ironically,
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Speaker 1: um my, both of my sister in laws we all
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Speaker 1: had babies the same week, so we're doing a joint
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Speaker 1: birthday with the other two. So there's three of them
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Speaker 1: that were all born within a week of each other.
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Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's crazy. What are you doing. We're just
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Speaker 1: keeping it low with Loki with some family. Are they
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Speaker 1: dressing up? I think uh no, But that's actually a
15:38
Speaker 1: good idea. We'll we'll be doing trick or treating later,
15:42
Speaker 1: but that actually is a good idea. We could dress
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Speaker 1: him up as you know. Whatever the scene with one
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Speaker 1: year old birthday party is, is is that it's usually for
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Speaker 1: the parents. It's not really for the kids. They don't
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Speaker 1: have a clue, right, I've never been like a big
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Speaker 1: fan of like big birthdays for kids, like kardashian esk
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Speaker 1: birthday parties. For these kids, they're like, oh, yeah, they're
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Speaker 1: not going to remember this. They're not even gonna be
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Speaker 1: able to participate. Yeah. Never, But it's fun. It's been
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Speaker 1: a lot of fun. I just can't believe this whole
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Speaker 1: year has just flown by. Um we wanted we were
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Speaker 1: talking about daddy's before, and we're talking about like how
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Speaker 1: attractive a daddy, how attractive that women can find guys
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Speaker 1: as fathers. Have you been more attracted to Chris as
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Speaker 1: a dad? Absolutely, There's something so special about like the
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Speaker 1: bonds that they have with their child. And it's been
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Speaker 1: so cute now that Asher is like a little older
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Speaker 1: and like he's walking and um, you can just tell
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Speaker 1: the bonds that he has to with Chris, and I
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Speaker 1: don't know, it's so cute. Oh my gosh. I mean,
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Speaker 1: I guess because I've met Chris right before the father
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Speaker 1: Like what are his best qualities as a father then
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Speaker 1: his dis qualities. I mean, he's very thoughtful and I
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Speaker 1: think that's just always been equality that he has. But
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Speaker 1: he always makes sure that like I'm taking care of
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Speaker 1: that Ash has taken care of, and like as a
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Speaker 1: family were taken care of. Um. I think that's just,
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Speaker 1: you know, that's just innate quality that he has. And
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Speaker 1: that's like one of the coolest parts to me is
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Speaker 1: when I met you too, and um, you know, actually
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Speaker 1: I've talked about a lot, actually truly believed that the
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Speaker 1: show can bring love about and you're the perfect example
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Speaker 1: for it. And now you've started this little family and
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Speaker 1: we've talked um to Carly and Evan, who you know
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Speaker 1: are getting ready started. They've already kind of joined together
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Speaker 1: and there for this new family. I mean, what is
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Speaker 1: it like now? I'm really interested in this looking back
17:40
Speaker 1: on your time as a bachelor at to see how
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Speaker 1: that ended, to know how you met Chris, and now
17:43
Speaker 1: looking at your family today, does it just kind of
17:46
Speaker 1: feel surreal now or does it all make sense? Like
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Speaker 1: what is your take experience? I mean, it's so surreal.
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Speaker 1: I think no matter where you meet though, like even
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Speaker 1: just entering into parenthood is such a huge step and
17:58
Speaker 1: you have to make sure you are with the right person. Um,
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Speaker 1: and I think, I mean with the show. Yeah, it's
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Speaker 1: definitely an interesting way to meet your significant other, but
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Speaker 1: it totally works. And just like any other relationship, you like,
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Speaker 1: you meet on the Bachelor, you meet in a cop shop, whatever,
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Speaker 1: but you have to spend time to get to know
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Speaker 1: each other and obviously know that you're gonna be good
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Speaker 1: parents and good you know, partners for each other through life.
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Speaker 1: And um, when I look back, it's just, I mean,
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Speaker 1: it honestly feels like it's been ten years because we're
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Speaker 1: so far removed from you know, who we were when
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Speaker 1: we first met. Now we've just grown so much, So
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Speaker 1: it's just it's weird sometimes to look back. Yeah, we
18:44
Speaker 1: still watch it. It's been I mean, it's been a
18:46
Speaker 1: little harder since having asture to like stay involved, but
18:50
Speaker 1: we love watching it. It's so much fun and I
18:52
Speaker 1: love seeing the relationships form. I remember watching your season.
18:58
Speaker 1: I was in school and I was was was a
19:00
Speaker 1: guy friend and he was like, would you ever go
19:03
Speaker 1: on this show? And I was like, yeah, probably like
19:07
Speaker 1: a fun guy like Chris, I would. Yeah, there you go.
19:10
Speaker 1: That's so funny. But I mean, look what happened and
19:13
Speaker 1: now you guys have this awesome show. Are you guys
19:15
Speaker 1: dating anyone? That's a great question, Ashley. Are you we
19:21
Speaker 1: go on dates dating anyone exclusively? Yeah, we'll say like
19:27
Speaker 1: we we already get enough rumors out there. Actually date
19:31
Speaker 1: other people, you know, try and um, never go back
19:35
Speaker 1: on Bachelor in Paradise, O paradise. Probably not paradise. But
19:39
Speaker 1: I never say, yeah, maybe you should just create your
19:44
Speaker 1: own like dating show on this on this podcast that
19:49
Speaker 1: we're doing, we're all about fun and love. Yeah, I
19:55
Speaker 1: think you guys should choose someone for the other, like
20:00
Speaker 1: to go on a blind date. I think, Um, but
20:04
Speaker 1: we never did it, so we'll get back to it. Um.
20:07
Speaker 1: You know when we started out this whole podcast with
20:09
Speaker 1: a goal to find Ashley a partner, because I just
20:11
Speaker 1: wasn't ready at that time. Um, the thing is, and
20:16
Speaker 1: maybe it was the goal of this podcast for me.
20:18
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't fell you on that, my bad, bad,
20:21
Speaker 1: um desert. I have one question for you and and
20:24
Speaker 1: before because I know you have some stuff I really
20:25
Speaker 1: want to highlight here. Um, but you don't get to
20:29
Speaker 1: ask many people this from the franchise, and and it
20:32
Speaker 1: is a personal question, so if you want to answer
20:33
Speaker 1: to high level that's completely fine. But so you come
20:36
Speaker 1: off the show with Chris, when did you know, Like
20:39
Speaker 1: when was the moment you looked at him and go, Okay, yes,
20:41
Speaker 1: this actually will be in my husband and the father
20:45
Speaker 1: to my children. Because I haven't talked to anybody's came
20:48
Speaker 1: off this show yet with a partner and been you know,
20:50
Speaker 1: there's been things that they've learned about each other. There's
20:52
Speaker 1: been really tough situations, there's been difficulty. There's been the questions,
20:56
Speaker 1: when were you super confident that you and Chris we're
20:58
Speaker 1: going to be with each other for ever? Honestly, I
21:01
Speaker 1: swear to you when like when he proposed, because I mean,
21:06
Speaker 1: obviously whatever my season showed, they didn't show like we
21:10
Speaker 1: talked about so much prior to him even getting down
21:13
Speaker 1: on one knee that like we were set in what
21:17
Speaker 1: our future would look like, Like we knew before he proposed,
21:21
Speaker 1: like I would move to Seattle because I didn't really
21:25
Speaker 1: have roots in California and it just made the most sense.
21:29
Speaker 1: And then if it didn't work out in a year,
21:30
Speaker 1: then we would revisit that. But I don't know, I
21:33
Speaker 1: think like I knew that I guess I take that back.
21:36
Speaker 1: I knew that we would obviously see like where it
21:40
Speaker 1: would go and that it did feel completely right. But um,
21:44
Speaker 1: I think after the first year of being together, because
21:47
Speaker 1: that first year is always the hardest, as I'm sure
21:50
Speaker 1: you know you know too. In any relationship, it's the hardest,
21:54
Speaker 1: but it's definitely it's especially hard after coming off the
21:57
Speaker 1: show because of you know, everyone else also interested in
22:01
Speaker 1: your personal life. I know that first year is it's hard,
22:06
Speaker 1: and that's the thing that people don't understand, you know,
22:08
Speaker 1: it's I actually was just talking to Rachel about this
22:11
Speaker 1: the other day at lip Sync Battle and she goes,
22:13
Speaker 1: it's crazy because as soon as the press is done,
22:17
Speaker 1: reality starts and so like, I mean it literally remember
22:20
Speaker 1: the moment for for me where everybody left, you know,
22:23
Speaker 1: the the TV cameras and the handlers and the and
22:27
Speaker 1: the producers all left and it was just myself and
22:30
Speaker 1: my relationship to kind of figure out. And it is
22:32
Speaker 1: a weird feeling. Um. And it's really great that you
22:35
Speaker 1: two made it out and that you you now are
22:37
Speaker 1: starting this family. Um, but you've also started your own
22:40
Speaker 1: a little deal with a wedding drop a dresses is correct, Yeah,
22:43
Speaker 1: tell us about it. Yeah, So I've always I mean,
22:47
Speaker 1: even prior to the show, I was in the wedding
22:48
Speaker 1: industry and I loved helping brides find their dresses. But
22:52
Speaker 1: I also have a design background. So ever since I
22:56
Speaker 1: was like nineteen, I knew that I wanted to design dresses.
23:00
Speaker 1: So it's just been awesome to be able to really
23:02
Speaker 1: bring that to life. And UM, I don't know. I mean,
23:06
Speaker 1: obviously a lot of it has helped from the platform
23:09
Speaker 1: of the show, and I will always be grateful for,
23:11
Speaker 1: you know, that opportunity. Um, but it feels so good
23:15
Speaker 1: to finally be doing what what I am meant to
23:18
Speaker 1: be doing, you know, like, um, so yeah, I launched
23:22
Speaker 1: my first debut collection by myself. Um. I did partner
23:27
Speaker 1: with a company a few years ago, but now this
23:30
Speaker 1: is like I'm on my own and I'm just designing
23:33
Speaker 1: a bunch of waiting dresses and I love it. If
23:36
Speaker 1: you could dress any of the unmarried bachelor couples, so
23:43
Speaker 1: to dress Caitlin Raven for Oh, that's such a good
23:50
Speaker 1: question question as um can I say all three? I
23:58
Speaker 1: would definitely No, you can casually, she can't. You're right now,
24:02
Speaker 1: she can't. That's really bad journalism, k like to a
24:05
Speaker 1: dress Caitlin because she um, because I have more of
24:08
Speaker 1: a boho like style with my design, and so I
24:12
Speaker 1: think she would be more open to like an edgeer. Look, okay,
24:15
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that. And then okay, okay,
24:21
Speaker 1: I'm down. Let's just like you know, we are a
24:23
Speaker 1: little while. But I will remember this. Um, what is
24:27
Speaker 1: one big mistake that brides make? You've had so much
24:29
Speaker 1: interaction with bride's Oh yeah, one mistake? Um, I think, um,
24:38
Speaker 1: oh man, they make a ton though uns. I know
24:43
Speaker 1: there's such a it's such a stressful time for people
24:46
Speaker 1: that it shouldn't be. But um, I think a lot
24:48
Speaker 1: of times they put too much weight on other people's opinions.
24:53
Speaker 1: I think that's a huge mistake because it's your day
24:56
Speaker 1: and you know it's hopefully only gonna happen once, and
25:00
Speaker 1: you want to make sure that it's everything you want
25:04
Speaker 1: in that way your friends want are your family or
25:06
Speaker 1: your mom. You know how much say yes to the dress?
25:09
Speaker 1: Did you watch while putting together this line? I love
25:13
Speaker 1: saying us to the dress. I I could watch it
25:16
Speaker 1: every day, even just background, because it's like in the background,
25:20
Speaker 1: even if I'm like this, you know, doing health stuff.
25:23
Speaker 1: It's the best background. And if I love it, do
25:29
Speaker 1: you watch it to you? Then it's just comforting. I mean,
25:32
Speaker 1: there's nothing that stresses me outlets. I have one final
25:39
Speaker 1: question for you days about what your dress is. How
25:42
Speaker 1: much do you think ladies should spend on their dress
25:44
Speaker 1: because some of these girls go in to say yes
25:47
Speaker 1: to the dress with really low budgets and some of
25:50
Speaker 1: them you're like, why would you ever spend twelve dollars
25:53
Speaker 1: on a dread? Totally I'm all for affordability and budgeting
25:58
Speaker 1: because my whole thing too was like, no one want
26:00
Speaker 1: should go into debt over a wedding at all, and
26:03
Speaker 1: so um, I mean I try, I'm trying to keep
26:06
Speaker 1: my Like my line is, the dresses ranged anywhere from
26:10
Speaker 1: two to three thousand UM, and that's pretty average. And
26:14
Speaker 1: I don't I don't think anyone just spend more than
26:16
Speaker 1: five Yeah, that's as much of my car is worth
26:20
Speaker 1: right now. I don't know it really is. Yeah, I
26:25
Speaker 1: just got I just got an insurance check for for
26:28
Speaker 1: hal damage and so I know exactly how much of
26:30
Speaker 1: mine is worse. So serious. Yeah, so we can go
26:33
Speaker 1: into that if if you're excited about talking about hal damage.
26:36
Speaker 1: But I care about the hall and it was brutal. Um,
26:41
Speaker 1: it was actually brutal. But doesn't really appreciate you coming
26:44
Speaker 1: on you. You really are, um a person from this
26:48
Speaker 1: franchise that you know, I'm proud to be affiliated with
26:51
Speaker 1: and associated with you. Please tell Chris Allow from Ashley
26:54
Speaker 1: and I and and give your little boy Astra hug.
26:58
Speaker 1: Oh I will he's it best? Yeah, just give him
27:02
Speaker 1: a big old hug the Almost Famous podcast. Yes, when
27:05
Speaker 1: he can speak, we want him to be our first
27:07
Speaker 1: baby guest. So cute. Okay, thanks, thank you, And make
27:13
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27:25
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Thanks all right, take care. You
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Speaker 1: dark again on this podcast, let's go back to a
30:12
Speaker 1: second to a topic that we didn't quite get to finish. Okay,
30:15
Speaker 1: this is the Joe Jonah story. We were just talking
30:18
Speaker 1: on it. Actually, I have a question for you. Okay,
30:20
Speaker 1: here's the deal, and I want you to be honest
30:23
Speaker 1: with me because it's a topic that a lot of
30:24
Speaker 1: people deal with and I hear you talk about it often.
30:27
Speaker 1: So if you saw Joe Jonas, okay, first off, I
30:29
Speaker 1: want to make a comment for him, just to look
30:31
Speaker 1: at you and say, Hi, No matter if he's a
30:32
Speaker 1: girlfriend or not, is just how you still are so
30:36
Speaker 1: hyped up on this guy is impressive because I if
30:38
Speaker 1: I ever did that to a woman, I guarantee you
30:42
Speaker 1: they would walk away and never be as giggly and
30:44
Speaker 1: excited to talk about me as you are with Joe Jonas. Well,
30:47
Speaker 1: you're right, I mean it's very it's very interesting. I
30:50
Speaker 1: don't know. I obviously knew at that point it was
30:53
Speaker 1: never going to happen between us, and you didn't know
30:58
Speaker 1: that before. That was the moment that you're that, yes,
31:01
Speaker 1: he really went up there thinking like this could be
31:03
Speaker 1: the one no, no dead serious, thought like this could
31:06
Speaker 1: be the time in our lives where we'd actually date.
31:08
Speaker 1: You don't even know, Like one time I gave them
31:11
Speaker 1: a gift, like when they were on tour, during their
31:14
Speaker 1: little bit longer tour, Like I gave them each personalized gifts,
31:17
Speaker 1: and you weren't the one. Probably they were playing softball,
31:23
Speaker 1: so we got them really decorated softball bats. Um, don't
31:27
Speaker 1: very weird. But then eight years later, I'm like, okay, okay,
31:31
Speaker 1: we're here at the same party. I was invited as
31:34
Speaker 1: an I heeart guest. I walked the same red carpet
31:37
Speaker 1: he did. I think that maybe he can look at
31:38
Speaker 1: me a little bit more as an equal, a little
31:41
Speaker 1: bit less as a creeper fan. And I'm like his
31:44
Speaker 1: brother thinks I'm hysterical. We have great conversation he Nick,
31:54
Speaker 1: Nick and me and Nick and then like Kevin thinks
31:57
Speaker 1: I'm cool. Um, but just he has zero desire to
32:02
Speaker 1: speak to me. So if you saw the Jonas brothers
32:05
Speaker 1: separately walking down the street, okay, and they weren't famous,
32:09
Speaker 1: they were just they're just themselves. They they're software salesman,
32:13
Speaker 1: they're car salesman, and the one guy worked at Zarah. Okay,
32:16
Speaker 1: a lot of software salesmen aren't just guys. I know.
32:21
Speaker 1: I'm just saying the Jonas brothers just we're just talking
32:24
Speaker 1: about would you find them as attractive as they are today? Uh? Probably?
32:30
Speaker 1: I think the only thing I would think of was like, oh,
32:32
Speaker 1: they're kind of short, but their phrases are gorgeous. Okay.
32:36
Speaker 1: That's like okay, So that's this is a topic that
32:37
Speaker 1: I want our listeners to email and about. Okay, what
32:41
Speaker 1: celebrities are found to be so attractive, both male and
32:44
Speaker 1: female bos celebrities are found to be so attractive. But
32:47
Speaker 1: if you saw them on the street and they weren't famous,
32:51
Speaker 1: would you say, Okay, I don't see it. I mean,
32:53
Speaker 1: because I think that's the thing, right, For some reason,
32:55
Speaker 1: we're obsessed with celebrity. We're obsessed with the idea of
32:58
Speaker 1: that person's famous, and as a result, they're more active,
33:00
Speaker 1: But in reality is that really fair? And why is it?
33:04
Speaker 1: Why do we feel that way? This is a great,
33:06
Speaker 1: great question, and I have two answers for you. One,
33:09
Speaker 1: Harry Styles. If I saw him walking on the street,
33:12
Speaker 1: I'd be like, holy fucking who is that person and
33:16
Speaker 1: why aren't they famous? That face and that speaking voice.
33:20
Speaker 1: If he just said hello, I don't I can't do it,
33:23
Speaker 1: then I'd be like, what in the world there is
33:25
Speaker 1: this for of it? But then um, because I think
33:29
Speaker 1: that Harry Styles, even with his name, was just destined
33:31
Speaker 1: be famous, Like you can't have that phase, that warmth,
33:34
Speaker 1: that talent being yeah, without being famous, he was meant
33:39
Speaker 1: to famous. My other celebrity crush who I don't think
33:43
Speaker 1: I would have. Who I don't know if he would
33:45
Speaker 1: have such an overcoming feeling for me if I just
33:49
Speaker 1: saw him passing by, is Milo vent Amilia. I think
33:54
Speaker 1: that this man is quite something. It may have to
33:57
Speaker 1: do with his character on the show. But can I
33:59
Speaker 1: just tell a story really quick? I know my stories
34:02
Speaker 1: are long and boring, but they're exciting in their anti climatics. Okay, yeah,
34:07
Speaker 1: they they they are, and so is this one? So
34:11
Speaker 1: love This is Us? Think his character Jack on This
34:14
Speaker 1: is Us is just magical, Like he's a great dad.
34:18
Speaker 1: He just exudes this warmth, right But like I didn't
34:21
Speaker 1: think he was the hottest that. I never really thought
34:23
Speaker 1: he was the hottest thing. But then I went to
34:26
Speaker 1: this panel discussion in May with all that this is
34:30
Speaker 1: us cast and he came on stage and something about
34:33
Speaker 1: his in person presence overwhelmed me, and I just think
34:38
Speaker 1: he it can do no wrong. Really, I mean that's great.
34:42
Speaker 1: I mean that's but it's true. Right. So there's a
34:44
Speaker 1: couple of people that hold themselves very well in person.
34:47
Speaker 1: There's other people that don't. And I think all the
34:49
Speaker 1: listeners please email in with any celebrity you think are
34:52
Speaker 1: is so attractive right now, But if you really broke
34:55
Speaker 1: it down and you considered who they were and if
34:58
Speaker 1: they weren't famous, would you find them less attractive. I'm
35:01
Speaker 1: just interested my two answers, Milo and Harry. I think
35:04
Speaker 1: they would have an even greater effect on me in
35:06
Speaker 1: real life than they do as like a celebrity. Um,
35:09
Speaker 1: but it you mean Julia Roberts like husband, Yeah, I
35:17
Speaker 1: mean he landed Julia Roberts. So there's obviously something going
35:20
Speaker 1: on there right here, obviously is yeah, all right? Who
35:24
Speaker 1: has a great effective to you while watching them on screen.
35:26
Speaker 1: Who's your celebrity crush? I mean my celebrity crush has
35:29
Speaker 1: always been Jennifer Anderson. I mean she, Halle Berry and
35:33
Speaker 1: Jennifer Anderson have had my youthful heart since the day.
35:38
Speaker 1: That is like basic man, that's and that's completely fair.
35:41
Speaker 1: I'm totally okay being a basic man. Actually, did you
35:44
Speaker 1: ever see January Jones talking about you on Cordon? No?
35:47
Speaker 1: It's no, what's that about? Somebody emailed us about it,
35:50
Speaker 1: So I recently watched on YouTube. She basically was talking
35:52
Speaker 1: about how she likes the Bachelor and she's got a
35:54
Speaker 1: crush on Ben and then she talks about you for
35:57
Speaker 1: maybe like a minute, and then she switches real quick
36:00
Speaker 1: to Nick. You were in and out very quickly. But yeah,
36:05
Speaker 1: I mean what about you and January Jones? Yeah, because
36:07
Speaker 1: she might be into it. I mean January Jones is
36:11
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe one of the most beautiful people in Hollywood. Um,
36:15
Speaker 1: I haven't seen this yet. I'm a little bit I
36:17
Speaker 1: don't know how to respond to this. Is there a
36:19
Speaker 1: future of January and I? Um, you never know her.
36:22
Speaker 1: She would do it. Her publicists seems to be shooting
36:25
Speaker 1: it down, she says, not in there. Yeah, she says,
36:28
Speaker 1: because she wanted to maybe be the bachelorette, and then
36:30
Speaker 1: her publicists said, no, my publicist is shutting it down.
36:33
Speaker 1: To yeah, they I was going to say, I was
36:38
Speaker 1: gonna say, we'll have Ben's publicists call her puls Oh man. Well,
36:45
Speaker 1: that's nice to January to say. It's always nice to
36:47
Speaker 1: hear somebody give you a compliment, especially when it's on
36:50
Speaker 1: national television. So January, if you're listening to Almost Famous podcast,
36:54
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Thank you for making me feel a
36:56
Speaker 1: little bit better about myself today than I did about
36:58
Speaker 1: an hour ago. Um to have to watch that to
37:00
Speaker 1: see erect she wanted to call you daddy, Um, we
37:04
Speaker 1: would have to talk about that. I don't see that
37:06
Speaker 1: being a great move by January if she wants to
37:08
Speaker 1: make this a long term relationship. UM. Okay, I know
37:12
Speaker 1: this is so random, but I love this conversation. I
37:15
Speaker 1: know you do, because it's about Yes, actually this is
37:18
Speaker 1: right down your avenue, like this is your questions like
37:22
Speaker 1: I know you do. But the listeners don't want to
37:23
Speaker 1: know about who I find fresh. I think you want
37:26
Speaker 1: to know who your man crushes. Oh that's easy. Um,
37:30
Speaker 1: it would have to be either Harrison Ford or Kevin Costner.
37:34
Speaker 1: Very basic, You're just classic. You're just classic, Ben. I
37:37
Speaker 1: don't know why that's basic Kevin Costner is, Isn't it
37:40
Speaker 1: like an alpha like he is, He's a mountain man,
37:43
Speaker 1: he's an actor, he runs a ranch. Like that's that's
37:46
Speaker 1: a solid human being Like that is not basic, solid
37:49
Speaker 1: reason to have a man crush on someone too. I
37:51
Speaker 1: really appreciate how well thought out that is, minus Olivia
37:54
Speaker 1: Culbo and she also thinks that I'm a nut. Actually,
38:00
Speaker 1: hold why every single celebrity that you love that you
38:06
Speaker 1: stock like, we'll stop creeping them out? No, I just
38:10
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38:12
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38:15
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38:17
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38:20
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38:22
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38:24
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38:26
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38:28
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38:31
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38:33
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38:35
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38:37
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38:40
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38:43
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38:45
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38:48
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38:51
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38:58
Speaker 1: this isn't just a girl crush thing. Oh that was
39:01
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39:03
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39:05
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39:10
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39:13
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39:14
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41:04
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41:09
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41:12
Speaker 1: the coolest name on the street, Jack Stone. Who the
41:14
Speaker 1: heck are you? Hey? Thanks for having me, guys. Um, yeah,
41:19
Speaker 1: what do you want to What do you want to know?
41:20
Speaker 1: You tell me? How do we know you? First off,
41:23
Speaker 1: so I was on this last season of The bachel
41:27
Speaker 1: right with Rachel, and I was also on the season
41:30
Speaker 1: of Baslo in Paradise and you got the nickname serial killer.
41:35
Speaker 1: Why you know? Um? I think, I mean, you guys
41:39
Speaker 1: probably know just as well as I do. I mean,
41:41
Speaker 1: certain things sometimes are portrayed not necessarily the way you
41:48
Speaker 1: really are on TV. I had one date with Rachel
41:51
Speaker 1: that came off kind of weird and awkward and kind
41:55
Speaker 1: of creepy. And I think the producers thought, let's let's
41:59
Speaker 1: kind of makes this into a sting. Um. I think
42:03
Speaker 1: if if you were there and you were on that
42:05
Speaker 1: date with me, you would have been like what I
42:07
Speaker 1: mean when you actually saw how it actually uh looked
42:12
Speaker 1: on TV. It's just what was nothing like it was
42:15
Speaker 1: in real life, and the kind of shop stuff up
42:18
Speaker 1: there and made it a little weird. And I think,
42:21
Speaker 1: you know, I guess at some point someone was like, hey,
42:24
Speaker 1: let's make this into a thing. So for the first
42:26
Speaker 1: couple of episodes of Bachelor and Paradise, that was kind
42:29
Speaker 1: of something that they tried to play in into the
42:32
Speaker 1: narrative a little bit. Can I tell you about the
42:35
Speaker 1: creepiest thing or the saddest thing I've ever seen you
42:37
Speaker 1: do on TV, the sadst thing to ever happened to
42:40
Speaker 1: anyone on TV? Okay, okay, okay, go okay. Um. Rachel
42:46
Speaker 1: said like, oh no, don't kiss me. I don't want
42:49
Speaker 1: to give you my cold, and like that made me
42:53
Speaker 1: very squirmy, because yeah, because like I don't care. If
43:00
Speaker 1: I really like someone, I'd be like, go ahead and
43:02
Speaker 1: give me your call. Isn't that amazing? And I Accrea
43:04
Speaker 1: said the same thing I remember off camera being like
43:08
Speaker 1: guy because that's all. Also, I mean, you guys understand
43:11
Speaker 1: how it works just as well as I do. I
43:12
Speaker 1: mean there's a lot of sort of pressuring going on
43:14
Speaker 1: behind the scenes. Um, I mean to be you know,
43:18
Speaker 1: quite honest. I mean I wasn't into Rachel either, but
43:23
Speaker 1: I was trying to, you know, make the best out
43:25
Speaker 1: of it, um and try and you know, see what happens.
43:29
Speaker 1: So I'm having producers say, hey, make a move, do something,
43:33
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43:36
Speaker 1: something else. Also, UM, I know it came off super awkward,
43:40
Speaker 1: and I mean you gotta understand how being in that
43:44
Speaker 1: position myself and watching that batch, I mean it's harder
43:49
Speaker 1: for me to watch it than it as anyone else
43:50
Speaker 1: because I just like that. I would not want that, Yeah,
43:54
Speaker 1: I'd not like that. So yeah, so it's just pretty
43:57
Speaker 1: pretty crazy experience to go through. Um, do you guys
44:00
Speaker 1: know I mean, actually, I know you're not crying every
44:02
Speaker 1: single day in real life, right, No? Not almost? Okay, Well, good,
44:07
Speaker 1: so you understand. I mean, it's just it's one of
44:10
Speaker 1: those things that, Um, truthfully, I was just so shocked
44:14
Speaker 1: the way it came out at the end of the day, so, um,
44:19
Speaker 1: we get it. I came back from my first season
44:21
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor, and I told my entire family and
44:24
Speaker 1: friends that I was going to be like this cool
44:27
Speaker 1: chill girl. Yeah, I mean, I listen, not that different
44:33
Speaker 1: from my story. I was actually filming in Paradise when
44:38
Speaker 1: that awkward scene was caring on the bat threat, and
44:42
Speaker 1: I was actually having all the producers tell me, hey,
44:44
Speaker 1: I saw it. You know it looked great, like you're
44:48
Speaker 1: gonna love it. Everything looks awesome, like people are gonna
44:51
Speaker 1: love you. I am not joking, and and and I
44:57
Speaker 1: I kind of had a way of finding out what
44:59
Speaker 1: actually have then if someone kind of spilled the beans
45:02
Speaker 1: with me and they're telling me, hey, dude, it really
45:07
Speaker 1: didn't go well, like it doesn't even like it's not good.
45:13
Speaker 1: So you can imagine how I feel. I'm already in paradise.
45:15
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, how the hell do I get out of
45:17
Speaker 1: this in one piece? I can already tell like, you know,
45:19
Speaker 1: they're going to try and keep this narrative going of
45:22
Speaker 1: like Jackson awkward guy or creepy guy. And you know
45:26
Speaker 1: it's hard because you know who you are and you
45:28
Speaker 1: know who your friends and family think you are, and
45:30
Speaker 1: you know that who you know, people that really matter
45:32
Speaker 1: in your life think you are, and yet you're being
45:34
Speaker 1: portrayed as something entirely different on national television. So I mean,
45:39
Speaker 1: at that point, it was like, let's try and roll
45:42
Speaker 1: with the punches here and make the best out of
45:44
Speaker 1: it and see if I can come out in one piece.
45:46
Speaker 1: I actually got home and all my friends and family
45:49
Speaker 1: were just like you can imagine, like I had buddies
45:51
Speaker 1: coming up to me and calling me and be like
45:53
Speaker 1: a dude, what happened? Like who are you? What was that?
45:59
Speaker 1: And you know, I can always say the genius of
46:02
Speaker 1: editing and and mixing things up and putting people in
46:06
Speaker 1: scenarios that are not natural, and I mean, you know,
46:09
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, they can kind of
46:11
Speaker 1: do you almost anything they want to do. Here's the deal,
46:14
Speaker 1: So to get out of editing, okay, because the easy
46:17
Speaker 1: outlet is always let's blame editing. Okay, but I gotta
46:20
Speaker 1: ask you, so let's clear it up with all listeners.
46:22
Speaker 1: Are you creepy or are you guys? Guys, Like, let's
46:27
Speaker 1: take a step back. It's television. I mean, at the
46:30
Speaker 1: end of the day. No, I don't know. I'm asking
46:32
Speaker 1: you personally human check. I just admitted that I can
46:37
Speaker 1: be very creepy when I give it confidently said, actually,
46:41
Speaker 1: very kindly said, I can be very creepy, and my
46:44
Speaker 1: celebrity crushes are extremely creeped out by me. So Jack Stone,
46:49
Speaker 1: I will I will tell you I am the weak
46:54
Speaker 1: creepy guy you'll ever meet. So you can imagine, come out. Man.
46:58
Speaker 1: We can't say that that's like me. You can't say
47:01
Speaker 1: you're the least creepy guy like I would say. I'm
47:04
Speaker 1: like borderline creepy, like some people might think I'm creepy.
47:06
Speaker 1: Other thing I'm not. I'm not. Yeah, like I'm not.
47:12
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not like hunting around here the higgy
47:17
Speaker 1: does look that blows up outside of a car dealership. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Jack,
47:24
Speaker 1: I have very loose hips, um, very loose hips and
47:28
Speaker 1: and a very flexible torso. And so my thought process
47:32
Speaker 1: is why not use that to my advantage? Right? Um?
47:34
Speaker 1: Then I say, what you got, Yeah, you can do that.
47:39
Speaker 1: Let me ask this question again, because I think if
47:42
Speaker 1: you say, it's like, we have this person right now
47:45
Speaker 1: that we know all know very well that claims you
47:47
Speaker 1: know I am the least humble person you would ever be.
47:50
Speaker 1: Nobody that's humble ever says that they're humble. Okay, So
47:54
Speaker 1: Jack Stone, are you creepy? No? Okay, my dad, we're
48:00
Speaker 1: getting nowhere with this man. Are you a lawyer? It
48:04
Speaker 1: was It was the craziest thing for me to see
48:07
Speaker 1: the way that that played out. The craziest things. But
48:11
Speaker 1: you know, it is what it is. It happened definitely
48:13
Speaker 1: not me. I mean, if you were to talk to
48:14
Speaker 1: Rachel or any of my friends or family or any
48:16
Speaker 1: of it, I actually know me in the show, that'd
48:18
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, that's that's definitely not Jack. Who's your
48:22
Speaker 1: celebrity crush? Um? You know what? Um, I'm just like, no,
48:29
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go Jimmy Fallon, Okay say that. Yeah, you
48:34
Speaker 1: could say whatever you like on this podcast I got.
48:37
Speaker 1: I got contacted by one of the producers for the
48:39
Speaker 1: Tonight show not too long ago, and um, and he
48:42
Speaker 1: actually tweeted out at me and I just kind of
48:44
Speaker 1: started met to each other. Super cool guy and he
48:47
Speaker 1: was like, hey, have you're ever in town, like, you know,
48:48
Speaker 1: let me know, hook you up to some backstage pass
48:50
Speaker 1: and you know, show you around and like, awesome. So
48:54
Speaker 1: my dad lives in New York. I went up there,
48:57
Speaker 1: um and brought some family member and they got us
49:02
Speaker 1: like you know these v I P passes and they
49:04
Speaker 1: roped off some feats for us, and they're like, hey, Jack,
49:06
Speaker 1: Jimmy really wants to meet you. At the end of
49:08
Speaker 1: the show, he's like, I mean, I honestly, I mean,
49:11
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say this. I lost my show. I mean,
49:13
Speaker 1: it was a cool experience I've ever had. I mean,
49:16
Speaker 1: everything was worth it at that point. I mean it
49:20
Speaker 1: was like pretty cool experience. Jimmy comes up after the
49:22
Speaker 1: show and I think I hugged him like six times.
49:27
Speaker 1: You don't actually have a lot in common. He's such
49:32
Speaker 1: a good dude. He's such a good guy, and he
49:34
Speaker 1: honestly like, I'm not making this up, and he probably
49:38
Speaker 1: does this to everybody because for sure this isn't true.
49:40
Speaker 1: But he he gives me a hug and he goes,
49:43
Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of yours. No, no, Jack, I
49:46
Speaker 1: actually had the coolest experience about a year ago. I
49:49
Speaker 1: was at something and a fan came up to me
49:51
Speaker 1: and she goes, okay, weird ran into Jimmy fallon on
49:55
Speaker 1: the street yesterday, and we talked about you, and I'm like,
49:58
Speaker 1: you're kidding, and she goes, yeah, Like I knew that
50:02
Speaker 1: he loved Bachelor in Paradise, So we started talking about
50:05
Speaker 1: it and then I go, Ashley I is my favorite.
50:07
Speaker 1: And then Jimmy Fallon and his Jimmy Fallon voice goes,
50:10
Speaker 1: oh my god, I love Ashley I. And I was like,
50:13
Speaker 1: oh my god, my life. Yeah, I mean, who would
50:17
Speaker 1: have guessed that Jimmy Fallon is watching. Jimmy Fallon's never
50:21
Speaker 1: talked about me, and but I did here earlier that
50:23
Speaker 1: January Jones, and and so I'm still kind of right
50:25
Speaker 1: and high on that one. It's all worth it. I mean,
50:27
Speaker 1: you know what, check that off the list. That's pretty cool.
50:31
Speaker 1: It's pretty cool that you got to go backstage and
50:33
Speaker 1: that like he's a fan. That's really cool. That is
50:35
Speaker 1: such a cool thing, right, that you both get to meet.
50:38
Speaker 1: Your celebrity crushes are the people that you admire the most. Um,
50:41
Speaker 1: all from this crazy little show that we all did
50:44
Speaker 1: and that we all have in common with. Um. So see,
50:46
Speaker 1: if love doesn't happen, at least some really cool opportunities
50:50
Speaker 1: exist and life just gets a little bit more interesting
50:52
Speaker 1: post Bachelor world. I think that's right, you know, isn't
50:54
Speaker 1: it not? That you know, you go on a show
50:56
Speaker 1: like this and you know truthfully, And I'm the first
50:59
Speaker 1: person to say this, and you guys can feel free
51:01
Speaker 1: to disagree with me. But I mean, no one that
51:03
Speaker 1: goes on any of these shows has done anything particularly
51:06
Speaker 1: like you know, amazing. No one saved a life or
51:08
Speaker 1: did anything crazy like that. Ben actually does probably say lives,
51:13
Speaker 1: but outside of been on in my superhero costume and
51:18
Speaker 1: and yet and people think it's such an amazing thing.
51:23
Speaker 1: But I mean, no one's really done anything. I mean,
51:25
Speaker 1: you know, people definitely whatever. For whatever reason, it resonates
51:30
Speaker 1: with people. People really love meeting people from this franchise um,
51:37
Speaker 1: and I mean it's definitely a out of this world
51:40
Speaker 1: experience for sure. Well Jack, I'm glad we got to
51:43
Speaker 1: meet you, and I'm glad that you came on this podcast.
51:45
Speaker 1: We appreciate it, man, and uh, please come back anytime.
51:49
Speaker 1: You no longer can be a part of the Who
51:50
Speaker 1: the heck Are You podcast? Because we now know who
51:52
Speaker 1: you are. Let's move on. You guys are awesome. Ben,
51:54
Speaker 1: By the way, I think you were the first I
51:57
Speaker 1: think It was the first episode of this franchise ever
52:00
Speaker 1: Us with Your Seasons, so full circle here is decided
52:03
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52:11
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54:45
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54:48
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54:50
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54:54
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54:57
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55:00
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55:02
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55:05
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55:08
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55:24
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55:46
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55:48
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55:50
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55:52
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55:55
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55:57
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55:59
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56:01
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56:04
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56:07
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56:11
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56:13
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56:21
Speaker 1: not all guys really do ask you out, even if
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Speaker 1: they want to. And I learned this firsthand, um, just
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Speaker 1: by being friends with Dean. Dean told me that he
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Speaker 1: has never once asked a girl out. He has never
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Speaker 1: he'll never ask them to hang out. He'll like, he
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Speaker 1: will never assume that they are into him. He needs
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Speaker 1: to be like totally convinced by the woman that they
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Speaker 1: are into him first before he does anything that's interest.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if that should be the case. Like,
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Speaker 1: there's obviously something there that Dean's a little fraid of.
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Speaker 1: Right is the rejection if it's his own confidence, if
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Speaker 1: it's not feeling I'm worthy to date that person or not. Um,
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Speaker 1: But I think I would just have to imagine that
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Speaker 1: when you meet somebody and you know, hey, this person
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Speaker 1: seems special to me, that at that moment, something would
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Speaker 1: happen inside of you to say, I can't miss this moment.
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Speaker 1: I can't let this person walk away from me. I
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Speaker 1: have to say something. And I've had that happen to
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Speaker 1: me before, right, I mean, I remember even in college
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Speaker 1: and in high school, when you know, I was really
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Speaker 1: excited about finding finding a girlfriend and really wanted to
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Speaker 1: find that that person's a date. I remember going like
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Speaker 1: different places around town and seeing like the most beautiful
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Speaker 1: person walked past me and not say anything, and just
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Speaker 1: that kind of let down. Like, man, I wish I
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Speaker 1: was more confident. I wish I would have said something.
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Speaker 1: I've had moments like that in public too, or just
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Speaker 1: like giving me the number, given me your number, and
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Speaker 1: I just can't do it. No. Well, here's the deal, So, Debora, UM,
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Speaker 1: my advice is, I don't think you're doing anything wrong.
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Speaker 1: I don't know if there's a wrong and right way
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Speaker 1: to do this. I think the best way to do
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Speaker 1: it is to continue to be confident, to never um,
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Speaker 1: never settle, never get down on yourself, right. I mean,
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Speaker 1: people have rejected me many times, rejected actually many times.
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Speaker 1: I'm sure as you go through this dating life, rejection
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Speaker 1: happens to everybody. UM, so just keep staying strong and
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Speaker 1: one day I hope for you that a guy will
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Speaker 1: come up to you, grab your face at a coffee
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Speaker 1: shop and say, I gotta kiss you because I can't
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Speaker 1: let this pass. So with that, this is another episode
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Speaker 1: of the Almost Famous Podcast. Next week, here's a deal,
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Speaker 1: we have a special guest, Julia Kenney. Um, she just
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Speaker 1: didn't marriage boot Camp reality stars. She Uh, she might
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Speaker 1: have found love on that show. We don't know yet,
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Speaker 1: so let's ask her about it. Uh. And the Bachelor
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Speaker 1: News Already's first promo came out, it was released. I
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Speaker 1: watched it. I don't think you learned anything from it. Um.
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Speaker 1: With that, Hey, everybody, it's been a lot of fun.
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Speaker 1: This is the off season and we know that they're
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