Latest / The Inspired Stories Podcast / Melissa Granizo Turns the Softest HR Conversations Into the Most Effective Ones
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- 0:04Welcome to another edition of the Inspired Stories podcast,
- 0:08where leaders share their experiences so we can learn from
- 0:11their successes and be inspired by how they've overcome
- 0:14adversity. Let one idea from today shape
- 0:17what you do next. My name is Anthony Cotispodi and
- 0:20today's guest is Melissa Granizzo, Total Rewards Senior
- 0:25Manager in the Human Resources team at Areas USA.
- 0:29They are a travel hospitality company that runs restaurants,
- 0:33cafes and retail shops in airports and Hwy. plazas across
- 0:37the country. AREAS serves more than 35
- 0:42million travelers each year through nearly 400 locations in
- 0:4627 airports and 12 travel plazas, all with a mission to
- 0:51make every journey more enjoyable.
- 0:54The company's commitment to quality earned it multiple FAB
- 0:57awards, and it recently grew even larger by acquiring
- 1:00Delaware N's Travel Hospitality Services division.
- 1:05Melissa brings over 10 years of HR experience that fast moving
- 1:08environment. She holds an MBA from Florida
- 1:11International University and carries the SHERM CP and PHR
- 1:15certifications. Earlier in her career, she LED
- 1:18people experience and Wellness programs at Alcora, and she
- 1:22supported global teams at Fresh Del Monte.
- 1:25Her passion is building benefits and Wellness plans that help
- 1:28employees thrive so that they can say so that they can serve.
- 1:32Let's do that sentence again. Her passion is building benefits
- 1:37and Wellness plans that help employees thrive so they can
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- 2:37today, the Senior Manager of HR and Total Rewards at Aries USA,
- 2:42Melissa Granizzo. Thanks for making the time to
- 2:45Share your story today of. Course, it's my pleasure.
- 2:49So, Melissa, you did both your undergrad and your MBA at FIU
- 2:54Florida International University.
- 2:56Is this first where you became interested in human resources?
- 3:00Yeah, so funny story. I actually wanted to be an
- 3:02accountant because I love numbers and I always said
- 3:06numbers don't lie to you, right? 1 + 1 is always going to be two
- 3:09no matter where you are. And people are too complicated.
- 3:13So I was an accounting major, but I also, I started my like
- 3:18educational career as an accounting major, but then I
- 3:21worked at the university when I was doing my undergrad and I
- 3:26worked with donors and I got to work with the CHRO of Royal
- 3:32Caribbean. At the time, her name was Maria
- 3:34Del Busto. And we were just talking at a
- 3:36networking event and she's like, you're not an accountant, you're
- 3:38an HR person. And I was like, no way, I'm not.
- 3:43Because you have a personality. Yes, because I was like very,
- 3:46always very bubbly, right? And she's like, you're not an
- 3:48accountant. She's like, trust me, you're not
- 3:51going to regret it. And then later in my career at
- 3:55the university, I just started doing like trainings and just
- 3:59agendas and things like that. And I was like, oh wow, I really
- 4:01do like people development. And funny enough I ended up in
- 4:06HR so I always credit her. She probably doesn't even
- 4:09remember that conversation or Remember Me truly because I was
- 4:15just one of so many students that she worked with at the
- 4:19College of business. But she is actually the person
- 4:22that made me think about going into HR.
- 4:24Wow, and so was it. This was during your undergrad
- 4:27still. Yeah, this is in my undergrad.
- 4:29I was a sophomore. OK all.
- 4:31Right. And so and mention her name
- 4:34again so. Maria del Busto.
- 4:35Yeah, that's great. And so it's great that you
- 4:39called out, Maria. I wonder if there's somebody
- 4:42else prior to getting to areas in your career that was really
- 4:46helpful for you, kind of understanding and patient the
- 4:49road for you. I had a lot of great mentors.
- 4:52I do have to say that I've had amazing leaders in my career.
- 4:57When I worked at the university while I was in undergrad, my
- 5:01leader at the time, her name was Monique Catogio, and she was
- 5:05becoming a life coach. And so she kind of used us to
- 5:09get the hours for her certification.
- 5:11And so she helped me work on a lot of like, my fears at the
- 5:16time of talking to people because I was very quiet.
- 5:20Like I was OK once I got to talk to you, but I was very hesitant
- 5:23to speak to strangers. And then she helped me overcome
- 5:27that. And then from there I just had
- 5:30amazing HR leaders, Litan Assas when I worked at Del Monte,
- 5:35Fresh Produce at Alcora, I had so many great mentors.
- 5:39We had such a really strong team there.
- 5:42Laura Parto, who I still speak to, the head of legal, Tom
- 5:44Houlihan gives has given me some of the best career advice I've
- 5:48ever had. And then I had a boss for a
- 5:51short time, Alberto. He was also really helpful.
- 5:54And then my leader here at Maria's, George Garcia, is just
- 5:58absolutely fantastic. I also had a boss that she
- 6:03taught me the rough way of how to use like Excel, things like
- 6:06that. And she would make us build
- 6:08really big spreadsheets. And then she's like, you got it.
- 6:11And I was like, yes, thank you so much.
- 6:13And she would click out this Excel spreadsheet and wouldn't
- 6:16save it. And I would look at her and be
- 6:18like, Jodie, we just spent an hour building the spreadsheet.
- 6:21She's like, good luck building it on your own.
- 6:24So I had a lot of great leaders that put me out of my comfort
- 6:29zone when I was younger in my career, gave me big
- 6:33responsibilities that I didn't think I was ready for, but they
- 6:36knew I was ready for. And we're just there when I
- 6:40needed to bounce ideas off of them and really let me kind of,
- 6:45it really taught me how to think critically by just giving me a
- 6:48challenge and letting me fail really, you know, letting me
- 6:52succeed. But when I failed, letting me
- 6:54fail and then teaching me how to get up.
- 6:57And I think that that is like one of the best things that I
- 6:59got to learn from all of my leaders.
- 7:02So couple of points I want to dig into there.
- 7:05Talk to us about Tom. He gave me some of the best
- 7:08career advice. What was that?
- 7:11So Tom is just great. He is like a natural
- 7:13storyteller, which is interesting from a general
- 7:16counsel because he was just funny, you know?
- 7:22And I remember interviewing with him and he's like, I don't like
- 7:25your resume. And I, I, I'm never going to get
- 7:28this job. So I pushed back and I was like,
- 7:31but the reason that my resume is like that is this and this and
- 7:34this and this. And he's like, OK.
- 7:37And I remember walking away and telling my husband, there's no
- 7:41way I get this job. And then my next interview was
- 7:45with like the CEO and the president, and they offered me
- 7:48the job as I left. So that's.
- 7:52The interview. Tom was just sort of like
- 7:54testing you. Yeah, he liked it.
- 7:56And he was always one of really funny feedback he gave me.
- 8:00He's like, he would call me Nelly.
- 8:01And he's like Nelly, you know what's great about you and like
- 8:04what he's like, you know how to tell people to go to hell.
- 8:07And they're so excited. They're like, I'm ready, how do
- 8:12I get there? And so.
- 8:15But he always just had good conversations with you.
- 8:17You know, he gave you really good advice.
- 8:21And I would say one of the best things that he taught you is
- 8:24like, know your worth. Know what you're willing to give
- 8:27up and when you're willing to give up.
- 8:29And when you're not ready to give something up, know that
- 8:33too. Like know your standards and
- 8:36don't let people push you against that ethical line, you
- 8:39know, and if when you get there, stand proud to like be willing
- 8:44to give it all up if someone pushes your boundaries.
- 8:47And I think working in the world of people, you know, it's really
- 8:50hard because everybody has different value systems,
- 8:54Everybody has different morals and everybody has like different
- 8:58ways of communicating and you, but you have to know when it's
- 9:03enough for you, like when you're ready to draw that line.
- 9:07And I think Tom was always really clear with us on how to
- 9:11have that conversation and just good feedback for me personally
- 9:14on just my career on how to continue to develop.
- 9:18He was always a good like a work dad we used to call him.
- 9:23So let me see if I understand that it's sort of like if a
- 9:27supervisor or boss is asking you to stay late, asking for extra
- 9:31work, you have to know sort of where your threshold is.
- 9:35So you say, hey, I understand this is temporary, this short
- 9:39term crunch, I'll do it to kind of help the team out versus no,
- 9:43this is happening on a regular basis.
- 9:44I'm going to have to put my foot down and say I need some
- 9:47boundaries here. I know it's important to you,
- 9:49right? So, you know, like I, I'm a mom
- 9:52and that's very important to me. Like I want to be there to put
- 9:55my son to sleep. So that's a boundary that I
- 9:57have, you know, so I will work until 3:00 in the morning, but
- 10:01from 7 till 9:30, that's my time with my son.
- 10:06You know, after he's asleep, I'll get back on.
- 10:08And it's happened, right? We're like you said, we're in
- 10:10the middle of the acquisition. So we are working endless hours.
- 10:14I will be on Teams calls with my phone with my team until, you
- 10:18know, sometimes 2:00 in the morning trying to figure things
- 10:21out. But from 7:00 to 9:30, that's my
- 10:25family time. At 9:35, you have me, but I'll I
- 10:30and that's a boundary that I know that I have drawn that is
- 10:33important to me. And that's what lets me be able
- 10:35to give until 2:00 in the morning or super early because
- 10:39you gave me that time for my family.
- 10:42Got it. I also, I want to understand
- 10:45better how you got over the fear of talking to people once you're
- 10:50comfortable with somebody. OK fine, you're bubbly, your
- 10:53personality shows, but how did you breakthrough that fear
- 10:57barrier with new people? I think for me was realizing
- 11:01that all people are just people just like me.
- 11:06I think that I was pretty privileged at the beginning of
- 11:09my career to have interactions with very high level individuals
- 11:16because of the job that we had. I worked in the fundraising
- 11:18department at the university. So you know, you're constantly
- 11:21working with big businesses and things like that.
- 11:24And I think that once I realized that Aceo is the same person as
- 11:31I am, he just has a little bit more work experience, that you
- 11:35realize that we're all just the same.
- 11:38And through times of saying the wrong joke, talking incorrectly,
- 11:44you know, saying something I should have, walking away like
- 11:49God, that conversation is not what I expected it to be.
- 11:53You kind of just learn to feel confident enough in yourself
- 11:56that you do have something to add.
- 11:58Even if you don't have the most experience in the room, you
- 12:01always have something to add to the conversation because your
- 12:04story adds to the experience. So I may never have worked at a
- 12:11fast food restaurant, but maybe you have and you just may be the
- 12:15receptionist, but you feel like, OK, well, my job is just
- 12:18reception. But if you know the experiences
- 12:21that other people have gone through, like you have a lot to
- 12:23add. And I think just slowly speaking
- 12:27to donors, putting myself in those situations, I realized
- 12:31that people did want to hear from me.
- 12:33And not just because I was like the handler, you know, at the
- 12:36time, which was my job often like follow the guest speaker
- 12:39around, make sure they have their drinks or their coffee or
- 12:42whatever. But they did like, they were
- 12:46really interested in me, genuinely.
- 12:48And so it made me realize that people are just people.
- 12:51And most people have a story and they want to know your story
- 12:55too. And if you just look at it that
- 12:57way, then it's fine. Everybody is just OK.
- 13:01And so now, is there any lingering fears when going up
- 13:05and starting a conversation with somebody new?
- 13:08No, I I may not be great at networking events, you know,
- 13:12just walking out to a big group of people.
- 13:14Hi, my name is Melissa, but I love chit chat.
- 13:17You know, I think that actually one of the sad parts of COVID is
- 13:23that I think that a lot of our problems we solve in the chit
- 13:28chat. We solve so many problems next
- 13:30to the coffee machine on the way to the vending machine or
- 13:34walking, like when you bump into somebody that I think that like
- 13:39the chit chat adds so much to a culture And it really you solved
- 13:44so many problems in just those quick little conversations and
- 13:48you get to know so much about people.
- 13:50And I think that connecting is how you build a team, even if
- 13:56they're not in your department, being able to ask for help or
- 14:00something like that. I think all comes from, from the
- 14:03chit chat. So I I love that.
- 14:06That's interesting. Let's explore this for a second.
- 14:09In my experience, if I'm being honest, chitchat is the the part
- 14:15of human interaction that I get bored with very easily.
- 14:17Like, oh, sure is cold out here today, right?
- 14:21You know, how about that sports team?
- 14:23Like I want to get sort of like layers deeper, but that takes
- 14:27some time. The chitchat to me seems like I
- 14:31am not comfortable having a deeper conversation with you.
- 14:34So I'm going to keep this completely surface level.
- 14:37Tell me, tell me why I'm wrong. Tell me what I'm missing,
- 14:39Melissa. Because I think you get to learn
- 14:41so much about people so, and I don't know if it's like a
- 14:44cultural thing in Miami, but I, I'm not, I'm not too sure.
- 14:49Because when I, when I lived on the West Coast, we had it too.
- 14:52And I'll give you kind of a funny example in Miami, I'm a
- 14:57first generation person, right? And in Miami, that is so common
- 15:00to be a first generation American.
- 15:02When I moved to California, in that city, people used to tell
- 15:08me that I talked with an accent. And I remember one day we had a
- 15:13really funny conversation about the way I said almond.
- 15:15And apparently I say that with an accent.
- 15:18Who knows? So they were picking on me and
- 15:21they're like, so how do you say aunt to see if I said aunt or
- 15:24aunt? You know how some people say,
- 15:25and I said I say Tia and and they all laughed, right?
- 15:31But that's just chit chat. But what did you learn about me,
- 15:36you know? I learned.
- 15:37Yeah. You spent some time on the West
- 15:39Coast. I I know that you're first
- 15:41generation. Yeah.
- 15:42Yeah, I know that you're funny. You made a joke, right?
- 15:45You answered it in a different language.
- 15:47That's. That's clever and and if you
- 15:49didn't see me right, if that, if I'm not, so you're probably go.
- 15:52She's not somebody that takes herself too serious like she's
- 15:55Ahr manager, but she's willing to joke about herself.
- 15:57So I think that is really what I mean by the chit chat, right?
- 16:02It's those small nuances that, you know, you may be having a
- 16:06rough day, but you hear someone make a joke like sometimes
- 16:10during lunch with a team, we like to read like dad jokes.
- 16:13And some people will walk by and they'll just start laughing and
- 16:18they're like, what the guys doing?
- 16:21Or, and I'll say you see that? I, I think that is really what I
- 16:24mean. I'm also not one of those people
- 16:26that cares too much about how was your weekend?
- 16:29Great. No, but I, I think that chitchat
- 16:32of how are your kids? How are they doing in school?
- 16:37Or just, you know, what did you do this weekend?
- 16:40Oh, I went here and here. Oh, I've been wanting to try
- 16:42that restaurant like those types of conversations and mostly work
- 16:46chitchat. You know, if you work in Alcora
- 16:49was a a distributor of Wellness and beauty products, right?
- 16:54So we would just, they would just walk around.
- 16:57Do you like the way this smells? Do you like the way this smells?
- 16:59What is this? What is this and that you missed
- 17:03during COVID? Because we just did a whole
- 17:05focus group with 60 people by walking through the office when
- 17:09in COVID we are all restricted. And it's like, how can I get you
- 17:12to smell this through my computer?
- 17:14Like, and I think so many times, especially in HR, we use people
- 17:20as like, hey, if we launched this platform, how would you
- 17:23like it? Like I'll be having lunch and
- 17:25I'll just ask people, what did you think about this that we're
- 17:30trying to do? Or would you like it if we did
- 17:33this? And sometimes you get to hear
- 17:35like, oh, another HR thing, you know?
- 17:39But sometimes people are like, oh, that's actually really cool.
- 17:42But you know, it would be better if this and this and this,
- 17:44because we do this on Tuesdays. So Tuesdays really wouldn't
- 17:47work. And then you're just like, OK,
- 17:49now I have information. So I'm kind of reading between
- 17:53the lines here, but I think the difference in what you're
- 17:56calling chit chat, what I was kind of thinking of as chit chat
- 17:59is your chit chat still gets into sharing information, right?
- 18:05Like it's not how was your weekend fine.
- 18:08How was yours fine. It's what did you do this
- 18:12weekend or how are your kids doing in school?
- 18:14Like a question that's going to elicit a more specific response
- 18:18other than good, good, fine, fine.
- 18:21Right, exactly. And then you get to learn that
- 18:23you're you actually have a lot more in common with some people
- 18:26than others. And then they're like, oh, I
- 18:29just started taking this vitamin, why don't you try it?
- 18:31Or you know, and then all of a sudden you have a connection
- 18:35with someone that maybe you barely even talked.
- 18:39To OK, let's get into closer to present day.
- 18:42Now I want to understand how the opportunity came about for you
- 18:45to join areas. So I actually worked with two of
- 18:51the people that are on my team when we worked at Fresh Del
- 18:53Monte. So the payroll director is a
- 18:58friend of mine who worked there. And then my VP, George Garcia,
- 19:01also worked at Del Monte Fresh many moons ago.
- 19:05So we all worked together. And so I was just talking to her
- 19:09one day and she's like, hey, how are you doing?
- 19:13How's the baby? And I'm like, oh, great.
- 19:15She's like, oh, if you're ever interested, like I would love to
- 19:18work with you again. And I was like, well, I'm
- 19:21interested. And she's like, are you serious?
- 19:25I was like, yeah, it's like, why not?
- 19:28I'm willing to explore like any opportunity.
- 19:31And then and they just happened to have the position that I had.
- 19:35I spoke to George and he's like, no, like I loved working with
- 19:38you. I would love to do it again.
- 19:40I know that we had like a really good time.
- 19:42You're a really hard worker. And then we're here.
- 19:45It was really something simple. And that's why it's so important
- 19:50to always keep good relationships with people
- 19:52because you never know. I worked with them at the very
- 19:56beginning of my career in HR, maybe in 2015, and then I
- 20:01started here three years ago in 2023.
- 20:04So full circle. And Areas is one of those
- 20:07companies where like I've never heard of it before, but I've
- 20:11interacted with it, right? Yes.
- 20:14Yeah, tell us more about what areas is what you do.
- 20:17So we're one of those businesses that I don't even think you
- 20:20realize exist until you're in the industry.
- 20:25So our official name is we are concessionaires.
- 20:28So when you go to the airports and you eat at a restaurant, a
- 20:32Starbucks or Subway or even a private brand that you may not
- 20:36realize is a privately owned brand, you are visiting a
- 20:39concessionaire. And that's what we are here at
- 20:42areas. So like you mentioned, we're in
- 20:44airports all across the United States.
- 20:47And then on the East Coast, it's more prevalent.
- 20:49I don't know that they have them so much on the West Coast.
- 20:51But on the turnpikes, when you're driving up, like let's
- 20:54say if you're going from Miami up to Orlando, you stop at like
- 20:58these service points that have plazas where there's snacks and
- 21:02real retail stores. And so if you stop at one of
- 21:05those in the state of Florida, Maryland or West Virginia,
- 21:08you're also stopping at an area's travel Plaza.
- 21:11Those are our employees. OK.
- 21:13And in the airports, are you the ones who are running like a
- 21:17Starbucks or do you have like, your own branded restaurants?
- 21:21So both. So we partner with big brands
- 21:25because like in in Houston, we have the first Yard House in an
- 21:31airport, which is really exciting.
- 21:33And so we have we partner with national brands that you're very
- 21:36aware of or everybody's aware of.
- 21:38We have Dunkin' Donuts, we have Starbucks, we have Burger King,
- 21:41Wendy's, a couple of our airports have chick-fil-A's.
- 21:45And then we have some of our own proprietary brands like Gastro
- 21:52Hub here in Miami. We have a restaurant called La
- 21:55Bosa, we have a bar called The Bar.
- 21:57And then we have different just concepts throughout the United
- 22:01States that are ours. And then we have chefs here on
- 22:03staff that completely create the menu from start to finish.
- 22:06So like a Starbucks or a Chick-fil-A?
- 22:09Are you guys franchisees then? Sort of, yeah, in that area, I
- 22:14don't know like the specific legalities of it, but we are
- 22:17like we have the franchise to use these brands and so.
- 22:20We, they're your employees. You.
- 22:22Correct are. Operating 100.
- 22:24Percent yes, our employees 100 Anybody that works for areas, if
- 22:28you're in one of our sites even regardless of where you work at
- 22:31a retail store or a restaurant, you are an area's employee
- 22:34regardless of your brand. So you may work at Burger King,
- 22:37but you belong to areas. We just work with Burger King to
- 22:40meet their standards. So it's actually a pretty
- 22:42interesting concept because if you think about it, the
- 22:44standards are so different from a Starbucks to a Burger King.
- 22:47Like you're, you're working in 2 completely different kind of
- 22:50fields, right? And two completely different
- 22:53types of fields when you walk in these two types of places.
- 22:57So talk about the Miami airport, and maybe there's the Starbucks
- 23:04there and a Chick-fil-A there, and they're both under the
- 23:07area's umbrella. Would you have staff go from one
- 23:12to the other like, oh, we're short staffed over here?
- 23:14No, because it it depends. Like it would be a training
- 23:17nightmare. Right, So it depends, right.
- 23:20So you have some brands that are like more to their culture,
- 23:23right. Like everybody knows that
- 23:25Chick-fil-A is a Chick-fil-A no matter where you go and they
- 23:27have their my pleasure and those things that you go to Starbuck,
- 23:30them sorry, you go to Chick-fil-A for, but if you go
- 23:34to Starbucks, you're also expecting the same thing.
- 23:36So we work with all of the brands to be able to have like
- 23:41our employees are trained by the brand.
- 23:43You know, we are, we get like brand training.
- 23:45We have a team that just does this here at areas that gets
- 23:49certified by the brand to be able to like train the trainer,
- 23:52if you will. And then our team members are
- 23:56they know the area's way, but they're also fully versed in the
- 23:59way of the brand that they work in.
- 24:01Now there's some brands that it's a little bit easy to jump
- 24:04one to two if they're like a little bit more similar, like if
- 24:08you're working in a fast food, we may get you certified in both
- 24:11if they're close to each other. Now working at an airport, you
- 24:13may not be always in the same terminal.
- 24:15So it all depends, but typically a barista has a completely
- 24:21different job than somebody working at Chick-fil-A.
- 24:23So we if we ever switch you out, it's for brands or operations
- 24:28that have a similar like a similar feel.
- 24:32Gotcha. But if your brands are very
- 24:33specific and they have specific trainings and everything like
- 24:36that, then you'll only work at your one location.
- 24:39Gotcha. You know, and as you were
- 24:40saying, this is the kind of thing where if you're not in the
- 24:43industry, you probably don't even notice that this exists.
- 24:47But clearly now I have an understanding it does.
- 24:50And you guys are not the only company that does this.
- 24:54So what sets you apart from the others out there?
- 24:57I think that it's our our culture really our CEO when he
- 25:05started in 2020 really created like this culture of own your
- 25:09business guest first being brilliant at what we do.
- 25:16We talk about that a lot here at the team, like we always say
- 25:19like stay brilliant and it's part of one of our programs here
- 25:21that we teach our managers and our employees about honoring the
- 25:26guest. And I so I really think it's the
- 25:30areas kind of attitude that we have where it's like everybody's
- 25:36the CEO of their business, everybody is in charge of their
- 25:39responsibilities. And we don't necessarily see
- 25:42ourselves as a concessionaire. We see ourselves like we are a
- 25:46food service company, like we're a hospitality company.
- 25:49So when we you are traveling through one of our airports and
- 25:53you visit one of our locations, we want you to have a good
- 25:55travel experience. We don't just want you to have a
- 25:58good dining experience. And so I think that is what like
- 26:03really takes us, makes it different for us here at areas.
- 26:07And what do you mean by that? A good travel experience, not
- 26:10just a good dining experience. Like how are you going that
- 26:12extra mile? I think it's the way that you
- 26:15visit our concepts, right? So if we see and our employees
- 26:19know, like if they see somebody that is travelling most of the
- 26:23time is very stressful for people, especially I would say
- 26:26like on our turnpikes, you're going through Rd. trips, maybe
- 26:29you're going through Rd. trips with kids and it's loud.
- 26:31And it's really just like if you see something that is out of the
- 26:34ordinary, make sure you're helping people and yet you're
- 26:37thinking about their whole experience.
- 26:38You know, like, we've had diners come in and there's nothing they
- 26:41can eat on our menu. And our team would be like, OK,
- 26:44how can I help you? And they may create a special
- 26:48dish for them if it's because of their allergies or they're going
- 26:51through like a chemo treatment and their food has to be like
- 26:54very clean or something like that.
- 26:55So like, we just changed this entire person's day by listening
- 26:59to them a little bit more, by listening to the person.
- 27:02And so it's really just making that guest feel like this is not
- 27:06just a stop to buy a water bottle.
- 27:10I like that. OK, Now I want to explore what
- 27:12specifically you do, Melissa, your title, Total Rewards Senior
- 27:17Manager, and this is obviously in the HR space, what are your
- 27:21responsibilities? What is it you get to do?
- 27:24So I'm responsible for culture compensation and benefits in a
- 27:30whole. We are also unique that we have
- 27:33a lot of, we have a union environment and a non union
- 27:37environment. So there's a lot of compliance
- 27:40that goes into it. But I would say it's that whole
- 27:44picture of culture rewards, your employee experience, like what
- 27:50it feels like to work at areas. Our guest and learning
- 27:53development team really takes the lead on it.
- 27:56But definitely we like partner and I help support them because
- 28:00so much of what they do also is tied up to like your rewards and
- 28:04your experience I areas. And then of course, just trying
- 28:09to get people the best benefits that we can working in
- 28:12hospitality. It's a very different employee
- 28:15population. Then, for example, like a
- 28:19corporate office. You're kind of having to create
- 28:21benefit items that work for two employee populations.
- 28:26Meaning folks that maybe there's more turnover kind of lower end
- 28:30of the wage scale and then somebody more senior corporate
- 28:33folks. Yeah, it's like your field and
- 28:35your corporate office, right. So if you're looking at somebody
- 28:38that's working in like a location, it's a high paced
- 28:41environment, it's typically high turnover, it's a hospitality,
- 28:45right? So a lot of people it's like,
- 28:47well, I can work $14.00 here, I can work $14.25 here, I might
- 28:50jump for $14.25. So how do we make our
- 28:53compensation or the total package that we give to the
- 28:56employees feel valuable enough that you just won't jump for
- 28:59$0.50 or $0.30 at another place? So how do we create that so it
- 29:05feels valuable for the employee population, but also taking care
- 29:10of our corporate office and our managers and the executives so
- 29:16that everybody feels like they're getting there, like the
- 29:19right piece of the pie. Yeah.
- 29:21And so it's interesting what you talk about.
- 29:25A question I like to ask a lot of folks, especially folks in HR
- 29:29like yourself, is, yeah, how do you retain and hold on to good
- 29:32folks, especially, you know, in these high turnover environments
- 29:36you're talking about? You've got folks that'll, you
- 29:38know, jump ship to go make an extra $0.25 an hour.
- 29:41What are some other things that you found that kind of helps
- 29:44keep people more anchored, feel more loyal to you?
- 29:47I think sometimes it's culture, giving people some flexibility
- 29:52and making sure that they know that they're not just another
- 29:55number here. Because we have some locations
- 29:58that are small, like especially some of our travel plazas that
- 30:01are small in Florida may have like 50 employees and then you
- 30:06have some that have 250 employees.
- 30:08So how do you make them feel like you're not just a number in
- 30:14this? You are part of us, like you are
- 30:17part of areas, you're part of the bigger picture.
- 30:21But at the same time, and I think we talk about this a lot,
- 30:25but it's like culture is not just a poster you put up.
- 30:28Culture is how you're treated every single day.
- 30:31Like the interactions that you have with your employees every
- 30:34day. It's not the performance review
- 30:36that you do once a year that you say thank you or maybe you don't
- 30:41say thank you. You know what you say, my
- 30:43pleasure or something else, right?
- 30:45That's not culture. Culture is are you treating your
- 30:48employees well? Because if I treat my team well,
- 30:51my team is going to treat the people that they interact with
- 30:53well, and that is going to Cascade.
- 30:56And what works in Maryland may not work in South Florida and
- 31:01vice versa. So we really try to work with
- 31:04everybody and let each location sort of create their own
- 31:07culture. Like, what is it going to feel
- 31:09like here? Because in every part of the
- 31:12nation, you have people from different backgrounds in Miami,
- 31:16like we have a very diverse population here, but it's like
- 31:19mostly Hispanic population, right?
- 31:21So what works here may not work in, you know, Minnesota or it
- 31:27may not work in Texas. So we let everybody kind of
- 31:31create their culture, but build off the same backbones, build
- 31:35off of the same standards that we want results, we want
- 31:39transparency, we want trust. And that is something that we
- 31:43all have to have. Now from there, how that like
- 31:47how that flourishes in your location is up to you as a
- 31:50leader to own your business and make your employees feel
- 31:53special. And I think that we also have a
- 31:55lot of room for growth here. One of our vice presidents
- 31:59started as a clerk at Miami Airport and he's grown all the
- 32:05way up. Some of our general managers
- 32:07started in entry level positions at our locations on the Turnpike
- 32:11and have made their way up. And so I think seeing that is
- 32:17also really inspiring to people because it's like, OK, I can
- 32:20have a career here. I don't just get to have a job.
- 32:25And I think all of that brings loyalty to people and to
- 32:28businesses. And so how much autonomy does I
- 32:32think you call them business owners at each of the locations
- 32:35have like are they determining their own employee benefits?
- 32:39Are they just sort of more in charge of, I don't know, the
- 32:44events that they may do with the employees or the the training
- 32:49and the way they approach it? Help me kind of wrap my head
- 32:52around. So their benefits we definitely
- 32:56do from a like big picture up here because economies of scale,
- 33:00right? So the more employees you have,
- 33:03the better you can bargain. And so we definitely manage some
- 33:07of that from the corporate level.
- 33:08But I would say it's the way you treat your people and the way
- 33:11you celebrate your people is left to the locations.
- 33:15So I think that that's really what creates it.
- 33:19Of course, we have programs like every other company has programs
- 33:22where we share. But it's like, OK, I'm going to
- 33:24send you your tenure gifts. But the way that you celebrate
- 33:27the tenure gifts is up to you. Do you want to do a BBQ?
- 33:30You're going to do a potluck? Are you going to have just a
- 33:33catered lunch? Are you going to do a Wellness
- 33:36fair? Are you not going to do a
- 33:37Wellness fair? All of that is really up to your
- 33:39location of what you feel is going to be beneficial for your
- 33:43employees because you may have a location where people aren't
- 33:46interested, right? Like maybe nobody really wants
- 33:50to do their biometrics, but then you may have another location
- 33:53where people love that stuff. And so it's really up to you to
- 33:58let us know. And then we work with each
- 34:00location to kind of create like a program, have an event, create
- 34:05a culture for them, help them if they're struggling to create a
- 34:08culture, working with the leaders to help organize them.
- 34:11And it kind of rolls out from there.
- 34:14But we help give you the tools if that's something that you
- 34:16wanted to. Let's talk more about these
- 34:20Wellness initiatives because I know this is a big passion point
- 34:23for you. Where does the passion come
- 34:24from? And give us a couple of examples
- 34:27of some of these programs that you've rolled out.
- 34:30So I think that Wellness has always just been something that
- 34:33interests me. Earlier in my career, I became
- 34:37like a certified nutritionist, a certified life coach with a
- 34:41specific like emphasis in Wellness.
- 34:45And it's just because I realized that it's we're all connected,
- 34:50right? When we're unhealthy in our
- 34:52bodies or when we have bad habits, we're bad people, you
- 34:58know, and not bad people in that.
- 35:01But like, you're grouchier, like they always say, like you're
- 35:04hangry. And it's like, yes, because I
- 35:06haven't had breakfast or lunch and it's 3:00 in the afternoon.
- 35:09And it's like, OK, well, what it would, what would have really
- 35:11taken you to have food? And so I think I also had, you
- 35:17know, some people in my family get very sick for things that
- 35:20were like, my father specifically got very sick for
- 35:23something that I felt was preventable.
- 35:25And so I really got me down this like rabbit hole of mental
- 35:30health, Wellness in your body and how we suffer so much from
- 35:35that even now that it feels like with so much information at our
- 35:39fingertips, how do we still struggle with Wellness?
- 35:45And so I really, that question really got to me kind of after
- 35:50my dad passed away a couple of years ago.
- 35:52And it's sort of what made what interested me in sort of like
- 35:55this different type of world of taking care of yourself as one,
- 36:00you know, like 1 body, one mind, 1 spirit.
- 36:03And how do we build on that and building healthy habits.
- 36:07And so it helped that at the time, I had a group of coworkers
- 36:10that were also into hearing me say, well, I heard this podcast,
- 36:14I'm really this Ted Talk, I heard this book, you know, like
- 36:17all of these things. And they're like, yeah, let's
- 36:19try it, let's try it, let's try it.
- 36:20And so, like, together, we sort of built really healthy habits.
- 36:24And then it sort of just turned into like, well, since she likes
- 36:26it, let's make her in charge of it.
- 36:30And that's sort of how I ended up in this world career wise
- 36:34because it was just something that interested me at the time.
- 36:37It wasn't really things people were talking about, like
- 36:40professionally talking about. And then I just sort of, I think
- 36:44during COVID and all of that, it's like what it became, like
- 36:49the Wellness of employees really became something worth talking
- 36:52about. Are you comfortable saying more
- 36:55about the passing of your father?
- 36:57Because it seems like that was a big part of the inspiration
- 37:00behind this work. Yeah, so my dad was was an
- 37:05alcoholic for a large part of his life.
- 37:08He has a great dad. I probably honestly didn't even
- 37:12notice until I was older that there was a word for that.
- 37:15But he got very sick and we didn't know why he got sick.
- 37:21And we just realized it was towards the end, like a mental
- 37:24health thing, right? Like he struggled with a lot of
- 37:28like in his addiction. And I think it just got to him,
- 37:32you know, towards the end, he was very weary of doctors
- 37:35because doctors would tell you, you know, you need to do better.
- 37:39You need to change your life. And he was a hippie, you know,
- 37:41he grew up in the 70s. If there was something you told
- 37:44my dad, like my dad had really long hair, why?
- 37:46Because they told him to cut it. So in protest, he grew his hair.
- 37:52And I think that he was just like that, you know, he was very
- 37:56anti everything that you told him to do because that's how he
- 37:59was. And so he passed when I was
- 38:02really young, I think I was 24 or 25.
- 38:05And so I towards the end of it, I realized like I started just
- 38:10like reflecting, like how does this happen?
- 38:14You know, how do people get addicted?
- 38:17How does it take over our life when we're addicted to so many
- 38:21things, You know, especially in this 80s, like we're addicted to
- 38:23our phones, we're addicted to social media, we're addicted to
- 38:26all these things that are bad for us.
- 38:27We're addicted to working, which is probably the only addiction
- 38:31that is celebrated. Like the more workaholic you
- 38:34are, the more you're celebrated, which is another probably whole
- 38:37podcast episode. And it just made me realize
- 38:45after he passed, he ended up getting like very thin.
- 38:48My dad was like 6-2, but he was very, very skinny towards the
- 38:52end. And it just it got to me seeing
- 38:56a man that was so strong. He's like my dad was a man's
- 38:59man. He was an electrician.
- 39:01He was strong. He would fish like he was like
- 39:04my a superhero to me because there is nothing that my dad
- 39:07couldn't do. He was he was huge, like
- 39:09literally and figuratively just like a big personality.
- 39:14So to see him kind of wilt young, he was in his early 60s,
- 39:21was so shocking to me. And then me being young, I was
- 39:25like, I need to figure this out, like, what is going on here?
- 39:29And I think that's kind of what made me like I went into just
- 39:33caring, I would say, about Wellness as a whole and not just
- 39:39as I need to start drinking more water, I need to eat more fruits
- 39:41and vegetables. But really, what does it mean to
- 39:44be well as a person and and how do you make that work in your
- 39:49everyday life without it making it feel like this is too much?
- 39:54I have a friend that goes to a trainer and he tracks everything
- 39:59and we're always messing with her.
- 40:02And I'm like, but that's not realistic.
- 40:05Like, you tell me I can't have chocolate.
- 40:07I would need chocolate every second of my life, right?
- 40:10That's not well living to me. Well, living is.
- 40:14I can have my chocolate, I can have cake and have cookies, but
- 40:17I'm also taking care of myself. Like, I'm also having fruits.
- 40:20I'm also having vegetables. I'm having protein.
- 40:22I'm eating well, but I'm also enjoying because that is
- 40:27realistic. Yeah.
- 40:30Can you give me an example of a Wellness initiative that you've
- 40:33introduced at areas that you've seen be well received or have an
- 40:37impact? So I think here specifically
- 40:41like in our support center, it's easier.
- 40:44I think we've gone through so much change.
- 40:46I would say that it's, it's difficult to say like what's
- 40:49working in the field versus what's not working.
- 40:52But here we do Wellness fairs and like Wellness events
- 40:57throughout the throughout the year.
- 41:00And I'm always shocked by how much people really enjoy coming
- 41:06and just learning about things. So we did like a trail mix bar
- 41:13and people were just so shocked to learn like what's in this and
- 41:16what's in this and how this can help you and what that can help
- 41:18you. And so I've learned that just
- 41:20doing these small, tiny information sessions for people,
- 41:25even though it feels small to us because we're just putting out
- 41:28like a granola bar and some information sheets, it really
- 41:31helps people. I like, I think people like fun
- 41:35facts and so I think that it entices them.
- 41:39Another thing that we have done is I don't know if this is the
- 41:42word for it, but I have coined it population health in where we
- 41:47bring doctors to our employees. So like we brought an eye doctor
- 41:51into the office. So people just took 15 minutes,
- 41:54went to the eye doctor downstairs, then they could come
- 41:57upstairs, buy their glasses and then they left.
- 42:00We had a dermatologist come, they parked downstairs,
- 42:03everybody went downstairs, everybody came upstairs.
- 42:05And it's just an easy way to get people healthy.
- 42:09And they just, they don't, they don't have to miss work because
- 42:13how many times you just not go to the doctor because I have to
- 42:15take a day off or have so many meetings.
- 42:17I have all of this going on. So I've also realized that if we
- 42:20just bring it here, people will do it and they're like more
- 42:25excited to do it because they also feel like they're getting
- 42:28paid to go to the doctor. Yeah, that's pretty cool.
- 42:33Melissa, talk to me about the state of HR in our world today,
- 42:38specifically putting the human as well as the resources back
- 42:43into human resources. I think we're probably one of
- 42:47the, I would say us and IT are probably the two professions
- 42:52that have changed the most over the past.
- 42:56I'm going to say even six years because HR was such, even when I
- 43:01started in HR, we were very much still like a paper pushing type
- 43:09of like if you have an employee complaint, you come to us, we
- 43:12hire people, we fire people, we give them benefits, you move on.
- 43:17But now I feel that you have to do 2 things.
- 43:22It's almost like you, we have gotten so good at putting the
- 43:25human back in, like human resources, that we are caring
- 43:29about our people. I always say our employees are
- 43:33just humans having human experiences at work.
- 43:36So people are gonna get phone calls even in like places where
- 43:42it's hard to get a phone call. Like if you work at a call
- 43:43center, the person answering the phone is still a mom, you know,
- 43:47she's still going to have kids that have emergencies.
- 43:50These things are going to happen.
- 43:52So how do we be human and understand these, but understand
- 43:56that these things are going to happen and we have to support
- 43:58our employees through it. But how do we also become
- 44:01resources for our for the business that we understand the
- 44:05business, we understand what cost the business, whether it's
- 44:09a real cost or not. And how do we become like true
- 44:13business partners so that we can sort of bring these two things
- 44:17together without tipping the scales too much to one side and
- 44:21too much to the other side, right?
- 44:23Because we still have to, we have to create like human
- 44:25programs that are going to push the business forward, but not to
- 44:28the extent that you're stretching your business so much
- 44:31that nobody wants to do them because then there's no point in
- 44:35having these successful programs.
- 44:39And so I think that human resources has, especially in
- 44:42like today's society where everything is ever changing, I
- 44:47think the rules of almost how to be human change every single
- 44:51day. And how do we keep up with that?
- 44:56And I think it's also just realizing that as HR
- 44:59professionals, we're also humans.
- 45:02What do you mean by I forget exactly how you said it.
- 45:05What it means to be human changes every day.
- 45:09Because I think that just like in the world, everything changes
- 45:13every single day. Like today, it's, it's what's
- 45:17OK. Today is not OK tomorrow, you
- 45:19know, like you may what? And some people feel like
- 45:22there's a good joke, right? And that joke is OK with this
- 45:25group of people, but it's not OK with this group of people.
- 45:28But it was OK last week, but now a current event happened and now
- 45:34it's not OK. I, I said something the other
- 45:36day like, oh, I'm going to deport all of these files
- 45:41because I don't want to see them anymore.
- 45:44And people are like, oh, that's a bad choice of words.
- 45:46And I said I'm talking about papers, you know?
- 45:51But things have been happening recently.
- 45:52Where people are really guarded about it.
- 45:55So it, and I, I was shocked. I, I didn't know what to do
- 46:00because I wasn't saying, I wasn't even having a political
- 46:03conversation. I think I was talking about like
- 46:05shredding paperwork or something, you know, and I was
- 46:07like, I'm going to like take all of this and put it away.
- 46:10I don't want to see it, but it's a bad choice of word, right?
- 46:13I get that. But the word choices change so
- 46:18much, you know? And I think that just what I
- 46:24always like to tell people is that even for us as HR
- 46:29professionals is that we're all just learning this too, right?
- 46:33Like I'm going to go through experiences and I'm going to
- 46:35help you through an experience that I've never experienced
- 46:38before. So we have to give each other
- 46:42that grace to be able to push through it.
- 46:45It's not going to be something that is changing.
- 46:48And I think sometimes too, especially in business, you have
- 46:52to decide like, OK, I can be human.
- 46:55And I think this is probably one of the hardest parts.
- 46:57Like, I can be human, but up to here because we still have a
- 47:01business to run. So I can understand that you
- 47:05have all of this going on, but I also need someone to serve food
- 47:08to my guest. And that can be a tough
- 47:12balancing act sometimes, right? Because you've got these two
- 47:15things that sometimes they come together really well, right?
- 47:18You've got the business doing what it does to employ people
- 47:22and to make money and to provide services to to customers.
- 47:25And you've got employees over here that you don't.
- 47:28Most of the time they're showing up and they're doing a great
- 47:30job. And at the same time, they are
- 47:32also humans that have their own baggage and their own things
- 47:35going on at home and crises with their kids and whatnot.
- 47:39And so sometimes those things, if you look at them as Venn
- 47:43diagrams, they don't overlap very well.
- 47:45And what do you do then? What do you do in those
- 47:46circumstances? And.
- 47:48It's hard, right, for some employees because like for
- 47:50example, if I'm having an off day, I can work from home, sure,
- 47:55but how does a bartender work from home?
- 48:00They can't. And so how do you, how does that
- 48:03person that may be going through stuff, right?
- 48:06Because like today, it's a hard day in their neighborhood, in
- 48:10their state, in their city, in their airport.
- 48:14Maybe it's snowing, maybe it's a hurricane, whatever is coming
- 48:18that way, right? And they still have to be the
- 48:21best version of themselves to that guest every day.
- 48:28That's that is a really hard ask of people.
- 48:33Think of how many times you went to some place and you're like,
- 48:35oh, that person was having a bad day.
- 48:38But think how many times you have a bad day.
- 48:42And I think that like, that also changes like that I think is
- 48:46also part of being human. That can also change every
- 48:48single day. And how do we keep up?
- 48:51It's hard. And I think we have to give our
- 48:54employees also space to have bad days, but also treat guests the
- 48:59right way and give them kind of tips and tools to overcome those
- 49:05hard moments. Yeah.
- 49:07Well, yeah, we've all had those bad days.
- 49:09We've all had those hard time periods in our life.
- 49:13And overcoming those hardships, I think is a great opportunity
- 49:18for us to grow and learn, as painful as it can be.
- 49:22So I'd be curious, Melissa, to hear about a particular
- 49:24challenge that you've had to overcome and how you got through
- 49:27that. Yeah, so I think my personality
- 49:30has been one of my biggest challenges.
- 49:35And it's funny because in HR, we're serious people and I have
- 49:41always been in bigger positions than I think my age.
- 49:46And I think one of the feedbacks that I've gotten gotten is like,
- 49:50oh, you need to like take yourself more seriously.
- 49:52You need to do. And I'm like, how my personality
- 49:55is bouncy, my hair is bouncy. Like I am a bouncy person.
- 49:59How? And I think one of the biggest
- 50:02things that I had to overcome is embracing myself and showing up
- 50:11as that type of professional because in HR it's actually very
- 50:14difficult, right? Because you're the letter of the
- 50:17law. And I think also like I, nobody
- 50:21knows because we're looking at this through a screen or you're
- 50:23hearing this, but I'm also very petite person.
- 50:26So I'm like this small person that has always had like very
- 50:30big jobs and I'm not I one of my biggest career challenges was
- 50:35that Tom or that we spoke about earlier would always tell me
- 50:37like take up space. And I'm just like, I don't know
- 50:42how to do that. What I'm going to stretch out my
- 50:46arms, wear a bigger book bag. How do I take up space?
- 50:50You know, I'm not that person. I don't need it.
- 50:54I don't need space. I don't need to be to walk into
- 50:57the room. And people think like, oh,
- 50:58that's the HR lady, you know, I don't and I don't give that
- 51:02energy. That's not who I am.
- 51:05And so having to overcome that. So people take me seriously
- 51:10because of the way that I am. I feel people always think like,
- 51:13oh, OK, and then I start sort of in the negative serious bucket.
- 51:20So you struggle with here is my natural personality.
- 51:23I'm petite, I'm bouncy, I'm bubbly.
- 51:27And then now I'm being given advice that says you need to
- 51:30take yourself more seriously. You need to take up more space
- 51:33in the room. You need to have a a different
- 51:36style of personality. And there's this conflict like,
- 51:39well, does that mean like who I naturally AM, there's something
- 51:43wrong with me, right? Is, is this sort of the tug of
- 51:45war that's going on in your head and.
- 51:47It's just like how I don't, I don't know how to be anything
- 51:52other than myself. So how does one do that?
- 52:00And so I think that has been my biggest hurdle and the biggest
- 52:04struggle that I've had, because I have learned that in my career
- 52:08in specific, like when I was in charge of employee relations,
- 52:11for example, it was harder to be, you know, how do I tell a
- 52:15vice president, like give the vice president feedback on their
- 52:19behaviors? You know, when I am probably
- 52:23like seeing us like the happy police, right?
- 52:26And not the behavior police. And so how do I, how do I do
- 52:31that? And So what I have learned to do
- 52:33is just change the role and say that, you know, actually the
- 52:39fact that I am this way and you do respect me and I do take up
- 52:43the space that I need is necessary.
- 52:47Like that is how I kind of overcame it, which was like,
- 52:51it's not for me a negative. For me, it's a positive because
- 52:55we can have the tough conversation, We can have it
- 52:58well and you don't need to feel beat up after the conversation.
- 53:01You can feel good about it because I didn't, we just
- 53:05talked. And I think that learning to use
- 53:11what was my weakness as my strength, it is actually what
- 53:15made me successful when I had to do those tough conversations
- 53:20because you didn't feel like you were getting beat up.
- 53:24You felt like you were talking to a coach.
- 53:26You felt like you were talking to a friend.
- 53:28You felt like you're talking to someone that believes in you.
- 53:32So you. You were being given advice that
- 53:35was like, your personality is too soft for some of these
- 53:38conversations. You need to toughen up.
- 53:41You need to be harsher, be a bigger, you need to take more
- 53:45control and you have this tug of war with yourself.
- 53:48You're like, oh, I don't know, I maybe I should.
- 53:50Maybe I should because right, You receive all kinds of
- 53:52coaching throughout your career and it's like, OK, what are the
- 53:55things I actually need to work on it?
- 53:57And where is this something where like I'm going to put my
- 53:59foot down and say, I think you're wrong.
- 54:01I think the way my personality, the way I'm naturally wired,
- 54:05presents a better opportunity here to do it in a different
- 54:08way, a better way, the way that's going to be better
- 54:11received by the other person. Right.
- 54:14And I think a way that makes me feel better for it, right?
- 54:17Because nobody wants to be that person that is always giving
- 54:21like the not so nice feedback. But when I realized it's that
- 54:24I'm not giving you not so nice feedback.
- 54:26I'm giving you important things that you need to hear so that we
- 54:30can help you do better as a company.
- 54:32Because if I'm not telling you the truth and I'm not telling
- 54:35you where we need you to grow, then you're not going to grow.
- 54:41And if you don't grow, I mean, in realistically in corporate
- 54:46America, if you don't grow and you're in a leadership position,
- 54:50you're going to see yourself leaving the organization,
- 54:52whether it's the organization's choice or whether it's your
- 54:54choice because you don't feel comfortable there anymore.
- 54:57When you realize your values don't align with that of the
- 54:59organization, you may choose to bow out.
- 55:02But it's my job as somebody in the HR team to make sure that
- 55:08you know how we need you to grow because we want you to be here.
- 55:12If not, we wouldn't give you the feedback.
- 55:15And so I feel that the way that my personality is, is that I can
- 55:20be able to tell people like, let's do it.
- 55:26Like, come on, let's grow. Let's grow together.
- 55:28We, we can do this. And I think that it's worked out
- 55:33for me. It's so much so that they used
- 55:35to laugh at me in my old company because after I terminated
- 55:38people, I would get thank you letters.
- 55:41Wow. From people.
- 55:44And thanking you for what specifically?
- 55:46For like, for terminating them with respect, for talking
- 55:50through them with them, for sitting with them in like such a
- 55:53hard time, and just for being helpful, for being respectful.
- 55:58Wow, that speaks volumes right there.
- 56:01Yeah. And so I kind of realized that
- 56:03it's OK to be bouncy. I like that you should put that
- 56:07on a T-shirt. I should.
- 56:10So as you didn't, I'm going to guess anyways, Melissa, you
- 56:14didn't get to that point right away.
- 56:17You're probably hearing a lot of this advice and and you're
- 56:20having this like internal like, oh, maybe they're right.
- 56:23Maybe I need to change how I am or who I am.
- 56:26How did you get to the place where you're like, no, I love
- 56:31who I am. The approach that I bring is
- 56:34better. I'm going to stick with this.
- 56:36Like, was it sort of like a gradual, like maybe you tried on
- 56:39the mean hat for a while and and then like that didn't work?
- 56:43Or was there like a light switch moment?
- 56:45Walk me through it. No, I would say for sure it was
- 56:47gradual because I tried, right? I tried being like the serious
- 56:51person and I was exhausted all the time because I think that
- 56:57when you're not being yourself, it's exhausting.
- 57:01And I realized that I went from having a good day at work all
- 57:04the time to coming home and being exhausted.
- 57:09And we just happened to also be doing like a high potential
- 57:13program, my old company, and just hearing the coach kind of
- 57:18give feedback to the other people.
- 57:20We used a third party and then just talking to her as we
- 57:23prepared for everything else and hearing what she was like
- 57:30preparing our hypos to go through.
- 57:33I realized slowly that it's not that the feedback was incorrect
- 57:39because do I think that there is a time and place?
- 57:42Of course, right? Like when you're playing poker,
- 57:45you're not going to show your hand, right?
- 57:47So, and not everybody has the privilege to know every part of
- 57:51you, right? Like it is OK for some people to
- 57:55know just the professional Melissa and there's some people
- 57:57to know the personal side of Melissa and the goofy side of
- 58:00me. Like it is OK to reserve parts
- 58:06of yourself to specific groups of people.
- 58:08And I think that that is actually probably the right
- 58:11thing to do in some cases, right?
- 58:13Because you're not going to come to work and you know, be the
- 58:17same person you are with your family, let's just say where you
- 58:21are laid back all the time like that.
- 58:23You need to keep a respectful discourse amongst your Co
- 58:27workers and in the office. But there is a portion of you
- 58:30that you can share. And what I realized was that the
- 58:36feedback was not wrong in that I needed to be less bouncy, but it
- 58:44was choosing the portion how much of me I get to share in
- 58:49each moment, right? And what I realized is, is that
- 58:53that bouncy kind of uplifting, light hearted part of me is what
- 59:00did make me successful in my job.
- 59:03Because even now when we're going through so much, I'm
- 59:06always telling the team like, it's OK, it is what it is, we'll
- 59:10fix it. There is not a problem that
- 59:13cannot be fixed. Everything can be fixed.
- 59:16There's always a way to correct it.
- 59:19And if it can't be fixed, I just, I haven't seen a problem
- 59:23that can't be fixed. To this day, I've never come up
- 59:25through a problem in HR that cannot be fixed.
- 59:29And so it's OK to bump into problems.
- 59:31It's OK because we're going to find a solution.
- 59:34And I think that that part of me is the successful part of me and
- 59:39the part that needed to continue to be there.
- 59:44Now, do I need to be telling jokes to the CEO while I'm
- 59:47presenting a bonus structure? Probably not really, right?
- 59:51Like, that's not the place. Can I tell my team?
- 59:54Oh, man, he said this. And I had the perfect joke in my
- 59:56head. Yes, you know, it's OK.
- 1:00:01But it's it's realizing the when and the how.
- 1:00:05That you show up like our CEO has been part of our dad joke
- 1:00:09lunches because we're just being ourselves in the kitchen, right?
- 1:00:13But if I'm presenting data and facts to him, that's probably
- 1:00:17not the place. So I think over time I learned
- 1:00:23that that that is the magic in it is realizing how much of you
- 1:00:29you needed to share all the time.
- 1:00:31Situationally appropriate. Right.
- 1:00:34Yeah. So what's your superpower?
- 1:00:42I'm happy. That's a pretty good one.
- 1:00:47I'm happy. Where's that happiness come
- 1:00:50from? I think my faith for sure,
- 1:00:55because I know that like, I'm at peace and I, I, I don't think
- 1:01:02that there's anything that can't be overcome.
- 1:01:05And even if it's hard, it'll pass.
- 1:01:08I tell the team all the time, it's going to pass.
- 1:01:11It's going to pass like a kidney stone and we're never going to
- 1:01:14forget it, but it's going to pass.
- 1:01:16You know, it's going to be fine and all, everything I heard
- 1:01:21somebody say one time, and I can't remember who or where I
- 1:01:24saw it, but it's like this too Shall pass is such an important
- 1:01:30sentence and normally we use it only in times of stress.
- 1:01:34But it's really important to know that this too shall pass
- 1:01:37can be used in times of difficulty.
- 1:01:40But it's really humbling when you use it in times of happiness
- 1:01:44because it too shall pass. So it's like sit in the
- 1:01:48happiness exactly when you have it.
- 1:01:51Because that burst of excitement of finishing a project of like
- 1:01:55when we heard the acquisition was finally going through after
- 1:01:58all this hard work, Like it was so exciting.
- 1:02:01And then it passed and we got into the nitty gritty of it.
- 1:02:05And then there's days that are super hard and we don't know
- 1:02:07when we're going to live through them.
- 1:02:09Those pass too. And then there's days that are
- 1:02:11really easy and those pass too. And so I think that just knowing
- 1:02:16that there is like more and being in that piece, it just, it
- 1:02:21makes me very happy to know that like, I'll be OK.
- 1:02:24My faith tells me that I'll be OK.
- 1:02:27Tell us about the acquisition. Why were you so excited about
- 1:02:29this? I think because we worked so
- 1:02:32hard in the lead up to it, preparing for it.
- 1:02:36And of course with these things, like you never know until it's
- 1:02:40real. Like it's like buying a house,
- 1:02:42right? You think the house is going to
- 1:02:44be yours, but until you sign at the title company, like you're
- 1:02:47not sure anything can happen. And so the day that we closed,
- 1:02:52although everything was the same from the day before, it was not
- 1:02:57the same because now we had 4000 new employees and all these new
- 1:03:02tasks and all these new responsibilities and all these
- 1:03:05unknowns. And we always say we can't wait
- 1:03:08to see the people that we're going to be at the end of this,
- 1:03:12to see how much we have learned and grown.
- 1:03:15And actually because I, it's only, we're only in two months
- 1:03:19in post acquisition, like post close date.
- 1:03:22But I always tell them, I, I don't think we can wait to
- 1:03:25become those people. I think we have to be those
- 1:03:27people today because there's so much everyday that we don't know
- 1:03:33and we don't know how to fix it. And we just have to put the best
- 1:03:37minds that we have together, put all of the best ideas in the pot
- 1:03:41and pick the best one that's going to work for the business
- 1:03:44and for the employees and execute.
- 1:03:47And when we make mistakes, admit it, fix it, communicate it, move
- 1:03:52on to the next day and move on to the next thing.
- 1:03:54And so I think it has been really exciting because as
- 1:03:58professionals, we've all learned and grown.
- 1:04:00And I think also as people, we are also learning and growing
- 1:04:04through this together because it's it's a lot of work.
- 1:04:06And I think that in a lot of work and high times of stress,
- 1:04:11you don't always get the best in people when people are really
- 1:04:15stressed. But we have such a solid,
- 1:04:17amazing team here that I think we laugh and we pick on each
- 1:04:22other so much that it is a great way to get through stressful
- 1:04:29times. Melissa, I've just got one more
- 1:04:32question for you today, but before I ask it, I'm going to do
- 1:04:353 quick things. First of all, if you want to get
- 1:04:37in touch with Melissa Granizo, you can find her on LinkedIn.
- 1:04:41Her last name is spelled GRANIZO.
- 1:04:44Melissa Granizo. Am I saying it correctly?
- 1:04:47Yes. Melissa Granizo, Areas USA, you
- 1:04:50look for that on LinkedIn. You will find her and you can
- 1:04:52connect with her there. Also, if you're enjoying the
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- 1:04:59goes a long way towards helping others discover our show.
- 1:05:02So thank you for taking a quick moment to do that right now.
- 1:05:07And as a reminder, if you want to get more hospitality
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- 1:05:22So last question for you, Melissa.
- 1:05:24A year from now, what is something specific that you hope
- 1:05:27to be celebrating? I would say a full integrated
- 1:05:38company. One big, fully integrated
- 1:05:41company. You think it'll take that long?
- 1:05:44Our goal is 6 months, so let's see.
- 1:05:47OK. But I think getting everything
- 1:05:51fully integrated, all of our employees and all of us fully,
- 1:05:56like all of our departments fully staffed and everybody
- 1:05:59really up to date, I think it would be such a good relief for
- 1:06:07so many people that are working so hard.
- 1:06:09So to look back a year from now and see like why we made it, I
- 1:06:13think that's going to be probably one of the most
- 1:06:16exciting sentences that we'll say a year from now
- 1:06:19professionally for sure. But Melissa Granizo from Areas
- 1:06:23USAI wouldn't be the first to thank you for sharing both your
- 1:06:26time and your story with us today.
- 1:06:28I really appreciate you being here.
- 1:06:30Thank you, Anthony. This is so much Ann.
- 1:06:33Folks, that's a wrap on another episode of the Inspired Stories
- 1:06:35podcast. Thanks for learning with us
- 1:06:37today.