Latest / Privycast / Ep. 140 Female Perspective w/ Shiloah Powell (Privychat 33)
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- 0:00>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 0:00>> Shaloah Powell: I've seen people eat, like, steaks, like, many
- 0:03steaks in the shower, and they post it on their facebook,
- 0:06and they're like, I'm in America, so I think it's steak.
- 0:09>> Hunter Hoover: Who are these people?
- 0:16Welcome back to privy. Privy is a
- 0:19podcast about bathrooms recorded
- 0:22from my home bathroom. I'm your host, Hunter
- 0:24Hoover, and I'm joined this week, uh, in home
- 0:27restroom. Uh, is this the weirdest
- 0:30outing you've had to someone's house? You could. It's
- 0:33fine.
- 0:34>> Shaloah Powell: A little bit.
- 0:35>> Hunter Hoover: Awesome.
- 0:35>> Shaloah Powell: A little bit.
- 0:36>> Hunter Hoover: I'm joined by Shaloah Powell. I almost,
- 0:39uh, said your maiden name, and then.
- 0:41Yeah, that's all right.
- 0:43>> Shaloah Powell: I'll take both.
- 0:43>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. I knew you for so long prior to being wed,
- 0:46but now you are very much wed, so.
- 0:49>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, almost two years.
- 0:50>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, yeah. Like,
- 0:53December will be too, right?
- 0:55>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, it'll be due beginning of December.
- 0:57>> Hunter Hoover: That's wild. Yep. It flies
- 1:00by. So how are you? You
- 1:02are?
- 1:03>> Shaloah Powell: I'm good. I'm good. I feel very pregnant.
- 1:06>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Yeah. Jason has. Jason
- 1:09has shared a bit about your process, but
- 1:12I'm sure, uh, it's different coming from you.
- 1:15>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:16>> Hunter Hoover: Uh, is the 95 degree outside
- 1:20that I complain about, is it? It's probably
- 1:22just fine with that in pregnancy and nothing's bad.
- 1:26>> Shaloah Powell: Well, I did
- 1:29have a fainting problem that I had to resolve
- 1:32with my provider, but, um, due to the
- 1:34heat, so not exactly.
- 1:37>> Hunter Hoover: Do you guys have ac?
- 1:38>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 1:39>> Hunter Hoover: Okay. That's.
- 1:40>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, I'm good inside.
- 1:41>> Hunter Hoover: Okay. That's good work.
- 1:42>> Shaloah Powell: Has aC. Home has ac. We're perfect.
- 1:44>> Hunter Hoover: Good. Okay. Um, and do you want to share a
- 1:47little bit about your job? I don't know if you can. Jason's not allowed to talk
- 1:50about his job. And some people are like, yeah, I.
- 1:52>> Shaloah Powell: Love talking about Jason Sherburne. And I. Can
- 1:55I change names and
- 1:58genders and ages, but because I have to comply
- 2:01with HIPAA. But I am a dental front
- 2:03desk at, um, a very
- 2:06busy clinic because, you know, hot tip.
- 2:09If you have, uh, oHP and you live in
- 2:11Oregon, there's a shortage of dentists,
- 2:14so make an appointment because we're booked into April.
- 2:17>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, that makes sense, because our dentist, they don't even like
- 2:20our insurance.
- 2:21>> Shaloah Powell: Like, and now most places
- 2:24don't take united healthcare, so we're one of the few
- 2:27that do.
- 2:28>> Hunter Hoover: Ah, I remember the United days. We had united
- 2:31when I worked in Salem. We liked it.
- 2:34It was good.
- 2:35>> Shaloah Powell: Uh, as someone who, uh, sends
- 2:38out the claims, you're like, no,
- 2:41they're liars.
- 2:43>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, really?
- 2:44>> Shaloah Powell: Um, you like, we'll give them the doctor's note and all
- 2:46the things they need, and then they're like, you never gave us that.
- 2:49You never sent out the pre auth. We're gonna deny this claim. And
- 2:52then you have, like, a sweet old lady
- 2:55fighting $3,000 that was denied.
- 2:58They said they'd approve for three months until they're like, okay,
- 3:01I guess we'll pay it.
- 3:02>> Hunter Hoover: That's awful.
- 3:03>> Shaloah Powell: So they deserved it.
- 3:04>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. That sucks when it's like, like older folks
- 3:07that are on fixed income that get taken
- 3:10advantage of by that. Ah, that's awful.
- 3:12>> Shaloah Powell: It's always the sweet old medicare ladies that they screw over.
- 3:15>> Hunter Hoover: Do you see that pretty frequently there? Yeah, that
- 3:17sucks. That would make me angry
- 3:20at, uh, I guess, my government. I don't know.
- 3:23It's easy to be mad at the government.
- 3:25>> Shaloah Powell: Well, that's the nice thing about ohp, is they're very clear about what
- 3:28they do and don't pay.
- 3:29>> Hunter Hoover: Right.
- 3:30>> Shaloah Powell: And then if they aren't clear about it, they're like, oh, we weren't clear
- 3:32about it, so we'll pay that.
- 3:34>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. So, so working in the dentist's
- 3:37front desk, have you ever had, like, has anybody
- 3:40had. I have to ask. Has anybody ever had a
- 3:43bathroom accident in the dentist's office?
- 3:45>> Shaloah Powell: Oh, yeah. Mostly little
- 3:47kids that they get
- 3:50scared or,
- 3:52um, one thing we'll do is like, oh, mom
- 3:55needs to get a filling. Couldn't get a babysitter. We're like, oh,
- 3:58uh, your kid's, like, seven. It's fine. They can
- 4:01color in the lobby. As long as they don't have needs. They
- 4:04can hang out with you in the room. They can hang out in
- 4:07the lobby. It's a very small clinic, so it's, like,
- 4:10right there. But there are a few times where the kid, like,
- 4:13doesn't want to ask, and then they just end up
- 4:15peeing themselves.
- 4:16>> Hunter Hoover: So I guess, oh, my gosh.
- 4:18>> Shaloah Powell: Um. Or, like, we've had
- 4:21some other folk, like, you
- 4:23know, you get pregnant ladies in the chair and older folks,
- 4:26but those, we don't talk about those ones. You
- 4:29pretend those don't exist. Just the little kid
- 4:32ones exist.
- 4:33>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, we. There was a. Yeah, we
- 4:36had a lady where I work at the school had
- 4:39an accident one time, and we just. Everybody just pretended like it didn't exist.
- 4:42It was the best path forward.
- 4:43>> Shaloah Powell: I mean, I've had an accident at work, so.
- 4:46No, I did.
- 4:49>> Hunter Hoover: Did you call jason?
- 4:50>> Shaloah Powell: So I had really, really bad. So my first
- 4:53trimester every day had a two to four hour window
- 4:56where I could eat. And if it wasn't that
- 4:59window? I was constantly throwing up.
- 5:02So one day I threw up so hard
- 5:04that it came out my nose and
- 5:07I peed myself.
- 5:10It was a very bad day.
- 5:12>> Hunter Hoover: So you threw up so hard that you peed your pants?
- 5:15>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, I threw up really hard. Like,
- 5:18I was throwing out joints while I was
- 5:21throwing up. Cause it's like a full, it's a
- 5:24full body experience. Like, you're shaking.
- 5:26Throwing.
- 5:27>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, my gosh. Yeah. Um. Uh, yeah,
- 5:30I remember. Yeah. Has it
- 5:33gotten better, the throwing up?
- 5:34>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah. Yeah.
- 5:35>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 5:35>> Shaloah Powell: Now. Now if I do it, it's just cause of acid reflux.
- 5:38>> Hunter Hoover: Fun.
- 5:39>> Shaloah Powell: We're good.
- 5:40>> Hunter Hoover: Fun. Yeah. When. Yeah, I remember when Anna was pregnant,
- 5:43especially with Silas, it was. She would think about
- 5:46just moving, and for, like, the first five, six
- 5:49months, would just throw up.
- 5:50>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah. I do have time. Snap. Because before, like, uh, you'd
- 5:53have all the sickness beforehand, so you'd know.
- 5:55>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 5:55>> Shaloah Powell: But now if I do it, there's no warning. It just happens.
- 5:59So my neighbors got a nice show the other morning, but if
- 6:01you, uh.
- 6:03>> Hunter Hoover: Got dead drop yak sacks all over our house,
- 6:06so.
- 6:06>> Shaloah Powell: Oh, perfect.
- 6:08>> Hunter Hoover: If the vomit urge hits, feel free to just shout
- 6:11that out.
- 6:11>> Shaloah Powell: Thank you.
- 6:12>> Hunter Hoover: Uh, although if you did skeet it just
- 6:15all over this, it would be a first.
- 6:17>> Shaloah Powell: I mean, it wouldn't be the first time I've thrown up on
- 6:20someone.
- 6:21>> Hunter Hoover: And the audio would be one of a kind.
- 6:24>> Shaloah Powell: Um, I buy you a new microphone.
- 6:27A new microphone cover, maybe?
- 6:30>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Uh, no, you're good.
- 6:33Um, does anything
- 6:35specific give you, like. So
- 6:38Jason said that in his most recent little
- 6:41outing, he shared that applebee's is, like,
- 6:44now a game changer for me.
- 6:45>> Shaloah Powell: So bad. So with my. I
- 6:48have hypermobile Ehlers Stanlos syndrome, so
- 6:51my collagen looks like spaghetti. Everything's really.
- 6:54But then my organs don't hold up
- 6:57super well, so I get constipated a lot during
- 6:59pregnancy. I haven't been constipated as I fixed
- 7:02it. Yeah. So now things like
- 7:05really sugary coffee drinks.
- 7:09Don't worry, guys. It's decaf.
- 7:11>> Hunter Hoover: M. Even if it wasn't, it's. Anna's
- 7:14doctor was like, yeah, just drink the coffee. You're gonna be fine.
- 7:17>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 7:18>> Hunter Hoover: Granted, Sarah's wild, so, I mean, you.
- 7:20>> Shaloah Powell: Can have, like, 200 milligrams a day, so. Huh.
- 7:25Applebee's. Um, it's been
- 7:28a learning experience.
- 7:29>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Uh, yeah. Uh, it just was
- 7:32funny. Cause I had always complained to Jason about. Cause we go
- 7:35after yam. And then I would text him and say, dude,
- 7:38why? Why did we do this. And then he said, yeah,
- 7:41I'm kind of there with you now.
- 7:42>> Shaloah Powell: The last time we went to Applebee's together,
- 7:45made me kind of wish we had two bathrooms. That
- 7:48was. Yeah, like, there was a schedule.
- 7:50Especially when we'd both be sick,
- 7:54um, when I was in first trimester.
- 7:57Cause then I'm constantly. So I. Yeah.
- 7:59>> Hunter Hoover: Uh, um, this is the vomit days.
- 8:01>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, I threw up in the kitchen sink quite a bit.
- 8:04>> Hunter Hoover: No, you just gotta kick
- 8:06Jason out of the bathroom.
- 8:09>> Shaloah Powell: Look, if there's something I'd rather clean
- 8:11up, it would, like, it would be my vomit out
- 8:14of the sink and nothing.
- 8:16>> Hunter Hoover: Oh.
- 8:17>> Shaloah Powell: Anything else off of any other surface?
- 8:19>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Yeah, he's.
- 8:22He's got it going on, I guess. M. He told me
- 8:25too much. Uh,
- 8:29he told me to ask. He said, ask her about my
- 8:32bathroom problems.
- 8:33>> Shaloah Powell: Oh, perfect.
- 8:33>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Uh, I don't know if I need to do that, though.
- 8:35>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah. Uh, it's.
- 8:38It can happen with roundup. When you're farming for
- 8:41so many years, you can get leaky
- 8:43gut.
- 8:44>> Hunter Hoover: You think that's what's going on?
- 8:46>> Shaloah Powell: Oh, totally.
- 8:47>> Hunter Hoover: Really?
- 8:47>> Shaloah Powell: Like, yeah, uh, he doesn't have a diagnosis because they're like, oh, we
- 8:50want to do all this tests and stuff. Like, I'm like, no, I'll just feed you as
- 8:53if you have leaky gut. And then he does a lot better.
- 8:56And then if we go out and eat, sometimes it just doesn't
- 8:59go well.
- 9:00>> Hunter Hoover: What is. I don't. Does it leak on the inside?
- 9:03>> Shaloah Powell: I'm trying to remember.
- 9:05>> Hunter Hoover: It sounds bad.
- 9:06>> Shaloah Powell: Um, like, it can get set off by
- 9:09certain types of dairy and, like, especially fried
- 9:11food.
- 9:13>> Hunter Hoover: Um, it almost sounds like kind of
- 9:15gallbladderish. I don't know.
- 9:19Anna had gallbladder problems years back, and
- 9:21that was, like, fried food was game over.
- 9:23>> Shaloah Powell: It. Oh, yeah.
- 9:24>> Hunter Hoover: It just, like, was awful.
- 9:26>> Shaloah Powell: Um, but I have to eat
- 9:29pretty autoimmune friendly right now
- 9:32anyway, so.
- 9:32>> Hunter Hoover: What is that? So you have to
- 9:35explain, uh, these alternative
- 9:37diets, because I pretty much eat like a middle school
- 9:40boy still.
- 9:41>> Shaloah Powell: So I'm not eating gluten or a lot
- 9:44of grain right now, and I'm not eating
- 9:47any processed sugars.
- 9:49>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 9:50>> Shaloah Powell: And then as I get closer to
- 9:52pregnancy, I have to stay
- 9:55away from any foods that can be inflammatory
- 9:58towards my disorders.
- 10:01Um, so I'll have to cut out certain vegetables,
- 10:03and I might have to cut out, um, more types of
- 10:06dairy and grain as a whole, depending
- 10:09on how bad my inflammation gets weird, or else
- 10:12my symptoms are way worse and my whole body's just the
- 10:15vegetables. Yeah.
- 10:17>> Hunter Hoover: I feel like, they. Huh? Huh? Yeah. You hear that?
- 10:20Don't. Some vegetables are bad for you.
- 10:22>> Shaloah Powell: That's not true. Don't listen to him.
- 10:24>> Hunter Hoover: That's what I've learned.
- 10:25>> Shaloah Powell: Don't eat my diet. It's made specifically
- 10:28for people with crappy genetics like mine.
- 10:30>> Hunter Hoover: Huh. Yeah. So
- 10:34do your parents have ehlers
- 10:37stanlows?
- 10:38>> Shaloah Powell: Um, so we. So my cousin
- 10:41on my dad's side has it,
- 10:44and my biological sister has
- 10:47it. Um, my mom has had a lot of symptoms
- 10:50over the years, but never got a diagnosis,
- 10:52so we don't really quite know.
- 10:55>> Hunter Hoover: Interesting.
- 10:56>> Shaloah Powell: Um, but, like,
- 10:59we have a lot of autoimmune disorder stuff.
- 11:02Like, my dad can't have the top nine allergens,
- 11:05and then, like, certain vegetables, you can't
- 11:08have, um, dark meat.
- 11:10>> Hunter Hoover: Huh. That's wild.
- 11:13>> Shaloah Powell: Huh.
- 11:13>> Hunter Hoover: Uh, wow.
- 11:15>> Shaloah Powell: So do you.
- 11:15>> Hunter Hoover: So the. Like,
- 11:19that Ehlers Danlos and all of these
- 11:22autoimmune, they're pretty tied to, like,
- 11:25gut health bathroom life a little
- 11:28bit. Cause I always thought, like, I'm gonna.
- 11:30>> Shaloah Powell: Have to get my first colonoscopy at 30
- 11:33wild node. Yeah, that's what. Well,
- 11:36that's what my dad's doctor told him.
- 11:38>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, gosh.
- 11:39>> Shaloah Powell: And I figured I should probably listen. Like,
- 11:42no one on my dad's side of the family has their gallbladder,
- 11:45so.
- 11:45>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, I,
- 11:47uh. Yeah, I know
- 11:50that day is in the future for me. I prefer
- 11:52to. I like to think that it's at least however many
- 11:55years. Ten plus.
- 12:00Yeah.
- 12:00>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 12:01>> Hunter Hoover: You're like, okay, you'll have to, um. Maybe one
- 12:04day in the future when you're post
- 12:06colonoscopy.
- 12:08>> Shaloah Powell: I think. I think giving birth before
- 12:11having a colonoscopy is gonna. I think it won't be
- 12:14as bad as long as they
- 12:17have a good team. My crappy provider changes everything.
- 12:20>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Are you. I don't know how to ask this question, so
- 12:23I'm just gonna ask it, and if it's like, no, that's not it. Are you
- 12:26excited for, like, the whole, like, having a baby
- 12:29thing?
- 12:29>> Shaloah Powell: Um, well, I am really scared, um, in the
- 12:32way that, like, my ribs have been dislocating a
- 12:35lot.
- 12:36>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 12:36>> Shaloah Powell: Um, and my knees. Ah. And, like,
- 12:39hips dislocate more. So I'm worried that, like,
- 12:42while I'm giving birth, it's gonna be. And the
- 12:45rib kicks, I'm scared about those.
- 12:49I, um, am very excited.
- 12:52Um, but,
- 12:55yes, also, um, I did just come from a birthing class, so I
- 12:58feel a little extra terrified.
- 13:00>> Hunter Hoover: No.
- 13:04>> Shaloah Powell: Because I'm informed of just how much I
- 13:07have to do.
- 13:07>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. I mean, so, obviously,
- 13:10I'm sitting on the cheerleader
- 13:13side of it, but it does seem. I
- 13:16mean, it seems pretty taxing.
- 13:19>> Shaloah Powell: I mean, yeah. Uh,
- 13:22I'm excited. Um,
- 13:25yeah, as long as I get a baby out
- 13:28of it, we'll be good.
- 13:29>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, yeah. So, yeah, that'd be
- 13:32awesome. That's kind of so. Okay,
- 13:35you can. I think you'll be as, like. Okay, shut up. As
- 13:37much as Anna is, um, but I have told her. So, like,
- 13:40kidney stones and men who pass kidney
- 13:43stones.
- 13:44>> Shaloah Powell: Yes, I have seen that secondhand
- 13:47very much.
- 13:47>> Hunter Hoover: Uh, I'm convinced that that is worse
- 13:50than having a baby. And the reason I.
- 13:55And the reason I say that is I think the
- 13:58process of baby pushing is worse, but the
- 14:01emotional, like,
- 14:04benefit of it helps that along
- 14:07where for, like, if you're a guy and you pass a kidney stone,
- 14:10it's awful and there's no emotional m reward.
- 14:12>> Shaloah Powell: It's like you don't have a crap ton of
- 14:15hormone stuff going on.
- 14:16>> Hunter Hoover: That's true.
- 14:17>> Shaloah Powell: Like, I know the pain
- 14:20is. It's absolutely horrible.
- 14:23Um, probably
- 14:26worse than a knee. I've had my.
- 14:29So the worst knee disk location I had, it went out
- 14:32about 180. So it didn't do with, like, a
- 14:35360. Like, I knew a guy who did.
- 14:36>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, like, it spun around.
- 14:37>> Shaloah Powell: Well, no, he did spin around, but it went, like, okay, mine didn't do
- 14:40180. It went, like, out on the side, and then his
- 14:43did 180, so it was back. Cause he got hit by a
- 14:46car.
- 14:46>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, my gosh.
- 14:48>> Shaloah Powell: So I don't m know how bad that is, but from what I felt, having my
- 14:50kneecap on the side of my leg,
- 14:53like, you could see it. Yeah. Like, my. Like,
- 14:56it was flat on top, and my kneecap was just, like,
- 14:59gross. Um,
- 15:02and I feel like a kidney stone's probably a little
- 15:05worse. Maybe around the same.
- 15:08I don't know.
- 15:09>> Hunter Hoover: I feel like it has to be.
- 15:11>> Shaloah Powell: Because it goes on so long.
- 15:13>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, that's my greatest fear.
- 15:15>> Shaloah Powell: Like, I can pop my knee back in, and then you
- 15:18just have to wait for the adrenaline to go down, and it just mistakes,
- 15:21and that's it.
- 15:23>> Hunter Hoover: Is it kind of, like. So
- 15:27does any part of the, like, popping it back in place feel good
- 15:30now? Like, do you know, like, when you, like, crack your knuckles, it
- 15:33feels good. Is it like that at all?
- 15:35>> Shaloah Powell: Um, like, sometimes when my hip pops back
- 15:38in, um, a lot of things, it kind of
- 15:41stopped hurting. It just was. And
- 15:44my body would react negatively to that. Like, my shoulders
- 15:47are almost never, like, quite where they belong.
- 15:50Um, but with pregnancy, the pain,
- 15:53like, has come back a lot so you can
- 15:56actually feel it, and you're like, oh, man.
- 15:59>> Hunter Hoover: Fun.
- 15:59>> Shaloah Powell: All that pain, tolerance for nothing.
- 16:02>> Hunter Hoover: Well, until after the baby's, I was gonna say. It's like,
- 16:05sometimes you hear about people, like, oh, I have pregnant. And now,
- 16:08like, this problem that I've had for ten years, it's just gone because the
- 16:11hormones, like, level it out.
- 16:14That makes sense. No, no. Okay.
- 16:17>> Shaloah Powell: It's gotten worse.
- 16:18>> Hunter Hoover: Well, um, can't win them all.
- 16:21>> Shaloah Powell: I don't get mosquito bites like I did before, though,
- 16:24because mosquitoes don't like Jason, and now I have
- 16:27his DNA in my blood, so is that like.
- 16:30That's like me?
- 16:31>> Hunter Hoover: That's weird.
- 16:32>> Shaloah Powell: It is weird, but I'm appreciative of it.
- 16:34>> Hunter Hoover: Uh huh.
- 16:36>> Shaloah Powell: Like, I've been able to eat dairy.
- 16:39>> Hunter Hoover: Jason could, like, I
- 16:41don't know, cell is spit and concentrate. That.
- 16:44>> Shaloah Powell: No, that's not how that works.
- 16:47>> Hunter Hoover: Okay. Wrong. Uh, anyway. All right.
- 16:49>> Shaloah Powell: His DNA is literally in my blood.
- 16:55>> Hunter Hoover: That, friends, is called
- 16:58science. Uh, you're welcome.
- 17:01Good job, Jason.
- 17:02Ah. Um, well, I
- 17:05have. If you have any bathroom stories, you can
- 17:08stop me at any time. I have a bunch of
- 17:12questions, uh, that I ask everyone, and
- 17:15I've already kind of asked a little bit about the Ehlers
- 17:18Danlos. I've known you for, like, seven years. I still don't have, like, a good
- 17:21grasp on what it is.
- 17:22>> Shaloah Powell: That's fair.
- 17:23>> Hunter Hoover: It's just, I know that the best.
- 17:25>> Shaloah Powell: Way I describe it is most people's bodies
- 17:28and bones and organs are held
- 17:31together by, like, a strong gorilla glue,
- 17:33and mine are held together by, like,
- 17:36not just, like, Elmer's craft glue, but, like, the glittery
- 17:39elmer's craft glue that does absolutely
- 17:42nothing.
- 17:43>> Hunter Hoover: Okay, so it's like, there's a lot of floating.
- 17:45>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 17:47>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, that would suck if it's not supposed to.
- 17:49>> Shaloah Powell: Like, sometimes I'm just sitting there and I can kind of
- 17:52feel my. Well, not right now, because all my organs are
- 17:55squished, but not pregnant. Like, I could just feel my
- 17:58stomach just be like.
- 17:59>> Hunter Hoover: So can you. I should have probably asked on this. I never really asked this.
- 18:02Can you feel your organs being, like,
- 18:05pushed. Yeah, by the baby. That's
- 18:08weird.
- 18:09>> Shaloah Powell: From what I've heard from my midwife and, like, my mom,
- 18:12who's a nurse and has dealt with autoimmune stuff all these
- 18:15years, is, like, not everyone feels
- 18:18everything as deeply physically and
- 18:21knows where all their bones and organs are.
- 18:23But when you have a disorder your whole life, where it's
- 18:26all constantly moving and you're more
- 18:29aware.
- 18:30>> Hunter Hoover: Huh.
- 18:30>> Shaloah Powell: Of so I don't know if everything I feel is akin
- 18:33to, like, that's weird. The average
- 18:35pregnancy, but yeah, I can feel it. Huh.
- 18:38>> Hunter Hoover: Huh.
- 18:38>> Shaloah Powell: That's squishy.
- 18:40>> Hunter Hoover: That would freak me out. A.
- 18:41>> Shaloah Powell: But, like, it feels squishy in my ribcage,
- 18:44which is weird to say. So
- 18:47I try not to think about it.
- 18:48>> Hunter Hoover: And here we are making you think. No.
- 18:51Um, well, let's. We'll jump into questions. It'll
- 18:54be a good break from that. Uh, so what type
- 18:57of toilet paper do y'all have at your place? What
- 19:00type of toilet paper do you guys use?
- 19:01>> Shaloah Powell: So I either get
- 19:03Charmin or I get quilted
- 19:06northrin.
- 19:07>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, really?
- 19:08>> Shaloah Powell: Ah, yeah. Because quilted northern
- 19:10doesn't like charmin leaves too. It
- 19:13leaves too much.
- 19:14>> Hunter Hoover: The bears are breaking down fast.
- 19:17>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 19:17>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 19:18>> Shaloah Powell: Quilted northern is just. It's strong
- 19:20enough, but it doesn't hurt you.
- 19:22>> Hunter Hoover: Huh huh. Quilted my. I think that's what my parents used to
- 19:25buy when I was a kid. I haven't seen it in forever. We just
- 19:28buy Costco.
- 19:31Uh, I haven't seen quilted northern forever. That's good
- 19:34stuff. And, um, then do you. When you put it on the roll.
- 19:36>> Shaloah Powell: Mhm.
- 19:37>> Hunter Hoover: It's a classic. Do you go over or under?
- 19:39>> Shaloah Powell: It's over.
- 19:40>> Hunter Hoover: Okay. So does Jason agree with you? I can't remember what he
- 19:42said.
- 19:43>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, I mean, he puts it on. When he does put it
- 19:46on, it is over.
- 19:47>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 19:48>> Shaloah Powell: So I'd say so. I don't think he really cares.
- 19:51>> Hunter Hoover: Okay. See that? I'm convinced it
- 19:54doesn't matter. That's my, um. That's fair.
- 19:56>> Shaloah Powell: Like, if I'm at work, as long as my coworker put it on, I
- 19:59don't care.
- 20:00>> Hunter Hoover: Right.
- 20:00>> Shaloah Powell: The fact that they did it, just.
- 20:02>> Hunter Hoover: So what do you say of this crime? So I walked into a bathroom,
- 20:05saw this crime in my own home, and I
- 20:08don't think it was Anna,
- 20:11but I'm also like, I'm trying to figure out who
- 20:14possibly. So the toilet paper was gone and they took the
- 20:17roll, they took the cardboard tube off and threw it
- 20:19away and then replaced the thing with nothing on
- 20:22it. Just like complete empty
- 20:25pants on the roll.
- 20:28>> Shaloah Powell: That's evil. That's heinous.
- 20:29>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. I think my son might be behind this maneuver.
- 20:32>> Shaloah Powell: Intent to do harm.
- 20:34>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. My guess is he just
- 20:37was like, yeah, I'm not even look for it. I just know this is empty. I need to take it off.
- 20:40But I walked in there, I was like, this is
- 20:43madness. You were right there.
- 20:46You had it ready to go. Um. Okay. So
- 20:49overdose. Uh,
- 20:52do you?
- 20:54Yeah. If you see, if you go to
- 20:57someone's house.
- 20:58>> Shaloah Powell: Mhm.
- 20:59>> Hunter Hoover: And you use the restroom and it's under, will you flip it?
- 21:02>> Shaloah Powell: No.
- 21:02>> Hunter Hoover: Okay, just leave it.
- 21:03>> Shaloah Powell: That's their house, that's their rules.
- 21:06>> Hunter Hoover: Some people will flip it. They're gutsy enough
- 21:09to flip that around.
- 21:11>> Shaloah Powell: It's not your house. It's not your right to flip their toilet paper.
- 21:14>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, I agree. I think we should just leave everybody's toilet paper.
- 21:16>> Shaloah Powell: You don't go and go, oh, I have my kitchen cabinethe differently.
- 21:19Imma change that for you.
- 21:22>> Hunter Hoover: It's just wrong. Yeah.
- 21:24Um, do you prefer bar soap or liquid
- 21:27soap?
- 21:31>> Shaloah Powell: I mean, I usually use liquid soap, but
- 21:34if I do buy a bar soap, like I
- 21:37have a loofah poof shake.
- 21:40So you just slather in there.
- 21:42>> Hunter Hoover: Jason told me he's been messing around with the doctor squatch.
- 21:45>> Shaloah Powell: Mhm.
- 21:46>> Hunter Hoover: I'm trying to mess around with doctor squatch. I
- 21:49literally ordered some when I recorded with him and
- 21:52it's still not here. They haven't figured it out. They're working
- 21:55on it.
- 21:55>> Shaloah Powell: It does take a while to get there, but like now that they,
- 21:58like, I think he gets like one package a month
- 22:01or something. But we have so many. Like I have a
- 22:04drawer in our bathroom that's like what I always make sure I have
- 22:07one backup of whatever we have.
- 22:09>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 22:09>> Shaloah Powell: And like a good chunk of the drawer is just
- 22:12squatch soaps.
- 22:14>> Hunter Hoover: Well, there you go. Have you ever, have you ever like
- 22:17thought about trying one of those?
- 22:19>> Shaloah Powell: I did.
- 22:20>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 22:21>> Shaloah Powell: Um, it's,
- 22:24I mean, it works fine. Um, it
- 22:27just dried up my skin. Oh. So I didn't like it.
- 22:30>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Fun.
- 22:32Yeah. I don't imagine Jason's worried
- 22:35about dry skin very often. Having worked on, you
- 22:38know, farms and.
- 22:40>> Shaloah Powell: Um, the, such, the only thing is
- 22:42like working with paper, like if
- 22:45your skin is dry, and then I get more
- 22:48paper cuts and stuff anyway because, you know.
- 22:50>> Hunter Hoover: Right.
- 22:51>> Shaloah Powell: I don't have good collagen in my skin.
- 22:53>> Hunter Hoover: Huh. So does that make it like
- 22:55resistant? I don't know what collagen does.
- 22:58>> Shaloah Powell: Uh, no, my skin just gets
- 23:01cut easier and I get bruises easier and
- 23:04stuff. So then if my skin is dry, like
- 23:07it'll split open and it'll um, get cuts
- 23:10easier and stuff.
- 23:11>> Hunter Hoover: That's wild. Um,
- 23:16what is your opinion of baths? Pro
- 23:18bath?
- 23:19>> Shaloah Powell: I am pro bath, um, merely
- 23:22because of my disability.
- 23:24>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 23:24>> Shaloah Powell: Sometimes that's like I have, um, a
- 23:27shower stool I have to use sometimes. And sometimes
- 23:30there have been times where bath is the only option
- 23:33or it just really helps relieve pain.
- 23:35>> Hunter Hoover: There's a lady I work with. She, like,
- 23:38for no reason other than she's just like, yeah, I don't.
- 23:41I'm just. She just has a shower stool.
- 23:43>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 23:44>> Hunter Hoover: She says everybody should just own one and have one and
- 23:47do that.
- 23:48Um, yeah, it's a
- 23:51bad place to faint. Yeah.
- 23:55Have you fainted in the middle of that situation?
- 23:58>> Shaloah Powell: I've gotten really close, but I haven't.
- 24:01>> Hunter Hoover: Cause I know, like, Anna will take a bathe and it'll be
- 24:03hot to the point where she's like, I gotta get out. I'm
- 24:06lightheaded. And I'm like, this is.
- 24:08>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, no, I will. I will sit down before.
- 24:11Before that happens.
- 24:12>> Hunter Hoover: It's too much.
- 24:13>> Shaloah Powell: Um.
- 24:13>> Hunter Hoover: Um. Do you have any bathroom pet peeves?
- 24:16It can be things that, you know, Jason or not
- 24:19Jason, but probably Jason. Do that drive you
- 24:22nuts?
- 24:23>> Shaloah Powell: That's fair. Um. Um, nothing.
- 24:26I do hate when, like, I.
- 24:29If the bath mat's really wet, I like to hang it up.
- 24:32>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 24:33>> Shaloah Powell: And I hate stepping into, like, by the tub
- 24:36because our washer and dryer is there. And sometimes you go, you're wearing
- 24:38socks. You're gonna do the laundry, and
- 24:41then your. Your wet are just
- 24:43squelching. Yeah, that's on a
- 24:46wet mat, and I don't like it.
- 24:49>> Hunter Hoover: So just pick the mat up.
- 24:50>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, just. Just hang it up.
- 24:53>> Hunter Hoover: So what's interesting now, this is.
- 24:56This is similar. Okay. So I had Michael and Kimberly on at the same time,
- 24:59which was fun because Kimberly would say something, and
- 25:02I had had Michael on previously, and I'd stare at Michael. I'm like, you little.
- 25:05You little rascal. Because I know that you said, you do
- 25:08this, and she just said she hates it. I'm, um, pretty sure Jason said
- 25:11he also hates the experience of stepping on a wet
- 25:14floor from showering. So, like,
- 25:18is he the one leaving the mat down and then also, like,
- 25:21mad that he's stepping in it?
- 25:25>> Shaloah Powell: Well, I mean, he usually takes
- 25:27showers at night, and I take him in the morning.
- 25:30>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, okay.
- 25:31>> Shaloah Powell: Um. I don't think he really notices.
- 25:36>> Hunter Hoover: Huh. Yeah.
- 25:38>> Shaloah Powell: Not my bathroom, but at the clinic. I
- 25:40hate when parents know their kids need
- 25:43bathroom help, but they're not gonna do it. And they're
- 25:46like, yeah, my three year old son can go pee by himself.
- 25:49And then they leave, and I walk in
- 25:52and I'm like, oh, okay, well, I guess I'm cleaning that
- 25:55up.
- 25:56>> Hunter Hoover: So that's like, y'all. Y'all the front desk people's
- 25:58like, you're the cleanup crew for the bathroom.
- 26:01>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah. Like, we have a cleanup crew that
- 26:04comes and does general stuff, like at night, but they
- 26:07suck really bad. So I do,
- 26:10uh, a set front desk, like, does most of
- 26:13that. And then, of course, back office is in
- 26:16charge of cleaning. Like the operatories and sterile
- 26:19and stuff.
- 26:19>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, that's.
- 26:20>> Shaloah Powell: And so that's all we is extremely clean because it has.
- 26:23>> Hunter Hoover: That's a different game.
- 26:24>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 26:25>> Hunter Hoover: Um,
- 26:29so Jason's bar soap. Have you ever thought about
- 26:31carving him a message in it?
- 26:33>> Shaloah Powell: No. It's worth, you
- 26:36know, that is a waste of money.
- 26:38>> Hunter Hoover: Well, you just, you know, you carve a little one. Like, I'm
- 26:41like, I don't have fingernails.
- 26:44>> Shaloah Powell: I bite them off. I have nothing to carve with.
- 26:47>> Hunter Hoover: Fair enough.
- 26:48>> Shaloah Powell: Um.
- 26:48>> Hunter Hoover: Um. Have you ever tried taking shower in the dark?
- 26:51>> Shaloah Powell: Yes. Only because for a
- 26:53while at my parents house, the light was
- 26:56broken, so.
- 26:57>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 26:58>> Shaloah Powell: You get up at five for work.
- 26:59>> Hunter Hoover: So accidental what it is. Yeah,
- 27:02I love it. That's like my. I. Yeah,
- 27:05no, I don't. I most exclusively
- 27:08move wrong and the.
- 27:10>> Shaloah Powell: Lights off and my knee goes out. Like, that's.
- 27:13Mm mm.
- 27:13>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, yeah. That's a different game.
- 27:15>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 27:16>> Hunter Hoover: I imagine navigating anything when your leg
- 27:19is not where it's supposed to be as bad.
- 27:22>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah. Like, if I, like, I can step on something that's on the floor
- 27:25and you're like, well, my knees gone. Bye.
- 27:27>> Hunter Hoover: Nope. That sounds awful. Uh,
- 27:31do you. Do you find, like. Ah, yeah.
- 27:34Anyway, um, snacks in the
- 27:37bathroom? Yes. No.
- 27:40Okay.
- 27:40>> Shaloah Powell: When I get up, like, I'll get up in the morning. I make my
- 27:43coffee. You take a shower. You put your
- 27:46coffee on the side of the tub between the inside
- 27:49and the outside. Coffee.
- 27:50>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 27:51>> Shaloah Powell: And you sip it between your different soaps.
- 27:53>> Hunter Hoover: Coffee, shower. Shower. Coffee.
- 27:56>> Shaloah Powell: Yes.
- 27:57>> Hunter Hoover: Those are different things.
- 27:59>> Shaloah Powell: But that's it. Like,
- 28:02maybe a sparkling water after work.
- 28:04>> Hunter Hoover: I'm trying to figure out how to get my shower head to put coffee
- 28:07out. No, sorry.
- 28:10Uh, I said coffee shower.
- 28:13Is it, like, weird drinking a hot drink in a hot
- 28:16shower?
- 28:16>> Shaloah Powell: Because that, to me, like, I mean, I
- 28:19typically. I don't usually take
- 28:22super hot showers. I either take lukewarm or slightly
- 28:24cold, really. Um, unless,
- 28:27like, my. I'm getting dystonia, which
- 28:30is, um,
- 28:33basically cramps that are so tight that,
- 28:35like, your different things start moving on
- 28:38their own. So, like, when my neck starts
- 28:41moving around or my arm.
- 28:44Yeah, that's dystonia. So I'll take hot
- 28:47showers to, like, help with that.
- 28:50But other than that, like, I feel a lot better taking
- 28:53a cold shower, so.
- 28:55>> Hunter Hoover: Really?
- 28:56>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 28:57>> Hunter Hoover: That sounds like the worst thing ever taking. I hate cold
- 29:00showers.
- 29:00>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, I used to think the same thing. But when your chronic illness gets bad
- 29:03enough and that thing helps it, so.
- 29:05>> Hunter Hoover: Cold helps it, so.
- 29:07>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah. Like, cold showers, like, for the. For
- 29:10certain things. Yeah.
- 29:11>> Hunter Hoover: That's wild, huh? Cause,
- 29:13like, I don't know, I always thought heat
- 29:16was. Heat was the thing.
- 29:18>> Shaloah Powell: Heat is the thing for my
- 29:20muscles. But, like, for the,
- 29:24uh, for the dysautonomia and stuff. Cold is.
- 29:27>> Hunter Hoover: That's wild.
- 29:28>> Shaloah Powell: They kind of work against each other, man.
- 29:31>> Hunter Hoover: That is. I guess it would have to be pretty bad because
- 29:33I, like. Our water heater will go out
- 29:36here. It's our garage gets 105
- 29:39degrees because there's no ventilation, and
- 29:42the sun hits it all day. And our water
- 29:45heater will, like, trip and go out, and I will be in the show. I'll get
- 29:48so mad because it's like, ice cold water.
- 29:51The water is colder than it is in our house. And, like, this is so
- 29:54dumb. I hate this so much. I get so angry.
- 29:57Um, but you're like, yeah, that's
- 30:00great. Uh, have
- 30:03you ever thought of. Okay, so there's this thing where
- 30:06you eat an orange in the shower as if it's an apple.
- 30:09So what are, like, you've already said you're not, like, I. What
- 30:12are the odds you would ever try that maneuver?
- 30:15>> Shaloah Powell: So right after Jason recorded his
- 30:18last podcast, he requested when I went to the
- 30:21store that I buy him an orange.
- 30:22>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, yes.
- 30:23>> Shaloah Powell: So I. And I. He hasn't told me. He hasn't told me how
- 30:26it is.
- 30:27>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 30:27>> Shaloah Powell: So I'm waiting for it.
- 30:29>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 30:29>> Shaloah Powell: I'm not. I'm not trying it until I get his report.
- 30:31>> Hunter Hoover: I think. And I. This is probably. Someone
- 30:35will be like, that's sexist, and here I
- 30:37am. But I think there's something, like, in
- 30:40the guy's brain of, like, I can make the biggest
- 30:43mess everywhere with this piece of fruit and there's no
- 30:46consequences. That is.
- 30:47>> Shaloah Powell: No, I agree, because I. Yeah, I'm
- 30:50not. I don't usually really like plain oranges anyway.
- 30:53>> Hunter Hoover: Okay. Yeah.
- 30:53>> Shaloah Powell: I've seen people eat, like, steaks. Like, men eat
- 30:56steaks in the shower, and they post it on their facebook,
- 30:59and they're like, I'm in America, so I could steak.
- 31:02>> Hunter Hoover: Who are these people?
- 31:04>> Shaloah Powell: My dad's friend Chris, some
- 31:07other middle aged men.
- 31:08>> Hunter Hoover: Wait, wait, they're eating steak?
- 31:10>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah. Like, he had one like that. Uh, I think it was,
- 31:13like, a flank steak, and it was still on the bone.
- 31:15>> Hunter Hoover: And you're eating it while they're showering?
- 31:17>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 31:19>> Hunter Hoover: Are they, like, holding it. Or they got, like, a
- 31:21fork. They're just holding it like they're eating it.
- 31:24Like, primal m maneuver eating it.
- 31:27>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, like, on, um. Like, if it's attached to a bone,
- 31:30they'll have the bone. Uh, I've seen
- 31:33this from multiple middle aged men on Facebook.
- 31:35Hmm.
- 31:36>> Hunter Hoover: I'm okay. There is gonna be more
- 31:39research that is happening now.
- 31:40>> Shaloah Powell: I think it's a particular sect of middle aged
- 31:43Mendez.
- 31:44>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, yeah. Chris Luckman said he ate
- 31:47ribs on the toilet. Like, that was a maneuver he's tried a few
- 31:50times. And I went, listen,
- 31:53there's so much finger
- 31:55sauce that.
- 31:56>> Shaloah Powell: How do you know what's on your fingers?
- 31:59>> Hunter Hoover: Well, so he. His thing is, like, he finishes
- 32:01the food before he begins wiping, but I'm like, that toilet
- 32:04paper is gonna be a nightmare with the
- 32:07barbecue on your flake.
- 32:08>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, no, it's. That's a sin.
- 32:12>> Hunter Hoover: I would try it. I would do. I would do messy ribs in the shower, though.
- 32:14That's. The steak has spurred my brain
- 32:17into. Hmm.
- 32:20Shower steak. I'm gonna just
- 32:22make myself a note real quick. Shower
- 32:25steak.
- 32:28Because, uh,
- 32:32they might be on to something.
- 32:35Seems suspicious. Uh,
- 32:39what do they do with the bone when they're like.
- 32:41>> Shaloah Powell: I don't know. Don't ask
- 32:44them intimate details about their steak.
- 32:47>> Hunter Hoover: Cause I imagine that there have been some angry
- 32:49husband and wife conversations. If they leave
- 32:52that, like, not on piece
- 32:55of m bone in the shower on
- 32:58accident. Cause every now and then, I will, like, have a shower
- 33:01drink, and I'll leave the can, and it's
- 33:04like, all right. Yeah, it's annoying. I could not imagine getting in the shower and
- 33:07there's just, like, a t bone. Steak. Bone just sitting
- 33:10on the thing. It's like, oh, my gosh. Has your dad
- 33:13ever tried it?
- 33:14>> Shaloah Powell: Not that I'm aware of.
- 33:15>> Hunter Hoover: Well, he can't do the. Is that dark meat steak?
- 33:17>> Shaloah Powell: I mean, he can have, like.
- 33:20He can't have, like, dark meat, like, from chicken or turkey and
- 33:23stuff. Cause it's throat up.
- 33:26But, um, fine. Like, beef is fine.
- 33:29>> Hunter Hoover: Okay. You have to ask your dad, have you ever.
- 33:32>> Shaloah Powell: My dad, he's a much more private person
- 33:35than I am. We don't talk about those things.
- 33:38>> Hunter Hoover: Maybe Jason can ask him. That's the path
- 33:41forward. Seek. Jason.
- 33:43Hey, Jason.
- 33:47Ask Mister Shaloah's dad if
- 33:50he's ever shower staked.
- 33:51>> Shaloah Powell: Like, just me having the
- 33:54knowledge that he had colon cancer when he had it
- 33:57was. Was a pretty big growth. She's pretty
- 34:00private as far as privacy.
- 34:02>> Hunter Hoover: In our relationship, man.
- 34:04Yeah, that's fair.
- 34:06>> Shaloah Powell: I mean, we talk about a lot, just not bathroom body
- 34:09things.
- 34:10>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 34:11>> Shaloah Powell: Like, my mom's a nurse and I work in dental and I love
- 34:14biology. So we'll talk. Like we talk
- 34:17about anything. And he just leaves the room.
- 34:19>> Hunter Hoover: Your dad's like, I'm out.
- 34:20>> Shaloah Powell: Like, we'll be like, yes, I'm pregnant. And he's like, all right,
- 34:23you guys have your girl talk.
- 34:26I'ma go.
- 34:29>> Hunter Hoover: You should just corner him one time and just
- 34:32unload a story. It'd be so funny,
- 34:34though.
- 34:35>> Shaloah Powell: He doesn't deserve. He's a good dad. He doesn't
- 34:38deserve that.
- 34:39>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Yeah.
- 34:40>> Shaloah Powell: He raised me well.
- 34:41>> Hunter Hoover: That's funny, though.
- 34:42>> Shaloah Powell: Taught me how to break noses.
- 34:43>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Fun.
- 34:46>> Shaloah Powell: Um.
- 34:46>> Hunter Hoover: Um, well, speaking of things that you, uh,
- 34:49uh. You probably would never ask your dad.
- 34:52>> Shaloah Powell: All right.
- 34:53>> Hunter Hoover: Do you know what a waffle stomp is? Let's start with the.
- 34:56>> Shaloah Powell: I do. I am aware.
- 34:57>> Hunter Hoover: So. And you don't. Uh, I have been
- 35:00told so when I sat down with Kimberly and
- 35:02Michael, I was told, hey, you know, it's kind
- 35:05of. It's kind of weird to ask a lady if they've done this.
- 35:08So I'm not gonna ask you, but if you want to
- 35:11share whether or not you've done it, you can.
- 35:13>> Shaloah Powell: No, no.
- 35:15>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 35:16>> Shaloah Powell: Absolutely nothing.
- 35:18>> Hunter Hoover: I don't think Jason has. I for life
- 35:21can't remember his answers because this was like from three years ago.
- 35:24>> Shaloah Powell: Um, but yeah, no, I'm
- 35:27the one who cleans the tub, so you better not.
- 35:29>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, yeah.
- 35:32>> Shaloah Powell: Uh, and the grate we have
- 35:34now in the tub, like, it's. It
- 35:37kind of looks like a checkerboard.
- 35:40>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, that's the perfect. That's. No, that's like literally the
- 35:42waffle pattern.
- 35:43>> Shaloah Powell: No, no, but it's really tiny.
- 35:45>> Hunter Hoover: That's.
- 35:46>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, it's teeny, teeny tiny. Teeny,
- 35:48teeny square holes.
- 35:50>> Hunter Hoover: Yes.
- 35:51>> Shaloah Powell: There's. If you try and squelch it through there,
- 35:53you're just gonna be left with a pie tin of
- 35:56crap.
- 35:57>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 35:58>> Shaloah Powell: No, so.
- 36:00Mhm. That's wrong.
- 36:03>> Hunter Hoover: The type that we have. I've never. This one has not
- 36:06had it anyway. But
- 36:08that type is the worst because it's just like
- 36:11the ring with the thing in the middle and like, stuff can
- 36:14sneak by before it gets
- 36:18liquefied. So it. Yeah. Anyway,
- 36:20um, so if. If you ever
- 36:23had. So you're like a get out bathroom.
- 36:26Do you ever have to get back in situation?
- 36:28>> Shaloah Powell: See, I've never had that problem.
- 36:30>> Hunter Hoover: Really?
- 36:32>> Shaloah Powell: Like, I mean. No.
- 36:35>> Hunter Hoover: Then that is. Maybe that's a guy thing because.
- 36:38>> Shaloah Powell: Well, I mean, being pregnant is. Is the most
- 36:41consistently that I have ever gone, like,
- 36:44typically with my, like, I'm just
- 36:46extremely so. Like, I'll go 20
- 36:49days, and that would be normal for me.
- 36:53M and I'd have to. That's like,
- 36:56I am very familiar with over the counter
- 36:59laxatives. Only, um, magnesium citrate
- 37:02would do anything. Nothing else.
- 37:04>> Hunter Hoover: Have you ever tried dragon fruit?
- 37:06>> Shaloah Powell: No.
- 37:07>> Hunter Hoover: Yellow dragon fruit will,
- 37:09like, that is liquid plumbers.
- 37:12>> Shaloah Powell: That is a post pregnancy try, because
- 37:15right now we're doing fine.
- 37:17>> Hunter Hoover: 20 days?
- 37:18>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 37:22>> Hunter Hoover: Does your doctor know that?
- 37:25>> Shaloah Powell: I mean,
- 37:27I'm in the middle of looking for a new.
- 37:29>> Hunter Hoover: Hey, you're. Hey, you're an adult. You know what
- 37:32you need to do. But I.
- 37:35That is, uh, that's. That's. I
- 37:38don't know if it's impressive or scary.
- 37:41Um, because for me, the thought of 20
- 37:44hours is too much. Like, I start.
- 37:47I start having, like, existential questions about, like, if.
- 37:50>> Shaloah Powell: Like, before pregnancy, if I was doing really good, it'd be
- 37:53like, every three days.
- 37:55>> Hunter Hoover: Really? That's. That is concerning for me.
- 37:58Like, like, everybody's different.
- 38:00>> Shaloah Powell: I did struggle with gastroparesis a
- 38:03lot.
- 38:05>> Hunter Hoover: I. Only because of this show. Do I know what
- 38:08that is?
- 38:09>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah. Oh, yeah. That means when your stomach's
- 38:11not moving at all, so you don't digest.
- 38:14>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. I had a mentor kid that, because
- 38:16his home life was so awful. Like, his intestine,
- 38:19like, he had it from trauma, just the whole thing shut
- 38:22down.
- 38:22>> Shaloah Powell: Oh, wow.
- 38:23>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 38:23>> Shaloah Powell: They had to even know it could shut, like, mindless
- 38:25allergies.
- 38:26>> Hunter Hoover: They had to give him, like, these weird enzymes to get his
- 38:29stomach to start.
- 38:30>> Shaloah Powell: Oh, that's horrible.
- 38:31>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, it was. It was wild, but
- 38:34so a normal person.
- 38:36>> Shaloah Powell: Mhm.
- 38:37>> Hunter Hoover: This kid who. I don't know if I can name him now, he's an adult,
- 38:40and this has been like, four years, but I'm not gonna. But this
- 38:43kid, you would think,
- 38:46like, if my tummy is not digesting anything, like,
- 38:49I would lay low on the amount of food that I'm. But, like,
- 38:52nah, he was like, two, three big Macs in a large frye, and
- 38:55then he would just throw it all up. Dude was
- 38:57wild. Yep, that's right. I'm like,
- 39:00hey, bud, that's $20 worth.
- 39:01>> Shaloah Powell: Of food that you just has a healthy relationship with
- 39:04food now.
- 39:05>> Hunter Hoover: Uh, yeah, I don't know. But his exact thing
- 39:08was, I'm not eating it for nutrition. I'm eating it because
- 39:11it tastes good.
- 39:14>> Shaloah Powell: It wasn't for emotional reasons.
- 39:16>> Hunter Hoover: I think that was probably some of it too. But, yeah,
- 39:19he. He's good now. When I when I quit mentoring him, he
- 39:22was. He was digesting a. Okay, as far as I'm
- 39:25aware. So,
- 39:26um, yeah,
- 39:29so no snacks? Is that, like, a strict no
- 39:32snacks ever?
- 39:33>> Shaloah Powell: No snacks. Like, if I'm. If I'm
- 39:35taking a relaxing bath, like, it's been a
- 39:38crappy day at work. Ton of people said a lot of bad
- 39:41things.
- 39:43>> Hunter Hoover: People are great, and they never are mean,
- 39:46ever.
- 39:46>> Shaloah Powell: I will say if you're gonna cuss at me, it has to be creative. I have
- 39:49a few fun, creative ones that I love.
- 39:52Um, just real quick. My
- 39:55top favorite is a woman that
- 39:58our cleanings are booked eight months out.
- 40:01>> Hunter Hoover: Holy.
- 40:01>> Shaloah Powell: She has ohp. So wherever she goes, the cleanings are going
- 40:04to be way booked out, and it's for her child,
- 40:08and their appointment was a week out, and she was calling
- 40:10to confirm the date and time.
- 40:12>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 40:13>> Shaloah Powell: In the middle, she interrupts me, and she's like,
- 40:16cancel the appointment. I'm gonna go somewhere else because your
- 40:19voice is too.
- 40:23And she hung up.
- 40:24>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, my gosh.
- 40:25>> Shaloah Powell: And so that's a clinic joke. Now,
- 40:28if you're listening to this, ma'am, you're a joke. In our
- 40:31clinic, you are a joke.
- 40:34You're a joke. Um, I don't even know, but, yeah, like,
- 40:37snat. Like, if it's been a bad day at work
- 40:40taking pre pregnancy, you'd have,
- 40:43you know, you'd have a little bit of alcohol. Now
- 40:46I have a sparkle water.
- 40:48>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 40:49>> Shaloah Powell: And you have a little charcuterie board.
- 40:52>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, dang.
- 40:52>> Shaloah Powell: You're like, you've got a little murder mystery.
- 40:55>> Hunter Hoover: All right. Hey.
- 40:58I don't understand, but I know that
- 41:01it's a thing. Cause Anna does it, not the shark. I've never seen the
- 41:04charcuterie. I don't even know how to say the word.
- 41:07>> Shaloah Powell: Like a girl dinner.
- 41:09>> Hunter Hoover: I don't know if Ana's ever done girl dinner in the batheous.
- 41:12>> Shaloah Powell: Like, look, it's part of the process.
- 41:15>> Hunter Hoover: There's been an iPad and a book and
- 41:18wine.
- 41:19>> Shaloah Powell: Mhm.
- 41:19>> Hunter Hoover: Or a fizzy drink.
- 41:23I'm trying to think that's all right.
- 41:25>> Shaloah Powell: But there's one exception.
- 41:27>> Hunter Hoover: Usually the bath is like, hey, Hunter, I'm gonna take a
- 41:29bath. And that's kind of like code word for
- 41:32you're on deck if one of these children wakes up, because
- 41:36I'm doing this now. Yeah.
- 41:39You know, you guys have that to look forward to. It'll be. That's a new
- 41:42dynamic. That'll be fun.
- 41:43>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 41:44>> Hunter Hoover: Has anyone ever. Has anyone ever prepped you on the first
- 41:47baby diaper? It's Jason's duty on that one, but
- 41:50so I told him, yeah, I've been.
- 41:52>> Shaloah Powell: Prepped on the first baby diaper, and, uh, the
- 41:54baby period. Because we're having a
- 41:57girl.
- 41:58>> Hunter Hoover: Yes. I didn't know about the baby, the baby
- 42:01period. So I learned. So when Silas was born, he
- 42:04pooped. It's a good thing. But it
- 42:07looks like black tar heroin. Yeah, first. The first one. And I
- 42:10thought he was, I thought there was something bad. I was like,
- 42:13doctor, there's something wrong with my child. And he goes,
- 42:16no. And I looked at it, and I went, that
- 42:19is not normal. And then Sarah had, like, blood
- 42:22in her diaper, and I went, oh, my gosh.
- 42:25Uh, Anna. And she, that was where they're like,
- 42:28yeah, babies. All the hormones, they'll have a little. I'm like, nuh
- 42:31uh uh. No. I would.
- 42:32>> Shaloah Powell: Sometimes they have the black tar poop, like,
- 42:35before they come out, and then it's just in your
- 42:37amniotic fluid. Gross.
- 42:40So then, so they prep you, and
- 42:43they're like, hey, if it comes out
- 42:46green and, like, gross,
- 42:49there's any black in there, they're like,
- 42:51we want to make sure there's no infection.
- 42:54>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, yeah,
- 42:56that's, that is heinous.
- 42:59I, um, mean, it's beautiful.
- 43:01>> Shaloah Powell: Question mark, maybe not that part. We don't have to
- 43:04call that part.
- 43:06>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Um.
- 43:08Wow. Well, so do you.
- 43:12That's all the questions I have. Uh, I do have, like, one last
- 43:15one that is at the end, but do you, do you have anything that you
- 43:18want to share with people either about, uh,
- 43:21being pregnant in the bathroom or, or Eller Stanlow's in the bathroom
- 43:24or any of those things?
- 43:25>> Shaloah Powell: Um, or just that time of peeing myself
- 43:28at work was pretty rough.
- 43:30>> Hunter Hoover: Did Jason bring you a change, if anything, or was it
- 43:33like, no, he's.
- 43:34>> Shaloah Powell: No, he was in his 1st 90 days of this new
- 43:37job.
- 43:37>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Ah. Um, so
- 43:40this is moderately so.
- 43:42>> Shaloah Powell: I just went home for the day. I was done.
- 43:45>> Hunter Hoover: I'm taking the day.
- 43:46>> Shaloah Powell: I was like, hey, guys. So I threw up out of my
- 43:49nose. I'm going home. They were like, yeah, that's fair.
- 43:52Um.
- 43:52>> Hunter Hoover: Um, that sounds
- 43:54bad. I
- 43:58I will do anything not to throw up, by the way. Like,
- 44:01nope, Anna's never seen me throw up.
- 44:04>> Shaloah Powell: You just gotta get used to it, man.
- 44:06>> Hunter Hoover: I will do anything not to.
- 44:10>> Shaloah Powell: Wow.
- 44:11>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. So, uh, for the listener, Anna just
- 44:14shouted from the other room that it is, in fact,
- 44:16true. She's never seen me throw up.
- 44:19It's not because, like, I just. Yeah,
- 44:22uh, I will. I have to be almost dead to be
- 44:25throwing up. I hate it.
- 44:27>> Shaloah Powell: Well, okay, there is one story. There is one
- 44:30story. It is a period story. I don't know if it
- 44:33counts.
- 44:34>> Hunter Hoover: I mean, from what I can tell,
- 44:37that has a lot to do with the bathroom, so.
- 44:39>> Shaloah Powell: Okay. Because it is funny. And I think
- 44:42now that it's been like eight
- 44:45year, seven. How many years?
- 44:47We can laugh now. But,
- 44:51but, um, it was in high school
- 44:54and I was taking the act, so they took us out
- 44:57on buses to the boys and girls club in
- 44:59town.
- 45:00>> Hunter Hoover: So we're all you to the act. The boys and girls
- 45:03club?
- 45:03>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 45:04>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, my God.
- 45:05>> Shaloah Powell: So we're all in these desks and
- 45:08I'm in the back of the gym. So I have
- 45:10to. To walk out in front of everybody, my
- 45:13whole class to leave, to go to the
- 45:16bathroom. And I had,
- 45:19um, these, like,
- 45:21green. These like, lighter olive green
- 45:24pants.
- 45:27So, um. And you could only
- 45:30get up at certain times to use the bathroom. And I'm
- 45:33like, if I get up at any point, like, I don't want them to
- 45:35fail me because they were so serious.
- 45:38>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 45:39>> Shaloah Powell: So in the middle, like, I
- 45:42finally get up. Cause I'm like, it'll be too big of a problem. They
- 45:45didn't fail me. It was fine. But I had to walk out in front of
- 45:48my entire class looking like a
- 45:51Christmas tree. And then
- 45:54when I finally walked back in, my mom brought me a
- 45:57different pair of pants. So then I have to walk back in front of my whole
- 46:00class for a pair of pants.
- 46:02>> Hunter Hoover: Ah.
- 46:03>> Shaloah Powell: So it was really, uh. I was horrified at the
- 46:06time.
- 46:06>> Hunter Hoover: Is that like.
- 46:07>> Shaloah Powell: But you know, you just.
- 46:09>> Hunter Hoover: You gotta laugh that, I
- 46:12guess, cuz no guy has ever
- 46:15had anything that is like
- 46:17that. It's just not a reality.
- 46:21The only thing that a guy can do is totally crap their
- 46:24pants in the middle of something.
- 46:27That's all right. Does every.
- 46:32Does every girl have a story like that?
- 46:35>> Shaloah Powell: I think most. I mean, I have multiple.
- 46:37>> Hunter Hoover: That's crazy. It does,
- 46:41huh huh?
- 46:42>> Shaloah Powell: It's just part of. Part of the deal.
- 46:45>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, it is, but it doesn't. It seems
- 46:48like awful in every
- 46:50way.
- 46:52>> Shaloah Powell: It's. It's fine.
- 46:54>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, it's all right,
- 46:57Mandy. But at least
- 47:00you, you know.
- 47:01>> Shaloah Powell: You know, I do laugh now.
- 47:05>> Hunter Hoover: That's good. M. That would be
- 47:07tough. I, uh, uh.
- 47:10Yeah, I dread
- 47:13the day that, like, Sarah,
- 47:16that. That calls going straight to Anna, cuz. Nah
- 47:19uh, no. Yeah, it's outside
- 47:22of my. Well, you guys are having a girl.
- 47:25>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 47:26>> Hunter Hoover: Make Jason deal with it. That'll be fun.
- 47:28>> Shaloah Powell: No, I can do it.
- 47:30>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah, man, that's crazy.
- 47:32>> Shaloah Powell: I'm happy to do it.
- 47:34>> Hunter Hoover: Did anybody give, like, people are awful. Did
- 47:36anybody give you, like, crap for it? Or is it
- 47:39one of those things where it's like, it is what it
- 47:42is.
- 47:43>> Shaloah Powell: No one gave me, like, it just was what it was.
- 47:45Like, you know, like,
- 47:48back, back then in middle school, there was a lot of
- 47:51stigma of, like, oh, uh, you don't have. Use
- 47:53tampons. Like, you're not a little kid.
- 47:56Like, I'm like, oh, I, um, have
- 47:59a disorder.
- 48:00>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 48:01>> Shaloah Powell: Um huh. So I don't know if that's still a thing,
- 48:04but that was, like, the worst of it is. People would judge
- 48:07you.
- 48:07>> Hunter Hoover: Well, nowadays, the tampons are just everywhere. Like,
- 48:10they're in the men's bathroom at the high school. So that's fun.
- 48:13>> Shaloah Powell: And they're filled with arsenic.
- 48:14>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. And they turn them into giant bowling balls and
- 48:17sling the wet tampons down the hallway and
- 48:20played tampon bowling. That is a real thing that
- 48:23happened at your previous former high
- 48:26school.
- 48:27>> Shaloah Powell: Hey, I'm. I'm gone. I've been gone
- 48:29for, for quite a while now.
- 48:31>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 48:32>> Shaloah Powell: Um, thankfully, I haven't had to deal with any of that at
- 48:35work. Yeah. Like, sometimes they won't wrap them
- 48:37before throwing them away.
- 48:39>> Hunter Hoover: At least they throw away.
- 48:41>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah, but it's in the garbage. Like, most of the work
- 48:44is done. I just have to change the.
- 48:46>> Hunter Hoover: The. Oh, God. So when I was a
- 48:49janitor in Salem, the office that I worked for was,
- 48:52like, 90% female.
- 48:55And the ladies would flush their tampons, which
- 48:58is fine, but they swell up, and
- 49:01we're on septic there.
- 49:03Don't flush them. Anyway.
- 49:05>> Shaloah Powell: Uh, I don't understand why you, as a grown adult, would
- 49:08flush.
- 49:09>> Hunter Hoover: They would, and they would get, like, it when it would get
- 49:11bad, it would get stuck in the s bend, and I. And they
- 49:14would swell up and pluck it, and it's like, you dumb.
- 49:17You're just stupid. Well, that
- 49:20story was. I'm sorry that happened. I'm glad you can
- 49:23laugh about it.
- 49:24>> Shaloah Powell: You don't have to share it if you don't want to, but I'm open.
- 49:26>> Hunter Hoover: If you're open about it, it'll probably land in there, because I'll be
- 49:29honest. Besides Anna and, like, Kimberly was a half because
- 49:32she was with Michael. And so it was a lot of
- 49:35Kimberly making fun of Michael. You're, like, the first, like,
- 49:38lady perspective other than Anna on this show.
- 49:40>> Shaloah Powell: I'm just glad I wore green pants that day so I could be festive.
- 49:45>> Hunter Hoover: Yep. It's like, okay, yeah.
- 49:48>> Shaloah Powell: So that's, you know.
- 49:50>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Is that what the whole, like, don't wear
- 49:53white after whatever time of year is? Is that what that's
- 49:56about? Memorial Day, Labor Day? Is that what that's
- 49:59about?
- 50:00>> Shaloah Powell: Uh, I don't.
- 50:00>> Hunter Hoover: I never understood it.
- 50:01>> Shaloah Powell: I don't think so.
- 50:02>> Hunter Hoover: I don't know. I'm not gonna try to figure it out.
- 50:06>> Shaloah Powell: I have no clue what it's
- 50:09about.
- 50:10>> Hunter Hoover: Um, that sounds awful.
- 50:12>> Shaloah Powell: I would suggest wearing white if you're on your period.
- 50:15>> Hunter Hoover: That's good advice. I feel like then you're just begging.
- 50:18>> Shaloah Powell: For, don't wear khakis either.
- 50:19>> Hunter Hoover: Don't worry. Okay. Um.
- 50:22Hey. There you go. Do you have any
- 50:24bathroom wisdom that you want to leave people with
- 50:27other than don't wear white when you're on your
- 50:30period?
- 50:33>> Shaloah Powell: Not really.
- 50:34>> Hunter Hoover: Okay.
- 50:35>> Shaloah Powell: Um. I have no good
- 50:37system.
- 50:38>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I almost. I
- 50:41almost squandered an opportunity. So the
- 50:44longstanding toilet. Toilet seat, up or down?
- 50:47You're, uh. I know where Anna's at. We've.
- 50:50But you as a
- 50:52lady. The toilet seat, up or down? I need you to weigh
- 50:55in as a lady.
- 50:56>> Shaloah Powell: I think I have a controversial opinion.
- 50:58>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, perfect.
- 51:00>> Shaloah Powell: Um, and if.
- 51:01>> Hunter Hoover: And if my wife is in the other room listening, she can go ahead and tap
- 51:04into this one.
- 51:06>> Shaloah Powell: Well, I'm not. So
- 51:09my thing is, I think if you're in a house
- 51:11of mostly women, you should put it
- 51:14down. But if it's a house of mostly men, like,
- 51:17if you leave it up.
- 51:18>> Hunter Hoover: What if it's, like.
- 51:19>> Shaloah Powell: It takes just as much effort either way.
- 51:22>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah.
- 51:23>> Shaloah Powell: Like, I think in general, it's good to put it down,
- 51:25because sometimes guys need it down, too, you know?
- 51:28Yeah, but, like, if j. Like, in the few times
- 51:31Jason has left it up,
- 51:33like, it hasn't been a huge. Like, I just
- 51:36checked.
- 51:37>> Hunter Hoover: You just see it and put it down.
- 51:39>> Shaloah Powell: Yeah.
- 51:39>> Hunter Hoover: Right. So what if the household split
- 51:42exactly 50 50, boy,
- 51:45girl.
- 51:46>> Shaloah Powell: Then mom makes rules.
- 51:47>> Hunter Hoover: Oh, shoot.
- 51:49>> Shaloah Powell: Well, mom's always in charge.
- 51:52>> Hunter Hoover: All right. I can't even argue with it. Um,
- 51:54well, very good. I, uh, appreciate you being
- 51:57here. Um, hopefully, this isn't. It's
- 52:00probably maybe the weirdest thing. You did have birthing class
- 52:02earlier, so.
- 52:04>> Shaloah Powell: I've done a lot. I've been through a lot of weird stuff.
- 52:06>> Hunter Hoover: Perfect. Um, well, I appreciate you being
- 52:09here. Uh, yeah.
- 52:12Thank you. Uh, I'm gonna do the weird, like, close
- 52:15out the show. I always tell people. I feel
- 52:18like if you've ever. So, like, when dogs go to the bathroom in
- 52:21the backyard, they are stuck
- 52:24and, like, if you watch them, they know you're watching. That's how I feel every
- 52:27time I.
- 52:27>> Shaloah Powell: Close the show, I feel like I'm about
- 52:30to watch a dog poop in a yard, so.
- 52:33>> Hunter Hoover: Yeah. Well, thank you for being here. Thank you so much for
- 52:36listening. Um, as always, you can follow us,
- 52:38uh, on social media. I'm not going to read all those things
- 52:41because I hate them all. M but do
- 52:44you want people to find you on the Internet?
- 52:46>> Shaloah Powell: No.
- 52:46>> Hunter Hoover: Perfect. Uh, yeah, thanks for Kevin and Poddington for
- 52:49the use of their music. Uh, this is the end of another episode of
- 52:52Privy. Thank, uh, you so much for listening. Keep pooping
- 52:55in the free world. And as always, don't forget to flash.
- 52:59Then I just. This is the
- 53:01maneuver. Every time that gets edited out, I just cram it back there.