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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hi, it's Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio, and
- 0:03Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation, metaphysical wisdom,
- 0:10Speaker 1: and personal development. This is the next show in the
- 0:14Speaker 1: Equinox Challenge series. Get the one thing you want the
- 0:18Speaker 1: most this season. And if you want one-on-one intuitive coaching
- 0:24Speaker 1: to help you get what you want in any area
- 0:27Speaker 1: of your life, Begin my one-year intuitive coaching package today.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Start now at intuitivecoachingwithamy.com. All right, so you have your desire.
- 0:39Speaker 1: You know what you want. All your practices are supporting
- 0:43Speaker 1: your desire. Now you're only going to engage in actions
- 0:48Speaker 1: that align with your desire. Adjacent actions are okay. So
- 0:54Speaker 1: what I mean by this is, you're looking for a
- 0:56Speaker 1: new job, you're not working right now, somebody offers you
- 0:58Speaker 1: a temp job, cash money in the bank, take it.
- 1:02Speaker 1: You're still looking for a new job. You are committed
- 1:10Speaker 1: to releasing X number of pounds this season, and you
- 1:15Speaker 1: know that you've decided that pasta is a trigger for you.
- 1:21Speaker 1: If your friend asks you to go out to this
- 1:23Speaker 1: new fancy Italian restaurant, and you don't even bother to
- 1:30Speaker 1: look at the menu to choose another entree for yourself,
- 1:34Speaker 1: or you look at the menu and you realize, oh,
- 1:36Speaker 1: it really is all pasta, and you choose to go
- 1:39Speaker 1: and eat the pasta, that's a choice too. Listen, I
- 1:43Speaker 1: don't think there's anything wrong with pasta, and I think
- 1:45Speaker 1: you can lose weight and eat pasta. I'm not saying that.
- 1:48Speaker 1: That's not the conversation. It's that you decided that pasta
- 1:51Speaker 1: wasn't okay. And so, stay within the boundaries of your truth.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Choose actions that move you towards your desired result. If
- 2:01Speaker 1: you are wanting a new house and you told yourself
- 2:04Speaker 1: that the way you're going to get all the money
- 2:06Speaker 1: for your down payment is you are going to be
- 2:09Speaker 1: on a particular spending budget. Again, I don't think that's
- 2:13Speaker 1: the only way to get yourself into a house. I'm
- 2:16Speaker 1: not saying that that Financial wisdom is the only financial wisdom,
- 2:19Speaker 1: but it feels good to you and that's what you've chosen.
- 2:22Speaker 1: And then your long lost friend shows up and says,
- 2:25Speaker 1: let's go to this festival for a week and it's
- 2:28Speaker 1: gonna cost you 10 grand. And you're like, okay, well,
- 2:32Speaker 1: that's probably not an action that aligns with your desire. Now,
- 2:37Speaker 1: I will offer you a counter to this. My spirit
- 2:39Speaker 1: guides gave it to me like this. You could go
- 2:43Speaker 1: on that trip and just be like, oh my God,
- 2:46Speaker 1: I'm so abundant that I can take this trip and
- 2:50Speaker 1: I can still manifest my house. But you need to
- 2:52Speaker 1: believe that before you go. You need to believe that
- 2:56Speaker 1: before you go. And the way that you would be
- 2:59Speaker 1: able to do it, even if you've locked in, I'm
- 3:01Speaker 1: on this spending budget, is that you have been affirming.
- 3:05Speaker 1: And so your energy is still pointed towards your desire.
- 3:08Speaker 1: But when it comes to action, it's best to choose
- 3:11Speaker 1: actions that align with your desire. whatever it is, align
- 3:17Speaker 1: with your desire. So if you're looking for a job,
- 3:20Speaker 1: you probably need to apply for jobs, or you need
- 3:22Speaker 1: to be talking to people that you know in your
- 3:24Speaker 1: network saying you're looking for a job, right? So it's
- 3:28Speaker 1: pretty common sense on some of this, but it's also
- 3:33Speaker 1: energetic in the sense that within us, the human mind
- 3:38Speaker 1: is chaotic and nutty and weird, and it will self-sabotage
- 3:43Speaker 1: us at the moment when we least expect. And so
- 3:47Speaker 1: the way that you're going to stay on top of
- 3:49Speaker 1: that is you're going to decide that, hey, I take
- 3:53Speaker 1: actions for this season. I only take actions that align
- 3:57Speaker 1: with my desire because it's always a choice. You can
- 4:02Speaker 1: choose an action that takes you away from your desire
- 4:04Speaker 1: or towards your desire. And you don't have to beat
- 4:07Speaker 1: yourself up, but you do need to be aware. There
- 4:13Speaker 1: is always an action you can take that will support
- 4:16Speaker 1: you receiving your desire. Particularly when you feel like you've
- 4:22Speaker 1: done everything. So this was, I know, when I first
- 4:27Speaker 1: really committed to losing weight in college. And I ended
- 4:31Speaker 1: up reading Oprah's book from like way back when. Like
- 4:34Speaker 1: the one she wrote with Green, the author. It was
- 4:37Speaker 1: our trainer whose last name was Green. I think it
- 4:41Speaker 1: might have been Bob Green. I can't find it now.
- 4:45Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even know if it's probably somewhere.
- 4:50Speaker 1: But anyway, I remember her saying in that book that
- 4:55Speaker 1: she'd do her workouts with Bob. We'll just call him Bob.
- 4:58Speaker 1: And she'd eat the way she meant, you know, the
- 5:01Speaker 1: way she's supposed to eat, quote unquote. And then at night,
- 5:08Speaker 1: she would find herself restless. And instead of going to
- 5:12Speaker 1: get something to eat, She went and did another workout.
- 5:19Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about where you always have choice.
- 5:22Speaker 1: And if you start to be really consistent with that
- 5:24Speaker 1: and holding yourself accountable in that way, it turns an
- 5:27Speaker 1: energy unto itself. So you're doing everything you know to
- 5:30Speaker 1: do and then you'll be at a fork in the
- 5:33Speaker 1: road and you can make a choice for yourself that
- 5:36Speaker 1: takes you towards your desire or away from your desire.
- 5:39Speaker 1: I want you to decide now in this moment that
- 5:41Speaker 1: you are only going to choose the choice that takes
- 5:44Speaker 1: you towards your desire. So going back to that story
- 5:47Speaker 1: about Oprah, Oprah had a choice in that moment. She
- 5:50Speaker 1: could have ordered a pizza and been like, well, I
- 5:52Speaker 1: worked out and I've been eating well, so it won't
- 5:54Speaker 1: hurt for me to have a pizza. Or I can
- 5:56Speaker 1: go and walk on the treadmill for a half hour.
- 6:01Speaker 1: She had a choice. One aligns with receiving her desire. One,
- 6:09Speaker 1: if pizza's not included in her program, and I read
- 6:11Speaker 1: the whole book and it wasn't, or she didn't say
- 6:13Speaker 1: anything about pizza, though she could eat what she wanted
- 6:16Speaker 1: to some degree, but she said she wasn't really that
- 6:19Speaker 1: into it when she really got into the flow of
- 6:22Speaker 1: the program she was on. One would take her away.
- 6:27Speaker 1: And so you were going to have lots of forks
- 6:29Speaker 1: in the road and choose what aligns with your desire. Cool. Cool.
- 6:37Speaker 1: I was in the situation today. I could have chosen
- 6:40Speaker 1: not to do something. Or I could have chosen to
- 6:43Speaker 1: do the thing that aligns with my desire. And the
- 6:45Speaker 1: only reason why I wouldn't choose to do it because
- 6:47Speaker 1: I would tell myself I don't have enough time. It's Saturday.
- 6:51Speaker 1: It's college football Saturday. I'm going to go watch the
- 6:53Speaker 1: game at my brother's studio. And I could easily be like, well,
- 6:58Speaker 1: you know, I could just shower and get dressed and
- 7:01Speaker 1: head out and I'll work on that later. Or I
- 7:04Speaker 1: could say, no, I got the time. Let's do it. Right.
- 7:07Speaker 1: So that's when I'm talking about this fork in the road.
- 7:10Speaker 1: and deciding that you are only going to choose the
- 7:14Speaker 1: action that aligns with your desire. Now, again, going back
- 7:18Speaker 1: to the job example, you could be like, well, I
- 7:20Speaker 1: want a full-time job. Why am I taking this temp job, Amy?
- 7:23Speaker 1: Because there's cash money in the bank. If you're not working,
- 7:25Speaker 1: it feels way better to have cash unless you're on
- 7:28Speaker 1: unemployment or, you know, it would mess with that. But
- 7:32Speaker 1: if you're stressing about money and it's making you doubt
- 7:35Speaker 1: that you are going to attract the job that you want,
- 7:38Speaker 1: go and take the job. Right? Now, if you're on
- 7:43Speaker 1: a job already and you're being recruited away and the
- 7:49Speaker 1: job isn't really what you said you wanted, why are
- 7:52Speaker 1: you taking meetings with that recruiter? Focus on what you want, right?
- 7:58Speaker 1: You are always going to be in a position where
- 8:01Speaker 1: you can choose and choose what aligns with your desire. Cool?
- 8:09Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening. And I do pray,
- 8:12Speaker 1: as always, that this was useful. And go to intuitivecoachingwithamy.com
- 8:17Speaker 1: and start the one-year intuitive coaching package today to receive
- 8:21Speaker 1: one-on-one intuitive coaching to create the life result you most
- 8:26Speaker 1: desire with ease, confidence, and inspiration. Take care of yourself. Goodbye.