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NEW Dirty Little Secret: Is The Reward Worth Her Sacrifice? · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It's dirty little secret.
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  Speaker 2: I'm Nick's one or two point nine. It's Cannas's snack time.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry to interrupt, Candis there is.
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  Speaker 1: That's okay.
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  Speaker 3: Her snack time.
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  Speaker 2: Starts at about I don't know, eight forty five and
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  Speaker 2: last will about ten.
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  Speaker 4: And she eats slow and have to stop every couple
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  Speaker 4: of minutes because we were.
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  Speaker 2: It's crazy, how slow Candas low pezz eats. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 2: are like a little baby mouse that just munches on
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  Speaker 2: one little beef stick and it takes you a good hour.
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  Speaker 3: And a half.
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  Speaker 1: I'm done.
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  Speaker 3: Oh you are? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, good, Well, we can do dirt a little secret
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  Speaker 2: and if you got one eight three three seven eight
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  Speaker 2: seven one o two nine, it's time to confess.
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  Speaker 3: Get it off your chest and you do. What's up?
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  Speaker 5: Well, my sister and her husband have been trying to
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  Speaker 5: have a baby for years and it's just been heartbreaking
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  Speaker 5: to watch. It just hasn't worked out for them, and
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  Speaker 5: it's really shaken her. A few months ago, she sat
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  Speaker 5: me down and asked me something I never expected. She
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  Speaker 5: asked if I would be her surrogate.
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  Speaker 4: Oh okay, wow, that's a big deal.
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  Speaker 3: That is a huge deal.
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  Speaker 2: Is that typical to ask a sister or I mean,
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  Speaker 2: it's happened before I know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure it's happened before.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know anything about it.
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  Speaker 5: Honestly, I was stunned. I'm a lot younger than she is.
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  Speaker 5: I'm a single and like, not in a relationship right now.
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  Speaker 5: But after the shop were off, I told her I
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  Speaker 5: was open to the idea. Okay, wow, Well here's the thing.
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  Speaker 5: This is when the conversation took a turn. Okay, and
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  Speaker 5: her husband comes from a very wealthy family and he
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  Speaker 5: actually just took over the almost billion dollar family company. Oh,
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  Speaker 5: they told me they wanted to pay me a lot. Okay,
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  Speaker 5: Like I won't say the exact number, but it's well
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  Speaker 5: into the six figures.
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  Speaker 4: Oh wow, I am to get paid.
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  Speaker 3: They do get paid a lot of money. They do
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  Speaker 3: get a lot.
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  Speaker 4: I thought it was more along the lines of like
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  Speaker 4: seventy thousand.
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  Speaker 3: That's a lot of money. But so you're saying.
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  Speaker 2: They offered you, I have no idea, well into the
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  Speaker 2: six figures.
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  Speaker 3: Oh I'm having a baby, me too. I'll do it.
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  Speaker 2: But it's so emotional though, there's so much more to it.
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  Speaker 2: It's not about the money.
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  Speaker 5: So my family doesn't come from money like that. So,
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  Speaker 5: like sharing that number made my head spin.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but she.
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  Speaker 5: Dropped the part that's been eating me ever since. She
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  Speaker 5: doesn't want anyone to know that I'm the surrogate. She
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  Speaker 5: wants to fake like the whole pregnancy.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay.
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  Speaker 3: She wants to fake it. What do you mean?
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  Speaker 5: She said, if I could move into their guest house,
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  Speaker 5: quit my job, and like keep to myself during the
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  Speaker 5: whole pregnancy, I would just basically disappear and pretend she's
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  Speaker 5: the one carrying the baby.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, doing the most. So she wants you to just.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you have to hide the pregnancy, the.
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  Speaker 3: Whole pregnancy basically to just okay.
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  Speaker 2: So she wants you to just kind of stay with them,
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  Speaker 2: have the child be pregnant, quit all your job. Obviously
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  Speaker 2: they're going to pay you a fortune. What is she
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  Speaker 2: going to do though? What is she going to And
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  Speaker 2: we're like, right, baby bump?
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  Speaker 5: I mean I guess, yeah, that's her plan to get
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  Speaker 5: those baby bumps and just like increasing like we're the
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  Speaker 5: bigger ones. I guess, but sad, Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: No, that's awful.
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  Speaker 3: But do you do it?
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  Speaker 5: I don't know, because like when the baby's born, everyone
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  Speaker 5: would believe it's hers, and like, I get why she
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  Speaker 5: wants that, but I think she's embarrassed and maybe doesn't
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  Speaker 5: want people asking questions. Right, The whole thing just like
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  Speaker 5: suddenly started to feel weird. Like I said, like, at
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  Speaker 5: first I told her I.
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  Speaker 3: Would do it.
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  Speaker 5: I thought about the money, like I thought about helping
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  Speaker 5: my sister, but it just seemed like something I can't handle.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, only you know that.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's a lot.
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  Speaker 3: That is a lot because and then.
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  Speaker 4: You're also keeping the secret from the family and friends
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  Speaker 4: and everybody, the baby.
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  Speaker 3: How are you going to keep the secret from the family?
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  Speaker 3: That seems that could be the hardest thing is to
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  Speaker 3: keep it from your own family.
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  Speaker 1: Is she even ever going to tell the kid?
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  Speaker 4: One day?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 3: Do you to? Right?
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  Speaker 5: And now she things like I'm all in, and I'm
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  Speaker 5: sitting here wondering if backing out will break your heart,
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  Speaker 5: so like like I don't know if saying yes might
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  Speaker 5: end up changing my life in ways I'm not ready for. Like,
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  Speaker 5: I honestly just have no clue what I'm supposed to do.
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  Speaker 1: I think it could.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, but now let me ask you this, Candace,
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  Speaker 2: as a woman, Yeah, you're carrying a baby. You've experienced
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  Speaker 2: this your mother. Yeah, it's not your child. I guess
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  Speaker 2: it is because it's a part of you, but it's
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  Speaker 2: not traditionally the way you would do it. Does it
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  Speaker 2: make a difference in the way you feel? I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I know you don't know how to have all.
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  Speaker 4: The emotions scientifically, I don't know how that works.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, you definitely having the hormone changes.
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  Speaker 4: But then mentally, you know, this is not a baby
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to care for beyond the birth.
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  Speaker 1: Like, it's got to mess you up.
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  Speaker 4: Plus the physical changes, like you you could have complications
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  Speaker 4: or anything that could prevent you from having your own
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  Speaker 4: child someday.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, I don't know, that's that's a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Well.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think anybody can make you feel bad about
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  Speaker 2: your decision though, that's for sure. So if this is
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  Speaker 2: something that you don't want to do, it's definitely something
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  Speaker 2: you shouldn't be guilted into.
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  Speaker 1: Doing, right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, and if you.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want you to break your sister's heart, but
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  Speaker 2: if you don't feel like you should.
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  Speaker 3: Do it, then you shouldn't.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean there's other options, you know. Yeah, she'd
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  Speaker 4: probably trusts you more than you know, a regular surrogate
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  Speaker 4: because she doesn't know you know, that lifestyle or whatever.
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  Speaker 4: But most of those people I think are vetted pretty well. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: but still I could never do it. I could never
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  Speaker 4: trust someone else to carry my baby. No, Yeah, unless
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  Speaker 4: I was in that position and that was the only option.
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  Speaker 3: Did you do it for well into the six figures?
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  Speaker 1: I don't think so. I mean, I don't know. That's
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  Speaker 1: so hard.
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  Speaker 4: If I was the only option, for some reason possible
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  Speaker 4: for a man.
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  Speaker 2: To do this, because you know I'll do it, he
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  Speaker 2: would do it for twenty dollars six figures?
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  Speaker 3: What's nine months? I'll had to wait?
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  Speaker 2: Well, hey, good luck. Let us know what you decide.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not expecting any answer right now. This is obviously
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  Speaker 2: a life a huge life decision.
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  Speaker 4: But I feel like she also should talk to someone
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  Speaker 4: about the reasoning behind all of this, behind faking a
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  Speaker 4: pregnancy to this level.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the part that gets me, is that's more
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  Speaker 2: a psychological thing that I don't know if.
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  Speaker 4: You're going to wear a fake bump, you know, and
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  Speaker 4: lie to people.
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  Speaker 2: I'm obviously not a psychologist, but that does not seem normal. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and maybe you'd go to group counseling before you even
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  Speaker 2: answer the question. Maybe you go to therapy together and
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  Speaker 2: talk it out before you even answer anything. Let us
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  Speaker 2: know what happens, and yeah, take your time on something
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  Speaker 2: like this.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you guys so much.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, I don't think there's not much Pooh
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't do for well into the six figures.
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  Speaker 3: I think it'd be easier.
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  Speaker 2: To say a list of things he wouldn't do than
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  Speaker 2: would do exactly. For one hundred and fifty thousand dollars, Pooh,
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  Speaker 2: would you disappear for three years? No?
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  Speaker 1: No, no, three years, three years now
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  Speaker 3: Because we can get a GoFundMe going