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Black Girls Are Easy: Episode 1 - How To Expose Male Players · Black Girls Are Easy Podcast

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G. L. Lambert hellout how to turn the tables on male hose.
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What is game. It's not a series of pickup lines and jokes, nor
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is it acting cool and unbothered. Game is the ability to read a woman's
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vibe, put her into a category of like minded women he's known or experienced,
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and then muster the courage to invade her personal space until her attitude is
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diffused and the guard is lowered. When you see the cliche image of the
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smooth talker walking up and whispering in a girl's ear or making some Bill Bellamy
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inspired sexual innuindow, you only see a small part of what a male's game
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truly is. Not every woman reacts to dirty talk or sensual conversation. Players
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know the game, be they white, black, or green. It doesn't
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matter the race or culture these men make. Knowing women their business. He
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can look at the woman in the business suit and know that she isn't going
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to react to jokes the same way the younger woman in converse would. He
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can tell from her response to hey, how are you if she's defensive yet
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interested, or if she truly doesn't want to be bothered. Women pretend to
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be different, but they have many tell signs that give away how they really
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feel. An average man gets intimidated, he gets annoyed. He only has
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one gear to shift into, unless a girl is receptive to generic what's your
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name? Beautiful? Game players have several gears, which makes him a chameleon
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when cruising for ass he can quickly adapt his verbiage to make himself into whatever
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he feels this woman is looking for in a man. In the end,
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all he needs to do is get one smile or one flirty comment returned,
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and he knows that the hunt is all but over. You've experienced the corny
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stereotypes of guys asking for your number or the tired lines for men that direct
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message you online and feel that's as deep as it goes. Max slip through
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your defenses because they know how to inspire excitement in a world full of hey
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texts and I'd love to get to know you. Come on lines. You're
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looking for someone that can make you grin, no matter if you've sworn off
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love, think you're too busy, or are still healing. A guy who
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comes correct will make you think twice. Because ninety percent of women who claim
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they don't want anything serious still imagines finding prince charming. Therefore, you will
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see a man like this who knows how to talk to women as a breath
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of fresh air. I routinely get messages about how a man stood out as
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different, and the women who send these emails are often coming off a bad
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relationship or a long stretch where they couldn't get a man to look their way
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if they were standing naked in a hardware store. These girls are what I
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call open because females tend to judge their appeal by the last man that tried
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to talk to them. Max don't always get the women they go after,
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but their batting average is insanely high because they have good timing. Most of
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the women reading this understand that coming off a bad drought or a shitty relationship
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makes you vulnerable. Your confidence is lowered, and you desperately need someone to
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chase you in a way that isn't lame or overly sexual. Male hoes understand
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this and look for that kind of opening, because a woman on the rebound
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or sick of dating is ripe for the picking. In the previous chapters,
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you learned all the hoe tax there are to learn. You've seen how Maria
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manipulated the fuck out of her Mark and got in his pockets by using her
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in depth knowledge of lust against men. Put that in perspective with these male
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players, because so called hose are nothing more than female max. It's only
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when men feel threatened do these women get labeled derogatorily. Maria and women like
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her are after money, status, or material goods. Max are after sex,
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money, or material goods. Men will always be driven by pussy,
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even those that are smart enough to see their own savage urges for what they
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are. Society toasts the male players. While we openly tell little boys to
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respect women as if they all were mom, we secretly pat them on the
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back and tell them to go out there and be a heartbreaker. Men love
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to see younger males exploit women because it's a victory for all of mankind.
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He got the pussy means we all got the pussy. There is and will
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always be a brotherhood where females are seen as the enemy that is hunted for
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sport. There are more male hoes than female ones. They just don't have
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the stigma attached to them because this is a man's world. There's nothing wrong
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with macking or hoeing or whatever you want to call the ability to use what's
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in your head to get what they got, the same way that a mark
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gives a hoe what she wants freely, women give these men what they want
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without a gun being put to their head because they chose to. It's not
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a crime, it's not wrong. It's on that person for being a sucker.
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Now that you understand what a smart hoe is, it's time to protect
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yourself from the male version. Some of you won't ever use hoe tactics in
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a real way. You will choose to go after an authentic relationship with someone
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who can at least pass the headphone test. I want you to use this
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chapter to sniff out any man you date, No matter if you're looking for
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love, a come up, or just bored and entertaining him, at least
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one out of the next ten guys you meet will be trying to play you
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using the same tactics we've discussed, but in a male centric way. Exposing
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him on the first date let him pull you too. Many women think the
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best way to protect their heart is to live closed off and assume every man
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that walks over is full of shit. That's just as closed minded as men
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who believe all women are hose looking to play them. You can't win if
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you don't play the game. So instead of rolling your eyes and not giving
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any man whose family members you don't know a chance hear him out, all
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you need is one date to expose a male ho So why not play along
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and test them? This trial by dating won't cost you anything but a night
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out. And let's face it, you most likely want an excuse to wear
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one of those outfits in your closet that you never get to wear. Step
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one, let him sell you. You must have an appreciation for good game.
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It's an honor to be approached with something more original than excuse me,
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miss. You've been courted by guys who probably say, hey, what's your
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name? I'm trying to get to know you. That is horrible game,
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but some of you entertain that to hear a man speak eloquently or intrigue you
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with a challenging line of conversation is like night and day. Go on that
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ride and wait for that feeling. The feeling I'm referring to is that tingle
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in your shoulders or chest when he says something so cold that you can't even
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muster the brain power to fire back in your normal way. A man like
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that deserves your number, but after you give it up, test him to
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be sure if he's legit or one of these guys who gets his confidence from
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Reddit forums and pick up artist's websites. The first step is to let him
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think he's winning. It's okay to play the role of the helpless damsel that's
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impressed and gives out her number, but remember you are playing a role.
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I've talked to women who are extremely shy around boys, and they describe this
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freezing effect a cute guy has on them that reduces them to this groupie like
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state where they can't think of anything interesting to say. I want you to
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channel that energy. Let him believe he's blowing you away and that the war
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is already won. What this does is lull him into a false sense of
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victory, boosts his confidence, and give him incentive to move on to step
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two. Step two, let him set the date. When you're hoen you
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let a man set the date to see what he's working with. In this
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instance of ho hunting, you still let him choose where he wants to take
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you. The purpose of this is that you still don't know if he's trying
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to play you, so you don't want to punish a genuine man by making
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the first date all about eating on his dime. A player won't pay too
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much for pussy, but he understands that he needs to invest in a place
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where he can further unleash his conversation in order to exploit you. In his
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mind, the first date is all about sizing you up because you are the
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mark he wants to be able to tell if you're going to be first night
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sex, first week sex, or a woman who has money that he can
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siphon for months to come. Let's set a scenario where Ricardo the mat tries
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to work you with his dick tactics. Imagine that you met Ricardo at a
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normal place, gas station, elevator, he held the door at a store,
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doesn't matter. The point is you popped up on his radar and he
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was a perfect gentleman, but also funny and engaging to the point where you
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said why not and exchanged information. How do you get in a person's good
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graces by being different? What do men do when they get a girl's number?
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They text a reminder of Hey, this is such and such and then
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they begin to bore the fuck out of you through text. The reason this
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works is that if a guy's handsome, you see those dry texts as amazing
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lust blinders. If he's not that cute, you put up with it because
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it's something to do. The point is, men under the age of forty
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will generally text first, and you accept that as just how the world works,
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or expect it because you've grown our own accustom to using your fingers more
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than your mouth. Male hoes use their mouths not because they can't text,
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but because it's the best way to mind fuck a person. Ricardo calls you
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the day after you meet and continues where he left off. What sets him
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apart from the average man, you know, besides actually calling, is that
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he doesn't press for some when can we hang out lazy date. Ricardo knows
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his fellow man, and he knows that they want to get you to the
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level of come over and chill. You're expecting laziness, and he gives you
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real courting. Most women are already head over. Heels off that tiny bit
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of effort. Where do you want to go, beautiful? I don't care
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if I got to put you on my back we'll go. Chivalry mixed with
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humor feels genuinely like he wants to make you happy. This Pua does want
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to make you happy, happy enough to drop your guard and spread those legs.
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After the dessert course, again, you must tell silver Tongue Ricardo to
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surprise you by picking the date himself. He will already be prepared for this,
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because most women in real life are indecisive when it comes to answering the
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question what do you want to do? Shoot down his first suggestion to throw
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him off balance. He will reach for a place that's comfortable and where he
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works his women. Often. You don't want to be on his home turf,
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so reject his first idea as if you don't like their food or don't
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feel like doing that activity. Pick Up artists, like hoes, are taught
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to go where they can be free to touch restaurant tables, block hands,
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and separate, so he'll most likely try to steer clear of dinner. Steer
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him back to dinner, But do this in a way that doesn't seem picky
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or bitchy. Make him understand that it would normally be a good idea,
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but you have a serious hang up with the place he'll probably struggle to think
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of a backup because you threw him off his square. But when he does
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find a new place, accept it with open arms and be excited. Ricardo
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now feels as if it's only a matter of time. But then step three
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happens. Step three hijack the date. Ricardo has taken you out for a
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dinner date at a medium price restaurant where he can sit next to you,
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order drinks, get you loose, and mind fuck you into falling in love
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with him in three hours. This is the part that takes real effort,
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because, unlike most girls who get scavenged by players, you will go left
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where they would have gone right. He's going to focus on you. You
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You, what do you like to do for fun, your family history,
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your last relationship, your girl friends and co workers, your dreams and aspirations,
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etc. What men do is read you like a textbook, take mental
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notes, and then, based on all the information you just gave away,
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rebuild their lives as if it's compatible to your own. By the end of
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the night, he'll be referencing things you mentioned as if you two have so
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much in common and actuality it's game. Do not give this man the rundown
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of your entire life, as if he's a therapist. He hasn't earned that.
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No one you've only known for a few days has earned the right to
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know you hijack the date by turning the tables back on him. Him him.
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You want to know his story because, unlike the average desperate woman,
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you didn't come on this date to vent and get all of your life's so
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unfair relationship stress off your chest. A player will tell you that he works
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a good job, then give you an idea of what he does does,
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but not the specifics because he's lying. Next he will talk about his expanded
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plan to be his own boss, or tell you that he already has a
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side hustle. Basic bitches are his side hustle, getting loans, getting them
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to invest in his ideas using their credit cards. It's so easy for man
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to live like a baller and impress new pussy when spending another chicks money.
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Don't pay attention to the moves he says he's making, the people he knows,
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or the pictures that prove that it may be true. It's a smoke
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screen. Next he will talk about his mother or grandmother, depending on who
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is in his life more. A man knows that women see respect and love
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for mothers as a good sign that he was raised properly and cherishes women.
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Again, blow past that stuff and dig deeper. Do not accept the information
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he volunce tears. Because players are like politicians. They have their talking points
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and they will go Sarah Palin on that ass and redirect the question the moment
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you ask about something that's off limit. Know this strategy. Feel him out
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by listening to his clean cut answers and get him off his game during the
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first half of the date by not talking about your past and present life in
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ways other than simple statements. Instead, always be asking to know more about
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something he shared. Now you go in for the kill. Step four.
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Three questions he must answer. Ricardo is not having much fun. If he's
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a player, he's a normal guy who has a genuine interest in you,
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then opening up about his life in a real way is new and interesting.
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Remember that girls usually do most of the talking, so it will come as
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a shock when you come off is interested in what he has to say about
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his life. Guys love to talk and throw opinions out. It's a part
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of the male ego. The difference is some regular guy will talk about his
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love of Star Wars versus a player that's not talking about personal loves, just
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his big moves, so he can come off as impressive enough for you to
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think you hit the jackpot. Players brag about what they can do for you,
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how they're living, bring up the issue of money or luxury things they
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own. Every fifteen minutes. Make a mental note of this, as a
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conversation about pets will randomly go back to his income or his business moves.
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Pay attention to what's coming out of his mouth. Don't just rush to talk
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about the things you do. It's not your interview or your time to vent.
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It's about exposing him. Let's assume for our experiment that Ricardo is on
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his heels trying to get the conversation back to a point where he's winning you
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over and flirting. Now it's time to unleash the squirm motherfucker questions that will
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test his true honesty. How long does it usually take you to fuck women?
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On average? No man is prepared for this question because ladies don't ask
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about sex. Ever, You've just taken it to Maria the whole status by
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being this forward about fucking Ricardo will try to play it off and either turn
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it into a joke or try to make those women he's dealt with in the
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past not as special as you. Mind you, this is a serious question
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that you want an answer to, not some wise crack about jump offs.
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Second, he doesn't know if you're a freak or a saint, so any
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question that makes you out to be different is bullshit. Get a real answer.
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If I told you I wanted to get down tonight, how would you
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fuck me? This will make any man squirm, even a MAC, because
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no woman returns fire like this so randomly. On the first date, you
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are, as the Internet would say, trolling him to shock him into speaking
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his mind. A normal guy would be stumbling all over the place trying to
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understand who the hell you are. A MAC would try to keep his cool
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and play up the role he's been taught by the pimpology peddlers. If his
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follow up is some dating show answer about how he would take you back,
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lay you on his Egyptian cotton, and lick your belly button, then keep
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trolling him. Ask him if he eats ass, likes to take a finger
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in his ass, or if he's had a golden shower. Your job is
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to see if he ever breaks character. These men are not sincere. They
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read a script and stick to it. Once you throw them off it,
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they will keep trying to get back to what they know. His refusal to
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be real proves what kind of person he is and saves you the trouble of
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getting to know this loser. Why are you gaming me? This is the
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final question. After he's done trying to recover, keep it real and let
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him in on the secret that you know he's just spitting game, trying to
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get you open. He'll play you like crazy and stick to his authenticity,
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but don't buy that. Let him know that it's okay. He can be
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real again. He will stand strong in the pocket. But this is where
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your whole tactics come into play. Diffuse his anger and aggression about being called
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out by stroking his hand, put him back at ease, and ask him
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about how he usually operates. Is the way he picked you up normal?
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Does he come to this place often? How much pussy does he get with
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this act? You have gone from prey to friend over the course of dinner,
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and he will warm to that after the embarrassment wears off. This goes
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back to men liking to talk. Why is the mafia nearly dead? Because
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men like to talk about their hustles much more than the old school guys.
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Did you are exposing him? You're coming with the tactic of teach me a
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wise one, and he'll brag all night. Step five? What flaw did
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he see in you? At the end of the night, ask him one
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last thing? What flaw did he see in you when he approached you?
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Was it the looks? Was it the way you were dressed? Or was
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it just his own ego that made him try to run game at this point,
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If this guy is a real dude, he'll keep it a hundred and
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tell you why he chose to go at you and not the next woman.
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It may have been as simple as you were the first girl he saw that
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day, or it may be revealing like you are a little on the chubby
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side and those are the women he runs game on most successfully. The reason
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you ask is so that you can take a closer look at what you project
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in your day to day life and improve the next time. Someone who goes
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to the same pickup artist forums as this guy, or has read the same
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MacBooks he has studied tries to approach you, It won't take but five minutes
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to recognize his hustle. Even the best dick tactics will fail if you know
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how to take a man off his script. Some of you may think this
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is a simple exercise, but when it comes time to go on a date
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and go left into the realm of random questions like those I laid out,
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you will be afraid. Women freeze up and trying to apply spartan techniques from
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men don't love women like you, and this is no different. In order
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to expose these male hose, you have to be willing to open your mouth
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and challenge them. If you try to hint, beat around the bush,
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or freestyle what I just wrote to create a less direct method, you will
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fail. Most of you are involved with men whom you can't figure out,
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no matter if it's date one or date five. Throw this monkey wrench in
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his machine and watch how he responds. It's better to aggressively expose a man
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and let him prove your suspicions wrong than to keep your mouth shut and get
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worked like a mark.