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- 0:00Greetings and happy Thanksgiving everybody. Welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is
- 0:06Brian and this is the Badger Lodge Special Thanksgiving edition of The Badge Lodge,
- 0:13where we will be taking your calls and giving your thoughts on whatever it is
- 0:18you happen to have on your mind. So I don't really have anything in
- 0:27terms of like something to talk about, and I know that's super lame,
- 0:33but this is kind of an unexpected last minute thing. So if you are
- 0:38around, I'll just say hello. I see some people in the chat night
- 0:42motorcyclist TJWK, mister O THREEO three over on Rumble, big Lebowski and Mike
- 0:48R. Hello, Hello, Hello, Please again, feel free to call
- 0:54in say hello. You know, give thanks to whatever it is you want
- 0:58to be thankful for this Thanksgiving. What do you have in for dinner?
- 1:03Is? Do you celebrate Thanksgiving in your country? I mean, obviously like
- 1:07you don't. This isn't for everyone. In fact, it's uniquely American.
- 1:11But but yeah, go ahead, and you know, call in say hi.
- 1:15It's good to hear from you guys. So there is a link in
- 1:19the description to get into the Honey Badger Radio call in Room. On Discord,
- 1:26and you will run into our screener, dough Boy, who has volunteered
- 1:32to basically like be our screener because my normal inquisitors are not around. They're
- 1:38probably doing Thanksgiving stuff. And yeah, then dough Boy will basically take your
- 1:48question. Or if you don't have a question, but you just want to
- 1:49comment or give me a take or whatever, then you know he will get
- 1:53the gist of it, put it in the questions chat, and then I
- 1:59will read it out and bring you in so that you can like make your
- 2:02case and if you want to argue with me or whatever, that's fine too.
- 2:07We can we can talk about whatever I have. I am an open
- 2:12book, as it were. So that was the last of my coffee.
- 2:20I wanted to get this over with early because it is Thanksgiving and we're gonna
- 2:23be having a leg of lamb for dinner, which should be a good time.
- 2:28And then I'm gonna try to talk Lindsay into playing some resonaval with me
- 2:31after if I can get her too, So yeah, we'd like please again,
- 2:38feel free to call in. I see I'm using social stream Ninja so
- 2:45that I can watch all the chat, which is what's displaying on the screen
- 2:47right now. Very super useful tools. So if you're into streaming, but
- 2:52like you want to be able to pull or like take advantage of a live
- 2:55chat that's in discord or or on WhatsApp or Telegram or you know, rumble,
- 3:04like any place that normally wouldn't have a chat, you can use that.
- 3:09Social stream Ninja is a very useful tool for that. So all right,
- 3:15let me just put the discord chat up here. I do see someone
- 3:21in there already, which is great, So yeah, send us a super
- 3:25child too if you want. That's Feedbadge dot com forward slash just the tip
- 3:30and then I will endeavor to read that out as well. So I see
- 3:37that someone is already in there, and let me look at what you guys
- 3:40are saying. So j Willie series says, why does American families who don't
- 3:44even get along with each other still meet up for holidays? Well, I
- 3:50don't know. I mean, I don't agree with members of my family,
- 3:53but I still get along with them, So I guess it depends like some
- 3:59some f I think, I don't know if I don't think Jay Willie is
- 4:01American, right, I think that there is a kind of like propagandistic trope
- 4:09that goes out to the world from the media that suggests that the holidays are
- 4:15always stressful and always dysfunctional and there's always fighting, And I mean, I
- 4:21think that there's disagreement sometimes, but honestly, I mean, I'm really far
- 4:29away from my family right now. I'm in Virginia, and my family is
- 4:33either in Boston, Puerto Rico, New York, or Chicago, so they're
- 4:39kind of spread out. I have some in Texas as well, and so
- 4:42I'm not around them a lot. But when I did live in Chicago,
- 4:46Thanksgiving was, you know, whatever was going on in our personal lives,
- 4:50all of it was put aside and we would get together for Thanksgiving. And
- 4:54at the very least it was for the kids, you know, my nieces
- 4:57and nephews. They want to to see family and eat good food. My
- 5:03mother was usually done with dinner by like noon, so we'd be eating it
- 5:09pretty early. And you know, my like the guys would watch the game
- 5:15because it was usually like a football game going on, and we would listen
- 5:20to music and we would just hang out with the kids and everybody would get
- 5:25together and so you know, we made that effort. I don't. I
- 5:29know that there's a lot of political tension and division, but I think that
- 5:33it's a bit well. I think it's designed to separate people. I think
- 5:38it's designed to make us ascile towards each other. But I don't think it
- 5:42has to be the case even if we disagree. Do Boy says we have
- 5:45someone in the chat. He doesn't have a question, but he wants to
- 5:46thank the team for the good they do. All right, well, I'll
- 5:49bring him in here and thanks so much again. Go to the discord link
- 5:57in the description of this stream so that you can all in yourself and Doboy
- 6:00will take care of you. Okay, so let me bring in this guy.
- 6:06Hello, and you are muted? Are you able to unmute yourself?
- 6:15Hello? You are muted? Let me just see maybe there's something I'm supposed
- 6:20to do here. Yes, yes, I can hear you now. Okay,
- 6:29thank you sir, Happy Thanksgiving. I'm actually from India. I could.
- 6:35Yeah, I got that. I got the senset of that. How
- 6:40you doing. I'm to plage your eyes, Dave Ramsey, I'm better than
- 6:46I deserve. Well, so what brings you to our doorstep here? At
- 6:55HBr Well, I have immense rec expect for Typhon Blue, Karen Strawn and
- 7:03others who have been actually been helpful in raising voice for the voicelest that is
- 7:12the forgotten gender. And I just have love and support from this part of
- 7:17the world. Yes, and are you currently in India now? Oh?
- 7:27Yes, sir? What time is it over there? One for two am?
- 7:31Oh it's so late late in the evening. Yeah, Well, let
- 7:38me ask you this. First of all, thank you for the kind words.
- 7:42And this is the I agree. I mean it was Karen, Hannah
- 7:45and Allison that made me want to do what I've been doing for the past
- 7:48ten years. So I've basically like made this into a job for better or
- 7:54worse. But let me ask you this. I know that we had an
- 8:00international conference on men's issues in India this year. Were you at that particular
- 8:05event? It was actually hosted by one of the organizers where mister Arnelmurti and
- 8:18from si f F. You know him. He's one of the biggest headhorn
- 8:22shows from that part of the world regarding men's issues and men's rights organizations.
- 8:28So I know him personally and we have actually have had quite a lot of
- 8:35interesting conversation, conversations over a period of time, and I really regard him
- 8:43as my mentor in that regard, whether it is for men's m A activism
- 8:52or writing petitions or you know, regarding the legal jargon. So yeah,
- 8:58so I I actually because of some family emergency and compulsions there. There was
- 9:07a recent death within my family extended family, so I couldn't visit over there,
- 9:13but certainly I would be there the next year. And there are some
- 9:20of my friends from America who would be visiting India if hopefully if it would
- 9:26be held in India, so I would definitely be visiting alongside my American friends.
- 9:33All right, so you know, next year, the word is the
- 9:39ICMI is going to be in Budapest. I don't know if you heard that
- 9:45that the ICMI there could be another conference in India, but I heard it
- 9:48was the next ICM. I the working I guess model, or the working
- 9:56plan is that it will be in Budapest. Well, let us see what
- 10:01happens if it pans out to be in Budapest as it as there are some
- 10:09people who are nudging about it, then so be it. But we would
- 10:15definitely give our message and love and support for all the men in Budapest via
- 10:22a zoom call or something, and we would definitely because in the advent of
- 10:28technology, the entry barriers have come down. I mean, yes, twenty
- 10:31years ago, I would never have imagined that I would be talking to a
- 10:35gentleman who would be sitting on that side of the Atlantic and we would be
- 10:41having some sort of a telephonic conversation. Yeah, it is. It is
- 10:48the wonder of this technology. In fact, I think that the Internet has
- 10:52made it. Well, it's a double edged sword because it is a tool
- 10:56at the end of the day. But I think that overall it's a net
- 11:00good because we've been able to get this conversation going all over the world.
- 11:07I've spoken with people from South Korea, from Japan, you know, India,
- 11:13the Middle East, and even Nordic countries like South America, so very
- 11:20very fortunate, a lot of stuff going on all over and I think it's
- 11:26it is like it's having I think a very big impact on not just the
- 11:31men's sphere, but philosophically, politically, spiritually, et cetera. So I
- 11:39think it's a net good. I in fact, I wholeheartedly agree with you
- 11:46one hundred and one percent on that because I mean, on this very auspicious
- 11:54occasion, perhaps I should not say this, but basically we have become a
- 12:03third world country facing first world problems. That's a short point. And the
- 12:09laws, the draconian laws which are introduced at behest of plagiarizing laws and influence
- 12:18from the West, and it keeps getting worse. The overreach of the police
- 12:26state into domestic affairs of people, largely men are on the receiving end of
- 12:35it. So I think people lack perspicacity about it as how it is going
- 12:43to become somewhat having an adversarial effect on the society by and large, and
- 12:54the social fabric has you know, been in tatters because as you see it,
- 13:00Yeah, since it is interesting you brought up the ICMI conference in India.
- 13:07I saw that Indian laws are talking about same sex marriage. Homosexuality has
- 13:15been decriminalized, and one of the Chief Justices of India, who has been
- 13:22a Harvard University alumni from the eighties, he literally is you saying that there
- 13:31is biologically no difference between a man or a woman and things like that.
- 13:37So it keeps getting worse. It worsens the situation regarding the social fabric which
- 13:45is already in tatters because of the corruption within the judicial system, the police
- 13:52structure which almost behaves like a mafia, and the corrupt lawyers. As we
- 13:58are, no a good lawyer knows the law, a great lawyer knows the
- 14:03judge. As the saying goes, we actually have become a sort of a
- 14:11pariahs of the entire world, and the system remains intact. The system doesn't
- 14:20change. And I have been actually a sort of you could call me as
- 14:26a bachelor who has been, you know, trying to look the other way
- 14:33when other people are getting thrown under the bus, people of my elk,
- 14:41people of the same gender. And I thought to myself that I can't be
- 14:48reticent about it anymore. I need to speak up. Yeah, yeah,
- 14:56so, I yeah, I think there is is. Like I said,
- 15:00it's a double edged sword. But I think the truth always comes out in
- 15:05the end. So there will be like a struggle, and then I think
- 15:09that reality sets in and uh, it will do it may do harm,
- 15:16you know, but that's kind of like what has to happen before we get
- 15:18to the truth. And but I but I am I think I'm overall optimistic
- 15:22in the long run. I'm sorry that this is like, you know,
- 15:26this, for lack of a better word, COMI crap is like infiltrating your
- 15:33institutions, just like it is ours. But it's kind of like an inevitability
- 15:37because I think it's a it's a feminine instinct that has been made into a
- 15:43political structure and there are it's run by women and the simps who support them,
- 15:48and that's what we're kind of up against. So how how are other
- 15:54So India is kind of like and I'm just I'm just gonna again, I'm
- 15:58gonna repeat for the audience. Uh, please call in, go to the
- 16:02link in the description, get into the discord. I see someone else has
- 16:07jumped in there, so you know, and and yeah, give us a
- 16:10comment. But I from what I understand, men's rights in India is kind
- 16:15of the vanguard like that, Like it's very it's doing a lot more,
- 16:21you know, in in that sort of space than in the United States,
- 16:25which is sort of just starting off in a way. By comparison, you
- 16:27guys have like p sas and other you know kind of let's say activism that's
- 16:34going on. I think, uh, South Korea has a big men's movement
- 16:38that's growing as well. So what how are how are those things going in
- 16:44India? Well as someone who belongs to the Mikdaw community in general, which
- 16:52I am uh a Migdaw in India, wouldn't say that I wouldn't do activism
- 17:00for the betterment of the society. I would because as we know, the
- 17:08word government or the nation state concept, it actually predates back for us being
- 17:17a civilizational state. It actually predates for US five ten thousand years. I
- 17:22mean, there were kingdoms and empires, but there used to be sort of
- 17:30a straight state type structure in which administrative things and everything, including matrimonial disputes
- 17:41were handled. And so we know from the history of historicism about the structure
- 17:48and the system, and we know that system is always biased towards women because
- 17:56of ganocentrism, and it is going to be so so unless and until the
- 18:02biological imperative of the hunter gatherer phenomena persists, and it is going to be
- 18:10till eternity. Now, however, patriarchy was there, you know, men
- 18:15being in charge of everything. So I think from that aspect we have deviated
- 18:26from the actual path towards shall we say, self fulfillment and the state,
- 18:37as we know from the Latin word government, it literally means control of the
- 18:42mind. And it is needless to define the tyranny of the state. And
- 18:49unless and until we understand that the state would always span out to be something
- 18:57like nineteen eighty four animal Farm George Orwellian dystopian reality. Men would be the
- 19:06first, you know, led to abattoar the slaughterhouse, but certainly entire society
- 19:15would follow because if there would be nobody. And for that regard, since
- 19:22you brought up MRAs here in India, I have seen Mikdao's doing MRA stuff.
- 19:27Why because they want to live in a conducive atmosphere, a conducive environment
- 19:37where the laws wouldn't adversely affect them, even if they are living as a
- 19:44monk on top of a snowy mountain in the Himalayan Mountain range. They don't
- 19:48want the police or the instruments of state or a swowed arm of the state
- 19:56to approach them adversely. And it is in sort of an inquisitive fashion questioned
- 20:07them about everything because it would lead to thought policing, minority reports, sort
- 20:15of a thing that we have seen in perhaps Hollywood movies. But these days,
- 20:21I can't be surprised about it if it comes to reality. Yeah,
- 20:27yeah, well you know, I mean I've talked about that before. Actually
- 20:33at the I See my twenty nineteen we had a panel where we had a
- 20:38MiG taw, a men's rights activist, and a pickup artist or a red
- 20:44Pillar or whatever come together and like talk about like what they share in common
- 20:48and where their differences are at and atlanted where I thought, like mostly all
- 20:52three of those things are. There's a lot of overlap, you know.
- 20:57So when people say like the manisphere or the red pill or whatever you want
- 21:02to call it, and it's divided into subcategories, the truth is is that
- 21:07any anyone who is a member of any of those groups and they're honest with
- 21:11themselves, that they are going to be concerned with all three, but in
- 21:17particular men's rights or men's issues from like the legal and political perspective, because
- 21:23like you said, you can go full migtile monk, live off the grid
- 21:27and everything, but the state is going to drag you kicking and screaming into
- 21:33its system. And if if you're just checking out, then that just gives
- 21:40more legislative power to women and the simps who support them in using that against
- 21:48men. So I think that it has to be fought in the you know,
- 21:52in the sort of legislative or political space, even if you want to
- 21:56be left alone, because the state won't leave you alone, right, And
- 22:00the bigger and more domineering it gets, then the more I guess impossible it
- 22:07is to avoid. So you kind of have to, like, you know,
- 22:11you have to get involved in a way because you're not immune. I
- 22:17don't know if that makes sense, but you know what I'm saying. I
- 22:19mean, pardon me for saying so, but in this day and age,
- 22:26I honestly think that being Migdao is not going to be enough to be left
- 22:30alone, to be left alone, the reason being the state wouldn't leave you
- 22:37alone, the police, state wouldn't leave you alone because you are the cannon
- 22:44fodder. You are the spum donor of the state, the most useful machinery
- 22:48which is not going to depreciate well, and you would be put out to
- 22:55pastures afterwards or to the abertar. So being a migda, I being a
- 23:06migta myself, I believe in all these stipulations and everything, and I actually
- 23:11would love to see more and more people become migd ou. But being a
- 23:18micta means that you should support men's rights because even mikdaw originated from MRAs,
- 23:29So basically that is the foundation stone of every men's issues expertise that we become
- 23:40a card carrying activist for and in a way, even if people are talking
- 23:47about mikdaw, they are doing a work of an MRA that at least they
- 23:52are trying to make people gravitate and resonate with men's issues. So I'm it
- 24:02is all about self ownership and we can coexist. It is not that we
- 24:07just have to drive a vedge between everything. No, I agree one hundred
- 24:11percent. In fact, it's better that we we do cooperate. And I
- 24:15think it's you're right. I mean it all Mick Taos were probably in the
- 24:21sort of men's issue space first. But I would also add that before that
- 24:26MRAs, if they were male, they were just regular blue pilled normies,
- 24:33which means they were traditionalists. Basically, like they were thinking, oh,
- 24:37you know, I'm going to meet someone, I'm going to get married and
- 24:38going to start a family. Everything's going to be bliss or whatever, and
- 24:42they run into some problem, they lose access to their kids, they get
- 24:47falsely accused of something, whatever it is, there's a messy divorce, and
- 24:51then they're like, whoa, the system doesn't support me. So, you
- 24:55know, it's like downstream from like the traditional marriage and family. And when
- 25:00those guys get boned, then they become men's rights activists and they become more
- 25:06aware, and then later they they they make a personal decision. Because mik
- 25:10tao is a personal decision. It's not really like, you know, a
- 25:14movement per se. I mean, I know they call it that, but
- 25:15I think it's individual men. They decide they're going to live as bachelor's or
- 25:19whatever, so and that's and that's a good option I think that that men
- 25:25should have. That's why I don't. I don't treat them as separate animals,
- 25:29you know, because I think ultimately, like, uh, you need
- 25:33to fix the one. There's no you. Unless you to do something about
- 25:37the systemic problems, you're going to you know, you're not going to really
- 25:41be able to escape it. I'm sorry. Actually, let's look at the
- 25:49example of disintegrated erstwhile Soviet Union and what happened afterwards. It was all about
- 25:59the insurgency in the entire Caucasian region. I mean, I don't want to
- 26:06digress from the topic and bring it to the fact of because it is a
- 26:11men's rights issue and we could learn a bit or two from that. South
- 26:15Korea there was a South Korean president or prime minister if I'm not mistaken,
- 26:21who ran as an anti feminist and actually being able to win the elections over
- 26:26there, meaning that there was so much feminism via written minuted public state policy
- 26:37within the South Korean administrative government structure that a man had to run as an
- 26:44anti feminist and he became so popular that he won the elections in the end.
- 26:51Next is Japan with negative birth rates and everything. We know what is
- 26:56going on. Japan is dying, South Korea is dying. Many of the
- 27:00South Asians are actually, yeah, birth rates are down everywhere. I mean
- 27:06they're down. Even in the places where they're still like doing well, they're
- 27:10on the decline, like Sub Saharan Africa, South America. There, it's
- 27:15down everywhere. And I'm guessing that's why. I'm guessing it has a lot
- 27:19to do with this kind of anti male misunderous sentiment. I think it has
- 27:29more to do with the educate, organized agitate structure via the psychological warfare,
- 27:37which actually then culminates into a written, minuted public state policy. Yeah.
- 27:45And so in Russia, when that happened, the insurgency in Chichen and Dugistan
- 27:52where all these breed of UFC fighters are actually coming up right now, Russia
- 28:00declared that domestic violence is legal, legalized. Then what happened was women through
- 28:07a hissy fit with the pussy riots and everything. People in the West don't
- 28:11know what it was and had it been the West where an Orthodox Christian church,
- 28:18the most ancient one was vandalized and designated by these Feminazis they were where
- 28:26was wait what where did this Orthodox church get desecrated? Moscow? In Moscow?
- 28:30Yes, yeah, okay, because I know that there was one that
- 28:33was bombed in Yes, and I think that there was something in the Ukraine
- 28:38where there was an Orthodox church that was shut down because the Ukraine government wanted
- 28:42their own state. That is a recent one. Yeah, that's recent.
- 28:48Yeah. Yeah, I'm talking about two thousand and seven, sixteen years ago,
- 28:52when Vladimir put In handled it like a boss. Yeah yeah, okay,
- 28:56So I mean I don't want to get into the details of as there
- 29:02might be many callers who wanted to call in because I you have somebody waiting
- 29:07to go ahead. Yeah. So in that domestic violence was legalized, so
- 29:14women through if it's saying that my husband is a wife beater. They declared
- 29:18that anybody who becomes a terrorist from Dagistan and Chechen, their entire family would
- 29:26be executed as well, especially their parents, because it is a parent's responsibility.
- 29:33It is the role of a mother and father who would be accountable for
- 29:37their son or a girl getting radicalized online and then becoming a suicide bomber or
- 29:45so on and so forth. So they told them get back with your ex
- 29:49husband. So then women tried to escape accountability as usual. They said,
- 29:56well, my husband has actually remarried after our mutual separation or whatever. So
- 30:03they said, well, get back and become his mistress or his second wife.
- 30:07I don't care. You just have to provide the accountability and bestow it
- 30:12upon the father, and then we would be able to grab him by the
- 30:18collar if his son becomes radicalized online and he picks up a kalashnikov rifle against
- 30:26the Russian state or the provincial government over there. The second thing what they
- 30:30did was they established a father's Commission because they have seen Marxism Leninism for almost
- 30:38one hundred years by then, they established a father's Commission which would be able
- 30:45to mitigate the parental isolation and child visitations and so on and so forth.
- 30:52And it's a constitutional body. I actually watched a documentary over it before it
- 30:56was taken down in the advent of the Russia Green fiasco happening, and that
- 31:02is the gist of it. So we need a men's commission. We need
- 31:06a national organization for men, just like there is a national organization for women.
- 31:11And we need to have all these cons We need to have all these
- 31:18conversations. One ICMI. I think there should be an number of icmis all
- 31:25across the world. Oh yeah, absolutely, Well, we're hoping that other
- 31:30people will start them, you know, and we can we can certainly facilitate,
- 31:34like help out, you know. I think that would be really really
- 31:37great. But look, I really gotta move on to the next caller.
- 31:41I think this was great, but it went a little long. So do
- 31:45you have any final words before I send you off back to the screen room.
- 31:52Sure, So, dear men, I know you have not thanked yourself
- 31:56enough on this auspicious occasion of Thanksgiving, or on any other given day.
- 32:02We nineteenth of November, on International Wednesday, I would like to say this,
- 32:08happy belated International Men'sday. And your contribution can't be summed up within a
- 32:15single day. The entire history of historicism stands stall only on your shoulders.
- 32:22Thank you, all right, very well said, Thank you, sir.
- 32:27This is great love, immortal venerable. So that that's your name on the
- 32:34on the discord. But thank you so much. I'm going to move you
- 32:37back into screen room and uh yeah, we're going to take the next call.
- 32:40So all right, now I got the next caller is disorder Drew.
- 32:47So you were asking why people in America meet with family members they don't get
- 32:52along with Yeah, well, I guess I don't know if you. I
- 32:59did to talk a little bit about it in the beginning, But I think
- 33:02that most of the time people do get along with their family members, and
- 33:07they do, you know, do the Thanksgiving thing. But I think that
- 33:10there is like this, this this story or this narrative that we get that
- 33:15like this is always a contentious time of year. But I don't think it's
- 33:20true. I mean, it does happen, Like especially if you have you
- 33:23know, like a family and your and your your kids go to college and
- 33:28they come home for Thanksgiving and they got all this like you know, progressive
- 33:32crap in their head and they want to fight with their parents. But I
- 33:36don't think it's like I in my family, I even though I don't agree
- 33:43with my mother on on things, I usually just go and you know,
- 33:46do the things, the everything. I don't worry about where we disagree.
- 33:50I worry more about, like, you know, where the fact that she's
- 33:53my mother or my brothers or my father or whatever, and we just kind
- 33:58of like, you know, go with that. Know if that's a stupid
- 34:01way to put it, but that's what I think. No, that kind
- 34:05of makes sense because like if you go to all the countries I've lived there,
- 34:07right, there is no like I get that the normal American family don't
- 34:14fight, like, yeah, we have a I don't think that's the case
- 34:17at all. I just think that's a very rare thing. But even though
- 34:21it's a rare thing, it does not seem to be a universal thing.
- 34:23It seemed to be a very American phenomenon, if that makes sense. Even
- 34:27though it's a rare phenomenon, but it's not like but in other countries it's
- 34:30kind of non existent almost, right, So like you're saying, like,
- 34:36what do you mean non existent? Like families fighting is non existent, But
- 34:38whenever when people specifically have family meetings used to challenge their families and believe that
- 34:44they just got like five months ago, it seems to be there's a foreign
- 34:49concept to me. So I kind of like wonder, why would anybody want
- 34:52to do that? Yeah, well, that's what I'm saying, Like I
- 34:55think that, Like, Okay, so we're where you live? Do you
- 35:00are you in touch with your family? Do you like, are you on
- 35:05good terms with your parents and stuff? Oh? Yeah, I live with
- 35:07my parents actually, Oh okay, yeah, so so when okay, so
- 35:13you're you're not in America, right, I think you're. I try to
- 35:16remember. I know you've called in many times. But where where you are
- 35:22you don't have a Thanksgiving per se, but you do have holidays and holidays
- 35:25you spend with family and generally there are no issues. Right. Do you
- 35:29see like extended family like uncles, aunts, cousins, things like that.
- 35:34I do see the the my sister and her and her husband and kids and
- 35:39I also see my uncle and my cousins like well of course his wife like
- 35:49that's not basically deep. And also on occasion I see like all the customs
- 35:53and their kids, but rarely, and also other aunts. But like these
- 35:59are the two other have two other families in my ex center family that we
- 36:02see on like a semi regular basis, like like every month or so a
- 36:07little bit more, a little bit less, you know, give a take,
- 36:09and either if we don't know, we agree it would usually not talk
- 36:15about certain things. And even when I talk to my sister, even though
- 36:17we don't like were on everything, we're green some things, so we can
- 36:21therefore, and we usually talk sometimes not really not usually, but not that
- 36:24we talk about certain things we feel. And sometimes I think he's completely wrong,
- 36:30but some of she's basically right, very right, and it works.
- 36:36But when it comes to that, I usually like to do it like but
- 36:40then I used to talk to her like in private, not like with other
- 36:44people, right. And when it comes to my constance and my uncle,
- 36:46we usually agree in almost everything or when if everything is important right so uh,
- 36:53and then we basically like, can you talk about what we believe?
- 36:59A lot many people think benefits that all the people will find controversial stuff like
- 37:02that, so that works. So I don't really that's the reason why it's
- 37:07very strange to me when people basically like do with this guy basically want to
- 37:12even post on social media about trying to egg on the family that you haven't
- 37:19seen in a while, like that's the reason you see them, you see
- 37:21them just to piss them off, which is like why I don't. Yeah,
- 37:23I don't think that's I think that's really uncommon. Otherwise I think that's
- 37:29too right. Yeah, yeah, but it is. No, I understand
- 37:31what you're saying. It's kind of rhetorical. Like like like I said,
- 37:36I generally don't try to red pill my family members, for example on men's
- 37:42issues. Like if they ask me what I do, I tell them and
- 37:45I don't. I don't delve into what. I just say, you know,
- 37:46this is what I do, and this is what I talk about on
- 37:50my show. And generally people in my family are supportive because it's me,
- 37:57and they're like, well, you know, I may not understand it everything
- 38:00that's going on or whatever, but I know you know, I know you,
- 38:05and you are you are family, so I will just support that and
- 38:07I don't. I think that. I think that there is like a what
- 38:13this guy is doing I think is a he is obviously virtue signaling. I
- 38:17don't think he's going to wear that sweater to his parents' house. I don't
- 38:21think he's actually going to go through with it, but he wants the internet
- 38:24to see that what he believes, right, So it's it's it's kind of
- 38:29empty, like I don't think he's gonna go to his parents' house, and
- 38:31if he does, he's probably not gonna wear this sweater, or he he
- 38:36is, but he's not going to really confront his family. But he might
- 38:39then go later on and tweet out that he did get into a fight with
- 38:44them, and you know, like his like I don't know, little brother
- 38:47like spoke up and the whole room clapped or whatever. But a lot of
- 38:51times it's all very empty nonsense. And I just I shared this image just
- 38:57because I thought it was funny and a little bit pathie, but not because
- 39:00I really thought that, you know, this is a common problem. I
- 39:06think that it's not, and I think in general too, when it is,
- 39:09it's usually like the girls that do that because they again they go to
- 39:15college, they get these ideas in their head. They take them home,
- 39:19they see their family members or their their parents, their dads especially as the
- 39:22enemy, and they go after them. But I don't think it's common.
- 39:25I think that in most cases people to go ahead, go ahead, No,
- 39:31you've finished in our place. I think in most cases people are amicable.
- 39:37It's all like. I think that in most and even like like I
- 39:39was saying before, there's a lot that I my mother, for example,
- 39:45my mother hates Trump, hates him, okay, with a with a burning
- 39:47passion. So I can't talk about my political beliefs around her at all.
- 39:52And I don't bother to because I know it's that she won't listen. I
- 39:58did in the beginning, like early on, like before the election in twix,
- 40:01like in twenty sixteen, and I was like, well, you here
- 40:05are some you know, here's the case for voting for Trump. And she
- 40:09she just was like, oh, you got to get educated, blah blah.
- 40:12And I said, okay, forget, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna
- 40:15fight with you about it. I'm just gonna drop it. But I don't.
- 40:17I don't have a problem with my mother. I understand why she feels
- 40:22that way. I understand, you know, like, and this could be
- 40:24with anything, Like I have been generally sympathetic to feminists and male feminists,
- 40:34especially if I think that they have been propagandized to and like, you know,
- 40:38severely like brainwashed to believing into in this stuff. And sometimes I get
- 40:44heated because of the kinds of lies that people spread. But most of the
- 40:49time, I'm just mad at having been lied to myself. Like that's something
- 40:53that makes me the angriest. And I think that's probably true for you guys
- 40:57too, Like does the thing that really make you mad the fact that you
- 41:00believe all this ship at one point and then you realize that you've been lied
- 41:06to, Because I think that's what's happened with a lot of people, especially
- 41:10younger people that are operating in that in that sort of environment, you know
- 41:15what I mean. Yeah, Like to be I was to me, I
- 41:17came out from a very really weird perspective because I was lied to. But
- 41:24but basically I was all told to be critical about stuff, and whenever people
- 41:28talk well to me, the stuff that this is the right thing, because
- 41:32you need to make sure that nobody is being discriminated or being let down.
- 41:40Then what I'm thinking, is that is that, well, you need to
- 41:45look at every issue for older people, right, You can't discriminate. You
- 41:49need to look at everybody. Right. See if someone said, well this
- 41:52well woman phrases these problem I thought, okay, that makes sense, yeah,
- 41:54because you should care about other people. And when you talk about stuff
- 41:58like race and stuff like that, these is the things that these people minority
- 42:01face. I'm like, okay, that makes sense too, And I basically
- 42:05like okay now, and then I always like to bring up to the things
- 42:07everybody face because you wanted to go to every group of people and go and
- 42:12see what's going on there, right. And then when people basically were hypocritical
- 42:15and then said no, this group of people, they don't have real issues,
- 42:20then I was like what right? But fortunately this is actually really weird.
- 42:24Teachers in my school and all of them, but some actually were very
- 42:28sympathetic to the points I brought up and thanked me for bringing that up.
- 42:34So it was like a very mixed bag, right, like for me personally,
- 42:37right, and the same thing for home. Right. Because I do
- 42:40actually agree with my mother most things like me and know men's issues, I
- 42:45can actually talk about that to all my families like my sister too, and
- 42:50my father like everybody, right, But I know I can't get through them
- 42:53to everything. I don't can't make them to agree on everything, so I
- 42:58can make me and my I actually could. Actually my mom actually got around
- 43:01to agree with me on Trump because the only reason she didn't like him was
- 43:06because she basically because of the thing is that, oh, you can get
- 43:09to do everything. You can ground him by the pussy didn't y Yeah,
- 43:13right, yeah. But then when I blamed to her that he said that
- 43:15there's a certain type of woman and if you have money to let you do
- 43:19everything, and she was like, but that's correct though, yes, And
- 43:22then she was like, I don't have a problem with Trump anymore because she
- 43:27didn't have the context before. You know. Yeah, well, I mean,
- 43:30I'm glad that your mother is open to to that new information, but
- 43:34that's that will never happen in my house. But but it's okay, Like
- 43:37I said, it's okay, you know, I have to just like let
- 43:42people be and hopefully they figure it out on their own at some point.
- 43:46That's kind of like my you know, my approach, I mean, if
- 43:51if because I mean I have friends too that you know, we we end
- 43:53up getting into debates and stuff, and I realized that sometimes, you know,
- 43:59people just want to believe what they believe and you just have to let
- 44:01them. But as long as we can stay friends or family and it's not
- 44:07disruptive, then it's okay. And that's kind of like what I think.
- 44:10For me, it boils down to. But I think in most cases,
- 44:14you know, even if we don't agree, we can certainly we still love
- 44:19each other. If that makes sense. You know, no, that that
- 44:21does make sense, yeah, because I do have a very perfect example of
- 44:25when you can get through your family when you don't. Like I can't get
- 44:30through to my mother about all the men's issues, and she agreed with me
- 44:32me and all those things, but for some reason, she really wants to
- 44:36keep the feminist label. And I know I probably won't make a change her
- 44:40mind on that. So there's no point in life even trying because it's not
- 44:44that important, you know, I'm saying, yeah, yeah, I mean
- 44:46I'm sure that if I you know, this is probably well, this is
- 44:52like the third Thanksgiving that I did not spend with my family because I've been
- 44:57living here in Virginia. But when I did, I would see everyone in
- 45:01the area, all the local aunts, uncles and cousins and nieces and nephews,
- 45:08And I think that if I was there now, I think there why
- 45:12there might be like one or two people you know of like my nieces or
- 45:16nephews that might be you know, more woke than they were because they've been
- 45:22going to college. That's what I would expect. But but if they're as
- 45:25rational as I knew them from before, then you know, if it has
- 45:30to become a discussion, then I'd be willing to have it. But I
- 45:34generally am not gonna be confrontational in that context because we're we're here for you
- 45:43know, we're here for family. That's what I think that family is very
- 45:46important, and that's Thanksgiving, Christmas, those are that's what those days are
- 45:52all about. Really. So yeah, like to me, I very I'm
- 45:57actually unusually good at persuading people that correct. Yeah, it's quite crazy,
- 46:05but that's because I never I'm never confrontational. I'm always basically like, very
- 46:08optimistic and very positive and acknowledging the other person is saying that that you that
- 46:15I can see where you're coming from, and I do agree on a lot
- 46:19of things, But here is where I think about this and that and that
- 46:23would just be obvious, and then I used to make it so that they
- 46:28cannot agree with me on the end, like it's it. I used very
- 46:32good at that for some reason, I don't know why, but that's just
- 46:36how I do it. So maybe are you a salesman? You should be
- 46:40No, no, no, but I did no, that's probably should because
- 46:45I was with a lot of emphasis. I don't know if I could.
- 46:47Oh, so you're kind of spurg Yeah, I'm definitely absolutely. I even't
- 46:53got a diagnosis. But when I did that, I also saw that I
- 46:57had an unusually high IQ, which is probably the reason why I convinced people
- 47:00very much. I'm scar I think that's probably why. So but my experience
- 47:07that you asked further, that you've been led to right exactly kind of weird
- 47:10because like, the reason why why I was mostly concerned about men's issues was
- 47:16because a teacher that I went to school with who actually even identified herself as
- 47:21a feminist, she actually said that she thought that boys have a harder time
- 47:27generally than girls. And but my other teacher, she basically also told me
- 47:31that who didn't was not familist at all. He was the main catalyst to
- 47:36explain to me that she actually think this made way worse for men in society
- 47:40than women in this discrimination after I suggested that the opposite was true, but
- 47:47that wasn't high school Like it just kind of crazy that I actually got that
- 47:52lucky, you know, like, that's insane if I think about it,
- 47:55if if I think back at it, it's crazy. Yeah. Yeah.
- 48:02But if I want to go back to like, and the image that you
- 48:07posted before is that if that guy you want to be claimed that you want
- 48:10to be confrontational, right, why would you want to be confrontational about your
- 48:16family members? Don't you like your family members? Like, don't you?
- 48:21Yeah? Well yeah, that's why I think. I mean, I wouldn't
- 48:24I would. I wouldn't go so far as to say that he wouldn't do
- 48:28this. But I think that this is the I think that we've the how
- 48:32do I put this? I think that people are being encouraged to confront their
- 48:37families about these kinds of topics, not because they actually, like you know,
- 48:44believe that this is a conversation worth having, but because they want to
- 48:49essentially virtue signal to their Internet friends. And they're and they're sort of like
- 48:54bubbles, you know, they're safe spaces, whatever you want to call it.
- 48:58So they want to say, look, people in this you know,
- 49:00at my college or on this reddit or whatever, I am a good person
- 49:06because I did this thing. And that's it. Like it's got nothing to
- 49:08do with anything of substance really, you know. I mean, it's just
- 49:14it's just about empty virtue signaling and it's a it's a shame because I think
- 49:21it's simping. I mean, that's it's what I think. Yeah, And
- 49:24I think it's it's to me because if I look at contress I've lived in.
- 49:28I've lived in several countries, including those countries that are in Sweden and
- 49:30South Africa, right, and it's the idea of confronting your family is considered
- 49:36to be a negative things in those countries. If you do that, that
- 49:37usually means that you're like a that you're like for better, or that you
- 49:43made your trouble maker and you shouldn't do that. That's considered to be oncool
- 49:46And that's that in these countries, doing that considered to be a bad thing.
- 49:52Right. So generally speaking, I'm not talking for everybody, but that's
- 49:55my experience. If you do that, you are why would you do that?
- 50:00That makes you bad? Like it's that's considered to be a bad thing.
- 50:04So that's why it's so alien to see people posting like that about in
- 50:09America. I'm like, have you no respect? Yeah? And that's why
- 50:15I'm thinking, is that when it comes to the only reason why you will
- 50:17meet up with family members you don't even get along with is because of some
- 50:22stupid idea of respect. Well, yeah, you're holding on to something,
- 50:28but I know maybe it's not. Maybe it's about intentionally disrespecting your family members
- 50:32saying now I'm gonna confront my bigoted parents over this thing. I mean,
- 50:37why would you assume that about your parents? You know what I'm saying?
- 50:42That usually means the parents probably didn't do that good of a parenting that way,
- 50:45because yes, exactly, because like if you're if the education citizens can
- 50:51turn you against your parents, what the fact did your parents do wrong?
- 50:54Me? I always wanted to to this is myself, my my parents and
- 50:59grow out and I to be with my friends and open parents because parents are
- 51:00borrowing. But when I went to school, I always trusted my parents about
- 51:06the fucking school Like that the teachers that could somehow wing me over if they
- 51:12disagree with my parents. That would be so fucking outlandish, Like that would
- 51:16never happen to me when I was a kid. And then when people say
- 51:20with kids want a distance and said, yeah, but they have a fucking
- 51:22foundation about where they were raised. Yeah, like yeah, like the parents
- 51:30must have done something wrong if the kids don't have that. Mm hmmm mm
- 51:36hmmm. No, I agree, Yeah, I mean they're Yes, I
- 51:38think parenting is a lost skill for some reason, and I think it was
- 51:44before my generation. I think it's all it goes back to probably the Boomers.
- 51:49I mean, I hate blaming the Boomers for everything is it's very popular,
- 51:52but even yeah, I know it's either that or the silent generation,
- 51:58which is the generation before that did like did a poor job, which I
- 52:01guess you could make that case, but I should. I should wrap up
- 52:08the show because I'm only going for an hour and it's time for me to
- 52:10have my Thanksgiving dinner, so I am going to do that. So like,
- 52:16well, do you have any final thoughts before I head back into the
- 52:21show channel Yeah, Like, I will basically say that the example give is
- 52:24someone believe that their parents that have kids for them to spoiling their whole life
- 52:30are now their enemies and they're so bigoted, like especially the dad, especially
- 52:35the girls. Thinking that's like it's it's very weird. It's a very weird
- 52:38thing because parents, because kids are all but no children are usually less confrontational
- 52:47towards their opposite sex parents in general and their same sex parent right so that
- 52:55anybody would do that basically just by going to it's a little bit. It
- 53:01seems like the parents are like most of sucked balls for something. It seemed
- 53:05terrible parents, like the fucking and also like why would why would you think
- 53:10that of your parents if you didn't think that for the first fucking twenty years
- 53:13of your life and now a sudden boom, your parents are terrible? What
- 53:17mm hmmm mm hmm. Yeah, I know, well, you know,
- 53:23I don't know a lot. There's a lot, there's a lot of problems
- 53:25in this world. But I am grateful for this audience, Lindsey Jojo my
- 53:34family. So I'm gonna, you know, make the most of that.
- 53:37But thank you Drew for coming on the show. I'm gonna head back into
- 53:42the show channel and wrap it up and have a good Thanksgiving. I know
- 53:45you don't celebrate it over there, but anyway, I have a good one
- 53:49regardless. Thank you you too. All right, so we are closing it
- 53:57out. Thanks guys, I don't have any more. Let me just make
- 54:01sure there's no super chats or anything. I don't think there is. So
- 54:09yeah, we're gonna wrap up the show. There are you guys doing anything
- 54:14for Thanksgiving? Let me know in the comments and if you you know,
- 54:20if it's not Thanksgiving where you are, just you know, what are you
- 54:22up to anyway? In general? So, but well, we got something
- 54:27going on today's Thursday, so tomorrow. I think Alison and Karen and I
- 54:30are doing something, but I don't know yet, so be on the lookout
- 54:35for that. This is just you know, brief content or today's show because
- 54:39Hannah is not available because Thanksgiving, so I am kind of filling in and
- 54:45I might I don't know for sure, but we my Lindsay and I my
- 54:49wife and I might be doing something later. I'll see if I can talk
- 54:52her into it, but but maybe not. So just be on the lookout
- 54:57on the gaming channel at Honey Badger Arcade. Hey, all right, all
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