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- 0:55I can't tell you how many times I've heard this sentence.
- 0:59I started magnesium and it worked for like a week, and then it just stopped.
- 1:04Or the upgraded version of this, which is I used to take 200 milligrams, now I'm up to 800, and if I miss a night, I don't go to the bathroom at all.
- 1:12And at some point it starts to feel like you're in a standoff with your body.
- 1:16We've all been there.
- 1:17You versus your colon.
- 1:19You've got your magnesium, you have this silent negotiation every evening, and when it stops working, those thoughts creep in.
- 1:27Maybe I'm just severely constipated.
- 1:30Maybe my body's just resistant.
- 1:32Maybe this is just how I am.
- 1:34But what I want you to hear before we go any further is you are not resistant to magnesium and your body can restore function to going to the bathroom.
- 1:45Magnesium is actually not failing you.
- 1:48What it's doing is reporting to you something that could be off.
- 1:53So you can think of magnesium like jumper cables for your car.
- 1:57The worst, right?
- 1:57All of a sudden your car won't start.
- 1:59If your battery's a little low, those jumper cables are gonna get it started.
- 2:04But if your alternator is failing, and I am not a car expert at all, so if I'm getting this wrong, then just forgive me.
- 2:11But hopefully you're getting the point.
- 2:13If your engine's not working perfectly, you could keep jumping your car, but it's not going to actually run right.
- 2:20So magnesium can help the exit, but it's not actually fixing the whole engine, and that's your whole digestive system.
- 2:28So if you're needing more and more and more magnesium to go, or it worked for a while and it doesn't now, that's the feedback that we wanna lean into to figure out.
- 2:39What the next step is.
- 2:40So that's what we're gonna talk about today.
- 2:42So first, let's zoom out because magnesium is not random and it's honestly not magic either.
- 2:48Although magnesium does fix a lot of problems, and it's also not just a poop supplement.
- 2:53Magnesium can help your bowels in some specific ways because it pulls water.
- 2:58To your colon, it supports smooth muscle relaxation and the intestines.
- 3:04It supports energy production, which is great, and it also helps your nervous system.
- 3:10Which is why a lot of people will feel more calm after they have magnesium, but your colon is a muscle.
- 3:16Your gut is a muscle.
- 3:17So just like any other muscle, you need water.
- 3:20You need electrolytes, you need energy, you need nerve signaling.
- 3:24A magnesium supports all four of those things, which is pretty amazing.
- 3:28That's why it actually can feel like a miracle at first.
- 3:31You take it, you wake up, you go to the bathroom.
- 3:34So magnesium can help this movement of stool.
- 3:38But again, it doesn't fix the engine.
- 3:40If it stops working, then we need to look upstream and downstream to see what that actually means.
- 3:47But first I wanna just clarify that not all forms of magnesium are the same.
- 3:52And they actually act different in the body.
- 3:55So some common forms of magnesium, and I actually have a whole episode on this that's way, way, way back.
- 4:01Magnesium citrate is more osmotic, meaning that it pulls water to the stool.
- 4:05It's often used for shorter term relief.
- 4:08Magnesium oxide is very poorly absorbed.
- 4:11It mostly works like a laxative.
- 4:13Magnesium glyconate is more calming.
- 4:16It's better for nervous system support for sleep, et cetera.
- 4:19We wouldn't necessarily use this if somebody was constipated.
- 4:23Magnesium maleate is actually more energizing, which might be surprising'cause we think of magnesium as calming.
- 4:29But magnesium melet actually supports energy production.
- 4:33Magnesium of three eight is more brain focus, so it can be great for focus and concentration, mental clarity.
- 4:41So if you are taking citrate or oxide and you're relying on that os.
- 4:47Pull alone, you're not necessarily correcting the reason that your motility slowed in the first place.
- 4:53Now, I'll be the first to say that sometimes you gotta use magnesium citrate, and we often use magnesium citrate in our clients who are very constipated.
- 5:01But the goal is not obviously to take this forever.
- 5:04So even if you're taking a highly absorbable form like glyconate, if the rest of your system isn't supported, it really can only do so much.
- 5:15So the next part is where it gets interesting.
- 5:18When someone tells me that magnesium worked and then it didn't, I don't immediately think you need more magnesium.
- 5:25I wanna look at their patterns.
- 5:27So on HTMA, which is hair tissue mineral analysis, this is one of our most favorite tests to run on clients.
- 5:33Magnesium is actually rarely low by itself.
- 5:36It's almost always a part of a bigger mineral picture.
- 5:40So some of the patterns that we see most often are.
- 5:43Low potassium and low sodium, along with a high magnesium loss, and this is probably the most common motility of the gut, requires contraction and relaxation.
- 5:55Potassium will drive that contraction, and magnesium will support that relaxation.
- 6:00So if potassium is low, the bowel can't generate a strong wave.
- 6:05You can relax a muscle all day, but if it can't contract, nothing moves.
- 6:10This is why someone increases magnesium.
- 6:13They feel looser, but still don't fully evacuate.
- 6:17I see this a lot in women who are eating clean, but undereating carbs, maybe drinking coffee instead of breakfast.
- 6:24They're working out really hard and they're sweating a lot.
- 6:27They're really stressed because they're quietly depleting minerals like sodium and potassium.
- 6:32So potassium drops, sodium drops, and so does motility, and you end up with really hard pebbly stool, not responsive to magnesium.
- 6:40Another pattern that we see along with magnesium losses or low magnesium is low boron.
- 6:47This one surprises people because boron is not.
- 6:50Talked about very much, but boron helps to regulate how magnesium is used and retained in the body.
- 6:55So if it's low, you can supplement magnesium but not utilize it effectively.
- 7:02So back to the car analogy.
- 7:03It's like filling a tank that has a leak, like it's just continuing to leak out.
- 7:08Another pattern that we see is really high calcium relative to magnesium.
- 7:13So when calcium runs high compared to magnesium, your tissues tend to be more rigid.
- 7:18Right.
- 7:19So interesting.
- 7:20Calcium, you think of bones, so if you have pain aches, et cetera.
- 7:24Sometimes if you look at an HTMA, it can be just so interesting.
- 7:29So you might have more tension, slower movement, more stress pattern, and magnesium can temporarily soften that pattern, but you have to address that calcium ratio.
- 7:39And then the last one is stress patterns, where sodium is very low compared to magnesium.
- 7:45This often reflects like low vitality, chronic stress, low metabolic output, slow bowels.
- 7:52Magnesium alone cannot override a system that's been running on low power mode.
- 7:57So if magnesium stops working.
- 8:01The thing to think about is it's not because you need a different dose or a different form, or you're resistant, especially if you've tried a lot of different things, it's because you need to look deeper at your minerals.
- 8:14Magnesium is just one instrument of the whole mineral orchestra.
- 8:18And so your gut motility or the contraction of muscles of your gut depends on your whole system.
- 8:25Things like sodium, potassium, calcium, boron, thyroid signaling, all the things.
- 8:32So if one section is off, the music will sound strained.
- 8:37And just increasing the volume on one instrument is not fixing the symphony.
- 8:42When magnesium stops working, then we can look upstream.
- 8:46So let's talk about five reasons that magnesium isn't working.
- 8:50So if magnesium helps the exit, but it's not fixing the engine, here are the five things that are going wrong.
- 9:00Number one is you are low in potassium.
- 9:03This sounds really simple, but this is one of the most common patterns that we see on testing.
- 9:10Magnesium and potassium work so well together.
- 9:14They need each other.
- 9:15They're like peanut butter and jelly peristalsis are that movement of the gut muscles, that wave like motion that moves stool forward.
- 9:23Is literally a coordinated contraction and relaxation pattern.
- 9:27So if potassium is low, you're not gonna get that contraction.
- 9:31And it's like trying to row a boat with like one ore, you're gonna go in circles.
- 9:36So potassium, is one of those minerals that is most frequently low on testing, especially in the women that we see who are stressed, who have a history of undereating, who sweat a lot, who have been dieting.
- 9:50Who drink a lot of coffee because they're so tired.
- 9:53I was just on a call with someone today and she said, I'm not like the, I just need a nap.
- 9:58Kind of tired.
- 9:58I'm like, bone tired, and I'm like, yes, I get it when you are so depleted.
- 10:05That's what it feels like.
- 10:06Like you just feel heavy, like you're falling asleep, standing up.
- 10:09You also deplete a lot of potassium when you're really sick or you have been sick.
- 10:14So an easy first step for you is to increase potassium through food.
- 10:18So think about some of these foods which might surprise you.
- 10:21Potatoes, yes, eat potatoes, white and sweet squash, coconut water, beans, fruit, dairy.
- 10:28Try to eat some of those foods.
- 10:29This is.
- 10:31Part of what we call the mineral symphony, like I was referring to earlier, magnesium needs its friend potassium.
- 10:38Okay.
- 10:39Number two is your bile flow is sluggish when you're not getting adequate bile flow from your liver and gallbladder.
- 10:47This can equal dry stool and magnesium cannot fix dry stool that is caused by poor digestion.
- 10:54Bile does more than just digest fats.
- 10:56It lubricates your stool.
- 10:58It stimulates motility.
- 11:00It signals the colon to move.
- 11:02If bile is.
- 11:03Thick or sluggish stool will become hard, maybe pale, floating, difficult to pass.
- 11:09Some people notice that they get symptoms after fatty meals or that right sided fullness under the ribs.
- 11:16Some will feel more bloated as the day goes on.
- 11:19But the key to think here is stomach acid is needed to trigger bile release meal hygiene.
- 11:25How you eat, how you chew.
- 11:27Slowing down matters.
- 11:30So if you're eating too quickly, you're eating while you're stressed, snacking constantly under eating protein, you're not signaling that proper.
- 11:38Digestive flow.
- 11:40So magnesium cannot override this, and that's exactly why.
- 11:44Next week on the podcast, we're gonna talk about four different types of bloating because bile related bloating is one of them and it's very real.
- 11:52Number three, this one is huge, and the one where people tend to glaze over.
- 11:56So please don't glaze over.
- 11:58Your nervous system is in survival mode.
- 12:01You can do everything right with food and supplements and still feel stuck if your nervous system is in survival mode.
- 12:08When your body perceives stress, whether it's emotional stress over exercise, undereating your job, or internal inflammation from gut infections or imbalances.
- 12:21It shifts into a different state, and digestion is not essential for immediate survival.
- 12:27So what happens?
- 12:28It slows down digestion.
- 12:30Stomach acid decreases bile flow slows, motility, slows blood flow shifts away from your gut.
- 12:37A nervous system on high alert literally turns down digestion, so magnesium might relax you and support your nervous system.
- 12:46And I do believe that minerals help your nervous system to be more regulated, but it cannot override chronic stress signaling.
- 12:54It cannot override that you don't regulate your nervous system throughout the day that you're running on fumes, living in fight or flight.
- 13:01You really cannot supplement your way out of this.
- 13:04They can go together.
- 13:06And also nervous system foundations are not optional when it comes to gut healing.
- 13:11They are essential.
- 13:12This is why we have nervous system coaching in our program.
- 13:15I just believe in it so much, and that is a difference between clients who see.
- 13:20Really quick success and clients who don't.
- 13:23A lot of times number four is maybe you actually have incomplete evacuation.
- 13:29This is such an aha moment for people.
- 13:31You can actually go to the bathroom every day and still be constipated.
- 13:34Did you know that?
- 13:35Did.
- 13:36I had a client who told me that she went to the bathroom every morning, 7:00 AM clockwork, but she sat there for 20 minutes and strained, and by 3:00 PM she was bloated by 9:00 PM She was uncomfortable.
- 13:49She didn't need more magnesium.
- 13:51She actually had pelvic floor.
- 13:54Issues that slowed her transit.
- 13:56Once we addressed, and by we, I mean, once she saw a pelvic floor PT to address that, and we as a team addressed her upstream digestion, she actually was able to cut her magnesium in half within wheat.
- 14:11So if you go to the bathroom but you don't feel empty or you sit there for a long time or you feel like there's more that won't come out, or you rely on stimulation to go, you actually might be more constipated or have incomplete evacuation.
- 14:25So that can be slow transit, pelvic floor dysfunction, poor coordination between abdominal pressure and relaxation.
- 14:33This can be from food poisoning.
- 14:34All sorts of things.
- 14:36So magnesium doesn't necessarily fix those things, and a lot of times if you keep increasing magnesium, eventually you're gonna swing the pendulum the other way and get diarrhea, but you could still be constipated.
- 14:49So dosing at magnesium is not the same as restoring proper.
- 14:53Bowel mechanics sometimes we also have to support toilet posture, breathing mechanics, abdominal pressure, pelvic floor relaxation.
- 15:03You don't wanna just in keep increasing magnesium forever.
- 15:06you wanna support how your body's actually emptying.
- 15:09And sometimes you don't know that if you constantly have diarrhea.
- 15:13Okay.
- 15:14Last one here is number five.
- 15:16You're using magnesium instead of fixing the foundations, and this is a big one.
- 15:20Also kind of like the nervous system.
- 15:22One that it's easy to glaze over, but magnesium is a tool, not necessarily the solution.
- 15:29If your stomach acid is low, your protein intake is low.
- 15:33Your thyroid signaling, this is a big one.
- 15:35Get your thyroid checked if you are undereating, chronically stressed, not sleeping, motility.
- 15:41It's gonna be hard to normalize this long term.
- 15:44So this does not mean that you can't use magnesium.
- 15:46It can be so supportive, but you also need to work on the foundations.
- 15:51And then one thing that I always stress to our clients is you can use magnesium supplementally when your life is not as routine.
- 15:59Your traveling high stress weeks, big schedule shifts while maybe in the healing process, you're using it every single day to help support you.
- 16:10Eventually you might not need that, but you might need it when life seasons change or you're traveling or whatever.
- 16:18That's really smart and Intune support.
- 16:20The issue is when magnesium becomes the only strategy, when your system works, magnesium actually works better, and when the system is under functioning, no amount of magnesium is going to fix it.
- 16:35Okay.
- 16:35Quick pause because this is so fun.
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- 17:57Okay, let's get back to the episode.
- 17:59So what actually fixes constipation long term, if magnesium helps the exit and potassium, bile, nervous system, foundations, motility, all of those things matter.
- 18:11Then what actually restores movement of the gut long term?
- 18:16The shift here is that constipation is rarely just a colon problem.
- 18:21It's usually a top-down digestion problem.
- 18:24So let's walk through how the body is supposed to move.
- 18:27Food and waste naturally.
- 18:29Step number one, your digestion has to start strong.
- 18:32So motility begins with your mouth.
- 18:34Chewing saliva, the smell of food, parasympathetic, parasympathetic.
- 18:38Activation then stomach acid.
- 18:41Stomach acid is not just for breaking down protein.
- 18:44It's the first domino of all the dominoes.
- 18:47A lot of times we're trying to tip over the last domino by changing our diet or probiotics, but we need all the dominoes to tip over.
- 18:54And stomach acid can be one of those first ones because strong stomach acid helps you to break down food more efficiently.
- 19:00It signals bile release, it signals pancreatic enzymes.
- 19:04It kills pathogens, it prevents excess fermentation.
- 19:08So if the top of digestion is weak, then everything below compensates, you don't wanna send half cooked food down the assembly line, right?
- 19:17The rest of the system slows down to deal with the mess.
- 19:21Magnesium cannot fix poorly digested food if food isn't broken down properly, motility will always struggle.
- 19:28Step number two, bile has to flow.
- 19:29We already talked about this, but after stomach acid comes bile.
- 19:34Bile is the oil in the engine.
- 19:35Without oil, the parts are gonna grind.
- 19:37Stool will dry out.
- 19:38You cannot bypass the step.
- 19:40Even if you don't have a gallbladder, you still have bile flow, and this is even more important to focus on.
- 19:46Step number three, the microbiome has to support movement.
- 19:49This is where people get surprised because certain bacteria produce short chain fatty acids like butyrate and butyrate stimulates motility.
- 19:58Certain microbes support serotonin production in the gut.
- 20:02Serotonin actually helps with gut motility in peristalsis.
- 20:06So if you have been on a restricted diet forever.
- 20:10Your beneficial bacteria are depleted if there's chronic infections like SIBO or dys bacterial overgrowth.
- 20:17If methane producing bacteria are present, your movement will slow and magnesium cannot override a microbiome that is just signaling slow down.
- 20:28So this is why killing bacteria without restoring beneficial bacteria doesn't always fix the problem.
- 20:34You always have to focus on repair and restore.
- 20:38And then step number four, minerals that power the electrical system.
- 20:42So if we layer in minerals on top of this, the colon is gonna run on electrical signal signaling.
- 20:48If digestion is weak and minerals aren't absorbed well, that signal weakens.
- 20:54We cannot run our house on low voltage.
- 20:56The lights won't work.
- 20:57They will flicker.
- 20:59And so movement will become inconsistent.
- 21:02We have to balance our minerals.
- 21:04We have to support all of them instead of megadosing one mineral.
- 21:09And then the last part is the nervous system has to allow it.
- 21:12You can have perfect digestion on paper, but if your body feels state unsafe, it will not prioritize elimination.
- 21:19The colon is not essential, which sounds so weird, but it is not essential for immediate survival.
- 21:25If your body perceives a threat, it's going to conserve.
- 21:28So you have to create safety.
- 21:30This is why travel constipates people, big life stressors, constipates people, or the opposite or restriction constipates people burnout.
- 21:38You have to create safety.
- 21:40So here's the reframe, long-term bowel regularity.
- 21:44Isn't about taking more magnesium.
- 21:47This is where food variety comes in, making sure it's broken down well, making sure enzymes, bile, et cetera, are all working.
- 21:55That you have the right microbes in your gut, that you have the right minerals to support your electrical system and that your nervous system will allow it.
- 22:04That's how the body works.
- 22:05That's the rhythm.
- 22:06And magnesium really works beautifully in a system that has that rhythm and struggles in a system that's been overcompensating.
- 22:14So if it stopped working, if magnesium stopped working, it's not your body just being stubborn.
- 22:21Pointing to something else that needs to be addressed.
- 22:25So it's a good time to check out what that check engine light means.
- 22:31We're not gonna just keep topping off the oil, resetting your dashboard hoping that it resolves.
- 22:36You can actually open up the hood and see what's going on.
- 22:40So that's exactly what we do in gut together.
- 22:43This is not just a generic protocol.
- 22:46This is not a try the supplement and see.
- 22:49Got Together is a one-on-one personalized program for individuals like you that have gut issues where we're gonna look at all these pieces of the puzzle using functional testing.
- 23:00Using specific protocols and providing you the tools and resources that you need to be successful so that you can overcome this once or once and for all.
- 23:09So if you wanna apply for Gut together, the link is in the show notes.
- 23:13We will review your application, look at your history, make sure that it's the right fit for you and.
- 23:20You need a system that works.
- 23:21Next week I'm gonna break down the four types of bloating, and I'm excited about that episode.
- 23:27So I will see you there.
- 23:28And congrats again to Stacy for winning the Loom Box.
- 23:33But thanks for tuning in.
- 23:35Looking forward to next week.
- 23:37See you then.