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Success Doesn't Come From Saying Yes Kim Alexis Hosts Unexpired · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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Speaker 1: Enjoy your exploration. Hello, and good morning, party people. You're awake, Oh,
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Speaker 1: listen to him, Kim, too awake, too awake. That's what
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Speaker 1: happens when you get up at five thirty in the morning. Dude,
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Speaker 1: you gotta get up at five thirty. Make up at five.
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Speaker 1: I was up at five, but I don't feel like you.
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Speaker 1: All right, listen, listen, you got eighteen minutes. Take it away, Kim.
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Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, I'm very proud of you with
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Speaker 1: the way that you really do share a conversation with
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Speaker 1: everybody on this It just blows me away. How you
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Speaker 1: have mastered the art of listening and I can hear that,
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Speaker 1: I can experience it, and it's like, now, teach me,
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Speaker 1: how are you doing this? Where did you learn this
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Speaker 1: trick along the way?
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Speaker 2: Well, I don't have short clips like you guys do
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Speaker 2: on the radio. It's a little bit of a different ballgame.
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Speaker 2: So I know I've got an hour with people, and
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Speaker 2: I really can take that time to say, take me
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Speaker 2: back to when you were young, Like, were you thinking
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Speaker 2: about doing this when you were like five ten? I mean,
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Speaker 2: I know I wasn't as a model. I didn't want
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Speaker 2: a model. I thought it was going to be a pharmacist.
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Speaker 2: So everybody, Yeah, everyone's got these great stories though, and
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Speaker 2: I always am fascinated with how they get from A
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Speaker 2: to B and then B all of a sudden falls away.
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Speaker 2: Well then what do you do? How do you get
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Speaker 2: to see and how do you keep moving on and
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Speaker 2: what keeps you relevant and what's that passion to keep
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Speaker 2: moving forward and contributing and giving back. And so that's
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Speaker 2: what's fun about this show Unexpired. It celebrates the each
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Speaker 2: person that I have on, but it also helps the
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Speaker 2: audience either be inspired or encouraged or maybe learn a lesson.
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Speaker 2: Like Brett Saberhiggins said, Hey, if you want to, you
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Speaker 2: gotta get out and you gotta do the hard work.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, your conversation with Brett, I mean we're
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Speaker 1: I mean, in my heart, he's so huge because I
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Speaker 1: mean the Kansas City Royals were our big team for
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Speaker 1: the Billings Mustangs, and so when they would come to town,
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Speaker 1: those Royals and he was part of that. You have
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Speaker 1: no idea what hearing his voice, It's like waking up
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Speaker 1: and all of a sudden one of your sports gods
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Speaker 1: is right there and you're talking to him.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, And he's a friend of mine, and but
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Speaker 2: you can you know, and when they're friends, it's one thing,
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Speaker 2: but you can see that intensity sometimes in the other
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Speaker 2: and we all have it. It's that drive to like
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Speaker 2: get up and oh you're not getting the best of me.
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Speaker 2: I also have on the show Dan Jansen, who's the
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Speaker 2: old guy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, And his story is amazing.
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Speaker 2: I mean, as we all know that he fell so
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Speaker 2: many times, and he's got two events in his last Olympics.
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Speaker 2: He's doing his favorite event he falls in and then
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Speaker 2: the next one he somehow it wasn't his best event.
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Speaker 2: He picked himself back up, got the gold and broke
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Speaker 2: the records, a world record, I think.
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Speaker 1: But you know what, that's the part of the story
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Speaker 1: that I've always wanted to tap into, and I think
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Speaker 1: that becoming a martial artist a third degree black belt,
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Speaker 1: helped me understand it more because you face a lot
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Speaker 1: more defeats than victories. I do feel inspired by Dan
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Speaker 1: Jansen exactly how you presented Unexpired because those moments, how
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Speaker 1: many people today would walk away, Ah, all right, I
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Speaker 1: did it whatever, I'm God No, get back in that
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Speaker 1: game and get on that horse and ride it.
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Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, I love that. I love And there's so
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Speaker 2: many of these great stories with people that's like, you
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Speaker 2: know what, it might have knocked me down or I
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Speaker 2: didn't plan on that injury or whatever it was, and
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Speaker 2: then they make themselves into something else and bigger and better.
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Speaker 2: It's still a part of it, but they find that
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Speaker 2: that change means strength. That's what the podcast is about.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, And what's so cool about this, Kim, is that
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Speaker 1: is like, you know, how many times have our parents
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Speaker 1: told us what to do? Do this, do this, do this,
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Speaker 1: do this, But when you listen to Unexpired, you're not
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Speaker 1: telling us what to do. Your guiding us. And that's
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Speaker 1: that to me, is the connection of this podcast is
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Speaker 1: that you're acting as the guide.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it's so much fun to even so, I
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Speaker 2: had a chef on yesterday and I said, so, what
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Speaker 2: was your biggest blooper? Yeah, hey, hey, your last meal?
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Speaker 2: Pretty much. He's like, You're as good as your last meal.
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Speaker 2: So it's everybody's got different things to prove or do,
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Speaker 2: and some people thrive on it, like Bo in the
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Speaker 2: Kitchen thrives on all these orders, putting out one hundred
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Speaker 2: and fifty plates or whatever it was, And I'm like, wait,
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Speaker 2: what that would just tress most people out I know.
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Speaker 1: Oh, but see there is something very inspirational in that
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Speaker 1: because I always say, and I'm going to bring up
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Speaker 1: a football name that a lot of people they like
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Speaker 1: it or don't, But I always picture myself as being
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Speaker 1: Cam Newton because of the way that Cam would be
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Speaker 1: there with all those players around him. Somehow, some way
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Speaker 1: he got that ball in the right place. Tom Brady
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Speaker 1: the same way. And it's like, who teaches this? Your
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Speaker 1: podcast does because you talk to every walk of life.
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean we're still getting some new categories,
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Speaker 2: but I just love it's you know, it's comedians and
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Speaker 2: it's some of the big musicians. The guy from Chicago
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Speaker 2: is a friend of mine, Jason Chef. Yep, he's on
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Speaker 2: I've Got Bruce from Ario Speedwagon Bruce Hall. So it's fun.
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Speaker 2: Now they might have stayed in the same business, but
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Speaker 2: they still had to grow with the business. They still
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Speaker 2: had to.
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Speaker 1: See And Jason Chef is that type of person because
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Speaker 1: he and I have shared many conversations together before Chicago,
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Speaker 1: which Cargo. Now that he's working with the guys of
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Speaker 1: Rascal Flats, he understands that the platform endlessly changes, and
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Speaker 1: you really do put a lot of focus on that
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Speaker 1: with every one of your guests. It's like, when it changes,
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Speaker 1: how are you going to continue growing forward? Because you
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Speaker 1: can't turn off creativity.
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Speaker 2: Right right, And sometimes it's so much preparation and this
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Speaker 2: hard work where nobody sees you and then things fall
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Speaker 2: in your lap. And other times you have to go
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Speaker 2: for it and you have to kind of scratch and
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Speaker 2: claw your way in and really put in time or
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Speaker 2: effort in that one area. It's just it's interesting how
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Speaker 2: so many different people can be successful in so many
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Speaker 2: different ways.
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Speaker 1: How many of those people sat down with you and
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Speaker 1: openly talked about that they keep journals because I mean,
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Speaker 1: if we don't have breadcrumbs on this path, how do
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Speaker 1: we expect to make it back and do it better
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Speaker 1: the next time?
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Speaker 2: I don't know, I've not asked that question, like do
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Speaker 2: you write in a journal? Lot of guys you well,
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Speaker 2: you must. I do.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, since July of nineteen ninety four. That is everything.
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Speaker 1: That's my legacy. All of that writing, as crappy as
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Speaker 1: it might be, doesn't matter. It was my moment of now.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. And so do you have like books and
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Speaker 2: books and books in the library of all your old journals.
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Speaker 1: It's so funny that you say that, because I just
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Speaker 1: had this conversation with my wife and I go, I've
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Speaker 1: got thirty two years of writing, and you would think
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Speaker 1: that it would take up an entire library. Thirty two
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Speaker 1: years is not that much, it really, And when you
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Speaker 1: do it every day and you look at how many
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Speaker 1: journals I've got, it's not that much. And you get
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Speaker 1: a new perspective on life itself that we're sitting here going,
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Speaker 1: oh my god, ten more years to do this. It's
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Speaker 1: not that much. Just go for it. Make it happen.
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Speaker 2: Somebody said something very interesting. You know when you see
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Speaker 2: tombstones and it's got your year of your birth, Yeah,
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Speaker 2: and then there's a dash, and then that's the year
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Speaker 2: of your death. That dash is what you're writing about.
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Speaker 1: Ah. God, that touched me. Oh my god, that's that
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Speaker 1: is so true. That, oh my god.
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Speaker 2: And if we don't even fill that part in except
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Speaker 2: here lies a beautiful mother and her husband and loving father.
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Speaker 2: I mean, that's about it.
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Speaker 1: Miss k. What you're doing here is you're helping out
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Speaker 1: so many of us on this side of the speakers
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Speaker 1: because our parents didn't take notes, they didn't write a book,
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Speaker 1: they didn't tell us their real history. It was based
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Speaker 1: upon this truth, the story that a sister may have
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Speaker 1: told or a cousin. And it's like, you're giving us
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Speaker 1: that opportunity to see these people as they are, but
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Speaker 1: in their own personal life. My god, their family members
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Speaker 1: can say I didn't ever get this out of a sigh.
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Speaker 1: Young winner, Come on, he was telling the truth.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and he was kind of he said mediocre
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Speaker 2: when he was in either junior or senior, right, And
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Speaker 2: mom said, if you want to be good, you gotta
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Speaker 2: work harder. And he did.
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Speaker 1: I mean, God, bless moms because I'm telling you what,
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Speaker 1: they show up when you need them most. Because my
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Speaker 1: mother stood behind me with this radio career, going what
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Speaker 1: are you doing. Well, I'm having a tough time, so
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Speaker 1: what are you doing? And she just wouldn't.
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Speaker 2: Stop, right right, that's wonderful. I think I have three
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Speaker 2: sons and I can't see doing that to them. It
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Speaker 2: was stressing out. Yeah, it's that's different. And as a mother,
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Speaker 2: you know how to talk to your son what they need.
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Speaker 1: Please don't move. There's more with Kim Alexis coming up
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Speaker 1: next the name of her unbelievable podcast Unexpired. We are
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Speaker 1: back with Kim Alexis. So, then, when you stepped into
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Speaker 1: the world of podcasting, because when you're doing it as
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Speaker 1: hardcore as you are, that means you're living the life
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Speaker 1: of a podcaster. You understand the dedication, loyalty, perseverance, but
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Speaker 1: the time as well. How are you able to place
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Speaker 1: that on your path in order to get these stories
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Speaker 1: because you're getting amazing journeys here.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I have spent so many years doing celebrity
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Speaker 2: charity events, a lot of them golf events that I've
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Speaker 2: met all these people, they're friends of mine. And so
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Speaker 2: without even knowing if the podcast was going to be successful,
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Speaker 2: I started taping three months ago. I've got twenty three
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Speaker 2: interview or my belt and people said yes because I asked,
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Speaker 2: that's it. Like Patrick Orburton from Seinfeld Puddy. I mean
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Speaker 2: he just said, Kim, I don't don't for anyone else,
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Speaker 2: but I'll do it.
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Speaker 1: Don't you love it?
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Speaker 2: Though?
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Speaker 1: When people from the outside of the world that don't
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Speaker 1: understand what you do, Kim, they'll go, so where do
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Speaker 1: you get these interviews? What's happening? And your only answer
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Speaker 1: is you know, I listen. You know there's not much
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Speaker 1: to it. I mean it really, I mean, it's just
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Speaker 1: people will share their story if you just open the door.
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Speaker 2: Yes, now what I like, I've been interviewed by so
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Speaker 2: many people and they have no idea what my bio is.
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Speaker 2: So they're like, so, tell me about yourself. What do
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Speaker 2: you want to talk about? And I'm like no, So
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Speaker 2: I study the history of who I'm dealing with, because
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Speaker 2: I'm like, no, don't you just jumped ahead fifty years
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Speaker 2: take me back here in high school? You did this
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Speaker 2: or you said that, or this happened. And because I
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Speaker 2: think it's important to really spend the time to understand
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Speaker 2: who you're talking to, and you're trying to get out
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Speaker 2: these great stories and so understanding some of their accomplishments,
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Speaker 2: it's like, well, how did you get there from here?
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Speaker 2: You were an actor and all of a sudden, now
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Speaker 2: you're writing, and so there's these great pivot. But if
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Speaker 2: you don't understand the person, if you don't take the
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Speaker 2: time to really listen to or read their bio, you're
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Speaker 2: not going to pull out the same interview.
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Speaker 1: Well, you're so spot on with that. And then one
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Speaker 1: of the toughest things that you have to deal with
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Speaker 1: is working with family members who might not understand that
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Speaker 1: this is mom's time to do her research. She's got
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Speaker 1: show prep to do, and she's got to have her
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Speaker 1: game on before she even steps up to that microphone.
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Speaker 1: How do you protect that private time because it does
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Speaker 1: take time to do the research, But my god, the payoff.
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Speaker 1: You can't explain the payoff?
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Speaker 2: Right. Well, I am sixty five now, so I have
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Speaker 2: no active children living at home. I am now a grandmother,
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Speaker 2: but they they don't live close to me. So I've
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Speaker 2: got the whole house and it's just the dog. I
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Speaker 2: have to walk the dog in the morning. That's about it.
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Speaker 2: And other than that, I can pretty much do what
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Speaker 2: I want. But I'm telling you, if I didn't have
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Speaker 2: my husband behind the scenes. He came from the land
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Speaker 2: development business, and he has taken this project on like
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Speaker 2: it's another piece of property that he's got to develop.
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Speaker 2: And then there's so many pieces. He's so good at it,
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Speaker 2: he's amazing it is.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you've got to develop it. It is
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Speaker 1: a piece of property. And what your foundation is going
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Speaker 1: to be, Kim, It's going to last longer than you
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Speaker 1: because it's out there in the digital world and people
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Speaker 1: are you know, fifty years from now, we're going to
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Speaker 1: come back saying you're not going to believe what I
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Speaker 1: just heard on Kim's podcast. Oh my god, you should
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Speaker 1: have heard what they said about this person. And I mean,
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Speaker 1: it's because you are building a platform here that is
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Speaker 1: a foundation.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. I also have in the middle
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Speaker 2: of interviews people saying, oh my gosh, I've never told
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Speaker 2: that story rights that's a compliment to us in the business.
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Speaker 1: Or if I can get them to cuss, and I
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Speaker 1: don't mean to do that, but they'll they'll drop an
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Speaker 1: F bomb and I'm going, oh my god, you dropped
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Speaker 1: your guard that much where you felt like you could cuss,
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Speaker 1: and it's like, thank God I'm here because it's a moment.
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Well it's the passion. Yeah, and it's tapped
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Speaker 2: into their passion and what makes them tech and what
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Speaker 2: drives them and what irritates them. I mean, we have
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Speaker 2: things that irritate us too, don't we One of.
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Speaker 1: The things, well, okay, we do, because if I see
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Speaker 1: somebody who's not grounded, that'll irritate me. But you cover
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Speaker 1: that inside your podcast. You say that you know the
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Speaker 1: physical act of staying grounded. We've got people around us
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Speaker 1: at all times, and you know what, there's a big
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Speaker 1: chance we're all playing for the same stage. We just
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Speaker 1: don't talk about it.
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, it's just it's been a wonderful journey
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Speaker 2: so far. And I look, I'm so excited looking forward
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Speaker 2: to what's coming and who's going to be on. And
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Speaker 2: I hope they people start throwing themselves at me saying
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Speaker 2: I want to be on. I want to be on.
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Speaker 1: When people start looking your way to help share their story.
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Speaker 1: I mean, it's Michael app that'll sit there and he's
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Speaker 1: trying to I think he's created this thing called legacy
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Speaker 1: because he knows that people have got to talk. When
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Speaker 1: you're in there as the host, what is it that
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Speaker 1: you bring forward that drops their guard? In other words,
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Speaker 1: where you're able to get that story.
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Speaker 2: I share some of my own. I'm vulnerable, and when
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Speaker 2: you're vulnerable yourself, or when you've been through something like
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Speaker 2: Kathy Ireland right now is going through big betrayal with
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Speaker 2: her past managers and stealing all money. Right, so I said, yeah,
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Speaker 2: how about being betrayed by an ex husband. So it's
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Speaker 2: just it then allows them to open up like, oh
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Speaker 2: well yeah, I can top that one, which I love.
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Speaker 1: But see, don't you see that as fuel though? Because
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Speaker 1: I mean it's like like when I'm doing my daily journals,
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Speaker 1: if I feel like I'm in that mindset where it's
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Speaker 1: being negative, I go, okay, turn it in a fuel. Okay,
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Speaker 1: you already spoke your piece. Move on, let's let's let's
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Speaker 1: turn this into a positive now.
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Speaker 2: Yes, And that's a wonderful way to think. And that's
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Speaker 2: how I live. My life is looking around like I
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Speaker 2: didn't get much sleep last night, but it's like, oh,
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Speaker 2: the point landed. But but I'm in a great hotel.
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Speaker 2: You just have to you know, I feel good and
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Speaker 2: you just have to tap into all the things that
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Speaker 2: are good instead of focusing on the negative.
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Speaker 1: Do you jump into a subject with all of your guests?
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Speaker 1: And by the way, your guests are endless. I love them,
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Speaker 1: and I just wonder though, that when when they are
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Speaker 1: in that moment of where they've reached everything that they
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Speaker 1: planned for and expected, what do we do in those
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Speaker 1: moments of what I call post production blues because that's
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Speaker 1: a part of the entertainment industry or what we do
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Speaker 1: in everyday life that people don't understand. It's like, well,
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Speaker 1: he's got to go be by himself. Well why mom,
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Speaker 1: why got to go be by himself? Nobody ever talks
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Speaker 1: about that. It's post production blues. We've got to work together.
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Speaker 1: I'm being together.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yes, being together is so important. So I
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Speaker 2: think a lot of athletes, especially that have had these
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Speaker 2: careers and it was either it was their retirement, was
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Speaker 2: one small hit, you know that was an injury, or
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Speaker 2: it was them deciding, oh I'm getting older and I'm
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Speaker 2: going to fade out. But what's interesting is that they
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Speaker 2: give back. So they're in charity events, so and they're
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Speaker 2: helping other people less fortunate, and they're out socializing and
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Speaker 2: when the golf tournaments they can compete with each other.
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Speaker 2: And I thought, what's I had to look and self
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Speaker 2: analyze what's wrong with me? And I'm like, oh, even
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Speaker 2: though I was grew up swimming, but I didn't have
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Speaker 2: this for golf. This thing about okay, we need this shot.
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Speaker 2: If you do that pressure drove me nuts. Right, I'm like,
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do worse. Don't say that. But these athletes
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Speaker 2: thrive on the competition still, and they're able to do
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Speaker 2: these golf tournaments that are for charities, and they're able
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Speaker 2: to be celebrated for what they did, but also be
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Speaker 2: able to give back and give to these different charities
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Speaker 2: that need it. I just came from Saint Jude's and
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Speaker 2: it was a wonderful thing. It was just amazing.
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Speaker 1: My martial artist instructor, my Sabanim, used to tell me
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Speaker 1: all the time, I need you to go stand on
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Speaker 1: the side of the floor, and I go, I want
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Speaker 1: to be in the fight. I want to be in
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Speaker 1: the fight. No. No, So now I have to ask
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Speaker 1: you the question that he always asks me. Are you
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Speaker 1: learning on the floor or right now because of your podcast,
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Speaker 1: you're on the side of the mat. Are you learning
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Speaker 1: more being on the sidelines than you were being in
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Speaker 1: the game.
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Speaker 2: I think it's a very good question, but I think
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Speaker 2: it's just a different perspective, so I'm able to step back.
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Speaker 2: Sometimes when you're not in the middle of something, you
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Speaker 2: can see things more clearly. And sometimes when you're in
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Speaker 2: the middle of things, you have to wait till the
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Speaker 2: dust settles before you oh, okay, well I'm gonna be fine, right,
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Speaker 2: But we all have I think what people need to
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Speaker 2: also realize is that you could have the biggest name
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Speaker 2: that I interview, but we all have struggles. We all
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Speaker 2: have things that we have to overcome, we have to
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Speaker 2: deal with, whether it's our health, whether it's our mindset,
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Speaker 2: whether it's our physical whether it's whatever it is. We've
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Speaker 2: all got these gifts, we've got these talents, and then
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Speaker 2: it also brings challenges.
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Speaker 1: Wow, Kim, you got to come back to this show
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Speaker 1: anytime in the future. We are just barely scratching the
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Speaker 1: surface because you are right there with the needle in
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Speaker 1: the haystack. You found it. You want to get the
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Speaker 1: story out, and that's exactly what you're doing Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so nice to celebrate other people's lives and
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Speaker 2: it's just so much fun. And they tell these great
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Speaker 2: stories and every single one I'm like, Wow.
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Speaker 1: Will you be brilliant today?
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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, you too,