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The One About I'm Not Happy & I'm Not Paying For It · Untraditionally Lala

• 0:06
  Speaker 1: Guys, we're recording on a Friday, and you know what
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: that means.
• 0:11
  Speaker 2: It's Friday, Friday.
• 0:15
  Speaker 3: Down on Friday.
• 0:17
  Speaker 1: Everybody's looking forward to the weekend.
• 0:21
  Speaker 4: Fun part.
• 0:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we got close, get close?
• 0:30
  Speaker 2: Is it party and party and yeah? Or party and
• 0:33
  Speaker 2: party and fun? Fun fun?
• 0:37
  Speaker 1: Remember she just repeated and she had like a grill
• 0:40
  Speaker 1: full of braces. Fun fun, fun fun.
• 0:44
  Speaker 3: She's like an amazing singer and performer. Now you guys
• 0:46
  Speaker 3: know that, right, Rebecca Black.
• 0:47
  Speaker 1: Wow, I just learned something that she's a.
• 0:49
  Speaker 3: Bad bitch too.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 3: I saw her at that party.
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  Speaker 6: You took me to a lot at Tom Tom last year,
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  Speaker 6: the one for Euphoria.
• 0:55
  Speaker 1: Rebecca Black was parting.
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  Speaker 6: She was there and she I was like, who was
• 1:00
  Speaker 6: that hot chick? And it was Rebecca Black, Rebecca.
• 1:04
  Speaker 1: The front door. Yeah, you know she is pretty fine.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 6: No, she's like with her big dough eyes's.
• 1:12
  Speaker 1: And she's kidding. Jessica, you're on a roll today. She
• 1:19
  Speaker 1: may not have had braces. I think I made that
• 1:21
  Speaker 1: up in the Friday music video. Today's a very special day.
• 1:24
  Speaker 1: It's one that really Lisa Burningham, my mother, you were
• 1:29
  Speaker 1: harder to get in touch with it.
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  Speaker 4: Than the president, Well, I feel very welcome today.
• 1:35
  Speaker 3: You're hard to book the fact that your hair is incredible.
• 1:38
  Speaker 4: I know it's kind of a fluke because after yesterday,
• 1:41
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: That she thought she was going to go back to Utah.
• 1:46
  Speaker 1: We had a very rough day.
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  Speaker 3: Can we hear about it?
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  Speaker 1: We were at each other's throats. It caught a little dark,
• 1:53
  Speaker 1: very dark, very dark me sobbing on the couch, us
• 1:59
  Speaker 1: kind of verbally using one another.
• 2:01
  Speaker 4: It's fine, it's ocean picking sides.
• 2:05
  Speaker 1: It wasn't mine, it was not mine. No, she was
• 2:10
  Speaker 1: very upset. For when I say very upset, she was
• 2:14
  Speaker 1: just going, Gigi, is it's okay? Then she wants to
• 2:18
  Speaker 1: sleep in my bed and I'm like, okay, you can
• 2:20
  Speaker 1: sleep in my bed. And I asked her, I go,
• 2:25
  Speaker 1: do love me? And she goes no, and I go,
• 2:28
  Speaker 1: you don't love me? And she goes no, I don't.
• 2:31
  Speaker 1: I go, you don't love your mom? And she goes, mom,
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  Speaker 1: I don't love you. I love Gigi. And I go,
• 2:38
  Speaker 1: that goes through and she didn't even care. She just
• 2:42
  Speaker 1: goes I get it, grabs her, grabs her stuffed elephant,
• 2:49
  Speaker 1: walks down the stairs.
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  Speaker 4: Did she have perie too?
• 2:52
  Speaker 1: She had Perier and the other and I knew this
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  Speaker 1: would happen. She goes into Giju's room and as time passes,
• 3:01
  Speaker 1: I hear the G. I hear the G show it's
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: time for ben. I'm done. I'm done, lay down and
• 3:10
  Speaker 1: she's like, I'm not pay and she's like, you've had one,
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  Speaker 1: You're done. I hear the little pitter patter come up
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  Speaker 1: the stairs, stuffed animal harrier. Nice sleep with your mom?
• 3:25
  Speaker 1: I go, that depends. Do you love me? She goes,
• 3:29
  Speaker 1: of course I do.
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  Speaker 4: She's so sweet.
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  Speaker 7: You guys know, she was so cute to me, Like
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  Speaker 7: she grabbed my face and said it's gonna be okay.
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  Speaker 4: She was the cutest, sweetest thing.
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  Speaker 2: And why was she doing that to you?
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  Speaker 7: Because we'd had a rough, rough day. I kind of
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  Speaker 7: backed into Bradley.
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  Speaker 1: The let's talk about it. Let's talk about it first
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  Speaker 1: and foremost. I had a melt down because I can't
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  Speaker 1: live a normal life. Okay, let's not get offended. I
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  Speaker 1: don't need to repeat it yesterday, but now you're here
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: to rebuttals. Keep it light. So there's this box that
• 4:05
  Speaker 1: I've been placed in, right, And what happens in the
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  Speaker 1: box is I get to work my ass off, and
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  Speaker 1: I get to be a mom.
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  Speaker 4: And then I get to stay in the box.
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  Speaker 1: I get to stay in the box. What happens in
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  Speaker 1: the boxes three things. Hang out with your mom, be
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  Speaker 1: a mom, and work your ass off. Right, Okay, nothing outside,
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  Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry. I do get to socialize. So thank
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  Speaker 1: god the people I work with are cool because they're
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  Speaker 1: the only people I socialize with. Right, Okay, So I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking about somebody that I'd like to go and hang
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  Speaker 1: out with, and of course it's a big to do. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: it was a big to do with the Dawn, it
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  Speaker 1: was a big to do with any man I've come
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  Speaker 1: in contact with. With Twinkle Toes, it's been a to
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  Speaker 1: do because no one trusts my judgment fair enough, but
• 4:50
  Speaker 1: they also don't trust because of your track record. Because
• 4:54
  Speaker 1: of my track record, we're extremely scarred.
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  Speaker 4: Guard damaged, name it.
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  Speaker 1: And it's all about like we don't know their motive,
• 5:02
  Speaker 1: we don't know their intention. First thing, Lisa asks, did
• 5:05
  Speaker 1: his background check come back yet? I was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: I have plans with him very soon, and it takes
• 5:10
  Speaker 1: two weeks minimum to get a worldwide background check back, right,
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  Speaker 1: And so it just turned into an explosion. That's where
• 5:18
  Speaker 1: it started. Okay, now we know I need people to
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  Speaker 1: be a little bit more delicate with me, you know,
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  Speaker 1: make me feel because it is very intense, right, Dealing
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  Speaker 1: with my situation is intense. So I get where my
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  Speaker 1: mom's coming from. But like, let's try to be delicate
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  Speaker 1: and realize that, like my life don't consist of much
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm little tired of working my ass off, and
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  Speaker 1: I love you, Mom, but like i'd like to see
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  Speaker 1: someone other than you, Jessica, and I would. I love
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  Speaker 1: you guys.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like we love her, you too, Desert, But
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  Speaker 6: I feel two ways about this.
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  Speaker 3: What were you gonna say, Easton?
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  Speaker 2: No, I was just gonna say, but your pickers sucks. Amen, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: we just got your back, baby.
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  Speaker 6: I do feel like number one so thankful for you too,
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  Speaker 6: because obviously, like Lala was telling me this yesterday and
• 6:05
  Speaker 6: I was like, they that's a mom and a brother,
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  Speaker 6: Like they're looking out for your best interest.
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  Speaker 3: You need that.
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  Speaker 6: Number two though, I do feel like your picker has
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  Speaker 6: probably improved at the very least, and it's like for
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  Speaker 6: me looking on, it's taking out the fun. Like I
• 6:22
  Speaker 6: feel like you get so you'll get so stressed over it,
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  Speaker 6: and then you're like, fuck it, I'm not gonna hang
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  Speaker 6: out with anyone, and then that makes me sad.
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  Speaker 1: But that does happen, yeah, because it's like there's no
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  Speaker 1: middle ground. It's like I I can't and I share
• 6:36
  Speaker 1: everything with my family, so it's like, hey, I'm busy Friday.
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: Busy Friday with doing what? And it's like it is
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  Speaker 1: a short circuit, like what do you mean busy? And
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  Speaker 1: then I have to tell them and then it opens
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  Speaker 1: a whole can of worms of like did you background
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  Speaker 1: check him? What are his intentions? Have you asked him this?
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm just trying to get some tries.
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  Speaker 5: With that you have said, but you have told mother
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  Speaker 5: and I and just that everyone you date you will
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  Speaker 5: background check?
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  Speaker 3: Does this cry but for the first date though, it's a.
• 7:09
  Speaker 2: Better power this one.
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  Speaker 1: No? No, no. But I think this stage in life,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not but you guys have not men that I
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  Speaker 1: have consistently hung out with where I'm like, oh, this
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  Speaker 1: is fun. I think I could picture bringing him around
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  Speaker 1: my family. They're always background checked. But to think of
• 7:28
  Speaker 1: this stage in my life where it's like, you're not
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  Speaker 1: going to be meeting my family. You're not going to
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  Speaker 1: be dating me, So why would I spend thousands of
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  Speaker 1: dollars background checking you at this stage in the game
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  Speaker 1: when my life you there's no place for you, Like
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  Speaker 1: I'm literally just looking for you to occupy a tiny
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  Speaker 1: piece of my time so that I can look back
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  Speaker 1: on my week and think I did something other than
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  Speaker 1: be a mom, kick it with my mom and work
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  Speaker 1: my ass off.
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  Speaker 4: But when do we come to the consensus of it.
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  Speaker 1: You're that you are going to be protective of me,
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  Speaker 1: but be more delicate in your delivery of trying to
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  Speaker 1: protect me, because it because I need that. I need
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  Speaker 1: someone to be sensitive with the fact that being me
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  Speaker 1: in my personal life is just intense.
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  Speaker 3: Very story.
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  Speaker 2: We care so much about it.
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  Speaker 6: I have a quick, quick, quick question on this, and
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  Speaker 6: then we can if Lasca, if law were to go
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  Speaker 6: out with girlfriends and go to a bar and she
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  Speaker 6: meets this hot guy so hot, and then brings him
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  Speaker 6: not back to the house, but they go, let's say,
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  Speaker 6: to a local hotel room and make out, not have sex,
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  Speaker 6: and then I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Just trying to I'm trying to think he makes the middle.
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  Speaker 6: So and then she's the best that he he goes, okay,
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  Speaker 6: it was great seeing you and she comes home.
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  Speaker 3: Would you be happy for her? Would you be like
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  Speaker 3: that was insane?
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  Speaker 1: You better not fucking lie. Don't fucking lie, Lisa.
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  Speaker 4: But I would be happy for you.
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  Speaker 1: You would ask me, where'd you meet him? What does
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  Speaker 1: he do? I would run back down.
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  Speaker 7: And I would because of our conversation that we had yesterday.
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  Speaker 5: But before yesterday, Lisa, you're protected by these She can't
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  Speaker 5: climb the desk the.
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  Speaker 1: Moment. If yesterday wouldn't have happened where we had a
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  Speaker 1: breakthrough moment, I love you, mom, she would not have
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  Speaker 1: been happy. She would have gone through the logistics and
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  Speaker 1: all of the things of we got to run the
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  Speaker 1: background check. You cannot see him until we know that
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  Speaker 1: he's never been married or isn't married, like what's his
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  Speaker 1: financial status as.
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  Speaker 4: Because people tend to lie.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm scarred and I don't blame you. I don't
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  Speaker 1: blame you at all.
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  Speaker 7: But let's what I would like, and let's recap what
• 9:41
  Speaker 7: else happened yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: That was okay, just very quickly. The only thing is
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  Speaker 1: I love my mom protecting me. I love protecting me.
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  Speaker 1: But when they enter a conversation with me. It would
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  Speaker 1: be nice to be treated like, oh, she's thirty three
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  Speaker 1: years old, very self sufficient and a mom. So let's
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  Speaker 1: approach the conversation as such and not like I'm dealing
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  Speaker 1: with a sixteen year old who just snuck out of
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: the house and I found a use condom in a car.
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  Speaker 2: That's how we feel, right.
• 10:07
  Speaker 1: So then, so that happened.
• 10:09
  Speaker 2: No one gets to touch. That happens. You virgins for
• 10:13
  Speaker 2: the rest of your life.
• 10:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty much, we are born.
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  Speaker 7: Do you remember back in the day, I would always say, nope,
• 10:19
  Speaker 7: not dating, you're not doing anything, You're.
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  Speaker 1: Not about you.
• 10:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 10:24
  Speaker 1: Well now I'm like, maybe we get hur laid. Start
• 10:27
  Speaker 1: cop blocking me, fucking cock blocking me.
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  Speaker 7: No, that's what I lived through for five years.
• 10:36
  Speaker 1: At this point, I'm like, bring him to the house.
• 10:38
  Speaker 2: I don't care. Take your focus off me, Come hang
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  Speaker 2: out with me.
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  Speaker 5: Lisa, I am to you, you have a hot date someday.
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: Well, it's not a date to lose everybody, it's not
• 10:54
  Speaker 1: a date. Yeah, easton out on the streets, just fucking up,
• 10:58
  Speaker 1: just fucking no. Okay. So then we have this explosive
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: argument and Lisa goes, I'm not talking about this anymore.
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  Speaker 1: I'm taking the boxes back to spectrums so we don't
• 11:07
  Speaker 1: get charged. And I'm like, great, fabulous. I'm talking to Bradley.
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: He's doing my hair for VPR interviews. Hold on, where's
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: the camera? Lisa comes in. I hear the door open
• 11:22
  Speaker 1: and slams, and Lisa comes in like this Bradley, and
• 11:28
  Speaker 1: I was like, what's wrong? I backed into your car?
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: I backed into your car? Well, I know that you
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: don't have your car because it's at Easton's, so that
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: means you also backed my car into Bradley Like how bad?
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  Speaker 3: How bad?
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  Speaker 4: How bad? Well? Marching out, I was pitched.
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: She's already tried to stop slock me and now she's
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  Speaker 1: wrecking my car.
• 11:55
  Speaker 2: And she immediately calls me. I'm in Palm.
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  Speaker 1: Springs because I needed someone to call me, so I
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: called east and I go, mom, just backed my car
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: into Bradley's car, and Easton immediately goes, okay, she's sixty three.
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: I remember that. And I was like, she talked about
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: the beeper not going off, and I was like, who
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: just relies on the freaking beeper? Like you just like
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: hall ass with I'll just focus on the beaber. Since
• 12:21
  Speaker 1: calming me down.
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  Speaker 7: No, I had I been Holly asked, it would have
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  Speaker 7: taken this car out. It was barely tapped, but it
• 12:29
  Speaker 7: did dent his fender and it broke your tail light.
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  Speaker 1: And I walk out and I'm like this with my
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  Speaker 1: hair all fucked up, and I'm on with East and
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  Speaker 1: I go, I'm not happy.
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  Speaker 2: And she goes, I'm not paying for it, and.
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  Speaker 4: I go, no, ship, sure.
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  Speaker 1: That what you said?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Do you feel so bold when you say that.
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  Speaker 3: You are bold?
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  Speaker 6: It's I was so nice that you guys can be
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  Speaker 6: in the studio laughing today.
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  Speaker 3: What a great family was.
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  Speaker 1: Laughing sobby in the fetal position. It was not pleasant
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: at the house last night. You know what, I'm glad
• 13:07
  Speaker 1: Ocean could see things come full circle right. There was
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: resolution always and in the meantime, I always have the resolution.
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  Speaker 7: We had East ends pibbles at our house along with
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  Speaker 7: Lily mm hmm. And through the turmoil. Obviously, Lauren's up
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  Speaker 7: in her room. I'm down in my room. I'm assuming
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  Speaker 7: she has the dog.
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  Speaker 1: After I sent her, we were like, uh, we were
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: having a lover's quarrel last night. I texted her because
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: my mom told me she doesn't like me reprimanding her
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  Speaker 1: like she's a child. And so I was like, okay, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: I don't do that. Maybe I have a skewed perception
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  Speaker 1: of reality. I don't know. I can only see things
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: from my perspective, right. So I'm up in my bedroom
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  Speaker 1: taking a load off, letting her cool down as well,
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  Speaker 1: and I send her a text that says I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I'll do better, good night, And then she responds and
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: I don't look at it because I'm watching the Uncomfortable
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  Speaker 1: the episode. And then she calls me and goes, do
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: you have Nissi in your room? And I said no,
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  Speaker 1: and so and I'm like.
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  Speaker 4: Are you kidding? Because I've searched the entire house for her.
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  Speaker 1: At this point, I said fuck this whole day because
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: it was like we could not catch a break. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: now the dog's gone.
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  Speaker 3: Oh where was ns?
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: We left her outside and it was.
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  Speaker 4: So no But it was nine thirty at night.
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: It's not like it was late. We go to bed early.
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  Speaker 1: It was a little.
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  Speaker 4: Cold for a short haired animal, but.
• 14:38
  Speaker 7: She wasn't even by the door trying to come in.
• 14:39
  Speaker 7: She was laying out.
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: It was really cute and she loves.
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  Speaker 7: The last home because she's obviously a rescue from Utah
• 14:50
  Speaker 7: Humane She I think was an outdoor dog.
• 14:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think so, and she kept escaping and they.
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: Just rescues her outdoor.
• 14:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, forget it. Yeah, she is a purebred American Staffishire Terrier.
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: She said, stunning.
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  Speaker 4: Oh she's the best dog.
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  Speaker 3: Wait oh, I was like, wait he or she? I thought?
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: Was she?
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: A pretty lady? He I don't get it, I said, she.
• 15:14
  Speaker 7: Lady was kept saying she's the sweetest dog in the
• 15:18
  Speaker 7: whole world. So anyway, Whatson.
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  Speaker 1: For a moment when we first wanted to adopt her
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: because I had Pablo, and Pablo is the sexiest pipple
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  Speaker 1: you've ever seen, Like, I'm so sexy, And Easton was like,
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: I want a dog that looks like Pablo. Well, Mom
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: brought NISI home and she had these nipples. She told
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  Speaker 1: him to have him come down to the shelter and
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Easton could not get past the nipples.
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  Speaker 2: So I look at this dog and I go her
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  Speaker 2: nipples are.
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  Speaker 7: Well, you guys, First of all, I bring her out
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  Speaker 7: handshaking on the floor.
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  Speaker 4: She won't even want remember, and then you noticed her nipples.
• 15:56
  Speaker 5: Well I noticed her, and I was like, I can't
• 15:58
  Speaker 5: have that dog just chafing those nipples on our cards,
• 16:04
  Speaker 5: So you fun.
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  Speaker 2: I apologize.
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  Speaker 3: I almost did it in for you.
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  Speaker 5: But Lisa goes, come here, and she goes just sit
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: in the corner. So I sat in the corner and
• 16:15
  Speaker 5: she walked. At the time, her.
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  Speaker 2: Name was Daisy.
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  Speaker 5: She walked her and then let her go, and she
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: sprinted to me and then just like curled up in
• 16:23
  Speaker 5: my lap.
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  Speaker 2: And then I didn't care about her nipples. You're coming
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  Speaker 2: home with me, baby.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: He's the best cuddle bug.
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  Speaker 4: In the almost ever.
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  Speaker 5: She like will like I'm bleeding because when I'm cuddling
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: her in bed, if I stop, she'll like scratch and
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  Speaker 5: sometimes she'll get my nose and she'll get a good
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  Speaker 5: one in there, and so I can't cuddle with her
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: too much.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: But oh, guys out, she's a cuddle buzz.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: We changed her name from Daisy to Bernice.
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: Bernice. I was wondering where Nissi came from.
• 16:54
  Speaker 4: Bernie.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: She looks like a Bernie.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: I know Dylan Doherty named her.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: I'm Lisa almost fell. She was clutching her pearls, being like,
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: I cannot have.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: A dog named Bernie. She was like, what did you
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: hate Findley?
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: I'm like friendly.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Finley is on my baby name's list.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: La.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: No, that name is so cute. She doesn't look she
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: doesn't look like she looks like a Bernice or a Margaret.
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: She's so cute.
• 17:25
  Speaker 7: And speaking of cute, they are the best watch dogs
• 17:28
  Speaker 7: are They noted that right now.
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: They go toes.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: They Oh yeah, did you guys leave this?
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Go in like the front yard too.
• 17:37
  Speaker 7: I didn't because I'm afraid that they might escape from
• 17:41
  Speaker 7: the automatic gate opening closing.
• 17:45
  Speaker 4: But yeah, that our neighbor because it got robbed.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: Oh my god. We talked about this.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know, did we Yeah, last week,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: didn't I think we talked about how I'm stacked with
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: a yes, yes, but yeah, the neighbor got robbed. They
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: did not have a DT and let me tell you.
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: What, and they don't have big pit bule.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: Now they do have a d T.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: And they got a little pitple.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Did they get a pit bull? They have a Oh,
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: they did get a pit bull puppy. Pit bull puppies food,
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: pit bull puppies.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: Pit bull puppies are the cutest puppy.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: By the way, I'm about to get two more because
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: someone was like, with these three dogs, I think you're good,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, but I've heard that even if
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: you have dogs, and they were like, I never say never. Okay,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: some people are ballsy and they just don't care and
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: they know exactly what to do and how to break
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: in and how to deal with the dogs. But I'm
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: staying stacked, all right, Like, what does fifty cents say?
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: I protect what I've got. I'm in my house with
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: my blade.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: That's right.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: I wish a motherfucker would.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: Wish a motherfucker would.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: Let's talk about the fact that we live in a
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: new area and Lisa and I found a new nail place.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Thank you Jessica for the recommendation.
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: The best really.
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: To go there. Yeah, it's great, they're great.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: Loved it, so, oh no. I get up to pay
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: and there is this girl who's like sulking.
• 19:12
  Speaker 7: But she was doing that next to me for the
• 19:15
  Speaker 7: last fifteen minutes to the nail tech.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: Oh well, and what was she saying?
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: It's just not the color. It's in the color I
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: chose and.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: The nails were done right, Oh yeah, and she kept.
• 19:26
  Speaker 7: Saying about her birthday and you could take it from there.
• 19:29
  Speaker 7: But I got to hear about it for fifteen minutes
• 19:31
  Speaker 7: prior to you listening to it.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Oh das so apparently this girl, I don't know what
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: she was doing. Usually they paint the nails. The first
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: coat goes in. Second, after a couple of nails, you
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: could go, you know, this doesn't look like the nail color.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: So first of all, your fault, your fault. And then
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: she's like sulking to this woman still as we're trying
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: to pay, and she's like, and these are my birthday nails.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: And I wanted to say, bitch, you're a grown ass woman.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: No one cares. You're not a birthday nails.
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: Why did she having a birthday shoot or something?
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: Oh god, her birthday shoot? Why didn't she? Did she
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: not want to redo them? Did the lady not want
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: to re what?
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: I just I don't have two hours to It's not
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: going to take a two hours fix the mistake. I
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: guess they were dip because I'll just call. I'll just call.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: She's like, we won't make you pain. She's like, it's
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: not even about paying for them, it's that it's not
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: the right color. And first of all, and then she's
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: showing the nail color that she wanted. And I'm like,
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: first of all, that's that nail color is ugly. The
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: one you got is ugly, Like, no matter what, you
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: got ugly nails, whether it was the right color or not.
• 20:37
  Speaker 6: And this brings me to nobody gives it we Lala
• 20:40
  Speaker 6: and I talked about this yesterday. Nobody gives a fuck.
• 20:43
  Speaker 6: Nobody gives a fuck about you. Does she really thinks
• 20:45
  Speaker 6: she's going to show up to her birthday. At the
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: worst case scenario, her friends are going to see her
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: nails and go, oh, that's in their head, that's an
• 20:53
  Speaker 6: ugly color and move on with their night.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: Nobody gives a fuck.
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: I did talk about her nails twice. I wouldn't even
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: care about what color.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: Was it like a gray or brown?
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: No, it was blue. She wanted, like a metallic blue
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: when these were just like blue nails, and she was
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: going on and on about them, and I literally wanted
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: to tell her there are people dying in the world,
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: right all right, and this is your reaction over some
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: fucking nails.
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: And she made the tech feel horrible.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: She did, and even the owner was like, she like,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: did you no, But even without like yeah, she kept
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: checking on us to make sure we were happy. But
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: she was like, did you put an extra coat on
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: this nail? Or did you put an extra coat on
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: her nails? Like how did this happen? And it's like,
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: why are we talking about how this happened? How could
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: the blue nail not be the blue she chose. I'm like,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: this is not a big deal.
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: And the whining and shut up, shut up, I'm you.
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: I'm shocked you didn't say anything.
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: Lease.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: I was biting my tongue because I didn't want to
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: make it worse because I was about to go off out.
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: It wasn't want to make an It was.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: Her birthday, that is what was the big day. You
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: know what.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: I would have said, you got another one coming next year?
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: I would have said no.
• 22:10
  Speaker 6: I to be honest, I probably would have said this
• 22:12
  Speaker 6: if she was right there, I would have bit my tongue,
• 22:14
  Speaker 6: bit my tongue and then been.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: Like they're fine.
• 22:16
  Speaker 6: I think they're fine and done that like crazy, I
• 22:18
  Speaker 6: like passive aggressive.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: Hey, they're fine. We can stop talking about it now, right,
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: they're fine. Kyle does it all the time and it
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: gets scary. Hey you're good, right, you're good.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Right, Oh, I'm gonna start doing that be passive aggressive.
• 22:29
  Speaker 7: I'm and you know she wanted to talk about her
• 22:35
  Speaker 7: nails and complain about him.
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: Tell what happened to my chanelle wallet.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: After Lisa was done talking about how fabulous the treatment was,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: you know, because it was.
• 22:46
  Speaker 7: I got a sugar scrub, like they offered me everything
• 22:49
  Speaker 7: under the sun.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Never do that for me, No one even offers. I
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: look over at Lisa and she's got warm towels, paraffin, wax,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: sugar scrubs, and I'm like, well.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: They're trying to get the six inches of dead scale.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: I appreciate.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: I allow gloves.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: They use gloves on me too, They use gloves on everybody. Oh, Lisa,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: you deserved a having beautiful dinosaic.
• 23:21
  Speaker 7: I don't have beautiful And I realized that.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: That's what she's gonna say. They work. And the only
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: reason I call them dino feet is because she could
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: kick full steel and goes like this, oh.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: Oh no, my clouds in my cloud shoes.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, your bunions flying out.
• 23:40
  Speaker 7: No, I have a hole in my shoe that I
• 23:42
  Speaker 7: must have hit a nail or something.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: A nail ripped my shoe.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: And you can't feel that. You don't feel that for you.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: I want you on my.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Site to see what happened to me.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: So then she's getting out raving raving about the treatment
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: and the Chanel. The Chanelle wallet goes straight into the
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Dino foot water and it was just floating, and I go,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: we get it out. We like, I'm I give I
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: give the woman the tip and it's like, what noodle?
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: What noodle money?
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: Oh No.
• 24:22
  Speaker 7: And the one that really got me is I was
• 24:24
  Speaker 7: cleaning out my stuff from Utah and I came across
• 24:28
  Speaker 7: a check from.
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: Two thousand, I think, and.
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: Eleven should have tried to cash it.
• 24:37
  Speaker 7: No, it's Macy's and it's a get. It's sixty five dollars. Yeah,
• 24:42
  Speaker 7: no expiration.
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: I've never seen somebody.
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: Are you going to use it?
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: Hell?
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: Yes you are, oh my mat But I.
• 24:51
  Speaker 7: Was so worried about That's what I was more worried
• 24:53
  Speaker 7: about that the Chanel than all the the EQ was
• 24:56
  Speaker 7: gonna bleed and it would.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Be all your sixty dollars.
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: I would have given you this, Queen, Lisa, I appreciate
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: the facts.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: I would have rounded up to a hondo for you. Well,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: don't spend it all, spend it all on one so
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: great tell us about the car crash you went is
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: you said, oh.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: My gosh, all right on my birthday.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: We're talk about your birthday. But we recorded last Monday
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: and birthday. We know that the episode airs Wednesdays, which
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: was your birthday. And I apologize we did not wish
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: you under.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: The radar well because I could have said somebody.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Happy, happy birthday.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: Yes, baby, thank you, thank you for letting your house.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: Me and my friends very much enjoyed it.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Like I said, what's mine is yours. I hope that
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: you had the best.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: Time and for watching my dogs. You guys that loved you.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: How old are you? Thirty two?
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, one, thirty one?
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
• 25:50
  Speaker 5: So we're driving and we're going to Joshua Tree. So
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: there's like a frontage road and then just hundreds of windmials.
• 25:59
  Speaker 5: So we see this car on the front end road
• 26:03
  Speaker 5: and they're moving and like you can kind of you
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: know when you see like the car.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: Doing hops, like it looks like it's a little out
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: of control.
• 26:09
  Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, we see the car turn and it just
• 26:14
  Speaker 5: is upside down for like two seconds and it just
• 26:17
  Speaker 5: slams into the dirt.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Wait, so it like hits something and it was like
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: airborne down like.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: Two seconds like yeah, and then landed on the top.
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: On the top and just because I think Joshua Tree
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: and like all of it, like it's soft dirt, like
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: it didn't keep flipping, so it just like slid slid
• 26:34
  Speaker 5: on its hood and so we were like holy shit.
• 26:37
  Speaker 5: So we got off on the next exit and backtrack.
• 26:41
  Speaker 5: She indeed flipped her car and like we're getting out
• 26:45
  Speaker 5: of the car, going what day are we about to have?
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Like is she dead? Yeah?
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: So like we rush to the car, a door is open,
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: there's needles everywhere.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: No, you got to be careful around after.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: We saw that, Like I feel bad, but like she
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: was bleeding from her forehead.
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: Not witnessing this woman now she had a little bit
• 27:06
  Speaker 5: of a the chin, you know what I'm saying.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: But so she's like China, no teeth.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: Well just like like their chin can touch their.
• 27:17
  Speaker 6: Nose, that is their teeth, right yeah yeah yeah, smoking crack,
• 27:24
  Speaker 6: that's kind of how you get.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I just don't think someone who had an insulin needle,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: they would just like be strewn everything like her.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Yea doubt, but no looking at her and then her
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: boyfriend same chin, Oh he was he know.
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: So we get to the car, we see her. We're
• 27:44
  Speaker 5: about to reach in and help. We see needles. She's bleeding.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: I don't want it. I don't know if I have
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: I'm okay, I'm okay, I'm okay. So we're like, all right,
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: let's get out.
• 27:54
  Speaker 5: So I walked to the front of the car to
• 27:55
  Speaker 5: see if there's anything spilling out, anything that could cause
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: a fire.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: And I hear, what's that. I mean, it's probably just cooling.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: That got like radiator.
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I was like, let's just move just in
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: case because it would have started something. Right.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: Another guy called the police and they started coming.
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: She passed that the police were calling.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Oh I know. She we I wanted to stay, but
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: it was my birthday and I want to go to drugs.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: She was okay, and she was, oh okay.
• 28:21
  Speaker 5: This woman gets out of the car, looks at us
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: and goes, I got to call him.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: I gotta call him.
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: We're thinking who we called him? Yeah, but no, she
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: wanted to call her boyfriend. So she just grabs her
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: phone before the cops get there. She walks like three
• 28:36
  Speaker 5: hundred yards before.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: They stop, and that's the woman walking right there.
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: And was like, she said I gotta go home. I
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: gotta go home.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: No, she did.
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: And then the scene and so what's funny is like
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: the car crash was like here and her home was here,
• 28:53
  Speaker 5: so she was just trying to walk home and I like,
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: it didn't happen.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: God, did they catch her?
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they caught her.
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: So they ambulance came and then the other like we
• 29:02
  Speaker 5: saw the firefighters and they were like, you saw the
• 29:04
  Speaker 5: needles right to us and we were like, oh yeah.
• 29:06
  Speaker 5: They were like, did you help her? We were like no,
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: they said good, yeah, you.
• 29:11
  Speaker 7: Know what, she's lucky she didn't take some other car out.
• 29:14
  Speaker 7: Really no, I know injuries.
• 29:17
  Speaker 5: Like to see like a car in the air for
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: that long slam and then for her to get out,
• 29:23
  Speaker 5: like that's adrenaline, but also that's drug drug.
• 29:26
  Speaker 7: Yeah, because well it's like when you're drunk, you're very
• 29:29
  Speaker 7: not me but.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Kind of like when I'm drunk, I'm very.
• 29:38
  Speaker 7: Since I don't drink, I've never you were never you could, Lisa,
• 29:44
  Speaker 7: your legs were like this when you were drinking.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Is that her walking?
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: Anyway?
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: Back to back to the class, did you have an
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: amazing It was.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: A great birthday.
• 29:54
  Speaker 5: We looked up to see but that county has us there.
• 29:58
  Speaker 5: You can't look. They passed a we think that you
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: can't view. But we were going to see if they
• 30:02
  Speaker 5: got her, but we couldn't find.
• 30:04
  Speaker 6: Drugs are not good free.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: A whole bunch of stuff. But yeah, she tried to
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: flee the scene.
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: But yeah, thank god, I got a couple of photos
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: that I can send you.
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: Stop.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: I want to pretty gnarly.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: I want to.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: See Lisa would have Do you want to see that?
• 30:21
  Speaker 6: I was going to say, Lisa would have loved to
• 30:22
  Speaker 6: see this, because weren't you on a kick from watching
• 30:25
  Speaker 6: like dash cam videos for a little bit.
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: She watched dash cam videos.
• 30:29
  Speaker 7: But they're posting things that I do not appreciate, so
• 30:38
  Speaker 7: I followed them.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: No, but she continues to do this thing like I've
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: known that they post asses for months.
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: Unfollowed and unfollowed. Where is it keeps?
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: I think you just your algorithm just loves ass.
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: She shows it to me again two days ago, and
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: I was like, Mom, I understand. I I know, because
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: she's like, look at what pops?
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Do you understand?
• 30:59
  Speaker 5: The more like if you see a video, the more
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: time that you spend on that video, you.
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: I am followed I don't know why he posted.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: Right when you see it, go to the next I unfollowed.
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: I thought I followed.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so if you're listening dash cam person on Instagram,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: stop posting.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: Asses and just posting dash can no one.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: Well, I can't imagine. No one's following the you're fine
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: with it.
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: The comments.
• 31:27
  Speaker 7: I read some of the comments previously. They're like crash page,
• 31:31
  Speaker 7: porn page.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Like seeing all of these crashes. It's okay to see
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: some ass.
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: No, okay, I know, good for you because it was
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: a little more than just.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: What do you mean?
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: It was more than I saw that. I know she
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: had a little vagina. No, I swear.
• 31:54
  Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, have you guys ever seen attraction?
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: Are you for real?
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: Have you seen it? I've never seen it.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: She was talking about this on Netflix. Do you listen
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: to No, she talked about it promo clip.
• 32:09
  Speaker 5: That's why I think I watched it, you know, like subconsciously,
• 32:12
  Speaker 5: That's why it was in the back of mind.
• 32:14
  Speaker 6: You not love like looking at the vaginas and penises
• 32:17
  Speaker 6: and tits?
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Do you love it? I enjoyed it?
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: No, it's so weird.
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we fast forward through it.
• 32:23
  Speaker 6: It doesn't not make you feel good about your body,
• 32:26
  Speaker 6: so good about my I feel.
• 32:28
  Speaker 5: Great about my body after well, I don't know, I
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: didn't really I almost went into the bedroom and looked
• 32:33
  Speaker 5: at myself naked after it. But I was like, you
• 32:35
  Speaker 5: know what, let's just have a good birthday.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: I find the best way to appreciate your birthday is
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: staring at yourself in your birthday suit. The way you
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: came into this world, well, with a few changes.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: Oh what did I get done?
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: You grew up? Let's hope you grew up. You grew up,
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: grew up and out and down, and.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: I'm down, up and out and down. That's very true.
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: Out.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: I'm done. Mom. I love you, and I hate when
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: we fight. I don't like you devastating.
• 33:16
  Speaker 7: We had fun today. We went furniture shopping. We got
• 33:18
  Speaker 7: a bagel. We're gonna go get shades at the shade store.
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: This an exciting day.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Let's talk about Beverly Hills. Did you watch either of you? Easton?
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Didn't I know because it was his birthday.
• 33:33
  Speaker 6: Just i'd get in usually you text me, But I
• 33:36
  Speaker 6: should have looked at the notes.
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: I know I watched it.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: You watched it with me. Now you guys, so I
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: am really digging Ston this season. I feel like when
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: she first came onto the show, I've always kind of
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: been into her. I just like the way I like
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: the way that she dresses. I like her little shady
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: judgments on people, like I just dig her, right, But
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: I'm like especially digging her this season. And I think
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: it's because we're seeing aside to her, where like we're
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: seeing a very like human side, right like we saw
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: what and it's a human side, but we're also talking
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: about like it's so fucking bougie, where she's like, I
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: have Merse mrsus ashes, and then she talks about who
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: Merses and he's some like fabulous person that Erica Jane is,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: like anyone in the dance community knows who Merses. Like
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: it's still very bougie, Like I cannot relate.
• 34:29
  Speaker 7: But why do they always throw the ashes out to
• 34:32
  Speaker 7: sea and they always blow they.
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: Always blow back, they always blow back.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: What is that?
• 34:37
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Last week's episode, it happened to the girls again.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: The wind usually wind comes in.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: I know, So why do these people continue to want
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: to just go like this with dust? It's dust, it's.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: Just dust, and it blows back in your face because.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: All we are dust. I want you guys to play
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: that at my funeral, and like I'm gonna have everyone
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: with bags of PSI ashes going like this, swinging, like
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: with someone with a band drum calling her.
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, I love it. Love that.
• 35:15
  Speaker 7: You know what I love about Sutton too is she's
• 35:17
  Speaker 7: a fellow horse lover, Like I am so.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's a horse lover and her horse is
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: like five billion dollars and she's like they're Santo's and
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: her assistants like, that's not Santos. She goes, it looks
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: like him, and then it flashes to what Santo's looks like.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: It's like literally nothing.
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: The other when they were at the crowd, right at
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: the right, the.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Other horse had no white on it. Her horse had
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: lots of white on it. So I do love that. Yeah,
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: she loves horses, She loves expensive things. Yes, this one
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: comes in.
• 35:49
  Speaker 4: And she has a cute boyfriend that she's dated for
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: a couple of times.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I love that. They go to Surly Goat
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: and they like throw darts. It's very and she brings
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: her ocean spray mixer out of her her Selene bag. Wow,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: he makes a joke about Selene Dion making purses and laughed.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: She laughed, which was huge, Like Sutton is all about
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: her labels, right. I remember when Sutton first stepped into
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: the scene and Durit had on this fabulous, like very fitted,
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: boxy like I don't know shoulder patty Fente fente like
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: rionnad not fende yes, and Sutton could not have been
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: more offended at the fact that, like celebrities should not
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: have fashion lines, she has no interest, like she knows
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: what she likes and even though her clothing sometimes am
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: like I personally wouldn't wear, the fact that it's so expensive,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I respect it, not me. Easton, you shut your filthy
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: off when it comes to Sutton. So then we're finally
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: opening up Kyle about her relationship with Moe. Mom let
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: me ask you something, because I have not been in
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: a committed relationship. I'm going to pretend like the one
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: and only that I felt like I was in does
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: not exist. And let's just say I have never been
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: in a committed relationship, Okay, especially for twenty seven years.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Like Kyle and Mauricio, when you watch, what do you
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: think is happening?
• 37:22
  Speaker 7: Because I think they've drifted apart, and I think because
• 37:26
  Speaker 7: his business has gotten so big and he's so not
• 37:30
  Speaker 7: present in their marriage. He's more present and worrying about
• 37:33
  Speaker 7: what the next golf game is in the next city
• 37:37
  Speaker 7: or country that he's going to, and she's feeling a
• 37:40
  Speaker 7: little bit left out.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: And do you think there was cheating involved, you.
• 37:45
  Speaker 7: Know, the way that it seems like it's playing out.
• 37:48
  Speaker 7: I think there may have been some infidelities that went
• 37:51
  Speaker 7: on h on top of everything else.
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: But I just feel like he's not present.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's looking a little heck. And it's not
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: haggard like stress. It's like, oh, you're like going out
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: and partying.
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what it looks like to me.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like the eyes are a little hazy, glazed right now. Again,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: could be stress. I'm not saying that that is exactly
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: what he's out doing. I'm just saying from my own
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: experience and how I've looked when I party hardy on
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: a huge budget, right, and he has a very big
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: budget to party hardy on, So I could see why
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: he looks a little haggard.
• 38:33
  Speaker 7: Well, you know what else, too is a red flag
• 38:35
  Speaker 7: to me is she's gotten new tattoos and he hasn't
• 38:38
  Speaker 7: even noticed them.
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: They're not sleeping together.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: They're definitely not sleeping together.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they're distant.
• 38:48
  Speaker 6: Let me ask you a quick question about this, both
• 38:49
  Speaker 6: of you, but more so you least because you've been
• 38:52
  Speaker 6: in you were in a very long relationship. At this point,
• 38:55
  Speaker 6: they've grown apart, right. Do you think there's something in
• 38:58
  Speaker 6: fighting for that relationship?
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: We've been together so.
• 39:02
  Speaker 6: Long, Go to therapy, do what you got to do
• 39:04
  Speaker 6: to make it work, or it's like you know what,
• 39:06
  Speaker 6: the human experience, some people just grow apart and then
• 39:08
  Speaker 6: it's I don't.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: Know that people are gonna like what my mom has
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: to say about that. Okay, my mom is.
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: Old school.
• 39:15
  Speaker 7: I think I am old school, and I think you
• 39:17
  Speaker 7: buy for it. But for me, like had my husband
• 39:22
  Speaker 7: cheated on me, I don't think I could have been
• 39:24
  Speaker 7: come back.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: Wait, so, do you believe in therapy like couples therapy?
• 39:29
  Speaker 7: You know what, I've never done therapy, and I feel
• 39:31
  Speaker 7: like therapy dredges up a whole lot of other things,
• 39:35
  Speaker 7: Like you have the tip of the iceberg and they
• 39:38
  Speaker 7: go down and the whole thing crumbles.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: So maybe you maybe you believe in therapy, but you
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: are very specific when it comes to the therapist and
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: let's focus on the situation. And I don't want to
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: don't be the therapist where I come in and sit
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: down and you go, well, let's talk about your childhood.
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: I don't want to do that.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, so you do believe here and now you want
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: to hear that's what I'd want. But don't you think
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: it's fair for a therapist to say, how did we
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: get here?
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: Absolutely?
• 40:05
  Speaker 7: But I don't want him to say it stems from
• 40:07
  Speaker 7: my childhood and this, that and the other and the
• 40:10
  Speaker 7: way I was treated as a child or my parents
• 40:12
  Speaker 7: or whatever. Like, I want the here and now. And
• 40:15
  Speaker 7: I have this relationship with my husband. We're not getting
• 40:18
  Speaker 7: along and I want to fix it.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: How do I do that?
• 40:20
  Speaker 6: Okay, I think you'd be surprised. I think I just
• 40:22
  Speaker 6: started restarted therapy again, shout out betterhelp. But it I
• 40:26
  Speaker 6: was like, oh, yeah, I forgot how much I love therapy.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah. No, therapy is great. And it is all about
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: when someone's like I don't like therapy, I think it's
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: because they had a situation with a certain therapist that
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: just didn't hit. So from my perspective and just because
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: I've lived in this city for a little over a decade. Now,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: I don't think Mo is a one. I don't think
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: he has been faithful to Kyle. I have heard nothing
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: but incredible things about Kyle. Kyle has been nothing but
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: kind to me every time I've seen her. She raised
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: fantastic children. I think that like her home life and
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: what she did for her family, her husband. I mean,
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: they really came from like a very normal household.
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: She's I think she's amazing.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: She's fantastic.
• 41:14
  Speaker 7: She has gazillions of dogs like any like no vis
• 41:18
  Speaker 7: well no, But to me, that shows like a true heart. Yeah,
• 41:22
  Speaker 7: you know for her to do that. But I don't
• 41:25
  Speaker 7: like how he kept telling her, you know, we're gonna
• 41:27
  Speaker 7: be empty nesters. What what thirteen?
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: How old is she thirteen or fourteen?
• 41:32
  Speaker 4: Like they're not empty nesters?
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: Is someone told me she was sixteen? Now you know what,
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: she may be sixteen because London Amber's daughter is fourteen,
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: and I think she's a couple of years older than her. Yeah, Porsha,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: I think Porscha might be around fifteen or sixteen. But
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: guess what, that's a couple of years from now.
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: So let's go gas on.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: Now, they hear, and now I think Kyle puts so
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: much of her time and effort into running kids around,
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: creating a beautiful household, supporting her husband so that he
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: could get to wear where he is. And now it's like,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: my husband doesn't really need my support anymore. My children
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: don't really need me. And when she said I don't
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: want to accept things that I wouldn't want my daughters
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: to accept, and that was like I got I had chills,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: and she had tears in her eyes, and it was like, you.
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: Know, that's why I think it's more.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: It's more than, so much more than this. Yeah, and
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: life is too short. Absolutely be done. You want to
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: be sleeping or hanging out with the twenty eight year
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: old chick, you know what, go do that, do it well.
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: And once a.
• 42:43
  Speaker 7: Cheater, I'm sorry that's saying always a cheater, like your
• 42:47
  Speaker 7: trust is gone?
• 42:49
  Speaker 4: How do you how do you come back from that?
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: Well? You and I are very much the same mom,
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: And for me, I had two hard lines. If you
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: choose to do drugs and if you choose to step
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: out on the relationship, there is no coming back, there's
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: no conversation. I wish you the best. Get away from
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: me because the trust is gone and I can't come
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: back from it. There are women we know who there's
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: been infidelity and they work on it, they get married,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: they have children, and I'm like, I just could never.
• 43:19
  Speaker 6: I know, I actually know of some whose relationship ended
• 43:22
  Speaker 6: up or at least seems like getting stronger. It was
• 43:24
  Speaker 6: a husband and wife and there was infidelity and then
• 43:27
  Speaker 6: they but.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: It just was caused from they grew apart.
• 43:29
  Speaker 6: There was infidelity, they decided they wanted to make it work,
• 43:33
  Speaker 6: and then they they like refound each other and then
• 43:37
  Speaker 6: it was like a beautiful but I'm.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Sure and it was more age. It was more maybe
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: it was an age age or just points in time.
• 43:46
  Speaker 6: Maybe it was they got married when they were like
• 43:50
  Speaker 6: eighteen nineteen. That is so young, and then this is
• 43:52
  Speaker 6: like they're in their fifties now.
• 43:54
  Speaker 7: See I so did they did they part and then
• 43:57
  Speaker 7: come back at a later day, like years later.
• 44:00
  Speaker 4: I don't know if.
• 44:00
  Speaker 6: Someone like that too, they separated and then they came back.
• 44:03
  Speaker 6: It's just it's like to me, the older I get,
• 44:06
  Speaker 6: I'm like everyone's human experience.
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: I just am like, do what you do, do what.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: You well in this situation, They're not gonna. They're not
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: going to separate and come back together when they're I'm
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: shoving as shit. They might though they might.
• 44:21
  Speaker 6: What if they get old and they're like, I want
• 44:23
  Speaker 6: to die with the person I spent most of my
• 44:24
  Speaker 6: life with at like seventy five.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know.
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: I don't know. It's wild sex strives is gone as
• 44:29
  Speaker 4: seventy five?
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: Is it? Though? I heard I don't know if viagra
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: gives you that big I heard that to the fucking
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: stay rock harder, it's get away from me.
• 44:38
  Speaker 6: I heard old folks homes are like rampant with sex.
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: Oh to volunteer at one?
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: Just old skin fucking see, just kind of so much
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: to look forward to. I know, like what even is age? Know,
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: you know, with a little lubrication and a little blue pill,
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: you can do whatever.
• 44:54
  Speaker 7: Well, I'm looking at how women and men are looking
• 44:56
  Speaker 7: these days, like they look ye.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's very true. So did we watch Vanner Pump?
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: Yes, I'm excited to get into this one.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: I gotta say, Lisa episode Lisa, I love you, but
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: she doesn't really watch Vanner Pump, so she doesn't know
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: what's happening. Feel free to weigh in from afar okay.
• 45:19
  Speaker 6: I was a fan of this episode. I think it's
• 45:21
  Speaker 6: picked up a little. How do you feel?
• 45:23
  Speaker 5: I thought it was slow, but I think it's I
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: think it's ramping up for the Tahoe trip.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: I think we're now seeing it was.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: There's structure.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: Now the group doesn't feel as like separate. Yes, it
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: feels like we're somewhat trying, like we're braiding the hair.
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: The hair was all a mess. Then we separated it
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: into two. Now we've separated it into three, and we're
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: starting the criss and the crossing.
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: This is a great comparison.
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: Actually, yeah, all right, did you upon it?
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: No? I was just thinking of we're in we're in
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: a braid. Fabulous, Braine, fabulous.
• 46:03
  Speaker 6: Let's talk about you if you're good with it, you
• 46:06
  Speaker 6: and Lisa.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: I didn't make any notes, so I'm just gonna let
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: you run with this.
• 46:11
  Speaker 6: So La La Lisa and Sheena scene. One thing I
• 46:16
  Speaker 6: do want to know, didn't I drop you off at
• 46:17
  Speaker 6: lisa Is that day and get stuck in the driveway?
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: You did.
• 46:21
  Speaker 6: That was quite a day and got scared and then
• 46:25
  Speaker 6: Ken watched me as I'm backing with my jeep with
• 46:29
  Speaker 6: my with my bottom bitch ge patron trying not to
• 46:33
  Speaker 6: with my jeep hit. All the expensive cars just lined
• 46:36
  Speaker 6: up on the driveway, and Ken's.
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: Just staring at me, and that makes you even more yes.
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: And I'm like like, oh, it was bad. I had
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: anxiety that, But.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: Yet you did I did out backing into another car
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: and you didn't even have a beeper.
• 46:49
  Speaker 7: I did hear, honest what I was staring at the well,
• 46:54
  Speaker 7: I wish it would. I was staring at the light
• 46:58
  Speaker 7: over the porch and the thin it's too low, too low.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: Did you notice that too.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: It's a good thing you told me this today and
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: not yesterday, because I would have had a field day
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: with you. But of course you wouldn't have said that
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: yesterday because then you would have had to admit some
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: sort of wrongdoing. God forbid.
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: But the beepers didn't go off.
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: The beepers didn't go off. It's their fault to be
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: quite on.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: You turn them off accident.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: They be Oh no, they beep to just fine. For
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: me today, it's all good.
• 47:31
  Speaker 6: So you, Shena and Lisa vander Pomp, I want to ask,
• 47:34
  Speaker 6: so this was like a emotional scene. All three of
• 47:38
  Speaker 6: you cried how'd you feel going into it? Were you
• 47:41
  Speaker 6: expecting that conversation to happen.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: I was not expecting that conversation to be that way
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: at all, because Sandoval hadn't really like unless I was
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: with Arianna, like talking about Tom Sandoval never really came up.
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: So when I was going to link up with Lisa, like,
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: we don't really talk about Tom Sandoval, right, So when
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: she brought his mental health into it, then it was
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: I was feeling like a few things. I was like,
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: I certainly don't want to participate in someone feeling that
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: way he did this. I don't want to be responsible
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: for someone else's mental health. That seems like a huge
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: weight to put on somebody. But I also want to
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: be soft and sensitive. There were a lot of things
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: happening at once because it was still new and fresh,
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: and we hadn't seen this person in a really long
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: time nor spoken about him really, I mean what we
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: talked about him on the podcast, but like in my
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: day to day, it was like he was somewhere and
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: now we're here filming the show and it's very sand
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: of all heavy. So it was bringing back all the
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: emotions of like how poorly he treated me and yes,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I went really really heavy in the paint on him.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: I don't regret that, but I certainly know how to
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: disengage in back off.
• 48:56
  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I think it was a ended up being
• 48:59
  Speaker 6: a healthy conversation.
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: How do you feel at the How did you feel
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: at the end of it? Do you remember?
• 49:07
  Speaker 6: Because you did, you were emotional and like frustrated, but
• 49:10
  Speaker 6: then towards the end you could see the softer side.
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: You were crying and you were you know.
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: Well, I feel like that's what was so hard about
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: this season, especially at the beginning, is it's like trying
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: to put your guard down and get rid of what
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: your own personal experiences and see people as people again.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: It's like there's a huge internal conflict that happens. You're like,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: I want to be soft and I want to heal,
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: and I want the tools to do those things. But
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: like we're talking about this and I'm angry because this
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: is what I've experienced, and like I don't know how
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: to let it go. And you'll see that internal battle
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: happening a lot for me the entire season, and a
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: lot of times I don't know how to control it.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: So I kind of like vent and purge and then
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: I just start sobbing because I can't find the middle
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: ground yet.
• 50:00
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and you find it you're looking for it in
• 50:02
  Speaker 6: which you can tell for that conversation.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I like that we had it, and I loved that
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: Lisa brought it to my attention because they're I don't
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: want to put everyone in the same category as my
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: own experience. I don't want that at all. I will
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: live a really sad and isolated life if I do that.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: And you hear me and my confessionals say, when I
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: thought about Tom Sandoval, I did not think about his
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: mental health because I pictured him as you know what
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: I say. And they don't have feelings. They don't think
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: about stuff like that. They just think about how can
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: I get this to go away? Who can I shut up?
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: Who can I pay off? Like that's where I was thinking.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: I'm like, that's who Tom Sandival is. And that's not
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: entirely true. Maybe it is. I don't know. All I
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: know is I got to heal a little bit so
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: that people are welcomed into my life at some point. Again, Yeah, that's.
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: You said, I wrote.
• 50:54
  Speaker 6: I wrote you said a line about I think you
• 50:56
  Speaker 6: were discussing your trauma.
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: I thought this was a very beautiful episode for you.
• 51:00
  Speaker 6: It's showing us. I don't know how the season goes.
• 51:02
  Speaker 6: I haven't seen any episodes. You're, in my opinion, the
• 51:05
  Speaker 6: most vulnerable I've ever seen you ever on the show period.
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: I feel like I have this season, I've been the
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: most truthful and vulnerable, and I've put my guard down
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: to where I don't have this armor on going into
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: every single like my heart is like out there and
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: it was it was It made me very true?
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: Are you or emotional?
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 51:29
  Speaker 6: Can we talk about people saying sand of all, I'm
• 51:32
  Speaker 6: seeing a lot of talk online about them saying he's
• 51:36
  Speaker 6: I want to use the right term, not victimizing mental health,
• 51:39
  Speaker 6: but he's basically using the mental health aspect in his
• 51:42
  Speaker 6: favor to get sympathy. I very heavily disagree on this,
• 51:46
  Speaker 6: but I am curious what you think because I see
• 51:48
  Speaker 6: a lot of back and forth online people saying this.
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: Isn't right, Sanda fal you shouldn't be doing this.
• 51:53
  Speaker 6: We see what you're doing, and other people being like,
• 51:55
  Speaker 6: what do you expect He's been harassed? Like, of course
• 51:58
  Speaker 6: he's going to get to this point.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: I feel like when the scene with Billy, I really
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: really enjoyed Billy Lee in her scene with Sandobal. She
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: and I have had a really rocky road, but I
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: do I respect her and what she's gone through and
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: I can never imagine the road that she's been on.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: So if there's one thing that I do have for her,
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: it's a tremendous amount of respect and for her to
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: open up about there were times where we thought that
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: we were gonna lose you. You know, we have to remember,
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: like he was being slammed, like he was being talked
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: about at the White House Correspondence dinner. We were talking
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: about him slamming him on the podcast, we were making merch.
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: Bravo blogs were going in on him, like at some
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: point that is going to fuck with you mentally, and
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: he should be allowed to come on the show that
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: he's been a part of for eleven years and say
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: this affected me without other people being the judge and
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: jury on his mental health and it being jeopardized is
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: real or not. You know, let's just say he is
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: victimizing it. He has to live with that, not me.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: But let's say he's not and something happens and I
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: double down, then I have to live with that, and
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: I'll be damned.
• 53:23
  Speaker 6: Absolutely, And I do want to get to that scene
• 53:26
  Speaker 6: where they mention you and Sheena and the podcast in Sandoval,
• 53:30
  Speaker 6: but I let's cut too because this was next the
• 53:32
  Speaker 6: schwartz pool moment. I'm about to make a bold statement
• 53:35
  Speaker 6: he was crushing on you, like he was, like you
• 53:40
  Speaker 6: could tell. I don't know, so did you see it?
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: I did.
• 53:44
  Speaker 5: But it's like he reminds me of my like a
• 53:46
  Speaker 5: buddy back in Hi Walter Hogan, Yeah, shout out like
• 53:50
  Speaker 5: he's just like he's such a good person. And I
• 53:53
  Speaker 5: think that Tom has been Schwartz has just been hated on.
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: As much as he has Sandoval.
• 54:01
  Speaker 5: That getting that from Lauren, that conversation that was heartfelt,
• 54:05
  Speaker 5: I think made him feel like he could be happy.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: So I don't think he was crushing. I think he was.
• 54:10
  Speaker 5: I think he was happy that he was being heard,
• 54:13
  Speaker 5: somebody was talking to him, with it being not about
• 54:17
  Speaker 5: sand of aal and just working towards something. So I
• 54:20
  Speaker 5: think he was just a place of happiness because that's
• 54:22
  Speaker 5: how we used to get and I think.
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: He was just happy to be. I feel like it
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: was before Scandival ever happened, Like that's how feeling. Yeah,
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: and now he.
• 54:33
  Speaker 5: Feels right that that conversation I felt like was a
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: big first step for like what we're about to see
• 54:40
  Speaker 5: in Tahoe.
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: And I think he's excited. So I think that's what
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: I was getting.
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: That's what I that's what I gathered to, Okay, like
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: when yeah, when he was like, you know, I've always
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: thought you're so stunning, but like in a platonic way,
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: and like it's the reason I fell in love with
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: you, you know, I guess friends, And I was like, I
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: know what you mean, Like I'm not thinking that like
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: we're going to like go make babies. That you mean
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: like we're just homies.
• 55:02
  Speaker 4: Background check first, I think he'll pass.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I because he did pay so heavily in
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: Scandival and then also take Scannival out of it. I
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: was coming for him so hard last season. I was
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: calling him a fucking loser, You're a slob. You He
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: was coming for me too. I was rising to the occasion.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: But I don't care what anyone says on this cast.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: When you come for me, I will demolish you. So
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: no matter what it is, it's never fair play.
• 55:44
  Speaker 4: But she learned.
• 55:46
  Speaker 5: For the regular really makes them feel like shit and
• 55:50
  Speaker 5: then just go, I am so sorry, that's exactly right.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: So even though he was coming for me, like it
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: left like a scratch where I then grabbed my grenade
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: launches and my AK forty sevens and just you know,
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: and it wounds people and they carry it with them
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: right where He's like, well, I'm sorry that what I
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: said about your lips, and I'm like, honey, I'm like,
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: I'm the finest bitch walking this planet. All right, all right,
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: all right, all right.
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: I like how he brings a plant everywhere.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: I know, fourteen plants or something.
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: I died. Ali was like, I don't have to hire
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: a gardener.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: I laughed. She was funny. She was so funny.
• 56:29
  Speaker 6: Okay, Reilly quick yeah, you and James the scene with
• 56:32
  Speaker 6: you too. You know what, I thought it was really
• 56:34
  Speaker 6: great because you guys, you're right, you've you'll never you'll
• 56:36
  Speaker 6: probably never have a friendship like James. You guys went
• 56:39
  Speaker 6: through the messiest days together and crazy relationships and now
• 56:44
  Speaker 6: you're on your own journeys and you're adults, and it's
• 56:48
  Speaker 6: just it was beautiful.
• 56:49
  Speaker 3: I like, I like the friendship.
• 56:51
  Speaker 4: I like the laala James, right, James.
• 56:53
  Speaker 6: Yeah, And then the podcast was mentioned shout out Eryl,
• 57:00
  Speaker 6: you know, Sam Sandoval just saying that Sheena and Laala
• 57:08
  Speaker 6: were like basically the leaders of showing everyone how to
• 57:11
  Speaker 6: treat them.
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: How do you feel about it, mean, girls, Yeah, just like.
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: I don't think.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure people were following our lead. I thought
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: Sena was. I didn't. I didn't listen to Sena's podcast,
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: So I can't even speak on the things that she
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: was saying. I can only speak to what I was doing.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: And I was out here speaking my truth. And there's
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: one thing you will never take from me, and that
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: is my voice. And if I have an opinion, I'm
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: going to vocalize it. And if I say some funny
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: shit and someone out here decides to try and go
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: make merch off of something I said, I'm going to
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: hop on that and say, no, that's mine. I'm making
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: the merch. So yes, I when something happens and I
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: know that the moment is going to pass, I'm going
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: to jump on it and monetize the fuck of it,
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: which is exactly what I did. And I'm sorry if
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: that upset you, but like you went and did this,
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: and I could have fallen back, but like I said
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: send it to Daryl. I made the funny video, Like,
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: you're not taking credit for that. Had this not happened, though,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't have had that. Well, guess what, I didn't
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: need this to happen, Like this wasn't make Send it
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: to Daryl was not make or break my life. It's
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: a big if you did, but it did happen. You
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: know when people love to live in the what ifs,
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: Well the if don't matter because it did happen. So
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: I capitalized off of it. And yes, I would also
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: be angry if the person who I did not like
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: for a really long time was proven right about who
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: I was and then made a lot of money off
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: of my fuck up. I would also be a little
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: bit bitter. So I'm not upset at him bringing that up. Yeah,
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: and to say that we were the driving force, I
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: think that's giving us way too much credit, way too much.
• 59:01
  Speaker 2: I think that way too much.
• 59:03
  Speaker 6: A lot of people, Yeah, there was a lot. You
• 59:05
  Speaker 6: didn't make Team Ariana show.
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: We were all just in the tsunami of coming at you.
• 59:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: No, And let's remember, had he not said certain things
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: to me, and he had been like a good guy
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: to me and Raquela and I would have stayed on
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: a good path, like going to that reunion. It would
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: have been really hard for me to go insane. But
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: you weren't cool to me. You said a lot of
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: messed up stuff, going as far as calling me a mistress,
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: saying that I need to be real with my life,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: and you don't think I'm gonna have a heyday with this,
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: and it's not so vindicated. I was like, all these
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: years I've been trying to say that you two people,
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: and I've been called a bully and you're a bitch,
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: and you're jealous, and in this moment right now, you
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: have gone above and beyond to prove that I'm right.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: And you think I'm just gonna sit here quietly, do
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: you know me?
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: But at all?
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: No, I'm writing the high Oh yeah, we're hump in
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: the high horse, right, I'm getting my rocks off.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: Benchs flucky horse.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: So I understood where he was coming from. Okay, okay,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: I'd be mad. I would be very mad too, at myself.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: Oh you know, I think that's where he's.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: Mad at himself.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 6: Okay, himself. Yeah, last, but not Lisa. I just I
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 6: cried at the James Graham scene. Did you see that, Lise?
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 3: You didn't see it, because I feel like Lisa would
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: have cried, Oh, the James Graham scene. And you can
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: tell he was not expecting that.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 6: You guys, sometimes they not film, but sometimes they'll be like, oh,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 6: you're filming with you.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: Well, I think he thought he was coming in to
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: have Lisa because we had told him, like Lisa talked
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: to us about Sanaval's mental health. Remember at the dinner
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: that he had with Ali and Brock and Sheena. So
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: I think he thought, I'm going to van her pump
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: dogs and Lisa is gonna tell me, like, go to Tahoe,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: ease up on Sandaval. Instead, Graham comes running down the stairs.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 3: No, Lisa, you'll cry. I have to watch it.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: He goes, it's Graham and she goes, yes, James, he
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: was rescued and he just loses it.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 3: It was beautiful.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 6: It was so beaut right now she's already she was.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: He was like, it was Graham's this was his destiny
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: to work his way back to me.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 3: Oh beautiful, really sweet, but.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: No, it was such a cute moment.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm excited for next week, which is Tahoe. I'm
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 6: stoked to see that is.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: Going to be Like it was slow, but I think
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: that we're going to get into some good stuff now.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: But we knew that it was going to be slow,
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: like the group, like, I know what everyone is probably
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: wanting in theirs. But this the thing that I love
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: about vander Pump Rules is this show is so authentic.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: We're not casting. There has been a time we had
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: Bask and he was like, we've tried casting for this show,
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: and when you do that, you get season eight. Yeah
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: it does not end well. No, we're all real friends,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: we all have real feelings for each other, good bad
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: sometimes and we're having to film a television show now
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: where it's like a lot of us don't fuck with
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: each other and a lot of us look at each
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: other with a side eye and like we didn't really.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: It just brought up a lot of emotions. Whether it
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: was about scan of all your own trust issues, how
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: people handled it, it doesn't matter, Like it's a rebuilding,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: So just stick with us and like try to understand,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: like if this were to happen in your friend group,
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: how it would be the film a television show with
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: all of them. Still, Yeah, that was a fun pod
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: Mom I'm so happy.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 3: Do you want to do ach and realief for no?
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you want ache and relief? Easton. Do you want
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: to start us off? Yeah?
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 5: The ache and relief is uh, I don't. Oh my
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 5: homie came out for my birthday. Taylor app good and.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: So we love tap good.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 5: My relief of the week was just my birthday, going
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 5: and spending some time and hanging with friends and just relaxing.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: And then the ache of the relief or the week
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: is I don't. I don't have one. Just when he leaves.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: Moving a week with you?
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, all that moving we had to do.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: We've already done a podcast.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 5: Well it's been a two week move baby.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: Mom, do you have an ache and relief of the week?
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 7: My ache is backing into Bradley's car, And my relief
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 7: is that we made up on our way to buying.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 4: Furniture and ships.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: That's a good one.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: What a Lifey's car.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 4: I love you that I had a birthday Valentine's birthday.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: Boy, Jessica, I'd go for it. My left Okay.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 3: My ache was a literal ache.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 6: I had been having a back pain forever, thinking it
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 6: was a pulled muscle in jiu jitsu and it so
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 6: I was like, this is crazy. I finally went to
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 6: a chiropractor last week. I had gone to the doctor everything.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 6: I go to the chiropractor last week, and this is
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 6: now my relief. He is like, do you know your
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 6: ribs popped out of place?
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: Was likeven have they been uneven?
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 6: They've always been on, even my whole and he was like,
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 6: it's bad and I've just been jiu jitsuing.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 3: So anyway, he popped it back in. Most painful thing ever.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: But I was like, oh, Like it was like did
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: it feel so good?
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 6: Not immediately immediately it was sore because the popping in,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 6: but I was the next day.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I'm a new woman
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: and not for you. It's great now. So there we go.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 4: I love the chiro.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: I didn't even know you could pop your That.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: Was like sticking out. You can milk anything with nipples.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: I've got nipplescrag, can you.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: My ache of the week is beefing with my mom.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: It's really.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: I would rather be like literally, fighting with my mom
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: is like worse than like beef in with I'd rather
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: have someone be like, hey, your husband of twenty seven years.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 4: Is cheating on you.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: Beef one day with my mom. My relief is that
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: we are killing it with getting a fabulous, gorgeous furniture
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: for the new house. It's so fucking elevated, and I
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: just feel like a rich bitch. You are a rich
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: bitch falling on a budget, but I looks like a
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: rich bitch.
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  Speaker 4: Always got a ball on a budget.
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  Speaker 1: Oh forever. I love a good coupon. Don't believe.
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  Speaker 4: This sperson was saying, I'll give you thirty off this
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  Speaker 4: forty out there.
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  Speaker 1: We're like, yes, score school president say sale h.
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  Speaker 3: Buttercup, Oh yeah, shout out, shout out.
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  Speaker 1: The one over this way is.
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  Speaker 4: Like with Josh.
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  Speaker 3: With Josh is.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: Like the Disneyland of furniture. Hello, It's where Jeff Lewis
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: goes on Hollywood facelift. Anyway, you guys, thank you for
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: listening to another episode of We Give Them All a podcast.
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  Speaker 1: I love you all so very much and I will
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  Speaker 1: catch you next week.