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Happy Hour #121: Was it Good for You? (SATC S2 Ep. 16) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and.
• 0:06
  Speaker 2: Welcome to stuff I've never told you protection of iHeartRadio.
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: And we are back with another happy hour episode. Where
• 0:22
  Speaker 1: are we watching Sex and the City.
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  Speaker 2: Yay? These are so fun for me because I literally
• 0:27
  Speaker 2: have no idea what's about to happen.
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  Speaker 1: And I just get to tease you with it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fun to be talking about anything I don't know, It's.
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  Speaker 1: True, and it's quite fun to watch your face. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: and we are on season two, episode sixteen, if you're
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  Speaker 1: keeping count. We're slowly making our way through these second
• 0:45
  Speaker 1: season out of all the seasons in the movies, and
• 0:48
  Speaker 1: apparently just like that, it is coming back soon too.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, a lot. We've got a lot to do,
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  Speaker 1: but we do before we start. This is a happy
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  Speaker 1: hour and a if you're drinking anything, if you're doing
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  Speaker 1: any excessive things, be responsible extracurricular things, I guess, be responsible,
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  Speaker 1: take care of yourself. You know, drink it could be
• 1:08
  Speaker 1: an extra curricular right the things? No, yeah, sure, as
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  Speaker 1: I've been watching all the k dramas apparently as a
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  Speaker 2: The will find you is what I really We have
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  Speaker 2: to be real open, which I appreciate.
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  Speaker 1: I think, yes, And we don't have that kind of money.
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  Speaker 2: No, I just met with a financial planner and it
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  Speaker 2: turns out no.
• 2:08
  Speaker 1: They told me I'm poorer than I thought. So, Annie,
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  Speaker 1: what are you seepp in.
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  Speaker 2: On my red wine from a box? I did want
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  Speaker 2: to make because it's hot in my apartment. I wanted
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  Speaker 2: to make a gen and tonic, but my aforementioned meeting
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  Speaker 2: with the financial planner went over. I know I could
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  Speaker 2: have asked, but I just did the easier thing. So
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  Speaker 2: here we are.
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  Speaker 1: Easy's nice. Easy's nice. I am drinking on another bubbly water.
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  Speaker 1: I think I've kind of got to the point that
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what alcohol it makes me sleepy
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  Speaker 1: and behind the curtains here. This is the first episode
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  Speaker 1: we're recording today. It's like, we shouldn't I shouldn't start there,
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  Speaker 1: I shouldn't start sleepy. That's just the me thing. When
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  Speaker 1: we ended with it, we're good to go. I'm good
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  Speaker 1: to We're not ending this with it. So I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be drinking on my bubble water, which is a specific
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  Speaker 1: brand of mineral water. I think you actually got sponsored
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  Speaker 1: by them at Slavor. You got the hard alcohol I got.
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  Speaker 1: We don't have that here. Yeah, but yeah, so I'm
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  Speaker 1: not going to mention the break because they haven't sponsored
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  Speaker 1: us yet. Call us though, and you know who you are,
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  Speaker 1: You know who you are, you know. So, yes, we
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  Speaker 1: are on episode sixteen. But before we start, Annie, who
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  Speaker 1: got to be last time around? Can you kind of
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  Speaker 1: give us a rewind a recap?
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  Speaker 2: So we've had our Big and Carrie mid season breakup.
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  Speaker 2: The season started with them breaking up and then they
• 3:36
  Speaker 2: got back together, and now they've broken up again, and
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  Speaker 2: it had a lot of introspection for Carrie about like
• 3:41
  Speaker 2: who am I dating and what do I want? Charlotte
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  Speaker 2: is having to realize that what she wants, which is
• 3:49
  Speaker 2: kind of our more traditional heteronormative you know, picket white,
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  Speaker 2: picket fence, husband, a couple kids. It's not what everyone
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  Speaker 2: else wants. And she and I had this argument with
• 4:02
  Speaker 2: her brother about it and with Samantha about it and
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  Speaker 2: called her some not nice things, but they have come around.
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  Speaker 2: They talked about it, and then Miranda we have has
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  Speaker 2: met Steve who I mean, I know spoiler alert because
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  Speaker 2: HBO was telling me this twenty five years so that's past,
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  Speaker 2: but who we know is important in her life later.
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  Speaker 2: But they have broken up, and now she has been
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  Speaker 2: dating a bunch of interesting people. I'll say, and then yeah, Samantha.
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  Speaker 2: It's so funny because every time I feel like I
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  Speaker 2: say the same thing, but Samantha continues to kind of
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  Speaker 2: like date and has very specific ideas and thoughts about
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  Speaker 2: relationships and how, you know, we should be more open
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  Speaker 2: about what they can look like and kind of getting
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  Speaker 2: into hijinks. And and the last one we talked a lot,
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  Speaker 2: a lot about dating the family and it had a
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  Speaker 2: really good moment at the end where they talked about
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  Speaker 2: kind of the fown family and the friends, and that
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  Speaker 2: is one of our favorite things as we as I'm
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  Speaker 2: watching it. The first time, Samantha the several time. So
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  Speaker 2: that was nice.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, very good, very good. Thank you for that.
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  Speaker 1: So we are now on episode sixteen. We've traveled past that.
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  Speaker 1: The title are you Ready? Is called was it good
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  Speaker 1: for You? Question? Mark? Okay, can you give me a
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  Speaker 1: prediction of what you think this episode is about?
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  Speaker 2: As I mentioned in the last one, now I feel
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  Speaker 2: like I flew too close to the sun. I actually
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  Speaker 2: had success. So now I'm in my head about it?
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  Speaker 1: Are you cathing?
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  Speaker 2: It was like at semi right about a bad pun?
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  Speaker 2: Was it good for you? I mean that sounds on
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  Speaker 2: the surf like it's like maybe not great sex, or
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  Speaker 2: maybe you don't know if the other person is enjoying it,
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  Speaker 2: and so you ask, we'll it good for you? That's
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  Speaker 2: what I got. That's it.
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  Speaker 1: I like you generalized statement, not about the individual characters,
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  Speaker 1: just a generalized statement. That's where we are. Know.
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  Speaker 2: I'm hoping by like season three, I'll be like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I got it, yeah, but not right now. I don't
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  Speaker 2: have it yet.
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  Speaker 1: We'll see season three. I'll remember those words. Okay, Okay,
• 6:35
  Speaker 1: all right, then let's get into it and see how
• 6:38
  Speaker 1: you do. When he was making love to me.
• 6:55
  Speaker 3: He was tired. This has nothing to do with you.
• 7:00
  Speaker 1: The man ever falling, They were a bit. It's nice, sleepy,
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  Speaker 1: he's comfortable. There is some questions about, like how much
• 7:09
  Speaker 1: little movement do you do that he just all to
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  Speaker 1: sleep And if you don't realize he's asleep until he
• 7:14
  Speaker 1: starts snoring, what are y'all doing? Y'all just laying there? Cool?
• 7:19
  Speaker 1: Of course it's her, and I have to say I'm
• 7:21
  Speaker 1: not surprised. Ever seen her on a staremaster, nothing happening
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  Speaker 1: below the ways? Not no sale. How can you say
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  Speaker 1: if my friend said that about me, I'd be really sad?
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  Speaker 1: Ay are you talking this way about people?
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  Speaker 2: See?
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  Speaker 1: Oh? God? Also, I don't think I would be talking
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  Speaker 1: about my friend's sex life to my other friends. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe that's just I think it depends on your friend
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  Speaker 2: group dynamic, okay, and in my personal case no, but
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  Speaker 2: I can see some group dynamics working that way. We
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  Speaker 2: want to have sex with a woman, are you serious?
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  Speaker 1: Totally? I've always been curious what it would be like.
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  Speaker 1: Either one of us has ever done it.
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  Speaker 2: beIN we thought it might be fun.
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  Speaker 1: So they're friends and they're propositioning her and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: that just feels awkward in itself, Like I have a
• 8:13
  Speaker 1: pretty strict role about not dating within the friend group,
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  Speaker 1: so this feels like even worse.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think it's like on the line of
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  Speaker 2: flattering and also insulting, because.
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  Speaker 1: The first Samantha wasn't insulting because that just validated her life.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and I think that is like a clear her character.
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  Speaker 2: But there's also kind of this assumption that you'll like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: you're so sexual, you'll be into it, which I don't
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  Speaker 2: think would fly with everyone but for her. Yes, you can't.
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  Speaker 4: Smoke on the restaurant. You know I'm a smoker.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a smoker too, but come on, Pally, watch
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  Speaker 3: where you throw those things?
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  Speaker 1: Huh.
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  Speaker 2: Oh it didn't leave the mark.
• 8:58
  Speaker 3: As the pain subsided, my mind was free to notice
• 9:01
  Speaker 3: how incredibly cute this guy was.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, my name is Patrick, Patrick Casey.
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  Speaker 3: Kerrie Bradshaw Burn victim.
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  Speaker 2: How weird was that that was? I would not be
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  Speaker 2: happy if someone got a cigarette at me.
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  Speaker 1: That's fair.
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  Speaker 2: I think I would like hear the person out, but
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  Speaker 2: then I would not go right with you anywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean like the fact that it was an accident.
• 9:28
  Speaker 1: He's apologizing. It's super cute. It could be a meet cute,
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  Speaker 1: very New York meet cute cigarette. Yep, yep, that's how
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  Speaker 1: it became.
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  Speaker 3: I had learned that Patrick was a composer who wrote
• 9:41
  Speaker 3: music for the movies.
• 9:43
  Speaker 1: So what type of movies do you compose? For?
• 9:45
  Speaker 4: Really bad ones? You know the I screamed when I
• 9:49
  Speaker 4: knew what you did last summer on.
• 9:53
  Speaker 1: There you go? Sorry, he just called out all your movies.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. He would have been ex just from that,
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't he.
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  Speaker 2: I'm late, I have to go, dare you.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for the coffee, and maybe one day you'll
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  Speaker 3: you'll give me.
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  Speaker 1: Scar tissue again.
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  Speaker 4: You're great.
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  Speaker 3: As I walked away, I started to think how many cute, smart,
• 10:17
  Speaker 3: single smokers.
• 10:18
  Speaker 1: Are they left in the world.
• 10:19
  Speaker 2: Single smokers. That used to be a hard no for
• 10:21
  Speaker 2: me back when I was dating was if you smoked,
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: I was no man.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was not my favorite this, but like, I
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: would give you a chance if you told me you're
• 10:31
  Speaker 1: uh at social yeah social stop yeah yeah. And typically
• 10:37
  Speaker 1: though whenever, like if I kissed them and they were
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: smoke wrath, I'll be like, nope.
• 10:43
  Speaker 2: You laughed real hard at my confession to you that
• 10:46
  Speaker 2: if I've just washed my hair, I won't go to
• 10:49
  Speaker 2: a restaurant if my friends invite me where the smoking
• 10:52
  Speaker 2: is allowed, because then I had to waped my hair.
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: Yet, how often do you wash your hair twice a week? Oh?
• 10:59
  Speaker 2: Okay, when I was running, it was every day.
• 11:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, me too. If I work out typically, well no,
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: not even that I want according to if I'm doing
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: something the next day, I might just put some of
• 11:07
  Speaker 1: the uh the dry shampoo, yeah, dry sapoo, baby powder
• 11:11
  Speaker 1: or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: Can you believe that someone actually had the nerve to
• 11:20
  Speaker 1: call this colored florentine peach.
• 11:22
  Speaker 3: I can't believe you have the nerve to spend this
• 11:23
  Speaker 3: much on.
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: Sheets, Flora. You know, as you get older and you
• 11:28
  Speaker 1: have more of a disposable income, I will start spending
• 11:32
  Speaker 1: a little more money on my bed stuff, like like,
• 11:35
  Speaker 1: you know, like it's important to have comfortable things, soft
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: sheeese where you just lay in there. You're like, oh,
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: this is especially when they are freshly clean. It's a
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: delight and it's worth the money.
• 11:47
  Speaker 2: It is. I I agree, And I've been working on
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: sleeping more and I feel like I've had good luck,
• 11:55
  Speaker 2: and part of it is because my bed is so comfortable. Nice.
• 11:59
  Speaker 2: But also when I had a huge crush on Daniel Radcliffe,
• 12:02
  Speaker 2: I remember reading an interview with him where he said
• 12:04
  Speaker 2: the one thing he'll splurge on it is a bed,
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: like a nice bed and nice sheets and nice pillows.
• 12:09
  Speaker 2: And I had such a big crush on him. I
• 12:11
  Speaker 2: was like sage advice. He changed your life and he
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: doesn't even know it as it should be. I won't
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: bother him again with a why not.
• 12:33
  Speaker 4: Listen, let me explain.
• 12:35
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm embarrassed. You know, you're obviously you're in
• 12:37
  Speaker 3: the middle of a thing with your lover or whoever,
• 12:42
  Speaker 3: not gay.
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: I'm an alcoholic alcoholic.
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: We were just waiting for him. You ever dated an attic?
• 12:49
  Speaker 2: Yes, not an alcoholic, but a drug addicts. And I
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: didn't know at the time, and I was too young
• 12:54
  Speaker 2: to deal with it, like I felt guilty and I
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: had to stay in it to help him, and I
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: didn't know how to help him, so it wasn't a
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: good situation. But I mean, I very well could have
• 13:04
  Speaker 2: dated an alcoholic and not known it, but as far
• 13:07
  Speaker 2: as I know, I have not.
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: I definitely dated an alcoholic, and he was I think
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: like almost into a year, but his addictive part and
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: social worker here, So being a person who worked with
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: like addicts and stuff, I was like, oh, no, this
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  Speaker 1: is not good. But yet I believed him. And then
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: I saw all the things. I was like, oh, this
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  Speaker 1: is because also and we're gonna talk about this in
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: a bit, but like he also has a habit and
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: an addict in being happy and in love. So it
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: was very obvious that kind of was like I was
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: a replacement for a little while until I got boring.
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah to him, well, to be fair, like he was
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: also recently out of a relationship, Like he was divorced
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: and like went through a really horrible divorce. But like
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: there's so many things, but like all of that is
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: part of the addictive personality of like, oh okay, okay,
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: you're just that person.
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  Speaker 2: Mine was much more. He was using me to like
• 14:06
  Speaker 2: he needed something to distract him, and it wasn't like happiness,
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: it was just something.
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  Speaker 1: Easy. God boy, how would you feel about a dude
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: nakedly jumping up and down on your bed?
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  Speaker 2: Not great? Yeah, I'm afraid okay.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: Like he would follow on you.
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but also yeah, I'm not super into Yeah, that's fair.
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: There's a good Seinfeld quote about it, where like and
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: for everybody who's attracted to the male body, all for it,
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: but like the flopping about, I don't think I yeah.
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: Flopping about. The flopping about also for me, like, even
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: though I do I am attracted to men, I don't
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: necessarily think, like all the anatomy is great looking, I
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: don't want to see it necessarily.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah. The Seinfeld quote is like the man is like
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: a jeep, like it gets a job done. The woman
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: is like much more like sleeker.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: And you can decide. So I'm taking a class in
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: class No. A tantric sex workshop.
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: I feel like this is one of the scenes I've seen.
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: I've seen one where they go to a sex workshop.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: This, dude, you are correct, is coming up.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: I have seen this one particular party.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: There you go, the one that you talked about. I've
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: seen parts of it.
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: Yes, I do think that's there's nothing wrong with that.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: The same as like, I.
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: Don't know if I would be prepared to see what
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: you're actual act, I'll be like, wait the way, what
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: is happened?
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: I mean go in with full knowledge of consent. And
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: also no one can touch you in a class. You
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: consent to it. But I think it's like every everything
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: happens is it should happen, nothing wrong with it. It's
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: like kind of like you know, you can read books
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: and look up online.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: Yes it helps, it helps, you know. For a lot
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: of teenage girls, it happened to be like Cosmos and such.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: They were really raunchy about how to please your man
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: and all, by the way, really bad advice.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: That was very bad advice because it was very much
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: more about pleasing the man and nothing about like you
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: sack like slowly.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: That came about about like you know how women. And
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: I think GQ may have a version of that for men,
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: h I think, But I feel like there were more
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: articles about like how to get a woman, not necessarily
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: how to please a woman, right, and this is all
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: very heteromormative speak. And I think that's all I saw though, unfortunately.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean that's think the thing is that
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: it is implies that if you don't, he'll leave you.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: That's like kind of the understanding I got head.
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  Speaker 1: In the bedroom or else he'll go.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: And it might be a thing you don't want to do, right, I.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: Can't do this either.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: Can I.
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  Speaker 1: Very awkward, but I we're just getting stuck, can't. I'm sorry, Sorry,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: it's very pretty, but I feel like it's not like
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: men don't have like some sort of breath, right right,
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, I know women are are like a like
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: a fatty are.
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: Suddenly Samantha wasn't feeling so good about herself in bed.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: I mean, if they don't want to do it, don't
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: do it. But I get why she feels a little
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: bolder right.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: At this point, like she's talked to herself and like
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: they talked her into it, but they said no, So
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: that is what it is.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: You move on.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Does she feel rejected? Sure, yes, but she was.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: I don't know how I'm supposed to guess that I
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: need to like expand my worldview.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: You're correct, you would have never thought that came in
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: with it proposition sam mm hmmm. So I go, so
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: I get it.
• 18:31
  Speaker 5: So, without further delay, let me introduce my husband, doctor
• 18:42
  Speaker 5: really Chapiro. I will demonstrate the very effective Lingham massage.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, the memories are coming back.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: Are you having it? Yeah? I remember this very one
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: of the moose ridiculous and I would be upset by
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: the way. If I was Miranda with her, I would
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: be very clearly exposed. I like these some of these
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: women have a pencil and pad. Take your time. Absolutely not.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: I would have been out if I if I was
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: not aware of what was like, if this was gonna happen, gone,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not watching this, This is not this is too much.
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: I can't do it by I don't think i'd have
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: the courage to leave.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: Un I'd be like I got oh, no, I got
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: a caphone, call my dog is sick, and I would
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: know right away you were like, I still run away,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: coming with me? Let's go, No race.
• 19:42
  Speaker 5: Your right hand and the receiver's root route. The root
• 19:50
  Speaker 5: chakra is located between the amus and the genitals.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: Well, I think that I just got my fifty bucks worth.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: So I feel like I saw this when I I
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: was like in high school.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: Well then that would make more sense of like why
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: so memorable as a high schooler.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: But I think I thought like, oh god, I have
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: to go to classes.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Also, I feel like this much movement on the on
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: the dude, eventually it's gonna start like hurting him, maybe
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: just really bad at this. I'm telling you myself here.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: And when she was talking about it too. I think
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh god, I didn't know what it
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: was like this. So I needed the classes.
• 20:38
  Speaker 5: Because Wenesday go trick.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: They don't go fuck.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: You go girl.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: See, I just do people teach like this, Like are
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: they this hands on? Unintended? He's gonna I told you,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: And just.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: Like that, Miranda got hit by old Faithful.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, what's funny?
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: Now? Well, I wonder if they had the Simon afore beforehand.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: I would be pissed.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would be too.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: Amid.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: That night, after we talked Miranda in from the Ledge,
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: I met Patrick for a movie.
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: So I was telling my sponsor today how I felt
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: about you, and suddenly I realized the maybe I should
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: just tell you, Carrie, I love you.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: There it was the little phrase every girl is dying
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: to here a week and a half into a relationship.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: So wow, this to me, it's kind of what happened
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: with the dude. Not this, not because I was so
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: great and bet or whatever. It's just like he got
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: so caught up that he immediately wanted to be in
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: love and I'm like, dude, we've only been dating for
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: four weeks and because or maybe he just wanted to
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: feel loved, like he could pull me so but like
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I'm like, nah, I haven't told any man I love you.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: I've only known you for four weeks and I really
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: really really like you and I really enjoy this and
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: the feelings. But like it was so a nerving how quickly.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: But he was an addict and I really feel like
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: he's that's the speed that he would go.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think mine was kind of similar in that
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: I feel like, looking back, he was he needed to
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: have like this dramatic love like he was much It's
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: like the most argumentative relationship I've ever been in. Wow,
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: And I'm not an argumentative person, you know this, Yeah,
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: but he needed that like adrenaline of the fight and.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, feel that.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah he was. Yeah, it was not good. Not a
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: good relationship.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Mine needed an immediate validation of like being it makes sense,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: like you know all these things. It's kind of interesting,
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: all right there it is you get like, I don't know,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: one out of four stars because you did get one
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: portion out of that, right because poor Charlotte. Everything else
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: kind of doesn't really.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Again, it's really funny to me that that's like one
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: of the three scenes I remember, yes, And I'm like,
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: how could I predicted any of this?
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, you're right, You're right. There's no way you
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: can predict almost anything, except for like when you slowly,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: especially when they're standalones like this, because you don't have
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: any like build up relationships. So when we start coming
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: into the main relationships for each one, I think it's
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: gonna be a little easier as it goes. Uh. And
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: that doesn't come to much later because you know, we
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: have to go through all their hot girl summer faces,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: which for Sam is for a while longer, but she
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: gets caught up in that too, So we love we
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: love a good hot girl summer rem right. I feel
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: like that should be a new episode name for their
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: their programs. Anyway, Well, you know, the just like that
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: because now they're coming back into being single or being
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: you know, newly into because you know, one's a widower,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: the ones a divorce a, the ones m I A.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: But she's gonna come back round via maybe phone call
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: or maybe through the other players. We don't know, but
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: we know she broke up with the movie star.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Well I don't know that, Sam.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: Do you watch the movie? Didn't you?
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: Oh, they would watch.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: The movie I went to go see the happening.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: You.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: My friends were so mad at me.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: It wasn't a bad It's fair. Well, now you've we've
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: gotten to this episode. We've talked about semantics. We've talked
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: about being a love addict, and I don't think we
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: talked about like love bombing and all that. He doesn't
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: technically do that, but he kind of does that with
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: the overwhelming quickness of being in love. But I think
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: he truly felt that it wasn't necessarily manipulation here. We
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: didn't have Miranda doing many things except being stained. Yeah,
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: I would be pissed.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: I would be too.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Someone knows me a refund.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I bet there was some form they
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: had to sign.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: I would hope so, because that whole thing, like if
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: if you ambushed me, it was a class like that. Nah.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: Have you ever gone to a class where you thought
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: you knew what it was and it was not at all?
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Yes, But typically it's not because like some exhibit is happening.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: It's more so like, oh, I thought we were going
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: to talk about something completely different type of thing, because
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: you know, when you have to do like seminars and
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: like trainings and you sign up for classes and you
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: go buy the title and then you're like, oh, no,
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: this is not what I had signed up for. What
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: is this?
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Or like the people who came to our panel who
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: was waiting for another panel and was not expecting our
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: panel and was really upset that it was our panel.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, legit asked us about gatekeeping from like the white
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: male sides.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: In which I responded with, yeah, men, definitely gatekeeper because
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I mis understood this question.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: Understand the question.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: And I win no regrets to that because I flipped
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: it and I didn't mean to, and he just kind
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: of stared at me, but other people are nodding.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: He was saying we were gatekeepers.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Yes, and I didn't realize Yeah, I didn't realize it.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I really thought he was asking how to handle gatekeepers. Yeah, no,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: and I thought he was talking yeah, And I'm like,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: what are you talking about? We're not gatekeeping feminism. We
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: want you to be part of it. Come on, how
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: are we gatekeeping that? Please be part of this. It
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: was a mess. I still hold to my answer because.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: I did not know it was because after I.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Came down, you were like, this is not what he
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: was asking.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: I was like but I liked it. I liked that
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: you were just like, of course, Mander.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: And we need to handle this and we need to
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: talk about it.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: Bore. It was really funny.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: He did not thought it was really like unintelligent. But
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: still I'm answer day. I feel like that should be
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: the answer when they asked silly questions like that, just
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: for me, like you don't understand it, and then answer
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: your own way to real make him think that, make
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: him know, no, that's not what's happening. This is what's
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: happening instead.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well I told you before. One of our coworkers
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: his favorite comeback to like any kind of real, sexist, racist,
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: whatever criticism, like not an actual criticism, but just something
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: that's really mean. Is I hope you have a better day?
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Good look?
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: Play ignorant to those questions are my favorite way to go,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: apparently because I do it really quickly and very easily. Anyway,
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: But yes, that was our episode of was it good
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: for so? Was it good for you? Any this episode.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: It was good for me. I feel now I can't wait.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: I'll get to the clown one and then I can
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: check off all the three scenes.
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: Ye.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Yes, that's gonna be a while from now, and that's
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: when we get to see Blair Underwood and I'm like, yes,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: let me see more of him. Okay, just a preview
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: to that, but very good, very good. You did get
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: portions of your generic answer it was, it was okay,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: So we're coming on episode seventeen. We're slowly pacing our
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: way through all of the episodes. This, by the way,
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: was released in nineteen ninety nine, so they didn't make
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: a reference to it's gonna be two thousand. Get with
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: the Times. That was twenty three years ago.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, that was not quite twenty talk about two K?
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: Why two K? Get with the times? Any get with
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: the times? Obviously. We hope that everybody is enjoying our
• 29:41
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• 29:45
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• 29:48
  Speaker 1: for our season finale. It was just gonna come way
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: later from now.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: Strange but yeah, that's h but we're working towards it.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: Got the names collected. We'll contact whoever it is soon.
• 30:03
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• 30:06
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• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Be excited. We don't know what's gonna happen.
• 30:10
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• 30:12
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• 30:16
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• 30:21
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• 30:24
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• 30:27
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