Latest / The Investor With Joel Palathinkal / Alison DeNardo: Mac Venture Capital
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- 0:00Sure.
- 0:02I'm gonna say this out loud, and some people might think that I'm the worst, but I
- 0:07genuinely, this is how I feel.
- 0:11I've never been worried about not getting into a deal.
- 0:14Like That's great.
- 0:15I've I've never had that concern, and I can tell you why.
- 0:18So
- 0:20Welcome to The Investor, a podcast where I, Joel Palofinkle, your host, dives deep into the
- 0:26minds of the world's most influential institutional investors.
- 0:31In each episode, we sit down with an investor to hear about their journeys and how global
- 0:36markets are driving capital allocation.
- 0:39So join us on this journey as we explore these insights.
- 0:44have a new BFF.
- 0:45Her name is Alison DeNardo.
- 0:48Her and I participated.
- 0:50I even know how much I can talk about this.
- 0:53I didn't sign an NDA or anything, but you and I participated in a pretty fun hackathon.
- 1:00There was a couple celebrities and, you know, athletes involved and, you know, the result was
- 1:07taking a problem and building a business and, you know, behind the scenes, a lot of memes and
- 1:13aggressive text messages were involved.
- 1:16So those are some things that you and I shared together.
- 1:19But one thing that I really want to talk about is your journey into venture capital.
- 1:24You know, a lot of people are really trying to break into venture capital that have not.
- 1:28And people like you and myself and many of our friends have had their own quirky journeys.
- 1:33And getting to know you just like me, you've pivoted in your career.
- 1:40So welcome to the show, Alison DeNardo.
- 1:44It's just been really exciting to build this friendship with you and I wanna just introduce
- 1:49you.
- 1:49You're the partner at Mac Venture Capital, based primarily on the West Coast.
- 1:55And then you've, you know, you've also co founded Alden, which is a change management
- 2:01platform for startups.
- 2:03And then I think you've also been at Justin TV when they were on the ground, right?
- 2:08I can kind of take you through that whole journey.
- 2:11Absolutely.
- 2:11Yeah.
- 2:12Well, hope I didn't completely bash your bio.
- 2:15Almost there.
- 2:15It's okay.
- 2:16Well, I'll let you fill in the blanks.
- 2:18Welcome to the show and excited to maybe we can start with just your journey, where you grew up
- 2:23and how you navigated to MacVenture.
- 2:25Let's take that journey and then I'll guide the rest of the session with some questions.
- 2:31Yeah, that sounds great.
- 2:32Well, first of all, I'm glad that you consider me your new BFF because I was gonna be the one
- 2:36to say that, so we're on the same page there.
- 2:39Yeah.
- 2:40So I can just start high level.
- 2:41I grew up in a tiny town in Central New York, literally one square mile, two stoplights.
- 2:47They just got a Dunkin' Donuts, which was a really big deal.
- 2:50That's progress.
- 2:50Just to yeah.
- 2:51Exactly.
- 2:51Just to give you a little bit of context on the footloose level town that we're dealing with.
- 2:56So I grew up my parents were the only parents out of my grade that were educated, which
- 3:02pretty is crazy.
- 3:04And I decided very early on that I was going to graduate early from high school.
- 3:09And no one ever had done that in my tiny school.
- 3:13I had to protest the school board to be able to do so.
- 3:16There were maybe some pitchforks involved, people trying to stop me, it was kind of a
- 3:19whole thing.
- 3:20But eventually was able to do it, graduated early, did a year at a state school, in New
- 3:25York, SUNY Albany, and did not like it.
- 3:28Just absolutely the college like typical college experience wasn't for me as far as
- 3:33sitting in the lecture hall for three hours was something I could learn in fifteen minutes.
- 3:36I just thought that was like really stupid, honestly, and a waste of my time because I
- 3:40could learn differently.
- 3:42And so I transferred to a program, an online program through Columbia, moved to Ithaca, New
- 3:47York.
- 3:48Was working four or five jobs from hotels, restaurants, bars, etcetera while I was doing
- 3:53my school.
- 3:54So making some money while I was doing my schooling was really great and getting all
- 3:57sorts of experience.
- 3:59And then I got an internship at a company called CenturyLink, if you're familiar with the
- 4:03Seattle Seahawks, CenturyLink Stadium in Seattle.
- 4:07Their traditional telecom, I was hired as an intern, which turned into me being the chief of
- 4:14staff for the SVP of product when I was 19 at a Fortune 500 company, which was like total plot
- 4:21twist.
- 4:22And that just happened because I raised my hand at a meeting and he was there and he needed
- 4:25someone to work on a project.
- 4:27And basically my job was to be his resident millennial.
- 4:31And so any project that they were thinking about rolling out or testing or whatever, he
- 4:35would have me test it first.
- 4:36And I basically tell him what ideas were super or not, which was really fun.
- 4:40Mhmm.
- 4:41And I was the one of two women in the top 100 people at a Fortune five hundred when I was 19,
- 4:46which was absolutely insane.
- 4:48Based in Monroe, Louisiana, just to throw that on top of there too.
- 4:51Very traditional southern environment.
- 4:53Southern I was there for about a year kind of for obvious reasons, Louisiana was not for me.
- 4:58And I don't know if I told you this story about Justin and Snapchat, right?
- 5:03I don't know if
- 5:04I did.
- 5:04I don't think you did.
- 5:05No.
- 5:05So let's kick that off.
- 5:08Sure.
- 5:09So post CenturyLink, or while I was still at CenturyLink, it was right when Snapchat stories
- 5:14came out.
- 5:15Yeah.
- 5:15And the explore feature was not very good.
- 5:17So I was looking at all these lists of people to follow on Snapchat and just ended up that
- 5:22Justin Kahn was one of them.
- 5:24So the you mentioned Justin TV.
- 5:25The Justin of Justin TV turned into Twitch, sold to Amazon for a billion dollars casually a
- 5:29few years ago.
- 5:30Right?
- 5:31He had just sold Twitch to Amazon and was running around San Francisco and was looking to
- 5:37hire a chief of staff and he posted it on Snapchat.
- 5:40And I had called him for a while, he posted stuff about entrepreneurship, starting
- 5:43companies, etcetera, I thought it was interesting.
- 5:45Then when he posted about this job, was like, oh, I can do that.
- 5:49Like, I've never been in San Francisco.
- 5:50I don't really know who this guy is, but like, he seems like fun and I could maybe do that.
- 5:54So I don't remember applying to this day, I guess that I did and FaceTimed with him twice
- 6:00for ten minutes and he said, I want you to work for me, you move to California next week?
- 6:04Had never met him in person, had never been to San Francisco and didn't know anybody, I'm
- 6:08like, sure.
- 6:10So that's how I became Justin's student of staff.
- 6:14Did everything from buying art to doing his book deal to helping manage his angel
- 6:19portfolio, who's also a YC partner at the time.
- 6:21So that's how I really just went for it in the VC and startup space and this was 2016.
- 6:28And then in 2017, he was thinking about Atrium, which was his most recent company, which was
- 6:34basically half law firm, half tech company.
- 6:36I came on as the first employee of Atrium, built out internal operations, hired literally
- 6:42100 people in the first year, which was absolutely insane, and then fell into the
- 6:47venture world kind of accidentally with M Ventures, which was one of our previous funds.
- 6:54Basically how that happened was Adrian and Mike.
- 6:57Adrian Pente used to be the mayor of DC during the first Obama term, and Mike Palinck, was in
- 7:02the talent in talent world in LA, worked at WME, kinda knows everything about everything.
- 7:08They had come to the Atrium office to meet with Justin.
- 7:10They were doing diligence, done some deal, Justin was like, oh, you should talk to Ally.
- 7:13She has tested this product.
- 7:15She knows the founder.
- 7:15She can tell you more about it than I can.
- 7:17And just to set the scene for you, like, mayor of DC, six foot something.
- 7:21I've never seen him not in a suit.
- 7:24Mike from LA, very LA, also kind of a taller taller guy and I'm five foot nothing in a
- 7:30startup office wearing sneakers and jeans.
- 7:32So there's like, just to set the scene.
- 7:36So they're like, quick, your Uber's outside, tell us about this thing.
- 7:38I'm like, okay, it's really stupid, it's never gonna be a business, you're gonna set your
- 7:43money on fire.
- 7:44And they stared at me for about thirty seconds, they're like who is this person and like why is
- 7:50she saying this?
- 7:50And it ended up that I was right and they offered me a job just about the same day.
- 7:56So I started working for m Ventures in the 2018 while I was still at Atrium part time, bringing
- 8:04in deals, working on deals, kind of the whole thing, and then came on full time as a partner
- 8:08September 2018 with the close of our second fund.
- 8:11And mVentures focused, early stage pre seed seed, average check was anywhere from 50 to
- 8:17about 400 or so.
- 8:19And we have about 90 companies under those two umbrellas ranging from wine in a can to AI for
- 8:26interactive media.
- 8:27Quite some range.
- 8:29And then in 2019, we were thinking about our next fund and Marley Nichols and Troy Carter
- 8:33out of LA and Cross Culture Ventures were doing the same thing.
- 8:37So that's what Mac Venture Capital is now, is the convergence of those two teams.
- 8:42We have five full time people split between, split hypothetically between LA and San
- 8:47Francisco with a thesis of cultural change, social change, moving the world forward,
- 8:52behavior change, etcetera.
- 8:54And our check size ranges anywhere from 500 and 2,000,000 and a half.
- 8:59So leading those early stage rounds, and we have 25 companies in our portfolio so far,
- 9:05which is great.
- 9:06And then, yeah, as you mentioned on the side, I run a company called Alden, which is my
- 9:10namesake.
- 9:11Basically, if you've ever seen the Zoho scandal, Olivia Pope for startups, corporate
- 9:14fixing, basically really painful things that most people don't know how to deal with.
- 9:21And basically I learned how to do that from Atrium, a massive scale, you learn how to
- 9:25problem solve very quickly in PatternSpot.
- 9:28And then I started a company recently as well called Two Pink Suits, is, I have one pink
- 9:33suit, have another pink suit.
- 9:34Her name is Heather, she's actually one of our portfolio founders.
- 9:38And that is an advisory firm for women led companies in AI climate and operations heavy
- 9:43businesses.
- 9:44So pushing the world forward for women in those spaces.
- 9:49Now I'm out of breath but hopefully that all makes sense.
- 9:51No, that all makes sense.
- 9:52I took a couple of notes.
- 9:54I've been doing this new thing where I'm trying to structure these calls a little better.
- 9:58So there's a couple of things that we can unpack just starting A
- 10:01A lot going on.
- 10:02Yeah, we can start wherever.
- 10:03Look, I am probably the same or worse.
- 10:06Have a lot going on and it'd probably be good if both of us cloned ourselves to maybe help
- 10:11with the workload.
- 10:13But I want to go back to your parents, right?
- 10:16So, you grew up in this smaller town.
- 10:19I have a similar background.
- 10:20My parents did not do their master's or get really huge advanced degrees.
- 10:25They wanted me to just kind of get some type of job and really do the same thing that my uncle
- 10:30did.
- 10:30My uncle was an engineer and got his master's I thought that was my path as well.
- 10:35So, what was their take on education?
- 10:39Did they give you a lot of pressure to go get an advanced degree?
- 10:43Or did they really just let you just follow whatever you thought was good for you?
- 10:48Because my parents, I come from an ethnic background.
- 10:50So my parents are all about education.
- 10:52But once I got my bachelor's, they're like, hey, just go settle down.
- 10:56They didn't really care too much about me going getting a master's or an advanced degree or
- 11:02even moving to New York.
- 11:03They didn't really care about that that much.
- 11:05But I was just curious like how your family was like with education or just kind of being a VC
- 11:10and doing all these other cool things that you're doing?
- 11:13That's a great question.
- 11:14I think you can learn a lot about people from that question.
- 11:16For me, so my parents, my mom always worked and my dad stayed home with us he always, he has
- 11:24patents under his name, he has multiple companies and he just, he remote worked before
- 11:29it was cool.
- 11:30He can
- 11:30And be there for my mom started her, she's a pharmacist, she started her own pharmacy when
- 11:36she was 24.
- 11:38And at that time you couldn't buy a house as a woman without your father co signing it.
- 11:43Just like starting a business as a woman at that time was really challenging, but it was
- 11:47just her and she did it and she was massively successful and sold her pharmacy when she, I
- 11:55think she was 30 to what is now rated.
- 11:58And it was just her and then eventually it was my dad.
- 12:01So they were entrepreneurs from
- 12:04Sure.
- 12:04The time that they were out of college which was amazing.
- 12:06So I grew up in this environment where that was encouraged.
- 12:11Like I remember getting in trouble at school because I was trying to sell like bracelets and
- 12:15really weren't supposed to sell things at school.
- 12:17Like I always kind of had that mentality and it was encouraged from my parents.
- 12:22I remember my dad like helping me with my price sheet and like all of that, which was really
- 12:26awesome.
- 12:28On the education standpoint, I think I was always encouraged to do big things.
- 12:36Remember, and think both my parents were part of that, but I remember my dad handing me Life
- 12:42or whatever Time magazine with Marissa Mayer on the front of it when I was young.
- 12:48So like that was always setting that example to be able to want that and to like push myself to
- 12:55do more and like basically get out of the shitty town that I was in.
- 12:59Yeah.
- 13:00And that was amazing.
- 13:01And so they definitely encouraged me to graduate early and to do programs and do
- 13:07internships as soon as I could, just to figure out what was right for me.
- 13:11And then when I switched to my online program, they honestly supported that because and I
- 13:20don't know if a lot of people believe me, but I think that if you had this experience, would.
- 13:24I learned more about people and I'm better at my job because I was a bartender and because I
- 13:32worked at a hotel because you learn how to read people, learn how to know what people want, you
- 13:36learn how to like manipulate situations in like a positive way.
- 13:39And I loved that.
- 13:42Mhmm.
- 13:42And so having a lot of money and making that money while I was doing my schooling rather
- 13:45than taking, not being, not having student loans because I could pay it off with all my
- 13:49jobs, so that was amazing.
- 13:51And then when I moved to Louisiana, they were super supportive of that.
- 13:56And when I moved to San Francisco to work for Justin, I was in my what it would have been,
- 14:01like, my junior year of college, and I chose not to finish it because I'm like, I work for
- 14:08Justin.
- 14:09I work in San Francisco.
- 14:10This is stupid.
- 14:11I don't need to pay thousands of dollars to, like, have this degree that's totally
- 14:15irrelevant.
- 14:16So I actually never finished my school and I'm not mad about it.
- 14:20Yeah.
- 14:21Look.
- 14:21I mean, there's a couple points to extract from that.
- 14:24So number one, it's really great that your parents were the inspiration.
- 14:28I mean, it's just awesome that your mom was a pharmacist and then on top of that, she started
- 14:34a business.
- 14:34So, my brother is a pharmacist.
- 14:35He works at a big hospital.
- 14:37Oh, nice.
- 14:38But my parents were very fearful of entrepreneurship.
- 14:40They're like, hey, that's the unstable way.
- 14:44Would hear stories about people starting businesses and failing and all that.
- 14:49So I didn't get it from my parents, but I think I got the inspiration just through a community
- 14:54and friends.
- 14:55And if you don't have that support system with your parents or your family, your immediate
- 14:59family, I think you can build that same type of support from just the communities and go into
- 15:04like minded events.
- 15:04So I got that and then just reading books, some of the people that I would read about or just
- 15:10read from, it's almost like you build a relationship with the author, right?
- 15:13Because a lot of them talk about their journey.
- 15:15So I really, really love that.
- 15:16And I think a main point that you're hitting on, which is important to think about is the
- 15:21future of education, you know, so, you know, I'm building a platform for venture and private
- 15:28equity.
- 15:29And yeah,
- 15:30I believe what I'm doing is helping you just skip half of those steps and skip half of the
- 15:35money that it costs to achieve the same goal.
- 15:38I'm thinking, what was going on in your mind?
- 15:40You're like, I'm already working at a pretty awesome company.
- 15:44And there's people that are paying for college to hopefully get here.
- 15:47You already skipped like three of those steps and kept all that money in your pocket.
- 15:51And you know, it's funny when you mentioned the word chief of staff, I was checking out OnDeck
- 15:56and they chief have of staff fellowship.
- 16:00So I thought that was just really interesting.
- 16:02So right now there's the unbundling and then there's bundling, which innovates on
- 16:08technology.
- 16:09So I think you can do both and find innovation either way if you're doing either.
- 16:15But that in mind, with both of us being people that have been able to find ways to skip steps
- 16:20in the long and expensive process, Where do you think education is heading and what are you
- 16:27excited about to help people just achieve their goals and find the career that they want?
- 16:32Yeah, I think that's great.
- 16:34And I actually didn't know about the ONDEC Chief of Staff Program, that's hilarious.
- 16:39I think I mean, I'm of the same brain that you are of I think the days of or the, like, the
- 16:46traditional in venture specifically, and then I can go more broad if that makes sense.
- 16:50I think the days of MBAs going into venture and probably white dudes named Brad and Chad are
- 16:57over.
- 16:58Like, I think that's totally irrelevant.
- 17:00I think this is the or like the generation of what it is I would call like v three of venture
- 17:05Mhmm.
- 17:06Which it would be us, are more operator PCs.
- 17:08People that have started companies, people that have a ground to stand on and can actually like
- 17:12help their portfolio founders rather than, oh, here's money, go make this more money and like,
- 17:19I don't know how to help you build a sales channel.
- 17:21I think it's totally irrelevant.
- 17:22And so either operator VCs or people coming through your program with different
- 17:27backgrounds, that's like so high level better or so much more high level just as far as
- 17:35enriching the experience both for yourself and for your founders, I think that's amazing.
- 17:39And if I was to hire like, I mean, we've hired people for the fund before.
- 17:45I would not hire, I mean, that I wouldn't hire an MBA, I would rather have someone who had
- 17:51worked at a company, knows how to work really hard, or someone, my favorite people to hire in
- 17:57general are ex Deloitte consultants or ex McKinsey consultants because they know how to
- 18:04work harder than anyone else and they love working really hard and they love learning
- 18:08things.
- 18:09And you could put anything in front of them and they'll figure it out.
- 18:12Yeah.
- 18:12And it's amazing.
- 18:14If I was to hire somebody tomorrow, that's probably what would I I would look for as far
- 18:17as like an analyst or associate.
- 18:19What's like the best package that you've received from an applicant?
- 18:24Like, did somebody give you like a prototype or something that was just out of left field?
- 18:29I mean, the craziest I've gotten and it kind of made me laugh a little bit, but I didn't move
- 18:33forward.
- 18:34They built like this comic strip.
- 18:35It was like an animated comic strip of the story.
- 18:38And I thought it was really creative, but I just thought, man, this person probably is just
- 18:42not probably just too quirky for for the company.
- 18:46This is like an AI company.
- 18:47So, this is like a product manager.
- 18:50So, I was like, wow, you know, this I just thought it was really interesting the way that
- 18:53this person crafted the comic strip but recently, I've been impressed with people
- 18:58building instead of like a deck actually giving me like a notion page that has like air table
- 19:04widgets in it.
- 19:05That's the most I've seen from like from like a Gen Z VC.
- 19:11Yeah, I think I mean, this is all it's all about making yourself out.
- 19:15Right?
- 19:15Yeah.
- 19:15So I can when I applied to work for Justin, I had I can find it and send it to you.
- 19:22It's probably hilarious now.
- 19:25I had this, like, one sheeter with just a stick I had a bunch of big product when I was at
- 19:31CenturyLink and we had, like, a not a demo day, but, like, a launch day.
- 19:35And so there's a picture of me with, like, a trophy holding it up, and then so I had that in
- 19:39the middle and then built out other true like fake trophies around me with different things
- 19:44that I've done or different places that I work.
- 19:46So it was a visual representation of all the things that I've done.
- 19:49So was it like photoshopped or was it like animated?
- 19:51Was photoshopped.
- 19:53That's cool.
- 19:54Yeah.
- 19:55It's super cool.
- 19:55And I actually that was a prompt that Zappos does.
- 20:00And I was like, oh, Zappos does this.
- 20:02They're one of the best hiring companies ever.
- 20:03Like, I could do this and send it to people and I'll stick out.
- 20:06So that's what Zappos is looking for when they're trying to hire people.
- 20:09They want people to put together some type of visual visual I
- 20:13don't know if they still do that, but I was just doing research at the time of, like, what
- 20:16are the best companies doing?
- 20:17And that's what I wanna portray myself as.
- 20:19Yeah.
- 20:24I think summary I think the Notion pages are great because it helps me understand what the
- 20:29heck person honestly, you hear this statistic all the time and after seeing thousands of
- 20:33resumes at Atrium, a recruiter literally looks at your resume for less than six seconds.
- 20:37Yeah.
- 20:38And like, I don't care about that.
- 20:39I want I'll see your LinkedIn.
- 20:41Like, I don't give a shit about your resume.
- 20:45I think I think there's a line though of like the video introductions.
- 20:50I'm not gonna watch that.
- 20:52Not gonna read your cover letter.
- 20:54But I think high level summary with visuals that I can obtain information in less than ten
- 21:01seconds are probably the would catch my attention more than anything.
- 21:04Yeah.
- 21:04Needs to be easily digestible and Yeah.
- 21:07You just get a stack of them.
- 21:10So when when it comes to Mac, you know, are you guys pretty agnostic?
- 21:14Because I think you got you talked about food tech a couple weeks ago.
- 21:18Right?
- 21:18So you guys look at cell based meats as well and plant based.
- 21:21So you guys are pretty diverse as far as anything that's transformational, believe,
- 21:26right?
- 21:26Sure, so in our previous, our Inventors portfolio, did everything, was totally
- 21:31agnostic.
- 21:32Invested in a few cell based companies, but most prominently NUGGS or Simulate, which if
- 21:38you've ever seen their Instagram is like 10 out of 10 marketing, cell based proteins made for
- 21:43chicken nuggets.
- 21:44It's amazing and delicious.
- 21:46And we have a couple others in that space as well.
- 21:49But with Mac, it's mostly agnostic, but with the overarching thesis of social change.
- 21:56And so just some of examples of some of our companies, We have a com we've there's, like,
- 22:03we did literally did four deals in, like, the last two weeks, so there's a lot in my brain
- 22:06right now.
- 22:07We have a company called Riff, which does after so the take a step back.
- 22:12So some of my partners are from the LA Hollywood world, and so we do a lot of, like,
- 22:17media infrastructure companies.
- 22:19Yeah.
- 22:19So Riff basically can take think about, like, friends from the nineties and could product
- 22:26place something into a friend scene from today.
- 22:28Mhmm.
- 22:30So, like, doing that aftermarket product placement has been really interesting.
- 22:34So that's something that we have done and are really excited about.
- 22:39We have even ranging to we have two or three aerospace companies, which I I'll send to you
- 22:44because I know you love that.
- 22:46Yeah.
- 22:47Ranging from, like, last mile Internet connectivity to satellites itself.
- 22:51Stokes Space, which is a YC company that just released fat round that we were lucky to invest
- 22:59in prior.
- 23:00That was awesome.
- 23:00And then most if if anyone's on like VC Twitter or tech Twitter, you probably saw like Pipe
- 23:06literally took over Twitter yesterday.
- 23:10We were lucky to invest in Pipe in 2019.
- 23:12Fat
- 23:12Wow.
- 23:12That was a good one.
- 23:14Yeah.
- 23:14So Harry Hurst was one of our previous portfolio founders in his last company, and
- 23:18then we invested super early in PIPE before they even launched, which is new type of net
- 23:23revenue generating source, which is really cool.
- 23:26So kind of all over the place, but with the things that are shaping the world in a
- 23:31different way.
- 23:32Sure.
- 23:32So I got two ones, right?
- 23:34So celebrity investors, what do you think of them?
- 23:39So some of them have been really successful and then some of them are kind of passively doing
- 23:44it part time, but you have a closer ear to the ground with this stuff.
- 23:48So talk to me about just the ecosystem with celebrities, trying to break into VC or doing
- 23:54VC, Any high level insights on that?
- 23:58Sure.
- 23:58So Allie Rappaport, who's a partner at Serena Ventures is one of my better friends and she is
- 24:04awesome.
- 24:04She's one of the smartest people on the planet.
- 24:06That's been great to watch her journey working with Serena one to one and building out a team
- 24:12and their investment portfolio is amazing and they're very active, which is great.
- 24:19And then it ranges from celebrities who are investing one to one angel checks directly.
- 24:25That's I think that's an interesting angle too.
- 24:28There is a firm called Plus Capital that, basically is a dual fund structure.
- 24:33So they have deep talent expertise and had worked with a lot of talent previously, and
- 24:39they have a fund that they'll invest directly, and then they have, somebody portfolios that
- 24:43they'll manage as well.
- 24:44So say, I'm, I don't even know.
- 24:48Say, I'm LeBron and they're a part of the Plus Capital family
- 24:53Mhmm.
- 24:53And I'm the investor.
- 24:54So I'll go find a startup that LeBron James might like and we'll negotiate great terms to
- 24:59get LeBron to invest as well and then they'll manage it.
- 25:02Sure.
- 25:03I think, like, as far as I know, that's how that functions.
- 25:06Yeah.
- 25:06So that's a little bit of a different model.
- 25:08And then for us, one of my partner, Charles King, who I believe is the coolest person on
- 25:13the planet, worked his way up through the mailroom at WME, which is one of the talent
- 25:18agencies in the world, was the first black senior partner ever and basically built black
- 25:22Hollywood for what it is.
- 25:23So Janelle Monae, Outkast, Tyler Perry, like names that you've heard, he built their careers
- 25:28from scratch, is amazing.
- 25:29And now he runs a company called Macro, which is an entertainment investing and production
- 25:33company.
- 25:34They just, I believe they won a Golden Globe and a couple other awards for Judas and the
- 25:39Black Messiah, who's one of their movies.
- 25:41And so when a lot of our companies, specifically in the media, or in any space,
- 25:46will come to us and say we want, for example, we were looking for women, celebrities who were
- 25:53willing to invest as well as be a spokesperson for the model.
- 25:56That's something that that's just like a service we can provide for those people because
- 25:59that's a world that we play in.
- 26:02And that's a lot of what we do is bringing those type of people to the table because we
- 26:07have that network, which is great.
- 26:08And then it's yeah.
- 26:10It's one of our well, it's a lot of fun for us because we have to bring people that we like
- 26:14into the room as well as it gets our company's product out into the world.
- 26:19Mhmm.
- 26:19And there's some celebrities and musicians and athletes that just have been really great
- 26:25venture capitalists.
- 26:25I mean, I think I posted in our private text message Nas.
- 26:28I mean, just that one deal that he did with Coinbase was just ridiculously successful.
- 26:35So do you see that evolution happening with other celebrities just wanting to be more
- 26:41educated and do it on their own versus hire an agency or hire some type of investment manager?
- 26:47Or do you think they prefer to be more passive?
- 26:50And then the other piece is, are you seeing many of them start to become emerging managers?
- 26:58I think it depends on what type of person.
- 27:00So I've seen kind of everything under the under the rainbow here.
- 27:05But I think most of the time, if it's a lot bigger celebrity and they have a talent agency,
- 27:11the talent agency has a venture arm that will bring deals to them, which is really helpful.
- 27:17Or, most in other situations, they'll build out their own team.
- 27:22So they'll hire someone like Serena with Ally.
- 27:24Like, she hired Ally to specifically build out her angel portfolio, specifically build out
- 27:29their investments with a certain thesis.
- 27:31And I think that's what I've seen more of recently.
- 27:33Sure.
- 27:34I mean, Ashton Kutcher was, like, one of the the bigger ones and probably induced promo for
- 27:38a lot of people because he's made some great investments as well in building out his
- 27:42practice.
- 27:44But I I I actually don't know what the most most common thing is, but from what I've seen,
- 27:49it's either having the agency Yeah.
- 27:52Venture team manage it and bring deals to the table and they'll choose to do that, building
- 27:57out their own practice with specific hires like Justin did that would be and add another
- 28:03counterpart Nick Coursetz who manages angel investments as well.
- 28:06Sure.
- 28:06Yeah.
- 28:07That's a good point.
- 28:07And it could also be, you know, outside of the agency, could also be their own single family
- 28:12office.
- 28:12I'm seeing that a So lot single family offices now, you know, they want to do direct deals,
- 28:17they're starting to build, you know, they don't want pay the carry and the management fees.
- 28:20They'll just hire somebody and build their own direct team.
- 28:23So I think that's, that's really exciting.
- 28:25You especially if you bring somebody in that super, super seasoned, that's really exciting.
- 28:30So Yeah.
- 28:31I I think that's that's I totally didn't think about that, but I think that's probably how
- 28:35it's structured with Serena Ventures or with other funds like that.
- 28:38It's structured as the family office and then making those direct investments, which I think
- 28:41is a great idea.
- 28:42Yeah.
- 28:42I got another one.
- 28:43So you were talking about just feeling lucky to get into a really hot deal.
- 28:48I feel that often and that's also just a really good signal for me.
- 28:52Right?
- 28:52So it's, you just know that you had to put in a lot of work to even just get into that deal.
- 28:58So you feel lucky that like that founder even squeezed you in.
- 29:01And a lot of times some of these deals, the check size that you're writing the minimum is,
- 29:06for me specifically, as a you know, pre seed to seed, sometimes series A fund, sometimes some
- 29:13of these deep tech companies, the minimum is really, really high.
- 29:16But I was able to somehow get in by adding value.
- 29:20So I don't know if you have any anecdotes or any stories on, you know, a company like Pipe
- 29:24or just a really, really hot deal that you're like, I'm just lucky that I got in.
- 29:29What were some of the special tricks that you did or just things that you did to add value
- 29:34and any advice you have on that to just get into some of the top tier deals?
- 29:38Sure.
- 29:41I'm gonna say this out loud and some people might think that I'm the worst, but I genuinely
- 29:47this is how I feel.
- 29:49I've never been worried about not getting into a deal.
- 29:53Extreme.
- 29:53I've I've never had that concern, and I can tell you why.
- 29:56So for me, coming from the, like, hiring space and coming from, like, working in bars and,
- 30:03like, I've I think one of my best skills is interpersonal relationships.
- 30:08And so from the first time I meet someone, I can learn everything about them in probably
- 30:13less than five minutes of, like, mother's name, where they're from, what they're worried about,
- 30:16like, maybe what they dream about at night, kind of the whole thing.
- 30:19Like I have no, no concerns about that.
- 30:22My partner Mike says I'm the best person to have at parties because I can make best friends
- 30:26with a stick, is great.
- 30:29So I think that's the level of care and the level of interaction that I bring to talking to
- 30:36founders.
- 30:37And so I think a lot of pitches are so transactional and I think that that's trash.
- 30:43Like, I think I I take at least the first five minutes to ask how are you?
- 30:48Or especially a lot of founders are back to back all day.
- 30:50Like, have you had lunch?
- 30:51Do you need a break?
- 30:52Do you have water?
- 30:52Like, whatever.
- 30:53And even asking that question of, like, are you okay?
- 30:57Do you need a water break?
- 30:58Indicates that you actually care about them, which
- 31:01Yeah.
- 31:01I don't think a lot of people do.
- 31:03I don't think a lot of VCs do.
- 31:04It's more transactional.
- 31:05It's like, quick.
- 31:05Tell us about this pitch.
- 31:06Like like, we gotta go.
- 31:07No.
- 31:07You you're building that relationship from the beginning and building that level of care from
- 31:11beginning.
- 31:13And actually seeing them a human rather than a vehicle to make money.
- 31:17I think that that's something that I see fundamentally different.
- 31:20And so I think the way that I can sum this up is my my personal mantra is I get to be
- 31:26everyone's number one fan for a living.
- 31:29And I try to embody that in everything that I do, whether it be hiring, whether it be
- 31:32supporting founders, even just interpersonal relationships.
- 31:37So that's what really helps me invest in the deals that I want to invest in is because I've
- 31:43built this relationship from the beginning regardless of whether you're gonna invest or
- 31:48not because you care about them as a human.
- 31:50When they start raising money, I want to be the first person that they come to because they
- 31:54know that I care about them and I can help them bring in other people too and kick in my own
- 31:59money if I choose to.
- 32:00I think that just caring about people is really more of a differentiator than anything else.
- 32:06And that's what I've seen from the other side of it too.
- 32:08When founders ask, like, how are you doing?
- 32:10Where are you today?
- 32:11Like, the that level of thinking really helps people stand out.
- 32:15And those are the people that I wanna do business with.
- 32:18Yeah.
- 32:18Yeah.
- 32:18And it's it's funny.
- 32:19There's a there's a quote that I heard from Chris Saka, like, multiple years ago, and he
- 32:24was just saying, hey.
- 32:25You know, I don't like to work with people that didn't have a a shitty job.
- 32:28And I don't think working in a bar is a bad job.
- 32:31I think it's like a dream job.
- 32:33But you know, it's not like a McKinsey, you know, 300 ks a year job.
- 32:37And look, my first job was in like fast food, you know, and I ran the register.
- 32:41But you know, when I was like 15 years old over the summer, I thought I was rich, making a
- 32:46couple $100 every weekend because I didn't really have to pay for anything.
- 32:51But I'll tell you, I took that job with pride.
- 32:54I really just enjoyed talking to people.
- 32:56And I really resonate with you because some of the biggest people skills and like just
- 33:03communication skills, being able to read somebody, those come from those college jobs.
- 33:10It's not I mean, you get it at McKinsey, I guess, but it's just at a different level and
- 33:14it's so buttoned up, right?
- 33:16You're just kinda working in a vacuum versus those jobs back in high school and college,
- 33:21you're really much more carefree.
- 33:23You're not as stressed out as you are being a real adult, having the real adult problems.
- 33:29You're just kinda looking forward to the weekend and spending your paycheck on partying.
- 33:34Sending your paycheck at the bar around the corner with this
- 33:37sticky bar.
- 33:37Or back into the bar, right?
- 33:38Just paying back
- 33:39Exactly. The
- 33:39The Yeah.
- 33:41Yeah.
- 33:41And I love that so much.
- 33:43And I think maybe that's why we get along so well because people have that.
- 33:47And I think that ties into like a lower sense of ego.
- 33:51Mhmm.
- 33:52I think a lot of people like you and I that have worked those jobs, you don't come into a
- 33:56room and you're like, I or the sense of entitlement, I think, is a little bit And it
- 34:01may or may not be tied to it, but I think having that low sense of ego and be like, I'm
- 34:05here, I'm doing this, it's taking up my space and not, like, inflicting yourself on other
- 34:11people is really important too, because that's what you see with, like, the generation of VC
- 34:16before us of, like, oh, I'm this we'll just go with the Brad example because this is kinda
- 34:22what I like to poke fun at of, like, Brad playing with daddy's money and I belonged in
- 34:26this deal because I am rich and I can do whatever I want.
- 34:29And then you're like, no.
- 34:30Like, can I can I swear?
- 34:32Is that okay?
- 34:33Yeah.
- 34:34Yeah.
- 34:34Yeah.
- 34:34Swear it.
- 34:34Yeah.
- 34:35Get it out.
- 34:35Brad, you're an asshole.
- 34:37Like, we don't want you here.
- 34:38And it's sort of like and that's becoming more and more apparent of Mhmm.
- 34:43The VCs that don't actually give a shit about people and that are just trying to make more
- 34:47money.
- 34:48And that's how people like you and I are getting into deals because we know how to talk
- 34:51to them, because we know how to, like, predict what they might need and because we know how to
- 34:56be there for them as people rather than being like, here's my money, like, go with
- 35:01Don't sort of judge me, but there was something that was like some sound bite on LinkedIn with
- 35:07Oprah.
- 35:08And Oprah mentioned Maya Angelou.
- 35:12I guess there's a quote from Maya Angelou that says, The measure of somebody's success is how
- 35:17many lives you touched.
- 35:20Think it also said something about, I think she had another quote that says, People really,
- 35:27they don't really remember as much about what you did, but it's really about how you feel.
- 35:32Yeah, how they make you feel.
- 35:34Yeah, and I really took that seriously because I always take that to heart, you know, when I'm
- 35:39trying to spend time with somebody, it's not really about, hey, know, I made these intros
- 35:43for you or, hey, I was able to raise some capital, but how did I make that person feel?
- 35:50And there's been times where it's been the other way around.
- 35:53There was, I'm not going to say this person's name, but this is another VC.
- 35:56But I was like, hey, I'm actually building something.
- 36:01Here's something that I'm working on.
- 36:03And the person was just like really, really condescending.
- 36:06And I just kind of sucked it in.
- 36:08I didn't really take the time to really go at him and really revert.
- 36:14I just kind of ghosted that person.
- 36:16But what's funny is I later saw that person get a review on like VC Guide.
- 36:22And the review was kind of like, this is a shitty person and this person was like
- 36:26condescending.
- 36:27So I just kind of left it at is.
- 36:29But how do you handle just shitty people?
- 36:32I mean, I think I just try to ghost them, but I don't know if you have any advice, you know,
- 36:36for other people.
- 36:37I mean, I don't think it's it's really worth your energy or time to, you know, seek revenge
- 36:43or anything.
- 36:44You just gotta feel like you're blessed because you have all these other good things in your
- 36:47life.
- 36:47But I guess maybe you can talk about what you think about how you you make people feel.
- 36:53I think you answered most of it, then also just dealing with difficult people.
- 36:56I'm so excited to answer this.
- 37:02Let me I'll talk about your example first, and then I'll go into that because this is gonna be
- 37:06a whole thing.
- 37:07This this person, he he was like, look, you know, you you don't know the first thing about
- 37:12VC and he he was just like, he went off on a ramp.
- 37:15I'm like, damn, like, what happened?
- 37:17Like, did you did you get into the fight with your girlfriend or something?
- 37:20Yeah.
- 37:20Like, where where is this coming from?
- 37:22Yeah.
- 37:23So I think that's the classic, like, Dale Carnegie thing, like, should never talk poorly
- 37:29about anyone.
- 37:30Yeah.
- 37:31And I think that, yeah, that person probably had something else going on and was projecting.
- 37:37Yeah.
- 37:37But also when you're looking at that person and he's a peer, like, how are the if he's talking
- 37:43to you that way, how does he talk to founders?
- 37:45Mhmm.
- 37:46That's problematic.
- 37:47And so that's so concerning to or how does he talk to people that he works with?
- 37:51And I think those are the kind of the questions.
- 37:53If was a founder Yeah.
- 37:55Like, why would I refer anyone to work for them if they're a dick?
- 37:59Like, I wouldn't.
- 38:00And the the ironic thing is I know some of his LPs now because of some of the stuff that I'm
- 38:05building.
- 38:05So but, you know, it's just I don't really take the energy to do that.
- 38:09I just feel that, you know, people will feel what they're on
- 38:12For their own, you sure.
- 38:14So I can, I'm happy to talk about this.
- 38:17So for me, being a woman in venture is a lesson in patience, I think.
- 38:24Sure.
- 38:26I, if you, if anyone follows me on Instagram, and I recommend the OOOD because I'm hilarious,
- 38:34I talk a lot about this because a lot of the times I'll anonymize the things that happen to
- 38:39me as a woman and just like talk about what I would do Mhmm.
- 38:44Because it's that action step that no one really talks about.
- 38:47So
- 38:47Yeah. I'm
- 38:47I'm starting to have some small posts that are anonymous.
- 38:51Yeah.
- 38:51So I have some posts that are anonymous and I recently worked with a couple girlfriends and
- 38:55I'm setting up this new account called Sexus in the City.
- 38:58I love it.
- 38:59Thank you.
- 39:00Coming soon this week.
- 39:01It's my weekend project.
- 39:03And I did kind of a test example on my Instagram story similar to the Wall Street
- 39:07Confessions of having people having women submit shitty things that people in their
- 39:13industry have said or done to
- 39:14them.
- 39:14Yeah.
- 39:15And then posting what I would do.
- 39:17So having that actionable step of what you should do afterwards rather than just like,
- 39:22this is a shitty thing that it's gonna make you feel bad when you read it.
- 39:24It can totally be a book.
- 39:26I don't know if you ever follow what's her name?
- 39:28Ten ten ways to look smart in meetings.
- 39:30What's her name?
- 39:31Sarah.
- 39:31There's a person named Sarah.
- 39:36Starts with the last name starts with a c.
- 39:38Let me pull it
- 39:39up Go while you're talking to
- 39:40ahead, I'm gonna find it.
- 39:41But yeah, keep going.
- 39:42So
- 39:43you're working That's on something that I think a lot about and being a woman in the VC space.
- 39:46I think that's, like especially or an attacker in any industry.
- 39:50Nobody ever talks about what to do Yeah.
- 39:52When something shitty happens to you.
- 39:53Sarah Cooper.
- 39:54Sarah Cooper.
- 39:55Yep.
- 39:55Thank you.
- 39:56Yeah.
- 39:56So she she used to work at Google, and she's just blowing up.
- 40:00She's all over TV now.
- 40:01But what she did is she wrote this post on how to look smart in meetings.
- 40:06And some of the things you can do is just interrupt somebody and tell them to move, go
- 40:11back to the previous slide Cause it makes it look like you're paying attention.
- 40:14You wanna hear it again.
- 40:15Yeah, but she turned it into this book.
- 40:17It was initially like a blog and then it turned into a book.
- 40:20But it was like all these things of how to So that's why I thought about that blog.
- 40:23Because I like, could totally be like a book, like an illustrated book that's like, here's
- 40:28what happened.
- 40:28And then like, this is this is like the solution of how you handled Yeah.
- 40:32I I think that's something I love that.
- 40:34And that's something that I'm working on actively myself.
- 40:36So you mentioned the word revenge, which I really like.
- 40:41So I think for me, it's so hard when just for an example, like, it's it's it's so hard not to
- 40:49react.
- 40:49Yeah.
- 40:50When somebody says something shitty to you or, like, assumes so this happened to me this week.
- 40:54I was we're doing diligence on some company and we were, doing a reference with somebody, who
- 41:00had previously invested in the company and had known them and whatever.
- 41:04And, and I'm the only woman at my firm, just for context, and I was supposed to be on this
- 41:09call, was gonna ask him questions about this company and, they set up the time, it worked
- 41:15for me, I chimed in whatever, and then he goes, Ali, can you send the calendar invite?
- 41:19And I'm like, first of all, I'm not an EA.
- 41:23Second of all, you shouldn't assume that because I'm the only woman on this thread,
- 41:27third of all, the time it took you to send the invite, you could already sent it.
- 41:34Yeah.
- 41:34And it it was just it's those small things that you're like, I want absolutely nothing to do
- 41:38with this person if that's if he makes assumptions about people.
- 41:41And there was some other language in there that was a little bit more condescending.
- 41:44But it's again, how did you feel?
- 41:47You know,
- 41:47it's like like
- 41:48you don't And you feel that and you're like, you know, you and I think it hits people like
- 41:53Yumi because we make sure that we don't ever we try consciously.
- 41:56Obviously, sometimes things get delivered wrong when we talk, but we would never try to try to
- 42:01make somebody feel that way but some people intentionally do.
- 42:04So it kinda for me that like that one email that that person sent me, I'm telling you like
- 42:08it stuck with me and maybe it's like pent up and this is my here to talk about but that's
- 42:13still like that is my memory of that person.
- 42:16Yeah.
- 42:16That's your memory and the emotion of that person.
- 42:18So my response to that was sorry, I'll just call him Brad just for fun.
- 42:25Sorry, Brad.
- 42:26I'm unable to make this meeting.
- 42:27I'm actively working on a few deals.
- 42:30I'll get the gist from my partners afterwards.
- 42:32Like, letting him know that I'm not the EA, which there's nothing wrong with being here.
- 42:37Letting him know that I'm not the EA and that I'm busy doing deals and that I I could not I
- 42:43opted out of the call because Mhmm.
- 42:45That's we treated people and, like, it was really hard.
- 42:49Yeah.
- 42:49And so I think just, like, I talk about this all the time of, like, one, making the other
- 42:55person identify their behavior and two, breaking it down and three, suggesting
- 43:01suggesting a better one is generally how I would deal with it as like a Yeah.
- 43:06Sequence.
- 43:06So in this case, addressing that a, that's not what's happening, b, this is actually who I am,
- 43:13and c, like, see you never.
- 43:15And so with, the vengeance piece, absolutely will let this fuel my hate fire forever.
- 43:22I mean, not forever, but, like, this type of thing.
- 43:27I think choosing not to react is really important.
- 43:29Like, I could have sent him an email about blah blah blah blah, like, whatever.
- 43:33But just opting out, choosing not.
- 43:35Sometimes there's a time and place where that's necessary, but Yeah.
- 43:40Just sending a thing, clearing that up, and, like, walking away is really important.
- 43:44And then with the vengeance piece, you can choose not to do like, venture is the most
- 43:50relationship driven
- 43:51It is.
- 43:52Business probably in the world.
- 43:53Mhmm.
- 43:54Yeah.
- 43:54Of, I only send deals to people that I like and that are good people and that I think could be
- 43:59helpful to this company and that I don't think is an asshole.
- 44:02And so anyone that's a shitty person is not gonna get deals and is not gonna get the good
- 44:07deals or is not gonna get sent the pipes of the world.
- 44:11And I can actively go against if somebody reaches out to me and say, hey, what do think
- 44:15about this investor?
- 44:16I'll be honest.
- 44:17And I've it's really hard to be honest and to have those conversations sometimes, but you've,
- 44:23it's better than the alternative of and like not mentioning that, then that looks bad on me
- 44:29if I let them work with someone who is misogynistic, for example.
- 44:33Sure.
- 44:34Yeah.
- 44:34I mean, it's funny.
- 44:35There's Chris Rock's stand up show, I think from like a couple years ago.
- 44:40He was talking about this.
- 44:41It's like, you shouldn't really be thinking about like, Oh, they're gonna get theirs.
- 44:46So this person may never get his.
- 44:48And I think he brought up like Donald Trump.
- 44:50He's like, Donald Trump, he's never getting his.
- 44:53I mean, he did get kicked out of the White House and get COVID and a couple other things
- 44:58in series that happened, and not to talk about politics.
- 45:01I'm trying not talk about politics or religion or anything, sometimes people never get theirs.
- 45:07So I don't think you should wish or even have any hate.
- 45:10I think it helps to just be happy with all the good blessings and friendships and
- 45:15relationships that you have.
- 45:16And best way to do it is ghost them.
- 45:17And I mean, I got this from a mentor of mine.
- 45:21When pitching deals to family offices, they don't do anything either.
- 45:26They just cut you off.
- 45:28And that's sometimes I feel like that's the best way to insult somebody just not even
- 45:33really bringing them into your ecosystem or even letting them know that you're taking
- 45:39energy to address it.
- 45:41I think that's really important.
- 45:43Think what you gave a really great example of, I don't remember what you said, but it was
- 45:49similar Of, like, think about I always think about myself as a bubble.
- 45:53Mhmm.
- 45:54And, like, if you say something to me, I can either choose to let it affect me or I can
- 45:58choose to, like, block it and be like, no.
- 46:00Not today.
- 46:01I'm not gonna let that bother me.
- 46:02Yeah.
- 46:03Because I have a thousand other things that I think about, and I'm not gonna choose to bring
- 46:06in that negativity into my sphere Yeah.
- 46:08And let it affect other people.
- 46:09Oh, this is what I was.
- 46:10I would like that guy who probably had a fight with someone and was projecting that on you.
- 46:15Like that just don't let that shit into your energy.
- 46:18And I'm slightly embarrassed.
- 46:20I feel kind of embarrassed for the audience here.
- 46:22I'm like, Hey guys, sorry, this is turned into a therapy venting session here.
- 46:26Know we're
- 46:27still talking about it.
- 46:29So relevant.
- 46:29Yeah, And I think it's relevant in in the interpersonal side of any business and venture
- 46:38as well as in the founder sphere as well.
- 46:42Yeah, I agree.
- 46:43Yeah, thanks, Antonio.
- 46:44I appreciate it.
- 46:45Yeah, and I think, so any more that you wanna share any kind of book pages that you got any
- 46:52other examples of like, hey, here's the problem and then how you can handle it.
- 46:57I think that'd be good for the audience too if you get any other ones off the top of your
- 47:01mind, fresh in the pipeline for your Instagram feed.
- 47:05Oh my god.
- 47:06I do.
- 47:08I'm just trying to think about what would be, like, a good one.
- 47:13There's a lot.
- 47:14There's so much shit that happens all the time.
- 47:17So this was in a previous job.
- 47:21This is it.
- 47:22This is heavy.
- 47:22This is heavy.
- 47:23But we're just gonna go there.
- 47:25This is in a previous job, but I'm not gonna say what or when or whatever.
- 47:29Mhmm.
- 47:29But we were looking for, someone we're looking to hire someone who is very specialized in what
- 47:36they do and found a great candidate.
- 47:38She was like one out of 10 people that can do this job and in the meeting when we were
- 47:44deciding whether to hire her or not, the person who she would have reported to that was the
- 47:48head of the organization said, well, she's perfectly qualified but what if she stays here
- 47:55for like a year and then she has a baby and leaves?
- 47:58Ouch.
- 48:00And like, I'm my blood is literally this was years ago and my blood is literally boiling now
- 48:05just thinking about it because there's so much in there.
- 48:10And I think I didn't I don't think I handled it as I should have at the time, and I don't think
- 48:14I had the strength of self to stand up to him.
- 48:15But I think what do we what happened and I mean, he should have gotten fired for saying
- 48:20that.
- 48:20Yeah.
- 48:20But he eventually did get his, but that's a whole separate thing.
- 48:23So I think we broke it down and just made it because he he's one of those people that, like,
- 48:29would not listen.
- 48:30He just was in his own world and, like, wouldn't listen to anything.
- 48:32Mhmm.
- 48:35We just said she's perfectly qualified.
- 48:38She's ready to take this job.
- 48:41She can do this better than anyone else and would be like, she's better than male
- 48:45candidates that we interviewed as well.
- 48:48And she's the best possible person for this job and, like, her reproductive choices are totally
- 48:53Yeah.
- 48:53It's not even I mean, she I doubt she talked about starting a family or anything like that
- 48:58anyways.
- 48:59It's literally just strictly just being judgmental because the person was a woman, I
- 49:03guess.
- 49:04Exactly.
- 49:04And, like, of child rearing age, which is just so fucking stupid.
- 49:07Yeah.
- 49:09And that so in that case, we identified the behavior of, hey.
- 49:14You just said this and you repeat it back.
- 49:17This is not okay because and suggesting a path forward or a behavior change.
- 49:22Mhmm.
- 49:23Which I think is the right and maybe not the right way, but it's a way to handle things.
- 49:27And I think just that identification of behavior
- 49:30Mhmm.
- 49:30Like, can be so impactful to people.
- 49:32Yeah.
- 49:33Whether they listen to you or not, and be like, hey.
- 49:35You just said this and it made me feel this way.
- 49:37And that's not okay because
- 49:40But it sucks because anytime you think it because, you know, that person might have made
- 49:43a mistake where, you know, look, I I'm one to be guilty of this just like the delivery is,
- 49:49like, really off.
- 49:50Like, sometimes I just say something that's awkward and it sounds stupid.
- 49:54And it's not because I'm a bad person and I'm trying to be disrespectful but sometimes the
- 49:58delivery comes out.
- 49:59So you gave them a chance to correct themselves.
- 50:02You're like, yeah, you're right.
- 50:03Like maybe his opportunity could be like, yeah, you're right.
- 50:05Sorry, that did sound kinda shitty.
- 50:07I take that back, you know, but there are people that just the ego takes over.
- 50:13Right?
- 50:13And they can't really take the chance that they had to backtrack it.
- 50:17Right?
- 50:18Yeah.
- 50:19So And I think a lot of the times that maybe not can leave that example where it is, but I
- 50:24think a lot of the times in those situations or for me, just transparently, I'm I'm 24.
- 50:31I have a partner at two venture firms.
- 50:33I run multiple companies.
- 50:34I've hired a 100 people, and I don't really promote my age because it freaks people out and
- 50:39then they treat me differently.
- 50:41And then they, like, get insecure.
- 50:44I make people really uncomfortable when they find out how old am.
- 50:46Sure.
- 50:47Because they get really insecure and then they try to target me with negativity because
- 50:51they're projecting, because they're scared, or they're like, oh, I haven't done that much in
- 50:55my life.
- 50:55She's done all these things.
- 50:56Like, yeah.
- 50:57Yeah.
- 50:57So it's like that people get really insecure when you're more success not maybe more
- 51:02successful, but, like, on a different path than they are.
- 51:04Mhmm.
- 51:05And that's a lot of the time when negativity comes out.
- 51:07I think that's maybe not a driver, but I think that's definitely a behavior of things that
- 51:11happen of if you're, or like with your example, maybe that guy was shitting on you because he
- 51:17has never built anything like that and he doesn't know how and he's scared and he like
- 51:22just attacked you rather than identifying or like figuring out his own behavior and building
- 51:27something for himself.
- 51:29Yeah.
- 51:29And I, you know, I have left corporate America because I dealt with that shit.
- 51:32And I was like, now it's cool because I have the freedom to build this community with good
- 51:37people.
- 51:38Right?
- 51:38And and have that bubble.
- 51:39So, you know, sometimes you don't you don't expect it.
- 51:41Right?
- 51:42I mean, you just kinda walk into this new opportunity and you get kind of a pulp because
- 51:46like, wait a minute, I thought most of these communities had filters already.
- 51:50And then you don't see the filters.
- 51:52And then what sucks is you kind of reflect on it like, did this person actually say this
- 51:55shit?
- 51:56Like, so it kind of throws you off for like a day.
- 51:59I mean, I'll tell you that threw me off for like a day.
- 52:01But sometimes I'll randomly think back on it and still it's like ingrained there.
- 52:05I'm like,
- 52:05It'll still bother you.
- 52:06Because it's because it's very, that's the one time this whole year, something like that
- 52:11happened.
- 52:11Other than that, I mean, the founders that I work with, I mean, we've truly built like
- 52:15friendships, and I don't even have that weird dynamic where I'm a VC because one day half of
- 52:21these founders are becoming VCs, many of them are emerging managers.
- 52:26In my program that's launching next week, many of them are ex operators and founders.
- 52:30So like you said, it's a small world.
- 52:33So these people come back full circle.
- 52:35You might be working for them at some point.
- 52:37You never know.
- 52:37And that's the thing too.
- 52:38So you
- 52:38don't know when you might need their help or you really ask them for a deal or something
- 52:42like that.
- 52:44You're a partner,
- 52:45and there could be somebody that's 50 years old that's looking for their next gig.
- 52:48It could be a partner role.
- 52:50And they might have to enter I mean, it's just I've been in those situations too where
- 52:53somebody I got one for you.
- 52:56So there is a So I'm not gonna say like the framework of where it happened because then it
- 53:04would be I never know, this person may be listening.
- 53:07There was a committee where I had to get approved for something and this person was a
- 53:14hater and didn't allow me to get approved.
- 53:18And
- 53:20so what I did is I just removed that person from my committee.
- 53:23I was able to because the lead person of the committee was the main person that I had to
- 53:29make happy.
- 53:30That person was a great guy.
- 53:31But this person really was trying to bring me down.
- 53:34So I just asked to restructure my committee and that guy was gone.
- 53:41And then I ended up getting approved and everything passed.
- 53:44Several years later, I was teaching this course and guess who randomly ended up being my
- 53:50student.
- 53:52And I had the ability to pass or fail.
- 53:55I mean, I was just nice about it.
- 53:56I'm like, you know what, it's cool, but it's just, it's kind of funny how things work out.
- 54:00You know, and and and that's why I say, mean, it could be easy.
- 54:04A very, very likely situation where these more seasoned people might have to work for you at
- 54:10some point because there's a great opportunity and they don't realize that and you'll see
- 54:14this.
- 54:14You will definitely see this if it hasn't worked already, but these people will probably
- 54:18work for you at some point.
- 54:20Yeah.
- 54:20And that's that's the best part.
- 54:22So my I'll just share this with you and I think you'll really like it.
- 54:26I don't I think I identify with the story that you just told.
- 54:28So I was taught from a very early age from my dad that you're the only one that's ever gonna
- 54:35be happy for you.
- 54:37Like Yeah.
- 54:37Full stop.
- 54:39And I think for me, I haven't been I hide the things that I do until they're, like, in a
- 54:45position that I'm ready to share Mhmm.
- 54:47Because I don't want the haters or I don't want people trying to attack me or I don't want
- 54:52people, like, getting in the weeds or whatever trying to stop me.
- 54:55And I think even when you're catching up with people, like, then the networking kind of calls
- 55:01that VC happens all the time.
- 55:03It's part of your job is to talk to other investors.
- 55:06I'll only share a high level of the things that I'm doing unless I trust them and truly I'm
- 55:10asking for what they think about it.
- 55:13Because I don't really wanna hear what they have to say unless I'm asking for feedback.
- 55:17Sure.
- 55:18Because no one's ever gonna be happy for you.
- 55:20And, like, they're only gonna look at internally and be insecure and probably shit on
- 55:24you, which is just such a crazy thing.
- 55:28But that's really helped me in my job and in my life.
- 55:31And I think something as well, there have been other, like, little tidbit that I had travel
- 55:37now, but I had an unopposed to note at my desk when I lived in San Francisco.
- 55:41Something that Justin said, he was right when I first started working for him, he was doing a
- 55:45panel somewhere and somebody asked him, oh, Justin, you've raised hundreds of thousands of
- 55:48dollars or hundreds of millions of dollars, very big difference.
- 55:50You've started all these companies.
- 55:53What's the attitude that you have when you walk into these investor meetings?
- 55:57And he said, and I I carry this with me personally and professionally, he said, you
- 56:00have to have the attitude of I'm gonna do this with or without you.
- 56:04And I think that ties perfectly into no one's ever gonna be happy for you but yourself
- 56:08because you have to have that determination to be able to do what you're doing and build what
- 56:14you wanna build and not let other people affect you.
- 56:17Whether it be, like, personally, like, you wanna go to the beach on Saturday and your wife
- 56:22doesn't wanna go Mhmm.
- 56:23But, like, you're still gonna go because it makes you happy.
- 56:27Or I'm gonna build this company even though, like, XYZ might think it's a bad idea and like
- 56:32I don't care or I think raising money is a great thing too.
- 56:34I'm gonna raise this fund and get on board or get out of the way is the attitude that I
- 56:40carry.
- 56:41Sure.
- 56:41Yeah, I mean, look, there's a guy, Jesse that came on to my show.
- 56:46He's at Alpha Partners and he really opened about this.
- 56:49I mean, he really wanted to be a VC.
- 56:51He knew that that's what he wanted to do.
- 56:53His dad was like, look, you can just work for my company.
- 56:56I have a stable job for you.
- 56:58And Jesse was like, no, give me three more months.
- 57:01And then three more months turned into a year, but he finally got the job because there's no
- 57:06point doing it and just doing this journey if you're not doing what really counts.
- 57:11And I think I resonate with that.
- 57:13Think Will Smith has been doing a lot of motivational stuff on Instagram but I think one
- 57:18of the things he talked about, especially with his wife is, he's not trying to make his wife
- 57:23happy.
- 57:23His wife isn't trying to make him happy.
- 57:25They're trying to be two people walking on a journey and they're trying to do their own
- 57:29journey of happiness, whatever that is.
- 57:31And that other person chooses to be on that journey with you.
- 57:35So I think you're right on the money there.
- 57:37Mean, I think, look, if you're gonna do something, just do it.
- 57:40There's a lot of limitations and challenges, but if you wanna raise your first time fund,
- 57:45find a way to do it.
- 57:46There's people that have spent a little of their own personal capital and they've just
- 57:51broken through walls to make it happen.
- 57:53Yeah.
- 57:54There's a lot of people out there that like yourself that are willing to root for you and
- 57:58that have done that before and happy to like reach back and pull you up.
- 58:01Yeah, no, I totally agree.
- 58:03And then I think another point is I think Jeff Bezos says his best.
- 58:07It's, don't tell people what you're gonna do, do it first and then like shock people.
- 58:12So I
- 58:13thought that was a really good mantra.
- 58:15So maybe we should talk a little bit about venture outside of the relationship.
- 58:21So maybe with founders, what is like that special formula?
- 58:27I mean, because you've been a founder as well.
- 58:29You're still a founder and entrepreneur.
- 58:31So what are some of the characteristics that you see as a common pattern for success as a
- 58:37founder?
- 58:37Sure.
- 58:38So for me, I think, I mean, a lot the things that we've talked about are applicable venture
- 58:42and in founding companies.
- 58:43And I think for me, I rely heavily on the psychology of people.
- 58:48So I'm gonna refer back to some of our previous conversations.
- 58:51So I think with founders, I really like working with founders that are low ego, that are
- 58:58willing tend to do all the things that we talked about that
- 59:01are Yeah.
- 59:01Have a spot on the wall in mind and they're just running towards it of, like, third, I'm
- 59:06gonna do this with or without you.
- 59:07Get on board.
- 59:08Get out of the way.
- 59:10And, like, that I can help them, like, kinda refine that too of sometimes when you're
- 59:15raising money for the first time, it's so hard and, like, you get so many no's and then you
- 59:18finally get a yes, but it's actually about which yeses you choose that are so important
- 59:23and kinda figuring out that journey.
- 59:24So low ego, with or without you attitude.
- 59:28Yeah.
- 59:29I really like people that have a personal tie to the business.
- 59:34Mhmm.
- 59:35So built like, building companies out of problems that they've had or they had a parent
- 59:40that was sick with one certain type of thing and they built a health tech company around it.
- 59:45Like, those are the types of companies that I really care about because they're bought in.
- 59:50Like, this is their life mission.
- 59:51They've seen it.
- 59:52That's caused them pain.
- 59:54They wanna fix it for other people rather than starting a company that you know is not that
- 1:00:00there's anything around it, but starting a company that, like, makes engineers 1% more
- 1:00:04productive that's gonna sell to someone to, like, two years that, like, no one really cares
- 1:00:08about.
- 1:00:09Like, cool.
- 1:00:09Someone will fund it.
- 1:00:10That's not gonna be me.
- 1:00:12And then I think, honestly, one of so I invested in this company recently who was
- 1:00:19founded, for one of the original Robin Hood founders, Nick Benz, Everywhere.
- 1:00:24So it's a sustainable sustainable textile company, and they figured out how to, when
- 1:00:30you're recycling material, entry me, introduce a certain component to make that material more
- 1:00:37biodegradable, which is crazy.
- 1:00:39So if you think about all the recycled fabrics out there now, that's still massively polluting
- 1:00:43the world with microplastics.
- 1:00:45And I could talk about this forever because I learned a lot about this to look at this deal.
- 1:00:50But I it's called Everywhere.
- 1:00:52And you can buy their shirts and they're working with companies, like big companies to
- 1:00:55be able to produce goods for them as well.
- 1:00:58But when we first started talking, they were introduced from a good friend, not like an
- 1:01:03industry character.
- 1:01:03Were introduced from a friend.
- 1:01:05And then when I first started to talk to them, I talked to them for, like, two hours about the
- 1:01:09company and then about other things and about, like, life and about Burning Man, kinda all
- 1:01:13over the place.
- 1:01:14Yeah.
- 1:01:14And, like, really built that connection.
- 1:01:16And I when I asked them, what are you looking for in your investors?
- 1:01:20One of the their three co founders, one of them said, well, we want people who are gonna be
- 1:01:24drinking with us when we all hit big.
- 1:01:26And I'm like, I'm here.
- 1:01:29I'll bring the champagne.
- 1:01:30Like, let's go.
- 1:01:32And then there's, like, it's a sentiment of, yes, partying together, but also being there
- 1:01:37through the whole journey and being that positive light to be able to get to the end.
- 1:01:43And that's something that I really love too.
- 1:01:44Yeah, you're gonna be drinking too, I would say, this goes back to just everything that you
- 1:01:49said, just being so directly important with venture, it's being there with the tough times
- 1:01:55and the bad times because you could be doing a drink with me one day because I'm venting about
- 1:02:01something that somebody mean said to me.
- 1:02:03But it's COVID and your business is about to go out of business, right?
- 1:02:08And you wanna have a drink to talk about it and figure out how you can work it through.
- 1:02:12So I think that's our responsibility too, would say to be there in the tough times as well.
- 1:02:18Yeah, I think that's so important.
- 1:02:19And I think that that type of relationship is really important to me of I wanna be the person
- 1:02:24you come to with good news, and I wanna be the person you come to when you have to lay people
- 1:02:29off and you don't know what to say.
- 1:02:31And I think the sec the latter piece is not something that happens very much if a lot of
- 1:02:35the times founders are scared because they have to say something bad to their investors, but we
- 1:02:39really wanna know.
- 1:02:40Like Yeah.
- 1:02:40I wanna know when things are going like, not going as well as they could because I can help
- 1:02:44you.
- 1:02:45Mhmm.
- 1:02:46And, like, I think that piece of being there and thick and thin is so important and the
- 1:02:49actual execution is something that us as VCs can be doing a lot better.
- 1:02:54Yeah.
- 1:02:54I think a huge thing too is self realization of your superpower.
- 1:02:58So, you have another business that focuses on fixing, right?
- 1:03:01So that's really a huge superpower for you.
- 1:03:05I think for me, I've done product as an operator for a long time.
- 1:03:08So I think just knowing what your superpower is and then really harnessing that, I think it'd
- 1:03:13probably help as well.
- 1:03:14I'm assuming.
- 1:03:15Yeah.
- 1:03:15And then let other people know like selling that.
- 1:03:17When I ever try to talk to founders, let them know that those are the things that I do and
- 1:03:21these are how I can help.
- 1:03:22Being very straightforward of this is what I'm best at and these are all the things that I can
- 1:03:26help you with.
- 1:03:27Like whatever it is, I'm available.
- 1:03:29And if I can't do it, I can refer somebody that is better at it than me.
- 1:03:32Yeah.
- 1:03:33And because venture is so opaque, right, there's no real formula to break into venture.
- 1:03:37You and I somehow, we're very fortunate to break in, but any advice for people?
- 1:03:43I think we talked about some really good things, right?
- 1:03:45I mean, just try to do things to be remembered.
- 1:03:49I think you really love people from a consulting background because they're really
- 1:03:52good at solving problems.
- 1:03:53But any other tips to maybe build relationships with potential prospects?
- 1:03:59Because as we know, half of the roles are not posted, Half of the jobs have been there for
- 1:04:04like six months, right?
- 1:04:06And somehow people miraculously get hired.
- 1:04:08So any other tips?
- 1:04:10It sounds like for you and me, was just organically but you know, any other
- 1:04:16recommendations for some of the people in the audience that either wanna break into venture
- 1:04:19or or, you know, try to build relationships or engage with VCs?
- 1:04:24Yeah.
- 1:04:24Absolutely.
- 1:04:24So I would say, I would just, like, honestly slide into people's DMs.
- 1:04:31Like, 10 out of 10 slide into people's DMs.
- 1:04:34The worst thing they can do is not answer you.
- 1:04:35The best thing they can do is take a call with you and maybe hire you and or refer you to
- 1:04:40someone that's looking.
- 1:04:41And what I would say in that type of message is and that's what I I love when people do that.
- 1:04:48Like, or meet people wherever they are.
- 1:04:50Like, I'm big on Instagram.
- 1:04:51I'm not big on Twitter.
- 1:04:52So whenever, like I had a founder reach out to me.
- 1:04:55On the founder perspective, I had someone reach out to me on Instagram and she said, hi, I
- 1:05:00really love your content, like, it really aligns with my business.
- 1:05:02Would you be willing to take a call with me for, like, five minutes and kind of talk about
- 1:05:06this thing?
- 1:05:07And now she's, like, I'm interested in investing and she's, a friend and you never
- 1:05:12know what could happen.
- 1:05:14Yeah.
- 1:05:14And so what I would say is just keep the find it in the people's DMs.
- 1:05:20Yeah.
- 1:05:20And
- 1:05:20what you would say is, hi.
- 1:05:23My name is whatever.
- 1:05:25I'm working on building my skills in VC.
- 1:05:29I really give specific examples about something about them because people wanna have their ego
- 1:05:33stroked.
- 1:05:33Like, I really love your product experience.
- 1:05:36I love that you started off as an engineer and I had a similar backstory.
- 1:05:39Mhmm.
- 1:05:41Would love to talk to you sometime or just, like, happy to take in your content.
- 1:05:45And, like, that people love that and having their ego strokes and having that attention
- 1:05:51paid to them.
- 1:05:52Yeah.
- 1:05:52Especially with when you give specific examples because that shows that you care and that you
- 1:05:55did a little bit of research.
- 1:05:58That can be a great top of the funnel.
- 1:05:59Yeah.
- 1:06:00Do
- 1:06:01you think it's also good to Yeah.
- 1:06:02Oh, go ahead.
- 1:06:02Sorry.
- 1:06:03Don't
- 1:06:03wanna No.
- 1:06:03Was just
- 1:06:03gonna say and then I think too, asking people in your immediate circle for referrals Mhmm.
- 1:06:11Would be great.
- 1:06:13Or even in your in your larger circle of for me, like, I know I wanna learn more about,
- 1:06:19like, if I wanna learn more about, like, deep tech investments, I can ask Joel I mean, like,
- 1:06:24hey, Joel.
- 1:06:24I'm looking for people that are in deep tech that do you think who would be willing to talk
- 1:06:29to me for fifteen minutes to help me learn about this thing.
- 1:06:32Yeah.
- 1:06:33Or with your like, this cohort, I with somebody like, you reach out to your friend who started
- 1:06:38a company, like, hey.
- 1:06:39Do you think any of your VCs that invested in your company would be willing to talk to me
- 1:06:42about their journey?
- 1:06:44Like, everyone and every VC loves talking about their journey.
- 1:06:46So Sure.
- 1:06:47Just asking for referrals very authentically, I think, can be a good source as well.
- 1:06:52Yeah.
- 1:06:53Another question I had was maybe acting like a VC.
- 1:06:56So actually sourcing deals, kind of already walking that walk.
- 1:07:01There's a Gen Z VC, two young kids that have already closed some capital and I'm going to be
- 1:07:08an LP.
- 1:07:09But one of their big focuses is community and content.
- 1:07:13I just think that's a unique edge that doesn't cost anything.
- 1:07:16It takes time.
- 1:07:17But if very helpful and valuable that can probably attract.
- 1:07:23I mean, think with your Instagram, you attract founders, right?
- 1:07:26And then you attract other co investors as well.
- 1:07:29So my question was like, do you think that's helpful to, you know or even if you don't have
- 1:07:33capital to source really high quality deals that are curated to to maybe a VC that may not
- 1:07:39even be hiring, but maybe you can, you know, shadow them or something
- 1:07:42like that. Yeah. I
- 1:07:42that.
- 1:07:42Yeah.
- 1:07:43I think I think I didn't mention that because I think it's implied in my brain.
- 1:07:48Yeah.
- 1:07:49I think that happens all the time with people that are looking to get roles in in VC will
- 1:07:53scout deals and refer them or, like, just slot like, cold email people.
- 1:07:57Be like, hey.
- 1:07:58I'm looking at this deal.
- 1:07:59This might be a fit for you.
- 1:08:00Yes or no?
- 1:08:01And then that gets you noticed, then you send more and more deals, and then you get to know
- 1:08:05what they like.
- 1:08:05And then the VC hiring process is very long tail.
- 1:08:11Forwarding for everybody, I'm sure you guys already know.
- 1:08:15And I think that can really help build a relationship too.
- 1:08:17And it shows that your ability to your ability to source deals as well, which is very
- 1:08:22important.
- 1:08:22And I think another assumed, you know, probably not even worth even mentioning, but just an
- 1:08:26assumed attribute is curating the right content the So right people, you don't wanna give the
- 1:08:33expression is you don't wanna give a steak to a vegan.
- 1:08:35You don't wanna give a deep tech deal to like a prop tech VC.
- 1:08:40So I think curating it effectively is a huge thing as well.
- 1:08:45Cool, we can, yeah, why don't we maybe we'll open.
- 1:08:48I know we got like twenty minutes left.
- 1:08:50You gave so many life nuggets and I think there were some really valuable ones from your
- 1:08:54parents as well.
- 1:08:56And you've had some amazing mentors.
- 1:08:58So I think any other big nuggets of life advice that you've received from a mentor that you'd
- 1:09:04like to share with the group here?
- 1:09:08I think I mentioned the two of you're the only one that's ever gonna be happy for you.
- 1:09:13Yeah.
- 1:09:13That's a good one.
- 1:09:14I'm gonna do this with or without you.
- 1:09:18Those are, like, my standout.
- 1:09:20Keep a note on your thing and, like, bring green that into your brain.
- 1:09:24Yeah.
- 1:09:25That that's been those two things have been so important in how I operate and how I handle my
- 1:09:30life and my business.
- 1:09:33I think something that I worked really hard on just in my own journey is being present where I
- 1:09:41am.
- 1:09:41And, like, I'm in the the whole mindfulness meditation circle too, and I'm, like, pretty
- 1:09:45crunchy.
- 1:09:45Literally live in, like, the mountains.
- 1:09:47So but I think for me and when you're in this type of environment, you're looking to get into
- 1:09:54venture, you're looking to start a company, you're so reactive and you're not thinking
- 1:09:58about where you are, what you're doing, and how you feel, which really impacts more than
- 1:10:03anything.
- 1:10:04If you take five minutes and go sit outside without your phone, without inputs, you think
- 1:10:07about you think things differently.
- 1:10:09That's why you have your best ideas in the shower because you're not distracted.
- 1:10:13And so for me, the phrase that I keep to that is be where you are Mhmm.
- 1:10:17And, like, take that time to be where you are, to be present with your people, or be present
- 1:10:22with yourself, to think about where you wanna be five years from now Mhmm.
- 1:10:26And be able to execute on that better rather than reacting reacting reacting and then maybe
- 1:10:29going in the wrong direction.
- 1:10:32Are those part of the frameworks of mindfulness?
- 1:10:36I mean, it's kind of a I practice transcendental meditation, which is a master
- 1:10:40based meditation.
- 1:10:41And I think that's core to that type of practice is to, like Sure.
- 1:10:45Cultivate that presence within yourself.
- 1:10:48And it's so it's so hard.
- 1:10:51Of, my my main thing is I was thinking about this this morning during my meditation, is,
- 1:10:56like, a lot of the or, like, with mantra based meditations, I can talk about this forever.
- 1:11:01Like, a lot of the times why you use a mantra is to be able to not you push out other things,
- 1:11:05and then you think about this one thing forever until you go to a space where everything's
- 1:11:09quiet, and then that's fucking great.
- 1:11:11Sure.
- 1:11:11So is that a so is a mantra is that a theme that you focus on when you meditate?
- 1:11:18It's more of so in transcendental meditation, you go through you have, like, a shaman.
- 1:11:23I don't know what the technical term is, but you have, like, a trainer who guides you
- 1:11:26through it and then they give it to you.
- 1:11:28Got it.
- 1:11:29So it's a sound or, like, a fake word or a syllable or something.
- 1:11:32Mhmm.
- 1:11:32And it's yours to keep.
- 1:11:33We don't tell anybody, but you with other meditations or there's this really great if you
- 1:11:40I don't know how what people are with this, but there was this, documentary on Netflix with Ram
- 1:11:46Dass who was, like, very into, like, the psychedelics movement.
- 1:11:49He's a guy that got kicked out of Harvard for the whole psychedelics thing Sure.
- 1:11:53And meditation in India in, like, the sixties.
- 1:11:55And he gave this mantra that it's I am loving consciousness.
- 1:12:01And if you just repeat that to yourself again and again and again with your eyes closed,
- 1:12:05like, sitting outside somewhere, you, like, find you in another dimension.
- 1:12:09It's crazy, and then you, like, remind yourself that, like, I am loving.
- 1:12:13I'm connected to all of these other people, and it's kind of a whole thing.
- 1:12:17But for me, the if you use, a gratitude journal or something Mhmm.
- 1:12:21Which I I would highly recommend, which is I really love that.
- 1:12:25It's just like be where you are or like today I'm going to be where I am.
- 1:12:29Sure.
- 1:12:30What's a good start for a beginner?
- 1:12:32So if somebody wanted to because it's something I wanted to do, but then the issue is like I
- 1:12:38forget about it.
- 1:12:38So what's a good way to be more disciplined about it?
- 1:12:41Where do you start?
- 1:12:41Is it an app or should you get a coach kinda like you've done to be more disciplined about
- 1:12:47depends.
- 1:12:47I mean, we should talk about this separately too because if you're interested, I'm happy to
- 1:12:51help you.
- 1:12:51Sure.
- 1:12:53I think it depends on what you want.
- 1:12:54So for me, the coach was the right way to go Mhmm.
- 1:12:59Because I had to do it.
- 1:13:00I had to show up to these lessons and you had to do the thing and then Yeah.
- 1:13:04Kinda all the apps support it and support your practice, which is great.
- 1:13:10Obviously, with meditation, like Headspace and Calm are great great places to start as well or
- 1:13:15even, like, Peloton Yeah.
- 1:13:17Has really great meditations if you use the app.
- 1:13:21And I think more than anything, you take an hour to, like, learn something and but it's
- 1:13:27building the habit that means more than anything.
- 1:13:29So I use this app that I'm I'm partial to.
- 1:13:33It's called Kin.
- 1:13:34That's, like, social habit tracking.
- 1:13:37Mhmm.
- 1:13:37So we have a meditation group that, like, I can add you to, and every day you check off your
- 1:13:42box, then that gets shared to the group.
- 1:13:44Like, Joel's meditated for ten days in a row.
- 1:13:46Mhmm.
- 1:13:47Da da da.
- 1:13:47You can talk about it.
- 1:13:48There's group that it's awesome.
- 1:13:49And then when you don't, be like Joel skipped his meditation.
- 1:13:52I can be like Joel, like, what the fuck?
- 1:13:54Like, why didn't you do this today?
- 1:13:57To kind of FOMO you into building those habits, which is really fun.
- 1:14:03And then I think the five minute journal is a real it's like kinda all over the place.
- 1:14:08The five minute journal is something that I've used for years.
- 1:14:11I use the app and it's just literally five minutes a day.
- 1:14:15You start in the morning with three things you're grateful for, three things you're gonna
- 1:14:19do to make today great, and then there's an I am statement.
- 1:14:23Just like I am where I am or I
- 1:14:25am Yeah.
- 1:14:25Going to be nice to myself today or something like that.
- 1:14:28Then I I can see that being a good way to set the tone for the day.
- 1:14:31I guess.
- 1:14:32Right?
- 1:14:32Yeah.
- 1:14:32Yeah.
- 1:14:33It's awesome.
- 1:14:33And then you do a prompt at the end of day of three great things that happened and then
- 1:14:38something else and you can add a picture.
- 1:14:40So you can scroll through, like, your life and see what happened every day and read those
- 1:14:44things and it's
- 1:14:45I really flashbacks kinda like Apple Photos does that sometimes where they'll take like a
- 1:14:51recap of like some
- 1:14:52Yeah.
- 1:14:52High level insights.
- 1:14:53Feel like not to be like a product nerd here, but there could be some really cool plays with
- 1:14:57like the data of like patterns of maybe common things that you did.
- 1:15:02I don't think they do that now.
- 1:15:04You I don't know if you can see, but you can like see my
- 1:15:09Oh, nice.
- 1:15:10That's, like, the that's the scroll of all the Yeah.
- 1:15:13The the couple weeks that you've been
- 1:15:15Yeah.
- 1:15:15Doing it over time.
- 1:15:17And sometimes it's, yesterday was, like I was, like, outside.
- 1:15:20Mhmm.
- 1:15:21Oh,
- 1:15:21nice.
- 1:15:21And I just took a picture or like And then
- 1:15:23you add some comments around it too to talk about how you
- 1:15:25feel.
- 1:15:25Yeah.
- 1:15:27Which is really fun.
- 1:15:28That's awesome.
- 1:15:29Well, hey.
- 1:15:29Know, I know we got ten minutes left.
- 1:15:31This is amazing.
- 1:15:32This is probably I I would say probably one of my favorite episodes because I think we just
- 1:15:36went really deep and we're able to open up.
- 1:15:40You know, I'd love to have anybody in the audience shout out some questions.
- 1:15:44You can also post it in the message here if you're shy.
- 1:15:48I have a question actually.
- 1:15:49Okay.
- 1:15:50All right.
- 1:15:51I'll be waiting for that.
- 1:15:52No, but thanks for the meditation tip.
- 1:15:54Actually, my roommate does it and I'm from Myanmar.
- 1:15:57We have like, Vipasana is like a very big meditation technique.
- 1:16:00Jack Dorsey does it.
- 1:16:01So I mean, I was kind of forced as a kid, like a Sunday school, you know, to do that.
- 1:16:05The mindfulness is very important.
- 1:16:07When I work at Goldman Sachs, also had weekly mindfulness session for all these people who
- 1:16:12were anxious to, you know, just like
- 1:16:15because everyone is so anxious.
- 1:16:17In the building, yeah.
- 1:16:18It's like mandatory mindfulness.
- 1:16:20My gosh.
- 1:16:22Well, it's like billions too, right?
- 1:16:24Because sorry to cut you off, Rob, but I was just thinking about, I don't know if you guys
- 1:16:27ever watch the show Billions, there's a woman there that she does like, I think she kind of
- 1:16:32like helps coach people on mindfulness, but it's also like performance coaching to kind of
- 1:16:36get your head in the zone.
- 1:16:37But I wouldn't be surprised if Goldman has those kind of performance coaches as well.
- 1:16:43But anyway, sorry, Rob, go ahead.
- 1:16:45No, no, no.
- 1:16:45I love Billion.
- 1:16:47So I know exactly who you're talking about Wendy and I love her too, but I'm a Bobby guy,
- 1:16:52you know, like not the check ropes guy.
- 1:16:54So anyway, that's Billions.
- 1:16:56If you guys haven't watched it, watch it.
- 1:16:57It's really good.
- 1:16:58I was gonna ask Alison about like, I see you were a co founder and then you were a founder
- 1:17:02for Truth Startups, before you become a founder itself.
- 1:17:05So I've been learning a lot from Joel about community building.
- 1:17:08And you know, I'm the type of person who didn't want to apply for a VC job.
- 1:17:11I had some mentors from Goldman and we started our own little stuff to kind of see where it
- 1:17:15goes with Marcus people, so FinTech, focusing on that.
- 1:17:19So I'm also doing some site on for fun.
- 1:17:21Right?
- 1:17:22So I was just wondering what's your experience like as a founder and co founder and, like, how
- 1:17:26did you kinda, like, find like, how do you transition from ideation to the product stage?
- 1:17:34So when I think the two things that you're talking about are have been service based
- 1:17:40businesses and not necessarily products, but I think I can still talk about that with, like,
- 1:17:45our product offerings.
- 1:17:46So with Two Pink Suits, is my, like, female advisory firm, that our ideation around that
- 1:17:55was, like, a thousand percent vengeance driven because kind of with the things that I had
- 1:18:00talked about before, like, being a woman in VC and being, like, a female founder, like,
- 1:18:04fucking sucks with the way it is.
- 1:18:06And, like, people just poor treatment, people saying shit all the time, we're sick of it.
- 1:18:11Like, we've seen all the numbers of, like, 2% of VC goes to women, and we're we were just,
- 1:18:16like so it was just trash.
- 1:18:19Like, honestly, was born out of 100% vengeance of, like, we're mad and we're gonna do
- 1:18:25something about it, and, like, very long tail vengeance driven technique to, like, make
- 1:18:31people get scared and be massively successful by doing something very differently.
- 1:18:36So the ideation phase was anger, and
- 1:18:39then we we broke
- 1:18:40that down into, like, okay.
- 1:18:42Great.
- 1:18:42What can we do about it to, like, actually make change?
- 1:18:46And that turned out to be we can provide, like, direct advice and investment to founders.
- 1:18:54The founders that we wish, like the founders that we were, that we wish we had more support
- 1:18:58on and things like that.
- 1:19:00And then that refined into our offering now of like we take advisor positions with companies
- 1:19:06within our vein that we can help.
- 1:19:08So we really broke that down, starting with the very large idea into how can we make money and
- 1:19:16how like, what do people want from us and what are they willing to pay for?
- 1:19:21And what works?
- 1:19:22We did a lot of testing too.
- 1:19:24We've thought about for almost six months of what can we offer to our community that they
- 1:19:30care about or that they want that they don't already have and where is that hole in the
- 1:19:34market and how can we fill it?
- 1:19:36So I think that was, I know that's a little bit different rather than like a physical product,
- 1:19:40but that's how we got to our service offering now of taking advisory or board seats with the
- 1:19:45companies that we wish we had helped and all of the things that you would do as an investor of
- 1:19:50come to us.
- 1:19:51We're bought into the business basically with advisor position to be able to help them with
- 1:19:56whatever they need.
- 1:19:59And then I think the other Alden, is the company, my corporate fixing company, that's
- 1:20:05basically, it's like me and an intern, which is really fun for now.
- 1:20:10My ideation there, my idea there was I'm a VC and I'm running these three processes all day
- 1:20:17and I miss working with founders, and I miss being the head of people, and I miss the
- 1:20:24operating skills.
- 1:20:25And I'm like, there are so many companies that I either we don't invest in or that need help
- 1:20:31or that I can make a huge difference in their trajectory by working with them for a month and
- 1:20:38helping them solve their problems so they don't have to go a year in the wrong direction.
- 1:20:43And that was just for me.
- 1:20:44I wanted to exercise that part of my brain, and I figured out I started with my boredom and
- 1:20:49broke it down into, like, okay, what am I good at?
- 1:20:51And, like, the third part was, like, how can I charge for it?
- 1:20:54And, like, how do I get those customers?
- 1:20:57And it was honestly just passionate, like, are the things that I really like to do in building
- 1:21:01building a business around it and, like, getting people to pay me for it.
- 1:21:06So no.
- 1:21:07I totally understand.
- 1:21:08So I actually was a scout for Launch With GS Fund, which focuses on like Black and Latinx
- 1:21:12and, you know, underserved communities.
- 1:21:14So I get where you're starting, like, you know, all this, like, underrepresented and all that.
- 1:21:19So that's why the one that we're building, me and my mentor, also is for like,
- 1:21:23underrepresented founders in fintech.
- 1:21:25Aside from that, when you mentioned about how to charge the customers, right?
- 1:21:29That's kind of like intriguing me.
- 1:21:30Lot of, I think there's like, of course, I want to be a VC, that's how I met Joel and, you
- 1:21:34know, he's been nice enough kind enough to like get me on board, and I learned a lot from him,
- 1:21:38now I'm like, kind of like, okay, let me try like, you know, things that I learned.
- 1:21:41He and I touched base with Joe about it.
- 1:21:43What I was kind of wondering is that I think to be a good VC or to be a good founder, you need
- 1:21:49to have like, it's either a spectrum, right?
- 1:21:51I learned a lot from that I could apply when you're building something, and I'm sure that
- 1:21:56when you're building something, you also know the tricks to get the funding, right?
- 1:21:58You have a checklist at VC.
- 1:22:00When you're working on figuring out how to charge the customer, how like, do you come up
- 1:22:07with it?
- 1:22:07I'm sure, like, you look at your competitors, there's a lot of way to charge, you have to
- 1:22:09differentiate it a little bit.
- 1:22:11So the revenue model building is one of the hardest thing for founders and the VCs who also
- 1:22:15assess that in order to determine whether they are viable investment or align with the thesis,
- 1:22:20even if it aligns, say, if it, if the revenue model is not right, but you still have to think
- 1:22:24ahead.
- 1:22:25Right?
- 1:22:25It could be corrected.
- 1:22:26It could be pivoted.
- 1:22:27So how do you figure that, like, how do you charge customer?
- 1:22:29I know, like, it could be a deep conversation, but just, like Sure.
- 1:22:32You look at some signals or, like, how do you think about it?
- 1:22:35Users, sellers, like, right, if you're in marketplace?
- 1:22:37Yeah.
- 1:22:38So basically for me and the, like, the corporate fixing side, how I figured that out
- 1:22:43was very roughly how I started with how consultants figure out their hourly rate, which
- 1:22:51there's like a formula you can look up, certain, like, three extra expenses minus
- 1:22:55whatever, and then, I broke that down into tiers.
- 1:23:01So I work with different stages of companies that have different budgets.
- 1:23:04So for example, if I was to work with a seed stage company that might have a smaller budget
- 1:23:08that may or may not afford, like, my hourly rate that I still wanna work with, I'd be
- 1:23:13willing to take, like, x, per hour or x retainer and part in equity.
- 1:23:19Then based on their current valuation, you figure out what that might be worth and then
- 1:23:24figuring that out and working with the company with where they are to come to terms,
- 1:23:29especially if it's a company that you really like.
- 1:23:31Then you get that sweet, sweet equity at a faster vesting than probably other people
- 1:23:38would.
- 1:23:39So that was kind of part of it of figuring out what are the different breakdowns of my
- 1:23:45customers.
- 1:23:46So seed, series A, B, and then figuring out what's ideal for me within the those areas, and
- 1:23:56what do I really want.
- 1:23:57So, like, ideal my my ideal situation with something like what I'm doing is a retainer.
- 1:24:03So whenever somebody can kind of like how you have your lawyer, whenever you have a question,
- 1:24:07you can ping them and they'll they bill against your retainer.
- 1:24:10Whenever a founder has a question or if they have a project that they want me to work on,
- 1:24:14I'm available, and I have, like five hours a week designated to them that I'm willing to
- 1:24:18help them with, that they don't use the five hours of their problem.
- 1:24:21But choosing to have that availability for them to be able to be available rather than, this
- 1:24:26was kind of the whole thing at Atrium was the legal billable hours disincentivizing people to
- 1:24:31come to you for help.
- 1:24:32And so having that, and I think consultants that's true too, or with something like this,
- 1:24:39they would be disincentivized to come to me with a question if I was billable because they
- 1:24:45would be afraid to ask me because I'm gonna charge them at the wazoo to answer this
- 1:24:48question rather than actually figuring out the solution together.
- 1:24:53So do you do you think that, like, in, like, social media, kind of like a nominal
- 1:24:57marketplace.
- 1:24:57Right?
- 1:24:58They pretend to be a marketplace, not necessarily a marketplace.
- 1:25:00Think about it, Facebook, for example, is one of the best examples.
- 1:25:03Shopify is like the reverse of that, right?
- 1:25:06So I think they're going like to like, I follow Ben Thompson, I'm sure like you heard about him
- 1:25:10too, you know, was, he did analysis about this whole like platform aggregator.
- 1:25:15And I was just wondering, in this day and age, like how Facebook did or like Yelp did, do you
- 1:25:20think that like zero feed model for like user and like users and then try to sync alternative
- 1:25:27revenue channel.
- 1:25:28Do you think that model is still a viable model in terms of, like, you know, the future of
- 1:25:32marketplace or, like, the social interactions?
- 1:25:38I don't do I I don't know if I'm the best person to ask that question.
- 1:25:41I don't do a lot of, like, social marketplaces.
- 1:25:43That's not really my domain.
- 1:25:45Mhmm.
- 1:25:46What I can give a good example of is a company called Public, which is actually stole a lot of
- 1:25:52users from Robinhood recently.
- 1:25:54So, basically, they Yeah.
- 1:25:55Heard about that.
- 1:25:55Yeah.
- 1:25:56They're stock exchange, and they're also a social media platform encouraging people to
- 1:26:00share why they invested in certain companies and commenting on it, like, I was reading the
- 1:26:05thread about Roblox today and, like, just crazy stuff.
- 1:26:09And I think I can give that example of Robinhood versus public of, like, public
- 1:26:15doesn't charge fees, but they'll do, like, a tipping system.
- 1:26:18So when I buy a stock, I can choose to tip a certain amount that goes to the company because
- 1:26:23they go, okay.
- 1:26:24This is great.
- 1:26:24Whatever.
- 1:26:25I get a portal.
- 1:26:26Right?
- 1:26:26I'm sure everybody has Adblock.
- 1:26:28And I actually talked with a product manager from Adblock through a friend.
- 1:26:32I was like, Oh, I didn't know that you guys have this big, you know, like I thought I never
- 1:26:35paid for Adblock.
- 1:26:36I used it for ten years.
- 1:26:37Yeah.
- 1:26:39But that's all I have.
- 1:26:40Don't want to give the time without the time.
- 1:26:41Allison, I realize that we're actually thirty minutes over, so I really apologize.
- 1:26:45No, that's okay.
- 1:26:46Didn't realize that we ran over.
- 1:26:47I was free.
- 1:26:48I do have a call in one minute, I can take a quick question if anyone has a question.
- 1:26:53I will just, to respect your time.
- 1:26:55I'll just rapid fire this final question, which is biggest challenges for you working and
- 1:27:00founding a VC firm.
- 1:27:02So if you wanna just do that rapid fire, we'll wrap up.
- 1:27:06I think the biggest challenge when I was going into it was being scared of, like, I could have
- 1:27:11started things much sooner because I was I was scared and I didn't know if I could do it right
- 1:27:15or if I was the right person to do it.
- 1:27:18The in the last three years, both building a VC and founding companies and building those, Time
- 1:27:27management is really has been a great challenge for me, but I think the lesson there is just
- 1:27:32figure I have a blog post on this I can share with you Mhmm.
- 1:27:35Of figuring out the time of day that's best for you to do certain things and, like, keep to
- 1:27:40that schedule religiously.
- 1:27:41Like, time block your time for every single task that you need to do.
- 1:27:45And b, I think, your own value too is really important of, like, you should figure out what
- 1:27:52your billable hours should be and, like, are you in that place now?
- 1:27:56And when someone wastes your time, how much money of your time are they wasting?
- 1:28:02And not doing work for free, I think, is is another thing of within that whole vein of,
- 1:28:06like, you shouldn't do work for free.
- 1:28:07Sure.
- 1:28:08Cool.
- 1:28:09All right.
- 1:28:09Well, I let you run to your meeting.
- 1:28:11Sorry for delaying you, but hey, this was so amazing.
- 1:28:14Thank you so much.
- 1:28:16This is one of the top episodes.
- 1:28:18So thank you.
- 1:28:19Yeah.
- 1:28:19No.
- 1:28:19Thanks so much for having me and thanks everyone for your questions.
- 1:28:21I love this too.
- 1:28:22And Joel, I'm glad that we're now best friends.
- 1:28:25We are.
- 1:28:25BFFs.
- 1:28:26Take care.
- 1:28:26BFFs.
- 1:28:27Have a good one.
- 1:28:28Yeah.