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- 0:01Welcome to authentic living with Roxanne, a place where we have as conversations about
- 0:08things that really matter in our lives.
- 0:11And now here's your host, Roxanne Derhodge.
- 0:36Our interview last week was so good that we decided to turn it into a 2 part series.
- 0:41If you missed last week, you'll find the link in the show notes.
- 0:45It's not mandatory that you listen, but we wanna make sure that you don't miss out on this
- 0:51amazing conversation.
- 0:53Everyone, it's Roxanne Durgesh.
- 0:55Thanks tuning in again to authentic living with Roxanne.
- 0:57Today, I have a colleague Kamala Salardi.
- 1:00Kamala and I, I think met almost a year ago, at the Forbes of Women's Executive Council of
- 1:05which she was the chair and, I have since taken on that role.
- 1:11Camales brings a breadth and depth of, knowledge in as a strategic and bold thinker in
- 1:18digital and business transformation.
- 1:20She's been in, in this role for about, I believe, about 23 years.
- 1:25And she's a teaching fellow at Durham and she's a keynote speaker and she's recently released
- 1:31her new book.
- 1:32At Carmales, thanks so much for being here with us today.
- 1:36Thank you
- 1:36for having me, Roxanne.
- 1:38It's it's been a pleasure getting to know you as well.
- 1:41So let's talk a little bit about those 6 traits that so you really like you said, you go I I
- 1:47there's two things that you said, Kamalas, which I love, you you know, inside out, which
- 1:51is like, we have to we have to look and see, really, and you have to be really truthful.
- 1:56I think going through this process about, you know, I mean, love the fact that I created this
- 2:01product, but when when you kind of go through this analysis, you're realizing, It's taking
- 2:04this much hours and the revenue stream is really, you know, you're always pumping air
- 2:09into it, and it's not so good.
- 2:10So you have to really be willing and and to be transparent with what is.
- 2:15Another thing you talked a little bit about is leadership and what leaders need to do to
- 2:20connect to the customer.
- 2:24And I I wanna talk more about this.
- 2:25I think that's very, very vital like you said, with with things like social media, you know, I
- 2:31if I have a bad experience today and I put something on and I've got a big enough
- 2:34following, I can quite quickly disrupt, something within a company, right?
- 2:40So we have a lot of power as the consumer.
- 2:42So let's in the book, you talked about those 6 traits because you said, you know, it's the
- 2:47it's the vision.
- 2:48Right?
- 2:48Like, everybody has to buy into the vision, but the lee it starts with the CEO or the senior
- 2:53team.
- 2:54So tell me how you kind of work with them.
- 2:56Let you know, you might have a CEO that that thinks, Lardiance associates, we we definitely
- 3:02do wanna work with you, but, you know, with teams that have been working together for a
- 3:06long time.
- 3:06There's history.
- 3:07There's disconnections.
- 3:09There's people that have, some implicit power that we may or may not know about or there's
- 3:14alliances, all that stuff.
- 3:15So with with c with CEOs that you've worked well with, meaning that, let's say they're a
- 3:21good CEO or somebody with that can transform, but they're working with a difficult kind of
- 3:27senior team, what is your approach with with, an environment like that?
- 3:32So I I 1st of all, I think to preface that, leadership teams, you know, many companies, let
- 3:38me start with this.
- 3:39Many companies do approach digital transformation with a technology team or a
- 3:44transformation team.
- 3:46And one of the biggest challenges with that is you can take the transformation to a certain
- 3:50level to a project or initiative implementation level.
- 3:54But in order to really benefit from digital transformation, you need to transform
- 3:59organization wide.
- 4:00And something that I personally experienced and had to learn was I had to 1st transform as a
- 4:06leader in order to initiate transformation in organizations.
- 4:10And this was something that what's, you know, with any transformation, with any journey that
- 4:15we go on.
- 4:16And I think you have this detail out in your book as well, which I found really refreshing
- 4:20because we had a really nice alignment to the work that, you know, that I do on the ground
- 4:25with the customers as well.
- 4:27Really transforming means looking at yourself your leadership style, your approach in an
- 4:32organization, the way you are, you know, how self aware you are, but also how you connect
- 4:37with your team, how you motivate teams.
- 4:41And this is something I had to learn by doing, right, going through that transformation
- 4:45process myself.
- 4:47And so today, I do a lot of digital mindset coaching for leadership teams and board
- 4:52members.
- 4:53And this means you know, oftentimes, I'll be very honest.
- 4:56They are older men, who lead organizations.
- 5:00And it is very interesting because we do tend to have very perspectives, we come from a
- 5:05completely different mindset.
- 5:08And one of the experiences I had during COVID was I was doing a coaching with a person from,
- 5:14you know, who had 35, 40 years experience in leadership.
- 5:18And He had never led an organization where people were not physically present.
- 5:24And so he broke down in tears because this was extremely challenging, right, for someone who
- 5:28had a secretary who did most of his digital interactions.
- 5:32And now he would have to face this on his own and kind of lead people and lead teams.
- 5:37It meant letting go of control.
- 5:39It meant trusting people.
- 5:41Beyond your physical space.
- 5:43So these kinds of transformations, and, you know, what I did with him was we entered into
- 5:48the the virtual reality space metaverse and we did our coaching sessions in there.
- 5:53And he completely forgot that we were not physically together in the same room.
- 5:59And so this was, I think, an eye opening moment because he realized, okay, technology has the
- 6:04ability to extend our capabilities.
- 6:07If we use it in in the right way, if we know how to use it, we can go beyond zoom.
- 6:11We can go into a space where we feel like we're connected with another.
- 6:15It's almost, you know, almost reality, I would say.
- 6:18So one of the things I do with leadership teams, in the formal project environment is
- 6:22really to look at stakeholder analysis.
- 6:25And I can sell it from experience.
- 6:27There's always one person in the room who doesn't buy who doesn't buy in.
- 6:32I I hope that sometimes it's a couple.
- 6:35At least at least one.
- 6:36And it's usually either the head of of technology or, you know, the the head of HR or
- 6:41something like this.
- 6:42Somehow the trends are, you know, undeniable.
- 6:45But a stakeholder analysis helps to understand, you know, who the people are in the room.
- 6:50What kind of influence they have.
- 6:51Who do I need to connect with to get buy in and to empower, to transform and I do work very
- 6:59closely with leadership teams because even if you come in from the the roots, right, from the
- 7:03ground up to transform the company, leadership teams drive the real transformation.
- 7:08It is the top down that can implement organization wide change.
- 7:11You need that top down mandate.
- 7:13And a a big part of that means taking people on this journey, leadership teams need to
- 7:18transform.
- 7:19What I found in my experience and maybe you can share your experience in this as well.
- 7:25You can't transform unless you're ready to.
- 7:28Right.
- 7:28And this is where I choose my battles.
- 7:30There are some leadership teams that are know, ready to go on that journey with us to
- 7:35transform the organization.
- 7:36And there are other team members who might say, we just want to implement a project.
- 7:41And then it's they're not ready and it's not the time.
- 7:44And so this this is really a journey.
- 7:45It's an evolution.
- 7:47We go on this journey with the company as far as your readiness is, and we take them to the
- 7:52next step as far as they want to go, but you can't force this transformation either.
- 7:57Within the book, I do detail a couple of things that I've observed leadership teams, business
- 8:02leaders need to have in the digital future.
- 8:05So I've detailed those out as 6 traits for leadership for future organizations.
- 8:10And this involves one of the key things is really abundance thinking or abundance mindset.
- 8:14And that is being able to think beyond your current boundaries.
- 8:18Current industry boundaries, current business boundaries, current physical boundaries, We
- 8:23have now with new technologies, the ability to enter new markets, to, you know, even startups
- 8:29can have on day 1 of business access to a global marketplace.
- 8:33So our traditional industry boundaries, you know, our our physical boundaries as well, you
- 8:38don't need a branch to enter a market.
- 8:41You don't need a physical office.
- 8:42Companies can exist virtually and still be a $1,000,000 business.
- 8:46And so these traditional boundaries are no longer valid.
- 8:50And business leaders need to be able to think beyond those boundaries and understand that
- 8:54technology creates those seamless, existence as well.
- 8:59The other element is really around empowering people, being able to, trust that your teams
- 9:05can do what they are meant to do and empowering them to do it.
- 9:09And a good amount of this is, you know, understanding that failure is a learning, a
- 9:13learning process, that you have to develop with failure, without failure, you don't learn.
- 9:19And this is a key element that many corporates don't tend to embrace.
- 9:23I would say the next element is around consciousness and empathy, which is really,
- 9:28really important.
- 9:29To be aware of your round your surroundings, to be aware of why people do what they do and what
- 9:34people behave in the way they behave.
- 9:36And what I've learned is resistance to change usually comes from an element of fear fear of,
- 9:42losing controls, fear of not knowing something or not understanding something, fear of
- 9:47becoming irrelevant in the tech environment, And so understanding this and having empathy
- 9:52towards it and having an understanding for how we can take people on that journey you know,
- 9:57you can learn new skills.
- 9:58It's not difficult to learn.
- 10:00You have to shift the way you look at your role.
- 10:02All of these kinds of of things need empathy and a certain amount of vulnerability to
- 10:06connect with people.
- 10:08Looking at, flexibility and adaptability, we've seen a lot of that during the COVID
- 10:13environment, which is the next element.
- 10:15So within COVID, many businesses were able to pivot and transform and very quickly shift and
- 10:22adapt to the new environments, which is the non physical space.
- 10:26And also closeness customers, which is something you mentioned.
- 10:29What I found very surprising, is most C level executives don't have direct interactions with
- 10:35their customer base.
- 10:37Mhmm.
- 10:37And they, you know, rely on HR or marketing teams or even sales teams to get an
- 10:44understanding for the people on the ground.
- 10:47And this is this is, I think, this should change.
- 10:50We see many organizations now taking their c levels 2 branches to connect with customers,
- 10:55you know, on-site really to understand how people use their products and services, what
- 11:00their needs are, what is the problem space?
- 11:02And I think this connection makes these leadership teams more human as well, and more
- 11:08accessible.
- 11:09So these are some, great example I'd like to see more corporates, incorporate.
- 11:13And the last one is, of course, courage and conviction.
- 11:17Transformation, digital transformation can be a really tough process.
- 11:20And you need people who are bold enough to initiate and to stick with it and to drive that
- 11:26change.
- 11:26So those are the elements that I detail out in book.
- 11:29Well, I I think it's your point.
- 11:31Right?
- 11:31You can only take a team as far as they're willing to go.
- 11:33And I I say sometimes it's pockets of work that you do.
- 11:37You do it.
- 11:37You can only take them along that far.
- 11:39And then if there's you recognize the next steps that they need to make and you're getting
- 11:43massive pushback, then that means they're ready not they're not ready to take the next step of
- 11:49the journey, and you have to say that to them.
- 11:51You know, I think we've done, you know, really good work together.
- 11:54This is where I think we need to go.
- 11:56This is my sense of what I'm getting from your environment.
- 11:58You know, you need to reflect on this and give me direction because, of course, you know, it's
- 12:03like you'd be doing that tug of war, to one end.
- 12:06And then you're not gonna be able to create the change, and then that's the legacy of you being
- 12:10in the environment and you wanna leave on that note that you've done the part that you agreed
- 12:16to.
- 12:16So I think, you know, what you talked a lot about is, and I would say definitely courage
- 12:21like you're saying when there's translation, but trust, you know, if I talk a lot about
- 12:25psychological safety, like, so that people can make mistakes, you know, like like you said, in
- 12:31corporate, it's it's like you're not allowed to make mistakes.
- 12:34And and how do your leadership, you know, the different various levels of your leadership
- 12:38teams how do they address when there are, mistakes and and, you know, how how do teams
- 12:44respond when there is a mistake?
- 12:46That gives you a real good context of what's happening so that, you know, that's and that's
- 12:51oftentimes when people can learn from that you know, there could be such massive things that
- 12:56could going forward from those mistakes.
- 12:59But again, if people can't openly talk about You know, I I actually did this wrong, and this
- 13:05is what I figured out.
- 13:06You know, the people listening to them can gain but the leadership teams or the leaders have to
- 13:11be able to have the capacity to hold that space and not shut people down.
- 13:16And then if people are in fear to your point, they're they're not gonna be able to evolve
- 13:20into the optimal use of of their skills, right?
- 13:24Absolutely.
- 13:25I I think there are several things that I've I've done in the past that have helped that.
- 13:29Right?
- 13:29So what you're talking about in many organizations come down to the the culture.
- 13:34And some organizations do have a very directive strict culture of, you know, 0 tolerance for
- 13:41failure.
- 13:42Particularly if you go into, for example, financial services or pharmaceuticals where you
- 13:47have very regulated environment.
- 13:49There tends to be very strong kind of control functions and, you know, compliance body that
- 13:55that is very strict about how things are done.
- 13:58And I think one of the the key elements here is, and I do go into that at the beginning of
- 14:03the book, which is kind of why, you know, the book isn't necessarily just a textbook.
- 14:07It does have a lot of elements around how technology should be implemented.
- 14:11But it does go into the element of looking at, how do you drive, how do you create purpose
- 14:16within an organization, and how do you connect people to that purpose?
- 14:20And how do you identify values that connect people together and drive transformation.
- 14:25One of the things that I've done in the past, was you know, working with, a CEO.
- 14:31And for him, you know, that he walked into a culture.
- 14:33He'd been there for a couple of years.
- 14:35But he had walked into a culture and an organization as a newcomer, in a very directive
- 14:40environment where people waited.
- 14:42People know there was a fear of hierarchy people waited to be asked a question before
- 14:46they spoke in meetings.
- 14:48So one of the things that we did was to create an artificial environment to demonstrate that
- 14:53there's a new culture.
- 14:55Setting up a town hall session for all employees, partially digital and partially
- 14:59physical, and have him there in the physical space, basically answering questions.
- 15:04And positioning people, pre settings certain people in the room who are going to ask the
- 15:09toughest questions, the taboo questions.
- 15:13And we had two or three people in the room who had been, you know, we pre agreed here are the
- 15:17questions, ask these questions, and he responded very positively.
- 15:21And then provided his honest and authentic response to those questions.
- 15:25And this started to create an environment where people recognized, okay, we're shifting now.
- 15:29We can ask there's no consequence to being outspoken.
- 15:33We can speak up and we can ask the tough questions that are concerning us.
- 15:37And so this trigger then a shift and a kind of a refreshing change in the organization where
- 15:42people realized, okay, this person is far more accessible than his predecessor.
- 15:46And there's not going to be a negative consequence if I approach him and I speak to
- 15:50him and if I wanted to have a dialogue.
- 15:52And so these these are kind some of the artificial ways that we create those
- 15:56transformations as well.
- 15:57Amazing.
- 15:58Yeah.
- 15:58Because people need to see, and
- 16:00it really, especially if the CEOs have been had to play this, you know, bureaucratic top down
- 16:06kind of role.
- 16:07Well, you know, and then all of a sudden, it's like there's a new sheriff in town, but nobody
- 16:10knows that there's been a change of rules of engagement.
- 16:13They're like, I'm not gonna believe it until I see it.
- 16:15So I like that that people can actually see it and say, wow, it's interesting.
- 16:19To be able to be in that space.
- 16:21That's a that's a nice, I would say, a bit simulated, but if the if the CEO is able to
- 16:26deliver that people are kind of able to at least drop their guard a bit and start to
- 16:31recognize, okay, we can start risking a bit so that eventually, you know, of course, it would
- 16:36still take time, and safety over time and consistency and those types of things.
- 16:41If their CEO's listening, and maybe they've they've attempted this in the past.
- 16:46And, you know, and maybe they're like, well, I tried this before and, it didn't go so well or,
- 16:58because I'm, you know, maybe they're more of an, a bureaucratic structure still, but they're
- 17:02recognizing that they have to shift off and to try transformational.
- 17:06What kind of things would you tell them to start to consider or some things that they
- 17:10should you do a lot of digital mindset reflection with with these individuals?
- 17:14What are some of the things that DCUs should start to, reflecting on about potentially
- 17:21starting to make a shift again?
- 17:23I I think one of the key things I would advise them to look at is, their own leadership team,
- 17:28right, their direct reports, people that are working with them, the closest kind of network
- 17:33of people within their their, organization.
- 17:36And I would advise them to look at or try to identify people that they can use as advocates.
- 17:44Right?
- 17:44So within your own leadership team, looking at who is able to go with you on this journey and
- 17:51support you.
- 17:52A lot of times, you do find CEOs working very closely with COOs, and and, you know, them
- 17:58having a very strong camaraderie in terms of how do we partner up and drive the change?
- 18:03And also being able to identify maybe not within leadership, but maybe levels below them
- 18:11Who are the people who have influence?
- 18:13An influence doesn't come with position or authority.
- 18:16Influence does tend to come sometimes with you know, personalities, the gravitas of the
- 18:22person, or even length of time they've been in an organization, size of network, being able to
- 18:28identify who the people that they need to connect with, to create kind of almost a task
- 18:33force of people that are going to help them drive this transformation.
- 18:36You need to have those.
- 18:38When we look at transformation in an organization, we don't look at changing a 100%
- 18:43of the people.
- 18:44We don't look at changing even 60%.
- 18:46We look at finding those 20% that will transform that are already bought into it that
- 18:52are open to it.
- 18:54Convincing them, and they are the ones, you know, these are the people with the network,
- 18:58with the influence.
- 18:59They are the ones that are going to advocate for the change.
- 19:01And if you find those personalities in the company and take them on board and power them
- 19:07and create an environment where they can drive the change for you as well, is not a one man
- 19:13job.
- 19:14It is a team effort, and they are going to then start influencing people.
- 19:18They're going to start creating more advocates and creating classroom change across the
- 19:23organization.
- 19:24Within the leadership team, there's always going to be people who are against it.
- 19:29And I think One thing I would advise leadership teams is also understanding motivations,
- 19:35understanding motivations of people.
- 19:37If someone's resisting change, what is the resistance about?
- 19:41Is it something that they're afraid of, or is there something more sinister behind it?
- 19:45And sometimes we do actually discover there's a reason someone doesn't want to open up their
- 19:51area of business or their business unit simply because there are things that are not going
- 19:55right that they don't want exposed.
- 19:57So the transformation process is challenging.
- 19:59This is why I said earlier, you have to be bold and you have to stick with it.
- 20:03And oftentimes, understanding motivations behind resistance then can uncover how you
- 20:08approach that issue as well.
- 20:09And it's not just the motivations of people.
- 20:13I think it's also about understanding your own motivation as a leader.
- 20:16Why do you think this is important to do?
- 20:19Because if you're not convinced a 100%, you can't convince anyone else.
- 20:23So you have to understand your motivations very, very strongly as well and communicate
- 20:28that.
- 20:29And then that's when the passion comes through.
- 20:31On an operational level, there are a couple of things that I would say, is put your money
- 20:36where you can find the best value in return.
- 20:40It's not just about the new shiny thing in the market.
- 20:42You know, a lot of people are talking about chat GPT and AI.
- 20:45Last year, it was metaverse the year before that was blocking.
- 20:49So we do find these trends coming out, a lot of them on LinkedIn as well.
- 20:54Forget the trends.
- 20:56Find the real things that can bring business value for your company and your customer base
- 21:01and investing those things.
- 21:03And, you know, uh-uh, I I'm probably one of the only consultants out there who would say, if
- 21:08I can't bring value to you, I would tell you I can't bring value I I don't mind losing a
- 21:13contract, but I don't think you should implement something that your company doesn't
- 21:16need.
- 21:17And I think this is a an important element of you know, making sure you you put the money
- 21:21where you your limited resources where you are bringing the most value.
- 21:26In the last I would advise is as well look at looking at dual transformation.
- 21:31There are companies that focus on transforming internally, their core processes, their core
- 21:36business, And there are companies that focus on innovation, the new thing, the next business
- 21:40idea.
- 21:42I believe it should be a dual transformation where you change your current business at the
- 21:46same time you're changing for the new as well.
- 21:49And this is not so easy to do because you you you kinda lose focus and you don't know what to
- 21:54what takes priority.
- 21:55There are times when it gets really challenging with resources and so on.
- 21:59This dual transformation is something that I do address in the book, in the best practices as
- 22:04well.
- 22:05Amazing.
- 22:06So, and I, you know, one thing I I wanna say is, legacy, right?
- 22:10Cause when I talk to leaders, I talk about, you know, what is your Like, you know, you and I
- 22:15started off talking about what what guided us.
- 22:17But I think a lot of times with awareness, with that for that meter to be able to to invest his
- 22:22or her time to really get connected and get clear headed about what, you know, why did they
- 22:28start their journey?
- 22:29And I often, you know, say when they are no longer there in whatever capacity, whether they
- 22:35sell their business or they move on to somewhere else, what legacy or imprint do they
- 22:39wanna leave behind?
- 22:40As well to become very, very clear about the steps in between because it could be very
- 22:45dizzying in between.
- 22:46And if that leader loses contact with that internal space within themselves about why
- 22:51they're leading or what made them want, to be a leader.
- 22:56And are they in alignment with their values so that in turn it becomes easier to get a a
- 23:01really good vision about where you're going with your company as well?
- 23:04Or the company that they're leading.
- 23:06And I think those becomes things.
- 23:07And of course, leaders are very, you know, with my arena, the mental stress on them, the
- 23:13burnout, you know, the demands that they have on them are very, very high level, but I often
- 23:19say to them, you know, you have to take that time to take care of yourself so that you can,
- 23:23and in turn, take care of others and connect to others and then be able to kind of steer the
- 23:28ship in the, you know, because without the leader being completely healthy and aware, it's
- 23:32it's difficult to maintain this level of capacity on, you know, like you said, a 2 3 or
- 23:375 year kind of process.
- 23:39So, Kamala, this has been amazing for your book.
- 23:43Again, tell us the the name and where people can get it.
- 23:47We will have a link in the, show notes for the book and for anything else that where people
- 23:53can get ahold of you.
- 23:55So, the book is called the human side of digital business transformation published by
- 23:59Wiley, and you can get it.
- 24:01It's actually available globally today.
- 24:04So that's very exciting, across the the world in the US in Asia and so on.
- 24:10The easiest way to it would be either on Amazon or on my website, kamlesh larvae.com.
- 24:16And I'm very active on Twitter and LinkedIn so people can find me there well, and I'm happy to
- 24:21continue the conversation if they're looking to do that as well.
- 24:26And, I think that's it.
- 24:27Is there anything I missed?
- 24:29No.
- 24:29No.
- 24:29I think you didn't.
- 24:30And, Kamales is spelled k a m a l e s l a r d I.
- 24:35So, she's she's active LinkedIn, like as she said, or also Twitter.
- 24:39So what am I taking away?
- 24:41I I'm taking away that at the end of the day, it's really about, that internal purpose of
- 24:47individuals that are leading.
- 24:49You know, it's not about the next shiny object.
- 24:52Like like you said, the metaverse or chat GBT.
- 24:55It's really about getting quiet and looking internally and then also thinking about what's
- 25:01the touch point that I'm not aware of about what my customer might be experiencing with my
- 25:06product.
- 25:07And I love that, concept of the ecosystem and that your c leaders C suite leaders need to
- 25:13have that kind of visit or touch point to really, really understand how their product
- 25:18lines or their technological elements that you're trying to implement is affecting the
- 25:24average person.
- 25:25We have there's a bit of a disconnection there.
- 25:27So I would suggest is if anybody's needing, to have a chat, reach out, get the book, and then
- 25:35you would, I'm sure you're gonna key in a lot of things there.
- 25:37You can reach out to Kamala after that.
- 25:39For anyone wanting to know about authentic leadership, what I would suggest, is just going
- 25:44to my website robsanderhodge.com for a stat quiz There's a really, really quick quiz, that
- 25:50you can look at.
- 25:51How authentic are you, in the areas of leadership?
- 25:54And, you know, I'm sure you do a lot of things well.
- 25:57There's a couple of blind spots that we all have, then we would send you a very quick
- 26:01report with some recommendations.
- 26:03Again, Kamala, thanks so much.
- 26:04And for everyone, thanks for hanging out with us and look forward to chatting with you again,
- 26:09next week.
- 26:10Take care.
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