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Fuel Your Life! Trusting God Completely: How to Lean Not on Your Own Understanding with Jayme Elizabeth · She Speaks Life - Christian Women, Strengthen Your Faith, Bible Study, Grow Spiritually In Christ

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  Hey beautiful friends, welcome back to She Speaks live podcast
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  and joining me in this Feel your life episode today.
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  I am so thankful you are here because I truly believe God has
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  a fresh word for us, a word that brings clarity when life feels
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  confusing, peace when wrong thoughts try to weigh us down
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  and confidence when the future looks uncertain.
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  So let me ask you, what are are you caring right now?
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  Maybe it's financial pressure. Maybe it's concerns about your
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  children or your marriage. Maybe it's health struggles or
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  decisions you don't know how to make.
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  Or maybe you're just tired of trying to figure everything out
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  on your own. And if you're like me, if you've
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  ever whispered, Lord, I don't know what to do next, then this
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  verse is for you. It's Proverbs 3, five through 6,
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  and it says trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not
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  on your own understanding in all your ways.
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  Submit to Him, and He will make your path straight.
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  It's only 2 verses, but inside them is this entire road map for
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  how to live with freedom, direction, and peace.
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  And so today we're going to break it down, look at the
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  Hebrew roots, personalize it for our own lives, and leave with
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  declarations that anchor us in God's truth.
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  So let's unpack this step by step.
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  Let's start with trust in the Lord.
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  The Hebrew word for trust, rest is buttock.
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  It means to rely on, to feel safe, to put your full weight
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  on. Every time we sit, we are
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  putting our weight on a chair, right?
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  That's what it means to trust God.
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  It's not partial, it's not hesitant, but it's this complete
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  reliance. And I love to say that trusting
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  is resting. It should ultimately give us
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  this relief. Think about it, when we sit in a
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  chair, we aren't normally thinking if this chair is going
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  to hold us. And I often think that this
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  should be the way we should trust God.
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  We should respond to God knowing that if he got me through this,
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  then He will get me through that.
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  So therefore I can trust Him in whatever situation.
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  And so often we got to remember that the enemy is always wanting
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  us to turn inward, to look, look at ourselves and try to use our
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  and try to make us think. We have to use our own reasoning
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  or ability to figure something out.
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  So we often can do this instead of going to God first.
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  But remember that God always intends for us to trust him
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  because ultimately he is trustworthy.
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  He doesn't fail. He is the source of all the
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  supply ability and strength, and because we are in Christ, we can
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  draw on his supply ability and strength and peace to equip us.
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  In fact, in Colossians it says that we are complete in Christ.
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  It says that we are in union with Christ and so God's plan
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  for us is so great that it will require Him in all that we do.
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  So trusting in Him is going to be vital to our journey in life.
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  And when we see that verse, trust in the Lord with all your
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  heart. This means it's not going to be
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  surface level trust. It's an undivided loyalty to
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  Him. So often I believe we say we
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  trust God, but deep in our hearts we have doubt or we go
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  through this what ifs. When we trust the Lord with all
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  our hearts, it's our inner being, this core where our
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  spirit communes with the Holy Spirit, where it should yield to
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  the Holy Spirit, allowing the Holy Spirit to lead us where the
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  Lord wants us to go and not have our thoughts or flesh leading.
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  Which takes me to the second part of the verse and it says
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  lean not on your own understanding.
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  And I truly believe that this is where we can tend to get tripped
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  up. The Hebrew word for lean is
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  shahan, and meaning to support yourself on something fragile.
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  Leaning on your own reasoning is like leaning on something very
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  weak. It will eventually collapse.
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  In fact, Jesus gives this very example in Matthew 724 through
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  27. And he says everyone then who
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  hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise
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  man who built his house on the rock.
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  And the rains came, and on floods came, and the wind blew
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  and be on the House, but it did not fall because it had been
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  founded on the rock. And in contrast the verse 26
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  says, And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not
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  do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the
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  sand. And when the rain, flood, and
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  wind beat against the house, it fell, and great was the fall of
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  it. The house is our life, and the
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  rock is Jesus, the word of God. Notice that both say they heard
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  the words of Jesus, but one did what it said and the other
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  didn't. So taking action and trusting
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  God and rejecting the temptation to depend on our own way or
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  thinking is wise. God's wisdom is solid and
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  unshakable. Not trusting in God's way is
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  foolish. And like it says that the house
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  fell because it was built on weak foundation.
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  Only God gives us that security and that firm foundation to hold
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  us up when challenges come. And I also couldn't help but see
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  that it said it was founded on the rock, meaning it already
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  been established on that rock, the rock of God's words, so that
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  when we are faced with any situation, we have His word
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  already taken root in our hearts to keep us in His perfect peace
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  and upheld by Him through it all.
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  Now the next portion of this verse is in all your ways submit
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  to Him, submit. The Hebrew word here is yada,
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  meaning to know intimately, to acknowledge deeply, to recognize
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  submitting is relational. It's not these casual check INS
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  with God, but it's this active surrender to him saying have
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  every detail of my life Lord. It's saying I recognize or
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  acknowledge that you are all powerful and all knowing.
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  I'm submitting myself to you and saying have your way in me.
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  God. This is a place of reverence to
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  him that he is who he says he is and he will do what he says he
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  will do. And the last part of this verse
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  is and he will make your path straight.
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  The word for straight is Yashar and meaning to make smooth to
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  clear obstacles to align with God's will.
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  God doesn't just point us in the right direction.
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  He removes what doesn't belong and aligns us with his perfect
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  plan. I mean, how beautiful is that
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  Jesus came to give us life and life abundantly and we can rely
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  on God's promises that he will give us clarity because he's not
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  a God of confusion. And if we we do our part by
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  applying the word to our lives, by trusting submitting to him
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  and live with what I call the spiritual antenna throughout our
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  day, we are going to start to see the right steps to take for
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  the path that He's already laid out before us.
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  In fact, Isaiah 3021 says, whether you turn to the right or
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  left, your ears will hear a voice behind you saying this is
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  the way. Walk in it, being attentive and
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  intentional and hearing the Holy Spirit is so crucial and knowing
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  next steps. It's not just in our quiet time
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  in the mornings. We can also commune and be on
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  purpose to hear Him throughout our day.
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  And as we do, we'll see more of His guiding and more of what He
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  wants to reveal to us and making decisions and giving us that
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  clarity that we so need. So now let's make this verse
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  personal. This is my favorite part.
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  This is where we're going to personalize this verse.
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  And it could sound something like this.
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  Lord, I trust You with all my inner being.
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  I will not lean on my limited understanding and every
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  decision. I acknowledge you and invite you
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  in. Thank you for making my path
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  straight, smooth and aligned with your will.
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  Now let's say it with our name inserted in the scripture verse.
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  So I'll say, Jamie, trust in the Lord with all your heart.
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  Do not lean on your own understanding.
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  In all my ways, I will acknowledge Him and He will make
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  my path straight. So friend, I mean, we often see
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  this verse on a mug or Waller or on journal, but this is Cod's
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  living word directed to you right now.
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  It's personal to you. And so one of the many features
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  of the Serenity Journal that I have taken this verse out of the
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  contentment section. And if you'd like to have your
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  own copy of this journal, you can use the link below to go on
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  my website. And there's a place here that we
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  can identify God's characteristics.
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  It's basically asking what does this verse reveal about who God
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  is? So I see He is faithful.
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  We can put the full weight of our lives on Him and He will
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  never fail. He is wise.
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  His perspective is higher than ours.
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  He sees the beginning, middle and end.
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  He is intimate. He doesn't just want part of our
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  lives, He desires to be invited into every detail.
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  And I see that He's sovereign. He makes our paths straight,
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  removing obstacles and guiding us into His will.
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  So friend, this means we can stop the striving to control
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  everything. God is already who He says He is
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  faithful, wise, intimate, and sovereign.
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  So how do we live this out? Well #1 it's a surrender.
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  Daily start each morning saying, Lord, what would you have me do
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  today? I give you my plans and submit
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  to your wisdom. And also, and James, it says, if
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  you need wisdom, ask for wisdom and God will give you all the
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  wisdom you need. And then #2 pause before
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  decisions, before sending that e-mail or making that choice.
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  Ask God what honors you here. And #3 is stop rehearsing the
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  what ifs. I think this is a major one in
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  our life when we rehearse those what ifs and I look at those
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  what ifs where the Scripture verse it says cast down all
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  imaginations that go against the Word of God.
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  And so the casting down imaginations that go against the
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  word of God, I see those as the what ifs.
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  So trust means trading our what ifs for God's promises, making
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  those what ifs submit to the word of God.
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  Changing the the what ifs is the wrong thinking into the right
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  thinking, Taking those what ifs which are really lies and
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  replacing them with God's truth, with his promises.
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  So the 4th 1 is remember his past faithfulness.
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  This is key to look back on how he's carried you before.
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  If he did it, then he will do it again.
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  This is so good when you have a journal and you're recording
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  your thoughts, you're recording your prayers.
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  Oftentimes I'll go back and then I could see all of God's
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  faithfulness that I have gone back to see He has answered
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  those prayers or He's come through for me.
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  So remember, trust is not passive.
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  It's an active surrender. So I did want to give you a
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  brief testimony about this verse because it is so special to me
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  because of, well, this testimony that I'm going to share.
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  So I'll never forget in 2008, it was the economy downslide and my
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  husband and I were going through extreme financial hardship and
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  we had to short sell our home. And with three small kids, you
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  can imagine I was really struggling with trusting God for
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  what the future holds. And I got invited to a Valentine
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  gathering. It was like a kids party in the
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  neighborhood. And so I was very hesitant and
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  going anyway. And one of the moms bluntly
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  asked me about my home situation.
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  She said, I heard you were losing your home.
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  And, you know, you can imagine. I just felt so exposed and and
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  ashamed. It wasn't, you know, some public
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  news. I hardly knew most of these moms
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  anyway. And so in that moment, though,
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  right when I was opening my mouth to give some surfaced
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  answer, my son, who was 11 at the time, came running into the
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  kitchen where I was and handed me a paper heart that said
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  Proverbs 3, five through 6. And he told me, God said you
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  needed this. And I tell you, like, right then
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  and there, God just reminded me, Jamie, lean on me.
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  I see you, I've got you, you can trust me.
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  I mean, I instantly was just so overwhelmed with God's love and
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  His comfort. Like as if he was just hugging
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  my heart. And looking back I can see how
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  He directed our path. Not the way I expected, but the
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  way He knew was best. And because I obeyed Him, there
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  were so many blessings along the way and there continues to be.
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  So if you're watching this on video, I just held up the little
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  heart that my son had sketched on there the verse.
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  And because it was, oh gosh, back in what, 2010?
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  That's why it looks so old. But you could tell I carry this
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  verse so dear to my heart because of what my son did, but
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  what God did through my son. And so this verse will always be
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  one of my favorites that I will hold dear to forever.
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  So, so let's declare this verse together.
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  Let's say these things out loud because you know, this podcast
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  called She speaks live. We speak out life words.
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  We speak out God, God's truth, which is life.
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  And so let's say it together. I trust God completely with my
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  life. I will not depend on my limited
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  understanding. I acknowledge God in every
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  detail of my life. God is making my path straight,
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  clear, and aligned with His will.
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  I rest in His wisdom, His timing and His guidance.
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  So as I close here, I want to just leave you with this, that
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  remember the enemy wants you to lean on fear, logic and the
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  self-reliance. But your father invites you to
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  lean on him, on his wisdom, his strength, his unshakable love.
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  Victory is not found in control, it's found in the surrender.
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  When you trust him with all your heart, he doesn't just guide
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  you, he clears the path ahead for you.
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  So don't forget, forget this verse in the contentment section
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  of the Serenity Journal. If you'd like to go deeper into
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  personalizing scripture and reflecting on God's character,
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  grab your copy through the link in the show notes.
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