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The Jonas Sister · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya Radd, an iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two-time People's Choice Award-winning podcast. Hello, everybody.
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  Speaker 2: We are scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it is a Tuesday, August 25th. I am so sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I will take the L on our non-podcasting yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: I am..
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  Speaker 1: Undergoing some things that are very timely that I have
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  Speaker 1: to do on specific days. And so that interrupted our
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  Speaker 1: podcasting schedule yesterday. It also might impact next Monday. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to cross that bridge when it comes.
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  Speaker 2: I won't be here. So remember, we have to figure
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  Speaker 2: that out.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, even better. OK, great. OK, great.
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  Speaker 1: Great.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe Robbie can come in.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Things are aligning. So I'll take the L on that.
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  Speaker 1: I apologize. But I appreciate everybody waiting. And I appreciate
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  Speaker 1: Becca being flexible. For her girl.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever I can do to be of service to you
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  Speaker 2: and for you. Welcome back. You had a really crazy,
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  Speaker 2: exciting week last week.
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  Speaker 1: Crazy.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't know if you're not on Instagram, you
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  Speaker 2: didn't see this, but Tanya was the opening act for
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  Speaker 2: the Jonas Brothers at Madison Square Garden three nights in
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  Speaker 2: a row.
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  Speaker 1: Giving myself an applause for that. Yes, I am.
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  Speaker 2: Because... It's epic in the sense of being asked. That's
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  Speaker 2: such an epic thing. But to say yes and be
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  Speaker 2: the entertainment before the show, before the Jonas Brothers, I
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  Speaker 2: would be so intimidated by it. And you were amazing.
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  Speaker 1: I was super intimidated by it.
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  Speaker 2: Really? Yes.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: You come across so overly calm, cool, and collected. Well.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, how did it happen?
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  Speaker 1: So I've known the Jonas Brothers for a very long time,
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  Speaker 1: like very, very long time. Been a fan of theirs,
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  Speaker 1: huge fan. And it all kind of came together somewhat
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  Speaker 1: last minute. I think they asked me probably like a
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  Speaker 1: week before, basically saying that they had this idea of
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  Speaker 1: kind of creating like a fan group. fan moment before
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  Speaker 1: like the the Jones brothers come on and then that
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  Speaker 1: my name came up with Tanya do it like Tanya
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  Speaker 1: would be perfect would she do it so then that's
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  Speaker 1: when they called me they wanted to see if I
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  Speaker 1: could if my schedule allowed and then I had to
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  Speaker 1: like figure out scheduling, get approved by bosses, et cetera,
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  Speaker 1: et cetera. So that took like a day or two.
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  Speaker 1: And then I was in. And then once I was committed,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, I'm essentially opening the
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  Speaker 1: show for the Jonas Brothers. But nobody wants to see me.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm very well aware of that. So what I
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  Speaker 1: was trying to do was just make it like all
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  Speaker 1: about the fans and like enhancing the fan experience. And
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  Speaker 1: it all kind of came together in real time, like
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  Speaker 1: in terms of like the planning and like figuring out
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  Speaker 1: where we were going to go, how far the camera,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I was in the concourse. I was in
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  Speaker 1: the seats. The camera crew was like moving with me.
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  Speaker 1: It was all very fluid. So the first night was
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  Speaker 1: like total chaos. And then by the second, third night,
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  Speaker 1: I was like..
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  Speaker 2: You said, come along, follow me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go.
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  Speaker 2: How did you decide who you talked to? Like, how
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  Speaker 2: was that decided?
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  Speaker 1: So they had a producer that came out from L.A.
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  Speaker 1: also to kind of that was like her role was
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  Speaker 1: to find these fans. So she would like scour the
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  Speaker 1: concourse looking for people just like decked out in gear
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  Speaker 1: and getting these stories. And like, that's the crazy thing
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  Speaker 1: is like some of these stories are really like this
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  Speaker 1: one girl brought her original ticket from the 2008 tour
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  Speaker 1: that she had framed. It was like in a frame.
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  Speaker 1: She brought it. Had it. And she was like, I'd
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  Speaker 1: love for the guys to sign it. And I was like, okay. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I can't make any promises. I don't
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  Speaker 1: work for them. But I told the girl that I'm
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  Speaker 1: close with that works with them. And she was like,
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  Speaker 1: let me get it. I'll have them sign it during intermission. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 2: You did it?
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  Speaker 1: I didn't do it. The team did it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Wow.
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  Speaker 2: How special is that?
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  Speaker 1: She deserved that.
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  Speaker 2: Having a framed photo of a ticket from 2008.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even have anything from 2008.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not a keeper of things like that. Haley is.
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  Speaker 2: She has memorabilia.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you'd think I would be.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you give me the vibe that you would have that.
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  Speaker 1: I'll save stuff and then I purge. I do like
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  Speaker 1: a big purge every few years. So nothing's lasting past
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  Speaker 1: like three or four years.
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  Speaker 2: You don't have anything from your John Mayer Shakira.
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  Speaker 1: Definitely not the fan club. Musical Synergy Club.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Musical Synergy.
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  Speaker 1: No, no.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing from that era?
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  Speaker 1: Nothing from that era.
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  Speaker 2: We could have used that just for. Just props. I know.
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  Speaker 1: I wish I would have saved more stuff. But, like,
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  Speaker 1: some of the stories were just, like, so cool. And then...
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  Speaker 1: Were any of these people new fans?
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  Speaker 2: Like, they had been recently converted since they got back together?
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  Speaker 1: So that's what we were, like, looking for. We wanted just, like,
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  Speaker 1: fans from, like, the OGs, and we wanted, like, new ones,
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  Speaker 1: you know? There was way less new ones that we found.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, these people have been with... That's a... It's... So impressive.
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  Speaker 2: These fans have been with them from the beginning.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. And they all like know each other too, which
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  Speaker 1: is like cute. One that I interviewed the third night
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, I'm best friends with the
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  Speaker 1: girl that brought her ticket yesterday. I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: what are the odds?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, they like know. Yeah. They're in like forums and stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Did you meet any scrubbers?
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  Speaker 1: So many.
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  Speaker 3: Really?
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  Speaker 1: Yes. So many scrubbers were there.
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  Speaker 2: Did you interview any of them or were they? One.
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  Speaker 1: One just happened to be somebody that we interviewed and
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  Speaker 1: she was a scrubber. Wow.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But I saw like a lot out there and we
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  Speaker 1: took pictures. That's so fun. It was so fun. It
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  Speaker 1: was honestly like the time of my life. Dream come true.
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  Speaker 2: So what were your days like? like prepare show days,
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  Speaker 2: show days.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Sleep in. Cause I'm a rock star.
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  Speaker 2: You're married to a food blogger now. So you had
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  Speaker 2: to hit the ground running. Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: He was like, we have to try all these bagel places.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, babe, I have a show. I
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  Speaker 1: have Madison square garden. Okay. Exactly. Like, and I, yeah, no,
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  Speaker 1: thank you. But I, um, we, we would get up
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  Speaker 1: like later. We were sleeping until like 10, 10 30.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: And then, uh, The first day, again, I feel like
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  Speaker 1: was just like the most stressful because I like didn't
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  Speaker 1: know what to expect. I was like nervous, all the things.
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  Speaker 1: The next two days were like way chill. Like we
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  Speaker 1: went like walking around New York, shopping, like eating, trying things.
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  Speaker 1: And then I would get to the venue. I would
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  Speaker 1: do like hair and makeup.
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  Speaker 2: Your makeup was so good.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you. Shout out, Cattle.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And in the when I was getting like my glam,
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  Speaker 1: they would come in like the team and they would
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  Speaker 1: go over like the video packages because basically it was
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  Speaker 1: like it was like a cold open just to me.
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  Speaker 1: And then I would like give a spiel and then
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  Speaker 1: I would have fans there. I would interview three of them.
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  Speaker 1: usually sets of three. And then I would throw it
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  Speaker 1: to like a video package, which were changed. They changed
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  Speaker 1: every night. So I just need to know like what
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  Speaker 1: I was throwing to how many minutes I had. And
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  Speaker 1: then the whole camera crew, we would like all move
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  Speaker 1: to like a different section where the same thing cold
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  Speaker 1: open to me, I would interview some fans throw to
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  Speaker 1: like another video package and Every night they'd videoed them
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  Speaker 1: arriving and they wanted me to like narrate that as
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  Speaker 1: they were like walking in.
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  Speaker 2: They're walking?
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  Speaker 1: It's like 90 seconds of them just like walking down
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  Speaker 1: the hall and I was like narrating it and I
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  Speaker 1: was just like, here they come and they're matching like sweatsuits. Like,
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  Speaker 1: what do they say?
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  Speaker 2: Are you improv-ing this?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: They're like you don't have to.
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  Speaker 1: Cover every second of it but just like you know
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  Speaker 1: yeah just narrate but you know me no dead air.
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  Speaker 2: No no no no we don't like silence no did
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  Speaker 2: um did you get to hang out with the guys
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  Speaker 2: at all uh.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah so so the first night they like came to
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  Speaker 1: like my dressing room we like took a picture they
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  Speaker 1: gave me a handwritten card thanking me for like always
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  Speaker 1: being there for them which I thought was like so
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  Speaker 1: nice so nice yeah um but it's very funny because
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  Speaker 1: I feel like um, artists do that with like their openers.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? They like make sure they,
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  Speaker 1: they like come over. And I was like, I feel
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  Speaker 1: like that's me. Like I walked back, I was walking
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  Speaker 1: my makeup girl to the elevator and Robbie took her
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  Speaker 1: like all the way out to the, to like helping
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  Speaker 1: her with her bags. So I was like walking back
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  Speaker 1: to my dressing room and I just see all the
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  Speaker 1: Jonas brothers like standing in front of my dressing room,
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  Speaker 1: like waiting for me.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, Like, sorry to keep you waiting.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry. I need to walk Kara to the elevator.
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  Speaker 1: So I saw them then, and then the first night
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  Speaker 1: there was an after party, so we, like, all went
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  Speaker 1: out after. And then the last night, too, there was
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  Speaker 1: an after party. So I didn't really hang out with
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  Speaker 1: them until, like, after the show. Gotcha. A little bit before, but, like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, everybody's, like, in..
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're in show mode.
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  Speaker 1: They're... They're in show mode. I'm in show. Like I
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  Speaker 1: was in show mode. I was like, I can't handle.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I can't handle like too much like excitement before. And
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  Speaker 1: then by the time I finish, they're going on stage.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So did you get to watch the show? Yes. How
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  Speaker 2: was it?
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  Speaker 1: Amazing. Like. Have you been to a Jones Brothers show?
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  Speaker 3: I have not.
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  Speaker 1: I haven't either.
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  Speaker 2: I've never been. You've never invited me.
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  Speaker 1: You have to go when they come. Do you like
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  Speaker 1: the OG songs?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I like the Jonas Brothers.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so there is something about the crowd at Jonas
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  Speaker 1: Brothers shows that is like, it's so electric.
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  Speaker 3: Really?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Becca. You would be blown away if you saw
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  Speaker 1: that people are going feral. Like, from top to bottom.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not even joking.
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that's what I'm saying. These people have been
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  Speaker 2: with them for... A long time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Almost 20 years.
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  Speaker 1: And the first night at the after party, Joe was
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  Speaker 1: like telling me, he was like, I love when I
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  Speaker 1: can like look down and I just like see you
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  Speaker 1: just like jamming out. And I was like, when he,
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  Speaker 1: taught like when they say they can see me I'm
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  Speaker 1: like oh I'm like.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you're giving it your all yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I made sure I was in that same spot every night.
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  Speaker 2: Has your ranking of the Joe bro stayed the same
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  Speaker 2: yeah okay.
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  Speaker 1: I I always am on the Kevin side of the
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  Speaker 1: stage yeah like I'm like you know his viewpoint Nick
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  Speaker 1: Joe's usually in the middle Kevin's usually on the right
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  Speaker 1: and Nick's usually on the left so I'm always on
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  Speaker 1: the side of the stage where Kevin is.
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  Speaker 2: Like, intentionally? Like, you choose that? Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. The last night Danielle was with me, like,
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  Speaker 1: on Kevin's side. But Joe, like, goes, like, back and forth.
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  Speaker 3: Danielle or Danielle or Danielle Jonas?
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  Speaker 1: Danielle Jonas, yes. Kevin's wife.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, whoa.
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  Speaker 2: I thought you were talking about Danielle.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, no, sorry. Kevin's wife, Danielle.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah. Danielle Jonas. Yes, yes, yes.
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  Speaker 1: The Danielle Jonas.
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  Speaker 2: What is your... What night was the best in terms
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  Speaker 2: of energy?
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  Speaker 1: So the first night was like amazing because it was
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  Speaker 1: opening night.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And so I think people were like, what? Like didn't really,
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  Speaker 1: you know, know what to expect. So like there was
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  Speaker 1: some good energy there. But then the last night, the
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  Speaker 1: energy was like crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So they're on tour. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: This is a tour.
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  Speaker 3: Hollywood Bowl in November.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I love the Hollywood Bowl.
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  Speaker 3: Honda Center Anaheim in December.
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  Speaker 2: I'll be standing next to Tanya on the right side
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  Speaker 2: with Kevin Jonas viewpoint.
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  Speaker 1: It is a magical experience.
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  Speaker 2: I'm excited. I didn't know it was so electric.
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  Speaker 1: It's like palpable.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, you got to talk to Ashley. I, who's all,
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  Speaker 2: who is like an OG.
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  Speaker 1: This is the best part. So Ashley, I knew Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: I was coming to the show and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if they wanted like public figures or
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  Speaker 1: if they just wanted like fans, but I'm like, Ashley
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  Speaker 1: is a fan, but she's also a public figure.
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  Speaker 2: I would say she's first a fan. And then they
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  Speaker 2: were like, okay, yeah, like, sure. Go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: Like, you know, put her wherever you want her. So
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  Speaker 1: I was like, okay. So we're, like, I'm interviewing Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: and they kept telling me to, like, stretch it because
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  Speaker 1: I guess the crowd at Madison Square Garden was, like, cheering,
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  Speaker 1: going crazy for her. For Ashley?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that's so cool. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: So fun. I love that you all have that.
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  Speaker 1: I felt like I talked to her for a really
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  Speaker 1: long time, and they were, like, yeah, they kept telling
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  Speaker 1: me to stretch, and I was, like, I wonder why. Like,
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  Speaker 1: what was, maybe something was going wrong. They were, like, no,
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  Speaker 1: the crowd was just loving it.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: She's, like, the leader of the fandom.
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  Speaker 1: And, like, she's, you know, Rhode Island housewife. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like East Coast is, like, her jam.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She was, like, in her hood.
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  Speaker 2: She was the Second opening act. Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. But like, honestly, I love those guys so much
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  Speaker 1: and I love their team. And like, I just have
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  Speaker 1: such fond memories of there's like specific, especially like certain songs.
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  Speaker 1: Like when Nick was doing his solo thing and DNCE
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  Speaker 1: was doing their thing, I was like a roadie for them.
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  Speaker 1: Like I was, I remember that I was everywhere. And like,
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  Speaker 1: I was thanking them for like having me do the
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  Speaker 1: opening and I was like, you guys could have asked
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  Speaker 1: anybody to come and do this. They're like, but there's
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  Speaker 1: not history there.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, It's basically the band's back together
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  Speaker 2: and you're part of the band.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like a Jonas sister.
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  Speaker 2: You're the Jonas sister.
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  Speaker 1: If they had a sister, it would have to be me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. Tatiana.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. Robbie, like, is a new Jonas fan. Like, he didn't, like,
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  Speaker 1: grow up on the Jonas Brothers.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, he didn't grow up on Camp Rock?
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  Speaker 1: He did not grow up on Camp Rock. But the
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  Speaker 1: way they've embraced him, too, like, They are so sweet
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  Speaker 1: to him and they treat him like family too. And
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  Speaker 1: like Kevin like loves Robbie, like genuinely like loves Robbie.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone loves Robbie. I know.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: But it's like sweet. It just like makes me so happy.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I'm so proud of you. It was, it was,
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  Speaker 2: I always know you're, I guess I haven't seen you
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  Speaker 2: do something like that in a minute.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Where you're like in the crowd like that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I guess I've maybe never seen you, but I feel
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  Speaker 2: like at I Heart Stuff, you'll be in the crowd,
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  Speaker 2: like you'll do fan stuff, but. I was like, gosh,
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  Speaker 2: she's so good at this. Like, it just felt like
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  Speaker 2: a like it felt like it had been planned for
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  Speaker 2: a long time and I knew how fast it came together.
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  Speaker 2: So I was like, wow, she's such a pro.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate that because, you know, when like you're the
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  Speaker 1: one doing it, you feel like I felt like I
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  Speaker 1: messed up so much and like I feel like I
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: use a lot of crutch words. You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: What's a crutch?
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: Like things that I would just always say or like
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: come back to.
• 14:05
  Speaker 4: Oh, right.
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: And, and, and the way that I moved in between
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: the fans, I'm like, I could have done that sharper.
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Yeah. They're not, they're not noticing that.
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: And I also wish I would have set the scene.
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: Like when we gave away like the floor seats, I
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: wish I would have set the scene a little bit better,
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: you know, cause I asked them where do you know
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: where your seats night? And they would say like, Oh,
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: in the 300 section. And I would say, Oh, well
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: the Jonas brothers want you to see him closer. And
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: I would like give them floor seats, you know, but
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: I wish I would have like set, set the stage
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: a little bit better. Like, This is only your second
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers show. You weren't able to afford tickets before.
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: Now you're all the way in the nosebleeds. How about
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: the floor?
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: What about the people who are not getting the floor
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: seat giveaway, though? They're just like, dang.
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: No, I think they're happy for them.
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, people are happy for people. It's like that
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: should be me, but also happy for you. Yeah. Right.
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: I'm sure you were amazing. Everything is hindsight, but I'm
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: sure everyone felt your excitement.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: And then do you want to know the topper of
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: the whole thing?
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: When we come back, the topper of the whole thing.
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: The topper.
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: Well, that was probably a really bad way of putting it.
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: Well, we'll find out.
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: The topper.
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: So the topper.
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: Is this the topper of the whole three days? No.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: So I probably teased it the wrong way.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: The kicker.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, the kicker is different than the topper. Yeah, the
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: kicker is much different than the topper.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, no. What's the kicker?
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: I'm so excited.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: I'm ready.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: Gearing up. Guess what comes Thursday morning?
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: I have a guess.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: What?
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: Menstruation.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: My period.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: That'll do it.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: My period. The three days I'm opening for the Jonas
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: Brothers are the three days where she comes fast and ferocious.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: What are the odds? Out of all 28 days of
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: my cycle..
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: What are the odds? Because you're pretty on the nose.
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: I'm not. So it is really what are the odds.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: But for you, what are the odds? Like, was that
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: the day it was supposed to or did she come early?
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm usually like one or two days off.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: It was supposed to come.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: It could have been a little delayed. It could have
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: been Friday.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have if she was playing nice. She
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: was playing really nice. She would never have come at all.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: If I'm being honest. True. If she was playing nice,
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: she would have come on Friday. But the fact that
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: I had it all three nights and then the minute
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: I wake up Sunday morning, she's gone. She's gone.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: She ran her course.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: She ran her course. I was like.
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: But I will say this is the first period that
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: I got where I wasn't like crying all day because
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: I couldn't.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Did it feel like it? You know, when I
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: get my period, when I'm doing some like when I
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: have a distraction, it helps me as opposed to laying
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: around because I'm mentally and physically like active. And they
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: say you should be a little more active when you're
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: on your period or whatever. So did it help having that?
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: I guess, but like, because also the adrenaline of doing it,
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: especially the first night, you would think that would be like,
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: you can't even focus on that because you're, you're opening.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah. But then I'm like feeling puffy and I'm like,
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Everything hurts when I like tie it around my waist.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: It's even more impressive what you did. Really, truly. Day
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: one and two are hell.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: And usually by day two, I'm popping Motrin every five hours.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Like I am in pain. I am like irritable. And
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: I was like the opposite of those two things.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: No, the JoBros.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: They pulled it out of me. They really pulled me
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: out of a dark place and brought me, they brought
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: me to heaven.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: Is that their song? Oh, me.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: I love that.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: Were you there? Did you watch the show the night.
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: That Joe messed up the sign?
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: No. Oh. Joe said, like, I smell a hot dog. Like, he's, like,
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: in the middle of a song. He said, I think,
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: I smell a hot dog.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I don't think I, there was, like, bits and pieces
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: that I missed because I, like, was going to the bathroom.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: I know, yeah, I didn't know it was the night that,
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: but their, Nick and Kevin's reactions to Joe are so
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: funny to me. Like, you can tell they just never know.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: What is going to come out of his mouth.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what he's going to do or say.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: One of the nights, there was a sign. Somebody was
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: holding a sign. I didn't see the sign, obviously, right?
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: Because they were, like, on the other side. Yeah. And
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: you see Joe grab her phone to FaceTime her husband
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: to tell them that they're expecting baby number two. So cute, right?
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: So Joe picks up the phone. This kid answers. And
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: he's like, hey. And then he asks the mom, like, hey,
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: can I show everybody that you're a kid? She's like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Hey,
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: is your dad there?
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: So then pass the phone. It's another kid. He's like,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: you're her son? He's like, yeah. Is your dad there?
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Everybody's kind of like confused at that point, right?
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: This is during the show.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: During the show, in the middle of the show. Then, yeah,
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: I'll give you to my dad. Passes the phone to
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: the dad. The dad hangs up. Joe's like, he hung up.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: So he's like, I'm going to film a video. So
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: he films a video. He pulls out the girl's phone.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: He films a video. Hey, I just wanted to call
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: and let you know your wife is pregnant with baby
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: number two. The crowd just, okay. Cut to, he posts
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: on TikTok that he read the sign wrong. And the
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: sign said something like, our husbands don't know about round two,
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: meaning they saw the concert two nights in a row.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: Can you help us tell them? I'm like, who makes
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: a sign that says my husband doesn't know I'm going
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: to the Jonas Brothers for two nights in a row.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Can you help me tell him? Like, I understand Joe
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: reading that wrong.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: Being on stage and seeing it in the midst of
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: the show. Trying to do something cool and nice for someone.
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: And then announces baby number two. Yeah.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: When there's clearly two children that answer the phone.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: He's like, and you're also a child of this woman? Yeah, so, okay.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: I bet he won't be doing that again. Yeah. A
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: live FaceTime. But I like it.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: I hope he does.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: I did, too.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: On the run.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: I did, too.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: On the go.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: So, anyways, I'm just, like, really, like, riding high.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, should we pitch you to just be on
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: tour with him?
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: I tried.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: Have a tour with us?
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: I literally tried. I was like, do you guys need
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: someone else? Like, someone, like... For the tour?
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: What are they doing, though? They have openers.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: They have openers for the tour. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Actual musicians?
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Unfortunately, yes.
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: Oh, that's too bad.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Don't disrespect. Have you heard her work? Don't disrespect her
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: like that.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: I'm a big fan of her work.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Throw some respect on that.
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: I don't mean actual. Other musicians, I guess. People are
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: actually going to play music, which you didn't do.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: No, I did not do that. Not this time.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: I can't explain to you what it did to my soul.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: It like brought me, it like made me feel like
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: me again. I've been feeling like not like me.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: Did you tell them that?
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Yes and no. Like I didn't really get into the
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: nitty gritty of like. Well, yeah. Life's been rough.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: No, but that's a really nice sentiment. Yeah.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: And like the fact that they like reiterated to me
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: so many times of like you were the perfect, you
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: were the one we wanted. Like we're so grateful you
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: said yes. We're so grateful that you're here.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: Like. Yeah.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Just makes you feel so good. appreciate it I think
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: they I assume they're like that with their whole team.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Well yeah I feel like they've had the same team
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: for a long time which is a testament to them
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: yeah I also think it's it really is amazing that
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: out of all the people and the like openers and
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: who could do that that like they're like we want
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: you like that's just such a testament to you and
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: not only who you are but how good you are
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: what you.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Do thank you I appreciate your help with all the
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: outfits Did I help? Yes, very much so. Yes. If
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: I would have listened to Robbie on some of those things,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I would have looked like.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: I was a little like, whoa, those are some tall
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: heels and some short shorts.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: It started to get really weird at one point. I
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: was like, I got to go to bed.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: What was he going for? What's his fashion inspo for you? Right.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: He's like rock star, rock star. You're like, oh yeah.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Like MSG. And I was like, babe, I'm wearing merch.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: Like I'm wearing Jonas Brothers merch. Like it's not very
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: rock star, you know? Like I'm not like on tour.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: Like I get it. But like Tanya does not equal
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: rock star. Like I kept, I think he kept wanting
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: me to think like, like I'm a rock star.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: You're the opening act.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm just, I'm not respectfully.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: Well, I feel like he was getting into some heated
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: debates over the L.A. versus New York bagel competition. He's
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: really passionate.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: He's so touchy with food.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Well, people are very passionate about their local spots. Well, representation,
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: I guess. So, you know, people in L.A. have their
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: things that they think are the best, and then people
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: everywhere else have their things that they think are the best. Like,
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: pizza's a really touchy subject.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, very touchy.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: But he's really good at documenting himself. And he's honest.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: He's not trying to be like, oh, it's good.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: No, he's not Switzerland. No.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: He's not trying to get deals.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: No, he's not.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: He's just giving the people what they want. No, no, no.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: We'll see if that changes as the money comes in.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: The offers.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Wait, you went and saw Noah Kahn this week.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God. Life-changing. He's amazing. He really is so amazing. Like,
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: his lyrics and what... The music that he writes and
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: what he can put into words that is so complicated.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Because he writes a lot about, like, family dynamics and
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: relationship dynamics and stuff that's hard to... Like, I would
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: imagine put lyric, you know, he just puts the lyrics
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: in his songs are so like, wow. And Haley was like,
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: everyone in this stadium has can relate to these songs,
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: which is amazing and validating. It's like you're listening to
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: a whole stadium of people sing these like devastating songs,
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: but they're so real.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: I know. Some songs are really sad.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: I know. But he's he's so funny because he doesn't
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: talk a ton during a show. But when he does,
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: he's like self-deprecating and funny.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: So.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: The show was amazing. We got to see Gigi Perez before,
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: and she's incredible, and her team's amazing. It's like all
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: her family, and so they're wonderful, and we got to
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: say hi to them. Yeah, it was awesome. San Diego
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: was so fun. We did so much. We were so
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: tired when we got back. It was crazy. When I
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: lived in San Diego, my best friend, his name is Kang,
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: and We did everything together. Like we went to the movies,
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: we played basketball, anything that was just random, spontaneous. I
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: did it with King. And then when I moved up
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: to L.A., you know, just naturally we would talk here
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: and there. But he started dating his now wife. And,
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: you know, we've talked about this a lot on the podcast.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: But when it's a man and a woman and you
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: have a really close friendship and they start dating someone
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: and naturally you just kind of respect, you know. Um,
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: but I had also moved up to LA at that time.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: So it just naturally, we, you know, we'll talk here
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: and there. I follow them on Instagram, keep up with them,
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: but I haven't seen him in over eight years. And
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: so it was so fun. Cause Haley and I met
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: up with them at the beach and we got to say, Hey,
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: and see him and meet his family. And it was
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: just like the best. I was like, why we can
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: never go this long without seeing each other again. His
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: wife is amazing. And, um, it was just a fun,
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: it was a fun weekend. We love San Diego.
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: It was awesome.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: How long did it take you to get down there?
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Like three hours.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah. But it was..
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: It went by fast. Like, I never felt like we
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: were sleeping.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: You probably went on, like, a not populated time. You probably, like,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: tried to avoid..
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: We went at noon on Friday.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Gorgeous.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: Really?
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: I was, like, shocked we got down.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Noon, you're fine. Three and after, you're screwed.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah. But the wedding was so fun. And our friends
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: that got married, Danny and Nicole, they're just... so fun
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: and funky and have like the coolest style and the,
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: where they got married was beautiful. The reception was amazing.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Made us go like, oh, they had a live, they
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: had a DJ and then they had a live drummer
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: and a saxophone player. So they were playing all, it
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: felt like a live band with a DJ sound and
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: it was so fun and it had everyone on the
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: dance floor the whole time. Yeah.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Music is key. You have to nail music.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: You know, we had one time in Milwaukee, sorry, this
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: is a bit off topic, but we were at an
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: outdoor restaurant patio area. And sometimes you'll have a musician
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: out there playing music. It was a drummer.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: Playing to a DJ?
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: Playing music. He would play music and he would just
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: drum along with the music. I found it entertaining.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: The live drum hits the beat in a way that
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: you realize that that is kind of where the live
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: band feels... Like what you're hearing from.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: A live band. That's what makes it feel like a
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: live band. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: And then the saxophone player, I was like, you know,
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: I used to play the saxophone.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: In elementary school.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: You were like, could have been me. No, I was like,
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: could have been me.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: That's something when we start planning, we, when we start
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: planning your wedding, when you start planning your wedding, priority
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: to the music.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: No, we definitely took notes because everyone crowded the dance floor. We...
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Like a Prayer by Madonna came on and it had
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: the live drums with the sax and it was like
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: core memory moment.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: It was so fun.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: So that was really awesome. And yeah, this week was
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: just kind of recovering from our weekend.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I found myself, I'm like, I'm hosting a 30 minute
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: pre-show and I was exhausted every day the next day.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't imagine being an actual artist that's performing.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: They were like up there for three hours every night
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: and you're doing it back to back night. I would
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: be tired.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: I think you, I think yes, like 1000%, but I
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: also think you have to remember they're getting energized being
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: up there. Like they're getting what you said. It's electric
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: up there. They're getting this adrenaline high. That's like, fueling
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: them so every night they know that they're gonna get
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: that high even though.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: They're exhausted like they're like going in we're.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: Gonna get energized where you're kind of having to you're
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: having to think.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: And work in the 30 minutes i'm like thinking and
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: working but then for the three hours after i'm partying
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: right which is also exhausting yeah.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Uh work party sleep eat Work, party, sleep, eat.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: That's the life of a rock star.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no one understands that. Far and few understand, you know,
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: what you navigate as a rock star.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Speaking of.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: What?
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: I didn't tell you who I met this weekend.
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: Who? I mean, could this work as a..
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: Absolutely it could.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: Who did you meet?
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: Are you building it up too much?
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: No, am I going to be excited?
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, I think so.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: Do I know?
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: You know. So don't guess, Mark. I will not. And
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: don't give anything away because I want you to try
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: and guess who it is.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: Oh, like 20 question style?
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: Yes. It's kind of like a celebrity guess too. All right.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: We'll be back. We're back. We're back. Okay.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Becca Tilly. I'll set the scene for you so that
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: you can maybe guess.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: It.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: Okay. So there was a restaurant that Robbie really wanted
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: to go to in New York. Okay. So we left
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: the concert a little bit early one night to get
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: to go to this dinner spot. We're at dinner. It's
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: a cool spot in New York City. I look over
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: to my right. There they are.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Yay.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: I said they as to not give a gender.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Oh, I see. Okay.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: They do have a gender. They are not they them.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: Is it a woman? Yes. Is she a singer? No.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: Is she an actor? No.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: Actress?
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: Is she a reality star? Yes. Is she from Love Island?
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: How the hell does Becca do this?
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: She's very good at these games.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Was it Maura? No.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: No. That would have required a selfie, I would have
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: to say.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Was it Leah?
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: No.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Was it someone from the U.S., Love Island?
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Yes. Hmm.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: Who would you care about? Who would I care about?
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, think about it. Mark, do you remember now?
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: Was it someone from this past season? Sure.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Hmm.
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: Sure.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Well, not technically. Technically.
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: I would hone in on her phrasing of her response.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: Was it Sierra Miller? Or Tuffy?
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: No.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: But you're on the right track.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm on the right track? Yes! Oh, that's really exciting. Exciting.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, thank you. So I spot her. And you know
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: what's so weird? You know she has that boyfriend? Mm-hmm.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: So I spot the boyfriend when we were walking into
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: the restaurant and I was like, I knew I knew
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: his face.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: I don't know that I know him that well. I
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: don't know him. He just has a very distinct hairstyle.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Oh, I see.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: He has a very distinct hairstyle. Okay.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I was like, I know I recognize this guy, but like..
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: Seen that hair.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: I've seen that hair. I didn't realize it as we're
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: eating and like we're in the middle of like our appetizer.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh my gosh, that's Ariana Maddox.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: That's how I know that guy. Like, I was like,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: that's how I knew that guy. It was the guy.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: Um so then I spent the next like 15 minutes
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: with Robbie debating if I should like go up and
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: say hi because I could tell we were further along
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: in our meal than they were so I was like
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: well and they're on our way to the door so
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I was like we'll pass by their table as we're
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: leaving so like do I say hi or do I
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: just like walk by and then I thought what would
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: Tanya do.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: If not now.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: When when if not you who meanwhile I'm wearing my
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers merch. And Robbie, Robbie wore merch only one
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: night and this was the night that he was wearing
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: like their faces. So we just looked like, like we're
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: like fully decked out and like Jonas Brothers merch. But
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: that was my way in because remember how she was
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: on their podcast a couple of weeks ago and they
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: asked the question from me.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: Kismet.
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: Kismet.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: I thought so too.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: So I was like, I'm going to say hi. I'm
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: going to say hi. I'm going to do it. Robbie's like, good.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: I think you should. We're walking out and, uh, I'm like, hi.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Such a big fan. Nice to meet you. And then
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: I was like, you were on the Jonas Brothers podcast.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: And this is where I felt like such a dork.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: I was like, I asked a fan question.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: She's like, big fan energy from this girl. The shirt on.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm the one that asked the fan question.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: And I said it.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: Is she just smiling at you? Yeah, it's like this.
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: Keep going.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Yes. I was like, I asked the fan question about
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: if you get annoyed that they bring in Andy Cohen
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: because I think you can handle it on your own.
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, yeah. Even if she didn't remember,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: she totally played it off like she remembered. And she
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah. Like, how funny. I was like, yeah, actually,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: we're just at the Jonas Brothers show. And Robbie's like,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: she's opening for the Jonas Brothers. And I was like, oh,
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: my God, it's too good. These poor other people at
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: the table are probably like, these weirdos have got to go. Like,
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: can you wrap this up, Ariana? Like, can you wrap
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: this up? I'm sure it was great. They were with
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: other people, yes. And then I didn't know if I should, like,
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: introduce myself to them. But, like, nobody cares to meet me.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean? And then it felt rude.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: I hate that inner dialogue. Yeah.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: Like, what do you do?
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I well, it just depends. I would probably handle things
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: differently depending on the night and who I was talking
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: to out of nerves. But I would probably introduce myself,
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: A friend of mine. Like if it were like a
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: distant friend that was having dinner with people, I probably
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: would introduce myself. But it was like, she's a stranger.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: She doesn't know me.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: But if someone came up to to you and I
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: was there and they're like, I love you on the
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: radio show or I don't know, I don't know. Can't
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: think of it.
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: It's tough.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: Well, I think there's no wrong way of doing it. Like,
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: I don't think you were rude for not introducing yourself,
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: and I don't think you'd be weird for introducing yourself.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: So that's a lesson to everyone.
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: But your options are ignore everyone else at the table. Yeah.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: Or bore them by introducing yourself to everyone else.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all bad, bad.
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: So would the argument be to maybe don't approach someone
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: when they're at the table with a bunch of other people?
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: Mark.
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: I'm just, I'm asking a question. It's just a question.
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: I think that there, I see both sides of that argument.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: I do.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: But I also am like... You didn't ask for a photo.
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: You didn't, like... I think you just..
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: If it were a little bit... If it were a
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: smidge lighter in that restaurant, I would have asked for
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: a selfie.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: Do you think if they were just them two, you
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: would have asked for a selfie?
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: A hundred percent.
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: Oh, the other people.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: And the restaurant was just, like, very dark. So, like,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: the last thing I'm going to do is, like, have
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: some sort of flash going off.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: You bring out your selfie light. Yeah.
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: And, like..
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: Honestly, there is a time where you definitely would have
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: done that.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: I've done that before.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: And you have.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, if it was a smidge lighter and they
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: were just the two of them, I would have asked
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: for a photo.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: It felt mature of me not to.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Well, that's what I'm saying. I think there's a way
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: of saying, like, I'm such a fan of you and
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: telling your story, your connection with your merch on that
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: connects everything. And then... And then I think asking for
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: a photo is just a..
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: A hair too far.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: But, like, personally, if a scrubber came up while I
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: was eating dinner, I wouldn't care at all. Me too.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: But I also, I think those people get it way
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: more than we get it. So, I don't know.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: It's tough to put yourself in those shoes.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: I think it depends on your personality.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: So..
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: Because you're right. If a scrubber came up to me
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: while I was eating, I would totally take a picture
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: and not even care. I know.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: Me neither.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't even bat an eyelash.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: But if 30 people came up to me while I
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: was having dinner... I'd probably be like, girl's got to eat.
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: My food's cold. Yeah. Yeah. I think it just, it
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: depends on the environment, the situation.
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Well, I think we're friends now. But I'm proud of
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: you for saying hi. I didn't tell her about the podcast,
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: our podcast.
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: That could have been a perfect time for you to
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: talk about the podcast as you were talking about her
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: being on the Jonas Brothers podcast and you opening for
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: the Jonas Brothers.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: I know. I just felt, I felt a little wordy
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: already because. I was a fan.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: I also asked about Nick and Alandria.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: And I also, too, have a podcast. Could you come
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: on that?
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: No, you did a good job. I won't hold it
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: against you.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: Thanks. Fun, though, right?
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: Really fun. Great sighting.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: Fun sighting.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: And we told them what dessert we got. We're like,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: you have to get the..
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: Cool, cool. We're not eating dessert.
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: They're like, yeah, yeah, yeah. We'll get it. Cool, cool.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Why do I turn into such a, like, ding-dong sometimes?
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: You don't. I think we overthink things in our head
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: more than how they appear on the outside. Like, I
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: think in your head you were thinking you were being
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: a ding-dong.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: But I don't think how you came across to her
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: or them.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Like, she's probably not still thinking about me, right?
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: No, like, you're waking up in the middle of the
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: night remembering this, and she's sleeping peacefully.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: She probably doesn't even remember. Dang, that's dark.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: You should DM her and see if she responds.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: What would I say?
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: Just like, hey, I, um..
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Nice to meet you.
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: I was wondering if you felt like we were friends now,
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: because I feel like we're friends now. Oh, wait, we
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: both watch Traders Canada. Oh! And my gosh, our friend
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: Sarah Nicole, the bird's papaya. Yeah.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Since when did she go by Sarah Nicole? I had
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: no idea. I thought she was just Sarah. I thought
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: she was the bird's papaya.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I didn't know that she went by Sarah Nicole
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: like as her. It's cute. So cute.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: She did really well. The I don't want to spoil anything,
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: but it's a very great season. Very.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: So we're specifically talking about Traitor's.
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: Canada season three.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: Canada season three.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: So I binged it two weekends ago when you were
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: in San Diego and I was like, I texted Becca
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: and said, I think Haley would really enjoy this season.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: You guys should watch it. And it looks like you
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: followed my advice.
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: And you watched it. It is fantastic television. Yeah. I
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: would love to be on the traders.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: We got to get you on.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: I know that they'd already tracked the track. They already
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: filmed the normal people one.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't think you'd go on that. I think
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: you're a public figure.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I think I'm, I think I'm, I'm not quite the
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: public figure that they have on traders, but I fit
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: more with the norm with like the normal people.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: I don't think so. I think you're well known enough
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: that I don't think so. Really?
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: I don't, I think you're wrong.
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: I think if you were to cast me, I'd go and.
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: Amp you up as a public figure. So then you're
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: going on as the celebrity traders like this year.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: While they're, Oh, right. For next for next for the. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's why we need you to be
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: the opening act for the Jonas Brothers. Yeah, Jonas Brothers.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: Help me. This is for amping up my resume for
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: the traders.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Well, you already have it on your resume. You opened
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: three sold out nights at the Madison Square Garden.
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: That's right.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: Are you going to go to Harry Styles Madison Square
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: Garden show?
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: I don't have tickets.
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: And you can get tickets.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: As of now, I'm not going. Are you going?
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: If I got tickets, I would. But I also would
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: just hope that maybe he'll make a little pit stop
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: around L.A. so I don't have to fly to New York.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: If if he were. I feel like that's what Taylor
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: Swift did on her show. She like circled back with
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: some new shit. She performed at the Grammy Museum.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Did you watch it?
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: I just have seen clips and she mashed up. I
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: knew it. I knew you, August. And all too well.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Is it good?
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: I need to watch the whole thing. I want to
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: watch the interview, the performance. I want to sit down
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: and watch it.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: As a show.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: An experience.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: An experience.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: The way it's deserved to be watched.
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So we played a few... Or last week on...
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: Was that Thursday's episode where we did the number game?
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: Or was that the week before?
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: It was last week. So, like, yeah, it was last week.
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: Okay, so we did the number game where instead of
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: guessing celebrities, we tried to guess a number between 1
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: and 100. And you were 67.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: And you..
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: Lost um because i think you were so set on
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: it being 95 that you couldn't even ask other questions that.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah i was so convinced it was in the 90s.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: You're so certain yeah um but you had some arguments
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: with um my answers to you.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: And quite frankly mark too what did i do frankly
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: so i would like to say that i think i
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: could have won that game had i been not led
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: astray with one of my answers.
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: What was the question?
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: When I said, have I been this number before? And
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: you guys said, no, I was in fact 67 for
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: Halloween this year.
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: Oh my God.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: But she was only seven.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: That would have taken you.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: Or you were only six.
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: That would have taken you so far off.
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: That's what I said. And she was a six. She
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: wasn't a 67.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: So I don't really like, individualize myself when I'm like
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: a couple's costume. Like I am six, seven.
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: Like I'm not, if you had said, have I been
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: this number four? And I said, yes, you would have
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: taken 30, zero to 39 as your only option. Whoa, whoa, whoa.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: With the age there.
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: Mark.
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: Whoa, whoa, whoa.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: Sensitive right now. So I would appreciate some discretion. Thank you. No,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't because what really threw me off is when
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: you said, no, I have not been that number. I
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: was like, it's surely not 67 because I was 67
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: for Halloween this year.
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: So you ruled that one out when I said that.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: Of course you did.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I ruled out one through 39 and 67.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: But like when Haley and I are a couple's costume,
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: I am not Glinda and Elphaba. I'm Glinda.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: No, but you were Wicked.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: Huh?
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: You were wicked.
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: No, I was Glinda.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: You were wicked.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: But I wasn't Glinda in Alphaba.
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: But if I said..
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: You were six. You weren't 67.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: But if I said, were you this number or were
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: you this movie for Halloween, you'd say, yeah, I was.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: You weren't just..
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: I would never... No one would ever ask, were you
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: this movie for Halloween?
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: That's neither here nor there.
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: If I said, were you... That's neither here nor there!
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: If you said, have I been this number in a
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: couple's costume before? I would have said, yeah. Well... but
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: that's not what you asked.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: This is just teaching moment to the both of you
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: to really think before you answer.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: Well, also Martha Stewart is an influencer. She's like the new, like.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: Uh, I feel like I'm being led astray a little bit.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: Okay. Well, we're going to give you a more fair
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: shot to take this one for the win. Okay.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Thank you this week.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: Not today. Not today. Um, I wanted to, there is
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: this list of things that are embarrassing at 18, but
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: attractive at 30. Like a list of things that you'd
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: be embarrassed by at a certain age, but now you
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: find them attractive.
• 44:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: Which made me think about, there's this trend going around
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: where these women are showing a list of words to
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: their partner, boyfriend, husband, whatever, and having them try to
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: read them and pronounce them. Such as like epitome. Oh, epitome?
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: Hard words. Harder words that like may be pronounced differently
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: than how they look. And I'm concerned with the literacy
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: epidemic that we are in right now because I cannot imagine.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: This trend hasn't hit my algorithm yet.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: It's so funny because there's so many women who are like, listen,
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: I'm single, but the last thing you'll catch me doing
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: is giggling at the fact that my partner cannot read.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: And they're like, this is not for people who are
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: dyslexic or have a hard time reading, but this is
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: just you finding it silly that your partner cannot pronounce words. Like,
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: we have to.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: I'd probably do bad on that, if I'm being honest.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: Are you not a good speller? Are you not good
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: with grammar?
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I mean, grammar is one thing. Reading is another. If
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: I saw epitome on a script, I probably would say epitome.
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: I'm not even going to lie.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: But if you had time to see the word and.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: If I was like in context reading it I would
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: probably think I would understand but like if.
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: You're just reading a list of words and you had
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: time to.
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah by the time I would totally know his epitome.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Maybe Mark can find some of the words that's what
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: I'm looking for.
• 45:58
  Speaker 4: Now yeah but some of the some of the okay
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: but here's the thing you the whole argument is why
• 46:08
  Speaker 4: are we like posting this oh right like yeah.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: You know But I didn't know that you were going
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: to have that reaction. So feeling awkward. Some of the
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: things that are embarrassing. Becca's so good at games.
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: Becca's so smart. I'm just keeping it real, you know?
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: No. IRL. I believe that you would be able to read. Confident.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: I felt confident in that. But there is.
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: Are you going to watch the Alex Earl show?
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: I'm sure.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah. She influenced me heavily on these snacks that I
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: got last night and they're incredible.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: What snacks?
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: These like mini rice cakes that are, have like different flavors.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: And I posted because I saw her eating them and
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: then I was like, that sounds amazing. And so I
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: ordered them and they're incredible. And I posted and people
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: are like, you're just now hearing about these.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: Oh, are they like Boomer?
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Boomer. But everyone, Paulina was sending me her favorite flavors.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: It's a thing. It's a passion project.
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: Um, Okay, here are some things that are embarrassing at
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: 18 but attractive at 30. Helping your parents. I never
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: felt embarrassed about helping my parents, though. Going to bed early.
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: What a luxury that is now.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: Being nerdy and passionate about something.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: That's always cool.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: I think so, too. Doing things alone and not caring
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: what people think, like movies. Yeah.
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: I would never, I don't, because I'm not like a
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: movie goer. Like I would never just like, you see
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: more movies than I do. But I go with like
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: the kids.
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: Oh, y'all go as like family.
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: Usually Robbie and I don't even go just as a
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: couple to see a movie.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Okay. Unfortunately, kindness is on this list, which is so sad.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: Um, actually planning ahead instead of always being spontaneous. I've
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: actually found myself trying to be more planned and not
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: just spontaneous, but having a mixture. Cause I never want
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: to lose the like, of just going to do something,
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: but I like kind of knowing what's going on. Being
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: emotionally honest.
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: Being good at household chores. Having a weekend with no plans.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: Not used to... Oh, my gosh.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: When you were 18, that was like anxiety if you
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: had a weekend with nothing.
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, you felt like left out.
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: Now I'm like, clear the calendar.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Being able to say no to things.
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: Still trying.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: Bringing your own lunch instead of buying it.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: I did that. I always packed my lunch. Or my
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: mom packed it and then I packed it as I
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: got older.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: I always was embarrassed to bring my lunch.
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: Because I was the one with the stinky food.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: Why was it stinky?
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: It was like Serbian. It was like onions and all
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: this kind of stuff. And so it was like, you know,
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: I always wanted to buy lunch. I never wanted to
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: bring it.
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: And you still are the one with stinky food.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: I'm still the girl with the stinky food.
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: I will say Haley has talked, we've talked about this,
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: about how her mom would make her food and her
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: lunch and it would be Japanese, like a gourmet Japanese meal.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: And she would try to trade with other kids because
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: she felt like embarrassed by it. And I'm like, it's
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: so weird how our. Yeah.
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: Also how different cultures aren't like that they're that they're
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: not accepted so much that kids feel embarrassed by delicious
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: food that they eat and that their parents make them
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: you know um so yeah don't don't be embarrassed by
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: your stinky lunch if you have parent who makes you.
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: Delicious yeah I wish I wasn't but you know hindsight.
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: I know hindsight's everything um not having or posting on
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: social media wait so that's embarrassing at 18 oh not
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: having it I don't get that and then finally gray
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: hair which I'm still covering her hair so I'll let
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: I'll let it go when.
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: It's yeah when do you think you're gonna let it
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: go like when I'm old like when What is old? Yeah,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Like, when do you think you're
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: going to let the grays? So you're going to cover
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: your grays from now until 70? Yeah.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: Wow. I don't find it so, like, such a burden. Yeah.
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: Having to go and, like, spend the money on it is, like,
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: not ideal. But covering it isn't. I'm like, oh, it
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: is what it is. I love when people embrace it
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: and it's so beautiful. Like, and Haley's always like, you're
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: going to look so beautiful with gray hair. And I'm like, okay,
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: in due time, due time.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: I do feel like when you're blonde, the grays aren't
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: as noticeable.
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: No, they're not. Yeah.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: Like I have like, I don't have many grays, but
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: like I have a couple and they kind of just
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: like blend in.
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: Maybe I'll go platinum blonde. That's a whole other upkeep.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: You pick your battles. You pick your battles. Did you
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: find that list, Mark?
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: I did.
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: You want to try some on Tanya? Yeah, yeah.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: I feel confident in her. I think she's downplaying her
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: reading skills, reading levels.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: Here's one right now. Hyperbole. Very good.
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: Nice.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: I knew she would do well.
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: One.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: Tanya.
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: Here's this one.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: Go ahead.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: Colonel? Colonel?
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Colonel.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: Colonel? That's not Colonel.
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: That is Colonel.
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: Not a popcorn Colonel.
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: Colonel. Don't give me double entendres over there, Mark.
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: That's not. That's an actual.
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: The Colonel in the military is spelled that way. How
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: about this one?
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: Opaque.
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: There you go.
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: Good.
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: See?
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: But in my opinion, opaque should actually sound like opaque.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the English language is hard, okay?
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: It is hard.
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: Fuchsia.
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: Okay, very good, see?
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: Great, yeah, I knew you'd come through.
• 52:05
  Speaker 4: Fuchsia.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: That's what some of the guys, it is wild.
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: Oh, really?
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Fuchsia is actually one of the ones that really
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: got me.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: You know that trend where it's like you say like, oh,
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: I asked my husband how attractive he thinks I am.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: And then they go to the answer and he's like, oh,
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: I think you're disgusting. Rob is like, people keep sending
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: me that trend to like do to you. And I
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: was like, I've already seen it.
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: What's this word?
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: I can't really read your writing. Camaraderie?
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: You're good. Yeah, you're good.
• 52:38
  Speaker 3: One for four out of five.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: That sounds about, it's pretty on brand for me. Yeah.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. If you just needed a couple more letters
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: switched around, you would have had colonial, but..
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: Colonial.
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: Colonial.
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: Colonial.
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: All right, everybody. That's the end of today's podcast.
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: But we'll be back on Thursday.
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: But have no fear. We'll return.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: But we won't have you next week. But I guess
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: we can talk about that on Thursday.
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: We'll talk about that on Thursday. So everyone have a
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: wonderful week and we'll see you in a couple of days.
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: Love you so much.
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: Bye.
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: Bye.