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Episode 27: Life Updates | The Kind Worth Killing Book Review | Mica Miller Case Update | AITA · This Is My Circus

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I'm Stephanie.
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I am Meredith and welcome to, this is my circus.
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Yay.
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That's like the second time I said this in the past five minutes.
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Just, yeah.
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Well, you know, that's the feeling I get when we record is like, yeah, yes, exactly.
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Exactly.
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So, We recorded last week.
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We did.
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And released this week.
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So today's Thursday.
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We released on Tuesday.
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Did you listen to it?
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I did.
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It was so good.
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So first I, you know, edited it.
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Of course.
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I had texted you.
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I'm like, it's so good.
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I'm so happy to be back.
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Yes.
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So, um, then once I uploaded it, I listened to it again.
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And so side note for everyone, I did not have Dylan's microphone because it's the cords at who knows where.
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so we did not have mics last week.
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Right.
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so this week we are trying other little microphones that we had.
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Hopefully the sound is a little bit better.
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Yes.
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and then next week I will like dig.
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Oh, we got the thumbs up again.
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Thumbs up again.
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I don't know where that's coming from.
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I just feel like it's just.
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Positive affirmation that the computer has given us, just like you're doing a good job.
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I think so too.
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It's like a sign from the podcast.
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Yes.
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and if you guys can't tell from that little, conversation we just had, Stephanie does everything.
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I just show up.
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Stephanie is, is the, definitely the brains.
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I am.
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I wouldn't go that far.
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Well, Steph does all our editing and all of our stuff.
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posting on socials with all the clips.
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But luckily there's not much editing needed because you guys pretty much hear like most of what goes on.
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Unless you have to blurb out like Rex barking or something.
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Or his heavy breathing.
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Yes.
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So there's really not a whole lot of editing but I absolutely am so happy we're back.
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So thank you to everyone who has listened.
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If you didn't catch last week's definitely do because we kind of give our life updates in the last nine months.
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so that's really, I think, about it.
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How was your week?
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It was a good week.
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So, Saturday, Jackson went to upper state for, DISCUS.
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And he did well.
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He did not qualify to go to state, which we didn't expect.
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But it was a cool experience for him.
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There's a lot going on.
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And then Mother's Day was Sunday.
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And, yeah, I just chilled.
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Jackson was like, can so and so come over?
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I was like, no.
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Absolutely not.
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Like it is no.
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And I was like, you know what, I'm going to take a nap and I don't feel one bit guilty about it.
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Yeah.
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and I've got some other funny stories.
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I want to fill you in on some, you know, I've always got.
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Something.
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Yes.
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Pretty much.
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How about you?
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How was your weekend?
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Your week?
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uneventful.
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for the most part.
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Yeah, that was, I really didn't do a lot.
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my mom and I for Mother's Day went and, checked out a little store in Cramerton.
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Nice.
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and then we went out for lunch.
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Dylan kind of was, uh, just running around and his girlfriend got back from Vegas.
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She went to Vegas with her mom and her brother for Mother's Day.
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Fun.
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They did some sightseeing.
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Vegas y stuff.
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Yeah.
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and then she got back Sunday.
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So he went and hung out with her for a little bit and then he came here for a little while.
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we watched, I didn't realize how, bad it was, but the Netflix, What's the Patriots quarterback every heat Tom Brady is Rose.
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I want to see it was a terrible bomb.
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It was just a lot of Inappropriate to watch with your kid Him Washington by himself is fine.
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You watch him by yourself is fine, but together just I've heard a lot about it.
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I want to watch it I was actually reading something on TMZ today and he made a statement that some of the jokes have Um What's the word he used something like, uh, affected his children.
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I saw that as well.
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yeah, so I saw that on TMZ and I was like, Ooh, now I really wanna know what they said.
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Well, it was a lot of, you know, him and Giselle.
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Mm-Hmm.
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split.
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And she's with her like TaeKwonDo.
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Instructor.
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So there was a lot of like of those jokes on there, a lot of, you know, about his looks a lot of, it was funny.
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It was a lot of the same jokes over and over and over again, like on the same topics.
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Yeah.
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So after like the first four were up there, I was like, okay, like we get it.
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Yeah.
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You know?
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Yeah.
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But it was okay.
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But it was, you know, good.
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That's all we really did.
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Yeah.
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Cool though.
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I mean, that's chill, relaxing.
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Yeah.
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I do also want to mention that on Friday, Clover sucker.
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team, the ladies won state.
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That's awesome.
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We're five eight.
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Yes.
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So excited for them.
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that's just, that's huge.
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Yes, absolutely.
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Congratulations to them.
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And, uh, had the, my schedule worked out so I can be at the school when they came home.
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So that was really cool to be able to see them and they had like the police cars and the.
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Fire trucks, like opposite fire stations.
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The fire trucks, escorting them and, just to see them be all hyped up and stuff.
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That was just unbelievable.
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I'm really proud of them.
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Did you see that post where they were like, what's going on in Clover?
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Why are there so many cops?
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I feel like I want to make this blanket Facebook post like, okay.
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We're just going to tell all 19 people that listen here.
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Okay.
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Number one, people were, the cops and the fire, People were all together because they were escorting our state champs.
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Number two, the sound that you hear is the cicadas.
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Like, I see that every day on social media.
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Like, what's that noise?
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It's the cicadas.
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Like, yeah.
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Okay.
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And number three, I want to say, everybody We're going to trick or treat on Halloween.
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Everybody always posts like, when are we going to trick or treat?
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It's Halloween.
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It's October 31st.
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have you heard the cicadas?
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I haven't really heard them here.
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Dylan said it's horrible in Rock Hill.
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It is.
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When he goes to school.
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Yes.
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He said it's terrible.
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They are like attacking cars.
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Because we met my sister.
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for dinner Saturday night and they were like flying in and out of the cars and stuff.
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It was great.
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And we could, we were driving down the road and could hear them as we're driving like over like the road noise and everything.
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Yeah.
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Have you seen those means that it's like, I want to be like the cicadas and just scream for six weeks.
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It's not a, not a bad idea.
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I could get on board and I can get on board with that.
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okay.
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Okay.
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So.
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Want to hop into whatever we want to talk about today?
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Okay, so we're actually switching up our format.
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Yeah We wanted to kind of freshen up, spice things up.
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Yeah, and give you guys a little bit something different each week So do you want to talk about what we're doing?
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Yeah, so our we're gonna keep the book reviews Yeah, and I will since Stephanie does everything else I will take upon myself to get us a list of books because I know everybody likes having you know Kind of where we were and what we were doing so I'll, I'll compile a list and we'll go from there to do the books and we're also going to touch on some celebrity or current crime, kind of like we talked about the, Michael Miller thing last week.
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A lot of celebrity stuff, but we're going to kind of bring that into the fold and talk about that.
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And there's one more thing I can't remember.
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Am I the a hole?
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Yeah.
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So I don't know if y'all are on Reddit.
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but I have seen a lot of these and I think like, it's so interesting that people put themselves out there, to be judged.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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So like they go on Reddit, they post on the Reddit, um, am I the, and it's the actual word a hole, but, um, I'm just going to say a hole.
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and we need to keep our writing clean or whatever, whatever.
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They tell their story, they give the details of why they think they might be a male or not, and people in this thread just say yes or no, and why they think so.
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So I would love to try this out.
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Will read a thread and then give our hot takes on it.
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Okay, I wasn't sure how, because we haven't really talked about how we wanted it to work.
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I didn't know if we were coming up with situations.
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No, no, no, no.
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I mean, I I do have So, but we're not going to tell everybody about all that.
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I don't mean to be judge at this point in my life.
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We'll just continue to wear the ropes and bang the gavel on everybody else.
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Yes.
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Okay.
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Um, so let's try that out.
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You guys can then tell us in the comments, what the post what you think.
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Perfect.
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And if you have a story that you want us to judge you on.
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Yeah, and we'll do it anonymously.
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Like, we won't put you out there.
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Like, definitely, you can send that in.
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Yes.
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And even how in the past, how I've, you know, kind of gave terrible code names.
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We would totally be anonymous.
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I would, I would not put anybody on the list.
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We will just say anonymous.
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Yes.
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Absolutely.
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Okay.
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so my favorite thing that's always been that we've done is the book review.
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Yes.
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So can we talk about that?
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We definitely can.
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So we read, it's by Peter Swanson.
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Yes.
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And it was called, the con worth killing.
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And trigger warnings on this book because there's a lot of, a lot of everything.
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So if you're triggered, this is probably not the book for you.
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It is not.
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There's, there's a lot of murder.
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There's self inflicted.
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I think, yeah.
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And, potential child abuse.
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Yes.
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So, there's all the things.
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Yeah.
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But, I'm going to read the little, please.
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Okay.
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So, on a night flight from London to Boston, Ted Severson meets the stunning and mysterious Lily Kittner.
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Sharing one too many martinis, the strangers begin to play a game of truth, revealing very intimate details about themselves.
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Ted talks about his marriage that's going stale, and his wife Miranda, who he sure is cheating on him.
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Ted and his wife were a mismatch from the start.
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He, the rich businessman, she, the artistic free spirit.
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A contrast that once inflamed their passion, but now became a cliche.
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But the game turns a little darker when Ted jokes that he could kill Miranda for what she's done.
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Lily, without missing a beat, says calmly, I'd like to help.
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After all, some people are the kind worth killing.
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Like a lying, stinking, cheating spouse.
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Back in Boston, Ted and Lily's twisted bond grows stronger as they begin to plot Miranda's demise.
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But there are a few things that, about Lily's past, that she hasn't shared with Ted.
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Namely, her experience in the art and craft of murder.
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A journey that began And her very precocious youth.
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Suddenly, the co conspirators are embroiled in a chilling game of cat and mouse.
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One they both cannot survive.
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With a shrewd and very determined detective on their trail.
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So, that was a lot of words.
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It was a lot of words.
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Okay, so I listened, like I always do.
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Yes, I am a audiobook.
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Yes, lover.
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Yes, absolutely.
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I took notes.
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I took notes up here in the vault.
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My vault doesn't work anymore.
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I forgot the code to my vault.
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Okay, so just, Just reading the blurb and then reading the book, I didn't put them together.
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Like, I felt very, okay, it was not what I expected at all.
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what I loved was each character had their own reader or their own voice.
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And I prefer that.
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It makes it so much easier for me to follow along, especially in this kind of book where like there's like twists.
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And there's so many characters, that are about the same age so.
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But I mean, yes, I totally agree.
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Each of them, their own distinct voice makes it easier to separate who's who.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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so.
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I think there was a lot of twists but it was easy to follow.
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Agreed.
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For there to have been as much back and forth as there was with secret agent, double crossing, triple crossing, quadruple crossing, it was still easy to know who was on whose team per se and what was going on.
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I didn't get lost.
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Right.
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And I didn't, Necessarily catch all the twist.
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Like, I didn't like pre know.
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No.
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Me neither things that were gonna happen, Uhhuh.
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Um, I thought I knew, but Right.
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There was another twist.
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Right, exactly.
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So that aspect of it was awesome.
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Yeah.
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Agreed.
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Agreed.
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it kind of reminded me of the premise of Dexter.
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Did you ever watch Dexter?
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Oh yeah.
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Like a couple of, yeah.
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you know, you're a bad guy, so you should die like that.
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Right.
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I don't think that.
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what they consider horrible friends are like death worthy, right?
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I felt like this book was not like a super graphic book.
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They talk about that, but then all of a sudden it would throw me for a loop talking about a specific sound.
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And I'd be like, Ooh, yeah, through this part.
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Yeah, yeah, for sure.
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but it wasn't one that was like blood and guts.
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Like we've read before.
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No, no, no, no.
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did you, agree?
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With their train of thought?
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No! Okay.
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I mean, I just I can't think of the right words.
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So I, I did not agree with it.
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I thought that, but when you thought that they were doing something just like living their life, they were really setting somebody up in that moment, whether it was to plant evidence or to lead somebody astray or to, I don't know, make it look like this, that, or the other.
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It was just crazy to me that the forethought in a lot of these different situations, even up until the very end of the book.
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Oh, the ending was crazy.
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Yeah! Oh my gosh, the last, like, line of the book.
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Yes.
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I need a part two.
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Yes, yes.
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Okay.
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Yeah, so the ending was, like, almost a cliffhanger.
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Yes.
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but it kinda, like, yeah.
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You knew where it was gonna end up.
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Yeah.
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I think, well, you think, but then with this book, you don't really know.
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Well, I kept looking and I was like, wait, there's only that much time left, like, but they're going to do this?
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Like, how is that going to?
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Yeah.
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I was, I was a little bummed about that.
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Yeah, me too.
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There were a lot of characters in this book between the, the two main females and then the parents and then the husband.
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And then the other man and the detective, like there was a lot of people involved in this that were main characters.
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Not just like a supporting, like I feel like all of those people had a, A big role.
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Right.
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Um, in this, it wasn't just like a brief mention.
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So, Lily, the, the show conspirator, do you think that she was just like a psychopath?
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Or do you think that her growing up in the household that she grew up in with all the things that were going on in front of her, really, How did that change her to be this type of, like, psychopath?
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I think, I think that she probably had some kind of underlying issues.
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I mean, I think it's one of those nature versus nurture.
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And she had no nurture, so her nature took over kind of to make her.
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That's my opinion.
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For her, it was survival, the way that she did some of these things and planned some of these things.
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But then, she got carried away.
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Yeah.
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Like it wasn't just, cause then it was like revenge or payback, which is revenge.
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I'm a thesaurus today.
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but yeah, what do you think about her?
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So I, when it went into her, her first, non human, yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I guess you can call it.
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Yeah.
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which that was one that the noises and stuff.
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I was like, oh, this is like your big red flag, you know, it's part of the traffic.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So I was like, oh, this is going to be like that.
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But then, her whole theory is, This person's going to continue hurting people in the world.
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I'm taking them out early.
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They're gonna die anyway.
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I'm gonna take them out early.
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The thing with her, too, is, and it probably went back to her childhood, is that there was no trust.
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She handled it all.
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She wasn't going to turn somebody in or go to the police or do anything.
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She felt like she was going to handle whatever was Yeah, she was judge, jury and execution.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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So, yeah, I really liked the book'cause Oh yeah.
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I did not know where it was gonna go.
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Yeah, I did too.
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it was an easy thing to listen to.
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Yeah.
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Like, it wasn't, I, you know, um.
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You probably do too.
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Multitasking.
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Yeah.
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I was still, you know, able to follow everything, even with all the characters.
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Right.
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I thought it was well written.
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Yes.
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The only thing I got confused in, and you might have to help me with this part.
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So go back to towards the beginning of the book, and the dad is talking about, and hopefully no spoilers here, but Lily and Rose.
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Uh huh.
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We never hear about Rose again, do we?
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No.
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Okay, because I kept thinking Well, stop listening if you haven't read it.
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Yeah, that Rose was going to end up being the other female lead.
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Okay.
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I thought that too.
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Okay.
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But no.
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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All right.
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and she, the other girl, like I did not see all that.
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What are the odds?
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I know.
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Okay.
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So both of these, both of the females end up being crazy psycho.
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Yeah.
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I mean, and more so than we normally females normally are.
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But like crazy.
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Yeah, So we had talked about this just through texting like what are we gonna review this week?
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Yeah, and so I was on tik tok and somehow got on book talk and This dude had recommended this book and I had never heard of the author.
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I never wrote anything by it.
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So So that was pretty cool to find.
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And I like, I would read him again.
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So what would you rate the book out of 10?
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Oh, I would give it probably like high, like eight ish, nine ish.
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I mean, I can't think of anything.
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I would want to change other than I want more information at the end of the book.
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it was never dry.
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It was quick.
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Easy to follow but still kept your attention.
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Yes.
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Yeah, and twisted enough that I was it was an unpredictable.
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Yes so yeah, you you rate it pretty high.
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Yeah, I would go eight and a half.
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Yeah Definitely would read again.
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I would I was thinking about that too.
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Like I would like to read it again almost now that I know That everybody's psycho.
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Laughter And just to, you know, pick up on those things.
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But yeah, it was a good book.
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Definitely a good book.
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Awesome.
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Are you reading anything else right now?
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Right now, I'm not.
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what are you reading?
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So, I'm also reading First Law Wins.
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Okay.
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It's by Ashley Elston.
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Okay.
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And we'll do that next week.
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Sounds good.
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That's okay.
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Yeah.
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first lie wins.
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And it sounds pretty interesting.
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And I actually also downloaded, you know, we had talked about, um, in our celebrity rabbit hole tunnel village.
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we talked about the Jada Pinkett Smith book and it's called Worthy and I downloaded that.
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I want to listen to that too.
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I'm just fascinated.
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I'm not like a fan.
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Just, you know, anything outside of like what my normal is that I'm just like, Ooh, it's like prison movies and stuff.
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I'm like, Ooh, jail.
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That's interesting.
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I don't want to go there, but I want to watch it.
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I know.
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I, I would not last a second.
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Oh, no, no.
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Well, speaking of like the drama, did you see that?
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P.
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Diddy's son wrote a diss track with 50 Cent and it had Eminem's name in there.
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I'm like, you dummy.
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Do not touch him.
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You dummy.
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I know.
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Dummy.
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And it wasn't even a good diss track.
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Like, no.
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You're gonna come for them?
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You gotta come.
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Right.
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Like, P.
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Right.
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Over breakfast.
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He can just like flopped.
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He flopped.
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Yeah.
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Eminem's got some of the best lyrics.
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Oh my gosh.
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He is, Jack's trying to talk about this all the time.
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And I'm like, there's nobody that has better lyrics than him.
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He's like, Oh, well, these are pretty cool.
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I'm like, no.
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Yeah.
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I said, the only other person that I really love their lyrics is like Ludacris is really cool to me, the way he makes things rhyme.
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Yeah.
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It's just.
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What they do.
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Oh my god.
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Oh my god.
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Take me But anyway, yeah And then 50 Cent like, you know, like, oh I'm scared like, you know, he is like the king of petty.
19:22
Oh, yeah and Trolling and he's got time and money for it.
19:28
Why not?
19:28
My gosh.
19:29
I know.
19:29
Have you seen his daughter lately?
19:31
She's gorgeous She's really pretty but Meek Mills Popped up on Twitter talking Trash about 50 Cent, like, trolling the P Diddy's son because of the diss track and I'm like, what did you expect him to do?
19:46
He did it for a reaction.
19:48
Right.
19:48
Like, you got your reaction.
19:49
Right.
19:50
And to go against them?
19:52
Meek Mills though, I mean, he's supposed to be like all I guess.
19:57
You know, and there's that the sound clip that came out and sound clip.
20:04
Oh, dear.
20:05
Do you need to educate me again?
20:07
Yeah.
20:09
One of the security guards.
20:11
At P.
20:12
Diddy's place.
20:13
Okay.
20:14
Heard some clapping going on.
20:16
Okay.
20:18
Some vocals and videoed it like at the door and then released it.
20:23
Oh no.
20:24
And it supposedly, so they were having a celebration with clapping and yelling and stuff.
20:32
They were doing something.
20:33
All right.
20:34
No, I didn't hear about it.
20:35
Like there's like, I like audio, of, of the situation., It's, it's like things you never needed to hear No.
20:45
In your entire life.
20:46
No.
20:46
I was like, why?
20:47
Why would they do this to us?
20:50
I have no words.
20:51
Same.
20:52
Same.
20:52
I really have no words.
20:54
Um, there's some things that I never wanted to hear.
20:57
That's Mm-Hmm.
21:00
Okay.
21:04
Well, moving on, moving on.
21:07
Did you hear about, Kim K and, several other huge celebrities like losing a lot of followers and stuff?
21:13
And they lost a lot of brand deals is what I'm hearing.
21:17
Connected with all of this.
21:19
Yeah.
21:20
And between that and then the other thing is I don't want to get political because we're not political people, but so I might misspeak here, but everything going on in Gaza and celebrities are not using the platforms they've been given that people feel like they should use.
21:35
And so people are unfollowing them.
21:38
I don't think that that's fair, though, if that's not what they normally and like, this is just my hot take.
21:42
So I take it for with a grain of salt, but if they don't normally.
21:46
Talk about certain things and they aren't either one educated on it or, feel comfortable taking a hard stance on something.
21:54
I feel like the public I don't either way them one way or the other or force them to make it.
21:59
That's very true.
22:00
The one that I heard that people are really going for is Taylor Swift.
22:04
And the reason is.
22:05
and what I found is that back in 2020, when there was a situation, she was just boohooing and crying in buckets of tears about the fact that she wishes she would have stood up and gotten involved and, you know, used her platform.
22:20
And so people are coming for her now saying, hello, Use your platform.
22:25
again, don't want to get political with it, but that's making a huge impact.
22:28
People losing a lot of brand deals, followers.
22:31
I saw there was a, a girl on TikTok, like TikTok famous or whatever, but she got like bullied off of TikTok and like her whole platform was just about mental health and nothing political, nothing, whatever.
22:42
And she got like, basically like pushed off of tick tock, all the people in her comment section and like, she had talked about her own mental health issues.
22:53
Can you imagine having like using this platform to talk about your mental health, and just trying to bring like happiness to the platform and people bullying you because you don't take their stand on something or you don't publicly make a stance.
23:06
One way or the other.
23:07
Yeah.
23:08
I don't feel like that's something that.
23:11
Anybody should be forced to do.
23:14
Well, there's freedom of speech, right?
23:16
And there's in that I also Feel like that's the freedom to not say anything Right so you can or you cannot and for them to not have the right to not speak on it isn't fair I just don't feel like if that's not what your normal platform is about or if you don't want to go public one way or the other, like I don't feel like you should have to.
23:36
said there was some, there was some updates on the Micah Miller thing.
23:40
So I just quickly looked for updates.
23:42
We know that the FBI was brought in.
23:44
But do you know why the FBI was brought in?
23:46
Because we said that the FBI brought in.
23:48
Well, I would love for that to be true.
23:50
However, they, the church, was trying to say that Micah was stealing money from the church.
23:56
Oh.
23:57
And that's why they were brought in.
24:00
It wasn't necessarily because of the The death.
24:02
Yeah.
24:03
That's why they initially came in.
24:05
so they had whatever fundraiser, she was very, involved in the Africa, missions missions.
24:12
Yeah.
24:12
So, and she was actually planning on moving there.
24:14
Okay.
24:15
And so that was her mission project.
24:18
Supposedly they were accusing her of stealing money out of the account for this mission project.
24:25
her parents came back and said that.
24:28
It was money that she had put out of pocket for all of these events that they were going to raise funds and that the church wasn't reimbursing her for, but so there's, I guess, 1, 200 missing, Venmo and, cash app or whatever had put placed a whole three day hold on these funds.
24:46
And the day after she was found, the 1, 200 got released back into, back into the account.
24:54
From what I saw, I mean, something suspicious there, I don't know, and 1, 200, but I mean, that's not that that's not a significant amount of money, but FBI worthy.
25:05
Yeah.
25:05
I don't know.
25:06
Like this whole thing is like super sketch.
25:09
So then her dad, her family's been making the circuit on like, Good.
25:12
Everything, because there is just something not right.
25:16
So JP would not let her family, the husband, would not let her family see her body unless they signed a rush cremation or like a, you know, immediate cremation paper.
25:32
What?
25:33
Yeah.
25:33
Tell me that's not suspect.
25:35
Like, like, what the heck?
25:36
Like, how would people even think that that's?
25:39
Not suspect, right?
25:41
So there was defensive wounds on her arms and her hands and like scratches, that would not have happened from a fall.
25:53
Because the way that they were placed, right?
25:55
There was a handprints.
25:57
Um, there was no tox screen done other than an alcohol test.
26:04
Like, why wouldn't a talk screen be done?
26:05
Right.
26:06
there was several rounds from the gun went off.
26:09
There was shell casings found.
26:12
It wasn't one, one shell.
26:13
Oh.
26:14
There were several rounds that went off.
26:17
And where the shell casings and the pew pew was found.
26:22
Yeah.
26:23
I don't know if we're allowed to say it, but.
26:27
It's so cute.
26:28
where that was found in relation to where the, her body was found.
26:33
there's no way that the water would have.
26:36
Oh.
26:37
So there, they, the, the, her family thinks that the body was placed.
26:41
It's so cute.
26:42
Where it was found.
26:44
so none of it made sense.
26:45
And then JP has a contact that owns the land right next to where she was.
26:51
Yeah.
26:53
So, you know, there was no witnesses like that.
26:55
It was came in the car.
26:56
There's no witness that her car was there.
26:58
Yeah.
26:58
but there was no witnesses that saw her there or saw her get there.
27:03
so one of the theories is that she was taken in on this dude's land.
27:10
Because it was just right there right there beside it and then transported over and she was that was done.
27:16
Yeah, she was there, but, the way, according to the dad, this is all ledger late.
27:22
Don't come for me.
27:23
Yeah.
27:25
Her hand was crushed.
27:26
Like somebody was squeezing her hand, forcing her to move her hand to, to, to make them, to, to, to use the weapon.
27:33
Right.
27:34
the handprints, uh, bruising on her arms.
27:38
So I don't know.
27:41
There's so much more to this.
27:43
So yeah, this is terrifying.
27:47
Yeah.
27:48
Especially because I keep going back to that phone call and our conversation about AR.
27:53
And the thing of it is, is, is this guy, I mean, he's a pastor, but he's not like some huge famous person in the world that has access to do crazy stuff with technology.
28:05
Like, he's just A dude.
28:08
Mm hmm.
28:08
A creepy dude.
28:09
A creepy dude with a computer.
28:11
So I touched on this last week, about the claims that he, groomed her.
28:16
Yes.
28:17
At the time she was younger.
28:17
Yes.
28:18
cause he was married before.
28:19
Right.
28:19
And had several children.
28:20
Five, I think.
28:21
Yeah.
28:22
so all these other people are coming out.
28:24
saying the same types of allegations and, I like the abuse and, you know, like corroborating, I think that's the word.
28:34
Good job.
28:36
Good job.
28:37
the whole, scenarios, scenarios.
28:40
Yeah.
28:41
And then, tick tock did their thing and there's a picture, of the, the church leadership, that was on the website.
28:47
They took the whole website down for the church.
28:50
but in this picture, another guy that was in the leadership group was a registered essay of children.
29:02
you got two creepy, like, nasty guys as leadership in this church.
29:08
That is insane to me.
29:10
Yeah.
29:10
You would think that churches would vet this.
29:13
So when, Brian and I used to help run youth football organization, and I would do the background check.
29:18
Y'all did an amazing job.
29:21
Thanks.
29:21
It was a lot of fun.
29:22
Side note.
29:23
It was a lot of fun.
29:24
But, but one of the things that I was tasked with, was to make sure all the paperwork was done for all the players and the coaches and, make sure that our insurance was up to date, all that kind of stuff.
29:33
Well, including that.
29:34
For the coaches was doing a background check and that included just, you know, criminal history, stuff like that.
29:41
Not, you know, of course, not credit or anything like that, but, it may, it was not difficult.
29:46
You plug in a name and a date of her and.
29:49
You get the information back.
29:50
You would think, and it wasn't expensive either.
29:53
Yeah.
29:53
there's a thousand websites I'm sure that offer this service that you can just go in and get your information that you've selected that you need for your, whatever your needs are.
30:01
And it's crazy to me that that's not something that's regularly done.
30:06
Yes.
30:06
I think it was, I think that they were aware.
30:09
Really?
30:10
he took over the church and changed the church's name, I believe, if I remember correctly.
30:15
The information, JP did but I am 99 percent sure that there was something down there that they made him go to like a counseling or something but the other dude too?
30:23
Yeah.
30:24
But like they, they were aware, whatever I, yeah, so it's just gross.
30:29
we don't get into religion on this either, but, um, there is just so many instances of this that occurs.
30:37
I went to Catholic school for high school and just had the worst experience, with the priest that ran our school.
30:44
Okay.
30:44
Bye.
30:44
Bye now.
30:45
Um, he came in, I think my junior year maybe, he hated females.
30:52
he was, Evil, like he would tell us that we were going to hell if we like questioned anything and yeah we'll make the girls line up and kneel down to measure our skirts to see if our skirts were Longer than what the school allowed and I mean just like lined us up in front of the whole class Like I mean like it's all lined up Uh, and it was just that there's no sense in that.
31:11
It was like abuse of power, you know, like the whole thing I just I have been very like cynical since then.
31:17
Yeah.
31:18
No, I agree and uh again we don't want to dig into it too much, but I When this came out too, I told Brian too, I was like, and you wonder why I don't trust most preachers or something like that.
31:27
Like it's, I don't know.
31:28
And there's plenty of good ones.
31:30
There are.
31:30
Um, I'm just, I know, I know.
31:33
You know, some people don't trust doctors and I get that there's a lot of good ones and there's a lot of bad ones.
31:38
So same thing.
31:39
It's just seems to be more.
31:41
I don't know.
31:42
Yeah.
31:43
Now, okay.
31:44
Totally different topic, but kind of off of what you said.
31:47
Okay.
31:48
You mentioned, skirts being a certain length and dress code is what I'm assuming a dress code.
31:53
How do you feel about there being a dress code?
31:55
So boys aren't distracted because we're both moms of sons.
31:58
Yes.
31:59
I do think that there needs to be a dress code because there are a lot of very, um, Um, I don't know the right word to say it.
32:06
I don't want to say like, Uh, okay.
32:10
Let me say how I feel too.
32:11
Okay.
32:11
Okay.
32:12
So I think that there should be a dress code because I think that we do need rules in this world.
32:16
Right.
32:16
I think that we should outside, wear whatever you want to, whatever you feel comfortable with.
32:22
But I also feel like that if you're depends on the reason that you're wearing something, are you wearing it for attention?
32:28
Are you wearing it because you feel good about yourself?
32:31
I don't know.
32:31
I just, and I'm not a mom of a daughter, so not me either.
32:34
So we're as a mom of a son, I don't think that girls should dress to not distract boys.
32:42
Correct.
32:42
I 100 percent agree that guys should be able to control themselves.
32:46
I think that they should be taught to control themselves, taught to keep their hands to themselves, unless it is all consensual.
32:52
And there's a time and place for that.
32:53
I mean, like the, the, the dress code for females should never be because males.
32:59
Yes.
33:00
Can't control them because they're animal Barb.
33:02
That's right.
33:03
What's the word?
33:03
Barbaric.
33:04
Yeah.
33:05
Almost was going shaggy.
33:12
Barbaric.
33:13
Very good.
33:13
Thank you.
33:14
But yeah, I agree with you there.
33:16
Like, I feel like there's no reason that I don't feel like they need to be coming in like booty shorts, like their butt hanging out or, you know, tops, so revealing that, but it's not because the quote boys are distracted.
33:28
It is because I just thought they need to be covered up.
33:31
Yeah.
33:32
But like, when you go to work, you're going to have a dress code.
33:35
You know what I mean?
33:35
Like there's, yeah.
33:36
In real life situations, there's dress codes.
33:38
Yes.
33:38
So, I don't feel like schools having dress codes is a problem.
33:42
Mm hmm.
33:43
I don't think that they should say it because the boys get distracted.
33:46
Mm hmm.
33:46
I think it's just a dress code.
33:47
Mm hmm.
33:48
Yeah, I agree.
33:50
So I agree.
33:51
it's crazy to me though, that schools have these, actually Clover High School does not have a dress code as far as I've heard.
33:59
Oh, they used to.
34:01
I don't know.
34:01
I hadn't really looked into it, but people are like, there's no dress code.
34:03
They wear whatever.
34:04
Maybe there is and it's not enforced.
34:05
Yeah, I think that's more.
34:06
but it's funny to me the sports uniforms, like volleyball for instance, that very, very short shorts.
34:16
Yeah, and that's okay.
34:19
Mm hmm, but it's not for regular.
34:21
Mm hmm.
34:22
Yeah.
34:23
My son, had his lacrosse banquet.
34:26
Yeah.
34:27
I was going to ask you about that.
34:28
It was last week, right?
34:29
Yeah.
34:29
I dress to be comfortable.
34:32
I don't dress up very much.
34:34
you're lucky if I'm out of leggings.
34:37
and Brandon is like very much like comfort.
34:40
We've been working from home for five years.
34:42
Like it's been sweatpants and leggings.
34:45
Like, yeah, I get it.
34:47
so like Brandon just had like.
34:49
You know, Nike sweatpants or whatever and like a t shirt and I had, I did put on jeans and a tank then I had like a zip up hoodie with it and Dylan We saw what he was wearing.
35:00
Black Athletic shorts and a long sleeve white shirt.
35:03
Okay.
35:04
Perfect.
35:05
And like really dirty Crocs.
35:07
And I was like, you where are the clean ones?
35:08
Right.
35:09
If you're going to do Crocs at least.
35:10
Yeah.
35:10
And he didn't even put them in sports mode.
35:13
So we get there and everybody is dressed.
35:19
Oh, really?
35:21
We walked in there and I was like, Oh, whoops.
35:26
Like dress up like business casual, I mean, like, like a lot of like the women were in like Dresses and a lot of the men who are, you know, keeps glitching, but it's still recording.
35:37
Yeah, we're good Men were like in either slacks or like, you know khakis or lower.
35:41
So yeah There was like one other to one or two other kids that were like not super dressy But they all had on collared shirts and I'm like Dylan did they send out something saying dress code?
35:49
Yeah, and he's like, I don't know they're lucky I came I love it.
35:54
I love it.
35:54
Like, oh my lord.
35:57
I love it.
35:57
That's funny.
35:58
So we were very underdressed.
36:01
Yeah, those things are iffy though.
36:03
Like, I always try to get Jackson to dress up for like end of the year things or stuff.
36:08
And by dress up, I mean not athletic shorts.
36:11
Yeah.
36:11
And a collar shirt or a nicer graphic shirt, whatever that's not faded and has holes in it.
36:18
Yeah.
36:19
And probably still the Crocs.
36:20
Yeah.
36:22
That's funny.
36:23
All right.
36:23
You want to do, um, Am I the?
36:25
Am I the acorn?
36:26
Yes.
36:27
Okay, this is actually a good one.
36:28
I saved like several of them so that we had like just in case.
36:32
Okay.
36:32
So this is the thread and the comment section didn't have enough like one way or the other.
36:43
Okay.
36:43
Like for like the vote to be that they are or not.
36:46
Yeah.
36:46
Okay.
36:47
But I had very strong feelings on this.
36:49
Okay.
36:51
So it says, am I the a hole?
36:53
I will keep this as short as possible.
36:56
The family has a code word that means to meet up at my house because there is bad news.
37:01
So, emergency family meeting.
37:03
This is something that is extremely rare and it means to drop what you are doing and get over as soon as possible.
37:11
It is only an invite for the kids.
37:13
No in laws are invited.
37:15
This was discussed and agreed upon by everyone.
37:19
This was due to everyone being most comfortable with sharing bad news with their siblings and parents and not having to be polite with the in laws.
37:27
For example, my daughter used the code word and it was an emergency family meeting.
37:31
She was getting divorced and needed help after everyone fills in their spouses, but not with all the nitty gritty details.
37:38
This happened today.
37:39
An emergency meeting was called for my husband.
37:42
In short, he needs surgery.
37:43
I won't go into more than that.
37:46
Everyone left and I got a call from my daughter in law.
37:48
Upset that she wasn't invited to the meeting.
37:51
I asked if she knew what these were, and she told me that my son had explained it.
37:57
She reiterated that she should still be invited, and I am excluding her.
38:02
That she is upset and expects an invite next time.
38:05
I told her that her feelings Aren't my problem.
38:09
And for F's sake, you don't need to be invited to everything.
38:15
She called me a jerk.
38:16
My son told me he will deal with it, but I could have been nicer.
38:20
Is she the a hole?
38:22
Ah, she gave a lot of information there, but I would want more.
38:27
Okay.
38:27
I want to know how long have they been married.
38:30
Okay.
38:30
Are they married a year or they've been married 20 years?
38:34
Cause my other thing is, is the son good about relaying information?
38:38
I'm assuming it's a son.
38:39
Yes.
38:40
To his wife.
38:41
Like Brian forgets to tell me everything.
38:44
but okay.
38:45
In this situation.
38:47
I don't think she is.
38:48
I don't think so either.
38:49
And,'cause that's the rule.
38:51
Right.
38:52
And if that was, uh, already known and she said she knew right.
38:55
What it was.
38:56
Yeah.
38:56
I, I don't think that she needs to be there.
38:59
It sounds like she maybe doesn't get along with the mom and the mom.
39:02
There's already that too in there.
39:03
I I, I don't think she is.
39:06
Uh, right.
39:06
I think that the daughter-in-law is because she's making this horrible s situation, but she she's about her.
39:12
About her, yeah.
39:12
Yeah.
39:13
Which adds stress to her husband, it adds stress to the family, and it's causing conflict.
39:18
Yes.
39:18
So, I think I'm 100 percent with you.
39:22
But, like I said, I do want to know if they've been Have they been married a long time?
39:27
Mm hmm.
39:28
Almost if you've, if you've been married almost as long as like, so Brian and I got married 26.
39:34
We've been married 26 years.
39:36
I feel like that we've, I've been married longer than I'm not.
39:40
So I'm part of that family longer than I was in my, so I should be included.
39:44
You know what I'm saying?
39:44
I get that.
39:45
I, Think, and I don't know the situation.
39:47
Right, right, right, right.
39:48
people who are debating in the comments, um, like, you know, how many children are there?
39:53
Is it like true?
39:54
Are there 12 kids?
39:55
Yeah.
39:55
does everybody get along?
39:57
Like, does all the in in-laws get along?
39:59
Like, you know, if you have, like with that kind of dynamic Yeah.
40:02
It already sounds like there's some tension.
40:04
Mm-Hmm.
40:04
And so does a sister not get along with the wife?
40:06
Right.
40:07
So there might be, or does the, does the.
40:11
Husband who needs surgery not get along with this daughter in law too.
40:14
I mean that could be worse than that Like, you know, is it what kind of surgery is it?
40:18
Is it something like kind of embarrassing, you know, like that?
40:20
He doesn't you know want everybody to have to be there for the for the news drop.
40:27
Yeah and if this has been in place this whole time, right.
40:30
They've been married, then like, and even before they were married.
40:33
Yeah.
40:33
So it sounds like that this has already been used and everybody was okay with it.
40:38
That's curious too, that everybody was okay with it.
40:41
The time before it worsened, but for this situation, she's getting a little, it sounds like new or I don't know.
40:49
Yeah, that or there's.
40:51
Already some drama there, and she's trying to I think there's some stuff going on there.
40:55
Yeah, so The the comment section was like very split I was surprised because I you know immediately was like no yeah, this is it like this is like family rules Are you like me too?
41:06
Like you're a rule follower.
41:08
of course Well, because I, things are black and white for me, like I very rarely have, I mean, I've, as I've gotten older, like things are more gray, but like, I'm a, this is, these are the rules and it doesn't serve me well because people who break the rules typically come out better with all kinds of things, but, Yeah.
41:25
So, uh, this is the rule and this is what we're doing.
41:28
Yeah.
41:28
So, what, I'm curious to know, what were they saying?
41:31
Why did they think that the daughter in law should not?
41:33
Well, because she's in the family and why are, why are the in laws being excluded?
41:38
Yeah.
41:39
Like they already made that clear.
41:43
The only thing that I could see that might be different in this situation than others on why she might need to be included is if she would be expected to help take care of.
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Agreed.
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And that would be a different situation like we're including her because she's going to be one of the caretakers post op or whatever.
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Her husband's getting surgery.
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And then this chick is Making it about her and her feelings of not being included in a already known, right?
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Dynamic.
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Yeah, that's another one.
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Okay, let's go.
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Okay.
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We agree on that one.
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The mom is not, but the daughter in law is.
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Yes.
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so yeah, let us know in the comments.
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What you think is, what, what are your thoughts on that one?
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Everybody let us know.
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Yeah, but I do like this, um, Am I the A hole segment.
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I want to keep doing that.
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I did save one more.
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Okay.
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And I don't know if this is gonna make the podcast, but we will see.
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Okay.
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This one, you know, there's a lot of family drama, like Yeah.
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As you can tell.
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Yeah.
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Am I the, a-hole for telling my sister-in-Law?
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Her pregnancy announcement was jarring.
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Lemme clear my throat for this one.
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Okay, so a little background.
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My husband and I, 28 female, 32 male, have been together and married for 9 years.
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We have You see, I already like all this background.
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Yes.
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Okay, go ahead.
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Details.
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We just welcomed our baby girl last July, the first grandbaby of both families.
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Everyone was thrilled.
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Our baby receives a lot of attention from my husband's parents since we live around the corner from them.
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I have a sister in law, Cammie, 26.
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She loves kids and has voiced how much she would love a baby.
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Cammie and her boyfriend have some issues.
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They always complain to her parents about how they can never afford things Leaving my in laws to foot the bill, such as a new lawnmower, getting their dog spayed, patio furniture, and a vacation to Mexico.
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Huh.
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Hmm.
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There are a couple of people that have voiced concerns about them starting a family.
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Her dad, my father in law, has been adamant.
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About her boyfriend getting serious about their relationship first, putting a ring on it, before they think about having a child.
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Cammie agreed, but stated that it will be a little while before they get married because it's expensive.
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She sounds like she's digging for some money.
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Uh huh.
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To me.
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Agreed.
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Her sister, my sister in law, has been hearing up and down about their issues and fights.
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It seems every other week they are split up for a day or two before reconnecting.
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We hardly see Cammie's boyfriend as they usually get into a fight before she makes a trip over to where we live.
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So, he doesn't come with her.
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A couple of months ago, Cammie asked me what I thought of her having a baby since she was pregnant.
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Lonely at home.
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I did not lie.
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I said I didn't think it was the best idea since her boyfriend is hardly around both Workwise and emotionally plus they have been together for a little over a year.
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So not very long Skip to last week.
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Kami comes to visit with her boyfriend She gathers all of us at the table for a family photo and before her boy before taking the photo her boyfriend says Say, Cammie's pregnant as he takes a video.
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Her sister, with a straight face, says, Is this a joke?
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Her father frowns through his smile and looks down at the ground.
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My husband shakes his head and walks away.
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I put on a huge smile and say, Oh my gosh, congratulations! We all gather ourselves up to wish her congratulations, but there is clearly bad, bad hmm.
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She doesn't notice.
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Cammy, upon reviewing the video, texted me very upset that her announcement video was a dud with her family, and the family was not supportive.
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She was upset, stating, how could everyone be so excited for me and not for her?
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I told her that everyone might not be super excited at first, and that's okay.
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It's a bit jarring to hear this news.
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Cammy then calls me, Cammy name calls me and her family a bunch of a holes who don't respect her decision as a grown woman.
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Am I the a hole for telling her the pregnancy wasn't exactly what wanted by everyone, or does she deserve the flack?
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So, I feel like I've said it first every time.
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What do you think?
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I don't think she's the a hole.
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I think she said it very nicely.
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I think that Well, and she, that, that she wanted to know.
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Like she came to her and she was like, nobody's excited.
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Well, you sound to me like you went off conversation.
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I don't think she came to hear the truth.
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She wanted to be like, Oh, yeah.
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Oh my gosh.
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I can't believe.
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So she went to the wrong person.
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To get the response that she wanted.
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I think that All those details are huge red flags.
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Yeah, and no no no no I Can understand the family?
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Be having the reaction.
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Mm hmm, especially if they've already voiced all these opinions, right?
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It sounds like she's been trying to almost talk them into this for a while And I'm sorry, huge red flag if the boyfriend is causing fights or like you guys are getting into fights before any family event, that is huge red flags.
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you're going alone, you're going upset.
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You're then, you know, telling, which rightfully so like you talk to your siblings, right.
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And of course they're going to take your side, obviously.
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Yeah so you're going to your family, you're telling them all this, drama.
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He's not showing up.
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Right.
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I mean, I'm sorry.
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red flags.
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Yeah.
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A hundred percent.
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Yeah.
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She, I wouldn't, if that was my sister, I would have been like, or sister in law, whatever.
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Uh, I don't think that this is what you need to do.
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I don't know.
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And like before when she was like, I don't have a baby, I would have been like, it's not going to fix the problem.
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Oh, and then she said that she wanted to have a baby because she was lonely or right.
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And so that's not a reason to have a baby.
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That's not gonna fix anything.
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No, it's just going to make you sleep deprived.
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Yes.
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And, and yes.
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All the hormones and emotions.
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resentment to the baby daddy.
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No.
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I don't think she is.
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I think she, I think she was very nice.
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I think so too.
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She said it in a way.
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Right.
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So let's, you know, let's, let's say that she was a little bit harsher with her words.
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I still don't.
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Yeah.
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I mean, I don't know.
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Yeah.
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So, in the comment section, it said that she obviously she was not, um, but again, we're getting her perspective.
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Right.
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And her side of it.
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And she's not gonna make herself sound like horrible, but if she was like, You know, yeah, I want to see this video that they shared with, uh, the, uh, I'm sorry.
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I'm pointing to your phone.
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The announcement where they recorded her saying, and you know what?
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She says she's 26.
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She sounds like somebody who's everything is on social media and she wanted this cute little video to post and make her life better than everybody else's.
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Because that's what all social media is Most a lot of it is, you know, we're better than than you because here's our little happy video.
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Yeah I saw the funniest thing on facebook the other day It's speaking of the social media fake world whatever but it said that in school they had us all Separated by like the super smart kids were in like the class G, whatever they call it now.
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and then you have like the regular kids and then like the, the lower right classes.
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and there's a, you have all of us separated, all of high school.
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Now you have us all on one platform.
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This is the problem.
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This is the problem.
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You should have kept us separated.
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We were fine.
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No, I'm just kidding.
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So, I was like, oh, there's something to that.
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Cause I was not in the, I was like in the partying class.
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That's so funny.
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My school, like my high school.
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We I think like 60 kids graduated in my class.
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Yeah.
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And, it was like the super smart kids.
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Yeah.
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And then the partiers.
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Now, I didn't stay with the super smart kids for long.
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Like, I phased out of that real fast.
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Like, I realized I was not an overachiever like they were.
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So, I could only stay so long, but.
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Well, I like doing the, um, the M I the A also.
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Yeah, I really like that.
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So we're going to keep that up, we'll do that next week when we'll do our book, that I mentioned, which was First Lie Wins.
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Yes.
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And, I think we have one more segment.
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Oh, whatever celebrity stuff happens.
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We'll talk about it.
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You'll need some more updates on, on our case.
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Yeah.
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that one, that one.
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cool.
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Oh, and, sorry, throwing this out there.
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I think we're going to have a special guest next week.
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Oh yes.
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which is one of the moms of the girls who won the state championship last week.
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Right.
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So, excited to have a little conversation with her.
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