Latest / Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie / How To Have It All: How I Shifted My Entire Life
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- 0:01SPEAKER_01: Hello and welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
- 0:04SPEAKER_01: I'm your host, Liv, a naturopathic doctor, 7D energy healer, and a cocktail reader.
- 0:10SPEAKER_01: I help women heal on a physical and emotional level so that they can feel delicious and magnetic.
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- 0:43SPEAKER_01: And with that, let's get into the show.
- 0:47SPEAKER_01: Hello, hello everyone.
- 0:49SPEAKER_01: Happy Friday.
- 0:51SPEAKER_01: Today I'm going to be covering how to get it all and what I really did to shift my life from hi got from where it was uh a few years ago to where it is now.
- 1:02SPEAKER_01: So if you have any questions about this topic, leave them.
- 1:06SPEAKER_01: Um I'll be going through them.
- 1:07SPEAKER_01: Hey! Um, but first I'm gonna start off kind of like where I started because I think it can be really easy to maybe if you haven't been following me for like three, four years, if you're new, you might be like, oh, it must be easy for Liv, you know, she gets to the house, she travels, you know, luxury, she does all this stuff.
- 1:25SPEAKER_01: But it didn't always used to be that way.
- 1:27SPEAKER_01: And that's something I really want to drive home, is that I created this for myself from myself, and it is a choice.
- 1:35SPEAKER_01: So let's start with kind of like where I started.
- 1:38SPEAKER_01: I used to like when we're thinking about glow in the sense of like how your life glows, I used to have skin issues, like horrible cystic acne, digestion issues, bloating, horrible negative self-talk.
- 1:50SPEAKER_01: If we're thinking about like mental, I used to have emotional, like roller coaster, did not know how to process my emotions, basically an empath that was just running around feeling all the things and just feeling honestly just not happy in my life.
- 2:03SPEAKER_01: Like I'm gonna be honest, not happy in my life, stuck in comparisonitis, stuck in perfectionism, stuck in all this, right?
- 2:10SPEAKER_01: But in order to shift out of that, you need to make a choice, and that's something that I really wish I understood sooner was that this is all the choice.
- 2:22SPEAKER_01: This is all just an energy that you get to have too.
- 2:25SPEAKER_01: And it's when you start to take radical responsibility of hey, I could change my life, I could change my world, I could change everything if I decide to.
- 2:34SPEAKER_01: It is a decision.
- 2:37SPEAKER_01: Remember, it is a decision.
- 2:38SPEAKER_01: So I wrote some notes down that I want to go over today because I really am on a mission to help more women glow physically, mentally, emotionally, financially as well.
- 2:49SPEAKER_01: Like you literally get to have it all.
- 2:51SPEAKER_01: And where I see people often get tripped up, sorry, I'm gonna talk slower.
- 2:55SPEAKER_01: When I get really passionate, I speed up, is that they set maybe a standard for their life.
- 2:59SPEAKER_01: They're like, okay, you know, I really want like a house, you know, with a big kitchen or this or that.
- 3:04SPEAKER_01: So they set the standard, but then they waver from it.
- 3:07SPEAKER_01: Maybe a day later it's like, oh no, it's never gonna happen to me.
- 3:10SPEAKER_01: It's too hard, or no, that's never gonna, you know, work out, or I'm never gonna meet someone, or I'm never gonna, you know, I wish I could have a job that I love, you know, I wish I could love what I do.
- 3:20SPEAKER_01: If you desire it, that means it's possible for you.
- 3:23SPEAKER_01: You would not be able to see it, feel it if it wasn't possible.
- 3:27SPEAKER_01: But what happens is you waver and you don't trust yourself and you drop your standard.
- 3:32SPEAKER_01: And that's where the problem is, is because as soon as you drop trust, you drop the universe from bringing it to you.
- 3:39SPEAKER_01: You have to be unwavering, like there is no plan B.
- 3:43SPEAKER_01: This is coming to me.
- 3:44SPEAKER_01: End of story.
- 3:46SPEAKER_01: You cannot waver, you cannot drop trust.
- 3:49SPEAKER_01: You have to decide on the standard you're gonna set, and it is a decision, and choose it, and not just like choose it one time, like, okay, I'm gonna, you know, get a better job, or I'm gonna find the man of my dreams, or I'm gonna find a beautiful house.
- 4:01SPEAKER_01: It's every second of the day, every day, it is a choice.
- 4:05SPEAKER_01: And then thoughts might come up.
- 4:07SPEAKER_01: Like nobody's perfect.
- 4:08SPEAKER_01: I have thoughts some times that come up, doubts, whatever, and then you shift back to a better feeling thought.
- 4:14SPEAKER_01: You need to be able to hold the standard and be unwavering in whatever the hell it is you want and not settle for less.
- 4:20SPEAKER_01: Because if you settle for less, let's say the universe brings you 80% and you settle for that.
- 4:27SPEAKER_01: They're like, oh maybe she doesn't need 100%.
- 4:29SPEAKER_01: Let's say she, you know, brings you all this dream job.
- 4:32SPEAKER_01: Maybe it's got an amazing, I don't know, benefits, amazing hours, blah blah blah.
- 4:37SPEAKER_01: But the only thing is that, you know, it's it's far away.
- 4:40SPEAKER_01: Maybe you have to drive 45 minutes, and like that's the only thing that's wrong with it, but like it looks so good, right?
- 4:45SPEAKER_01: Like, so is that a sign?
- 4:46SPEAKER_01: Should I just take it anyways?
- 4:48SPEAKER_01: No.
- 4:49SPEAKER_01: In what world do you think you cannot have it all?
- 4:52SPEAKER_01: Which also brings me to because you don't want to drop that standard, you have to wait for the job that isn't, you know, that's all those things and not 45 minutes away.
- 5:00SPEAKER_01: But where did you learn and believe that you do not get to have it all?
- 5:05SPEAKER_01: Was it parents?
- 5:06SPEAKER_01: Was it society?
- 5:08SPEAKER_01: Was it is it the people you surround yourself with?
- 5:10SPEAKER_01: I've got so many clients who have spouses that don't believe in what they do, who partners are like, no, that's not possible, we're never gonna have that.
- 5:18SPEAKER_01: Stop dreaming.
- 5:19SPEAKER_01: Like, what?
- 5:21SPEAKER_01: No, stop.
- 5:23SPEAKER_01: Because that's gonna block you and stop you from shifting into the timeline, reality, etc.
- 5:28SPEAKER_01: that you want.
- 5:29SPEAKER_01: So, what does that mean?
- 5:31SPEAKER_01: You set the standard, you be unwavering, you do not settle for 95, 90, 98, and you do not let other people dictate what is possible for you.
- 5:43SPEAKER_01: The amount of people who didn't think it was possible for me to do this, even my mom, like shout out, my mom apparently sometimes listens to these things.
- 5:51SPEAKER_01: So shout out to my mom, but she didn't think it was.
- 5:54SPEAKER_01: Like, you have to decide and you have to cultivate enough personal power where other people's thoughts and opinions do not detract from what you desire.
- 6:04SPEAKER_01: Or let's say you're trying to, someone was in my DMs actually actually saying the same thing to me that their friends are telling them to like their standards are too high for a partner, or that they're never gonna find someone who's like all of those things.
- 6:15SPEAKER_01: And I'm just like, girl, what kind of friends?
- 6:18SPEAKER_01: No, we do not settle.
- 6:20SPEAKER_01: We live in the world of miracles of not settling, of getting to have it all.
- 6:26SPEAKER_01: Okay, let me know if that makes sense.
- 6:27SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna look at my notes just to make sure that um everything I said.
- 6:34SPEAKER_01: Oh yeah.
- 6:34SPEAKER_01: So the next thing is that if you are comparing yourself to people or you're judging people for what they have than what you don't have, you are blocking it, which is something that I used to do back when I was like a few years ago stuck in comparisonitis, was I would look at other people with a very jealous, negative, like, oh, I wish I had that, and almost like a must-be nice type of energy.
- 6:58SPEAKER_01: Like, I'll be fully honest, that was me like three, four years ago.
- 7:01SPEAKER_01: But that's blocking it from you, right?
- 7:03SPEAKER_01: Because if you see someone who has the wealth, the job, the home, the relationship, whatever that you want, and you feel negatively towards that, then you're pushing that away.
- 7:13SPEAKER_01: Like energetically, you're pushing it away for yourself.
- 7:16SPEAKER_01: So the only one you're harming when you're judging or comparing is yourself, it's not them.
- 7:21SPEAKER_01: So you have to look at like, okay, where am I maybe blocking these things because of my judgments of other people, because of how I see those things for other people, and I think that they're a limit for myself because of mom, dad, partner, siblings, etc., who have told me otherwise.
- 7:37SPEAKER_01: So let me know if all this makes sense.
- 7:40SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna look to see if there's any questions.
- 7:42SPEAKER_01: Let me know if there are, because I really want you guys to understand that this is just an energy.
- 7:50SPEAKER_01: Will you talk about your experience starting as a student?
- 7:52SPEAKER_01: This is where I'm struggling.
- 7:54SPEAKER_01: Can you clarify what you mean struggle starting as a student?
- 7:57SPEAKER_01: Like having this as a student?
- 8:00SPEAKER_01: Let me know.
- 8:06SPEAKER_01: Okay, guys, any questions about this?
- 8:10SPEAKER_01: About how to get everything you want in life, how to receive you know the physical glow you want, like no digestion issues, hormones are balanced, how to mentally glow, emotionally glow, and all of that.
- 8:24SPEAKER_01: How do you raise your vibration to match that energy?
- 8:28SPEAKER_01: What you need to do is you actually need to let go of everything that's not a match.
- 8:32SPEAKER_01: So you are I think a lot of the time people use the word raise your vibration, even I've used it.
- 8:39SPEAKER_01: However, it's more of an unbecoming of the vibration.
- 8:42SPEAKER_01: We're all up here, however, it is like your beliefs, things, your trauma, your filters that then make you low vibe, right?
- 8:49SPEAKER_01: Because when we're thinking about lower vibrations, we're thinking about guilt, shame, um, all of these types of things, right?
- 8:57SPEAKER_01: But what made you feel that way?
- 8:59SPEAKER_01: It was something that lowered you to there.
- 9:01SPEAKER_01: You didn't start it, you were born into the world feeling guilt and shame.
- 9:03SPEAKER_01: I think babies feel guilt and shame.
- 9:05SPEAKER_01: No.
- 9:05SPEAKER_01: Someone told you you should be ashamed of your body or you should feel guilty for having this or not having this, or you know, it's bad to desire money, or whatever it is, right?
- 9:14SPEAKER_01: People inflicted that on you.
- 9:16SPEAKER_01: So rather than raising or thinking about yourself as raising your vibration, think about it as like cutting off the bowling balls that are around your ankles that are otherwise blocking you from already being that vibration.
- 9:29SPEAKER_01: You are already like high vibe, love, magnet, glowing.
- 9:35SPEAKER_01: You already are all those things.
- 9:37SPEAKER_01: Cut off all the balloons that made you feel otherwise, and then your vibration naturally raises.
- 9:43SPEAKER_01: Hopefully that makes sense.
- 9:44SPEAKER_01: Let me know if that makes sense.
- 9:46SPEAKER_01: We're gonna be going into all of this in glow over the four weeks because we're gonna be working on all the different bodies.
- 9:51SPEAKER_01: I know a bunch of you are already in it, which is great, because we're working on the physical, the mental, the emotional, and then the spiritual and the energetic side to make sure that your life glows everywhere.
- 10:06SPEAKER_01: Perfect.
- 10:07SPEAKER_01: Do not let someone else decide what is possible for you, okay?
- 10:11SPEAKER_01: It is just an energy.
- 10:12SPEAKER_01: So, any questions about manifesting your dream life, um, getting it all, how to shift your your life like that?
- 10:22SPEAKER_01: Because if not, I want to do an activation with you guys um right now so that you guys can activate to that.
- 10:28SPEAKER_01: I just wanted to pop in and let you guys know that life wasn't always this way.
- 10:32SPEAKER_01: I didn't always have this life.
- 10:34SPEAKER_01: I struggled physically out of fear of being seen, negative self-talk, a scarcity of mindset, you name it.
- 10:39SPEAKER_01: And I would look at others and wanted the life that they had.
- 10:42SPEAKER_01: And I knew deep down it was possible.
- 10:44SPEAKER_01: I could feel it.
- 10:45SPEAKER_01: And by the way, if you desire it, then that means it is a sign that it is possible for you.
- 10:50SPEAKER_01: No matter what, I was gonna figure it out and I did.
- 10:52SPEAKER_01: And now I glow.
- 10:54SPEAKER_01: Physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially, and somehow this life almost doesn't feel real, but yet it's exactly as it should be.
- 11:04SPEAKER_01: Like, holy shit, but also of course.
- 11:07SPEAKER_01: Because I choose, and you get to have it all the home, the love, the relationships, friendships, job, life.
- 11:13SPEAKER_01: Life truly glows when you allow yourself to receive and you become the embodiment of that one.
- 11:19SPEAKER_01: It's a choice.
- 11:20SPEAKER_01: I choose.
- 11:20SPEAKER_01: I choose over and over again to trust deeper.
- 11:23SPEAKER_01: There's no secret to this, it is about refining your alignment over and over again as you evolve.
- 11:28SPEAKER_01: It doesn't logically make sense, and it's not supposed to.
- 11:32SPEAKER_01: You go beyond what logically makes sense, and that's where miracles happen, and that's where you quantum leave.
- 11:37SPEAKER_01: Your heart knows before your brain does, and that's the world that I play in.
- 11:41SPEAKER_01: We aren't looking for logic, we are looking for magic.
- 11:44SPEAKER_01: And that's what my clients will tell you that the results don't make sense and that they're magic.
- 11:48SPEAKER_01: And what I tell them is that is the world you get to live in.
- 11:51SPEAKER_01: That is where limitless lives.
- 11:53SPEAKER_01: And on the other side of that deep trust beyond logic is where your heart's desires live.
- 11:58SPEAKER_01: That's when you glow.
- 11:59SPEAKER_01: Physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and financially.
- 12:04SPEAKER_01: We're gonna be working with the four bodies to integrate this on a cellular level inside glow.
- 12:09SPEAKER_01: Four weeks, four calls, four bodies, a hybrid of healing and activation, plus a telegram group magic.
- 12:15SPEAKER_01: So if you are ready for all of this, then sign up from the link in the description and DM me any questions on Instagram.
- 12:23SPEAKER_01: I am over the moon excited for this.
- 12:25SPEAKER_01: Honestly, because we're all meant to glow.
- 12:27SPEAKER_01: If it's available to me, it is available to you.
- 12:30SPEAKER_01: And it is my mission to lead more good-hearted women in this so that they get the life of their dreams.
- 12:38SPEAKER_01: So I will see you inside glow.
- 12:40SPEAKER_01: How do I find my purpose in life and avoid my fears?
- 12:44SPEAKER_01: So, with fears, fears are just showing you that something else is possible.
- 12:50SPEAKER_01: You have to, you're not about avoiding fears.
- 12:53SPEAKER_01: Every expansive thing you do, there's gonna be an element of fear.
- 12:56SPEAKER_01: Every time I've done something expansive, there's been a little bit of fear.
- 13:00SPEAKER_01: When I started YouTube, there was fear.
- 13:02SPEAKER_01: When I started like putting my face on sword, there was fear, right?
- 13:05SPEAKER_01: Fear is not bad.
- 13:06SPEAKER_01: Fear is just your ego trying to keep you safe.
- 13:09SPEAKER_01: You can't avoid fear.
- 13:10SPEAKER_01: What you have to do is push past the fear.
- 13:13SPEAKER_01: You have to push yourself all the way to the edge of what's comfortable.
- 13:16SPEAKER_01: You will never get what you want by staying in your comfort zone because your comfort zone is after that.
- 13:21SPEAKER_01: It's comfortable.
- 13:22SPEAKER_01: It's not necessarily comfortable to go out and, you know, I don't know, start a business and knit sweaters for cats or whatever it is that you you want to do, right?
- 13:31SPEAKER_01: Or to maybe leave a situation that you're scared to leave.
- 13:34SPEAKER_01: But like if your heart's pulling you to do this or do that, it's because your heart knows, but your mind is caught up in the logic, right?
- 13:41SPEAKER_01: So the electromagnetic field of your heart is 50 times bigger than that of your brain.
- 13:46SPEAKER_01: Your fear is coming from your logical brain.
- 13:48SPEAKER_01: We don't operate in logic, we operate in intuition, miracles, and heart.
- 13:53SPEAKER_01: Your brain is what's gonna mess you up and keep you stuck.
- 13:56SPEAKER_01: We don't play logic, right?
- 13:57SPEAKER_01: Because logic, there's no room for miracles, there's no room for magic.
- 14:00SPEAKER_01: And you logically, your brain logically cannot process all of the stuff that you want to come to you.
- 14:05SPEAKER_01: It cannot process, oh my god, I can have the house and the relationship and the job and this, like your brain's gonna break, right?
- 14:11SPEAKER_01: It's gonna be like ah, your fear is coming from your mind.
- 14:16SPEAKER_01: Fear is not in here.
- 14:17SPEAKER_01: Drop into your heart and tune into here.
- 14:20SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 14:22SPEAKER_01: But very um, very good question.
- 14:26SPEAKER_01: I'm not sure your name, but min minor minor something.
- 14:30SPEAKER_01: How do you set limits for other people?
- 14:32SPEAKER_01: Do you mean boundaries?
- 14:34SPEAKER_01: Can you clarify your question?
- 14:37SPEAKER_01: Yeah, the problem with your comfort zone is it's going to keep you safe and it's going to keep you comfortable.
- 14:42SPEAKER_01: Everything you desire is on the other end of your comfort zone, right?
- 14:46SPEAKER_01: You have to push that edge.
- 14:47SPEAKER_01: And I'm gonna be completely honest, this is something you're gonna have to do all the time.
- 14:52SPEAKER_01: So, like, I'm gonna ask all of you right now, if you were to push the edge in all the different areas of your life for what you want, what would pushing that edge look like?
- 15:02SPEAKER_01: Would it look like setting boundaries, leaving a certain situation, investing of yourself, um, starting this the business you wanted to do?
- 15:09SPEAKER_01: I don't know, getting on social media if you've been scared to like show your face and stories or scared of being judged, or I don't know, wearing a crop top or wearing a certain outfit.
- 15:17SPEAKER_01: Like, where is that edge in all the different areas of your life?
- 15:21SPEAKER_01: And the more you can push that edge, the faster everything will come.
- 15:27SPEAKER_01: Yeah, boundaries.
- 15:28SPEAKER_01: Okay, so your question was how to set boundaries for other people?
- 15:33SPEAKER_01: Set boundaries with the tone of your getting up from a nap and do not over-explain.
- 15:42SPEAKER_01: I think sometimes when people set boundaries, they tend to try to over-explain of like, oh, because of XYZ.
- 15:47SPEAKER_01: No is a full sentence.
- 15:49SPEAKER_01: Like, I don't know, if Joe's emailing you and wants you to get back to them after work hours, hey Joe, after 5 p.m.
- 15:56SPEAKER_01: I don't will look at work emails.
- 16:00SPEAKER_01: Not I don't look at work emails because I have a dog and I have to go pick up the kids and take them to soccer and ball, I don't know, whatever it is, right?
- 16:08SPEAKER_01: Short, sweet.
- 16:11SPEAKER_01: For example, I feel uncomfortable looking people in the eyes terribly, and I've been trying to do it more, but I find myself looking at the ground.
- 16:17SPEAKER_01: So you're afraid of being seen.
- 16:19SPEAKER_01: So that's an issue about being seen, Anna, okay.
- 16:23SPEAKER_01: Which means you need to work on you seeing yourself.
- 16:26SPEAKER_01: There are parts of you that you are not comfortable seeing.
- 16:29SPEAKER_01: So then if there is a possibility that someone else is gonna see that in you, then you that your your inner side, like your inner being, freaks out.
- 16:37SPEAKER_01: It's like, oh no, don't look at me, don't see that.
- 16:39SPEAKER_01: What if they see that?
- 16:40SPEAKER_01: They might not like me, they might judge me, whatever it is.
- 16:43SPEAKER_01: So you need to become comfortable seeing yourself fully.
- 16:50SPEAKER_01: Okay, any more questions about manifesting your dream life, getting it all, receiving it all, having a life that glows.
- 17:01SPEAKER_01: Okay, well, if there's no more questions, one reminder, and then we'll get into an activation.
- 17:11SPEAKER_01: It is a choice.
- 17:14SPEAKER_01: I am just a woman who decided.
- 17:17SPEAKER_01: I am I'm not special.
- 17:19SPEAKER_01: It doesn't work for me and not gonna work for you.
- 17:22SPEAKER_01: It is the laws of the universe, it is the the laws that everyone every human abides to, it is the same thing for you.
- 17:28SPEAKER_01: It is a choice.
- 17:30SPEAKER_01: You have to choose to want more, you have to choose to be unwavering in the standards you're gonna set.
- 17:35SPEAKER_01: What is the standard you're gonna set for your health, your relationships, where you live, your job, and do not waver, not for 95, 98, or 99%.
- 17:45SPEAKER_01: As soon as you drop that trust, you drop the universe from bringing it to you.
- 17:50SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 17:52SPEAKER_01: Oh, I'm so glad.
- 17:53SPEAKER_01: Well, look, not glad I'm making you cry, but like glad this is so um activating.
- 17:59SPEAKER_01: All right.
- 18:00SPEAKER_01: Let's go ahead and do a little activation to receiving it all.
- 18:05SPEAKER_01: All right, everyone, close your eyes.
- 22:49SPEAKER_01: If all of those standards that you set are not something that you have right now, this is your invitation to either join Glow, to get into one-on-one, to DM me at least what your standards are and that you want help with, because I really want more women to realize that they can have it all.
- 23:07SPEAKER_01: They do not have to choose.
- 23:09SPEAKER_01: You can have the home, the wealth, the relationship, the friends, everything you desire is on the other side of you deciding and choosing and choosing every damn day.
- 23:19SPEAKER_01: It is just an energy, it is just a decision.
- 23:22SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 23:24SPEAKER_01: Any questions before we hop off?
- 23:26SPEAKER_01: Perfect.
- 23:26SPEAKER_01: Well, I'm gonna save this live in case you want to come back to it.
- 23:30SPEAKER_01: If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to reach out because the pre sale price for glow um changes tomorrow.
- 23:39SPEAKER_01: Um, so the Saturday, what Saturday end of day Saturday?
- 23:43SPEAKER_01: Replay will be available.
- 23:44SPEAKER_01: Um, I'll put it on I'll probably maybe also put it on the podcast too.
- 23:48SPEAKER_01: If you have any questions, let me know.
- 23:51SPEAKER_01: Um and happy weekending, everyone.
- 23:55SPEAKER_01: Bye.