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DIE MY LOVE — Lynne Ramsay unleashes the beast · MUBI Podcast

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  Heads up, this episode contains adult themes, spoilers, and in some spots kinda murky audio quality If you're not quite making out every word you can check out our subtitled video version on YouTube.
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  The first scene, you know, in the book is she's crawling through the grass, observing her family.
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  She's got a knife in her hand.
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  She's watching her baby.
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  And you know her husband, like, as if she was a stranger, you know, like she's stalking through the grass watching her life.
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  That's a pretty bold opening.
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  You're like,"What the hell is going to happen now?" It's like she's watching what her life has become from the outside.
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  Like a stalker almost, you know?
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  And so it was pretty bold right away.
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  That is filmmaker Lynne Ramsay.
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  And pretty bold is one way to describe her new film Die My Love.
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  You might also call it fearless, frightening and darkly funny.
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  It's based on the novel by Ariana Harwicz, and it's about a young couple, Grace and Jackson, who moved to a fixer upper house in rural Montana.
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  Their life is full of creativity and sex and endless possibilities until they have a baby.
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  And Grace's life, and then Grace herself start to come apart at the seams.
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  Cheryl mentioned that you're a writer.Yeah, I don't do that anymore.Why not? Stuck for inspiration?I'm stuck between wanting to do something and not wanting to do...anything at all. I'm Simran Hans stepping in for Rico Gagliano.
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  Welcome back to the MUBI Podcast.
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  MUBI's the global film company that champions great cinema.
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  And on this show we tell you the stories behind great cinema.
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  Rico's back next week with a new season for you to feast on, but here's one of our special episodes.
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  It's my conversation with writer director Lynne Ramsay about Die My Love.
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  Part domestic drama, part haunted house thriller.
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  It features Jennifer Lawrence in a go-for-broke performance as Grace, that helped to earn a nine minute standing ovation at this year's Cannes Film Festival.
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  And it's in cinemas now in the US, UK and lots of other countries.
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  Lynne is the visionary Scottish filmmaker behind Ratcatcher, Morvern Callar,We Need to Talk About Kevin and You Were Never Really Here.
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  We'll hear why she thinks a couple in this psychodrama are like a modern day version of screwball legends Katharine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy, and why she sent Jennifer Lawrence and her co-star Robert Pattinson to dance classes.
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  First, though, I asked Lynne about Grace's physicality in the film.
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  At various points, we see Jennifer Lawrence lick a dirty window, strip to her underwear at a kid's birthday party, and she spends a lot of time prowling around like some kind of animal.
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  It was quite inspired by the original material, which is a book by Ariana Harwicz.
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  The character in it's very feral, irreverent, you know, unapologetic, animalistic.
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  Within her psychosis, you hadn't seen a character like that who's almost kind of liberating, you know, in some respects.
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  So yeah, it's a quite physical performance.
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  You used the word feral there, and I think we could go even further and say cat like, maybe?
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  Maybe, yeah.
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  That kind of came around in a way, because when they move into the house, there's rodents there, you know, and it's just a tiny little blink-and-you-miss-it moment But, she kind of hears things.
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  And then her husband, the character Jackson, brings home a dog when she says, "We need a cat" you know?
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  And so it's kind of funny, it's absurd.
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  But she's bored in this house.
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  She can't write, you know, she's isolated.
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  And, you know, that side developed over time while we were making it.
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  And obviously, you know, you alluded to it there, but she spends a lot of time in this film on all fours in various scenarios.
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  That sounds bad! But yeah. Yeah she did.
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  No, she-- it's a wildness and grace, you know, and it felt like she's a beast of sorts.
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  The wildness of that character, you know, within quite a surrealistic novel which I used as a jumping off point rather than a literal translation.
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  Felt, like I say, quite liberating for a character like this.
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  She's very inappropriate sometimes, but she has a truth of some sort.
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  And childlike as well.
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  Childlike, I think, is a good word, and free as well.
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  She's very free in how she how she moves.
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  I wonder if you did use any particular kind of animal metaphors when you were describing to her how you wanted her to sort of stalk through the grass or be in this sort of prowling mode.
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  She said something like,"I'm a cat, he's a dog." I mean, like things were coming up during prep.
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  And also, like, it's part of your character in the first place?
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  You know, like there was like you say, that kind of freedom.
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  But I didn't give any particular direction in that because, like, she was great at doing that herself, you know?
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  She's very trusting in me.
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  And we spoke a lot in prep and talked about that kind of that the animalistic nature of this character, you know, that she's kind of untamed.
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  I think that's a great word.
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  Let's talk a little bit about the relationship between Grace and Jackson.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: verbally, sexually, sometimes physically.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Tell me about the inspiration behind that dynamic.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Well, you know, I always saw them as a couple that really loved each other, but they're just totally at odds with each other, especially now they've moved into this new environment.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And I think he's a bit hapless at times, he doesn't really know what to do with her but he totally loves her and the things he probably loved about her in the first place, like her sexiness and her natural kind of nature and her sexuality were all present there.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And now they become a bit more threatening, you know, as she starts to unravel.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But also, they were hilarious, some of the arguments and stuff between them.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You know, like it felt like...
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Spencer Tracy and Katharine Hepburn having one of these big rows.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But it's funny, you recognise it or, you know, like and all those kind of things between married couples that seem absurd, you know?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: So the humour was a big deal for me as well.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: A hundred percent. And there's a perverse enjoyment in kind of seeing them just go at each other, particularly in the scene where the house is a mess and the dog is barking and Jackson's shouting at Grace'cause she's not wearing any pants.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Basically, Grace is kind of bored and letting everything go.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And Jackson's just, like, infuriated by her. You know?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: This place is a fucking hole.You moved us into it.I am working, and when I come home, I'm the one cleaning everything up.Three days a week.Let me shower you in medals.Shut up!You left an ashtray on the carpet.You don't think the baby's eating that shit?Shut up!Move us into the house where your uncle shot himself up the fucking ass!- Oh my God!- Up the ass!Up the fucking ass! Stop!I knew it, I knew it!Why are your shorts undone?Why do you not have your shorts on?- Shut up!- Jesus Christ...Fucking sanctimonious dick.Probably pissed on the floor yourself.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Blame it on the fucking dog.He's your mangy dog.And sanctimonious meansthat you think you're morally superior to other people, Danny. He's brought this dog back when she really wants a cat.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Because there's mice and rats and stuff like that.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: They're living in a rural place, and the dog is the most annoying dog in the world, you know, like.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And it kind of was, actually, the dog we chose.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And he's trying to do a kind of good thing, you know, but it's just like the whole thing is kind of imploding somewhat.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: So he takes her to task for letting everything kind of the house kind of of deteriorate.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And she takes him to task for bringing this dog home, you know, and this whole thing blows up in this mad way.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: How's your book going, by the way?Fantastic, thank you!Your great American novel.The main character is about to batter her husband to death with a hammer.Sounds like shit.Well, you can't read, so. It's kind of, like, hilarious argument about two people stuck in this situation, you know?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And it's absurd.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But there's moments where, when we were playing it, where they just naturally started laughing or, you know, and I remember one scene when he drags her out of the car after the scene in the kitchen, they just started laughing'cause, you know, he was trying to get her in there, get her seatbelt on.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Jennifer and Rob stopped and they were, "Oh, we're really sorry Lynne." And I was like, "No, there's something really alive in that!"'Cause it was just these moments in an argument where you have about each other, sometimes, where you're just like, "This is funny".
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And they just realise it's funny and it's stupid and it's absurd, you know?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: So it's kind of that, you know.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Maybe if you spent a little less time your hands down your pants,and a little more time writing, maybe you’d write something.Maybe!My hands are down my pants 'causeyou put your dick everywhere except there, asshole! And she's always masturbating as well.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Which, you know, like, she wants sex the whole time.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: The more that she's unravelling, I think the more he's backing off from her, you know?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Why did you ask Jennifer Lawrence and Robert Pattinson to take dance lessons together before shooting?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Well, I had an inkling I might use some stuff.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: I might try something with...
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: - Like a choreographed dance?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: - Yeah.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Like I was like, you know, put them in such an embarrassing situation, I guess, like...
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: dance expression or something.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You know, these classes and stuff, like.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And we didn't have a long prep.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: It was like only four and a half weeks.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And, you know, normally you have, a longer prep for film like this.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And I hadn't done any soft prep or anything like that, and but they were good, they came early, you know, and I just wanted everything that would break the ice and get them in sync with each other.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You know, so we did some goofy things.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But it worked, you know,'Cause all that embarrassment kinda went.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And when you say expressive dance lessons, can you give me any description of what that was like?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: I think they had to be, like"the wind was coming" and, you know or it was raining, and like express themselves you know like, I dunno, within dance.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And then they did some more synchronized dances together as well.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You'd need ask her though,'cause I just left them with...
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: with the teacher, you know.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And that sort of broke the ice.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And also the intimate scenes.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: I filmed them in the first day, but in chronological order, so that there was kind of felt like the evolution of a relationship in one scene, you know, And there's some tenderness as well.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: There's a beautiful scene where, you know, it's just a shot, but it's a little scene where he's painting her toenails post-coital, and it's got a real beauty to it.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: That was great 'cause it broke all the ice, because sometimes when you leave those scenes later, they kind of build to something.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But I knew there was a lot of chemistry between them at first, and I think doing certain things and going through the script and talking a lot to each other and just all the trust that was there, meant we were up and running pretty quickly and they felt like a really authentic couple.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: So that was a real win for me'cause like, sometimes you don't know until people get together.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Like, there was a chemistry that made me see them as a couple rather than just the actor.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Part of this film is about how a woman's life, and also her sense of self starts to change after becoming a parent.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You know, Grace is a writer who hasn't written since having a baby.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: I wonder how, obviously, you've got a daughter yourself I wonder how becoming a parent changed your relationship to yourself and in particular yourself as an artist.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Well, you don't get much time to sleep at first.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You know, sleep deprivation is definitely a thing.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And you get someone else to consider.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Sometimes with creativity it just gets like, you know, really...
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: you hit a wall, you know, and I'll start to hoover and clean dishes and, you know, like, do anything, but do what I should be doing, you know, like.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: I think, you know, you have to be more structured.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: That definitely throws a spanner into the works.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And so you have to use your time much more productively, let's say, you know.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Yeah. And obviously her sense of self is beyond just herself as a writer.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: It's her whole identity who she is in her relationship as well.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: One thing that Jennifer said that I thought was interesting as well is that she's kind of becomes a bit invisible to him, so she's sort of trying to make herself visible, like to someone, you know, and that's-- and she feels like a caged animal within that house, and she's hitting a wall with everything.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: I mean, you don't see that aspect until the end, you know?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But she keeps mentioning she can't work, so she's hit this kind of wall creatively within a relationship, sexually within her marriage, and as a mother.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You've described Grace before as an anarchist, someone who's smashing up the world around her.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: What aspects of Grace do you see as punk or punk rock?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Well, I suppose it was, that was in my narrative.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: My narrative was like, you know, in a way that I thought...
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: she's not apologising for herself.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: She's not trying to elicit sympathy.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You know, it's like within her mind, she's totally honest and truthful about everyth-- no one really, she doesn't see herself.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Pam does, you know, the mother in law.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And I think that in order to make herself visible to him and visible to the world, you know, like she she literally goes, there's a kind of liberation of sorts in it.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You know, she literally does kind of set the world on fire, you know.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: How did you approach going beyond this sort of cinematic trope, or the stereotype of presenting a woman on the verge, because I think you do something really interesting with how you present the psychosis.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: It's not something that can be easily pathologized, and it's hard to depict that in an authentic way.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: So how are you thinking about not playing into those stereotypes and kind of doing something different?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: I think it was like for her, she's normal, she's fine.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: She doesn't see herself from the outside, and she can be really inappropriate with people and say things that we all want to say.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But you wouldn't have, you know...
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: it takes people a-back, you know?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But there's a sort of truth in it.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But in my mind is also that I think she's, because her creativity and because of, like, everything being stymied now, it's like, you know, pressure cooker about to explode.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Can you talk a little bit about why you wanted so much of the movie to play out at night, or in those kind of early hours of the morning?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: It's a dream-like quality, and you're not quite, you know, one of the things in the novel as well, or in the original material was like, you're not quite sure what's real or not, you know.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And I think that, we played it day for night, which is a, an old technique, you know, where you're shooting during the day, but you basically make it darker.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: You're looking for a certain type of light and stuff where it makes it feel very...
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: otherworldly, you know.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And I think that suited her mindset.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: So we did a lot of tests on that.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And it had a sort of beauty to it, you know, and a quality that that felt like you weren't quite on Earth.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: The story goes that that Jennifer Lawrence and her producing partner wanted you to make this film because they had got hold of the book and they said that it felt like a Lynne Ramsay movie to them.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: What do you think they meant by that?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: I've got no idea, to be honest! I don't even know the story about the Martin Scorsese's book club.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: That's where it came from.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: And then, I mean, I literally got an email saying, "We'd love you to do this." And I took my time about it'cause I still had to find my way into what it was and make sure I wasn't, you know, exploding the same territory I had in other films, you know.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: So I said-- I saw it in my own way, you know?
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: But yeah, I think you'd need to ask them that, I don't know! Lynne Ramsay.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: Die My Love is in cinemas now.
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  They're a couple who are always sparring: For tickets and showtimes, head to mubi.com/diemylove To check out more of Lynne's work, her 2011 film We Need to Talk About Kevin, starring Tilda Swinton, is playing on MUBI in the US, Canada, Ireland, the UK and many more countries.
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