Latest / The STA Clinician Podcast / Ep.268 'Neurodivergence in Healthcare - Part 1 of 4: Communication'
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- 0:00You're listening to the STA Clinician Podcast, connecting clinicians across healthcare.
- 0:16And we're live. Welcome to the newly named STA Clinician Podcast,
- 0:21formerly known for the last five years as the Sports Therapy Association Podcast.
- 0:25My name is Matt Phillips, CorellorOneShotLive.com and as always,
- 0:29this episode is being recorded live on the Sports Therapy Association YouTube
- 0:33channel and Facebook page on a Tuesday night at eight o'clock.
- 0:37So as advertised across social media, our focus topic for January,
- 0:422026 is neurodivergence in healthcare, which is going going to be a four-part
- 0:45series with the goal of providing valuable information to help soft tissue therapists
- 0:49work closer and more effectively with neurodivergent patients and clients,
- 0:54and also provide suggestions for neurodivergent therapists on how to potentially
- 0:58monitor and care for your good selves.
- 1:00In Heart One tonight, we're going to be looking at the importance of understanding
- 1:03the vital role communication can play when working with neurodivergent patients
- 1:08and clients, or indeed with a neurodivergent therapist or colleague,
- 1:11as you'll probably see later on with anybody,
- 1:13could be a family member, could be a son, daughter, anybody.
- 1:16So hopefully there'll be something there for everybody. I'm very shortly going
- 1:20to be joined by my special guests, Rosie Sexton of Alton Health and Performance,
- 1:24an osteopath, host of the Everyday Athlete cast, as well as being a pioneer
- 1:28in women's mixed martial arts, the first British woman to ever compete in the UFC.
- 1:33I pity the fall who disagrees with her tonight. And then also in the panel,
- 1:36we're going to have Cassandra Clements, founder of Heal Your Confidence,
- 1:39a level seven specific learning differences specialist who helps in particular
- 1:42late identified neurodiversion professionals.
- 1:45And finally in the panel, Benjamin Mace Crosley of Repose Injury Rehab,
- 1:49a third year BSC sports rehabilitator, as well as celebrated neurodiverse noisemaker.
- 1:54Check out We Have Ghosts on Spotify. You'll hate me for that.
- 1:57As always, if you're joining us for the live recording, do please feel free
- 2:01to ask questions and share experiences in the comments.
- 2:04Do bear in mind that episodes are recorded, so your comments will be in the
- 2:08public domain on YouTube, Facebook, and podcast platforms.
- 2:12And for that reason, if you want to ask something or share some experience,
- 2:16we'll mention again later on, there is a QR code which was advertised where you can use Slido.
- 2:22To leave a question which can be totally anonymous if you prefer that
- 2:25and then i can bring that up on the screen the panel can answer it or discuss it
- 2:28and just write on whatever experience you want
- 2:31to share really appreciate you seeing so many of you in the house today a great
- 2:34chance for you to either sit back and listen and absorb it all or if you do
- 2:38wish then leave some comments or just share some thoughts in the comments section
- 2:42we'd love to hear from you let's bring up the panel for this first episode part
- 2:46one of our focus focus on neurodivergence in health care.
- 2:54Hey everybody how are you doing i was
- 2:58getting conscious as i'm sure you'll appreciate just rambling on
- 3:01and on and hearing my own voice and thinking oh my god shoot me stop talking
- 3:05now but you're here and i really appreciate you giving us your time we're having
- 3:09a slight chortle won't we last week or a few days ago about the the irony of
- 3:15a collection of neurodivergent people trying to work together to prepare an
- 3:18episode on neurodivergence.
- 3:21The noun is for a group of neurodivergent people. If anyone's ingestions, then... Oh, it's true.
- 3:27Keep it clean. You know what? If anyone knows the answer to that,
- 3:30I think it would be Cassandra Clemens. Cassandra Clemens, what's a collective
- 3:32word? Is it a whoop or a pod?
- 3:34Or what have we got for a group of neurodivergent people?
- 3:38I think it can be whatever you like it be. Classic answer. Classic Cassandra
- 3:43Clemens answer. Whatever you want it to be.
- 3:45Lovely. It'd be like a gosling or something like that, like a,
- 3:49almost similar to a group of geese.
- 3:52That'd be quite nice. Yeah. Yeah, I can see that.
- 3:56So that listeners can get used to your voices, because this is going to be a
- 4:00podcast, obviously, maybe we could go around the circle and give a brief summary.
- 4:05I know that's tricky, but a brief summary of who you are, where you are in the
- 4:07country, and what you do. So maybe, Rosie, would you like to start?
- 4:12Okay. So I'm Rosie Sexton. I am an osteopath.
- 4:16I work in Solihull. I've got my own small clinic. Here I am.
- 4:22And I've been an osteopath for 15 years now. Crikey, it sounds like a long time, I'd put it that way.
- 4:30My history with neurodivergence is that I've always known that I'm a bit weird.
- 4:36I didn't really have a word for that until I think it was 2021 or 22 when I
- 4:45started doing a bit of reading around autism in particular and neurodivergence more generally.
- 4:50And a few things started to click into place. and I'd
- 4:55run into a whole bunch of issues with this
- 4:59was sort of post-covid coming out of the back end of the pandemic and
- 5:02I hit burnout quite hard and that was where I started looking for some answers
- 5:08and that's kind of taken me down down this path and yeah it's been a it's been
- 5:14an interesting journey and it's really affected how how I understand myself
- 5:19but also how I work with clients and how I treat people.
- 5:22So that's something that I am excited to talk about tonight.
- 5:27Excellent. That was so succinct. I feel very proud of yourself.
- 5:31That was wonderfully done. Amazing. That's great. Thank you for that.
- 5:33I really appreciate your time, Rosie.
- 5:34Let's move around to Cassandra Clemens. Would you be so kind as to give a little
- 5:38summary of who you are and where you are? Yes, I'm in the Southwest.
- 5:42I've worked for the past 20 years with New Year Direction students and ATLs
- 5:48and decided I would start a company,
- 5:51which particularly is interested in supporting adults,
- 5:56neurodivergent adults, to really understand their neurodivergence,
- 6:00because very often we are labelled, we are put in different drawers and tightly
- 6:06sealed, and it's not like that at all.
- 6:08But also, if we really understand our neurodivergence and also what that really means,
- 6:16because it's very individual and it's also quite complex because we have grown
- 6:24up in a difficult world for us.
- 6:26The lift experience, as Rosie already said, a lot of us will come across burnout
- 6:32and some of us in a very, very strong way.
- 6:35I had two very major burnouts.
- 6:38And the lovely thing is once we understand ourselves, we can have so much restoration so quickly.
- 6:44So I myself, I would say, rather than being a bit weird, I've been completely
- 6:50crazy for many of my life,
- 6:54totally standing next to myself instead of being myself, until I realized quite
- 6:59late that I'm very, very multiple neurodivergent.
- 7:03And i have to deal with that every day but
- 7:06it's a wonderful thing that nobody i meet
- 7:10has to explain much to me because i understand
- 7:13what it's all about and that is a big relief you
- 7:16know when we just understand each other really i think so that's
- 7:19me that all is that okay mark that's amazing thanks so much yeah thank you and
- 7:24double thank you for for joining us this evening when you're not actually in
- 7:28england you've gone abroad and you so yeah double thank you for the efforts
- 7:32you've mate to join us tonight which brings us around to benjamin ben mace crossley how you doing,
- 7:38i'm very good thank you yes similar story actually weirdly enough.
- 7:44A few major burnouts i used
- 7:47to class them as breakdowns or
- 7:50glitches in the matrix just when i mean
- 7:54the main one was over 2018 to 2019 i was under so much stress and pressure in
- 8:00a as an operational manager and implementation manager for a company and just
- 8:07way too many plates to spin And then we'd just moved over to a new area.
- 8:13So we'd lost our sort of support network, did me and my now wife.
- 8:18And then we found ourselves pregnant as well. So it was just a huge,
- 8:24massive, just explosion of just a different world.
- 8:27And then you just, you almost, it was
- 8:30the realization of I was falling
- 8:33apart because I'd lost control of
- 8:35how I was managing where I was
- 8:38going with my life my own expectations and
- 8:42similar always being an oddball
- 8:45should we say rather creative and
- 8:48stuff and a man of a man of my own mind I yeah
- 8:52in 2019 after a the big
- 8:55blip I went and sought some
- 8:59answers and was diagnosed with ADHD it's
- 9:03now suspected ASD as well I had
- 9:06a strange little incident with
- 9:09with a provider which is still ongoing but it's
- 9:13looking like everything's going to be turned around if not a second opinion
- 9:15with a new provider that's using a more modern approach should I say a less
- 9:19conservative approach so yeah there you are and a soft tissue therapist throughout
- 9:23that time and then now I'm back at university back at university my first time
- 9:27ever at university at 39 years old just doing my final year in injury rehab
- 9:32sports injury rehab at Wrexham University.
- 9:35There we go fantastic thank you so much and
- 9:38again appreciate your time and your honesty and and it's just
- 9:41all of you i'll try not to say this too many times but
- 9:44it's just so i'm thinking for listeners it must be really really empowering
- 9:48to hear such honesty and if you are affected by tonight and you need to chat
- 9:52then contact us we can direct you towards suggestions don't give a shout out
- 9:58for you cassandra for your wednesdays that's a perfect place to start i would
- 10:01say for my own experience,
- 10:04Yeah, Wednesday lunchtime meeting for any professional who wants to just start,
- 10:09seek some support, be with other weird people.
- 10:16However, we only start in two weeks again because I'm still out of the country. Yeah.
- 10:23Okay. That's great. I'll only say Cassandra because I've been there myself and yeah, it's lovely.
- 10:27It's amazing. It's great for me anyway, but it's definitely somewhere to stay.
- 10:29And like all of these things, which should be the case is if you just want to
- 10:32go along and sit back and just listen and even just keep the cam off and just,
- 10:36you know, it's nice for you to put your cam on just for the other people in
- 10:40the room, but it's just a totally relaxed place just to say,
- 10:42oh, this could be interesting. This could help.
- 10:44So yes, if anything affects you and you've got anything, then do make sure you
- 10:48do reach out to somebody.
- 10:49If you're really not sure who to reach out to you then contact matt at
- 10:52the sta.co.uk or gary as
- 10:55well gary benson who's in the house today as well we'll put some links in
- 10:58the show notes just make sure if you are affected then don't just
- 11:01swallow it up and try and move on just contact somebody with that
- 11:04in mind you'll notice that down here tonight because
- 11:07of the topic i think that's pointing towards the qr code
- 11:10quite magically hope and there is a qr code and i mentioned it
- 11:13earlier on if you do want to ask a question or share an experience but
- 11:16you're not too keen on your name being in
- 11:19the annals of youtube and facebook forever and on
- 11:22being and being watched by 2 000 people this month then you can
- 11:25you can click on that we're not clicking it you can scan
- 11:28that that's the 2026 word you can scan that qr
- 11:31code and it will take you to a slido page where you can ask question or just
- 11:34leave a comment or just share something anonymously um if that would help you
- 11:38in tonight's show otherwise there's also a link in the notes or you if you want
- 11:42to say your name up and you're not worried about that then bring it up in the
- 11:45comments and it'll come up but bear in mind that if you do that, everyone will see it.
- 11:49So just in case it's something sensitive, then just think about it before you
- 11:52put it into the comments and feel free to use that Slido.
- 11:55For example, just give you an idea then.
- 11:58If I bring this over to, let's go along to that then.
- 12:02If somebody did use the Slido question, then what would happen would,
- 12:06for example, be, if you did use the Slido link, then I would read it at my end.
- 12:10And what I could do, I could paste it in here.
- 12:12And it would just come up at Anonymous at my end. For example,
- 12:14here, we've got an example.
- 12:15Anonymous says, loving this show so far. Thank you very much,
- 12:17Anonymous person. It's always nice to start off with a tick,
- 12:20tick, and then a wish. What are the other episodes happening this month?
- 12:22Funny you should ask that, Mr. or Mrs. or whoever it is, Anonymous.
- 12:26Today's communication next week is going to be
- 12:28on hypermobility which i know a few people he's
- 12:31actually in here and jessica's in here as well that's gonna be with bonnie southgate
- 12:34founder of movement anatomy essentials.co.uk and also
- 12:37msk advisor at seds connective and jessica jannerman advanced clinical massage
- 12:41therapist at ease therapies and rosie's coming back as well for more hopefully
- 12:44if we don't kind of like overwork her today but i'm sure that would be really
- 12:48exciting as well and then the week after on july the 20th we're going to have
- 12:52the topics going to Barriers with special guest James Dewar Haggart,
- 12:56founder of Strong Path, new inclusive and mental health informed sports coaching.
- 13:00And then also with James is going to be the wonderful Leslie Campbell,
- 13:04superb massage therapist at Leslie Campbell Massage.
- 13:07And then finally, in part four, the topic is going to be the Divergent Therapist.
- 13:11This is on January the 27th at eight o'clock on YouTube or Facebook with special guest Sarah Mihag.
- 13:17That is the pronunciation, isn't it? I've never asked Sarah.
- 13:19Is it Mihag? Is that good, Rosie?
- 13:21Oh, I'll just put you on the spot. We'll delete that from the podcast.
- 13:26With Sarah Mihag, I'll just delete, which is not good.
- 13:29Occupational therapist, a neurodivergent accessibility and inclusion consultant
- 13:32at Moodlifter, and also Neuroflect UK with Rosie.
- 13:37And also Cassandra Clemens is going to be back in part four with Benjamin Mason-Crosley,
- 13:41who are here with us today.
- 13:43So, yeah, a whole month. And that's how we're going to be rolling on the STA clinician podcast.
- 13:48We'll keep the focus on one topic each month in February. We've already lined
- 13:52up some fantastic speakers on the topic of pain, which is an important one.
- 13:56With so much, I don't know, it depends where you hang out, but there's a lot
- 13:59of debate going at the moment.
- 14:01Does pain need the brain? Is it all about nociception? And there's a lot of
- 14:05things flying around and papers coming out. So we're going to have some fantastic guests.
- 14:08For example, Dr. Rachel Zofniss, who's going to be joining us for one of them.
- 14:12We're also going to have, oh, I'm not going to, I'll leave a hook in there.
- 14:14It's going to be a fantastic month. So that's in February.
- 14:17Right then. Actually, if I can jump in there, actually, that's a really good link in.
- 14:21Because I think there are some really interesting differences in when we're
- 14:28talking about neurodivergence and how neurodivergent people perceive pain differently.
- 14:34Different in a range of different ways and
- 14:38also not only
- 14:41is the experience different but obviously that then means that they're
- 14:44going to communicate about it differently and it
- 14:47might come across differently when they're experiencing it
- 14:50so I think when we start talking about pain and
- 14:52how pain works it's always worth bearing in
- 14:55mind that there is a very different pain experiences
- 14:59there is no one singular pain experience that applies
- 15:02to everyone and I think this is the core of one of the things that I want to
- 15:07talk about tonight is that actually when we're talking about communication and
- 15:11particularly when we talk about communication about pain which is one of the
- 15:14things we do a lot in our line of work that can look often very different when we're working with,
- 15:22neurodivergent people and actually being
- 15:25aware of some of the ways in which that can be different I
- 15:29think makes us better at talking about pain generally with everyone because
- 15:33when we talk about neurodivergence we often like to think about particular categories
- 15:38of neurodivergence and particular conditions that people might be diagnosed
- 15:41with so we've got you know the ADHD is over there and we've got the autistic
- 15:46people over there and we might have people with dyspraxia or you know.
- 15:51A range of other things. But actually, when we talk about neurodegenerative.
- 15:57We all have different ways of interacting with and perceiving the world around us.
- 16:02And while some people are reasonably close to something that we might vaguely refer to as normal,
- 16:12although normal doesn't actually exist in a meaningful sense,
- 16:16but a lot of people have similar kinds of experience, broadly speaking,
- 16:21we do have these outliers.
- 16:24And in some respects, again, we can put labels on that.
- 16:29But actually, I think the concept is much more general than that.
- 16:32And when we start thinking about this, the more you dig into it,
- 16:35the more you realise that there's probably a lot of stuff going on that we don't
- 16:38have good language for at the moment, which again, I think is one of the things
- 16:42that we'll come back to maybe later in this session.
- 16:47Hell no. Let's do it now. Let's do face-to-face again. That's a great segue.
- 16:51Yeah, the topic of pain. Because at the end of the day, healthcare normally
- 16:55is about somebody who's got some kind of pain going on. That's why they come see us.
- 16:57So could you expand a little bit, Rosie, as you started that off?
- 17:00Can you give us some examples, maybe in your own experience or something you've
- 17:03heard of where the pain experience is different and it's connected to a neurodivergency?
- 17:08Yeah, so there's some interesting research on this. Back in the bad old days,
- 17:12people used to assume that autistic people didn't really feel pain in the same
- 17:16way that neurotypical people did.
- 17:19And actually, a lot of really awful things happened because there was this assumption
- 17:23made that they weren't experiencing pain.
- 17:26And a lot of that is actually down to how people were communicating pain.
- 17:30And even going right up to date now, I hear from a lot of neurodivergent people
- 17:36who have been told at some point,
- 17:37they've either been disbelieved by a medical professional they've
- 17:40had their pain dismissed because they've had somebody say to
- 17:43them oh it doesn't really look like you're in pain or you don't you
- 17:46know being in pain because they're not communicating it
- 17:49necessarily in the way that that health professional is expecting or they're
- 17:53not describing symptoms in the way that the health professional is expecting
- 17:57and because of that they can often end up with that being dismissed and actually
- 18:03some really serious health conditions being missed. And I see this a lot.
- 18:06It's a very familiar story amongst neurodivergent people, and maybe some of
- 18:10our listeners can identify with that.
- 18:13But I think...
- 18:16What we now start to understand is that actually, it's not that neurodivergent
- 18:21people perceive pain more or less than anyone else.
- 18:24It's just that it's different and it can be different in different circumstances as well.
- 18:29You know, some people have maybe have less pain in certain situations,
- 18:36but more in others, for example.
- 18:38And one of the things that I come across when I work with neurodivergent clients,
- 18:42And it turns out that I've got a lot of neurodivergent, not through anything
- 18:46deliberate that I've done, but I think somehow we sort of find each other.
- 18:50But one of the things that I have found is that neurodivergent people often
- 18:54will describe their symptoms in a slightly atypical way, or they might not be
- 19:02the way that we're used to hearing them described.
- 19:06And i think again going back to the thing of it it's very easy for health professionals,
- 19:11well that sounds a bit weird and it sort of gets dismissed or you know pushed
- 19:16to one side the example that i really like actually is i had a patient he came
- 19:20in and he started out by saying,
- 19:23Well, it kind of feels like my shoulder blade. It doesn't feel right.
- 19:26It sort of feels out of place. I was like, okay, well, that's interesting.
- 19:31Where's the pain? And he was going, well, it's not painful exactly,
- 19:36but it feels really uncomfortable. And it feels like my shoulder, it's not engaging.
- 19:41We had to dig into this quite a lot because the way he was describing it sounded quite unusual.
- 19:47And I wasn't quite sure where he was going with that. but we
- 19:50did some testing and I had
- 19:53a feel of how the muscles were and how things were moving
- 19:55and so that and we we explored it a
- 19:58little bit and actually over the course of a few sessions we
- 20:01started to unpick this and it turned
- 20:04out that actually what he had was almost certainly
- 20:08a rotator cuff tendon problem but he
- 20:11was describing it in such a different way from how we
- 20:14might usually hear that that it
- 20:17would have been very easy to kind of go it doesn't really sound like you've
- 20:20got a problem there but it clearly it was clear to me
- 20:23that there was a problem because he was very concerned about this but
- 20:28i think the the interesting thing was we had to go and investigate that and
- 20:32i had to try and figure out what his language what that meant in a sense i and
- 20:40i think This is something that actually we need to do with all our patients,
- 20:44but it's just more obvious in some cases than others.
- 20:47Because when people talk about pain, when we think about it,
- 20:50we all mean slightly different things.
- 20:52You know, if I say, oh, my back hurts, that could be one of a whole bunch of
- 20:57different, you know, it could be, maybe I was doing deadlifts yesterday and it's a bit aching.
- 21:02Or, you know, maybe actually I've pulled something and it's really acutely painful. or.
- 21:10Maybe I've got a medical condition and, you know, this is something else.
- 21:14So it could be a whole range of things.
- 21:17But we use a similar language for this. And sometimes you have to break that
- 21:21down and go, well, actually, what does that look like?
- 21:24Can we together work on making that more specific? And it's very common.
- 21:30One of the things that I notice, and I'll just finish on this point so other people can jump in.
- 21:35But one of the things that I notice is that I spend a lot of time talking to
- 21:40people about symptoms and about pain but when I start trying to talk about my
- 21:43own symptoms and my own pain,
- 21:46I am really bad at that and people don't expect me to be bad at it again because
- 21:52of what I do and because when I'm talking about other people's emotions I well
- 21:57I like to think that I sound like I know what I'm talking about.
- 22:01I sound like, you know, people have said that I'm reasonably articulate.
- 22:05But as soon as it comes to, I'm trying to describe what this thing is that's
- 22:11going on in my body, because I then have to translate something which is quite vague and amorphous,
- 22:20into language, verbal language that.
- 22:25A bit unfamiliar these two things don't feel like they
- 22:28they quite match up and trying
- 22:32to make that translation is really difficult and i noticed
- 22:35this i was um one of the physiotherapists who
- 22:38i work with he was doing a little bit of work on me at one
- 22:41point and he was asking me questions and sort of saying well how
- 22:43does that feel and i was kind of going well it's not
- 22:47really painful it's just it's a bit uncomfortable i suppose but it's
- 22:49kind of and he was getting you're really bad at this it's like
- 22:53i sometimes talk to patients who aren't good at explaining their
- 22:55symptoms but you're really bad you're the worst it was
- 22:59like well yeah yeah yeah i know but you're surprised by this i think that's
- 23:05one of the things is that it's not about how articulate somebody is or and again
- 23:12i know that there are sort of overlaps
- 23:15with other conditions and learning difficulties and things like that.
- 23:18But it isn't even to do with that necessarily. Sometimes it's just that the
- 23:24signals that we're getting are not easily translated into language because our
- 23:29experience of it is quite different from other people's.
- 23:33And language relies on having that common framework that we all understand.
- 23:38And if you don't share enough of that experience, it can be very hard to find
- 23:44a common language that makes sense to you both. Thank you.
- 23:48So that felt like a lot of ideas that I've kind of just brought and dumped in the middle of the room.
- 23:53Oh, that's great. There was lots of nods happening from Cassandra and Ben.
- 23:58Ben, you were nodding quite violently and typing stuff away.
- 24:00What reflections have you got from that? I've got things. I've got things.
- 24:06Okay. So, yeah, I completely agree.
- 24:09And in many cases, it's not so much the words being said,
- 24:15But the tone words can be spoken in as well that can sort of interfere with
- 24:23the communication that's going on.
- 24:26And neurodiverse people themselves can be so, you know, things can get so abrupted
- 24:33with their inner sort of calculations and turmoil of how they're negotiating
- 24:38the conversation if someone comes in at them too hot.
- 24:41Or you know or maybe in a tone that
- 24:44there's some sort of trauma that's hidden behind because someone spoke
- 24:47to me in a similar sort of tone before and then suddenly just
- 24:50highlights something and the alarm bells start in and
- 24:53then we're in the state of fight and flight and you
- 24:57know then hey and then as we know as well from this then
- 25:00pain actually starts magnitude and even
- 25:02more when we're in these states of fight and flight so it
- 25:05is a really interesting subject and especially just
- 25:08like even for myself like if I'm talking to someone I could
- 25:11just be walking around the house and I'll be having a conversation
- 25:15with myself like always always talking to myself sometimes it's verbally as
- 25:20well depending how many people's around I don't want to look you know completely
- 25:23mental but you know it's behind closed doors but then I could be having like
- 25:28a conversation going on my head
- 25:29I've got to a certain point of it and I'll just turn to my wife I'm like.
- 25:33So the thing in the corner, I think we'll sort that out on a Saturday.
- 25:38And then she's just like, right, what's he going on around? She has to take a minute.
- 25:42What was going on? Where's he been? Where's he been in the house?
- 25:46And she's trying to then juggle back to the half point of the sentence because
- 25:50I've just come halfway through the story and expecting her to catch up where
- 25:55I am at. But, you know, she's just watching Traitors.
- 25:59It's two times you've plugged Traitors now.
- 26:03I'm sorry this is a really bad habit of mine do you mind if i just quickly jump yeah yeah yeah,
- 26:08there's that just reminds me of a really useful thing
- 26:11actually because when we're talking to patients and we may be taking a case
- 26:14history or getting them to explain what's been going on this
- 26:18is something that i think often neurodivergent people
- 26:20will really struggle with is to give you a clear uh
- 26:24sort of step-by-step history of where this
- 26:27has come from because we tend to have these trends of
- 26:30thought where we kind of go oh we're doing this and then we off go
- 26:33off down a mad rabbit hole and before you know it
- 26:35you're what the thing was that you were doing that
- 26:38before you got to the point where you then did this
- 26:42thing where you then felt something in that shoulder and there's
- 26:44this whole big long yeah yeah yeah before
- 26:48you get there and somehow
- 26:51i know you know i think
- 26:54neurotypical people expect that they can kind of just summarize that was amazing
- 27:00it was beautiful just as you came to your main points that was if this is the
- 27:05podcast you're missing out there go to youtube now that's very dramatic keep
- 27:11going sorry it was very cool.
- 27:14Oh god i hope it's behaving it's good okay but yes so so yes you are distracted now um sorry.
- 27:25That's all right see this is what happens you then end
- 27:28up down another rabbit hole thinking about something completely different but
- 27:32i think that's that's part of the problem is that then being able to
- 27:34condense that down to because a doctor you know if you
- 27:37go and see a gp for example you've got what is it seven
- 27:40minutes and you've got to get your story down to something that you can
- 27:43get across and you know answer questions
- 27:47and all of those things and pick out all the relevant details and
- 27:50not the irrelevant ones in that length of time and
- 27:53for a lot of us that's really hard because sometimes
- 27:57there's so many details and everything feels relevant it's like
- 28:00well how do we condense this down to but actually
- 28:04when i've talked to you i've got neurodivergent doctor
- 28:07friends and they say the same it's like they they
- 28:11can do it when they're doing it as a doctor because that's
- 28:14what they've been trained in but actually doing it as a patient they
- 28:17still struggle with yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah it's what you're exposed to isn't
- 28:21it and then if they're doing it as a as a doctor they're learning that sort
- 28:24of almost like a script to follow and what they need to tick off and you know
- 28:29they can oh actually i've not i've not touched on this it is it's always kind
- 28:32of ticking around in the back of the head, isn't it?
- 28:35There's another one which I wanted to catch up on then is when we were talking
- 28:41about pain, pain within neurodiversity.
- 28:44And that is so interesting because, you know, we are,
- 28:50people can be hypersensitive, people can be hypersensitive, but you know,
- 28:54there's also a huge study, I think it was in 2024, Systematic Review meta-analysis on.
- 29:04Interception and how the brain senses the body which i believe anna maria is
- 29:08going down this rabbit hole with a phd isn't she so yeah like you know having
- 29:14the altered awareness of of,
- 29:16of your body and and then not and then trying to negotiate how to explain that
- 29:22to somebody you know they's what it's yeah it's it's no surprise that we we're
- 29:27highly misunderstood And then especially when we're trying to be so,
- 29:29so literal about it and then struggling to actually find the words because it's
- 29:35so obscure and so almost like an alien feeling, but such is like manatees in it.
- 29:41But like, he's just so unfamiliar. Like if you happen, like these sort of,
- 29:45I don't want to say out of body experiences because, you know,
- 29:48we don't want to end up going down,
- 29:50you know, kind of sort of XB, like not, not floating outside of your body search,
- 29:55but just that disconnection of.
- 29:58You know, your central nervous system and your conscious and the vessel that
- 30:03you are, you know, controlling as such.
- 30:07Yeah, it's great. No, really good. I'm interested, Cassandra,
- 30:11because obviously you, you're not in the healthcare in the sense that you have
- 30:14people with MSK issues coming to see you, but does any of this relate to you
- 30:19as somebody who sees an awful lot of neurodivergent professionals,
- 30:22particularly late identified,
- 30:24this kind of disconnect with not having the same experiences when it comes to
- 30:28communicating with other people because they find it difficult to put words
- 30:31to their feelings yeah i mean we hear that all the time i run these monthly
- 30:36events on thursday night last thursday of the month on various issues and,
- 30:43that that disconnect or that being differently
- 30:46connected with ourselves is is
- 30:49always the big theme and because trauma
- 30:53is so often part of our experience
- 30:57either because it's accumulated we are different people
- 31:00don't understand us we are supposed to fit in when we really don't fit in and
- 31:06we have to somehow find a way around it but also because a lot of neurodivergent
- 31:10people come from neurodivergent families and very often the parents are not
- 31:13aware of the neurodivergent and they're struggling and there's a lot of shame,
- 31:17a lot of guilt going on, a lot of it's all the child,
- 31:21you know, so all these kind of things going on.
- 31:24But what was really interesting when I heard you speak, Rosie, is because I'm,
- 31:29One of the big bugbears that I have is the poster in my surgery's office saying,
- 31:35you have got 10 minutes and you're not allowed to talk about more than once.
- 31:39And that seems to be so ridiculous in the first place for a doctor, right?
- 31:45But also, it's like, okay, I just turn around and go out again.
- 31:49Because, I mean, what do I do with that, right? And this describing of what
- 31:57I feel is such an interesting thing as well.
- 32:00Exactly like you said, how do you describe this?
- 32:03There are so many layers to that.
- 32:06And it's like partly you see, you try to figure out what you know about your body,
- 32:13how it feels, the emotions that have to do with that, what other people have
- 32:18said, you experienced before, what you're trying to get out of this,
- 32:23and you felt differently yesterday than you feel today.
- 32:26What does that mean? How do you explain that?
- 32:29And usually I get the same reaction. It's like, what on earth are you talking about?
- 32:34What is it that actually hurts or not hurts?
- 32:37It's like, well, yeah, it hurt me all of last week. It doesn't hurt me now, but it's still there.
- 32:42So what on earth is going on? Explain it.
- 32:46And it just needs a lot of time.
- 32:49You cannot expect anybody who thinks like that in so many different facets and
- 32:57feels in so many different facets to tell you in five minutes succinctly the timeline,
- 33:03what is going on, where it is, how it feels.
- 33:07And also when I explain what it feels like, I usually get stares Because,
- 33:13like you said, there must be a kind of breaking down of how we understand language.
- 33:23And I think we are using much more of a, I don't know, a...
- 33:31A freer way of explaining things, you know?
- 33:34And I wonder how people have learned to explain things, which is a normal explanation.
- 33:42I mean, how did that happen? Do they feel different?
- 33:45Do they, you know, where was I when they learned how to explain something?
- 33:51Yeah, no, it's definitely very widespread. And that disconnect is a big problem
- 33:56because not only do you feel,
- 33:59differently, explain it differently, but actually you also know that you are
- 34:04not connected with it. It's very uncomfortable.
- 34:07And it's nearly like, well, I'm here for you to give me an idea what's going on here.
- 34:12And of course, mostly therapists don't feel that that is what they are here.
- 34:17They're here to do whatever needs to be done for this particular thing.
- 34:22So it's nearly like a double whammy you know
- 34:24when people come along i guess not just the
- 34:28the the communication as that's but the expectations as well yeah and i think
- 34:34that's i mean so much of what you said sounds familiar there in that i think
- 34:39this is something that so many of us and i i hear this from people i speak to
- 34:44as well and often this is a prelude to explaining you know how.
- 34:49Some health professional dismissed their experience and told them there was
- 34:54nothing wrong or the old one, it's all in your head.
- 34:58I had a patient recently, she's a neurodivergent,
- 35:05and she'd been to see a rheumatologist and the rheumatologist had told her this
- 35:09pain that she was getting was all in her head and she was obviously really upset
- 35:16by this after waiting so long for that appointment.
- 35:19Anyway, I saw her, we did some ultrasound scans. It was very obviously,
- 35:25you know, I'm not a rheumatologist, but this was Bond or rheumatoid arthritis.
- 35:29So I sent it to a different rheumatologist and he agreed that yes,
- 35:35this is Bond or rheumatoid arthritis.
- 35:37But something about the way that that communication happened,
- 35:40and I have some thoughts as to what that might have been, again,
- 35:44having talked to this patient, if you aren't aware of the way that neurodivergent people often present,
- 35:51it's the kind of mistake that I'm not going to say is easy to make because I
- 35:55think that sounds like I'm using something that I don't think is excusable.
- 36:00But I can see how it happens. And I think this is where actually we need all
- 36:05health professionals to have a much better understanding of how neurodivergent
- 36:11people experience things differently.
- 36:14Because, as you say, it's so common, not only to get that sort of look of,
- 36:21I don't know what you're going on, but also that complete lack of understanding.
- 36:26I don't understand why you're finding this difficult. you know
- 36:29that that sort of and
- 36:33that can work both ways as well because i've been on both sides
- 36:36of that yeah yeah and as
- 36:40i say you know i've been on the other on the receiving end of that and
- 36:44it's just so you know it's the one
- 36:46thing that's guaranteed to absolutely make me feel awful about
- 36:49myself yeah you just feel so sort of small and
- 36:52dismissed and you know it's like i'm wasting this person's time
- 36:56and again I think that is something you know
- 36:58there there's a whole heap of medical trauma
- 37:02that neurodivergent people experience as as
- 37:05standard almost as they go through life and this is something that again I've
- 37:09become increasingly aware of and I think you know I've done a lot of unpacking
- 37:14of some of that and some of this adds to why I do what I do and you know why
- 37:19I think what I do is important.
- 37:22Because again, it's not just for the patient.
- 37:26Diagnosis because we know that most people out there
- 37:28who are neurodivergent do not have a diagnosis and they
- 37:31may not even realize that they're neurodivergent
- 37:35but they still have health care needs and they may
- 37:37still be experiencing pain in fact they're probably more likely to
- 37:40be experiencing chronic pain conditions we know statistically speaking and
- 37:44these are often the people who will end up being battered
- 37:48from one health care professional to another who end
- 37:50up being dismissed who end up you know with some
- 37:54awful experiences and not knowing where to go
- 37:56with them and this is something i've become really
- 37:59passionate about and it's again one
- 38:02of the reasons that i think podcasts like
- 38:05this are important and also i'm happy to see sarah is on later in the in the
- 38:11series but i'm doing some work with her on putting some training together for
- 38:15health care professionals working with neurodivergent people because i know
- 38:19there's some training out there and And I know things like the Oliver McGowan
- 38:22training is a great step forward.
- 38:25But I don't think it's enough in terms of understanding some of these factors
- 38:29and some of the reasons why so many neurodivergent people get really poor outcomes.
- 38:37Right, good segue, because I want to get some tips. I mean, believe it or not,
- 38:41we've been talking for 45 minutes
- 38:43and it's all been very valuable and I really appreciate all of you.
- 38:46I mean, it's a great opening episode because it really is such honesty and sharing
- 38:50of experience of your own and with clients is brilliant and it'll set the scene
- 38:53for the next three episodes.
- 38:54But I'm wondering if the next 15 minutes, we could look at some tips as to how
- 39:00to make sure what we've described to reduce the chances of it happening.
- 39:03And I'm interested whether it's different than how, in theory,
- 39:05we should be talking with any patient or client.
- 39:08I mean, there is diagnostic overshadowing of so many populations with women,
- 39:11with physical disability. And we've had brilliant people. Alistair Beverley
- 39:14on the show has highlighted that.
- 39:16What are some, have a little think while I'm just finishing off this sentence,
- 39:19but what are some kind of top tips for Google rankings of how to make sure you
- 39:23don't make the same mistakes that other healthcare professionals who might have
- 39:26the best intentions in the world,
- 39:28whether they're a GP and they're trying to fit in 10 minutes,
- 39:30what are some of the things we could be doing the listener as therapists in
- 39:33order to not make these same mistakes?
- 39:37Cassandra, what do you think? Go on, let's go first. Sorry, Ben.
- 39:40I'm saving you for the finale. You're the finale, mate. Obviously, you're the last act.
- 39:44These are the warm-up acts. You're the last act. Yeah, yeah,
- 39:46yeah, yeah. yeah go for excited what do you think i mean you've been at the
- 39:50receiving end a lot with gps and things what do you wish that therapists could
- 39:55do especially easy things which would just make life so much easier.
- 39:59Well, I think if it was me, I would really like to be asked how it affects me
- 40:04more than anything else.
- 40:07How does it affect you? Because everything else isn't that very important.
- 40:12I'm actually here. I might have been waiting for an appointment for ages.
- 40:18If I make an effort to speak to anybody about anything, there is a good reason.
- 40:23You know and and i think we very often come for to into communications with important others.
- 40:32In a way that just is it's not contusive to
- 40:35how it impacts okay so
- 40:39that's a really good question so rather than going how's your knee how's your back how's
- 40:41your ankle it's how is this affecting you so more holistic asking
- 40:45about how it's affecting you and your environment which isn't something
- 40:48we're taught is it unfortunately in traditional kind of
- 40:51health care is it that's the god no but it should be the first
- 40:53question one of the things that i always is actually
- 40:57whoever you're dealing with you're a divergent you're a typical whatever
- 41:00actually that's a really important question is how
- 41:03does this affect you and i think that is
- 41:07you know when i work with students or new graduates this
- 41:10is one of the things who says actually what i'm
- 41:14interested in how is this affecting your life what is it you want to be
- 41:16able to do that you're struggling with or you know what impact
- 41:20is this having because again the same condition
- 41:23will affect two different people completely differently brilliant go
- 41:27on cassandra give me another one quick before we let rosie rosie and
- 41:30ben off off their leashes give me another thing because that was
- 41:33a perfect you saw how rosie jumped through the screen at that one so give us
- 41:36another thing that you wish i mean that's such a great gold solution for a lot
- 41:42of people just what else i wish i wish people would actually learn that the
- 41:47most important thing is that you are really giving a moment of proper listening.
- 41:53And not of immediately jumping in, I want to get this over with,
- 41:58the kind of friendliness as well.
- 42:00You know, I saw a physiotherapist the other day, and I mean,
- 42:04he said my name, then he turned around and walked in front of me all the way
- 42:10down a long hallway into his room, and only then did he turn around and keep the door open for me.
- 42:17And it felt like I just don't want to be here at all,
- 42:21because that is he isn't interested
- 42:24what do i what do i say you know i'm supposed
- 42:27to sit down on the chair and then i tell him what it's all about
- 42:30it it it feels so alien okay
- 42:34so now we're looking at just because again i like to he might just be an ass
- 42:38but i like to think that potentially he didn't realize the consequences of his
- 42:42action so what do you think he should have done again a simple thing which would
- 42:46have avoided that kind of sensation feeling that he was just ignoring you and
- 42:50treating you like another...
- 42:51You have to use that. You have to look at someone.
- 42:54You know, I mean, whether you give them your hand or not, it's very personal.
- 42:57Some people don't like to do that,
- 42:59especially since COVID, you know, people don't want to do that anymore,
- 43:02but you have to make somehow a connection with that person, you know,
- 43:06maybe say their name a bit more softly rather than just saying,
- 43:11you know, our next one, you know.
- 43:14Even if it's just that or just a kind of softness, you know,
- 43:18a little bit of soft. Yeah, I'm here.
- 43:20You have come to me. You've probably waited. You have got a good reason why you are coming to me.
- 43:26I'm here, you know, or even something like it's
- 43:28been a very long day i'm a bit tired please don't worry
- 43:31if i seem a little bit spaced out i want to
- 43:34listen to you something that makes a connection perfect
- 43:37and we've got to change this idea and this is something which we're we're all
- 43:41i think we're all on our boat to do is get rid of this idea of soft skills we've
- 43:44got to get rid of that term because it's not they're not soft skills at all
- 43:47they're the most important kind of foundation to bottom the pyramid thing they're
- 43:50they set everything else up down there brilliant okay right thank you for those
- 43:54because i'm just Just brilliant, both of them are exactly,
- 43:57okay, who shall I unleash? Ben, let's unleash you. Go for it.
- 43:59Yes, okay. So for me, it's don't assume or presume anything.
- 44:06Don't well your, if you feel as a clinician that you are explaining something
- 44:11well in your own terminology to somebody,
- 44:14don't assume because the person in front of you has nodded along that they grasp
- 44:20what it is that you are saying.
- 44:22A lot of the time neurodivisive people are nodding
- 44:25along despite whether they understand you
- 44:29or not because they are just because they're just frightened of
- 44:32speaking up and they're they're desperately trying to clutch on to the word
- 44:36you are saying and trying to interpret it to what that means to them a lot of
- 44:42the time idioms jargon talk or just going off of a vibe it doesn't work with,
- 44:52neurodiverse people we kind of have our own idioms and our own.
- 44:58Nuances between ourselves that are even quite difficult to navigate between
- 45:04ourselves as well because, you know, we are always trying to,
- 45:07everything that we're doing is from a learned experience.
- 45:10And, you know, if we've learned that being in this scenario is going to end
- 45:15in a negative way, then our backs and our anxiety is going to be up.
- 45:19So maybe not our backs as such, but, you know, we're going to be really,
- 45:23really coy and putting ourselves out there, just even visiting a
- 45:27room and trying to speak to you about stuff
- 45:29like as soon as i'm off this call i'm i'm
- 45:33up in you know a glass of wine or something like i go jesus like powering down
- 45:38i mean and it took me an hour or so i had i had a shower before attending this
- 45:42webinar just to kind of like you know get get something new in me and kind of
- 45:48like wake me back up and make me feel like i'm.
- 45:52You know i have that plus it's a nice dopamine here it's a bit cold
- 45:54water as well isn't it's it kind of just like zoom in
- 45:58but yeah for me it's it's don't assume don't presume
- 46:01you know go over those those pointers
- 46:04with them help them with their goals because
- 46:07half the time they're coming there and they they may have an eye they're coming
- 46:10to you for your help okay like just like everybody is treat treat treaters are
- 46:15like individuals don't assume anything basically there you go in a nutshell
- 46:19that's great and again that would apply to everybody wasn't it if you take that
- 46:22extra care If you just look after people better,
- 46:25then you'll automatically be
- 46:27looking after somebody who's neurodivergent because you're just catering.
- 46:29You're just asking them how they are and what they need.
- 46:33Those are taken away. I mean, there is a said that actually good practice for
- 46:38neurodivergent people is just good practice.
- 46:40I think a lot of these things apply regardless. Yeah.
- 46:45But they might be particularly important to people who have some of these particular
- 46:51challenges, for example.
- 46:53I think what Ben was saying about actually how many neurodivergent people just
- 46:58have this baseline level of anxiety because we're going around in a world where
- 47:02we're expected to be able to make our brains work in the way that other people do.
- 47:09And a lot of the time, you know, we can kind of fake it for a bit.
- 47:14But it's a big effort you know we're trying having to
- 47:17put a big effort in to to act normal there's a
- 47:19there's a constant routine running in the back of my head going don't act weird
- 47:23don't act weird don't act weird and that's that's occupying about you know 50
- 47:29of my my power at any given time and you know you when you when you take that
- 47:35away i can do amazing things.
- 47:40Yeah it'd be it'd be nice to like offer somebody
- 47:43a recap of their of the appointment
- 47:46they had with the information i know we always kind of do
- 47:49anyway well we kind of like offer that you know would you like what exercise
- 47:52sent to you with the dosages etc etc and but kind of maybe just even have a
- 47:57summary a recap of what it is that you've actually spoken about just sent to
- 48:01them as well just so they can go home and while they're trying to negotiate
- 48:04it like in their own mind because as Sarah has just said that, you're right.
- 48:09Like sometimes your mind is just focusing completely just on –.
- 48:16I'm keeping it together. Right. So, and, and trying to look and trying to look
- 48:20like a normal human being.
- 48:21So am I making that right? Am I making the right eye contact?
- 48:25And then you're watching the lips and, and you're, you're almost like you end
- 48:28up mimicking how people talk. And I see myself do it.
- 48:31I'm kind of just like, I mean, when I was a kid, I, when I was a kid,
- 48:35I went to go see a band and I got talking to the band and they were talking
- 48:38to me in an American accent.
- 48:40And for about a week I was American and it just happened just right there in front of me.
- 48:45I just picked it up i was watching them and i
- 48:47picked it up and i was like i got i got
- 48:51i got a lot i got a lot of rubbish from my friends for
- 48:53that one but like it happened in real time while i was speaking to
- 48:56them and they would see to me i just i just went into that
- 48:59kind of that person with them and i just turned to meridian and he followed
- 49:03on for like a week afterwards i just couldn't drop the accent until i eventually
- 49:06did but yeah it's we're so sort of caught up with just trying to negotiate the
- 49:13living world outside of our own little comfort zones, that all these,
- 49:19some information can be missed, or we could be left hanging on a word from something that you've said.
- 49:24So as we've always said before, words matter.
- 49:28Tongue matters as well, but also words matter. So if, you know,
- 49:32don't, and that's what I'm saying with the dragon, keep it really simple to the point.
- 49:38Back it up, if anything, with an email, please. That'd be really nice.
- 49:42Yeah, that's something which I'm sure we'll be talking about in future episodes. Go on, Rosie, yeah?
- 49:48So, building on what Cassandra said, believe people. Always believe people.
- 49:53Believe that they're the experts on their experience.
- 49:57You may not have figured out what's going on yet, or what they mean by a certain thing.
- 50:02But if you trust that there is something real behind it,
- 50:05and you're just trying to unpack that together that goes
- 50:09a long way and I think just having that good faith that goes
- 50:12a long way and people can feel that so that is
- 50:15one of my my big ones and the second one is ask people
- 50:18ask people what will help don't expect them to know necessarily that
- 50:22might be a journey that you have to work out together you know
- 50:24what what things you can
- 50:27do that will help them to engage better so as Ben
- 50:30says it might be putting something in an email it might be
- 50:33for some of my patients I'll get them to record something on their phone
- 50:35so they've got it to go back to later you know
- 50:39it might be I might sometimes they like to
- 50:42write it down sometimes they like me to write it down sometimes they like
- 50:44me to email it to them as I say it's sort of we figure these things out as we
- 50:49go along but I think if you let people know that it's a safe space that they're
- 50:53let them know and ask you things that you're not going to you know be impatient
- 51:00or you You're not going to get angry with them or anything like that.
- 51:04If something's not working for them, they can tell you.
- 51:07And I think when people understand that and they start to open up,
- 51:11that's when you start to really see real change.
- 51:15And I think this is, for me, one of the beauties of actually being a manual
- 51:19therapist, a hands-on therapist, is that we have that whole other language to
- 51:25communicate with people.
- 51:26And I see that as it's not just treatment, it's communication. And, you know, we...
- 51:33I always say that verbal language is not my first language.
- 51:37You know, I think I am much more kinesthetic than I am verbal.
- 51:43Everything I'm communicating verbally, I've had to translate.
- 51:46But when I work hands-on with a patient, it's almost like having that direct connection.
- 51:52You know, you're directly communicating with their nervous system and you're getting that feedback.
- 51:56And you can put that together with the words, with what you're understanding
- 52:00from what they're saying. and you get that bigger picture going on.
- 52:04And I think being able to integrate those things together, it's a really powerful thing.
- 52:09And I think this is one of the ways in which actually, for the people it works
- 52:14for, and it doesn't work for everyone, but for neurodivergent people it works
- 52:17for, it can be a really powerful thing.
- 52:20I also have neurodivergent clients who don't like being touched.
- 52:23And again, another thing, and we can do that as well. That's fine.
- 52:27But as I say, a lot of this is down to figuring out what's going to work
- 52:31for that person and treating people as individuals so
- 52:34it's really sort of seeing it as the essence of person-centered care you know
- 52:39it's not just like a lip service to it but it's actually seeing that person
- 52:42kind of going i'm trying to understand how their nervous system is perceiving
- 52:47the world around them and what it's doing and how to interact with that in a way that's helpful.
- 52:55That's great. Great summary. Look, it's nine o'clock, guys. I think I get the
- 52:59sensation that we've covered an awful lot in there.
- 53:02And I think a lot of the topics we've raised are going to be repeated as we
- 53:05look at hypermobilities, we look at barriers, as we look at the neurodivision
- 53:08therapists, a lot of it's going to be repeated. So we've set a really nice foundation.
- 53:11I really like what you said rosie and i think it sums up a lot of it is just,
- 53:16the problem is as clinicians from the from day one we're taught to fix people
- 53:20and we're taught to put ourselves on a pedestal our identity is we're superior
- 53:25in the sense that we've got loads of knowledge and we can help people and fix
- 53:27them that's how we that's why we think we get paid,
- 53:30but i think for that reason we believe that
- 53:33we're already good communicators and the first rule of communication is first
- 53:36law of communication is you're not as good a communicator as you think you are
- 53:39you'd be amazed and if you just try
- 53:42as rosie what i gathered from you saying is if you
- 53:45just kind of take more of a back seat and and ask the person
- 53:47how they are let them lead the conversation in mi they
- 53:50say you're having a dance with the client but they're leading you okay you're
- 53:54with them you're taking a walk with them and any analogy you want to use but
- 53:57they're kind of they've got the autonomy and then the thing i like is you'll
- 54:03find that the outcomes and the good results you get come so much quicker.
- 54:08If you shut them off and start telling them what they need too soon,
- 54:12you're going to have that patient.
- 54:14Not having success for many, many, many sessions, which shouldn't be the answer
- 54:18before you start thinking, great, I'll get them in for eight sessions.
- 54:20That's not the idea. You're going to get a bad reputation and you're not going to be successful.
- 54:23It might feel like you're spending too much time on listening to them,
- 54:27but if you do listen to them, you'll get the result. They'll tell you.
- 54:30And then if you listen a bit more, they'll tell you how to fix them.
- 54:33And you'll have the solution with their month, maybe.
- 54:35But if you keep jumping in and trying these solutions again,
- 54:38I know what you need. You need to do it this way. You need to do it that way.
- 54:40Boom, boom boom boom boom they'll either not come back and and i'm i'm saying
- 54:44this as if it's like just to do with neurodivergent clients it's for everybody
- 54:47it's just with neurodivergent clients
- 54:49if you don't do this you're really going to lose them and i
- 54:53think it's it's understanding what you don't understand and realizing that actually
- 54:57you know so very much less than you think you need out the way that there's
- 55:02nothing wrong with that it's normal isn't it we're taught that way it's totally
- 55:05normal we're not born around your life i think until we start thinking about
- 55:08it You go through life assuming other people's brains work basically like yours does.
- 55:12And, you know, I did this for a while.
- 55:15I think it became clear to me maybe a bit earlier because, you know,
- 55:18the other people's brains really don't work the way mine does,
- 55:21which caused me a lot of problems actually.
- 55:25But I think once you start realising that everyone actually sees the world very
- 55:30differently, when you start getting curious about that, that's sort of the first step.
- 55:36Yeah, definitely. Right. That's amazing. I'm looking forward to listening to that myself.
- 55:42To tell you the truth, it's been one of those kind of hours.
- 55:44But we do have to wrap it up. I'm sure you guys have got things to do,
- 55:47especially Cassandra, who's an hour ahead.
- 55:49I believe it's kind of like pushing on 10 o'clock now for you, Cassandra.
- 55:52So thank you for staying up for us next Tuesday.
- 55:55Before we let you go, just a reminder of what's coming up.
- 55:58This has been a great opener and I appreciate all the guests have been on. next Tuesday
- 56:01we're going to be still focusing on neurodivergency in
- 56:04in healthcare but we're going to be focusing on hypermobility really exciting
- 56:08such a hot topic with evidence and all sorts of connections and things and we're
- 56:12really pleased to have Bonnie Southgate the founder of Movement to Nasty Essentials
- 56:16and also MSK Advice for SES Connective shout out for SES Connective who's going
- 56:20to be with us as well as Jessica Jannerman Advanced Clinical Massage Therapist
- 56:23at East Therapies and Rosie's going to return as well so it's going to be a really hot topic.
- 56:28It's not just about hypermobility. Don't fall down that trap thinking,
- 56:31I've got any hypermobile patients because you'd be amazed that all those people
- 56:35who are great dancers and martial artists and have party tricks.
- 56:39And at the moment, great, happy days, they're famous, but it's what leads on
- 56:42from there if you ask the right questions.
- 56:44So I do encourage everybody to try and join us for that.
- 56:47If you listen to the podcast, I know life's busy, but do try and set an alarm
- 56:52or something. Just book it out as a business meeting. Just try.
- 56:54I don't know what's on TV at the same time, but just try and put aside eight
- 56:57o'clock UK time for an hour and what you pick up from it, promise you,
- 57:01well, I can't promise you, but I almost guarantee it that you'll walk away with
- 57:04something which will be really useful for your business and for your own lives and everything.
- 57:08So do try and join us if you can live, but if you can't, that's fair enough.
- 57:11Just make sure that you repay us with a rating and a review so other people get to know about it.
- 57:16So that's it. Thanks once again to my wonderful guests, Rosie Sexton.
- 57:20Thank you so much for joining us.
- 57:22And Cassandra Clemens, thank you so much as well. And to Ben Mace-Crosley,
- 57:25thank you very much as well. Really appreciate your time.
- 57:28If you have enjoyed it, people, just one reminder. Oh, thank you for everyone
- 57:30who joined us live as well. Really appreciate your comments and questions.
- 57:33If you have got more comments and questions, you listen to the podcast, leave them on YouTube.
- 57:36Go along to the YouTube channel and write it in there. We'll have a look through
- 57:39it for next week, and I'll try and pick up on any questions you might have,
- 57:42especially if Rosie is back next week. So don't let the conversation stop now.
- 57:46And use the Slido as well. It's going to be the same link, I think.
- 57:49Use that to ask questions as well.
- 57:51Right, that's it. Peace, love. We're out. Thank you very much.
- 57:55Take care of yourselves and take care of each other. We'll see you very soon.