Latest / Reformed Thinking / The Kingdom of the Helpless: Christ’s Call to the Little Children (Matthew 19:13-15)
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- 0:00Welcome to reformed thinking, you know.
- 0:03Imagine having a flawless resume.
- 0:05Yes, the kind of resume we all want to build for ourselves.
- 0:08Right. You have done everything right.
- 0:11You have kept every moral rule, built incredible wealth, and
- 0:15established A stellar reputation in your community.
- 0:18You bring all of that to the king expecting a seat of honor
- 0:21and. He turns you away.
- 0:23Then, right in front of you, he hands the keys of his Kingdom to
- 0:27a helpless, drooling infant who has contributed absolutely
- 0:31nothing to society. It is a shocking image.
- 0:34It really is. That scenario goes against every
- 0:36single instinct we have as human beings.
- 0:38Usually when we talk about a medical diagnosis, there is a
- 0:41strict expectation of precision. Like engineering?
- 0:44Sure. It is very binary, yeah.
- 0:45You break your arm, the X-ray shows that jagged white line,
- 0:48and the doctor points and says broken.
- 0:50But then you step into the world of human theology and are
- 0:53standing before a holy God, and suddenly we want to break the
- 0:56X-ray machine. We really do.
- 0:58We look at our own spiritual condition and we naturally want
- 1:00to bring our achievements and our moral checklist to God.
- 1:04We just assume those things secure our standing.
- 1:06Today we are taking a deep dive into a text that completely
- 1:09shatters that illusion. We're looking at a brief but
- 1:13massive narrative in Matthew chapter 19, verses 13 through
- 1:1615, where Christ welcomes the little children.
- 1:19And this is not a sweet story for a Sunday School flannel
- 1:23graph. No, not at all.
- 1:24This passage crushes human pride.
- 1:26It redefines the requirements to stand before God.
- 1:29It confronts our idols of self-sufficiency head on,
- 1:33proving that you cannot buy or earn your way into grace.
- 1:36We have an abundance of source material to unpack today for
- 1:39this deep dive. These documents provide a
- 1:41rigorous analysis of this specific encounter.
- 1:44What kind of sources are we looking at?
- 1:45Well, the material breaks down the Greek syntax behind the
- 1:48narrative, the redemptive historical context in which this
- 1:51event takes place, and the systematic theology that
- 1:54undergirds the entire scene. And just so you, the listener,
- 1:57know where we are coming from, we are framing this entire
- 2:00conversation through the lens of Reformed theology.
- 2:03Correct. Specifically, adhering to the
- 2:05Westminster Confession of Faith, we will look at how this text
- 2:09illustrates total depravity, the absolute necessity of sovereign
- 2:13grace, and the precise nature of justification by faith alone.
- 2:17Because when you read this passage through those
- 2:19theological lenses, you realize Jesus is making a staggering
- 2:23declaration about the nature of his Kingdom.
- 2:25The sources make it undeniably clear the Kingdom of Heaven does
- 2:28not belong to the self-sufficient.
- 2:30It belongs exclusively to those who come with the empty
- 2:33dependent hands of a child. So we really have to strip away
- 2:36the sentimentality that usually surrounds this passage and look
- 2:39at the theological bedrock underneath it.
- 2:42Absolutely. So let's unpack this by looking
- 2:44at the masterful placement of the narrative.
- 2:47Right, because before we even look at the children themselves,
- 2:50we have to establish where this scene occurs in the Gospel of
- 2:53Matthew. The author placed this event
- 2:55here intentionally to create a massive theological contrast.
- 2:59Think of this like a brilliant film editor splicing 2 scenes
- 3:02together to force the audience to see a glaring contradiction.
- 3:06That is a great way to put it. In chapter 18, Jesus places a
- 3:10child before the disciples to define greatness in the Kingdom.
- 3:14Then in Chapter 19, we have this high covenantal teaching on
- 3:18marriage and divorce. Yes, and immediately after that
- 3:20teaching, the parents bring their infants to Jesus.
- 3:23And right after, Jesus blesses these children who walks onto
- 3:26the scene. The wealthy young ruler.
- 3:28Right, you have the ultimate empty handed dependence followed
- 3:32immediately by the ultimate self-made man.
- 3:35The sheer intentionality of the biblical author is staggering.
- 3:38Here Matthew is constructing A theological argument through the
- 3:42chronological placement of these events.
- 3:44So what is Matthew attempting to expose about our natural human
- 3:48instincts through this specific arrangement of scenes?
- 3:52Because to me, it feels like a deliberate trap for the reader's
- 3:55pride. It is a trap in the best way
- 3:57possible. Moving from the doctrine of
- 3:59marriage directly to the reception of children makes a
- 4:01perfect logical sense within a covenantal framework.
- 4:04Right, because children belong naturally within the sphere of
- 4:07family and covenant life. Yes, so transitioning from the
- 4:11sanctity of the marital union to the blessing of the offspring is
- 4:14a natural progression, but the contrast you mentioned with the
- 4:17wealthy young ruler is where the theological weight truly lands.
- 4:21Let's talk about that contrast. Look at the children in this
- 4:24narrative. They have 0 achievements.
- 4:26They possess no social status. Right.
- 4:28They bring absolutely nothing to the table.
- 4:30They cannot even walk to Jesus on their own.
- 4:32They must be carried. Now look at the ruler who
- 4:34approaches next. He comes to Jesus with massive
- 4:37financial assets, with serious moral discipline, and with a
- 4:41robust resume of outward obedience.
- 4:44He genuinely believes he has kept the law from his youth.
- 4:48He possesses every social advantage available in the
- 4:51ancient world. Yet the narrative shows Jesus
- 4:53welcoming the completely dependent children, declaring
- 4:56that the Kingdom belongs to such as these.
- 4:58While the wealthy, accomplished ruler walks away sorrowful
- 5:01because he cannot part with his possessions.
- 5:04Matthew is using narrative ordering to establish a
- 5:06theological contrast between absolute dependence and arrogant
- 5:10self regard. So you have to ask yourself,
- 5:12which character do you resemble when you approach God?
- 5:16Do you bring a resume of your good deeds, your moral track
- 5:20record and your social standing, or do you come completely empty
- 5:23handed? The human instinct is always to
- 5:26present a Ledger of our good works.
- 5:28Matthew places these stories back-to-back to prove that your
- 5:31Ledger is actually your greatest liability.
- 5:34That Ledger concept is so helpful.
- 5:37We are wired to present our credentials.
- 5:39Seeing the contrast Matthew set up, we now need to zoom in on
- 5:43the specific conflict in the text.
- 5:45This is where we see the disciples acting as spiritual
- 5:47bouncers. The core information from our
- 5:50sources paints A vivid picture. Parents are bringing their
- 5:53little children. The Greek word used is padion.
- 5:56And Padion refers to infants or very young children, right?
- 5:59Yes, exactly. Well, precisely that infants or
- 6:02toddlers, they want him to lay his hands on them and pray.
- 6:05They are seeking the blessing of the great High Priest.
- 6:08And how do the disciples react? Rebuke the parents.
- 6:11The disciples act like corporate middle management, protecting
- 6:13the CEO's calendar from low value clients.
- 6:16They decide these infants are a waste of the Messiah's time.
- 6:20But let me push back on how we usually view the disciples here.
- 6:23Go ahead. We often read this and think the
- 6:25disciples are just being cruel, but in their minds they probably
- 6:29thought they were doing a good job.
- 6:30Oh, without a doubt. They were managing the crowds,
- 6:33protecting Jesus from exhaustion.
- 6:35So how does this specific sinful pragmatism show up in the modern
- 6:40church? To understand that and why they
- 6:43thought they were justified, we must look at the specific Greek
- 6:46verb Matthew uses for their rebuke.
- 6:49What is the word? The word is epitome.
- 6:52Crucially, it is written in the imperfect tense.
- 6:55And what does the imperfect tense tell us here?
- 6:57It tells us that this was not a one time polite dismissal.
- 7:01The imperfect tense indicates a persistent ongoing action.
- 7:04So picture the scene. The parents keep trying to push
- 7:06through the crowd, and the disciples are continually
- 7:08aggressively shoving them back. Right.
- 7:10And this is the very same verb Jesus uses elsewhere in the
- 7:13Gospels to silence demonic forces or to command raging
- 7:17storms to cease. Wow.
- 7:20So the disciples were treating these vulnerable infants as if
- 7:23they were a spiritual threat or a severe pragmatic nuisance.
- 7:27Yes, and to grasp why they did this you have to understand the
- 7:31sociocultural context. In the Greco, Roman and ancient
- 7:34Near Eastern world, children possessed 0 social status.
- 7:38None at all. They had no influence, they had
- 7:41no legal rights, so. They were entirely dependent and
- 7:44often viewed as economic liabilities until they could
- 7:46contribute to the household. The disciples absorbed this
- 7:49Pagan worldly valuation of human life.
- 7:53And from a systematic theological perspective, the
- 7:55disciples completely forgot the doctrine of total depravity.
- 7:58They really did. They fell into a form of proto
- 8:00pelagianism and legalism. Assuming that the Kingdom of
- 8:03heaven was reserved for the productive, the intellectually
- 8:06capable, and the strong. They believed you had to possess
- 8:08some inherent adult status to approach this savior.
- 8:11Connecting this to the bigger picture of the modern church,
- 8:14our sources use this text to critique seeker sensitive
- 8:17movements and church growth pragmatism.
- 8:20Yes, these modern methodologies often prioritize high value
- 8:24demographics, young professionals, wealthy donors,
- 8:27influential community leaders. While treating children's
- 8:30ministry as a peripheral babysitting service.
- 8:33Whenever a church prioritizes the influential over the
- 8:36vulnerable, they are repeating the specific sin of the
- 8:39disciples in this passage. They are calculating human worth
- 8:42based on potential return on investment, which is entirely
- 8:46foreign to the economy of grace. So the disciples are actively
- 8:49blocking the vulnerable, acting entirely out of this worldly
- 8:53pragmatic mindset, checking their spiritual VIP lists.
- 8:57And this harsh gatekeeping triggers a massive holy reaction
- 9:00from Christ, which brings us to his sovereign indignation and
- 9:04his role as the Shepherd King. We often picture Jesus as mild
- 9:07and soft spoken, especially when children are involved.
- 9:10Yeah, we imagine a very serene, calm painting with A lamb over
- 9:13his shoulders, but the text shows him forcefully overturning
- 9:17the social order. Mark chapter 10, verse 14, which
- 9:20is the parallel account, notes that Jesus was indignant.
- 9:23The Greek word is agonachtes, right?
- 9:25Yes, Agonachtesh, he issues 2 very specific commands.
- 9:29There is a sharp, non negotiable order to let them come and a
- 9:33command to stop hindering them right now.
- 9:35It is like a king halting a massive, highly orchestrated
- 9:39royal procession just to pick up a beggar on the side of the
- 9:42road, shocking all of his handlers.
- 9:44But we need to be careful here. Let me ask for some
- 9:46clarification. If children are naturally sinful
- 9:50under total depravity, why is Jesus using them as the ultimate
- 9:53example of who gets into heaven? That is a crucial question.
- 9:57Because isn't that a contradiction?
- 9:59What theological guardrails do we need to put up regarding why
- 10:01he welcomes them? The clarification regarding
- 10:04total depravity is essential here, and the sources provide
- 10:07strict guardrails to protect against Roman Catholic and
- 10:10Armenian errors. Meaning Jesus is not welcoming
- 10:13these children because they possess some inherent innocent
- 10:16free will that earned his favor, correct?
- 10:19They are not welcomed because childhood is a state of natural
- 10:22righteousness. We maintain the doctrine of
- 10:24total depravity. These infants are descendants of
- 10:27Adam, fallen and in need of grace.
- 10:29They are welcomed precisely because they're icons of total
- 10:33inability. They represent the complete
- 10:35spiritual bankruptcy that is required of all who would be
- 10:38justified by faith. But they must be sovereignly
- 10:41drawn to him. Their inclusion is based
- 10:43entirely on His sovereign choice to receive the weak, not on any
- 10:48merit or innocence residing within them.
- 10:50Now regarding his reaction, the word agnactatius is incredibly
- 10:53rare in the New Testament. It is.
- 10:55It describes a holy, righteous displeasure.
- 10:59What makes this so striking is the target of Christ's
- 11:02indignation. He does not direct this anger at
- 11:04the Pharisees, the scribes, or the Roman authorities.
- 11:07No, He directs it at his own hand picked disciples.
- 11:10He is furious with them for obstructing access to grace.
- 11:14You mentioned those two commands earlier.
- 11:15What is the grammar behind them? Jesus issues an aorist active
- 11:19imperative defeat. Without getting bogged down on
- 11:21the grammar, what that really means is this is a snap command.
- 11:24It is not a olite request. No, it is a sharp, nonnegotiable
- 11:27order. Let them come.
- 11:29Now and the second command. He pairs it with a present
- 11:32imperative accompanied by a negative particle Koluat.
- 11:35Which translates to stop hindering them immediately.
- 11:38Yes, he is actively commanding them to cease their obstruction
- 11:42on the spot. This showcases Jesus as the
- 11:45antitype of the great High Priest and the fulfillment of
- 11:48the shepherd described in Isaiah chapter 40, verse 11.
- 11:50The one who gathers the Lambs in his arms.
- 11:52He is the resolute opponent of all false gatekeeping.
- 11:56He actively defends the access of the needy, proving that His
- 11:59Majesty shines most brilliantly in his condescension.
- 12:03He refuses to let his disciples build a tollbooth on the road to
- 12:06grace. I am so glad we defined that
- 12:08difference because the cultural assumption is always that
- 12:11children are just innocent little angels and therefore
- 12:14deserve the blessing. But the text pushes back against
- 12:17that entirely. They are welcomed because they
- 12:19are bankrupt, not because they're pure.
- 12:22Christ is not just welcome the children, He grounds his welcome
- 12:25in a massive theological declaration about the Kingdom
- 12:28itself. He states to such belongs the
- 12:31Kingdom of heaven. The Greek phrase uses Tungar
- 12:34Tuchin, meaning 4. Of such, we are looking at the
- 12:37absolute prerequisite of spiritual bankruptcy.
- 12:40You are telling me that entrance into the Kingdom requires total
- 12:44bankruptcy? Yes, if I bring a single coin of
- 12:47my own merit, I cannot enter. Why is this so offensive to the
- 12:50human heart? Well, think about how you
- 12:52operate at your job. Right.
- 12:53You track your metrics. You want credit for your
- 12:56overtime. You want your boss to recognize
- 12:58your specific contributions. Are literally trained from birth
- 13:02to bring a resume, so when Jesus demands we drop all of it, it
- 13:05feels completely unnatural. How does the Westminster
- 13:09Confession explain the mechanism of this justification, and how
- 13:12does faith operate in this context?
- 13:14The phrase tungar tuetan is the theological lynchpin of the
- 13:18entire narrative. Jesus uses the words to such,
- 13:23which extends the meaning far beyond the literal infants
- 13:25present in that specific historical moment.
- 13:27He is applying the standard to anyone who shares their
- 13:30spiritual posture. What is that posture?
- 13:32Yeah, it is absolute helpless dependency.
- 13:35It is receptivity versus attachment to worldly standing.
- 13:39Children, especially nursing infants, contribute nothing to
- 13:42their own care. They do not negotiate for their
- 13:44meals. They do not earn their shelter,
- 13:46they simply receive. And this is highly offensive to
- 13:49the human heart, because fallen humanity constantly seeks a
- 13:53basis for acceptance within itself.
- 13:55We want to believe our moral performance, our religious
- 13:58observance, or our intellectual attainment counts for something
- 14:01before a holy God. But the Westminster Confession
- 14:04of Faith, specifically Chapter 11 on justification, makes the
- 14:08reality clear. The Sinner is declared righteous
- 14:11solely through the imputation of Christ's righteousness, which is
- 14:15received by faith alone. We must define imputation here.
- 14:18God does not infuse us with goodness so that we can earn our
- 14:21way, no. He credits Christ's perfect
- 14:24record to our empty account. True saving faith looks
- 14:27precisely like the empty, reaching hands of the pedium.
- 14:30It brings no currency. Our sources also provide a
- 14:33critical note regarding baptism here.
- 14:35While some traditions use this passage to argue for paedo
- 14:37baptism, our provided text maintains A believers baptism
- 14:41perspective while keeping the broader Reformed soteriology
- 14:45fully intact. The text states clearly that
- 14:47Jesus laid his hands on them and prayed he was offering a
- 14:50priestly blessing, not administering a Sacramento
- 14:53washing of initiation. He is validating their posture
- 14:56of need, not performing a ritual.
- 14:58If you are listening to this right now and you are trusting
- 15:00in your intellect to your charitable works or your social
- 15:03standing within your local congregation, you are acting
- 15:06like the disciples. You have to die to your adult
- 15:09pride. You must come to Christ knowing
- 15:12you have absolutely nothing to offer Him but you're sin and
- 15:15your need for His mercy. So if absolute spiritual
- 15:19bankruptcy is the requirement here, we should see this
- 15:22standard elsewhere in Scripture. This principle of welcoming the
- 15:25bankrupt is not just a one off event isolated in Matthew 19, it
- 15:30echoes throughout all of redemptive history.
- 15:32Let's look at the canonical echoes of Sola Gratia or Grace
- 15:35alone. The Kingdom is received, never
- 15:38achieved. When you look at the modern
- 15:40prosperity gospel, or the idea that God favors the wealthy, the
- 15:43healthy, and the successful, well, it seems this text
- 15:47completely obliterates the idea that worldly success equals
- 15:50divine favor. How does this single event with
- 15:53the children connect to the broader themes of the Old and
- 15:57New Testaments? Because if this is a universal
- 15:59standard, we should see it in the Psalms, in the prophets, and
- 16:03in the rest of Christ's teachings.
- 16:05If we connect this to the wider biblical Canon, we see that the
- 16:08principle of sola gratia is woven into the very fabric of
- 16:11redemptive history. Jesus's declaration here aligns
- 16:14perfectly with the Beatitudes in Matthew chapter 5.
- 16:17Who does Jesus say possesses the Kingdom of heaven and the Sermon
- 16:20on the Mount? The poor in spirit.
- 16:23The childlike ones of Matthew 19 are the exact same people as the
- 16:27poor in spirit in Matthew 5. Both groups represent those who
- 16:30have been brought low, who recognize their complete
- 16:33spiritual destitution. We also hear clear echoes of
- 16:37Hannah's song in First Samuel chapter 2.
- 16:39Where she praises the Lord, who brings down the proud and raises
- 16:43the poor from the dust. We see the very same theology in
- 16:46Mary's Magnificat in Luke chapter 1.
- 16:48Where she magnifies God for scattering the proud in the
- 16:51thoughts of their hearts and exalting those those of humble
- 16:53estate. The Psalms constantly reiterate
- 16:56this reality, declaring that the Lord hears the cry of the
- 16:58afflicted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
- 17:02This text systematically strips away every illusion of
- 17:05self-sufficiency. You mentioned the prosperity
- 17:07gospel and that is a perfect contrast.
- 17:10The prosperity gospel claims that God's favor is demonstrated
- 17:13through financial wealth, physical health, and worldly
- 17:16influence. It teaches people to claim their
- 17:18blessings through positive confession and robust faith,
- 17:22essentially treating God like a cosmic vending machine that
- 17:24responds to human initiative. But this passage exposes that
- 17:28teaching as a complete fabrication.
- 17:31The world and false religious systems will constantly tell you
- 17:34to prove yourself, to build your brand, to show your worth.
- 17:37Christ looks at the destitute, the weak and the helpless, and
- 17:41he says, come lowly. The Kingdom is an unmerited
- 17:44gift, secured by the strength of the Savior, given freely to
- 17:47those who are weak. There is no room for boasting.
- 17:50That shifts the entire paradigm of how we view our relationship
- 17:53with God. But this cannot just stay in the
- 17:55realm of abstract theology. Now that we understand the
- 17:58massive grace in this text, we have to ask how it shapes our
- 18:02daily obedience and the life of the Church.
- 18:04Applying Westminster Confession chapter 19, we look at the third
- 18:08use of the law, where the moral law of God guides the grateful
- 18:11obedience of the justified believer.
- 18:14This is not just a touching story about Jesus hugging kids.
- 18:17It is a prophetic rebuke of our entire modern value system.
- 18:21We value people based on their economic output, their follower
- 18:24count, and their utility. Jesus values the ones who
- 18:28produce absolutely nothing. How does this text provides
- 18:31specific applications for the Church, for parents and for
- 18:35single members? Let's get really practical here.
- 18:37How does a church actually change its liturgy or its
- 18:40culture to reflect this reality? This is where theology hits the
- 18:43pavement. The third use of the law teaches
- 18:46us that while the law cannot justify us, it remains a perfect
- 18:50rule of righteousness to guide our conduct out of gratitude for
- 18:53the grace we have received. For the church and its office
- 18:56bearers, the pastors and elders, this text is a stern warning.
- 19:00The. Liturgy, the budget, and the
- 19:02church culture must never prioritize the wealthy or the
- 19:06influential at the expense of the vulnerable.
- 19:09Confronting spiritual elitism is a mandate.
- 19:12If a church caters exclusively to the polished and the
- 19:15prosperous, offering prime seating or leadership roles
- 19:18based on worldly success while neglecting the weak, it betrays
- 19:22the heart of the king. The Church should be the one
- 19:25place on earth where your secular resume means absolutely
- 19:28nothing. For parents, this passage
- 19:30provides a clear mandate to prioritize the spiritual
- 19:33nourishment of their household. Parents must actively bring
- 19:36their children to the means of grace, primarily the hearing of
- 19:39the Word and the practice of prayer.
- 19:41If parents fail to do this, the secular world will gladly step
- 19:45in to be the primary catechizer of the home.
- 19:47Instilling values that are entirely antithetical to the
- 19:50Kingdom. For single members of the
- 19:51church, this text calls them to act as spiritual parents within
- 19:55the covenant community. They are called to model
- 19:57dependent faith and actively assist in the discipleship of
- 20:00the next generation. Furthermore, this passage
- 20:03demands a direct cultural confrontation.
- 20:05It refutes the modern idol of efficiency.
- 20:08It condemns the economic valuation of human life.
- 20:11Specifically, our sources point out how this text stands in
- 20:15stark opposition to the culture of death.
- 20:17Pointing directly to the horrific frequency of abortion
- 20:20in our modern era. When a society views children as
- 20:23economic obstacles, inconveniences, or hindrances to
- 20:26self actualization rather than as blessings from God, that
- 20:30society is mirroring the specific sinful pragmatism of
- 20:34the disciples. But with lethal consequences.
- 20:36The Church must stand against this by valuing life at its most
- 20:39vulnerable stages. To conclude this point, we must
- 20:42remember that the indicative always grounds the imperative.
- 20:45We obey these commands, protecting the vulnerable,
- 20:47catechizing our youth, honoring the weak, not to earn our way
- 20:50into the Kingdom, but because the King has already sovereignly
- 20:53gathered us into his arms. That perfectly summarizes the
- 20:56massive shift in perspective this text demands.
- 20:59The Kingdom of heaven belongs exclusively to those who come
- 21:02with empty hands. If you are exhausted from trying
- 21:04to prove your worth to God, if you are tired of presenting your
- 21:08moral resume only to know it falls short, this text is an
- 21:11invitation to drop all of it. You can cast yourself entirely
- 21:15on the sovereign mercy of the Savior.
- 21:18He does not need your achievements.
- 21:19He requires your bankruptcy. As we wrap up this deep dive, I
- 21:23want to leave you with one final thought to Mull over.
- 21:26Think about the physical hands of Jesus in this scene.
- 21:29The very hands he used to touch the heads of those infants.
- 21:32The hands that bestowed absolute dignity on the helpless, well,
- 21:36those are the exact same hands that would soon be nailed to a
- 21:38Roman cross. He became utterly helpless,
- 21:41pinned to wood to purchase the salvation of the week.
- 21:44The King became the ultimate dependent.
- 21:46Let that reshape how you view his grace today.
- 21:50Thank you for joining us on this deep dive on reformed thinking.