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Johnjay & Rich Present: SECOND DATE UPDATE · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 1: get and that's what the bit is called. Second Date
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  Speaker 1: Update starts right now on John Jay and Ridge.
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  Speaker 2: God Jane Rich is tied for Second Date Update. You
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  Speaker 2: meet somebody, you've got a date, you have a good time,
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  Speaker 2: you expect there to be a second date and it
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  Speaker 2: doesn't happen. So you come to us today. Second day
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  Speaker 2: Updates be a little special. Kyle is at her family reunion,
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  Speaker 2: so filling in for Kyle on Second Ate Update is
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  Speaker 2: my beautiful wife Blake vans.
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  Speaker 3: Uh and Blank knows how to make a relationship work.
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  Speaker 3: I mean because she has to deal with you.
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  Speaker 4: True. True. So let's say hello to Conrad.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, Conrad, Hey, good morning, what's your situation?
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  Speaker 4: Welcome to the show. Second Ate Update.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, thanks for having me. So, I'm genuinely confused. Dating'spent
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  Speaker 5: a little bit rough for me for a while. My
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  Speaker 5: friends set me up with this girl and I wasn't
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  Speaker 5: expecting much, but we ended up actually having a great time.
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  Speaker 5: The uh you know, I felt like we had great conversation,
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  Speaker 5: you know, lots of jokes, lots of laughing, it was awesome,
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  Speaker 5: and I honestly, you know, I thought there was a
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  Speaker 5: real connection. The only thing that I can think of
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  Speaker 5: that might have thrown her off is my daughter called
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  Speaker 5: me while I was dropping her off after the date.
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  Speaker 4: And I usually don't.
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  Speaker 5: Bring up that I have a kid on the first day,
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  Speaker 5: just because, like, you know, I'm a single dad. I've
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  Speaker 5: been that since I was eighteen, and you know, I've
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  Speaker 5: had people make assumptions about me, you know, before they
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  Speaker 5: even get to know me.
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  Speaker 4: And yeah, so now this.
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  Speaker 5: Now I'm you know, barely getting anything from her, and
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  Speaker 5: you know, she's not respawning in my text, and like,
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  Speaker 5: I just can't like stop wondering, you know, if like
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  Speaker 5: if it's possible that my daughter, you know, scared her away,
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  Speaker 5: or her finding out that I had a daughter scared
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  Speaker 5: her away. And uh, yeah, I just I really like
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  Speaker 5: this girl, and I I just don't know if I
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  Speaker 5: should like give.
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  Speaker 3: Away your daughter shout, Oh what was she calling her
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  Speaker 3: dad about?
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  Speaker 4: Well, there you go call Please don't go out with
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  Speaker 4: that lady. Please don't go on. I think she's a witch.
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  Speaker 4: Just check it in just like your father daughter sseulf.
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  Speaker 5: She was just having an issue with a friend.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, well did you take the call on speaker, Like
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  Speaker 3: so the girlfriend's hearing all this or.
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  Speaker 4: Girlfriend, no, I don't do that.
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  Speaker 6: No, And you know what, it is.
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  Speaker 7: So crazy though, and it is unfortunate when like I mean,
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  Speaker 7: young thirty one is a young man, right and you
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  Speaker 7: have a kid and that's all great, but it is
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  Speaker 7: unfortunate in the dating world. Like Love Island right now,
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  Speaker 7: the first guy that got voted off the island, his
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  Speaker 7: name was Sean and he had a one year old daughter,
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  Speaker 7: and literally the islanders were like, ooh, he has a kid.
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  Speaker 4: Red flag. You know what I mean. Is like they
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  Speaker 4: didn't even.
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  Speaker 6: Get a chance to know you for sure.
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  Speaker 7: But that's probably a real a reality of dating when
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  Speaker 7: you got kids.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder if the girl thought you were full of it,
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  Speaker 2: that that wasn't your daughter. I wondered to be like,
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  Speaker 2: it was like it was another girl. Oh, you know
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  Speaker 2: what I mean? Like I wondered if he's like, here's
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  Speaker 2: what we'll do. We're gonna find out, man, So what
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  Speaker 2: what is her name? We would call the girl you
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  Speaker 2: went out with Conrad?
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  Speaker 5: Natalie?
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  Speaker 4: Natalie?
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  Speaker 2: All right, give us a minute, We're gonna get Natalie
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  Speaker 2: on the phone. We're gonna call her up and find
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  Speaker 2: out why she's blown you off. How long ago was
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  Speaker 2: this date?
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  Speaker 5: Uh, it was like a week and a half ago.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Hank tight. Second date update continues with special guests Blake,
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  Speaker 2: Van has filling in for Kyle, Mate John, Jay, and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: We're in the middle of second date up. But he
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  Speaker 2: got Conrad who went out of the date with Natalie.
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  Speaker 2: And by the way, my wife Blake is filling in
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  Speaker 2: for Kyle right now because Kyle is at a family reunion.
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  Speaker 3: Well, friends set up unlucky in love. Conrad on a
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  Speaker 3: date with Natalie, who he felt was going great. There
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  Speaker 3: was a real connection, there was chemistry. His dinner date
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  Speaker 3: ended and they were going home together, and then he
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  Speaker 3: got a phone call from his daughter that since then
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  Speaker 3: Natalie's gone dark. Is it because she's uncomfortable with dating
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  Speaker 3: a man with the tween daughter or is he a
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  Speaker 3: really bad kisser?
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  Speaker 4: Like I think probably did they even kiss? I didn't
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  Speaker 4: get that far. I don't know if they didn't know,
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  Speaker 4: but that could be a Conrad, did you guys kiss
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  Speaker 4: at the end of the date? We know?
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  Speaker 7: Okay, Well, it's.
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  Speaker 3: Super thin, it's super thin lips and She's like, no, no, thanks.
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  Speaker 4: All right, Conrad Blake, so far you're doing a great job.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you.
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  Speaker 4: All right, we're gonna get Natalie on the phone. What
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  Speaker 4: are you laughing at? Well, you've been asked us some
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  Speaker 4: good questions.
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  Speaker 6: Hold on, Hello, Hi is this Natalie?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, Hi Natalie.
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  Speaker 6: My name is Peyton.
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  Speaker 7: I'm with John, Jay and Rich and we just wanted
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  Speaker 7: to talk to you about a few things on the
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  Speaker 7: radio if you're free this morning.
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  Speaker 4: On the raid.
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  Speaker 7: Why fun I promise.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: So we got a call from a guy. It seems
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  Speaker 4: like a really nice guy.
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  Speaker 2: And he said he went on a date with you,
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  Speaker 2: and now you're ghosting him and we can't figure out. Well,
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  Speaker 2: we kind of have an idea why, but we weren't
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  Speaker 2: totally sure. So we thought we would call you and
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  Speaker 2: get your whole shpiel. We're talking about your date with Conrad.
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  Speaker 8: H Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that says a lot right there. Yeah, that tells
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  Speaker 4: us a lot.
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  Speaker 8: I mean it was it was a good date. Honestly,
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  Speaker 8: it just I don't think it's going to work out.
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  Speaker 8: But he was funny, it was easy to talk to,
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  Speaker 8: and I was originally excited to see how things would go.
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  Speaker 8: But then he was driving me home and.
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  Speaker 5: His daughter called him, and.
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  Speaker 8: There the whole vibe changed. She was basically telling him
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  Speaker 8: about a drama with her friends, and instead of giving
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  Speaker 8: her advice, they were both kind of mean about it.
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  Speaker 8: So they were kind of making fun of the girl's outfit.
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  Speaker 8: They were laughing at about leaving someone else out on
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  Speaker 8: purpose in her group, and he basically told her, if
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  Speaker 8: she's being annoying, let hers sit by herself. And I
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  Speaker 8: was sitting there thinking, am I on a data? Am
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  Speaker 8: I listening to mean girls that movie? And it wasn't.
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  Speaker 8: It wasn't me finding out that he had.
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  Speaker 6: A daughter that was buck me.
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  Speaker 8: It was just the fact that he was teaching her
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  Speaker 8: how to be mean and they were just being petty together. So,
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  Speaker 8: I mean, just the fact that it's a single dad
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  Speaker 8: and he's encouraging his kids to be messy with her
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  Speaker 8: friends like that. It's just not the kind of energy
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  Speaker 8: I want to be around.
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  Speaker 5: Natalie. I think you're blowing this way out of proportion.
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  Speaker 5: Like it was, it was one conversation, Oh.
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  Speaker 8: You guys, did you know?
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  Speaker 3: Then?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, so you're you're ghosting me after a great date, So,
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  Speaker 5: like I wanted to know where things went south. But
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  Speaker 5: like I'm I'm curious on your thought process. So because
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  Speaker 5: my daughter was venting about a friend, suddenly I'm a
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  Speaker 5: bad dad.
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  Speaker 8: Like, no, I did not call you a bad dad.
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  Speaker 8: What I said was I didn't like what I heard
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  Speaker 8: and I felt like.
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  Speaker 4: It was encouraging bad behavior.
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  Speaker 5: You don't even have kids, I mean, like, I don't
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  Speaker 5: I just respectfully, Like, I don't think you're in a
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  Speaker 5: position to judge how I paar in.
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  Speaker 8: Mind, Well, respectfully, I don't think I need kids to
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  Speaker 8: know that teaching them to be kind is a good thing.
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  Speaker 3: Don't you give some credit to the fact that she
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  Speaker 3: called her dad for advice.
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  Speaker 4: That's kind of that's kind of a big deal. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: that's heart's nice.
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  Speaker 8: It seems like you have a good relationship. But I
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  Speaker 8: mean he's just reinforcing more mean behavior in society with
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  Speaker 8: this kid. I mean, it's the next streussure. He's going
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  Speaker 8: to be just as bad as we were and once before.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, like she was in a tough situation, Like
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  Speaker 5: you're acting like we committed a crime or something, like,
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  Speaker 5: you know, we're just joking around.
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  Speaker 8: I mean, making fun of another girl and laughing about
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  Speaker 8: excluding her is there's really my kind of joke.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I mean it's just maybe my daughter and I
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  Speaker 5: just have that sense of humor and you just don't
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  Speaker 5: get it.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 8: Sure, Sure, let's just have it up to that then okay.
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  Speaker 5: Wow, So all the stuff that you liked about me
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  Speaker 5: is just totally out the window because of a five
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  Speaker 5: minute phone call with my daughter.
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  Speaker 8: I mean sometimes five minutes does tell you everything you
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  Speaker 8: need to know about person. So that was enough to
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  Speaker 8: just change everything.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I.
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  Speaker 5: Think you're being incredibly judgmental about this.
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  Speaker 8: I think I'm down here if we're done.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, So seriously, like, no second date, no second date.
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  Speaker 7: It does not seem like it is a match out.
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  Speaker 8: All right, you know, definitely not.
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  Speaker 2: I kind of feel like there's a misunderstanding because of
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  Speaker 2: you know, the parent like, like, I'm a single dad.
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  Speaker 4: What I'll just get my wife's in here.
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  Speaker 5: A day.
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  Speaker 4: But Blake, what's your take on that?
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  Speaker 9: Well, my I'm thinking about like our kids and when
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  Speaker 9: you're with them, But it's more in private that you do.
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  Speaker 9: You guys inappropriately joke about things that could never go
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  Speaker 9: outside of our house, right, right, And so I understand
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  Speaker 9: that relationship of joking with your daughter and whatever. But
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  Speaker 9: maybe Natalie shouldn't have heard what you what you were saying,
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  Speaker 9: and you should have kept it for for later and
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  Speaker 9: just been like, hey, you know, can we discuss this
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  Speaker 9: a little bit later.
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  Speaker 3: I'm on a date and hang up and go, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I'm with your potential new mom.
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  Speaker 4: But I totally actually, I actually really agree with you.
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  Speaker 4: I think you're right. I think you're right, but.
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  Speaker 9: I totally I totally understand the joking and inappropriateness.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, if people heard the stuff that the boys
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  Speaker 2: that I talk about, it's terrible, it would be terrible.
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  Speaker 9: I'm horrified. And I said.
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  Speaker 7: That, especially if you don't know the person that well, right,
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  Speaker 7: you can't truly get a sense of their humor. And
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  Speaker 7: if even if you were joking around Conrad with your daughter,
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  Speaker 7: obviously you know that didn't vibe with Natalie, right, so
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  Speaker 7: it probably was never going to work long run any way.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, Well, Natalie, I really hope you change your mind.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, given what you just heard, I mean, that's
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  Speaker 5: exactly what goes on and that's exactly what I'm doing.
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  Speaker 2: So at the same time, Conrad doesn't sound like a
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  Speaker 2: big ball of fun either, like, I don't really hear this.
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  Speaker 7: This is a really nerve wracking thing to address getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 3: Heads all businesses there.
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  Speaker 4: It's like, it's not like he's cracked a joke while
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  Speaker 4: we're talking about him. I don't believe he's a good kisser.
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  Speaker 4: Well we didn't get that far.
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  Speaker 2: All right, so no second date update, can no second date, right,
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  Speaker 2: Gadilie and for Natalie.
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  Speaker 8: Right, No, okay, all right. I appreciate that they have
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  Speaker 8: a good relationship, but it's.
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  Speaker 4: Just offering of course. Okay, Well, thank you both for
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  Speaker 4: going on the air with us. Right there you go, Conrad,
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  Speaker 4: there's your answer. No second date. That's why she didn't
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  Speaker 4: want to call you back. She didn't like to sense
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  Speaker 4: the humor you had with your daughter. But thank you, Conrad. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: thank you guys.
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  Speaker 5: I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 4: You got it. That second ate update with John dene
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  Speaker 4: Rich