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A Marine's System To Take Back Control Of Your Teenager

Every second you aren't leading your home, something else is — an algorithm, a peer group, or a bad actor. This week I sit down with US Marine Corps officer and author Olaolu Ogunyemi, who nearly became a statistic himself, to break down the exact system he uses to lead his kids through the hardest years.

We get tactical on:

The "LEAD Last" framework for parenting teenagers

The warning signs your teen is drifting (and what to do first)

"Connection before direction" — why boundaries fail without it

The transparent phone system: monitoring without spying

How to stay calm when your teen gives…

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