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- 0:00You have never seen anything like this before.
- 0:25OK, so here's my challenge to you.
- 0:28Can you put the toothpaste back in the tube?
- 0:30The fact is this guys, there are some things you can never unsay.
- 0:34There are some things you can never Unsee, and there are some
- 0:37things you can never undo. May I ask you a very personal
- 0:41question? What are the things you wish you
- 0:44could unsay? Matthew 12 verse 36 says, But I
- 0:48say unto you, that every idle word that men shall speak, they
- 0:52shall give an account thereof in the day of judge.
- 0:56And a wiser man than me once said, light words weigh heavy in
- 1:00God's balance. I think the message is crystal
- 1:03clear. We need to be careful with our
- 1:06careless words. Here's a question for you.
- 1:08Do you have WhatsApp? Just nod your head if you do.
- 1:11Now answer me this question. Have you ever unsent a message
- 1:15on WhatsApp? Come on, let's be honest, we've
- 1:18all done it at some point, and maybe it's because we've
- 1:20regretted what we've said, or maybe we just want to rephrase a
- 1:23sentence in a better way. But in the real world, you just
- 1:27can't do that. You cannot unsend messages.
- 1:29You cannot unsay things. Once we say something, we
- 1:32literally breathe life into that sentence.
- 1:35And some sentences can never be forgotten.
- 1:39Now please don't misunderstand me.
- 1:41Some sentences provide so much good sentences like will you
- 1:45marry me or it's a girl or I love you.
- 1:48But some sentences should never have ever been uttered like
- 1:53you're ugly or I hate you or I wish I never met you.
- 1:57If you're Australian, this is just for you.
- 2:00Now, I know the stereotypes aren't all true, but I do expect
- 2:05that one or two of you listening right now have a boomerang
- 2:08somewhere in your house. And even if you're not from Down
- 2:11Under, I'm sure we've all seen a boomerang spinning in the air
- 2:14until it returns to the exact place.
- 2:17Where it was. Thrown.
- 2:18Our words are kind of like that. You throw them out and just like
- 2:21a boomerang, they come right back to you.
- 2:23So over to you. What boomerang words are going
- 2:26to come back around to you when you stand before God on the last
- 2:30day? I mean, we've just heard Jesus
- 2:31Christ tell us that every single idle word that you and I speak,
- 2:35it'll be brought into account if you're a Christian, we'll see
- 2:38them again at the Bema Seat Judgment, where rewards will be
- 2:41given to the children of God. But for anyone watching who
- 2:44hasn't yet trusted in Christ, there's a scary moment awaiting
- 2:48you at the Great White Throne Judgment, when you will be
- 2:51judged for all that you've said, all that you've done.
- 2:54But there will. Be no mercy on that.
- 2:55Day because you chose to reject Jesus's mercy on earth.
- 3:00What goes through your mind when I tell you that, that even
- 3:02though these so-called idle words that you've long forgotten
- 3:06about the Lord hasn't. They're recorded and they will
- 3:09be reviewed one day. Hey, you might just want to
- 3:11write this verse down, but Psalm 141 verse 3 says set a guard, oh
- 3:17Lord, before my mouth, keep the door of my lips.
- 3:20Imagine that. Imagine having a set of
- 3:22bodyguards standing over the entrance of your mouth saying
- 3:26don't say that. You'll regret it.
- 3:28Don't do it because once it's out, it can never come back.
- 3:31It's no secret that words can cause lasting ruin long after
- 3:36the speaker is gone. I still remember things that
- 3:38were said to me when I was a teenager and even younger than
- 3:41that. And even now, all those years
- 3:43on, those words still echo into my insecurities.
- 3:48What about you? I mean am I the only one here or
- 3:51can you also remember things that were said about you when
- 3:53you were young, 20304050 years ago and yet they still leave a
- 3:58mark on you today? A little while ago ago a friend
- 4:00of mine told me a story. He used to mock a girl at his
- 4:03school with his friends. They would say really unkind
- 4:06things. Decades later, 40 years on, he
- 4:10decided to try knocking on her childhood home.
- 4:12Sure enough, it was her who stood at the door.
- 4:15She'd aged, but it was still the same girl who he'd laughed at.
- 4:19So he said, I don't know if you Remember Me but I just want to
- 4:21say I'm sorry. Me and my mates, we laughed at
- 4:24you in school and I've always regretted her.
- 4:28Maybe the Lord is nudging one of us right now to do something
- 4:31very similar. To write a letter, to send a
- 4:34message, to apologise. We can't take the words back,
- 4:37but maybe we can seek forgiveness and try to make
- 4:40amends. Now let's talk about #2 things
- 4:42that you cannot Unsee. I hesitate to share this next
- 4:46part because I really don't want to sound like I'm boasting in
- 4:49any way because honestly, there is nothing in Joe Kirby that did
- 4:52this. It was 100% God and I could
- 4:55honestly cry thinking about what a mess I was once in.
- 4:58But if you know my story or if you've read my book 100 Pure
- 5:02Thoughts, you'll know that I struggled with this one
- 5:05particular thing for many years. But I cannot emphasize this
- 5:08enough. It was by God's grace alone He
- 5:10crushed that sin in my life. Now that's not to say I'm
- 5:12perfect. I still find it tough when I
- 5:15walk down the street sometimes. I still think thoughts that I'd
- 5:17be embarrassed if some of you knew what I was thinking at
- 5:20times. But all of that being said, it's
- 5:22been years since I've watched that certain type of content on
- 5:26the Internet. Why do I tell you all of that?
- 5:28Because I want to tell you this. Even though it's been years
- 5:31since I've watched that kind of content on the Internet, I can
- 5:34still see so much of it with perfect total clarity in my
- 5:39mind. And that's what you reap when
- 5:40you spend nearly two decades filling your mind with this sin,
- 5:44my dear friend. The reality is this.
- 5:46Some things you just simply cannot Unsee.
- 5:50Doesn't matter how hard you try, you will never forget some of
- 5:53those things. And if there's a young man or a
- 5:55young woman watching this right now, I plead with you, play any
- 5:59game in the world, but do not play this game.
- 6:01You need to get rid of this right now.
- 6:03You need to take it seriously. Even if you're older, this
- 6:06message is still for you. This sin needs to stop, right?
- 6:10Let's jump over to Psalm 101, verse three.
- 6:13I will set no wicked thing before my eyes.
- 6:17You know, that verse isn't just talking about the obvious stuff
- 6:20that I'm hinting at, but it actually applies to all kinds of
- 6:23content. Take Twitter, for example.
- 6:25You might go on there just to catch up on some political news
- 6:28and before you know it, things pop up in your feed, things you
- 6:32didn't look for, things you didn't want to see.
- 6:34At points, I've had to take long breaks to avoid the feed
- 6:37altogether because I've seen heartbreaking things on that
- 6:40feed on Twitter that I will never Unsee now.
- 6:44And that's really the point I want to drive home here.
- 6:46We've got to be so careful what we allow to go into our eyes,
- 6:50because our eyes are like portals.
- 6:52They are windows to the soul. Whatever we put in front of them
- 6:55doesn't just stay there. It goes in.
- 6:57It finds its way into our hearts, and then it sinks right
- 7:00down deep into the soul. Are you ready to talk about #3
- 7:04things you cannot undo? Do you remember Esau in the
- 7:07Bible? Hebrews 12, verse 17 tells us
- 7:10that afterward, when he wanted to inherit the blessing, he was
- 7:14rejected. He found no place for a penance,
- 7:17though he sought it carefully, with tears.
- 7:20Esau treated sacred things lightly.
- 7:23He sold his birthright for a bowl of Stew, and when it was
- 7:27gone, it was gone and he couldn't undo it.
- 7:30You probably already know that the scriptures are full of
- 7:32examples of things that cannot be undone.
- 7:35For instance, when the door of Noah's Ark was shut, that was
- 7:38it. The people outside who laughed,
- 7:40who ignored the warnings, they now could not get in.
- 7:43Can you imagine the banging, the pleading as the rain came down,
- 7:47But the door was shut. Judgment had come, it was too
- 7:51late. My dear friend, if you are not
- 7:53born again, that will happen to you one day.
- 7:55The doors of heaven will close too.
- 7:57Jesus said in Luke 13, verse 25, when once the master of the
- 8:01house has risen up and shut the door, that's it, There's no more
- 8:04chances. So while there is still time,
- 8:07repent, because unless you repent, you will all likewise
- 8:11perish. About this example, David and
- 8:14Bathsheba, his unfaithfulness couldn't be undone.
- 8:17Yes, there was forgiveness. Yes, there was restoration, but
- 8:20the sadness, the split, the broken hearts, they remain.
- 8:24Do I have permission to share a Bible verse with you that I
- 8:27memorized when I was a very, very young man?
- 8:30It's Proverbs 6, verse 30. Three and he's.
- 8:32Talking about someone who has fallen into a very similar sin
- 8:36to David, it says his reproach shall not be wiped away.
- 8:41That's the nature of certain sins.
- 8:44They leave. A lasting mark, even though we
- 8:47don't say it out loud, it still lingers in people's minds and
- 8:51silently, whenever you meet that person, whenever you converse
- 8:54with that person, people think, I've not forgotten what you did
- 8:5820 years ago. Judas Iscariot betrayed Jesus
- 9:01for 30 pieces of silver. And that act cannot be undone.
- 9:05And now it's forever recorded in Scripture.
- 9:08And even when people do some kind of behavior where they
- 9:10betray someone, we call them a Judas.
- 9:13What about Lot's wife? One simple instruction.
- 9:16Don't look back. But what did she do?
- 9:18She looked back. And instantly she became a
- 9:21pillar of salt. So final.
- 9:23It was so final. There was number return.
- 9:25Perhaps on a slightly lighter note, have you ever spilled ink
- 9:29from one of those old ink pen pots before?
- 9:32Well, what happens? You try to clean it up, but then
- 9:35you just smudge it more and then it spreads.
- 9:37And the more you try to wipe it, the worse it gets.
- 9:39And like toothpaste out of the tube, once it's out, it's done.
- 9:43Some things we just cannot put back.
- 9:46But everyone take a deep breath now and remember this.
- 9:49Here is the good news for the Christian.
- 9:51Some things actually can be undone.
- 9:54Why? Because God is in the business
- 9:57of restoration. Let me give you an example.
- 9:59In my first year of university, when I was a fresher, I
- 10:03backslid. I walked away from God for one
- 10:05whole year and I'm ashamed of who I was during that time.
- 10:09Honestly, if someone had filled me back then, you would be so
- 10:13surprised to see some of the things I did.
- 10:15But the Lord didn't leave me there.
- 10:17Through some pretty tough circumstances that summer, He
- 10:21brought me back. Now going into my second year, I
- 10:24was different. As I said before, I actually
- 10:26started memorizing the book of Proverbs and from there God took
- 10:30my broken mess and started to piece me back together again.
- 10:34Proverbs 29 verse 11 says a fool uttereth all his and proverbs 10
- 10:40verse 19 says. In the multitude.
- 10:43Of words. There wanteth not.
- 10:45Sin. But he that refraineth his lips
- 10:49is wise. So I made a conscious decision
- 10:52to be quiet, to be gentle, and to just talk about Jesus very
- 10:56gently. One of the nicest.
- 10:58Compliments I've ever received to this day was from someone who
- 11:02said she wasn't a Christian, she said.
- 11:04Joe, you have changed so much. You've just gone so quiet and so
- 11:09humble, and of course that gave a tremendous opportunity to say
- 11:13it's not me. It's all God.
- 11:14All glory to Him. He's the one who's changed me.
- 11:17He truly can restore what the locusts have eaten, and he's
- 11:21done that for me. And I know some of you listening
- 11:23right now, you've got tears in your eyes because you know He's
- 11:26done it for you. You know how far He's brought
- 11:29you. He's given you a new start, a
- 11:31new beginning, a family, a job, peace.
- 11:34And most of all, He's given you salvation.
- 11:36He's given you his Son, Jesus Christ.
- 11:39Yes, there are many things in life that can't be undone, but
- 11:42in eternity the Lord has. Undone them all.
- 11:45He's reversed everything and he's wiped the slate clean.
- 11:48Colossians 2 verse 14 says that he has blotted the handwriting
- 11:53of ordinances that was against us and took it out of the way,
- 11:57nailing it to his cross. Jesus took your debt and
- 12:02cancelled it forever. So if you need a second chance
- 12:05today, if you want a clean start, if you want to turn over
- 12:09a new, don't look anywhere else, Just look at the Lord Jesus
- 12:13Christ. 1. Look at Him.
- 12:14One look, one plea will save you.
- 12:17Why? Because Jesus became the
- 12:19propitiation for our sins. That means He.
- 12:21Took God's wrath. Redirected it away from us and
- 12:24absorbed it himself, he said. I'll take the rap, I'll take it
- 12:29for Joe, I'll take the rap for Peter, for Jane.
- 12:32I will stand in their place because I love them and I'm
- 12:35willing to take that so that they can be forgiven and so I
- 12:39can share heaven with them if only they'll put their trust in
- 12:42me. That's what Christ, that's what
- 12:44Yeshua has done for us. He undos all our wrongs, gives
- 12:48us eternal. Life and even.
- 12:49Entrusts us with heavenly jobs one day despite our poor record.
- 12:54Maybe you are at the end of your life and you wonder, is it too
- 12:58late for me? For me it's not.
- 13:00Jesus can still trust you, but first you've got to trust in
- 13:04Him. Will you do that?
- 13:06Will you come to the cross where Jesus died right now between you
- 13:09and me? I was this close to including
- 13:12this. Really.
- 13:13Powerful story about a town, gossip and a pillow.
- 13:16But I thought many of you have already heard me tell that story
- 13:19before. But if you haven't by any
- 13:21chance, please just click here. Now it's recording.
- 13:49Try again. Sorry, I've got it wrong.
- 13:52This is toothpaste and. This is your finger.
- 14:02Go on. Where's it gone?
- 14:03I'm making this video and all of this is going to get cleaned up
- 14:10in just 5 minutes time.