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A BIG Change for BUMBLE and here's my NEW HACK! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  All right, so Bumble just rolled out some new features yesterday.
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  Did you hear about it? We have been testing it behind
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  the scenes for a while because they didn't make it official.
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  But I knew, and the ladies in my program knew that things have
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  been different for a while on Bumble, OK?
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  And it's been very confusing. It's still confusing.
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  There's still murky waters. But I'm going to explain the
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  most significant change to you. So, you know, just to be clear,
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  I still love Bumble. I still believe in Bumble.
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  But I do believe somebody, somebody needs to build a better
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  mouse trap. And what they've come up with in
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  terms of their changes, ain't it?
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  You know, if you're going to have all the money Bumble has
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  and you're going to have a new COCEO like Bumble has, why not
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  make changes that significantly will impact the matches or the
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  quality of people on the app? They're not doing that,
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  unfortunately. This is why you've got to still
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  use me to help you understand about wedding out and pre
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  qualifying. But let's talk about the thing
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  that they've changed, which is basically their entire business
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  model. But they threw out the window.
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  So hang on. OK, so Bumble's business model
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  was built on the fact that women have the power, women are in
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  control. They're in the driver's seat.
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  So basically you'd match with a guy and the woman had to make
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  the first move. The guy couldn't chat first.
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  He had to stay mute unless you said hey or crack the door open
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  as I teach my ladies. All right.
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  And so therefore, in my book, The Great Manhunt, I came up
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  with a whole I've got a ladybug on my arm that cute.
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  So I came up with this whole strategy where to separate the
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  men from the boys. You match with a guy and then
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  you wait for him to extend. Although they may or may not
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  still have the extend on Bumble, that seems to be still very
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  confusing. They definitely have taken the
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  green ring off, so if you don't look or know exactly what to
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  look for, you're not going to know if a guy extends the time
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  anymore. So there's that.
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  But the biggest thing is this. Everybody now by default has an
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  opening move set on their profile.
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  Whether you want it or not, you automatically have an opening
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  move, which means when you match with a guy, he now has the
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  ability to respond to your opening move.
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  All right, but here is my workaround that I'm giving you
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  so that you can still try to pre qualify a little bit before they
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  get in the door. So if you don't choose the ones
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  they give you the options for, what's the way that makes you
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  smile? You know who's your dream dinner
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  date? A lot of things that are just
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  kind of silly. You do have the ability to write
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  your own. I encourage you to write your
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  own so that you can further pre qualify because what men are
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  doing now And I'll show you the question the that I came up with
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  that they need to answer right? But the problem with these
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  prompts now is a guy's just showing up.
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  He's not even answering the prompts that he's been given the
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  option of. He's just saying hi beautiful.
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  I can't tell you how many hi beautifuls I've seen between my
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  own and the women who are in my program showing me what guys are
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  coming up with. Hi Beautiful is no effort.
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  That's still low level effort. So if you want to again flip the
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  script, here's what you need to do.
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  Do what I did here. I created my own prompt, my own
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  question. And here is the thing I created
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  that they have to answer. All right.
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  I wrote this right here, right here.
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  I'm hoping you ask me an interesting question out of the
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  gate winky face. OK, now you can write your own
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  or you can use what I created. Because now if they want to come
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  through the door and guess what? Now they get to come through the
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  door. Whether you want to do or not.
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  They have to come through the door for me and say this no
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  more. Hi, beautiful.
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  Ignoring the the question. No more ignoring the question
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  because if they've ignored the question, then they are
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  literally asleep at the wheel, like 99.9% of the men that are
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  on there just idly swiping and matching and not paying
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  attention. All right, so if a guy doesn't
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  answer this and he comes up with his own hi, beautiful boring
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  schlaka Schlaka Unmatched and out the door.
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  All right, so this is my workaround for Bumble.
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  This is the new prompts that they're forcing you to have, so
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  you might as well at least try to take control.
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  And this is my little hat for that.
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  I'll be talking about the other features that they're rolling
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  out as I get more acquainted with them.
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  So far, this is the most significant one, but for today,
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  that's it. So I hope it helps.