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Ep255. Built to Give, Rebuilt to Receive: The 5 Blocks Keeping You From Receiving More in Life. · The Inner Wealth Podcast

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  SPEAKER_00: You won't wake up feeling like you're something missing in your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: You won't feel the need to escape your business.
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  SPEAKER_00: Are you running your life or is your life running you?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna keep going.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm helping design and putting the life so authentic and aligned with who you know you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't get excited just to wake up.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm helping you create real wealth to accept your freedom from the inside out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Inner Wealth Podcast, where we learn and choose to live inspired each and every day.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've fully written and published two books.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the first was called The Imposter in Charge.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I believe it was October of 2019 when I released that book.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the second I released in August of 2025 called Inner World Outer World.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's really, really good.
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  SPEAKER_00: I I highly recommend Inner World Outer World.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's a it's like all my spiritual beliefs and all of just higher level perspectives, in my opinion, higher level perspectives all put in the same, the same volume.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when I when I wrote The Imposter in Charge back in 2019 and before leading up to it, I hired a book coach.
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  SPEAKER_00: And because I had never written the book before.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I totally believe in mentorship and having a guide, having someone who's already solved the problem and knows how to solve it easier.
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  SPEAKER_00: Have that person in your life so that so you can, you know, you can make the the path to achieve what you want to achieve, to accomplish what you want to accomplish, to make it a little easier.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, or make it a lot easier.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when I hired my book coach, one of the things that I remember her uh speaking and saying, and I'll never forget this, is when you're working on your book, your book is working on you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that was a very, very profound statement.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've actually, now that you know, when she said that, and and I really connected to that understanding and that belief.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I started seeing that everywhere because when I when I release a podcast episode or I record a podcast episode, it I'm working on it, but it's working on me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm learning things as I'm as I'm teaching.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I get on here, I don't have a script.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have a topic in mind.
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  SPEAKER_00: And right now I have a little note card in front of me with, you know, with with five things that I'm gonna share today, but I don't come on here with like a script.
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  SPEAKER_00: I just have kind of like a plan, a subject and a plan.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when um when I start producing or I start recording my podcast episodes, it works on me and I'm learning as I'm teaching, and it's really cool.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the same thing happens anytime I've written blogs or, you know, in my books.
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  SPEAKER_00: And right now I am working on my third book.
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  SPEAKER_00: Actually, I'm probably working on my 50th, but I I've only released two because I never got to the finish line with the, with, with many of them.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the point is, is I am working on my third volume that will be released.
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  SPEAKER_00: It will be published.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, and I'm in a writing process.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the title, the working title of this book is Built to Give, Rebuilt to Receive.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what it's all about is there are people in this world that have a really, really easy time receiving.
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  SPEAKER_00: They expect to receive, they anticipate receiving, they feel loved and supported by life and by God and by the universe, and they recognize that they deserve goodness in their life and they have no problems receiving it from people.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like if you were to hold out a hundred dollars, a hundred dollar bill to someone who's an easy receiver and say, this is the gift, they will just take the the$100 bill and put it in their pocket, and they'll just say thank you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because they anticipate that life wants to give them goodness.
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  SPEAKER_00: But for most people in the world, receiving is very difficult.
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  SPEAKER_00: They have an easy time giving.
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  SPEAKER_00: Giving is not an issue, but they still live through the broken belief and the struggle belief that it's better to give than receive.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's just not true.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you live by the by the belief, by the perspective that it's better to give than receive, oftentimes what you'll do is you'll start to block receiving in the world.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you were to hold out a hundred dollar bill to someone who's not an easy receiver, who struggles to receive, they'll they'll try to immediately they'll they'll they'll like say, no, I can't do that, or or they'll just try to earn it or deserve it or understand why what they have to do for it and what your expectations are, because they've they've like applied so many conditions to the receiving process.
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  SPEAKER_00: They don't just feel so worthy and valuable that they believe and expect and anticipate that life's gonna deliver goodness in their lives.
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  SPEAKER_00: They are they are built to earn, to deserve, to struggle, to immediately reciprocate and not just receive for the sake of receiving, to uh to to honor and recognize the miracle that they are.
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  SPEAKER_00: So there are easy receivers in this world and there are people that block receiving.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you watch, if you really pay attention, if people block, you know, if you give them a compliment and they push it away, if you try to help them and they try to get you to stop, if they don't ask for help, if they don't accept support, if they don't allow other people to help them, if they don't look at life as a team sport where we're all here adding value to each other, then oftentimes they're gonna be really easy givers, but they're gonna be struggle is just receivers.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's what uh built to give, rebuilt to receive is all about.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's about taking someone who's a really good giver that that builds and derives self-worth and self-esteem through giving, but also levels up their receiving game that makes receiving shameless and guiltless and easy.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, because they're these are equal.
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  SPEAKER_00: Giving's not better than receiving, these are equal.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if we don't feel equally easy in both, then oftentimes you're gonna give a whole lot more than you receive, and you're doing yourself a huge disservice in this world.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's what that's what my new book is gonna be about.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm in the process of writing it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I just wrote a chapter.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you're working on your book, your book is working on you.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I just wrote a chapter and it's called The Many Ways, the working title, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: This could change, but the the many, the many ways we block ourselves from receiving.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, because we do block ourselves from receiving in many, many, many ways.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this causes overgiving, this causes overdelivering, this causes uh uh expending, always expending a lot and getting a little in return.
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  SPEAKER_00: And at some point, if if we really want to live high quality lives, we gotta we gotta tip the balance back into that the belief, the understanding and the embodiment that giving is equal to receiving.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope that makes sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So as I'm working on this book, it's working on me, and I came up with five major categories where we often receive when we're not good receivers, when we're not easy receivers.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I want to share that on today's podcast episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, so in the chapter, I have five separate blocks in each category.
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  SPEAKER_00: But today I don't want to go into the depth of each block, but I do want to go into the category so maybe you can see where you're blocking some goodness from coming into your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because that's the whole point of all of this is the self-awareness and the self-understanding of how to level up our inner game.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we level up our inner game, then we're gonna level up our external game.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: The world doesn't it doesn't withhold things from us.
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  SPEAKER_00: The world is just a reflection of who we are.
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  SPEAKER_00: And as we change inside, then and that emotional signature changes, then life is gonna rearrange itself around the emotional signature.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when we level up in our receiving game, life's gonna start to deliver more for you to receive.
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  SPEAKER_00: So hopefully this uh episode today is fun and entertaining for you, but hopefully it's also uh educational and it connects you to some deeper sense of self-awareness that maybe was missing before.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, but five categories, not blocks, five categories that we're gonna cover today.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is where I have my little note card.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you if you if you're watching this, you see my eyes dip down.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if you're listening, you can't tell that I'm getting ready to read, except I'm telling you.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, but five areas, responsibility, resisting, blocking and resisting, responsibility for yourself, your own desires, support and care, ease and abundance, and your fullest expression.
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  SPEAKER_00: Resisting and blocking each of these categories, responsibility for yourself, your own desires, support and care, ease and abundance, and your fullest expression.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna go through uh category by category and kind of explain the flavor, the flair, the energy and the kind of the signature of that block.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: When someone resists responsibility for themselves, all right, it doesn't mean that uh that they don't want to assume responsibility for themselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: It means they feel more driven and determined to focus on being responsible for everybody else ahead of themselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's almost like you're looking to take care of everybody else before you give yourself permission to take care of yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: You put everybody else's needs and wants and desires and okayness.
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  SPEAKER_00: You you're trying to you're trying to help someone feel okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: So because you feel like it, this over sense of responsibility for everybody else's needs and wants and quality of life over and above your own.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the this is the classic martyr, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the classic uh um, yeah, I guess that's the best way, the the the martyr.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the this is the person that goes out and typically just will deplete themselves for everyone's best interest.
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  SPEAKER_00: And oftentimes in this category, we put our head on a satellite dish and we're looking around for problems of others and and we're we're feeling the emotions of others, and we're we're we're we're trying to we're trying to help everybody be okay around us, and it's oftentimes at our expense.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the reality is there's until if you have children, obviously you are responsible for their well-being until they're adults.
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  SPEAKER_00: But in reality, when it when we're not dealing with with children, we only have ownership and responsibility over our own life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if we're always waiting for permission slip from other people, or if we're always prioritizing other people over and above ourselves, then we're not fully owning and being responsible for our own life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we're blocking receiving the awesome life that we deserve because we're too busy trying to trying to make everybody else okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: The reality is, is you are not a martyr.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are not a martyr.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we we owe no one a depleted version of ourselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, I'm a dad, I've got two two daughters, and luckily they're they're they're adults now.
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  SPEAKER_00: But there was a time where obviously I had to pay attention and I had to focus and and to protect and provide and make sure that they were okay when they couldn't defend themselves or defend for themselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when we're dealing with adults, if you allow them to own their life and you allow them to be responsible for their life, oftentimes they'll find a way out of their own problems without you solving them for them if they really want their problem solved.
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  SPEAKER_00: And sometimes people have problems just so they get attention.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when we prioritize ourselves and we stop paying attention, they stop coming up with problems, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: But block number one to receiving is resisting and blocking full responsibility for yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope that makes sense, all right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Put yourself first, put your needs first.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your wants are just as important as everybody else's wants.
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  SPEAKER_00: So are your needs, all right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Gotta own yourself, own your wants, own your needs.
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  SPEAKER_00: The second area that I want to talk about is owning your desires.
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  SPEAKER_00: So resisting and blocking your own desires.
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  SPEAKER_00: One time in a coaching conversation, I had I had a uh a conversation.
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  SPEAKER_00: I just asked this question a lot.
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  SPEAKER_00: What do you really, really want?
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  SPEAKER_00: What what do you want?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, what do you really want?
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  SPEAKER_00: And and the my mastermind student just kept saying, I don't know what I want.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know what I want.
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  SPEAKER_00: And really, he did know what he wants.
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  SPEAKER_00: He just wouldn't own it.
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  SPEAKER_00: He just, he didn't, he felt shameful and he felt guilty for wanting anything because his childhood conditioning said that wanting anything was it it was selfish.
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  SPEAKER_00: And every time he tried to, like I asked him, what do you want?
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  SPEAKER_00: He said, I don't know what I want.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if he even started thinking about wanting something, he felt something that was so uncomfortable, the feeling of selfishness, because it was conditioned inside of him.
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  SPEAKER_00: And he didn't know how to navigate that, the discomfort of the selfishness that was inside of him.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And also, there's all also this conditioning that we might, uh, that we might be exposed to, that if we have too many needs, then we are needy, then we are a burden to other people.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we just pretend we don't need or want anything and we don't really, we don't really allow that part of us to come out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we stop blocking and we start receiving our own ownership over our own wants and our needs and our desires, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: That's when we can again step into a level of in a world where we're equal.
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  SPEAKER_00: Our needs are equal with everybody else's, our wants are equal with everybody else.
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  SPEAKER_00: And life is trying to deliver when you allow yourself to receive, life will start to deliver to those, the to that, uh, to your your needs and wants.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's just up to you to receive them.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if you block and you don't feel you feel selfish receiving, then you won't.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the feeling of selfishness is a condition, and we can rearrange that at any time.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the block category, block number two is resisting your own desires.
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  SPEAKER_00: Number three is support and care.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So in in category number one, it was about owning everybody else, okay, and owning every trying to be responsible for everybody else's well-being and for for their quality of life and making sure that they're okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Block number three that we're going to talk about receiving support and care and blocking support and care, it's all about allowing other people to help you.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's all about you allowing people to support you, to encourage you, to lift you up, to pay you, to provide value in your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And oftentimes we're so busy giving that we won't allow ourselves to receive.
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  SPEAKER_00: We just feel like we're selfish or we're a burden if somebody starts to help us.
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  SPEAKER_00: And and if you if you really pay attention in the world, there's there's there's times where you know somebody tries to help you, and and somebody, you know, the person who struggles to receive support and care just says, no, sit down.
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  SPEAKER_00: I got this, I got this, because the feeling of being a burden to others, or needing to do it themselves, or feeling like their life needs to be hard.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if they receive help, it's too easy.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this is a block to joy and to love and to everything you want.
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  SPEAKER_00: But it comes because of your resisting support and care in the world.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we allow ourselves to receive support and care, then we do recognize, just like in that first one, we recognize that life's a team sport.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we can allow other people to help us, but we also don't need to be needy, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Just asking for help isn't needy.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's treating life like a light, like a like a team sport, and that's what it was intended for all the time.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's why somebody would join my mastermind.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's why, that's why somebody would sign up for private coaching with me and and coach privately because I've got this instinct and this talent for mentoring and guiding people to help them pass their blocks and move them in.
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  SPEAKER_00: And all they need to do is be willing to receive support and care and treat life like a team sport.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the help is out there, you just have to allow it into your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Number four is believe it or not, this is this is crazy.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I see it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It it's it's all around, all right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Number four is blocking ease and abundance, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Have you ever seen someone who, in order to feel good about receiving, needs to make everything hard, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Needs to earn it, needs to deserve it.
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  SPEAKER_00: One time I was in a workshop and there was a gal in front, right in front, and I said, What if you gave up the story and you allowed goodness to show up in your life, you allowed money and you allowed success to show up in your life without ever needing to earn or deserve anything else.
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  SPEAKER_00: And she said, That doesn't even feel good.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like her inside started quaking because she associated uh achievement with earning and deserving.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like just because she was a human being, a miracle, she already didn't deserve it.
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  SPEAKER_00: She had to effort, she had to stress, she had to struggle, she had to do hard things to be able to give herself permission to feel like she had earned and deserved it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And only then could she let it into her life.
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  SPEAKER_00: But oftentimes, when you when you're blocked in this category of ease and abundance, you never truly give yourself permission, never sign that permission slip to allow yourself to receive equally what you really do deserve just because you're breathing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: But category number four is to block ease and abundance.
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  SPEAKER_00: And part of this is uh, and I saw this in my life in corporate, is whenever I got a raise or whenever I got promoted, I made my life harder because more equaled harder.
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  SPEAKER_00: And harder equaled more.
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  SPEAKER_00: To me, that they were coupled.
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  SPEAKER_00: That you can't make more money with decreasing or stable levels of ease.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have to make your life has to get harder in order to justify more coming into your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this just isn't true.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's a block to ease and abundance.
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  SPEAKER_00: We can decouple that.
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  SPEAKER_00: My work in the world used to be hard when it was in corporate because I it wasn't aligned for it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't enjoy it, I hated it, I did it out of obligation.
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  SPEAKER_00: And now my work in the world is very joyful and it's very easy and it feels effortless to me because it's part of it's aligned with my talents and with my natural design.
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  SPEAKER_00: My calls are easy, writing books is easy, this podcast is easy, and all of those things together make me money.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Speaking, I get I've I've been paid to speak on front of the stage, and that's my favorite thing to do in the world.
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  SPEAKER_00: And these are all get-tos, not have-tos.
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  SPEAKER_00: But there was part of me when I was still living in my father's blue-collar, blue-collar mentality and his blue-collar work ethic frame of mind, is that to get more, you have to do harder.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your life has to be harder.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the more, the more struggle, the more money, and the more money, the more struggle.
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  SPEAKER_00: And to me, they were equal.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And all that is, all that is, is a block to ease and abundance.
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  SPEAKER_00: We can have ease and abundance.
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  SPEAKER_00: We just have to be willing to receive it and look for where it is instead of looking where for where it's not.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this last part, this last one, this last category, I've just about everything I've ever created has had an element of self-love and self-acceptance and authenticity built in.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's in inner world, outer world, it's in the imposter in charge.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've done full podcast episodes on it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've spoken on it, uh, blogs, everything, Facebook posts and and social media posts.
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  SPEAKER_00: So much of my content is about is about authenticity and being able to be your fullest expression.
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  SPEAKER_00: And category number five is blocking your fullest expression.
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  SPEAKER_00: It it might be, you know, lack of self-worth.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's that's a block to your fullest expression.
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  SPEAKER_00: It may be feeling like you you can't take up too much space, or you don't, you don't want to be seen, or you know, you don't want to be heard, or your voice doesn't matter, or you know, just stories that that you're invisible.
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  SPEAKER_00: All these things are just blocks to receiving, just stepping into your fullest expression and your full authority and your full authenticity in the world.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we are blocked from living our fullest expression, then we won't allow ourselves to receive the fruits of that fullest expression.
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  SPEAKER_00: And trust me, when I say your fullest expression, your most authentic self, your deepest truth will make you the money that you seek.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you're not stepping into and receiving your fullest expression, when you're blocking your fullest expression, you're not going to harvest the full fruits and the and the full harvest of your fullest expression, your your design, your purpose, and your ultimately, your ultimate destiny, why, why you, your soul chose to put on this meat suit.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I say put on the meat suit, I remember the last couple of podcast episodes I shared that your soul carries the dream, your mind creates the dream, but it's up to your body to receive it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if your body feels uncomfortable receiving any of these things, responsibility for yourself, your own desires, support, and care is in abundance or your fullest expression, then you are not living your most aligned design, purpose, and destiny.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your fullest expression will move the needle in both your life, your life, and the lives of others.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if any of that is blocked, if you don't accept yourself, if you don't love yourself, if you don't speak your truth, if you're if you're trying to be nice and you're withholding your truth, then you're not you're not really allowing yourself to come out and play.
• 23:21
  SPEAKER_00: And that's a block to receiving the fruits of your fullest expression, but it's also blocking feeling the power within your most authentic self.
• 23:32
  SPEAKER_00: Guys, I'd love to hear your thoughts.
• 23:33
  SPEAKER_00: I'd love to hear what what your thoughts are on this.
• 23:36
  SPEAKER_00: You know, uh if you're listening, there's a you can we email me.
• 23:40
  SPEAKER_00: I I've got in the show notes, I've got, you know, Mike at uh innerwealthglobal.com is my email address.
• 23:46
  SPEAKER_00: Uh if you go to the website, uh innerwealthglobal.com, there's a form.
• 23:50
  SPEAKER_00: I'd love to hear back from you.
• 23:53
  SPEAKER_00: Uh get in touch with me.
• 23:54
  SPEAKER_00: I'd love to hear your thoughts.
• 23:56
  SPEAKER_00: Uh if if we're on Facebook, when I promote this on Facebook, if you know, if you get in there and listen to the episode, you know, I'd love to hear your thoughts on these five categories.
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_00: And I'll go over them again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Category number one is resisting responsibility for yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: Category number two is resisting your own desires, your wants and needs, resisting support and care, supporting ease or resisting ease and abundance, and resisting your fullest expression and your truest nature.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.
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  SPEAKER_00: And where are you blocking yourself?
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  SPEAKER_00: And the question, you know, is as we as we do more of this work, right now you're built to give.
• 24:35
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 24:35
  SPEAKER_00: You're probably a really, really easy giver.
• 24:38
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 24:38
  SPEAKER_00: I went to a I went to a seminar one time and I uh the the speaker started off.
• 24:42
  SPEAKER_00: How many of you love to help people?
• 24:44
  SPEAKER_00: And everybody raised their hand and he said, okay, now how many of you love to ask for help?
• 24:48
  SPEAKER_00: And like two hands went up, all right?
• 24:50
  SPEAKER_00: And you have probably been, if you're like most people, you've been conditioned and programmed to give easily.
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  SPEAKER_00: The question I have for you is, are you willing to be rebuilt to receive as easily as you give?
• 25:06
  SPEAKER_00: It's not an act of selfishness, it's not an act of painful selfishness, but it is an act of healthy selfishness, leveling up your own significance equal to everybody else.
• 25:18
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, you're a miracle just like everybody else.
• 25:20
  SPEAKER_00: You deserve ease, abundance, your fullest expression.
• 25:24
  SPEAKER_00: You deserve support and care.
• 25:26
  SPEAKER_00: You deserve all this.
• 25:27
  SPEAKER_00: You just have to allow it into your life.
• 25:28
  SPEAKER_00: Question is, are you willing to rebuild yourself and your nervous system in order to receive everything that you deserve?
• 25:37
  SPEAKER_00: And you deserve everything.
• 25:44
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