Latest / Wedding Pros who are ready to grow - with Becca Pountney / Overcoming Adversity and Scaling Your Wedding Business - With Kerry Curl
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- 0:00Kerry: So if you look at your profile or even your competitor's profile,
- 0:04think as if it is a Tinder profile.
- 0:08Crazy, but it's true.
- 0:10So if you're saying, why book me?
- 0:13It's almost like saying, why date me?
- 0:15So you're leading with that kind of keen guy that just wants to,
- 0:20you know, have that one night stand or maybe that woman when you
- 0:24need to start leading with desire.
- 0:27Becca: I'm Becca Pountney, wedding business, marketing expert,
- 0:30speaker and blogger, and you're listening to the wedding pros
- 0:33who are ready to grow podcast.
- 0:36I'm here to share with you actionable tips, strategies and real life
- 0:39examples to help you take your wedding business to the next level.
- 0:43If you are an ambitious wedding business owner that wants to take your passion
- 0:46and use it to build a profitable, sustainable business doing what you
- 0:50love, then you're in the right place.
- 0:52Let's get going with today's episode.
- 0:55Today I'm chatting with Kerry Curl.
- 0:57I've known Kerry for years having watched her journey as a client of mine when she
- 1:01was building her incredibly successful wedding hair and makeup business through
- 1:04to now where she inspires and teaches other people and other hair and makeup
- 1:07artists how to follow in her success.
- 1:09I can't wait for her to share her whole story with all of you today.
- 1:13Kerry, welcome to the podcast.
- 1:15Kerry: Oh, thank you, Becca, for inviting me.
- 1:18Becca: It's such a pleasure, and I'm so excited to have you on because, as
- 1:21I said, I've been watching your journey for years, from where you were to where
- 1:24you are now, and I know that it's really going to inspire people who are listening.
- 1:28So, right, At the beginning, let's go back to the start of your journey.
- 1:32So how did you even end up doing wedding hair and makeup in the first place?
- 1:36Kerry: Oh my goodness.
- 1:37So my previous career to that was sales and marketing.
- 1:40So yeah, I mean, it's completely different.
- 1:42Actually, a friend of mine pretty much dragged me to a professional beauty show
- 1:47and She was like, I think you'd be really good at doing beauty or hair or makeup.
- 1:52And I just kind of laughed and thought, no, I'm never going to do that.
- 1:55Like that.
- 1:56That's, that's not me.
- 1:57I'm business, but actually I completely fell in love with makeup.
- 2:00So I, enrolled in a couple of courses and when I left school, I did do
- 2:06hairdressing for a couple of years.
- 2:07So I already had that kind of background and it really did just
- 2:12start off with, you know, as a hobby.
- 2:15So yeah, it didn't.
- 2:17I, now looking back, it was a side hustle from my marketing role and.
- 2:23It's a bit like when, you know, when you're on maternity leave and you're
- 2:25kind of like, oh, I might take up knitting or something like that.
- 2:29It was, it was that vibe.
- 2:31I genuinely never saw it being anything other than that at the time.
- 2:36Becca: So you had it as a side hustle.
- 2:37You decided that you were quite good at it.
- 2:39Did you go straight into doing it for weddings or were you doing it for friends?
- 2:42Parties?
- 2:43What were you doing at the start?
- 2:44Kerry: Yeah, I was definitely just putting the feelers out there.
- 2:47It was so brand new.
- 2:48It felt so raw.
- 2:50I'm not going to lie.
- 2:50It felt so raw just to try and pitch hair and makeup to clients.
- 2:56So I definitely was doing all the proms.
- 2:59And advertising on Facebook, all those kind of places at the time, this is a
- 3:03long time ago, you go back 12 years, we didn't even have, you know that Becca,
- 3:07we didn't even have Instagram, it was Facebook, so it was that kind of vibe,
- 3:11and there was the few brides that would come through, and I used to be terrified.
- 3:18I was absolutely terrified, but they used to inspire me.
- 3:21They used to go, come on, let's do it.
- 3:22Like, I think you'd be really good.
- 3:23I really like your work.
- 3:24And, you know, it sort of went from there really.
- 3:27And I just thought, actually, I find that I get better money doing the
- 3:31weddings than I do the occasional stuff.
- 3:33And I genuinely.
- 3:35I fell in love with it really fast.
- 3:36Becca: So you fell in love with it, you started getting some clients.
- 3:39Was all of this happening whilst working in your other job as well?
- 3:43And when did the transition from doing both happen?
- 3:47Kerry: Yeah, so I was on maternity leave and that's when I trained to do makeup.
- 3:52And then I have to say, Very fast.
- 3:55So within, I'm going to say like nine months, I then decided that I no longer
- 3:59wanted to be doing the 15 hour travel up and down the country with baby
- 4:04in tow and trying to get childcare.
- 4:06And very quickly, this little side hustle became a focus where I could
- 4:11just see it working around my child.
- 4:13It meant that my hubby could stay back at weekends and look after.
- 4:17Our new baby.
- 4:18And it also meant that I could go out and be an adult again.
- 4:21So that was that transition.
- 4:23I would say from just the very early stages of having a baby and getting on
- 4:28top of the night fees and getting on top of, you know, what comes next in my life,
- 4:33because it was a completely new chapter.
- 4:34Becca: And was that an easy decision to make, because I know that a lot
- 4:37of people struggle with this idea of leaving a secure job to going
- 4:42self employed, it feels very scary.
- 4:44It feels like a big risk.
- 4:46It feels like a big jump.
- 4:47So mindset wise, how did you come to that place?
- 4:50Kerry: Yeah, that's such a good question.
- 4:52It was mindset that took me out of that role.
- 4:55I have to say, if I hadn't done that in a work of thinking, right, you
- 5:01know, I, I need something different that fits in with the family.
- 5:04How can I make this work?
- 5:06You know, looking at the money that I was making at the time, how could
- 5:08I see this working as an actual career and really plotting it out.
- 5:13So I think really.
- 5:15My background in sales and marketing was very helpful and very useful to
- 5:18me because I very quickly was able to map that out, but I can see how others
- 5:23would struggle with that and just think, no, this is not the right time.
- 5:26And they will perhaps be stuck like that for some time.
- 5:30You know, it wasn't easy.
- 5:31It was scary.
- 5:32I genuinely felt like a small chicken nugget in the industry, but
- 5:36I just thought I'm going to do it.
- 5:38Like that's me all over though.
- 5:39You know, I'm, I'm very much, I'm going to jump.
- 5:41I'm going to do it.
- 5:42You know, get my husband to hold my hand.
- 5:45Becca: Well, sometimes we have to, I always say to people, it's the chicken
- 5:48and egg, because if you wait to get your business big enough until you
- 5:50leave your job, you don't have the time to make your business big enough.
- 5:53And you just keep going round and round in circles.
- 5:56So at some point you do have to take that leap.
- 5:58Now you took the leap.
- 5:59It obviously paid off.
- 6:00You started building your business, which became very successful.
- 6:03But one thing I love to talk about is the mistakes people made in the early days,
- 6:07because all of us, when we look back and I did a whole podcast episode about my
- 6:11own mistakes, when we look back at those early days, we think, why did I do that?
- 6:15How was I even functioning successfully when I was doing those things?
- 6:18So for you, when you look back at those early days, are there
- 6:21anything that stands out mistakes?
- 6:22You're making things you think, why Kerry, did I do that?
- 6:25Kerry: Oh God, absolutely loads, not just in business, but on the
- 6:28creative craft side of things, you know, not not thinking ahead and
- 6:33thinking to myself, Oh, that's fine.
- 6:35I can just ring up a photographer and they'll want to do a shoot with me.
- 6:38It's fine.
- 6:38Like, no, I didn't even have a website.
- 6:41So why, what, what's in it for them?
- 6:42Do you see what I mean?
- 6:43So I, I talked about this in one of my masterclasses called dream bride
- 6:47attraction secrets, which was how I started to grow that business.
- 6:51Yeah.
- 6:51Because I'd made so many mistakes and yeah, I did.
- 6:54I picked up the phone and I started to call around suppliers.
- 6:58That's my background, sales marketing.
- 6:59And I thought that's what you did.
- 7:00And I actually genuinely thought this is crazy.
- 7:03I genuinely thought that that's what you did.
- 7:05You just rung people and said like, I want to either work with you or
- 7:08can you recommend me how naive?
- 7:11Like I had no authority positioning.
- 7:13I had no, no website.
- 7:15I had nothing to my name, but just, you know, a Facebook account.
- 7:19So of course I got a lot of people, you know.
- 7:22Pretty much like saying you're wasting my time, go away.
- 7:24So it was quite uncomfortable to begin with.
- 7:27And then I ended up using a different strategy actually, all together.
- 7:32It worked out perfectly and, got me more friends in the industry.
- 7:35And eventually I did get that visibility piece.
- 7:39Becca: So what was that strategy then?
- 7:40Give us your secret sauce what did you do differently?
- 7:42That's what people want to know.
- 7:43Kerry: Yeah, I'm fine.
- 7:46I'm not in that industry anymore, you know, doing it.
- 7:48So it's fine to do that now.
- 7:49So what I did was I created a network.
- 7:52So I know you're very big on there.
- 7:54So I, there was, I looked in my area and there was nothing for wedding
- 7:58suppliers in the Cambridgeshire area.
- 8:00And I was just like, but how do they all meet up?
- 8:03Cause Coming from a sales background, marketing background, that's what you did.
- 8:06You network.
- 8:08And it was just a missing piece in the industry.
- 8:10So I decided to create a Facebook community where bi weekly or monthly
- 8:16wedding suppliers got to hook up.
- 8:18And I kind of just pitched it as, look, you're, you're fantastic.
- 8:21We really want to see more of the, higher level or higher
- 8:25caliber industry colleagues inside this community come and join us.
- 8:30And.
- 8:31Luckily, out of, I think it was 20 19 said yes, and they added, and
- 8:37I added them as Facebook friends.
- 8:39So all of a sudden it looked like I'd got that great
- 8:42connect, do you see what I mean?
- 8:44And they joined in, and before I knew it, it was just a great
- 8:48community, it's still going.
- 8:49I think actually there's well over a hundred in there, and I'm still an admin
- 8:54with the lovely Lee Allison Photography.
- 8:56So.
- 8:57We, so it, you know, years later, that's how I cultivated
- 9:02that authority positioning.
- 9:04One of the things I did anyway, that worked really well.
- 9:06Becca: I absolutely love that.
- 9:07And as you know, I'm a big fan of doing that.
- 9:10And I think if you're a nobody, as exactly as you said you were, you have
- 9:13to make yourself a somebody, and that's a really great way of doing that.
- 9:16So you grew your business and you were going out and you were.
- 9:20at weddings and you were doing hair and makeup.
- 9:21Now what happens particularly for hair and makeup artists, but it
- 9:24does happen across the industry, is you reach an income ceiling.
- 9:27So you get to a point where actually there's not enough Saturdays and Sundays
- 9:30for you to go out and do makeup and hair at all of these different weddings.
- 9:34So just tell us what you did, how you overcame that and what came next.
- 9:38Kerry: Yes, there's two things I did.
- 9:40So the first thing I noticed was that the level of leads was only coming.
- 9:44from maybe one or two sources.
- 9:46And actually it was, I was really reliant on the, you know,
- 9:51the methods of recommendation.
- 9:53And of course that is a hope and praise strategy.
- 9:55You know, you can't live on that.
- 9:57And so what I did was I started to look at venue.
- 10:01Managers and coordinators and how I could, you know, cultivate those relationships
- 10:04so that I could start getting listed with, you know, more venues.
- 10:08And so when that started to take off, and I think within two
- 10:11years I'd secured seven of them.
- 10:13So in the area that was really, really key.
- 10:17They were all handpicked luxury weddings, wedding venues.
- 10:21And, you know, I, I worked really hard for those.
- 10:24The next thing I did was I hired a mentor and I know at the time that, I mean,
- 10:31we're going back quite a few years now, maybe two six, 2016 to 17, and it's.
- 10:36Still was like an icky sticky feeling in the industry.
- 10:39Like, why would you need a mentor?
- 10:41Like, do we even need one?
- 10:42And I used to see them pop up online.
- 10:44I'd be like, no, it's like when I had my branding done.
- 10:48No, I don't need that yet.
- 10:50But I did do that and I did pay somebody.
- 10:53Quite substantial amount of money back then.
- 10:55It was about 600 pounds for a couple of hours, sit down session with them.
- 10:59See, I did do that.
- 11:01Becca: And so they advised you to grow bigger.
- 11:04Did they advise, like, what did they advise you to do?
- 11:06Kerry: Yeah.
- 11:06So this is really key.
- 11:08That first mentor, it was not a good partnership and this is really,
- 11:12really important and it wasn't that I didn't, you know, I think that
- 11:16she was going to be able to help me because I'd seen that she'd got really
- 11:20good results with somebody, whole.
- 11:24The whole conversation just didn't work.
- 11:26She hadn't researched my business.
- 11:28I felt that she had a lot to say about my colleagues in the industry.
- 11:33It.
- 11:34It seems to go on and on and on where it was a general conversation
- 11:37and not enough depth to my business and how I could take it forward.
- 11:40And this is the biggest piece for me.
- 11:42And it absolutely killed me at the time was that she said that
- 11:45I would never, your business is okay, but you'll never make money.
- 11:48You'll never make good money as a hair and makeup artist in this industry.
- 11:52And I walked away crying, Becca.
- 11:54I was like, what have I done?
- 11:56Like.
- 11:57And I remember talking to my industry colleagues and they were all so excited.
- 12:00I was the first one that ever had a mentor out of our group.
- 12:03And they're like, what was it like?
- 12:04What was it like?
- 12:05And I said, I wish that I could actually sit here and say, yeah,
- 12:09she's 10 X my business in literally two hours, but that did not happen.
- 12:13And then the worst thing happened was that I would then on a wedding
- 12:17the following day, after having a really bad night's sleep.
- 12:21And I'm going to share something really personal and I ended up crashing
- 12:24into the mother of the bride's, car because, I got a request, I got
- 12:29a notification to say that she'd unfriended me on Facebook as well.
- 12:33And the night before she'd asked me for a testimonial and I felt really
- 12:37compelled to leave for a really good one, even though it was terrible.
- 12:40And so it really shocked me.
- 12:42So I had a really big.
- 12:44crash after spending that kind of money.
- 12:47And I was like, hell, I'm never hiring a mentor ever again.
- 12:50Becca: That is hard.
- 12:52That is difficult.
- 12:53And thank you for sharing that.
- 12:54So let's stick with this for a minute then, because this is obviously more
- 12:57of a, we've talked about, we were going on the up and the up, and then
- 13:00this is, you've hit a bit of a down.
- 13:03We know, and I'm sure you now advocate that business mentoring
- 13:07can be a really good thing, but it is about finding the right fit.
- 13:10So what lessons have you learned from that experience in terms of
- 13:14Finding the right people to work with.
- 13:16Kerry: Yeah.
- 13:17So when I got over the shock of that, I had to quickly have a word
- 13:20with myself and say, you know what?
- 13:22Not everybody is going to be like this.
- 13:25And I've seen other mentors out there.
- 13:27So I'd been to a couple of other wedding industry mentor, like
- 13:31events, free events and things.
- 13:32And I thought I can't let this one person make me believe that mentoring
- 13:38can't work for my business because.
- 13:40You know, it's, it's proven that if you have a mentor or a coach, that
- 13:44you will propel yourself forward.
- 13:45And I wasn't going to give up, even though it costs me time and money
- 13:49and my self esteem at the time.
- 13:50So.
- 13:52It taught me that finding the right person, that your person in the
- 13:57industry that can just walk shoulder to shoulder with you, they are out there.
- 14:01And sometimes we do have to make mistakes in business to find that right person.
- 14:06And I'm so glad Becca that I got back on the, on the horse.
- 14:11And I, you know, I've had several mentors now and she's a minority.
- 14:17Like, when I think now to all the great mentors I've had, I'm actually,
- 14:23it makes me become a better mentor when I have people that are not
- 14:28delivering and being that kind of cloak in, you know, like emperor's
- 14:31cloak feeling, you know, where you get inside and it's not what you thought.
- 14:35I'm so now hyper conscious that people don't walk away from any
- 14:38of my sessions feeling that way.
- 14:40And so I, I go all out for my clients.
- 14:44Becca: That's a great way to look at it as well, because we always
- 14:46talk about how everything that happens in life happens for a reason.
- 14:49And sometimes at the time we don't know what that reason is,
- 14:51but we can turn things into good.
- 14:53And so your bad experience has made you a better mentor for your clients.
- 14:58Now let's go back because I know that you had.
- 15:02going out and doing hair and makeup, and then you grew to be more of an agency.
- 15:06So talk to me about how that happened, how that came about.
- 15:10Kerry: Yeah.
- 15:10So what was happening at that point was that I was having, coming through the
- 15:15business, I had like seven pipelines.
- 15:17So there was a huge amount of venue leads coming through.
- 15:21And then of course we were top on Google.
- 15:24So I'd invested in a great, professional, website designer who got us the top spot.
- 15:31And with all the testimonials and, you know, recommendations from other
- 15:35suppliers in the industry, predominantly from that networking group, I have to
- 15:39say it was more than I could handle.
- 15:42And at the time I actually didn't kind of think too hard about it
- 15:46because I'd already had this small gathering of females around me
- 15:51that were happy to take work on.
- 15:54And happy for me to take a cut.
- 15:57And they just turn up with a timesheet.
- 15:59And they were like, Please just do more of that.
- 16:01Because I can't be bothered with all the behind the scenes stuff.
- 16:03And of course, I love all of that.
- 16:05So it quickly kind of scaled.
- 16:08Into something bigger.
- 16:10And I thought, right, okay, now I need a team.
- 16:12Right?
- 16:13I can't be, there's just this, cuz at the time I was still working
- 16:16on weddings, I was still doing like over a hundred weddings
- 16:19myself and charging out this team.
- 16:22And it would just become a crazy world of entrepreneurship, of not
- 16:26sleeping, you know, and being very, very hands-on with all the touch points
- 16:30that you have to do, all the social media, all of the emails, invoicing.
- 16:34And I just thought, I can't wear all of the hats for any longer
- 16:39just, you know, and, and that was the next phase in my business.
- 16:43So I decided to hire two VAs.
- 16:46Which then grew more.
- 16:47I think by the end I had four or five and they were all
- 16:50doing moneymaking activities.
- 16:52So it was like a hive.
- 16:54CMA was like a hive of, you know, female entrepreneurs working really, really hard.
- 16:59And I have to say, like, I was super proud of that business, you
- 17:02know, and how, and how that went, those ladies were killing it for me.
- 17:06They were doing great looks, getting great reviews and, and boosting
- 17:10the visibility all the time.
- 17:11So.
- 17:13Yeah.
- 17:14Becca: So all of a sudden you proved that mental wrong that you had the bad
- 17:17experience with because you showed, actually I can do this business and I can
- 17:21make money from it and I can grow a team.
- 17:24But I know that this is something people really worry about.
- 17:27So I quite often have conversations with people where I say, yeah, you
- 17:29absolutely can grow and you can grow a team and all of those things.
- 17:32And they have some objections initially.
- 17:34So I'm going to.
- 17:35Throw some of those objections at you to see how you handled
- 17:38them in your own business.
- 17:39So the first thing is people really worry about finding the right freelancers that
- 17:43they can trust to work under their brand.
- 17:47How did you do that?
- 17:48And did you have any problems with that?
- 17:50Or did it all, was it all smooth sailing?
- 17:53Kerry: That's such a good question.
- 17:54I actually, I'm going to be covering this in a signature course coming up
- 17:58called six steps to six figures, but I will tell you one of the routes that I
- 18:02use, which was so super helpful, which was that I started to educate others.
- 18:08So I was bringing in people that were either kind of just starting out or
- 18:13maybe semi established in hair or makeup.
- 18:15And I was teaching them, I was training them and I was offering courses.
- 18:19So I was getting knee deep in.
- 18:22They're, you know, the way that they worked and I was able to find out quite
- 18:28quickly what their dreams and goals were and how confident they felt they
- 18:33were and how well we got on and I, and I nurtured those relationships.
- 18:38And then I would quite simply.
- 18:40proposition them at the end of the training and be like, right,
- 18:42your first wedding's next week.
- 18:44How'd you feel?
- 18:46Becca: I love that.
- 18:47And the great thing about that process as well, as you're teaching them in
- 18:50your way, you're teaching them in the way that you want people to work.
- 18:54And so then therefore they are the perfect fit for your business.
- 18:57The other thing I think people worry about with this idea of growing
- 19:00their empire, as I wrote down when I was talking, planning the questions
- 19:03about how you grew your empire.
- 19:05Is that people worry about the trust thing?
- 19:07Because obviously when you go out as your business, Cambridge Makeup Artist, you are
- 19:12representing that at the highest level.
- 19:13It means everything to you.
- 19:14It's your business.
- 19:15It's your baby.
- 19:15You've created it.
- 19:17When other people are going out under that brand, they're never going to have
- 19:20the same level of commitment to the brand that you have as the brand owner.
- 19:25So how did you overcome that?
- 19:26How did you?
- 19:27build trust in those people and get them to go out and
- 19:30represent you in the right way.
- 19:32Kerry: Yeah.
- 19:32So first off, it was really a mindset piece of thinking, well,
- 19:36hold on, you know, now I'm a team.
- 19:38It's not about me anymore.
- 19:40And actually I wanted people in the business that were actually
- 19:44creatively better than me.
- 19:46Or we're really good with people.
- 19:47And I never lost sight of the fact that my business was now about people and not me.
- 19:52So, you know, even if I'm the visionary, I'm, I'm overseeing.
- 19:56So I have to take that approach of, you know, that I, they trust me, I trust them.
- 20:01But I think that that respect grew mutually and it is about how you treat
- 20:06people and how they feel about you and business and dating are so linked.
- 20:11I can't even tell you, not that I dated my, my team or anything like that, but.
- 20:15We were friends, you know, we respected each other.
- 20:18We, you know, we were very complimentary to each other.
- 20:21And I was very careful about the, I mean, in a former life, yes, I was
- 20:25a recruitment consultant, right?
- 20:27There's no two ways about that.
- 20:28So I know what I'm looking for.
- 20:29I'm looking for, you know, the pitfalls in people's character.
- 20:32Are they getting back to me on text message regularly?
- 20:35Are they showing up late to jobs?
- 20:37And actually, one of the things I did do was I took quite a few of
- 20:40them out as an assistant first, just literally cleaning brushes.
- 20:45Or just curling hair and that I knew that that wouldn't impact my job
- 20:49because if they didn't turn up, I could just, I could rescue that job.
- 20:53It wasn't a big deal.
- 20:54So, you know, I was giving, giving, giving and giving them
- 20:59like almost like a tailored vision.
- 21:01So, you know, if you can come on this many weddings, if we get to
- 21:04this point, if you can prove this, this is where your money will be.
- 21:08This is where we'll get to.
- 21:10And it got to the point where.
- 21:11That, that system worked really, really well, and I can categorically
- 21:16tell you this, Becca, and I'm probably the only person that I know, I've
- 21:21never had an artist let me down, never, through using those systems.
- 21:28They all presented perfectly.
- 21:30They were all amazing people.
- 21:32And maybe I just got lucky or it's maybe the way I was
- 21:35cultivating those relationships.
- 21:37I don't know.
- 21:38You decide.
- 21:39Becca: I love that.
- 21:39And I think you're right.
- 21:40You are, that is a very unusual story to tell, but it shows, I think the
- 21:44hard work that you put into educating people, picking the right people.
- 21:48And working alongside them and making them want to work for you and want
- 21:51to do the best because actually they were getting a good deal out of it.
- 21:54And I think for anyone listening and thinking about going down this route, it
- 21:58absolutely is possible for you to do that.
- 22:00It's possible for you to grow an empire, but you do have to choose the
- 22:03right people and really think carefully about how you're going to do that.
- 22:06So looking back over all of those years as Cambridge makeup artist doing the hair,
- 22:10doing the makeup, having the agency, what were some of the highs and what were some
- 22:13of the lows of that season of your life?
- 22:16Kerry: Yeah.
- 22:16So some of the highs were things like the industry events, wedding industry
- 22:22events and awards where you all got, you know, when you're, you're literally
- 22:25dancing on the dance floor with your venue team and people around you
- 22:32and, you know, doing slut drops with them, you know, that is like, right.
- 22:36Okay.
- 22:36You know, we get in somewhere now, Kerry
- 22:38right.
- 22:39So yeah, you've, you've got all of those lovely juicy goodness pieces as well and
- 22:44Just being asked, like having the power of choice, do I want to do that wedding?
- 22:48Do I not want to do that wedding?
- 22:49Do I want to do that shoot?
- 22:50Do I not want to do that shoe?
- 22:52So that was a gorgeous feeling, you know, upping my, my prices
- 22:55and not feeling guilty about that.
- 22:57Upping our value and not feeling like we're going to price
- 23:00ourselves out of the marketplace.
- 23:02Of course, there's many lows.
- 23:04Of course there is, you know, and, and one of the biggest mistakes I made was
- 23:09marketing my business to everybody.
- 23:11And thinking I could do all the looks.
- 23:13And actually one of my competitors at the time said, yeah, I, why would you
- 23:17not want to do all the work looks like it shows that you've got this vast portfolio.
- 23:21And it was the, I put a post up about this recently, which was not all
- 23:26advice is good advice in the industry.
- 23:29And that is absolutely a thing, right?
- 23:31Because I was told that, and I kept doing that.
- 23:35And.
- 23:35So even before I had this salon, what I'm sitting in today, I would have people come
- 23:39to me with all the styles I hated to do.
- 23:42And it was firefighting on price on how I did it.
- 23:46And I just thought I'm done.
- 23:47So I'm glad I hired a mentor.
- 23:49I'm glad they showed me how to separate us out from the competition.
- 23:53And, you know, being what I would consider market leader for the area
- 23:58was a massive, massive high for us.
- 24:00Becca: I think one of the things you did really cleverly was
- 24:02naming your business in a way that got you to the top of Google.
- 24:06So being Cambridge makeup artist, Cambridge makeup artist, that must have.
- 24:09been a massive win.
- 24:10Was that your idea?
- 24:11How did that come about?
- 24:12Kerry: That's such a good question.
- 24:14And this comes up in our programs quite a lot.
- 24:17You know, should I, should I change my name to something geographical?
- 24:20Should I keep it myself?
- 24:22Now you have to remember I'm very entrepreneurial.
- 24:24So when I first started out and I actually had my web designer sit
- 24:28down with me, I was still a newbie.
- 24:30I would say like 12 to 18 months.
- 24:33And you know, I put a sum of money on the table and said, look,
- 24:35get me to the number one spot.
- 24:36You know, how do I do this?
- 24:38And he said, look, talk, think about the vision of your business
- 24:41in two to five years time.
- 24:43Does this want to be just solopreneur, Kerry curl, or do
- 24:47you see this ever getting bigger?
- 24:49And I ha I sat there and at that point I said, no, I want this to be a big entity.
- 24:55I never wanted it to be just me.
- 24:57And he said, well, think about those, you know, the responsibilities
- 25:01of having your name on the door.
- 25:02It's a little bit like Eastenders, you know, with Barbara Windsor on
- 25:05the door, like Peggy Mitchell is like your, all the complaints, everything
- 25:10always comes down to you, you know, and you can scale this much bigger if
- 25:15you have that geographical dominance.
- 25:17So that was a great decision that I took to go to the professionals to
- 25:21help me with the website designing.
- 25:22But also they gave me that insight and that thought process of
- 25:25how big do you want this to go?
- 25:27So that's what I did.
- 25:28And that's what worked really, really well for us.
- 25:31Becca: Yeah, it absolutely did.
- 25:32It was genius.
- 25:33And I think, yeah, lots of people can learn from that because I
- 25:36think it was incredibly successful.
- 25:38So let's get up to date then.
- 25:39Now, here we are in 2023 and things have changed again.
- 25:44So now you're working with hair and makeup artists as a mentor,
- 25:47as a coach running programs.
- 25:49So what happened in that interim period?
- 25:51How did you shift out of being at weddings and being a mentor?
- 25:55Kerry: Yeah, let's go there.
- 25:56So first off, I want to say before the pandemic even came my way, I was
- 26:01already edging out of the business as, you know, doing all of the
- 26:06things, all of the weddings, because it was just quite overwhelming.
- 26:09And actually, I've been doing that for almost a decade.
- 26:13So, you know, I was moving into the significance of the stage of my
- 26:17working life with what I was doing.
- 26:19And I was actually now going out and Into salons, teaching salons and
- 26:26groups of hair stylists, how to do hair up, how to do the wedding stuff.
- 26:31And so I was already doing that, like I was positioning myself around the
- 26:36community with one of my, like, I want to say like, Co team because, you
- 26:41know, Katrina was with me and I would, we would both go out and, and start
- 26:45training hair for lots of salons locally.
- 26:48And what I found was happening was they didn't want to just
- 26:51know the practical skills.
- 26:52They wanted to know how to grow their business.
- 26:55And I was like, I kept getting asked this and I was like, this has got to be a sign.
- 26:58So what I then started to do was bolt on mentoring sessions with the salon
- 27:03owner way after the, the training had taken place, like maybe like a
- 27:08couple of days later, once they've descaled from everything and I'd
- 27:11sit down with them and we'd talk about how they're attracting brides.
- 27:15And Suddenly it was really obvious actually, when I was going into some of
- 27:19the salons and they'd chosen mentoring as part of their package, that they just
- 27:23wanted to get that knowledge on the day.
- 27:25They were like, so I do with this, like, is this the best way to do Instagram?
- 27:28Is this?
- 27:29And I thought they can't wait.
- 27:30They want to get to the mentoring fast.
- 27:32And I think that that's, that was the biggest, eye opener for me.
- 27:35So as soon as the pandemic here, I have to say, I was already at
- 27:39that level where I'd, you know, excelled and accelerated through the
- 27:42business and, and the profit ladders.
- 27:45So the pandemic arrived and myself, my team navigated that
- 27:49we ended up, this is very honest.
- 27:51We ended up giving back 6, 000 pounds worth of deposits.
- 27:55It was, you know, quite uncomfortable.
- 27:56We were only open for six weeks out of like something like 12 months,
- 28:01not even that, like it was difficult.
- 28:03And then, and I had this kind of epiphany, like.
- 28:06I need to have a proportion of my business online, even if I stay in
- 28:10this agency, because I can't guarantee that we won't get another pandemic.
- 28:15I can't guarantee.
- 28:16And that impacted everything, not being able to earn.
- 28:20So I started to look at how I could transition that way, which is when
- 28:25I found The lovely Kelly Mortimer.
- 28:27Becca: Yes.
- 28:27And I, as you know, I'm a big fan of Kelly.
- 28:29Me and Kelly worked together a lot and we run our wedding business retreat a lot.
- 28:33And I know you've been working or have worked with her to grow your
- 28:36business to where you are now in the online space, which is fabulous.
- 28:39And another example of finding the right mentor and a good person that's
- 28:43going to push your business forward rather than pull it backwards.
- 28:46So now, Kerry, you're working with loads of people in the industry.
- 28:48You're working with hair and makeup artists.
- 28:50People starting out in their business.
- 28:52I'd love you to share some of the pitfalls that you see those people falling into
- 28:56all of the time, because I know that will be helpful for people listening.
- 28:59Kerry: This is such a good question because I've literally just come
- 29:02off a three day virtual treat where I was talking about that.
- 29:05So this is fresh in my mind, but what I see happening the most, and this is what
- 29:09I feel is very typical in the market is at the moment with hair and makeup artists,
- 29:14everything is either natural or luxury.
- 29:17Like it's very vanilla and you know, that is the problem.
- 29:22And then everybody's copying each other in terms of their copy or their layout
- 29:26or how they create their posts or what they do behind the scenes in business.
- 29:30And of course, that's an issue because.
- 29:34If I'm a bride and I see 10 different profiles, but they're
- 29:37not looking that different, it's going to come down to price.
- 29:41So that's the, one of the biggest things I taught in that virtual
- 29:44retreat was how to start thinking about your account as a lead generator and
- 29:48start separating yourself from your competition, how you can do that, and
- 29:53start to grow yourself a personal brand rather than a clone of your neighbor.
- 29:58So that's the biggest thing.
- 30:00Aside from that is actually just.
- 30:03Growing slow and not thinking, well, what do I need to do for it?
- 30:07People outsource everything in their lives.
- 30:10Like you don't go and cut your own hair, right?
- 30:12You get someone to cut that for you.
- 30:14And actually sometimes that is, you know, couple of hundred quid these days.
- 30:18And yet, you know, they, this, the last thing they think
- 30:21about is mentoring or courses.
- 30:24They think a lot about.
- 30:25Their skill set and how they can buy more courses and more products and they
- 30:30think that will rescue them What actually does is it just costs them a lot of
- 30:35time and money and they're still stuck.
- 30:37So you do need to acquire more business skills and You know,
- 30:42I've not stopped, doing that.
- 30:44I have then since been on my journey with Laurie Joy and other,
- 30:48other, coaches out there as well.
- 30:50So, you know, I just, you've got to keep learning in business.
- 30:54This does not come natural to hair and makeup artists.
- 30:57And I totally get that, but.
- 31:00You know, this is how we grow.
- 31:02We have to know more about business.
- 31:04Becca: Yeah, absolutely.
- 31:05And it's the same across the industry because it's okay not to
- 31:08know, but you just need to work out how you're going to learn.
- 31:10So I say all of the time, you know, I can't cut hair.
- 31:14I can't do makeup.
- 31:15I can't take a good photo, but I do know about business.
- 31:18And therefore it's okay that you can cut hair.
- 31:20You can take a good photo, but you don't know about business.
- 31:23It's just about finding the right people to help you.
- 31:25So I totally agree with that.
- 31:27Now, one thing I know people struggle with, especially
- 31:29when they're starting out.
- 31:29And I'd love to to get your perspective on this is how to go
- 31:32out there and get their first work without coming across as desperate.
- 31:36So one pitfall I see people making is, you know, going out for some
- 31:39bargain basement price or giving it away free or going in low cost.
- 31:43So have you got any tips for people, either hair and makeup or just across
- 31:46the industry about how they go about getting those first clients without
- 31:49looking like they're just desperate?
- 31:51Kerry: Yeah, it's a mindset piece here, Becca, as well, because,
- 31:55you know, like you said, I'm going to give you a really big tip.
- 32:00So if you look at your profile, or even your competitor's profile, think as if it
- 32:06is a Tinder profile, crazy, but it's true.
- 32:10So if you're saying, why book me?
- 32:13It's almost like saying, why date me?
- 32:15So you're leading with that kind of keen guy that just wants to,
- 32:20you know, have that one night stand or maybe that woman when you
- 32:24need to start leading with desire.
- 32:26So it's thinking about the marketing, around your brand and how you can
- 32:30position yourself from a place of how do I get into your world rather
- 32:35than how do I push you into my world?
- 32:37So it's kind of like.
- 32:39More pull marketing than push marketing, I think is the way to say that.
- 32:44Becca: Absolutely love that.
- 32:44I love the idea of thinking about your profile and your
- 32:47website as a dating website.
- 32:48I love, I'm loving all of your dating analogies.
- 32:50It's been a long time since I did any dating, but I am
- 32:52loving the dating analogies.
- 32:54It's brilliant.
- 32:55Now, Kerry, people listen to this conversation and they'll think, Great.
- 32:59Kerry's got it all together.
- 33:00She's got the perfect life.
- 33:01She's run this successful business.
- 33:03She's brought in loads of money.
- 33:05That's really great for her, but my life isn't perfect.
- 33:08I've got struggles at home.
- 33:08I've got stuff going on with my kids.
- 33:10I've got a juggling difficult situations.
- 33:14I know that your life isn't picture perfect all the time.
- 33:16None of our lives are.
- 33:18So just share, you know, the reality behind, you know, the picture, perfect
- 33:22life and how you have navigated some of those challenges and overcome them and
- 33:26still been as successful as you are.
- 33:28Kerry: Yeah, that's such a good question.
- 33:29And a lot of our community members some of my clients, they don't,
- 33:33nobody has a perfect life, right?
- 33:35Nobody.
- 33:36Okay.
- 33:36It's all for show.
- 33:37A lot of it is for show.
- 33:39So I, you know, I, I will share with the audience.
- 33:42So I do, I do have two children with special needs.
- 33:44I have two boys, one's got autism, one's got severe ADHD.
- 33:49So I've had to navigate system for them, which is a full time job
- 33:53in itself, you know, from birth.
- 33:55So, you know, if I haven't got a full time job, I can hold a lot.
- 33:59I'm not going to lie.
- 34:00Like as a person, I can hold a lot.
- 34:02I've come from a strong sales and marketing background, but it doesn't mean
- 34:06that it's not, you know, hard at times.
- 34:09And sometimes you feel like giving up and it's just about picking
- 34:13yourself back up again and going.
- 34:15It's a blip and actually now I found the more times I just get back up
- 34:20that the smaller amount of time I spend worrying about the blips and I
- 34:23had a huge blip last December when my son became paralyzed from the chest
- 34:28down with an autoimmune disorder.
- 34:30So he's, he's still in hospital now.
- 34:33So I had to take a couple of months out.
- 34:35Okay.
- 34:35And that was really tough.
- 34:37And, but my clients really appreciated it.
- 34:40We kept the community going.
- 34:41I still.
- 34:43The biggest thing I had at that time as well was, was team.
- 34:46I had people that could take over, and I think people still think,
- 34:49oh, I can do this all on my own.
- 34:50I'm She Ra, like give me my She Ra cape.
- 34:54But you can't, you need to have other people helping you.
- 34:57And adversity is everywhere.
- 34:59And actually, A lot of the clients that come into my working world,
- 35:02we don't, they don't come in just because they want to make money.
- 35:05A lot of it is like, Oh, I didn't know you had a child with special needs.
- 35:08I didn't know that you had this going on, all that going on.
- 35:11And wow, that's amazing.
- 35:12You're still doing all of this.
- 35:14Yeah.
- 35:14If I can do it, you know, we talk about this in our power hours, but how you
- 35:18can, you know, still run businesses and simplify things, you know?
- 35:23And I think that's another thing to mention is.
- 35:26If you're struggling now and you're struggling because of time Wouldn't
- 35:30it make sense to work out how better to spend your time on your business
- 35:34than struggle with your children?
- 35:37And try and make this work.
- 35:39So we have people in our community that also have children with additional needs
- 35:42or have adversities and bereavements and yet they still can Take money and
- 35:49take booking some of them when they're in bed with COVID, you know, it's,
- 35:53it's about just simplifying everything so that, you know, and that's why
- 35:57mentors and coaches can help you.
- 35:59It's, you know, yes.
- 36:01Okay.
- 36:01Money is the, the, the thing that you want, but actually it's how you get
- 36:06to that stage, how you get that, how you need to think the decisions you
- 36:11need to make that then become that piece at the end that you really,
- 36:14really want those dreams and goals.
- 36:16Becca: And I think it's really inspiring.
- 36:18And thank you for opening up and being so honest with everyone.
- 36:20I think it's really inspiring to hear you sharing that there are these
- 36:23difficult situations that is life.
- 36:25And some of the situations you've been through are things that none of us can
- 36:28even understand, but yet here you are still pushing forward, still with a
- 36:32smile on your face, still keeping going, still trying to hold it all together.
- 36:36And I think that is kudos to you for having that mindset.
- 36:39And I know that since the moment I've met you, so much of what
- 36:43you've done is to provide for your children, to be there for your kids,
- 36:46to love them and be a great mom.
- 36:48And actually you can do that whilst also having a really successful business.
- 36:53Kerry: Yeah.
- 36:54And, and that sometimes that does come at a cost, you know, that you are maybe
- 36:57just a little bit more tired at times or, but like you said, it's all for them.
- 37:02You know, I'm doing this for, in fact, now I'm at this hot point in my career.
- 37:06It's really, really critical to say this is that I am at
- 37:09that point of significance.
- 37:10I'm no longer like going beam the spotlight on me.
- 37:12It's all about me.
- 37:13It's not, it's about helping people.
- 37:15It's about helping people get a leg up.
- 37:17It's about helping my children get better.
- 37:19It's about, you know, it's always about giving.
- 37:21And I think some of the mistakes I see is people just taking, thinking it's
- 37:26okay to just take, jump into that inbox.
- 37:27Tell me how you did that.
- 37:28It's like.
- 37:29Well, you know, it doesn't work that way.
- 37:32You have to give first, you have to pay in first to get back.
- 37:36And, you know, the clients that are doing really, really well with me now, I found
- 37:39that they're paying in a huge amount.
- 37:42They're banking a lot of, you know, the actions they're doing out there.
- 37:46And that's why they're harvesting now and doing really, really well.
- 37:49Becca: Yeah, 100%.
- 37:50Having an attitude of service is such an important thing to me in my world.
- 37:55And again, it's what I teach too, which is, you know, give
- 37:58more than you expect to receive.
- 37:59And it will always come back in spades at some point.
- 38:01And also knowing your why it's very clear that you know why you're doing
- 38:05what you're doing, because you want to make a difference to these people.
- 38:08And we learn from those mistakes that we talked about earlier, those bad
- 38:11experiences, and you're just like me.
- 38:13You want to show people that they can do more and achieve more.
- 38:17You don't want them to go into the bad areas of the industry.
- 38:20You want to showcase to them that actually it is possible to overcome
- 38:23all of these things and do more.
- 38:25So you should be incredibly proud of all you've achieved.
- 38:27And the journey that I've watched you on Kerry, as you look back, I'd love to
- 38:31know if you could speak to, you know, 18 year old Kerry, all those years ago.
- 38:36What would you tell her about where she's going to get to today?
- 38:39Kerry: Yeah, oh gosh.
- 38:41That 18 year old Kerry was poor, broke, broken hearted, still
- 38:45living at home by the way, so I'm just going to put that out there.
- 38:48Is that, you know, you can do anything you want to do in your life and don't
- 38:54let other people Tell you that you can't.
- 38:57And this is so true, but the five people that you surround yourself
- 39:01with is critical throughout your whole entire life, your whole entire life.
- 39:08So if you've got somebody that's telling you, you can't do something or you're
- 39:11no good, They need to be cut loose.
- 39:14I know that's horrible, but you need to either see less of them, hear less
- 39:17of them, because who you hang out with, who you plug into is critical.
- 39:22And I didn't have, you know, good conversations with good people at that
- 39:26time, but I grew and I really, you know, learned quite quickly that I, you know,
- 39:31Those people needed to be moved out of my life to make way for the good So
- 39:36yeah, I hope that answers the question and thanks for the compliment becca,
- 39:39you know, it's hard work Of course, it's hard work what you do is hard
- 39:42work as well but it's so rewarding when you see people doing really really
- 39:47well and I just also want to say this.
- 39:50I hope this time it's, there's, yes, it looks like, you know, my clients are
- 39:54doing really, really well, but we also have just as many lows as we do highs.
- 39:59It's not that perfect picture.
- 40:01This is female.
- 40:02Welcome to the world of entrepreneurship, right?
- 40:05You're going to have those peaks and troughs.
- 40:06It's kind of like, you know, looking at the marketplace when we have our ups and
- 40:11our downs, our peaks and the troughs.
- 40:13You're going to go through that and we go through that
- 40:15too, but we grow through that.
- 40:17And it's, you know, what we do in those lows that propels us forward.
- 40:21So nothing is perfect.
- 40:23Becca: A hundred percent.
- 40:24A hundred percent.
- 40:24I totally agree with you.
- 40:25Now, Kerry, I always end these interviews with the same question.
- 40:28So I'm going to pose that to you now, which is what's one thing you wish
- 40:31you'd known sooner in your business?
- 40:33Kerry: Yes.
- 40:34And that is to get people in sooner.
- 40:38I'm not like a jack of all trades.
- 40:40And I, I literally, I literally got approached by someone.
- 40:47I think it was 2019.
- 40:49And she just said, can I help you?
- 40:51Can I take anything off your plate?
- 40:54And.
- 40:55I was a little bit defensive, like, no, I can do this.
- 40:58I can handle it.
- 40:58Or why do I need any more help in my biz?
- 41:01Like I'm used to that.
- 41:02And actually I let her in gently.
- 41:04And before I knew it, I didn't realize how much of a difference that made to
- 41:09you scaling by taking more off your plate and actually saying no to more stuff.
- 41:16So when you are in your scaling stage, it's about saying no
- 41:20as well to a lot more stuff.
- 41:22So yeah, I hope that'll.
- 41:23Absolutely.
- 41:24Becca: Absolutely.
- 41:25It does.
- 41:25Outsourcing is huge and it's great to see how that helped you
- 41:29scale to the place that you did.
- 41:30Kerry, it's been such a pleasure having a conversation with you.
- 41:33I could chat to you all day.
- 41:35If people want to find out more about you, about your agency, about what you're
- 41:38doing, like where do people find you?
- 41:42Kerry: Yeah.
- 41:42Thank you so much for having me.
- 41:43So I'm on Instagram at kerrycurlcoaching or you can find me on kerrycurlcoaching.
- 41:50com.
- 41:51Becca: Thank you so much for your time.
- 41:53It's been a pleasure.
- 41:55Thank you.
- 41:58I love that conversation with Kerry.
- 42:00I hope you enjoyed it too.
- 42:01It's always inspiring for me to talk to people that I've known for a number
- 42:05of years and watch their businesses grow and evolve to see where they've
- 42:08come from and where they are now.
- 42:10I hope it's inspiring for you as well.
- 42:12I'll see you next time.