Latest / Motivation Mindset Podcast / Listen to This Every Day: 10 Minutes to Start Your Day Right
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Life is not easy.
- 0:04Speaker 2: It is not.
- 0:05Speaker 1: Don't try to make it that way. Life's not fair,
- 0:08Speaker 1: it never was, it isn't now, and it won't ever be.
- 0:10Speaker 1: Do not fall into the trap, the entitlement trap, a
- 0:14Speaker 1: feeling like you're a victim. You are not.
- 0:17Speaker 3: Get over it.
- 0:18Speaker 4: Get on.
- 0:18Speaker 1: Those things are more rewarding when you break a sweat
- 0:21Speaker 1: to get them.
- 0:24Speaker 5: We overanalyze because we're unsure.
- 0:27Speaker 6: Time costs lives.
- 0:29Speaker 5: Growth only comes to pain, No pain, no gain. It's
- 0:34Speaker 5: the same in life. Tough love gets the job done.
- 0:39Speaker 2: Now, why do you pursue things that scary?
- 0:41Speaker 7: Why seek the role that's.
- 0:43Speaker 8: Hard because it costs me?
- 0:45Speaker 1: So because it costs because of the price. It's not
- 0:49Speaker 1: really risk unless you lose the fight. But when you do,
- 0:52Speaker 1: you get stronger, you get more aware, you get more
- 0:55Speaker 1: respectful of yourself, and that you fear. It's all in
- 1:05Speaker 1: the mind.
- 1:06Speaker 7: Excuses sound best to the people that's making the moment.
- 1:10Speaker 7: You got every excuse in the world because you have
- 1:14Speaker 7: convinced yourself that everything is wrong, everything and negative is
- 1:18Speaker 7: negative and nothing will change. And guess what, it won't
- 1:22Speaker 7: change change your mind and it will change your life.
- 1:29Speaker 5: It's bloody hard to be a high performance person. Being
- 1:34Speaker 5: a high performance person is the full time job. I'm
- 1:37Speaker 5: like it's twenty four to seven, three sixty five, and
- 1:39Speaker 5: I've been like this for the better part of fifty years.
- 1:42Speaker 5: I'm always like this. I'm always pushing the edge of
- 1:45Speaker 5: the envelope.
- 1:49Speaker 2: Within every uncertainty, there is hidden possibility. So I don't
- 1:53Speaker 2: dread any challenge that lies ahead because I remember all
- 1:57Speaker 2: the victories behind. And my confidence is not in my circumstance.
- 2:02Speaker 2: The spirit of God is my supply. I'm steady under pressure,
- 2:06Speaker 2: and I'm ready for whatever, because whatever comes my way today,
- 2:10Speaker 2: the outcome is I overcome.
- 2:14Speaker 5: Most people procrastinate because they're unsure, So just do it. Efficiency, accountability.
- 2:19Speaker 5: If you want a million, you'll make a million.
- 2:23Speaker 9: Service and the significance that you bring to your service
- 2:28Speaker 9: is that which is lasting.
- 2:31Speaker 8: Here's the key.
- 2:32Speaker 9: Learn from every mistake. The real truth is that service
- 2:43Speaker 9: and significance equals success.
- 2:52Speaker 6: If you want to find heaven, you must go to al.
- 2:57Speaker 6: If you want to find growth, you must first go
- 3:01Speaker 6: through resistance, go through pain. You have to go through
- 3:06Speaker 6: hell to get the results. Go through hell to get
- 3:10Speaker 6: to your heaven. Go growl Without pain, I will not
- 3:16Speaker 6: grow without pain. Pain is my fraid. Pain is my
- 3:21Speaker 6: gift from the gods that gruel pain is my employee.
- 3:25Speaker 6: I order him to give me more. He isn't working
- 3:28Speaker 6: already enough. He must give me more in order for
- 3:31Speaker 6: me to grow.
- 3:33Speaker 3: See, sometimes we think the pain is what controls us
- 3:37Speaker 3: as what's actually our subconscious mind that if we ever
- 3:40Speaker 3: tapped into that, that's what dictates most of our lives.
- 3:46Speaker 6: Because see pain, pain is tricky because if you don't
- 3:51Speaker 6: control pain, think about what we do the moment we
- 3:59Speaker 6: feel that.
- 3:59Speaker 3: Right, it's back to the two sides of faith, the
- 4:02Speaker 3: two sides of pain.
- 4:04Speaker 6: See at that point, I feel like a victim.
- 4:07Speaker 3: When you fall down? What makes your mentality change?
- 4:11Speaker 6: If there's a great situation where there's a bad situation,
- 4:14Speaker 6: how do you dictate that based off the level of pain?
- 4:18Speaker 6: Because I think that's what we're getting in trouble at
- 4:21Speaker 6: And so when I started cycling, when I started going
- 4:23Speaker 6: to see these doctors, I realized that I turned my greatest.
- 4:26Speaker 5: Pain into my greatest achieved.
- 4:29Speaker 4: But sometimes.
- 4:32Speaker 3: Your greatest pain he even about you. It's about a
- 4:38Speaker 3: creative purpose. I believe it.
- 4:44Speaker 10: Once you become obsessed with something, obsessed, it's okay to
- 4:48Speaker 10: be unbalanced for a while. It's okay, don't be all
- 4:52Speaker 10: this stuff. People say you gotta be balanced. Then you
- 4:55Speaker 10: get balanced once you become great, and then you help
- 4:59Speaker 10: other people become better from you being the best in
- 5:02Speaker 10: the world. I'm trying to be the best I can
- 5:08Speaker 10: to give you the best that I am. And it
- 5:13Speaker 10: takes being fucking obsessed to where.
- 5:16Speaker 8: People think you're crazy.
- 5:20Speaker 10: Become obsessed with being great.
- 5:22Speaker 8: It changes everything.
- 5:25Speaker 9: That as you go through the challenges of life and
- 5:29Speaker 9: you look at it and embrace whatever.
- 5:31Speaker 8: Comes to you, don't run from it, step toward it.
- 5:34Speaker 3: Don't try and duck it like most people do. See
- 5:37Speaker 3: most people want it easy.
- 5:39Speaker 8: See if you easy come, easy, what easy go?
- 5:43Speaker 3: How you gonna show power if you're not up under attack?
- 5:47Speaker 3: How you're gonna show resistance? If something I'm trying to
- 5:50Speaker 3: pull you over, resist, resist, Stop being neutral and stop
- 5:55Speaker 3: being indifferent. Resist, take us stand and resist.
- 6:04Speaker 4: The last time I took an English class, my English
- 6:06Speaker 4: teacher told me I was a weakish writer she ever
- 6:07Speaker 4: met in her entire life. And the same year I
- 6:10Speaker 4: took a speech class, and my speech teacher he said,
- 6:12Speaker 4: quote unquote, Miss Nicholas, I recommend you never speak in public,
- 6:14Speaker 4: that you get a desk job. It was demotivated people sad,
- 6:18Speaker 4: people hurt people hurt. Sad people make other people sad.
- 6:21Speaker 4: Bottom line, don't take it personal. Hurt people hurt. I
- 6:24Speaker 4: had to literally be willing and I only relocate my mind,
- 6:27Speaker 4: but relocate my body so I can relocate my finances
- 6:31Speaker 4: and relocate my possibility, relocate my son's future. I was
- 6:35Speaker 4: very clear the future of my son was going to
- 6:37Speaker 4: have if I didn't do something, and I was not
- 6:39Speaker 4: subscribing to that, not on my watch. So I was
- 6:44Speaker 4: willing to be radical. See, most people want the convenience
- 6:48Speaker 4: of transformation without the inconvenience. So if you want to
- 6:52Speaker 4: have a conviction for something, you have to sign up,
- 6:56Speaker 4: sign up to be inconvenienced. We're trying to find convictions
- 7:00Speaker 4: and passion and break through on the inside of our box.
- 7:02Speaker 4: When when you realize that the box doesn't even exist.
- 7:06Speaker 4: So when you start thinking like that and all of
- 7:07Speaker 4: a sudden, everything is possible. So I disrupt people when
- 7:12Speaker 4: I say you want to make me extraordinary because it
- 7:14Speaker 4: lets you off the hook. What if you do? What
- 7:17Speaker 4: if the god that we call God, the divine whatever
- 7:19Speaker 4: your faith is. What if there's no partial, it's not
- 7:22Speaker 4: gonna give me a hook up? And I give you one,
- 7:24Speaker 4: not gonna give me an opportunity, I give you one.
- 7:25Speaker 4: I'm just not gonna stop because I believe all things
- 7:28Speaker 4: are available to us. I'm just wanting to go after him.
- 7:30Speaker 4: Are you willing? And then that is so disruptive because
- 7:34Speaker 4: then you got to make a decision because it's easier
- 7:37Speaker 4: to live inside the parameters of well as a black
- 7:39Speaker 4: woman will as born and raised in South Central Well,
- 7:42Speaker 4: I'm actively to I'm dyslexic. I'm dyslexic. I wrote seven books.
- 7:45Speaker 4: I'm dyslexic. I'm not perfect. What I do really well
- 7:48Speaker 4: is I manage my imperfection well. And so we're all
- 7:51Speaker 4: waiting for perfect. It's an illusion that will never come
- 7:54Speaker 4: to you, and it's an excuse to never show up
- 7:55Speaker 4: and play. Your story is not meant to be your fortress.
- 7:59Speaker 4: Your story is meant to be a fuel.
- 8:05Speaker 8: This is quite a young audience, and I think the
- 8:08Speaker 8: reality is the thing that I spend most of my
- 8:12Speaker 8: time on is trying to get people to understand that
- 8:15Speaker 8: patience is a very important variable of success, and more importantly,
- 8:20Speaker 8: that I believe the far majority of people in this
- 8:22Speaker 8: room do not have a great relationship with time. I
- 8:26Speaker 8: am fascinated by people in this room who are stressed
- 8:30Speaker 8: at the ages of eighteen and twenty two and twenty
- 8:34Speaker 8: five and twenty nine, like the running out of time.
- 8:38Speaker 8: How many people, by show of hands, are under thirty
- 8:41Speaker 8: years old. So for me, as you can imagine, when
- 8:49Speaker 8: I see all those hands go up, you can put
- 8:51Speaker 8: your hand out. You're good, Okay, good. When I see
- 8:57Speaker 8: all those hands go up, and I know in my
- 9:00Speaker 8: with the way that modern medicine and technology is going,
- 9:03Speaker 8: that the far majority of this room is going to
- 9:05Speaker 8: live for another eighty years. It really gets me excited
- 9:11Speaker 8: slash concerned when people want their business to be huge
- 9:15Speaker 8: next year. The quicker you want it, the more vulnerable
- 9:20Speaker 8: you are. The quicker you want it, the more vulnerable
- 9:25Speaker 8: you are. And what has been very fascinating for me
- 9:28Speaker 8: is even though on YouTube and Instagram and maybe some
- 9:32Speaker 8: of the places you guys see me, maybe my energy
- 9:35Speaker 8: is high, maybe my style of communication is fast, but
- 9:40Speaker 8: my business actions are extremely slow. Five