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90 Day The Single Life Season 5, Episode 12 “The Art of the Slow Fade” · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hi, my loves, Welcome back to Vanity Farah. My name
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Speaker 1: is Chris Farah and that's why it's called Vanity Farah.
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Speaker 1: You understand how I did that? Oh my god, what
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Speaker 1: are we talking about? Are we talking about the new
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Speaker 1: Michael Jackson movie. No, I'm not Kimberly. We're talking about
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Speaker 1: nine a Day Fiance. We're technically ninety day Single Life.
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Speaker 1: This is season five, episode twelve, art of the Slow Fade.
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Speaker 1: So I'm assuming that the slow fade here would be
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Speaker 1: Sophie And I mean it's not really that slow. Maybe
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Speaker 1: it's someone else, because it's definitely not Colty and Courtney.
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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously kim Balie is just meeting Wayne. Maybe
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Speaker 1: it's supposed to be Gino and Natalie. I truly don't know,
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Speaker 1: but listen, they named it that, and that is what
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Speaker 1: they named it. Let's get in, so let's start with
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Speaker 1: kim Bally. So, kim Bali is in London now to
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Speaker 1: meet Wayne, and she has brought her you know, trustees
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Speaker 1: side kick, Jamal, who is only too happy to be
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Speaker 1: on any sort of nine a day program. God bless,
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Speaker 1: and I get it. I get it. It's really hard
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Speaker 1: to get on TV, even if you geld a you know,
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Speaker 1: BA in theater arts. Even if your whole life people
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Speaker 1: are like you should be on sitcoms. Even if you
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Speaker 1: start studying at theaters when you're fifteen and get a
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Speaker 1: BA and then go to comedy school, it's actually very
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Speaker 1: difficult to get people to trust you being on TV.
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Speaker 1: So I've heard listen, so Jamal and Kim buy are
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Speaker 1: dressed to take on London Town. They really look great.
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Speaker 1: There's a lot of coats, a lot of sweaters. I
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Speaker 1: mean Jamal, Jamal always is well dressed, truly, and he's
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Speaker 1: like in this camel brown camel and brown two toned number,
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Speaker 1: if you will. And I'm happy for him. I'm happy
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Speaker 1: that he knows how to dress. They're going to Derbyshire,
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Speaker 1: which if you've listened to me, you know that I
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Speaker 1: am wildly fixated on a show right now called Naked
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Speaker 1: Attraction that is no longer airing, but it has like
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Speaker 1: six seasons that was on British television, which is you know,
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Speaker 1: a dating show where like first things first, you to
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Speaker 1: see everyone's bits, you know, it's just a lot like
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Speaker 1: the first thing that happens. Our people are behind these
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Speaker 1: walls that come up and like someone is picking someone
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Speaker 1: and the first thing that they pick from is like
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Speaker 1: whether they like what's happening downstairs? And they have full
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Speaker 1: frontal nudity on the show. And so I like to
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Speaker 1: think that Kim Bully and Jamal turned on the TV
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Speaker 1: once they got to England and was like, what is this?
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Speaker 1: Like I did Wayne, you know, has met Kim Bully
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Speaker 1: and has you know, bared the brunt of her being like, well,
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Speaker 1: it's a medium flag that you're not taller than me,
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Speaker 1: which is, you know, sort of a mean thing to say,
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Speaker 1: but he takes it in stride, and now they're going
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Speaker 1: to go visit him, and Jamal's like, listen, if he
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Speaker 1: lives in a castle, I'll just be like, hey, dad,
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Speaker 1: she's doing all the touristy things. They go to Windsor Castle.
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Speaker 1: She says she loves the royal family. I'm like, like,
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Speaker 1: what do you mean when you say that? It's the
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Speaker 1: loving the royal family is an interesting thing to say,
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Speaker 1: like nowadays, like I understand that maybe if you're like
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Speaker 1: of a generation that Kim Bully is. Does she mean
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Speaker 1: like Princess Diana like that iteration, Does she mean Megan Markle?
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Speaker 1: Does she mean that, I mean, we know she doesn't
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Speaker 1: mean Prince Andrew. I think that, you know, Kimberlee only
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Speaker 1: probably has room in her heart for one alleged pedo,
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Speaker 1: and that's Michael Michael Jackson. You know that she loves him.
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Speaker 1: The movie came out this weekend. You know she went
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Speaker 1: to go see it. She loves him so much. I'm
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Speaker 1: not saying that he doesn't have great songs, but you
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Speaker 1: know what, I'm saying that one's a hard one, just
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Speaker 1: like the Royal family's kind of hard. There's not really
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Speaker 1: anyone I can hang my hat on in this generation.
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Speaker 1: Loving Prince William. There's I mean, maybe Prince Louis is
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Speaker 1: gonna be fun. I'm not quite sure, but I mean,
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Speaker 1: loving the Royal family in twenty twenty six is a
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Speaker 1: little confusing to me. I just think we're in an
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Speaker 1: age right now where I don't know if anyone's countries
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Speaker 1: truly love their leaders. But you can tell me if
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Speaker 1: I'm wrong. I'm an American saying this, so obviously it's
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Speaker 1: awkward for me. Maybe you're like, oh, no, you're dumb.
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Speaker 1: You're an American. In Canada, we're really digging in ours
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Speaker 1: even like that true do guy that was like the
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Speaker 1: Prime Minister is what dating Katy Perry now? And Katy
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Speaker 1: Perry's like, it seems like everyone that wants to run
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Speaker 1: a country, even if they're born into it, it's fucked up.
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Speaker 1: But maybe maybe that's just the human experience. There are
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Speaker 1: no great people anymore. There's people and they have good moments.
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Speaker 1: I guess I'm included, but here we are. So she
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Speaker 1: Ah said this, Kimberly knows how to dress. You know,
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Speaker 1: she has taken leaps and bounds from when we saw
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Speaker 1: her with Usman. So even in her confessional, she's wearing pink.
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Speaker 1: She looks cute, she has a tan, she has like
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Speaker 1: an ombree in her hair. Right now on social media,
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Speaker 1: I'm not quite sure if she's in the past twenty
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Speaker 1: four hours shown us yet, but she got full like
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Speaker 1: dental implants happening. So she's transforming, and you know, that's
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Speaker 1: all we can do. Wayne sends her flowers and when
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Speaker 1: she gets to check into a really adorable place, she
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Speaker 1: gets the flowers and they're beautiful flowers. We get two
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Speaker 1: sets of flowers on this episode, the one that Courtney
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Speaker 1: gives to Coltea, which are hot on they are so sad, right,
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Speaker 1: And she's like, I got them from a date and
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Speaker 1: then they're in my trunk and I'm like, oh okay,
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Speaker 1: but why give them to Colty? Just throw them away?
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Speaker 1: Then you know what are you doing? She it's weird
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Speaker 1: because she writes him a letter. Well, I'll go back
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Speaker 1: to Queenland. Get me and my adhd brain on one
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Speaker 1: fucking topic. So I'll get to Courtney and cold. Let
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Speaker 1: me go back. So the flowers that Wayne gives Kimberly
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Speaker 1: are just so beautiful, right, Like they're so well done.
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Speaker 1: Someone at like a mom and pop flower shop picked them,
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Speaker 1: pruned them, wrapped them in paper. They're stargazers, you know.
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Speaker 1: They smell so good. I love a lily, and it
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Speaker 1: makes it makes me really happy for her because I
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Speaker 1: think it's indicative of someone who cares about quality. I
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Speaker 1: would be so happy to get flowers like that. I
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Speaker 1: think that it would really make me feel cared for special,
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Speaker 1: if you will. So she ends up meeting up with
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Speaker 1: Wayne and are both wearing great sweaters. One's blue, one's green.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, it's so lovely. It's just that,
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Speaker 1: you know what, it's interesting maybe because I live in California. Truly,
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Speaker 1: we just people in California. And I'm not saying I
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Speaker 1: haven't done this, just move about town and workout clothes
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Speaker 1: all day long. When you actually see someone in a coat,
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Speaker 1: it's so I mean, it's such a higher level, it's
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Speaker 1: such a upgrade of a look. It looks so debonair
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Speaker 1: or chic or classy. That makes me sad that it's
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Speaker 1: so hot, so hot in California old time. I can't
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Speaker 1: wear that many coats. He drives a big white van.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, why are you driving that van? It's a
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Speaker 1: sus van. I mean, like, that's the kind of van
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Speaker 1: that if it was by a park with kids, I'd
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Speaker 1: be like reporting it. You know, is this a warehouse
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Speaker 1: job that he can get this car from a friend,
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Speaker 1: or again, you can be like you're a dumb American.
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Speaker 1: We in England we love white, boxy vans. That's how
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Speaker 1: we get along. I'm like, okay, sorry, I've gotten a
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Speaker 1: lot of comments being like you're ignorant. I guess and
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Speaker 1: now you're just hearing it come out. So he has
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Speaker 1: to have her guess where they're going to go on
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Speaker 1: their date, and he's like, here is a clue. It
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Speaker 1: has wheels. She's like, is it a boat, which you
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Speaker 1: and I know. No, it's not a boat, girl. No.
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Speaker 1: I mean it's only funny because she just had her date.
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Speaker 1: Remember that date she had where it was like a
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Speaker 1: two wheel bike, Like, isn't that on the forefront of
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Speaker 1: your mind? I'd be like, oh my god, is it
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Speaker 1: a goddamn two wheel bike again? Two person bike? I can't.
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Speaker 1: I don't want wheels. I want seats. I want comfortable,
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Speaker 1: I want to I want restaurants. I mean, you know,
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Speaker 1: I want menus, I want candlelight. I want booths. A booth, honey,
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Speaker 1: a leather booth, please that and those fancy flowers. Okay.
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Speaker 1: So he's like, no, it has steam coming out of it.
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Speaker 1: She's like me right now trying to guess, you know,
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Speaker 1: God bless, but it's you know, it's a train and
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Speaker 1: it's super cute to steam train. Another thing that I
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Speaker 1: really want to do in my life is go on
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Speaker 1: that like orient Express. You know, I'm talking about the
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Speaker 1: Oriental Train. I'm not trying to use that in like
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Speaker 1: the bad sense of the word. That's the name of it. Oh,
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Speaker 1: the orient Express, right, don't I think I say this?
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Speaker 1: That's what it is. Oh my god, they go to
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Speaker 1: like from Paris to Venice or something. How lovely. I
9:24
Speaker 1: think it's only like one million dollars per ticket. So uh,
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Speaker 1: you know, some day someday when I'm awfully not alone
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Speaker 1: because someone's paying for it. So they get on this train, honey,
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Speaker 1: and it's English English time, it's four o'clock. Specifically because
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Speaker 1: it's tea, they get to have them scones. Here's the
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Speaker 1: thing I'm just gonna say. I love the concept of
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Speaker 1: a tu So I booked to you for myself, and
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Speaker 1: almost every time I sit down at a tee for
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Speaker 1: like the like the thirty minutes after I've sat down,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh no, I forget. I wish that there
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Speaker 1: were more salty, umami, yummy hot things involved in teas,
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Speaker 1: but they're just so much hard or soft, ready bread,
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Speaker 1: sweet breads, different kinds of levels of sweet breads, different
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Speaker 1: flavors of sweetbreads. I like a scone, warm scone, a
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Speaker 1: little butter or clotted cream, or like a little jam.
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Speaker 1: Surely like that would be enough. But the entire you know,
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Speaker 1: trifecta serving platters where there's just so many things, it's
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Speaker 1: a little overwhelming. It's just so much sweets. I don't know.
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Speaker 1: So I'm always like, please even the sandwiches. You're like,
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Speaker 1: this is too cold. Can I have like a chicken palms,
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Speaker 1: you know, sandwich with like some melted mozzarella. I don't know.
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Speaker 1: But tea is so lovely, especially if you can tolerate
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Speaker 1: like a little cream in it. Oh, like a creamy tea,
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Speaker 1: like a tea latte at four o'clock. How lovely anyway,
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Speaker 1: So I will to say this, So I will say
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Speaker 1: a lot of things. I have a whole podcast tikihi.
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Speaker 1: But when they're on this train, I can't help but
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Speaker 1: look at this, like lady in the back of them,
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Speaker 1: who's wearing what looks like a full, very thick fur coat.
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Speaker 1: She looks adorable. She looks like someone Sanana honey. And
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Speaker 1: you would just kind of go up to her and
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Speaker 1: cuddle with her, and she would tell you, you know,
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Speaker 1: sweet things in your ear and a very thick English accent.
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Speaker 1: I'm sure it'd be RP Queen's Queen's British honey, not
11:38
Speaker 1: an r to be had. And I also sort of
11:42
Speaker 1: would love to know what these people thought of a
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Speaker 1: full camera crew and Kimberly's accent. I wish that they
11:49
Speaker 1: would just sometimes get looky loose or not even look
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Speaker 1: at lose the background people to be like, what's your
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Speaker 1: take on this? More than pillow talks. So that's my idea.
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Speaker 1: So we know, we feel good about Wayne and kim Bullly,
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Speaker 1: you know, we feel like they're into each other. They're
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Speaker 1: like not afraid to be like, you're good looking. Kim
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Speaker 1: Buly's like are you dating? Why? No? Sorry, She's like
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Speaker 1: are you dating anyone else? It's like no, and she's
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Speaker 1: like how are you single? It's always interesting when someone
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Speaker 1: asks how are you single? Who's also single? Like it
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Speaker 1: happens a lot, right like on dating shows or even
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Speaker 1: in real life, or like two single people you know
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Speaker 1: usually like getting to know each other on a date.
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Speaker 1: We'll look at the other one and be like, how
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Speaker 1: are you single? Well, babe, how are you single? And
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Speaker 1: what do you expect me to say? I'm a nightmare.
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Speaker 1: I have horrible high expectations. I'm about to write you
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Speaker 1: off right now. I am crazy. Right now you are
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Speaker 1: seeing a fake version of me, and I can't wait
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Speaker 1: till you make me feel any sort of insecure and
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Speaker 1: stable And then you all really see the real met like, well,
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Speaker 1: I have an addiction issue. You haven't met that person yet,
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Speaker 1: I mean, you know I have. There's so many things
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Speaker 1: where I'm like, what is the actual, honestly answer you
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Speaker 1: want to hear? Well, it's really hard to meet someone
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Speaker 1: of quality. I don't know why I am single. I
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Speaker 1: would love someone to tell me, because every time I
13:15
Speaker 1: think that I've found out why I'm single, I've like
13:18
Speaker 1: tried to remedy that, and yet I'm still single. So
13:23
Speaker 1: but I think that the thing is a lot of
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Speaker 1: people are single, a various looks, of various statuses in
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Speaker 1: life or whatever. I just I think that we're in
13:36
Speaker 1: the age of single in instead of like the age
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Speaker 1: of Aquarius. It's but if you're listening to this and
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Speaker 1: you're bowed up, God bless you, you know. I think
13:45
Speaker 1: that there's something to be in a relationship. I think
13:48
Speaker 1: that two people grow from it, and I definitely understand
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Speaker 1: that not everything's perfect and you have to work through things.
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Speaker 1: So I think that either way, there's a little bit
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Speaker 1: of a struggle and maybe a little bit of a
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Speaker 1: wondering if this is it. But for Kimberly, she's in
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Speaker 1: the middle of dating, and I'm happy for her. Let's
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Speaker 1: move on to someone who I really wish would stop
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Speaker 1: dating a certain person, and that's Courtney. Courtney and Colty
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Speaker 1: so as I said, she's the other person that hang
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Speaker 1: the flowers of the episode and hers are real shitty.
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Speaker 1: And she also writes coltine and like a sign where
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Speaker 1: it's like he's gonna know it's you. You don't have
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Speaker 1: to bring out signus. It's I mean, it's awkward to hold.
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Speaker 1: When he shows up, he's blonde. I'm like, who did
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Speaker 1: that to Diana? Dye your hair for you? And it's
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Speaker 1: like this gingery kind of blonde. It's like, you know, strawberry,
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Speaker 1: I guess is the word. So in his footage, he
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Speaker 1: has recorded himself with Diana while in Brazil and he
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Speaker 1: had said I love you to her. I'm interested, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I was most interested that Diana allowed herself to be
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Speaker 1: like in this footage. Did ninety Day producers think to
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Speaker 1: go to Brazil and like tape them at all with
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Speaker 1: the actual camera or are they just so happy to
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Speaker 1: have COULTI do like some of the production work on
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Speaker 1: their behalf and like save the money. It's just interesting,
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Speaker 1: So you know, Courtney shouldn't pick him up, and her
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Speaker 1: parents are obviously so upset, and she you know, is
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Speaker 1: mad at him, but also like still in love with him.
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Speaker 1: She really is, like they trauma bonded. It's interesting because yeah,
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Speaker 1: I saw them after Hunt for Love and they seem
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Speaker 1: to hate each other very much or they didn't talk
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Speaker 1: to each other at all. And I like Courtney, Like
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Speaker 1: I think Courtney is probably to me the person on
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Speaker 1: the entire in entire franchise that I wouldn't be on
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Speaker 1: pins and Needles if I had to hang out with her,
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Speaker 1: you know, Like I think that she, you know, for
15:52
Speaker 1: I don't know her very well, but for intents and purposes,
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Speaker 1: like is a good person and just like sort of
15:56
Speaker 1: lives her life and just happens to be on the show,
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, surely I'm sure she
16:01
Speaker 1: would want more money or fame, and you know, she
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Speaker 1: does things on her Instagram, like promoting things. But I
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Speaker 1: don't think that she's like nefarious in any way, or
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Speaker 1: I think that she's really happy to just like be
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Speaker 1: doing her thing. I want the best for her, but
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Speaker 1: I will say this, So she had written something on Instagram.
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was like, I know, I'll read it
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Speaker 1: to you. This was on I'm sorry, this was on
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Speaker 1: her story, and then I'll read it to you and
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Speaker 1: then i'll tell you what I wrote back. So she
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Speaker 1: had posted this, and it's a question asked Pce. She
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Speaker 1: can be like, ask me a question. Someone said, why
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Speaker 1: do you keep going back to Colt? And this is
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Speaker 1: what she says. We trauma bonded. It was complicated. I
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Speaker 1: always overanalyze and try to make the right decision. Even now,
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Speaker 1: I replay this scenario what ifs, and question if I
16:48
Speaker 1: made the right choice. Which is interesting because that's almost
16:51
Speaker 1: exactly what Aviva said of Stig. Remember that, and I
16:54
Speaker 1: think there's a very big, like female thing about this,
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Speaker 1: where like you replay relationships and then start to blame yourself.
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Speaker 1: Isn't that so shitny I do that too. This is
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Speaker 1: what she goes on to say. Though my thought process
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Speaker 1: at the time, Colon he lied, slash cheated, fuck him,
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Speaker 1: but he broke his leg comforting me when I was
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Speaker 1: going through a hard time, So I felt guilt slash responsibility.
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Speaker 1: He's basically in this position because of me, which is
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Speaker 1: not true. He went on hunt for love of his
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Speaker 1: own accord. He went to your room of his own accord.
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Speaker 1: He has, you know, issues with balance of his own accord.
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Speaker 1: He didn't fall because of you unless you pushed him,
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Speaker 1: which you know. Okay, moving on, this is this is
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Speaker 1: her talking. Now do I just abandon him? What if
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Speaker 1: he's permanently disabled? Will that be on my conscious the
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Speaker 1: rest of my life? My therapist recommended colon, it's human
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Speaker 1: nature to want to help others, so help, but have boundaries.
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Speaker 1: My parents never allowed me to quit jobs, sports slash
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Speaker 1: school when it got hard, try harder, keep going, don't
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Speaker 1: give up. So that translated into relationships. She said something
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Speaker 1: off off in the moment. Sorry, she said, cut something
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Speaker 1: off in the moment if it no longer serves you.
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Speaker 1: Jobs slash relationship. So I'm working on that. So you know.
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Speaker 1: That was a very long, truthful answer to me. And
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Speaker 1: so I had written back to her like through just
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Speaker 1: whatever DM and I said this, it's so hard, but
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Speaker 1: people are their own responsibilities. You didn't owe him anything
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Speaker 1: because he broke his leg. He comforted you the minute before,
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Speaker 1: and everything else was his own doing. It's hard. Being
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Speaker 1: empathetic and sensitive visualized disconnection like taking off a jacket
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Speaker 1: you no longer need. This is what she said. She
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Speaker 1: hearted that then said people aren't going to like what
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Speaker 1: happens next, and I said, Courtney screamed and then I
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Speaker 1: said no, and then she gave me a like a
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Speaker 1: emoji upside down smiley face. Okay, so that's my intel
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Speaker 1: for you, and I think it's pretty good. So he
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Speaker 1: shows up, honey, as I said, he dyed his hair
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Speaker 1: you know who knows or Diana. He also has this
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Speaker 1: like puka shell necklace that like, you know, maybe is
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Speaker 1: like Brazilian. It's also looks like a snake, which is
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Speaker 1: what he is, like wrapped around his neck. And I'm like, also, like,
19:06
Speaker 1: is that could that be a steak? And you know,
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Speaker 1: is that venomous? He says that he fucked Diana and
19:12
Speaker 1: she's like, great, so your dick worked there and we're like,
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Speaker 1: oh god. And then he's like, but I still love
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Speaker 1: you and she's like no, and then he begs her
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Speaker 1: to go to like a steak dinner to dinner and
19:22
Speaker 1: she says, okay because she wants free steak. Girl, we've
19:26
Speaker 1: seen your parents in that house. You can afford steak.
19:29
Speaker 1: I know that your mom's making cabbage rolls. But like,
19:32
Speaker 1: at least go on hinge and find someone to take
19:34
Speaker 1: you out for steak. Also, he can't afford a house.
19:39
Speaker 1: How the hell's like, what kind of capital grill slash
19:44
Speaker 1: Morton's slash flemings are you gonna go to? We're like,
19:48
Speaker 1: and how you know wagou are you gonna go up
19:50
Speaker 1: for this? And anyway, So I'm like upset, but it happens.
19:56
Speaker 1: He also at the dinner is like, you know, I,
19:58
Speaker 1: yeah I fucked Diana and yeah I said I to her,
20:00
Speaker 1: and yeah I have still had feelings for you, which
20:03
Speaker 1: is like, ugh, how many men in here are like
20:06
Speaker 1: one leg in one pool and one leg and the
20:08
Speaker 1: other just waiting for one of the pools, you know,
20:11
Speaker 1: to be warm enough for him to like dive in.
20:15
Speaker 1: And then that's a weird metaphor, but it also is
20:17
Speaker 1: like kind of like rick right, and kind of trash. Anyway,
20:19
Speaker 1: so he's like, well, I came back to see you,
20:21
Speaker 1: and she's like, bitch, you came back to get a
20:24
Speaker 1: fucking surgery. It's like yeah, the doctor too. I don't
20:28
Speaker 1: know why he didn't go to Vegas, where his whole
20:30
Speaker 1: life was, for his surgery. This outfit he has at dinner.
20:38
Speaker 1: And it's not just that necklace. It's the top. It's
20:41
Speaker 1: like one of those tops that has like three like
20:45
Speaker 1: buttons that are like bulbous. It looks like he is
20:50
Speaker 1: trying to sell you like a reki a reiki session.
20:54
Speaker 1: He looks like he's trying to be like an energy
20:55
Speaker 1: healer in that shirt. It's yes, it's it's uh. It
21:03
Speaker 1: reads mental issues, like you don't know who you are.
21:07
Speaker 1: It reads like he's in the middle of a midlife crisis,
21:09
Speaker 1: which I b part. I get. I'm empathetic to that.
21:11
Speaker 1: I think you know, truly I am too. So let's
21:15
Speaker 1: move on, Sophie. So Sophie's like, well, you know, as
21:19
Speaker 1: I said, when I landed, this guy Brian had popped
21:23
Speaker 1: up on my social media and I was like, what
21:26
Speaker 1: does that even mean? What do you mean someone popped
21:30
Speaker 1: up on your social media when you landed? That's like,
21:32
Speaker 1: is that Riyah? Are you saying social media for dating app?
21:38
Speaker 1: And like he popped up because you searched for people
21:41
Speaker 1: in the area, right, Like I don't know the way
21:45
Speaker 1: she said, It's so funny. So she meets Brian twenty
21:48
Speaker 1: four and he says he has a gym and she's like,
21:53
Speaker 1: oh cool, let me see your tricks. Like tricks? Is
21:57
Speaker 1: he gonna like juggle juggle barbells right now? But it's
22:01
Speaker 1: just that she wants him to take off his shirt
22:03
Speaker 1: and then like show him who's show her his mussols?
22:09
Speaker 1: And that's gonna be interesting because it feels like, yeah,
22:13
Speaker 1: it feels like you are just sort of like fetishizing
22:15
Speaker 1: him for his body without ever asking him like a
22:17
Speaker 1: meaningful question. Could you imagine like if the roles were reversed,
22:23
Speaker 1: where like someone a guy was like you work out,
22:27
Speaker 1: let me see your abs and thighs, and then you
22:30
Speaker 1: like showed someone for some reason you're like six pack
22:35
Speaker 1: immediately and they never asked you a question? Is like
22:38
Speaker 1: is she so used to being like whatever? Uh? What's
22:45
Speaker 1: the word when you just like only think about someone's body.
22:49
Speaker 1: I just think this is like a boring date, is
22:51
Speaker 1: what I should say. They literally don't talk, and she
22:53
Speaker 1: speaks good Spanish. She could that's which is also so sad.
22:58
Speaker 1: So then they ordered dring and then he's like, do
23:01
Speaker 1: you want another drink? They both have half full drinks.
23:04
Speaker 1: She says yes, He says he's nervous, and then you know,
23:08
Speaker 1: he comes back with water for himself. I clock that
23:11
Speaker 1: and like another tequila pineapple, which is yummy for her,
23:15
Speaker 1: and then they kiss and you know that said it
23:21
Speaker 1: felt like a little fast because I'm like, do you
23:23
Speaker 1: do you know anything else about this person? That's so
23:26
Speaker 1: weird anyway, She's like, well, there's really no connection but physical,
23:31
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, yeah, you didn't. I mean, did
23:35
Speaker 1: you even try to ask him anything? Like? I think
23:39
Speaker 1: this date would have been more interesting if she tried
23:41
Speaker 1: or he tried to talk, but nah, I guess nother
23:43
Speaker 1: of them felt the need to really connect as humans.
23:53
Speaker 1: The kind of like date they have is like a
23:57
Speaker 1: in real life version of swiping on a social media
24:02
Speaker 1: site where you would be like, you'd see someone clothed
24:05
Speaker 1: and he'd be like, ugh, let's move all these pictures
24:07
Speaker 1: to see if you have like a topless shot. She
24:12
Speaker 1: doesn't like the shirt he's wearing, and I thought the
24:14
Speaker 1: shirt that he was wearing was great. I also would
24:17
Speaker 1: be impressed if someone owned a gym at that age.
24:19
Speaker 1: Like no other follow up questions does he play sports?
24:23
Speaker 1: I mean again, I don't think that he asked her
24:25
Speaker 1: any questions. But I also don't know if it was
24:28
Speaker 1: edited out. It's an interesting edit. So let's move on
24:33
Speaker 1: to g Now, Gina's playing basketball, honey. You know he
24:37
Speaker 1: is playing that be ball in the snow. It's cold outside.
24:40
Speaker 1: He's trying to keep warm on the inside. He's like,
24:43
Speaker 1: I love shooting hoops, gets my mind off things. And
24:46
Speaker 1: then he faced time Natalie. Natalie is in a blazer
24:49
Speaker 1: and a like black turtleneck top. Honey. She looks like
24:52
Speaker 1: she's back in business. I don't know if she's in
24:54
Speaker 1: washing TOBC. But you can't wear that often in Vegas.
24:57
Speaker 1: And it's been a month since she brought him to
25:00
Speaker 1: La and he has to be the one that's kind
25:03
Speaker 1: of like, well, last time we talked, you said that
25:06
Speaker 1: you were going to have to see how your daughter
25:10
Speaker 1: feels about this. She's like, well, she still hates you.
25:13
Speaker 1: So at this point we think Natalie is going to
25:15
Speaker 1: be like and therefore, Gino, I can't possibly continue because
25:19
Speaker 1: not just my daughter, but truly my brother and not
25:23
Speaker 1: you know, everyone everyone in America that watched this would
25:25
Speaker 1: be like, how are you letting yourself be so disrespected
25:30
Speaker 1: on national television by a being with Gino alone. If
25:34
Speaker 1: Gino's ex Jasmine didn't attack you, and he just stood
25:38
Speaker 1: by and then all of his own his own family
25:42
Speaker 1: isn't on his side, Like all of that is a
25:44
Speaker 1: lot to take. So we really are like maybe this
25:47
Speaker 1: is the moment where Natalie would be like, I can't
25:50
Speaker 1: be with you. But what ends up happening is that
25:54
Speaker 1: he breaks up with her, which I find humiliating for her.
26:02
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, Natalie, I thought about it, and I
26:07
Speaker 1: think that you know, when it comes to us, I
26:09
Speaker 1: really think that we're just really good friends, and I
26:12
Speaker 1: really want to have you in my life as just friends.
26:17
Speaker 1: You live in different states, would you you just want
26:20
Speaker 1: a friend to take you to the strip club? What
26:23
Speaker 1: teach you how to like throw money like that, to
26:26
Speaker 1: how to make it rain? Why I said this last episode,
26:35
Speaker 1: I think that she must have a humiliation kink. I
26:37
Speaker 1: really do. I can't imagine a world in which like
26:40
Speaker 1: this person moves through this world. And I mean the
26:42
Speaker 1: other whole thing is that she could be, of course,
26:44
Speaker 1: a paid actress, which, like I said, it's hard to
26:46
Speaker 1: be on TV. Jamal's like, sign me up. You know,
26:48
Speaker 1: I'm saying I've tried to be a paid actress so
26:50
Speaker 1: many times. Not in reality, shows, except that I didn't,
26:53
Speaker 1: you know, apply for Traders and they this season and
26:56
Speaker 1: they did not call me back. But I mean maybe
26:59
Speaker 1: that's her thing, Like, yeah, Chris, I have a fucking
27:02
Speaker 1: MFA from Yale. This is Natalie talking. And I've been
27:06
Speaker 1: trying to hit the boards. I've been in many off
27:09
Speaker 1: Broadway shows. I've had many pilot seasons where I got
27:13
Speaker 1: really close to network they said, and I got nothing,
27:16
Speaker 1: and this is the most work I've gotten. I'd be like, okay, Natalie, fine, Okay,
27:23
Speaker 1: I get you, I feel you, Natalie, Okay. Still, I
27:26
Speaker 1: would just change my name on the show and I
27:29
Speaker 1: would be like, you're never gonna film with my family,
27:31
Speaker 1: or I'd be like cast my family too. Okay. So Natalie,
27:38
Speaker 1: after this is like, you know what, I deserve more,
27:40
Speaker 1: and it's like you deserve more therapy, you deserve to
27:47
Speaker 1: understand why you would put yourself in this position after
27:49
Speaker 1: being I mean, I don't know, that was a hard watch.
27:55
Speaker 1: I would just would rather see Gino with equally yoked
28:03
Speaker 1: women of his caliber, like kind of weird awkward as
28:10
Speaker 1: women like I would rather honestly see him on a
28:13
Speaker 1: date with like someone that matches him more, because I
28:17
Speaker 1: could believe it. This is too hard anyway, Let's move
28:23
Speaker 1: on to Vanya. So Vanya has been traveling honey in
28:25
Speaker 1: a Beiza, and she's been having the time of her
28:27
Speaker 1: life with her cousin, except that Tony is like not
28:30
Speaker 1: dealing with it. Well, he's just like his whole thing
28:34
Speaker 1: is that he wants more communication. But communication, I think
28:37
Speaker 1: to him is like you need to call me three
28:40
Speaker 1: times a day, and each conversation has to has to
28:44
Speaker 1: like last for twenty to thirty minutes till I'm satisfied.
28:49
Speaker 1: And every time I text, you have to write back
28:52
Speaker 1: within two minutes. Like That's Tony's version of communication, I think,
28:59
Speaker 1: and Vanya has it like I'm on vacation, so I
29:02
Speaker 1: will text you back when I can. There's also like,
29:04
Speaker 1: you know, time differences, and I want to call you
29:07
Speaker 1: like once every two days maybe, and I want that
29:10
Speaker 1: phone call to be like as long as I can
29:12
Speaker 1: bear it until my cousin's like, let's go. I know
29:17
Speaker 1: it's hard to be in relationships, so you do have
29:18
Speaker 1: to make time. Maybe I think that there is a
29:20
Speaker 1: happy middle ground, like you should want to check in
29:23
Speaker 1: by you know, voice, like twenty four to forty hours,
29:28
Speaker 1: especially if you're abroad, because there's a time difference, and
29:31
Speaker 1: also you want to let someone know that you're thinking
29:36
Speaker 1: of them, And so it's almost like for Vanya, I
29:40
Speaker 1: wonder if she ever texts him things that she sees
29:44
Speaker 1: throughout her day that reminds her of Tony, you know, like, Oh,
29:48
Speaker 1: I'm in a Biza. We're in the grocery store. Look
29:50
Speaker 1: at the fodor what they have here? Do you want
29:52
Speaker 1: me to bring you some home? This might be you know,
29:55
Speaker 1: might be strong. You know, Viza's really hot. People dance
29:58
Speaker 1: for like seventy two hours at a time. They sweat
30:00
Speaker 1: a lot, so like we might want to try this,
30:04
Speaker 1: you know this one. She also says that, and this
30:10
Speaker 1: is maddening. She's like, last night was so much fun.
30:13
Speaker 1: We were like traveling and we're like dancing, except that
30:16
Speaker 1: we had a really bad night because he kept texting.
30:18
Speaker 1: And I want to be like, where's the cameras? Then
30:21
Speaker 1: show us that footage. I would love to see footage
30:23
Speaker 1: of like her at the Foam party. That's what they
30:30
Speaker 1: do there right Still, I don't know, it's a I
30:33
Speaker 1: think about this a lot. There was like a time
30:36
Speaker 1: in like the early two thousands where foam parties were
30:41
Speaker 1: everything every everything. It's like, yes, it was like the
30:46
Speaker 1: same time as like wild On was on E and
30:48
Speaker 1: like Tara Reid was like on that show, and like yes,
30:51
Speaker 1: that's like when we all and this when I heard
30:52
Speaker 1: about Aviza and there was like you know, the parties
30:54
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. But one of the things was
30:56
Speaker 1: like foam parties right where like there'd be a dance
30:59
Speaker 1: floor and then suddenly they would just pipe in a
31:01
Speaker 1: bunch of foam and it was such a big thing
31:05
Speaker 1: that I, you know, they had him everywhere, like even
31:07
Speaker 1: in La I went to one, you know. I remember
31:09
Speaker 1: I went to a phone party and I went with
31:12
Speaker 1: a friend of mine who was like much shorter than me,
31:16
Speaker 1: not to be like Kim Bully, but you know medium
31:18
Speaker 1: flag and I remember just dancing with this person because
31:22
Speaker 1: just watching hot On like the phone get higher than
31:27
Speaker 1: she could stay that she was the height of her
31:30
Speaker 1: and I then we had to move to like a
31:31
Speaker 1: more because it was a lot of foam. It's like,
31:35
Speaker 1: wouldn't we love to see Vanya like having fun somewhere
31:41
Speaker 1: dancing like in a visa with her cousin. I would
31:44
Speaker 1: love to see that footage I'd love to see like
31:46
Speaker 1: men hitting on her. I'd love to see her looking
31:48
Speaker 1: at her phone and stuff like that. Single Life must
31:52
Speaker 1: be made for a budget of like four dollars. Okay,
31:58
Speaker 1: So yeah, they have a conversation where they really can't communicate,
32:02
Speaker 1: like they really don't see eye to eye on how
32:04
Speaker 1: to effectively do things. She's really annoyed by him. At
32:10
Speaker 1: the same time, he is like very frustrated by her
32:13
Speaker 1: and feels really disrespected, which you know, does tickle me.
32:19
Speaker 1: It does that particles me. I'm happy for her because
32:24
Speaker 1: I find him to be weird and I you know, yeah,
32:29
Speaker 1: it's almost like, I don't know, he seems like a yeah,
32:34
Speaker 1: he seems like someone who's you know, really deals with
32:36
Speaker 1: insecure attachment. He really needs to be with someone who
32:40
Speaker 1: like wants to worship him and like you know, you know,
32:47
Speaker 1: reply real fast and like isn't so independent. I really
32:51
Speaker 1: hope that if there's a tell all, we get to
32:53
Speaker 1: talk to his ex wife, the one that he had
32:54
Speaker 1: for eight months. I think it'd be important. I think
32:57
Speaker 1: that's important journalism that we could have. And of course
32:59
Speaker 1: the is was Matthew Ross Matthews, which I'm so excited
33:03
Speaker 1: about I'm so happy that he's doing it, and I
33:08
Speaker 1: can't wait to see the questions that he asks. He
33:12
Speaker 1: did comment on my reel. I made a reel talking
33:16
Speaker 1: about ninety dight fiance and Ross is a very funny
33:23
Speaker 1: pop culture person. Of course, he's on the Drew Barrymore show.
33:25
Speaker 1: I've mentioned this before. Of course, he had a show
33:28
Speaker 1: on e It was called Hello Ross, and I got
33:30
Speaker 1: to be on it billions of years ago, you know,
33:34
Speaker 1: one of the few times that TV allowed me to
33:36
Speaker 1: be on. Anyway, so kidding, I'm in a weird state.
33:39
Speaker 1: But anyway, it's a weird time for this whole industry,
33:41
Speaker 1: and who knows what's going to happen with it. But
33:42
Speaker 1: at least I had this podcast where, for some reason,
33:45
Speaker 1: my voice is all I have. You can also see
33:48
Speaker 1: the visuals though, of course, if you pay extra five
33:50
Speaker 1: dollars only five dollars on Patreon, you get them super fast,
33:54
Speaker 1: and then sometimes I release them to YouTube. At the
33:57
Speaker 1: same time, you can also follow me. I'm at Chris
34:00
Speaker 1: Farah on all your major social media networks like Instagram,
34:03
Speaker 1: like TikTok, and at the same time, you know, you
34:05
Speaker 1: can follow me on substack. I have a Facebook, both
34:10
Speaker 1: a page and the group Anity Farah. All of that exists,
34:14
Speaker 1: and I certainly appreciate all of the really loving comments
34:18
Speaker 1: and kind words I've gotten ever since a launching a
34:21
Speaker 1: solo podcast, but you know everything, I've gotten such nice
34:26
Speaker 1: comments on my reels recently, which I you know, is
34:30
Speaker 1: like such a validating feeling, and I'm wildly appreciative of it.
34:37
Speaker 1: So let us my loves take two breaths and be
34:40
Speaker 1: on our merry ways. I really hope that as we
34:47
Speaker 1: end Spring or sorry, as we end April, as we
34:50
Speaker 1: like look towards, may may you find love, May you
34:58
Speaker 1: find happiness slash joy. May you find really fun nights
35:06
Speaker 1: and really full and productive days, as well as nights
35:12
Speaker 1: and days of absolute rest. And may you find souls
35:21
Speaker 1: that mirror back all of the beauty at warmth within you. Okay,
35:28
Speaker 1: so truly to those listening, that feels like any good
35:37
Speaker 1: part of me sort of is what I feel like
35:43
Speaker 1: I get back mirrored from comments or reviews or anything.
35:51
Speaker 1: I get back like it's and it's just a lovely
35:57
Speaker 1: it's It really is making me feel like really happy,
36:01
Speaker 1: even though this sounds like there's no happiness in my
36:03
Speaker 1: voice right now, it's because I asked a reflex right now.
36:06
Speaker 1: So unfortunately, my own health issues are making me whatever
36:11
Speaker 1: annoyed and my throat hurts, but I'm moving through it.
36:16
Speaker 1: You know what's really hard. I think I'm in a
36:20
Speaker 1: midlife crisis mixed with perimenopause, which is like timed really
36:26
Speaker 1: horribly for women. Right if you're a woman and you
36:30
Speaker 1: feel like your midlife crisis is at the same time
36:34
Speaker 1: as perimenopause, is that what it's always gonna Yeah? Is
36:37
Speaker 1: that what it is? That's what this is. It's like
36:43
Speaker 1: really difficult because then you have like a bunch of
36:47
Speaker 1: mental and physical things happening. Plus it's like hormonal. There's
36:51
Speaker 1: like what can you do and how do you decipher
36:54
Speaker 1: how to fix certain things? Yiche boogiche? Okay, two breaths,
36:59
Speaker 1: and the breaths are truly right now. I'm very happy
37:03
Speaker 1: and I am totally fine, and I hope wherever you
37:07
Speaker 1: are listening to this in this moment that you feel safe, happy, fine.
37:12
Speaker 1: So let's plan ourselves if we can, and be thankful
37:17
Speaker 1: for the very present moment that we're sharing. Okay, babes,
37:20
Speaker 1: two breaths, thank you so much. I'm I'm gonna go
37:44
Speaker 1: later on this week to see Devilware's product. I'm excited
37:47
Speaker 1: for that to come out. And this is like my
37:49
Speaker 1: own nerdiness. Like AMC has these, like you know, limited
37:53
Speaker 1: edition popcorn buckets. You know what I'm talking about. It's
37:55
Speaker 1: how annoying because it's the way that's actually saving the movie.
37:59
Speaker 1: And I guess are these like expensive popcorn buckets? And
38:03
Speaker 1: I don't want any of them except the Devil Wears
38:06
Speaker 1: Prada one. It's like a red looking Birken bag. It's
38:10
Speaker 1: plastic of course for the popcorn, and I do want it.
38:13
Speaker 1: I do want it. So I'm hoping that when I
38:15
Speaker 1: go that they still have them. And so say a
38:17
Speaker 1: prayer for your girl, and also take care of yourselves
38:20
Speaker 1: and one another, stand there for what you believe, and
38:22
Speaker 1: make art all right. And the art can be big
38:25
Speaker 1: and small. It can be collaborative or you. It could
38:28
Speaker 1: happen in one moment by a breath or a song,
38:32
Speaker 1: or a helpful smile to someone or a compliment, or
38:36
Speaker 1: of course it can be the masterpiece of your life.
38:40
Speaker 1: Whatever it is, try and create it. Okay, babes, I'll
38:44
Speaker 1: talk to you later. Thanks. Bye,