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Could You Live Across The Street From Your Ex-Spouse? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: It's topic time bought eight hundred and five five one
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  Speaker 1: five one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Morning everybody.
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  Speaker 3: It's DJ Envy Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast
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  Speaker 3: Club nowphew, just joining us.
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  Speaker 2: We're talking about Joe Coy.
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  Speaker 3: He was here Friday, comedian Joe Coy, you know the
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  Speaker 3: one that Charlomagne doesn't go to any of his shows. Yes,
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  Speaker 3: he was here Friday talking about his relationship with his
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  Speaker 3: baby mom's his ex, and how he bought her a
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  Speaker 3: house across the street.
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  Speaker 2: Let's listen, we were divorced for.
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  Speaker 4: A reason, but we're great friends. And she's a great
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  Speaker 4: mom and I'm a great dad, and together we were
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  Speaker 4: raising a great son.
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  Speaker 2: He bought a house across the street, house.
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  Speaker 4: Right right next to your mind.
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  Speaker 2: You people look out the window to see what they doing.
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  Speaker 4: Like, No, I don't care, man, And every great moment
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  Speaker 4: that happens with me, I fly out, you know what
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  Speaker 4: I mean. When I did Madison Square Garden, of course
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  Speaker 4: I'm not just going to share that moment with my son.
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  Speaker 4: I want his mommy there as a well.
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  Speaker 5: Is it a deal breaker if you're with a if
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  Speaker 5: you're involved with another woman and they are like intimidated
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  Speaker 5: by their done by Wow.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, the minute you give any type of hate or
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  Speaker 4: anything on my son's mommy, it's.
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  Speaker 3: Like going take care and have a nice have a
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  Speaker 3: bad day. So we're asking eight hundred five eight five
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  Speaker 3: one five one.
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  Speaker 2: Could you do that? I'm not that mature.
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  Speaker 3: I tell you that there's no way that my ex,
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  Speaker 3: somebody that I've had a relationship with, or a child
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  Speaker 3: with the somebody that I love, lives across the street.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not there yet, Thank god, I don't have to
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  Speaker 2: think about that.
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  Speaker 3: But I just I don't think I could look out
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  Speaker 3: my blinds and see somebody walking in the crib like I.
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  Speaker 2: Couldn't do it, Charlemagne, you said you couldn't.
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  Speaker 6: If it was about the kids.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, because at the end of the day, nothing comes
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  Speaker 5: before me being a great parent. And you know as
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  Speaker 5: well as I do when it comes to children. Man,
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  Speaker 5: you have to micromanage kids, you know, you have to,
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  Speaker 5: you know, be on top of them every moment of
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  Speaker 5: the day, especially.
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  Speaker 6: When they're when they're younger.
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  Speaker 5: So for me, I don't personally have a problem with
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  Speaker 5: him and the mother couldn't work out and Joe Cooy
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  Speaker 5: has the money. Clearly he does, because I spent I
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  Speaker 5: bought four items off his website and it was three
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  Speaker 5: hundred dollars for his merchandise.
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  Speaker 6: So clearly he's making the money.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, So if you got the money to where you
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  Speaker 5: can have the mother of your child in the same
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  Speaker 5: neighborhood as you or you know, right next door, and
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  Speaker 5: it's all about.
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  Speaker 6: Raising the kids, I personally don't have a problem with it.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this TJ from Atlanta? Hey, TJ from Atlanta?
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  Speaker 2: Talk to us?
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  Speaker 7: Hey, man, I think he said that because it's sounded
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  Speaker 7: good on the radio.
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  Speaker 6: What you mean to.
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  Speaker 7: Keep his wife happy? You say something good, you know,
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  Speaker 7: keep your wife happy on the radio.
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  Speaker 2: That's not his wife, that's his baby mom.
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  Speaker 8: Well his baby mom, to keep her happy.
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  Speaker 7: But what you got to keep the female happy?
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  Speaker 2: Would you do it? TJ?
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  Speaker 7: But I couldn't do it. I don't think you can
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  Speaker 7: do it in twenty twenty three like that. I know
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  Speaker 7: y'all get them to be married for a minute, so
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  Speaker 7: the same females, ain't They ain't the same these days?
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  Speaker 2: Listen.
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  Speaker 5: I don't even know how long Joe Coy and his
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  Speaker 5: baby mama have not been together right. You know what
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  Speaker 5: I'm say saying like they could have been not been
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  Speaker 5: together for a while, and you know those feelings of
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  Speaker 5: love and romantic stuff is over and it's all about
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  Speaker 5: the child.
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  Speaker 6: And if that's the case, I respect it.
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  Speaker 2: John.
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  Speaker 8: What up? John? You know what's going on?
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  Speaker 2: Fellas?
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  Speaker 8: How you doing?
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  Speaker 2: Nice?
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  Speaker 6: Brother?
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  Speaker 2: You said you living that life right now.
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  Speaker 8: I'm living that life right now, man.
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  Speaker 7: I think that's the greatest thing. I think it's very
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  Speaker 7: wise for you.
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  Speaker 8: To, you know, be next door to your baby moms.
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  Speaker 7: Man.
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  Speaker 8: Any opportunity to be around your kids closer is the
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  Speaker 8: way to be.
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  Speaker 2: Hello.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not as fortunate enough to have that opportunity to
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  Speaker 8: have a living next door, but if I did, man,
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  Speaker 8: she would.
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  Speaker 6: Be How long have you all been broken up?
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  Speaker 9: Oh?
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  Speaker 8: My Frona's fifteen, So we've been broken up fifteen years.
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  Speaker 8: We went through the through the turbulent in the beginning,
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  Speaker 8: but then we realized that it ain't worth the headache
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  Speaker 8: and ever since we clicked in and figured it out.
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  Speaker 8: Parrafon is the way to go.
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  Speaker 7: I mean, ain't you know?
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  Speaker 8: Stress?
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  Speaker 2: But you live across the streets from each other's.
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  Speaker 8: At we don't We live like two minutes away from
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  Speaker 8: each other.
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  Speaker 2: But that's difference two minutes away.
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  Speaker 3: I ain't mad at but right across the street, you
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  Speaker 3: see everything that's going I don't need to see everything.
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  Speaker 5: Mind your business, and you do need to see everything.
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  Speaker 5: In regard to your children, not your baby, Mom's dough,
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  Speaker 5: but you ain't paying attention to her because that's not
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  Speaker 5: what you're concern is. Your concern is the.
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  Speaker 2: Child a Margarita. Hey, good morning, Good morning.
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  Speaker 3: So we're talking Joe Coy in the fact that he
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  Speaker 3: purchased a house across the street for his ex.
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  Speaker 2: Could you do that? What's your thoughts on it?
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  Speaker 10: I honestly, I couldn't do it right. But if I'm
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  Speaker 10: in a relationship, or if I'm in a situation where
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  Speaker 10: my ex husband were broken up and it's not like
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  Speaker 10: a bad breakup, it's amicable, we're both mature about it,
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  Speaker 10: I don't see a problem. I wouldn't do it that
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  Speaker 10: way for him to do it.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, y'all do realize this ain't y'all.
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  Speaker 5: Do realize this ain't about y'all and y'all little ashy
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  Speaker 5: relationship y'all had. This is about that beautiful little child
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  Speaker 5: that y'all created.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 10: No, no, because because if there's an issue between me
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  Speaker 10: and this person that I now, you know, go back right.
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  Speaker 10: So if there's an issue, I don't want you to
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  Speaker 10: be directly across the street from me. If we're gonna
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  Speaker 10: be you know, ridiculous about it, we cannot be you know, mature.
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  Speaker 2: Then no.
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  Speaker 10: And then on another note, no one who said it
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  Speaker 10: was mature when Kanye did it. No one's going around
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  Speaker 10: that word.
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  Speaker 6: When Kanye did it, Well, Kanye is not mature.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't think Kanye did it to
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  Speaker 2: raise the kids. I think he was doing Patty.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't. Yeah, I don't think I mean it
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  Speaker 6: was I can't.
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  Speaker 5: I can't say why Kanye did what he did, but
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  Speaker 5: I know Kanye was attempting to do it. And I
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  Speaker 5: think because of the fact that we saw how violatile
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  Speaker 5: it seemed like that relationship was being on social media, it.
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  Speaker 2: Was attacking him in the media, That's my point.
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  Speaker 5: So when he did that, it seemed like, Okay, this
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  Speaker 5: is going this is stalking, this is going too far right.
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  Speaker 5: It's not like we saw him having a pleasant relationship
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  Speaker 5: amongst each other in the media.
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  Speaker 3: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
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  Speaker 3: you're just joining us, we're talking about Joe Koy, comedian.
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  Speaker 3: He stopped through Friday and uh, he actually purchased his ex,
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  Speaker 3: his baby mom's a house across the street.
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  Speaker 2: Could you do that? Let's discuss It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, it's topic time.
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  Speaker 1: Called eight hundred and five five five one to join
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  Speaker 1: it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Talk about it morning.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody is DJ Envy Charlamagne to God. We are the
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  Speaker 3: Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us, we're talking
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  Speaker 3: about Joe Coy. He was here on Friday and he
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  Speaker 3: was talking about his relationship with his ex, his baby
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  Speaker 3: moms and the fact that he purchased her a home
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  Speaker 3: across the street.
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  Speaker 2: Could you do that? That is the question. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: that mature. I couldn't do that. I'm looking out the window.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: That's the reason they're doing the street.
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  Speaker 5: You could for the kids, because keep in mind, that's
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  Speaker 5: the main thing we got to keep in mind about
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  Speaker 5: the Joe Coy situation.
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  Speaker 6: They're doing this for the child.
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  Speaker 2: I get it.
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  Speaker 6: This is about the child. You could do it for
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  Speaker 6: the child.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this Hi?
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  Speaker 8: Good morning?
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Justine, good morning, talk to us.
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  Speaker 10: I live in a.
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  Speaker 8: Building with my ex, so it's okay to live the
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  Speaker 8: street from yours.
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  Speaker 9: If you guys get along.
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  Speaker 3: Got you so you you never had no problems. Everything's
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  Speaker 3: been good. You know where your kids are. Your kids
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  Speaker 3: can go from floor to floor.
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  Speaker 8: Yes, everything is fine.
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  Speaker 10: You got five children, thirteen grandchildren, so we.
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  Speaker 8: Do everything together.
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  Speaker 6: I respect it, even though he has jumps.
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  Speaker 9: Right, don't get me wrong.
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  Speaker 2: Oh what that means it ain't your business. See but
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  Speaker 2: see you see that the fact that she said it
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  Speaker 2: is her.
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  Speaker 8: Business my business.
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  Speaker 9: She come up with a business.
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  Speaker 10: I do not go upstairs.
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  Speaker 7: I say load up, and I go about my business.
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  Speaker 6: Respect.
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  Speaker 7: We've been together for like.
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  Speaker 9: Thirty years, but we've built up last year. But we
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  Speaker 9: live in the same buildings.
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  Speaker 8: Will be good.
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  Speaker 2: Does a girlfri look better than you?
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  Speaker 5: No, she's thought, Okay, you're proud of him.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, he's a d jing so he's doing his thing.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, he's doing his things.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: She is the girl she acuted it.
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  Speaker 5: Hey, by the way, she's cute, but she ain't Why
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  Speaker 5: the black persons say they're doing anything they're hating.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 9: They hating.
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  Speaker 6: They don't want to make it. See, they don't want
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  Speaker 6: to seem.
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  Speaker 2: Like a hater, but they hate a little DJ doing
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  Speaker 2: this thing. They little DJ make a little money, got
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  Speaker 2: a little girl. Hello, this this is blood from Temple Blair.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, brother?
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  Speaker 6: What's up?
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  Speaker 8: Man?
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  Speaker 6: He so on the subject.
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  Speaker 7: Man, I feel like Jeor Coy should uh let's.
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  Speaker 6: Be big mama go.
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  Speaker 9: I mean like he should wants to be where to
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  Speaker 9: want to have that close.
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  Speaker 8: You know.
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  Speaker 5: I don't agree with that, I really don't. I think
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  Speaker 5: it's all about the child. Man, that's your child. The
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  Speaker 5: child should come before anything. I don't care what happened
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  Speaker 5: in y'all relationship between y'all two. If y'all got children,
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  Speaker 5: children come before anything else.
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  Speaker 7: He wanted.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning Onnica. What's your thoughts on this? Ona?
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  Speaker 10: If I had that.
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  Speaker 8: Type of money, I would love to get a house to.
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  Speaker 2: My kick for you or you would just prefer the
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  Speaker 2: house on the kids. Father. You don't care where it
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  Speaker 2: is though.
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  Speaker 7: No, No, I'm not a situation.
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  Speaker 10: I've been if not, and I just feel like it's
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  Speaker 10: not working out best for the kids. Say I still
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  Speaker 10: want them to be close.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to. Oh okay, thank you Mama. Hello,
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  Speaker 2: who's this?
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  Speaker 7: How you doing?
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  Speaker 2: Man?
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  Speaker 6: What's up?
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  Speaker 2: John? Talk to us? What's your thoughts? Brother?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, I think it's awesome thing that he's doing at all.
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  Speaker 9: I feel like if you have amazing Jorge, and why not.
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  Speaker 9: I mean, your family is important. You know, your kids,
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  Speaker 9: it's the most important thing. I mean in anybody that
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  Speaker 9: come into your life after the fack, I mean they
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  Speaker 9: have to fall and play.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, brother. So what's the moral of the story?
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  Speaker 9: Man?
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  Speaker 5: The moral of the story is everybody needs to have
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  Speaker 5: more emotional intelligence.
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  Speaker 2: Man.
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  Speaker 5: And remember, it's not about you. It's about the goddamn children.
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  Speaker 6: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: This is not about you and how you feel about
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  Speaker 5: this person moving on and this person having people in
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  Speaker 5: and out of the house. It's about you and that child,
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  Speaker 5: because that's the only reason you would be doing this
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  Speaker 5: to begin with. I'm doing this because you want to
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  Speaker 5: micromanage your kids. And I don't have a problem with die.
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  Speaker 3: So let's say, let's say your girl has a house
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  Speaker 3: across the street, right, and you're looking at the blinds
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  Speaker 3: and the real more chestnut walks in the house.
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  Speaker 2: How that gonna make you feel?
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  Speaker 5: I would wonder why Mars Chestnut cheating on his way.
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  Speaker 5: I would wonder why to Mars. I would wonder why
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  Speaker 5: Mars Chestnut is all of a sudden stepping out on
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  Speaker 5: his long term, his long time boo that he's had.
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  Speaker 6: You know, Mars has been married for a long time.
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  Speaker 5: Right, Oh, my good I don't even know why you
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  Speaker 5: would do that after that man, all right, well, we'm
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  Speaker 5: sorry Mars that my would just throw you in a
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  Speaker 5: hypothetical situation because we know black men don't cheat, so
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  Speaker 5: I don't know what this problem.
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  Speaker 2: My goodness. All right, when we come.
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