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You're Never Too Old... · Billy & Lisa in the Morning: The After Show

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  Speaker 1: So how about this. Hi, Hi, Hi, after show, Army,
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  Speaker 1: I'm here, Justin. I have so much to talk about.
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, I'm a meeting today, but I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: be very very not quick, but i have a lot
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  Speaker 1: to cover anyway. I hope you doing well, and thank
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  Speaker 1: you for listening. As always, I appreciate that so much.
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  Speaker 1: People checking in like MO. I love Mo, Justin it's moo.
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  Speaker 2: Loved yesterday's podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Loved it.
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  Speaker 2: I love good quote. Honestly, without compassion equals hostility.
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  Speaker 1: Love it.
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  Speaker 2: I wrote it down in my little book of favorite quotes.
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  Speaker 2: One of my favorites, which I'll share with you is
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  Speaker 2: gratitude turns what we have into enough. And I thought
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  Speaker 2: you'd like that because you're always preaching gratitude, which is
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  Speaker 2: the most important thing in life truly. And yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: love you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I love how you wrote that down, Mo. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much and I love that quote. Yes, you're right,
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  Speaker 1: gratitude is everything. Life is all about. Perspective. A wise
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  Speaker 1: man once said to me, if you step in dog poop,
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  Speaker 1: you can be upset you stepped in the poop, or
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  Speaker 1: I'll be happy you had shoes on. If in fact,
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  Speaker 1: you did have shoes on. But yeah, all those little
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  Speaker 1: quotes and stuff that they really do go, you know,
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  Speaker 1: a long way in life if you internalize them and
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  Speaker 1: you apply them to your own life. Man, its life's
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  Speaker 1: too short to me negative, you know, And I feel
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  Speaker 1: like mo, she's positive, like me, I do my best Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: Lots to talk about. So my mom ready for this.
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  Speaker 1: So my mom divorced my dad and they got divorced
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  Speaker 1: when I was a teenager. Okay, so I think it
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  Speaker 1: was nineteen ninety nine, two thousand, maybe two thousand and one,
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  Speaker 1: right around there, right around the turn of the century.
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  Speaker 1: They got divorced. Okay, So my mom ended up with
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  Speaker 1: a guy that she was with for twenty years, right,
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  Speaker 1: and then a few years ago they split up. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: He lives up in Maine. She lives down in Haveral.
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  Speaker 1: My brother lives in her house. They live, you know,
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  Speaker 1: they have kids and everything. My mom kind of she's retired.
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  Speaker 1: She helps my brother with his kids, but she's single.
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  Speaker 1: So what are the chances Okay that her neighbor where
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  Speaker 1: she lives grew up in Medford, as did my mother.
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  Speaker 1: She grew up her whole childhood in Medford, right down
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  Speaker 1: the street. So their friends her and her neighbor, and
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  Speaker 1: so one day recently they're having a conversation and the
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  Speaker 1: neighbor says, hey, I might have the story wrong, but
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  Speaker 1: this is the gist of it. Hey, do you know
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  Speaker 1: so and so a guy's name? And my mom says,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, that was my first boyfriend when I
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  Speaker 1: was a teenager. He broke my heart. We're going back
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  Speaker 1: fifty to fifty five years, right, first boyfriend, I think
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  Speaker 1: for both of them, right, his first girlfriend, her first boyfriend,
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  Speaker 1: first true love. Okay, that ended badly and so no,
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  Speaker 1: and he said, oh no, way, yeah, I know him.
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  Speaker 1: I grew up with them. Okay, So fast forward. Some
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  Speaker 1: time goes by and my mom gets a knock on
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  Speaker 1: the door. She opens the door and there's a guy,
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  Speaker 1: older gentleman there that she's never seen before and says,
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  Speaker 1: how can I help you? And the guy says, you
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  Speaker 1: don't remember me, and she's like kind of putting it
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  Speaker 1: together and he said and he says, Tony, Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: it was him. The neighbor told the friend, and he
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  Speaker 1: was visiting the neighbor and he stopped over, just knocked
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  Speaker 1: on my mother's door, said hello. They had a big reunion,
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  Speaker 1: and I'll tell you that. One of the first things
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  Speaker 1: he said, listen to this fifty years later. I'm so
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  Speaker 1: sorry for what I did to you. I'm not sure
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  Speaker 1: the details on what happened, if he just I think
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  Speaker 1: he cheated on her, or maybe was he left her
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  Speaker 1: for her friend. I think that was it, she told me,
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  Speaker 1: but I was kind of half listening. I missed that part.
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  Speaker 1: So they reconnected and they started spending some time together,
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  Speaker 1: and now they are boyfriend and girlfriend. How about that
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  Speaker 1: my mother and Tony amazing fifty years later. So yesterday
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  Speaker 1: she texts me, now, mind you Okay, my mom doesn't
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  Speaker 1: listen to the radio. She doesn't listen to the show.
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  Speaker 1: A big part of that, I've said it before is
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  Speaker 1: she's no one is more proud of me than my mom.
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  Speaker 1: She tells me every single time. She's the best. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, I tend to share things from my
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  Speaker 1: past in a joking way, and I can look back
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  Speaker 1: on those things and kind of make jokes about it,
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  Speaker 1: like today when I was talking about the picture frames
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  Speaker 1: that I buy that I bought at the store. You know,
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  Speaker 1: when I got a room, my first like my own place,
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  Speaker 1: was a room in a rooming house, and I bought
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  Speaker 1: the picture frames to put pictures in, but I didn't
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  Speaker 1: have any pictures. All I had was a trash bag,
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  Speaker 1: so I just had the frames up with the stock
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  Speaker 1: photos in them. You know, a lot's changed since then,
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  Speaker 1: but it's like stories like that when she heard, when
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  Speaker 1: she would hear them, would make her upset. And I
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  Speaker 1: understand that, you know, her and my dad got it
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  Speaker 1: the worse, you know, and I've made so many amends
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  Speaker 1: to them, but especially my mom. You know, think about that, right,
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  Speaker 1: every time the phone rang, her heart would sink. This
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  Speaker 1: was the call. She waited every day for that call,
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  Speaker 1: and every time the phone rang, it was like that dread,
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  Speaker 1: this is going to be the call that my son's dead.
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  Speaker 1: You know. It's it's a really tough thing. I'm super
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  Speaker 1: grateful to be where I'm at now and we have
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  Speaker 1: a great relationship. Anyway, she doesn't listen to the show
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  Speaker 1: that much, so she texts me yesterday morning during the show,
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  Speaker 1: by the way, and tells me that one she's being
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  Speaker 1: sw off her feet by Tony, which and she's so flattered,
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  Speaker 1: so happy for her, and could she have a favor.
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  Speaker 1: So apparently she met his daughters, and his youngest daughter
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  Speaker 1: is a huge fan of the Billy and Lisa show
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  Speaker 1: in Me, and she wants to know if I can
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  Speaker 1: give her, and I think it's her friend a shout
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  Speaker 1: out on the radio, so of course I say, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: of course, mom, anything you need, I'll do my best
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  Speaker 1: to slide it in. So then this is where it
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  Speaker 1: gets funny. So then she says, like what she wants
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  Speaker 1: me to say, okay, and so I respond back, I go, okay,
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  Speaker 1: no problem. Then she responds a time frame of six
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  Speaker 1: thirty to seven point fifteen. So then I say, you
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  Speaker 1: got it, no problem. That's a tough time because we,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we're pretty like segment heavy, you know, with
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  Speaker 1: the six thirty and then the entertainment at seven ten.
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  Speaker 1: But I'll do my best, okay. And then she says, okay,
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  Speaker 1: any day, but not Friday. Okay, you can do it.
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  Speaker 1: You have two die hard fans, but whatever you do,
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  Speaker 1: not Friday. So then I just love that text because
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  Speaker 1: now she's like pushing it and I get it. She's
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  Speaker 1: head over heels. You're never too old to be like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, caught up, and that's where she is. So
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  Speaker 1: I just love that. Then she writes, can you send
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  Speaker 1: me the clip so I can send it to her
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  Speaker 1: in case she misses it? So I love that one.
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  Speaker 1: Then she writes, so this is hours later. I'm so
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  Speaker 1: sorry to be a pest, but can you do it
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  Speaker 1: on Wednesday or Thursday, but preferably Wednesday. I go, Mom, God,
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  Speaker 1: I will do it. I got you. Don't worry. It's
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  Speaker 1: just so funny because that's not like her at all,
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  Speaker 1: like at all, she would never ask for that. So
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  Speaker 1: I can tell she's really into into this guy, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm just so happy for her. You know, when I
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  Speaker 1: think about getting to getting older, you know, if maybe
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  Speaker 1: you get a divorce or you know, you lose your
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  Speaker 1: partner and you get to be sixty five, seventy years
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  Speaker 1: old and you're single, you know, the thought of like
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  Speaker 1: being alone forever, you know, that's kind of a scary thought,
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  Speaker 1: not having that person. You know. My dad, my dad,
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  Speaker 1: he divorced, my mind. He dated a little bit after
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  Speaker 1: my mom, but not really. He's just been single, living
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  Speaker 1: his best life, you know, for the past you know,
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  Speaker 1: ten or fifteen years. There's no really, no effort. I
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  Speaker 1: don't believe he doesn't tell me, but maybe he is.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe he has dated. I'm not sure,
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  Speaker 1: but as far as I know, he's single. But I
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  Speaker 1: think everybody you know deserves to be with somebody and
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  Speaker 1: spend their life with somebody. You know. That's just how
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  Speaker 1: it is. Isn't that funny about my mom? I couldn't
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  Speaker 1: wait when this happened yesterday. I could not wait to
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  Speaker 1: jump on the after show and tell you guys about this.
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  Speaker 1: So funny, so funny. Okay, what else? Thursday? Ariana Grande,
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  Speaker 1: the Billion Lisa Show. That's Billy Lisa, myself, Producer Riley
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  Speaker 1: will not be there. She'll be at the studio unfortunately,
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  Speaker 1: but we'll be at play Boston, right outside the TV
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  Speaker 1: Guarden five to seven, broadcasting for the first Aria Before
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  Speaker 1: the first Ariana Grande Show. We're looking forward to that.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna do a legit morning show in the afternoon,
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  Speaker 1: so you can expect games and entertainment reports and all
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  Speaker 1: the usual, you know kind of things that we do
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  Speaker 1: in the morning. Really looking forward to it. So, if
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  Speaker 1: you are lucky enough to have tickets to Ariana, stop by.
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  Speaker 1: If not, and you're in Boston, come by. We'll be
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  Speaker 1: putting listeners on the air. You can come in, you
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  Speaker 1: can talk to us, watch us do the show. We
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  Speaker 1: love doing things like this live broadcast, so please come
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  Speaker 1: out and join us. Okay, what else is going on?
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  Speaker 1: That's pretty much it. Man, Everything is good in my life.
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  Speaker 1: I hope everything is good in your life. And if
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  Speaker 1: it's not, remember better times are coming. Whatever you're going
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  Speaker 1: through right now, right you will get past it and
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  Speaker 1: then you will get onto better days. That is a guarantee.
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  Speaker 1: I sent that a me a reel about this to
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  Speaker 1: my friend who's going through some stuff. I'm like, buddy,
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  Speaker 1: you might be low right now, but you're about to
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  Speaker 1: be high. It's just how life goes. It's your turn
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  Speaker 1: right now, and and better days are coming. So if
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  Speaker 1: it's your turn right now and you're going through it,
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  Speaker 1: just keep holding on. It will get better. I promise you.
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  Speaker 1: All Right, we'll talk tomorrow, Papa,