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Ay Por Favor: Pásame el Menthol! · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: With Alexi Napola and Marisa Patton an iHeartRadio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, my friend, Well, how are you feeling today? I'm
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  Speaker 2: much better.
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  Speaker 1: I did my hair, put a little bit of makeup
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  Speaker 1: for you, and I'm feeling a lot better. Wow. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't do any of that for you. Oh, I kind
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  Speaker 1: of did it for myself. I'm not gonna lie. It
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  Speaker 1: always makes me feel better. This is what makes me
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  Speaker 1: feel better. Yeah. Yeah, if I look good, I feel good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and vice versa. If I feel good, then I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I look good. But in this case, I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: feeling good and I wasn't looking good, so I had
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  Speaker 1: to do my hair.
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  Speaker 2: In a little bit of makeup. All right, Well, I'm
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  Speaker 2: representing all the ugliness today. Guy and my cold.
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  Speaker 1: We have a lot of things to chat about, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: we do. But I guess one of the first hat
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  Speaker 1: gimbi question is people want to know how we keep
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  Speaker 1: our friendship so strong considering that there's so much drama
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  Speaker 1: in our friend group. I love how you're saying that
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  Speaker 1: with like a giggle a wink when you look at me.
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  Speaker 1: I think you and I have found the recipe of
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  Speaker 1: survival in this page.
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  Speaker 2: Right, should we not share it or should we share it?
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, we can share it, it's very difficult
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  Speaker 1: to emulate it because you have to be very honest
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  Speaker 1: and very truthful and very open, which we are, and
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  Speaker 1: we talk all the time and we're clear with each other.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's I mean, even when we say things
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  Speaker 1: to each other, you know that aren't things we really
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  Speaker 1: want to hear.
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  Speaker 2: But at least we're being honest and truthful, right.
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  Speaker 1: And then that keeps the lines of communication open and
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  Speaker 1: and I don't know, I feel like you can't disappoint
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  Speaker 1: if we're always communicating and open and honest with each other,
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  Speaker 1: that is true.
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  Speaker 3: I think that we have really proven to each other
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  Speaker 3: like a laty and we really don't let the rest
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  Speaker 3: of the girls. I think that they know no matter
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  Speaker 3: what they say or what they say.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we're not going to let it affect us
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  Speaker 2: and our friendship.
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  Speaker 3: That our friendship is stronger then whatever you know, rumor
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  Speaker 3: or anything that can insinuate about us.
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  Speaker 1: We have the foundation, you know. I think we've proven
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  Speaker 1: it to each other throughout the years, and I think
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  Speaker 1: that now they get it right, like.
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  Speaker 2: After one of the years, if.
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  Speaker 1: They try to do it, you and I are like,
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  Speaker 1: I both follward and then we laugh on the side, like,
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  Speaker 1: what were they thinking They're gonna break us up?
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  Speaker 2: I think we're gonna get mad at each other.
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  Speaker 1: They're crazy.
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  Speaker 2: That's never gonna happen.
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  Speaker 3: No, And I think it's kind of like, if you
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  Speaker 3: can't beat them, join them. And now it's you know,
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  Speaker 3: I'm happy to that we're all, you know, kind of
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  Speaker 3: enjoying each other. And yeah, and it's becoming a really
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  Speaker 3: fun friend group. I love friends. Yeah, I mean, as
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  Speaker 3: you like to have friends, Marisol.
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  Speaker 1: I've always had a lot of girlfriends. They weren't always
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  Speaker 1: good friends, but I've had a lot of them. I
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  Speaker 1: can vouch for that, you know, I seen I've seen
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  Speaker 1: a few of your disappointments throughout my friendship history with you.
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  Speaker 1: I want to say that I have a better eye,
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  Speaker 1: you know, have better judgment with girlfriends. I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 1: talk about guy friends, but with girlfriends, I definitely have
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  Speaker 1: a better judgment. Yeah, I would walk right into a
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  Speaker 1: booby trap every time. I'm like, oh, there's so people
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  Speaker 1: get me if they're fun. If they're fun, I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, they're so fun. And then I want
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  Speaker 1: to do anything and everything for them and then you know,
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  Speaker 1: they suck it, they take it, you know, because I'm
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  Speaker 1: very giving and that.
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  Speaker 2: So that's all. That's all you need to be fun
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  Speaker 2: to be a friend.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how you got to be my friend. You're
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more than that. I guess that I
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  Speaker 1: stayed because I'm a little bit more than just fun. Right, absolutely, Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm moving right along.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I guess we're going.
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  Speaker 1: To be talking about the latest in the Shakira Pek drama. Sakira,
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  Speaker 1: I know, well, you know, I guess so she she's
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  Speaker 1: the she's the type of like a woman that that
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  Speaker 1: she likes to speak.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it's probably healing for her.
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  Speaker 3: And I feel like, you know, after a year that
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  Speaker 3: she's been going with some divorce drama, that she's you know,
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  Speaker 3: finally talking about the fact that she was betrayed by
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  Speaker 3: her expka while her dad was in the ICU, and
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  Speaker 3: like everything just happened at once.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, it's always like that.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So Shakira quoted he me and her dad went
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  Speaker 3: to Barcelona to console me after I was consumed with
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  Speaker 3: sadness because of my separation. Well, he was at Milon's
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  Speaker 3: first communion, he was gravely injured in an accident. Everything
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  Speaker 3: happened at once. I was finding out through the press
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  Speaker 3: that I had been betrayed while my dad was in
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  Speaker 3: the ICU.
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  Speaker 1: It's so tough for super forwid Yeah, Shakira was facing
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  Speaker 1: so much at one time.
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  Speaker 3: Was there any time in your life that everything happened
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  Speaker 3: to you at once?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: My god, you know that story?
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  Speaker 1: I do. Yeah, yeah, this happened to me. And worse,
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  Speaker 1: maybe there was no cheating, but I lost my parent,
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  Speaker 1: and preceding that, my house was a horrible hurricane, all flooded.
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  Speaker 2: I was trapped in there with water.
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  Speaker 1: My cat died, My man I was living with moved out,
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  Speaker 1: and a week later my dad died. So I know
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  Speaker 1: what it feels like to have everything happen at the
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  Speaker 1: same time, and you're like, where do I go from here?
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  Speaker 1: I just want to die, you know, heartbroken. The person
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  Speaker 1: you want to talk to that was your closest to
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  Speaker 1: you'd like to talk about, you know, the pain you're
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  Speaker 1: feeling of grieving a parent or having your parent to
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  Speaker 1: talk to about your partner leaving. It was like there
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  Speaker 1: was nobody. It was very difficult, and I can understand
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  Speaker 1: her feeling like it was the hardest time in her life. Absolutely,
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  Speaker 1: have you had an experience, well, I know you've had
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  Speaker 1: a lot of experiences and a lot of the difficult things.
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  Speaker 1: The first thing that comes to my mind was Frankie's accident,
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  Speaker 1: where you think, why is this happening to me? It
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  Speaker 1: wasn't even like why is this everything happening to me
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  Speaker 1: at once, but like why is this happening to me?
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  Speaker 1: So for me, that was the most difficult time because
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't only recovering and you know, holding on to Frankie,
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  Speaker 1: but it's like you feel your whole family is falling apart. Truthfully,
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  Speaker 1: it's you know, after it's been eleven years, and I
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  Speaker 1: just like, you know, remember that moment that I could
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  Speaker 1: only focus on Frankie. But I knew that Peter needed
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  Speaker 1: my help, that Herman needed me, Like my whole family
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  Speaker 1: was trying to be strong for me because I was
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  Speaker 1: filled with so much hope. But I knew that I
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  Speaker 1: had to be strong for them, but I couldn't because
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  Speaker 1: I could only be strong, you know, for Frankie Ranky.
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  Speaker 1: So that was for sure the worst situation and the
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  Speaker 1: most difficult that I've been in my life that like
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  Speaker 1: I said that, it was like why is everything happened
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  Speaker 1: to me?
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  Speaker 3: Wasn't even the question. It was like why is this
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  Speaker 3: happening to me and my family right now? The second
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  Speaker 3: time in my life where I actually was in that
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  Speaker 3: situation again that said why is everything happening to me?
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  Speaker 3: At once was recently, like two years ago, when I
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  Speaker 3: was planning my wedding with Todd and I got sick
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  Speaker 3: with COVID and I had to I had to reschedule
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  Speaker 3: the wedding, and my friends and family were the only
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  Speaker 3: ones that knew at that point, and my mom didn't even.
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  Speaker 2: Know that I had COVID.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry, we scheduled my wedding for August twenty fifth, my
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  Speaker 1: mom got COVID and my mom passed away that day.
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  Speaker 3: So it was the same thing, that situation like why
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  Speaker 3: is this happening to me? My happy time in my life,
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  Speaker 3: and even like with Frankie's accident, the same thing. When
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  Speaker 3: Frankie had his accident, we had just come back from
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  Speaker 3: from Mikonos and from a beautiful European trip and Frankie
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  Speaker 3: was about to start school.
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  Speaker 1: It was the day before school started on a Sunday.
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  Speaker 1: So it's kind of like we feel like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes in my life that's what I've lived, Like I'm
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  Speaker 1: very happy and like everything is going great and I'm
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  Speaker 1: so happy, and then something like terrible happens and you know,
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  Speaker 1: takes away that happiness. So sometimes I've really worked on myself,
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  Speaker 1: like for me not to have that feeling because it's
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  Speaker 1: a terrible way to live. But sometimes I feel like
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  Speaker 1: when everything is going so great and you're so happy,
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  Speaker 1: like something bad has to happen because that's been like
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  Speaker 1: my experience. So it's like I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Afraid to be super happy because I feel like it's
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  Speaker 3: not gonna last for a long time. But I've worned
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  Speaker 3: so much on myself because I honestly it's a terrible
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  Speaker 3: way to live, right, Yeah, but just because it brings
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  Speaker 3: me back to those horrible times in my life when
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  Speaker 3: that's happened. It's like everything was great, I had a
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  Speaker 3: beautiful summer, the whole family was together with our friends
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  Speaker 3: and family, you know, and the rest of Europe. So
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  Speaker 3: I come back and something horrific like that happens in
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  Speaker 3: just like a second, my life changes, and so yes,
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  Speaker 3: so that you know.
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  Speaker 1: What I think since your mom is now taking care
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  Speaker 1: of me from above, that's not going to happen anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Well, my father's always been taking care of me, which
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  Speaker 3: is also like another question here that says like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: what do you use to help you through it? Like
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  Speaker 3: how did you get through like this terrible time in
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  Speaker 3: your life?
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And like I said, for me, it's always been
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  Speaker 3: about faith and prayer and thank God, you know that
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  Speaker 3: I have so much faith and I'm so spiritual and
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  Speaker 3: I praise so much that that really helped me, you know,
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  Speaker 3: get through, you know, the horrible time, these horrible times
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  Speaker 3: in my life. And when Frankie had the accident, I
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  Speaker 3: had my mom that was also that was alive. So
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  Speaker 3: my mom helped me a lot to get through it
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  Speaker 3: because you know, my mom was my mom met but
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  Speaker 3: she was also a psychiatrist. She was very therapeutic. And
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  Speaker 3: my mom helped me a lot. My friends and my
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  Speaker 3: family were like, you know everything to me, you know,
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  Speaker 3: my support system.
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  Speaker 1: So I had a great support system.
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  Speaker 3: And I also kept the journal by the way I'm
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  Speaker 3: like moving now and and I found it and I
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  Speaker 3: started reading through it and it was just like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I'm still very emotional like even though I spend eleven years,
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  Speaker 3: you read that and you're like, wow, like were you
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  Speaker 3: that state of mind that I was at, you know
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  Speaker 3: versus now? And still you could see that Like I
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  Speaker 3: would write, Marathon, I would write like, you know, today
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  Speaker 3: is a happy day, like Frankie laughed, you know, and
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  Speaker 3: it was just that was my happiness, Just Frankie like
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  Speaker 3: smiling at Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I obviously had to put it away because I couldn't.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I.
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  Speaker 2: Take your priorities, right, It's like a tough moment.
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  Speaker 3: You're so desperate you take anything, but you know what
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  Speaker 3: happens you forget.
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  Speaker 2: I don't I live forever great focus. He's my remind
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  Speaker 2: or every single day in my life.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes when things are schooling is so great, right,
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  Speaker 3: we forget about you know those times and then God
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  Speaker 3: we do because it's so hard. But anyways, yeah, I
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  Speaker 3: think faith and prayer, my families and my friends, you know,
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  Speaker 3: keeping this journal where I would like everything helped me
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  Speaker 3: so much. And yeah and now and the same you
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  Speaker 3: know I had, like you know, I've always I prayed
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  Speaker 3: to like my father, you know, like they say, like
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  Speaker 3: it was my angel and my grandparents that are in heaven.
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  Speaker 3: So I've always been like, we've always had that connection
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  Speaker 3: that even though they're not here with us, I feel
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  Speaker 3: like spiritually fail them.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I feel them.
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  Speaker 1: So I have that like I knew, like my dad
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  Speaker 1: was going to save my son, like my dad and
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  Speaker 1: the angels and you know, the saints and and God
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  Speaker 1: and just everybody. Right. So it's it's just so it's
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's you can't explain it unless you live
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  Speaker 1: your life like that too.
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  Speaker 2: I know you're very spiritual too.
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  Speaker 1: You have that connection, like you know with your mom
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  Speaker 1: and dad, and you know, it's hard to explain to
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  Speaker 1: other people that don't have that, but for me, it's
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  Speaker 1: the only way to live, and it's the only way
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  Speaker 1: that I've been able to get through all the obstacles
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  Speaker 1: and adversity in my life. It's the it's the only
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  Speaker 1: way for me too. Undred I was reading about Shakira,
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  Speaker 1: and Shakira says that what helped her was her music,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, we can see that in all those
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  Speaker 1: new songs and she's written I have a lot to
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  Speaker 1: do about Pique and their relationship. You know, it's a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of anger and pain and you know, all
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  Speaker 1: of it put together.
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  Speaker 2: Taylor Swift, Miley Cyrus things.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but in Spanish, I think it's Spanish, and I see,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it's Spanish. Yeahanish, it's more powerful. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think you know Spanish lyrics.
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  Speaker 3: You know, if you speak Spanish, obviously you're more passionate
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  Speaker 3: and the more like they make more of an impact,
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  Speaker 3: right Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, you know, I think musical is a beautiful thing.
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  Speaker 3: And I've always wanted to to sing, just like you
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  Speaker 3: said we made twos. Always wanted to sing and perform
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  Speaker 3: and do all that because I think it's like a.
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  Speaker 1: Chance and I want to say I'm quite good. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you have to you have to perform.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. But anyways, I saw, I see that Shakira.
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  Speaker 3: It's helped her a lot, and it made me think
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  Speaker 3: of Frankie and a Peter, both of my sons. I
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  Speaker 3: love music, and they said, especially Frankie that would sing
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  Speaker 3: and he would freestyle and do all that kind of stuff.
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  Speaker 1: And I see how music is still so therapeutic for him.
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  Speaker 1: And people tell me like he can't express himself so
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  Speaker 1: so good with words, but he knows every single song,
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  Speaker 1: all the words, you know, because I see other part
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  Speaker 1: of the brain, the other side of the brain, so
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  Speaker 1: he he knows how to get us through when we're
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  Speaker 1: lost in a car. Even the other time, he has
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  Speaker 1: like a map app in his brain. Yeah, we could
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  Speaker 1: be anywhere and we're thinking we're getting to go to
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  Speaker 1: the round. He's like, no, mom, left and right straight, Like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know how he knows any of that, right,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's such a mystery.
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  Speaker 2: The brain is such a mystery.
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  Speaker 3: Right, he lost so many has so many deficits and
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  Speaker 3: other areas, yet you know, so many strengths and other areas,
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  Speaker 3: and music is one of them. So you know he
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  Speaker 3: can still know all the words to all the songs.
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  Speaker 3: He loves music, and you know it keeps them going.
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  Speaker 3: And I know the music has been you know, so
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  Speaker 3: instrumental also in Peter's life, and you know where he's
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  Speaker 3: ringed music and he loves the music, and you know,
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  Speaker 3: and and again I don't have that talent, but I
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  Speaker 3: can see how it's really helped and saved Shakiro's life
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  Speaker 3: and going through all the pain that she has, and
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  Speaker 3: she's been able to write about it and sing about.
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  Speaker 1: It express it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And like I said, I mean she said that
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  Speaker 3: her new music was she was going to discuss the
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  Speaker 3: different stages that she's gone through spiritually, mentally, and even physically,
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  Speaker 3: because you know, when you go through a situation like
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  Speaker 3: and you know that's kind of breakup, you do experience
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  Speaker 3: all these different stages that you go through, right, you know,
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  Speaker 3: first you go through denial and then rage and then pain,
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  Speaker 3: and then you accept it and then you grieve about it,
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  Speaker 3: and then you're hopeful, and then deception, you know, and
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  Speaker 3: then again excitement.
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  Speaker 1: Elizabeth Koubler ros she's the one that stated the seven
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  Speaker 1: steps of grieving.
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  Speaker 2: That's everything you just said.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So she's gone through it all. I guess we're
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  Speaker 1: going to listen to it in her music.
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  Speaker 2: Did she drop a lot away? She's always had a
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  Speaker 2: great body.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think she dropped a lot away, because I
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  Speaker 1: know every time I'm suffering, I can't eat and I
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  Speaker 1: get bone thin like a boom.
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  Speaker 2: Then I can't sleep, I can't eat.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's like the revenge body too, but in your case,
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  Speaker 1: you can't do that because you're already skinny, so like
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to get the revenge body. Iver no no, no,
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  Speaker 1: cadaver vibes. I'm always kind of hungry, so none of
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  Speaker 1: those things I've ever accepted.
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  Speaker 2: It's never exactly affected my way.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, so anyways, you know all those things, you know,
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  Speaker 1: we have so many emotions and feelings that at times
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  Speaker 1: seem mixed.
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  Speaker 3: She this is what she's saying. So she had all
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  Speaker 3: these different emotions and feelings that at times were mixed,
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  Speaker 3: then she didn't seem to be able to go exist
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  Speaker 3: inside of her. But then she's been able to untangle
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  Speaker 3: them only through her songs, and through her songs she
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: understands herself better, which is like what I was saying,
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: like writing, like you know, I would keep I was
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: keeping a journal and it's good to go back and
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: reflect and to read that. And that's what I was
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: kind of trying to do today. But for me, it
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: brings me a lot of sadness. So I decided to
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: not do it, and you know, I just read a
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: little bit and then I continued because I had a
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: lot of things to pick up, and you know, I
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: didn't feel like crying because.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: I've always heard like sometimes if you're fighting with someone
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: a partner or a boyfriend or you know, a good friend,
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: write a letter to them and never mail it because
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: it can be very cathartic, and then your thoughts and
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: the things that you thought you would have said in
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: a moment of rage you come down from once you
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: write it down and you look at it, you regurgitate
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: it and you're like, wow, Okay, you put it away.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: You look at it a few days later, and you
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: think differently. It keeps you from making rash decisions and
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: it's very cathartic.
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: Well, in her case, she's really seen the song that
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: anybody's look at her song before she wrote it, the
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: last one.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: I'm the One, and re wrote it a million times, right.
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: I think for music it's different. I think they could
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: get away with it. And how do you feel, Like,
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: do you think it's good like to speak out about
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: your breakup? You know, like like how she has. I
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: mean I think everybody's different, right, Like some artists and
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: celebrities you know, keep it quiet and they really don't
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: want to discuss their personal life. But I was kind
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: of surprised because you know, she led a really private life,
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: like with her on PK, I want to say, and
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: then all of a sudden, you know, nobody really talked
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: about them and it's all like she did, you know,
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: interviews like about the relationship. And I've been really surprised
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: about her now speaking out and you know, talking so
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: much about her relationship, Like would you help, would have
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: kept it private something like this?
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: I mean, I like to be private about my things.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: But I think, like, as you know, and I know,
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: doing a reality show, sometimes it's better and tell your
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: story and then to let someone else tell it for you.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but she's not on a reality show. Maybeia,
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: I know, but.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: She's in the public eye, and if he was with
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: a few women, maybe someone starts talking and the embarrass
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: everyone's shame the family. It's better to just stand up
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: and tell your story before anybody else does and tells
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: it wrong, you know, just kids. I mean it guessings afterwards,
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: No, I think it was just really like like who
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: she is, you know.
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: I guess that made her feel good, Like you said,
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: you like to say her part of the story. You know,
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: sometimes that's therapeutic as well, like once you talk about it,
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: you feel better about it. And you're right, she couldn't
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: hide it because he you know, he was his out
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: and about doing it publicly. Yes, So no, I you know,
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: I wanted to say, I've always been you know, a
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: fan of Shakira, and now more than ever, you know,
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: because I've seen her not only as an artist and
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: her music and her songs, but as a woman and
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: as a mother. So I just wanted to say that
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: the resilience of the human being is inexhaustible, and more
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: so that of a woman, you know. So although we
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: understand how long complicated of a journey it must have
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: been for her to get to where she is, you know,
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: we're so happy that she's found herself in this process.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: She says that she used music.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: To help her through it, and I applaud her because
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: music is everything, you know.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: Music changes people's lives.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: It's therapeutic, and it helps everyone, you know, get through
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: really difficult times in her life.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's putting good energy out there. So she's
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: putting good energy out there and everyone else is enjoying.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: And she's making a lot of money. And she's making
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: money which creates good energy and good vibes and everybody wins.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Yes, So.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: I love her too. She's so good. I thought she
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: nailed the super Bowl. It was so good. And I
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: love that she's dating you guys, and you know, and
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: spending time with her kids in Miami. Who's she dating
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: the race car driver Lewis Hamilton, Yeah, gringo. He's British,
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: he's a crowd. Yeah, he's super chutter. Lewis looks Britishly well.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: In other music news, what are you thinking about this
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: new outburst of behavior of people throwing things on stage
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: at celebrities while they're performing, I e.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Baby Rexa and Pink and many others.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: I mean, it's now it's getting more attention, but this
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: is something that has always existed and I feel like
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: it's existed from the artists also throwing things at the.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: Audience and at the crowd.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: But I mean not in a dangerous way or not
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: trying to be mean or of nothing, but I feel
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: like back in the day and you artists will like
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: throw things to like the crowd, like they say, like
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: their sunglasses, like I know Beyonce through liquor sunglasses. Obviously
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: sunglasses aren't going to hurt anyone, but what could happen
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: is that everybody's going to go for the sunglasses and
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: they're all going to get hurt together.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: So I mean, just throwing anything period, whether it's.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: The crowd to the artists or the artists, to the
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: to the to the crowd should be No.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: It's gotten really dangerous because back in the day, women
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: would throw their underwear at Tom Jones and that was
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: just like soft, silky underwear, so there's no heart. That
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: was fun and you had a brazier and it was
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: just like, oh, you know, you're sexy and I'm sharing
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: my lingerie with you. That was a little more fun.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: But now it's getting dangerous. For God's sakes, did you
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: see that somebody throw their mother's ashes at Pink on stage?
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you not scary? The care?
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Like, why would you do that?
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Like, I just don't get first of all, I mean
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I think it has to do again with mental health,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: because I mean you cannot, you know, you know, show
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: with your mom's ashes and you know, unless like the past,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I think, right, But even so, like I just don't
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: get it.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: I think just taking your mom's ashes, our mom would
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: have taken it all in. But like throwing them at
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: the artists, you know, it's dangerous and you know they're
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: lucky that you know, nothing happened, you know for that
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: matter in that instance.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: But I mean it's something.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: That now you know, we we have to be aware
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: of and actually be scared.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: You know, if you're an artist, they.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Need to like check people's phones and any extra accouture
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: moments they're bringing into a concert.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: How are they going to do it care thousands of people.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: Well, they have to figure it out or leave your phone,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: you know, like they're doing the airport. You just can't
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: bring anything in except your wallet and your cash, and
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: you're in and you're out.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: It's probably going to end up like that because the
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: artists aren't going to want to perform. I mean, they're
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: going to be scared or they're going to have to
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: do like some type of barricade where they can't even reads. Yeah,
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: you know, the artists, because they're not going to put
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: their lives, you know, on the line for that. And
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: lately there's been so many instances like this and even
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: at different concerts, you know, people getting hurt.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: So, I mean, so it takes away the joy. It
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: takes away the joy of like even going to a concert. No,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: but I think also I think this whole concert thing
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: has really changed now obviously because of the phone as well,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: and like social media and like TikTok by the way, No, no,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: it's a super me too.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: I think it's like not for me at all.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: I find it super juvenile and stupid, and I'm sorry.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: It's good to be have a brand, but for just
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: to just go on there and talk.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I don't even know it's a brand. It's all fraud.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I think everything is a fraud regardless. Talking about TikTok
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: on our next our next podcast, next segment trashing TikTok.
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: But no, I find no joy in it, truthfully, And
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: I think that a lot of these kids are doing
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: that just to get like that media attention, because you know,
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: the youth.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: Is is obsessed with.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, with media, with attention.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: So I think it's like a try anything that becomes
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: viral or trend whatever on TikTok.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: You know, these kids want to do and repeat.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: And you see, that's where I have a problem with
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: social media because if it was something good that they
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: want to repeat, you know, and and emulate, fine, but
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: like something like that. So apparently there was like a
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: viral it's going in TikTok, viral of you know, kids
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: going to concerts and then throwing the phone at the
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: stage or the artists and then the artist picks up
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: the phone and records, you know, and just like a
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: selfie on their phone and records something. So of course
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: the child, the youth, the kid, you know, gets immediate
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: fame all of a sudden just because the artists did
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: that and they have that on the phone.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Follow interesting said, oh, it's funny.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: If I throw it, maybe she'll catch it and do
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: me a little thing and throw it back. These are
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: kids and they're just watching these things all day long
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: and there doing my.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Phone is going to crack and it's another thousand dollars.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: These kids must be rich. See you dating a pappyomami
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: or they're not even thinking the consequences, right, because how
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: does he even though it's gonna land and you know
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: it's not gonna hurt somebody. It's just like really really
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: poor judgment.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: And again, I just think it's because they're they're watching
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: these things on social media and they think it's funny
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: and it's not.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: It is not.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you say, I mean, it used to
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: be back in the day that the girls want to,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: you know, to throw the bra or a panty or
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: they would throw like.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: I don't know, you want to give them kisses. You
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: wanted to go up there to like, you know, give
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: them a hug or a kiss, for them to sing
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: you a song. But like this to me is aggression,
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: you know, and I feel like we're just living in
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: a way danger already.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: That's too aggressive.
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: I think people are too aggressive and there's no need
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: to throw anybody anything.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: I agree with you, my friend. There's this is a
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: pretty cut and dry topic here.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: I mean, if they go to me, nobody's going to
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: do that, you know, I think it might do it
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: might be like the artist too, I mean, for example,
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, have we seen maybe we
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: should do a little bit of researchency. Do these things
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: occur with Hispanic artists?
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: I'm sure, I don't know. I'm gonna. I'm gonna I'm
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: gonna look that up after we hang up, because I
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: want to see. You could always say, miel oh they
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Mark Antonio Solis or Mark Anthony, They've ever thrown anything
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: at them.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: I have no idea. That's our homework, that's my homework.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I'm going to do that for myself.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: We need to think that we need to fix that
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: because that doesn't make me very happy, you know, thank God,
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: my you know, my kids, you know, don't go to concerts.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: But if I had, you know, young kids, you know,
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: the would be going to concerts. I would be scared
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: because I feel like I've been listening and reading about
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: this all the time.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: People shouldn't be out in with phones.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: By the way. I look at the one of the
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: last concerts I think it was Beyonces one of her
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: first concerts. Someone recorded the whole thing on their phone
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: and put it out on the internet, and everyone's like, well,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: I don't need to go now, I just saw the
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: whole concert. Oh well, that's so stupid. I can't with
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: that with the people to go to a concert instead
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: of enjoying and taking in the moment and listening and
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: singing along and looking at the artists so the entire
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: time with their phone recording, I'm like, dude, for that,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: why did you come? This is about the experience. Like,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: if you just want to see the video, you can
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: get that from anybody. That's another stupidity. But you know what,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of stupid people. What can I tell
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: you that now people are just going to go crazy
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: your concert and do one thing, next level worst, worse
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: than the last person, until somebody dies because it's dangerous.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Well, that's another thing. Is this only going on in
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: this country?
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: Do these artists have these same situations when they perform
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: in other countries.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: That's a good question. It's a good question. Let us know, listeners.
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: Yes, well, I think I'm also going to do my
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: homework and look at that because I feel like it's
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: something that's going on in the US. You know, I
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: feel like in other countries, these things aren't. These things aren't.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: How so you know what, we're just going to have
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: to perform in a different Countryya, I'm gonna our next
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: topic is one of our favorites. Yes, the one that
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: we do all the time. And that's why our podcast
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: is because this is what we do here in Miami.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: It's called Miami English.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's unique.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: It's only in days. It's a dialect emerging in South Florida.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: You and I brought that to the to the limelight.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: People all over the world listen to us speak Miami
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: English or saying you know, I.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: Love I love that.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: We're finally getting some attention and they're considering it a dialect.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: So I think it's so funny.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: So I moved to Spain when I was seventeen years old,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: my last year of high school, and and I thought
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: I spoke Spanish and my parents in school, right, and
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: my parents thought we spoke Spanish as well. So my
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: parents are like, okay, you're going to go to a
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: private Catholic Spanish school. So as I'm there and I
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: start school and I start speaking in Spanish, thought they
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: would ask me gay the alecto, like what dialect are
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: you speaking act? And I'm like, yall, look, they they
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: thought back then I spoke a dialect and guess what
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: they were right, and it's a Miami dialect. And I
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: was like, okay, now I get it because there is
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: a difference between like the proper Spanish, the Castilian Spanish,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: and like our Spanish, you know, mixed with English.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: I like ours better.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: By the way, it's so so much funer, it's so
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: much easier and yer. Yeah, I must say no, even
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: though the Castilian Spanish is sexy.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: They're finally recognizing our dialect, our language here in Miami.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: It's an actual study at Florida International University. They've been
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: doing it for a decade and I'm like, it's only
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: been ten years been studying. We've been doing this for
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: fifty sixty years now, translating English to Spanish, modeling our words,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: saying everything grammatically incorrect, but it's super funny. You know.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Cubans are so funny. They love they're they're the funnest people.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: Did you know?
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: This new dialect is called only Indeed, And according to FIU,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: the dialect incorporates what linguist is called kylkes, which are
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: borrower translations from the speaker's native language, and in this
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: case it's Spanish. Most of the time, it is a
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: literal translation, which is what we do, like phrases like
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: get down from the car right, like baja caro, so
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: get down from the car right, or like I'm super hungry,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: or I'll have the meat and banada, you know, because
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: we were saying like banala goden instead of beef and banada.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: What do you say? Do you say beef and banada
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: or meat and banada? I say beef, beef and banada.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: Of course, because you're tore macrina, I say meat and panada.
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: You know that, Okay.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: So these were commonly used among the second generation Cuban Americans,
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: so that would be us obviously, So like that's what
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: that's what I say.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, or like they say, turn on the candle,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: and it's just grammatically incorrect. But I mean, I don't
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: speak like that. I prefer Spanglish for me. Spanglish is
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: so much more fun, don't you think?
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: Because it is different, right, So, because the study out
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: of the FIU explains that the way people in South
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: Floria speak can be considered a new dialect and it's
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: not Spanglish because everybody who is going to think of
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: a Spanglish right right, and in this case it's a translation.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: And I feel that other cultures do it too. I mean,
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: I know we're getting all the attention, the Cubans because
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: you know we're we do. We deserve it in Miami, right,
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: it's like our own little country.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: It's like our own little city, our own language and
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: our little language, and we look and we talk a
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: certain way, but in reality it's it's not Spanglish, like
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: we said. But you know, we could do both. We
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: can do both. I don't really do not only in
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: day chap, but I do love the Spanish. I love
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: trans like mixing a word from Spanish to English, and
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: bastardizing is just like my favorite thing in the world.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: It's just so funny. It's funny. And give me an example, like.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: Embarkation or trigation or tragation.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: Tragation, Yeah, so a drink tragash when you're being in
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: when you're embarking on something, or somebody leaves you waiting
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: or hanging, you say embarkation. It's funny. It's just it's
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: there's so many. I couldn't even begin to remember them all.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: What's one of your favorites.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: We do it all the time. Let me see. I
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: mean I do a lot of like the Spanish to English.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: Like if I think of the word in Spanish better
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: than in English, I say it in Spanish, so I'll
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: throw it in there. It's lazy, We're lazy. Whatever comes
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: to our mind first, we just repeat it.
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: I don't I don't even think that it's lazy. I
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: just think like it either sounds better or you learned it.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: It must be like I learned it in Spanish, so
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: like I was saying in Spanish better. But yeah, I
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: just think it's really cool. And you have to like
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: kind of like.
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: Live here to know, because like I said, I've been
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: even in different parts of the country, or I've done this,
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: I've gone back and forth, like with my mom and
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: my sisters. I think I've said this before, and like
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: the people will stop us and say, Senora, like get
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: kang a Lando, like what language are you speaking?
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: Because are Americans?
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: No?
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Hekay?
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: You?
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: I mean I've been in Spain and we've been lucky
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: between the English and Spanish. I've been in other parts
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: of the country, and or the people I've been trying
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: to see, they'll be like, Okay, I speak English and
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: I speak Spanish, but what the hell are you speaking?
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: Because like I know those two languages, what do you guys.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Speak saying any of them? Right?
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: So like it's you know, it's like you have to
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: have the ear for it, and I feel like being
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: here from Miami, we kind of like get it and
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: we have the ear for that and we have that
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: ability where we can go from English and Spanish or
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: even do that lee and day thing.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: I just remembered one chan chanks.
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's cute. That's a good one too. There's so many,
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: we have so many. We're always teaching these girls.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're always teaching the girls in our friend group
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: these words. But chances are if you're Cuban American or
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: you have any Cuban in your family, you've helped create
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: that dialect. Yes, yes, I like to personally take credit
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: for dragation. I just want to say we were.
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: The visky a London.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Dragation.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, it's so.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Funny though, I don't think there's a funnier Hispanic group
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: of people. In Cubans, they're just so funny. They love
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: they love to talk, they love to have fun. They're
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: so expressive, so passionate. That's the other things to right,
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: get like the way we talk is that we're not
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: even fighting, and they're like I remember my grandma always saying,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: but we're like, Ailita, like that's not how like fighting,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: We're just excited, right, We're just talking Because my grandmother
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: was like, you know, really like self spoken and coret down.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: But how do you feel people outside Miami are going
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: to react to this dialect? You know? I feel like
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: when we're talking and people around us don't know what
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: we're talking about, they look seem so confused, and it's
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: just so hard to explain because we speak so quickly, right,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: don't Cubans speak very quickly? And then you're like in
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: this accelerated ad D speaking moment that you're in to
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: stop and explain everything. Then we end up being real
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: because you're like, oh my god, forget it. You're never
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: going to get it. To go back and stop what
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: you're saying and explain it. It's just impossible. So I
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: feel like people are going to think we're obnoxious and
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: we're weird. That's what I think they're gonna say.
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm going to think that when we're very proud,
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: you know, I mean, not that that's you know, I mean,
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: I think it's pretty cool that finally somebody recognized that, because,
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: like I said, I feel like in other parts of
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: the country, they've heard me do this or you speak this.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Way, and they actually think it's a dialect.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: So I kind of get it.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: So finally it's been recognized as a dialect, and I'm
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: proud of it.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: M Mayami y Yeah, chat, it was good to see you.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: I'm seeing you since I you know, we landed here
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: from Mexico and you look great.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: I look like shit. I'm sorry I didn't turn out.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: No, you don't, they said. I've been beginning like shit
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: for like four days. Does the audience know we have
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: rona now? They do now they do. Alexi and I
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: got Rona. It's still a thing, guys, So yes, it's
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: still it still exists, and we both have browna That's
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: why I keep coughing and we're I'm a little lethargic today.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I'm not.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: I'm a wig game. But I'm a little bit more
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: excited now now that I saw you. I'm a little
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: bit more excited.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: I need to see you and talk to you.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because when I see you like an
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: animated yes, we get like it makes it more fun. Yeah,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I also have a black eye. Everyone listening,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: I have a dreadful black eye from a sty from
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: a stye.
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: Can you please, can you please say why you have
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: the black eye? It wasn't any of the friends that
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: did it too.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: I have a sty.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Well.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: The doctor even said to me, you know, I've only
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: seen this a few times, that someone gets an entire
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: black eye from a sty. My eyes like purple and brown.
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: So there's no visual of me today. And I'm also
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: dying over here from the Rhona. So apologize for all
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: my coughing and that you can't see me. Despite all
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: that you look good. I'm looking at you.
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: I said, thank you for coming on screen because I
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: needed to see your face so I could do this.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: I know it makes a different skin looks beautiful.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. I tried on my wedding dress. I
• 36:53
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