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The TikTok Hitman Plot: Gonzalez Family vs. Jack Avery · Murder Files Unsealed

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  Speaker 1: I want you to imagine, just for a second, that
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  Speaker 1: you are scrolling through your social media feed. You're swiping
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  Speaker 1: past the usual mix of ads, maybe some coffee shop
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  Speaker 1: aesthetic shots and, you know, standard vacation photos.
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  Speaker 2: Right, just the everyday digital noise we all consume.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. But then you stop on this perfectly curated video
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  Speaker 1: from a lifestyle influencer you follow. She is sitting in
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  Speaker 1: a beautifully sunlit room and she's talking incredibly earnestly to
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  Speaker 1: the camera.
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  Speaker 2: Just super engaging, direct eye contact, very authentic feeling.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's talking about the profound beauty and also the
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  Speaker 1: extreme challenges of peaceful co-parenting. She's hitting all the right notes.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, talking about putting your child first, managing shared
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  Speaker 1: doctor's appointments, and just navigating the messy waters of a
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  Speaker 1: split with absolute grace.
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  Speaker 2: Which is something so many people desperately want advice on.
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  Speaker 1: Totally. So you like the post. You probably think, wow,
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  Speaker 1: you know, that is an incredibly mature way to handle
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  Speaker 1: a breakup. But what you don't know and what absolutely
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  Speaker 1: no one scrolling their feed knows is that behind the scenes,
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  Speaker 1: behind that warm ring light and the carefully chosen aesthetic filters,
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  Speaker 1: that same influencer and her family are logged onto the
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  Speaker 1: dark web.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they are actively plotting a murder for hire against
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  Speaker 1: the exact same person she's praising in her video.
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  Speaker 2: It is the ultimate display of cognitive dissonance. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: we've become so entirely conditioned to accept the digital reality
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  Speaker 2: presented to us, right? So when that facade cracks, the
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  Speaker 2: truth underneath isn't just surprising. It is entirely disorienting.
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  Speaker 1: It really is.
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  Speaker 2: You're looking at a literal masterclass in compartmentalization.
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  Speaker 1: And that disorientation is exactly what we're going to unpack
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  Speaker 1: today in this deep dive. Because we are looking at
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  Speaker 1: two people who lived highly visible, highly scrutinized public lives.
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  Speaker 2: Very public.
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  Speaker 1: On one side, you have Gabby Gonzalez. She is a
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  Speaker 1: massive star on TikTok and Instagram, boasting over 800,000 total followers.
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  Speaker 2: That's a huge reach.
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  Speaker 1: It is. And she built this massive, highly engaged audience
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  Speaker 1: on a brand of what she called brutal honesty. She
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  Speaker 1: was talking openly about the gritty details of motherhood, natural living,
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  Speaker 1: and just the struggles of her daily life.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: And on the other side, you have her ex, Jack Avery.
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  Speaker 1: He is a former member of the incredibly popular boy
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  Speaker 1: band Why Don't We? And he has a dedicated following
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  Speaker 1: of his own. I mean, he's hovering around 1.5 million
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  Speaker 1: followers on Instagram alone.
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  Speaker 2: So you have two massive digital footprints colliding here.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. They share a seven-year-old daughter. And since 2020, they've
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  Speaker 1: been long in a really intense custody dispute.
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  Speaker 2: And just to set our baseline here for you listening,
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  Speaker 2: because this is an active federal case, The timeline, the
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  Speaker 2: digital paper trails, and the entire plot we are discussing
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  Speaker 2: come directly from the FBI's criminal complaint. Right.
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  Speaker 1: This isn't just internet rumor. This is the narrative federal
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  Speaker 1: investigators have painstakingly pieced together. And, you know, family court
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  Speaker 1: is notoriously difficult on a good day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's be real. It's never fun. No, it's an
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  Speaker 2: emotionally taxing, highly adversarial system for anyone who has to
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  Speaker 2: navigate it. But the trajectory of this specific dispute, it
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  Speaker 2: just defies all conventional logic.
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  Speaker 1: The craziest part of this to me is that it
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  Speaker 1: didn't start with, like, cartel members or career criminals operating
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  Speaker 1: in the shadows. It started in a completely normal family
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  Speaker 1: court setting.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, mediation rooms and lawyers' offices. Right.
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  Speaker 1: So how does a fight over who handles dentist visits
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  Speaker 1: and therapy sessions mutate into a sprawling federal conspiracy? We're
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  Speaker 1: talking about a plot involving a Florida personal injury attorney,
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  Speaker 1: attempts to recruit an MMA fighter, Bitcoin transfers— fake invoicing,
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  Speaker 1: and this elaborate multi-year FBI sting operation.
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  Speaker 2: It sounds like a movie script.
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  Speaker 1: It really does. So let's unpack the paper trail here.
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  Speaker 1: Because to truly understand how this family found themselves in
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  Speaker 1: the crosshairs of a federal takedown, we have to start
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  Speaker 1: by examining the meticulously crafted digital facade that hid these
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  Speaker 1: dark intentions for years.
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  Speaker 2: Well, what's fascinating here is the underlying psychology of Gabby's
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  Speaker 2: specific type of influencer brand. She didn't just post pretty pictures.
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  Speaker 2: She really built a platform on the concept of selective vulnerability.
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  Speaker 1: Right. And she leaned heavily into this identity of holistic purity.
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  Speaker 1: For example, she was incredibly vocal about her choice to
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  Speaker 1: practice free bleeding.
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  Speaker 2: Which was a very polarizing topic, but it got her
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  Speaker 2: a lot of attention.
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  Speaker 1: Definitely. She claimed it helped her become more profoundly in
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  Speaker 1: tune with her body's natural rhythms. She talked extensively about
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  Speaker 1: the rising cost of period products. You know, arguing they
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  Speaker 1: should be accessible to everyone. Yeah. And she was fiercely
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  Speaker 1: critical of the chemicals found in mainstream feminine hygiene products.
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  Speaker 1: She even targeted the organic ones. She told her audience
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  Speaker 1: she had simply reached a point in her life where
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  Speaker 1: she chose not to participate in that toxic system anymore.
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  Speaker 2: See, when someone centers their public identity on purity-like rejecting chemicals,
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  Speaker 2: embracing a holistic natural lifestyle... They are doing something very
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  Speaker 2: specific psychologically. They're signaling to their audience that they possess
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  Speaker 2: a higher level of moral and physical integrity.
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  Speaker 1: Ah, okay. I see where you're going with this.
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  Speaker 2: Right. They are presenting themselves as someone who is deeply
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  Speaker 2: protective of their environment, their body, and by extension, their child.
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  Speaker 2: It is a narrative of hypervigilance and absolute control.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So when you juxtapose that intense public desire for a pure,
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  Speaker 2: untainted life With the federal allegation that she was actively
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  Speaker 2: soliciting the violent murder of her child's father, the dissonance
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  Speaker 2: is staggering. It forces us to ask, you know, how
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  Speaker 2: much of that public persona was genuine belief and how
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  Speaker 2: much was just a preemptive defense mechanism?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let's unpack this. Because she didn't just talk about
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  Speaker 1: natural living. She laid her personal history completely bare for
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  Speaker 1: the Internet. She shared the deeply personal story of becoming
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  Speaker 1: a single teen mother at 17.
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  Speaker 2: Which is an incredibly vulnerable thing to share with millions
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  Speaker 2: of people.
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  Speaker 1: It is. She told her followers how after two and
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  Speaker 1: a half years of doing it all by herself, she
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  Speaker 1: rushed into a new relationship because she was just desperate
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  Speaker 1: for the physical and emotional support that single parents naturally crave.
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  Speaker 1: She admitted she was terrified to leave that subsequent relationship
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  Speaker 1: because she feared being alone again. She essentially trained an
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  Speaker 1: audience to deeply empathize with her vulnerabilities.
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  Speaker 2: Which, I mean, that's an incredibly effective algorithmic strategy for
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  Speaker 2: building a loyal following. People connect with that struggle. But
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  Speaker 2: it also serves a dual purpose in the real world.
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  Speaker 2: Social media allows individuals to perfectly compartmentalize their lives.
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  Speaker 1: So they can be one person online and someone entirely
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  Speaker 1: different behind closed doors.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. And in high-conflict family court cases, we frequently see
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  Speaker 2: individuals attempt to construct a hyper-stabilized, overly positive image online.
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  Speaker 2: It serves two distinct purposes.
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  Speaker 1: What's the first one?
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  Speaker 2: First, it validates them in the court of public opinion.
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  Speaker 2: Their followers constantly reinforce their narrative of being the responsible,
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  Speaker 2: put-together parent. Every comment is like, you're doing great, you're
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  Speaker 2: so strong.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I see. It's a feedback loop.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. But more importantly, it acts as a shield for
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  Speaker 2: the courts. If a judge or a custody evaluator decides
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  Speaker 2: to look at their public life, what do they see?
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  Speaker 2: They see a devoted, holistic mother... who is openly praising
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  Speaker 2: her co-parenting dynamic.
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  Speaker 1: Man, it's like curating a beautiful museum exhibit in the
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  Speaker 1: front room, complete with soft lighting, velvet ropes, and classical
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  Speaker 1: music playing softly in the background, while completely ignoring that
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  Speaker 1: the back room is entirely on fire and literally burning
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  Speaker 1: to the foundation.
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  Speaker 2: That is the perfect analogy, exactly. And to build on that,
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  Speaker 2: the family court system is essentially forced into the role
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  Speaker 2: of a reluctant art appraiser.
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 2: The judge has to look at this perfectly curated exhibit
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  Speaker 2: in the front room and figure out if the art
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  Speaker 2: is authentic or if it's a complete forgery designed to
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  Speaker 2: distract from the smoke that is clearly seeping under the door.
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  Speaker 1: Because while she was maintaining this tranquil exhibit, Jack Avery
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  Speaker 1: was maintaining his own highly visible public persona, too.
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  Speaker 2: Right. He wasn't just some unknown guy.
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  Speaker 1: No, he was a beloved figure from a very successful
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  Speaker 1: boy band, which, as the source material notes, had to
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  Speaker 1: halt performances due to some really complex legal issues with
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  Speaker 1: their former management.
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  Speaker 2: So he was dealing with his own massive professional stressors.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, massive career hurdles. But despite that, his public image
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  Speaker 1: as a father was deeply affectionate. He would constantly post
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  Speaker 1: photos with their daughter. He actually referred to her publicly
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram as my queen.
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  Speaker 2: So you have these two very public figures who ended
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  Speaker 2: a two and a half year relationship, And then transitioned
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  Speaker 2: into this highly contested custody battle starting in 2020.
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  Speaker 1: Right. I want you, the listener, to just take a
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  Speaker 1: second and think about how terrifying this be to navigate
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  Speaker 1: the family court system when your co-parent's public persona is
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  Speaker 1: completely at odds with their private actions.
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  Speaker 2: Which is maddening.
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  Speaker 1: You are sitting there in mediation or standing in front
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  Speaker 1: of a judge trying to explain that the person sitting
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  Speaker 1: across of you might actually be dangerous. Meanwhile, hundreds of
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  Speaker 1: thousands of people online are liking their posts about peaceful
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  Speaker 1: parenting and organic living.
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  Speaker 2: It creates a sense of profound psychological isolation. Family court
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  Speaker 2: is already an arena where truth is highly subjective, right?
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  Speaker 2: It is largely a game of he said, she said,
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  Speaker 2: until definitive proof is introduced.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and proof is hard to get.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. So when your opponent is a skilled curator of
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  Speaker 2: their own reality, someone who deeply understands how to manipulate
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  Speaker 2: an audience, proving that the front room is just a distraction...
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  Speaker 2: requires an overwhelming, almost insurmountable amount of undeniable evidence.
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  Speaker 1: But the thing is, Gabby wasn't tending to this fire
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  Speaker 1: in the back room alone.
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  Speaker 2: No, she wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: To understand how a bad breakup and a stressful custody
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  Speaker 1: battle mutated into a federal conspiracy, we have to look
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  Speaker 1: at the family dynamics. We specifically have to look at
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  Speaker 1: the involvement of a grandfather who, by all professional metrics,
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  Speaker 1: legally should have known better.
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  Speaker 2: This is exactly where the narrative shifts from a modern
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  Speaker 2: influencer dispute into a much darker systemic family issue. We
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  Speaker 2: need to look really closely at Francisco Gonzalez, Gabby's father. Right.
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  Speaker 1: And Francisco is not just a concerned, maybe overprotective grandfather.
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  Speaker 1: He is a practicing personal injury lawyer in the state
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  Speaker 1: of Florida.
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  Speaker 2: Which is a huge detail.
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  Speaker 1: It changes everything. He is someone whose entire career is
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  Speaker 1: built on understanding the law, understanding liability, and understanding the
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  Speaker 1: precise consequences of crossing legal boundaries. I mean, a personal
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  Speaker 1: injury lawyer literally makes a living assessing risk. Yes. But
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  Speaker 1: according to the FBI, the early warning signs of his
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  Speaker 1: involvement were glaring. Gabby's ex-husband, and to be clear, not Jack,
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  Speaker 1: but a subsequent partner, told federal investigators that Francisco was
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  Speaker 1: openly complaining about the custody battle.
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  Speaker 2: And he wasn't just venting about legal fees.
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  Speaker 1: No. He didn't just say it was stressful or expensive.
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  Speaker 1: He allegedly stated that, and this is a, quote, custody
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  Speaker 1: dispute would be cheaper if Jack Avery was dead.
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  Speaker 2: And we have to analyze that through the lens of
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  Speaker 2: family law. We have some really great insights here from
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  Speaker 2: Randy Kessler, who is a veteran family law attorney. He
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  Speaker 2: points out the extreme complexities that arise when grandparents become
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  Speaker 2: overly enmeshed in a custody dispute.
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  Speaker 1: Because it can really complicate things.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely. Grandparents are a fascinating double-edged sword in these situations.
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  Speaker 2: On one hand, an older, wiser family member can be
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  Speaker 2: a voice of reason. They can calm down a volatile situation,
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  Speaker 2: absorb the emotional shock waves, and help their child see
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  Speaker 2: the bigger picture for the sake of the grandchild's long-term well-being.
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  Speaker 1: But on the other hand, they can become a dangerous catalyst.
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  Speaker 2: Precisely. When a grandparent's protective instinct mutates into self-righteous anger,
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  Speaker 2: they can fund and fuel a conflict that might otherwise
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  Speaker 2: naturally burn itself out, They have the financial resources and
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  Speaker 2: the generational authority to just keep the fight going indefinitely.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they write the checks.
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  Speaker 2: Right. And Kessler makes a vital distinction here regarding Francisco's
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  Speaker 2: specific profession. As lawyers, they are bound by three distinct
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  Speaker 2: layers of conduct.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, really.
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  Speaker 2: First, to practice, they can only do what is legal. Second...
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  Speaker 2: To maintain their license with a state bar, they must
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  Speaker 2: adhere to what is ethical, strictly avoiding anything involving moral turpitude.
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  Speaker 1: Makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: And third, to maintain their reputation in the community, they
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  Speaker 2: must act professionally.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, hold on. If he's a personal injury lawyer, he
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  Speaker 1: knows exactly how surveillance and evidence gathering work. Because his
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  Speaker 1: first actionable step was hiring a private investigator to follow Jack.
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  Speaker 1: trying to dig up dirt to use in the custody case.
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  Speaker 2: Which, to be fair, hiring a PI is not illegal. Right.
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  Speaker 1: It's a standard, albeit aggressive, tactic in high stakes divorces
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  Speaker 1: and custody battles. Yeah. You're trying to prove the other
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  Speaker 1: parent is unfit. Maybe they're drinking, whatever. But then the
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  Speaker 1: timeline escalates in a way that just defies all legal logic.
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  Speaker 2: It goes off for rails.
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  Speaker 1: It really does. Here's where it gets really interesting. On
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  Speaker 1: March 22nd, 2021, Francisco allegedly sends a message in a
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  Speaker 1: family group chat. He writes, quote, Call Barca never too early.
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  Speaker 2: And federal investigators determined that Barca referred to Dustin Barca,
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  Speaker 2: a professional MMA fighter. The allegation laid out in the
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  Speaker 2: complaint is that the family was attempting to recruit this
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  Speaker 2: fighter to physically intimidate Jack Avery.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, as a lawyer, he's basically using a rusty
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  Speaker 1: scalpel instead of a surgical one. How does a legal
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  Speaker 1: mind trained in the nuance of the court system justify
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  Speaker 1: crossing the line from hiring a private investigator for legal
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  Speaker 1: leverage to to allegedly trying to hire an MMA fighter
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  Speaker 1: for physical intimidation.
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  Speaker 2: It's a huge jump.
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  Speaker 1: It is a massive leap, from gathering evidence to attempting
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  Speaker 1: extortion or assault.
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  Speaker 2: It speaks to a total collapse of professional boundaries, likely
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  Speaker 2: driven by intense emotional enmeshment. He stopped thinking like an
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  Speaker 2: officer in the court and started thinking like a vigilante.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Kessler notes that in family law, attorneys hear hyperbole and
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  Speaker 2: dark humor all the time. Clients who are pushed to
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  Speaker 2: the absolute brink will joke, you know, Wouldn't it be
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  Speaker 2: cheaper just to hire a criminal defense lawyer in case
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  Speaker 2: I killed him?
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  Speaker 1: Right. People say crazy things when they're stressed.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. And a good lawyer's job is to immediately shut
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  Speaker 2: that down. They have to look the client in the
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  Speaker 2: eye and say that if they are even 1% serious,
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  Speaker 2: the attorney-client privilege is pierced by the crime-fraud exception.
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  Speaker 1: Meaning the lawyer would have to report them.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, the lawyer would have to go straight to the authorities.
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  Speaker 1: But in this case, the lawyer is the grandfather. There
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  Speaker 1: is no objective third party to shut down the dark humor.
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  Speaker 1: There's no one in the room to pump the brakes.
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  Speaker 1: It just echoes and amplifies in this closed family echo chamber.
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  Speaker 2: Which is a very dangerous environment.
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  Speaker 1: It really is. And I want to ask you, listening
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  Speaker 1: to this, how often do we hear people vent in
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  Speaker 1: extreme ways during moments of intense stress? We all know
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  Speaker 1: someone who has said something crazy in the heat of
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  Speaker 1: a terrible breakup. I'm going to kill him or whatever. Right.
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  Speaker 2: It's a common expression of frustration.
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  Speaker 1: So how do authorities parse out venting from a legitimate threat?
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  Speaker 1: Because the FTI isn't arresting everyone who says, I could
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  Speaker 1: kill my ex over a glass of wine.
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  Speaker 2: That is the defining line in conspiracy law. They look
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  Speaker 2: for the transition from speech to action, what the law
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  Speaker 2: specifically calls an overt act. Venting is saying, I wish
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  Speaker 2: you were dead. A legitimate threat, a conspiracy, is when
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  Speaker 2: that venting is followed by the mobilization of actual resources
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  Speaker 2: to achieve that goal.
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  Speaker 1: Like writing a check.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Hiring a PI is an action, but it's a
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  Speaker 2: legal one. Sending a text to recruit an MMA fighter
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  Speaker 2: for intimidation, that crosses a behavioral line. It shows a
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  Speaker 2: willingness to use physical force outside the bounds of the
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  Speaker 2: law to achieve a goal that the court system isn't
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  Speaker 2: delivering fast enough.
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  Speaker 1: And when physical intimidation via an MMA fighter apparently didn't
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  Speaker 1: pan out, and we should explicitly note here, Dustin Barca
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  Speaker 1: is not facing any charges in this case. He was
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  Speaker 1: just the person they allegedly discussed recruiting. The family decided
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  Speaker 1: to take their plot digital.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, they pivoted.
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  Speaker 1: Which leads us to one of the most bizarre and, frankly,
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  Speaker 1: easily traceable paper trails imaginable.
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  Speaker 2: The escalation moves from the physical world into the dark web,
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  Speaker 2: setting the stage for a sting operation that exposes a fundamental,
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  Speaker 2: honestly almost comical misunderstanding of how the criminal underworld actually operates.
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  Speaker 1: Let's break down this dark web conspiracy because this unfolds
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  Speaker 1: between April and June of 2021. Enter Gabby's ex-boyfriend, a
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  Speaker 1: man named Kai Corddry. According to the FBI, Kai was
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  Speaker 1: tasked with navigating the dark web to find a contract
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  Speaker 1: killer and his alleged screen name for this highly sensitive, sinister,
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  Speaker 1: covert operation, Lizard King 69.
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  Speaker 2: It sounds like a teenager's gaming handle on Xbox Live.
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  Speaker 1: It really does. I mean, I have to laugh because
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  Speaker 1: it's just so absurd.
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  Speaker 2: It is absurd, but the actions attached to that silly
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  Speaker 2: screen name were incredibly serious. The FBI was able to
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  Speaker 2: track a highly specific financial trail that funded this entire search.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about that money trail.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so in April of 2021, Francisco, the lawyer's father...
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: allegedly sends $ 10, 000 to Kai Corddry.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: And they didn't just hand over a briefcase of non-sequential
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: cash in a dimly lit parking garage like you'd see
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: in a movie. They actually tried to create a digital
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: paper trail to explain the money.
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: Which is wild for a lawyer to do. Right.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: They used Kai's actual business, a site called Whisper Business,
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: to generate a fake invoice. They classified this $ 10, 000 transfer
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: as payment for web development services. But investigators say absolutely
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: no web development work was ever performed. It was entirely
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: a cover.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: And the digital footprint just kept growing from there. By
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: June of 2021, Francisco allegedly sends another $ 4, 000 to Kai.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: Also through the business.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: Yes. The court documents show that on June 5th, Kai
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: sent Francisco another invoice through Whisper Business for this exact amount.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: Francisco paid it, and this charge showed up clearly in
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: Francisco's subpoenaed bank records. Wow. Kai would later admit to
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: authorities that he never performed these services and believed the
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: invoice was merely a cover for their actual intent.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I have to stop and ask.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: How did a practicing attorney and a highly successful social
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: media star think that claiming web development on a verifiable
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: digital invoice was a solid cover for funding a hitman?
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: It's baffling.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: The digital footprint here is staggering. We consume so much
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: media that relies on this classic movie trope of the
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: mysterious contract killer, right? The ghost who takes a briefcase
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: of unmarked bills does the deed from a rooftop with
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: a sniper rifle and fades back into the darkness.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Right, the cinematic myth of the untouchable professional assassin. But
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: the reality of cybercrime in federal investigations is entirely different.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: Real people who try to hire hitmen online almost always
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: get caught.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Always.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: And they get caught because professional, untraceable assassins charging hundreds
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: of thousands of dollars do not advertise their services online.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: to random people like Lizard King 69 on dark web
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: message boards. If someone is advertising murder for hire on
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: the Internet, even on the Tor network, you have to
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: assume they are law enforcement.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: So who is Kai actually talking to when he thought
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: he'd finally found his guy? Because he definitely thought he
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: was making a real deal.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: If we connect this to the bigger picture of federal
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: law enforcement strategy, dark web hitmen are almost exclusively undercover
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: law enforcement agents. The FBI doesn't just passively monitor these
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: sites hoping to catch someone. They actively build honeypots, they
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: create the forums, they manage the escrow services, and they
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: pose as the service providers themselves.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: So they were walking to a trap they built.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Exactly. The person Kai and Francisco were communicating with, the
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: person Francisco allegedly spoke to on the phone using coded language,
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: was an undercover FBI agent. The Bureau had absolute access
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: to every message, every request, and every digital footprint this
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: group left behind because the FBI owned the very infrastructure
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: they were using That.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Is just incredible. And Gabby wasn't just passively letting her
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: dad and her ex-boyfriend handle the logistics.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: Either. No, she was very much involved.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: The FBI alleges they have recorded evidence of her directly
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: discussing the plot and how it could potentially go wrong.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: They claim to have a witness who heard Gabby state
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: explicitly that she wanted Jack dead. and that she was
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: involved in a plan to use Bitcoin to pay for
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: the hit.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that detail is crucial.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: She even allegedly had a specific creative direction for the assassination.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: She wanted Jack's death to look like a car accident.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Which, again, points to the level of premeditation required for
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: a conspiracy charge. They weren't just lashing out in a
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: brief moment of passion. They were allegedly strategizing about the
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: exact method of execution to minimize suspicion from local police.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: Right, trying to make it look like an accident.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Paying in Bitcoin, faking invoices through a registered LLC, specifying
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: the method of death. These are all conscious, deliberate actions
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: taken over a span of months. And regarding the Bitcoin aspect,
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: it further highlights their deep misunderstanding of digital anonymity.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Oh, because people think crypto is untraceable. Exactly.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: But Bitcoin is not anonymous. It is pseudonymous. Every single
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: transaction is permanently recorded on a public ledger. Once the
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: FBI controls the wallet receiving the funds, they can use
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: blockchain forensics to trace exactly where that crypto originated.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: And where does it usually lead?
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: It usually leads right back to a cryptocurrency exchange where
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: the user had to provide their actual driver's license to
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: set up the account in the first place.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: So let's look at what the FBI has here. You
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: have a digital trail of invoices from Whisper Business. You
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: have traditional bank records showing the fiat currency transfers. You
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: have the blockchain ledger tracing the Bitcoin. You have recorded
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: phone calls with an undercover FBI agent using code words.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: And you have discussions about staged car accidents.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: A mountain of evidence.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: With the FBI holding all of this overwhelming, multi-layered evidence,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: you would think the arrest would happen overnight. Like a
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: movie where the SWAT team kicks the door down at
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: 6 a.m. the very next morning. But that didn't happen. Instead,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: an agonizing, multi-year waiting game began.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: The timeline here is one of the most perplexing elements
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: for the public to grasp. The crime, the core conspiracy,
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: and the actual transfer of funds was plotted and executed
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: in the spring and summer of 2021. Right. But the
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: arrests did not happen until roughly four years later.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Which brings us to the takedown, this massive gap in time.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: The FBI finally moves in, and it's a perfectly synchronized
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: dual arrest. Gabby is taken into custody at an airport
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: in Humboldt County, California. way up in the northern part
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: of the state. At the exact same time, her father, Francisco,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: is arrested at his home in Seminole County, Florida.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: The four-year delay causes a lot of confusion, but Kessler
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: explains it perfectly using a carpenter's analogy measure twice cut once.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Like that.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: In a federal criminal case of this magnitude, the burden
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: of proof is beyond a reasonable doubt. You are trying
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: to convince a jury that a popular, wealthy mother and
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: her legally trained father conspired to murder the father.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Of her child. Which is a heavy lift for a prosecutor.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: It is. If you rush the arrest and leave a
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: single loophole in the digital forensics, a skilled defense attorney,
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: which Francisco certainly knows how to hire or how to be,
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: could unravel the entire case.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Wait, four years is a long time to measure the wood, though.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Weren't they worried about Jack Avery's safety during those 1,400 days?
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: If you know someone wants to kill a guy, how
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: do you just let them walk around free?
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: That is the crucial detail that explains the entire delay.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: Because the hitman they hired was actually an FBI agent,
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: Jack Avery's life was never in imminent physical danger from
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: that specific dark web threat.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Oh, because they already controlled the weapon.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Exactly. The weapon they thought they had purchased was safely
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: in the hands of the federal government. The threat was
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: neutralized the very moment they hired the undercover agent. This
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: afforded the FBI the ultimate luxury in law enforcement time.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: They had the time to exhaustively subpoena bank records, work
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: with cryptocurrency exchanges to trace the Bitcoin wallets, authenticate the
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: audio recordings, and just build an absolutely airtight, impenetrable grand
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: jury indictment before ever showing their hands.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: So what does this all mean for the people waiting
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: for the hammer to drop? When you watch the body
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: cam footage of Francisco's arrest in Florida, it answers that
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: question in the most surreal way possible. We get a
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: real-time look at a man who seemingly had no idea
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: his entire life was about to end that morning.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: The banality of the arrest footage is striking. It is
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: the exact opposite of the dramatic SWAT raids we are
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: so used to seeing on television.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: It is incredibly mundane. The deputies just walk up to
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: him in his driveway and it's all, hey, bud, how
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: are you? And good, how are you? No weapons on you.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Francisco is completely calm.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: He doesn't panic at all.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: Not a bit. He turns around, puts his hands behind
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: his back and says, yes, sir, appreciate it. They pat
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: him down. They put the handcuffs on. And he politely
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: mentions that the cuffs are a bit tight. He asks
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: if they can adjust them. He's totally compliant.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: But when they ask him if he's aware of why
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: they're there, if he knows what's going on, he says no.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: He attempts to project total ignorance. He is leaning hard
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: into his training as a lawyer. Deny everything. Admit nothing. Yeah.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Play dumb.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: But the deputies quickly reveal how long this net has
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: been tightening around him.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: Exactly. Because the deputy asks for his phone. He asks
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: if Francisco's son, who is inside the house, can bring
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: it out. The deputy warns that if they don't get
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: consent to grab the phones, They'll have to get a
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: search warrant, freeze the entire scene, and kick everyone out
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: of the house for hours.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: A standard law enforcement pressure tactic.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: Yep. And Francisco readily agrees. He's like, sure, have him
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: get it. And the deputy is so casual about it,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: he's asking, what does the phone look like? What's your
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: lock screen? And Francisco's just answering, oh, it's a black iPhone.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: The screensaver is just a clock.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: It's a totally normal conversation.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: But then when the son brings the phone out, the
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: son is confused. The son asks if there is a
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: search warrant. And the deputy calmly explains that they are
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: requesting cooperation to get the phone now in lieu of
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: a warrant. But then the son mentions something incredible.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: This is the crazy part.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: He notes that Francisco's previous phone was taken by the
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: FBI several years ago during the initial phase of the case.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: That is the most telling detail of the entire interaction.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: It completely shatters the illusion that this arrest came entirely
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: out of nowhere. Francisco knew the FBI was investigating him
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: years prior.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: He had to know.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: They had already seized his property. He knew they were
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: looking into his digital life.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: Which poses this intense psychological question. Did Francisco and Gabby
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: live for those four years, genuinely thinking they had outsmarted
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: the FBI?
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: That's a wild thought. Right.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Did they think that because years had passed since the
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: phone seizure, the trail had just gone cold, the feds
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: lost interest, and they somehow got away with it? Or
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: were they sitting on a live grenade for half a decade?
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: waking up every single day wondering if this was the
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: day the pin was going to drop.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Living with that level of prolonged, unresolved tension is unfathomable.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: It requires a tremendous capacity for psychological denial. Think about it.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: To continue practicing personal injury law, negotiating settlements with insurance
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: companies while knowing the FBI has your phone.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: It's insane.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: And for Gabby to continue posting on TikTok about your pure,
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: authentic life, While knowing that federal agents hold your devices
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: and potentially your dark web communications, it is a profound
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: display of compartmentalization. It takes an incredible amount of mental
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: energy to keep those two realities separated for four years.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: And took a highly coordinated effort to end that waiting game.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Executing a synchronized, multi-state takedown of a family unit is
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: a massive logistical undertaking.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: You have federal agents coordinating across time zones. ensuring that
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: neither party can tip the other off once the first
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: arrest happens. Because if they arrest Gabby at the rural
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: airport in California first, she might get a text out
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: to her dad in Florida to destroy evidence before they
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: get to his suburban home. They have to move at
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: the exact same moment.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Precision is everything in these raids.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: And despite the gravity of the charges, the arrests were peaceful,
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: almost disturbingly polite on the body cam.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: But while the physical takedown was peaceful, the legal, emotional
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: and systemic fallout was really just beginning. Because at the
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: dead center of this massive federal sting operation beneath the
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: Bitcoin ledgers and the fake invoices is a seven-year-old child
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: whose entire world is about to be violently restructured.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: And that brings us to the present day, to the
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: legal and human fallout of this multi-year saga. Right now,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: all three individuals, Gabby, Francisco and the ex-boyfriend Kai, are
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: facing incredibly severe charges. attempted murder, conspiracy to commit murder,
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: and solicitation of murder.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: But their current realities look very different, and it highlights
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: a controversial, often misunderstood aspect of our justice system. Because
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: while Francisco and Kai remain locked behind bars, Gabby is
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: currently out of jail.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: Yes, the judge set Gabby's bond at a staggering $ 2 million.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: And she was actually able to post it. I think
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: for a lot of you listening, hearing that someone accused
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: of plotting a violent murder for hire is walking free
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: on bail is shocking.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: It definitely raises eyebrows. Right.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: Like, wait, $ 2 million for a conspiracy to commit murder
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: charge seems dangerously low when she clearly has the network
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: to pay it. Isn't the judge risking public safety here
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: by letting her out?
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: It definitely feels contradictory to public safety at first glance.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: But this raises an important question about how the bail
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: system actually functions. specifically regarding flight risk matrices for individuals
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: with decentralized wealth.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, break that down for us.
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: As Kessler explains, setting bond is an art, not a science.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: The Constitution presumes innocence until proven guilty. So unless someone
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: is deemed an insurmountable flight risk or an immediate undeniable
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: danger to the public... they generally have a constitutional right
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: to bail.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: But how does a judge land on the specific number
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: of 2 million? Why not 500,000 or 10 million?
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: They utilize an algorithm that weighs the severity of the
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: crime against the defendant's financial resources and their community ties.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: If a defendant has immense wealth, perhaps hidden in crypto
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: wallets that the government hasn't seized? A $ 10, 000 bond is
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: essentially meaningless.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: Right, they just pay it and run.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: Exactly. They could pay it from petty cash and flee
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: to a non-extradition country tomorrow. So to properly incentivize a
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: wealthy influencer to stay and face a potential life sentence,
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: the judge has to set a number so astronomically high
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: that fleeing would mean total financial ruin for her.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: And for whoever co-signed it.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: Yes, crucially, for whoever helped her secure that bond. the
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: judge determined that $ 2 million was the exact price tag
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: required to guarantee her compliance and return to court.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: And while the legal machinery of bailing grand juries grinds away,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: we have to bring the focus back to the human
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: element here, specifically Jack Avery and his daughter. After the arrests,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Jack released a statement that is just heartbreaking when you
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: understand the context of the last four years.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: It really reframes everything he's been through.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: It does. He talked about enduring years of intense public scrutiny,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: false accusations, and deeply painful attacks on his character from
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: her online followers. And remember, for years, he was likely
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: watching Gabby's fans validate her version of the story, praising
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: her as a saint, while he knew the FBI had
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: warned him about an active hit on his life.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: He chose to remain silent to protect his daughter, and
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: also to protect the integrity of the federal investigation.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: That takes a lot of willpower.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: A tremendous amount. If he had spoken out, he could
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: have tipped off the conspirators and ruined the FBI's sting
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: operation entirely.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: It is a remarkable display of restraint, prioritizing his child's
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: future over his own immediate public vindication.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: And he noted in his statement that he now has
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: sole custody of their daughter, stating she is safe, healthy,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: and deeply loved. But if you put yourself in the
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: shoes of a family court judge looking at this case
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: down the line, how do you handle visitation? Can a
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: mother who allegedly tried to hire a dark web hitman
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: to kill the father ever be allowed to see her
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: child again?
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: It seems like an obvious, resounding no. I mean, common
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: sense is absolutely not. But family law is rarely black
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: and white. It operates on a standard called the best
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: interest of the child, which can yield incredibly complex, sometimes
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: counterintuitive results.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: Like what?
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: Well, Kessler brought up a shocking historical case study from
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: Kentucky where a man who fathered a child through rape
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: was still granted visitation rights. The court determined that despite
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: the horrific nature of his crime, the child had a
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: fundamental right to know their biological father.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Wow, that is incredibly difficult to comprehend. How does a
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: judge justify that?
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: It is deeply unsettling, but it illustrates the foundational philosophy
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: of family court. There are very few absolute rules. Every
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: single case requires a unique, often agonizing analysis. In this case,
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: a judge will eventually have to ask a terrifying question.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Is a highly monitored, strictly supervised relationship with a mother
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: convicted of conspiracy to commit murder somehow better for the
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: psychological development of the child? than total lifelong abandonment.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: There's a horrible choice to have to make.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: It is. The judge has to weigh the trauma of
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: exposure against the trauma of absence. There is no automatic
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: statutory rule that says a criminal conviction forfeits all parental
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: rights permanently.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: This is a devastating reality for that little girl. We
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: started this deep dive talking about the contrast between the
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: digital facades we consume daily and the sometimes terrifying realities
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: behind them.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: The front room versus the back room.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: Exactly. We watched a desire for control in a custody battle,
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: masked by a carefully curated online persona of peaceful co-parenting
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: and organic living, ultimately unravel into a federal sting operation
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: involving fake LLC invoices, Bitcoin ledgers, and undercover agents.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: It serves as a stark reminder of how easily we
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: are manipulated by a ring light and a rehearsed narrative.
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  Speaker 2: We accept the polished exhibit in the front room because
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  Speaker 2: it is aesthetically pleasing and algorithmic, while actively ignoring the
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  Speaker 2: possibility of the fire in the back room.
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  Speaker 1: Which leaves us with one final thought, something we haven't
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  Speaker 1: touched on yet, but that I want you, the listener,
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  Speaker 1: to really mull over. We talk a lot about digital
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  Speaker 1: permanence regarding our own embarrassing photos or bad tweets, right? Sure.
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  Speaker 2: The right to be forgotten. Right.
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  Speaker 1: But when a child is at the dead center of
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  Speaker 1: a heavily documented, highly publicized true crime saga, how does
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  Speaker 1: the Internet's permanent memory affect them? Years from now, this
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  Speaker 1: seven-year-old girl will be old enough to open a browser
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  Speaker 1: and type her parents' names into a search engine.
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  Speaker 2: And it's all going to be right there.
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  Speaker 1: She won't just read dry court documents. She will see
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  Speaker 1: the TikToks, the Instagram posts, the body hand footage, the
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  Speaker 1: endless comment sections, and the countless discussions dissecting her family's
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  Speaker 1: darkest moments as public entertainment. In an era where every
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  Speaker 1: family dispute has the potential to become serialized true crime content,
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  Speaker 1: how do we protect the digital future of the children
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  Speaker 1: who are left behind? in the wake of their parents'
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  Speaker 1: catastrophic choices.