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Equinox Challenge: Ignore Anything That Tells You You Can’t Have What You Want · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hey, it's Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio. And
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  Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation, metaphysical wisdom,
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  Speaker 1: and personal development. This is the next show in the
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  Speaker 1: Equinox Challenge series. Get the one thing you want most
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  Speaker 1: this season. And if you want one-on-one intuitive coaching to
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  Speaker 1: help you get what you want in any area of
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  Speaker 1: your life, begin my one-year intuitive coaching package today. Start
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  Speaker 1: now at intuitivecoachingwithamy.com. All right, you know your desire. You're
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  Speaker 1: taking actions that match your desire. You're feeling good. You're
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  Speaker 1: reciting your affirmation. You're feeling good. You're feeling good. And
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  Speaker 1: then something shows up that is the opposite of what
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  Speaker 1: you said you wanted. Or something shows up that your
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  Speaker 1: mind interprets as you can't have what you want. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: you applied for a job you thought that was going
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  Speaker 1: to be the job and you didn't get it. Ignore it.
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  Speaker 1: Ignore it and keep affirming. Maybe you accidentally created a
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  Speaker 1: plan for yourself, a strategy, and then now you're holding
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  Speaker 1: yourself accountable to the strategy and you're feeling bad that
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  Speaker 1: you're not doing everything you said you were going to
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  Speaker 1: do on the plan. And now you're feeling just so
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  Speaker 1: behind and lost and confused. You're not behind. You're right
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  Speaker 1: where you need to be. Ignore the strategy. Keep reciting
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  Speaker 1: your affirmation. Keep your focus on your desire. Maybe you
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  Speaker 1: are really, really, really focused on releasing weight. And all
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden, your boyfriend's just acting a fool. Keep
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  Speaker 1: your focus on releasing weight. Sure, you might do, you
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  Speaker 1: might have some conversations about the boyfriend, might talk to
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  Speaker 1: the boyfriend. All of this comes under the umbrella of
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  Speaker 1: living your life. Your boyfriend acting a fool is not
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  Speaker 1: a reason or a sign that you can't have what
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  Speaker 1: you want. Keep your attention focused on what you want
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  Speaker 1: and ignore anything, anything, whether it's from your own mind,
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  Speaker 1: Ignore anything that shows up that your mind interprets as
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  Speaker 1: you can't have what you want. So maybe you wake
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  Speaker 1: up and you start thinking, oh no, I might lose
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  Speaker 1: my job. And you're really focused on buying a house.
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  Speaker 1: Shut your mind down. Just be like, nope, we don't
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  Speaker 1: think that. Because even if I did lose my job,
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  Speaker 1: I'm focused on getting my house and I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: get my house. And if my loan... needs to see
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  Speaker 1: proof of income, there will be income there. There's no
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  Speaker 1: reason for me to scare myself. There's no reason for
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  Speaker 1: me to be mean to myself. I love myself enough
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  Speaker 1: to stay rooted and focused on my desire. I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to ignore anything that takes me away from my desire. Anything. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if it's something in your life you have to take
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  Speaker 1: care of, yeah, you're still going to take care of
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  Speaker 1: it because it's all under the umbrella of go live
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  Speaker 1: your life. So you're still focused on your desire. You're
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  Speaker 1: still focused on your desire and you are living your life.
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  Speaker 1: So even if something crazy happens, this is a perfect example.
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  Speaker 1: So my neighbor kept passing out in the hallway. And
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  Speaker 1: it was, it was a story, I guess. But anyways,
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  Speaker 1: it turns out that he has, he has an alcohol issue.
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  Speaker 1: And at first I was like, oh no, you know,
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  Speaker 1: he needs help. And my landlord would see him and
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  Speaker 1: say like, oh, you know, and I'd be like, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: What do we do? Should we call 911? Because it
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  Speaker 1: kept happening. And you know, I'm a recovered codependent. So
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  Speaker 1: that was like, ooh, I could really get all up
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  Speaker 1: in that one energetically. And the minute my landlord said
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  Speaker 1: to me, oh, he has an alcohol issue. I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with me. I thought he
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  Speaker 1: had like a health issue or we needed to be,
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  Speaker 1: maybe it was a seizure disorder or something. Or, you know,
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  Speaker 1: something that we're, you know, he lives alone. Somebody needs
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  Speaker 1: to be looking out for him. Nope. And it was
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  Speaker 1: a day where he had fallen out and they had
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  Speaker 1: even called, my landlord had called 911. And I could
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  Speaker 1: have stood there at my door and watched all the
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  Speaker 1: happenings and shared my tale. But I was like, nope,
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  Speaker 1: you know what? I'm just going to go to the
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  Speaker 1: library and work on my thing that's a match to
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  Speaker 1: my desire. It's not that we are being unkind. It's
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  Speaker 1: that our only job is to live out our truth, right?
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  Speaker 1: And yes, you can be there for people and you
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  Speaker 1: can be kind and loving. You got to have a line.
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  Speaker 1: You got to have a line and you got to
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  Speaker 1: love yourself enough to stick with your desire. So ignore
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  Speaker 1: anything that shows up that your mind interprets as you
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  Speaker 1: can't have what you want. Because going back to that day,
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  Speaker 1: I planned to go and actually, no, what I planned
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  Speaker 1: to do was I was doing a journaling exercise. I
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  Speaker 1: was going to do it at home around my desire.
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  Speaker 1: It was a practice that completely aligned with my desire
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  Speaker 1: and I had set aside time to do it. And
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  Speaker 1: I was really bummed that now all of a sudden
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  Speaker 1: there's all this commotion going on because he lived right
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  Speaker 1: next door. And I had a choice. I could have
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  Speaker 1: sit there and watched it all go down. And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm going to go to the library.
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  Speaker 1: Turns out library was perfect. It was the exact environment
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  Speaker 1: that I needed. I listened to my music. It's air condition.
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  Speaker 1: You know, LA has been stupid hot lately. And I
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  Speaker 1: winded up really having a bit of a breakthrough around something.
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  Speaker 1: And all just because I chose to ignore something that
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  Speaker 1: was setting me up for, I can't have what I want.
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  Speaker 1: And you can do the same thing. So ignore, ignore,
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  Speaker 1: ignore anything that shows up. Oh, you really want a
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  Speaker 1: partner and you've been dating and the dude you were
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  Speaker 1: talking to ghosted you. Ignore it. Go back to your affirmation. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: all of a sudden you're feeling scattered like you don't
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  Speaker 1: have enough time. Ignore feeling scattered and go back to
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  Speaker 1: your affirmation. Go back to your desire. Oh, your boss
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  Speaker 1: just told you something crazy and now you feel like
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  Speaker 1: eating everything in sight. No, go back to your affirmation.
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  Speaker 1: Stick with what you said you were going to do. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: somebody dies. I mean, that's probably the most the highest
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  Speaker 1: of distractions, right? You can still move through that experience.
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  Speaker 1: You can still experience grief and stick with your desire.
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  Speaker 1: While you can't ignore it per se, you can ignore
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  Speaker 1: the part of you that wants to just abandon all
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  Speaker 1: that you are for something that showed up. And let's
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  Speaker 1: face it, life is gonna life, which includes death and birth, right?
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  Speaker 1: And all things in between. And so let life life,
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  Speaker 1: And you stay rooted in your desire. You're not an
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  Speaker 1: asshole for caring about what you care about. You are
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  Speaker 1: not being unkind for staying rooted in your desire. Because
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  Speaker 1: that is your point of power. That is your point
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  Speaker 1: of power. That is how you can really be of
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  Speaker 1: service to the world when you are happy, whole, complete,
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  Speaker 1: and living the way you've always wanted to live. You're
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  Speaker 1: just a nicer human. You're less stressed. You're healthier. Having
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  Speaker 1: what you want is good. So ignore anything that shows up,
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  Speaker 1: including the crazy things you think in your mind, that
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  Speaker 1: take you away from what you want. I have a
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  Speaker 1: client that's going through something that's, it's a big deal.
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  Speaker 1: It's a big deal in life. And it's good. It's
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  Speaker 1: a good big deal. And there's been some aspects of
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  Speaker 1: it that have kind of thrown her for a loop.
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  Speaker 1: And she keeps wanting to focus on that. Why didn't
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  Speaker 1: that work out? And what does this mean? And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, just stop. Just stop thinking that and focus
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  Speaker 1: on your desire. focus on this thing going well for you.
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  Speaker 1: Focus on you getting what you want out of this experience.
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  Speaker 1: Another client, he's looking to manifest a large sum of money.
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  Speaker 1: He's working a business right now. The business can't, just
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  Speaker 1: by the nature of it, can't produce the amount of
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  Speaker 1: money he wants. It's going to come from another source.
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  Speaker 1: And so then all of a sudden he starts thinking
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  Speaker 1: about like, oh, what if these things change in the world?
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  Speaker 1: And then that business, I was like, just stop thinking that.
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  Speaker 1: Just stop. Ignore it. Listen, if you're listening to this show,
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  Speaker 1: you think. You're smart and you care and you can
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  Speaker 1: easily get off track because you're so sensitive. But this
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  Speaker 1: is your permission slip to ignore all of that and
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  Speaker 1: focus on what you want. You are you, so you're
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  Speaker 1: still going to be smart. You're still going to be loving.
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  Speaker 1: You're still going to be sensitive. You're still going to
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  Speaker 1: be centered and grounded. And you're going to have what
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  Speaker 1: you want. as opposed to spinning out of control, getting
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  Speaker 1: caught up in a whole bunch of shit that doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 1: Because really, here's what, let's go back to my neighbor's story.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you this. Homeboy moved out. His family
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  Speaker 1: came and got him a week later, moved him out.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't think it was a week. I think it
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  Speaker 1: was like four days later. And I could have wasted
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  Speaker 1: that valuable time, missed that breakthrough that I had in consciousness,
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  Speaker 1: being caught up in some bullshit that had nothing to
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  Speaker 1: do with me. Ignore anything that shows up that takes
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  Speaker 1: you away from what you want, and particularly anything that
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  Speaker 1: tells you you can't have what you want. Cool? All right.
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  Speaker 1: It's a little bit longer show in the series because
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  Speaker 1: it's so important. It's so easy to get caught up
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  Speaker 1: in the caught up, you know? And so to receive
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  Speaker 1: everything that you desire, point all your magic towards what
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  Speaker 1: you want. And just decide, I'm going to ignore anything
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  Speaker 1: that tells me I can't have what I want. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's raining and I said I was going to do this.
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  Speaker 1: Still go do that thing. Assuming it's, you know, you can.
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  Speaker 1: Or find an adjacent thing. Just trust me. There is
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  Speaker 1: always a way. There is always a way. Okay. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much for listening. I pray this show was useful.
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  Speaker 1: Not just for this series, but for anything. anything in
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  Speaker 1: your life, stay focused on you and you'll find that
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  Speaker 1: everything gets taken care of. Everything gets resolved. Nothing requires
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  Speaker 1: that you abandon yourself. Nothing requires that you abandon your desire.
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  Speaker 1: Stay rooted in your truth and you will find that
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  Speaker 1: life gets a lot easier for you. All right. And
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  Speaker 1: if you want support, If you want support, go to intuitivecoachingwithamy.com
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  Speaker 1: and start the one-year intuitive coaching package today to receive
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  Speaker 1: intuitive coaching to create the life result you most desire
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  Speaker 1: with ease, confidence, and inspiration. Take care of yourself. Goodbye.