Your Daughter Isn't Behind — She's Developing

The Kally V. Podcast: Owning Your Opportunity · Oct 12, 2026 · 16m

Is your daughter really behind—or are you simply comparing her development to someone else's?

In softball, it's incredibly easy to compare velocity, pitch count, number of pitches, teams, tournaments, recruiting opportunities, and everything else we see happening around us.

But development doesn't happen on the same timeline for every pitcher.

In this episode, Coach Kally V talks about the danger of comparison and why parents and pitchers need to stop measuring development against somebody else's timeline.

Two pitchers can be the same age and be in completely different places physically…