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Hey, it's your girl, jess You've just entered a safe space for Kingdom
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we can keep the conversation going. Now, let's get into this week's episode.
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Hey, y'all, we made it. Listen, we have made it
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to the season row y'all have begged with me and the new improved Well,
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I won't say what else trying to say the new edition to the community community.
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She ain't that new anymore. I ain't because at this point, I'm
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family. I'm family. I hope y'all see it. I'm we family,
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family, family. Rade. Hey, how had a portion of this season
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that you've been a part of? Yi? Yi, yive some nuggets like
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how has it been? Um, it's been so me sitting on this side.
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I mean, Jessica made me put this microphone on it. It's fine,
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it's fine. Um, it's just really been confirming to because honestly,
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podcasting or podcast production wasn't on my radar. Like I was focusing on photography.
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I was like, oh, I love the picture taking kind of thing,
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right, Um. And so when he dropped he's been dropping a lot
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of new things and my spirit here lately, um, which I know it's
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him because it's some stuff has never really been a desire of mine, and
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some things I don't even feel qualified to do, right, But when he
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dropped it in my spirit, I was like, oh, Okay. I
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had one friend and I had been kind of recording. It wasn't even nothing
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like super fancy. It was just turned the cameraon and she was just talking.
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Right. So I had been kind of doing it a little bit,
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you know what I'm saying, But it wasn't like, Oh, I'm gonna
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go out here and be producing podcasts. I hear in these streets, right.
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Yeah. So as I'm sitting here, even through like the first second,
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third ones that we've done, just sitting here and I'm just listening to
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the nuggets, I'm listening to the testimonies, the stories, and I'm like,
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wow, people get to hear this, Like somebody is waiting has been
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looking for confirmation or somebody has been looking for a solution, or somebody has
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just been looking for something, just so that they know that they aren't on
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this journey by themselves and until we step into a place where we're okay with
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um Um who he's called us to being what he's given us to share,
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like the people that as for not going to find us. So I just
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think I'm just very grateful that I'm in a space to really be able to
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witness, you know, what he's doing in this season, but also witness
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his messages and his voices for the Kenny, because I do believe that he
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is he is, he is raising up his people to really step into what
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they're what he's calling them to do in these different mountains of influence. You
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know what I'm saying, Kingdom Like he's really raising He's really like the Kingdom
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really needs to take over media, the Kingdom really needs to take over arts
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and entertainment because there's so much darkness that's influencing the world right now, that's
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influencing the young kids right now, you know what I'm saying. So if
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we don't step up, that's so good. If we don't, you know,
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UM take the charge then we can't be mad it what happens. Listen,
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you're talking real good, good, you know. And so for me,
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I'm just I'm just grateful to be in the space to um it's it's
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uncomfortable, uncomfortable on the only uncomfortable part is what I'm doing right now.
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It's being heard. It's being heard. Oh okay, yeah, y'all,
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y'all leave coming for desert. Right. For one, she got a lot
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of a lot of oils in her, a lot of just wisdom, Like
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we was just seeing talking a few minutes ago about how she manages her finances
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for the business. And I'm like, it's all this stuff is going on
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going over my head, Like you got a graces and you got a story.
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So as long as we purpose partner want to be pushed too, We're
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pushing each other. We pushing. We are definitely pushing each other because just
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as much as I push you, I think you definitely pushed absolutely. I
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told you, I know this season even though I came in in the middle
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of the season, this season was for me to start because I get caught
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up sometimes because I'm a big picture visionary person. Right, So he shows
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me things I'm like, oh, and I really try to make it happen.
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But also and I get stuck when I don't necessarily have the resources to
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get the things that I need or that I really know that it can bring
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it to a different level. So for me, it was starting with what
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I had and being okay with starting where I have, knowing that as like
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we said in the last episode that as we continue to journey along, all
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the pieces already in place. You know what I'm saying. But it's a
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matter of starting. For you, it was about finishing. Listen, you
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just said, you just said, I'm a fool because in the last episode
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we revealed that, you know, the impossible syndrome in me when I try
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to validate it, I just don't finish something. I don't complete it.
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And so that proves for me, wow, that that's good. So simultaneously,
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by throughout obedience that is on the same thing, we're we're learning or
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fulfilling something that God is dealing with with us personally. Right, Because what
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I noticed and I love about you is once you start something, oh you
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there, You're there, You're like, okay, let's go, let's go.
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I'm not gonna start and not finished my thing is, Oh my gosh,
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I have this great idea of the dog and I get it, and
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I'm like, kind of, really can I can I really do this?
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Are you really asking me? But just the funny thing though, just I
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will start and in my mind sometimes some some some pieces may go lacking just
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because I don't need to finish, right. But Jessica is operates in a
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high level of excellence. Right. So what that's gonna do for me is
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just make me slow down a little bit more to pay more attention to the
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details of a thing, to finish, but to finish on a higher level.
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Let's let's expound on your coverage. What you mean? What show what
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you're talking about, y'all? Did y'all get hurt her to what she said?
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Yo? Justica just operates it up at a high level of EXQUI,
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y'all, I really feel like that was always like my team saying like I
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got one of my team in the still or our customers, listen, my
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bottom lady, don't play like this. Was like, nah, because she
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gonna she gonna come at me, and so because she's gonna come at me,
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I gotta come here too, don't. I'm like I you know,
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and sometimes I feel like I need to apologize for it, but then when
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the results come, they'd be like, nah, I'm not gonna apologize.
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You can't apologize for I mean, I think you know, there's always sometimes
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a way to deliver a thing. Yeah, but you can't apologize for being
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who you are and how he's given giving it to you, that's right,
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and how he's given it to you. I was listening to a teaching or
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something, maybe it was like a call or something. It was on ver
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like social media, YouTube or something, and this guy was like he was
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from Jamaica, and he was like, since he's been here in the United
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States, the question was I think he was asked he was trying to see
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how can he be I'm gonna say softer, so like he felt like his
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the way he is, his approach to things is a little bransh because he
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said, in Jamaica, you know his culture, you know, they deal
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with some hard kind of things. We could say I came over here to
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America and everybody's just like somebody get a little headache and it's like they about
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to die or something like that. You know what I'm saying. And I'm
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just like, I don't understand that. And so he was like, how
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can I you know, you know, soften my approach x y Z.
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So the young lady he was talking to says, so, who told you
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you need to soften your approach? That somebody tell you that? Or did
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the Lord say that? And he was just like no, but I'm just
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trying to figure out how, you know, I can you know, come
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off a little you know, change my approach. And she was like,
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well, who told you this? And he was like, well, it
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was a couple of people that the church that may have said, you know,
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maybe I should have said something a little bit differently. And she said,
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yeah, I wasn't getting that the Lord was telling you to change because
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he created you the way he created you for a reason. There's a group
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of people that are going to have to be talked to in a certain type
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of way, and he's giving you the personality and the skills and the and
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the wisdom to do so. So right now you're just talking to the wrong
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people. You're just talking to the wrong people. You don't have to change.
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You don't have to, we don't have you don't have to change anything
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about like, of course we deal with some things, you know, some
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hurt, some trauma and things like that. But the core of who you
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are, that's that's what he's giving you to be, for what he's giving
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you to do. That's good, that's good. You sure you don't want
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to come on? I'm consitific, yo, I got on one episode.
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Okay, we have to do. You have to be on camera at least
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one episode, perceive that's okay, mandate, Okay, I can do that.
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I on mandate? Okay. Was that aggressive? M Okay? I
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know because I can agree with that. Okay. So what we're talking about,
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I mean, you one came up with this. Oh well, okay.
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So for this um finale of the episode is going to ask Jess.
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Instead of just ask ask Jess, We're gonna ask Jess. So we got
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a couple of questions, um that we're just gonna throw out and just allowed
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just to you know, just share a hard or whatever the answer to y'all
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to ask me some crazy questions. I'm I'm gonna ask questions about my community.
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Like I'm just I'm just gonna be floored on my community. They they
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don't think, they don't ain't bad, They're not bad. Ye. Now
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there's a raided one who went through these questions. I don't do I know,
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do I know the questions? No, No, we're gonna we're gonna
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see how this is gonna go. It's gonna be on. We're gonna we're
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gonna see how this is gonna go. So, you know, there's just
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different, a little different type of episode. So we're just gonna kind of
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flow. And yeah, I know I asked a lot of questions. I
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guess it's time for me to answer answer some questions. So we're gonna start
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with So, if money in time was not an option, wasn't a problem,
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money and time it's not even a thing, right, what would you
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be doing right now? M If money and time wasn't an issue, what
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would you be doing right now? I definitely feel like I would be in
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full a full time entrepreneur, full time entrepreneur, full time entrepreneur. And
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I want to add to this because the first thing that came in my mind
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I didn't want to say it, but I want to say it ministry.
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Ministry. And when people say ministry, they think of only the church,
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you know, right, Ministry is bigger than like a building. Ministry is
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being able to move, being able to be accessible. Right, Um,
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I know I'm called to developed not only churches or ministries, but businesses individuals,
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right, I would really just want to serve people on a level of
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course, you know they were invest in what I would be doing, but
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serve people on a level that you know ignite still UM. And so that's
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something I'm working on UM as a creative consultant. Yeah, I was just
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gonna ask what what what does entrepreneurship ship looks like for you? Yeah?
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I finally got a word for I am and I just I try to simplify
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as a creative consultant UM where I enhance businesses, ministries and other events UM
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especial events creatively. And I have a gift of ad man and so I'm
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developing that craft right now. And so you would get to be able to
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get a balance and balance of both. You know, not only am I
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a great thinker, God has given me a great you know, I could
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see things like it stuff just makes sense that don't naturally apparently don't naturally make
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sense to other people. You know, I'll be me and You've been a
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conversation where I'm like, well, why did you do is why do you
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do X Y, Like, oh, I ain't think of it like it
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happens so much UM that I'm so so natural at it. And then when
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you add wholely spirit to it, then it gives you a whole another level
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of the whole other level like you just like whoa, you just exposed me
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to that. So yeah, yeah, that's why that's why we're doing doing
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this more, you know, podcasting more time. You know, But I
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feel like time isn't when when we kind of equate time with UM. I
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think some in some seasons, when time is wrapped with finances and revenue,
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it's um, it becomes a very precious commodity versus the same amount of time.
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You got the same amount of time and finances wasn't an issue. Yeah,
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you know what I'm saying. Then it's like the time looks different.
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You know what I'm saying Right now? I know for me it's like whoah,
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time is money. You know, I want to be wasting no time
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because you know, X Y and Z versus you know, once we get
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to the point where you know, fin it's just a straight it's good.
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Then, like you said, we can do more of those more of those
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passionate things, more of those things that God are. God is definitely leading
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and calling us to I got a question. So you actually just verbally expressed
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this and talked about yourself and the things that God has given you, engraced
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you with to the people. It's recorded on this camera, in this in
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this audio space. So and and it was just so beautiful because it just
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kind of flowed like you know who you are and what He's giving you to
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do. So like and I'm pretty sure like you probably wouldn't. You probably
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gonna think about it later, but I understaid it now. We don't brought
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it on up now. So first of all, check taking old I'm sorry,
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no, yeah, this this this is my observations. Y'all started it.
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Y'all started. This is my observation because I just think it's I just
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think it's beautiful. Okay, I think it's absolutely beautiful. But it just
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flowed out so effortlessly. Um it did it? Did? It float out?
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So it flowed out very effortlessly, And you know, I had to
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get to I think that's the first time it had flown out effortlessly because when
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people ask me what I want to do, I think I'm timid to answer
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because they don't understand it, and I just to be honest. Sometimes it
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don't make sense to me because it's not my vision. When so I got
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my degree in communication studies from the University of Alabama road time. Um,
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and I had a plan. I really had a plan to go to school.
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I was gonna actually become a lawyer. I was yeah, okay,
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um, yeah, so clearly, and I had all my advisor at the
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time. Um, he said, I was taking his class and he wasn't.
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Technically he wasn't my advisor. I made him my advisors. It's interesting,
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Uh, Jason Black, he's a dope man, Um he told me.
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He asked me where my plans were, and I said, well,
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and this is my freshman year. And I said, well, I plan
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on going to law school or whatnot. I just don't know what type of
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law I want to practice. And I end up finding out that I was
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more interested. Like when I was thinking about the plan, I was said,
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I'm more interested in family law, which is interesting because I'm married and
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family therapy. So the Lord was trying to but then you're gonna help the
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family, And I didn't even know it um. So he was like,
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I paid attention to you in class, and because I wanted I was one
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of the ones that staid in the front of the class. I you was
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gonna see me, and I needed I need you to know who I was
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because if I needed help, I don't need you saying no, because you
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know I participate in your class. I help you'll clays. I helped enhanced
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the atmosphere because and so um. He was like I paid attention to in
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class and X, Y and Z. He was like, I don't think
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you're like being it and he was. It was so both for him and
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say that because he didn't know me, but he knew he trusted his observation
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and he was right. It was right. He was absolutely right. So
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our relationship grew grew uh kind of fast after he was so blunt with me.
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You know so um, but you know things that have now your titles
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like lawyer, doctor um. Even when people are asking me how I graduated,
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What are you gonna do? What are you gonna do? I was
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like, I said, I don't know, and you're gonna like this.
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I was like, I don't know what I'm going to do or what I
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want to do. I just don't. I just know that I don't want
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to have a career that puts me in a box. I literally that would
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be my answer. And people was like, you know, especially when you
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were senior in college or whatever. I was like, because they don't really
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make sense. Yeah, it don't make sense. Why did you spend four
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years in school? Well, um, there's a multiple reasons why I spent
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four years in school, and I do not take that bad. You know,
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if they want to go ahead and cancel this debt, they can do
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that. I but I don't take my experience back because school, going to
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college is more than just getting book sense. It's a whole experience, right,
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and so I invest an experience. Yeah, I mean many probably don't
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aren't fortunate to hell, so I don't take it for granted. However,
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I just I enjoy helping people. I really do. I enjoy helping people.
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And then I'm a creative. So um, yeah, I think it's
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interesting that you say that it came out effortlessly. But I know I'll struggle
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before, especially with the ministry part. Oh, if I could do full
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time ministry. In full time ministry, now it makes sense to me what
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full time ministry looks like, yeah, it's not just speaking in tons and
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being at somebody's church all day. It's really like building up the kingdom.
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That's what full time ministry is. I think it's interesting. It's it's interesting
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to say that because I think that's if a lot more people understood who they
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were and what God was calling them to do, they would not run from
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the call because traditionally or religion just paints the picture that you've got to be
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inside the four walls of the church. Right now, he has called you
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know, we're going back to as we talk about the mountains of the influence,
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the different mountains that God has in place that he's that we're operating in.
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Right. So, you know, there's education, there's governments, there's
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finance, there's business, there's arts and entertainment, there's media, there's family,
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right, um and so, and the mountain of religion, which is
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like the church, you know, the fine fold things like that. Now
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some of us are called to multiple mountains, yeah we are, and then
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some of us are called to you know, one mountain. And it kind
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of goes back to like the story of like the parable of the talents,
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Right, you give some one according to their abilities, and you give some
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multiple ones. Right. And so if we understood, if we begin to
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take the journey to understand who we are and what He's calling us to do,
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we will be a little bit more open to accepting the call of on
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our life into ministry, because honestly, ministry could be like you wake up,
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you know you may have to go. You may you may be on
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your regular route to your job. Right, the Holy Spirit say I need
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to go to the pigglweg grocery store and get this juice. Yeah right,
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you'd be like, Okay, well, I guess I might be a little
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thirsty. Okay, so I'm gonna go to the pigglwigg grocery store get this
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juice. Right. Well, on your way there, and why are you
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walking down the aisle? You may see a little lady who who may kept
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your attention, right, and maybe you speak to her, maybe you have
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a conversation. But it was in a divine appointment. Yeah, you know
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what I'm saying. It was a divine appointment that you had to be open
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to doing because she had something, You had something that she needed in that
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moment. Yeah, And that's how intentional. God is about our lives,
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like once we really understand, like we just have to be open to flowing
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with him because there's people that are assigned to us, and then we're assigned
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to people. So if ain't nobody being obedient on nothing, we all I
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have struggling in the streets. Listen, we all have struggled in the streets.
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But even the funny thing is as God is just so intentional. Like
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my desire when I was younger, I want to be a nurse. I
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used to watch labor and Delivery and like a Baby Story, all these little
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medical shows on like till see. I was like, oh, I want
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to be a nurse, right, But when I realized as I got older,
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there was just a desire to help and serve people. It was just
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a desire that was It was always there, but I was just grat I
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was just trying to make it fit in something that I could see tangibly and
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what people like we don't and that's why we wish they would do in school,
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Like I hate that they're taking the arts out of school because it's not
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just a decompression or a way for them to express yourself, but it really
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gives you another opportunity to say, in my mind things creatively and I can
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prosper in something creative like no lie, Like I know people that are inspiring
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artists and want to do X, Y and Z, but no one pushes
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them or pushes their dream or purpose. And not that we've done people or
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disservice of not giving them exposure to different opportunities like even my nine A five
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like when people first start um first heard me say, oh, I worked
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at this place, you you do this? And I'm like, because if
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I say what I do, y'all don't know you do this. It's like,
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yeah, I actually run a business. Actually I'm my branch. You
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know, I operate a million dollars business. Yeah, like preparation on you
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know what I'm saying. And so it's like, yeah, that's what I'm
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doing here. I'm managing that, you know what I'm saying. And so
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when you think about it, when you give people different perspectives on different opportunities,
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like we gotta start saying stop saying job like this is an opportunity and
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maybe we're like going up, waking up and going to get to our opportunities,
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right, or if you understand that sometimes he puts us in places that
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we may not want to be in to teach us in training some things,
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to get us to the knick. You just said you operate a million dollar
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business when you have no excuse now not to be able to operate your own
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million dollar business because you've already been doing it, like he's already put you
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in that place to to to do so you already know what that looks like.
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You know what I'm saying. Now, let me let me make it
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clear for your souls. I don't have a million dollars because that let's let's
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just one second. When people say their business made this amount of money,
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does not mean they pocketed that like they still got to pay um, you
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know, Paul Wall. They gotta go. You got expenses that that it
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takes to operate the business. So calls come out of it called my chick
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ain't a million dollars. They're not. They're not sending me a million dollars.
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This I'm gonna right, I'm probably gonna write myself the first million dollars
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chick, I propily I did, Pinky cold, Pinko did it? Why
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can't I? That's she? She she she you know, when she was
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talking, she would roll her nick like you better have confidence in your seaster.
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That lady pinky cold, that lady pinky cold too something that the world
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was like, Nah, that ain't for me. Being a being ain't for
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me. And she brought herself to emerge herself into it. And now she's
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a multi millionaire to build the whole empire and has done it in multiple streams
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of ways. Listen that part and not being. One thing I like about
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her is that she's not being making a secret. She makes it very She
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puts it out there and I don't and I don't six that she does it
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for a flix. You got some people that do it for a flix.
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I feel like she genuinely wants to assist people and get them out of the
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broken mindset of you know, you can't do this. It was so beauty.
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She did a post one time and I think she has a Jamaican joint
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or something like that. Um and I think it was in New York.
27:22
This was when she first starting. Now, yeah she was, and she
27:26
talked about how you know that she was based on her small beginning. So
27:32
the pinky end appreciates the pinky now you know what I'm saying. She even
27:37
the PreK Pinky now appreciates the pinking end because she went through that process because
27:44
with like were just saying what she learned benefited and allowed her to be this
27:48
multi millionaire. I think she thirty five, thirty six. Yeah, I'm
27:53
only thirty one. So Pinky, I say, grace, Pinky miss to
28:00
get called same grace. Okay, all right, same grain, same grace.
28:07
Like you got a family, you got a husband, you got your
28:11
businesses, same grace. But she did this before she got and I think
28:17
I need to say this to myself as a single woman. She did this
28:21
before before she got married. She was she was successful, she was able
28:25
to do all this stuff. Before she got married. She was walking out,
28:27
she was a purpose. She was paying paying the rest of folks school
28:33
fees Clark at Lenard because I think that's when she went to school. She
28:36
was playing the rest of school fees before she got married. Like, she
28:40
did all of this before entering into a marriage or building her family. Yeah,
28:45
sometimes my focus be off. So I have remembered that you know that's
28:48
good dress girl, do it before. You can do it without the kids.
28:52
You can do it without their hoosband, they gonna come. And when
28:57
they come, m spishals my child. Y'all know how you like my man,
29:03
my man, my man? When I tell you'am, have the T
29:06
shirt on the well the shoe. What you said, just prepared against sick
29:11
of me? Be prepared and be prepared. That was good. So what's
29:18
been on your mind lately that you would like to share with your audience?
29:23
What has been on my don't share every week. I mean we can listen
29:27
to week. Oh what has been on my mind? Not giving up,
29:38
not quitning, not giving up, not quicken to be honest, because sometimes
29:51
just depending on the situations or whatever, you can misconstrue what you see.
29:56
You can misconstrue what you see and have blurred vision. Um. And so
30:10
it's not that I want to give up. I'm just trying to make sure
30:15
I don't because I don't think anybody just seeks to give up. I don't
30:22
think somebody started something to say, oh, I'm just gonna give up on
30:23
this. Yeah. It's when you start and you can see the process and
30:33
the finish line seems so far away. It could seem so far away that
30:45
you're like, why am I doing this right, And so sometimes I don't
30:52
only say about the podcast. But before you came, I asked, I
30:56
asked. I was like, God, if it's not a youth thing,
31:03
but if it is, you haven't send me here because I'm I'm gonna say
31:07
I was exhausted, but I was. I wouldn't say I wasn't manage you
31:11
will the excellence that you said earlier, it was I saw too much and
31:15
I was like, I'm not able to do this right now, I'm not
31:18
able to do it. And if I can't. If I can't do it
31:21
an excellence, why am I doing it? If I can't be consistentated,
31:25
why am I doing it? So the excellent was you had a digital excellence?
31:32
Was yeah, and you didn't feel like you could meet that. He
31:37
was not meeting that, right, So I compare myself to great So we
31:41
talk about Tim rossum, but even he had a journey. You know,
31:48
he has a journey. Um. But I was comparing my stuff, my
31:52
platform to David Shade like, which I'm so would you even know? You
32:00
know, they all started, they all started somewhere right, Um, But
32:07
even that it's like, oh, you got too much as sensible to you
32:12
whatever and having to do so much investments, like with the um the videos
32:19
and the editing, and I didn't have the quality camera and this setup was
32:23
not I was fine when my setup, I really was. It was in
32:28
my it's in my little office. Or what if I go live on Facebook
32:31
every Monday morning, I mean every Monday that line. I don't go on
32:36
a Monday morning, it's the evening time. Um, I go live and
32:43
you'll see my my little setup or whatever, And at that part doesn't matter.
32:47
But I think I just had to get over the perfectionism right when something
32:54
didn't. You know, some don't sound right, when something I even call
32:59
you like asist, some off like I don't know, I don't know to
33:02
put a finger on it, but some off I ain't liked it. So
33:06
what we're gonna do about this is like out the things I'm saying to you,
33:09
I was doing it to myself. So I spent hours and hours and
33:13
hours investigating solutions to things and so um yeah yeah, but I'm still I
33:23
feel like who I'm comparing myself to it is where I want to be and
33:30
I still have so so far ago. So yeah, just not just not
33:37
quick. And that's what's been on my mind, mac Queen, not saying
33:42
I'm gonna quick, but not to quick. Yeah, and um and you
33:47
just and you it's good. So the dangerous part in having people that you
33:53
look up to is the comparison part, because they're just supposed to be inspiration,
33:59
right, you know what I'm It's like, oh man, I love
34:00
the journey that it's taken. I know if they if they've done it,
34:05
then I know I could do it. Maybe I like this part over here
34:07
like this. But so you're like even like when when clients were sent to
34:09
bring me, they'd be like, oh, I want my hair like this,
34:12
and I'd be like, well, I need the inspiration picture. So
34:15
that for me because I'm visual, right, So and two when it comes
34:17
to like hair things and colors and things like that, people see different things.
34:22
So I need to see what you're seeing so that then I can use
34:24
that to um craft together or bringing together what you like. But just using
34:32
this as an inspiration, right, And I tell them very clearly, this
34:37
is an inspiration picture. Yeah, this ain't my work. Even if it
34:39
was my work. Sometimes I can't duplicate. I'm not and I'm not going
34:44
to duplicate like something I've already done on somebody else, you know what I'm
34:47
saying, So we can inspire this. Look, you know you want to
34:51
be burnt one? Okay, great, what shade of burn I want?
34:53
Because they're doing shade. You know what I'm saying. But I think it's
34:58
it's it's dope to have inspirations. We just have to be careful not to
35:00
cross that line of comparison because I do that. I do that myself sometimes
35:06
when while you were just talking, I heard I heard this that we have
35:10
to change our goal? What does that mean? So when I look at
35:16
when I'm gonna comparing myself to the Tim Rosses and the David Shannons or whatever,
35:21
and I said, I'm never gonna get here. But they built their
35:23
platforms and they have a lot of followers. They get a lot of shares.
35:27
That's why they get a lot of you know, listens or whatever.
35:30
I'm not necessarily comparing myself right now to their followers. However, if I
35:37
was, then I would need to check myself. Right. I was comparing
35:44
myself to the quality right and not thinking that, Okay, these are prerecorded
35:51
podcasts. They had time to you know, take all these clips out.
35:57
They have a full team to do all this stuff. They're not managing their
36:00
own social media per se, and somebody's always on deck to assist him,
36:07
you know what I'm saying. So right now, they got that because they
36:16
got they got the team, but they built themselves, and so sometimes we
36:22
got to change our goal. Okay, what is my goal with my podcast
36:25
and my inspiration where inspiration I'm gonna take that. One thing I take from
36:30
Tim Brosse is that he's gonna apologically jet. He's unapologetically him, and he's
36:37
unapologetically Kingdom right. He's um. Whether they're talking about six where they're talking
36:45
about marriages, where they're talking about um, whether he's talking about the Bible
36:51
just strictly the Bible itself, he gonna give you him all right, and
36:58
he's going to He's okay with saying I don't know all right. Um.
37:05
One thing I like about David Shannon is that he reaches out. He reaches
37:07
He has a lot of gifts. I really enjoyed the fact that he gives
37:10
gifts the opportunity to shine, right. And he's brilliant, like he he
37:17
was working at not Chief but Chiefecake Factory, you know, like and so,
37:23
and what I do know tangibly, this ain't even about this, ain't
37:30
even about like what I think I know. I know I know this because
37:36
this is one of these people. Where was my coach? Is that he
37:39
brings people up with him when he sees something in you, he brings people
37:45
up with him. And I started to be like that, like I want
37:49
to do that. You want to hear an interesting random piece of information.
37:52
You know how I got intogit space. It's a conversation with David Shann's.
38:00
I had just joined. I had just joined. This is when before he
38:04
started podcasting, he was doing like a kind of like a mentor. He
38:08
had a mentorship program. I had just joined the mentorship program. And when
38:13
you joined, you get a one on one. So this is like August
38:16
twenty eighteen, right, and so you know we're talking. You know,
38:21
he's just trying to, you know, get a feel of who I am
38:23
or what I do. And so I started to tell him that, you
38:25
know, I've been in these I've been doing a salon sweet business. Right,
38:29
But I knew and I didn't know what this looked like. I just
38:31
knew. I always said I'm gonna do hair makeup and photography. Now I
38:35
wasn't even really I was shooting off and on, but I wasn't even shooting
38:37
professionally at this point, right, And so I had started I had been
38:42
in two salon sweet businesses with just doing hair, and at one point I
38:45
was actually renting an office that I had my photography stuff in. And so
38:50
at this point I actually started looking for commercial spaces. And so I had
38:53
reached out to the property management company at the time. It was an office
38:58
that was a little bit further down to pell him. And when he got
39:00
to ask me what I was gonna do, he actually the mister Ponder that
39:05
was his name, he recommended the space. He said, oh, maybe
39:07
this space is gonna work better because it's kind of a difference between like office
39:10
space versus like a retail space. You have a little bit more freedom and
39:13
flexibility of how you can use it. So we're having this conversation and I
39:17
tell him, you know, I'm telling them about the space, you know,
39:20
and I'm telling them what I'm paying right now and ranting for you know,
39:22
those salon suites are they're small. It was probably about I don't know
39:30
three when I was in it was like three hundred square feet or two or
39:34
something. It was small, but it was roughly almost twelve hundred dollars what
39:38
yes, And so you know, then I'm telling them that I found the
39:40
space, and you know how much the space rnting for and things I want
39:45
to do in this space that are down. He said, okay, yeah,
39:47
So what's keeping you from getting in space? I said, well,
39:54
I guess myself. And he said, oh, okay, where's your birthday?
40:00
I said, I'm totally living. You should be in anybody your birthday
40:06
And I said, wait, it's August. And he said, yeah,
40:08
what's what's really stopping you right now? And it was really nothing. And
40:12
when I tell you everything, once I made a decision. Once I decided,
40:16
okay, lord, this is what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna step
40:19
out. I'm gonna do this. Like when I tell you, everything was
40:21
so divinely lined up from like one of my clients, her husband, he's
40:27
he has his own submit business, but he him and hit some of his
40:30
contracting friends. They came in. It was all like it was literally already
40:35
set up like this. It was just all cosmetic things. But I needed
40:37
to I didn't have the funding to do so, so because you know,
40:40
I was smaller like and I didn't really need a whole lot, like a
40:45
lot of like the commercial loans I couldn't get. So my friend says,
40:49
hey, my friend, what about um um my home equit line of credit?
40:52
You know, I got my town home. I was like, oh,
40:54
I don't know if that is, but sure, let me research it.
40:55
So I go on line throughout the application. At this time, her
40:59
sister's working in the bank, the branch, and she tells the manager,
41:02
Hey, you know blah blah bah. Don't know what she told her,
41:05
but anyway, so I feel it out. One night, my friend asked
41:07
me if I heard anything back. I did. In that next morning,
41:10
I get an email, Hey, miss Greenwood, we got your application.
41:14
Blah blah blah blah blah. So I don't At this time, I don't
41:15
went to research like with this home equally line in the time. So it's
41:19
almost like it's a it's a second mortgage pretty much right, And it's almost
41:22
like you're closing on another mortgage. So you know that's at least three to
41:27
three weeks to four weeks, right, kid? You not? This was
41:30
this morning, That was that morning she said, hey, you know like
41:32
to send out the praiser, La la la la. Why buy twelve o'clock
41:37
in the same day. Like she was like, okay, we got you
41:39
approved. I was like, wait what no, I kid, you noted
41:44
the same day, the there same day, and they got in here.
41:50
They did work, you know, And my goal wasn't to actually, so
41:52
I signed the least on September one, um, and and they gave me
41:57
about a month or so to get ready. And my first day working in
42:00
here was gonna be November to fifth. Okay, So I had a little
42:05
as my birthday. My birthday came, I was, I had the space
42:07
about my birthday and um, the very first day that I could go to
42:12
work in here, I don't got no hot water. I'm still doing hair
42:15
now. I don't got no hot water. There's no hot water to wash
42:17
these people heads. Lord, how is this possible? I called. I
42:22
called mister Keith. I said, he to keep. I don't gonna know
42:22
how water. What what's up? He said, Oh, oh, don't
42:27
worry about it. I got you him his butter friends whoever. They brought
42:30
a whole something gallant that hot water take sent back down the back you see
42:35
how be that thing is. Huh. They brought it in, they had
42:37
to move it out of the bathroom, rewired and took all this old stuff
42:40
up and I paid them two hundred and fifty dollars. But at hot Water
42:44
he tame. So I'm in here because somebody challenged me to do something different.
42:50
Oh that's so good, And then I had to decide to do it.
42:54
You're speaking with you should you don't want to go? I'm good,
42:57
I'm saying. I mean, I know people that's watching on YouTube probably like
43:01
enjoying watching mind you at I know, but that's but that's just that's that,
43:07
that's just that's just his I've seen a little bit his journey in the
43:10
background, you know what I'm saying. So to see where he is now,
43:14
that's my inspiration. He was pouring then, yes, right, sleep
43:17
is for fuckers. Sleep is for suckers, Okay, suckers. And and
43:23
he and what's so interesting about him, He's like he just makes it so,
43:28
he bakes it feel like it's so simple, which it is. But
43:30
like he taught matter other city, he said, soul, what's holding you
43:36
up? It was me? And most of the time it just it's us
43:43
and the sightsiveness keeps us in Bundy. Unbelief keeps us feeling on the word
43:50
D. He definitely keeps us. And he had this informercial. I don't
43:54
say informercial, but it's commercial on Facebook right now where he say he just
44:00
walking with his phone talking saying, you know, promoting a class, like
44:04
a podcast class or something like that. Um, and he's like, hey,
44:08
I just I got my studio set up in my house. And I
44:13
was like, which is where he started, by the way. Yeah.
44:16
So it's like he's like, I'm not doing anything that you can't do,
44:21
like he just I know a lot of people say that, but I really
44:24
like he's believable. Like he's believable. That's why I'm taking my with in
44:30
Miami good. I don't I don't care, I um since here, I'm
44:37
just just I had um listened in on a m you know he was you
44:42
know how one of the models is the free webinars, right, Yeahbo does
44:45
the free webinars. And then at the end day, you know, he
44:49
was talking about his he was talking about the the Miami thing. What is
44:54
it the past? Yeah, but in the webinar though, I'm just listening
45:00
and he's just kind of talking about how you start the podcast and things of
45:02
this nature. So this is how I beat so in my mind about oh
45:06
I need I need this camera. I need I need this camera. I
45:09
need to get these pieces. Girl. Why he used this camera right here
45:13
for his morning meet up? You know what did he do a morning meetup?
45:15
He was like, yeah, you can use you know, such when
45:17
you use this and these for you know, um, for a certain pocket
45:22
for my mother meetups which he makes money off of because it's a monthly thing.
45:25
Right to use the camera right there. I already got the camera,
45:29
Jessica, and I'm trying to go you know, outside of what he's we
45:35
think people are doing so so so much. And he's like, use what's
45:40
in your hands, use what's saying your hands, and use what's in your
45:45
hands. And as you continue to progress, I can guarantee you he probably
45:49
he probably not always use the camera. He figured it out though. That's
45:52
where he started. Now he goes now, of course, now they got
45:54
some fancies. You know what I'm saying black for the sake of to me,
45:57
that a good quality. As we're talking about that, so the people
46:00
can see, oh, we're talking about this camera, like y'all can see.
46:07
So to me, this is fancy. But I think what's fancy because
46:12
I know learning from you is that you can have this is a base,
46:15
but this is the lens. Yeah, yea, And this is a canon
46:21
what that's an M fifty M fifty mark two, mark two And it's a
46:25
really good um content like for like content creators because it's it's like an entry
46:31
level mirror list camera. So you know, I don't know if you've been
46:35
here in the hype about oh the hype about like the mirror list cameras and
46:38
things, that this is a this is a consumer version of a mirror List
46:42
but it's really good quality. The base is amazing and you can get different
46:45
looks and change the quality of about the lens. All right, So we're
46:47
gonna stop talking so you can get paid for this information. Okay, all
46:52
right, So and our next question, I don't have no miss, I
46:55
don't have no saying my girl, my girl donna put on class and all
47:00
like you see how excited to so enjoy a little free till man just start
47:05
with you. And that's literally what the Lord said about That's why it was
47:07
important for me to start because I was trying to get all the big fancy
47:12
things I needed. I wanted to beat mics and the disiness. And the
47:15
day he said, when you got some mics, som just need you to
47:17
start, and then you start, and then this is literally what happened.
47:21
He's been showing me from pieces that I have, how to make them work
47:24
and how to elevate them, you know. So now I got the vision
47:29
in the plan of what I need, and some of the pieces they're just
47:30
coming. It's just a matter of little investment here and there. But it's
47:34
not like I have to go and invest in a whole, big system.
47:36
I was trying to get a whole like which I probably will at some point
47:39
were down the line, like a whole you know, mix and board kind
47:43
of thing, and we will you know what I'm saying, But to elevate
47:46
what we're already doing. I already got the pieces. I just needed to
47:50
start so that he can start to show, you know, and unveil some
47:52
things you need to put them together. Yeah that's good. Yeah, that's
47:55
good. So this is doing this the prep podcast actually help for you to
48:01
really enhance what you hadn't really been utilizing, Yeah, for sure, or
48:07
I think sometimes we don't realize what we already have. It's powerful that what
48:13
we already already have is powerful because listen, you think about it. We're
48:16
gonna we're gonna talk about this seed, the seed. Right, So let's
48:22
say it's a a palm tree. It's a palm tree seed, right,
48:29
So start with the seed. Well, in order for the palm tree to
48:31
grow, the seed ain't going outside itself to go look for the palm tree.
48:35
You take the seed and put it in the ground, and the palm
48:37
tree comes out of the sea, which means everything that's needed for the palm
48:42
tree to grow into to be the palm tree is already inside the seed.
48:45
So it's already he already he already put the little the little things. You
48:51
know, He's already given us all the ingredients on the inside that we need.
48:54
We just have to continue to go and allow him to water it.
49:00
Okay, y'all see y'all recording while she recorded how she recorded, record how
49:06
she recorded me recording? H because you should be on this couch were you're
49:08
talking too good? You should be on this couch. I'm Season three see
49:15
season three y'all, I'm gonna even giving you two episodes. Okay, bad
49:19
okay, so um we're gonn to too long. Two more so y'all depend
49:32
on um what happened? No? Okay, so listen, So tell me
49:44
about three. Three. Tell me about the three most influential people in your
49:50
life and how they have impacted you. WHOA, I don't have to think
49:58
about that. Well, it might be obvious the first lay. Just okay,
50:09
three influential people and how they've impacted you, how they've impacted me.
50:15
I'm gonna go ahead and stake the obvious. I mean, if you know
50:17
me, you know me. Um, first person, I'm gonna say it's
50:25
um, doctor DEFUNDI, doctor defund me. And I'm gonna look in this
50:30
camera and tell y'all about doctor defund me. So I met um coach d
50:37
I'll see, I gotta call a coach coach d uh and twenty twenty Yeah,
50:43
because it's in three years, y'all. I met her in twenty twenty
50:49
and I was doing a a conference that ended up being a retreat and really
50:58
the god really or damned out relationship like it was, it was a god
51:05
or damned lists. Just say that because I don't know if I would have
51:09
chosen to be stressed as much. I don't know it I would have chosen
51:15
to be stressed as much. And I didn't really think that, honest to
51:21
God, that I would be somebody that she that had her interests. Does
51:27
that make sense? So I thought so highly of her that I was,
51:32
you know, kind of belittling in myself. Well, what influenced me about
51:37
her is is that I'm able to see in three years, y'all, I've
51:40
been able to see her grow get you know, get these build businesses,
51:50
buildings, houses, and that's just tangible stuff. But I'm able to see
51:54
her live a king a real kingdom life like she kingdom for real, like
52:01
for real, like kingdom for real. And so why do I say that
52:05
she influenced me? Ever since she's been in my life, my life has
52:10
literally gone like there's a demand that she puts on my life, Like,
52:16
lady, you don't have to live this life, man, you don't have
52:21
to live this life, but you put a demand on my life like this.
52:24
So she's influenced me so greatly, just about her presence and just about
52:31
her being herself. You know what I'm saying? Like she's unapologetically herself and
52:37
she unapologized, unapologetically loves God. She unapologetically she's just fearless man like she
52:44
she just she just does it. She's the executor and so like I just
52:49
she's the total package for me. Yeah, like she she's a total package
52:52
for me. And um no, I don't say, I don't say it.
52:58
Um So, coach d the person. Okay. Second one would be
53:05
my aunt, my aunt untunt if y'all know T, y'all know T Pamela
53:15
Barry Johnson, it's her name Yellow Rabbit PR Marketing. So I told y'all
53:25
before that I had naturally devoted. I started this. You know, at
53:31
first it was a blog and it was just something I was gonna be,
53:35
you know, release or whatever. And then it became because of Auntie,
53:42
it became a magazine. And literally we said we sat on the floor.
53:50
Well I sat on the floor, she was on the hook. Ok clear,
53:55
literally Brainstorm a magazine that I never wanted. I never saw it for
54:01
myself. See, these two, like Coaching Auntie pam they have something in
54:08
coming, Like they saw things and they made me birth it out because I
54:13
never saw I never I never saw this for me. That's that's what you
54:16
said, divine connection and this vine connection happening to be on my and my
54:22
blood level. So that was the beautiful thing. Like everything I know creatively,
54:28
my aunt brought it out of me. She was the igniter like she
54:32
saw it, and she was like, UM, now I'm gonna train you
54:39
to do it and then I'm gonna take my hands off of it. She
54:43
literally trained me in one season and didn't give me warning that I would be
54:47
doing it by myself. I won't say by myself before myself the Knick season
54:52
next. She's given me opportunities to even um, you know, learn about
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social media and marketing. Um, just telling me to step out on faith.
55:02
It's just be She's very adamant about us not living in poverty. She's
55:13
very adamant about us building generational wealth. And she's like, hey, I
55:17
started it too late, but they don't mean that job I started late.
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She's the reason for me. Both me and my sister are finally like when
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she takes me or I called me and tell me she proud of me,
55:34
that means song, that means something because she actually invested, She actually invested
55:43
her time, even her finances things that she literally like my aunt is such
55:52
has such so much experience, and all that experience she has said, Okay,
55:58
I'm gonna share it with you. And so she's very influential to me,
56:02
Like I I'm grateful for her. So the last person I'm gonna say,
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I'm trying. I'm gonna try to not crycause I feel like I get
56:15
gonna get emotional and gonna get about titition. No, okay, I'm just
56:19
gonna take my time and say this last person, um my sister, mm
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hmm, I'm laughed before. I won't cry y out. Um yeah,
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every place, everyplace, Kindle. So Kilma's testimony so amazing. So the
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kindle now that TikTok and the Instagram and Facebook and her clients get to experience,
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I got to witness that growth. And Kendall went from not knowing what
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she was gonna do when she got pregnant with mine niece than Kilda was nineteen,
57:19
Kilda was twenty one something like that. She was she had she was
57:23
a sophomore in college, let's just say that. And Kilda went from not
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knowing what she was gonna do, y'all with her aspirations or dreams of goal.
57:42
She didn't. She went from not knowing what she was gonna do two
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years later having a thriving business. She got homes a line, She has
57:53
a family, a beautiful family, and she just when she makes a decision
58:00
to do something, she does it like that's so powerful. And I don't
58:06
think she realized how much her forward movement inspires me. Like my sister so
58:15
dope, but my sister is dope. And to have that, I name
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two people in my bloodline and that's to say that, say it's a lot
58:25
for me. I mean, that says a lot for my bloodline. Thank
58:29
you, oh, thank you God for giving me an influential bloodline, a
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bloodline I could look at and say, oh my gods, I can grow
58:37
from that. I can I can progress from that, I can prosper from
58:44
that. I can look at my own family, y'all. I can look
58:46
at my own bloodline and say say, there's greatness there. Everybody can't do
58:52
it. And so, yeah, Kimbo, she'll list the icing on the
59:00
cake for me. How um, how far party, y'all? Yeah,
59:05
I'm gonna see her next next season. Yeah, I only put a demand
59:08
on it because she's too great not to be on this couch or whatever we
59:13
decide. She might decide to change the city, y'all, don't don't look
59:16
for this thing. It might be something different because that's that's that's what she
59:21
might decide to do. But yeah, Kela is definitely gonna be all season
59:24
three. And she got to now because I'm you don't put that. I
59:29
didn't really kind of like put her own, but he did just and she
59:34
oiling. Like when I was talking about Past the Gates, she um and
59:44
how she's like she understands her position, but she also understand who she is.
59:47
That's my that's my sister. I love that. Like she's always been
59:55
like in my eyes, she might say something different confidence, and that's why
1:00:04
she was always like, you know, she was always appreciated. She's just
1:00:09
dope, man, Like, what's this is so dope? She's she's just
1:00:14
dope. That's beautiful. I think that's beautiful. And sometimes you know,
1:00:22
even in our own you know, struggles sometimes like you just never know who's
1:00:28
watching, you know what I'm saying, and how you just continue to say
1:00:31
yes even when you don't understand something, or even when things don't feel good.
1:00:38
Things don't look good. You just never know who's watching your journey and
1:00:43
how you are actually inspiring them to keep pushing along as well. You know
1:00:46
what I'm saying. Um, And that's the crazy thing. That's what this
1:00:52
journey is. Yeah, it's a it's a journey, and it's not even
1:00:55
for us. The journey ain't even for us. It's for but the name
1:01:00
for us in the same At the same time, you just get to living.
1:01:04
You just get to living. That's so good. You just get to
1:01:07
living. But this is good. Just yeah, I did it without corn.
1:01:10
He did. He did. No more question, Bill, This is
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the last one kind of I mean, this is we're just racking though,
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1:01:22
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1:01:25
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1:01:29
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I am okay, but YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, on tiptop you
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1:02:15
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1:02:28
We just gonna make it nine, y'all. I like to go to
1:02:30
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1:02:43
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1:02:45
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1:02:50
We'll see about this too. But yeah, you can find me on all
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