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DLHS Hour 2 | Men with city jobs not for high-value women · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: So this young lady is saying that these are the
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  Speaker 1: jobs you can't have if you want a high value
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  Speaker 1: woman like her. Now here's the thing. And I said
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  Speaker 1: this early in jazz, and you said you didn't agree
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  Speaker 1: with this. If I started out at a place like
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  Speaker 1: I was a warm up for the fresh Prince and
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  Speaker 1: other things, and I've had and somebody didn't want me then,
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  Speaker 1: but all of a sudden I became the iteration I
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  Speaker 1: am now, and they did they wouldn't They wouldn't be
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  Speaker 1: valuable to me, no.
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  Speaker 2: I and I agree with that.
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  Speaker 3: I think it is about I agree with you on
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  Speaker 3: that front.
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  Speaker 2: I met if.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't know you then, and I met you and
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  Speaker 3: you were already successful with something my fault. I didn't
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  Speaker 3: meet you and you were just a warm up on
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  Speaker 3: fresh Prince.
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  Speaker 1: But it it makes me, it makes me think. It
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  Speaker 1: makes me think, now, of course I'm charming, area that
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  Speaker 1: I'm sophisticated, I'm fly.
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  Speaker 3: I mean you are now.
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  Speaker 1: I mean then I would have been that anyway. I
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  Speaker 1: would have been that anyway. I would have been that anyway.
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  Speaker 1: But for me, like I talked about the diamond, a
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  Speaker 1: diamond is only as valuable as the market says it
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  Speaker 1: is a woman who makes me better is valuable to me.
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  Speaker 1: A woman who makes me aspirational is valuable to me.
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  Speaker 1: A woman with a big ass an eyelash is not
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  Speaker 1: as valuable to me.
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  Speaker 3: No to you, I was going to say, I think
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  Speaker 3: I think social media has really changed the definition for
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  Speaker 3: a lot of people, not for everyone, because you have
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  Speaker 3: there is a reason why these social media women who
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  Speaker 3: have all of the things that you spoke about millions
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  Speaker 3: of followers. That means someone is looking at them, and
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  Speaker 3: it's mostly men in terms of following and going to
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  Speaker 3: their only fans page and things like that. So there
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  Speaker 3: is a place for that that they have found success.
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  Speaker 3: What I am saying is I question anyone who wants
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  Speaker 3: to define what high value is if in fact you
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  Speaker 3: know this is your version of what you think equals
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  Speaker 3: high value to you. I don't think there's anything wrong
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  Speaker 3: with the person who gets a job. If you are
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  Speaker 3: willing to take care of your family and work any
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  Speaker 3: job to do so, in my mind, that's high value.
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  Speaker 1: Because we're talking of us, why raise in our generations? Generationally?
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  Speaker 1: We were raised by men and women who would do
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  Speaker 1: anything to take care of their families, anything, anything, and
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  Speaker 1: to me, if everything is about aesthetics, when your bottom drops,
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  Speaker 1: your bottom line will too.
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  Speaker 2: Baby girl, let me say that, this young lady is saying.
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  Speaker 1: That these are the jobs you can't have if you
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  Speaker 1: want a high value woman like her.
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  Speaker 2: Do you agree? I've said this.
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  Speaker 1: I have never seen a woman, not one ever in
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  Speaker 1: my life that didn't have something absolutely beautiful about her.
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  Speaker 1: Every time I've said that, You've heard me said that
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  Speaker 1: a myriad of times. But I can't tell how many
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  Speaker 1: women I've seen that were aesthetically beautiful and they do
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  Speaker 1: or say something that makes them instantly unattractive to me instantly.
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  Speaker 2: And I think like men, you know, can value a job.
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  Speaker 1: Or you know, a profession like you could be an athlete,
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  Speaker 1: for women that their value to you know, esthetics. Some
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  Speaker 1: people put esthetics in the same category where they can
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  Speaker 1: get you got a certain type of financial wherewithrow and
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  Speaker 1: on this side, you're probably.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna get these kind of men.
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  Speaker 1: And if you have physical aesthetics on the female side,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonn probably gonna get a lot of guys like that. Right,
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  Speaker 1: But the thing that you learn when you get older
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  Speaker 1: is that you value substance.
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  Speaker 2: And I know she's a very young woman. She's attractive.
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  Speaker 1: But when you start, because it's already hard to find
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  Speaker 1: anybody in this wide world that you can.
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  Speaker 2: Even feel like you can have a relationship with.
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  Speaker 1: But you start nailing her down with stuff like that,
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  Speaker 1: the pool gets even shallower, even shallower. Never in this thing,
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  Speaker 1: and she's I don't know how she's I was assuming
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  Speaker 1: she's pretty young.
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  Speaker 2: Never once she said I wanted to grow with somebody.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to you know, never want you to say
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to build something with somebody. What she's intimating
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  Speaker 1: that she wants to build and then she gets a
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  Speaker 1: piece of it as opposed.
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  Speaker 2: To being part of the journey. Yeah, I mean, that's
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  Speaker 2: just not that wouldn't that wouldn't be valuable to me.
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  Speaker 3: No, I mean, and I think you know, you go
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  Speaker 3: with what works for you me personally. I've said this
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  Speaker 3: a thousand times and I'm not shy about it. I'm
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  Speaker 3: not sorry for saying it. And that is I would
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  Speaker 3: I want a successful man. I am successful. I want
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  Speaker 3: a guy who is successful. I don't think there's anything
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  Speaker 3: wrong with that.
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  Speaker 2: I've paid my work and he works at in and out.
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  Speaker 2: What if he's successful and he works in it out. Well,
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  Speaker 2: what's his position at in and out? I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: But either way, because I don't know what his position
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  Speaker 2: is going to be when we're out.
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  Speaker 3: If I want to go on vacation, what's going to
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  Speaker 3: be his position there?
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  Speaker 2: I don't like that, But I mean, I just believe
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  Speaker 2: in equality.
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  Speaker 4: I do.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, and obviously I don't. I'm not talking about
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  Speaker 3: equality and juillers in terms of I'm saying that what
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  Speaker 3: I bring to the table, and you you say this
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  Speaker 3: a lot, You just say it in different ways, and
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  Speaker 3: that is you don't play with people who don't have
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  Speaker 3: anything to lose.
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  Speaker 2: You say that all the.
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  Speaker 1: SidD What I say is what I say is people
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  Speaker 1: with stuff to lose cannot hang out with people who
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  Speaker 1: don't have stuff to lose.
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  Speaker 2: Yes see, who don't have what I have to lose,
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  Speaker 2: will lose your stuff for you.
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  Speaker 3: All day long, every time, every time.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, this young lady is saying that these are the
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  Speaker 1: jobs you can't.
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  Speaker 2: Have if you want a high value woman like her.
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  Speaker 2: Do you agree? We go right to the phones.
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  Speaker 5: I just wanted to say, I think it's pretty sad
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  Speaker 5: that we as a people, or just us as a generation,
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  Speaker 5: can put our morals and values mainly on a job.
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  Speaker 5: You know, I'm a state worker and I feel like
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  Speaker 5: I'm paying that for the femail that made that comment.
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  Speaker 5: I'm probably paying for her EBT car. So to say
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  Speaker 5: something about high value and to equate that to your careers,
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  Speaker 5: it doesn't even go hand in hand. And that just
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  Speaker 5: lets us see how small our mindsets are becoming.
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  Speaker 6: Social media has got this young lady delusional. I don't
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  Speaker 6: know what you think of high value man either, she
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  Speaker 6: ever seen one, but work in construction, a police officer, fireman.
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  Speaker 6: Those are honorable jobs. I don't know what she's looking for.
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  Speaker 6: I guess she's looking for a drug dealer, because that
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  Speaker 6: makes sense to me.
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  Speaker 2: Uh, I never got to you. You were chomping at the bit.
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  Speaker 2: What do you think?
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  Speaker 4: First of all, I'm getting tired of people. Uh, you
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  Speaker 4: can't say I don't want to go to cheesecake factory,
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to date a policeman. And you sitting
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  Speaker 4: there with a fashion over a team moved dress on.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I can't you know the.
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  Speaker 2: Fact that you know, Team it.
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  Speaker 4: Pops up on my.
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  Speaker 7: Stuff real cheap, you know, take a step or two below.
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  Speaker 2: Stuff you get They got everything on it past the
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  Speaker 2: first class curtain.
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  Speaker 3: I know that.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just saying they're conversations. I'm not priving they got everything.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, like you said, man, people go on.
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  Speaker 2: I know, I don't know. Wish I did.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you start off as a copy you might be
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  Speaker 4: a detective. You might run the department. If it's all over.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, but I mean, I understand, but just any
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  Speaker 4: hard work, I don't care.
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  Speaker 2: Help me understand, man, I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I understand man or woman. If you are hard working,
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  Speaker 4: honest and you putting it in man, okay, I mean
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  Speaker 4: you're putting it in.
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  Speaker 2: You can.
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  Speaker 1: Most police department environment are recring college education, right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and a lot of and a lot of a
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  Speaker 2: lot of mrinicipalities. Yeah right, we're kring college education.
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  Speaker 1: So you went to school to learn most most upper
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  Speaker 1: management is requiring some level of experience and it isn't.
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  Speaker 2: The funniest thing is.
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  Speaker 4: You can't own a wingstop unless you work there first.
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  Speaker 4: So you can get in with the money. They put
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  Speaker 4: you in a program and put you behind that fire,
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  Speaker 4: and you gotta work there before you start.
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  Speaker 2: You' you know what's interesting?
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  Speaker 5: Right?
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  Speaker 2: Uh?
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  Speaker 1: And Jasmin can attest to this There is a guy
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  Speaker 1: who when I go to the airport, there's a guy.
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  Speaker 2: He used to work for a airport balet.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So you would pull up, they would take your car,
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  Speaker 1: drop you off, and then when you call to get them,
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  Speaker 1: they would bring your car back to you.
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  Speaker 2: Right, you had to call them, get it right, Jabs,
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  Speaker 2: you remember this guy. That's right?
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  Speaker 1: Of course, this guy was a ballet draw. Now this
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  Speaker 1: guy said, you know what, not only am I gonna
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  Speaker 1: do that, I'm gonna get a grie and I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Get an app.
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  Speaker 1: When you call and call me five minutes before you
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  Speaker 1: come in, you drop your car off. You just I'll
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  Speaker 1: meet you at the terminal and when you get there,
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  Speaker 1: I keep track of your flight. When you get back,
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  Speaker 1: I drop your car right to you without you ever asking.
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  Speaker 1: That guy was a VLA guy. Now that business that
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  Speaker 1: he started, he is killing it now. Everybody uses him.
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  Speaker 2: Now. If he ran across a woman like that who
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  Speaker 2: wanted him, Now, why would I want you now? And
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  Speaker 2: I already did?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, But I think the keyword here is why would
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  Speaker 3: I want you now? So that means that you knew
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  Speaker 3: them when they were just a valet driver. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: even adding that into the mix. This chick isn't either.
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  Speaker 3: She's just basically saying, from this point forward, this is
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  Speaker 3: all I want. This is what if you have a
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  Speaker 3: you didn't love me when I had.
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  Speaker 1: A red vest, you didn't like my red vest, you
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  Speaker 1: won't be getting red bottles out of me.
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  Speaker 2: I know, I didn't know you were getting a woman.
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  Speaker 2: Young lady says this.
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  Speaker 8: Any fast food restaurant, anything in retail, Okay, I don't
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  Speaker 8: want to see no grown ass man handing me address
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  Speaker 8: like guys, give it up.
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  Speaker 2: And for you men that think that it's.
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  Speaker 8: High value to work for the let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 2: You're absolutely wrong, all right.
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  Speaker 8: No police officers, no firefighters, no construction workers, no mailman,
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  Speaker 8: no post office. If you consider that a high value man,
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  Speaker 8: you're absolutely wrong.
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  Speaker 2: Stop it, all right? What do you think we're going
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  Speaker 2: through the phones?
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  Speaker 9: Well, I think anybody like herself, no thoughts. She was
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  Speaker 9: there indigent anyway. I worked from the post office for
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  Speaker 9: a three years, well over one hundred and fifty thousand dollars,
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  Speaker 9: so I know what she looks for her opinion, Echelona laxaby,
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  Speaker 9: but she probably don't deserve it anyway.
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  Speaker 10: I am a little insulted. So I'm with a police
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  Speaker 10: officer and I am cherished. I am treated like a queen.
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  Speaker 10: He is a three year veteran, so he makes well
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  Speaker 10: over two hundred thousand dollars a year. And it's always
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  Speaker 10: the woman with no man that tells us who we
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  Speaker 10: shouldn't date. And I mean, can we appreciate men who
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  Speaker 10: go out and work and take care of their family.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, it sounds like a gold bigger than me. I
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  Speaker 11: want to know what she's bringing to the table, and
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  Speaker 11: one makes her think that work at the post office anywhere,
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  Speaker 11: there's another quality of a man. She needs to put
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  Speaker 11: a look in for the quality of men and what
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  Speaker 11: the man's making on her.
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  Speaker 4: What does she work well?
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  Speaker 11: Anyway? I don't know about the other ones.
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  Speaker 6: With the post office.
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  Speaker 11: God gets retired from there.
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  Speaker 5: And it's a couple of guys who's betting ready to retire,
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  Speaker 5: several of them millionaires.
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  Speaker 3: That's a fact.
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  Speaker 11: I've seen it.
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  Speaker 9: I've seen it, they think it.
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  Speaker 2: So she judge a book five cover, she'll miss out.
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  Speaker 11: So I got two good friends that are firefighters and
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  Speaker 11: both of them are millionaires, So I don't know what
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  Speaker 11: she talks about. Like I said, both of them are millionaires,
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  Speaker 11: I mean, and both of them are still firefighters, both
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  Speaker 11: of them living mansions. I know him personally.
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  Speaker 1: So that boy Tracy had let us know with life
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  Speaker 1: like an HBCU with my life on the yard.
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  Speaker 2: From my seat, I love my spec I love my
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  Speaker 2: head SPC. What's good, y'all?
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  Speaker 12: That for stray that game with another episode of my
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  Speaker 12: life on the art. And so I look at HBC
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  Speaker 12: like man coming off of graduation just has a young
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  Speaker 12: brother feeling very good.
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  Speaker 7: That's just the best way I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 12: Put it, because if I say anything else, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 12: sound like a superficial selfish ass because like damn the
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  Speaker 12: pockets of bread and right now, oh my god, these
• 11:42
  Speaker 12: grab gips have done me amazing boom.
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  Speaker 7: All the relatives have can come in clutch, like.
• 11:49
  Speaker 12: Overly clutch, like I wake up to a new notification
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  Speaker 12: every day. Black blank said one hundred to your zel,
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  Speaker 12: one hundred and fifty to your zel, two hundred to
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  Speaker 12: your zel.
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  Speaker 7: Fine une into yourself.
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  Speaker 12: Oh my god, your boy is feeling amazing.
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  Speaker 13: What the crazy part about it, though, is I'm not
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  Speaker 13: even spending crazy like how I thought I would be.
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  Speaker 7: One. I asked some bread like this in my account.
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  Speaker 7: Like I'm just like I'm.
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  Speaker 12: Feeling overly calm and I see that big number, and
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  Speaker 12: I just kind of wanted to stay that way, like
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  Speaker 12: I want to generate some lawyer.
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  Speaker 13: Like I'm talking to one of my homemies who's like,
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  Speaker 13: you know, big into economics and Wall Street all that,
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  Speaker 13: and I'm gonna get with him and help a young
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  Speaker 13: brother getting his investment stuff up.
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  Speaker 7: I need to, you know, double this money. I need
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  Speaker 7: to make it grow so I.
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  Speaker 12: Can spend it, or it needs to be spent for
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  Speaker 12: real and still have some left over like a smart
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  Speaker 12: young brother.
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  Speaker 7: I am like, I've already dipped in a little bit.
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  Speaker 7: I got some tattoos yesterday, so that's some of that
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  Speaker 7: money going somewhere. But it was just a dent in
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  Speaker 7: it too, Like it wasn't even that much.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, man, I can still ball with this,
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  Speaker 2: a little lawyer.
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  Speaker 13: I hate to say it, though some relatives have been
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  Speaker 13: slacking on the brad gifts.
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  Speaker 4: D LL.
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  Speaker 7: I have yet to receive jack from you, not even.
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  Speaker 13: An a proud of you nephew, happy grand It's just
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  Speaker 13: extra icing on top of the cake that you're like
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  Speaker 13: the richest relative I have no bread is in my account.
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  Speaker 7: Damn, I'm really feeling the love on. But nah, it's cool.
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  Speaker 7: I know it's all gonna come from everybody in due time.
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  Speaker 13: There's a lot of time in these next few weeks before.
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  Speaker 7: I start feeling disrespected.
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  Speaker 13: Anyways, That's all I got for you all today till
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  Speaker 13: next time.
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  Speaker 7: This has been that boy, tray. This has been my
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  Speaker 7: life on the yard and inside.
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  Speaker 2: Look at HBC like he graduated. That's an ungrateful little
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  Speaker 2: such grateful. Ain't even use my apartment.
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: Been a dinner? You gonna use my apartment in New York?
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: Whatever's he done?
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  Speaker 2: You know all them steak dinners? Man, come man, come on,
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  Speaker 2: you ungrateful ass.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so I'll take I'll take you out the dinner
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  Speaker 1: tonight and look at you just begrudgingly.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, not not you're graduating. Yeah, we'll make
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  Speaker 2: him pay for the till there. Yeah, okay, yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think Trey's going to be
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  Speaker 2: doing any of that anytime.
• 14:29
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