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Will Joins From The Super Bowl & The Boys Talk Through Some Recent Drama on X | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 2: Just now hearing about it, I swear my brain short
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  Speaker 2: Come on, good, good pole. I just a dip in
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  Speaker 2: will because this was a really great question, and it
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  Speaker 2: comes from our reddit. This is like a fastball right
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  Speaker 2: down the middle as far as a Will Compton question goes.
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  Speaker 3: I hope my brain's operating right now.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you brother, you got this one. This comes from
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  Speaker 2: CPA Ginger on Reddit titled crib Transition. Hello, fellow PT sixers.
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  Speaker 2: Have a one year old who has unfortunately slept in
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  Speaker 2: our bed for the past few months and will not
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  Speaker 2: let us put him down into his crib without screaming
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  Speaker 2: his head off. He has never used a passy, and
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  Speaker 2: when he is asleep generally sleeps through the night. We
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  Speaker 2: never had issue with our first child with this issue.
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  Speaker 2: What suggestions do y'all have or book recommendations. I know
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  Speaker 2: the boys have too that they recommend, but I feel
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  Speaker 2: like that's more geared towards the early days.
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  Speaker 3: What's the fastball down the middle.
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  Speaker 2: That the twelve hours by twelve weeks? Well, I know
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  Speaker 2: the Mom's on call book does longer than just like
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  Speaker 2: it would cover the first year essentially.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, just because when you when you read that
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  Speaker 1: like we didn't do any We didn't do any any
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  Speaker 1: of the co sleeping. And I'm not saying that co
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  Speaker 1: sleeping is a bad thing by any means, I know
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  Speaker 1: what happens.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of people do it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but I personally, we don't have. I don't
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  Speaker 1: have that's not in my jurisdiction. So and when he says,
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  Speaker 1: I know you recommended a couple books, but it seems
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  Speaker 1: like those are more for the early stages. So I'm thinking, well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he's right. In my brain, I would say it's more
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  Speaker 1: for the early, but I don't know, like is the
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  Speaker 1: baby three months old or four months old right now?
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  Speaker 1: I would say you can get to whatever the starting
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  Speaker 1: phase of the sleep training is and start trying to
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  Speaker 1: incorporate that from the book. But again, that is that
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  Speaker 1: is ali out of wally one shall jurisdiction.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe there's some dads in the shatter and the comments that.
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  Speaker 1: Could throw a book recommendation out there, for if you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to go from you know, co sleeping with your
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  Speaker 1: child to them transitioning them into the crib.
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  Speaker 3: There's probably a lot of good literature out there on it.
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  Speaker 2: And I could be mistaken, but I do believe that
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  Speaker 2: the Mom's on Call book goes to maybe even a
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  Speaker 2: full year. So if it is a one year old,
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  Speaker 2: which is what they're saying, on here, check that out.
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  Speaker 2: As far as it gives like a good it goes
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  Speaker 2: by like months, so it'll be like four to six months,
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  Speaker 2: and then you know six to nine months increases, so
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  Speaker 2: check that out. I did short circuit yet again in
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  Speaker 2: I need to drink more lollipop and wake up a
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  Speaker 2: little bit, and didn't realize it was twelve hours by
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  Speaker 2: twelve weeks. So the keep off on that book would.
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  Speaker 1: If this child, if this young child is one year
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  Speaker 1: old already, I'm thinking, yeah, I would have to google
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  Speaker 1: a couple of times see what books.
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  Speaker 3: Are out there. That's all. That's all being chat Willie C.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, one hey, one year. I mean they were like
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  Speaker 2: what twelve weeks old?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's say good reminder for the new dads tuned in.
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  Speaker 3: We are not experts by any means. We love to
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  Speaker 3: talk about our experiences in paradhood.
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  Speaker 1: Bust some balls talk dads talking the milk Team sixers, which,
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  Speaker 1: by the way, these are in store, right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yes they are, and they look so good.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just at the rock beat because these are slick. Bro.
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  Speaker 2: It looked nice when you were at the media day yesterday,
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  Speaker 2: then yeah, looked filthy.
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  Speaker 4: Did you get any comments?
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  Speaker 3: Will?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, gotta come, just like walking by, walking the past
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  Speaker 1: and hey, what's that?
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  Speaker 3: What's that hat? Say? Oh? Milk Team six?
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  Speaker 2: Oh what's that about?
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  Speaker 3: Oh? Well, you gotta kid, you got a kid? You
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  Speaker 3: pumping your own Milk Team six? Dude, I have speaking
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  Speaker 3: of dead life, I.
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  Speaker 1: Have a dude, it's I missed the family right now.
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  Speaker 1: It was hard for your boy to leave for San Francisco, not.
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  Speaker 3: Like hard is like the powers out. There's a lot
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  Speaker 3: of chaos going on.
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  Speaker 1: I know there's times where you're like you feel like
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  Speaker 1: you've just been on fumes and you got a trip
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  Speaker 1: coming up, or a work trip or something, and you
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  Speaker 1: see it as like, Okay, this will be a breath
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  Speaker 1: of fresh air or it'll be nice to get out, YadA, YadA, YadA.
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  Speaker 1: But being in San Francisco, we're going essentially all week,
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  Speaker 1: so Monday through I think we get back Saturday. And
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  Speaker 1: as it was coming up, I tell Rue on Sunday
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  Speaker 1: because Charles Charlie was operating Bar three at the time,
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  Speaker 1: So I am just rocking with Scott in Rue. Scotty's
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  Speaker 1: down for nat Rue and I are kind of hanging out,
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  Speaker 1: so I feel like, Okay, I'm going.
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  Speaker 3: To start setting I'm going to start anchoring Rue the
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  Speaker 3: hey Dada is going to be gone.
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  Speaker 2: And literally cut out as he said gone that that
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  Speaker 2: could have been maybe it was a sign more perfectly timed.
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  Speaker 2: So while we're waiting to get Will back.
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  Speaker 4: It's a good time to do that song. We practice,
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  Speaker 4: It is.
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  Speaker 2: A good time to do that song. We practice and practice. Well,
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  Speaker 2: we didn't, we didn't have a song. But what I
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  Speaker 2: will say while we're still waiting for Will is what
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  Speaker 2: he's about to talk about with Rue is one of
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  Speaker 2: my biggest fears as far as development with Scarlett of
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  Speaker 2: like when she starts to become.
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  Speaker 5: Wait, do you think he knows that he's cut out?
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  Speaker 4: No, he's still talking.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, Like do you think he knows that he's cut
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  Speaker 2: out from the pot?
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  Speaker 6: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: There he goes, there he goes.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, while we while we still are getting him back,
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  Speaker 2: like Scarlett basically getting to the age where she realizes that, oh,
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  Speaker 2: Dad's leaving. Like I think it was both Taylor Will
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  Speaker 2: and then we had somebody on Busting with the Boys
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  Speaker 2: where they were like, is Daddy going on an airplane?
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  Speaker 4: Luke, Yeah, he's righted up a couple of times.
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  Speaker 3: Can you guys hear me?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: Oh boys, I'm sorry. No, you're fine, you you said.
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  Speaker 2: Rue was saying that, dad, dads, are you going to
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  Speaker 2: be gone?
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  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, sorry, I think the the WiFi ran out
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  Speaker 1: of the twenty four hours. I think I logged on yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: At this time, my twenty four hours was up. So
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  Speaker 1: then I just reconnected it to the Wi fi. But
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  Speaker 1: Wi Fi WILLI we are back online?
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  Speaker 2: That's hilarious.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm starting name to Ruin for dead ad leaving.
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  Speaker 1: I say, hey, sweetheart, I just want to let you
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  Speaker 1: know that is going to be that has got to
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  Speaker 1: go on a work trip.
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  Speaker 3: That is going to fall on an airplane. I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to San Francisco, and.
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  Speaker 1: That has got to do stuff for football, and that's
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  Speaker 1: going to be going for five sleeps.
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  Speaker 3: So she was like, oh no, why you got to
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  Speaker 3: be gone?
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  Speaker 1: I was like, well, Dada has to do work. So
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  Speaker 1: we're kind of talking about the work stuff. Why do
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  Speaker 1: you have to go do that? You know, I forget
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  Speaker 1: how she says San Francisco. But it was absolutely adorable.
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  Speaker 1: And later that day, Charles doing bedtime with Scotti and
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  Speaker 1: Rue's up there giving her hot kiss, three squeezes, giving
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  Speaker 1: her the whole good night routine to Scotti. Rue starts
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  Speaker 1: walking downstairs and I see room. I'm like sitting, I'm
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  Speaker 1: sitting in the chair in the living room. I look up,
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  Speaker 1: I see room and she seems sad. And I was like, hey, sweetheart,
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  Speaker 1: what's going on? Why do you look sad? And she's
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  Speaker 1: like walking down the last couple of steps. She hits
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  Speaker 1: the floor and she looks at me and she's like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want data to go bye bye, and just
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  Speaker 1: starts crying as she starts to pick it up and
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  Speaker 1: jog over towards me.
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  Speaker 3: She starts crying and weeping. I pick her.
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  Speaker 1: Up and I'm like holding her. I'm holding her on
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  Speaker 1: my chest. So I'm just kind of sitting in the
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  Speaker 1: chair like while she cries. Yeah, just let her know
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  Speaker 1: that it's it's gonna be okay. Like he's five sleeps
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  Speaker 1: that us and videos and pictures and.
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  Speaker 3: You know, we'll talk every day.
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  Speaker 1: And dude, in my heart was breaking sitting there holding
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  Speaker 1: her as she cried, not wanting dad to.
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  Speaker 3: Leave for leave for San Francisco, and she was like.
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  Speaker 2: She ran into your arms, correct, like she didn't fall
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  Speaker 2: ye crying.
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  Speaker 3: No, Yeah, she didn't fall on the floor. She like
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  Speaker 3: started the.
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  Speaker 1: Jog over to I was like, oh, come here, come,
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  Speaker 1: come sit with dad. Then she kind of starts running
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  Speaker 1: over to me. I pick her up, and dude, it
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  Speaker 1: was the saddest thing, bro. As she's crying. After about
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  Speaker 1: forty five seconds of her sitting there crying on my chest,
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  Speaker 1: mid Cry, mid Cry has some kind of like you know, stroking.
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  Speaker 3: Her hair and on the back and rubbing her back,
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  Speaker 3: she hits me.
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  Speaker 1: With a can I have a cookie?
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  Speaker 3: Bro?
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  Speaker 2: She's learning learning.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sweet. Out of course you can have a cookie.
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  Speaker 1: But in that story, I found a little uh dad
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  Speaker 1: hack like while I am trying to make her feel
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  Speaker 1: better with everything, and I was like, here's what we
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  Speaker 1: can do.
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  Speaker 3: Do you want to hear what we can do while
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  Speaker 3: dead has gone? And she was like yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, we should go into my closet and
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  Speaker 1: you can pick out a shirt or something of dead
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  Speaker 1: as in his closet and you can basically essentially treat
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  Speaker 1: it like a stuffed animal. Yeah, to where whenever Dad
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  Speaker 1: has going or you get sad or you're doing bedtime,
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  Speaker 1: like you can just lay with dead ass shirt. You
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  Speaker 1: can cry and you can be sad, you can be happy,
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  Speaker 1: whatever you want to use it for. But we can
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  Speaker 1: go pick out a shirt from Dada's closet and then
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  Speaker 1: you can have that shirt.
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  Speaker 3: You can walk around with this shirt all week long
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  Speaker 3: if you want to. I was like, would that make
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  Speaker 3: you feel better?
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  Speaker 1: And she was like yeah, she nods her head yes,
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  Speaker 1: and we walk in my closet pick out a sweatshirt,
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  Speaker 1: the girl Dad sweatshirt. I'm telling her what girl dad means,
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  Speaker 1: like girl, that's like a call to you. That girl
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  Speaker 1: is for rue girl dad dad, that's dad dad. She's
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  Speaker 1: fired up about it. She sleeps with it that night
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  Speaker 1: next to me, and Charles like, as we do a
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  Speaker 1: sleepover that night because I'm like, hey, let's do a
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  Speaker 1: sleepover and I'll wake you.
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  Speaker 3: Up when I leave in the morning because I had
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  Speaker 3: to wake up like four in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll give you a kiss, three squeezes, all of it,
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  Speaker 1: and do you just do your best.
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  Speaker 3: You do your best because you get like heartbroken that
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  Speaker 3: you have to leave.
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  Speaker 1: Even when I left, Charli texted me like when I
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  Speaker 1: took off of the flight and I'm like, I miss
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  Speaker 1: you guys already, And She's like the minute you left,
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  Speaker 1: Rue started weeping again, and she was just crying. And
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  Speaker 1: then Charles sent me a chain of a chain of texts.
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  Speaker 1: I'll read them to you guys. Let's see here. It's
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  Speaker 1: been a couple of days, so we've texted quite a.
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  Speaker 3: Bit the let me see. Okay, here it is, she said.
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  Speaker 1: Rue started weeping much as soon as you shut the door,
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  Speaker 1: so I've tried tried calming her for a while.
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  Speaker 3: So I tried to try calming her for a while.
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  Speaker 3: She kept crying.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, let's talk about what we love about
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  Speaker 1: da Dad and what we'll do all week while he's gone,
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  Speaker 1: and then also what we'll do when he gets back,
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  Speaker 1: and she said of course.
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  Speaker 3: She held me to it. We had to go back
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  Speaker 3: and forth, over and over, talking.
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  Speaker 1: About what we love about you, then what we'll do
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  Speaker 1: when you get when you are, what we'll do when
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  Speaker 1: you're gone, and then finally what we'll do when you're back.
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  Speaker 1: And then she says, this morning she wanted to sing
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  Speaker 1: about you. She's like, let's sing about Dad Dad, and
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  Speaker 1: Charles like she goes. I was like, uh okay, and
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  Speaker 1: then Charles says, like, you know, the little asterisk starts
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  Speaker 1: singing yeah, and then she's like, then she tells me,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not singing right.
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  Speaker 3: Of course you're not doing it right. You're sing correctly.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing will send the three year old sideways when you
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: just don't get the words to a song right.
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, Dad, I love that. No,
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: you're not singing it right, Dad.
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: That's the greatest.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: But in that story, dad hack the sweatshirt or T
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: shirt when you're gone, because she's like cudding with them, like, oh,
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: is this smell like?
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: Dad?
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: Dad?
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: She's like nod in her head. Yes, she has no clue.
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: I don't think so.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: Any maybe she does, but dad hack, use a T shirt,
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: use a sweatshirt on Badad's gone?
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: Dude. There's nothing that has brought tears in my eyes
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: more than when Jill hit me with a similar statement
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: of I was being very down on myself. This was
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: very early in Scarlett's life, like first month maybe, and
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: I just felt like I wasn't doing a good job
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: stepping up to the plate. This was probably around the
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: raccoon ladder incident.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the old raccoon, the old.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: Raccoon ladder incident. And I'm going through my frustrations. I'm like,
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: I just feel like such a bad dad. And Jill
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: kind of had like tears in her eyes, but she
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: wasn't crying, and she was like, I just want you
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: to know you're not a bad dad. I Scarlett and
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: I talk about how much we love you all the
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: time when you're not home and how much we miss you,
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: and what a great dad you are, and like the
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: thought of that conversation being carried out without me there
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: is crazy, right crazy, And the fact that real can
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: bring that up, like it's not even mom bringing that
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: up now. It was like, okay, Mom, now you have
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: to say something you love about that.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: As they just sit there, lay in bed, char I
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: was like, God, I wish we could just fall back
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: and see it's four thirty in the morning.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I forgot it was thirty porrrow.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: Oh man, how do you want to? Uh what were
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: you gonna ask?
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: How would the FaceTime spen? Have you been facetiming?
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Really, I've only been able to do a couple because again,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: like today's Tuesday as we're recording, left Monday morning again,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: our flight was at six thirty in the morning. Yeah,
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: landed in uh San Francisco at like nine thirty I
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: had to from the airport, drive right over to the
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: Pro Bowl, do all the Pro Bowl activities till about
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: one two o'clock, and then came and checked in the hotel.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Then we had to drive a get credential drive an
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: hour out to Super Bowl Media days.
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: That's when we did all the media day.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Stuff until about seven o'clock, six thirty or seven o'clock. Yeah,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: drove an hour back to the hotel and sat down
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: at probably at eight thirty or nine, shot the intro
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: for the podcast to do you know, get ready for
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: the interview with Vrabel the next day. Got done here
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: at the hotel at like ten o'clock at night, which.
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: It's midnight now back at home.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: So we were just we were on the move all
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: day long and then again three point thirty eight, im
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: wake up call this morning to drive an hour. Like
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: we're just we're an hour away from it feels like everything.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: I felt.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: We're like in the financial district at San Francisco. Yeah,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: it feels like we're in the mix, but it seems
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: like everything is like an hour away and does.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Really have the capability of like if she wind a
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: FaceTime dat ad, does she know how to get onto
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Charro's almost called your church are good Lord, Charles phone
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: and call data.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: No, she would need Troy to do it. Yeah, she
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: would need to try to do it.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: That's that's the one thing that makes me laugh over
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: hearing Taylor sometimes of like his his girls will just
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: call him and yeah.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: They'll have nothing to say, yeah, hey that I just
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: want to sit and just want to sit and hang
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: on the phone.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: Will just be staring down there.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: It's like she'll have the I bed and it'll just
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: be like it'll just be like this as she's like
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: looking down at me. I mean, hi, Brussell, how was
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: your day good? Or she'd just be like that's where
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: you know, the camera's just doing this the whole time,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: and then she'll want to do she'd want to put
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: it down and do an activity.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: Dad, Dad, watch me, watch me draw, And it'll just
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: be like this and I'll be pretending to watch you draw.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: It just the Jill's cousin has a son that does
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: the same thing on FaceTime Shout out Easton and he
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: just has the heaviest toddler breathing, which just makes it
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: it's funnier. That's anything that you just did with the camera,
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: and then it's just.
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: Like so sweet was your day?
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: Good?
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: Hey, dad, that watched me jaw, Oh my gosh, that
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: looks so good.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: It's like everything is just the best, like taking the
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: breath out of him, which, yeah, Scarlett's sorry to do
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: that when she drinks water. Dude, it makes me giggle.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Dude, just dude, is it not so funny.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: She's just sitting there sucking on that straw And after
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: she gets done, it's like, I'm like, yeah, that was
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: a big that's a big step.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: Then they'll have it and then they'll go right back
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: to the bag and just get right back to it. Dude,
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: Hey do you mane?
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you got it? Do it?
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: Do it?
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: We want to do some new dad comments. I got
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: some new dat comments.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: Here, dude, let's do it.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: I got one from our good friend Marlon Morris on Spotify.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: He said, p T six ers new dad here. Name
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: my son after me, but nicknamed him Gator. He's fifteen
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: days old. Do he keep the nickname as he gets
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: into school or transition him into his rightful namesake, which
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: would be Marlon. Also, my wife didn't touch a diaper
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: for the first ten days. Good Marlin Senior.
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: I love Gator. Can you get that nickname like Gator?
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: What is it is? It's uh the other guys Gater
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: don't play Gator. Yeah, Geter, don't take no shit. Whose
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: baby's that? Gater?
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Caater's bitches be wearing Jimmy's.
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Gator's bitches better be wearing Jimmy's. Oh, Getter never
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: been about that. I never have a bit about that great,
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: great comedy.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I got one here from my Ryan Sanita Sure Papa
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Team six member OG listener, first time contributor. I want
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: to shout out Ryan jeff Jeffries, Jeff Reds. Jeffries don't
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: know rising through the ranks and getting promoted to Papa
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Team six.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: I believe he also has a dad lost a moment
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: he may be entering. Thank you for all you boys do.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: Shout out Ryan Jeffrey or Ryan Jeff Reds.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, shout out either one.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: Dude.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Welcome to Papa Team six, the best dad community in
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: all the sports right now.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: Yes, sir bro. Also, also, I have to take it
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: back to Marlin really quick with the wild stray through
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: his wife at the end when it's feeling confident. Dude. Also,
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: my wife didn't touch a diaper for the first ten days.
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: Good good. What do I get Merrior change, I'll change
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: Gator the.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: Gator Ray in Rockney on Spotify, I said. First time listener,
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: first time commenter, first time dad. Love the pod adding
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: it to my rotation. Just found out yesterday my wife
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: and I are having a baby girl in August. Congratulations Aiden.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: What advice would you have for someone who grew up
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: in an all boy household as the biggest shell shock
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: of now being outnumbered?
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Buddy, this is the ball, that's the wheelhouse right here.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the boys, Welcome to the show. Willie c
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: oldest of there were three of us boys. My mom
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: had a lot of boy energy too. It felt like
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: she just knew how to operate with the men around
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: the house or the young boys around the house.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: Dude, just brace yourself.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Man. Yeah, having a girl, it's one of those things
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: like you just feel clueless because again, you grew up
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: in a household where you're.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: One of the brothers, or you're one of a few.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Brothers, whatever whatever number it was, and you're gonna be
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: way softer than you think.
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: You think.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: He might be a little tough, he might be a
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: little hard. No, she's gonna break you down. She's gonna
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: be wrapped around your finger. You're gonna be such You're
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: going to unlock a side of sweetheartness that you've never
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: understood or imagined.
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: That you could have.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: And it's honestly, it is the greatest thing in the world.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: I could not agree with you more. And something that
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: I find myself saying more and more to Jill is
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: how happy I am that we have a daughter, or
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: that we have a daughter and I do not have
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: a son. Obviously, I don't know what that's like. I
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: grew up similar to will a household boys, a lot
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: of boy energy. There's just my brother and I and
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: so far, so good with being out numbered, and I'm
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: I'm honestly kind of looking forward to the you know,
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: being the dad that makes a joke and it's like dad,
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: what are we doing? Like yeah, you fall dad. That
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: sometimes is a little awkward. And I'm already seeing the
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: riding on the wall with all the ribbons and all
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: the outfits, and if a boy is in the future,
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: I would be very very happy. But I like, weirdly,
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: it was a shell shock for a couple of seconds,
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: but then I just kind of sat nicely into my
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: job as being the man of the house. I guess
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, do not feel alone.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: That was honestly a conversation that I would have with
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: myself all the time. It's like, man, am I going
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: to have any clue what to do with the girl?
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Because again I haven't known, I don't have a sister,
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: I don't none of it. Again, we talk about we
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: quote Dan Gable every week like we were like.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: A wrestling football. We were all sports.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Like it was a boy household through and through, and
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: so I had all the same fears.
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: When a girl was coming into my world. The only
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: things I like, I would stop and hit pause on.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Unfortunately my wife we were kind of eye to eye
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: with it. But anything with like.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: That's like like, oh.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: Man, I was about to say too girly, and now
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking of room dressing and princess dresses all the time,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: but like the dolls are anything that seems like it's
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: like too pink.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: At first, I don't know, I.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Don't know what it was, but it's like, you know,
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: we need we need to molder some way with some grit.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: I say grit right now, thinking that Queen ELSI is
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: the number one princess or queen in her mind. But
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: you think all of these sayings, you think where you
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: might be a little resistant.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna know how to you know, change the diaper.
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: It looks a little bit like I'm just I'm not
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: in the.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: World of being around like women I do. I wasn't
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: around women like that when I grew up. But it
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: is it's one where you are, you are stoked to
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: be a girl dad. And it's come from a guy
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: who would love to have some offspring, love would.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Love to have somebody carry be the heir to the throne.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: And it's like if it never happens, I just think
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: about the two little girls that I have and how
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: I'm just absolutely obsessed with them.
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: And there's also a part of.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Me too because I love to get all dad's feedback
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: or parent feedback really from the dads where they have
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: both a boy and a girl. Because any any dad
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: that I talk to and they say that they have
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: a girl on the way, or they just had a
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: girl recently, or they are currently have a girl, Like
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: my first question is how much is daughter number one
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: in your eyes? And the answer across the board is
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: always yes, like the girl is. It's like the opposites attracting,
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: Like the girl becomes your favorite thing in life.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: Period.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: That makes all the sense in the world. And to
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: make him feel at ease, our friend the asked how
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: I put the card away? Sorry, I think it was aiden,
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: but aiden to make you feel at ease, I by
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: no means have mastered being a girl dad. Like, I
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: know that this is a continuation of being out of
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: my element for the rest of my life. But there
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: it's just like this weird, comfortable feeling that you kind
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: of have about it. I don't know if that makes sense.
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: Like it was the right thing for your life.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like yeah, like I have no idea what the
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: future is going to look like as far as being
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: a girl dad, and but like I'm just so excited
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: for it. And dude, Scarlett's hair is just sprouting like
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: a weed right now, like truly to the point where
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: the daycare people that see her every other day each
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: time I come in, they're like, her hair, it's wild.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I know it is, like it's the cutest
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: thing in the entire world, but it infuriates me because
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: I'm like, you're growing, like stop growing.
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: I know, dude, there was a.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Here, I got a I'm gonna shout out another new
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: dad here on Spotify. Drew Underscore Williamson wife, He and
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: I welcomed our firstborn Emmy Kate to the world today.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Was rocking the PT six Operation Grill and Grill and
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: Chill shirt the entire time. Mama crushed it and when
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: twelve hours from start to finish, thank you boys for
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: the pod. Yeah, and looking forward to up in the
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: PT six merch and joining the girl Dad gang. By
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: the way, all the Papa Team six for the Dad's
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: merch that is on BWTV dot com. So if you're
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: looking at yourself in the Poppa Team six permanently in
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: the unit BWTV dot com, that's where you get the
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: PT six merch.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: But what I was going to say.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Right here too, new baby girl. So Drew Williamson, he's
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: a he's a girl dad as well. So all the
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: fellow girl dad's out there.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: I was, I forget.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: We're at a restaurant and a gentleman was was observing
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: the fan. We're kind of like having fun, like Scotty's
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: being a menace, you know, Rue, I'm sitting there talking
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: with rue. I started talking to this gentleman and he's like,
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: both girls, Like you just have two girls.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, girl, Day's like, I got a couple.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: Of girls too, but they're they're long, they're they're much older,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: like they're out of the house now. And uh, I
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: just asked this veteran PT sixer. I was like, hey,
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: just cut it to me straight. I say, how long
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: do I have with my girls before I am you know,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: before they start not liking me? And he's like he
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: looked over at me, got a little smirk on his
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: face and he says, you got about eleven years. You
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: got about eleven years, man.
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: And I llowed.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: I go, oh man, we can't even get to thirteen.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: We can't even get to the teenage years. He said,
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: it was eleven for me, eleven for me. They hate
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: your guts, they.
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: Don't want nothing to do with you.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: And then as he tells me, it's like again the
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: noise gets quieter. I'm just looking at ruined Scotty and
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I'm like, how do these little human beings that they
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: love mom and dad right now, we love them, how
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: do they get to eleven or how do they get
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: to an age, were these two little things that are
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: obsessed with me.
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: Right now they just stop wanting anything to do with me.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: And then, but thankfully, like the light at the end
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: of the tunnel for me is the comments that we've
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: gotten from int six ers that are, like, my dad
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: is my best friend. I talked to them every day,
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: you know, blah blah blah. Like there's a I feel
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: like there's a point in a girl's life where then
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: dad is cool again and we're coming back to dad.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: But it's a different kind of relationship. It's like a
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: different condo.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: You bring up a good you bring up a good
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: point here too, and I would love again Milk Team six,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: Oh love an empty six or that's out there right
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: now listen because we know.
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: It's it's hormones and things happening with the body. Dada, YadA, YadA.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if they can break down certain stages, please forr
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: us PT six girl dead fathers out there on why
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: it happens. Is there anything that we can look out for,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: try to do you.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: Know what I mean, to try to pump the ball, keep.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: Kicking the can down the road, or try to have
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: as less friction as possible.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: And hey, I'm okay with you hate me. Is there
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: steps that I can take where you will hate me less?
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: That's all?
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, looking for kind of throw a theory out there.
• 31:56
  Speaker 5: Perhaps when it comes back around and all of a sudden,
• 31:58
  Speaker 5: it's no longer like I hate dad. It's no longer
• 32:01
  Speaker 5: that dad is cool or not. It doesn't matter if
• 32:05
  Speaker 5: Dad or cool or not. He's just dad.
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: Does that make sense?
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Like it stops becoming so important like oh, you're
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: so uncool.
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: It's like, oh you're you're my father.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: And then yeah, and I love you and you help
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: guide me.
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: I can you got any crushes at school? You know
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Then you get these combos and they
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: ain't gonna want to tell you nothing.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Man.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: By the way, I just I just got a picture
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: from the daycare. They're putting all the kiddos and these
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: are all one and a half and younger in Scarlet's class, yea,
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: And they put them in this uh stroller that's like
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: a six seater, so it's like two three rows of two.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: Scarlet's in the front and they put him next to
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: the only boy in the class. And the daycare has
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: a messaging system that they could have very easily reached
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: out to me and been like, hey, okay if we partner.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: Scarlet up at the front seat next to the only
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: boy in the class. I was like, what's going on here?
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: Hey? What are we doing in your mind? Sending me
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: a screenshot of his ID?
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Let's go ahead and get his parents info too.
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah kind of milk? What kind of milk is he drinking?
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: You're looking at the picture? What's going on? What's going
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: on with his face?
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: What's going on with that?
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, always he in there. Yeah, he looks like
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: he's mad at her? What's he mad at her?
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: But it's already it's already starting. It's already starting. And
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: Scarlett looked like she was having way too much fun
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: with them in the front row.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, here we go, dude, I'll shout this
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: book out.
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: I'll shut this book out again. But strong Father, Strong Daughters.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of some of these breakdowns to what
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: you know, the ladies that your girls are going through,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: like when they're getting through high school and the stuff
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: that they deal with.
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: It is a.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Fascinating, eye opening, mind opening read that I strongly recommend
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: to any girl that out there. But I would also
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: love the perspective from just an empty six route right
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: out there right now that's listening to you know what,
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Let me let me put the fingers to the keyboard
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: for these boys, give them some game a little bit.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, while we're speaking to the empty sixers, I did
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: have a thought the other day and this isn't so
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: much a challenge as more so it would just be unreal.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: Our pt siko community has blessed us enough and grace
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: us enough with these photos of them, you know, carrying
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: out like those Duna strollers after they've had their first
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: boor and they're wearing our PT six merch. Yeah, bro,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: a Milk Team sixer in the hospital with the empty
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: six hat on post delivery and of course ready for
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: the camera, you.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: Know, empty six this one.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like, oh no I received one yet, I'm saying.
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: Oh, he's telling me that we were Oh.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Dude, okay, yeah, yeah, you're talking about like the one
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: we read twelve hours start to finish, grinding it out.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: She's got twelve hours and she's walking the Milk Team six.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: That is a sick Oh dude, that's a sick.
• 35:21
  Speaker 6: Oh.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: I'm envisioning, uh beat these exert dad out there. They're
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: about to go into labor, and he just, hey, I
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: know you asked me if there's anything that I wanted
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: to do with the with the with the birth plan
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: or anything.
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: All I got. He just he's got his he off.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: He just pulls out. He's like, can you wear this?
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: Why you deliver?
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: He's coming out, He's on the leg.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: Put that on, get this. Just let me get the picture.
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: Let me get the picture right now, Willie, what's so?
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: Look at us? Good?
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: I just yeah, I just gotta tweet the boys. That's
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: he just tweeted.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: I actually got a wifey shout out right here from
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: Colin Krigger on Spotify. Colin Krigger, I'm sure that was
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: a fun name growing up. Fellas love the pod and
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: never miss aesode. Just wanted to hop on here and
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: say shout out to my beautiful empty sicko of a
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: wife with the emoji dash oh empty sicco of a wife,
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: Mikayla as it's her birthday on the fourth of February
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: right now it is third, so when this drops, hey,
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: happy birth birthday, Mickayla.
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: Ps.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: No free shout outs, but love but the love to
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: dream sleep Sack is the best and it makes your
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: baby look like a flying squirrel.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: Whoa hold the phone, Love.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: Hold the phone, little dad hack in there with the
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: wifey shout out to Michayla.
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Nayla, Hey love to dream sleepsack. We gotta
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: we gotta pull up an image of that in the pod.
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: Oh that is cute and it does look like a
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: flying squirreld. That's a perfect description, dude. We have a
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: really awesome shout out as well. This one came to
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: us from Instagram. This came from Jake Perfurio. Uh. He
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: wrote to us and said, what's up, boys, just wanted
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: to share my crack a cold one. He's got to
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: crack a cold one. My sweet baby girl. Frankie, who
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: was born with clubfoot, finally graduated to boot and Bar
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: and could not be more proud of you boys who
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: inspired me to be a good father. Keep it up
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: hashtag PT six And he provided this adorable photo.
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: Feed at two in the email right now and shout
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: out to you, Jake. That is that is awesome.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Frank for you, Frankie, I know you can't hear so
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: understand this right now, but Frankie, we love you.
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: We are far enough for you.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: We love you, girl. I love the I love the bow.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: I love the little pink padding that she has for
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: the boots.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, adorable. How do you just not smile?
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: Oh dude, seeing that little cute photo, she's so stoked. Yeah,
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: with a little certification right next to.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: Her in the heart over the eye too.
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's awesome. Man. Shout out Frankie, Shout out Jake,
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: shout out the family.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: Willie see not to rush us through, but speaking, I
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: got to keep it under an hour. Speaking of crack
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: of cold ones, do you have a crack of cold one?
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: Sir?
• 38:39
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• 38:41
  Speaker 1: My crack a cold one. I look, I'm going to
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: keep it a buck. My crack of cold one is
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: just going to my wife. I know it is shitty
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: that I am out of the house all week long
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: for five nights when the power is out.
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: Power still out, were still running on the generator. Thank god.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Power got brought back to Paddock Place, one of her
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: bar three studios.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: Good but again new house. She's her and the girls.
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: She does get it help in the daytime.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: But I know how strenuous and stressful it is when
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: you know whether it's any foot like whether mom's out
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: of town or just your spouse, your partner in crime
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: is out for an entire week for a work thing.
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: I know that sucks. I know it is like it's
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: like a what can you do? Situation?
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: Because you know you're one you want your other to
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: go do their thing and work and have fun. And
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: she hopes I'm having the best time right now, but
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: I know that she's just she's trying to wear all
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: the hats at home, and I know that sucks, and
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I know that's hard, and I've had little to no
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: complaining on my phone, but so my shutout goes to
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: my wife, Charles. I. I just know she's holding it
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: down right now. I just know she's in a gutter with.
• 40:00
  Speaker 7: Some of it being mom, being the owner of a business,
• 40:05
  Speaker 7: being you know, the parent for Rue, the parent for Scottie,
• 40:08
  Speaker 7: the needs of both of them, dinner, bedtime, changing diapers,
• 40:13
  Speaker 7: picking up.
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: The house, organizing that, organizing the house. Hey, there's a
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: yellow back light happening right now with the generator.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: What does that mean? Going and checking the oil? Like
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: just doing all the things being a certified badass. I
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: know it sucks and it's not ideal. So that is
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: where my crack of cole One goes. It goes to
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: my wife, Charro, and I know what we got. I
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: think across the hall in the other suite where we're
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: doing busting with the boys, I saw I saw a
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: case of Chris Bapple in there. So I need to
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: get my paws on.
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: Say hey, yo, they sent Ollipop to San Francisco.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: Yes, a big bag, big bag with a lot of variety.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: Come on, I saw Chris Bapple sitting there at the top.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: It was looking at me in the face last night.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: Come on, A huge shout out to Charo. There is
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: nothing more impressive than seeing your partner operate like that,
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: and there's nothing more. I don't think humbling is the
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: right word, but like it's you're so thankful.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because again, when when you're gone for periods of time,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: like as a parent, there is guilt that just kind.
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: Of sits on you. Yes, because you know, like I'm.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: Out here in San Francisco, I know, from from far
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: away in the cold weather in Nashville where there's still
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: like stuff going on and everything else happening.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: You see the photos, the videos.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: We're out doing stuff around the Super Bowl, like one
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: of the most popular events in the world right here
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: in the sunshine.
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: You're seeing all the photos. I'm sure there's some not
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: like intentional.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: Resentment, but you probably should probably watched it from afar, Like, well,
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: at least Will's having fun. Yeah, and it's not like
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: a comment she brings to any energy when we get
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: on the phone. I'm just assuming that some of these
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: things probably go on as a parent.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. It that honestly bleeds right into my crack, a
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: cold one, like the being a good teammate. I came
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: home the other night and Jill pre she meal preps
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: for Scarlet, who is starting solids. I come home last
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: night with Scarlet and Jill's it was her ten o'clock
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: shift that she does every other Monday, and I open
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: up the fridge and there are no pre made meals.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: And I'm about to start calling Jill, texting her asking
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: her what do I do while she's at work, And
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: I just start telling myself internally, be a good teammate,
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: Be a good teammate, like step up, we got a
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: problem solve. Where are we doing All of our groceries
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: from the week before we had to throw them out
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: and now We did go visit Costco, but we didn't
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: get like the fruits and veggies at Costco. We're still
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: a little weak in that department. So I'm shopping through
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: all of our drawers. I find one apple and I
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: was like, hey, Scarlet's done apple sauce with mom. You know,
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: I skin it, I'll chop it, I'll put some water
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: and blend it. That's apple sauce.
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: Will be good.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, you got it, some apple sauce because apple.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: Sauce going And I uh, I get it all done,
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: and Jill goes, hey, what'd you end up feeding Scarlet,
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: probably remembering oh, I didn't pre make anything. And I
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: was like, oh, she's loving the apple sauce. And her
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: first replies, just where did you get that, knowing we
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: had no apple sauce, And I was like, I made it.
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: Dad has made it. And I got a look at
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: Dad as with the eyes of eye emoji, and I.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: Was like, yeahbuddy, let's go dudeyh buddy.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: But the real krack of cole one in that situation
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: then goes to the absolute domination that my daughter performed
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: on the bowl of said apple sauce. Scarlet destroyed it. Dude,
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: like she she's truly starting to like consume the food.
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: And when I scoop it, the mouth is already. First off,
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: she does a little and then the mouth gut. She's ready.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: You play with her a little bit to where it's
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: close and you kind of pull it away.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, and then she starts grabbing and she's like,
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: this is a this is not a game.
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I want my apple, but yeah, my.
• 44:19
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• 44:58
  Speaker 5: Willie see, oh, chef, I've got a question for you.
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: I meant to ask this while we're on the topic
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: of like sacrifice and everything else. I saw a tweet
• 45:08
  Speaker 5: from you responding to the situation with the Minnesota Vikings
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: GM talking about how he took paternity leave. Oh yeah,
• 45:16
  Speaker 5: a really profound statement on that, and I wanted you
• 45:19
  Speaker 5: to talk about, like.
• 45:22
  Speaker 4: Give yourself a little cup.
• 45:23
  Speaker 5: You got flack for it, which kind of caught me
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: off guard on Twitter, talking about like the amount of
• 45:28
  Speaker 5: sacrifice it takes to be an NFL player play at
• 45:31
  Speaker 5: high level of any professional sport, and I thought that
• 45:33
  Speaker 5: was just super interesting if you wanted to kind of
• 45:35
  Speaker 5: touch on it.
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: What, yeah, let me let me.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: Answer by asking you a question first, because there's there's
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: just it's so nuanced and there's different angles to go
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: about it. Like when I'm responding to that tweet that
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: went out, it's almost like a shell shock or a
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: you know, morality police is trying to partake and like, hey,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: we should judge this like this says more about the
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: ENFL culture than it does, you know, it says a
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: lot about you know, the culture of the NFL, which
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: is catches people off guard.
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: And my take was more of like.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: My take was more from the angle of this is
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: the business of the NFL, Like I don't envy.
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: Coaches, gms, even now since I've had kids and became
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: a dad.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Fortunately, after I'm done playing, I think to myself, knowing
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: like what we pour into our kiddos, knowing how involved
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I get to be, how attached I am to them,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: I think myself, Man, it's got to be so hard
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: for you know, dads that are in the NFL profession,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: because that world.
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: You have to prioritize that world.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Essentially, if you're looking at hours put in, you have
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: to prioritize your.
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: Work in the NFL more than you do your family.
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: And that's just like the way it is, like people
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: are going back.
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: And forth saying, you know, he was granted paternity leave
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: for two weeks. They were completely okay with it, so
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: he should be afforded to have that luxury. Well, you
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: have that luxury until you have a bad season. So
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: the fact that he's having a bad season and then
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: he gets fired probably for much bigger reasons than paternity leave.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: But knowing those conversations happen inside the building and now
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: they're getting leaked to the public, it's not surprising to
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: me because that is essentially it's honorable and admirable. All
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: the sacrifices that everybody makes you know to play, to
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: play and participate in the NFL because it's big business.
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: It's all performance, it's all about winning.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: And you got guys who you do nothing but identify
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: with the NFL logo essentially your entire life because you
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: identify with playing football. Because I had another I had
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: somebody come after me, and I'm like, you know, being
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: becoming a father after playing. In retrospect, I'm now happy
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: that I look back and I'm now glad that I
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: didn't have.
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: Kids while I was playing. Because you're so wrapped.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: Up in your own world, in your own game, you
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: gotta remember you got to think. And I'm not trying
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: to put it as hey the NFL, playing in the NFL,
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: it's the biggest sacrifice out there in the world.
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying any of that. I'm just trying to
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: tell people.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: That this is none of it is surprising to me
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: that this is how stuff goes down because that is
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: the world of the NFL.
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: Like just to.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: Remind people, like when you are when you do nothing
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: but play football, since for myself it was second grade,
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: so I did nothing but identify with.
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: Any time it is hey, what is your dream job?
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: What do you want your dream job to be when
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: you grow up?
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: In grade school, whenever I'm answering that question for like,
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: you know, what's your future, what do you want when
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: you grow up? What do you want to be when
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: you grow up? It was always NFL player, not password.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: But like when they ask you what's your dream job
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: on you know, if I had it on any of
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: my accounts, it would be NFL player. Like I identified with
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: football my entire life. So when I get scholarship ball
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: first coming out of high school, there's a sensu They
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: get so wrapped up in it to where you have
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: to You're making all these decisions based around yourself. I
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: need to go to the best school. I can't worry
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: about this. I can't worry about my family or people
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: asking for tickets. I got to keep the main thing
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: the main thing at all times because I'm trying to
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: become a professional football player.
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: Then you finally become a professional football player.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: In our brains and how we've operated essentially our entire
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: life to get to this point is the entire world
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: is about us and about our dream and about what
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: we want to do. And any football player, anybody in
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: that profession who has a family or has a wife
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: that wife. That's why you have guys like Joe Brady
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: up there, and again, massive fan of Joe Brady.
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: But it's like, I just.
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: Don't envy being in that spot because I just now
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: that I've tasted this other side of it, now that
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: i have kids in a family.
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: And I'm out of the football world.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: Right now, I'm just like, man, it has got to
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: be so hard to where the entire world is still
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: around him being, you know, chasing this goal, this dream
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: to win a championship, when mom has just got to
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: essentially sacrifice everything all around this their partner because they're
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: off chasing their dream, chasing their goal. Because you know,
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: as a dad, how much work it is at home
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: when you're at home with the kiddos with your partner,
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: or when they're out of town and you're taking care
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: of them solo. Then I'm reminding myself, like, yo, this
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: is every day for these moms that have to stay
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: at home and we're off doing practice or you know,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: you might come home and have an Oh, dude, sweetheart,
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: it was a long day. Coach got in my ass.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: I have to watch film for tomorrow. You have your
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: little few minutes with the kids to check in with
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: your kiddos. But then it's like, you know, hey, can
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: somebody else put them to sleep, or hey, I'll do bedtime.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: But the minute I do bedtime, I got to get
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: back to studying because I go to get ready for
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: the next day tomorrow.
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: Then the next day tomorrow, you're out of the house
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: before wake.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: Up time even happens for everybody else, and you're going
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: all day long. But in that cycle, that is just
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: you don't know any different. That's why I said, it's like,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: it's hard to explain I'm not able to have this
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: perspective now on it unless I got out of it.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: Because when we had Rue, when year ten was happening,
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: the whole Falcons going off to the Falcons, and when
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: I was.
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: Going to sign with Atlanta, Rue was about seven or
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: eight weeks old, and a part of me struggled wanting
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: to go to Atlanta when I knew my heart wasn't
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: all the way in on wanting to play football anymore.
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: I was just doing it to get that tenth year.
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: Hey, I'm on, I'm playing with house money now, so
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: why not finish out this dream that I've always had
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: my wife.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: Is super supportive of it. But part of me was like, man,
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: that kind of sucks.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: That I have to leave and go to Atlanta and
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: I'm going to stay in Atlanta solo, because that's another thing.
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: Some of these guys that are on one year deals,
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: they just go to the city and they're living in
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: the city while the family stays back at home at
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: ground zero year or where the family's gonna be, or
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: where the kids go to school or where they're used
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: to their everyday life. They're just gonna go travel to
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: the city of football for six seven months out of
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: the year.
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: And that's just how it's gonna be because you guys
• 52:10
  Speaker 3: have just agreed upon it. Hey, this is how we're
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: going to do things.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: But I was going to be in Atlanta the last
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: let's call it seven weeks.
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: It's gonna be Atlanta in the last seven weeks. But
• 52:20
  Speaker 3: part of me is like.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: Sad, and also, damn it sucks for my wife that
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: she's going to be solo dolo with Rue and I'm
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: just gonna be playing football the rest of the year,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: doing this thing and just checking in and everything else.
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: Like it's just super hard.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: I know, I said, what angle do you want me
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: to go on if we're on a complete tangent in.
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: Rant right, there is. It's just it's very nuanced. It's
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: hard to explain.
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: I'm not surprised that there's internal disagreement with that GM
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: leaving for two weeks in the middle of training camp because.
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: You are the leader.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: Trickles from GM down the head coach, staff, players, everything else,
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: and you might get afforded to miss a game or
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: miss a day of practice to go see the birth
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: of your child.
• 53:09
  Speaker 3: And be there with them that day. Maybe you get
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: an extra day.
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: It all depends what you can afford based on how
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: essentially valuable you are to that organization.
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: Does that make sense?
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of sense. Thank you for the part
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: that I think would be easy or like easier for
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: the people on Twitter, like the general public that just
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: like attacked your opinion essentially on being like, hey, this
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: is just the way the NFL is. And I am
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: not comparing the NFL to serving overseas in the military
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: or like working on right an oil rig, you know,
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: out in Midland, but like those are universal truths that
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: of like if I'm going to serve in the military,
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: if I'm going to be abroad, like I will most
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: likely miss a funeral, I will most likely miss the
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: birth of my child. If I'm working on an oil
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: rig out in Midland to make that money and afford
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: opportunities for my family, I will be four weeks on
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: in one week off. And that's just the way she goes.
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: And so it's like with the NFL, whether you like
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: it or not, it's just kind of the way she goes.
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: That's just the universal truth of the NFL.
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: You know it in that world too. It's what you
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: sign up for to participate in. Yeah, like that's like
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: that is that game. I'm not saying I agree with
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: that game. Yeah, I'm just all of these different variables.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: I understand the head coaches and the players that you
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: know they give all the love to their wife when
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: they do have that moment in the spotlight or on
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: the podium, because you know, sitting back, I'm like, it
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: doesn't feel like the flex he probably thinks it is
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: now that I'm sitting on this side of it. Again,
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: that's where it comes from. I just don't envy that.
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: It's honestly, outside of having the bust with the boys
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: and podcasting. But if I didn't have podcasting, like coaching
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: would be what I wanted to do. Coaching was what
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: I wanted to do, But now that I have a family,
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: it's more of like, dude, if I want to get
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: into coaching in football in the NFL, college doesn't matter.
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: It's such a it's an ego thing to where I
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: am anybody who enters it. I'm not saying I'm many
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: different than.
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: Anybody else, but your competitive nature. What it takes to
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: be great in that industry is total fully fully committing
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: yourself to winning a championship.
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: You don't go in half ass, you don't.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: Do any of that, and to do so, you have
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: to put in insane hours because you never feel like
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: the hay is in the barn. Yeah, so I always
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: it's like when those moments do come up and you've
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: got coach McDonald talking about how you practice gets done
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: sooner on Thursday so you can get home and spend
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: thirty to thirty minutes with the sun. And there's some
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: guys who are able to rework the strategy at times.
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: Like that is awesome.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: The more time you can spend time with your family,
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: I think that is unbelievable. The GM who got fired
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: him taking two weeks. I'm all about.
• 56:11
  Speaker 3: Him being able to do that.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: But then when you start losing, you're like, that's a
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: crazy move because a party who's always going to sit
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: there and like, hey, these are the hours that I'm
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: going to work in the moment you feel behind the
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: competition or anybody else, And then the story comes out
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: about their greatness and how much their success is that
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: they give flowers to the work that they put in
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: around the clock. This that the other part of you
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: is like, I've got to beat that, dude, because you're
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: so wrapped up in the ego of it to where
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: I know I would get lost in that sauce if
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: I was in the coaching world. Yeah, and if you're
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: getting in it, it depends on what the head coach wants,
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: like does he want you does he expect you there
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: all the time like an available There's several coaches at
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: their Bruce Arians, but Poline he was always like, hey,
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: if you ever missed this and that on the weekends
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: when we don't have a game, like I'll you know, I'll.
• 56:55
  Speaker 3: Fire you, or you should not do that. You need
• 56:56
  Speaker 3: to be at all this stuff.
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: You can with your family it's just a world where
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: you have to fully sacrifice everything for winning a championship,
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: just like in the military you have to sacrifice everything
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: for your country.
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: If you have a business, any business.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: Owner out there, anybody in like a startup career, anything
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: to where they are obsessed with their career. They're obsessed
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: with their career and they want to be the best.
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: There's going to be certain things you have to do
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: selfishly to.
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: Get to that level.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: It's going to be sacrificed away from family time because hey,
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: I'm operating a business. I have twenty employees right now.
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: I haven't been able to delegate anything or bring in
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: the CEO. I'm running everything at all. I have to
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: be at the shop. I have to do X, Y
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: and Z. I got to be on the calls and
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: make sales. I have to do all these things because
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: that's what puts food on the table for the family.
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: And you hope that one day you get successful enough,
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: or achieve enough, or acquire enough wealth to where then
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: you can delegate and have a team around you so
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: that way you have the freedom to spend all the
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: time in the world with their family. Because any sick
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: of successful person that you admire. When they get closer
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: to their deathbed or they reflect on their life, the
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: one thing that they.
• 58:05
  Speaker 3: Always talk about is they wish they spent more time
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: with their family.
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: That's true.
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, it's all of these things where I'm
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: just always thinking about it. I'm conscious about it, and
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: the whole NFL thing when people were kind of shocked
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: that that was maybe a part of him being fired
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: or shocked that hey, people in the building were kind
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: of like shitting on this idea that he was going
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: for two weeks.
• 58:27
  Speaker 3: It's like not any surprising at all, Like that is
• 58:29
  Speaker 3: the nature of the Beasts.
• 58:30
  Speaker 2: If you're going to sign up to play that game
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: you were, do you add some gravity to it? You
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: were brought to tears when Taylor attended your mother's funeral
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: of like what, like what a huge decision that was
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: by Taylor, And like what what that not only meant
• 58:49
  Speaker 2: to you, but what that also what he means? Did
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: what you mean to him? Sorry?
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because they had a Thursday night game and I
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: want to say Taylor might have been out with a
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: back or a.
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: Knee or something like that.
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: Then he asked Ray's blessing, like, hey, can I fly
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: to Missouri, miss a couple of days and spend a
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: couple of days for Will, with Will and his family
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: when my mom passed away. So yeah, you know when
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: when I saw Walcane, like you just know what that
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: what that takes, It's like, thank God he's good enough
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: of a player to have that luxury of missing that,
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like if you're if you're
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: a first year n drafted guy and you make the
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: team and you're all out of the fifty three guys
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: on the roster, you might be rated forty through fifty three.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: Nobody at forty through fifty three is making a decision
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: like that. I can't leave the building now. I'm not
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: gonna leave two days to go see my child being born,
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: Like this is my dream, this.
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: Is my first year. I can't. I can't afford it.
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: But if it's a cat like you got Taylor, maybe
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: it's JJ Watt, some of these superstars and they would
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: have missed a couple of days they have, they're able
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: to afford it because they ain't gonna nothing's gonna happen
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: to them.
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: They won't kind of get side.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: I like, dude, this dude that's ranked thirty eighth right
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: now on our football team is taken off because he
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: needs to go be with the his family. Like clearly
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want it bad enough. That's just that's the
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: nature of the culture in a profession like the NFL.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: Well, and Chef, I mean, it's funny, like the double
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 2: edged sword that is the public opinion on stuff like this,
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: and Chef will probably know the answer to this. But
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: somebody recently just won the US Open on the same
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: day that their son was born, Oh chors, and he
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: was like, I gotta get the hell out of here.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: I gotta go meet my son. And it's nobody's sitting
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: there going, hey, dude, what the heck are you doing
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 2: playing in this tournament? You just missed the birth of
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: your son. Like what a pos dad.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 5: As urban Meyer once said, I'll treat my superstars like
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 5: superstars and my shit like shit.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: I think that's the quote.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: Well, there you go, there you go.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: And everybody knows this game, like it's not surprising to me,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: like when I am seeing the negative comments about it
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: or people like, oh, thanks for telling us, you're a
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: piece of shit. Dad, Oh this is a guy that's
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: a girl dead by the way, or he has a
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: dad podcast.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like you ain't gonna sit there and make everybody happy.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 3: I'm more so telling you like this. That was my
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 3: experience seeing it all in the NFL.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: And even when I'm like, hey, thankfully I became a
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: dead after the fact, in retrospect, I'm happy didn't happen.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: Somebody was like, oh, so you're telling us you would
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: have been a piece of shit father. Then like, you're
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: still probably pretty much the same, And I'm just thinking
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: to myself, in what world is that like when I
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: or one day when your daughter reads this, It's like, okay,
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: when she if she were to read or come across this,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: then natural, Hey, your old man wasn't ready to be
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: a father at that time. So when I was thinking
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: back on it, I'm glad it didn't happen. I'm sure
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be an awfully hard conversation to have.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: I well, now I feel even worse that I didn't
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: jump in to your defense on Twitter and say, hey,
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: just recently had my firstbor girl. Will and Taylor provided
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: a great paternity leave for me, and for the days
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: I had to come in, what was it totally? Was
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: it like two months? It was like a month and
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: a half. I don't know, but the days I came in,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: they provided a night nurse for Jill and I that
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: night so we could get some sleep. And for somebody
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: so like I should I should have come to your defense.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 3: Now, you dude, you're fine. It was truly one of
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 3: those ones. I just didn't know how.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: It'd land because I know it's like you got this
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: softer generation on the people hate understanding what the truth
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: actually is. And I'm sitting there and giving you, like, hey,
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if you agree with me or not,
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: because the majority of people whatever they're saying, I'm like,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: hey man, I don't disagree with you.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 3: I'm just giving you an inside look on what this
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: is like.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: And if you do want to be the best or
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: in the top one percent or make it to the NFL,
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: like there's gonna be, everyone knows that's the sacrifice that
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: goes into it. Everybody knows that, Like, sure you got
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: I met one of your buddies.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 3: I was at the Pro Bowl this week.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: Like anybody that you had, any any one of your
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: buddies that you've had that's.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: Played college sports or they're chasing their dream.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: The world is kind of there world is kind of
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: just shaped around them absolutely.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 3: Like, Hey, I'm coming up to watch you in a game.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 3: What do you want me to do this week when
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 3: I get there? Are you sure you want me to
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 3: stay at your house? Like?
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: Are you sure I can get a couple of tickets.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be I'm not trying to be
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: a nuisance. I don't want to annoy you. Let me
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: know what the best rudder like everything is around that
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: human being because.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 3: They play the sport, they're chasing their dream.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: I'm not a getting I'm not saying that's that how,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: that's how it has to be. I'm just saying, naturally,
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: like that is just what it is now.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: That is I lived with college football Ross mapsik is
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 2: who he's referring to, who's Pro Bowl long snapper for
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 2: Jacksonville Jaguars. But I lived with one of his good bodies,
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: Harson Fox, who is also on Baylor's football team. And yeah,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: Fox's daily schedule at college sucked. Ass.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 3: Dude.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 2: That guy was first one out of the house, last
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: one into it, covered in sweat. Whenever he's coming in
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: the door, He's like physically having to force feed himself.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 2: Chick multiple Chick fil A Sandwiches because he's got to
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: maintain a weight. He was an offensive lineman, like you
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: are signing up for something bigger than yourself when you're
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: this is not a call center where you know you're
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: doing customer service calls, which I'm not dogging it. I
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: did it for like four years where I could very
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: easily take two months a PTO and nobody's gonna blink
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: an eye, right.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: And like you said, like when you were talking about
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: the the package that you had with bus, and it's like, dude,
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: if anybody had a kid, like it's just man, you
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: hope that everybody achieves what they need to achieve.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: Oh for sure, so that way they're in the world
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 3: to where they can operate with some freedom.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: Because I'm it's like I'm this pot. We're all about
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: dad being at home. We're all about dad being intentional.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: We're all about dad mix it up up and not being.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: So stuck in gender roles. And you just go on
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 3: and work.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: You're nine to five and food's expected to be on
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: the table when you get home, and you're the obviously
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: we shout out taking out the trash like you're only
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: chores taking out the trash or fixing things around the house,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: really want you or in the dog We Yeah, we
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: embrace partnership marriage like good balance with each other. It's tough, man,
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: it's such a it's such a nuanced topic. And again
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: I said in there AA, you know it's hard to explain,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: but nobody you know how the internet is.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 2: Hey, and we're we're not going to make anybody or
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 2: everybody happy with this is our truth that we live in,
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: and we're sorry. We both have full time working wives,
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: like we're this, this is our truth that we live in,
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: and we're sorry. If you disagree, we're very sorry.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's you're right.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: It is a That was a fun one, though. I
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: appreciate you bringing that up, Chef. I honestly I forgotten
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: about that, but it was going there was somewhere I'm like,
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: damn people, it just feels like all they want to
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: do right here is argue or say something taking shots
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: at the forour the Dad's podcast, just like, buddy, you
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: clearly don't listen to anything.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: Obviously.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I was raising through fact. But the best was
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 4: Will's response to the one guy that said, uh, what
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 4: are you gonna do when your daughter reads this, and
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 4: Will said, she's gonna have a lot to read, buddy.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: Because I'm just as I'm sitting there and I'm looking
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: at that. I respond to a couple of people and
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: somebody's like, oh, you haven't won anything and tries to
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: show that I didn't win a championship in high school,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: college or NFL.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 3: And then I'm like, funny, how they forgot you.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: Know, grades four through seven or whatever I supposted to
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: be funny. So and then somebody's upset with that. He's like,
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: is this supposed to be funny? I feel like I
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: follow you. You get serious every now and then. You're
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: usually trying to be the funny guy, and I'm just like, man,
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: I just tweet bro, like it's never that serious to
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: where I'm trying to get upset or prove something to you.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: When you just you understand the nature of like social
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: media now, like you sit there and spend your energy
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: on it, You're just gonna be on your phone all
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: day long, worked up about because you just want to
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: be understood so badly. It's like, look, I can't help
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: you if you're I'm trying to use the words to
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: the best of my ability and letting you know. Hey,
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: I don't disagree with you. I'm just this is my experience.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: It's not surprising. Well he went fourteen to two the
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: year before. Hey, I'm with you. When you're fourteen and two,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: it's a little easier back. Yeah, you're gonna take two weeks,
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: you can work from home.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 3: Oh, that'll be awesome.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: But then you have a season like you do, they
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: find other decisions you might have made. They hold it
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: against you and fire you. They leaked this internal stuff,
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: and it's like, that's.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 3: That's the game.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: That's the game. Maybe that's the game and it sucks.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: They call it the league for a reason. Also, I
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: don't think you've ever sounded more like a father than
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 2: when you said this generation, man's generation's so soft.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 3: Here you got you know how it is?
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: Man? I, Oh, what do you think is gonna happen
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: when your daughter reads this?
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 3: Yank yank, buddy.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: I promise you we're gonna have some journals. She's gonna
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: have a lot to read. See scan watch on YouTube
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: of her old man. She can form her own opinion,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: and I'm pretty sure, knock on wood, she's gonna have
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: a good one, because we're gonna have a great relationship.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: I'll be able to teach her a ball her old
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: man not being ready to because there's always a part
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: of me that wanted to have the photos with my
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: kiddos or with my with a child of mine in
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: full uniform, because I always thought that was awesome.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 3: Like be a football player. Yeah, they get to watch
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 3: me from them all that stuff. Uh, that didn't happen.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: But again I'm I feel like I'm fortunate that father
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: had happened after football, because I just feel like the
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: way I was committed to football when I was in
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: the thick of it, family would have.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 3: Just naturally, subconsciously whatever, not.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: Intentionally, but in just my movie, they would have been
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: like second fiddle to.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 3: What was going on in the NFL. Always you want
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 3: to be the best when you're playing.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all we were missing when you called this generation
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: soft is us standing on my back patio next to
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: the smoker, some hollipops in our hands, and where you
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: just you're in in the long monologue you go this
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 2: generation man, then just generation.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: Still with a bunch of pussies dad, Because I'm telling her,
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: I think I was telling uh whenever I reacted to
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: one where I'm like, uh, she's gonna have a lot
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: to read.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 3: Hey, if your daughter reads this, well, she's gonna have
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 3: a lot to read.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: And it'll be after the conversation where I'm like, hey,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: your old man he wasn't you know what a hard
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: conversation I have. Hey, your dad wasn't ready at this
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: age to be a father, Thank god, because if I
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: would have, it probably wouldn't have been you rue standing
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: here in front of me. And then I'll talk to
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: her about that while also talking to her about Hey,
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: if you do want to be great in any lane,
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: this is what it takes.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 3: Nick Saban's famous quote, it takes what it takes. Yeah,
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 3: and you want to be the.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: Absolute best, there's gonna have to be a lot of
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: sacrifices and selfishness that you have to have because.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 3: You want to be in this world.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's your life and you making your own decisions,
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: and they'll be a lot of good stuff that you
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: were able to talk about where you know it again,
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: it's nuanced, bro, it's a journey. It's a process. It
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: never stops.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 2: Well, you just quoted somebody that that in fact retired
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 2: to spend more time with family was his exact quote
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 2: Nick Saban. So that proves the point even more of like, hey,
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: you know I've made these sacrifices and now I want
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 2: to move on and get back to the fam. I
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 2: have a potential dad hack, non dad hack, this might
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 2: be a sherman. What the hell are you doing? Stop
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 2: doing that? So I wanted to run it by you
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 2: will to see if you have ever done this. But
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 2: I know you got your back issues. I am fighting.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 2: I am in the trenches right now with my back.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 2: It is not good. I currently have four strands of
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 2: KT tape on my bod right now, and it's been
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 2: hard to bend down and pick up Scarlet. And so
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 2: what I have been doing is when she's laying on
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 2: her tummy and a onesie. And again, we might have
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: to cut this from the episode, or you can say
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 2: this is totally fine to do. I've been grabbing by
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 2: the back of the onesie to pick her up, like
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 2: grab a handful of the onesie. And it's a nice
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 2: little like it's almost like grabbing a puppy dog by
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 2: its you know, its neck. But she's like fine, her
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: her head isn't dangling or anything. She kind of like
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: Superman's up and then I put her into my arms.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 2: Is that a dad hack? Or is that a no go.
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 3: Meaning like you shouldn't do that. Yeah, Oh, you shouldn't
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 3: do that. It's news to me. I'll be out there swinging.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 3: I'll be out there swinging. There we go.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, so it is a dad hack?
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay?
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: Cool?
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: A you want an easy way to pick up your
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: kidd or I feel like you learn that on your
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: own because you're kind of like you're kind of chuckling, like,
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: let me just pick them up here by the back
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: and see what happened.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: Yes, that's what I did, especially when the guy.
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: Like their overalls on and you kind of bring them
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: together and then it's eas.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 4: Yes, I handed you sher. There's an EMO from a
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 4: guy that was a huge dad hack ice skating with
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 4: his one year old and there's a picture he has
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 4: her will picked up as if like from hockey pants
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 4: on the side, and so this was one that was
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 4: meant for our first guest whenever that episode drops. But
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 4: you could see he has her by some hind quarter
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 4: device figure skating with his daughter and that's his dad hack.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 4: So to your point, there are people doing this out
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 4: in the wild and sending it to us.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's I mean, that's like kind of the
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 2: same principle, except for like she Scarlet's like, it's almost
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 2: like those laying on your stomach roller coasters, if y'all
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: have ever done those that, Like Will was saying, where
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: you're swinging her around, I haven't run it by Jill
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 2: yet because I'm a little nervous. I feel like she's
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 2: gonna tell me not to pick her up like that.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: But I just couldn't get down that extra couple inches.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 2: So I was like, I'll just instead of having to
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: go two hands underneath, I'll just pinch the onesie on
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: the back and pick her up that way. It felt good.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: It felt like a dad hack.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: It feels great when it happens. It feels great when
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: it happened.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 3: I got a uh, I got a dad hack here
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 3: from because my again my dad hack earlier earlier. Oh
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 3: the T shirt and the sweatshirt my dad ack earlier. Yeah,
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 3: I got a dad.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: Act here from Colton Ross Moosen on Spotify against Spotify comments.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 3: You guys know I love the Spotify comments. Will it
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 3: Willie red eye.
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: Hashtag dipe dad, diaper hack, dad of two soon to
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: be three. Congratulations Colton. This is something I learned from
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: a coworker of mine that I have never heard anyone
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: else do. But I'll never do it any other way. So,
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: once the kids start getting mobile mobile poopy diapers lately,
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: So once the kids start getting mobile mobile poopy diapers,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: lay the baby on the floor, diaper towards your dominant hand,
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: leg opposite. Your dominant hand goes over baby just enough
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: to keep them from rolling, and your leg blocks their hands.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: Getting messy. Maybe unnecessary, but have never gone back. Hashtag
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: moji siico. I'll be honest, I read that out loud,
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: but I have no clue how to visualize this.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 2: I'm okay, So this is this is what I'm intening.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 3: Mobile poopy diapers.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 2: Mobile poopy diapers. He has will check me out, can
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 2: you see me? Yeah, here's uh, here's baby's head, here's
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 2: poopy diaper. And I think he's on his knees, so
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: he kind of has torso buckled up against the knees
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: right here, and he's reaching overbody like this, so he's
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 2: operating down here. So then baby can't really roll because
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 2: we got an arm on the torso. And then the
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 2: legs are kind of pinched right there too. Is that
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 2: does that sound?
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 3: Diaper towards your dominant hand.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 4: Sounds as good as possibly can be good. You'd have
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 4: to try it, I guess.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 2: We might have to have him follow up with a
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: video demonstration.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 4: I'll reply right now.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we need a video demonstration because we're our
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: brain is in knots.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 3: On the phone. Gotta have video. No, no, no. Are
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 3: we talking.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: Babies laying on the changing table and trying to be mobile?
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: Are they on their stomach? Are they on their back.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 3: Like mobile poopy diapers? I'm thinking they're running around the house.
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 3: They got a poopy diaper. Maybe the poop's laying out. Hey,
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 3: get them on the floor right away.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, well we might be talking about a
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: changing table operation.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, which I would love.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: To heard it back when Scotty was in her prime
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: with being mobile and trying to wrestle.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 3: And they get so good at bridging, You get so
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 3: good at bridging with their head bro to where they're
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 3: basically vertical in the air as you're trying to like
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 3: wipe yes, and then you're kind of just like Scotty,
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 3: just like.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 2: Down I have on our changing table. I have a
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 2: lamp on either end of the changing table. And this
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: lamp right here is the one where I put Scarlet's
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 2: head is over here. Scarlet's mission in life is to
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 2: destroy that lamp, like that lamp needs to die in
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: her in her mind. And she's been doing that, dude,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: just arching her back and she's just grabbing the lamp
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: shade and just she wants to rip that thing apart.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: I also, I have another dad hack here. It says
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: if you don't like Will Compton's tweets, unfollow them. I
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 2: thought that was a great.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: Somebody wrote that inn say hey, let me you know
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: what and send me replying under his tweet.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 3: Let me go into the Spotify comments and drop it.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 3: It'll see it there.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 2: No, but we did reply to to our friend that
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: submitted the mobile poopy diaper. Derek just got on there
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: on Spotify and said, we need a video demonstration.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 3: Colton Rich there we go.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 4: We said, can you email us a video demonstration because
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 4: you put us in a blender trying to do this
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 4: on air.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we do need that.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 2: And our friend that emailed in, Zachary, I'm sorry that
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: we didn't read your email aloud on the pod, but
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 2: that was from Zachary Green, So that's him and his
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 2: kiddo and they are Canadian. They're from Toronto, so shout
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 2: out Zachary and his fam and his little dad hack of.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 2: It's called a jolly jumper seat. So if you go
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 2: ice skating with your kiddo, a little dad hack for you,
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 2: bring along a jolly jumper seat and you can skate
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 2: along with your kiddo.
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 3: Oh I love that. Who would have thunk it?
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: Do we want to go into Collins? Do we want
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 2: to do voice? Am I missing anything? I feel like?
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: Hey, hey, I do actually have a cool dad act
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: here from Henry Torrez the third on Spotify that I
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: saw that I thought was interesting. My six year old,
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: My six year old has been wanting some iPad time.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: Negotiated a deal with him for every minute he trains,
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: he gets a minute on his iPad. Bodyweight exercises, speed
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: ladder boxing. He's playing basketball now, so we do ball
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: handling and passing the kicker.
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 3: I do all the drills with him.
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: He doesn't know it, but there's nothing I look forward
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: to after the days of worked in training with my boy. Hey,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: that's that's look key, that last sentence right there almost
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: shot up. I'm feeling a frizziness in my nose right
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: now from him, and joined that so much because I
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: also think it's hilarious.
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 3: He's got a six year old. And hey, every minute you.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: Train, whether it be sprints, waits, basketball, every minute you train,
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: you get some screen time.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 2: And you know that Stopwatch is just running a little
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 2: bit slower than usual for some reason.
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because that when you're in the middle of training
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: instead of just a minute of training.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 3: Eventually, he's gonna have to earn it. Hey, did you
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 3: earn the training? Earn the minutes in the training?
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: Because I got you about thirty minutes, but only fifteen
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: of them were productive.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 3: That's it.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 2: That's what I Only saw two good minutes in that one.
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 2: Did you get two minutes on the iPad? That's so true.
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 3: Oh, let's get into some let's get into some voicemause.
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 3: Six and one of the.
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 4: Dads, this first one is called cloth diapers.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 6: Oh God, Willie Shirm names Hayden the high school football
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 6: coach up here in northern Kentucky. Uh said to become
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 6: a PT sixer here in May. Girl Dad I'm super
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 6: stoked about it. Recently found out about the pod about
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 6: a few weeks ago, and I've been going back listening
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 6: to every episode. So I'm not sure if this topic
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 6: has been covered. But my wife is dead set on
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 6: us doing cloth diapers. I'm not quite sure how to
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 6: feel about it. All the PT six veterans aren't super
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 6: encouraging either, making it seem like I'm gonna be in
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 6: the trenches of Normandy Beach here pretty soon. You got
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 6: any tips or advice or know anybody who has gone
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 6: through this process, feel free to uh send them this way.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 3: Uh love love the work you guys are doing.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 6: Man, got me stoked to go on this journey with
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 6: my wife and my future daughter and keep up the
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 6: good work.
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 3: Brother.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: Congratulations Man, sure them if we can, if we can
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: get some googling happening right now, I only got one
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: percent battery on.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 3: My phone, so I'm not able to do it.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: But cloth diapers, I don't know if I've experienced anybody
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: does cloth diapers yet.
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 2: I have about this much experience with cloth diapers through
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 2: talking with Jill on it.
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 3: Okay, so you might have some game.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 2: I have a little bit of game essentially, is the game?
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: Is it gonna land with him like he needs to
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: talk his wife off of it? Or is it some
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: game orhere there's some Optimus.
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 2: Oh no, and I don't like Hayden is what's his name?
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 2: First off, Hayden, thank you for your service of being
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 2: a high school football coach. You sound like a legend.
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 2: Your empty sixer sounds like a goddess. She sounds incredible,
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 2: And best of luck to y'all. May is a great
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 2: month for a baby to be born. Congratulations, I will
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 2: say this, no, no, now, yeah, I'm doing one of
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: those whatever the sandwich sandwich now, I will go as
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 2: as Derek is showing me a Reddit page for Clode
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 2: diapers where it looks like just a bunch of people
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 2: submitting their whoor stories of clothe They call them poop dozers.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, it's uh, dude, a ton of hand washing.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 2: You're gonna have to buy a lot. First off, it's
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 2: just you're constantly gonna have to be cleaning these guys.
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 2: And you got to think when you're when your baby
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 2: is first born, So when you have your your newborn,
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 2: it's pretty much every two hours you're doing your feeds.
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 2: Correct me if I'm wrong on that will but I
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 2: think it's every two hours, and think about.
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: It, two three hours. You're trying to push for a
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: three hour window. But think about changes.
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 2: All think about all those diaper changes, dude, that you
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: had to do in those two hour intervals. You're not
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 2: just throwing it away. You are then you are adding
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 2: an extra step of I got clean this sucker and
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 2: then I got dry this sucker to be ready to
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 2: be worn again. It's just it is an extra step.
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 2: It's it's gonna be a lot of work they leave,
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 2: so it's it's doable.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: You just have to show rolle cloth diapers on rotation
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: to where you got to clean one coming in, but
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: the minute you change the old one, that one's going
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: into now the washing process.
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 2: Okay, I have an analogy that I think might land
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 2: with our golfing dats. This would be my analogy is
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 2: he is starting to learn how to play golf playing
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 2: with blades like blade irons.
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 3: O's a good.
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 2: One, which is like that's what the pros are using.
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 2: They're using blades all the newbies. They got that little
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 2: added weight on the back of it. It helps your
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 2: iron shots to go further. And straight, or it's a
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 2: nice little handicap because you're new to this. He's starting
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 2: off his golfing journey with the hardest clubs he could
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 2: be possibly hitting, and there's nothing Hey, there ain't nothing
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 2: wrong with it. Because if you start with blades in golf,
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 2: you're gonna learn ball control real fast, and you're gonna
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 2: you're gonna learn what a bad golf swing looks like
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 2: really fast. Same with cloth diapers. There's probably gonna be
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 2: shitting pissed everywhere. So honestly, Hayden, you're you're signing up for,
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 2: you know, a challenging next few months. But if hey,
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 2: if empty sixer is saying that, that's all I'm saying, man,
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: you just you keep that gap.
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 1: Hey, you know the quote, man, happy wife, happy life, brother. Yeah, man,
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 1: and mom was pushing it and you gotta find you
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 1: know what, Then you got to switch into stoic philosophy.
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: You gotta start telling yourself the obstacle is the way. Yeah,
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: you're choosing the path of most resistance, the road less traveled.
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 2: I got a four letter word with one syllable and
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 2: it just rolls.
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 3: Off the dog. It's good. Yeah, it's good.
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: A lot of good, a lot of good in his future,
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: A lot of good. It.
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 2: Uh yeah, dude, keep hey, keep the wifey happy, all right,
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 2: tell her it's the best idea in the entire world.
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 2: But tell her you heard from a friend. You I
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 2: be signing up for a lot of extra work. And
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 2: if it is a if it is a budget thing,
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 2: if that is the reason, dude it, then obviously it
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 2: is a you will save so much money that way,
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 2: so much money that way. So if it's for financial reasons,
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 2: totally get that. To get that to you, And.
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: Hayden being a ball coach brings me back to the
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: Minnesota conversation.
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 2: Come on, man, come on man, Oh no.
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, what what do you what do you assuming that?
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 2: He I mean late nights, Mama is gonna be.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 3: Having to Yeah, yeah, it's gonna be hard.
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: And that that's another reason why I did jump into it,
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: and I talk about.
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 3: How it's such a hard explanation because.
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: As I am explaining it, it's not like I'm feeling
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: like being a coach or being in that world is
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: like I'm like, oh, that's not the way to do
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 1: it if you want to be a great dad.
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 3: I'm just saying I just don't.
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: I don't envy that as much as I used to
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: because of the work and the time you have to
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 1: put into it. When my man is they're using the
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: two week praternity to leave as a variable hate than
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: any coach, anybody trying to be you know, a dog
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 1: at anything knows you never give them a reason them
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 1: as in the higher ups.
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 3: You never give them a reason to get you out
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 3: the door.
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 3: And that just happens to be an extra variable part
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 3: of me. You know.
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 1: I hear Hayden and I hear that he's a ball coach.
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I kind of hate that. I feel like
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm saying it's a bad thing to be in
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 1: that world. It's more of just you know, I'm doing
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: my best to talk to when chef brings that up.
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 2: And it's not a bit, it's not a bad thing.
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 2: It also, hey, we aren't taking this isn't like we're
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 2: talking vaccinate, don't vaccinate and once vaccinated, now it's too late.
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 2: We're talking clock dipis.
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 3: They can We're talking club dice.
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 2: It can switch the regular dippies whenever they want. If
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 2: the clock dipis don't work out, switched to regular.
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 4: I am finding so that entire time. I'm so sorry
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 4: Arizona that I've just been going through Reddit cloth diaper threads.
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 4: A lot of people are doing hybrid so longer journeys
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 4: with a nanny or something, anything in which you don't
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 4: want it to be the cloth one. They're using regular diapers,
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 4: but at nights, short trips or whenever you're just around
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 4: the house and you know both parents can be there
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 4: and you're okay with it, they're using cloth and a
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 4: lot of people have saved a lot of money with that.
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 4: So the hybrid approach seems to be the most kind
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 4: of cost effective and it doesn't leave you out and
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 4: about with the cloth diaper.
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: So well done, breve breakdown, Well done, Deeke, great breakdown.
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 3: Shut out.
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 2: Hayden comes shout out, Hayden. Maybe I love that. Now
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 2: we're providing a little bit of help to Hayden. Maybe
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 2: go to the hybrid route. Thank you.
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: Not only is he protecting the egg gap, protect the
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: cloth diaper, Yeah, he's protecting the wall.
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's protecting the wallet, the the BB's behind and
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 2: the team.
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, happy happy wife. I'd be live, I'd be.
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 4: Wife, I'd be live.
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 2: How are you doing on time? Will Compton? Do you
• 1:28:05
  Speaker 2: want to hit another voicemail?
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 3: Sure, let's sen in another voicemail.
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 2: Let's do it. That was a great call in by
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 2: the way, Hayden, thank you.
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 5: Number two voicemail is cans are effing gone.
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 8: What's up? Boys? This is John from Erie Pa. I
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 8: got a little Dad hack for you. Last week I
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 8: put the trash out thanks to Willie one Sholf's advice.
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 8: I have forgotten a few times, but since I've been
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 8: listening to the pod, I've not forgotten, So thank you
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 8: will for that. But Dad Hack here, just throw your
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 8: trash on the street, not in cans, just like loose
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 8: trash or in bag. Just throw it out there for
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 8: the wind to take it forever.
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 3: Because if you put.
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 8: It in cans, the garbage men take your cans and
• 1:28:53
  Speaker 8: then they just the wind takes the cans and forever
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 8: they're gone. So now I'm down cans, I have nowhere
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 8: to put my trash, and I'm screwed. So we're just
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 8: gonna leave the trash inside of the road and just
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 8: let it be and we'll see what happens. But yeah,
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 8: cans are fucking gone.
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 3: It's awesome.
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 8: So anyway, I love the boys, love the pod, keep
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 8: it up, keep doing the Lord's work.
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 3: Six out cans.
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 2: He said he was in PA. I was like, are
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 2: you in Oklahoma? Like where what's going on?
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 1: Is a tornado happening outside the way it blows forever?
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 3: They're gone.
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 2: I think I think the issue might be with the
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 2: garbage men.
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 4: We don't get cans in Pennsylvania like you guys. There's
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 4: house cans here. I don't know if that's an over
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 4: thing you get. Yeah, you buy your own trash cans
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 4: in Pennsylvania. And so I know for a fact what
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 4: this guy is going through. But the other thing is
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 4: this guy has been in the call Q like I've
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 4: moved him every episode. It's been a little bit because
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 4: I just love that guy. Sounds so defeated. He said,
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 4: you can put him in the can, but the garbagemen
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 4: take the can and then they're gone, and the wind
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 4: took the other ones, and now I have no fucking cans.
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 4: I loved this guy.
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 2: What a crazy I just can't wrap my mind around that.
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 3: Derek.
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 1: Is that a vibe where people just put their trash
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: like just on this there's cans.
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 4: Like you you. I would assume that there are situations
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 4: in which your can is full, so you put it there.
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 4: I've never seen somebody just like leave their trash outside
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 4: the house. I would very much though, stand in unison
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 4: with this guy that if your cans are just gone, bro, dude,
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 4: you gotta do I guess.
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if.
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 3: That's more of a dad that's that's more of a
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 3: that's more of a fuck the system. Yes, this is
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 3: a dad hack.
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 2: I was just about to say, is this something that
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 2: we militarize the PT six kids?
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 3: So kids show that you just pretend you heard a
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 3: belief that one. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 2: Do we militarize the PT six community and try and
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 2: get some legislation in past in PA for the for
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 2: the cans to be provided. I've lived only in four
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 2: like states where like I lived in every single in
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 2: those states provided cans.
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 3: What a stick flex, Bro, you've lived in four states?
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I'm just having fun. He's having fun that way.
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 3: Oh sick, you've lived in four states?
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 2: Lived in Missouri? Did they provide cans?
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 3: No? You got to You got to buy your own.
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 2: Really, that blows my mind?
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 3: Got options or or I bonti Missouri.
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's actually a really good point too. Maybe
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 2: if you're more rural then they wouldn't provide cans. But
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 2: this poor guy, I mean that that just blows my
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 2: mind that you wouldn't have like your nice gar garbage
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 2: bind that you'd roll to the street.
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 3: I know, I know, man, No bad idea is in
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 3: a brainstorm.
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we should buy this pet sixer.
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 5: I can we should.
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 3: Buy chefs should like because I'm thinking two lights. Yeah sure,
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 3: let's let's just say that that's a dad hack. It's
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 3: not a dad hack. We can actually get behind.
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, you know next week we hit you know,
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 1: Shay this morning as this episode comes out and shure them.
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 1: You're like, oh, reminder, trash day and it's just a
• 1:32:33
  Speaker 1: photo of your trash on the side of the road.
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 4: I think he was using dad hack facetiously. He was
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 4: using it as like, here's a Dad hack. Ause my
• 1:32:41
  Speaker 4: fucking kid, Sorry, my cans are gone. Yeah, I'm with you,
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 4: will I think that there, I mean, chef, I'll hunt
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 4: I'll hunt it down if we get this guy. But
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 4: you know what he needs. He needs those like two
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 4: by four wooden containers that Dad sometimes build that you
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 4: put your trash cans in so it won't go away,
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean. Yeah, like those things are
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 4: cool that you know it hopefully won't fly away.
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 2: That's what he needs, is one of those.
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 3: I'm done to get him set up. I'm done to
• 1:33:10
  Speaker 3: get help with the can.
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 4: I'll do some digging.
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 2: I would. I would be down to help him out
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 2: as well, because I just feel like the answer is
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 2: not leaving your trash on the side of the road.
• 1:33:22
  Speaker 2: But I feel for him.
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 3: Too, Yeah, I feel for him as well.
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 1: He could be laughing, be like, damn it, the boys
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 1: aren't taking this joke too well.
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 3: They're taking me.
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 1: They're taking me serious. They're taking it as I got.
• 1:33:35
  Speaker 1: I'm putting the trash on the side of the way.
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 3: I just wanted to.
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 2: I just wanted to call an event. He sit there
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 2: like will after the cool you lived in forest States
• 1:33:43
  Speaker 2: and I'm joking.
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 4: Oh, there's there's robotic garbage cans nowadays too. They sit
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 4: at your house and you track them like a little rumba.
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 4: Oh yo's out to the curve and comes he.
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 1: Tell the government it can start tracking.
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 3: I'm to be I'm trying to be off the grid
• 1:34:04
  Speaker 3: with my trash cans.
• 1:34:07
  Speaker 2: Honey, I think the trash bins are listening to us
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 2: because I was thinking the trash job and I was
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 2: talking about burger King, and now I'm getting all these
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 2: burger King ads on my burger k rappers in the
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 2: It's crazy, hey, that there's something there? All right?
• 1:34:24
  Speaker 3: Uh?
• 1:34:25
  Speaker 2: Lesson of the Week quote of the week.
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 3: Do you have it? My phone's dead?
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 2: Oh yes, okay, in that case, I have a very
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 2: quick I thought it would be fun to update on
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 2: my lesson of the week. I think three weeks ago
• 1:34:40
  Speaker 2: was calling friends on my drive to daycare to pick
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 2: up Scarlett. So I have a nice little If this
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 2: is your first time listening to the show. A couple
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 2: of weeks ago, my lesson of the week was I
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 2: was going to try and reach out to loved ones,
• 1:34:57
  Speaker 2: friends and have meaningful conversations during my car time when
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 2: I'm driving to pick up my daughter Scarlet from daycare.
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 2: And it's just been absolutely incredible getting to get back
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 2: into my friends' lives, getting to talk with my mom
• 1:35:17
  Speaker 2: and dad. I've been talking with them more so and
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 2: it is turned into than facetiming them. Once I get
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 2: home with Scarlet and I'm out of the car, and
• 1:35:28
  Speaker 2: it's turning into these like forty five minute FaceTime conversations
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 2: where I'm basically just sitting the phone on our dinner
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 2: table and they're getting to watch me feed Scarlet. And
• 1:35:39
  Speaker 2: now I'm taking the phone to the changing table and
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 2: they're watching me change her for bedtime, And just a
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 2: ton of really awesome stuff has come out of me
• 1:35:52
  Speaker 2: having these phone calls. And so I would just say
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 2: for anybody that spends a lot of time in the
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 2: car and you love your friends and family and you
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 2: love just feeding meaningful relationships in your lives, do it.
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 2: Because it's been awesome so far. It's been a really
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 2: great start to twenty six.
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 3: I love that there was.
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 1: The one that I had was gonna be like book recommendations.
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 1: If you have a great follow for some like whether
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: it's stoicism, you're into old parenthood, Ryan Holiday, can you
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: guys still see me?
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 2: I can still hear you. And then it's a nice
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 2: little frozen blows You're blowing a kiss.
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 1: Okay, Charlie's trying to FaceTime me, could see any see
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 1: the fan was trying to FaceTime me. But it was
• 1:36:42
  Speaker 1: like some of the books that Ryan posted he was like, oh,
• 1:36:45
  Speaker 1: some good reads for parents. It was one of his
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 1: recent posts. I want to say there was a book
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 1: called Range that I've heard about before, how to raise
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 1: your kid to not be assholes? The Conscious I want
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 1: to say it was The Conscious Parent. But just a
• 1:36:59
  Speaker 1: few recommendations out there that I saw that I kind
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 1: of favorited or saved on Instagram that I want to
• 1:37:06
  Speaker 1: that I want to get to and order those books.
• 1:37:10
  Speaker 3: So something that some proof for thoughts, something I'm diving into.
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that could even be a really great uh for
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 2: next week if any PT sixers want to put in
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 2: some of their favorite reads parenting reads, that could be
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 2: really fun to kind of dive into that. I'm still
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 2: only like thirty pages into Strong Father's Strong Daughters.
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 3: You're gonna love that book to.
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 2: Finish that one. But yeah, any PT sixers listening, let
• 1:37:40
  Speaker 2: us know on like some really great parenting reads. And oh, Chef,
• 1:37:46
  Speaker 2: just chef just had a great reminder for a Valentine's
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 2: Day episode next week, Will and I will be recording
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 2: on Monday. Make sure to get your Valentine's Day emails
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 2: and all ins in before this Friday. That's the cutoff.
• 1:38:04
  Speaker 2: We're going to have all of our call ins and
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 2: emails for our Valentine's Day episode by this Friday, So
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 2: make sure.
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 3: Man, I am nervous that we did not do that.
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 3: At the top of the episode.
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 2: We'll film a nice little thing and we'll throw it
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 2: in anybody.
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 1: Who's listened to the end of this when we do
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 1: the emojis, Yeah, share what's the emoji this week?
• 1:38:26
  Speaker 2: Oh, pink cats go pink carts for Valentine's.
• 1:38:31
  Speaker 3: What is it?
• 1:38:32
  Speaker 2: Pink carts for Valentine's.
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 3: Pink carts for Valentine's Day. But that the message, get
• 1:38:38
  Speaker 3: your submissions in by Friday.
• 1:38:40
  Speaker 2: Gotta get them in by Friday.
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 3: Dude, voicemails, emails, whatever it is. Yeah, get it, get it, get.
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 1: In your content, you're engagement with the boys, Get it
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 1: in by Friday.
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  Speaker 3: So that way we can we can talk Valentine's Day
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 3: next week.
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 2: And just a little teaser, we have a mom loss
• 1:38:55
  Speaker 2: that will be a call in from my mom that
• 1:38:58
  Speaker 2: features the story on Valentine and today. That's just a
• 1:39:01
  Speaker 2: little teaser.
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 3: Just a little teaser, little thase.
• 1:39:05
  Speaker 2: And then I have a little I got a Dan
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  Speaker 2: Gable quote for you. Really see, my mind is never
• 1:39:12
  Speaker 2: gone very far away from what I wanted to accomplish.
• 1:39:18
  Speaker 1: Dan Gable, there's there's a Since I am on my iPad,
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 1: I typed in Dan Gable quote.
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  Speaker 3: This one's on sacrifice. You ready for some dan Gable?
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 2: Hold on one second, all right, Yeah, I'm ready.
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  Speaker 1: The amount you're willing to sacrifice is directly proportional to
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  Speaker 1: your desire for success.
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  Speaker 3: Fitting.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I hate to make you read that one again,
• 1:39:47
  Speaker 2: but I have to hear it. I have to hear
• 1:39:49
  Speaker 2: it twice.
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  Speaker 3: It's that good, all right?
• 1:39:52
  Speaker 1: If you think you if you're thinking about two weeks
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 1: of maternity leave, the amount you're willing to sacrifice is
• 1:39:59
  Speaker 1: directly proportional to your desire for success.
• 1:40:04
  Speaker 2: Amen. Amen.
• 1:40:07
  Speaker 3: And I don't know who I'm talking to there, the
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 3: career people out there.
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 2: Maybe maybe some athletes that are listening to us, maybe
• 1:40:16
  Speaker 2: a po rizzo sitting there snapping. Dan Gable knows what
• 1:40:22
  Speaker 2: he's talking about.
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 3: Man. Yeah, it's a it's a double edged sword, double edged.
• 1:40:29
  Speaker 2: Sword, insurance insurance.
• 1:40:33
  Speaker 1: A Derek or Chef like, what was your guys's what
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 1: was your guys'.
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 3: Opinion on the whole.
• 1:40:39
  Speaker 1: Now that we're at the end of this can be
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 1: like the post credits post credits conversation on.
• 1:40:45
  Speaker 3: The Whole, On the Whole, the Minnesota Vikings GM.
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  Speaker 5: I think you put it pretty perfectly, like at the
• 1:40:51
  Speaker 5: end of the day, your you're subject to your results,
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 5: and like it's like the same thing like any other job.
• 1:40:59
  Speaker 5: It's like if you're taking time off, but it's like
• 1:41:02
  Speaker 5: in a way where like if you take let's pretend
• 1:41:06
  Speaker 5: that NFL season is like one of our big weeks
• 1:41:08
  Speaker 5: at busting right, Like we'll probably have like a big
• 1:41:11
  Speaker 5: week once a month, you know, where it's a huge
• 1:41:13
  Speaker 5: thing and everyone knows. Like if I went and said, hey,
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 5: during the super Bowl, you know, super Bowl week is
• 1:41:18
  Speaker 5: the week I'm gonna take off, everyone.
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 4: Would be like, why are you doing that?
• 1:41:22
  Speaker 5: And I feel like the NFL, the difference is just
• 1:41:24
  Speaker 5: every week is the biggest week ever, you know, like
• 1:41:27
  Speaker 5: that's that's the approach. And so yeah, you have a
• 1:41:30
  Speaker 5: shit season, Like so what JJ McCarthy's a quarterback, Like
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 5: tough shit. You know, it comes back to invite you.
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 4: I think I'm a big fan of like you guys know,
• 1:41:41
  Speaker 4: but like a big fan of like you choose exactly
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 4: where you want to be, what you're doing, how you
• 1:41:45
  Speaker 4: want to be and you choose every aspect of your life,
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 4: and like, you have to accept the fact, and so
• 1:41:50
  Speaker 4: if he's going to take those two weeks off, that's
• 1:41:52
  Speaker 4: totally fine. You have to also choose the fact that
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 4: there's repercussions in that world. Because guess what I think.
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 4: I've said this to Sherman and Chef. We have at Bustin.
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 4: We have a job that there are so few of
• 1:42:04
  Speaker 4: in the world. There are so few people that get
• 1:42:07
  Speaker 4: to be in the position that I'm in currently, and
• 1:42:09
  Speaker 4: I have to understand that with this position and the
• 1:42:12
  Speaker 4: things that I want to do with my life, there
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 4: are sacrifices I have to make. That gentleman has one
• 1:42:16
  Speaker 4: of thirty two positions in the world for what he does.
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 4: If you love football and love that thing, there are
• 1:42:23
  Speaker 4: thirty one people he can call colleagues in the world.
• 1:42:28
  Speaker 4: And to be at that level, to make what you make,
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 4: to do what you do, and to love the game
• 1:42:32
  Speaker 4: that you love it, there are sacrifices. And for anyone
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 4: to come at you on Twitter and be like this
• 1:42:37
  Speaker 4: guy is a dad podcast, You're just kind of maronic
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 4: because you have a job that just requires different sacrifices
• 1:42:44
  Speaker 4: and different things and different expectations, and moronic in the
• 1:42:47
  Speaker 4: sense that you can't take the blinders off and see
• 1:42:49
  Speaker 4: it because I am exactly where I want to be
• 1:42:51
  Speaker 4: in life, because I do get to spend time with
• 1:42:53
  Speaker 4: my fiance and her family, and I get to spend
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 4: time with my friends and things like that. And sure
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 4: there's things I could have done that maybe I gave
• 1:43:01
  Speaker 4: up professionally to have more of a personal life. But
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 4: you own up and you make those decisions. And at
• 1:43:05
  Speaker 4: the end of the day, if you want to do
• 1:43:07
  Speaker 4: excellent things, it does take sacrifices. You're saying no to
• 1:43:11
  Speaker 4: things by saying yes to other things.
• 1:43:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well said, well well said, and again and again.
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 1: If you're if you're flipping like the whole, you know,
• 1:43:21
  Speaker 1: the sacrifices you make is directly, you know, indicative of
• 1:43:25
  Speaker 1: your desire for success.
• 1:43:26
  Speaker 3: That Dan Gable says.
• 1:43:27
  Speaker 1: If in that mind like you make the decision and
• 1:43:30
  Speaker 1: you know whatever repercussions come with it you are completely
• 1:43:32
  Speaker 1: fine with, then booble net is how you have prioritized
• 1:43:36
  Speaker 1: the value and energy you're putting in your life. But
• 1:43:39
  Speaker 1: to me, it's like the outside noise that comes in
• 1:43:41
  Speaker 1: and tries to separate, Like I can't believe this culture
• 1:43:43
  Speaker 1: in the NFL, like all this masculine bullshit.
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 3: Got say, yo, that's just the way it is.
• 1:43:48
  Speaker 1: And if you accept the terms of the game knowing
• 1:43:51
  Speaker 1: that stuff like this can happen, which they all we
• 1:43:53
  Speaker 1: all do, we all whatever line of work we want
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 1: to get or however you want to prioritize everything in
• 1:43:58
  Speaker 1: our life. You know what you're saying up for what
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 1: could be at risk if you make certain decisions.
• 1:44:04
  Speaker 3: But no, I thought that was I thought that was
• 1:44:06
  Speaker 3: well said there.
• 1:44:07
  Speaker 9: Yeah, well that works one that it's one that just
• 1:44:12
  Speaker 9: works you up because the moronic opinion that gets involved
• 1:44:18
  Speaker 9: and not compartmentalizing exactly what's being talked about.
• 1:44:22
  Speaker 2: Well, and it's uh, it's funny that like the masculinity
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 2: word was being thrown around as far as the NFL
• 1:44:28
  Speaker 2: goes it, Like find any industry where you basically any industry,
• 1:44:34
  Speaker 2: like if you're in fashion and you're like, hey, can
• 1:44:36
  Speaker 2: I take off for these two weeks? I know that
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 2: it's like the met Galla ball is that week, but yeah,
• 1:44:43
  Speaker 2: they'd be like, you're a psychopath, Like this is our
• 1:44:46
  Speaker 2: super Bowl? What are you doing?
• 1:44:48
  Speaker 4: I think waiting for that Yeah.
• 1:44:50
  Speaker 5: What I love about how you explained that all, and
• 1:44:53
  Speaker 5: I think it's so true is that whether you like
• 1:44:55
  Speaker 5: it or not, that is just the way it goes.
• 1:44:57
  Speaker 5: And that's like, I think that's what you're almost f
• 1:45:00
  Speaker 5: and against in the Twitter comments is a lot of
• 1:45:01
  Speaker 5: people go and kind of like playing it with the
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 5: idea already that it's unfair, and that's what they're trying
• 1:45:07
  Speaker 5: to argue, and you're not even trying to argue that,
• 1:45:09
  Speaker 5: You're trying to tell them like, this is just how
• 1:45:11
  Speaker 5: it goes exactly.
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 1: You're right, It's not like I'm not trying to tell
• 1:45:15
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to argue that it's like, yeah, dude,
• 1:45:17
  Speaker 1: fucking life's unfair.
• 1:45:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it depends on what game you're playing.
• 1:45:21
  Speaker 1: The game I played is all I can speak to
• 1:45:23
  Speaker 1: and speak on in that culture. But when it comes
• 1:45:25
  Speaker 1: to there's many industries, many jobs, many careers, many businesses
• 1:45:30
  Speaker 1: that those types of decisions happen and results like that
• 1:45:34
  Speaker 1: happen all the time.
• 1:45:35
  Speaker 3: Do I think it's fair? Fair is all subjective.
• 1:45:39
  Speaker 2: If you want responsibilities, you're gonna have to give up luxuries,
• 1:45:43
  Speaker 2: and that is across the board or whatever you're working
• 1:45:47
  Speaker 2: in masculine, feminine. I don't care like arts, blue collar,
• 1:45:52
  Speaker 2: white collar. It doesn't matter, Like if you're going to
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 2: be this guy up here, like, there's gonna be a
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 2: lot of stuff that you're gonna have to say. Unfortunately,
• 1:46:01
  Speaker 2: I have to give up some luxuries there.
• 1:46:03
  Speaker 4: We're kind of obviously just chatting out. But well, one
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 4: of the things that I see on social and I
• 1:46:07
  Speaker 4: never like to highlight the negative a social unless it's
• 1:46:09
  Speaker 4: like a hater mail stuff, but it does makes my
• 1:46:11
  Speaker 4: skin crawl, bro, when people go, oh, so the rich
• 1:46:14
  Speaker 4: guy has dad problems, Like, oh, you're so upset, bro,
• 1:46:18
  Speaker 4: because you're you gotta do this. Well, guess what you
• 1:46:20
  Speaker 4: have money? And I've seen so many people I will
• 1:46:22
  Speaker 4: say in this community that I haven't seen before come
• 1:46:24
  Speaker 4: in and be like, you're just it. You're just not
• 1:46:27
  Speaker 4: a good person if you think money solves the fact
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 4: that Rue wants to sing a song about her dad
• 1:46:33
  Speaker 4: going away like that is just such a like an
• 1:46:36
  Speaker 4: unfathomable part of the position that people are in at
• 1:46:39
  Speaker 4: times where it's like, well, they're rich, so why does
• 1:46:41
  Speaker 4: it matter if they're struggling as a dad, Because my
• 1:46:44
  Speaker 4: and they turn it, bro, And it's just like one
• 1:46:46
  Speaker 4: of those things where like that guy he can take
• 1:46:48
  Speaker 4: those two weeks, that's totally fine, Like that's okay, but
• 1:46:51
  Speaker 4: also there's stuff that comes with it.
• 1:46:53
  Speaker 3: And that means he's human. Bro.
• 1:46:55
  Speaker 4: We're all human, we say at the top of it.
• 1:46:57
  Speaker 4: We're figuring it out.
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 3: Bro.
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, did a great a great dude to listen to
• 1:47:03
  Speaker 1: on some subjects like whether it be career, whatever it is, philosophy, whatever.
• 1:47:08
  Speaker 1: But Naval Ravacan He's got a podcast. It's like three
• 1:47:11
  Speaker 1: or four hours long. It's called how to Get Rich.
• 1:47:14
  Speaker 1: It's like a tagline he uses because it's an attractive tagline,
• 1:47:17
  Speaker 1: but his whole premise is like wanting to get people
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 1: rich first because then once you're rich, like everybody, once
• 1:47:23
  Speaker 1: you get money, everybody realize, Okay, it solves a lot
• 1:47:25
  Speaker 1: of money problems that goes on. But there's all these
• 1:47:28
  Speaker 1: other cycles and he breaks down things in business and
• 1:47:31
  Speaker 1: life and personal ambitions and all these things.
• 1:47:34
  Speaker 3: That is like a very insightful.
• 1:47:36
  Speaker 1: Listen But in that he talks about, you know, it's
• 1:47:39
  Speaker 1: like game theory stuff. When you're choosing to participate in
• 1:47:43
  Speaker 1: the game of social media, like it's a zero sum game.
• 1:47:45
  Speaker 3: It's like people are punching up.
• 1:47:47
  Speaker 1: People are trying to, you know, make themselves feel better
• 1:47:49
  Speaker 1: because they feel like there's a sense of meeting, a
• 1:47:52
  Speaker 1: sense of meaning, because they feel like they're being a
• 1:47:54
  Speaker 1: morality police by being like, oh no, you should think
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 1: this way, or oh you're dumb, or just trying to
• 1:47:59
  Speaker 1: project that nonsense unto you. But in the social media stuff,
• 1:48:03
  Speaker 1: it's always a slippery slope. That's It's like when I
• 1:48:05
  Speaker 1: know I'm commenting on something and I know it's getting
• 1:48:08
  Speaker 1: some kind of mixture views like that, it's almost like
• 1:48:10
  Speaker 1: you got to look at some of this stuff and
• 1:48:12
  Speaker 1: then compartmentalize yourself, Like, Okay, before I get caught up
• 1:48:17
  Speaker 1: in trying to be understood by everybody, I need to
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 1: just know that this is something to where you're not
• 1:48:22
  Speaker 1: gonna make everybody think the way that I think about it.
• 1:48:26
  Speaker 3: So then you just try to flip it, all right,
• 1:48:27
  Speaker 3: how can I not? How can I be light about this? Brother?
• 1:48:30
  Speaker 3: I don't disagree with you post the thing about you know,
• 1:48:34
  Speaker 3: fourth grade to sixth grade or seventh grade, and then
• 1:48:36
  Speaker 3: the guy's like, well, are you sore? You being serious?
• 1:48:38
  Speaker 3: Are you trying to be funny?
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 1: Now?
• 1:48:40
  Speaker 3: You being a funny? Guy or a serious guy like man,
• 1:48:43
  Speaker 3: I'm just tweeting.
• 1:48:44
  Speaker 2: I'm just tweet I'm just being more confident man.
• 1:48:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like bro, because that that particular subject was definitely
• 1:48:53
  Speaker 1: making it, uh making waves around, just like the social community.
• 1:49:00
  Speaker 2: Have one on the show. In the back.
• 1:49:03
  Speaker 1: He goes, all right, do what you gotta do, fellas,
• 1:49:11
  Speaker 1: I gotta FaceTime with the family.
• 1:49:14
  Speaker 2: Sounds good, great, so great, so great, so great, so
• 1:49:18
  Speaker 2: sign off, mum. Yeah, pink hearts in the chat. Take
• 1:49:22
  Speaker 2: your trash out and uh put it in a can,
• 1:49:25
  Speaker 2: put it in
• 1:49:26
  Speaker 3: Put it in the cann