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The Vegan · Second Date Update

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Speaker 1: Tiffany and Cromwell is on the line. Tiffany, tell me
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Speaker 1: about this day you had with Evan.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we went and played mini golf and then
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Speaker 2: we went out to dinner. There was definitely a connection,
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Speaker 2: like we had fun and we even talked the next day.
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Speaker 2: I called him, Oh, okay, thank him, and you know,
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Speaker 2: but he sounded a little cold on the phone. He
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Speaker 2: was being a little weird and distant, and he was like, oh,
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Speaker 2: you know, give you a call s to set up
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Speaker 2: another day because you know, they don't know my schedule
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Speaker 2: right And now it's been three weeks and it's just
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Speaker 2: you know, like, was he a word all about it.
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Speaker 1: When you called him? Do you know if he was
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Speaker 1: at work or something it just couldn't take the call.
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Speaker 2: Good question, Yeah, good question. I actually don't know. I
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Speaker 2: didn't even think about that.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so that could be it. But three weeks, Jeff,
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Speaker 1: a guy taking three weeks.
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Speaker 3: I don't know.
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Speaker 4: When you you kind of glazed over a mini golf?
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Speaker 4: Were you like super competitive at mini golf? Did you
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Speaker 4: like beat him? Did you rub it in his face?
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Speaker 4: Like sometimes that can be a huge for guys.
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Speaker 2: You know what I did win? So maybe that I'm
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Speaker 2: masculated him. I don't know.
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Speaker 4: I know it doesn't sound like a big deal, but
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Speaker 4: to a guy, it is a big deal.
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Speaker 1: Okay, and my husband must be we're so.
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Speaker 2: Competitive life a couple of times he okay.
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Speaker 1: Well, then there's a couple of reasons this could be happening.
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Speaker 1: I'm very interested to find out.
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Speaker 3: You know.
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Speaker 1: We're just gonna let's just jump right in. I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: put you on hold. We're gonna call up Evan. We're
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Speaker 1: gonna ask him about the date. I'm gonna ask him
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Speaker 1: just to be honest and tell us why he is
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Speaker 1: ghosting you. Are you ready for the answer.
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Speaker 5: Though, Yeah?
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, I mean, what do I have to lose?
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Speaker 1: Okay, I wonder why those so.
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Speaker 2: No?
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Speaker 1: You know, I will give a credit.
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Speaker 6: I think after like week one, after being ghosted, I
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Speaker 6: would have just like completely given up deuces.
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Speaker 2: Hif or your name and reason for calling, I'll see
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Speaker 2: if this person is available.
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Speaker 1: Uh, Courtney, Hi is Evan there? Hi Evan, It's Courtney.
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Speaker 4: Evan, It's Walmart. Jeff.
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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Savanna, and you're on the radio. We're calling
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Speaker 1: from Kiss ninety five to seven this morning.
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Speaker 5: Good morning, Evan, Good morning.
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Speaker 1: Well, I want to tell you why we're calling you
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Speaker 1: because you're on second date update. Oh great, okay, all, well,
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Speaker 1: hopefully having you know what it's about. Second date update.
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Speaker 1: You get ghosted after first date and we try to
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Speaker 1: get the answers. I will tell you. Tiffany, who sounds lovely,
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Speaker 1: called us. She said, you guys played mini golf, you
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Speaker 1: went to dinner. She felt a connection. She actually says
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Speaker 1: she talked to you. She called you on the phone
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Speaker 1: to thank you for the date, and did talk to you,
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Speaker 1: and you said you were going to call her back.
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Speaker 1: And it's been three weeks.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean there's a couple of hiccups in net plan.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so is there a particular reason has been three
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Speaker 1: weeks and she's getting ghosted?
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Speaker 5: I mean, from my perspective, you know, we went to
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Speaker 5: mini golf and it was fine. I was great. Afterwards,
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Speaker 5: we went to my favorite steakhouse and she's she's vegan,
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Speaker 5: so the media red flag for me, But like I
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Speaker 5: was really honestly looking forward to getting a rabbi, and
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Speaker 5: she insisted that since she's vegan, that I respect respect
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Speaker 5: her and don't eat steak in front of her.
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Speaker 4: Oh hell no, no, no, I would have left.
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Speaker 1: I would have got up and left her right then
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Speaker 1: in the ass.
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Speaker 3: You don't want to to eat a salad, eat a
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Speaker 3: salad at a steakhouse? Yeah, Like I was like sitting
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Speaker 3: there wondering if I had, if I was allowed to
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Speaker 3: get blue cheese on my wedge salad. Like, I was like,
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Speaker 3: what what do I what?
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Speaker 5: What? What can I eat? What can't I? I'm not
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Speaker 5: vegan in any way, shape or form, Like I take
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Speaker 5: my steak's medium rare. I don't.
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Speaker 1: It's too for a meat and potatoes guy. That's too much?
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Speaker 1: Can I just bring it wrong? Because are you? Are you,
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Speaker 1: dear Tiffany?
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Speaker 2: I am? I am? I was just listening. I wanted
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Speaker 2: to see how far he was gonna go with it, Okay,
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Speaker 2: I'm just I'm totally put off by this because I
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Speaker 2: don't want to slaughter animals. I'm not like, oh god,
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Speaker 2: an okay, person, Like.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, like that's your personal life choice. You're gonna sit
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Speaker 5: here and impose them on me on our first date.
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Speaker 2: I I you could have actually what I liked or
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Speaker 2: where I wanted to go or anything you asked me out?
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Speaker 1: All right, So you are definitely like a a really
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Speaker 1: strong vegan like you don't.
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Speaker 2: Even since I was a kid, I love animals. I
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Speaker 2: grew up breathing them. I have a connection with them.
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Speaker 2: I just I can't. I can't do it, so ware
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Speaker 2: absolutely can't, and it makes me super sad, like so sad.
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Speaker 6: Well, okay, so like here's here's my thing. There's lots
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Speaker 6: of great vegan places. But I think it's great what
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Speaker 6: you're doing. I think it's it's fabulous, it's noble. But
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Speaker 6: I I don't know that you get to tell other people.
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Speaker 1: How to, she asked him, respectfully, would.
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Speaker 2: You not I'm supposed to kiss this guy or have
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Speaker 2: something to do with him later in the night and
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Speaker 2: like get to know him and be close with him,
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Speaker 2: and he just reeks of dead animals? Like how am
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Speaker 2: I ever supposed to be turned off?
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Speaker 3: Like?
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Speaker 2: How is that supposed to do anything for me?
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Speaker 5: I was gonna say, I love a good steak, like I'm.
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Speaker 3: An animal lover too.
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Speaker 5: I adopted a dog, I have three cats, like I don't.
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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay, but would you eat your cat?
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Speaker 5: Whoa my cat?
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Speaker 2: Yeah? So how is that different?
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Speaker 1: If necessary? He says, if necessary? Okay, my stomachs. Okay,
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Speaker 1: here's the thing I guess it's safe to say. You
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Speaker 1: know now why Tiffany, he was ghosting you.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's absolutely ridiculous. I can date a meat either.
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Speaker 2: I just really didn't want to go to a steakhouse
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Speaker 2: on their first date and have somebody like try to
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Speaker 2: foresheet me me and then like weird about it.
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Speaker 5: It was just okay, yeah, but can can Can I
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Speaker 5: date a vegan?
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Speaker 1: No? Listen, I respect both of you and both of
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Speaker 1: your views, and it's there's not going to be another date.
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Speaker 1: And I just I appreciate you calling us, Tiffany and Evan.
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Speaker 1: I appreciate you being honest and letting us know why
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Speaker 1: you were doing the ghosting.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, without doubt,