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Ocean Kent Emmett · Untraditionally Lala

• 0:08
  Speaker 1: What's up you guys.
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  Speaker 2: It's La La Kent with Randall. We are back.
• 0:14
  Speaker 1: So we went on our little break, which, okay, first
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  Speaker 1: of all, before we go there, we're in a temporary
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  Speaker 1: like I don't even know why, because if people are
• 0:27
  Speaker 1: listening and there's an echo, it's because we're in, like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: an industrial location.
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  Speaker 3: Your new podcast studio is twelve feet from us exactly.
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  Speaker 1: So it's being built out. So if it sounds echoey,
• 0:39
  Speaker 1: that's exactly why. Anyway, what we.
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  Speaker 2: Have been off the air for three months now.
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  Speaker 1: We told everyone in January Tim producer Tim, we still
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  Speaker 1: have him hi, that we would be back to February.
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  Speaker 2: I know. It's okay.
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  Speaker 3: Here's the thing. A couple of things happen. A couple
• 0:56
  Speaker 3: of things happen. Let's just put it out there. One
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  Speaker 3: we left our old network and we were very grateful
• 1:02
  Speaker 3: and thankful for them. They were great, and we have
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  Speaker 3: now signed with a new company and we're very excited.
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  Speaker 3: And also, let's be honest, you were in your final
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  Speaker 3: trimester about to give birth to our child, and you
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  Speaker 3: did give birth to our child, so you were.
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  Speaker 2: A little busy.
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  Speaker 3: So now that our baby is here, you were very
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  Speaker 3: excited to you know, I mean, you were ready to
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  Speaker 3: relaunch the podcast, and now it's our.
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  Speaker 2: Baby is sitting a foot away from us. Why we're podcasting.
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  Speaker 1: It's so amazing. No, we were planning on coming back
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  Speaker 1: February fourteenth, Valentine's Day. I was super hyped about it.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it would be cute to do it like that.
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  Speaker 1: But then, like most people have a due date and
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  Speaker 1: you kind of plan around that. Granted, you can't plan
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  Speaker 1: quote unquote pregnancy or when you're going to give birth,
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  Speaker 1: but for Randall and myself, it was like, we don't
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  Speaker 1: know when she's gonna come. So I just decided, let's
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  Speaker 1: put the podcast on hold, chill out. I'll enjoy however
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  Speaker 1: long I have left of being pregnant. And then on
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  Speaker 1: March fifteenth, I gave birth to my soulmates. Yes, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm kent emit.
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  Speaker 3: I am very proud of you. You have become the
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  Speaker 3: most well you're already a most amazing woman, but now
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  Speaker 3: you're an amazing mother and you already were an amazing
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  Speaker 3: step mother. So now you're superstar mom and superstar badass fiance.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you've got all the titles.
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  Speaker 1: Two of the things I never aspired to be in
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  Speaker 1: my wait, the mom part, I did aspire the.
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  Speaker 2: Second one you could talk about being a mom so the.
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  Speaker 1: Day I met Yeah, the first one, I definitely always
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  Speaker 1: aspired to be the badass Fyance never was even in
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  Speaker 1: the vicinity of I just wanted to like be a
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  Speaker 1: boss bitch.
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  Speaker 3: Well, let's style it back for a minute for everybody,
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  Speaker 3: because you know, I think I've learned being with you.
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  Speaker 3: You know, these articles and stuff that come out, I've
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  Speaker 3: learned that. You know, they do show a side, a
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  Speaker 3: slice of these moments that you've had.
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  Speaker 2: But let's style it back because that day.
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  Speaker 3: Let's just I think it'd be nice to kick off
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  Speaker 3: this podcast, our first episode, our first week with kind
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  Speaker 3: of just take us through what you were going through
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  Speaker 3: from the night before when you knew we were going
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  Speaker 3: to the hospital the next morning, and then getting up
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  Speaker 3: at seven in the morning and heading to the hospital
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  Speaker 3: and all the way to twenty four hours later when
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  Speaker 3: she came, Oh.
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  Speaker 2: God, oh here come the tears, like you for doing that?
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  Speaker 2: Why this is beautiful stuff everybody wants to hear.
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  Speaker 3: And I think you're so people don't realize Lala is
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  Speaker 3: the well people probably do not, and before you say this,
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  Speaker 3: I just want to say, who don't realize you are
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  Speaker 3: such an emotionally beautiful person and so vulnerable and so
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  Speaker 3: everything you know, And I don't think everybody knows that.
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  Speaker 3: I think a lot of people do, but a lot
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  Speaker 3: of people don't. And I think that since you've become
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  Speaker 3: a mother to your own baby, you have just been
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  Speaker 3: such an epic human of just of every proportion. And
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  Speaker 3: I am so proud to call you the mother of
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  Speaker 3: our daughters. So I just want to be able to
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  Speaker 3: hear your journey because it was it was your first
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  Speaker 3: time giving birth.
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  Speaker 2: And it was a big fucking deal.
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  Speaker 3: So just tell me, just share just whatever you want
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  Speaker 3: to share it, because I thought it was the most
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  Speaker 3: beautiful moment, you know, ever of our relationship. And we've
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  Speaker 3: had a lot of beautiful moments, but this one definitely
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  Speaker 3: is the one I will remember trumps.
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  Speaker 1: Them all for me at least. Well, I feel like
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  Speaker 1: that's kind of where I got excited that they scheduled
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  Speaker 1: me to be induced, because I got to enjoy the
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  Speaker 1: last moments of certain things like most people, like when
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  Speaker 1: my water breaks. Whereas I knew that I was going
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  Speaker 1: in at seven o'clock in the morning on March fourteenth,
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  Speaker 1: which was a Sunday, and that the night before it
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, she's kicking, like come tomorrow
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  Speaker 1: or you know, you never really know when it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: pop out. But I got to think about those little
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  Speaker 1: last moments of her and my tummy, or the last
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  Speaker 1: horrific night's sleep, which till are not great. So mean
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  Speaker 1: there even worse. So we we wake up, we go
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  Speaker 1: to the hospital. Randall got to see something happen to
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  Speaker 1: me that he's never seen before. That kind of happens
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  Speaker 1: to me often the most basic thing tim when you
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  Speaker 1: go in to be induced or just to have a baby,
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  Speaker 1: they put the ivy in your arm, right, oh.
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  Speaker 2: Right, that's where you're going.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so they do this right as I check in whatever.
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  Speaker 1: We're in the bed, and I told the nurse, I
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  Speaker 1: pass out. When you tell me that my vein is
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  Speaker 1: rollie that you can't quite find it, you are fucking me,
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  Speaker 1: like mentally beyond okay.
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  Speaker 3: Let me let me I really, because I know your
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  Speaker 3: audience loves when I shut up. But I'm gonna I
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  Speaker 3: am gonna step in right here. I'm gonna I want
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  Speaker 3: to say this story because Lala really doesn't have any
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  Speaker 3: place to tell this part. I wanted her to share
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  Speaker 3: every beautiful moment of being the mother and giving birth
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  Speaker 3: to our daughter.
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  Speaker 1: This is what I'm gonna tell, okay, but let me
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  Speaker 1: let me just say one thing, you Kim. I said
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  Speaker 1: to the nurse right before it happened, because I always
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  Speaker 1: know when it's gonna happen. I tell them my arms
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  Speaker 1: and legs are going numb. I'm going to pass out.
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  Speaker 1: I warned them. I already know that that's going to happen.
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  Speaker 2: That's not what happened.
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  Speaker 1: I did. I warned that woman. I warned the nurse.
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  Speaker 1: He says, I didn't. Okay, tell your version.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell the version because I was there and
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  Speaker 2: it was fucked up. So let me tell you. So.
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  Speaker 3: I don't do really well with needles either. So you
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  Speaker 3: got Lala and I are both like woosies when it comes.
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  Speaker 3: But you know you're there with your best friend and
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  Speaker 3: your partner, so you know if they got to cut
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  Speaker 3: her open, I would obviously I get through it.
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  Speaker 2: So here's what I want to say.
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  Speaker 3: So she's laying there, we had just got there. We
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  Speaker 3: are like so emotional, we are like on cloud nine.
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  Speaker 3: We're walking in. We're like, here we are, we got
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  Speaker 3: our bags packed. We walk into Cedars and I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, it's like that moment you're just like so excited.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm so excited for her because she has been
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  Speaker 3: carrying our daughter for nine months and I'm very very
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  Speaker 3: proud of her. But and and and and so blessed
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  Speaker 3: to have such a great partner. So now that kiss dress, I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Not get into the details. So we walk into the room,
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  Speaker 2: she lays down, she gets her gown on. She's there.
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  Speaker 3: The nurse comes in and Lalla tells her I pass
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  Speaker 3: out very easily. And I'm thinking, okay, passing out.
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  Speaker 2: If she passes out, she's in the bed. She ain't
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  Speaker 2: going anywhere.
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  Speaker 3: But there's a difference between and exorcism and passing around.
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  Speaker 2: No, it's it's fucked up. I'm gonna tell you how.
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  Speaker 2: You don't even know what happens. Happened.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So she's laying there, they get the needle out,
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  Speaker 3: they take her thing, and she's telling them and I'm
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  Speaker 3: talking to her. I'm holding her hand and I'm holding
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  Speaker 3: and I'm looking right in her eyes and I say, baby,
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  Speaker 3: it's gonna be okay, just hanging there, and the nurse goes, okay,
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  Speaker 3: you ready, and she counts down, and I'm looking right
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  Speaker 3: at my partners, right in her eyes. I'm looking right
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  Speaker 3: in her eyes and we're talking and as the needle
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  Speaker 3: I'm looking at.
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  Speaker 2: The needle going in.
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  Speaker 3: I'm kind of keeping her eyes shielded so I shouldn't
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  Speaker 3: see anything. As they're doing whatever they're doing to get
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  Speaker 3: it into her vein, I see her eyes start to
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  Speaker 3: roll back into her head.
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  Speaker 2: This is not passing out, passing out as you go
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  Speaker 2: to sleep, right, the eyes are in her head. Now
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  Speaker 2: I'm making a joke of this.
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  Speaker 3: Now I am telling you that I was gonna have
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  Speaker 3: a heart attack and hit the fucking floor. And I
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  Speaker 3: literally said la la, la la. And I said to
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  Speaker 3: the nurse, ma'am, there's something wrong because like you see
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  Speaker 3: her best friend and your partner, you know, eyes going ahead.
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  Speaker 3: This it's horrifying, Like I've never seen anything like this.
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  Speaker 3: I've been with her for five years. And I say lala,
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  Speaker 3: and she is. Elvis has left the building. And now
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  Speaker 3: I tell them, I tell them, please stop whatever you're
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  Speaker 3: doing right now, because Lawa is not And then they
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  Speaker 3: see that Lala's eyes are in her head and she's gone,
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  Speaker 3: and I say, they say, La La, Now I know
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  Speaker 3: they're nervous, they're they're freaked out, like I'm freaked out,
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  Speaker 3: And all of a sudden, her eyes come back to
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  Speaker 3: her where they're supposed to be. I'm only laughing now,
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't laughing then and she's and Lala says, what
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  Speaker 3: what's going on?
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  Speaker 1: No, because they're all dead stare at me, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: why every you know, like I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: You said hi?
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  Speaker 3: He said okay, and then they kept doing it and
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  Speaker 3: then they went back into her head again, and then
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  Speaker 3: I said, call the doctor right now. I'm not cool
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  Speaker 3: at this. There's something fucking wrong. And she was gone
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  Speaker 3: like they were trying to wake her up on her
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  Speaker 3: like the eyes were thed. No, and it was I'm
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  Speaker 3: laughing because.
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  Speaker 1: It's over, because it's over.
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  Speaker 2: I'm laughing, it is over.
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  Speaker 3: But I also want to say that tears were in
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  Speaker 3: my eyes they saw and I please call the doctor
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  Speaker 3: right now.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not joking.
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  Speaker 3: And then they they did call the doctor and both
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  Speaker 3: of them us they had gotten it in and.
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  Speaker 2: Her eyes came back to her. They're supposed to be
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  Speaker 2: for the second time. And then I said, lawa, do
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  Speaker 2: you know where you're at? Do you? And they said
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  Speaker 2: do you know where you're at? And she said, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm in the.
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  Speaker 1: They go, la, la, do you know where you are
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  Speaker 1: and what you're doing? And I go, yes, I'm at Cedars.
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  Speaker 1: I'm having a baby today.
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  Speaker 2: Just like it was nothing.
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  Speaker 1: I knew where the fun was.
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  Speaker 2: Like a sitcom or something.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't, yeah, sitcom, I don't know if it was that,
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  Speaker 3: but but let me tell.
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  Speaker 1: You this, it was like crying in the corner.
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  Speaker 3: Wasn't crying in the corner. I was crying right holding
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  Speaker 3: your hand. But anyway, okay, So then they gave her
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  Speaker 3: some kind of juice.
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  Speaker 2: Was the juice that you.
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  Speaker 1: Like when you honest, honest kids, juice box.
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  Speaker 2: They give her honest kids juice box. But listen to this.
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  Speaker 2: Listen listen to this.
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  Speaker 3: After she after she has the juice, she comes back
• 11:02
  Speaker 3: to her normal state and now she's calm and.
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  Speaker 1: I and now Randall's freaking because that little, that little
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  Speaker 1: tiny fucking thing that goes in your arm and then
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  Speaker 1: the epidural is kind of.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I was gonna totally.
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  Speaker 3: But the epidural was in a little while, like we
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  Speaker 3: were gonna give it a few hours. So I say
• 11:22
  Speaker 3: to her, I say to her, I'm just gonna step
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  Speaker 3: outside just for a quick second. I literally took the
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  Speaker 3: elevator down to the street to get eric because I
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  Speaker 3: thought I was going to pass out. I thought I
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  Speaker 3: was going to pass out in front of her while
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  Speaker 3: she was passing out. Then we'd both be passed out.
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  Speaker 3: Would be bad. So I went downstairs, took a walk,
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  Speaker 3: true story, true story.
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  Speaker 2: I called her mother. I do that a lot.
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  Speaker 3: And then I called my mother on a three way
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  Speaker 3: and I said to them, what just happened. I said,
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  Speaker 3: Law's eyes were rolled back in her head. And then
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  Speaker 3: I was in tears on the phone to them, because
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  Speaker 3: you know, you love somebody so much, you don't want
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  Speaker 3: to see them, you know, in any kind of anything
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  Speaker 3: that's out of normal.
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  Speaker 2: Let's say. So it was. It was just a really
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  Speaker 2: harsh moment for me. But thank god she was okay.
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  Speaker 3: And then and then I went back upstairs, and then
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  Speaker 3: we hung out for like a couple hours while you
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  Speaker 3: just you know why, we just waited, and then as
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  Speaker 3: you started getting discomfort, then we did the epidural and
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  Speaker 3: by the way, you.
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  Speaker 1: Told Randall was so emotionally scarred from me having an exorcism.
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  Speaker 1: I call it passing out because they said it was.
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  Speaker 1: I did not seize. It was definitely you fainted because
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  Speaker 1: Ocean's heart rate stayed normally, like the baby was not affected.
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  Speaker 2: That is true, but I thought to thank God.
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  Speaker 1: But Randall was so affected. My mom was supposed to
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  Speaker 1: come in on a Tuesday.
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  Speaker 2: You have to got Tuesday, you have to say the
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  Speaker 2: whole thing.
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  Speaker 1: He made her come in on Sunday, so he's like, surprise,
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  Speaker 1: your mom's here. I'm like, oh see, you are not
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  Speaker 1: about this life.
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  Speaker 2: You are not about it. That's bullshit, that life.
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  Speaker 1: I was joking, okay, because we're honey, it's a podcast,
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  Speaker 1: ha ha, let's laugh about it. Oh you're about that life.
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  Speaker 3: I am about that life about Oh can I just
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  Speaker 3: say one thing though, and then I want, I really
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  Speaker 3: want you to tell your journey from It's going to
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  Speaker 3: be a.
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  Speaker 1: Long journey because you keep butting in.
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  Speaker 2: I know, but it's fun.
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  Speaker 3: When they did the epidural, I looked you right in
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  Speaker 3: the face, I said, look at me, and I told
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  Speaker 3: the nurse, do not.
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  Speaker 1: Are you taking credit for the epidural going.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm getting upset right now.
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  Speaker 1: The epidural went well because I told her before she started,
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  Speaker 1: don't talk to me about the needle size. Don't count
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  Speaker 1: it down. I'm going to turn around. Okay, I told
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  Speaker 1: her I don't want to know a thing about baby.
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  Speaker 2: Remember when I was looking right in your eyes and we.
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  Speaker 1: Were kissing, Randall, if you don't stop this rookie nonsense.
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  Speaker 1: This is season two of Give Them La La with
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  Speaker 1: Randall to the podcast, brought to you by Westwood.
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  Speaker 2: One, our new partner. Okay, I did. Now I want
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  Speaker 2: to say something anyway, She noted.
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  Speaker 3: The epidural, which I thought was going to be ten
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  Speaker 3: times worse than.
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  Speaker 1: The IB, was nothing because they didn't psych me out emotionally.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's our story. Let's go back to the beautiful
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  Speaker 3: part of giving birth to our daughter. Okay, you giving
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  Speaker 3: birth to our daughter. I want you to have this
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  Speaker 3: episode to be really about you. I wanted to make
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  Speaker 3: light and fun, but the truth is I want to
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  Speaker 3: reset the stage what you did and how you did it.
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  Speaker 3: I am so blessed to have a partner, you know,
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  Speaker 3: and I mean that, and I want you to tell
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  Speaker 3: people your journey because it was really beautiful watching your
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  Speaker 3: transformation from Lalla before you had the baby, even though
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  Speaker 3: you were a sap as a pregnant woman. But since
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  Speaker 3: you since ocean has been here. Oh my god, we'll
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  Speaker 3: talk about that later.
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  Speaker 2: And we're back.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I love the enthusia. Oh my gosh. Okay, so
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  Speaker 1: we get there whatever the whole long story with the
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  Speaker 1: needle and the season or whatnot. So then they start
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  Speaker 1: the balloon and so the survey. So I'm looking at
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  Speaker 1: producer Tim. He's like, I wish I was a female
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  Speaker 1: right now. I wish I were a girl. And I
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  Speaker 1: couldn't even stand it. So I got the epidural super quick.
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  Speaker 1: I was feeling no fucking pain, but I was so
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  Speaker 1: anxious because I felt like just a torso like it's stub.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't fill my legs when it's time
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  Speaker 1: to push. How am I even going to know how
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  Speaker 1: to get her out of my body? You know? So
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  Speaker 1: that I was tripping about and Randall kept trying to
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  Speaker 1: call me down, like your body's gonna know what to do? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: flash too. That night they've told me you're not having
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  Speaker 1: the baby today, like you'll probably have it later tomorrow
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  Speaker 1: because you have not dilated at all. I think by
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  Speaker 1: the time I went I think by the time I
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  Speaker 1: went to sleep, I was at a four, which is
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: like not a lot, especially when they've induced you with
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  Speaker 1: like that balloon thing.
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  Speaker 3: And keep in mind, I want people to remember, you
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  Speaker 3: were induced three weeks.
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  Speaker 1: Early, correct, thirty seven weeks exactly.
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  Speaker 2: So there's a whole.
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  Speaker 3: Nother level of anxiety for us because we knew she
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: was going to be under six pounds, but we also
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: were nervous because we weren't one hundred percent sure what
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: was going to happen. And they and they did tell
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: us to that there is a chance.
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: They didn't say.
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: Either way, they just said, there's a because we're inducing early,
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: there is a chance that our daughter will go to
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: the NIC.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: You for them, Yes, don't cry because it didn't happen,
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: but no, thank god. Okay, so they do that whole thing.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: That night. I slept like a fucking champion.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: That is a crazy part.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: They were like, you're not going to get any sleep tonight,
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: so just like, try to rest your eyes at least
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: I knocked the fuck out. They came in to break
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: my water and it was at like no four in
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: the morning.
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: No. Seven, at got there right hold on.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: Scranda was like because he was like, we woke him
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: up out of a stupor.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: I was on the couch. I was on the couch. Wait,
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: I was on the couch sleeping.
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: I mean, they make him into these beds, these couches
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: that her mom and all of us were.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: Keep in mind, today is Ocean's actual due dates. So
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: I'm like, soon I want to relive this.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: So they come in and break my water. Producer to
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: him and the nurse comes in. She's like, I'm gonna
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: change your like bedding and pads because you're in a
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: lot of water. I was so fucking tired. I go,
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: can you just leave it the way it is? I go,
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: I can't feel anything. So I was just laying in
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: just like a pond of water. Okay that I had
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: no fucking idea because I was so numb. Fast forward too,
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: like four in the morning, she comes back in. It
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: was every two hours, so whenever they broke my water,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: they were then checking to see like when is this
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: baby gonna come? Six am rolls around, nurse comes in,
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: shoves her fingers up there. It's It's so crazy how
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: it becomes just so natural when you see the nurse
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: come in, you just like flop your legs open. My
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: legs were so heavy and I couldn't feel them that
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: the only way I knew that they were hanging off
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: the bed was because my body would fall the one side.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, are he's on the ground, and you
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: would come over and have to put them back on
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: the butt. It was fucking hysterical. Anyway. She puts her
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: fingers up my kookie and says, oh my god, we're like,
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: we're there. You're you're at a ten and I don't
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: know what this means. You're at a ten plus three,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: She says, I can feel the head. She goes, So,
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: what you're gonna do is you're gonna give me one
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: practice push. I just want to see how this is
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: gonna go, because you could be pushing anywhere from like
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: four to six hours.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: I guess said that to us early one earlier.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: So I do one practice push.
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: She goes.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: Stop, She goes, I need you not to move until
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: the doctor gets.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: Here, because so the baby was literally could have come
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: out right then. And then, by the way, during this day,
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: are they woke me up, and I am I was
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: in a sleeping stupor they wake me up, and I.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: Think, oh my god, okay, it's whatever, six three whatever time.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: I got up.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: I walk over and they've already got the legs are
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: already up and they're like, grab a leg and I'm
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: like what. So I grabbed leg and and and now
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: we're waiting for the doctor to show up. And I
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: say to the nurse, how long do you think She goes, no,
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: you don't understand. When the doctor walks in the room,
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: you're gonna have your daughter.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: And I'm like what.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: The nurse is like, I can see the head right now?
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Oh, they asked me. They said, do you want to
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: see your daughter's head right now? I said absolutely not.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: Which I didn't mind. It was like, stay honey, side
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: of the baby.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: I would have I would have hit the ground if
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: I saw anything.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: So the doctor fucking walks in and I say, are
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: you gonna tent my legs? He goes no time, that's
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: what he said.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: Because I said, babe, don't worry. Lala kept saying look
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: at me, don't worry, and I was like, Babe, we're
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: doing this together. And then literally I said, what do
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: you think they're gonna do you think they're gonna put
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: something up? And the doctor said when Lala asked him,
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: I remember, he said, no time, gotta go.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: And literally literally he asked you to push. I had
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: your leg, I held your hand. You pushed two times.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: No, no, no. I pushed for two contractions, which was a
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: total if you include my practice push seven times. On
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: the final push, tim, I start right and I see
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: over and I see her head coming out. It was
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: he originally says to me, the heads out. Do you
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: want to feel and due to like the arm and
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: the needle, I was like, I can't risk passing out
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: at this point, you know, like I trust you that
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: it's there, and I'm like, we're good. I don't want
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: to feel it. And it was, oh my god. Okay.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: So Brittany and Jack's are about to have their baby
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: and I she came over to see ocean and I
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: literally when I see a pregnant person, now I'm like,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: this insane person. I'm like, I'm so excited for you.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: You have no idea what this experience is going to
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: be like when you give birth. There looking at me
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: like yeah, I'm really excited I'm like, no, you don't
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: get it. Like I all I did was saw because
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: I felt like my heart was going to explode if
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: it didn't come out of somewhere else.
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: Oh when you yeah, and then talk about the moment
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: they handed you your daughter.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. You you just sit there and you're like,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: I can't believe. Yes, the men help tremendously creating.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: Thank you, like you okay, sure, but you're you're the hero.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: But you're the hero.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: We sat there and have this this thing in us
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: for nine months, and it is relying on every decision
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: that we make to put into our you know, like
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: everything can't get botox anymore. You know, I can't drink
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: if I no, but it's like if I need two
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: cups of coffee to wake up, Like I can't do that.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: But but but I want you to tell people the
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: moment because I because it was magical for me to
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: see you when they handed you your daughter.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: That moment.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I wondered, like how I existed before that moment?
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: You know? I remember, like.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Even still right now, I'm like, okay, it's three weeks,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: she's still brand new, But I'm like, no, how can
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: it already be three weeks.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: You.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Get upset everything. Yeah, right now, you love.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you you love my hormones.
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: But no, no, your hormones are one thing.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: But Lala, I've known you for five years. I have
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: never seen you like this.
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: I mean, this is your love for your daughter is
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: is second to none.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: I just have never felt anything like when when I
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: would ask people like, what does it feel like? And
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: they're like, you can't describe it sounds so corny, like
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: you cannot describe it.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: Agree with you?
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the love for the love you have for a
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: child is really hard to describe.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: It's just that love is so powerful. And I think
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: you're a parent, you know.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I mean it's really a weird thing because you know,
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: as children, you know, we have parents, you know, and
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: we're raised to love our parents and that connection we
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: have to our parents, even when you go through shit
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: with your parents and we all do you know, you
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: have an argument or you don't get along, or you
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: don't want.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: To go to Christmas.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: I don't know Christmas luncheon, because it's just you know,
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: whatever bs that you know, you get into, you always
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: that connection you have with your parents you can never
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: have with anybody else, It's just a different thing. Yeah,
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: I love for a parent, and I really believe that
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: as a parent, and I think you probably agree completely.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: But watching Lalla have that connection.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: When the hand of your baby.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: Was was no. My identity became just simply I'm Ocean's mom. Nothing.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: I don't nothing else. I don't consist of anything else.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: That is my identity.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: And by the way, you do you remember what the
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: first the first thing you said when they handed your daughter.
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: I don't know if you remember, because you were you don't,
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: probably medicating up a little bitter. But do you remember
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: when they hand her too, and the first thing you
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: said to me? I don't think you remember, but maybe
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: you do. You said it over and over the whole day.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: What did I say?
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: You said, I've never been this happy before, and I'm
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: so full of love.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: I was so I am so full of like, I've
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: never been more in love with anything in my whole life.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: I love you, I love thank you.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: Give them with Ocean coming down for real.
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: No, but I but it was so beautiful because you
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: were you had just given birth minutes before, and you
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: were holding your baby and they you literally kept saying
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: over and over and I was really blown away.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: You kept saying, I'm so my heart is solful. My
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: heart is so ful.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: That's how it felt.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like it was very special.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: The only way to release, like you feel like you're
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: going to explode, the only way I can describe it.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: And that night they would, you know, come in and feed,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: help me feed, or you know, give her the bubba
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: because she wasn't pooping, and so she had to be
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: on formula for a sec because they were trying to
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: kickstart that system. Anyway. I could talk about every little
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: but they put her back in her like little like
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: a bass and I think, oh, hi, she woke up
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: for a second. God, she's so cute.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: This is a cute baby. By My mom called me
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: over the weekend and for like five minutes she was like,
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: Ocean is so cute. And I was like, thanks, Ma,
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: I know, I agree, she is very cute. What do
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: you have to say about my kids?
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: Like, I'm way more interested in Margo and Darcy.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: She was all about Ocean.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: That is. I mean, obviously we're biased, but I think
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: she's a pretty beautiful baby.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: She is.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: No but let me just say, oh quick, that night
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: in the little bacinet that they put them in the
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: cute hospital ones that are see through. Her eyes were open.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: I stayed awake all night long and I just stared
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: at her. I like got her out of her little bascinet.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I'm like, how can I sleep? Be like, what if
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: you do something and I miss it?
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: You didn't want to miss any by the way, I
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: that theme of not missing anything, because.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: You know, you could say it's a cliche, but for you,
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: it's literal.
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: Like every second for the last three weeks, you don't
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: want to do shit except stare at your daughter and listen.
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: I have been there by your side at every second.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: But like, if I'm like, babe, let's go downstairs get
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: a pop school, You're like, no, you can go downstairs
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: and get a popsicle.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Because I have to be here next to Ocean.
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: I'm like, but baby Ocean is swaddled and asleep, you know,
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: and we have the camera and we'll just come right
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: back upstairs. We'll take a whole fourteen second step. No,
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: got to be right here, like you really taken.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: But it is a.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: Beautiful thing and I really love watching it because to
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: have you as the mother you are within three weeks
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: of having a baby is.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: It's just unbelievable. The connection you have to Ocean is beautiful.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: She's my best friend.
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: And I'm going to tell you something.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: I knew you were going to be a phenomenal mother,
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: because you're an incredible stepmother to my children, But when
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: you have your own baby, your own biological baby, watching
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: you from newborn from the minute.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: She came out, I can't.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: You must have said that night when she came out,
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: twenty five times, how full your heart is, and how
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: in love you are.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: And how and how.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: You love her so much. You said it over and
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: over and over, and I just knew that this connection
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: that you have is the deepest connection I've ever seen
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: you experience.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: It's all of it.
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: It's so obsessed and it's by the way, and you
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: say it even to even today when we're in the
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: you brought her in and we're in the office. You know,
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: you're just like when her arms, I said, babe, she
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: looks like she is she full now because she just
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: had breast fetter. And you said, and you said, and
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: you said, let me see. And you took a second.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: You took her off the nipple, the boo, the boot
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: and you were holding her and her arms were outstretched,
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: her hands were open, and I said, she looks calm,
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: and she looks you know, chill now, and you go, yeah.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: See when her hands are open and relaxed, that means
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: she's happy. And when they're clenched, I'm like, I mean
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: you you.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: It was also very telling when she's not screaming, bloody murder,
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: that's what I She's hungry. She's literally screaming. That's why
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: bloody murdered.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: That's why I thought she was That's why I thought
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: she was full. But I didn't know there were hands
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: symbols too, so signals.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: So that's pretty epic.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: No, she definitely ocean for being three weeks early, has
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: mad pipes, and she is strong as a motherfucker. This
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: kid is lifting her head up off my chest and
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: looking at me.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: No, she's strong af Now I know exactly what was
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: like jamming into my ribcage and things like that. I
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: was always like, what the fuck that?
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: When I would feel her stomach and it was cute
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: like in the beginning, she just pushed and I was,
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: oh my god, and you get emotional.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: And you touch here.
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: And then I came back from shooting the film, and
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: it came home and it was a new thing. It
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: was like a elbow, an elbow that moved across the
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: entire stomach. It was like pushing through the skin. I
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: was like, what is going on? She is going to
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: come through your stomach.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: No, it felt that way.
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: I thought she was going to pop out me.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: Too, I for sure did. I just can't believe she's here. Man.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: Well, I am very proud to be your partner and
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: father of Ocean because you are an incredible mother, and
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: you know how you how you handled your pregnancy and
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: delivery and raising our baby was five star.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Look at me differently.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: Somebody asked me that the other day. I don't know
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: if it was you, because I think you have asked
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: me that. No, the truth is this, I look at you.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: I cherish you so much that I don't look at
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: you differently. I think that our connection is deeper, and
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: I didn't think we could have a deeper connection than
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: we already have.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying? Yeah, I don't.
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: I didn't think I could love you any more than
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: I already do because you're my soulem. But watching you
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: love Ocean is beautiful.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: Five star.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: Yes, and so I think there my love for you
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: is stronger in a way that maybe it's on a
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: different level that I didn't think was possible, because I
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: just felt like, we're so in love with one another
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: and we're best friends. But watching you with our daughter,
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: you know, watching you with Ocean is is just a
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: really beautiful thing. And you know, look, I already knew
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: you were going to be a five star fucking mom.
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: I'm just saying this. I already knew. I know you're
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: such a lover and such a vulnerable person and such
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: a giver, you know, and you were patient af with
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: with London and Riley. But when she's screaming at the
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: top of her lugs, Ocean and I've run in and
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: I'm like, what's going on?
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: Do we need to go to the doctor? And you're
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: like stop, just hungry, and you're just chill, you're relaxed.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: You just get the you just get the boob out,
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: you get put in her mouth, And I'm like, who
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: are you?
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: Like you used to lose your ship.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: If the gardener outside was mowing the lawn too loud
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: and the person I.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Would still lose my shit. Just Ocean can do no wrong.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: That's what I mean.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is you're this epic mom and
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: when I watch you with her, nothing rattles you, and
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: I get rattle because I'm so nerts Like I've told
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: you baby, she okay, baby, Like I'm such an anxious dad,
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: like you.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: Know, newborn, and I'm like, what you know? And I'm
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: trying to, you know, be there with you.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: But you actually have been calming me down because you
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: just it's like you you own it, you got it,
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: like and I have to kind of look to you
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: to like and like when I'm holding her if she
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: starts freaking her out, freaking out, you kind of calm
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: me down a lot. So I think that my love
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: for you can never be stronger. But it's the the deeper.
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: It's because we have this beautiful little girl and and
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: you gave her to us.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: She's so perfect. But can I tell you today I
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: went to the bank.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Hold on, You're a pivot y, that's my pivot. Wow.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: I loved you.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: I needed that boost. I needed the boost. Just just
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: be patient with me. I'm gonna remember you exist at
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: some point.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, you know what, Let me go back to uh,
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: let me answer that question.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: I love all. I love you so much as well.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: You are everything.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: You know that I'm not sure right now, you do know,
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: let's take.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: I love you very much, and you know that I've
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: texted you very kind of things letting you know how
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: much I love you and how grateful I am for
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: the life that you have provided us with that's full
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: of love. And now you've given me Ocean, so you're
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: like perfect in my book. Okay, this is what I
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: was going to say, because you were talking about how
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I've changed, so I want to say, Oh, I walked
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: into today and I had topped Ocean off on the
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: boobs before we went to the bank, and I was
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: dressed right, so I just like pulled my little cami
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: down with the breastfeeding broth underneath, clipped it back up,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: and I forgot to pull my came back over in
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: a nursing bra. So I just walked into the bank
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: with the bra out, cammy just around the belly, and
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: a blazer on. Okay, with my Chanelle bag, my Gucci uh,
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: my Gucci diaper bag, and my cute new kid which
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: I cover like you should see. Everyone's like, what is
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: in there exactly? I'm like a newborn baby. They're like, well,
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: we would assume because it's in a car seat, but
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: the way it's covered, you would think that there's something
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: very I'm like, yeah, ocean fucking ken Emmett is in there,
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: so it's something very special anyway. So yeah, that's how.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: That's how this story is.
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: And I've noticed it because I know you get frustrated
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: a lot lately. Is that your forgetfulness and like.
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: With with meetings and dates colendis. But you know what
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: I said to you.
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: The doctor told us and other mothers have told you
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: that pregnancy really fucks with the mind, you know, with
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: remembering things. And I told you to be patient and
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: kind to yourself and not get frustrated because you get
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: frustrated very easily with that. And you just gave birth
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: like twenty one days ago, and we are back.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: We're just talking about all things babies. Because I have
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: no other identity in one track mind. I don't consist
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: of anything cool anymore. So that is what I was saying.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I look at my emails right today, and usually I'm
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: very good. Like you tell me a date, it's stuck
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: with me. I'm not forgetting it. I like rarely have
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: to write anything down, even though I have a book
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: for it. Anyway, So I have a book coming out
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: called Give Them Lala obviously on May fourth. You can
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: pre order now, though you.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: Change the title give them Lawa with Randall.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: No, I didn't, just yeah.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: Just me, I thought. I thought with Randall bleeds over time.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: So we're starting the little press tour right next week,
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: and they're giving me dates and all of this stuff,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: and they were adding something to the virtual press tour,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: and they gave me two dates, the fifteenth or the sixteenth,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: and I look at my response and I go, let's
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: actually do the thirteenth, because because Ocean has this doctor's
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: appointment on the fourteenth. They're like, oh, cool about the
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: doctor's appointment. But that was no date number one. It
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: wasn't an option. And then I just like, involuntarily give
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: you the fact that my kid has a doctor's appointment
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: on the fourteenth, because in my mind, those were the
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: dates they gave me. I cried in the office today
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: because I was like, how can I be so clueless
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: right now? Like is this going to be a forever thing?
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: Because I'm so ocd that shit, and I like to
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: have control and I don't have any right now, so
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of tweaking out.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you'll you'll get that back. So because
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: she's got baby brain right now, Yeah.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: No one's gonna want to work with me. They're gonna
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: be like, this bitch is crazy. Do you know how
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: any doctor's appointments When I was pregnant with Ocean I
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: went to on the wrong like three or three or four.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: I would walk in and finally they'd be like, we'll
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: just fit you in. Can you come at lunch? No,
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: it's so I feel for moms. I totally get it.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: You are one now.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: No, okay, I know weird feel for your kind now, yeah,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: those are my people. Those are my my folks. What
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: are you gonna say, rand, Do you think we're still
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: good at podcasting?
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: You don't know, No, I don't know.
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: I never even thought anybody would listen in the first place.
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: So they told us we're getting like one hundred thousand listens.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: A week plus. I was like, Wow, they must really.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: Like you, because I have I have like I have
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: a good amount of fans, like I've had like I
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: think thirty to forty people.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: Tell me they are a fan of mine. So that's good.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: Oh that's a lot.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Now I have a question though important. Let's play
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: a little baby game.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: The baby game is going to be I give you
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: three questions, okay, and you just answer them and it's
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: more of like just more of an experienced baby game,
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: not really like a trivia game.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, I like that.
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: For the first episode, Best moment you've had with Ocean
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: at home, for the time you got home out of
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: the hospital, best moment you can remind I know they're
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: all great. Just pick one that really stands out, that
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: was really magical for you.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, this one is okay, this actually was just the
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: other night. My mom came into town. Randa was at
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: a pick a ball tournament down in Newport Beach, and
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: Ocean I put her her. It's called the docatat, which
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: is every new mom should have one. It's like a
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: little area to put your baby and shape like a
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: little boat kind of. But I put her in there. Okay.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: My mom's on the other side of her, and we're
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: in the bed and she is chilling. Ocean is okay,
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: properly fed, no tummy issues, and we're just watching Real
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: Housewives of New York on hulu og episodes, and she
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: was digging it. And I was like, this is the
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: most awesome moment. My baby is down for Bravo when
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I thought, and her eyes were open.
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: Roll the whole tape up.
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: I understand what the fuck's happening because I checked out
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: for a minute.
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: So I asked you for an emotional moment that you
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: remember forever.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Did he say emotional? I thought, he said, my favorite.
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: Moment, My favorite moment, Your favorite moment you remember is
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: the baby watching the Housewives?
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: It was it was just no, she was watching it.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: She definitely wasn't watching it. She was just staring at me.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: You mean, just that she was chilling with you.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: It was just like so cute to have me her
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: in the middle, my mom on the other.
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: Side, the girl's moment, and your dog with you. I
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: get it. I miss because I thought, oh shit, she like,
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: what does she think of oc in New York?
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: No?
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: Sorry, what does she think of Housewives of New York?
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: But I get it.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: No, But she had her bank in. She was happy.
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: You were just having your perfect family moment, like your
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: mom daughter.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: Because Ocean and I do a lot of skin to
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: skin like that's an every night and every morning thing.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: You know, those are my favorite quote unquote moments.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: But this is like a fine, great moment.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: No where. Like I took a video not even to post,
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: which is a big deal in this day and age.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: If you're taking a video just for your memory and
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: not to show it to other people, big deal.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: I do that a lot. Oh God, I do.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Please cue all the eye rolls in the world.
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: Oh my fucking whatever. I can't believe you're saying that.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: Don't bullshit the book.
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: I took videos this weekend of London and Riley for
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: my own collection. I took videos of you and Ocean
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: for my own collection that I didn't post.
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm not so much what the fun.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: I don't even know why you're trying. Like, I'm here,
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: You've got me, okay, you know, you got me knocked up,
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: like I can't go anywhere.
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's really not the reason, but okay.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep it still fun on the podcast.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: We can't just talk about like amazing moments of being
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: a new Moment's episode back.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: People want to know about it.
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: I think this episode, I think the second episode, we're
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: gonna move on to other things and guests again, but I.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: Want to be cheesy and tell you I want to
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: be with you forever because I think you're the best
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: man I know.
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: Baby, Listen, First of all, I love you, and honestly,
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: we are fun and we are cool as fuck, I think,
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: at least in my own mind, and we have fun together.
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: And honestly, I like.
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: Doing this podcast with you because it's something that we
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: do together and sometimes it's emotional and heavy, and sometimes
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: it's light and fun, and I hope more so it's
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: light and fun for people because we like to laugh
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: at ourselves a lot. But this was your moment. I
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: just wanted your Obviously, this podcast is most of your fans,
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: and I want them. I want to really wanted you
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: this episode, and I think you did a great job
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: of letting people know what what it was like for you,
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: because you didn't get a chance to show that to
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: anybody because it was your own personal thing and you
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: were very adam adamant about going through that. So I
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: just I think it was important this podcast for you
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: to share that journey, which I think you shared really
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: really well and was very moving, because it is a
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: beautiful thing to be part of and I just want
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: to say, so my first question and i'm myself that's right.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: We're playing a trivia game or not a trivia game.
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: The trivia game, but not a trivia So the game
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: is called a trivia game, not a trivia game.
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: So remember that too.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: I like it.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: Okay. So the second question that trivia not a trivia.
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: Game, is the one thing in the last three weeks
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: since Ocean has been here that you didn't weren't prepared for.
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: Was there anything you weren't prepared for that maybe you
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: thought or was completely different, or anything that's just something
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: that they didn't tell you about. You know that you
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: only could experience as being a first time mom. Anything
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: that stands out.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: I think it would be like the gosh, there's so
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: many things that people tell you to prepare for it,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: and you're like, I'll be fine, Like when they tell
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: you your baby's gonna scream at the top of her lungs. Yeah,
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: and it could be any of these reasons, and you're like, oh,
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: we're bonded, I'm sure I'll figure it out. And it's like, Okay,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: I've literally changed all the diapers that you seventy six
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: times on both tits, you know, like tried all the bankies.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: What the fuck is happening to you?
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: I tell you, mothers, it's not easy. It's you guys
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: are our heroes.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: I think that's what it would be, is just like
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: all of those the crying, which is like okay, normal,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: but when you don't know why your baby's screaming, you know,
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: and then it's like, oh, it could just be like
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: tummy issues and you're like, well, how do I get
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: that to go away?
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: Can't you know? That's amazing? That's a good answer, Okay.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: And the last question of the trivia not trivia game
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: is what is the one thing you want Ocean to
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: know about her mother? When she was in your stomach?
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: What's the one thing you want her to rim for you.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: To be able to tell her.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: I wish that it could be like some profound thing
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: that I could tell her that I was thinking or
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: telling her, But it would just be like how much
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: I love her. He took a video the other day,
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: and I was thinking about when she's older, and I
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: get it where if she's acting a certain way, it's
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: going to be like I love you so much? How
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: could you be mean right now? Like you don't get
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: how much I love you. And I know that's going
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: to happen, you know, when she gets into the And
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: I don't even want to think about it, but I
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: do think about it because I love inflicting emotional pain
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: onto myself. I don't know why, but that's what it
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: would be, is like, you don't understand how much I
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: love you. The second I found out, it was like,
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: you're my baby, but you.
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: Know how lucky. You know how lucky you are. Though.
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: I was thinking about the other day, and people don't
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: know this about law, but I suggested because when the
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: minute you got pregnant, you were so in love just
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: being pregnant. And I said, I love watching this connection
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: you had and how beautiful it was. And I made
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: a suggestion to you and you really owned it. And wow,
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: is Ocean going to be lucky when she's old enough
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: to read tell tell people what you did.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I kept a journal that was basically, you know, not
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: really a journal for myself of what I went through,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: but like basically letters to Ocean in a book that
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: when she is when I feel like it's that time,
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: she can read back on when I was pregnant with her,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: I tell her about my day, so she can literally
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: look at what week I was at in my pregnancy
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: and be like, oh, that's what my mom did today.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: So I told her, I said, Babe, I think because
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: she was that.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: Was the best thing you could have told me to
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: do too.
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she was so emotional and she had so much
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: to say. Lawa had so much to share, and she
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: was like filled with emotion, like I think all expecting
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: mothers are.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: But I said to her, I said, you know.
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: You're such a great writer and you love sharing your
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: thoughts in writing. Why don't you just put a book
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: next to your bed and write down whatever you feel
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: like writing.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: It doesn't be every day, it could be whenever you feel.
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and now that book is filled with I haven't
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: even read it because she hasn't even shown me. And
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: I'm so excited for her one day to give that
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: to Ocean because it's probably going to mean the world
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: to her.
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: So that's really cool.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: I'm super excited about it. Yeah, it's really She's gonna
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: have to be a little older though, because I like
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: talk to her about like what great AA meetings I
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: had attended for the week.
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: All Right, she might have to wait till but anyway,
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: she eventually she'll have this book and she'll be able
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: to say, my mom wrote this why I was in
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: her stomach, and I think it's really beautiful. So I'm
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: really proud that you did that because I know you
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: had a lot of shitty days, like all pregnant mothers
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: Avenue had a lot of beautiful days. And the fact
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: that you were consistent for all that time to write
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: the stories.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: When you hear about women that have been trying to
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: get pregnant for a really long time, though, it's almost like,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: how can I really complain about now? You know, it's like, yes,
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: it's a real thing, and I don't want to be
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: that type of person that's like my mom is this
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: way where I'm like, like, I'll be complaining and my
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: mom will say something like will just be thankful because
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: at least this is not going on for you or
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: like whatever. You know. But when you hear women who
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: have been trying for five years and beyond even I
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: mean even you go a year and you're like, what's
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: wrong with my body? Where you think that you just
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: can get pregnant really quickly because that's what your body's
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: meant to do. And it's it's actually not that easy.
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: And I know that we talked about that with women
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: who struggle to get pregnant or you know, all the
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: things that a woman goes through and and you know,
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: it's my heart goes out and I'm tim, I'm sure
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: you agree that a woman, you know, trying to have
• 48:22
  Speaker 3: a baby or having a baby, that is a miracle
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: of life, all of it.
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: And you know, I don't I couldn't even imagine.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: Well, you also don't realize all the things that can
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: go wrong, Like when I was had, when we were
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: having issues with her weight and he's like her her
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: leg bone, I'm like, I didn't even think about what
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: her leg bones would be doing, you know.
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: But I mean we had we had I mean you
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: didn't really share with everybody because you know, it was
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: obviously private and you share a little bit, but you know,
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: you and I definitely there was a solid I would
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: say three or three months, maybe four or where we
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: were going to a lot of doctors, a lot of testing,
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: or we were really didn't know. And I think in
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: the end they gave us a lot of confidence to
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: say that we were okay, that we are going to
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: be okay.
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: They believe.
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: But again, you know, if you start out the way
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: we started out, I don't think we ever felt we
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: were okay, and we just pray to God that God
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: would take care of our baby and give us a
• 49:23
  Speaker 3: healthy child, and that's all we can ask for it.
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: But it was, you know, it was.
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: I think everybody has their own experience with trying to
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: get pregnant and being pregnant, and everybody's.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: Journey is different.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I know. I love like seeing comments on my Instagram
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: now because it used to be like a lot of
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: just like stupid things that like really, who gives a damn?
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: Now I have moms like it's become a full oh yeah,
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: My Instagram is full mom mode and I love it.
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: I'm like, this is so positive. Best time on Instagram.
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: Now, that's awesome. Look at the pluses, a bunch of.
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: Fucking turbo mom's killing it right, you know. And now
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: I'll see women at like the grove and they're like
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: changing their babies on their laps, you know, like these
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: one year old and the one year old's freaking the
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: fuck out and the mom is just champion with freaking
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: Kylie Jenner nails. I'm like, oh you are Badassah.
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: People really know, people really know.
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: That we have had a baby. Specifically, you have had
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: a baby. I did not have the baby you did.
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: But I was even even at the even at the
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: pickleball tournament the other day, I was walking off the
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: court to another court and two women came right up
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: to me and they said congratulations.
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: I was like, meeting on my wind that I.
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: Just had two soons ago, and they said, no, congratulations
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: on your new baby.
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, that's so sweet.
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: And I mean, so now in the pickleball world, they're
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: coming up congratulating me for our babies.
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: So I think it's it's great and it was very sweet.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: So anyway, that is sweet.
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: I told you I have like eight to twelve fans,
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: and two of them are in picklep all the.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: Other that's all you need. It's the quality, not quantity.
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: I agree. I'm good with you. Anyway, this has been
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: a lot of fun.
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: I have to tell you, baby that I am really
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: happy that we're doing this again because it's fun for
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: us to do it together. And I hope that people
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: come back and listen. We are We signed a multi
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: year contract, so.
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: We will be around now.
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: For a while, and we're obviously never miss a week,
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: and we have a lot of great guests that we
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: have backlog lined up for our show over the next
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: couple of months. Yes, and we're excited to share them
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: with you and and just let you get to know
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: us the new version.
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: Yeahl La two point zero. I was going to say that,
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: I hope I'm still cool.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: You are the coolest, baddest my horn. I need it
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: so bad, baby, you are unicorn.
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: When you walk into Chase Bank with not even a
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: push a braun, but with your fucking nursing braun, it
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: really hits your ego pretty hard. You're like, wow, that
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: really did humble my eyes.
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: Well, I gotta say I'm excited to be back, and
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: I'm really proud of you, and I love you, and
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: I love Ocean and you are an incredible woman.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: And that's all I can say.
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: I love you too, and Producer Tim, are you excited
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: to be back?
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: I am stoked?
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: Sweet, I love it all right, y'all. We love you
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: so much. Thank you for being patient with our comeback.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: But we back now, so we'll catch you next week.