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484: The Potential in Your Open Centers · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and we're here together today.
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Nicole Laino: And there's been so much on my mind.
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Nicole Laino: I've honestly, I'm wondering if you're feeling this too.
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Nicole Laino: There's so much in the energy that's shifting.
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Nicole Laino: And then we launched the Integrated Human Design certification a few weeks ago.
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Nicole Laino: So I have been deep in my journey of kind of revisiting all of this knowledge.
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Nicole Laino: And it's so interesting for me going back to the basics, because when I developed the certification, I had to sort of revisit everything that I've ever learned about human design and really look at how I teach this, because I do it so intuitively at this point where when I'm working with somebody, it's just I'm listening for certain things and I'm paying attention to certain things, and I'm hearing certain things from that person, and then I know exactly what's happening in the chart and how to guide them.
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Nicole Laino: I had to revisit everything and come back to the basics to figure out how do I teach somebody else this?
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Nicole Laino: And this isn't an episode about that.
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Nicole Laino: This is actually just one of the aspects that I have noticed that people get wrong.
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Nicole Laino: And as I was explaining it and the reason that I came to that conclusion that people get it wrong.
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Nicole Laino: One, I see it every day.
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Nicole Laino: But it's also when I went to go and teach it, there was so much context I had to give to this, and there's so much around this subject that seems confusing.
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Nicole Laino: And my job was to sit there and was like, how do I make this really clear?
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Nicole Laino: How do I show them how this works?
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Nicole Laino: How do I get them to relate to this aspect of human design in an empowering way?
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Nicole Laino: Because ultimately, I think that's the one of the big shifts with human design now is that, you know, when human Design started with RA in, I believe it was 1987 or something, you know, he was on a mission to shock people.
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Nicole Laino: He was on a mission to alert people to the not self, because he saw it.
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Nicole Laino: And it is.
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Nicole Laino: It is the thing that is going to take you away from being yourself, because that's essentially what human design is.
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Nicole Laino: It is you being you exactly as you were meant to be.
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Nicole Laino: Now, his idea of that and his way of seeing that, I do believe has evolved since that original conception, that original way of him looking at it.
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Nicole Laino: I think that a lot of people have started to work with this system in different ways.
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Nicole Laino: And while he saw problems and he saw the not self, I think other people, myself included, found it beneficial to see not just the not self, it's important, but also to see the potential, because that's without just calling it wisdom, because that's.
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Nicole Laino: And I get why he did it.
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Nicole Laino: You keep it broad because you can't tell somebody what exactly their wisdom is going to be.
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Nicole Laino: Right?
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Nicole Laino: I don't know.
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Nicole Laino: I'm not you.
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Nicole Laino: And that's, I think, one of the big challenges with human design and the way that people explain it now, people explain it like they can tell you exactly what your offer is going to be, who you are, what you should go after.
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Nicole Laino: And that's not giving your power away to somebody else.
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Nicole Laino: So that's not it either.
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Nicole Laino: We can guide you in the right direction.
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Nicole Laino: And that's what human design guides are here for.
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Nicole Laino: That's why it's beyond just a reading.
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Nicole Laino: It's a reading.
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Nicole Laino: And you give people their process and then you're guiding them back to their process because they will deviate from it because they're not used to living this way.
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Nicole Laino: That's the benefit of having somebody guide you.
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Nicole Laino: That's the benefit of really immersing yourself in this, either with somebody walking beside you and.
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Nicole Laino: And helping to guide you back to yourself and to your process, or you are in some sort of formal or informal study of it where you're like, I'm committing myself to getting good at this.
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Nicole Laino: It's just like if you're used to eating a certain way and you have to lose weight, you're going to learn to eat a different way.
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Nicole Laino: You're going to learn to add exercise into your plan.
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Nicole Laino: You're going to adjust your habits and your way of life in order to suit the goal.
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Nicole Laino: With human design, the goal is just to be yourself.
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Nicole Laino: The goal is to be more aligned.
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Nicole Laino: Unfortunately, a lot of times we don't look at that as the most important goal.
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Nicole Laino: And that's why people put their labels on this.
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Nicole Laino: That's why human design teachers and coaches and stuff are like, I could tell you what your offers are because that's how we compare that goal of you making more money and you being more successful with human design.
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Nicole Laino: And while that can happen, you can certainly understand more about what you would be great at in business through your human design chart, but it's through living it.
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Nicole Laino: I just don't love the way how it's been sold to a lot of people in recent times.
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Nicole Laino: I've always tried to be really careful to let people know that this is a byproduct of living in alignment.
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Nicole Laino: It isn't necessarily where the chart can tell you that, oh, you should be a real estate agent, but you might have some aspects of your design that have you drawn to beauty and to making things beautiful.
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Nicole Laino: So that might be why you can really tell someone how to stage their home.
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Nicole Laino: And you can be really artful in the way that you market it.
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Nicole Laino: And you can walk someone through a home and you could really paint a picture of what life will be like there for them.
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Nicole Laino: That would be in someone's design.
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Nicole Laino: But that's that person's life plus the design.
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Nicole Laino: It's not.
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Nicole Laino: It's who that person is and what they are drawn to.
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Nicole Laino: So I'm going to what I want to do in this episode, I want to talk about specifically the potential of Open Centers.
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Nicole Laino: The potential and the genius that lives in the Open Center.
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Nicole Laino: And I want to go beyond just calling it wisdom.
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Nicole Laino: I want to drill into what this can look like.
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Nicole Laino: It doesn't have to look this way, and that's the important part.
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Nicole Laino: If I give you an example, it doesn't mean that it has to look that way for you.
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Nicole Laino: And I'm going to use an example in take one of the centers, and I'm going to give you an example of how this showed up and how it showed up in its wisdom and give you kind of a breakdown there.
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Nicole Laino: I'll use myself as an example, and then I'm going to use a famous person as an example and just kind of break this down where hopefully this becomes clear what this concept is and how you really work with this.
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Nicole Laino: And I will also, I'm going to let you know what's the thing standing in most people's way of actually living in these gifts in that genius and really being able to draw people to them.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, before we start, I do have a guide for this.
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Nicole Laino: I put together a guide if you're interested in how to use your Open Centers as a source of wisdom and how to grow into that wisdom.
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Nicole Laino: I did break down what the wisdom can look like for each of these centers just as like a little cheat sheet guide for you to understand as you're going through life.
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Nicole Laino: If you need to refer to something, I think that it really does help to See them all in front of you.
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Nicole Laino: Feel you're interested in that, just DM me the word undefined on Instagram.
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Nicole Laino: I'm at Nicole lanofficial or go to nicolelaino.com undefined and you can download it there.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, so let's dive in.
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Nicole Laino: So, open centers.
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Nicole Laino: We're all taught that this is the not self, right?
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Nicole Laino: This is the thing that's going to pull you away from being yourself.
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Nicole Laino: It's going to pull you away from your truth, this openness.
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Nicole Laino: And that's not true.
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Nicole Laino: It is true that it is the most seductive parts of us remember where we're open.
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Nicole Laino: It's where we receive.
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Nicole Laino: It's where we pull things in.
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Nicole Laino: It's where we are kind of magnetized to other people.
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Nicole Laino: We are kind of mysterious in these ways because we have so many different ways of kind of experiencing this stuff.
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Nicole Laino: Somebody who is open emotionally, you know, they might be very different emotionally with different people, and they can mirror back the emotions of others, which might be really cool for somebody to experience what that's like.
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Nicole Laino: There's such an interesting, unique aspect to all of our openness.
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Nicole Laino: Why?
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Nicole Laino: Because it's so different from everybody else.
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Nicole Laino: It's so different.
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Nicole Laino: It's why projectors are so seductive when they're in their power.
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Nicole Laino: Because 70% of the world has a defined sacral.
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Nicole Laino: So when you stand next to a projector, you're like, you're different.
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Nicole Laino: What are you?
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Nicole Laino: You're so different than me.
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Nicole Laino: You feel so different.
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Nicole Laino: Like, I feel that around projectors, I'm drawn to them.
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Nicole Laino: Obviously.
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Nicole Laino: You've heard me talk about, like, my whole life, I'm just surrounded by projectors.
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Nicole Laino: But it's also.
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Nicole Laino: I've just always found them fascinating, and I've always been drawn into their energy because it's so different.
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Nicole Laino: It's such a contrast to mine.
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Nicole Laino: Now, it doesn't mean that I don't love my own energy.
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Nicole Laino: I do.
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Nicole Laino: But I feel into a projector, I'm like, oh, there's such.
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Nicole Laino: There's such focus here.
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Nicole Laino: I don't have that focus.
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Nicole Laino: My energy is moving and wants to move different places.
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Nicole Laino: That's their genius if they can really be in it.
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Nicole Laino: Because I can also feel when a projector is, like, all kind of short circuiting on the fact that they're trying to keep up and they don't have anything left in the battery and they haven't for a long time.
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Nicole Laino: That's an undefined sacral.
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Nicole Laino: That is not in alignment.
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Nicole Laino: It don't feel good.
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Nicole Laino: That one is not seductive that is not magnetic, as they say, that one doesn't feel good to anybody else.
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Nicole Laino: You're not drawing anybody that you want into your orbit in that type of energy if you are a projector.
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Nicole Laino: But if you are in alignment, you're going to find that people are just like, I feel like I need some of this in my life.
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Nicole Laino: The generators are going to be like, I'm kind of all over the place.
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Nicole Laino: You seem really focused.
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Nicole Laino: I think I maybe need your help.
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Nicole Laino: Hello, invitation.
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Nicole Laino: This is how it works.
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Nicole Laino: But you have to be in that genius.
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Nicole Laino: The thing that stands in the way of most people living in their potential versus being pulled in by the not self or pulled away by the not self is the fact that they are not living it.
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Nicole Laino: They are thinking about it.
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Nicole Laino: They know it, but they're not doing it.
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Nicole Laino: And nothing counts if you know it, but you aren't doing it.
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Nicole Laino: There has to be action met with it.
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Nicole Laino: There has to be a life and practice behind these theories and thoughts.
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Nicole Laino: It's also how you'll prove to yourself that it really works is to live it.
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Nicole Laino: And you'll be like, oh, wow, I really do see how this is changing my life.
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Nicole Laino: So let's dive into some of the examples.
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Nicole Laino: I'm going to start with me and then I'm going to move on to somebody who's famous.
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Nicole Laino: And so it's completely separate from me.
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Nicole Laino: But I want to talk about myself just because I can talk about my own experience of going through this disempowered to empowered place in my openness.
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Nicole Laino: So I have three centers open in my design or undefined in my design, I have an undefined head, an open ajna and an undefined root.
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Nicole Laino: Okay.
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Nicole Laino: Everything else in my chart, all the other centers are defined.
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Nicole Laino: Okay?
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Nicole Laino: So I'm like colored in all through here.
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Nicole Laino: And then I've got the two pressure centers and then the mind undefined.
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Nicole Laino: If you've listened to the show for even a couple of episodes, you've probably heard mention that my conscious sun and my conscious earth are Gate 64 and Gate 63, which sit in the head center, which is open in my design.
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Nicole Laino: So of the three centers and that are open in my design, my sun and earth sit in one of those.
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Nicole Laino: And it happens to be a pressure center, which is hard.
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Nicole Laino: And normally when we hear about the head center, we hear defined head center people.
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Nicole Laino: Those people.
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Nicole Laino: You're here to inspire others because you have these inspiring thoughts, because your thoughts have power.
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Nicole Laino: And I remember hearing that and being like, oh shit, there goes my Main gift because it sits in this open center, because it is.
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Nicole Laino: You know, to hear Ra talk about it, he's just like, oh, God, these people that have a 64 in their conscious son, wow, are they in trouble?
12:13
Nicole Laino: Oh, my God.
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Nicole Laino: They're just confused all the time.
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Nicole Laino: They just never get it.
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Nicole Laino: They got their head in the clouds and, you know, they're completely sucked in by the program.
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Nicole Laino: And I thought I was doomed when I first heard this.
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Nicole Laino: I was like, oh, well, there goes my potential.
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Nicole Laino: Because mindset's an openness, and openness isn't the thing.
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Nicole Laino: Because that's what traditional human design says.
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Nicole Laino: It says that definition is you.
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Nicole Laino: Everything that open, it's open is not you.
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Nicole Laino: And you're never going to be able to use any of that stuff.
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Nicole Laino: They talk about wisdom, but they don't really get into that necessarily.
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Nicole Laino: They kind of leave it at that.
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Nicole Laino: You can develop wisdom there, and then sort of that's the end of it.
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Nicole Laino: What I have found is that by me.
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Nicole Laino: So the open head center is about the not self of it is to think about things and ponder questions that are not mine to answer.
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Nicole Laino: So how do we determine if a question is mine to answer or not?
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Nicole Laino: Well, one.
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Nicole Laino: Does it have any bearing on my life?
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Nicole Laino: But I'm a manifesting generator, so I don't know.
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Nicole Laino: Does it turn me on?
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Nicole Laino: If it turns me on?
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Nicole Laino: I'm also a one line.
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Nicole Laino: I love to investigate stuff.
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Nicole Laino: So how do I turn this head center off?
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Nicole Laino: Like, I am obsessed with learning things.
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Nicole Laino: And honestly, I think that's sort of my path to everything because I'm a 1 and I'm a 5, and if the 1 isn't aligned, then the 5 isn't going to be aligned.
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Nicole Laino: And none of this is making sense.
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Nicole Laino: There's all of this direction that is contradicting the other direction that I get from this system.
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Nicole Laino: That's how I felt in the beginning.
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Nicole Laino: And this was something that I had to revisit all over again.
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Nicole Laino: As I was preparing to teach other people this system.
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Nicole Laino: I really wanted to adhere to the bones of what the integrity of the traditional human design system.
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Nicole Laino: I did not want to, like, rewrite the whole system as I say it, because it's still this.
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Nicole Laino: I still teach this, and I honor it and I respect it.
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Nicole Laino: But I also recognize how it doesn't always help people actually live in alignment.
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Nicole Laino: The way that it's explained reengage with all of this stuff.
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Nicole Laino: Asked myself a lot of questions and went back to the drawing board on everything.
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Nicole Laino: And then in our live sessions that we do together.
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Nicole Laino: I'm like, well, okay, well, how do I workshop this so they actually get it?
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Nicole Laino: Because there's so much more to this than just, like, talk and saying wisdom.
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Nicole Laino: Wisdom did me no good.
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Nicole Laino: Like, telling me, like, you can develop wisdom here I was just like, how?
14:44
Nicole Laino: Tell me.
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Nicole Laino: I can't think about anything.
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Nicole Laino: I can't ask answer questions.
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Nicole Laino: I can't investigate things.
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Nicole Laino: I can't.
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Nicole Laino: I think too much.
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Nicole Laino: There's all of these things that made it feel very disempowering.
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Nicole Laino: So I had to come back to that.
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Nicole Laino: So that's how I arrived at, you know, revisiting all of this.
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Nicole Laino: I rewent through my whole process of, like, my journey with this over the last six to seven years.
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Nicole Laino: Now, where I landed with this.
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Nicole Laino: I do inspire people.
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Nicole Laino: I am here for inspiring people.
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Nicole Laino: Now.
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Nicole Laino: What I inspire them to is different than a lot of people.
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Nicole Laino: That's my thing.
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Nicole Laino: I'm a manifesting generator.
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Nicole Laino: What turns me on?
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Nicole Laino: If something turns me on, if there is something, I don't think that it is the not self for me to ponder questions like, how do I explain this to other people who desire to have this knowledge that I want to pass my knowledge onto?
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Nicole Laino: I think that is a question for me to answer.
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Nicole Laino: I think it does matter for me, you know, how I know.
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Nicole Laino: I get super excited when thinking about it.
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Nicole Laino: This has been my whole life since I found it in six years ago.
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Nicole Laino: And I love it.
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Nicole Laino: And I love it all the time.
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Nicole Laino: And it's so exciting.
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Nicole Laino: And it's always something new and I can always go deeper and I always have a new realization.
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Nicole Laino: And because I think about things the way that I think about them, because I approach it the way that I do, I have the ability to be inspiring.
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Nicole Laino: Why?
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Nicole Laino: Because I started confused.
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Nicole Laino: Because that is how I experience Head center inspiration.
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Nicole Laino: It comes through confusion.
16:14
Nicole Laino: It comes through doubt.
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Nicole Laino: Because I have walked that journey of confusion and doubt, I now can have clarity and I can inspire people to see things differently.
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Nicole Laino: Ultimately, what this is all about, that's what the Head center does.
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Nicole Laino: Now.
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Nicole Laino: If I were just hearing other people talk about things and then deciding to think about them, if I were just watching the news and obsessing over, you know, what are we going to do about XYZ that's happening with this administration that I can do nothing about.
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Nicole Laino: Yeah, that is a poor use of my Head center energy.
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Nicole Laino: Now.
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Nicole Laino: It's my process.
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Nicole Laino: It's the manifesting generator process in me of response and me waiting out my authority and operating correctly as myself that allows Me to think only about the things that really matter to me.
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Nicole Laino: That really holds something for me.
17:06
Nicole Laino: That holds something for what I am meant to share here on this show with my clients, with my.
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Nicole Laino: With people in my life, right?
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Nicole Laino: That's living in the potential of all of this.
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Nicole Laino: So I've developed wisdom through all of this.
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Nicole Laino: Pondering through all of the, thinking through asking the questions and hearing the questions from other people asking me, what does this mean?
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Nicole Laino: It actually is mine to answer.
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Nicole Laino: I just have to make sure that I am not allowing it, allowing other people's questions to take me away from the things that feel good to me.
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Nicole Laino: Am I really, in response, do I really want this?
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Nicole Laino: Or am I just obsessed with answering this question right now?
17:47
Nicole Laino: Another example of an open head center being a gift and or openness being a gift.
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Nicole Laino: Albert Einstein had wide open head, so completely open, and then an undefined Ajna.
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Nicole Laino: Now, I want to talk about the Ajna here.
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Nicole Laino: So the Ajna, if you have a defined Ajna, you have a fixed way of thinking about things, you got kind of your way of seeing stuff, there's a box.
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Nicole Laino: And that can make you a really powerful thinker because you trust the box, right?
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Nicole Laino: You trust that this is how it is.
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Nicole Laino: I think this.
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Nicole Laino: Nobody's going to change my mind.
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Nicole Laino: This is my opinion, and it's going to be mine.
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Nicole Laino: And I can form those opinions no problem.
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Nicole Laino: They happen very quickly because I have this fixed way of experiencing information and inspiration from that head center.
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Nicole Laino: So he's got that open head that's wide open, no gates to find.
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Nicole Laino: So he has no fixed way.
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Nicole Laino: No matter when he's inspired of experiencing that inspiration, he experiences and always mystery, confusion, doubt, all of them.
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Nicole Laino: That pressure comes down to an open Ajna center, to an undefined Ajna center.
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Nicole Laino: Now, he founded theory of relativity in like 1907 or something like that, 1905, very long time ago.
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Nicole Laino: And, you know, a lot of people know the story.
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Nicole Laino: He was working at a patent office and he had a thought.
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Nicole Laino: He had a thought about the speed of light.
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Nicole Laino: Could I run as fast as the speed of light if I were running alongside of it?
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Nicole Laino: And that's where he discovered that light would stand still.
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Nicole Laino: And he discovers this theory of relativity.
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Nicole Laino: And all of this happened, though, through him pondering something that he found wildly interesting.
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Nicole Laino: He's a generator.
19:38
Nicole Laino: He was excited about it.
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Nicole Laino: He's sitting at work kind of bored, and his open head started to ponder this idea that he had, this out of the box idea that he had and that led him down this rabbit hole because he didn't have a fixed way of experiencing information and how he thought and schools of thought.
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Nicole Laino: He's open minded in that Ajna.
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Nicole Laino: He was able to see a path that others hadn't before.
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Nicole Laino: He did it all through thought experiments.
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Nicole Laino: This is what I think is so interesting is that, you know, does his chart mean that he's going to be a scientist?
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Nicole Laino: So there are some things in his chart that lean in that direction.
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Nicole Laino: But there are other people born around the same time that did not end up being scientists and certainly didn't discover theory of relativity.
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Nicole Laino: So the chart is not going to be so specific that it tells you exactly who you're going to be, what you're going to do and how your life will unfold.
20:37
Nicole Laino: But it will tell you themes that will be present and only you will know based on response, based on your authority and your strategy of what is going to be the path that you go on, it's going to be through.
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Nicole Laino: If you're a generator, it's going to have something to do with something that interests you, that excites you, that makes you happy, that you just feel so good when you're engaging with it.
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Nicole Laino: It doesn't have to be the head center.
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Nicole Laino: It's going to be all of these things.
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Nicole Laino: Just like it doesn't mean that somebody who has a defined emotional center and they're drawn to somebody who has an undefined emotional center.
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Nicole Laino: That does not necessarily mean that this is bad conditioning.
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Nicole Laino: It's what drew you to that person.
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Nicole Laino: Is it your strategy and authority?
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Nicole Laino: Or do they look good on paper?
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Nicole Laino: Or are you so seduced by their emotional wave and the fact that they're really exciting and passionate and maybe the sex is great, you know, that would be not self.
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Nicole Laino: That would be not it.
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Nicole Laino: You're seduced and kind of addicted to how exciting it feels.
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Nicole Laino: It's okay, it's happened.
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Nicole Laino: But that would be an example of not being in alignment with this.
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Nicole Laino: That would be an example of not really following your authority.
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Nicole Laino: So it's all about the come from.
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Nicole Laino: So I hope that you are going to take a look at your own chart and look at your own openness through new eyes.
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Nicole Laino: If you'd like the guide where I kind of break down all nine centers and give you sort of the potential that sits in each one, that you might see yourself through that you might understand it.
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Nicole Laino: Just don't make this a mental game.
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Nicole Laino: It's meant to open your eyes to what is possible for you.
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Nicole Laino: What potential is there for you.
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Nicole Laino: I always knew I could be inspiring.
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Nicole Laino: I just didn't know about what.
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Nicole Laino: I knew that when I talked about something that I cared about, something that I had deep knowledge of, people really listened and people were inspired to do things with that.
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Nicole Laino: It was contagious what I would talk about.
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Nicole Laino: And I would inspire people to see something better for themselves.
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Nicole Laino: People would come to me from, for career advice.
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Nicole Laino: They would come to me for relationship advice always.
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Nicole Laino: And there was something about the fact that I could ask great questions, which is another gift of my design.
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Nicole Laino: Just I didn't know I was using it, but it came out in the right times.
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Nicole Laino: When I was in response to something, someone came to me, they asked a question.
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Nicole Laino: I thought about the question.
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Nicole Laino: It was mine to answer.
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Nicole Laino: I was in response.
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Nicole Laino: It does feel good.
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Nicole Laino: But when we try to break this down into like a true step by step process, then we can get too dogmatic about it.
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Nicole Laino: And that's where we miss the magic.
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Nicole Laino: You have to use this as a framework and you're feeling into it, not thinking into it.
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Nicole Laino: But the guide can give you these little windows where maybe you can see yourself a little bit differently.
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Nicole Laino: Or maybe you say, I never thought about it that way, and then put it down and then maybe ponder it, maybe let it go.
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Nicole Laino: Then go live your life, follow your design and see what opens up for you.
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Nicole Laino: That's where the magic is.
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Nicole Laino: So if you'd like the guide DM me Undefined on Instagram I'm icoleno official or go to nicolelaino.com undefined you can download it right there.
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Nicole Laino: I appreciate you.
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Nicole Laino: Thank you for being here and I hope this inspires you to go look at your openness through a new lens with an open heart and to see yourself in a new way.
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Nicole Laino: Because it's there for you.
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Nicole Laino: It is available there for you.
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Nicole Laino: Thank you so much for being here.
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Nicole Laino: And remember, in order to have an unshakable business, you must first become an unshakable human.
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Nicole Laino: So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design.
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