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Asking The Hard Questions · CelinaSpookyBoo

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  Speaker 1: We're gonna leave this raw.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna leave this on that edit. Guys, welcome to
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  Speaker 2: my channel where you've been many times. Today we're gonna
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  Speaker 2: be doing something really different. You're in my house. You're
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  Speaker 2: gonna hear birds, you're gonna hear dogs, and we're here
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  Speaker 2: with Big Adam.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Big Adam. That's what everybody used to call
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  Speaker 3: me that as a kid. I had a friend's house
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  Speaker 3: I went to all the time, literally every day after school.
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  Speaker 3: And their parents and everybody around there called me Big
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  Speaker 3: Adam because they had a brother and that was Little Adam.
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  Speaker 1: See, my brain, because of my trauma, was because you
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  Speaker 1: were fat.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 3: No, it was because I was older and bigger. Smooth.
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  Speaker 2: I like it.
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  Speaker 1: And about that, that's deep. We're going to talk about
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  Speaker 1: some deep stuff.
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  Speaker 3: It's going to get deeper, is it?
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  Speaker 2: It's going to get deeper. Deep! Deep! I saw this game.
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  Speaker 2: It's called The And. So pretty much, they're really deep questions.
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  Speaker 2: I did go through, pull some that would get us
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  Speaker 2: kicked off YouTube. Oh, okay. The one thing that I
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  Speaker 2: feel like sets us apart from a lot of people
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  Speaker 2: that are on the internet is that we really put
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  Speaker 2: the full truth out there.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: And really authentically. I feel like people really know us,
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  Speaker 1: but I always just still get a lot of questions.
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  Speaker 3: They know you.
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  Speaker 2: They know me.
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  Speaker 3: Me a lot less, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: They don't know you as much, and I don't think.
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  Speaker 2: Hey! Hey! I'm on camera again. I really like when
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  Speaker 2: people understand us, and when they see pieces of themselves
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  Speaker 2: in us, and when the way that we live and
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  Speaker 2: the way that we are makes them feel more comfortable.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like we have a really good relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Seeing people who function.
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  Speaker 2: I hope, normally?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, what is normal nowadays? But function with
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  Speaker 3: good purpose and good vibes.
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  Speaker 2: But we're not perfect.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: And we've had a lot of hardships and we've been
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  Speaker 2: through a lot of things. And I think that's what's
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  Speaker 2: made us stronger. There are some hard questions in here today.
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  Speaker 3: Hopefully some not so hard ones too.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to take turns pulling them. We're going to
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  Speaker 1: ask each other the questions.
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  Speaker 3: Shuffle.
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  Speaker 2: Shuffle.
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  Speaker 3: I shall shuffle. What about this? If you feel like
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  Speaker 3: you get one, that's a question that you should really
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  Speaker 3: answer instead of ask. You can do it. Canada. That's allergies, folks.
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  Speaker 2: Not.
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  Speaker 3: I'll ask you first. The people know you more. Let's
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  Speaker 3: warm up with a Selena question. Okay. What's the pain
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  Speaker 3: in me you'd most like to heal? Talk about an
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  Speaker 3: easy one to start.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, your brain injury. We're always going to go there.
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  Speaker 2: That's something people really do know about you. Life changed
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  Speaker 2: really quick. Almost 10 years ago.
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  Speaker 3: Not that long.
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  Speaker 1: It's like eight years ago.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, seven, eight.
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  Speaker 1: Started the year of silence.
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  Speaker 2: And, you know, there were periods in there that were
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  Speaker 2: really scary. But the one thing that I wish I could.
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  Speaker 3: Take from that. Probably scarier for you almost.
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  Speaker 2: Well, seeing you not be you.
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  Speaker 3: Terrible for me, but like I know what's going on
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  Speaker 3: with me and I understand me. And the injury itself
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  Speaker 3: is also kind of an invisible thing for people to see.
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  Speaker 3: and understand. So it would have almost been scarier for you.
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  Speaker 2: Healing with that is not linear. It is like a
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  Speaker 2: fricking roller coaster. But when things are so good, they're
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  Speaker 2: so good. When they're so bad, they're so bad. So
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  Speaker 2: that's what I would take.
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  Speaker 1: What is preventing me from becoming the person I want
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  Speaker 1: to be?
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  Speaker 3: Yourself. past traumas, the hardships you've gone through that have
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  Speaker 3: put notches in your tree or kind of worn you
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  Speaker 3: down is making it hard for you to live to
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  Speaker 3: your full potential because of some addictions and like just
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  Speaker 3: past traumas.
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  Speaker 2: You can say it like I have a horrible food addiction.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. And it's not even that you, I'm not saying
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  Speaker 3: you need to lose weight. You're beautiful. That's not at all.
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  Speaker 1: It's about health.
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  Speaker 3: We've had that conversation. It's about health and longevity and
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  Speaker 3: being here to enjoy the beautiful life we've built together.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's my biggest roadblock, for sure.
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  Speaker 2: That's the thing with food is like, I heard this
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  Speaker 2: drug counselor talk about it. And they're like, when you
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  Speaker 2: stop hair- You don't go to the supermarket and see
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  Speaker 2: hair every day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: When it's like food was just this thing that always
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  Speaker 2: filled a hole for me. Always. And it's like, that's
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  Speaker 2: how I was taught to celebrate.
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  Speaker 1: And I've been trying to like reward myself with things
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  Speaker 1: that aren't food.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not telling you to do this right now. I'm
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  Speaker 3: just saying, is this a thing? As people, we need
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  Speaker 3: to try and adjust reward systems and not use them
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  Speaker 3: so much. What do I need a reward for?
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  Speaker 2: But I need a little treat. Right?
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  Speaker 3: What do I need a reward for? I need to
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  Speaker 3: do what I need to do and I just need
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  Speaker 3: to do it. Why do I need to be rewarded?
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  Speaker 3: I have a responsibility in life. But it's easier said
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  Speaker 3: than done. Always.
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  Speaker 3: Who would struggle more if we broke up? Me. Why?
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  Speaker 2: Because I don't know how to pay the bills. but
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  Speaker 2: like you're a finance bro.
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  Speaker 3: You have ai now like you can pay.
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  Speaker 2: Bills i you know what i think it is for
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  Speaker 2: me is like i go really dark places in the
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  Speaker 2: middle of the night yeah i feel like you can
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  Speaker 2: close off certain feelings where like i live inside of
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  Speaker 2: them yeah let's just say i have a pisces or
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  Speaker 2: a torus you're calm you're cool collected i feel like
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  Speaker 2: we'd both so really struggle.
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  Speaker 3: Pisces torus that just automatically for you tells the story
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  Speaker 3: i guess right well here's i don't know my astrology
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  Speaker 3: or That stuff.
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  Speaker 1: You like chilling, you like snacking, you're level-headed.
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  Speaker 2: Am I hitting it?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Next question. How do I love?
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  Speaker 3: Like if you were on the right or the left,
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  Speaker 3: you would be an extremist. With love.
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  Speaker 2: That's like a really good way to explain it.
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  Speaker 3: How do you show love? You, you know, smile every
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  Speaker 3: day and thank me every day for being yours.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I love you.
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  Speaker 3: All right. Where do you think I waste money?
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  Speaker 2: Hmm.
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  Speaker 3: Let's both do this.
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  Speaker 2: Cause we already both know the answers. I'll do mine first.
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  Speaker 2: Adam does this thing where he gets an idea and
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  Speaker 2: he'll be like, wow, for an example, I'm starting it
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  Speaker 2: right now.
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  Speaker 1: I think I'm really going to get into final records.
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  Speaker 2: So within the week he will order every final record.
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  Speaker 3: The animal sound is supposed to sound better. I actually
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  Speaker 3: watched the video. It doesn't. The new mixes they do nowadays,
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  Speaker 3: even though they're digital, they're much better CDs if mixed properly.
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  Speaker 3: had an insane better sound than vinyl.
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  Speaker 2: It's a myth. See, this is an explanation. When Adam
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  Speaker 2: gets into something... This is my excuse now. No!
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  Speaker 3: This is my excuse now!
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing. It's a culture. It's a culture.
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  Speaker 3: It's something fun to go do. I also want my
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  Speaker 3: child to listen to tons of classical music. I can
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  Speaker 3: think of more.
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  Speaker 2: I know you can think of more, but let me explain.
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  Speaker 2: Doesn't matter what Adam has an interest in, he will
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  Speaker 2: order everything for it. And he'll buy all the equipment
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  Speaker 2: and all the freaking chords, That's where Adam wastes money.
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  Speaker 2: He gets real excited.
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  Speaker 3: My ideas have good intentions and are fun to use.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, say mine.
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  Speaker 2: I know what mine is.
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  Speaker 3: What's yours? Why don't you just say yours?
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  Speaker 2: Cars. I have a problem.
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  Speaker 1: I get bored and I want to switch it out.
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  Speaker 2: And that's because... My dad's a mechanic, and I grew
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  Speaker 2: up around cars, and I love cars so much, and
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  Speaker 2: I always think one's really cool, and I get it,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, whoa, this is kind of a
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  Speaker 2: poor decision.
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  Speaker 1: I should probably switch this out.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you're having a baby soon, so that's going to
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  Speaker 3: dictate what car you have, because comfort and convenience are
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  Speaker 3: going to trump Selena's love for cars very soon, I think.
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  Speaker 3: Or you'll just drive my truck.
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  Speaker 2: You know what?
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  Speaker 1: I don't do math.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, that's solid.
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  Speaker 2: I also, though, winners.
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  Speaker 3: Winners?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Not bad lately though. Not like it used to be.
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  Speaker 3: It's cut back. Our house is fully decorated now. And
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  Speaker 3: I guess I better not say the part about the
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  Speaker 3: stickers on everything still.
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  Speaker 1: But like, listen, you take it back, girl math, free stuff,
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  Speaker 1: free money.
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  Speaker 3: What? Selena.
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  Speaker 1: Shut up.
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  Speaker 2: Shut up.
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  Speaker 3: How long in your possession was the longest you've held something,
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  Speaker 3: maybe even had it out on a shelf and it
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  Speaker 3: still had the sticker on the bottom and you bring
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  Speaker 3: it back? What's your record?
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  Speaker 1: It was something I found in a tote.
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  Speaker 2: What's your record?
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  Speaker 1: It was something I found in a tote from five
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  Speaker 1: years ago.
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  Speaker 2: If it's oh it doesn't have a price tag on it.
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  Speaker 1: Do you feel that you are pushing yourself hard enough
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  Speaker 1: or are you settling.
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  Speaker 3: I always feel like i could push myself harder i'm
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  Speaker 3: not settling by any means no i'm not settling but
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  Speaker 3: i always want to try and push myself especially with
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  Speaker 3: a brain injury and there's a lot of work like
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  Speaker 3: getting back to normal. I could still get even better
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  Speaker 3: than I am right now. And I need to push
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  Speaker 3: myself all the time to make sure I keep up
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  Speaker 3: on that. My recovery's good now, but it can be better.
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  Speaker 2: It can always be better. I don't think settling is
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  Speaker 2: a thing. I feel like as people, you need to
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  Speaker 2: always keep pushing yourself.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think there's two arguments to that. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: I feel like we'll come to an age at some
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  Speaker 3: point where we settle. But right now, no, you're right.
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  Speaker 3: Right now.
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  Speaker 2: Go, baby, go! Go settling!
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  Speaker 3: Tell me about the first time We met.
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  Speaker 2: The first time we met. So a psychic had told
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  Speaker 2: my mom I'd marry an Adam. So I put out
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  Speaker 2: a text to all our friends and we had a
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  Speaker 2: mutual friend. And at this time I had a rental
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  Speaker 2: car because it might have gotten smashed up. And I
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  Speaker 2: was 18 years old.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a silver Impala.
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  Speaker 3: Silver.
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  Speaker 1: And I said, hey, do you want to hang out?
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  Speaker 1: And you're like, sure.
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  Speaker 2: So I drove over there and I picked you up.
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  Speaker 2: And because you didn't drive at the time.
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  Speaker 1: Mr.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't have his license.
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  Speaker 3: We didn't talk about that.
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  Speaker 1: So I picked you up. And we went down to Pittock,
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  Speaker 1: which is like a conservation area.
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  Speaker 2: And we went for a walk around and you were
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  Speaker 2: so different than anyone I'd ever dated. Well, you were
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  Speaker 2: older than me. Cause I was 18, six years older.
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  Speaker 2: I was 18 and important to know.
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  Speaker 3: In Canada anyways, thankfully. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And you were very confident. You were like back country.
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  Speaker 2: You were wearing camo shorts and a Toronto Maple Leafs
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  Speaker 2: hockey jersey.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds about right. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And we went for a walk and you were so
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  Speaker 1: confident though.
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  Speaker 2: And you were so kind. And then I was like,
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  Speaker 2: it was like ending. And you're like, do you want
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  Speaker 2: to come over to my house? And I was like, sure.
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  Speaker 2: And then we hung out in your parents' basement for
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  Speaker 2: a while.
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  Speaker 1: Why do you look like that?
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  Speaker 2: What do I smell like?
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  Speaker 3: That's what it says? Yes. Or are you copping out?
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  Speaker 2: What does it smell like?
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  Speaker 1: What do I smell like?
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  Speaker 3: Okay. I've made up a few of the questions, by
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  Speaker 3: the way. I'm kidding.
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  Speaker 2: I'm kidding.
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  Speaker 3: What do you smell like? Yeah. It depends what shampoo
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  Speaker 3: you use. You have like four different ones you go through. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But you smell like your shampoo.
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  Speaker 2: But like, what's like my, my general smell?
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  Speaker 3: Elena has a very sensitive nose. So she always smells
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  Speaker 3: good because she's the first one to smell anything bad
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  Speaker 3: and she does not like that or put up with it.
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  Speaker 3: So you just smell like the nice perfumes you wear.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a lotion and potion girl.
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  Speaker 3: Shampoo. You use if I had the opportunity to work
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  Speaker 3: in another country, would you come with me and follow
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  Speaker 3: you anywhere? Yeah, that's kind of silly. That's self-explanatory for us.
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  Speaker 2: Just give it one to another one.
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  Speaker 3: Let's do another. All right question for you my dear Whoa,
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  Speaker 3: that's two I sneak peek to the next one who
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  Speaker 3: sacrifices more in our relationship. And how do you feel
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  Speaker 3: about that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah me why because I'm like the star of the
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  Speaker 2: show and And I thought about this the other day
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  Speaker 2: and you were out in the garden and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: what are his dreams? What do you want to chase?
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  Speaker 1: What do you want to do? And I asked you,
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  Speaker 1: remember I came out and I was like, this.
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  Speaker 2: Really makes you happy, doesn't it? And you're like, it
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  Speaker 2: really does. And I worry that you're not doing the
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  Speaker 2: things that you want in life because we're busy building
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  Speaker 2: what we're building here.
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  Speaker 3: I feel the exact opposite. You're sacrificing more because you
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  Speaker 3: have to work so much harder than me. Like we
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  Speaker 3: both work the same amount, maybe kind of. But like
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  Speaker 3: your work is more taxing. Like your work is more draining.
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  Speaker 3: You're always creating. You're writing. You're filming. You're putting yourself
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  Speaker 3: out there. And that's a lot. And I mean, sometimes
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  Speaker 3: you don't want to travel across North America to go
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  Speaker 3: do something. And you have to. I'm living my dream
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  Speaker 3: here because of what we accomplished together.
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  Speaker 2: This is your dream?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, we have more than enough here. It's
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  Speaker 3: too much at times, but.
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  Speaker 2: Are you concerned that my body will change over time?
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  Speaker 3: I'm concerned for you because that means you're getting older
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  Speaker 3: and closer to not being around for me.
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  Speaker 2: You're older than me, dude.
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  Speaker 1: You're probably going to die first.
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  Speaker 3: Actually, no.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe. No, not at all.
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  Speaker 3: That doesn't mean anything. Our souls are together for a
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  Speaker 3: reason and this is just a meat sack that we
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  Speaker 3: represent real true self through.
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited to be old people together.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no big deal.
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  Speaker 2: No big deal.
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  Speaker 3: Those lines and wrinkles tell stories.
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  Speaker 1: Bungee cords.
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 3: Is that what they're called in your world?
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  Speaker 1: Stretch marks, bungee cords.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 3: Which one of my friends don't you trust? I would
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  Speaker 3: say they're all pretty good.
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  Speaker 2: Your friends have been your friends since you were kids.
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  Speaker 2: So that doesn't even really apply. Are there any of
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  Speaker 2: my friends you don't trust.
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  Speaker 1: Or haven't trusted?
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  Speaker 3: There's a big scale for trust, right? And then there's
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  Speaker 3: another scale behind that scale. That is like 0% I
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  Speaker 3: have no f * * * ing idea if I
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  Speaker 3: can or not. 100% I know if I can or not.
• 13:10
  Speaker 2: Has there ever been someone that's like.
• 13:11
  Speaker 3: There's definitely one person that I couldn't ever read it.
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: Is it who I think it is?
• 13:16
  Speaker 3: Probably, yeah. I think this person had the best intentions
• 13:20
  Speaker 3: in mind for you, but it was just hard to
• 13:23
  Speaker 3: believe that because of the sneaky things that also did happen. Oh,
• 13:28
  Speaker 3: I put that card back on top. Here you go.
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: When do I hurt you?
• 13:32
  Speaker 3: You hurt me when you're going through a hard time.
• 13:36
  Speaker 3: Like recently, your mental health has been A little on
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: the shaky side, might we say. It hurts me to
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: see you like that.
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: So the way that I hurt you is when I'm
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: hurt and that hurts you.
• 13:46
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: That's cute. That's sad. I worry about that. I try
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: to keep it up around you.
• 13:52
  Speaker 3: Don't keep it up or keep it in. Never hide that.
• 13:54
  Speaker 3: That's not healthy in a relationship, I don't think. Let
• 13:57
  Speaker 3: it out. Even if it's just softly. Okay. Shit's getting
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: freaking deep, guys.
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: That's what she said.
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: Whoa.
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: Describe one experience you wish we'd have in the future.
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: Let's hope the baby gets here safe. I want to
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: see you as a dad. I've always thought you'd be
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: the best dad in the whole world.
• 14:12
  Speaker 3: Oh, you too. You'll be the best dad in the
• 14:14
  Speaker 3: whole world.
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: We'll high five as dads.
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: Yes. High five.
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: We're out. How do you feel we've grown apart?
• 14:21
  Speaker 3: I don't think we have really grown apart much. We've
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: grown together in our journey because we've been through so much, right? Mm-hmm.
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: Like maybe we're slightly growing apart in our like want
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: for our wellbeing, but like, that's not for you. That's
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: not because of the choice.
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: I think the way that we've grown apart too is
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: I feel more confident to do things on my own
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: a little bit.
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: Some things.
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah. You've become more self-sufficient.
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: Like if you went on a trip and melt down
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: like a crazy person, cause I'm like, you're going to die.
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah. We've grown apart in the fact that you're stronger.
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: We have all three dogs, by the way, on this couch.
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: Yes. It's a cuddle puddle. They're sleeping. They went for
• 14:56
  Speaker 3: a walk earlier and it's hot. What do you think
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: I'm insecure about?
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: You wouldn't think you care much about like how you
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: look and stuff. And I don't mean that in a
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: weird way. Like you just seem very like go with it.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: But like if we're going to film or something, you
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: really have to make sure that your shirt fits the
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: right way. And your beard is perfect where I'm just like,
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: what's up?
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: So I think that you find insecurity in like how
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: you're in your clothes.
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: Maybe there's a little bit of insecurity there. But more
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: so when I was younger, I just, I heard like
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: whenever you're going out in the world, it doesn't matter
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: what you're going to do. Present your best self forward. Yeah.
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: Because it's respectful to the community, respectful to yourself. Yeah.
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: And that's just what that's about. Hit me with your
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: best shot, buddy.
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: Baby.
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: What's a memory from your childhood that you want to forget?
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: Falling out of a tree. That's how nonchalant my childhood was.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you had a good childhood.
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: It was rather easy. I feel bad sometimes knowing what
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: you dealt with. What would make you leave me? I
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: think for both of us, we're in this forever. The
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: only thing that would fuck up is cheating. It would
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: never happen.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: And it's weird. People will like say people cheat on
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: people and stuff. I literally physically could never see you
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: doing that.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: And I remember like the relationship that came out of
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: before I went into yours. That's what happened to me.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: And you lived with me experiencing that trauma for a
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: really long time. It's been nearly 17 years and it's
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: absolutely bananas because like I go through Adam's phone when
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: I was younger. Like now. Yeah.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: Like I haven't really done it in like five, 10 years,
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: but like.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: I could any time.
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: Every once in a while.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: Can I go through your phone? The last time I
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: even asked that?
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: No, you haven't.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: Five, 10 years ago at this point?
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: But like I go through it, it's so dry.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: I feel like we have a good relationship.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: I don't feel like you're really searching for anything.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: No.
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: You as a person, just your morals, they're so strong.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: And if you worded shit on me, then something's super wrong.
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: Bro, once in a while it'll pop up in a
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: dream where we're like somewhere and there's like another person.
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: I'm like, wake up.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, no. I love you.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: I love you.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: What do you think people say about us when we
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: aren't around?
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: What anybody else thinks about me is none of my business.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: Something Adam loves by.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: And I said that in my last video, which is interesting.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: I said other people's opinions of you don't matter.
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: No.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: But what do you think?
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: I'm sure they see our success and what we have.
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: and have something to say sometimes it'll be good things
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: and other times it'll be bad things but when you're
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: in the spotlight like this people are talking about.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: You dude sometimes when I'm in town someone will say
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: something to me and I'm like well that's a first
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: remember that one lady who said that we were in
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: the midst.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: Of a divorce oh yeah that kind of shit like
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: people don't even know us those people you know us
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: better you know us better than some people that say
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: silly things like that yeah thank you for following along
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: subscribe if you could do it over again would you still.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: Choose me Every single time. In every life, in every journey,
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: whether I am a blade of grass or a lion.
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: Same, buddy.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: I will find you.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: I hope you're not a blade of grass. That would
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: be a pretty weak existence.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: We can rub together.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: Oh, we can dance together in the wind.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: And why?
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: We can perspire together.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: And why?
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: We can drink together. And why? Grow together. Wow, blades
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: of grass are much deeper than I thought.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: And why, because you're great and you're funny and I
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: love you.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: Well thanks buddy, you're great too.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: If you had to call me by another name, what
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: would it be and why?
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: This is a weird one.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: What do you name me?
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: Buddy. No.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: Hey buddy!
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: No. Brother.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: No.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: Hey brother!
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: No. Brother come here!
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: No, can't be your real name.
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: Alright, um, Selenana?
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: Stop! Go ahead, use your juices.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: I've never sat down and been like.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: But look at me, what do I look like my
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: name would be?
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: Okay, these are the names I like.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: Uh, Alice. I like that.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: My new name's Brother.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: Hey, Brother.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: What do you wish had never been part of our experience?
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: I think there's a few things. I wish we never
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: had your brain injury.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Right. I wish that we never went through the losses
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: that we did.
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: Yep.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, I don't think we'd have
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: the appreciation for life or the things that we have.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: We would not be who we are right now.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: And that's why they say like a lot of things
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: happen for a reason, which is so gross when you
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: think about a lot of the things that happen in
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: our lives. But at the same time, I'm really happy
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: where we are and I don't think we'd be where
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: we are without them.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: It taught us to learn from our life experiences because
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: if we just treated it as something bad that happened,
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: we'd just be sitting around pissed off and upset about it.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: We didn't live in it.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: We built on it. Exactly.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: What was the last trip that helped us connect best?
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: Miami, we had fun.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we connected a lot in Miami.
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: That was fun.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: Went to Purnuvo.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, sleeping on the beach with the windows open on
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: the hotel.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: That's the best sleep I've ever had.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: On the beach, windows open, gorgeous, beautiful time.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: It was nice. How has our upbringing been different and
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: how does that affect our relationship? Mmm.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Well, like you said like Adams had a really casual
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: upbringing like it was him his mom and his dad
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: and you guys didn't like scream and yell and Yeah,
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: where my family was my mom got really sick when
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: I was young my dad and I were like oil
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: and water and I got to be a kid but
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: I also grew up a lot faster than a lot
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: of other kids that was really hard in my family
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: so I think that where I live in survival mode
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: Adam lives in peace.
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: Probably why the universe dealt me my brain injury, because
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: things were pretty easy up until then. Yeah, learned some things.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: Am I different than you imagined I would be when
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: we first met?
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Like who I was then and who I was now?
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. And I mean, that has a lot to
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: do with the growing we've done together.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: We were kids together.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so we were both kind of stupid. Back then,
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: didn't know a lot and thought we did.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: I cannot talk to people under 24 anymore.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: I'm like, whoo, the children.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: Some of you are great.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: Some of you were like us.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't talk to me.
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: Do you believe in the one for you, and am
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: I it?
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: I believe that there are many ones. I feel like
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: the one is real, but I also feel like you
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: can grow into being the one.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: There's more than one one for everybody.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: But there's definitely the one has personality traits, life experiences,
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: and mannerisms that compliments somebody else's.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're my one.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Aw, and you're my one.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: Okay, you're one of my ones.
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: I think within the ones, you're the top one. Hey!
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: I think so too.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: What's scared or scares you the most about becoming a father?
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: Probably just my brain injury. Not being able to lift
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: heavy stuff and having to be careful around them throwing stuff.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: It's going to make my existence as a father different
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: for them. I don't think it'll be anything bad, but
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: it's going to be different. But also, that keeps getting better.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: So maybe by the time they even realize what's going on,
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: that will be fixed. Let's hope. Where do you see
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: us in 10 years?
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Two kids. We're still here. I don't see it much different, really.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: I see us coasting where we are, but doing the
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: stuff we wanted.
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: Oh, we finally hit that coast, eh? I could see
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: that in 10 years from now.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: I think I'm 39. And you're early 30s.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: I stopped at 26. I have things that I want
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: to do in the next 10 years.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: I want to write more books. I want to make
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: more movies. I want our family, but I can see
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: myself getting there. They don't feel like dreams. I know
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: I'm going to do them.
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: Yep.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Well, look at the last 10 years to these 10 years.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: And that's what's insane. Because if you asked me 10
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: years ago, where do you see yourself in 10 years?
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: I would be like, hopefully with kids in our same
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: house out of insane debt. That's all that I would
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: have said. But like, look at where we were in
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: 10 years. What can happen in 10 years can be.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: insane. And also it's a weird card for me because
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: I've been trying to do this thing more so now
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: where like, where are you racing to and going? You
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: have to try and enjoy every moment of the now.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: So what if I'm where I wanted to accomplish in
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: 10 years? Did I, do I remember that 10 years?
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: Did I have fun in that 10 years? Did we
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: have a great time in that 10 years? Yep. Gotta
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: keep reminding myself that that's what matters. That's what matters.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: What fundamental moral value do you think we share in common?
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: Common sense.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, damn, do people lack that shit?
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Damn! We have really noticed that lately.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: What does my love feel like?
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: Safety.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: It feels like.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: That's something you probably needed.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: It feels like peace. Like, we were in LA recently.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: I woke up in the middle of the night, full
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: panic attack, and you didn't even question. You just got
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: out of bed, and you came over, and you rubbed
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: my chest, and you helped me calm down.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: And I just know that, like.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: No matter what, you'll be there, and you'll fix it.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: I got you.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: What do you think you'd be doing.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: Differently if we weren't together? What would your life look like?
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: I'd still be working in a factory, driving a forklift probably,
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: scraping along, happy. I mean, I always knew how to
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: be content with whatever I had.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: Do you have a family and kids and stuff?
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: No, probably not. Really? No, I don't think so.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: You're like older ladies.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: You'd probably be a stepdad.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: Regardless of that, what I was getting at is I
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: can't answer that question because from when we met to now,
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: like we've grown so much as people and learned so much.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: Would I have learned enough if I was with somebody else?
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: Would I have learned more or less? What would have changed?
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: Like our relationship completely changes that outcome and outlook.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: It does.
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: And not having that, I couldn't tell you what that
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: would do. It's just too many different doors I'd be
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: walking through. Probably wouldn't be as amazing as I am
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: because of you. Thank you, dear. Why are you in
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: this relationship? It's kind of silly, but there's no answers to.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: It's not. I think... My whole life, I felt like
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: I was searching for a home and you felt like
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: that for me.
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: Home's where the heart is, buddy.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: I always felt like I was in free fall.
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: And you were like this quiet place. When we started
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: dating and every day after work, I would come to
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: your house. In your basement, we would watch movies and
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: we'd hang out. And it was the first time in
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: my life where I was waiting for something bad about
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: to happen.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: I needed guidance and I needed.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: I'm really happy I could give you that. It means
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: a lot.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: I love you.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: I love you, buddy.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: What has more power in this relationship?
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: I don't know. We both have power in our own
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: sense that complements each other well. Like I would say
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: obviously you because you have, you know, so much success
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: in social media and YouTube and you can use that
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: power for whatever you want.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: I see it the other way.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: Good, you know, bad. Luckily yours is good and you
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: do great things for people.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: I see it the other way a little bit. I
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: feel like my life is very delicate and I find
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: all my strength because of you.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: And if I didn't have that, I don't know who
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: I'd be as a person.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: So I give you the power of strength?
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: That's because it filters through you.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: Power is an interesting word. Some people, it seems, nowadays
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: have become scared of that word. But it's all how
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: you interpret it and use it. What is one thing
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: you never want me to forget?
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: That you hold the power, not just for me, but
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: for yourself. And then those times when you're not well
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: and things go dark.
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's everybody, right?
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: Even you.
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: Everybody has the power inside them.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: But I need you to remember that, that when things
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: get really hard, you're the one that brought yourself out
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: of that and you'll do it again. I do.
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: Even though those moments are hard and almost seem impossible,
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: underlying it all, I do understand that and know that.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: But it's obviously taken a lot of doing that multiple
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: times for that to work out like that. I'm yawning,
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: hold on.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: I'm fucking yawning.
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: Oh, Gucci just yawned.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: We just passed it all along.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: That just triggered everybody. Eddie just yawned. I'm not even
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: kidding right now. Molly, come on.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: Yawn, baby. Yawns really good. So that counts.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Name the top five things you'd like to change about me.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Five?
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: I don't even have five.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: Give me at least three.
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: Not losing your... AirPods.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: Okay, very superficial.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: Not losing your Ridge wallet.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, not so superficial. This is a deep game, Adam.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Well, I have to think of silly superficial things because.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: There's not very many things that I would change about you.
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: Love yourself more. Not worry so much about the world
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: around you and start worrying more about yourself for a bit.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: You don't have to change that permanently, but take a break.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: You're still caring and giving. I help people to a fault.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: We've talked about that lately.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: And you don't do enough self-care because of it.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: It was funny because I was spiraling last night and
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: I was.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: Talking to Chad GTV when I spiraled. That's my counselor.
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: And she's like, people will treat you like a convenience
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: store when they should treat you.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Like a lighthouse.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Weird analogy, but I like it.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, you got one more.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: One more? Just the regular dad stuff. Turn off lights
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: when you're down in a room. Okay. Stuff like that.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: Other things we won't mention.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: My spiraling?
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: No.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Oh my God, that hurts. I thought I'd be crying
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: by now, but.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: In which moments do you not trust me?
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Honestly, when you used to drink.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: I've only ever seen Adam really hammered a couple of
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: times and I really didn't like it.
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: She just doesn't know me. And I just, I just
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: want to do what I want to do.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: When Adam drinks, it's like you hide the beer and
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: then four minutes later, you see him across the room.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: He's like, and that's why I'm glad you don't drink
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: because like, like you could crush a two four and
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: like think you're fine. We were camping.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: I think I'm fine.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: It was the only time in our whole relationship you
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: were ever mean to me. And you got absolutely hammered.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: And it was two o'clock in the morning, 2.30. And
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: you're like, I'm going fishing. But like, you're going to fall.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: You want to go to a rushing.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: River to fish. And I was like, you're not going fishing.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: And you called me a bitch.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: The thing that didn't break us up.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: No, we were new then. Ma, look at us now.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: We were good. But here's the thing. Then he was like,
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: I need to make a hangover concoction. So this dude
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: goes into the kitchen.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: You think you're smart when you're drunk sometimes.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: Gets a tall skinny cup.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Puts mandarin oranges in there.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Looks through the cupboards. Puts some like dry oats.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: Some water. A little bit of beer. Okay.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: Some juice.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: Then he gets a potato masher.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Story time adjustment here. No, no, no. Story time adjustment here.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: Let me tell my story. Every time she.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: Talks about the ingredients in the hangover drink they change. Nope.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: It was so gross. I don't think she really knows.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: It was gross. You put jerky in there with mandarin oranges.
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: I'd really like to see a fly on a wall
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: situation and find out what was in that drink.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Then he gets a potato masher and hits it on
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: the top of the glass. And I remember looking at
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: him and he just goes, and then he chugs this
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: disgusting thing. I'm glad Adam doesn't drink.
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: Some people just aren't cut out for.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: No. And I'm the kind of person, I have one
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: white claw and I am white girl wasted. Why do
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: you love me?
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: Because you're beautiful.
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: Go deep. Make me cry, bitch.
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: I don't think anybody loves anybody when they first meet them.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: You just.
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: You didn't ask when we first met.
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: You didn't love at first sight. I'm telling a story here. Okay, okay.
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: Nobody loves each other when they first meet. You just
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: hope to fall in love with that person.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: This was, why do you love me?
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: That's, I'm getting there.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: Can she not let the guy tell a freaking story?
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: Do you see, you see this? See this? Tell your story.
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: ADHD is strong.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: Get there. It'll only take longer.
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: Long story short, it changes all the time because obviously
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: you have to build that love in the beginning. Then
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: I love you for certain things. And then I love
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: you for different things. And then we develop spiritually together.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: I think right now, at this moment, why I love
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: you is because we got to grow together and love together.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: And every time we grow, no matter... What our differences are,
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: our common ideals and common sense on what we believe
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: is right and strong and powerful about spirit and soul
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: and everything in life always grows together. And what I
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: love about you right now is that I found someone
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: that I can build that with.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: Are there any characteristics about me though? I'm a girl.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: You got to give me more.
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: You that were universal freaking beacons that met together and
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: were meant to be together. You need more from me. Yes.
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: I love you because of your beautiful hair.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: That's not what I meant.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: Move on.
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: Last one.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: Last one.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: Make it good. I'll have one more as well.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: If you had a son, what advice would you give
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: him regarding relationships?
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: It all starts with us being the relationship that you
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: would want them to have.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: I see.
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: So they're going to see how we treat each other
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: and they're going to learn from that. And that alone
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: will be enough. But the advice I would give them
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: is just don't ever put up with anything less than
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: what you've learned in this household. I love that. What's
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: the most difficult lesson you've learned from being with me?
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: When you got sick, the world stopped.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: Yep.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: And I'm always just been a go, go, goer. Mm-hmm.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: I think it was patience.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: And I think it was also what I learned was.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: Self-sufficiency because you were the one who worked while I
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: was sick when I was off of Meniere's disease and stuff.
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: And we were at a point in our life where
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: we weren't sustaining. And I had to figure out a
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: way to help carry.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: The load for a while.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: You learned a lot in a short amount of time. Yeah.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: The world flipped upside down. And like the truth is,
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: and it's hard to say, is like I lost my
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: partner for a while.
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: And I always said I felt like we were ghosts.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: In our house.
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: There was no sound. We couldn't even talk. You're so uncomfortable.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Everything was upside down.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: And I had to put on big girl pants and
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: be the strong one because I never had been the
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: strong one.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: So I think I learned everything.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: I learned strength and sustainability and patience and all of that.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: So again, I wouldn't be where I am.
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: You can always turn a terrible situation into something great
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: for your life, right?
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: And look where we are now.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Somehow we both got out of that.
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: Yep.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Glad you're my partner in this.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: Thank goodness we did.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: I'm coming for a hug, big guy. Come on over.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: I'm coming for a hug.
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: Hello. I just kissed inside your ear hole.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Eddie, come here.
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: Eddie. Ed, come on.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: Thank you guys for watching. This was a different one.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: I'm glad no one cried.
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: Welcome to the depths of our life.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: If you guys want to see videos of more of this,
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: I do have some other games that are like this,
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: card games, like Pick Your Poison and stuff. If you
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: want to see us do those, let me know.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: We can also just go through a whole bunch of games.
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: And find the coolest questions for you or what we
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: think are the best.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: Until next time, Boo Crew.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: I love you.
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: Later.