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Episode #163: Unlocking Ease and Flow: Embrace Your Spiritual GPS for a Simple and Worthy Life · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Hi, Welcome to tea Time with Amy and Beth. Hello, good day,
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Hello our things Ah good Yeah. So, um, for for the
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past three weeks, I've had my mother in law here, just took her
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to the airport last night. Um. For since mid May, my son
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has been here and his girlfriend and he just left and she'll follow later.
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Um. So just getting back into I want to say routines, but I
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really I don't know, don't really have routines. There's certain things I do
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on a regular um, but you know, sometimes I know, for me,
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schedules, the thing I would normally do on a regular basis kind of
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get put to the side because I actually I gave a lot of thought to
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quality time and as much as I have to do with you know, my
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business and create being creative and classes and stuff, I wanted to honor more
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time spent with those that were here knowing that they were going to be leaving.
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So that's where it was for me. Nice. Just took more time
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to enjoy, Yeah, which is something that we could be doing every day,
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right, because that's really what it's all about anyways. Yeah. Yeah,
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and you know, we can't take the cars and the houses and the
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money and all the stuff where I mean, we could I guess. I
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guess that I'm gonna be cremated, so um, I guess you could just
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put me in the house and burn it down. I don't know, I
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probably wouldn't recommend that, but you know, just all the stuff not gonna
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go with me, so well, we find it. It's true. It's
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true. I you know, just we see a furse care, you know,
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pulling a U haul. He just it just doesn't happen that way.
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It's got the body and that's pretty much it, which is true. But
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on the other side of that I find interesting. I listened to like Alison
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Dubois and she's a channeler or a psychic medium, and she constantly is getting
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She'll see someone like, oh do you still have that car? Because he's
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showed me that he's driving this car around right now. So we kind of
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do do the things that we like from the other side. So like,
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for instance, Jim loved must thing, so for him, he's probably driving
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the must thing around on the other side, like flying down freaking mountain passes
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and everything else and having a blast. Right, So, I mean,
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we see that we don't take our stuff with us but we because it's they're
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just stuff that we can play, right, So that's what they're doing basically.
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On the other side, they're just they're playing. They're enjoyed every single
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thing that they had here. I guess the things that they've found more joy,
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whether they had it or not. But we find the joy, and
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it's just to be in that space while we're here to find that joy.
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And one of those ways to find that joy probably really the only way,
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the biggest way, is to be in a place of non judgment and not
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judge anything good or bad, just not to judge it, just to be
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you're just in the experience, right, And that's foreign to me in a
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lot of ways, and I'm learning it because that's just another thing that they're
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presenting to me recently. Is just to be in a space of non judgment.
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Not to say that I don't go into that space occasionally, because I
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do end up there occasionally, but it's less and less, and how do
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you get there. It's with awareness. It's the same thing all these things
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that we've been talking about. It's just like the universe's slowly giving us,
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step by step, play by play, how things can go. So we
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can get to that next place that we're wanting to achieve. And it's pretty
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incredible to think about non judgment, to not have a judgment about anything.
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If I don't have you're having the conversation. I am fully in that conversation,
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right, I'm completely listening to the conversation. Which also means if I'm
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channel writing, if I'm communicating with spirit, if I'm channeling, or if
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I'm doing any of these things, it's being one hundred percent president without judgment.
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And when you're in that space, you're allowing that receiving, you're listening
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because you're not you don't have a comeback for something, you're not being triggered
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by something. Because if you're neutral, because because you just naturally are neutral,
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if you don't have judgments, there is neutrality. There's there is nothing
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else. Yeah, And judgment is a great practice for us all because I
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know I did I catch myself in a judgmental moment and then I recognize them
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like, oh, where did that come from? What's what's coming up out
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of this thought? And U I give myself grace and ease about it.
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I mean, it's programming that's still being unwound and but it's let I mean,
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it's way far less than it ever was. And judging, Yeah,
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that judgment judgmental thoughts puts us in that not feeling good space. And you
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know, we talk about this nearly every single week. It's like, if
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you're doing something that doesn't feel good, then change it. And you know
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to when you when you have that fear within yourself that somebody's judging you.
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Again, we know, first of all, other people's opinions of us none
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of our business. That's we're just being a reflection of them in some way.
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But when you have that fear somebody judging you, then you go into
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that I'm not good enough, and you your your criticism of yourself and the
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lack of self love, and you know, it just goes on and on,
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and so it's like a it's a it's it's kind of like a twofold
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thing. And you want to be aware that those judgmental thoughts don't feel good.
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And so having the awareness right, it's it's labeled this a long time
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ago, micromanaging your thoughts. You have a thought and then pause, be
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Okay, well what is this? What is this thought about? Where did
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it come from? Why am I judging this person. What is it about
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them that's triggering me? You know, it's just it's people would use analyzing
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analyze your thoughts, but you know, when we have to me, awareness
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seems um lighter and it's self inquiry. And allow yourself some grace and ease
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in that inquiry, because again, you're unwinding the programming that you've been caring
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for so long. Now if you sit there and continue judging this person,
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then the next person, and then you know there's some issues there. So
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I want to do some personal developments. I'm clearing up of that energy and
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and get better at what we're thinking about and being more intentional with our focus
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instead of judging somebody. How about you know, Oh my gosh, I'm
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having an amazing time. This is a I'm enjoying the people I'm with.
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I'm you know, I'm laughing more. It's just it's a beautiful sunset.
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I love the beautiful flowers. Look at my plants that are growing. And
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and just again redirecting what you're focusing on. You know, you do all
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that stuff. It allows you to receive more information, that allows you to
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hear more. It allows you to like you said, to have grace and
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needs when you have that grace needs with yourself, because the judgment only shows
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up outside of yourself, because it's within yourself. That's the mirroring. Yeah,
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so it shows up and it's gentle and it's not to And at that
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point, if you judge yourself for it, you're just you're doing the same
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thing that you've always been doing. We've been That's where our judgment comes from.
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It's really the judgment of ourselves. And so when someone triggers something,
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we've either felt like we've been judged or we've been doing it ourselves to ourselves
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and it's not even necessary, it's not, but that's just what we had
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learned before. You know, we judge things. When we go to a
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store and buy something, we were judging like that I get the right one
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there. It's like five other ones that were there, and I really went
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through the whole thing to make sure I got the best one right judging it
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instead of just having a knowing, we would a knowing would be just picking
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it up. We know exactly what we need at that time, we know
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this is perfect, and by it's knowing that it's just perfect for us whatever
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whatever flaw that someone else might have seen or you might have seen in the
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past doesn't exist because it's perfect. It's exactly what you needed. It's exactly
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what judgment And if it isn't, then it's an opportunity for well, what
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would make that better? What would I what would I prefer? So knowing
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what you preferred, maybe you maybe you got a picture and you could instead
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of twisting the lead, you had to pull the lid off. And every
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time you pourted, the religious fell off. So I was like, Okay,
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well I want something different, So you go out and you find something
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different. Right, it's not a judgment of me, it's just like it's
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almost like as if you're almost always solution oriented, always guided in that space
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because you're always in a space of listening, so you're always receiving that information.
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You're really you never really get stuck. You wouldn't get stuck because you're
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always listening. We're always guided from one's step to the next. And if
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you have two scenes going, you have two things going on, like you
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have children over here playing and you have somebody over here being a jerk,
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Like it's all happening at the same time, which one gets your attention,
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and if it's the guy who's being a jerk, and that guy's got your
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attention, then you're in that not so good feeling space, and you're in
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that judging space, and you're giving attention to something that is lowering your vibration
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where children over here playing and laughing and having a wonderful time and being creative
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and curious and imaginative laughing. And when you could put your attention over there
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and raise your vibration, you probably if you had been in that space already,
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you probably wouldn't even have noticed the guy being the jerk. It wouldn't
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even have gotten your attention, most likely because you're so in tune with these
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children playing. So again, it's all awareness. It's like, you know,
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I didn't know any of this stuff until I learned it. So give
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yourself some grace and ease as speaking to the audience that you learn and you
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hear things in a moment of which you are ready to receive, to receive
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the lesson, to receive the information, to receive the new thought pattern,
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to receive the new belief, And once you are in that space to receive
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that, you know, like your body is like, oh, there it
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is, and I receive that and now I can implement and implement it because
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I'm aware of it. So I always come back to the awareness. I'm
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aware of how I've been and what feels better. So I want to move
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in the direction of what feels better, which means I got to implement what
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I'm learning, and that's the process. And then once you once you practice
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that for a little bit, then you're going to be in a space to
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receive some more information that you can implement. And just it's just a gradual
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or insistent or continuous process as long as you are deciding to stay on that
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path. And I just have to say that once you step on that path
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and start making some changes, you recognize how much better you feel. And
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when you dip into that not so good feeling space of the way you were,
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then you're more apt to continue on that journey of what feels good because
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it just feels so good and so yummy, and then not feeling good just
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sucks, and it's like, I don't want to be in that space anymore
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because I don't like it. I don't like the way it feels. My
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body's telling me it doesn't feel good. And I want to keep moving in
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this direction, so just keep going. It's and you're okay right where you're
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at. Don't judge yourself for not being further ahead. I've done that a
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lot in my journey, and it's just it's a journey, and in each
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moment, it's where we're to be for whatever we're supposed to be learning and
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doing at that time. It's true. And then when we get quiet like
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that, not only are we listening, then we start noticing our other senses,
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right, We start feeling things, we start smelling things, we start
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hearing things more. There's just so many things that go on from that space,
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and it's like one leads into the other. And then a prime example
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is setting around your living room and you move it around a couple of times
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and you stop and you're like, okay, this feels good. Well,
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how do you know, because you just note inside of you, you know
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that the flow. It just feels good. We just recently we had a
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clock that was working. Well, here's probably the answer for myself, but
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we had a clock that was working on the inside, and it was sust
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keep track of the temperature on the outside. Well, the temperature outside wasn't
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working unless you came in and brought everything out, bull the batteries out,
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reset everything, which is a pain and the ask for some of these clocks,
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so you know once you reset it. So we've got a new clock
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just recently and you put it up there, and I'm like, it just
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felt so good. How do I know? Because I slowed down, because
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I'm quiet enough to realize that we feel things, Because we all feel things,
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we've been doing it all along, and we can feel like a victim
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where when we feel like life is pulling us through it and slamming us into
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all these people that we can feel them and oh my god, what do
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I do with all this information we have so much control over? It is
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just really stepping back. It's taking the time for yourself obviously not obviously,
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but really not being in the space of judging yourself to be in that space
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of grace and ease, having grace and these for your own self, like
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you're already saying, just to have that space for yourself that you know that
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you're growing, that you've gone through, you've lived life a long time.
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It feels like a long time here. We feel like we've been here for
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a long time. We've picked up some habits and we don't have to have
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them anymore. And by not having those habits, we start recognizing other things,
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but recognize how things feel really and that's I feel like we're leading into
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that space in our I don't know if we'll see it in our lives or
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not, but we're fast forwarding so fast right now talking about this stuff,
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and it feels like we are communicating more telepathically before we even realize it,
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because I've slowed down so much. When I'm having conversations with someone and they
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might stumble over a word or want to say a word, a word pops
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into my head, I don't say anything out loud because I don't want to
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correct the person that's up to them. Before I would and be like,
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oh, I got the word. I got the word. You know,
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I hurry up and get the word out because pat myself on the back,
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I had the word, right, I don't have to prove it to anybody
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now, and now I recognize just by me having that thought almost helps them
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get into that space and relaxes a little bit. Now they received the information
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they wanted to receive in the first place, because it's always been there.
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The only way, the only person that gets in the way of it is
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you us personally. You know, it's not someone else. It's not to
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blame someone else for it's because we didn't get quiet enough. I remember before
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we're going into a space and like, man, I was in such a
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great space when I came in here. I why I'm so crabby now?
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Well, if I wasn't such a great space, I wouldn't have been affected
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by this other energy. So it's recognizing I wasn't in such a great space
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that I thought I was in. So that's again just taking more time and
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really paying attention to how you feel, having awareness, being quiet. Unless
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you do all those things, you can't receive. And most of us have
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learned how to be what to be givers in this life, right, so
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we don't need most of people don't even know how. Just slowing down and
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it's listening. Then you start receiving, and then someone gives you something and
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you have that impulse like oh god, I got to buy that someone that's
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saying I gotta buy them something because they thought about me. And then you
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know, either following through or recognizing it's not it's not, that's not what
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it was about. Just receive the gift, enjoy the gifts, and then
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next time that something sparks your interests or used to think about that person when
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you're looking at something, and then get them to the gift. It's it's
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it's all of it is. And then it's like you find out from the
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person they really needed just to what you gave them that really uplifted them.
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It was the perfect necklace. It was the eric God, I've been looking
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for earrings for a long time and then you just brought them to me just
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like that. So it's just because because you were listening. It's it's the
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whole process is it's really simple, and it's so simple, which would look
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funny. That's why I laugh. It is so simple. Um, we
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just make it complicated. It's too easy. We think that that's can't that
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cannot be the answer, It cannot be that easy. But it is that
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easy. And if we start, you know, go back to computers,
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there is zero, you know, wands and zeros. It's when I've talked
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to anybody about computers, it's like it's simple. The thing is, it
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was hard for me because I was I would complicate things. Yeah, and
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that um, you know I've been talking about the AI programs, artificial intelligence
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for the business side. Um, that is helping. You know, it's
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if you're utilizing it to me from a loving space to how be creative,
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to you ideas that you hadn't thought of, to utilize it as a valuable
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tool. Then to me, that's amazing and I've been embracing it in that
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way. Then there's other people that are fearing it. Oh my god,
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it's going to control us. It's going to change everything. People are losing
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their jobs and you know, just this huge fear based and space and it's
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where do you want it? Again? It's like how does that feel in
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your body? If you're fear based about it? How does that feel in
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your body? If like, I'm embracing it because it's I'm saying this because
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of the simple piece. It's making my creative space of content simple and quicker.
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And it's like so amazing and so fast and so exciting and again giving
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me things to think about that you know, words that I typically wouldn't use.
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I'm like, huh that word, you know, that verbiage. I
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like the way that's coming across I like the expansion of the vocabulary that I
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typically wouldn't have. And it's expanding my thought process by interacting with this program,
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and and I'm utilizing it in in an exciting way, and it's making
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things simple. And that's the way we are when we're in tune with our
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higher self, with universe, God, angels, whatever your understanding is that
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it is so simple when we get in tune with it, and the guidance
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and the information that comes forward them, the answers that come, the people
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that show up to help the you know, it's just it is so simple,
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and were just getting our way. We beat ourselves up. We're not
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getting it right, we're not good enough, we don't deserve we're not valuable
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enough, and we put those limitations on ourselves. That makes it hard.
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Every morning when the alarm goes off or you're open your eyes, it's a
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clean slate. But we don't see that because we are humans and we have
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memory, and we have programming, and we have all these again limitations and
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beliefs and habits and patterns that we've we've had for so long that we revert
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back to that yesterday's programming instead of today I'm starting fresh. I'm gonna put
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new information in my mind and think of this in a different way, in
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a more uplifting way, more feel good way. We don't we revert back
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to yesterday ten years ago, thirty years ago, fifty years ago, and
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still stay on that path of this is what happened instead of this is what
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could happen in an exciting right. So the simplicity, I if something is
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simple, I'm there. I have simple language. I have I want things
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to be simple because I'm just I'm over that piece of having things to be
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so difficult that I feel like I need to figure it out to prove myself
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worthy and deserving and good enough. I'm like, I don't even do that
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anymore. I don't need to do that to myself, for myself or anybody
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else. I'm okay with things being simple. We don't have to. Yeah,
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I'm glad. I'm glad to kind of brought up some of this stuff
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because as I'm thinking about it's like, I don't do those things anymore about
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they were in my habit. And that's what I was going to ask you.
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Do you find yourself waking up thinking about yesterday anymore? No, not
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like I used to. And if until you said that, I didn't even
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recognize that, that's another thing I just don't. It changes your life.
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It feels different, you're feels there's more of a flow to it, and
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then you can find you and other stuff that's you know, the thing is,
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when we're going through this process, we feel like we're going to dive
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right in and take care of everything at one time. And if you take
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care of everything at one time, you're not You're not along for the experience.
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You're not seeing how it was resolved or the solutions right, you're not
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seeing them. But for where I'm at now, I do see the solutions
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a lot of times. And if I not spend that much time in that
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space of not knowing what to do or how to evolve, or just being
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unhappy or living in that past experience, then because I know, I can
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get out of there pretty quick. And it's to focus on, well,
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when you're trying to get out of it, you don't focus on the problem
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first and foremost you kind of go on to something else that kind of takes
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your attention or takes you on a different journey. And maybe that's why sometimes
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you know people will scroll through like Facebook or Instagram riding that kind of stuff
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because they're just trying looking for that upliftment to kind of change them from the
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space they're in right now to another space. And I think that's probably what
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I do a lot of times, even like when I because I'll scroll for
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a bit, sometimes longer than others, and sometimes it's just pretty short,
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sweet and I got the message and I'm off. It's just that quick.
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Again, it's what we're what we're thinking, what we're advertising for. Because
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whatever we're thinking about, we're advertising about, we're advertising for. You're talking
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about AI. Well, if I'm constantly thinking that this is the hell and
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Satan and everything else, well, then I'm just bringing I'm putting negative energy
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onto something that could be wonderful. And that's a judgment, right, But
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a judgment, you're still having a judgment, even if you're finding it in
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a positive way. It's just witnessing and stuff and then knowing that it's an
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experience. It's an experience, so it's awesome, but but allowing yourself to
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have that joy in that moment to fill those things because a lot of times,
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well I didn't do that, that I was the person that shut down
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my emotions and shut down my feeling and you would never see really much of
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a reaction from me, really much. If anything, you might see me
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get pissed off. You might notice my face would have changed, I might
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might have gotten in my words. Everything would have been a single answers even
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know a lot of different things that would have been telltale fines. But that
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doesn't have to be that way anymore. And how do we know because we
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have to know ourselves because we're paying attention to ourselves. Because it's not about
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someone that's outside of you and what they're doing wrong. It's like, oh,
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this is interesting. Right back to the same thing, because this is
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interesting as non judgmental, Well, that's interesting. Non judgmental just put you
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in a neutral space automatically, so you're not claiming something, and that gives
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you a chance to take a breath and really see what's going on in that
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particular moment that you might have been triggered or judging or whatever else. I
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have been my worst, my biggest judge for my whole life, because it
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started with somebody saying something wrong, you know, not something wrong, but
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saying something to me as a child, and it made me feel like that
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I wasn't doing any good enough. So then I either shut down and didn't
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do it or I found a way to perfect it. And it wasn't perfecting
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it, not even for myself, for somebody else. Well, I would
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perfect things so they couldn't judge me, so that I couldn't I didn't give
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them a reason to tell me how bad I was or to show you know
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that I did get it wrong. I would like perfection was a way too
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well, that I am good enough and you're not. You are not going
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to nitpick me. You are not going to tell me I did something wrong.
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Yeah, you're not going to judge me. And so the way I
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can fix that is by being doing and being perfect. But then on the
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flip side of that, there was the well, you're so perfect, you
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get everything right you and and it was like it's a no win situation.
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Even it was a no win situation for me because it was exhausting. And
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the fact is, we do make we do make quote unquote mistakes, We
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don't get things right all the time. We don't know everything there is to
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know about everything, and we just got to let ourselves off the hook for
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all of that and just be human, be you, enjoy your life,
26:26
do things that feel good. And I want to I want to touch on
26:30
you know when you when talking about the AI artificial intelligence, that yeah,
26:40
there's going to be people who do things that aren't what we've judge as right.
26:45
They're going to do things that are not so good and and and very
26:49
low vibrational and damaging and all the stuff. People are out there that do
26:56
that. I don't have any control over that, and neither do you or
27:00
anybody else, Like we don't have control over what other people do with AI.
27:06
What I do with it is what matters to me and what feels good
27:08
to me, and I will do what feels good to me in utilizing that
27:12
tool. It's just the same thing with tou Row cards. There are people
27:18
out there who are scamming people. Pay me five hundred a thousand dollars to
27:23
get rid of this negative energy around. No, No, you can do
27:26
that yourself. And so to me, I do a card reading from a
27:33
space that feels good to me. That gives direction and guidance and empowerment for
27:37
people to maintain their energy, teach them how to do things, teach them
27:41
how to clear their space their environment. So I know what I'm doing with
27:48
the tools, and that's what matters to me. What other people do with
27:52
it is not my business, for one, and for two, that's on
27:56
them. And if you are in a line with yourself, you're going to
28:02
know who's an integrity with the tools that they are using, and you will
28:08
be an a vibrational alignment to the person or people who feel good to you
28:15
who are utilizing different tools. So it always comes back to having the responsibility
28:22
of your own energy and being in tune with you and noticing what feels good
28:26
what doesn't feel good, and that includes the energy of other people. So
28:33
if somebody's energy doesn't feel good to you, you're just like, m yeah,
28:37
this isn't a person I want to hang out with. I don't really
28:40
care to have these conversations with this person. It's not a judgment. Well
28:45
it is a judgment, but it's also learning to it's tuning into yourself to
28:48
recognize this isn't going to be a healthy relationship. And if I know that
28:56
within myself and the energy that I am picking up, I'm not gonna have
29:02
a relationship with this part. I'm just gonna who redirect my focus and go
29:06
play with somebody else. So your higher self, your your intuition, your
29:15
divine guidance, your body, that is your indicator, that is your guidance
29:21
tool of being in this human space. I know there's many times, many
29:27
times that I was around people. I knew it wasn't in a health I
29:33
knew. I knew like I knew like I knew it was not a healthy
29:37
relationship. It was not going to be a healthy relationship. But my human
29:41
side said, oh, give them the benefit of the doubt. They can't
29:45
be all that bad. Oh they know more than me. Oh they ah,
29:52
they're smarter and more knowledgeable that they have a degree. Right, all
30:00
the material and human thinking, I was like, no, I'm a standish
30:07
relationship. See what happens. Oh my gosh, did I get some lessons.
30:14
And it was the biggest lesson was I wasn't listening to my body.
30:18
I wasn't listening to that intuition that was telling me, don't do it,
30:23
go go there, don't hang out with them, don't have that conversation with
30:27
them, don't do these things with this person. And I did them anyway,
30:34
dan experience and I wasn't experienced, and I had lots of lessons learned,
30:41
and biggest, biggest lessons were listening to my intuition every single time,
30:48
hands down, every single time. It was it was like the universe,
30:53
you know how they're you just have that imagination where they're kind of looking at
30:57
you like I told you so, It tells you so yeah, yeah,
31:03
yeah yeah, deute, what are you gonna do with it? Just listen
31:23
and the and the whole thing you talked about risk someone doesn't resonate in your
31:27
experience, don't try to keep holding them there because a lot of times it's
31:32
you know that someone, it's time for them to you. Guys's ropes together
31:37
have ended at that time, and it's time for you to let go.
31:40
But it's sometimes we want to hold onto those spaces just because it's a familiar,
31:42
because it's comfortable. So it's just how do you know you have to
31:48
pay attention? Really, it's it's it's not anything that anyone else can tell
31:52
you. It's funny because we always want to go see a psychic We not
31:55
everybody wants to do that, but wants to go talk to their psychic medium
31:59
or whatever to give them some formation that we already have access to, but
32:00
it seems to be such a big deal, especially when you have someone that
32:05
I have. It's different people that I listened to that they've kind of shown
32:07
themselves as one hundred percent, like I can feel their energy either right on
32:10
track. I've listened to a lot of interviews from Alex and stuff and on
32:15
some of these channelers and and other things, and it's like they don't resonate
32:19
with me, they don't feel authentic to me. But how do I know.
32:22
I just have to pay attention to how I feel, how it resonates
32:25
with me. That's it. And then it's like, don't spend the time.
32:29
I don't spend the time anymore wasting my time. And I don't say
32:31
wasting my time because it's finish a whole interview. If I don't feel it,
32:37
If I'm not feeling I'm not going to hold out for that one little
32:38
nugget that's going to hopefully show up, unless unless it keeps popping up on
32:43
my feet or something, or I keep getting like go back to that and
32:45
watch this part or whatever, then I don't go do it. Because there
32:49
has been a few of those occasions. But I thought that this is not
32:51
resonating with me. I don't get this at all, and then it would
32:54
come back to me again and then I would understand it. And just at
32:58
that moment, I probably had some blocks, or I had some judgments,
33:00
or I had something that wasn't allowing the information to come through for me to
33:05
fully experience it or understand it. Yeah, and I agree with you.
33:12
I'm I have pushed, I would say, pushed through reading so many books
33:20
that at the time didn't resonate with me. But I'm like, Noah,
33:23
there's there's something in here. I'm supposed to learn that. It was like
33:27
torture. But yeah, if I'm listening to something and I'm just not feeling
33:35
it, I'm like, yeah, either it's come back to it later or
33:38
just this was not for me, and you know right, and you're just
33:43
like, okay, the choices, it's not for me right now. So
33:46
I'm just not even going to finish listening to it and go about life,
33:52
listen to something else, to do something else, and then, like you
33:54
said, maybe it keeps showing up in your feet and you're like, okay,
33:57
well maybe there is something in here, and you go back to it
34:00
and then something comes. So it's those things are like called discernment, and
34:08
it's discernment is not something that I have found and any teacher has been able
34:15
to teach. That is something you have to learn within yourself. And again
34:20
that is just listening to your intuition, your body, your um, spiritual
34:25
guidance as to is this for me right now? Is this for me ever?
34:34
Right? So it's like we we it's I don't know the only word
34:40
that I can come up with. It's difficult to teach discernment. You you,
34:45
that's on you. That's your responsibility to learn that for yourself. It's
34:51
going to be different for all of us. So you know, I can
34:53
teach you about a you know and intuit into in your into I call it
35:00
an intuitive dictionary of how you know. You develop that. But again,
35:05
the discernment is you intuiting the messages, the message you get. We could
35:16
get the same exact message from source, but we're going to intuit it differently
35:22
based on our own programming, our own experiences, and and so much is
35:30
put into how we read that message, how we interpret that message. It's
35:38
going to have similarities, but the way we get to that final answer is
35:43
going to be different. That's discernment. Like it's discernment is on an individual
35:49
basis, it is. It's kind of a feeling thing too, because there's
35:55
like more than one facet to it. Really like learning discernment for me,
36:01
what's my thoughts and what's the messages that are actually coming in from spear gods,
36:06
the universe, whatever, my guy's angels. So it's having that discernment
36:09
and you just know, and that kind of teaches you, you kind of
36:14
learn, I guess it kind of helps you to fill the word a little
36:19
bit. It helps you to fill the experiences because it's not just like when
36:23
you're experiencing something you're all in with all yourself. A lot of times,
36:28
I mean you could be. I think a lot of times we go in
36:30
and we're not. If you're in fighter flight all the time, which we
36:34
were a programmed that's what we were programmed for. We were a program for
36:37
fighter flight. So now when we're learning to do breathwork or just sit quietly
36:44
or just whatever you're doing, that you get grabs your whole attention. You
36:47
just spend your attention there. Now you're not going in a million different directions.
36:52
You don't have all these blocks up. I don't have the blocks up
36:54
for protecting my heart anymore. I don't have all the blocks up to guard
36:59
anymore. So I'm I'm not like working double time to keep myself protected at
37:04
the same time trying to bring in information. I'm trying to bring this in,
37:07
but I can't get a past my shield right here. I mean,
37:08
we get, we get into these places, but it's like it's a it's
37:10
a whole feeling thing because it's it's just not one thing. And when you
37:15
know that you're right, you got that knowing. It's just when I say,
37:17
you know that you're right, but that doesn't feel right. It's just
37:21
the knowing. It's just you. You you. If you're paying attention to
37:24
your thoughts, you're starting to discern these are my thoughts. Oh that was
37:28
a thought. I was just thinking, Oh, that light's bright. You
37:30
know, it's a thought. But I didn't receive information that said anything else
37:35
at that moment because I was focused on something else. I wasn't allowing the
37:38
receiving of the information. I wasn't allowing myself just to be quiet and listening
37:43
here and feel. And no, it's it's a wonderful journey when we get
37:49
to this place. But it is more calm, for sure. I feel
37:52
I feel more calm about a lot of things. Not to say that I
37:54
don't get wrapped up in stuff. Sometimes if I try to control things with
37:58
the grandkids when they come over, like gonna do this, it doesn't go
38:00
my way, which we talked about a couple of weeks ago. But I've
38:02
noticed, and I also noticed then that's a reflection of my energy because now
38:07
I'm trying to control something. And they don't want to be controlled. They
38:10
didn't want to be controlled from the moment they were born, when they were
38:13
brought into this experience. They just want to be along with their there's learning
38:17
us things as fast as they possibly can, and this on this experience,
38:21
this journey. Yeah, and they're already controlled majority of a part of the
38:24
time, or seemingly controlled majority of the of the time in their home environment.
38:31
Yeah, and they're like Grandma is a breath of fresh air. She
38:37
wants to play, she wants to flow, she wants to be flexible,
38:42
she wants to have fun, she wants to laugh, and and that's there.
38:46
I don't know, I'm gonna say expectation. Who knows, but that's
38:50
our expectation in your space is like you said, not not being controlled,
38:55
and you're recognizing that and they energetically they know that they do. Yeah,
39:01
they do before I did. So Yeah, they're like gran fairly figured it
39:06
out and Grandma's learning not to control. So it's great. It's a great
39:12
match for both parties that to relax and be be flexible, flow ease,
39:22
simplicity, fun, laughter, non judgmental. Right, there's just this whole
39:29
package and they're great teachers in their little bodies for you. Yeah, and
39:36
it is all about the flow, really, It's about the whole flow of
39:38
all of it. And I learn a lot more. They tell me a
39:42
lot. They tell me a lot because I just go along because we just
39:45
flow together. And then they'll start letting me in on things. They start
39:47
telling me things. I don't have to probe or ask the questions or anything.
39:51
They just start telling me things. So that's awesome too. It's great
39:53
because you want to have that open communication. But at the same time they
39:57
want to be seen and hurt. I want to make sure that I'm the
40:00
person that sees and hears them. Yeah, and hopefully that because because that's
40:04
helping them create an experience. So now from they're advertising. From where they're
40:07
at right now, they Grandma's always listening to me. If they if they
40:13
just would think these things. Grandma's always listening. Oh my god, Free
40:15
even listens to me all the time. He's always guiding me and doing things.
40:19
Oh, it's like focusing on all the good stuff. But we've already
40:22
we've already been teaching them in a lot of ways to focus on the things
40:25
they aren't doing right. And I've noticed that adults will say stuff like you
40:30
understand me. Well, they're gonna say yes, they understand because they don't
40:32
want to get their right. You don't want to you know whatever it is,
40:36
so and they may not fully comprehend it. So then from such an
40:39
early age, I see how we start like putting our emotions aside. How
40:44
we start we don't matter, like we were recognized, we don't matter.
40:49
If I can just keep mom happy, right, if I can just keep
40:51
dad happy, that's all that matters. Right now, It doesn't matter about
40:53
their happiness because it really you lose sight of it because now you're trying to
40:58
be the monkey and jump through the hoops and make them happy all the time.
41:01
So easy to do because what happens you get such praise, Oh,
41:06
good job, good job, you're walking yea, But it should be always
41:09
I way, Oh you made a mistake, a good job? How did
41:12
you? How did you solve it? Like? How did you work through
41:14
that? It's just if we can look at things a little bit differently,
41:17
we can kind of train them to look at things a little bit differently,
41:21
so they're not going their whole lives till they get to fifty three and then
41:23
deciding, Shit, I've been judging things of my whole life, and I've
41:28
got all these thoughts have been such a momentum that have been going in my
41:31
mind that it has has a mind of its own. Like you hear people
41:35
talk like that, Well, it's time for you to get ahold of that
41:37
mind. They start for you. It's time for you to start embrace that
41:39
mind, be grateful for that mind. But you want to let's let's let's
41:45
integrate it with the higher, with spirit. Let's so you're not just being
41:51
ran Because I felt for a long time I was being ran by something,
41:54
and it was probably all the teachings, all the old teachings, kept cycling
41:59
through that computer needed to be freaking I needed a new hard drive really for
42:02
a while, so I got new information and most of the other information doesn't
42:07
even reside there anymore. Thus the conversation of you know, waking up in
42:10
the morning and I'm not thinking about yesterday, waking up in the middle of
42:14
the night, I'm not thinking about yesterday once in a while, yes,
42:19
all the time, No, hardly before. I had to practice when I
42:22
go to stack tonight, I'm going to think these thoughts. So when I
42:25
wake up tomorrow morning, I'm going to think these thoughts. I don't do
42:28
that anymore. Is it right or wrong? Well, it felt right at
42:30
the time. Is it something I do now? Absolutely not, I don't.
42:34
It's not even necessary anymore. But it was part of the process,
42:36
right, That's all it was. And that's why I keep telling people,
42:38
Oh, you have to protect yourself. Well, from my perspective, if
42:42
you have to protect yourself, you're not in a very good vibrational frequency right
42:45
yet. And that protection is fine because you give you protect if you're protecting
42:49
yourselves. And maybe you need to protect yourself right now because you haven't set
42:51
your good intentions, because you haven't you paid attention to how you're vibrating or
42:55
what your needs are, or you know how to just be quiet. It's
43:00
just all this whole learning journey. Yeah, the going back to the kids
43:09
being around you, the grandkids is now Grandma's in a space where she can
43:15
offer up guidance and words of wisdom instead of demands and a pressure. Yea.
43:24
And so you know that's and that's something you had to learn over several
43:30
years in order to be in that space of of knowledge, right to have
43:42
the knowledge to share with them. And you are in that space when you're
43:47
raising your own children, but you can do it with your grandchildren. So
43:52
so I just wanted to touch on that a little bit and anyway I lost
44:00
my thought now but anyway, but that's they're good teachers for me for that
44:08
too. So, I mean, there's just so many things and without as
44:10
having these conversations, I would not have an awareness of it. And to
44:15
me, that awareness of it is it's very profound. Is it really changes
44:21
so many things and kind of seen things everything in a different light. Everything
44:24
feels different, and then you can be more present, honestly, and then
44:30
sometimes when you're tired, you're tired. Like one day I had I went
44:34
over to the kids house, took a shower, and my granddaughter's like,
44:36
I want to go with you. I said, you obey, not today.
44:38
Grandma needs time for herself today. And sometimes that's okay, because I
44:44
I find myself sometimes really wanting to spend as much time with them as I
44:49
possibly can't. Can't because I don't know, you know, they grow up,
44:52
and I don't know how long they're here with us. I don't know
44:53
how long I'm here, and so I want to enjoy every moment because that's
44:57
what I get to take with me, right. It's not the it's not
45:00
the you haul of us behind the hearse, it's all the stuff that we've
45:02
got withinside of us, all these experiences to have all us love to have
45:09
one of the things that's most important to me, Like I can go pick
45:13
up the kid, I can go anywhere. My kids can be there at
45:15
the same time, mom, dad and everybody's there. But if they see
45:20
Grandma and it's that's that's my that's the biggest gift I can ever receive,
45:24
because they're so happy that I showed up to watch them, or though I
45:29
was a participant to them. They appreciate that. It's because why is that
45:32
our relationship like that. It's because at the time that I put into the
45:36
relationship and they put into the relationship, it was on both sides. And
45:39
I love the word when you and I and I love the word pressure.
45:45
We also know pressure can create diamonds, right, but pressure, and that's
45:49
really what a lot of times, I feel like a lot of these these
45:52
kids that are experiencing life right now is pressure. They're being pressure from so
45:55
many different directions to be a certain way. They're being pressured by their teachers,
46:00
their parents, they're sometimes they're grandparents, I mean like all these people
46:05
around them. So it's I feel like it's very important to It's important for
46:09
us on an individual basis for our growth. But everything that we do for
46:13
ourselves is great for everybody. It's beneficial for everybody. It's for everybody else's
46:19
growth too. It is and the and the people that are around you for
46:22
you to be in the space of I love the AI. This is what
46:25
it does for me, And this is what it does for me. Well,
46:27
now you've got other people to be around you, like, hmm,
46:30
what does it do for me? I bet you it does. Oh yeah,
46:31
it does all this stuff for me, and so then it automatically changes
46:35
their perspective from type closed, off, barricaded, blocked, protected, whatever
46:40
you want to call it, not listening to now they're they're open and they're
46:45
free and they're listening and they're hearing, and then their lives are changing.
46:49
That's exciting. That's exciting. But we start creating that, especially when we're
46:54
parting these this place in our mind, when we can spend time in that
46:59
space, we are beneficial to every which is what we're doing. That's the
47:05
that's the it's for the great or good of all. It's not like how
47:08
can we find something and make it the worst? It's like, oh,
47:12
yeah, you made that with how could that be? How could that be
47:14
used for good stuff? There's always going to be someone out there. Maybe
47:16
I don't know, Maybe there isn't always going to be someone out there that
47:19
wants to think about it from a negative standpoint. But at the same point,
47:22
maybe they don't feel like it's a negative standpoint. Maybe that's the way
47:24
they felt like they did. It gets something else that's their experience. There's
47:30
enough for everybody, So it's always going to work out and each person's going
47:32
to have their experience and they're going to get their growth from it. Thus
47:37
takes you back into non judgments because it's everybody else's own individual experience. I
47:42
don't read the news, I don't listen to the news, because that's someone
47:45
else's experience it is, and that's someone else's perspective, from their traumas,
47:51
from their experiences growing up. That's that's how they're just playing it. Oh
47:54
my god, you should because sometimes these people were genuinely in a space of
47:58
fear, genuinely so. But when you're in non judgment and you're in a
48:00
space of someone else that way, you just kind of see, oh,
48:04
they're happening an experience and how long are they going to stay that space.
48:07
I don't have to take it. I don't have to be I don't have
48:09
to catch it. I don't have to catch on to what they're trying to
48:14
put out there. You know what I'm thinking about is I can't even was
48:16
it or will wealth or I can't even remember. But you know, put
48:20
on that thing about the aliens more than yeah, yeah, and put such
48:25
fear and how whole gosh you think about that? They probably were doing an
48:30
experiment as I am who knows Ye, there goes my conspiracy theory. But
48:38
a lot of times the things are happening and things people don't know how it's
48:42
going to work out. So we got we know that people benefit from I
48:45
have an awareness that people benefit by controlling others with frequencies and energy and tones
48:52
and everything else. But on the other side of that, because this has
48:54
been going on for years, this is not new. But on the other
48:58
side of that, people are using tone and healing and fourth or two two
49:00
hurds for healing the body like for healing for we don't have to think about
49:06
it. It automatically restructures everything and brings it back to the way it's supposed
49:09
to be supposed to be. Like where you felt good one hundred percent?
49:15
Like we have all these opportunities and it's really however you want to look at
49:19
things so people can sit and start, oh my god, they're playing that
49:22
music again. They're playing that they're playing that music. It just doesn't feel
49:25
good. Were good? Then go sit, put some headphones on, and
49:29
go listen to something that does feel good. That's all. It's it's whatever
49:32
you want to put your attention on this something's not good or bad. It's
49:36
an experience. It's an opportunity for an experience. Actually, because how do
49:39
you how do I know that that music I listen to music that doesn't feel
49:44
so good, I've had that experience. That's all right. And also you
49:50
know when we I'm gonna go back to the AI is. So here's I
49:58
might give an example of something good that I didn't even think about until its
50:05
presented to me in a class that I took about AI. And there's a
50:10
group of people that I'm aware of that are going to Peru, and they
50:15
utilized AI this certain program to put in there what items are necessary for me
50:27
to pack and taking a trip to Peru during this specific dates because of Peru
50:36
has seasons, and you know you could put in there you know what items
50:42
are beneficial for me to pack for Peru. Well, you might get stuff
50:46
for rainy season, cold season, hot season, and then end up there
50:51
in a season that doesn't you're not even prepared for. So the more specific
50:54
you are during these dates, you know, this time of the year,
51:00
this season, and it got very specific. They got very specific in their
51:05
question and it gave them a list of things to pack. They said the
51:08
majority of the stuff they had already packed, but there were a few items
51:12
they didn't think about that they included. So I'm like, how incredibly amazing
51:16
is that when you're getting ready to pack to go somewhere, ladies, you're
51:22
not nice to know are you going to be an extreme humid climate? I
51:25
need to know that because I have extremely curly hair and it's not gonna it's
51:30
not gonna do me any good to pack of curly and iron telling you right
51:32
now, Jill, right, so it's something something else to kind of work
51:37
with what you work with your environment, right right? So, so very
51:43
beneficial, like incredible things that that the AI could be used for. And
51:50
when you go think about the fear base side of people are going to do
51:52
damage, do bad things, well, first of all, we don't have
51:55
control over that. Well, we do have control over is our own vibrational
52:00
frequency, and we know that when we raise our vibrational frequency that it affects
52:05
thousands of other people. Excuse me, So the more people who are doing
52:08
their healing work and raising their vibration and being enjoyed more often, we're affecting
52:14
thousands of people. And who's to say that these people who have intention of
52:20
doing quote unquote bad things, that they're not gonna They're gonna feel this vibrational
52:25
frequency that's being raised and might detour them or detain them or shift them in
52:32
a different direction. Because they're feeling something different. They don't know how to
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explain it, they don't know what it is, but something's telling them,
52:40
don't do quote unquote the bad thing, whatever that is. And that goes
52:45
back to you know, the music, the tones, the frequencies, the
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four hundred and thirty two hurts, that we are shifting the energetic vibration within
52:55
ourselves and then that's being amplified outward. Whatever we have going on in our
53:01
container is being emanated outward. So when we're in that four hundred and thirty
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two herds and feeling that vibrational energy and relishing in it is so yummy that
53:13
it's emanating outward like it's affecting our environment and so many people, thousands of
53:20
people outside of us because we're doing that for ourselves. So but be selfish
53:27
in your in your healing, be selfish and being in that space of that
53:31
beautiful tones that music. Be selfish in that because you're actually helping others,
53:38
and and it's not it's not the intention to go and be in that space
53:45
of that frequency or frequencies of music, of those tones that um, it's
53:52
not it's not to me. It's not the intention to go sit and be
53:57
in the intention of, Okay, I'm going to do this so that I
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shift the vibration of thousands of other people. No, I'm going to go
54:04
with the intention of this is so beneficial for me. It's shifting my vibration,
54:07
it's helping me feel better, feels good in my body. It's so
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yummy and relaxing and and it's comforting, and it's like a hug and this
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blank of the warmth that I want to experience that I want to be in
54:22
that space. Well, when I'm in that space, for me, I'm
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aiminating that outward automatically. It's not a thought. I don't have to think
54:31
that. It just is automatic. It just happens. So be selfish in
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your in your space of wanting to feel good and feel better and feel higher
54:43
vibrational frequencies, feel that joy and that laughter and that love, and it's
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just the it just amplifies outward without your conscious thinking of it. Also remember
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our creators too, So when you when you see something that's like we'll use
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the AI as the experience. If you see something or you here something that
55:06
doesn't sound good about it, what would be your solution to that? So
55:09
you can you can you're a creator in your mind. It doesn't nothing's ever
55:14
written in stone that it has to be that way. And we have a
55:17
bigger influence just by being in a positive higher vibrational frequency. We have more
55:23
of effect on everything than than vibrating flower. You're just not as you're not
55:29
utilizing your power, you're actually restricting your power power, You've you've constricted the
55:37
flow. You're not you're not fully even allowing it. So if we just
55:40
recognize we're not non judgmental, it's just an experience. Now we can look
55:45
at it like, okay, well that was an experience. How could I
55:47
make that better? What does that look better to me? How does that
55:50
feel better to me? And then create it in your mind and then go
55:53
on and don't and then you just go on with your day and then get
55:55
back into your same state of mind that feels blissful or happy, or you're
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just feeled whatever it feels, whatever you want to feel in that moment,
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because I don't think I want to be blissed out all the time. Maybe
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I would, I don't know. I haven't had the experience it. I'll
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get back to you, but right now I would say, I like to
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have a full range of emotions. I don't mind. I don't mind sometimes
56:16
when I just know that I'm tired, I just know that I'm tired.
56:19
I just need a break. It's not a bad thing. I don't.
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I don't sit there and think, God, really wish I wasn't so tired,
56:23
and I wish I had more energy, and I wish I was.
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I don't get into that space. If I feel like I'm freaking tired,
56:30
I'm gonna lay down to take an alf I mean, I do right now,
56:35
where you guys see me, I'll just I'll be out because sometimes I'm
56:37
like, oh God, how that happened? Well, because my body said
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it's taken a naff right now, and I didn't honor it by laying it
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down. But I said, okay, but you can run the sofa right
56:46
now because that feels better. There you go. There's an experience. It's
56:51
just an experience. We get so wrapped up in things and it's so final.
56:54
We're just here for a small amount of time to experience things. It
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feels like a long time. Even if we live for a thousand years,
57:01
it would be a short time and still be a bullep. No matter how
57:05
much how much we extended, it's still going to feel like it was a
57:07
bullep, like we weren't here long enough in a lot of cases. And
57:10
then sometimes when you're really just ready to go. But I think if you're
57:14
thriving and you're enjoying the space that you're in, why would you want to
57:16
leave it? Because we get we're in a space of creating it. You'd
57:20
want to stay here as long as you could until I guess you got bored
57:22
of fitch. Yeah, but it seems it seems like so long and so
57:30
dreadful because whatever you're doing and experiencing, you're see viewing it as it sucks.
57:37
Yeah, and you hate it and it's depressing and it's it's it's horrible,
57:43
and yeah, when we're in that space, it's like, when is
57:47
this going to be over? I gotta be here another eighty years? Are
57:52
you kidding me? Right now? Right? It's like, no, I
57:55
don't want to keep doing this great, then do something different. Yeah,
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it's that simple. It is that simple. Do something different that feels good.
58:07
That's simple. And our loved ones that are now in the non physical
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they don't want us to sit here and be miserable. We don't have to
58:15
carry that for them. So we don't have to be miserable, because that's
58:17
why we think that we should have to be. It feels right now.
58:22
They don't want to be in that space of miserable, and a lot of
58:23
times they won't. Even if they every time they come to you and then
58:29
you're miserable every time and you're upset and sat all the time, they're just
58:32
not going to come visit because it's they don't want to make you sad and
58:35
upset all the time. So there's a time frame for everything like that.
58:38
I say time frame, but there's a there's a time and place. We
58:42
all have our moments to go through that. But if you want to spend
58:45
your whole life that way, that's not fun and that they're not enjoying it
58:46
either. So it's like if you're if you're not willing to do it for
58:50
yourself, do it for them. That was one thing that you're so willing
58:53
to die for somebody else, you're so willing to die for them, but
58:55
are you willing to live for them? That's huge And a lot of people
59:00
don't don't stop and ask themselves that questions because I think if you ask your
59:04
questions, you'd be wanting to live for them, right, that's important.
59:07
So we lose sight of I guess we lose sight of our paths like that
59:13
by kind of getting wrapped up into the old patterns, the old habits.
59:17
I don't even want to that's all been a belief system that's been handed down
59:22
for generations too, that they suffered with it too. There's no reason for
59:28
suffering anymore. We can That's where we get to stop it. We get
59:30
to stop it here. That's the that's the most wonderful thing. Ever,
59:34
how do you stop it? You just do you feel good? Yeah?
59:39
You can replace it with something else, right, obviously, something that felt
59:45
good. Yeah, But a lot of times people don't aren't in that space
59:50
of doing it. But this is how it looks on the other side of
59:52
that. That's that. Yeah, And that's a practice we're just we're telling
59:59
you it is so simple. But because of the programming, the limited beliefs,
1:00:04
the habits, patterns, all the stuff of your human side that you've
1:00:07
been living with for so long. It is a practice to do something different,
1:00:12
to do something that feels good, to stay more in that space of
1:00:15
what feels good and less in the space of what doesn't feel good. It
1:00:21
is a practice. It is simple, it is straightforward. There's no fine
1:00:27
line, there's no gray area. It either feels good or it doesn't feel
1:00:30
good, and that's your discernment in your body. And if it doesn't feel
1:00:35
good, you do something that feels good, and that raises your vibration,
1:00:38
your frequency, and your energy and it makes life more enjoyable. And then
1:00:45
you know when you get to be whatever age and you think you're coming to
1:00:51
the end and you're like, wait, this is almost over. I don't
1:00:53
know, I want to stay longer. It's because you've shifted the viewpoint than
1:00:59
the energy of how you are living your life. Because when you're living a
1:01:04
life from a space of joy and happiness and fulfillment and exhilaration and love,
1:01:10
you don't want that to end. You want more of it. I want
1:01:13
more of this, I want more of this, and want more of this.
1:01:15
The universe keeps delivering it to you, you keep relishing in it,
1:01:19
and then it seems like life, your life is over. And when you're
1:01:24
like, wait, but wait, I want more. So if it doesn't
1:01:30
feel good, do something that feels good. Simple. That is that simple.
1:01:37
I just keep coming back to that word. I think that's a word
1:01:38
of the day. It's simple, it is. And we've given plenty of
1:01:45
examples in this conversations. A thing. Yeah, and when I just looked
1:01:51
over my thing, one of my words this year is easy. So I'm
1:01:55
like, right there, So I want more ease in my life. And
1:02:01
if it's simple, that means it's easy. That means that's my path.
1:02:07
And so if AI is contributing to that, I'm using it. I'm all
1:02:12
bored. I'm on it. Oh there, They're going to present so many
1:02:15
things that are so magnificent, magical time saving. I mean, you think
1:02:22
about us being able to travel from one place to the next. It could
1:02:24
be in seconds, you know, I mean we're maybe we're not there.
1:02:28
I think we are there, whether we just matter when the information gets out
1:02:31
to us. But it's just things are different. Of course, then you
1:02:35
lose your you no longer have to fly anywhere or do any that kind of
1:02:37
stuff. So we're we're amidst so much changes, and it's like, just
1:02:43
enjoy the ride. It's an experience. Look at the time that we decided
1:02:46
to be alive, right, this is an awesome time. And I do
1:02:51
like the idea. I like the idea of being like, oh man,
1:02:53
it's time already, instead of we've We've had family members I don't know about
1:02:59
for you, for myself, family members that have been here for a long
1:03:05
time in their nineties, right, and it's every single time we see them,
1:03:07
I just don't know why I'm still here. Yeah, there's somebody in
1:03:12
in uh through marriage that's like getting She'll be ninety four, I believe in
1:03:19
a round September. And she says that too quite often. I don't know
1:03:23
why I'm still here? She she didn't, yes said every single time I
1:03:28
would go see um grandma, she would say the same thing, every single
1:03:31
time. I don't know why I still here. All my friends are gone.
1:03:35
Yeah, I don't know why. I still hear well for you to
1:03:37
make new friends. Yeah, And it's like I knew all that back then,
1:03:39
but it wasn't my place to say anything. And she was such a
1:03:43
sweet, gentle soul until she's transitioned. I mean she's even better now,
1:03:46
but she was just always a sweet gentle soul here. So it's it's for
1:03:52
her to be constantly like, I don't know why I'm here still, were
1:03:54
you're missing life? Right? Or when you're just because I've had the other
1:03:59
people as well in my experience that they didn't want to be here at all,
1:04:02
and we're miserable the whole time, And then for me that was an
1:04:06
experience to see someone else like that. I've been that way for a big
1:04:12
part of my life. I used anchor as my fuel for most of my
1:04:15
life. I don't, I just don't. I'd rather be happy. But
1:04:19
there that generation also is more from the suffering generation. Yeah, you gotta
1:04:29
you gotta suffer. That's what we thought we had to do, right,
1:04:31
Yeah, that's what we thought we had to do. Just like being a
1:04:32
perfectionist, I would do I did everything perfect around that, I did my
1:04:36
yard and did everything perfect so I could be like, yeah, I did
1:04:41
this. Everybody knows that I did this. They saw me do this,
1:04:43
right, you know, it was just a making I'm worthy. I'm worthy
1:04:46
I did it. Yeah, and I'm not suffered through this. I trudged
1:04:50
through this, conquered this. Yeah, and it's life so much different than
1:04:59
that, it doesn't even have to be that way. So then it becomes
1:05:01
just more freer. Just like we were talking about earlier, I don't even
1:05:04
I don't notice. There's things I don't notice anymore because I don't do them
1:05:06
anymore. Yeah. Completely, I mean it completely leaves you. So that's
1:05:12
that's the This is the light of together side of that tunnel, guys.
1:05:15
Yeah, and suffering as a choice, just saying to the choice. All
1:05:20
right, Well, thank you so much for hanging out with us. We
1:05:25
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1:05:29
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1:05:32
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1:06:31
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1:06:35
seeing how you can thrive instead of just existing. Yeah, I like that,
1:06:40
don't just exist, thrive, feel better, feel good, feel good
1:06:46
more often. Right, it's the words that matter. They all have vibrational
1:06:51
frequency. So if you feel like you're just existing, you're just getting by.
1:06:57
We have to change that verbiage too. How am I thriving? How
1:07:00
am I accomplishing? How am I M getting better? How am I feeling
1:07:05
better? So focus on the words that you're using and change them so that
1:07:12
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