Latest / Man In Your Corner with Shaun Tucker / Ep. 96 | Missed the Opportunity? How to Find the "Four Open Doors" | The Reset
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- Shaun: Welcome back to the reset episode 96 with me Sean Tucker. What are you going to do when the opportunity has come already and you missed it? What do do now? My suggestion in what you do next is keep moving forward. Keep taking action. Because one missed opportunity doesn't mean you have missed the opportunity. It just means that you've closed one door, which is going to allow all of the other doors to open. Simple as that. Don't get caught up on thinking what I could have done differently. Instead, keep moving forward because your plan can only change when you are moving forward. You can't change what's already happened. If the plan didn't go according to plan, well, it's because you didn't make a plan that didn't go to plan. And that's all right. Because we all know if if you have expectations, if you have things that you ⁓ you have to go and ask for them. And if you're not asking, it's not someone else's fault. It's your fault. So maybe that's the lesson. Be more direct. Speak what you really want. And maybe it has revealed something within yourself. Maybe it's revealed that what you want is actually what you want, not what you think you want. And no point putting it aside because now it is true. You felt it. You felt that there's an element that you missed out on. It's not to say that the opportunity's gone completely, it just means now moving forward you can see it clear enough. You can actually identify where is the gap and you can actually find it and fill it up. Because sometimes when you have a little bit of air that keeps coming through, that little bit of air keeps somehow making your house cold. There's a little gap somewhere in the door frame, in the window, and you can't find where it is. Well, don't stop looking. Keep looking. But most importantly, Move forward. Don't let it consume you. Because once it has consumed you, it's game over. and you're not a quitter. You're not a quitter, so keep going. Keep moving forward, keep taking action and keep, I don't know, finding opportunities. Cause one door closes, another four open. I don't know where that comes from, I think it was on an Ed Mylett podcast. One door shuts, another four open on a beachside villa. So I don't know, maybe it would be. wise to just sit back, keep your awareness open, keep looking forward, keep moving forward and keep building what it is you really want. In other news, I think... In other news, I think it's really important to take a step back from what you're often and reflect how far you've Reflect not only how far you've come, but what action steps you've taken to get where you are. Look at the kind of, look at the consistency that you have bred and put into effort and Look at the results that have come back. Maybe the results aren't clearly visible just yet, but wow, the last 90 days, look how much progress you've made. We're coming up to halfway through this year. It's amazing how quickly time goes when you show up every single day with a little bit of work and a little bit of consistency. It's amazing what can happen to your business, to your body, to your mind, to your relationships when you keep showing up. So we are up to episode 96 today. What do you want the next 96 episodes to look like? For me, I don't know what direction I'm going to take them. I'm just going to keep on listening. Keep on listening and keep on speaking what it is that's true for me. Because I know what's true for me is probably going to be true for you too. And if it's not, that's okay. It's a matter of we don't know what kind of ripple effect we have until we start actually being open to seeing them. And we have to keep on showing up and putting the effort out there and the energy behind it out there because this is ultimately what I care about. And I know serving others is a really important value to me. It's something that I cherish and it's something that I hope you're getting value from too. So go out, be amazing, keep shining bright and yeah I'd love to hear how you're doing. Leave a comment below on wherever you see this and I'll see... and I look forward to seeing you in tomorrow's episode. Thanks for stopping by.