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Notice things fall apart? This is why it’s a good sign · Business Energetics® with Lenka Lutonska

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  Welcome to the Business Energetics podcast where we dive deep into the new way of growing your business using the most powerful currency on the planet, your energies, not effort alone. My name is Lenka Lutonska. I'm a creator of Business Energetics and best linked author of energetic selling and marketing. And after losing my first business, I went from £7.30 on my bank account to creating millions on repeat, by doing what I love, using the power of energies. And now I want to show you how to do the same. In each episode, we'll dive into the different aspect of your energy so you can activate the next level of your business revenues, life and even the friends of aliveness. Welcome and let's dive into today's episode.
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  You know those situations when you decide, I'm going to make twice more money, I'm going to create twice more sales revenues. You intend. And in the next moment what happens? Money goes out. Maybe the car breaks down, maybe equipment breaks down, maybe you need to spend so much more than before and you got actually less money than when you started when you made that decision.
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  What's happening here? Well, this is called energetic deselection and actually this is a very powerful sign. You're well on the way to manifesting that which you decided. But if we don't know what's happening and if we don't understand energetic deselection, we can start looping back inner circles. Today we are going to break that. I'm going to share with you exactly what it is so your human might understand. And I'm going to give you four step process that will help you to use this phenomenon of energetic deselection and speed up your manifesting, speed up your sales revenues growth rather than slow it down. Plus, towards the end of the video, I'm going to share with you exactly what's happening in my business and life. My auntie selections and there's plenty. So stay around, let's do this together and let's dive into energetic deselection. I'm Lenka Lutowska, creator of Business Energetics and it's so good to have you here. Welcome. Now, what is energetic deselection? You see, look at everything you experience and everything you have currently.
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  Look at everything in terms of frequencies, everything will have a frequency, meaning it will vibrate at a certain level. Now, when you shift your identity, when you shift your intention, you automatically shift your frequency. What signal you send to the universe within, what you vibrate, so to speak, so that the reality around you needs to adjust. So it's very Very natural. And not only normal, but by law, what must happen is that anything that doesn't match you frequently anymore, be it quality of clients or relationships or equipment or clothing, or anything else that doesn't match you frequentially anymore, because you now vibrate higher, needs to fall off. So this is why it's so very common that when you make a new decision, essentially you proclaim to the universe within, this is who I am now. Those things and people and circumstances that do not match that who I am now needs to fall off now. The good news is that which is falling off automatically creates a space for new frequentially matching things to come. In other words, when you let go good, you can look forward to great dropping in, great manifesting. In other words, if you currently experiencing many clients leaving because you decided to change something, you decided, this is who I am now as a change maker, as a service provider, as an entrepreneur. If you find that the current clients are leaving, yes, automatically you activate the new level of clients, different quality of clients. So they will come. But of course your human mind can panic a little bit because what you see is, oh, have I done something wrong? Because I've decided to do something new, something powerful. And actually what's happening is the opposite energy of what I wanted. No, no, no. Remember, any form of deselection, it's a sign that you in fact are on a way to manifesting that which you desire. That you actually made that declaration to the universe within, this is who I am. Here is one of the most important tips for this video, something I want you to take away with you. Whenever you notice this election happening around you, in your life, in your world, it can happen with relationships, it can happen with anything. Take it as a sign that your manifestation, that which you desire, is closed, that you're well, well on away, rather than a threat. Because guess what? It is a sign, a big sign. And you are on a way. Okay, now, when you experience this selection, let's say in personal life, you decide I'm worthy of love and you start dating after a while. But what actually happens is some friends or some relationships that you currently have, they just start ghosting you. Now, this type of experiences, what it also is, energetically speaking, is what I call an alchemical point. Meaning if I really simplify, any manifestation, any scaling, any creation of a new meaningful intention and bringing it into your physical reality can be sectioned into three distinctive phases, and that is phase one. Activate. So this is where you set that intention. This is where you decide. This is Who I am now.
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  Phase two, bridging. So this is that bridge between the old and actually the new.
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  And phase three is actual manifestation. This is where all that reality adjust, you adjust and all those manifestations can drop in. So let's say if you activate, you decide, I'm worthy of love, I'm going to date and I know my love partner is here. I decided. Or you activate the doubling your sales revenues as entrepreneurs change maker. This is who I am now. Enough of all.
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  This is the level I'm playing at, this is the level I'm serving at. This is the level I'm receiving at. So you make some decisions, you activate that reality, that identity. So that's phase one. Phase three would be the manifestation of it when it actually happened. You double the revenues, you now serve more clients and so forth. The stage in between, the phase in between is called bridging. This is that transition between old and. And new. You, when the reality is adjusting, you're adjusting. Now, alchemical points are very important aspect of this bridging of this transition. This is any situation that will invite you. It's an opportunity for you to alchemize something that no longer serves you into something that does alchemize the old. Turn the old into new, turn the water into wine. Turn the limiting belief into more empowering beliefs. Turn the perception that that no longer aligns with who you want to be. Let that go and invite something new. So for instance, if then you're experiencing this election, let's again use the same example. I'm doubling my prices or I'm doubling my sales revenues. This is who I am. And you've got some clients falling off, so to speak.
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  This is an alchemical point. This is an opportunity to harness the gift from the situation and let go of something that it doesn't serve you anymore and invite something new. So what you want to do here is become aware of how your human mind reacts. So your human mind will start creating stories about this as it always does. And it will be probably the same stories that are limiting you in life patterns. So you will be saying to yourself something like, let's say, oh my God, people are leaving or clients are leaving. That means I'm not good enough. That could be one story or pattern or belief, or it will be something around, I'm not safe. I need more clients to be financially safe. Let's say when you become aware what actual stories you create about this, this election, clients are leaving.
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  You will get a good insight into how your human mind operates. Right now in a way that no longer serves you. So your job is to harness this gift of this diselection, of this alchemical point will be to willingly let go of this story and replace it with something new. So if you know that, you create a story, oh, I'm not good enough, that's why clients are leaving me. That will be the same story that probably repeated itself again and again and again. So you want to willingly let go of this story, you acknowledge it, it's a story. You acknowledge it's a limiting belief, it's a limiting pattern, it's not true, is not who you are. And you willingly let it go. You say to yourself, from now on, I'm no longer available to this old story, old limiting belief, that if clients deselect themselves or relationship deselect themselves, that makes me less than I'm letting that go. And then of course, you want to replace this old story, old pattern, old limiting belief, old perception, with something new, with something that when you embody it, when you fully embody energy of it, it will help you to become that woman, that man, the change maker that automatically has that which you desire. Whatever that initial intention was, let's say doubling my sales revenues or doubling my impact or improving quality of clients or relationships, whatever it was.
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  So here you ask yourself, okay, how would this version of me see this? And the version of you seeing this would probably say something like, huh. So the new perception or new belief, new pattern here is I'm worthy of the best quality relationships, I'm worthy of the best quality clients, I'm worthy of X, Y, Z. I'm worthy because I am, and that's it.
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  So the new belief would be unworthy. So you would then consciously accept and embody this belief? Yes, it's possible to do it with a simple, powerful decision, I am worthy, and that's it. Or use any of the belief change process or belief installation process that you're familiar with and works for you. The bottom line, and the most powerful aspect of this is when this selection happens, when you notice it, and especially if you notice reacting with some sort of negative emotion, be it stress, be it fear, be it doubt, do know you're experiencing an alchemical point. And it's a great opportunity for you to let go of something that no longer serves you and invite something that does, in other words, alchemize shit into gold. Which brings us nicely to one of my very favorite sayings, or if you like mantras that personally helped me throughout the years through this incredible manifestation and scaling process and really helped me to go from zero to millions and so forth. And that is this one. I'm willing to let go of good to welcome great. Because ultimately isn't this what deselection really is about?
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  Letting go of good, letting go of safe, letting go. What served you up till this point? Willingly in order to welcome great.
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  That is what is truly happening. And I don't know but for me personally, whenever I say this mantra for myself and perhaps stay with it for a few minutes here and there, it calms my nervous system so much and it really puts me back into flow.
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  Recently I've experienced a lot of this selection.
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  A member of my team I've been working with for years decided to move on and whereas I know it was right, but of course I experienced a form of grieving and therefore I would stay with this mantra. I'm willing to let go of good in order to welcome great.
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  Also, what's been happening throughout the last few months is that everything in the house, in this beautiful house is slowly breaking down.
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  Washing machine, dishwasher, literally all the equipment one by one. And so I've been replacing and actually redecorating the house to the next level. But sometimes it can be for my human mind, ah, what a nuisance. It's perfectly good dishwasher or it's not even that old. But you know what? I'm taking it as a sign that instead of taking it as a stress or in some cases for some people I know in past, I would be thinking, oh my goodness, I need to spend more money of it. What's happening? La la la. So instead of that I'm telling I. I say to myself, I'm willing to let go of good to welcome grade and I'm looking forward to what that grade is. So I'm just going with that motion. And this mantra certainly helps me. So if you're not familiar with this mantra, I'm willing to let go of good in order to welcome great. May it serve you too. Next is worthwhile saying that more you participate in your willingness to let go of good and welcome great, more universe will speed up things for you and more crazy it will be about you, so to speak. So why not help the universe within the limitless creator or manifesto within and actually look around and ask yourself, what can I let go of willingly? What can I let go of that is good and maybe serve me in a while, but it's truly no longer a match to me. So it could be, for instance, a piece of clothing, maybe it's time to go into a wardrobe and have a look at the pieces of clothing you've been holding onto. Just because maybe you will lose those few inches again. But really it's not serving you to holding on to that old identity of yours. Or maybe it's a decluttering of some mess in your environment, some hoarded things, so to speak. Maybe it's actually saying no more to the relationship you've been holding onto. But you know that relationship is truly, truly not right for you. Certainly not for the woman or man you're becoming. Have a look around in your business, in your life, in your environment, and ask yourself, am I holding on to something that if I willingly let it go, it will be a signal to the universe within me where I will signal I'm worthy of the best and I am opening myself to the best for the best. Certainly this is a good reflection to stay with for a bit. Now let's put this into a simple four step process that will help you to deal with this selection really powerfully and use it to speed up your manifestations, shall we? Step 1 recognize this election as a sign. Meaning if you notice something falling apart, simply tell yourself, aha. This means I'm rising.
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  Step 2 declare the mantra I'm willing to let go of good in order to welcome Great.
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  Step 3 Look at the diselection as alchemical point. Make that inquiry. What is this situation, this deselection asking me to let go? And what is it asking me to welcome? To embody? Take that gift and Step four Shift your contemplation. So rather than previously, perhaps your human mind identity would go about have I done something wrong? When those clients are leaving, people are leaving, money is leaving, or this is breaking down, this is falling apart? Have I you shift that contemplation into what can I look forward to now? What are the possibilities? What kind of relationships arc is on the way as we speak? What kind of money is coming? What kind of abundance am I currently manifesting? And it's literally here I'm opening myself to it. Shift your contemplation because that which you contemplate on you manifest. And this is a wonderful way to finish this four step process when you use the phenomena of the deselection for speeding up your manifestation. So those are the four steps for you. And now I will love to hear from you. Share with me in the comments below what has recently fallen away in your business or in your life and how that might be a sign that you are rising. Let me know in the comments below and I will say lovingly goodbye just for now, and I'll see you next time.