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An Unlikely Affair: Back in the Ring & The Dating Pool with Nikki and Brie Bella · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hi, Amber, Hilelah, Welcome to an Unlikely Affair. Today is like, Amber,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if you were into like reality TV
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: back in the day.
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  Speaker 2: I've always been into it.
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  Speaker 1: So I watched Total Divas on E became obsessed with
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  Speaker 1: these two girls known as the Bella Twins. Today we
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  Speaker 1: have Nicki and brig Garcia on the podcast. I am
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  Speaker 1: so thrilled to have them on because number one, I'm
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  Speaker 1: obsessed with the WWE.
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  Speaker 2: I just find it fascinating and.
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  Speaker 1: The shit they right and what they built off of it,
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  Speaker 1: and they're so hot, right, they're so hot and like
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  Speaker 1: rock and bods. And then Bree goes off and like
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  Speaker 1: finds the love of her life. I really want to
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  Speaker 1: know how that happened, like picture perfect marriage, what does
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  Speaker 1: one look for? And then Nicky's kind of like me,
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  Speaker 1: where she's like I'm gonna dabble with the younger men.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, ooh, I feel like we're on the same
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  Speaker 1: life path. Let's get into it.
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  Speaker 2: So that's I'm excited. I am too.
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  Speaker 1: It's like gonna it's like nostalgic but very I mean,
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  Speaker 1: they're a household name at this point, so I'm excited
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  Speaker 1: to talk to them, especially them returning to the WWE.
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  Speaker 3: It's a whole world, that whole you know, like it's
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  Speaker 3: just a monster world that a lot. You're either in
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  Speaker 3: it and you know everything, or you're out and you're
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  Speaker 3: so curious, like, yeah, you.
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  Speaker 2: Want to be in the club.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like this. That level of fandom is so
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  Speaker 1: crazy to me. The people in the audience with the signs,
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  Speaker 1: holy fuck. I want to also talk to them about
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  Speaker 1: who they think would win between you and I going TOES.
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  Speaker 1: I would definitely take a fulld out a fold up
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  Speaker 1: chair to you.
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  Speaker 2: That's my most favorite move.
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  Speaker 3: Well thank oh, well, thank you. I'm sure that would
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  Speaker 3: feel amazing.
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  Speaker 2: It's not real. It's not real.
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  Speaker 3: But knowing you, you would actually do it and it
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  Speaker 3: would be like a oop, and then I would be like, okay, let's,
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  Speaker 3: you know, get a stretcher Ambernesea.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, You're right, You're so right. I see
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  Speaker 2: you like missing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, remember the slap that we did for the TikTok
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  Speaker 1: and I did the wrong.
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  Speaker 2: I should not play pretend.
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  Speaker 1: Your your liability for the biggest liability. Let's get Nikki
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  Speaker 1: and Brigarcia in the building. I cannot wait.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, you both wait what.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, we going today?
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  Speaker 2: Is this just for us?
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 4: We had We're here in New York, so it's like
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  Speaker 4: media day.
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  Speaker 5: We did some stuff. But I feel like for you both,
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  Speaker 5: I can like kind of open it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let it out. My love to have you, choker,
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  Speaker 2: and this is cool. You both look amazing.
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  Speaker 1: I have been watching you guys since the time I
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  Speaker 1: was I was a youngin right when Total Divas came out?
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  Speaker 2: What year was that? Gosh, do you remember two with that?
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  Speaker 4: I mean before twenty ten, like two thousand was it?
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  Speaker 1: Well?
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  Speaker 5: I got married twenty twenty thirteen, twenty yeah, twenty twelve,
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  Speaker 5: twenty year right, okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, oh my god. And the moment you guys
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  Speaker 1: stepped on the scene, it was like, who are these
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  Speaker 1: two incredibly gorgeous women who are in such a strange
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  Speaker 1: world like you guys, And the level of fandom.
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  Speaker 2: I have to know because.
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  Speaker 1: I know that you guys were like in the modeling
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  Speaker 1: world and you were acting. You were also waitresses, like
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  Speaker 1: I know the drill. How did you fall into the wwe?
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  Speaker 4: Well, what's crazy?
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  Speaker 5: So we were also competitive soccer players and Nicky and I.
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  Speaker 5: It's funny because when we were growing up traveling in
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  Speaker 5: the United States playing soccer, there was a couple of
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  Speaker 5: user girls who we loved dressing up as the Spice
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  Speaker 5: Girls and lip.
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  Speaker 4: Singing for everyone.
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  Speaker 5: So we always loved entertaining, and then we started to
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  Speaker 5: waitress after high school.
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  Speaker 4: We were hooter girls and we would always.
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  Speaker 5: Do wwe pay per views, but yeah, we were total
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  Speaker 5: hooter girls. And so this is like way before social media.
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  Speaker 5: There was pretty much like a flyer where they were
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  Speaker 5: on the search for female wrestlers.
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  Speaker 4: They called it Diva Search, and I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: there's characters.
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  Speaker 5: They're like rough and tough. I was like, this is
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  Speaker 5: I was telling myself start like this is our calling.
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  Speaker 5: But Nikki wanted to go play pro balling. I always
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  Speaker 5: playing college soccer at the time, so college soccer, waitressing
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  Speaker 5: and then we would do like modeling and acting gigs
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  Speaker 5: on the side for extra money.
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  Speaker 4: But we were well we drop out and go back.
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  Speaker 5: But at the time I was playing college fall Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: But then so you guys, it was wild because Diva Search.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know if you guys ever saw Glow on Netflix,
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  Speaker 5: but kind of like the same deal. You just show
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  Speaker 5: up and you're like yeah, I got this, and then
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  Speaker 5: you either make it or you don't. And actually Nicky
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  Speaker 5: and I didn't make it. They're like, yeah, you're not
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  Speaker 5: what we're looking for.
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  Speaker 2: Well, can I ask you what that search was? Like,
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  Speaker 2: like what did they have you do?
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  Speaker 4: So my breed told me.
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  Speaker 5: She's like, so you're just gonna show up, You're gonna
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  Speaker 5: fight people. And I'm like, okay, cool, I got this.
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  Speaker 5: So we show up in like jeans and shirts and
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  Speaker 5: then they're like, so you need to get into bikini
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  Speaker 5: we need to like rate your body.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, they like judged us hard.
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  Speaker 5: It was ended up being like almost like a hardcore
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  Speaker 5: pageant vibes type of thing, like like you got judge
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  Speaker 5: being bikinis.
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  Speaker 4: You had to do like.
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  Speaker 5: Cut a promo, your walk out, do a walk out,
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  Speaker 5: what it would be like, what your character would be.
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  Speaker 4: So there was no fighting at all.
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  Speaker 5: Like and Her and I showed up because we thought
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  Speaker 5: we were gonna be wrestling, so we showed up in
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  Speaker 5: like ponytails. We made these shirts. Mine said Breezy foot cheesy,
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  Speaker 5: her said Nicole.
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  Speaker 4: For show.
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  Speaker 5: We were like, bab you got us so dead, Like
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  Speaker 5: all these girls like dressed up like go go damcers
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  Speaker 5: almost yeah, and we're like, oh damn. I was like
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  Speaker 5: I looked at her and I go, where did you
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  Speaker 5: take me? Like what is this?
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  Speaker 4: Because I just thought you were going to fight.
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  Speaker 5: But we ended up making our way to the ring
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  Speaker 5: and then had a proper like audition and they're like, okay,
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  Speaker 5: there's something.
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  Speaker 4: More like a tryout.
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  Speaker 5: So they flew us out to McDonough George outside of
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  Speaker 5: Atlanta and they're like, go let him get in the
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  Speaker 5: ring and like day one, they're slamming us and it
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  Speaker 5: hurts so bad.
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  Speaker 4: But we both looked each other and I'm like, this
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  Speaker 4: is it, Like we love it.
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  Speaker 1: So you knew that you loved it the moment you
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  Speaker 1: stepped in the ring. It was like, oh, this is
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  Speaker 1: our calleague yeeah.
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  Speaker 4: We were like they had this like many little independent show.
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  Speaker 5: I remember seeing one of the guys dressing up as
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  Speaker 5: a vampire, like like everyone getting.
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  Speaker 4: These weird gimmicks. But I'm like, we be a part
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  Speaker 4: of it, and they're like you want to be a
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  Speaker 4: part of the show. We're like yeah. So the vampire guy,
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  Speaker 4: he was so crazy tall.
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  Speaker 5: His cape was like this, and then he opened it
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  Speaker 5: and Breen and I like came out, We're like, this
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  Speaker 5: is so like we just I was like, this is
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  Speaker 5: where I belong.
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  Speaker 4: Like yeah, it felt like, yeah, we're part of the circus.
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna say.
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  Speaker 3: I literally was gonna say, it's like the circus on steroids.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, if the circus just randomly started beating the shit
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  Speaker 1: out of somebody, Yeah right.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like jumps in and joins and like someone isn't
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  Speaker 5: on an animal good old carny energy.
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  Speaker 2: Yea Carni energy.
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  Speaker 1: You know. It kind of was combining all of the
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  Speaker 1: worlds that you guys had been in for so long,
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  Speaker 1: like you got to be an actress that you It
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  Speaker 1: was you know, the modeling obviously because you they want
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  Speaker 1: you to be esthetically pleasing, but then the athletic background
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  Speaker 1: where you guys get to because I have to imagine
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  Speaker 1: that that is grueling. Like when you're done, you're fucking exhausted.
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  Speaker 5: Oh beyond mentally physically, it takes. It takes a huge
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  Speaker 5: toll in your body. I mean people don't even realize
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  Speaker 5: running the ropes alone, when you're hitting those ropes coming
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  Speaker 5: off for weeks, you'll be bruised and so tender till
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  Speaker 5: you're back. We've always said, like your back almost grows
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  Speaker 5: like this layer of protection because like this is what
• 8:08
  Speaker 5: a doctor put it tests. When we slam our bodies
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  Speaker 5: on the mat, it's like putting yourself in a car
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  Speaker 5: accident every time you're slamming the mat. So think of
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  Speaker 5: the impact you're putting your body through. We've been doing
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  Speaker 5: it for almost twenty years with breaks in between, but
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  Speaker 5: it's a lot, and you have some matches that are
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  Speaker 5: even harder than others, and you're just waking up the
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  Speaker 5: next day, like and you have to tell a story.
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  Speaker 5: So you're being that physical and then you have to
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  Speaker 5: telling a story, right.
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  Speaker 3: I think looking hot would be the hardest part. You're like, oh, wait,
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  Speaker 3: my angle, this is the better.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, there's definitely times out of the match we'd
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  Speaker 5: go on the back and I was like, oh and
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  Speaker 5: then when people now when social media came around and
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  Speaker 5: people just screenshot you in action, and I'm like.
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  Speaker 2: Dude, like I don't love that. Can we not do that?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: So now that you guys are coming back, what was
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  Speaker 1: the break like? Because I know that you said that
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  Speaker 1: you would have breaks in between, but do you feel
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  Speaker 1: like you have stayed on top of your game, like
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  Speaker 1: people are losing their minds that, like, you guys are
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  Speaker 1: going to be back in action.
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  Speaker 2: How are you guys feeling pressure?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 5: A lot of pressure for sure, because the women, it's
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  Speaker 5: the greatest the division's ever been, and I are we
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  Speaker 5: inspired a lot of the women, which are so amazing
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  Speaker 5: for what our era was doing. And when you take
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  Speaker 5: that time off and then you come and compete with
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  Speaker 5: girls that looked up to you, or women that looked
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  Speaker 5: up to you but also are holding an even higher standard,
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  Speaker 5: You're like, oh shit, I'm in my forties and these
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  Speaker 5: women looked up to me. I need to go prove
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  Speaker 5: like one I could hang with them and then show
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  Speaker 5: them that I'm still the woman that inspired them so
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  Speaker 5: long ago.
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  Speaker 4: So there's a lot of pressure there for sure.
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  Speaker 3: First of all, you guys don't look like you're in
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  Speaker 3: your forties. I think you're lying. That can't be true.
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  Speaker 2: Forty two Yeah, it looks so good.
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  Speaker 4: I believe it.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, though, you want to know who? I
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: feel like the game has just changed. I mean, Gwen Stefani,
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  Speaker 1: the kim Kys of the world, Jennifer Lopez, like no one,
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  Speaker 1: no woman is tripping on age anymore.
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  Speaker 2: Well at least they don't look like they're tripping on age.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So when you guys get in the ring, do they
• 10:16
  Speaker 3: pair you based on is it weight high age?
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  Speaker 2: How does it work?
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  Speaker 4: In the WWE, It's all just based on stories.
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  Speaker 5: So for example, right now, Lash Legend and Nya Jacks
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  Speaker 5: are the tag team champions for the women's division, and
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  Speaker 5: so Nicky and I really want those titles.
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  Speaker 4: So that's who we're going to fight.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 5: They're way taller than us, but if you have those titles,
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  Speaker 5: we're coming for you. So it's all based on story,
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  Speaker 5: which is so fun. But you know, we're pros, like
• 10:47
  Speaker 5: we're professionals. It's you know, you learn the craft and
• 10:51
  Speaker 5: it takes a long time, so you can get it
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  Speaker 5: in the ring with someone who might be way shorter
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  Speaker 5: than you or way bigger than you. Yeah, which is great.
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  Speaker 5: It's like it leaves it for the ar I think
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  Speaker 5: our fan base. It makes it more fun because you know,
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  Speaker 5: like David and Goliath, David found his way to take
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  Speaker 5: down Goliath and they you know, so when we get
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  Speaker 5: in the ring, the fans want to say, how do
• 11:12
  Speaker 5: you take down this giant? And I think that's the
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  Speaker 5: major connection to wrestling for people is you find a
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  Speaker 5: character that you're drawn to, but they get in moments
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  Speaker 5: that they overcome, Like that's how our storytelling kind of is.
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  Speaker 5: Or they turn bad for a bit because a girl
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  Speaker 5: broke their heart, or we kind of have that what
• 11:29
  Speaker 5: do you call it? I want to say telenovela, but
• 11:32
  Speaker 5: what is it? Soap opera vibes to us tell these
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  Speaker 5: stories and that's like, especially our men, it's like a
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  Speaker 5: men soap opera get super attached because they feel those
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  Speaker 5: moments of like failure or succeeding. But this guy's like
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  Speaker 5: my superheroes, strong and buff, and I.
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  Speaker 4: Want to be him.
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  Speaker 5: And then for the women, women, especially during the Total
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  Speaker 5: Divas Total Bellas, are started to get really drawn to
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  Speaker 5: us because they're like, holy shit, these women can do
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  Speaker 5: what like the men are doing, or they're kicking ass
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  Speaker 5: and then they're going to having fun wine tasting like
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  Speaker 5: on the side or so now there's so much connection
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  Speaker 5: there and it's like totally the characters and the stories
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  Speaker 5: we tell.
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  Speaker 3: So when are you guys getting back in the ring
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  Speaker 3: with WrestleMania coming up?
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  Speaker 2: What's the date?
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  Speaker 4: Good question?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it's one of those crazy things.
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  Speaker 4: The thing about our business is, so.
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  Speaker 5: We came back the or I came back to the
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  Speaker 5: end of January, and I just assumed, Oh, you're gonna
• 12:26
  Speaker 5: have me back every Monday. But they're like, okay, so
• 12:28
  Speaker 5: i'll let you know when you're needed back in the story.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm like, it's been five weeks and so I'm
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  Speaker 5: hoping you know we're back there soon.
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  Speaker 4: Much better. We're bitch better works.
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  Speaker 5: But I like, you know, I would love to be
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  Speaker 5: able to wrestle before WrestleMania, and I do because of
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  Speaker 5: the titles are on the line and they will be
• 12:51
  Speaker 5: at WrestleMania.
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  Speaker 4: Nikki and I both want to prove like that we
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  Speaker 4: can hang with.
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  Speaker 5: This division and that we deserve to be in that
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  Speaker 5: WrestleMania match to go for the titles.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, they're just gonna give me the tent.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gotta get in there living for everything that's happening
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  Speaker 1: right now.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I want front row.
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  Speaker 4: It's in Vega.
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  Speaker 2: It's in Vegas hundred, tell me when, tell me when April.
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  Speaker 4: So we'll find out it's a two day event.
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  Speaker 5: But we'll find out what day we're on April eighteenth
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  Speaker 5: and nineteen, So we'll find out we're Saturday or Sunday,
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  Speaker 5: but Las Vegas, it's.
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  Speaker 4: So much fun. You just get and when you start.
• 13:23
  Speaker 5: So live and can you explain like a live wrestling
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  Speaker 5: show is going to be the funnest thing you ever
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  Speaker 5: so entertained.
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna guys, I have to be there.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, We're gonna have you guys.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so excited. My found. We let's go,
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  Speaker 2: let's do no and I'm gonna have new boobs.
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: Oh my boobs are going to be there to me,
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: and my twins are going to be there to share
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  Speaker 1: on you twins.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, the same. What are you doing?
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: I have so during my second pregnancy, you guys fucked
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: me up so hard. I had like mass s titis
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  Speaker 1: I think is what it's called, like the yeah, and
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: it caused scar tissue around one so they have to
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: go in and clean that out reattach the pector muscle.
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  Speaker 1: And then I figured, since you're in there, why don't
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: you make them just a little bit bigger, just a
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: little bit bigger. You know, you guys are both parents. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I know that that isn't a huge shift. And you
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  Speaker 1: you guys have been uh in this entertainment world. But
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  Speaker 1: then you know, cameras turn on, and I don't think
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: anything can prepare you for cameras turning on to capture
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  Speaker 1: your life. But then they chop it up because like,
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: who has the fucking time to watch your entire life? Right?
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  Speaker 2: We wish that.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone did, because maybe had it may be a little
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  Speaker 1: bit better. And you guys went through you know, love, heartbreak,
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: becoming parents, all in front of the public eye, right,
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: how have you handled that?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, it was it was hard. I feel like
• 15:10
  Speaker 5: you know how it is. It's reliving those hard moments.
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  Speaker 5: So it's like you go through it on camera and
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  Speaker 5: then many months later you have to relive it.
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  Speaker 4: So it's like just an awful feeling. And I feel like, well,
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  Speaker 4: we're a lot like you.
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  Speaker 5: Like Nicki and I were like, we're gonna just be
• 15:26
  Speaker 5: authentically us, the good, the bad, all of that. We're
• 15:28
  Speaker 5: going to showcase like we're not going to filter ourselves,
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  Speaker 5: like we don't give a shit.
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  Speaker 4: You either like us or you don't. We don't care.
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  Speaker 5: So then a lot of those moments how people would
• 15:36
  Speaker 5: take them, and I'm like, wait a second, you misunderstood
• 15:39
  Speaker 5: what we were saying. But and that was that was
• 15:42
  Speaker 5: like tough, and I think though, what has gotten us
• 15:44
  Speaker 5: through is like we have such an incredible fandom that.
• 15:47
  Speaker 4: We call the Bell Army.
• 15:48
  Speaker 5: And the one thing that would get me through, especially
• 15:51
  Speaker 5: the hard times and having to relive it, is I
• 15:53
  Speaker 5: realized even when they hate would come in, but there's
• 15:56
  Speaker 5: so many people in the world that are relating to
• 15:59
  Speaker 5: you and they get to sit on the couch and
• 16:01
  Speaker 5: they get to feel like they're not alone. And so
• 16:03
  Speaker 5: Brie and I would talk about this lot. I'm like, Breede,
• 16:05
  Speaker 5: we give them the good, the bad.
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: The ugly, because that is life.
• 16:08
  Speaker 5: We all go through that, and people who are tuning
• 16:10
  Speaker 5: in or relating to that they hate always seems so loud,
• 16:14
  Speaker 5: but that actually the people you inspire and have picked
• 16:16
  Speaker 5: up impa on is so much bigger. And that's why
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: I kept doing it for so long, especially my first
• 16:22
  Speaker 5: public breakup was so hard, but when I realized the
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: impact people were really having, and I'm like, see, this
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: is why we do what we do. And I feel
• 16:29
  Speaker 5: like some of us come into this world because it's
• 16:31
  Speaker 5: our purpose, because not a lot of people can handle.
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: What we all go through in this world.
• 16:36
  Speaker 5: And I feel like that's why God chooses people and
• 16:39
  Speaker 5: be like, Okay, you all got some shields.
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: I know you're all going to get through it. Shit
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: might be top at times, but you're gonna get through it.
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: Some people don't get through that, but we all do.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: For sure.
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: I am sure people love you guys because it humanizes you.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: People want to see They don't want to just see
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: the perfection right, because that's not real. And that's how
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: people really freaking connect. And that's probably why your fan
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: base is so strong, because you're beautiful. You've gone through shit, heartbreak, motherhood,
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: life gets messy, and people are like, oh, I love
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: those girls like they.
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: Get it get totally.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And it took a while to get to this
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: point where you kind of have to separate reality from reality,
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: which is such.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: A mind fuck.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: But also, and this just happened recently, you guys have
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: been doing this far longer than I have, which is amazing.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, the fact that you guys have built this
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: empire based off of like just an audition that you
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: saw on a flyer is pretty and it's incredible.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: I'm so happy for you both.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: But it was like I got to a place where
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: it's like, it is not my job to get you
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: to understand me, right, you can understand me or you
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: don't have to.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: It is not my issue. My life goes on.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: And once I kind of accepted that and knew that
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to get married to my own story
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: because I can't.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: It's ever evolving, it's ever changing.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Sometimes a producer, you know, may go, this is interesting
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: to you, doesn't fall in line with the rest of
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: the story. It's got to come out great. I can't
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: fucking worry about it. So if anyone wants to like
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: slide in the comments section and be a little twat
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: when they should be saying thank you for entertaining me
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: on a Tuesday night, that's on you.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: It's not on me exactly.
• 18:31
  Speaker 5: So well, you know, I read that. I'm sure a
• 18:34
  Speaker 5: lot of us did, but the Mel Robbins book let them.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: Yes, and it was so you go read it. It's
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: so good.
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: It's so good and it's so true.
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: And one thing I took as like just being a
• 18:45
  Speaker 5: reality star is like they're already going to form their
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: opinion before they even see you on TV, before they
• 18:53
  Speaker 5: watch your story throughout this season. They already have their opinion.
• 18:56
  Speaker 5: It'll be very hard to change. So let them, and
• 18:59
  Speaker 5: I always start to go like that. I was like,
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: you know what, I can be like Mother Teresa on
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: this series and they.
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: Will still talk shit and hate me totally because I
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: blew my nose weird, like something weird. And so I
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: loved that book like them.
• 19:14
  Speaker 5: I thought it was the most freeing reading experience I've
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: ever had, And so I was like, I almost wish
• 19:20
  Speaker 5: I had that my early days of filming, because I
• 19:22
  Speaker 5: got like it would get heavy, like some of the stuff,
• 19:25
  Speaker 5: and I'm like, wea like, you guys are watching twenty
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: percent of what we film, like there's no depth to me,
• 19:31
  Speaker 5: Like you're seeing these beats and these five minute scenes
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: and you're not understanding the depth of the whole conversation
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: or story. But I think it even goes into podcasts,
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: you know, like she has to help me a lot
• 19:42
  Speaker 5: more at times on the whole, like let them or whatever,
• 19:46
  Speaker 5: because like I contend like I feel very misunderstood at
• 19:50
  Speaker 5: times and I'm like, no, but they're not understanding.
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: Me or I'm not like projecting it right.
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: And I had to finally get to the place like,
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: you know what, being misunderstood's my charm and if people
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: don't like my charm.
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: Then that's on you.
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: Because I just I've realized this has been my whole
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: career of just totally being misunderstood, like wait, no, I
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: didn't mean it that way, or I just put my
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: foot in my mouth a lot, like I just whatever
• 20:11
  Speaker 5: I think first, instead of like pausing and like actually
• 20:14
  Speaker 5: think about what I'm saying. I'm just going to say it.
• 20:17
  Speaker 5: And I said, I don't know if that's what I meant.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: No, I think it is so endearing. I think, yes,
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: it is, Like I think it is so cute.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: And you know, there's something very sexy about being misunderstood. Yeah,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: you know, right, So I think you roll with it.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: Baby.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: I have a question for you, b because the cameras
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: are on and you have managed to have a love
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: story that most people can only dream about.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so true.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: How did you How did you know that this person
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: was your person? How are you able to have a
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: sustainable relationship being in the public, Like, I know that
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: there's so many of us for me for sure, Yes,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: give me, give me the secret sauce.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: Well, you know it's interesting because Brian was never considered
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: my type. When I looked at my type in my
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: twenties of what I was dating, and we both never
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: really looked twice at each other.
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: It was like we were kind of forcing him. He
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: like we cringed him out so bad.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm not a cringe out.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: He would gets so annoyed at us because we'd be
• 21:32
  Speaker 5: on overseas tours and we were always the type that
• 21:34
  Speaker 5: was like blasting music, drinking wine and wanting everyone to party,
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: and he does not drink and never has and like
• 21:41
  Speaker 5: just wanted to read a book in peace and quiet.
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: And we'd be on the tour bus and we're like.
• 21:44
  Speaker 5: Come on, Brian, and he'd be like, oh, I hate
• 21:46
  Speaker 5: these girls so much, like hated us. Well, I don't
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: know hate, not hate at that point. But we got
• 21:54
  Speaker 5: put in the storyline and we started talking a lot,
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: and we just had the same views. We connected on
• 22:02
  Speaker 5: so many of the different things. We both realized, like
• 22:04
  Speaker 5: we wanted to go in the Peace Corps out of
• 22:06
  Speaker 5: high school, like just a lot of things.
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: It was crazy.
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: I never had felt so connected with someone in conversation.
• 22:13
  Speaker 5: And we started to become friends, and before wrestling shows
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: I would always invite him. I always liked to go
• 22:17
  Speaker 5: to museums or something in the arts world and he
• 22:20
  Speaker 5: started tagging along with me, and we both just fell
• 22:23
  Speaker 5: for each other. And I felt like, if I saw
• 22:26
  Speaker 5: it all, yeah, I would ask you, oh, you're not
• 22:29
  Speaker 5: calling for Daniel Bryan, are you like segments? And I
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: was like, do you think he's gay? I don't even
• 22:36
  Speaker 5: think he's into girls.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: Oh no, you're brutal, brutal, You're brutal.
• 22:43
  Speaker 5: But before he and I, it was like, so when
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: we fell for each other, I remember when we started
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: to do Total Divas, we both just kind of told
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: each other like, if it ever gets to a point
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: that it's tearing us apart, it's not worth it to us,
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: because this means more than any of that. Yeah, And
• 23:00
  Speaker 5: there was times where he and I had to kind
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: of step to the side and I'm like, listen, guys,
• 23:03
  Speaker 5: Brian can't film today, Like it's too much. And I
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: was very delicate with the situations, like I'm like with him,
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: and we didn't mind showcasing when things got hard, especially
• 23:14
  Speaker 5: because my husband does fight depression and we've been on
• 23:16
  Speaker 5: that journey.
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: But he and I just feel.
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: Like we're hippies, Like we're very grounded people and when
• 23:25
  Speaker 5: we know we need to decompress. We go hiking together,
• 23:28
  Speaker 5: we garden together, like we're out in nature a lot.
• 23:31
  Speaker 5: And I hate to say it, I feel like nature
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: is this calming, free decompression all this humans. Sometimes when
• 23:39
  Speaker 5: we're out there, we don't realize how good it makes
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: this feel. But it's good for relationship. It's good for
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: their relationship with our children. And so I don't know
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: if it's been in more in the natural world, having.
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: This relationship that's helped us. You know, they're very good people.
• 23:51
  Speaker 5: But also yeah, and I know a very understanding husband.
• 23:54
  Speaker 5: We've respected each other along the way too, in a
• 23:56
  Speaker 5: lot of respect.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: Like that's the most important thing, is respect. I told
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: a lot of this the other day. Is you have
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: to respect someone first and then you admire them, and
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: then you trust them, and then you love them, Like
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: that's the order of operation. And I could totally relate.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: I moved in August last August from la to Montana,
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: And when you were talking about nature, I didn't know
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: why I came out here during the summer to just
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: visit my sister and I had no intentions of moving here.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: And I got here and I looked at the mountains
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: and I said I need to be here. I don't
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: know why. And then I figured out I need to
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: be up in big sky or the bridgers in the
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: middle of nowhere. And it was like the most healing thing.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: So when you said, I was like, oh my god,
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: one hundred percent get that.
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: It's crazy when you're like soul calls you.
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: Because like bra and I would always go to NAPA
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: because we never really got vacation time, so when we'd
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: have a few days off, like NAPO was always our spot.
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: To go, decompress, have fun.
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: And then when twenty twenty hit and when we were
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: pregnant and then we had our boys, we just wanted
• 25:01
  Speaker 5: to be away from cities and we're like, why does
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: NAPA always call us like we it has to be
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: more than vacations. So we just picked up our ship
• 25:08
  Speaker 5: and moved there.
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: We found two homs like each other.
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: On Zillow told like our dudes like bye, you could
• 25:14
  Speaker 5: not but we're going and it's been the greatest thing.
• 25:17
  Speaker 5: But I realized, like it just we had to be
• 25:20
  Speaker 5: in a place where we can disconnect. There's no big buildings,
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: there's no airports. Were amongst vineyards and mountains and sunrises
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: and sunsets and like like we were just called there.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: And I get it. Yeah, my dream is for Lala
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: and I to live next door to each other.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Oh we get big scat is so not happening. I
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: hail from Utah, all right, I got the nature.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: Love it great. I'll bop in, bop out.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: She always says to me. She's like, when are you
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: coming back to La And I'm like, it's going to
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: take a lot.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: To get back yourself.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: It's not like I'm some like little social butterfly and
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: want to be in a big city. Not what it
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: is at all. Like I hunger down. I love my
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: little house. I like love to go.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: Outside, and you go to Palm Springs. You escape to
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: go to Palm Springs.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Like I feel like I'm the the gray in this situation.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: The three of you have gone rogue, off the grid, joy.
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: Have all of us to come to and then, yes, you.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: See That's how I feel, Big Sky. Do you think
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: you'll ever come back to like the city life?
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: No away?
• 26:34
  Speaker 5: I mean I like chickens, my greenhouse, oh, my garden beds.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: You know what with the state of the world, you
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: have it figured out.
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: I do you know what I told my kids. Now
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: my kids are eight and five.
• 26:46
  Speaker 5: Okay, the garden. My kid's not to grow food. I
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: was like, what's so important now is to learn life skills.
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: My daughter right now is learning how to ham like
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: she's in sewing class. And I was just like, life skills.
• 26:58
  Speaker 5: If you know how to grow your own food, you're
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: already ahead. And I think it's such an important skill
• 27:03
  Speaker 5: and it's easy, and it's like like Sunday, just past Sunday.
• 27:06
  Speaker 5: I sent her picture. I went to the nursery, spent
• 27:08
  Speaker 5: like four hundred dollars. I like, planted like spring flowers.
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: I did a bunch of my garden beds, I you know,
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: cleaned out the coop. I like, just our whole family
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: was out there and make my kids do it with
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: me and my husband. We both obviously enjoy it. But
• 27:22
  Speaker 5: it was such a fun family day.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: I loved it. You're speaking my language.
• 27:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah, And oh my gosh, you need to get chickens
• 27:29
  Speaker 5: because chickens will change your life. Like those girls make
• 27:34
  Speaker 5: me laugh all the time. They're the cutest little things.
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: At gather them for dactyls that just.
• 27:39
  Speaker 6: Yeah, no, oh they still don't let you know, Oh,
• 27:44
  Speaker 6: my mom has My mom has a ranch in Nebraska,
• 27:47
  Speaker 6: and she's taught us how to you like put them
• 27:50
  Speaker 6: to sleep.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: I don't even know if that's like.
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: But that's so. But you know, I rescued mine from
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: a fight.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Pa, you know what, I fuck with you so hard.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: I love that you rescued your chickens for you.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: Good for you, you know what I mean.
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: But they're like fighting chickens, so they do not let
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: me get closed. You know.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: Do you take the birds out of the streets, but
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: you can't take the bird?
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: No? No, no no. Do they each have a name,
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: by the way, did you need your chicken?
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: And they have their own plaque, their own flack.
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: It's Miss Hide and Seek, Tinkerbell Fiddler because she loves
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: me on the roof, Brownie Princess Pearl, and then Fluffy
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: rest in Peace got taken by a hawk.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: Oh fuck, a bird cried, Yeah.
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: You gotta watch I go. I literally, you guys have
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: to see me. I'm on hop duty like every.
• 28:44
  Speaker 5: Damn out there, and like like one day this hawk
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: came and I was like, oh shit, it's like right
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: up in this tree and my girls were like laying out.
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: So I like grabbed this hoe and I like stood
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: on my garden bed and I didn't want to make
• 28:57
  Speaker 5: a loud noise to my chickens go crazy. And I'm
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: like like flipping to.
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: The hawk because I'm like, you know, hawks have those
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: good eye visions. I'm like, it can see me.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: I can see you for sure. You know what I mean,
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: You've got great eyes.
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: The two crows.
• 29:11
  Speaker 5: Came and started pecking up the hawk and made it go,
• 29:14
  Speaker 5: oh my good.
• 29:14
  Speaker 7: Oh, I'm loving the amount of bird. The bird should
• 29:19
  Speaker 7: it's happened. You know, it's the circle of like over here.
• 29:23
  Speaker 7: I know this is like what I do on my
• 29:25
  Speaker 7: off days.
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: Is that like crazy?
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Speaking of hoes in the air, Nicky, not call you
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: a hoe. By the way, I was referring to myself
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: because I have been in my whole era and I
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: was twenty twenty years younger then her.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: Ex he's hers, I don't claim him.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And now I've started holding it up with like
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: young young men and then an article Yeah but okay,
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: yeah that you too like a young man. And I
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: want to ask how young is too young?
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: First? Let's talk about that.
• 30:23
  Speaker 5: I mean, I do like twenty years young, super young,
• 30:28
  Speaker 5: like you can't go beyond that I feel like, and
• 30:30
  Speaker 5: what what was it like twenty years? Like twenty years
• 30:34
  Speaker 5: is too young's.
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: Oh, like twenty two is even super young.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: That's very young, very young? So what are we in?
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: Like maybe like twenty six is that? Okay?
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah? I like late twenties are good if he's mature.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: I agree. I agree.
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: That makes a different conversation with the one.
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: No, I know, but what I mean is like I
• 30:54
  Speaker 5: kind of feel like one week from Obviously it depends
• 30:56
  Speaker 5: on the person, but I realized, like young twenties are young,
• 30:59
  Speaker 5: like late twenties.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: Are great, Okay, So this is the problem that I
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I have I've run into is even with the twenty
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: let's say twenty six, because I was I started to
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: like kind of talk and communicate with a twenty three
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: year old, and my family intervened and had like a
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: full on sit down with me. They were like, you've
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: lost your fucking mind. So I'm like, all right, twenty six,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: ten years, but you cannot teach life experience, no, right?
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I was talking to this guy who was
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: like very well educated.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: But then there were moments.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: For example, I asked him we were at dinner, and
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: I was like, how do you feel about me having
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: children because I you know, I know you've never dated
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: anyone with kids, And he goes, it's not a problem,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: you know, it's just like it's what you have, And
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not just what I have, like quite
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: literally makes up who I am as a person. Yes,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, So you can have like this
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: big fancy degree, play a professional sport, and travel and
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: do whatever it is you do, but you cannot teach
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: the life experience. When you start talking to two younger,
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: younger men, what are like the little red flags that
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: you go like, Okay, this is not going anywhere beyond
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: like either a hookup or just like a good conversation.
• 32:26
  Speaker 4: Well, I already look at the guys in their twenties.
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: Is just a hookup? I know?
• 32:29
  Speaker 5: For me, like, it's not It wouldn't be anything more
• 32:33
  Speaker 5: than that. It's not realistic. And I'm someone who's obsessed
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: with conversation. I'm obsessed with sharing experiences. So I already
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: know like alone, especially just to being a man, like
• 32:47
  Speaker 5: I need to have someone like you said, who's lived
• 32:50
  Speaker 5: a journey.
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: I need that. That's how I connect.
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: So I've only looked at the ones in their twenties
• 32:56
  Speaker 5: that I've been with as hookups like have fun, helps
• 33:00
  Speaker 5: you get your group back, makes you feel sexy. But
• 33:03
  Speaker 5: I've never thought of them anything more because one being
• 33:06
  Speaker 5: a mom and just knowing what I want for.
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: When I get older.
• 33:10
  Speaker 5: What I've realized and tell me if you feel this way.
• 33:12
  Speaker 5: One thing that has made me realize being with some
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: guys in their twenties, they don't have the appreciation and
• 33:20
  Speaker 5: they shouldn't by the way of aging or of what
• 33:24
  Speaker 5: a body does when it gives birth, like when you're like,
• 33:27
  Speaker 5: my dream would be like someone maybe around my age
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: give or take, who's maybe divorce and has kids, who
• 33:34
  Speaker 5: can appreciate what a woman has gone through as far
• 33:36
  Speaker 5: as like pregnancy, had a kid, but also the aging process,
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: like I kind of I was thinking after I've talked
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: to some of the younger ones, I'm like, I really
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: want to connect with someone that I could be like
• 33:47
  Speaker 5: doesn't it suck getting these wrinkles? Or like, gosh, isn't
• 33:49
  Speaker 5: this forty era like so crazy? Like sometimes when I'm alone,
• 33:53
  Speaker 5: I realize it where it's like, so you could grow
• 33:55
  Speaker 5: old with someone so you could laugh at those things
• 33:57
  Speaker 5: and have fun and they get it. I love this
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: when they don't appreciate it in that way. And then
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: like with her, I almost said it almost started to
• 34:06
  Speaker 5: giving me an insecurity, and then I have to be
• 34:07
  Speaker 5: like no, no, no, wait, you look great.
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: For your age. I don't mind her all the time.
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: I'm like, dude, you're smoking hot.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: You are hot.
• 34:15
  Speaker 5: It was the media because they made a big deal
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: about this age gap that it was the time I
• 34:21
  Speaker 5: had people come at me calling me a groomer, calling
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: me a grandma, and I was like, what.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: The fuck, I'll fuck with you.
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it kind of it made it ruined things
• 34:33
  Speaker 5: for sure, like even something fun, because it was like
• 34:37
  Speaker 5: it just made me feel very weird, and I was like,
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: I don't like this kind of attention at all.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: It's just like there, I so relate to everything you're saying.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: Because they're the twenty years older was like disgusting. But
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: now going even just ten years younger, that does pop
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: up for me because there are things that they say
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, what is happening? Like you never heard
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: the word crows feet? What the fuck do you mean?
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: I mean it's wild?
• 35:13
  Speaker 5: Yes, well I completely agree with you, and when I
• 35:18
  Speaker 5: mean no, see this is where it could be different,
• 35:20
  Speaker 5: Like it's hard when there's professional athletes. So where I
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: feel like they're different when they're younger is you can't
• 35:27
  Speaker 5: grab a younger athlete's hand and be like you're going
• 35:30
  Speaker 5: to be a pro.
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: That's how we were going to do it.
• 35:32
  Speaker 5: They have their own motivation, their own goals, they're they're
• 35:37
  Speaker 5: very what's the word I'm looking for, the driven driven
• 35:41
  Speaker 5: for young men.
• 35:42
  Speaker 4: So to me, that's where I like didn't.
• 35:45
  Speaker 5: Feel weird about my thing is like it was a
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: very driven man, like you wouldn't think young unless.
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: Like then you realize there's no life experiences.
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: Then there's another one that was like younger who didn't
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: have those kind of goals And I'm like, whoa, you
• 35:58
  Speaker 5: are such a guy in his twenties who like.
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: To do in life and that was like weird and
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: didn't know things.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: But yeah, he didn't know things, you know.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: It is a different It's just a different ballgame when
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: you have a child to think of as well. Because
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: how how old is your son?
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: Mateo's five five and a half.
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: I love that name. That's right, because you're your guys
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: is Yeah.
• 36:24
  Speaker 4: Boys are two hours apart. Our boys are and then
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: my daughter eight.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh I love this. That is so so much fun.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: That is an age where like who you bring around,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: they're gonna have memory of him totally.
• 36:40
  Speaker 5: And I have like a rule for me is like
• 36:44
  Speaker 5: I won't let anyone around Mateo. Tell I've been with
• 36:46
  Speaker 5: the guy for a while.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: What's a while?
• 36:49
  Speaker 4: I mean for me probably minimum a year?
• 36:51
  Speaker 5: Really yeah, Like I need to know he's for good
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: because my son, he's sensitive.
• 36:57
  Speaker 4: And he's very protective of me, and it would break him.
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: To one for man to he's not even ready for
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: a new guy to come in like at all, Like
• 37:06
  Speaker 5: that would break my son and I wouldn't do that
• 37:07
  Speaker 5: to him.
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: But let's just say years down the road, Like I would.
• 37:10
  Speaker 5: Have to know it's for good pretty much for him
• 37:13
  Speaker 5: to be around Matteo, because Mitteo loves people very much,
• 37:17
  Speaker 5: Like he's crazy close with Uncle Brian, and if anything
• 37:21
  Speaker 5: would to put him through a breakup again, I think
• 37:24
  Speaker 5: would be devastating for him.
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: But like I just have to make sure I know
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: someone's right, especially as Mama's boy. While you're sharing, I was.
• 37:32
  Speaker 5: Just laughing thing this I do want to say, just
• 37:35
  Speaker 5: because like so Cooper, because obviously that's when I've made
• 37:40
  Speaker 5: headlines with incredible guy.
• 37:42
  Speaker 4: We just have a big age gap. But I want like, because.
• 37:46
  Speaker 5: There's been other ones, but for him, like he's amazing,
• 37:49
  Speaker 5: it's just the age gap.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: What's the age gap between you and Cooper?
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: Well, he's the twenty year one that I made the
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: headlines with. Yeah, he's amazing.
• 37:57
  Speaker 5: It's other ones that you know, with the life EXPERI
• 38:00
  Speaker 5: but with him because I don't want anything, you know,
• 38:02
  Speaker 5: bad about him. You know, have you guys seen the
• 38:05
  Speaker 5: reels of the premenopause stuff?
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: Women doing no tell me, oh my gosh, it should
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: be doing it.
• 38:11
  Speaker 5: So they go to their husband They're like, can you
• 38:13
  Speaker 5: take off the take out the trash and the husband's
• 38:16
  Speaker 5: like yeah in two minutes and then it's like they
• 38:18
  Speaker 5: like just scream and rip them.
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: Apart like a joke.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 38:21
  Speaker 5: I was just thinking of these like twenty year old
• 38:23
  Speaker 5: guys dealing with like women who are like like, yeah,
• 38:27
  Speaker 5: I had off for like.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, you just made me think a lot.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: I did not even think about that part.
• 38:34
  Speaker 5: Well, and that's like my thing is I just That's
• 38:37
  Speaker 5: why I'm like, I have to have someone older because
• 38:40
  Speaker 5: there's just too much shit going on like inside outside.
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: You're right, you know, I need someone.
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: Like connect with and be And because.
• 38:50
  Speaker 5: The guy at the bar last night that even though
• 38:53
  Speaker 5: he ended up being a douche, ended up being a douche,
• 38:55
  Speaker 5: but he was just he was around eighty eight or something,
• 38:59
  Speaker 5: thirty five, I can tell why he's been single for son.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's why I've always stated older men.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: I don't know what it is. I'm an old soul.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: No, but she likes im like just shy of a
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: foot in the grave.
• 39:14
  Speaker 8: But you're way too fucking hot to be Oh with
• 39:19
  Speaker 8: saggy balls. Okay, Saggi balls. There's nothing wrong with Saggie balls.
• 39:25
  Speaker 8: Maybe that's my thing.
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: Hey, I'm with you. There's it.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like almost seventy. Wasn't that guy almost seventy? About die? No? Sixty?
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. Here's the thing, this one I'm saying.
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: Because I have children, I find that even guys around
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: my age, even the guys that I've tried to date,
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: they're like still growing out. And I'm like, I'm not
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: at that phase in my life. Like, shit's real. I
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: wake up. I have a kid that didn't go to
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: school today. I have a meltdown in the other someone's
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: going through a break up. I'm dealing with paramenopause Like
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: this is real fucking life, Like I can't deal with
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: the child. And some guys that are thirty eight, yeah,
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: they're just not there yet.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: They're not there.
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: So if you go a little older, maybe someone that's
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: been married or has kids, like you said, they have
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: an appreciation for being a single mom for you know,
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: doing everything that we have to do on a day
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: to day basis to keep looking young, healthy, fit, a
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: happy home like, spiritually aligned, sober like it's it's a lot, No.
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: It is a lot.
• 40:34
  Speaker 5: I you know, the young ones are great to just
• 40:37
  Speaker 5: make you feel sexy again, if you know, they make
• 40:40
  Speaker 5: you feel that way, right, But that's you know, that's
• 40:43
  Speaker 5: kind of it. They give you that, they give you
• 40:45
  Speaker 5: that confidence boost. I'm an older man that make you
• 40:47
  Speaker 5: feel sexy?
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: Well no, but what I mean.
• 40:48
  Speaker 5: It's gonna say, what you want to be with is
• 40:50
  Speaker 5: like an older man that's they know how to seduce that.
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: Okay, that's been the biggest thing too. I like to
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: be seduced. I mean, that's point.
• 40:58
  Speaker 5: If you want incredible set wine and dang you you
• 41:01
  Speaker 5: there has to be sedection before. We don't just get
• 41:03
  Speaker 5: right to it. And that's the one thing about an
• 41:06
  Speaker 5: older man. He knows how to seduce a woman.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: Oh for sure, the foreplate has to be amazing.
• 41:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah to me, that's like great sex now, Like I
• 41:16
  Speaker 5: don't need to get banged all night.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: No, I don't want to be banged all night please,
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: Like the jack rabbiting is just like so no, thank you.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: Like if you are trying to get my pants, you're
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: gonna have to start at the crack of dawn, all right,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: but that work.
• 41:31
  Speaker 5: I love day sex like I'm too tired to have
• 41:34
  Speaker 5: night sex, Like I love data.
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: Oh.
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: I love to roll over on my side like this.
• 41:39
  Speaker 5: Yeah. We literally love having day sex. And then we
• 41:44
  Speaker 5: walk and go get tacos. It's like our favorite thing.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: I love. Like mid day sex. That's the best.
• 41:50
  Speaker 4: Midday great.
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's like I'm energetic, like I have
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: no bags. Yeah no, that's when you found your person though.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: Mid day light.
• 42:03
  Speaker 5: Out dating now and like having sex, it's like you
• 42:06
  Speaker 5: don't want lights like just that, like holiness.
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: I want my red light on. I want like it
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: just I got to set the mood. It's got to
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: be all totally.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: That's a seeking mood. Yeah, I've had the heyday talking
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: to you guys. Where can people follow so that we
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: can like be on our shit. And I'm going to
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: see you guys at midd end of April.
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: By the way, I'm coming.
• 42:28
  Speaker 5: Yes, you are well, Nikki and I I have a
• 42:30
  Speaker 5: feeling you will be seeing us here soon on Monday
• 42:33
  Speaker 5: Night Raw on Netflix or Friday Night SmackDown on USA.
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: But we will be at.
• 42:38
  Speaker 5: WrestleMania April eighteenth and nineteen, eighteenth and nineteenth in Las Vegas.
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: You guys will get the Allegiant Stadium.
• 42:45
  Speaker 5: Obviously we want those tag team titles, so we hope
• 42:49
  Speaker 5: that we will be fighting for them. But the minute
• 42:51
  Speaker 5: we find out we are follow our social media's, we're
• 42:54
  Speaker 5: putting it out there.
• 42:54
  Speaker 4: We're going to bring you both to the show. You're
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: going to be a cham you guys' faces rest hustling fans.
• 43:02
  Speaker 5: WrestleMania is like our super Bowl, but even grander. So
• 43:05
  Speaker 5: you it's it's the best show to come. And now
• 43:08
  Speaker 5: we're going to Montana to decompress because that I love that.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: Skuy please come and we needed.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: We need cowboys. So if you find some single cowboys.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yes, I'll hook you up. There can
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: be our wing woman.
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: I will I find I honestly, huh, I feel like
• 43:25
  Speaker 5: I'm good.
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: I find them. I don't know, hot guy.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for being on an Unlikely Affair.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: You guys are freaking amazing. I'm so happy for you guys,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: and you guys, thank you for listening to another episode
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: of an Unlikely Affair.
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: We're going to catch you guys next week. Bye bye